I figured that the reason why I have a difficult time with women is because I am still often thinking of my old relationship. It was a long relationship (lasted 5 and a half years) and I ended it a bit over a year ago.

I thought by now I would be completely over her, but I am not. I feel this is greatly impacting my ability to talk to women (and other people too). How do I finally get over my old relationship and heal from the emotional damage it may have caused me? (Sorry if that sounded melodramatic)