I'll try to keep this simple. I haven't made a move and am instead "testing the waters" for the past 3-4 months. I know, I'm retarded. Anyway. She's in her 20s, I'm in my 20s.
Last night I saw her while outside in a club. We chatted a bit, she did a lot of kino ( holding my hand while going home together ( gave her my gloves, she wanted to "repay me" by keeping my hand warm ), hugging, squeezing/gripping my arm when I wanted to leave while she was talking with her friend but she forced me to stay with her, blah blah blah ).
The problem in the whole situation is that she told me that she made out with some guy not even 40 mins before she spotted me and came close to me to talk, and told me that her friends are pissed off at her because of it because that guy is fancied by her friend. At that point I got pissed off because why would she tell me that, at this point she has to be retarded to not know that I like her.
Anyway I got colder and moved away from her a bit but she still followed me around like a little puppy the entire night except for the occasional chat with other people. She insisted that we go home together. Club was shutting down ( 5 am ), we go home. She was way back behind with some guy while we were waiting on her, at one point it seemed that she made out with him ( further pissing me off ), but I'm not sure really at this point - at that point I asked her friend "is there any point in pursuing her". On the way back to home, she held my hand for like 50 minutes and kept me close to her.
We sat down at a bistro to eat, I sat down at a table while she went to order with her friend. Once we left and went inside a tram, she suddenly grew colder ( her friend possibly telling her what I asked her? ).
Today she's extremely unresponsive to messages, I told her that I gtg do some work and that it seems she's not interested in talking, she didn't reply a single thing ( she's usually very chatty ).
What's my course of action here? What would YOU do in my position? Do I send her a message at one point? Do I just leave her alone and if it happens - happens? Do I ask her come next weekend where's she's heading for the night? Should I send a message to her friend ( the one I asked about pursuing her ), asking her something? Etc.
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