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Yet it was successful. How was it successful? Do you have a source for that statement? As I understand it, the US Government abolished it in the middle of the Great Depression of the 1930s to get the increase in funds from its taxation. And, also keep in mind, the rich and successful people never stopped getting their alcohol, only now it cost more since it was being imported from Canada. As Al Capone said "When I sell liquor, it's called bootlegging; when my patrons serve it on Lake Shore Drive…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 05:36 PM
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all I want to do is crack some heads open... Don't get angry, get better. Get to the gym and work off all that frustration. Keep going back to the gym, work it off, work your self up, and enter college a wiser and better man. On a different note, college is so much diffferent then high school... trust me, your future self is going to thank her for what she did, and thank you for how you reacted... (assuming you become a better man because of this)
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 07:22 PM
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Might I add onto /u/MotiMorphosys great list. You can do this in a mall. Go into every store, up to every cashier, hostess, waitress you can find, and follow his advice. Start with making eye contact and just smile. Day 2, continue with a hi, day three, ask they how they are doing, day 4, ask them about them... "wow, you look busy today?" Ehether this takes you a week, a month, or a year, this is the process. Welcome to class. The point is you need to retrain your brain that its OK to talk to gi…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:01 PM
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The correct reply would be "and... so what?" "I didn't make a mistake... I made a decision not to listen to you..."
/r/askTRP28/10/19 01:09 PM
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Don't lie. Have some integrity. The correct reply would be "I decided not to do it." Thats all.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 01:03 PM
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Live every day as if it could be your last one on this earth. Leave nothing undone or unsaid. Time, is the one thing that you can never get any more of, not matter how hard you try or how much money you have. You have received a gift... now use the rest of your time to your fullest potential.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 06:22 PM
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Any ideas for follow ups on social media/texting? This is easy. You know something about what she likes and what she is interested in... "hey, I am going to the [insert mutual activity here] next weekend, you should come with me... I think we will have fun..." And thats it. Use the word should, and imply you are going without her, so there is no stress or pressure, and makes it easy for her to say yes.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/19 06:20 PM
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She talked to you for 4 hours. She would have given it in an instant. I agree 1000%. She was waiting for him to lead... to make the move... to plan the date... to take her away... to be a man. Now, some people don't like what I just said, but that is the reality most times...
/r/TheRedPill03/06/19 06:17 PM
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Agreed. Most anything in moderation is fine. Hell, some women even like (or accept it) ((what ever it is...)). But when it begins to take up time that should be better spent doing other things... ie. bettering yourself, educating yourself, then maybe it needs to be evaluated.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 05:06 PM
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So many young guys are addicted to games, porn, TV, social media... So much time wasted...
/r/askTRP30/04/19 04:17 PM
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I'm 42, so I don't think some of the Cold Approach advice about approaching girls on college campus applies to me. Don't discount it off, every time I (M/49) am on a college campus I get asked if I am some new professor or something... (usually I am a guest speaker...) You approach the type of girls you are interested in...
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:00 PM
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You are "in love" with her??? No bro... you don't even know her and this entire relationship is all in your head. This is not love.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:59 PM
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You did great. I am a direct kind of guy, and most often will use a similar line... "Hey... I just saw you sitting here and wanted to come over and say hi... what is your name? I always get a name... Now... you need to consider your physicals. Did you make solid eye contact with her, before you started talking? Did she see you coming to her, or did you creep up on her. Did you walk up to her with a good manly stance; head up, chest out, arms swinging, big manly steps... And last but not least, d…
/r/seduction15/04/19 05:51 PM
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Numbers example... My friends (m/30) was recently single, he got dumped, and wanted to get back into finding a gf. We created a 3 month plan, where at least once per day, he needed to approach at least 1 girl. He had to approach, open, make eye contact, smile, and go as far as he could to getting a number. In 60 days: 38 Approached \ 5 Numbers \ 1 Hookup. He is still with her (the one he eventually hooked up with), so he stopped approaching... (against my better judgement lol) This was only 2 mo…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 05:54 PM
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Please don't wait. Time is the one thing we can never get more of... so the more time we waste reading their BS, the more time we lose in the end...
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 06:33 PM
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I am going to come at this from a different angle, since I just had 3 final exams this past weekend.... maybe she really is just fucking really busy. Mabye she just wanted a good plunging to help clear her head, and now its back to the books for a while... Yea, you got kinda cringy needy in the end. Thats the oneitis. Acknowledge it, and deal with it. This isn't over yet , but it will be if you continue to act this way... Next time you see her, act like you are the prize, because you are. See he…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 12:43 PM
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Can you teleport me into one of these situations so I can start fucking up and learning for real? You need to go where the people are that you want to hang and bang with... Do you socialize? Talk to people? Talk to girls? What do you do with your free time? Life is 20% theory and 80% action... so just start doing it...
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 06:43 PM
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Sure, read this book a few times: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People Seriously. Its old but spot on.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 04:54 PM
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Are you really suggesting that this person in the video represents the attitudes and opinions of all women?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:59 PM
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Ignore crazies. THIS.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:57 PM
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If you are shy, but act like a man, then you are fine. Not everyone needs to be a social butterfly. But, if you are also lazy, weak, dress like shit, smell like shit, eat like shit, don't groom yourself, live like a slob, act like a slob, don't make eye contact, shuffle your feet when you walk, walk all hunched over, masturbate all day and play video games all night... Then yes, you have issues.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:33 PM
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Nothing. True, but if OP is asking, then he most likely not even approaching and make a move. Sounds like he could be falling into "getting into his head" trap and not doing anything.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:23 PM
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From the deleted files of Todd Valentine... An Introverts Guide To Getting Girls + Infield https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YnJCnIGciEM Are you even approaching girls? How many have you approached in the last 60 days? How many have you gone out with? Being an introvert is not the problem, not taking action is usually the problem...
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:21 PM
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You won't need luck, you just need action. Go to the store, any store, and buy the cheapest thing they sell. Ask the girl behind the counter... "hi... so.. here is a dumb question... what is the cheapest thing you sell?" Probably a pack of gum... so buy that.
/r/seduction07/12/18 01:47 PM
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May I ask if the decision to go through with this process should first be checked with "am I high value enough?" Fuck no. If a homeless crackhead drug addict who lives under a bridge in a cardboard box can get friends and girl-friends... anyone can. Think about that for a second...
/r/seduction06/12/18 12:54 PM
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Fucking Awesome! You did good. Observational openers are easy. The girl with the red purse... Think for a moment on all the things that you could have said to her about her purse the first time you saw her... "Hey, i love the color of that purse, that purse is so red, you could be a fire fighter..." In the end, it doesn't matter what you say, as long as you say something... with solid eye contact and a genuine smile or smirk... I think you would do well to look up "Todd Valentine" videos, or loo…
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:52 PM
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You need to practice, thats all. And you are in the right place... In the mall, go into every store, and start by just saying "hi" to every cashier, clerk, waitress and hostess you can find. Seriously, go into every store, and say hi to every one. You need to retrain your brain that its OK to say hi to girls. All girls. Do this 100 times, or until you have no fear or hesitation in saying hi to girls. Do it 1000 times if you need to, but you need to get over the fear. And this exercise is the bes…
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:19 PM
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BULLSHIT Its not your size or your looks bro... Stop masturbating, stop playing video games, stop watching mindless TV, stop wasting time... and instead, do the things that will make you a better man. If this guy can get a date, and then get married, anyone can: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbxinUJcLGg You have the power to change you.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 11:40 AM
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Make friends. If you don't know how to make friends, go research that.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 07:05 PM
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Nothing. Who cares? What do you want from her?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 07:03 PM
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Reply, get her over, smash, rinse and repeat. What is the problem?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 07:01 PM
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its not scarcity to take any easy lay. He should reply, invite her over, and do the deed. Never pass up easy free sex...
/r/askTRP30/11/18 07:01 PM
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No.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:59 PM
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Buy the pizza because you want a pizza, don't fucking play games...
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:57 PM
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Response: "You need to let it go. That is not your concern." I agree
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:56 PM
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Duh... all men don't cheat bro.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:54 PM
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For the first four months I even did unpaid overtime to meet the very tight deadlines. You are a contractor, don't ever do that again. (I am also a contractor, and any overtime I work, is banked as comp time so I can bill for holidays when the company is closed). How honest should i be in the exit interview? What things are good to mention ? You be brutally honest, but not emotional. You want them to know you will be around if they need you in the future. Thats all.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:54 PM
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3%
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:47 PM
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It doesn't matter what you do bro, as long as you do it with passion and fury... Being good helps, but being passionate about it goes much further.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:47 PM
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...if you still have doubts about yourself, then you need to work on you first. What have you done to make yourself a better man in the last 90 days? How many women have you asked out? How many have you even approached? It all starts with you, bro.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 04:33 PM
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You just need a plan. /u/Kyogata comments are spot on. I would tell you, now, make a list of what you need to do. You need to change you. And, maybe, now, you know what needs to change to make you a better man. Changing your life for the better is completely possible, but not always easy. We are creatures of habit, and our brains like to stick with what we know, even if its not the best. So start with a 12 month plan. Take you list of things you know you need to change about yourself, and create…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 04:26 PM
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Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, USA. Making small talk where I live is not a crime, and not unexpected. Not everyone wants to talk, most will smile and not add anything to the conversation. But a some will. And that's all that matters. The few that are willing to engage me back, that's what I am looking for. I don't talk "at" people. I talk "with" people. If your body language, facial expressions, and eye contact do not show that you are agreeable to a conversation, I don't force anything... Autisti…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:43 PM
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And he is a beady eyed, bold ass, 40 year old, not very attractive guy, who knows how this game is played. He says that you approach everyone you are interested in, and you talk to those that show interest back. You don't waste time with the others. You act like a man, and treat a woman like a woman. You don't become her TXT buddy. A man is his purpose in life. Man, I really do like his stuff the more I think about it...
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:54 PM
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May I suggest... that the main reason you get laid, is that you are cocky and confident, because you are attractive, and can get laid a lot?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:46 PM
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Sure, looks count, but confidence and attitude count more then most guys want to believe. Guys are visual, for us, its all about the looks. Hell, we would fuck a playboy bunny, even if she didn't speak the same language as us. Women are more emotional, they want to feel something, they want a connection to their partner. That starts the moment the guy opens his mouth. So sure, the looks help open the door, but the rest comes from how he acts and how he makes her feel.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:42 PM
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You approach every day... I am not single at the moment, but when I was I would approach every girl I was interested in. My sucess rate in getting a number or contact info like FB or SC was about 1 in 8. See, I am a bold ass mother fucker grand ma fucker confident ass hole. (I am 48, will talk to anyone, but would only date anyone in their 30s, 40s, and 50s). When I saw a girl I was interested in, my go to line was always bold and to the point: "Hey... I just saw you sitting here and wanted to c…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:29 PM
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And the other 95% are afraid to even say hi to a girl. Those guys need to listen and learn from the 5% that are doing it right. According to Corey Wayne... its only 3% that know how to do it right.. https://www.youtube.com/user/coachcoreywayne
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:20 PM
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Start approaching 99.9% of the problem with most of these guys is that just don't approach. These guys don't know how to even say "hi" to a girl.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:16 PM
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Nope. If this guy can find a girl and get married... anyone can... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbxinUJcLGg Its not your looks, its your attitude. Its the truth.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:13 PM
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Its not your looks bro... its your fucking pathetic attitude. And yes, girls can sense that a mile away. Change your attitude, and you will change your life. Unless you are autistic or have some mental issue, most everyone can learn to be a better man, and in doing that, get the girl. You have to change you... first.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:11 PM
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To live every day like it could be your last. This means you never leave anything until tomorrow, you never wait, you never hesitate, you make the most of every single fucking day you are alive... A friend who died from cancer told me on his death bed to never live with regret, and do everything you can "Because you never know when the grim reaper will come calling.." If you see someone you want to talk to, then approach. If you want that raise, then schedule a meeting with you boss, today and f…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 04:05 PM
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This is a dumb video, but it does highlight all the basic steps to start the "innocent touching", which is what you need to start with: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=80P0eVWIC0g Simply said, you need to start with the innocent touches on her hands, arms, legs, and lower back long before you try to make a more obvious move. Here is another great video with examples: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo Anything you can do to touch her starts the process. I will usually do high-5s and eve…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:58 AM
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meditate read up on "anger management"
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:12 PM
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Acceptance is the first part. If you accept the fact that your social skills are poor, then you work on that first. Most people can quickly change their social skills, assuming you don't have any mental defects like autism, etc. That said, Have you read this book yet: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People If not, then read it, and read it again, until you have it memorized. The words in that book are golden. Once you've memorized the concepts in that book, you go …
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:05 PM
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If he is happy and content with the life and things he has, then no, he does not need to work to afford anything. If he is a leech and living off his parents or some trust fund, then yea, the money will eventually run out and he would then need to support himself.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:00 PM
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7 ate 9, so I am not sure...
/r/seduction09/10/18 01:58 PM
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Why tell her at all? Aren't you supposed to wait for her to bring it up?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/18 07:26 PM
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You have to wonder why the media and corporations would give so much power to [women]. Its not hard to understand. Females buy more stuff then men, its a statistical fact, and a big joke, until you think about it... In a consumer based free enterprise system, the system will continue to empower them, if only to guarantee more purchases...
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 10:51 AM
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LOL. Why lie? Own who and what you are. A guy with integrity and decency will be more respected. And if they don't like it, then just tell then to call an Uber and GTFO...
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:30 AM
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First, you need to figure out what you like to do in this life. What do you enjoy doing for fun? (If you don't know, then you need to start with that) Second, find ways to do that on a regular basis. Third, can you make money doing this? Forth, make money, save money, and live within your means. Fifth, always be learning to get ahead. Take classes, learn a new skill, new language, whatever it takes for you to get ahead in your career or industry. Last but not least, LIFT. In fact, that may be fi…
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:09 PM
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First, not all women are "whores", and second, why do you focus on such things. You need to focus on you. And only you.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:47 PM
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This guy has all the info you need: https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:45 PM
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Why are you making this such a big deal, your friend just turned onto a FWB...
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:43 PM
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Why not just edit your post and ask a question, like how can I improve, what should I have done to save the client, should I have gone for more with the girl in the cab since she was already wet... Surely you have some questions...
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:18 PM
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Good Job. I sense some Cory Wayne lessons here: "Women are more attracted to a guys whose feelings are unclear...". I don't think there could be a better example.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 01:17 PM
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It's a little sad Don't be sad, be glad... use this energy to get yourself a youthful plate, ons, fwb, or whatever...
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:30 PM
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Since telling him does not benefit you in any way, and seems to run the risk of backfiring on you... then you don't do it. I respect the guy You respect a guy whose girl is cheating on him... You need better role models.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 10:44 AM
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You always work on you first. Get your life in order, get a plan, and execute that plan to take over the fucking world. Girls love an active guy, a guy who does fun and exciting things with other fun and exciting people. They like a man with a plan. A guy who lives the dream... Become that guy, and girls won't be your problem.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:25 PM
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Careers in IT can make over $100k by age 30. Finance, Stock Market Trading, etc can also make bigger bucks by age 30. Almost any successful entrepreneur (working for your self) will make over $100k by age 30. Those 3 are from my personal (and family) experience. Here is a more detailed list: https://www.cnbc.com/2016/11/29/25-jobs-where-you-can-earn-more-than-100000-a-year.html Physician. Median base salary: $180,000. ... Lawyer. Median base salary: $144,500. ... R&D manager. Median base salary:…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 04:23 PM
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You just approach. You walk talk, big steps, head up, chest out, hands open and at sides, with a swing, you make eye contact, smile... and approach. You want her to see you coming. You walk right up to her and with a smirk you just say "Hey... I just saw you standing here and wanted to come over and say hi... what is your name?" I have been using that line for 3 years and have never been denied the girls name. AFter that, you can compliment, ask some open ended questions (that don't end in a yes…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:41 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g5uZJHzBrao Quality is shit, but the content is spot on.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 11:51 AM
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You are 100% correct, its more of a numbers game then most guys understand. Corey Wayne says 12% of the girls would be\could be interested in you. (Then there are all the other things going on in their life that can get in the way at that moment.) So guys need to learn to accept the rejections. A lot of rejections. 8 out of 10 rejections... Embrace the rejections... You plan for the worse, but hope for the best. Eventually, if you stick with it, better yourself, you increase your odds by being q…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 02:39 PM
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I said a relationship is an option for me in general. But you don't even know her yet. When you say that, it comes off as if you are two or three steps ahead in the situation.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:13 PM
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or was he much more apologetic? He would not have apologized. He would have only made it clear that he was always honest and upfront with her about the relationship. In fact, he probably convinced her to apologize, since it was her who was trying to change things.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:42 AM
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Chances are you just missed it... The interaction should not look like a pickup, it should look like you and the girl hanging out. You don't want to be remembered as the guy who picked her up, but rather the guy she had a fun time with hanging out with. So if you actually came across this situation, you may have just thought they already were a couple.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 01:29 PM
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I have no shame in admitting I feel embarrassed knowing that people around me saw me fail. What? The people around you do not give a flying fuck about you bro. You just ain't that important. Get that in your head... The people around you don't give a fuck about you, what you do, or who you talk to... Seriously bro. No none cares... Try this... lay down in the middle of the sidewalk one day and count how many people care...
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:10 AM
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TAKE RISKS. DON'T MAKE DECISIONS BASED UPON FEAR. GET YOUR DEGREE LIFT
/r/askTRP09/08/18 11:02 AM
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You need to find your purpose, your mission, in life.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:52 AM
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LOL. I do actually have 4 kids, and 2 grandkids. You must raise your kids to be independent and to survive on their own. Not to live in mommies basement as an adult. Once you are an adult, you are on your own. I will fully admit that I kicked my 19 year old out when he decided not to go to school, not to work, slept all day, went out all night, and stopped paying us rent. He learned a great life lesson that summer... Slept on a friends couch until they realized he was a bum and not going to pay …
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:15 AM
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I admit to talking a lot about everything and anything but I don’t know what precisely is what turns girls off. Learn to ask people about themselves. Nobody really wants to hear about you. They want to talk about themselves and what they like and whats important to them. Get people to think you are interested in their boring lives, and they will love you for it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People Read this book until you memorize it. Seriously. Especially the s…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:05 PM
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just dropped around $500 on random DJ gear. Where did he get the $500? Your parents are enabling him. Those are the people you need to talk to. Get them to stop. Stop paying his bills. Stop buying his food. Stop paying for his cell phone. Stop giving him free internet. Tell them they must charge him rent if he is not in school. Tell them they are not being very good parents. Tell them they are hurting him and not forcing him to grow up.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:45 PM
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http://guyspeed.com/watch-a-guy-in-a-fat-suit-pick-up-chicks/ Let me see if I can find the video. I am sure its hidden behind a paywall now...\ Here is a copy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHDRnI3inc0 There was also a tinder video created where the "date" was made up to be over weight, and most of the women accepted the over-weight males on the date, where most of the men left the over-weight females on the date.
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:18 PM
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Does anybody really? She doesn't, so why should he? He should get some sex from her, then find a new girl.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:15 PM
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The new generation of PUA coaches need to start approaching native girls in their own countries, and ideally wearing a super-realistic 'ugly guy latex mask' so that looks don't come into it!! There already are videos of ugly guys and fat guys picking up girls. because it also seems that 98% of infields, the girl is either a 'yes' or a 'no' on the open, and that never ever ever changes Not a PUA, but in my experience, a girl will give you 30 seconds to 3 minutes to decide. A guy decides in less t…
/r/seduction06/08/18 06:21 PM
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OP is most likely not fucking anyone else.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:16 PM
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He doesn't need to take her back. She was never his to start with. he just needs to take her out and fuck her.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:15 PM
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He doesn't need to dump her. OP can just continue to fuck her.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:15 PM
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You don't ignore a girl that is reaching out to you. You go out with her and have sex with her. WTF is wrong with some people...
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:14 PM
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You reachout, set up a date, and have sex with her. What is the problem here?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:14 PM
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You must add that when you exercise, your body releases chemicals called endorphins. These endorphins interact with the receptors in your brain that reduce your perception of pain. Endorphins also trigger a positive feeling in the body, similar to that of morphine. Exercise has many big effects, but some of the biggest is increasing your overall health and confidence levels... You just feel good; mentally, physically and spiritually (emotionally). Its all in your head, and your head just loves e…
/r/seduction06/08/18 01:31 PM
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She is not permanently yours, its just your turn... (or something like that)
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:07 PM
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No body really cares about you bro, you just aren't that significant in the world. Now... you can be. If you treat people with respect, make eye contact with people, smile, ask them how they are doing, what they are doing, and how there day is going... then yes... these people will care about you. So start making eye contact with people, start smiling, start being the first to say hi... and get out of your head.
/r/seduction26/07/18 05:56 PM
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Your job, on the first date, is to get to know her, let her get to know you, while you flirt and escalate, to show her how you feel. Start the date with a hug. Seriously, a full body hug. It helps break the physical barrier, and makes it easier to touch her later on. Innocent touches, like holding hands, walking arm-in-arm, leading her with your hand on her lower back, when you sit, you sit next to her, and touch her leg with your leg.
/r/seduction26/07/18 04:46 PM
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Walk in the park, and if it goes well, get some ice cream.
/r/seduction26/07/18 04:44 PM
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Get busy doing other things you like. Do things for you, not for the approval of other people. Get some cool hobbies. Rock climbing, mountain biking, lifting weights. And do these things for you.
/r/seduction26/07/18 04:43 PM
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Read this book until you memorize it: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People Once you learn the basics of that book, you will be a new person.
/r/seduction26/07/18 04:41 PM
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WOW. zzzzzzzzzzzz How boring can you be bro... Her: what are you doing? You: Just thinking about you... what time are you coming over?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:59 PM
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/u/JohnRBuckley is 100% spot on. Do not over TXT her. If she TXTs you, you setup a date. Thats all you should really do over TXT. If she won't commit, then thats it. You tell her "Hey, I 'd love to hang out again on dry land, hit me up when you are free"... and say nothing more. Let her contact you. She has your info, if and when she is interested, she will contact you. She already knows you are interested. This is why you need to get busy with other people.
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:53 PM
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after 3 days I can’t stop thinking about her. Damn bro, this is all in your head. Yes, you met a girl on a boat, who probably just wanted a ONS. You need to get busy with other girls to show this one that you are not needy and that other girls are actually interested in you. Else you will just chase this one away. You said you are connected via Instagram... great! Go out with some friends and take some pics of you doing fun and exciting things with other fun and interesting people. Make sure the…
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:50 PM
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Here are some Videos that can help you with some great examples. Some of them are cropped and chopped, but the content is 100% spot on! Tripp explains how and where to first make physical contact with a girl you are talking to. It’s not creepy or complicated, and absolutely required if you like the girl and want to escalate. Watch this one a few times. The content is priceless… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygCMHXhoXkE 4 Places To Touch A Girl For The First Time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v…
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:41 PM
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I’m not really interested in casual sex right now. Sure, but make sure you convey the message to her that you are physically interested in her. Start the date with a hug. A good solid full body hug, not the kind you give your grandma... And lots of innocent physical contact. Should be easy if you start with the hug. When you sit, you sit next to her and touch her leg with your leg. When you get up to leave, you hold out your hand to help her up and don't let go. When walking you put you hand on …
/r/seduction10/07/18 04:55 PM
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we’ve been talking all morning STOP You run the risk of talking yourself right out of the date. Girls like intrigue and some mystery. Leave the rest for the date. Girls also like guys who are busy, and thus, not so needy... "Girls are more attracted to guys whose feelings are unclear" ~Cory Wayne have plans for the weekend Good. Girls like a man with a plan. Show her what a fun and interesting guy you are.
/r/seduction10/07/18 04:47 PM
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Two summers ago I worked with a friend, who for similar reasons, started the same quest. He had broken up with a LTR and was finally ready to start dating again... but meeting girls was his biggest issue. He was a nerdy but successful guy, outgoing, but shy when around girls. So we came up with a plan to get him over that. They say, to get over your hangups, that you just need to force yourself to do that one thing, over and over, until it is no longer an issue, and it just becomes a habit. So w…
/r/seduction10/07/18 12:59 PM
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getting rid of social anxiety and building frame takes long term practice and many failures. Good points but it doesn't take as long as you might expect. Put yourself in a learning situation, if only once per day, and in 1-2 months, your life will be different. A commitment to once per day and the resolve to see it through is not so hard. Also consider the fact that rejection is not failure. You only fail when you don't act or don't learn from your mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 11:09 AM
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When you don't have oneitis, you can have a bunch of girls that you flirt with and tease with, and can call on when needed. And they'll come... When you are not needy or possessive, and are instead, a fun and outgoing guy, with a fun plan for a night out... they will come.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 05:14 PM
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Its not scripted and all outcomes are legally binding. (unless you have a link that proved otherwise...)
/r/PussyPassDenied11/06/18 10:51 AM
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I din't have my headphones so I appreciated it!
/r/PussyPassDenied11/06/18 10:50 AM
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Good. Thanks for the clarification. I missed that part...
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/18 11:36 AM
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I would like to see a meme or a GIF where she just keeps repeating this part "I'll Swallow that You Guys are fucking Cock... Suckers...". @0:10
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/18 10:48 AM
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If you hit a cop, you must expect a beat down...
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/18 10:45 AM
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I don't understand... if any guy acted like that, he would have been arrested, right?
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/18 10:44 AM
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She probably already spent the money... (think car payments, or some other loan type payments...)
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/18 05:01 PM
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It was actually a bit unfair that she more or less proved she had insurance ...only after he wrote the ticket. You either prove to the cop right away, or you get the ticket. It was very fair.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/18 02:37 PM
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Everything. Drinks, dates, clothing, vacations...
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:30 PM
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You could have married one of these girls, and spent far more money on her for a decade, before she divorces you and takes half. So many men fall into this trap...
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:30 PM
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Got sick of nofap forum Sure, but you needed to clean your mind and your body and be ready to start on the rest of your life. You can't do that with addictions (fapping, drugs, alcohol, porn, TV, video games) holding you back. Once you have identified the issues holding you back, only then can you deal with them, and deal with you, to move ahead. No one says you can't fap. What you need to be able to do is identify when it becomes a problem for you.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:27 PM
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I try hard to resist the urge to enlighten my friends You will find, that in time, you will make new friends... you will need to make new friends, as the old BP ones will just be too hard to keep around.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:23 PM
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i was more comfortable complaining Great point. Stop complaining. In fact, never complain.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 04:21 PM
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No movies bro. You want to go and do something where you can flirt and escalate a bit. Can't really do that in a movie. If you must go to the movie, walk around before the movie, grab a bite to eat, get some ice cream and sit. Follow my instructions above.
/r/seduction25/05/18 06:04 PM
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Guys friend-zone themselves by not making a move or letting their true intentions known. Make the move bro. She is not going to wait forever.
/r/seduction25/05/18 05:58 PM
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I can help you bro. But you gotta listen to me... OK? next time you see her, you immediately give her a hug. Not the kind you give your granny, a full body, pull her close like you want her , hug. A hug helps break the physical barrier, its best to start the date with one. Plus no one ever turns down a hug. (this is also an opportunity to tell her that you like the smell of her hair) You need to flirt and escalate more. This is why you were uncomfortable with kissing her. You need to innocently …
/r/seduction25/05/18 05:55 PM
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reply "Sorry, a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell"
/r/seduction25/05/18 05:44 PM
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Hit on them and 1 out of 200 will definitely bite. The ratio is much better then that, in my experience, and noting the experience of others. For example, my shy friend was looking to get back into the game after a breakup, and here are his stats: 60 days 38 girls approached (goal was approach 1 per day) 8 numbers (1 out of 5 did bite or 20%) 5 dates 1 hookup Now he stopped after that one hookup, and they are still together, but I firmly believe he would have continued to get more dates and hook…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 10:59 AM
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Tomorrow never comes for some people. You could be dead tomorrow. Today may be your last chance to believe in yourself... Your last chance to drink from life's well.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 12:07 PM
1

Shit, what participates the collapse may be a solar flair that knocks out all our technology (which we are overdue for since the last big one in the mid-19th century) You sure about that? Do you remember what you doing on July 23, 2012? Think about that then see my reply above...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 12:57 PM
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Not gonna happen at that level for long. You might not really know how close we come to total systematic collapse every couple of years... Do you recall what you were doing on July 23, 2012... https://www.space.com/26669-huge-solar-storm-2012-destruction.html If that CME actually occurred 9 days earlier, then everything in this book would have come true: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One_Second_After And 9 out of 10 people who bother to read this, would not make it past year 1. Or how about big …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 12:53 PM
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a lot of weak men are lacking in. There is a difference between being physically unable to do something, as compared to just not knowing how... The skills to approach and date women can be taught and learned by most men (assuming there is no mental defects like autism). In my experience, most of these guys who claim they can't, really just don't have the skills. They can learn if they wanted to. Its not hard. I mean, for Gods sake, this is the Information Age... anything you want to know is just…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 12:32 PM
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as far as looks are concerned. Its not about their looks, its about their IDGAF attitude combined with their assertive take risks personality. Simply said, they approach and hit on everyone, and could care less if they get someone pregnant or get an STD. If you acted like that, you could get all the girls you wanted too... Stop thinking its about looks. Its about attitude and assertiveness.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 12:06 PM
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David Allen’s ‘Getting things Done’ For the busy people who just want the highlights: Getting Things Done (GTD) by David Allen - Animated Book Summary And Review https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gCswMsONkwY
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 01:25 PM
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except that you want to be alone Don't say alone. Say anything else. You can just say you are going to do some things you haven't done in a while, hang out with some old friends, some college or high school buddies, get back to a few hobbies... or whatever. The fact that you need to explain that you need to be alone, kinda highlights a possible problem that you have no "me time" for your self already in your routines. Or that you have no privacy for yourself and the things you want to do without…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 01:16 PM
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The observational opener is the easiest way to approach anybody, its easy and low risk. You observe something unique or interesting about her, something she is holding, wearing or doing, you compliment or comment on it, and you ask her about it. Like this: First, make solid eye contact, smile or smirk, and say "Hey... I love that cute leather jacket... where did you get it?" or "hey... I fucking love your hair color... do you dye it yourself?" "OMG... you are wearing all purple... I love purple.…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 01:05 PM
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How do I fix this? Slow down and think about what you are going to ask her. You should be asking her open ended questions, the kind that don't end in a yes, no, maybe, fine, ok, etc. What did you like about that? What made you choose that? What were you feeling then that happened? You want to ask the girl about her, and you want her to do 80% of the talking. I dont want to have to make small talk with someone that Im not friends with. I I suggest you read this book, 10-15 times: https://en.wikip…
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:51 AM
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I can reply tomorrow with some easy tips.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 06:36 PM
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Am I doing something wrong? In the last 2 months, how many girls have you approached and from that, how many numbers did you get, and from that, how many have you asked out, and from that, how many have you taken out? If your answers are: 0,0,0,0 then yes, you are not doing something right.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 01:59 PM
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Listen, busting a nut is not a problem if.... ...you are dating at least one girl per week? Yes, at least one new girl per week. If not, I suggest you try...
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 01:16 PM
1

And what did you do with all the free time you gained by stopping the porn and Social Media?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 01:13 PM
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An easy replacement for reading Reddit would be reading a book. It comes down to your life purpose and goals. Goal 1 - How about learning a new language. Goal 2 - Plan to visit the country where that language is spoken You could be using your free time to better yourself, gaining the skills to make your self more successful in life, love, and career. So that book you read, would be more productive, if it was a self help book, or something about your industry or job that could get you a raise or …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 01:10 PM
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I just need to control it a bit better. Time management. If you exercise, work, and engage in daily hobbies, why the fuck does it matter if you’re on Reddit?? When you exercise, you gain health and fitness. When you work, you gain money. When you engage in hobbies, if they involve other people, you gain socialization time with other humans. If the hobbies are solo, hopefully you gain some type of accomplishments or achievements. But what does hours of Reddit browsing get you? Can you seriously r…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 01:04 PM
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Start actively parsing through your subscription list and deciding, which of these are just distractions / time wasters & I won't really miss them, versus which have substantive information and discourse that I'd really miss? THIS. In this Internet Age of ours, we suffer from Information Overload. Too much random information sometimes. You must learn to prioritize what is really needed, vs. what is just wanted. A simple calculation of mine is this: Is what I read going to help me out in my life …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:46 PM
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You need to balance out your life with socialization and hobbies. It doesn't sound like you do anything other then the gym... why is that?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:16 AM
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If it bothers him, he is not being a pussy. He would be a pussy, if it bothers him, and he did nothing about it.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:07 AM
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and apologized(mockingly) That was not an apology, that was a justification for her actions. Now you need to take action. Be a man.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:06 AM
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I would also add, that by your early 30s, you have just enough wisdom from your experiences and the mistakes you have made as a young inexperienced man, that you can make even better choices and decisions going forwards. You now get to build upon your successes up to this point (in life, love, and career), but the rise can be more exponential now.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 11:03 AM
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I am just too afraid to execute. Let me tell you a short story. Two years ago a good friend was diagnosed with cancer and died shortly after. But before he died, as he laid on his death bed, he told me these words... "Don't live with any regrets... do everything you can... now... because you never know when the grim reaper will come knocking!" (He was trickster right to the end.) He was right. Tomorrow never comes for some people. You only regret the things in life you never do... So i changed m…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 06:10 PM
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Yes, please post on how it improved your ability to lead.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 05:18 PM
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Let me make a suggestions for your dad. Buy him a small, 25 lb dumbbell, and tell him to practice every other day, right after dinner. He can sit while he does this... and do it at his own pace, but he must try to get through a single set of 10 reps. When he can get to 4 sets of 10 reps... he is ready for the gym... and can then work with the 30lbs dumbells... Cost? $20.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 05:15 PM
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elbow tendinitis is making this hard I am 48, and have recently pulled something in my damned elbow too. Any advice?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 03:53 PM
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Well, if you believe you are doing everything right, and it still isn't giving you the desired results... why don't you post some questions on the asktrp sub. Seriously. (this sub is not for questions, and since almost everyone should be able to follow TRP advice, I suggest you start asking what you can change or just do better) Obviously you are missing something... and guys here can help.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 03:44 PM
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I would like to see a similar study on Changes in Men's Mate Preferences Across the women's Ovulatory Cycle.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 10:38 AM
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First date. (Now, with me, there is always some touching before the first date... even something innocent like a hi-5) That said, start the date with a hug. I am not eating lunch with by bros, I am on a date, and I want a hug. Her reaction to my actions help lead things from here. If she embraces me back, I will continue, with leading her with my hand on her lower back. When I sit, I sit next to her, and touch her leg with mine, and her foot with mine. When I get up, I hold out my hand, and then…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:23 PM
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I was 30 at the time. I knew I wanted out, so no counseling for us. We agreed to divorce and since there were no kids, we just divided up the furniture and that was that. She had a yard sale for any shit i didn't want. or just threw it away... I really just walked away after making my decision... I let her keep the proceeds of the house sale, its wasn't much, but made me feel better that she had some money to do something with. A year later I met the girl of my dreams (at that time) and we marri…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:12 PM
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OK, you seem to be looking for something basic like this: As soon as you arrive, look for a reason to touch her. Innocent touching, but the goal is clear, so you don't need to dance around the issue. Her reaction to your actions, is what you are looking for. I would start with a full body hug when you arrive, and see how strong her grasp is. If she is holding you close, then go for the kiss.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 06:04 PM
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Bro, its tough, but you both were just not compatible. You can't force it. So work on you now. Go to the gym and start working out like your life depends on it. Because it does, your future life. Work on you. Socialize with old friends, and make some new friends. Do some new shit. Still not enough, then learn a new language. Need more? Then go visit the home country of that language! Seriously, you just need to do shit to get over this.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:53 PM
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She lies and you think she will be a great mother? Get your head out of the clouds bro. Seriously. My question is for guys with the same type of woman. Do these people change over time or do you think I am wasting away my time? What would make her change? Most people don't change. Sorry. What to do next bc it is eating away at me and want some hope with whatever I decide. Do you want to make things work? If so, you both go to counseling. If not, you just secure your important papers, get a stora…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:41 PM
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OK, here. You want to ask her about her. You want to get to the reasons behind who she is, and she does the things she does. You want to get the root emotions behind her stories. Then you bond with those emotions by telling stories where you felt the same way as her. And if it works, you get that "me too" moment, or the "he just gets me" moment. Make sense? but I also hear people say to not do that since it will make you a friend. NO. What makes you a friend is how you act. If you act all friend…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:33 PM
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If you could come back to when you were 18, what would you do different? I would smack my self silly and make sure I took more risks and learned to talk to people and girls. Get out and socialize more. Cut out the porn. Make more friends and do more shit. Go lift. And stop being so afraid, make choices based upon the potential good, the not fear of the bad. I lived in fear most of my life (until I woke up one day and realized it was all for nothing).
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:27 PM
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You lack passion, a strong sense of purpose and drive. OK, but what do you do for fun when you are not working?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:22 PM
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The patch worked for me.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:16 PM
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Keep in mind peeps, that once something is on the net for a while... it can almost never be deleted. This includes arrest records that have even been legally "expunged". So keep you nose clean and your reputation intact at all costs.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 12:51 PM
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OMG, you leave when she disrespects you like this. You just leave. Go out and hang with people who actually want to be with you. When someone treats you like shit you leave.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:57 PM
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She is using you as her Emotional Tampon. Did you stick around and continue to allow her to say these things to you and to continue to disrespect you?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:55 PM
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I could move out and live on my own but say bye to ~20k of savings each year. And you need that "savings" for what exactly? I would spend the money on my own place, and at least have that for the fwb and ons. Like you said "at what point do you begin to reap the benefits?" My answer is now. Move out and live your own life.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:51 PM
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Thank you for the explanation. Something to think about this weekend...
/r/askTRP06/04/18 06:07 PM
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If she reaches out, asking "Can't we be friends," the correct response is to say, "we are," and then don't. Can you explain why the appropriate response is not something more along the lines of "No we can't. I am interested in you and can't accept just being friends with you. Let me know if you ever change your mind?" I mean, why play along with the answer of "we are"? Wouldn't a better frame be that he won't accept that? In that he asserts what he wants?
/r/askTRP06/04/18 04:51 PM
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Every time I read your take aways, I could hear Corey Wayne's voice on my head. If you have not, I strongly suggest you read his book or watch some of his videos. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dgZv49-CZsE You are (were) a textbook case of his with all the chasing and then coming off as too needy after you sealed the deal with these girls. Good luck on your journey.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 11:33 AM
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Wait... so you were a shy awkward kid who mumbled his own name... and didn't stay inside 24-7 and just play video games and masturbate all day and night, but instead went out and met people in real life? And it worked? Bravo my friend! So many people can learn from this story... but how many really will?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:03 PM
1

On a lot of levels, the gym can be like therapy.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:23 PM
2

Can someone explain this concept to me? You sound depressed. I've been rejected most of my life You probably have a few anxieties that are causing low self esteem. You probably want to work on that first. Not giving a fuck is not your problem. Not liking who and what you are... that is your biggest issue.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:22 PM
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Google "how to break up"... you'll get millions of ideas. Simply said, its like ripping a bandaid off your hairy arm... you just need to do it fast and hard. I feel guilty. You future life is telling you to not feel this way. If you are not in love with her and don't want the same things out of life, then you are not compatible.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:18 PM
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However I bet this guy fucked with many girls too before meeting her Probably not... no. He sounds like a snowflake that just got burnt by reality.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:12 PM
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What do? Date multiple girls at the same time. Problem resolved.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:47 PM
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You wanna get shit off your chest? GO TO THE FUCKING GYM AND LIFT Repeat until you really don't care about her anymore, and care more about yourself. It may take a few weeks, months, or years...
/r/askTRP03/04/18 05:36 PM
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I'm still a bit too scared to game the superhot insta-girls at the gym. Maybe you need to start in real life. If you are "afraid" of gaming the girls you are really attracted to... Tinder is not going to help you. Put the screen down and start talking to the girls who you are most interested in.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 01:45 PM
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By engaging them and being funny.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 01:43 PM
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not an average joe. Sure, but the average older joe is an obese guy, who dresses like crap, doesn't take care of himself, who complains all the time, and has resigned himself to a sexless, loveless existence. It really doesn't take much to make yourself better then these older average slobs. Hell, just being an older guy who is fit and dresses good, will put you in the upper 90 percentile...
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 01:40 PM
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Most people seriously have no clue just how true this is... In my 25 years of consulting in corporate jobs, I can't think of a single company where this wasn't true...
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 01:29 PM
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and I'm going to end my life on my own terms if it ever becomes an issue I have thought about this too, but not in a dark way. I want to go out with a bang. Sell everything I can, get out as many loans as I can, max out every credit card...and throw the largest fucking party I ever had. Sex, drugs, and rock and roll, until I drop. If the hookers, alcohol, and drugs don't kill me, then I didn't party hard enough! Thats my plan anyway. Why die in a hospice or attached to a bunch of machines in a h…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 01:03 PM
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I had a friend who recently died from cancer. On his death bed he grabbed my hand told me to never have any regrets, do everything you want to do in this life, now, because you never know when the grim reaper will come knocking...lol He was a jokster right to the end. I took what he said to heart, and will tell myself and everyone else to never wait, to never hesitate. Use everyday to its fullest, never put off till tomorrow what you can do today, because you could be dead tomorrow. This helps p…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 12:56 PM
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For some people, pets (like dogs or reptiles) can be like a hobby. And there is nothing wrong with that. From some of these comments, seems like some guys here are way to hung up on dogs for some reason... Maybe they had a bad experience growing up, maybe they got bit, or never had a loyal trained dog in their life. Because I will tell you, that the stupid, crazy, neurotic, un-trained, little yippy yappity dogs, would indeed drive me nuts...
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 11:53 AM
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Some of us have dogs for protection and security, first. My dogs can tell me, long before I can hear, if someone is coming up my long driveway... The companionship is just a nice bonus.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 11:43 AM
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THIS. There are many reasons to have a dog. Enjoying the first task of successfully training a dog is very rewarding. Dogs are so easy to train, its actually a good future predictor of success in ones life. I am serious.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 11:41 AM
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Well, I am assuming if you can talk to me, then you can talk to other people too. And that would include girls...
/r/seduction31/03/18 12:11 PM
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Some great points in here: Drop the game and just be genuine. It will come off so much better when you meet people... especially girls who can know if you are faking it. Talk to EVERYONE. Can't impress on this enough. Its not what you say... its how you say it. Just don't talk at the girl, talk to her. Look her in the eye, smile, and listen to her reply, and build upon what she said. Too many guys just talk at a girl...
/r/seduction30/03/18 11:25 AM
1

Zimbardo study Why do you feel the prison experiment was unethical?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 04:28 PM
3

for the glue of society is its real nature to be left unsaid and (consciously) unknown. Great studies though (same about the Zimbardo experiment on conformism) but they were never repeated, for the very reason no-one can stand the truth. The glue of society... is a lie. Its the lie told by our governments, our leaders, our churches, our teachers... to keep us all in order and to just get us to comply with "their rules". The Milgram experiment proved this case, that most people do not really have…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 04:26 PM
4

Still really need to get over my dick insecurity Do you have any ideas? I know some guys who are a bit shy, but successful in career, new to TRP... and this is their biggest hang up too... and the biggest cause of why they just won't "pull the trigger" sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:06 AM
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imma tell her to fuck right off and I am NOT a emotional tampon. No. You are going to tell her that you and her should hang out sometime, but right now, you need to get back to ... ... the gym. ... your date. ... your career. or whatever you happen to be working on at the time to make yourself a better man. You should have almost no spare time to be even talking to a girl you are not dating, plating, or just banging. If she calls, you arrange a meet up, where you hook up. If she won't go or play…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 05:55 PM
1

What a great fucking story!
/r/seduction20/03/18 01:47 PM
1

Listen, if the apocalypse happened tomorrow, you would see how quickly you could unplug from your existing reality, and how quickly you could adapt to the new reality of your situation. Its all in your head. All of it. People have learned new languages in only a couple of weeks (think POWs). Anything can be done if you are serious, and you believe, and you act like your life depends on it.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:18 PM
1

And she said the last line? Seems like that was meant for someone else?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:17 PM
2

You need to work on you now, and stop worrying about all this other crap. Get to the gym and lift, then figure out what your purpose is in life. The rest will come after that point.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:16 PM
3

What a waste of time and money. There are a bunch of jobs that Poli Sci majors can get: https://www.thebalance.com/top-jobs-for-political-science-majors-2059632
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:14 PM
0

You need to meditate and figure out what you like in this world, what do you like to do, and what kinda jobs exist to allow you to do that.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:13 PM
7

Depends on how blue pill and beta your existing life is. You need to detox and reorg your life, and that includes the porn, which is just a big time waster for most guys, and an addiction for some...
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:09 PM
2

So... you rescheduled?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:08 PM
2

Cut out all caffeine during the day. Cut out all processed sugar from you diet. Start working out, hard. Stay away from the phone or tablet before bed, the blue light can also affect your sleep. https://www.thesleepdoctor.com/2017/11/06/latest-blue-light-sleep/ Diet Exercise Regular sleep times
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:06 PM
2

It depends on how Beta the BF is...
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:03 PM
2

I'd rather cut my balls off than someone think of me as a parasite. You should not care what other people think. Go back to the side bar and start over. You don't have the basic fundamentals.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 12:01 PM
3

I proposed that we could be friendly because she was really one of my best friends and I missed how we interacted. That was your mistake. You should have proposed that she come over for Netflix and Chill. And thats it. My goal is to completely forget about her and establish a lot of plates You could make her a plate? Ever think of that? No? Back to the side bar you go, bro. Do not pass go, do not collect your $200...
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:59 AM
4

As he is being arrested for Felony Assault, the cop will thank him for being so cooperative and admitting what he did, and offering the motive for his attack. This will make the cops and the courts job so much easier. Probably won't even need a trial, since he admitted guilt and explained motive... Great advice, bro. If the man punched received more significant injuries from the blow, the puncher could be charged with a felony assault, likely an assault in the third or second degree. A convictio…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:53 AM
5

At the party, my friend lost his frame and decided he had enough and punched the guy. Your friend can be arrested for assault. That arrest record will affect the rest of his life, preventing him from getting betters jobs for more money. Now... if the guy he hit had significant injuries, your bro can be charged with Felony Assault. A conviction on assault 2 with no priors would mean a 3 to 9 month sentence and on assault 3, 1 to 3 months. For both of these charges one could receive jail time or s…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:49 AM
2

Because in the past, only the strong and the smart, survived. Today, the weak and the stupid get a free pass in our socialistic societies, due to the required extra efforts of the strong and the smart. Simply said, we are dumbing down the gene pool, and its only a matter of time before the whole system collapses. Again. There have been many civilizations before our current one (Western Civ). You can do your own research to figure out what happened to the Romans, the Greeks, the Egyptians, the As…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:39 AM
1

Ignore her when she starts acting irrational like that. Get busy doing the things in your life that will get you ahead. (Gym, school, career) Why should you apologize for wanting to talk dirty to your girl? None of this makes any sense, if you want to call her a slut and a whole, then you go right ahead and do that. Is there any way I can salvage this relationship or should I just end things. Sure, don't apologize for wanting (and needing) the things in life you do. Be strong, be a man, and lead…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:29 AM
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Yes. Why wouldn't we?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:20 AM
5

If he does he... needs to stop immediately, and and use his new found time to work on himself.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:56 AM
5

You need to take a step back and realize you are missing some things. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People Read that book, like 10-15 times. Seriously. You need to memorize the points in that book. You need to learn to ask people about themselves. Its real simple. People are not going to be interested in you, you need to be interested in them, and get them to feel good about themselves. Then they will love you for it. Are there some people who are just born doome…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:53 AM
1

it can only be digested slowly... (ie. years?) Absolutely not. Weeks. Seriously. If you reorganized your life starting today... Got that gym membership and started working out every other day... started to eat right and cooking fresh food today, cleaned up your room\apartment\house and threw out all the crap you don't need... and started working on your career\school\goals today.... And stopped doing all the Beta things in your life that waste your time like jerking off, watching Anime\TV\Movies…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:44 AM
1

Yea. Its sad, funny and predictable... This guy will continue to be the emotional tampon for this girl until she finds a real boyfriend... then he'll be back wondering why she doesn't talk to him anymore.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:26 AM
2

"waiting for you to come over tonight..." If she doesn't come over, then block her for playing games...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:20 PM
4

And yet the "dream" of One True Love somehow survives. It's frustrating. Thats for the Billy Beta Bux...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:18 PM
10

Success with girls has been slow so far though. Work on you now. Not for the girls. When you know your purpose in life, the girls will come for the ride... trust me. work on you
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:12 PM
10

when I'm alone or when I'm high. So then stop that. Use this time to go to a gym and lift. I know that if tomorrow my lying ex comes to me and begs me for my forgiveness, I would want to believe her. I fear that I might take her back. That can't happen if you are not home, but instead you are in the gym working your ass off bro. How to get over it once and for all? Get to the gym and don't come out until you know what you are going to do with the rest of your life...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:11 PM
3

You didn't fuck up by asking her out, but asking us if you fucked up, thats where you fucked up... Should I have asked straight away if she wanted to go out tonight? I don't know where you are, but sure, TXT her "Hey, lets meet up for coffee before you leave, I am going to starbucks latter, you should meet me.." See if she replies...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:08 PM
6

No son, I am not trash. I am trying to show you the light and a future where you can thrive and be successful in life, love, and happiness. Instead, you want to stay down here where you are, all upset for a girl who does not even love you. And you call me trash...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:03 PM
2

Yes it is bro. People deal with death all the time. She is using you. get a clue and block her. or face the consequences...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:00 PM
6

Exactly, you are not her emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:59 PM
3

Tbh I know maybe one other person who faced such a tragic instance. Life is hard. Need me to talk about my friends that have died in car accidents or due to cancer? No. Nobody wants to or needs to hear it. You live your life to its fullest everyday, and live everyday like it could be your last, because you never know when the grim reaper will come calling... Thats the lesson you learn from death. When someone takes their own life, they didn't care. O well. Bill Beta off-ed him self... And someho…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:58 PM
6

I have up until now, but this is different. No its not, bro. You care for someone's feelings who doesn't care for you. Whats wrong with you. She just want to emotionally dump on you... Be a man and block her.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:55 PM
1

Just screen print them, then delete all contact bro. It needs to be done, so just do it and stop complaining about it.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:54 PM
4

Did I fuck up? Are you trying to be her emotional tampon? If so, you did great. If you are trying to be redpill, you don't care that today is the day her beta dad off-ed himself. So then... Did I fuck up? Redpill guys don't give a f*ck what other people think, and would not ask such a question...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:52 PM
2

You always approach. Its very simple. And you don't give a f*ck what anyone else thinks about it.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 04:49 PM
2

It was just that I was "crushing on" her and was caught by surprise And thats why you need to practice talking to girls. All girls. Nice, fat, hot, average... So next time, when you see one that you are interested in, approaching her, making solid eye contact, offering a genuine smile, and saying "hey... I really loved your performance, you were fucking assume... how does it feel to win like that?" If you practice now, you won't even need to think about how to say it... it will just be a habit..…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:13 PM
1

You need to think about what you like to do...
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:54 AM
3

Stop dwelling on the past. Seriously. Its over. You can't ever go back. So move on. "it's incredibly cringeworthy when I look back." yea. So what. its over, you were younger and less mature. Surely your grown and developed in the last 2 years right? "All I want you guys to tell me now is how you'd have handled her approaching you" I would have talked to her. I would have asked her how it "felt" to win. Girls are emotional, and think in feelings. So ask her how she felt. "saying this to increase …
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:53 AM
3

The book. The wiki page is just the highlights.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:57 PM
1

This is a great video from a female dating coach that talks about how to ask open ended questions, the kind that can't end in a Yes, No, Maybe, Fine, OK, etc etc. I strongly suggest you watch it a few times. She has some good examples in the video, plus she is very... distracting, but her message is spot on. https://youtu.be/2GtcM_ob1Mw?t=23m55s
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:33 PM
1

I guess if she didn't want me hitting her up to hang out she wouldn't be giving me her number in the first place. Bro, take this to heart. Ready? Use your newfound euphoria and energy, go talk to some more girls, and get some more numbers. Seriously. You should (could) always be meeting and talking to new girls, keeping your pool of available girls for dates filled. Never just wait around for just one...
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:30 PM
1

Is that too soon to follow up? It doesn't matter. What matters is that you have a plan. You don't want to say "lets hang out", you want to say "This weekend I am going to this [insert cool event] and you should come with me... I think we will have a blast..." That comes off like you are a man of action, a man with a plan, and she should join you for the ride. See the difference?
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:23 PM
3

How do I handle my nice guy™ brother? He is entrenched in my life and I need to uproot him. You don't. You live your life. Your busy life. You should have better things to do. And you ignore him when he starts acting like a cry baby.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:36 PM
1

but I kissed her and said “Y team won, you’re not getting lucky tonight” and went home. So you talked yourself out of having sex... WTF?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:33 PM
1

Start working on your credit, if you can. Get a small job, get a credit card, and pay it off every month. It will help when you get out of school in 2 years, and will want loans for a car, and then a house. And then business loans, boat loans, real estate loans... Also, socializing will really pay off in the future, for business and client connections. You learn those skills now. This is different then just hanging out with your friends. To be successful in business and careers, you need to be a…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:23 PM
1

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:18 PM
1

What's the quickest method to become red pill? Welcome to the rest of your life. Now, make a plan. You need to plan out all the things you need to do to better yourself and to make you a better man. Start with your life. Do you work out? So you eat right? Do you know how to cook and eat healthy? Do you dress to impress? Do you have a good job with a good future? Start making plans on how to achieve these things. Research the things you don't know how to do yet. One step at a time.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:17 PM
3

The USA has no enemies... just business partners and clients... What's a better way to find a job outside of the predatory higher education paradox Start your own company. Find a need, and figure out how to make a profit filling that need.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:12 PM
1

Maybe you want to change your major to something that incorporates design and building of things... like architecture...
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:05 PM
2

I really don't get it. You need to start at the beginning, like just saying hi to people. Asking them about them. Complimenting something about them. I don't have that much time on my hand to talk to random people Bull shit answer. Its literally takes 2 seconds to say "hi... nice leather jacket..." Any tip to start a conversation with a stranger och the street or such? Start here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People Read it 10-15 times.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:04 PM
3

My bet is you said/ did more than just “I like you”. Maybe you looked at her with puppy dog eyes I agree 100%. He did or said more then that. Seems like he had a good hookup or FWB thing going on... and then pushed the issue... and she didn't want a BF.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:00 PM
3

She probably liked being causal with you, just hooking up, maybe FWB type of relationship... but since you admitted you had feelings for her, and she (at that moment) had to decide that she did not have the same feelings for you. She didn't want a BF. Thats why.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:57 PM
1

What are you studying in school?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:55 PM
3

This line has also worked very well for me: "Hey... I just saw you standing here and wanted to come over and say hi... what is your name?" In the three years I have been saying that, I have always gotten her name. Sometimes more, sometimes less. I am a very direct and assertive guy, so I can say it with style, assertiveness, and confidence. But like I said, start small. Just work on saying hi, and nothing more, until you are comfortable with that. Then move on to something more. I think you will…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 10:23 AM
24

Toutes nos félicitations! Congratulations! Welcome to the club. You have come far. Now just work on saying hi to the girls you are attracted to. Solid eye contact, a genuine smile, and a simple hi. Then smile and walk away. Practice that. Start simple.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 04:54 PM
1

He has the noes that knows bro.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:41 PM
1

Oxytocin too.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:38 PM
1

Being busy = Non-needy Being successful (at what ever you were doing) = confidence Self satisfaction = Positive Attitude. Confidence + Positive attitude + Busy = Attractive
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:35 PM
2

The reason it matters STOP. It really doesn't matter. Sorry.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:28 PM
1

Girls can subconsciously sense a lot about a guy. Lets just call it "women's intuition". So yea, on some level, they know you are a desirable sexual male. Its also apparent from the fact that, after getting laid, you probably walk with a frame that is tall, accomplished, satisfying, relaxed, and un-caring. Your walk, and how you hold yourself, can tell a lot about you...
/r/askTRP14/03/18 01:26 PM
4

You forgot to add the new advances in VR Tech, that will allow you to super impose the Celebrity of your choice upon your view of the sex doll. Now, for a small licensing fee, you will be able to see and hear your Celebrity crush. Eventually, the Celebrity will also have fleshy molds of her body that can be attached to the doll, for the ultimate, physical and mental experience. For a monthly fee, you can get new Celebrity molds shipped securely to your home, and with your Broadband Internet, you…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 12:57 PM
0

I think some guys guys can't handle being friends with a women, or worse... an attractive women! They really just can't mentally process it, because they are probably just very insecure to start with. I have a friend in NYC, he is a photographer with a large studio. Guess what? Half his friends are female models! OMG right? It works out great for him, and all his male friends, like me, when he invites us over for his parties. (networking) He doesn't have any of the problems some guys are listing…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 12:38 PM
4

For whatever reason, I am attracted to women who dye their hair, and the crazier the color, the more I am interested. In those cases, its easy to ask about and touch the hair, since its my obsession.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 07:06 PM
6

Very natural, very easy, very important, very simple and very very innocent... Its usually the second one I go for if she first lets me touch her hair...
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 06:22 PM
89

Sit down next to a girl, then sit down just a bit too close. If she doesn't move away or even scoots up closer to you, good. Implied consent. This is great. I will only add, that when a guy is out with a girl, he should always look for opportunities to sit next to his girl. Forget the delusion of two people sitting across from each other at a table. You look for a booth and say "We'll sit here plz, thanks". Now... once you do sit next to each other, its easy to scoot closer to her. Touch her arm…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 05:50 PM
8

women won't come back. They have limitless options...lol Sure, women do have many options (until they hit the wall). But she will keep coming back to the right guy who can push her buttons just the right way. Like OP said, its how you make her feel that counts. Women are emotional, and if you can get her the right feelz, she will continue to come back, not matter what you do. Ask any women in an abusive relationship why she keeps going back to the guy who beats her up... Most of the time, when s…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 05:26 PM
0

The fact is that meat justs tastes great to most people. That fact alone will dictate that RPillers will eat what they like, and they like meat.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:29 PM
3

I did some search in the sub, but some people here are against veganism and pro veganism. But true RP does not care whether you like a good steak, or want to save the planet by only eating vegetables. Its all up to you. Do what you want, with all the conviction that you are happy doing it. thats all that matters.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:26 PM
-1

I find myself not having any time to spend on myself and enjoy life. Then why the fuck do you work over 80 hours per week? You need to lead your life bro. You sound like the tail wagging the dog.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:18 PM
3

I'm fairly successful with my career You think so? Do you make double what you would if you only worked 40 hours per week? If not, you are being taken advantaged of, and are wasting your time... The problem is now I have no idea what to do when I'm bored. Get some new and exciting hobbies that you can do, outside, with your new found energy (from working out), with other people. Biking, hiking, rock climbing, etc etc. Dancing, karate (or any other similar) The point is to get out and get busy, w…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:17 PM
3

You don't get into LTRs. If she wants to party, then let her party. When she is out, you find someone who wants to be with you. This is not a problem, this is an opportunity for you.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:12 PM
3

There is no such thing. Women are emotional human beings, they don't reason, they don't think consciously of these things, and when they do, they themselves get it wrong about themselves. This is the answer. Women are emotional, not rational, and not logical. Like you said, sometimes they will find themselves in situations, and not be able to explain how or why. And thats the point. It can be her porn, or it can be her curse. Its more about how she feels, and less what she says or what she think…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:08 PM
5

You want to secure, in a locked fireproof box, your critical papers (birth certificate, SS card, bank info, etc). This is just good life advice, but even more important now.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:58 PM
2

My low self esteem fed my porn use, porn use fed my low self esteem. I didnt take care.of myself. I put a lot of hours that could have been spent doing anything worthwhile, into masturbating to porn. And thats the point. If you have low self esteem, don't approach girls, and have other things to do that would better your life, career, etc... then thats when you need to make a change.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 01:15 PM
1

I agree OP. Its a great report and testament to RP and it belongs here.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 01:09 PM
2

You need to be making more moves on more of the girls you are casual with in the future... lol
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 01:00 PM
3

I'm assuming she's been craving you for a while Maybe, maybe not, but until he had the balls to actually just make the move to get her in his bed, it was never going to happen. Just by her last comment of ""wow, I was not expecting that to happen." makes me believe she was not craving him for a while, but instead, she yielded and submitted to his "Alpha Actions". See the difference?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 12:58 PM
5

Why are PUAs still trying so hard to high jack this sub? Because they can and their strategies still work.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 12:54 PM
5

For those of us that don't like to read, here is an audio book version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZGZU5AlvE7k
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 12:53 PM
3

This is dumb. Just talk to girls and ask them out. Thats all it takes. Stop wallowing in your misery... (I know, misery loves company, so be a man, do something about your issues) You don't try to break being a 27 year old virgin. You read and learn how to get over your approach anxiety and approach girls by practicing it, then you read and learn how to talk to girls, then you read and learn how to ask a girl out by just doing it... This is not hard.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 12:47 PM
4

I think you are missing the point... You could probably be going for it with these girls that are pulling on your like this... Seriously.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 12:39 PM
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1 - Who cares? Watch their actions, don't listen to the words. From experience, this single point, is the only one I follow. If she is responding to my flirts and my touches, with good eye contact, smiles, and touches of her own... it doesn't matter what she said about her BF\fiance\husband\GF... Her reaction to your action is all that matters...
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 12:32 PM
1

What is wrong with you? I am a science and technology person. Never liked English, reading or writing.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:26 PM
1

I appreciate your reply. IMHO, when someone points out minor grammar issues like that, it comes off as nit picking and completely irrelevant to the topic, unneeded and unwarranted. I would never tell someone they mis-typed "you're". But that's just me... Obviously, my attitude does not match that of the masses...
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 07:26 PM
1

Am I committing social suicide by not having any Social Media presence in college? Yes. There is no reason you can't have a few static pages of you and your life, highlighting the things you like to do, posting only your greatest accomplishments, on a monthly basis. Thats what I do. I don't post everyday, and rarely comment on others posts. My profiles exist so that people can see who and what I am. So that others can find me. Monthly updates is the key. No daily logins or posts or comments. Jus…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:30 PM
2

A bigger concern, is that if you are really in a LTR for 4 years, and you are both willing and able to be apart for weeks at a time... then this relationship isn't much of a relationship, as it seems already over to me. Sounds like this is the perfect time to end it... as its already over, bro.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:21 PM
-14

I see you have 12 points so far... thats nice I guess. Solid post but dude, you really need to learn the different between your and you're. You, and the other 12 up voters, should not care. This is RP, not some English lit blog. Seriously. Not trying to be argumentative, just trying to point out that you shouldn't even give a fuck how well his grammar is on this sub... and you shouldn't care enough to post it. I mean, why post it? You think he doesn't know. Do you think he cares? Do you think he…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 11:54 AM
2

Anyways, my question is, what's a good time to wait before getting into another LTR? Keep reading, and you'll figure it out... its all in the sidebar...
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:07 PM
2

https://theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:16 PM
3

Have you compared your results to this study: https://theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e How would you rate the pic of your profile, as compared to the rating of the guys who reply?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:14 PM
2

How do you guys control your emotions/impulses? I have learned to count to 10 before I open my mouth, when I am anxious, pissed, or whatever. If, after 10, I am still feeling anxious, I say nothing. I smile, (being real happy that I didn't say something I regret) and usually just walk away or leave the situation. (the smiling part drove my ex nuts...)
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:21 PM
10

Lets say "investing in yourself, or investing in an education"?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 03:45 PM
3

I am an old movie buff, what movie was that?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 03:33 PM
2

Why? I think his interpretation is pretty accurate. I think, she doesn't want to get another Boyfriend (relationship) right now... but that doesn't mean she isn't willing to hook up or just hang out.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 03:35 PM
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Theoretically, if someone's EX confronted me, I would first empathize and sympathize with him. I mean, man to man, he just lost a beautiful and exciting women... and that has to hurt. But I would assertively and firmly let him know, that he needs to move on, that she does not love him anymore, and never will love him the way she once did. Its over... you don't ever get to go back in time to how things once were. I would convince him that he had his chance, and he blew it, and that he should use …
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:50 PM
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How would all of you handle this? I would believe her that she just got out of a crappy relationship and is not interested in repeating the same thing again. Then I would suggest we still meet up, no strings attached, no pressure, and no commitment right now... I would tell her that I find her an interesting and fascinating women, who I just really want to get to know better... I see it as womanspeak for "I think I can do better than you". I would also stop thinking like that...
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:47 PM
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confronts me about it. What did he say? And your reply?
/r/askTRP08/02/18 02:42 PM
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I’m thinking I’ll just play the long game and wait for a better time but what are some things I should do to get her to start thinking of me like that. A better plan would be to just start flirting and escalating with her. I mean, seriously bro, she has already showed you nudes... right?
/r/seduction07/02/18 04:10 PM
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Thinking coolness was the goal was definitely a flaw of mine. But its a very common flaw... Thats why your story is so relate-able...
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 06:24 PM
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Many will read it. Its well written and has some great points.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 06:20 PM
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Man, what a great story. Very similar to mine. In fact i am now having flashbacks... only now they include the God Damn DINGs. OMG... Your DINGs were classic. So many damn DINGs in our younger lives....
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 06:12 PM
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You had a girl over who left angry. The girl left because the girl got jealous. This, on its own, does not hurt the guy in any way. He is allowed to have other friends, and talk to other girls. That seems like a fuck up Its only a fuck up if you made the girl leave. He did not, he kept his frame, and did not yield to hers... I mean yeah she came back but a lot wouldn't. In this situation, I believe, more girls would come back then you think. I mean, seriously, he didn't do anything wrong... Not …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 04:38 PM
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Yea.. me too... Its just to unbelievable of a story... Losers like in the story don't ever get that far with a really hot girl... I told her that if she needed a place to crash, she could sleep at my place without me trying to have sex with her I can honestly say I have never known anyone to say this... and yes, when I was younger, me and many of my friends were nerds
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:10 PM
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If the same woman was married to you for 5 or 10 years, I doubt she would be putting your dick in her mouth on a Sunday morning too, despite the fact that you're this 'big alpha'. OK, but isn't that the point of being RedPill? You don't move to LTR, never stay with someone for 5-10 years... because when one day she stops "putting your dick in her mouth" as you say it, he just gets a new one... He will never have that problem...
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 01:42 AM
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Yes, you need friends and a social circle. It can be small, but it must exist. How is your relationship with your family? Girls can sometimes infer if you have no good friends, and no social life, then you won't be a good family guy either... Not saying its fair, but it is what it is. So you fake it until you make it. If you are as successful as you come off, people will gravitate towards you naturally, so you just need to figure out how to let them in, and then use it to your benefit. I was lik…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 11:02 AM
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Observe something unique Why is this important? Have you ever seen what happens to girls who realize they have the same dress on, or the same shoes on? Its rare, but it will cause a complete and total melt down, where one or both will run home (or to the store) to change and get a new outfit. I have seen it at parties, twice now. The point is, on some level all people want to be unique, special, different... in their own way... and its your job to figure it out. Sometimes its blatantly obvious..…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:52 AM
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.1. Observe something unique or interesting about them, something they are holding, wearing or doing, and compliment that, then ask them about that. FOr example: "hey... thats a cool leather jacket... where did you get it?" or "hey... I love your hair, I fuckin love red hair... do you dye it your self... ever go blond?" .2. Not never, just usually not right away, unless you are a confident, decent looking guy who can pull it off. .3. A women can not change the way she looks, she was born with he…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 06:56 PM
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Yea. You need to not get "hung up" on any one girl bro. If you are meeting girls, you need to learn to flirt and escalate... from the start, with all of them. This last one... she is gone bro. Meet new girls, flirt and escalate. Always. But give it one last shot, just ask her to hang out next week, tell her you are doing [insert fun thing here] and that she should join you.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:48 PM
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He can dress to impress, fat or not.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:45 PM
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Be honest with yourself. Work the fuck out and stop eatting\drinking the sugar. just stopping the sugar alone and drinking water will lose you 10-20 lbs. Easy. Dress to impress, bro. I've seen some fat gangster slobs in suits that put me to shame. Wear really nice clothes. Nice shoes. Clean shoes. Get a fucking awsome haircut. Seriously. Get it styled. Do you have the same haircut your mommy made you get. Go to a salon, tell the girls you want a change and need a new hairstyle and you want their…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:44 PM
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Haven't we seen this enough times already. AWALT. Who cares what she is doing? Why do you really care? All is fair in love and war. Why do you believe any differently? Don't let your deluded ethics or morals cloud your vision here... Or some sense of Cosmic Justice.... No such thing, bro. Live and let live. Life is cold and hard, then you die... so make the most of your living years.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:39 PM
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She said she was a hot girl, that guys would be all over and she wouldn't wait the two minutes for me to go for a pee. So.. that was her way of telling you to take her to the bathroom with you.... Clearly you missed this opportunity...
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:33 PM
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Talk to new women. Think about fucking them. Get into a position where you COULD fuck them. Do this often. Absolute 100% spot on. OP needs to meet new girls...now. Start making new girl "friends"... now. Show the current GF he has options...
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:30 PM
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You don't, you find other girls who want to hang out with you In Real Life. Use TXT to arrange meet ups. You don't want a TXTing buddy, you want to hang out and get laid. All of that happens IRL, not by TXT.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:26 PM
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Marks points: View rejection as a sign of incompatibility rather than a sign you are inadequate. Priorities - Emphasize improving your lifestyle for your own sake and become more attractive to women as a consequence of this. [Most men's dating advice approaches it the other way - improve yourself in order to get women in your bed.] Solid and great points, girls or no girls. Never read the Art of not giving a Fuck... I just never gave 2 fucks about what people thought about me before...
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:24 PM
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OK.. here ya go... Ask her if she has "alexia without agraphia"... I'll let you look it up... LOL.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 02:17 PM
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Don't make eye contact. Put your hand up, say no thank you, sorry. Always keep moving. If they continue to harass you, tell them you will call the cops if they don't leave. Be firm and clear. Most will leave at this point. The cops coming is always bad for them, and they don't want the trouble... [most are not dangerous... they can be found very easily...]
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:29 PM
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Maybe you need to start with "hi", and then gauge their level of interest at that moment. If they don't take their eyes off their phones to look at you... you move on... People are busy, and sometimes don't want to be bothered talking to anyone... not just you. You don't need to be snarky... you need to be more considerate. You need to learn to read people better. You need to learn to engage a person, and not just ask them about reading... especially if they don't have a book with them. Personal…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:23 PM
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Go cheap. Living alone is not so bad. Get a cat. Having your own place is the best option.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:21 PM
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Be honest with yourself and her. Tell her the truth, tell her you like\love her, but you are bored. You never know, maybe she bored is too. Maybe she will help you get another girl. Maybe she would just allow you to get new tail every now and then. Have an honest and open talk with her... and let it go where it goes.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:19 PM
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How do i get over it? You get off your ass, you stop whining. You grow a pair of balls, you work on you, you become a better man, then you actually ask girls out. Lots of girls. You come back here, after 60 days of asking just 1 girl out a day. Just one per day. I don't care what you look like, I don't care what you think your issues are. 60 days, 60 girls asked out. Do it. Your biggest problem... IS YOU. Dating is actually easier for guys... becuase a guy can ask out anybody... Most girls wait …
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:13 PM
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Any place you can sit, walk, talk, flirt and escalate. A mall, book store, food store (buy food for dinner), any touristy place. Shopping districts have plenty of coffee shops and cute stores to walk and browse.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:40 PM
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Legally, she only needs to stay there for a few days to consider it her primary residence, then he will need to legally evict her (in the USA). He needs to go to the police, or the court house, and file the paperwork. He needs to change all his passwords, and close any bank accounts or credit cards he shares with her. He is not legally allowed to touch her shit. He may want to considering just moving out... that will also fix the situation real quick. (thats why my friend did, left all the old c…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:34 PM
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Mediation will help you "catch yourself" when you are getting upset or angry... then you can rationally and logically deal with it. Count to five before you say anything and really think about what you are going to say... and how it helps you get ahead. A lot of what is said during a fight is emotional words to hurt the other person or to just spite them. Learn when to walk away. (sometimes without saying anything) Some battles are not worth fighting in the end. Redirect your anger towards somet…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 03:23 PM
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I rarely run into them in person Relationships happen in real life. Make an opportunity to meet them in real life, where you just simply flirt and escalate. Thats all there is to it. When you flirt and escalate, you show the girl how you feel.
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:36 PM
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For example,I'll exhange jokes and small talk You are not asking the right questions, to allow you to build an emotional bond with the person you are talking to. This book is a great place to start: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People Simply said, you want to ask people about themselves... people love to talk about themselves, and if you can make people feel good about themselves... they will love you for it. When talking to someone you want to bond with, these …
/r/seduction13/10/17 04:32 PM
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The hate comes from the fact that they are not being honest with themselves, that they are not doing the things they need to be doing in their life to make themselves more attractive or interesting, that they are not willing (or able) to approach and communicate with girls, and they are not willing (or able) to learn the techniques. For some guys, its just easier to hate (to bitch and moan) then to change \learn \grow \adapt. As the saying goes "haters gonna hate"
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 11:52 AM
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Its not creepy, it helps some people get over their preconceived notions of what they think they want... vs. what they will really accept. In person, I routinely meet people who think I am 10 years younger than I am... Why shouldn't I have that same success if I was to use an online app? Many people, admittedly, get to hung up on age... Eliminate the age discussion (or never have it) and you'll see how far things can really go sometimes between two people who are compatible... Plus, this self im…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 11:45 AM
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Live and Learn. Take a break, move out, clear your head. No one deserves to be lied to.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 10:52 AM
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Don't over think this. Don't attack her either. Normal, strong, consistent flirting and escalating from the start. P.S. Unless you are in a relationship with someone, don't ever just jump on a girl and kiss her. You need to warm her up a bit, that's what the flirting and escalating (with touch) does.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:42 PM
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WTF? Who cares how well he can spell?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:36 PM
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Why are you spending time on her if you don't like her appearance? He is in love with her, and when that happens, looks are less critical. Important, yes, critical... no.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:35 PM
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You will need to look and act better then her in order to get her to even consider changing. So, yes, start working out, eating right, sleeping right. Start focusing on your career, your style, your goals. Let her see that you are a man on a mission, and she either steps up, or she loses you. The right move is to always move ahead, move forwards, and to move up. Your choice is clear. Become a better man, a man with a plan, who deserves a girl who keeps up with him... then find one that does...
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:33 PM
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If i can't open with an observation and a compliment about something she is holding, wearing, or doing, my most direct and go to line is this: "hey... I just saw you standing here and wanted to come over and say hi... what is your name?" In the last 3 years of using that line, I have never been denied the girls name. Then its hit or miss on what happens next. In the end, I can pull it off, cause I am an older, bad ass muther fucker, who gives no fucks and is just out to just have fun, meet peopl…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 02:23 PM
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Stay away from the phones before bed... https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/q-a-why-is-blue-light-before-bedtime-bad-for-sleep/
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:20 PM
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If your friends are very blue pull, you will loose them. They can't even comprehend your new and better life anymore. "Misery loves company". Since you are no longer living with your head held down, just taking the shit life throws at you, they can't understand you. Just you being more "Confident" around them, scares the crap out of them. I had a friend once tell me that his housemate told him that he "walked around the house, to assertively, like he owned it... and he needed to cut it out" Inst…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:15 PM
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Do you guys like to talk for awhile before asking for a number or date? Yes, I try to build some rapport. I ask them about them, tell them very little about me, never offer my name. If I am interested in what they say, I ask them to tell me more. If they are interested in me, they will ask for my name. I make solid eye contact, and I smile\smirk, a lot. I ask open ended questions that don't end in a Yes, No, Maybe, Ok, Fine. I ask lots of "What" questions like: WHAT do you like about that? WHAT …
/r/askTRP09/10/17 12:03 PM
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Is job hunting just the same as pick up? Maybe, especially since its a numbers game. Approach enough girls, and\or go on enough interviews, and you will eventually get what you are asking for...
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:51 AM
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Maybe you could\should act on those IOIs, start getting some numbers, start hanging out with them?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:45 AM
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Depends. Did you get the job\contract? Winner or Loser...
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:35 AM
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Does anyone out there have some form of this bullshit, or know someone who's succeeded with it I know a vet who served in Afghanistan, and got 1/2 his face burnt off in an IED attack. He still gets more girls then me, because of his attitude and charm. He just grew his hair long to partly cover his face. He never let it hold him back, as he put it "I'm just happy to be alive and still have a working dick and balls..." From him, I can tell you... "Attitude is everything". Someone else posted it b…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:30 AM
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Why should you tell the husband? Are you suddenly the moral and ethical police? Live your life the way you want to live it, and let other live their life.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:23 AM
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Its the risks to you, that you need to weigh. Some type of retaliation from the husband, not always physical. Once you have a kid with her, you are on the hook for child support. Even if she says "Don't worry about it". Even if she waits 10 years to go to court to get the order. Then you find yourself immediately in arrears with the court (in the USA)... Its bad and I've seen it happen to guys I know.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:21 AM
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You need to do it more, to the point that its a habit.
/r/seduction07/09/17 10:33 AM
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Flirting makes me very nervous So practice on girls you are only marginally attracted to... You practice until it becomes a habit.
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:57 PM
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I'd be tempted to say "No you don't that's all padding." I've used that, especially around mardi gras time when they like to flash them for the beads...
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 06:56 PM
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I cant understand her guys! can you? Yea.. she is not that into you. You need to move on.
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:34 PM
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How can I avoid this in the future? Practice on other girls, and guys even. Get warmed up. Practice opening and talking to old, young, hot, average, big, small, girls... Practice until it becomes a habit... then when you see the girl you really want to talk to... approaching her and opening her will be the easy part...
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:31 PM
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The more you do it the more you can laugh it off. The more you do, the more you realize its going to be OK, no matter what her answer is...
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:28 PM
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If you like a woman, tell her. It is better than letting the feelings build up Never wait and never hesitate.
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:27 PM
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Rejection is easier to live with, then Regret. Next time, (if I may say), don't wait so long to approach or ask her out. The longer you wait, the bigger the sting. If you see a girl, strike up the conversation, build some rapport, and ask for the number... all within 1 day... What ever the outcome, it almost feels the same.
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:26 PM
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Yes, but one has a very different tone when asking to meet up with a person... I've had more success with not saying the word "date".
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:17 PM
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I need some guidance Get busy bro. join a gym, its cheap, and open 7 days a week... focus more on approaching IRL Yes, start approaching more, today. get out there and start talking to people... In Real Life... Are you in school? Go hang out at the coffee shop, start by learning the names of all the employees...
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:10 PM
1

I have to agree. Why does the OP really care what she's up to.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:09 PM
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Don't "date", try "hanging out" instead. Its less formal and less complicated...
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:06 PM
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I used the "I didn't think you needed a chaperone... are you that wild and crazy?" line once. It got my point across...
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:05 PM
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For starters, read this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People Then, start to practice on the people you see everyday.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:00 PM
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There have been a few incidents lately where my wife I stopped reading here. Get out while you still can bro... it never gets any better, in fact, it only gets worse... but then I get angry and try to point out her bad behavior which doesn't help. Let me tell you what I did. I just left the house. One day, I grew a set of balls, and in the middle of one of her rants, I slowly grabbed my keys, told her where I was going... and just walked out. I'm looking for a general understanding of how to eva…
/r/askTRP06/09/17 05:52 PM
1

You just ask her to hang out again?
/r/askTRP06/09/17 05:51 PM
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so how do I respond to " I miss you" Can't wait to see you when you come back. There... that was easy...
/r/askTRP06/09/17 05:48 PM
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would an apology even help? Why, in Gods name, would you apologize? You did nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 05:47 PM
3

you need a reason? LOL.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 05:44 PM
1

What do you think I should do in this situation? Nothing. Sadly, he probably can't be helped... which is why he is where he is... So don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 05:42 PM
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The very next day she text and said "it was really fun, but can we just leave it at that? I don't want anyone to get hurt or uncomfortable" ... Did you offer to meet her again to discuss it? Did you then tell her that you were not going to be hurt or be uncomfortable about it? That clearly there is an attraction here, and that it would be wrong to just ignore it, or make believe it doesn't exist? And that without any strings or preconceived notions, lets just see where it can go? or did you just…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 03:34 PM
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You can't stop her form having sex, so make sure she completely understands the risks and how to minimize them. Especially the STD side of things. If she is going to be sexually active with multiple guys, she will need to get tested on a regular basis...
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:52 PM
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Forgive everybody and everything - and do it for yourself first. Then your wife. Wise words! The only thing we have in this life are our precious minutes - each one that passes, you never get back. Forgive yourself for the time lost, don't waste another minute on something that is just going to waste another one. You could be dead tomorrow, so live each day like its could be your last, and leave nothing undone... Make a list of things that make YOU happy. /u/chachaChad Do this today! I would als…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 10:53 AM
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I worry about my kids but somehow they'll be alright. Don't worry about the kids, they will be fine. They live and learn. So should you. Its time for you to work on you. Make a plan and start you new life today. Like I said above, gym memberships are cheap, and a great way to burn off steam, and feel good about yourself.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 10:49 AM
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Anger will wash over you like a tidal wave. Let it happen Use this energy and direct it into starting some new work out routines. Gym memberships are cheap, and are a great way to burn off steam, build up a better body, and sustain a healthier lifestyle...
/r/askTRP01/09/17 10:47 AM
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be awkward for a while Yes. Be awkward for a while, until you get comfortable and confident, and then its just not awkward anymore (if it ever really was... as most of this is in your head...)
/r/askTRP01/09/17 10:37 AM
2

Are you implying you need to be married to have kids?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:14 PM
1

Avoid toxic people, and get sex from whoever you can... pretty simple rules...
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:10 PM
1

Should I? You pursue whoever you want. I have to wonder though, if you are boring them to death on your first dates, and wondering why they don't follow up for another....
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:08 PM
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It’s going to cost me a fortune Talk to a lawyer and financial planner now. You can plan for this and probabaly manage your money better knowing how the split will take place in the future... Get ahead of this. There may be some legal things that you can be doing with your finances to aid you later on down the line...
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:01 PM
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Own what you said. if you believe she is acting childish, then stand by that. She is looking to control you and keep your feeling hostage... don't fall for it. Be the man.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:56 PM
1

I was\am in a similar situation. I love my kids to death, so I accept the crap I went through to get them, and just plan\live a better life\future.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:53 PM
2

What do I say? "Hey... I just saw you standing here and wanted to come over and say hi... what is your name?". That line has always gotten me a name. Always. So just force your self to get started approaching again.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:48 PM
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The guy who eats like shit, does not exercise, does not take care of himself, gets what he deserves. The guy who eats right, works out, lives an active and exciting life, gets what he deserves. Its surprisingly simple. The choice is yours. One question /u/DazFlow how old are you?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:37 PM
2

Yours is a story that has been told over and over...
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:33 PM
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they probably stay married. The 50% divorce rates will prove you wrong... then stick with her. But the odds are she will not stick with you... haven't you learned anything from this sub?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:19 PM
3

What is with the mass amounts of black pill pussies on this sub Lately? I would bet that fact that school started again, and instead of taking our advice to just get out there, talk to girls, and do things... they are hiding in their rooms, masturbating, playing video games... and posting about their miserable lives here...
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:17 PM
1

Social Anxiety and Approach Anxiety are closely related. Learning to be comfortable approaching girls will have a similar effect when in social situations. Usually, you work on your social issues first... and the girl issue is an added benefit. Here is some great exercises you can do to get over your SA\AA: http://www.christiangreypua.com/beginner-pua-challenge-overcoming-approach-anxiety/ I did something similar where I started approaching and talking to people in retail, cashiers, clerks, wait…
/r/seduction25/08/17 10:58 AM
2

Go. You have nothing to lose, but don't wait around for her... talk to other girls.
/r/seduction25/08/17 10:53 AM
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Its really simple. If you are getting as much real sex as you want from real girls, then jerk off all you want. If you have issues approaching girls and not getting sex... don't waste your time jerking off and use that time to learn how to get girls and get real sex. Its a skill and almost anyone can learn it. Yes, IMHO, jerking off too much will make you complacent with the status quo, and not make you more motivated to meet girls in real life. Everybody will have a different level of how much …
/r/seduction25/08/17 10:45 AM
3

what do you want to accomplish? You didn't answer the question. It was not sarcastic or in jest. I am trying to understand what you want from a first date, what your expectations are...
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:58 PM
2

I think he should try As do I. I think every guy owes it to himself to go for it when they are interested in a girl. that he is really misreading the situation Maybe he is, but there is only one way to find out. He makes his move, and her reaction to his action, will be all they need...
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:56 PM
2

You have to consider sample bias. The bulk of the guys signing up for these boot camps, have issues. Some have serious issues. While some, its just a matter of not knowing what to say or how to say it, for others, there are severe mental and\or physiological issues that they need help with.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:54 PM
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If you don't want to kiss or get sexual on the date... what do you want to accomplish?
/r/seduction24/08/17 01:52 PM
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Why is she still with him? Most girls will not leave an unhappy or unsatisfied relationship until something better comes along. They try to work it out, stick it out, hope things will change, wait for tomorrow... They believe sometimes that the crappy relationship is their fault, that they caused it, that they need to fix it, and that they must stay and try... Thats why they stay...
/r/seduction24/08/17 01:46 PM
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Or go with a full on ignore, to see if it riles her to change her mind? Ignore her words, and continue to flirt and escalate... In fact, you need to double down on them. Your actions (the flirts and innocent touches) , and her reaction to them, will tell you all you need to know. our messages are getting a little out of hand for someone who "belongs" to someone Nobody belongs to anyone else. If this is really such a good match, with you and her, then you owe it to both of you to find out how goo…
/r/seduction24/08/17 01:32 PM
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You want to get the girl talking, its about her, not you... You ask her about her... Just Ask more what questions, as what is better and less attack-like then asking why... I will also add: how, as in how do they feel about [a topic of conversation] Learn to ask open ended questions, that don't end in a yes, no, maybe, fine, ok... Calibrate your penetrating questions accordingly. Smile when she answers and use the phrase "tell me more". Don't be afraid to break through conversational norms and g…
/r/seduction24/08/17 01:26 PM
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You laugh, but I have gone up to girls in bars and said "hey... can you help us with a little social experiment... me any my friend here have a bet going.... :)" ? It almost always works to get a conversation going... I can't recall ever having that line backfire... Eventually, you realize, its not what you say... its how you say it, that matters. Just being able to boldly walk up to a girl, or girls in a group, to smile (I tilt my head and smirk), to look them all dead in the eyes... and say so…
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:42 AM
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My Story. I was a very shy, insecure, quiet, nerd in High School, got picked on a lot. I had nerdy friends, we did nerdy things, no sports, no after school activities... and no girls. I did not go to my prom. I hated my school and hated my life. I did manage to date, if the girl made the first move, which was rare. Needless to say, I did not date much. Many years later (33 years later...) while doing some research on my issues, I realized I had paralyzing Approach Anxiety and Social Anxiety. I w…
/r/seduction22/08/17 11:22 AM
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Here are a few videos to get you started with flirting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_dUqlMkFx8 TrippAdvice How to Flirt over TXT https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ErOwia3Ep8 TrippAdvice 6 TXT mistakes https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9BUiX1zOiGE TrippAdvice How to TXT a girl https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmEcPPJMtH0 Tripp Advice Flirting – Verbally and Physically https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LP9zilOUGZ8 Tripp Advice How to Flirt with a Girl In fact, just about anything from Tripp's chann…
/r/seduction22/08/17 10:28 AM
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Thats good. So maybe you should raise the bar now, seeing how easy its is to approach and talk to girls, and to get a few numbers...
/r/seduction21/08/17 03:33 PM
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Not trolling, looking for the actual "crime" from the OP. Approaching people is not a crime, but harassment is, for that we agree. The story sounded way to wrong, obvious, and detailed to be believable to me, so I was a little edgy in my response to get more details from the poster. It sounded like the typical PUAs are bad story, with a twist, and I just wasn't buying it. Considering the OP has a limited posting history (5 posts over 8 months) to support their credibility or their stand or previ…
/r/seduction21/08/17 03:25 PM
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I (M/47) had Approach Anxiety, for 33+ years.... A few years ago, I got sick of who and what I was, got tired of living in fear, and had done something similar by accident, where I forced my self to talk to people in retail. Then I focused on just girls in retail. I forced my self to just say hi and ask "how is your day going?" to every cashier, clerk, waitress and hostess I could find. I managed to train my brain, after 44 years of life, that its OK to talk to girls, and that some will ignore y…
/r/seduction21/08/17 02:11 PM
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i kept laughing imaging things in my head with the flow of the article Keep that happy feeling when doing these exercises. Life should be fun, always, even when learning new things... like talking to girls... Have fun with it, be silly, enjoy it... At some point, in the near future, you will realize that you just don't feel anxious anymore , that you don't really feel nervous anymore, you feel... happy... silly... content...because you know it will only turn out one of two ways... And both are O…
/r/seduction21/08/17 01:30 PM
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I have amassed quite a collection of video links while I was on my journey... I can gladly post a few to help you on your journey. Now that you have the summary on WHAT to talk about, I will attach some links (later) on how to flirt and escalate (making the move).
/r/seduction21/08/17 01:22 PM
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How do you dress, you need to show some skin to get some guys attention. Highlight your curves. Dress to impress.
/r/seduction21/08/17 12:12 PM
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How can I avoid small talk in conversation? Ask better questions. Open ended questions that don't end in a yes, no, maybe, fine, OK. Questions that begin with "What": • WHAT do you like about that? • WHAT made you want that? • WHAT scares you about that? • Essentially any question that uncovers “What makes you feel that way?” or “What makes you think that way?” WHAT tends to work better than WHY because WHAT feels like you’re curious and WHY can sometimes feel like an attack. “WHY do you like th…
/r/seduction21/08/17 12:07 PM
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I noticed that i find it diffucult to approach most (or all) of the girls You need to practice approaching all girls (big, small, old, young), probably all people in general. Maybe this can help: http://www.christiangreypua.com/beginner-pua-challenge-overcoming-approach-anxiety/ I have also done the same in a mall, where you go into every store, and talk to every cashier, clerk, waitress, and hostess you can find and just say hi and ask them how their day is going. People in retail are paid to b…
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:58 AM
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Ask her about her. Ask open ended questions that can't be answered with a yes, no, maybe, fine, ok... https://youtu.be/2GtcM_ob1Mw?t=23m55s The point is to to find common interests... How to quickly find common interests (not the way you're thinking) Don't get stuck in polite conversation. There's no "skin" invested in it. You've got to get at least a little bit naked (so to speak) in order to make friends with someone. Here's how you do it: We humans have just 4¬-8 basic emotions, depending on …
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:47 AM
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considering we were both talking about taking it slow and see where we could go). Your "actions" were not in line with what you were talking about. If you were indeed talking about "taking it slow", then you go and blurt out something, then apologize about it... You lied to her, you lied to yourself, and you came off weak when you apologized. In her eyes you are a weak liar who doesn't know what he wants. Next time, don't do that. Hold your frame. If you like her, then act like it. NEVER APOLOGI…
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:32 AM
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Then this is just the exercise for you: http://www.christiangreypua.com/beginner-pua-challenge-overcoming-approach-anxiety/ Seriously, go out and do this. Today. Follw the plan for Day 1. Let us know how it worked for you.
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:28 AM
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I'm worried it was a "one and done" situation Why worry. It was what it was. Why would you expect more?
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:26 AM
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We exchange numbers So guess this was a success? I am confused on why you question how successful this was?
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:24 AM
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I'm grabbing coffee with a girl I like and going for a walk. I've made the mistake of not really flirting with her before hand How many times have you been out with her?
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:19 AM
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I don't know if she thinks we are going on a date or just hanging out a friends. It could be both, there isn't a difference. She is spending time with you, so she likes you on some level. She trusts you enough to be with you. Is my assumption generally correct? Is it almost impossible to escalate with someone you're just hanging out with (not on a date)? False. You can flirt and escalate at any time. The longer you wait, the harder it gets, due to you acting like a friend, instead of someone who…
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:05 AM
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Yes. But can you still do it if you don't speak the same language?
/r/seduction11/08/17 03:12 PM
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Some great points here: 4) Whenever you need a favor, open with “I need your help.” I use this in bars all the time. "Hi...can you and your friend help me resolve something with my friend here..." It almost always leads to a great conversation...
/r/seduction11/08/17 01:00 PM
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Go to youtube and search for "how to flirt with a girl". I bet there are over 1M videos to help you...
/r/seduction11/08/17 12:17 PM
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5 seconds is a bit long. 1-2 seconds for starters... then work your way up depending on her reaction to your actions... Its same with flirting as it is with escalating. You act, she reacts, you monitor and either proceed or back off for a bit and try again later (maybe).
/r/seduction11/08/17 12:15 PM
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Did you ever think that maybe she has a (secret) thing for your guy friend... thats maybe why she told him... Simple innocent touch is not a bad thing...
/r/seduction11/08/17 12:12 PM
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SOmeone needs to write a post about how to "flirt and escalate" when you don't know the language... because the language of love is almost universal. The eye contact, the smiles, the touching, the actual motions of sex... is the same. The same actions that work in one country will work in another... someone just needs to break it down to its core so you can do the actions without explicit knowledge of the vocabulary... Any takers?
/r/seduction11/08/17 12:09 PM
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Unfortunately, when you tell some of these guys that are living in their fantasy land of porn, that they should try and stop it, and that their lives could change for the better, their entire reality collapses. I agree with you, 1000% percent, cutting out the porn will change how they look at other people, and how other people look at them. But some guys need to be ready and willing to accept it... And living the lie in their fantasies is just too easy and too addicting to stop...
/r/seduction11/08/17 12:00 PM
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it's like hypnotism in a way as long as she holds it or keeps coming back to it. Shhhhh. You are telling all of our secrets! LOL
/r/seduction11/08/17 11:57 AM
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Have your cry... then get up and realize that this is the reality of the world, and what you are crying over... was the lie. The sooner you accept that this is just how it is... the quicker you can get on with your life.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 02:44 PM
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Hasn't it already been proven, that under the correct set of circumstances... everyone will cheat?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 02:35 PM
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AWALT Selection Bias My answer is both...
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 02:32 PM
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Most guys are just average... not ugly. I have a friend who is genuinely, and self admittedly ugly. He had 1/2 his fucking face burned off in Afganistan... but he still gets chicks due to his attitude and charm... Its not your looks bro...its your attitude, and your lack of knowledge, that is holding you back... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbxinUJcLGg Watch that video and learn something...
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:01 PM
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Find out what your problem is and work on that instead of drugging your shitty life away. Couldn't say it any better...
/r/askTRP09/08/17 01:52 PM
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I had a problem with full smiles. No clue why. Unless I was laughing my ass off, I really just couldn't pull off a genuine, show your teeth, full smile. The "James Bond Smirk" as I call it, changed my life!
/r/askTRP09/08/17 01:47 PM
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Invite other girls (even if they are just friends), take pics with you and these girls doing fun things, smiling, laughing, playing...post to social media so the first girl (or her friends) can see. Bingo.
/r/seduction04/08/17 07:54 PM
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You do need to figure out what you need to study well. In his example, he studies in 15-30 minute chunks, then gives a reward (food). Thats what works for him. I prefer 90 minute chunks. When I was recently studying for a certification, I found that I studied best at 4:30 am in the morning! believe that? After years of trying to stay up late to study but falling asleep with books in my bed, it occurred to me to go to sleep early and wake up early to study. That worked for me. Find your grove, an…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:10 PM
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Practice. Practice on cashiers, clerks, waitresses and hostesses. You do this until it becomes a habit. When you go out to approach, do some warm up approaches before you meet your target. This is how you get you head in the zone.
/r/seduction26/07/17 05:30 PM
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You were never in the friend-zone. She always liked you and was willing to fuck you. The friend zone is very different...
/r/seduction26/07/17 05:28 PM
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Yes, absolutely. Take to everyone, and just game the hot ones.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 06:52 PM
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Why not find all the single and available guys where you work and go out and socialize with them? Call it the Secret Single STEM Club. The SSS Club for short. /s Most of the STEM guys I knew (when I was a people manager) were always willing to go out and drink? [Sadly, I was married and not in a cheating mood yet...] I mean, I don't understand why this is so hard for you guys. Are you going to where the girls are? Are you dressing right? Do you look fit? Have the money to spend on a good time? A…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 04:44 PM
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This is overly complicated. Don’t compliment a girl on her looks right away, it comes off as superficial. Her style, her values, her work ethic, taste in music, movies, personality. (Nice, giving, kind sweet) Compliment the actions. Not the things she can’t change or has no control over. What is she good at, is she unique at. What does she seem to be interested in. Don't compliment her looks right away, instead, ask about something she is holding, wearing, or doing. (You want to discuss somethin…
/r/seduction18/07/17 02:50 PM
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Same story. I work in IT. Today, 25 years later, after never staying more then 3-5 years in once place, I am a contract IT Infrastructure Project Manager... making more then double what he quoted...
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 02:37 PM
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Back in the day, leaving a firm was unheard of and the guys who left to found Fairchild Semiconductor were known as The Traitorous Eight.1 Today, corporate America prevents this type of mutiny from high ranking employees with Employee Contracts and Non-Compete Agreements that pretty much prevent you from working for a competitor. https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2015/feb/19/apple-lawsuit-poaching-engineers-electric-car The engineers jumped ship to pursue similar programs at Apple, in viola…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 02:34 PM
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Girl...I am telling you, you got off lucky. With a guy you just met on Tinder, to get drunk, miss your train home, and get a hotel room... the expectation was sex. I am just being real girl. Next time, you may not be so lucky to be with such a nice, passive guy...
/r/seduction17/07/17 11:51 AM
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if im being my natural self You want to be your natural self dude. If you are confident in who and what you are, and have the correct body language and eye contact when you say what you say... it come off as more genuine and have a better impact. Seriously.
/r/seduction15/07/17 01:16 PM
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I learned a lot researching some of the famous PUAs like Neil Strauss. Not that I wanted to be like him, but that I could be like him. The guy is a short, scrawny, little man, who could hookup with 10s all he wanted. And he is the first to admit this... Now, if you look at his before and after pics, he did seriously improve his image, but he is still a 7 at best. His looks, as well as some of the other PUAs, proved that its not all about looks, its about everything else you do and say. So just k…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 01:11 PM
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Should I just give up on dating 8.5+? Why give up exactly? So her friends might not think you are hot, you have other redeeming qualities that allow you to date hot women... so you keep doing it...
/r/askTRP14/07/17 06:11 PM
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Do you have friends? Start there. Then socialize with said friends. When out with friends, approach a girl you are interested in and just make eye contact, smile and say hi. Start with that. Let us know how that works.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 06:08 PM
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Any advice on not fucking up Yes, ask out other girls. Sure, you can still pursue this one, but don't stop here. You need to always be busy, with multiple girls, that way, if one is busy or blows you off, its no big deal, and you just move on to the next one. Make sense? Plus, the more you date, the better you get. So when you are out with a girl you like, you are as cool as a cucumber, knowing that you have abundance, and you are the prize.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 05:14 PM
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My point is, a guy decides if he could fuck a girl in less then a second. Is she hot or not? Yes, the question, if he would fuck her takes a bit longer...
/r/askTRP14/07/17 05:08 PM
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do you just ignore them or make a move? Wrong question. The correct question is "Am I interested in this girl?" If you are, you go up and talk to her. If not, you ignore her. Its easy. Men decide within 1 second if they think the girl is cute and fuck-able. If you agree, then you approach them.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:37 PM
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You don't.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 01:42 PM
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I always (offer to) pay. The girl usually makes a point to say something. I then tell her she can buy us dessert or ice cream or something. She almost always agrees. This has the added effect of moving the date forward, to a new location, where we can sit even closer, get more physical, etc etc The only times I had a girl pay her half, was when the date went really bad... and she was pissed... lol.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 01:41 PM
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Dude, you know that some girls are easy and some are not. You don't need to be a celebrity, you need to know game and how to just keep the interaction moving towards sex. Its not that hard. And if you go out with enough girls, you'll find the easy ones...
/r/askTRP14/07/17 01:37 PM
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Yes they do. But they don't care or act on it like a guy does. To them, its not a problem or a concern. Now, to a guy, its everything. If a guy knows a girl likes him, he has to act. Either to engage, or push her away. Women do not do that. They are more then content to do nothing... And so the orbiters continue to circle, while the shy ones crash and burn. All the while, the girl is clueless and un-concerned. Thats why, we say, over and over, that the guy must make the move, the guy must lead, …
/r/askTRP14/07/17 01:33 PM
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Save up and move to an area with more jobs.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:44 PM
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Change your routines. Set the date, and execute the plan to make you a better man. Only you can change you. There is a much better life out there, if you are willing to try. Acknowledge that you are addicted to the drugs, porn and video games, and you compensate by over eating... Get help for the addictions first. Seriously, the video games and drugs will be easier to kick, then the porn. That may take a year or more to eliminate...
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:42 PM
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but my face is probably a 2/10 (no deformities, just "ugly"). Most guys are just average. If you keep thinking you are different, and worse; ugly by definition, then chances are, that attitude is coming out to the girl. And... even if you are, truly ugly... this guy beats you hands down, and he managed to get married: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbxinUJcLGg You need to own who and what you are... See... I know a vet who is super social, is a blast to hang with, and gets girls all the time. G…
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:25 PM
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I do not believe its a conscious choice for the girl. I used to be a shy orbiter. Many years later, after I crashed out of my shell, I had a frank conversation about it with my former crush. She was shocked, sad, and said she had no clue. She said, she just never really thought about it. But she acknowledged, deep down, she liked the attention, even if she knew nothing sexual was going to come out of it.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:17 PM
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I basically have a hard time being my genuine self around people and getting people to accept that without being repulsed by me. See, you didn't retain what the book said. Its not about you, its about how you make other people feel by asking them questions about them. Read the book again. Seriously bro.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:12 PM
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You say you did that one already. I would believe you need to do it again. and again. Seriously, you probably need to read it 10 or 15 times or more. Shocked? Don't be. Until you can recite a summary of each chapter, without looking, you haven't absorbed all the info in that book. Because once you can summarize each chapter in your head, on demand, you can start applying what you learned to most real life situations. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:11 PM
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how I should act when girl friends , dates or my friends bring it up? You flirt and escalate on them, immediately. They are identifying you as a sexual machine, so you then work them over...
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:06 PM
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Finally, I mostly have family, close friends and LTRs on FB, and I mostly have everyone else on IG. Along with this, I have my IG settings completely public, and I have my FB settings as private as they can get for anyone other than my FB friends. This avoids situations of a girl deciding to go nuts and tell my mom I'm gay and she's pregnant or some goofy shit if something goes sideways. Solid advice here ^
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:03 PM
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do you guys think it is necessary to maintain a bare minimum level of presence online - just to stay relevant among your friends? Yes, I firmly believe this. As a 47 year old male, who likes younger girls... they all want to be able to "check me out" and check out my friends. Its expected. FB makes that easy... too easy in fact, since you can't verify any of the info that is posted...
/r/askTRP14/07/17 12:00 PM
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I'm just feeling like I'm really lacking something in life. Meditate. Figure out what makes you really happy in this life, and then just do it.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 11:54 AM
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Work out. Lift. Learn a new language. I suggest Russian...
/r/askTRP14/07/17 11:54 AM
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Are these obvious signs of interest? It doesn't matter. What matters is: "Are you interested in her?" If I ask her out I wanna do it in person. Yes, in person is always better. Just plan something and then turn to her and start a conversation with her about anything (talk about your summer plans outside of school then ask her about her plans), then say "hey...I am going to the [insert event here] next weekend, you should come with me...I think we'd have a good time...". Plan something cool and e…
/r/askTRP14/07/17 11:46 AM
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Cut all dependent ties from your family, and start living on your own, living your own life.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 11:42 AM
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Don't get drunk. Seriously be careful here. You can carry around a drink, so you don't look out of place. Try to talk to everybody, sure, but... figure out who the VIPs are, and approach them (the host, the hosts family and friends, the alpha of the group, the unique people, the good looking girls, the social guy with all the connections, the important people).
/r/askTRP14/07/17 11:34 AM
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Then get a new gf dude. You are young, and life short. And sex with a girl is much better then sex with yourself...
/r/seduction14/07/17 11:25 AM
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Here are some videos that will help with the flirting and escalating parts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_dUqlMkFx8 TrippAdvice How to Flirt over TXT https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmEcPPJMtH0 Tripp Advice Flirting – Verbally and Physically https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo TrippAdvice How to touch for the first time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoBDe8gr0VQ Tripp Advice How to touch a girl before you kiss her https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wa9j9ZcJGRw Tripp Advice How to go fr…
/r/seduction14/07/17 11:24 AM
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No... but... when the first thing you say is about her looks, the vibe starts out with a sexual tone. And if you are not confident, cool, calm, and charming, he can't pull it off. If his body language, his eye contact, his smile, does not match what he says, it falls flat. And the girl is not interested. So while some guys (confident guys) can pull off the "your cute" line, most can't, and need to build some rapport with the girl, first.
/r/seduction14/07/17 11:00 AM
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And that may happen. You might need to build more rapport with the girls, getting them more involved in the conversations, before you go for the number. This is a great book, for learning to talk to people, and getting them to like you: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People Simply said, if you can ask the right questions, and get people to feel good about themselves, they will like you for it.
/r/seduction14/07/17 10:54 AM
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Great. Let us know how it works for you.
/r/seduction14/07/17 10:22 AM
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Then seriously consider the Toastmasters class. I have heard great things.
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:21 PM
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generally be in a public place and be short in case someone will want to leave Usually, yes, but I assume others will be around? should do something else for the first date? honestly, for a first date, anything you can do, where you can both talk and get to know each other, where you can flirt and escalate a bit, is what you want. I usually suggest ice cream and a walk in a park, zoo, tourist attraction type stuff. Nothing expensive. Movies are bad because you can't talk. Formal dinners are usua…
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:18 PM
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Whether it does or doesn't... it sure feels good... And the better you feel about your self, the better you will be at anything you do.
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:14 PM
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Great. So work on you then with this time. Get to a gym and bulk up a bit. Learn to cook and eat better, sleep better. Learn a new language, then plan a trip to that country in two years... [Personally I would choose Russian...] :)
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:12 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JTZkyGSMQo The Game - Neil Strauss [Audiobook ENG]
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:09 PM
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Confidence!
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:08 PM
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What else can I do to improve my skills? I have heard "Toastmasters" really helps. I might also suggest Dale Carnagie's book: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People There is some great parts in here on how to talk to people, and how to ask them about them, to get them to be more interested in you. Simply said, if you can ask the right questions, and say the right things to make people feel important, they will love you for it. I have tried most of them but I feel l…
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:05 PM
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Depends on how you much you think it matters. Some girls will not care, others will. Its more about meeting the girl and making the connection.
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:01 PM
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How to know when a girl you know likes you enough that you should ask them out on a date, You don't. Thats why you ask them out. Then you show them how you feel by flirting and escalating. Thats how you show them. How they react to your action, shows you how they feel. How to act on a date: should I pay? Doesn't matter. I always offer to pay, but some girls like to pay their share... i tell them to buy me dessert or ice cream somewhere... and we move the date forward. Don't get hung up on this. …
/r/seduction13/07/17 05:55 PM
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everytime i approach girls and tell them they are cute nothinf comes out of it. Don't do that. Find something unique about them, something they are holding, wearing, or doing, and compliment that, and then ask them to tell you more about it. You don't want to compliment a girls looks so soon. If you offer a genuine compliment on something she did, worked hard for, or created, it has more impact. She can't change her looks, plus, every other guy tells her she is good looking. You want to be diffe…
/r/seduction13/07/17 05:42 PM
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I think I'm making a B-line for the friend zone. So then change that. You have the ability if you are willing to try. Wanna know how? You flirt with her. And you escalate with her (when you are with her). Here is an example of how to flirt over TXT: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_dUqlMkFx8 TrippAdvice How to Flirt over TXT https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmEcPPJMtH0 Tripp Advice Flirting – Verbally and Physically https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LP9zilOUGZ8 Tripp Advice How to Flirt with a Gir…
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:56 PM
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I have told him before that my needs aren't being met Then you can try couples counseling. But honestly, at 18, you deserve better...
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:53 PM
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when you're not considered attractive by women to begin with. OMG, please stop thinking this. Seriously. Girls do not care about looks as much as you think they care about looks. Watch this video, please. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wLtFvC0yAsw And if you still think looks matter, watch it again and again...
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:38 PM
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Girls are "interested" in Cool and Confident guys, that live fun and exciting lives, who do fun and exciting things with other fun and exciting people. That is the adventure that most girls want to be a part of.
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:35 PM
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Well... then it sounds like he really just isn't that interested in sex. That is sad, for both of you. You may have to sit him down and tell him that he is not meeting your needs as a women, and see how he takes it. due to him messing up his health by eating and sleeping bad. You may also have to lead by eating right and working out. If he loves you (and he loves himself) he will join you and change his life for the better. If he is lazy, he will not.
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:30 PM
1

You really need to highlight your post with some Font and Bold Enhancements. Seriously, its hard to read without it.
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:26 PM
1

I don't know if she did this to help me out or if she did this because she is interested in me. It doesn't matter. What matters is that the next time you and her hang out, that you flirt and escalate a bit. "Hi! I'm a little caught up on campus at the moment but another time for sure!! " No clue what this is Its an excuse. Whether real or not, it doesn't matter. What matters is that you follow up in a few days or so. She did say "another time"...so hold on to that for now. But tomorrow I am goin…
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:20 PM
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You can't change him. I also will assume he watches a bunch of porn. (you may not know). You can always try and get some lingerie...
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:16 PM
2

I finished the 'seddit 100 set challenge' and had one day where I approached 30 girls Here is a dirty secret. At its core, its a numbers game. If you only approach like 2 girls a year, you may never find that special someone. You need to approach lots of girls to find those that want to talk back to you. Of those that talk back to you, a few will give you their number. Of all those numbers, a few will be willing to go on a date with you. Of all those dates, a few will be willing to date you agai…
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:13 PM
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I was always very scared of telling girls that I was into them That's because you don't. You show a girl you are interested in them. And you do this by flirting and escalating. very comfortable talking to people or starting conversations with anyone So you can approach and open girls. Thats great. Now you just need to learn to flirt and escalate from the start. Do you know how to flirt and escalate?
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:09 PM
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Since she already reached out to you, you should contact her ASAP.
/r/seduction13/07/17 02:03 PM
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I don't believe in the "bros before hos" mantra, but if thats the only thing stopping you... let me tell you a likely future... She is going to cheat on your friend. If she isn't already. So it might as well be with you.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:22 AM
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they buy shit Let me fill you in in a big little secret. Women buy stuff. More stuff then men. In fact, I read that women make the majority of the purchases. Like 60%-80% of the purchases are made by women. Now, think about that. In a free trade, free enterprise society... the system (corporations) are going to favor the consumer. The consumer is a woman. Ergo, our entire system now favors the woman. It wasn't always like this, but as women got more expendable income, they spent it, and the syst…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:19 AM
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Dude, from the way you described it, it sounds like she was into you. But...I bet she had another guy, maybe an ex, and she picked him. Thats how it goes sometimes...
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:08 AM
1

Does "love" even exist?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:04 AM
1

She is probably doing more then that, if she says the things you said.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:03 AM
1

That was a dumb thing to say. (IMHO, you implied she was a slut) You should have just convinced her to hang out with you, where you then flirt and escalate.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:00 AM
1

Work on you. Meditate to find out what you think the ideal man is, and then put plan together to become that person.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 10:58 AM
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Why don't you flirt and escalate and find out.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 10:56 AM
1

is there anything i can do about it right now? Depends on how much expendable income you have. I assume, you don't have much as a student...
/r/askTRP11/07/17 10:31 AM
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I've worked my ass off for years and years to get to where I am, might as well take advantage of it Advantage of what exactly? All your hard work and studying? As you realize, they don't care about that. They only care about what you can do for them today.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 10:29 AM
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You need to be the crazy, fun, always doing exciting shit type of person. And then just take them along for the ride. My words exactly. OP needs to be the fun and exciting guy, who does fun and exciting things, with other fun and exciting people. The younger girls (some who still don't even really manage money yet) can't even comprehend what your future will be like. They only care about the here and now.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 10:26 AM
1

I had social anxiety, and a crippling fear of rejection... for like 30+ years. Eventually, 3 years back I started to follow this: Go to the mall, go into every store, find every cashier, clerk, waitress and hostess you can find, and start by saying hi to them. Seriously. Every Store. Every Cashier, Clerk, Waitress and Hostess. A simple "Hi...how is your day today" would work. Then you move on to "Are they keeping you busy today?" or other small talk. People in the Service Industry must engage wi…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:59 AM
1

Cut out the porn. Seriously. Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction. http://www.healthline.com/health/erectile-dysfunction/porn-induced-ed
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:54 AM
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whenever it's someone that says something that is extremely disrespectful and plain mean, I have no clue whatsoever on how to respond. Like you, I had a narciss mom. That said, when ever someone pushed me over the edge, I would call them out, and then tell them to "Shut the Fuck Up".
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:52 AM
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Lift harder, max up appearance and approach more. It's numbers game, and you have to put in more effort than most, but don't let that define negative thinking Solid advice.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:46 AM
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If you feel uncomfortable, then you feel what you feel. Personally, I don't care what my GFs post these days. Honestly, the sexier the better, to me. If she feels like she wants to show off her body... who am I to tell her no?
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:44 AM
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Interesting list, but you are looking at things from red colored glasses... you need to look at them from blue tinted glasses. I know, because I was this guy. Had 2 LTRs (led to marriages), and both times I sold my soul to the devil, gave up my friends, gave up my hobbies, and gave up my dreams... to be with the girl. I did it due to fear. Thats it. One word. FEAR. Fear of being alone, fear of loosing her, fear of not being good enough, fear of not being able to get anyone better, fear of confli…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:35 AM
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/u/RPStone is right. Listen to what he said, watch that video a few times, get the 3% Man book and read it, like 20 times. Seriously. 20 times.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 02:14 PM
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"hey, if you're not interested thats cool, but at least be genuine about your actions so i can go back to my daily programming". Do NOT say that. It comes off as very whiny and needy. Like really... "If your not interested..." What kind of question is that? What do you consider the appropriate answer? [that's a rhetorical question....I don't want an answer, I want you to think about how it sounds].
/r/askTRP07/07/17 02:13 PM
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...to see her response. So you want to play games.... that's very manly of you. How can I recover from my actions or spike a bit more interest? How about you plan a nice, fun, and exciting date for you and her. So when she comes back, you have something all fun and exciting for her to be interested in doing. Also, keep in mind, you called her a plate, who became your gf, who seems to have gotten bored, then went on vacation for a while. Seems like she is back to being a plate...
/r/askTRP07/07/17 02:08 PM
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I don't know if I should go back to school or not. No, don't bother. You know what they want, they want experience. So go out and find an entry lever HR Generalist type of position. Even a bad one, will get you the experience you need to move ahead. No need to waste more money, time, and get into more debt. You won't make any more money, so why spend it on yet another worthless educational certificate...
/r/askTRP07/07/17 02:04 PM
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All is fair in love and war. I love that line, and use it all the time...
/r/askTRP07/07/17 02:01 PM
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You act on how she reacts, to your flirts and your escalation. If she didn't mention the BF, or outright said she didn't have one... then he clearly is not an obstacle. Why are you making this an obstacle and a problem?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 01:58 PM
1

There are more satisfying ways to live. Such as...?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:49 PM
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Cause its not true 100% of the time, all people are different, and act differently. But for most girls, it works. If the girl looks down, then back, she could be interested. If she looks away or to the side, she is not.
/r/seduction07/07/17 10:28 AM
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Because its never her fault. Ever. Even when she cheats.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:32 PM
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If you have Approach Anxiety, there is a great write up today on a different sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/6lg5b7/9_small_steps_to_become_a_social_person_when/ You start with Step 0 and Step 1. Simply said, you need to force yourself to get out and just say hi to cashiers, clerks, waitresses and hostesses. Start with that, let me know how it goes for you.
/r/seduction06/07/17 06:25 PM
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Make a plan to do something fun and interesting, then she might be more inclined to come over.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 05:45 PM
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So then figure out what is stopping you. Do you have Approach Anxiety? Do you get a bunch of first dates, but no second dates? How many girls have you asked out in the last 2 months? Identify your issues, and we can help you...
/r/seduction06/07/17 05:17 PM
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Put the phone\tablets away... https://www.cnet.com/how-to/stop-your-gadgets-from-keeping-you-awake-at-night/
/r/askTRP06/07/17 05:13 PM
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This ^
/r/askTRP06/07/17 05:10 PM
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If I want to fuck them...and they don't want to fuck me...I can't be friends with them. A solid point, but there are rare situations where you want\could fuck them, but they can't or won't. Example 1. I have this lesbian friend. She is beautiful, but it ain't never going to happen, we flirt all the time... I have a blast with her and her lover... but she is as gay as it comes. Example 2. I have a friend who is has a BF. She is hot. So while I am not making any serious moves on her, I do plan to,…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 05:05 PM
1

I have met and hooked up with many "friends of friends"...
/r/askTRP06/07/17 04:58 PM
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I don't give a fuck, but, sadly, some people seem to want to prove a point in their lives that they matter, and to those people you must follow their rules.... and in this case, he wants you to say please...
/r/askTRP06/07/17 04:57 PM
2

How about you go out, make some new friends and socialize more?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 04:53 PM
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A general rule is that if the girl looks down, then back, she could be interested. If she looks away or to the side, she is not.
/r/seduction06/07/17 04:07 PM
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Here is a video of Kezia in class talking about how to ask open ended questions, the kind that don't end in a Yes, No, Fine, OK, type of answer. https://youtu.be/2GtcM_ob1Mw?t=23m55s A lot of shy guys have problems like this, where they just need some training on how to ask better questions and how to keep conversations moving. I really like her stuff. To me, a lot of the male coaches come off very gamey and maybe a bit much on the PUA side. (pick up artist) But to hear a women explain it, to me…
/r/seduction06/07/17 04:03 PM
1

Are you dating as many girls as you want, and having sex as often as you want? Yes, these programs actually help.
/r/seduction06/07/17 03:58 PM
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Kezia Nobel is a female dating coach for guys: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3814209/The-former-model-charging-men-4-000-WEEK-teach-chat-women.html Most of her advice is spot on too...
/r/seduction06/07/17 03:54 PM
1

I should probably prepare for that Yes.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:42 PM
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I come from the small percentage that says... Go for it.. what are you waiting for? She isn't your manager, and she doesn't work for you... so stop reading all this other crap about not crapping where you work and go out with her and bang her. What are you waiting for? Seriously?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 03:01 PM
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Sex robots + VR Technology will be the end for some men. Think about it for a min, Kim Kardashian licenses her image (and body shape) to be displayed in VR Tech, while the sex doll handles all the "physical contact"... Add a monthly subscription to get new images and body molds every month... some guys will never leave home ever again... and will be stuck in their Blue Pill reality for the rest of their lives...
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 12:48 PM
1

Why not?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 11:13 AM
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as well as get my life back on track You need to get your life back on track first. While it is possible, it is not likely, that you will ever get her back. And, although its hard to see it now, you don't want her back. She moved on, its time you did too...
/r/askTRP05/07/17 04:34 PM
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I actually have a bunch of girls, who I am not sexually attracted to, who I consider my friends. So yes, I am not so shallow that I can't be friends with someone just because they are a girl. And...I have have been setup, more then once, by some of my female friends, with other girls, some who just wanted to hook up, and others that wanted more. So I have benefited greatly from having friends who are girls. I won't even mention my lesbian girl friends... that might just be too much of a concept …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 04:22 PM
2

Life is 10% theory and 90% action. You proved that!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 02:49 PM
2

This notion that marriage is this horrible thing for men blah blah blah is BS. Not trying to be confrontational. But its not BS bro, its a statistic from most industrialized nations that up to 50% of all marriages fail. Those are not good odds. Maybe you'll be better side of the 50%, maybe not. Only time, and another 20 years will tell...
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 02:34 PM
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Anybody that leaves their keys in their vehicle, unattended, is either clueless or a dipshit. Careful sunshine. Some of us actually do live in safe areas (somewhat rural) where we can keep our doors unlocked and our keys in our cars. Its a choice I made, where to live. For extra protection...I also have 2 loud dogs that bark up a storm all the time. Do I care about my neighbors getting annoyed at my dogs... not at all. They at least know never to wander on my property without notice...
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 02:04 PM
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You may have to sue her in Civil Court (in the USA).
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 02:01 PM
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It is a nice reality, that I, and many other guys, enjoy. It is truth and freedom my friend. So then why are you here, if you reject the Red Pill methodologies? They work bro, if you can just muster the confidence and assertiveness... You can ask most girls if they are attracted to a man who is passive and indirect, or confident, bold, and direct with what he wants. They will tell you themselves... if you have the courage to ask...
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 01:25 PM
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You learned some great life lessons here... Someday, you may thank her...
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:51 AM
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There is always a grey area. Sometimes you are "just friends" with someone you are indeed interested in. Sometimes the opposite is true, and she likes the guy more. And in those situations, yes, the flirting might be a bit strong, in both directions. But flirting alone will not cause anything to happen, you need the physical escalation to seal the deal. I've had girls, who were friends, that were interested in me, that I just was not into. I always had to keep the physical contact in check.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:44 AM
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I just think it's cheesy to tell a girl she's cute who might not deserve the compliment in the first place Of course. There is no reason you tell a girl you are not attracted to that she is cute. You can't lie. Girls have a good sense of intuition... so their BS detector works pretty well. That's why I say... that they can tell, almost from the start, what your intentions are. If you want to move slow and steady... as long as you stay steady, you could be fine... but also could just be dragging …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:32 AM
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You keep the flirting to a minimum, and almost no escalation or physical contact. So you do all the same things you would as a man, you lead, you setup fun and interesting things to do, you act bold and confident. You just keep anything overly sexual to a minimum.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:22 AM
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Really. Its a solid plan, and it works. What part do you find unbelievable?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:18 AM
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If you want female friends, then by all means, act differently. But sometimes, you are just looking for something else...
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:16 AM
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She'll probably slap you than listen to anything else you have to say I've never been slapped for telling a girl she is cute. Have you actually been slapped?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 11:15 AM
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Conversation pieces seem to work better, even highly meaningless ones But... the really hot ones already know your intentions the moment you looked at them and approached them. You are not fooling them. They know. They always know... The point is to make your intentions known from the start. That way... if the girl really thinks its "cringe-worthy", then you know early on, and you move on, to not waste any time... Like the OP, I am a direct, to the point kinda guy. I have never been in a situati…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 10:46 AM
0

In order to be successful you must be bold and take risks.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 10:58 AM
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You "Fail Your Way to Success".
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 10:51 AM
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but she's never found me attractive Its not about your looks. Never was. Its about your attitude and confidence. You confidence is low and your attitude is defeatist. Currently, she's talking to some weird looking boy Point proven. Any time I'd do something flirty she wouldn't respond Then you are not doing it right. When you flirt, you get a response, either a positive one or a negative one. Go to youtube and search for "how to flirt with a girl". There are 1.7 MILLION fucking replies. Watch th…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 10:29 AM
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Better to do it now... because in 20 years you may find yourself getting passed up for promotions or advancement... just because you don't have it! It doesn't matter what the degree is in... in 20 years no one will care... but they will if you don't have one. So research the cheapest and easiest degree you can get and just do it! Your future self will thank you now...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 10:22 AM
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as long as you don't ever let this girl back into your life in any significant way Please educate me on why this is a bad thing? Why can't he just take her out and bang her, like he clearly always wanted...
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:51 PM
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I told her sure (mistake on my part) Wait? What? Why is this a mistake? Dude, you take her out, you flirt, you escalate, and you fuck her. All in one night. You look at her, and treat her, like you want to fuck her, from the start. You be confident, bold, assertive, and lead her to bed. What part are you stuck on that you think this is a bad thing? [Seriously, we are here to help, not berate you...]
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:47 PM
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After 2 marriages, 2 kids, 2 grand-kids... I have the same feelings about women. At this stage in my life, they are for one thing only. SEX. OP (26) will probably feel the same, just give him another 20 years or so... LOL
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:12 PM
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I am m/47 and would tell my 18 year old self: Start your own business while you are young. Move out of your parents house as soon as you can and live on your own. Do not move in with the girlfriend because its cheaper Finish your education. If you don't like your major, then just change it. Don't give up your friends, family or hobbies for any girl Always have an exit plan Be Bold. Take Risks. Don't make decisions out of fear, make decisions on the possible positive outcomes. Always have condoms…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:08 PM
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I need some advice Here is my 2 cents. Will she still hang out with you? If so, you take her out, and flirt and escalate on her. Treat her like you want to fuck her, right from the start. Look at her like you want to fuck her. Her reactions to your actions will determine the path forward. If she continues to hang with you, smiles at your flirting, and does not pull away from some innocent touches...then you are good to fuck her. Else, you drop her off, and go meet some new girls, in which you wi…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 05:57 PM
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you will always need the approval of other people in your life That's not a true statement at all. I have never needed anyone's approval, not even my managers. Early on, I would tell them to stop patting me on the back for a great job, and to reward me with bonuses and raises (show me the money), and to keep the praise to themselves. (it worked for me, I now work for my self). Approval? No. I do things in life because I want to do them. And I take along the people that want to do it with me.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 11:38 AM
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Sex with a real person is a two-way activity, and, when done right, is 1000% better and more rewarding then sex with your self (masturbation). Sex with yourself is simpler and quicker. But not more fulfilling on the Body, Mind, and Heart (emotions) aspect. but also a lot more time consuming to set up. I have realized, after being out of the game for a while, that I thoroughly enjoy the "thrill of the hunt". Yes, it takes some time, more time then sex with your self, the the rewards are significa…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 11:26 AM
1

You didn't mention any friends? Do you have friends? Do you socialize? You can meet a lot of other people from friends of friends...
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:00 AM
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as the end result is hardly believable What part is so hard to believe? That he met a hot young chick, pushed himself to just kiss the hot young chick, or then pulled her into a bathroom for a BJ, then a fuck? For guys that have the "nothing to loose" mentality...all this is possible... and likely if they keep trying (game everyone mentality).
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:52 AM
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I can't read his comment, because its already deleted... but I love your reply. I share the same philosophy for motivation.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:44 AM
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But listening while I am nervous as shit is tough! Typically your brain is racing ahead, thinking about what you will say next, instead of just listening. I've had to focus and force myself to just stop. To just not think ahead. not worry about what I will say next, and to just listen to what was said. (sometimes I will repeat what they said, if only in my head) I just started to go to the gym, second time yesterday. I saw these 2 guys, younger then me, near the bench press. I knew I wanted to m…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 10:37 AM
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You offered...yes, the world wants to see them...
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 05:13 PM
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I noticed him running on the treadmiil with a weight vest on. I walked over and asked him about it Meeting people (guys and girls) is the same as meeting girls you are interested in: Observe something about them, something unique, something they are holding, wearing, or doing...and just ask them about that. When they answer, listen to their answers, really listen, and ask them a deeper question related to what they replied. Then tie it back to you with something you do\have\wants to build a bond…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 03:00 PM
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Question for OP: What advice do you offer to the "self acknowledged" Autistic guys, who post on this and other Subs I follow? They clearly have social issues that, if bad enough, will indeed prevent them from ever having a meaning connection with girls, no matter how good the advice? Some of these guys are desperate to meet girls.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 03:18 PM
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youtube is having issues today.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 02:57 PM
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Jocko Willink's album called 'Psychological Warfare' Its on youtube too! https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5CGwvxkqzQ6SRf8ovBQ5oPLc35OB0cll
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:32 AM
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Sure. Men are logical and rational, and women are emotional and illogical. Its always been this way... ...the real question is "when and why did the tides turn against the male, to make the female more powerful in the relationship, the courts, and the related laws?" When and Why...anyone? <--- this is not a rhetorical question
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:48 AM
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physical abuse The abuse had to be brutal and the results documented and visible. A simple wife beating could be covered up pretty easily back then. I've seen newspaper accounts that show abandonment was another valid case for divorce, if the man ran off, and stopped paying for the wife and kids, but it would take time, and in some cases require a death cert! I've also seen accounts where the husband puts out an add in the local paper telling the town that he is no longer responsible for his wif…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:42 AM
1

40 years ago...we called them hippies.... today they seem to be called hipsters... This breed of lazy, un-motivated, laid-back, passive men.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:37 AM
2

Both my late 20 something step sons have kids... but no marriage!
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 10:30 AM
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If anything, men back then were hard as fuck physically, mentally, they didn't need to be as sophisticated as the modern man does. I agree that the modern man has to be tougher today, but its not because men of the past were stronger (some were, I know). But in the past, the way the laws worked, and the consequences of divorce, the women's only real choice was to stay married and to obey her man. Submit and Obey was a real thing once...
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:35 PM
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I agree. He did not kick her out. He taught her to conform, either nicely or violently.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:32 PM
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You either gave up the shrew and sex You were good up to this point. Successful men had plenty of maids, servents, (and in some cases, slaves) that he could have sex with and have illegitimate (but documented) children with. There was a very high amount of what we would call "cheating" going on back then, because in many cases, marriage was about the family (politics and assets) and getting heirs (children), not always about love. Then there is the whole concept of the loveless "arranged marriag…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:26 PM
8

Nobody likes the people who gives 110℅ You are correct. I was told, more then once in my career, to slow down, that I am making everyone else look bad, or I am taking away all their overtime. The whining was endless in the beginning of my career... Today... I am making $125/hr for short term gigs (IT Consulting)... so I don't care what everyone else thinks or thought back then. I didn't give no fucks back then, and today, I laugh myself to the bank. (100% Red Pill Attitude) Now...I didn't work l…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:15 PM
2

Live and learn my friend...live and learn...
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:17 PM
2

No. Seriously. What did you expect her reply to be to that TXT. Please tell me. Seriously. I am not letting you off the hook. WHAT DID YOU EXPECT HER REPLY TO BE?...
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:15 PM
1

but how do i proceed? Get away from the negative people and make some new friends, the type of people you want to be like.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:11 PM
1

How are you going to "catch up" watching a movie. How are you going to "flirt and physically escalate" while watching a movie? Next time, plan a better date.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:09 PM
6

Hug her as soon as you see her, its sets the tone that this will be a physical relationship. Flirt and physically escalate from the start.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:07 PM
2

Meditate and figure out what makes you happy in this life...
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:05 PM
1

I have zero friends Probably one of the first things I would work on. You need to be able to make friends. Then work on you, hit the gym, work out, eat right, sleep right, etc etc. for me to be the ugly loser loner beta pathetic guy of my section of the office that nobody talks to. You are probably not ugly. get that out of your head. the rest can be changed by you if you want. And you need to talk to the people in your office, not wait for them. (this goes hand-in-hand with my making friends co…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:58 PM
22

Last year I had a good friend die from cancer. He got 6 months notice. Before he died, he told me to " never hesitate and never wait...because you never know when the grim reaper will come knocking on your door." Today I live everyday like its my last. I don't put anything off till tomorrow, if I can just get it done today. In life and love. His words no longer haunt me... as when it comes to meeting women, I now always make the approach, always flirt and escalate, and always push for the lay.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:40 PM
6

12) Work-Hard, Play-Hard. I work like a dog when I work, I come in early, and put in 110%. Almost nobody gets more done then me. When I am done with work, I am done. I don't take calls after hours, I don't stay late on a regular basis (but I will to accomplish a short term goal). When I am out of work, I do things I want to do, to relax me, and to just have fun. Its me time... and its always a blast.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:34 PM
2

I'd like to share those stories with everyone at some point, I just don't know the proper method to share those stories. Just write up some stories, with some RP\BP lessons from them. They can be short and too the point, as long as there is a lesson to be learned, or a RP\BP point to re-enforce. I would love to hear them.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:25 PM
2

Think of online dating apps \ hook up apps, as an addicting video game... for girls. Guys waste endless hours playing what ever types of addicting games on their X-Boxes and Play Stations... girls spend similar time getting the addicting validations from their apps... Its like a mind drug for them. The direct approach is the only way for the vast majority of us. Being able to properly approach, open, and engage women... in real life... will put you miles ahead of the guys who can only connect on…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:17 PM
12

Could help with family expectations. Maybe...maybe not. From his Mum's comment, I expect the rest of his family to be on the over-weight\morbidly obese side...
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:11 PM
1

Moral of the story is fuck these idiots, Yes. As you better yourself, you will need to surround yourself with better people. You will need to make new friends, who accept, and\or commit to the same lifestyle as you. The real question is this, do they know what they're doing or is it all subconscious?? Does it matter? Either way, they are who they are. jealousy/envy is a disease. yes, yes it is...
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:07 PM
2

Yes. The point is to be cute, playful, and silly. Get her to re-engage her interest...like you would tease a cat in real life. You need to spark her interest. And if its related to something in your life, then boom... if she replies, you have a story to tell her... Good luck!
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:48 PM
1

http://www.mywebroom-blog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/funny-cat.jpg
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:51 PM
1

You don't have to believe me. But the statistics are against you with Divorce Rates being as high as they are, for me to honestly believe in LTRs anymore. "The divorce rate is still high in the U.S. at 53%. But Spain, Portugal, Luxembourg, the Czech Republic, and Hungary are worse off with divorce rates higher than 60%. Belgium has the highest rate of divorce in this data set at a staggering 70%" www.businessinsider.com/map-divorce-rates-around-the-world-2014-5
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:20 PM
1

the show, is scripted So...was the sex in the pool incident scripted, too? Maybe... just to increase free PR and make some waves? (pun intended) thats what I thought anyhow...
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 05:13 PM
4

everyone being in their 40s and essentially giving up on life Thats why I (M/47) befriend as many 20 and 30 somethings as I can find!
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 05:07 PM
2

wait a week, then send a cute MEME or something to try and get her interested again.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:04 PM
1

Yes. Just the fact that you are considering meeting up with an old flame implies you are no longer 100% committed to your existing LTR. So maybe it takes 1 year, 5 years, 10 years... but ultimately, all guys realize, in the end, that there is no such thing as "the one", and you will move on. Its only a matter of time...
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:59 PM
1

We live together. Mistake #1. But she's exhibiting some red flags recently (weight gain, laziness) RedPill Prediction #1 Am I a complete asshole if I go "catch up" with this old flame? Yes, but you will at least be true and honest with yourself. Or you can continue to live your Blue Pill lie... But eventually...it will all end, so why wait?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:39 PM
2

you arent escalating to ask her out quickly enough This ^ Op needs to make the move.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:35 PM
5

If she is hot, then fuck her. who cares what happy meds she is on?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:34 PM
1

this ^
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:33 PM
3

dump the girl and get back to the gym. work on you first.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:33 PM
1

How do you kill beta tendencies in an LTR before it's too late? You go out and meet some new girls. Seriously. You are going down the BP path that has been documented here time and time again.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:32 PM
1

I don't want to waste my time like this again. Next time: As soon as you see her give her a hug. Not a handshake. A hug is more personal, more physical, and sets the tone for more physical escalation later. Plus...no one ever turns down a hug. The goal is to ask her about her. And to listen to her answers and to try and get more information about that topic. Find something interesting she is holding, wearing, or doing, and ask her to tell you about it. Ask her about her hobbies, or what she does…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:27 PM
2

Another mistake. Don't apologize. Absolutely correct. Never apologize for being you. You are who you are. You are learning, growing, and should find a girl who likes you for who you are. Hopefully this helps you wake up. Either you are very new at this, or you're not taking your responsibilities as a man seriously. Sounds like he has identified some issues, and will work to improve on them. I see potential.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:16 PM
2

Please accept my (all) comments as constructive criticism. But why didn't she make that clear before? Because she liked you, and was probably willing to just fuck you, no strings attached. But now its too late. She picked up in the vibe that you are a nice guy, a shy guy, and probably must be "in a relationship" with someone before you even touch them. You proved that when you didn't even touch her on the first date. She, on the other hand was clearly looking to just hook up. Don't feel bad. Her…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:11 PM
1

Rebuild your social circle. Reconnect with old friends, and make some new ones.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:06 PM
1

do I continue to ignore No. or start flirting again? Don't need to, but can if you want. Call her out on it? Why do that? Tell her you will go shopping on your lunch break today, and she should come with you to get the ingredients for the lasagna. Just say that. Seriously. How do I get her? You just setup the date, at your place for her to "work late that night" (her BF excuse) and make you dinner.... :) Then we chat briefly later about how I love lasagne and she tells me she'll make me lasagne.…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 03:58 PM
1

he tells me she'll make me lasagne. So set up the date? What are you waiting for?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 03:57 PM
1

As I read this, I have to wonder out loud that I don't understand why guys break off things sometimes... The only time I could see me breaking things off, would be if the woman couldn't accept the reality that I was never going to marry her...but then again, that would be her issue... not mine... Why not just spin her into a Plate and go find some other girls at the same time? Why is it a "one or nothing" mentality?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 03:16 PM
2

Women are a byproduct of a well lived life. They are not should not be the object of life. Great line, with a slight mod.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:07 PM
1

it's happening right before our eyes to our (American) neighbors. Its happening in the USA, too. There are already a number of schools allowing the kids to choose a pronoun to be called. The University of Michigan has implemented a “designated pronoun” policy to allow students to choose the way they want their professors to refer to them in class. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/education/wp/2016/10/07/a-university-told-students-to-select-their-gender-pronouns-one-chose-his-majesty/ Just one…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 01:54 PM
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Don't feed the trolls. You did GREAT for a first date. You had a good time, identified areas to improve upon, and have been working on your self even before this point. You are miles ahead of some of the posters here...
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:31 PM
7

I had a fun time based on how I felt MYSELF That's all that really matters. You go out to hang out, have fun, and hook up (if you can). Thats it really. Onto the next one! And the next one...and the next one... You will get better with each one too...
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 12:27 PM
1

Now-adays I just stay at home, In my room. What do you do in your room? Honestly? Games, Porn, Sleep? If you are not doing anything to better yourself, you are just wasting your life away...
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:13 PM
1

Sounds like you are trying to control her with rules... nobody likes being told what they can or can't do.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:11 PM
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Want to get her in bed? Don't bring up height. Ever.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:09 PM
2

I don't neg and don't give negative emotional spikes... not sure why you would want to...
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:08 PM
1

I think you need to just commit and make the changes necessary. All of them. And yes, probably all at once. You either do it... or watch everyone else around you doing it and getting the benefits.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:07 PM
1

You need to go out and meet other girls, ask a few out, and have a good time.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:04 PM
1

Western rules don't apply to overly conservative countries, like India, where arranged marriage are still popular and expected. The values are just too far apart to be able to give any meaningful advice. Its not being Indian...one of my most successful friends, with girls, was an Indian, but raised in America.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:03 PM
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You are married dude, get a fucking grip. You made a commitment. Are you serious? He said he is about to get separated...but even then...who cares if he does or not. If he wants to cheat, he wants to cheat...a piece of paper will not stop anybody, nor should it. Also, its a coworker and she has a boyfriend too. He said he is leaving work for a bit, and seems willing to take the chance to crap where he works. I say go for it. And as far as the BF goes... same rules apply... If she is willing to c…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:54 AM
1

Just get her out, and when you do, you flirt and physically escalate on her. Since she now knows how you feel, if she is willing to hang out with you, then she trusts you. Its your job as the man to make the moves.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:44 AM
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prioritize other friendships your hobbies, work etc. see your friends or go to the gym Set hard boundaries for yourself and stick to them. Don't neglect your social life (continue) developing yourself in other ways SOLID ADVICE ^ I will add a few more... make some friends who are girls and keep them around, let her see them. It will help in the future. If you must live together, your social circle will become even more important now. Use this time to better yourself, making yourself a more fun a…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:17 AM
1

Is monogamy something that I want.. or just what's expected of me? I started thinking about this, over the past ~20 years, since I was about 30. After 2 marriages, 2 kids, 2 grand-kids, now in my late 40s, I can safely say, I will never chase "the one" again. I achieved the "family" that I wanted, and clearly always wanted kids of my own. I am very content with that. But the delusion that I will be with "the one" until I die has passed. I have acknowledged I will (probably) never marry again. I …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:07 AM
1

Oh..Porn Addiction is very much a men's problem, with Blue Pill benefits. Its keeps the man down, it keeps him in a fog, and robs him of his spark and ingenuity. It makes him passive and soft, compliant, and less likely to act boldly. It literally deprives him of his manhood and his energy to better himself, and prevents him from pursuing the things in life he really wants.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 10:37 AM
1

Disney-like picture of monogamy with one woman is always going to be something I want, Society, Culture, TV, Movies and religion have painted this picture in your stone-age brain. Your brain doesn't want monogamy, your brain wants variety. I also didn't start out this way (wish I did). But after 2 marriages, 2 kids, 2 grand-kids, I (m/47) have realized that I am tired of chasing something (the one) that doesn't exist. Now, I believe in relationships, and I believe in love...but I also know it al…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:48 PM
1

"Sure, having your harem now is cool but what are you going to do when you are 60?" Someone just asked me this... I told them I plan to enjoy my life, party and have the best time ever until I just can't anymore. When that time comes, and I really can't get around anymore, I just plan to sell all my assets, and have one, final party, the biggest party ever. At that final party, I will dump the rest of my money on alcohol, drugs, and hookers. If the alcohol doesn't kill me...and the drugs don't f…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:43 PM
1

This ^ read Uncle Vas's guide, over and over...until it sinks in.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:36 PM
2

This is true, my granpa talks to everyone, he doesn't give a single fuck. This. Seriously. Talk to everyone, everywhere, at anytime, for any reason. Do this enough, and one day you will just realize all your fear is gone... I was once shy, introverted, quiet, thought I was ugly, had no self esteem, and had a paralyzing fear of rejection, and social anxiety. It was a very hard 30+ years... but one day I decided I didn't like who I was anymore, and started to just force my self to talk to cashiers…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:28 PM
1

How do you go from 0. Maybe meet people at a therapy group for your illness. Volunteer anywhere. Say hi to people. Smile at people you are interested in. trying to find a hobby, any suggestions? Biking Hiking Scuba Diving Swing Dancing Those are mine.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:25 PM
1

Seriously dude, you should watch this TedTalk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbxinUJcLGg
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:18 PM
1

There are women that have sex with animals as well. Yes, there are... Do you think she would prefer someone on the less then attractive side who is also the life of the party, to an animal?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:16 PM
1

Dude, I am not going to argue this with you. LOOKS DON'T MATTER. Looks are not your problem. Now, with hookup apps, sure its all about a pic and a bio... those are hookup apps...so that much is true. So don't use them. But in real life, its about confidence and attitude.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:14 PM
1

Don't help them if you don't want to. Just tell them no, that you are busy and have other stuff to do. stupid excuses like "I'm too busy to help you out", which isn't true, and makes me feel like a total loser... You should feel like a total loser for doing their work for them. Seriously. and you are not lying, you do have other things to do...for you.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:09 PM
1

Most people will "replay" the conversations in their head. I will sometimes write down (or note them in my phones), issues I would change next time.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:06 PM
1

Extremely rare outlier. Fuck you. No. Its his attitude and confidence. You are either a fun and exciting person that a girl would be interested in hanging out with, or you are not. if you are not, you should try to change your life to become a fun and exciting person.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:04 PM
1

Looks are NOT as important as most men think. Its his attitude and his confidence that she notices first.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:02 PM
4

Who cares? You are worrying about the wrong thing. Your job as the man is to flirt and physically escalate. her reaction to that will tell you if she is into you or not.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 05:00 PM
1

It doesn't sound like you both are completely compatible on how to argue, if she just shuts everything down. Plan you exit strategy,
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:59 PM
4

And who knows...I have a sneaky suspicion she will follow up with you in a few weeks...
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:55 PM
1

LOL. WTF dude, don't tell the girl to bring money. I always attempt to pay, and if the girl wants to pay, I tell her to buy dessert or something else. If she forces the issue, then by all means I accept and she can pay.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:54 PM
2

Start the date with a full body hug. Seriously, it sets the tone going forwards. Touch her as much as you can. If you are an analytical kinda guy, every 15 minutes you need to get closer to her or touching her more. Get up and move your stool closer to her if you have to. If she asks...you say "I want to be closer to you..." When you sit, find a booth, and sit next to her. Touch her leg with yours and touch her foot with yours. I like the "Whisper Technique". So later, after you got her worked u…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:46 PM
3

Balls in her court. Don't sit around and wait for her, go out and meet some new girls.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 04:37 PM
12

Apparently we can't have a rational discussion about religions on TRP...that's too bad, but probably appropriate, maybe. While I believe in God, I do not believe in religion... any religion. I see all religions as a form of Blue Pill control...
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:00 PM
1

because the easy quitters are far less likely to post there. While this is true, as with any addiction based issue, from my own experience, and the guys I have discussed openly about it... I have never met a guy, who used porn daily, who was not addicted, and could quit without serious life changes. It is a much bigger problem then most people understand...and seems to align directly with Blue Bill thinking... ...no sex from the wife...who cares, just use porn. ...crappy job...who cares, just us…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 01:23 PM
1

I would assume you are not pleasing them in other ways... Like I said, get them off, first, repeatedly, always.... and they will gladly come back for more. Now, if you just want to pump and dump, then save up and get an escort. Probably more cost effective.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 01:02 PM
1

Girls don't care about penis size. If you learn to please a women, using all the resources available to you, it won't matter. Seriously...by the time I give her her third orgasm with my oral and finger skills, she really doesn't care about how big my dick is...
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 11:44 AM
1

You know what comes next...right? I am older then you (m/47), and will tell you it is never too late to change your life for the better. You obviously did get girls once, you can again... And, yes, you will need to change you life, friend. If you give up the porn, you get 3 immediate benefits. You gain time, energy, and drive. You must use these to better yourself. You use the time and energy to improve yourself, to work out, to get a new skill, to do some new and interesting hobbies. I focus on…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 11:33 AM
1

/u/Bingbongfly is right. For many young guys, their first sexual experience was porn. In some cases they were possibly even to young to truly understand it. And for many more, porn became a staple of their lives, long before they were even allowed to date. The introduction of port at such a young age is part of the problem. The other part, thanks to the high speed internet, is the magnitude and variety of the porn. Too much porn overloads our stone-age brains, with more variety and frequency the…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 11:03 AM
1

Absolutely, if only for the time, energy, and drive you gain by avoiding it. You can be so much more productive with out it, on so many different levels.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 10:54 AM
1

LOL. Yes. Sure. Stop using porn and it will disappear. Absolutely correct. Now go check out the NoFap Sub and see how long it takes most guys to just "stop using porn..."
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 10:15 AM
2

I wish I stumbled upon this when I was 15 instead of 20. But its still not too late. LOL. You are young, grasshopper. Now go with the knowledge and the power of the RedPill and be happy and satisfied.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:23 PM
1

Yea, /u/TheStruggleIsReal1 is right. LMR is a very real. Question for OP: Did you try anything else? Kisses on her neck...hands on her breasts? Did you take off your shirt when in your bed? Do you homework for next time, before you break your plate! She may have offered more on date 3!
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:18 PM
3

Dude, if you can get fat chicks, you can get average chicks...
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:12 PM
1

PIED is the killer, and by the time you realize you have it...its too late! (Porn Induced Erectile Disfunction). Yes, its a real thing, and the doctors have reported significant increases in the last decade of young guys in the 20s who just "can't get it up" with a real girl... Sad...so sad....
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:05 PM
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"just because I'm coming to your place doesn't mean I'm gonna sleep with you, you know?". I, in return, asked her who had said anything about sex (read that one on here) Works when it can... Always play that card first...
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 04:45 PM
1

On the way out, now standing on the sidewalk, she says "So where to now?" Translation: "Take me back to your place and fuck me." AH...OK. Wouldn't a nice no-strings fuck make it all better?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 04:41 PM
2

They are coming from areas where people starve to death...so yes, they may just find plump women unique and adorable...
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 09:57 PM
7

But oh, please explain why he is a moron? Do you have a better explanation?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 09:55 PM
2

I second the power of meditation.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:06 PM
2

Optional, but not necessary. She already knows who and what she is. Do you?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:00 PM
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If you lift, take care of yourself, and have abundance, you would not be making these comments...
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 11:59 AM
1

Why not? What are you afraid of? Something in you lease agreement about "not fucking" the landlord... LOL.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 11:58 AM
6

I see you learned a whole bunch of RedPill Life Lessons here... Meanwhile, I look like a total dirtbag who's banging other women on the side, and she practically throws herself at me Yup, its the abundance mentality concept. The more chicks you bang, the more chicks want to bang you... Its a great cycle...if you can get it started and keep it going... and was a really nice guy who did whatever he could to help this girl. Yup, he was a tool and a nice guy... and nice guys finish last. they're all…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 11:57 AM
1

put that same effort in to building my own business Yes. A much better direction! (even if it was just series of controlled failures that needed to be weeded out before success) "You Fail Your Way to Success".
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 10:52 AM
2

Funny you say that.... :) Most of my super secure password are just patterns on the keyboard...
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 10:49 AM
3

I want to clarify... I agree with not intentionally burning bridges...if there is something to be gained. But... if its not a wooden bridge, but instead, a stick being shoved up your ass... then I am all for the nuclear option. There is no reason, IMHO, to be "nice", "passive", and "accepting" as you, as a loyal employee, are being lead to the firing squad... just to save a buck or two. (just for profits) If you think you can negotiate something out of it, then by all means, sit passively at the…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 10:25 AM
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I respect your points. They are good. Since I am good at what I do, and have plenty of C-Level references in my portfolio, there was no risk to my future employment, so that was no reason to force my hand. While $100/hr is nice, (I can make more then that today on short term gigs) I had all I needed in the bank, so the amount wasn't high enough for me to care. They say, everyone has their price, but for me, it wasn't about the money. So, if my reputation wasn't going to be affected, and I didn't…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 05:12 PM
2

I agree, please keep going and keep posting. Short and to the point.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 03:19 PM
2

"What do you have in your bag then? Condoms?" I just read that and spit my food out laughing... I won't comment, I believe you know what you could do better next time... ...the question is, will you? I think you need encounters like this to happen so you can learn and prepare your self for next time...because there will be a next time!
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 02:56 PM
7

Drink more water. That helped me limit my over-eating. (also cut out all the sugary drinks)
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 02:53 PM
2

Yes, of course, Uni owned equipment, I understand. I assumed she was in her dorm, on her own equipment, on the Uni Wifi or Internet line. [on a side note, viewing porn and downloading porn are the same thing from the perspective of IT Forensics. Everything you view is downloaded in a hidden cache file someone on your machine...]
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 02:45 PM
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I've also got some real advice on getting terminated. (current IT Consultant) Always have at least 1-3 months salary in a special bank account. I call this my Fuck You Too account (FYT). Last time I used it, back about 5 years ago. I was approached by my boss and HR: The company was having issues, and they were going to reorganize the department. They were going to outsource my position. They wanted me to train the new guy (contractor) for 6 weeks, then they would give me six weeks pay as severa…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:42 PM
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Wait. In what University is it against the schools Code of Conduct to watch porn? Can someone link me a page for a College or Uni where this is a real thing?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:15 PM
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Dude, you can't call people bitches for being addicted to smoking. Its been proven by science that nicotine is addictive, and most people will need a plan to get off of it. And...if you are following Red Pill philosophy, you are working out at the gym anyways... and smoking and working out don't mix. So, yea, smoking is a problem in the Red Pill world...
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:09 PM
1

I just recently told my son "You fail your way to success..."
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:02 PM
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I agree with /u/lopsidedlucky. Being generous gets you no where, fast. A whole bunch of alphas would come along and just take it all from you, if they could. The world revolves around money, and without it, you would die of starvation or lack of shelter. Your money determines your standard of living. You need to use and manage your money wisely. If you really think you have enough to just give away, generously, you are mistaken. You should be putting all that extra money you don't need into mark…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 12:53 PM
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Don't be afraid to fucking lie sometimes. No morality judgement here, just a clarification. As a young kid I learned to lie to survive with my mother. It was the only way and I actually got really good at it. Very sad. Took many years to figure out that was wrong and I, as an adult, was lying to everyone, even myself, all the time. I will say instead "You don't always need to tell the truth". That has a different tone to it. You don't need to tell everyone your business, your issues, your weakne…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 12:28 PM
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Sure, the "work hard early" tip is valid, but can be mis-guided by beta beliefs. My beta dad said the same thing, even telling me I would need to work 2 jobs to get what I wanted. When I pushed back, my psycho mom said I would need to work like a dog... just like them. The better advice is to work smarter, not harder. The better path is to work at one job and go to school (or training) at night to better yourself, to get a skill, or a trade, or something in demand. That's how you get ahead. And …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 11:46 AM
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Do you think this is just in my head Yup, its all on your head. I have been using that line for a few years now, and have always gotten the girls name. Now that doesn't mean we always hit it off, or she always wanted to talk to me...but I did always get a name to start a conversation. Maybe the way I say it "Its not what you say...its how you say it". Remember that. Most girls, when asked later on, will not even remember exactly what you said when you first met, but she will remember if you were…
/r/seduction08/06/17 10:57 AM
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You can turn it around, but it's too much buck for the bang. You'll get a ton of shit tests, an annoying amount, then the girl will start feeling insecure wondering why you've changed, she thinks you're sleeping with other girls, I can testify to this... Exactly, word for word...
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 07:14 PM
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I agree. OP should\could have escalated it right then and there... She sounds more like the kinda girl who just wants to fuck around...and not be so formal with dates and rules...
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 03:09 PM
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What do you do? Wait...so what do you do? (Do you bad mouth the ex? Do you publicize all the shit she did?)
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 02:38 PM
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She is not being aggressive, just assertive. She knows what she wants, and today...its you!
/r/seduction07/06/17 01:46 PM
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how do I proceed? What are you trying to accomplish?
/r/seduction07/06/17 01:23 PM
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"Hey...I just saw you sitting here and wanted to come over and say hi...what is your name?
/r/seduction07/06/17 01:20 PM
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You do not need to be attractive, dark, or handsome. You only need to be able to approach girls with some confidence and style. I don't care if you are Asian, Black, Indian, don't care how tall you are. None of that matters in the first 30 seconds. You do need to talk though... :)
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 11:54 AM
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I can't say I have meet women doing these things. But I have met women at the gym, who, after chatting for a bit over the weeks, I have taken on dates, doing these things. Most of the women I meet are through my social circle, or someone else's circle (the friend of a friend).
/r/seduction07/06/17 11:23 AM
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That is the point. Its like exercise. Sure, there is a time and place for being a couch potato and just laying around doing nothing all day... But the best dates I ever had (and the best nights) were the ones where we put in a ton of effort during the day :)
/r/seduction07/06/17 11:16 AM
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At that point, if I am lucky, I get an opportunity....that's all. You are correct, not every girl wants to talk to me at that moment. I will observe her body language, her eye gaze, her demeanor. I am not going to force the conversation. If she is closed off, not facing me, or not looking at me, I'll (also be polite) and move on. But sometimes, they are willing to chat. And that's how it begins. When I was just getting started, my cold approach rejection rate was high, probably 9 out of 10. Toda…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 11:10 AM
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Most of the women I date are somewhat athletic (or wish they were), and workout at least once per week. Nothing crazy. They are always more then willing to accompany me on these activities. They are fun, energetic, get us out and about, and overall, just make for a great time. They also show up great (great pics) in my social media profiles, so by the time we agree to go out, she already knows who I am and what I like to do. Swing Dancing is the latest addition to my list. Sadly, there is only s…
/r/seduction07/06/17 10:45 AM
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Most people (especially girls) like to talk about themselves, a lot. So the goal is to also use her natural desire to talk, and to have her open up and talk more about herself. This is how you get to know her. That’s why you work towards asking open ended questions. Questions that can’t be answered with a Yes, No, Fine, OK, Sure, Maybe… Good open ended questions get to the heart of who the girl really is, the how or why she does the things, or lives the life, she does. The goal is to get out her…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 10:34 AM
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OMG...I love your reply. Thank you for summing it up that way.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 05:21 PM
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CONFIDENCE. Followed by solid eye contact, genuine smile, body language.
/r/seduction06/06/17 04:31 PM
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Here is what I am getting more involved in: Hiking Biking Scuba Diving Swing Dancing Essentially, any activity that takes some effort and some practice to get good at, where working with a partner is fun.
/r/seduction06/06/17 04:25 PM
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That line has been my salvation and my saving grace, ever since I came out of my shell (crashed out of it and broke it into a million little pieces actually). I have used that line more times then I can count anymore, and have never been denied the name. I am a direct, no BS, give no fucks kinda guy...so for me its quite genuine...
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 04:19 PM
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Spec out appropriate clubs and bars to meet other girls, wilder types.
/r/seduction06/06/17 03:32 PM
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Baby steps...np, just keep going. Working on the eye contact is going to make more of a difference then you believe, until you see it in action... For next time.... Again, probably could have (and SHOULD have) said something, but baby steps here. "hey...I just saw you standing here, and I wanted to come over here and say hi...what is your name...?"
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 03:25 PM
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what is the best possible outcome of a LTR? With divorce rates as high as they are, the delusion of marriage should be off the table. Sad, but a true reality. Its just not worth the expense and hassle later on in life, when attitudes and expectations change. Whether its 5, 10, or 20 years down the line...things will change. And, statistically, most couples will not survive intact.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 11:35 AM
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Is this normal? For someone addicted to video games, sure, its normal. Is there anything I can do to get his attention? Yes, let him see you hanging out with other guys...even just as friends...if that doesn't motivate him, nothing will...
/r/seduction05/06/17 09:37 PM
1

even better. Pay her a visit on your day off.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 02:08 AM
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dude, next time, buying gifts is a great way to insta date girls you just met.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 02:05 AM
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for #6 Just ask them about them. Find something interesting they are holding, wearing, or doing and compliment that. ie. Hey I love your hair color...I fucking love red hair...do you dye it your self... hey..I like that leather jacket...lt looks cute on you...where did you get it...
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 01:58 AM
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no reason, you as an adult, cant stick to your schedule while at your parents house. You think marathon runners stop training when they go home for for a visit? just tell them in advance. Mom, I am getting up at 6 am every morning for a run and some exercise. And I mediTate at 8 every day. they will support you.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 01:52 AM
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dude, relationships happen in real life. So just try to hang out with her and see where it can go.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 01:43 AM
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(you forced me to login to comment on my iPad) yes, she probably wants you to ask her, so stop wasting time and ask her to hang out after work one night. Tell her you can both grab something light for dinner since its late. You can go to some late night drive through. Don't wait. Don't hesitate. you don't need the number. Just ask her to grab a bite first. Don't be so formal. Don't make this more complicated then it needs to be.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 01:35 AM
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If she was as messed up as you describe, you may have been the only sane thing in her life once...and she probably wishes, deep down, that she could be with you again... All the crazy ones I know...sadly, all wish they could start their life over...
/r/seduction01/06/17 04:56 PM
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+2 for Attitude and Confidence!
/r/seduction31/05/17 06:38 PM
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Keep that phone off at night dude, the blue light waves (not a pun) wakes your brain up... https://www.digitaltrends.com/mobile/does-blue-light-ruin-sleep-we-ask-an-expert/ There’s a lot of evidence that blue light, emitted by smartphones, tablets, laptops, and many other electronic devices, is impacting on the quantity and quality of the sleep we are getting. Cut that out before bed, and never in the middle of the night, and you will get much better sleep...
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 11:40 AM
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You probably shouldn't mention the salary you make, most people are not going to understand it, and are going to invalidate your posts. I also do contract work in IT, and last year billed my client $125/hr for 4 months, just outside of Philly. I made $80k in 4 months. But I am M/47 and I have been in IT for 25 years now, I am certified and have specialized in work that is really in high demand (MS, Cisco, Firewalls, Internet, Virtualization, CyberSecurity). People who make $10-$20 an hour, with …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 11:29 AM
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Don't pay attention to what women say, pay attention to what they do. 1000% correct. She wants OP all to her self, yet won't fuck him, and won't let him get any from anyone else... He need to move on... You need to live life for you. Let her see, through your social media, the fun times you are having with other chicks...and maybe she'll come around.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 11:16 AM
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Lie. Tell them you were dedicated to your studies and getting started in your career, and now you have more time to look for love. Tell them you had GFs, but none of them worked out, you both parted the best of friends.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 10:27 AM
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You could have asked her about her. The goal is to get to know her better by asking open ended questions that can't be answered with a yes, no, maybe, fine, OK, etc etc. https://youtu.be/2GtcM_ob1Mw?t=23m55s
/r/seduction30/05/17 11:51 AM
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I have learned, offering advice and such on these forums, that "Haters Hate Hope.". They hate the idea that some people can indeed change them selves for the better, that some people can actually overcome their issues, and meet someone awesome, with just a some guidance and support. (and sometimes a soft kick in the butt) Your advice /u/milkshadow is solid and true. All women should read it. I didn't change anything about myself for him, I did it for myself. You made a plan and changed into a be…
/r/seduction29/05/17 09:26 PM
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Why all the hate dude? You just sound like a grumpy old man.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/17 04:26 PM
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If you follow the histories of some of the more famous PUAs from the last decade, you will see that most of them reach a similar point in their lives where they are torn...just like you.
/r/seduction25/04/17 04:57 PM
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Sometimes guys get too hung up on approaching girls when other people are around. I get it. But guess what...most of those other people don't care as much as you might think. Really. (you can ask them too if you like, it makes a great social experiment) They might look up, and then most will just get back to their business. A few might be curious...sure...but most could care less. There is a phrase..."Fake it till you make it..." So, yes, you do sorta fake the confidence in the beginning, always…
/r/seduction13/04/17 10:27 AM
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Never wait, never hesitate. You approach as soon as you see her, (one second later when you brain says "yea...i like that"), you get up and boldly, calmly, strongly, make eye contact, smile, walk right up to her (so she can see you coming) and deeply and assertively say "Hey...I just saw you sit here and absolutely had to come over here and say hi...what is your name..." Girls love guys who are bold, confident, and walk right up to a girl, from the first moment their eyes meet.
/r/seduction12/04/17 05:52 PM
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Read this book. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People then read it again, and again...and again... learn to make some friends first, guys and girls, then you can move on to romance. Start with your classes, plently of opportunities to study with people, create your own study groups, join some clubs, volunteer at the local animal shelter (girls love a guy who saves kittens and puppies in his free time....) Go...now....get busy making a life girls would be intereste…
/r/seduction04/04/17 06:45 PM
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The last time a approached someone with ear buds in I did this: I entered her field of view, made eye contact, pointed to her ear buds and smiled... She took them off and I said..."thank you....your music is way to loud and distracting and I can't concentrate...". She smiled. Then I said that I was just joking, and just wanted to say hi...
/r/seduction04/04/17 04:10 PM
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a move or smthn. I dont know, should i make a move or is it too late? Need some advice There is a 4th option. You just become her friend. Who knows, she probably has a few cute friends you can meet... (yes, this actually does happen...all the time)
/r/seduction04/04/17 03:59 PM
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You continue to have an interesting and exciting life. Post pics of you having fun with interesting and exciting people to your Social Media. Talk to her, chat her up, make her comfortable with you by telling her about you and your fun and exciting life. When the time is right, ask her out again, but only one more time. After that, you move on...
/r/seduction04/04/17 03:56 PM
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Learn to smile. You can practice in a mirror. Try the James Bond Smirk...just kinda smile with one side of your mouth. Its not hard. You just need to practice. Sounds crazy? Models practice smiling in mirrors all day long...so can you bud!
/r/seduction04/04/17 03:34 PM
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Go out with her, but Friend-Zone her. Just don't flirt too much and do not Physically escalate at all. Be honest with her, that you really like her as a friend. then hit on her friends...
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:45 PM
1

Yes. "Should" is a much better word then then would or could...
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:12 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo TrippAdvice How to touch for the first time
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:52 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmEcPPJMtH0 Tripp Advice Flirting – Verbally and Physically https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LP9zilOUGZ8 Tripp Advice How to Flirt with a Girl https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7c9FhfCtE7M Todd Valentine How to Flirt
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:50 PM
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"I am going to the [fill in here] next weekend, you should come with me, I think we'd have a great time". Almost every meetup is a date...so this time, just flirt with her and physically escalate a bit, you know, some innocent touches on her arms, hands, back, etc....
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:31 PM
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Learn to talk to girls first. Then focus on teasing and flirting. Then work you way up to some innocent physical contact, like arm and hand touching.
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:27 PM
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SMASH! You are too young to settle down. Date lots of girls until you find the one who you have the absolute best sex with, and the one you just can't live without. Thats the one you become exclusive with, and, maybe later, would marry. Don't settle.
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:16 PM
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Congrats on the first approach! Then i just said to her "Dunno" and shrugged my shoulders, i think i started fucking up here Yup. Next time, just slow down a bit...relax...and think of the real reason you wanted to talk to her..."I think you look interesting...so I wanted to come over and just say hi..." or "I just like your style..." or "You seem like an interesting person..." Never say I don't know...if you don't know...how is she going to know what your true intentions are... Anything works h…
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:28 PM
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Dude, you should have hit on the sister in front of her...
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:59 PM
2

Mod is right. The only way to "win" with this girl, is for you to "loose." Fuck that, plenty of other, healthy, sexy girls for you to date... Move on while you can...she ain't worth the trouble or the sacrifice you would need to make. You can bet, even if you made her your GF, she would cut back on the "evil" sex you were having too...
/r/seduction31/03/17 07:00 PM
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He's right, just don't flirt too much or physically escalate at all.
/r/seduction28/03/17 05:58 PM
3

You need to stop talking about you, and learn to ask the girls open ended questions. https://youtu.be/2GtcM_ob1Mw?t=23m55s
/r/seduction28/03/17 05:26 PM
1

Friends. You continue to make and keep lots of friends. You socialize with your friends.
/r/seduction28/03/17 05:24 PM
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Go up to the first girl you think is cute and just walk boldly to her, make eye contact, smile and say "hey, I saw you sitting here and wanted to come over and say hi...what is your name?" Then find something interesting about her, something she is holding, wearing, or doing, and compliment it and ask her about it. (not her looks) For example: "I fucking love your hair color...what do you call it...do you dye it yourself? Do you ever go blond?" or "hey...I love your little leather jacket...where…
/r/seduction28/03/17 05:00 PM
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Start with some flirting, teasing. Then move to some innocent touching of her arms, legs, feet. Move closer to her and start to whisper in her ear. Pull her close, grab the back of her head under her hair, and go in for the kiss. Then, slowly, start to unbutton her clothes...take your shirt off, then hers. repeat until naked.
/r/seduction28/03/17 04:57 PM
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Sometimes I have to wonder how big of an issue this really is for women. I mean the /r/fpua sub is practically dead. or do all the girls who need advice just post in /r/relationships?
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:23 PM
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This always works for me: Make eye contact, smile, and say "Hey, I just saw you sitting here and wanted to come over and say hi...what is your name?" In most cases she will offer name. Do not tell her your name, do not offer to shake her hand, do not tell her she is cute. Instead, find something interesting about her, something she is holding, wearing, or doing. Then say "Hey, I love that leather jacket...where did you get it?" or... "I fucking love your hair color...what color is it?...do you d…
/r/seduction22/03/17 06:50 PM
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I use a "whisper technique". Get her close enough, touch her arms, legs, hands, do all the typical KINO things. Then lean in and get close enough to whisper to her, gently grab her by the back of the head, under her hair. Pull her in and whisper to her a few times. Then go in as if you were to kiss her, but then move to the side and whisper to her again. Then go in, and just kiss!
/r/seduction21/03/17 05:59 PM
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Keep it up. Practice makes perfect. It will get easier and you will just get more comfortable over time. You are doing great.
/r/seduction21/03/17 05:46 PM
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Check Aaron out and his videos, he goes to food stores all the time and picks up girls... https://www.facebook.com/groups/evolutiondaily/
/r/seduction21/03/17 05:39 PM
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This^ This is the SnapChat guide for 2017! Thank you /u/SnapSocialGuru
/r/seduction21/03/17 05:34 PM
2

But, that is where it starts. Talk to enough cashiers, then you can turn and talk to a person in line next to you...
/r/seduction20/03/17 10:46 PM
2

If she is that close to you, physically touching you, you physically touching her...and she is not pulling away, and she is pushing into you...then most likely...yes. Girls want sex (or kissing) as much as guys do. Girls want to be wanted. And most girls expect a guy to take the lead. She expects a man to lead, to ask her out, to treat her right, and to make some moves, physically. Most girls expect this, accept this, and want this. Now...if her body language is pulling away, not being receptive…
/r/seduction20/03/17 06:27 PM
1

Do people still go on speed dating meets? If so, just tell them you are a new lawyer and have a great job, now you are looking for a great women to compliment your great life.
/r/seduction20/03/17 05:49 PM
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No, don't ask. If you did things properly, you should have been verbally flirting and physically touching her by this point. If you are close enough and able to whisper to her, you are close enough and able to kiss her...so you go for it.
/r/seduction20/03/17 05:44 PM
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Xanarxses, please don't tell me you can't walk into a store, buy a pack of gum, and smile at the cashier and ask her "how her day is going"? Unless you really don't want to...
/r/seduction20/03/17 04:31 PM
1

getting angry messages or broads showing up at my house after a few meetups/ dates - saying they found out about my "wife and kids" and they are pissed at me. I assume you are not being honest, or must be lying when they ask about your relationship\family\kid status. Do you still live with your wife\GF? Are you legally separated? Sleep in different bedrooms? Why don't you move out? You keep saying girlfriend, does that imply this is an "open" relationship? Once these girls find out your situatio…
/r/seduction20/03/17 04:02 PM
2

10% Theory 90% Action. You gota get out there and give it a try!
/r/seduction20/03/17 03:39 PM
1

Escalating: Guys will continue to push for more touching, more flirting, until they can get more physical, until they can first kiss a girl.
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:53 PM
1

The game isn't what gets girls, it's just a tool to help the process. What gets the girls is being a man who takes care of himself and goes after what he wants with authenticity. You are correct. That, combined with a strong sense of confidence, can get almost any girl to at least talk to you and engage you.
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:52 PM
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Innocent touches describes simple and innocent touches on the arm, feet, hands, and legs. Like, when you sit with a girl, you sit next to her. Your hip\butt touches her hip\butt, then you touch her foot with your foot. When you walk, you put your hand on her lower back and lead her to where you are going. When talking and laughing, you quickly touch her arm or stomach. All of these things are simple, non threatening, examples of innocent physical contact. I also highly recommend, when you meet f…
/r/seduction17/03/17 05:10 PM
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Sure, call her a friend, but unless the girl you are with is dumb, she may know whats going on. Don't use the term "irrelevant", it implies the girls feelings are not important. Use "Yeah, she's a girl I'm talking to/seeing/going to go out with but I don't care about her...I'm here with you :) " See how that turns it back on you...
/r/seduction17/03/17 05:04 PM
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I would use the money you expect to spend on an escort, and find a dating or PUA coach, and go that route instead. Buy a man a fish, and he eats only for that day...teach a man to fish, and he eats everyday. Find a good coach to teach you how to approach and talk to women, how to ask them out, how to date, and how to get them in bed. It will be time and money will spent!
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:47 PM
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Again, be honest. If you are a social and outgoing guy, with lots of people in your life, then you are going to get contacted...a lot. If you need to hide it from the girl in the car, for just that day, then turn off your phone when in the car, or disconnect the blue tooth, or tuen off the notifications. But be honest with who you are..
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:41 PM
1

I'm [not] some stalker creep You sure? You found her contact info through someone else. You did not talk to her or ask her if you could exchange contacts.... And now, you question why she doesn't answer you...as if you deserve an reply...
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:37 PM
2

girls are not logical, they are emotional.
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:35 PM
1

Yes, they are flirting. Its is your responsibility to respond or react to it. If it makes you uncomfortable, then tell them. If the verbal flirting is OK, but the physical contact is unwelcomed, then tell them that. if you say or do nothing, then nothing will change, and it may only continue to escalate. Thats what guys do, they continue to escalate if no resistance is put up.
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:34 PM
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This video gives amazing tips on how to tease and flirt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7c9FhfCtE7M Todd Valentine How to Flirt
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:19 PM
2

Be honest with her. If you can't, because she doesn't know about the other girls, then just tell her that, "Oh, I dated her a while back, haven't heard from her in a while". Its not that big of a deal if a girl TXTs you, as you do have friends who are girls right?
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:18 PM
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If you don't approach the girl, she will never know who you are. If you are not honest with your intent, the girl will never know what you really want. In my experience, the Bold and the Courageous get the victory. A famous general from World War II said: "A good plan executed now is better than a perfect plan executed next week". I don't believe in waiting for tomorrow, or a better opportunity, as they rarely come up. Be bold, be courageous, be strong, lead, and approach. Now, knowing that thes…
/r/seduction17/03/17 02:59 PM
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You need to show your honest intent from the beginning, and not work to become friends with her, but instead, work to get her on a date. When talking to her, you flirt with her. Then you do some innocent touching. If she is not into you that way, she will let you know. If she is into you, her eyes, words, and body language will let you know. Then you proceed to more touching, kissing, or asking her out. If she rejects your flirts and touches, then you need to decide if you still want to be "just…
/r/seduction17/03/17 02:48 PM
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so why all the tactics, games, and strategy? Because multiple strategies can work on different people. It depends on both the guy and the girl.
/r/seduction17/03/17 02:34 PM
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I'm not arguing go direct, I'm arguing for your sake to figure out what is your authentic way of approaching LIFE. :) Which you may already be doing with indirect. The important thing is to experience, reflect and verify this for yourself. /u/wowzaza is 100% correct on this. You read up, you watch the videos, but in the end, you need to try them to find the style and techniques that fit your personality and abilities, and that you are comfortable with. I go direct. I make eye contact, smirk, and…
/r/seduction17/03/17 02:31 PM
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Great. Now get her to go out with you! When you do, hug her as soon as you see her. Its sets the tone that this will be a physical relationship. Flirt and physically escalate when you can. Then, after the date, wait for her to TXT you back.
/r/seduction16/03/17 01:51 PM
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I approach girls with no fear. Great, no approach anxiety. I rarerly ask them out. Only if they show intrest. You need to ask, even if its just for a number. Most women expect men to lead and take the initiative. Be bold and courageous! Im not that good with flirting but im trying my best! here are some videos on how to flirt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_dUqlMkFx8 TrippAdvice How to Flirt over TXT https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmEcPPJMtH0 Tripp Advice Flirting – Verbally and Physically h…
/r/seduction16/03/17 01:30 PM
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Thats great. Just ask some of them to hang out with you, someplace fun, somewhere social (with other people). You can either flirt with them, or just be seen with them, which helps your social proof. Take pics and post to social media. You can always ask them to bring their friends to hang out also. And, you can always ask them to just hook you up with one of their friends...
/r/seduction16/03/17 01:19 PM
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That fast, really? If you are really motivated, like anything in life, you can be taught the skills to better communicate with women you are attracted to fairly quickly. Then again, from making a decision to go for girls finally to getting the second kiss of my life it was only about two weeks... As you can see, you have some of your own proof in your abilities and strengths... What kinda killed my motivation was reading about what others do Do not ever compare yourself to anyone. Don't do that.…
/r/seduction16/03/17 01:13 PM
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You were taught to speak, then you "learned" to socialize with people. But you just never learned to talk to women, other then in a friendly way. Being taught to “Confidently, un-apologetically and assertively show your honest intent to a woman while simultaneously remaining outcome independent” is not a bad thing. This is not deceiving anyone, this is not immoral, not unethical. You are only training your brain to better communicate with women you are attracted to. You are not learning some tri…
/r/seduction16/03/17 12:56 PM
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I've been doing good with cashiers though Great. Keep it up. Find more malls, with more cashiers, clerks, waitresses, and hostesses. Push your self. You can overcome this, and when you do, you will be a Cold Approach expert!
/r/seduction15/03/17 06:48 PM
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Often these questions are written by people who are terrified of rejection and want to be 100% sure of success before ever making a clear move. I was, once, one of these guys who was paralyzed with fear. So I question why some guys are like this, and how to most efficiently get them over it. If you have any theories, Kitt, I would love to hear them. Was it something in their past, or just the luck of their genes... I can tell you, it made for a very frustrating and sad life when it came to meeti…
/r/seduction15/03/17 06:42 PM
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what the guys here at seddit believe is better Either. It depends on the guys ability...both will work.
/r/seduction15/03/17 06:14 PM
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Stop Fapping for a month and your entire outlook on girls and life will change. I promise.
/r/seduction15/03/17 05:51 PM
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You should have added the additional goals of: Date many different girls, even a few at the same time Don't get into a relationship with the first one that fucks you...
/r/seduction15/03/17 05:49 PM
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Nothing. If she said she is only willing to go out with you, as a friend, but you like her more then that...then you need to not go out with her and talk to other girls. Go out with other girls, and show some social proof, then maybe, just maybe this one will think differently of you. But for now, you 2 are "just friends".
/r/seduction15/03/17 05:46 PM
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I got female friends This is a great asset to have. You can always ask some of them out, or just ask them to set you up with some of their friends.
/r/seduction15/03/17 05:32 PM
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i dont get what im doing wrong Answer my questions: Do you Approach Girls? Do you Ask them Out? Do you Flirt? Do you Physically Escalate? Do you try to kiss her? When with a girl do you think to yourself "I am a confident and fun guy...and I am going to fuck her silly tonight!" ? Do you Fap too much? Do you live a healthy lifestyle?
/r/seduction15/03/17 05:30 PM
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and still light years away from being actually confident with women and in a position where I choose them instead the other way around. Why do you believe that? As an educated guy going after his Masters, why do you choose to believe that, and not believe that the techniques to approach girls are proven, reliable, and teachable?
/r/seduction15/03/17 05:20 PM
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what's the point of living your life if you will always be a weak sucker who cowers before women, right? No. If you are willing, you can be taught the social skills, body language, flirting, escalation techniques ,and style that will allow you to talk to and date women. how long does it take to go from nothing to someone? How motivated are you? How willing and able are you to do the things necessary to change your life and attitude? I expect 3-6 months if you are really motivated and dedicated. …
/r/seduction15/03/17 05:09 PM
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Google "How to flirt with a girl" or go to youtube and do the same
/r/seduction13/03/17 06:42 PM
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What an interesting story, lesson, and title!
/r/seduction13/03/17 06:26 PM
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I agree, don't hold back because a few haters are going to hate...for the benefit of everyone else, please, voice your opinions... And in all honesty, a women's opinion should be greatly valued here...
/r/seduction12/03/17 07:46 PM
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I like that idea: Be Responsive, Not Reactive. I may have to steal that Kitt!
/r/seduction12/03/17 07:38 PM
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My idea is to have him approach in "low risk" or "no risk" situations. No pressure, no risk, no fear. He needs to train his brain that he can approach girls. And the more he does it, the more confidence he will build. Its so easy. Anyone can do it! Even you my friend.
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:17 PM
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Great journey and great story. Thanks for posting!
/r/seduction10/03/17 01:32 PM
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Then start in a mall, and talk to all the cashiers, clerks, waitresses, and hostesses you can find. Same scenario, find a girl cashier, make eye contact, smirk and say "Hey...I saw you standing here and just wanted to come over and say hi...what is your name?" [she gives name] "Great, well I don't want to hold you up...have a great day..." Girls in retail are no risk at all, as they are paid to deal with the public and customers. Surely you can go into a store, buy a pack of gum, and ask the cas…
/r/seduction10/03/17 11:58 AM
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Great. Please report back how well it works. Plenty of other guys with AA would love to hear your results...
/r/seduction10/03/17 11:53 AM
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It was kind of strange that something I made so complicated my whole life was so easy. Yes! Yes! Yes! At first, the approach concept is "kinda strange", then, after you do it a few times, and train your brain that its OK to approach and just talk to people, you now think its "kinda strange" that you were so shy before...
/r/seduction10/03/17 11:50 AM
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Yes, it actually works. I know, if you are not used to approaching people, this can seem strange, at first. I can tell you from personal experience, that I have walked up to people, used this exact phrase, said hi, asked for her name, then excused myself and left. It works. And its no risk. without actually wanting anything But you do want something, you want to meet her, you want to say hi, and you want to know her name. In in almost every case (99.9%), you should get it it, too. With no risk o…
/r/seduction10/03/17 11:47 AM
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You should be the man and lead, initiate, and make the move. That's what most girls expect.
/r/seduction10/03/17 11:32 AM
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This worked for me, it should work for you: Go and find a place where the kinda girls you like are. Find some girls, average, cute, plain, and just approach them. All of them. Make Eye Contact, Smile, and just say "Hey...I saw you sitting here and just wanted to come over and say hi...what is your name?" [she gives name] "Great, well I don't want to hold you up...have a great day..." Just do that for starters. Do it like 10 times. You will see, almost all of them will offer their name, and then …
/r/seduction09/03/17 07:10 PM
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I have not, but I don't blindly go and cold approach either. I will make some type of eye contact a few times before I walk over to someone. I am looking for, what they call, the IOIs (indicators of interest). Now, if I walk into a room, and the girl is staring at me from the start, I won't wait, and will directly approach, as that is a good enough IOI for me. During the interaction, if I feel things are not progressing in a positive manor, I will not blindly "ask for the number" or suggest we "…
/r/seduction09/03/17 11:18 AM
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just try to approach this girl in person 100% correct, you got do this in real life to fix it.
/r/seduction08/03/17 08:16 PM
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I am a binary kind of guy. Its either a yes or no, technically a 0 or a 1. I either could fuck her, or could not fuck her. There is no 1-10 scale for me. It then takes a few minutes to decide if I would fuck her. Then a few more to decide if I want to fuck her...and if I want to try... And it takes less then a second for me (and most men) to make that initial decision whether I could. (Most guys don't understand how lucky they are that girls take a few minutes to make the same choice!)
/r/seduction08/03/17 03:49 PM
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In any case, whether I use the word "date" or "hang out", I open each new meeting with a nice hug. It sets the tone from the start that this will be a physical relationship. No one is ever confused on what I want...
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:42 PM
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never actually follow up and Yes, don't be like that. Surely you are not like that anymore?
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:38 PM
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You can just ask her "When are you free to hang out?" She will reply. Set date. Ask her if she wants popcorn with her movie... Keep temp low in room, keep blanket on couch...snuggle
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:37 PM
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we talked for the entire 3 hours Focus on this, and don't play any games. Do you have her number? If not, just ask for it. You don't need an excuse to get it. Or just chat her up, tell her, hey, I like talking to you, we should hang out sometime... See what she says. Don't make this more complicated then it needs to be. Oh, and don't wait. DO NOT WAIT. You have already decided you are interesed to get to know her better, so you need to act, now. if you don't, the perfect opportunity never comes,…
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:29 PM
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The interaction should not look like a pickup, it should look like you and the girl hanging out. You don't want to be remembered as the guy who picked her up, but rather the guy she had a fun time with hanging out with. The point is to move the interaction forward, whether to a coffee shop, a park, or even a bench 5 feet away. It doesn't matter. The question "what are you doing right now" is a perfect bridge to this.
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:26 PM
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Sure, go. Find out what shes been up to. She may have just broken up with someone, or she may be enagaged. You never know until you ask. Then, flirt and escalate as required. Let her know, you are interested in her. Let her tell you how to proceed...
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:25 PM
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Usually, yes. Unless, you have food in your teeth, or a cold sore, then all bets are off! Seriously.
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:23 PM
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So if you are inexperienced, tell her that. Tell her, you are so interested in her, and confused, because you have never done this before, and don't understand everything that you are feeling, other then this crazy desire that you just need to get know her better...
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:21 PM
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After a few rejections I give myself time to recover . I'll say a couple of months when I'm over the rejection. I think you need to back up a bit. Open some girls, talk, laugh...but don't ask for the number or date. Focus on building a great initial interaction with the girls. The initial interaction should not look like a pickup, it should look like you and the girl hanging out. You don't want to be remembered as the guy who picked her up, but rather the guy she had a fun time with hanging out …
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:46 PM
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Do these exercises as I outlined them, and let me know how it works for you.
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:41 PM
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You sound like a guy, more then a bi-girl asking for advice, IMHO. As a bi-girl, you seduce a girl a bit differently then a guy would seduce the same girl. Girls get other girls by playing on their emotional and sensitivity needs.
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:39 PM
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I told her to text me that night You TXT her, thats the way it works best. Just go back and forth a few times, and get a feel for how busy she is. I assume she is real busy, so don't get all butt-hurt when she doesn't get back to you right away. Eventually, find out when she is free to hang out, even if its for a short coffee break during studying.
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:35 PM
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She did eventually reply, so wait a day and then just ask her "so, when are you free to hang out" If she replies, she is interested. If she is not, she will ignore you. Later, send her a MEME of something cute and funny, your type of humor. Too many guys get butt-hurt when a girl doesn't reply right away. Don't be that guy.
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:30 PM
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Is this a "date"? if so, hug her as soon as you see her, no one ever rejects a hug and it sets the tone that this will be a physical interaction from the start. (and not a hug you would give your grandmother, give her a real body-to-body hug! Smell her hair, gently kiss her head, say "your hair smells nice...") The secret to getting your goal is to flirt and physically escalate with her. Play the movie, and sit next to her. Touch her with your leg or arms. Snuggle up to her. Turn the temp down, …
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:04 PM
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Do you really think people in there 30s, 40s, and 50s don't date and have sex? People get divorced, widowed, or just need a change of scenery all the time...
/r/seduction08/03/17 12:49 PM
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Dude, I am almost twice your age. It is never too late to get out and socialize, make friends, meet girls and hook up. There is no reason, at 24, that you still do not "have the chance"...
/r/seduction08/03/17 12:47 PM
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So i just go out I and talk to girls? Solo? Go out to get rejected? Yes, yes, and not exactly.... Go and find a place where the kinda girls you like are. Find some girls, average, cute, plain, and just approach them. All of them. Make Eye Contact, Smile, and just say "Hey...I saw you sitting here and just wanted to come over and say hi...what is your name?" [she gives name] "Great, well I don't want to hold you up...have a great day..." Just do that for starters. Do it like 10 times. You will se…
/r/seduction08/03/17 12:32 PM
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Just tell her...its no big deal.
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:42 PM
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Flirting is like teasing. I don't really ever neg, i don't believe in putting people down, and I don't think it works. So, you verbally flirt and physically escalate, as much as she lets you. Watch her body language and reactions. She will let you know how well its working, or not working.
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:40 PM
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Ask her for her number. TXT her a few times. then ask her to "hang out"...
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:35 PM
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Ask her out on a date. Then flirt and physically escalate. Innocent touching first, then work your way up to arm-in-arm and hand holding. Then, when you sit, you sit next to her. Then you get closer to her, touch her foot with your foot, touch her leg, and whisper in her ear a few times, then just grab her by the back of the head under her hair, and go for the kiss. You usually need to kiss before fucking...usually.
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:34 PM
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you need to flirt and physically escalate, not her. Be the man and lead! find my previous post where I pasted a bunch of links on how to flirt and escalate.
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:30 PM
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All he did was drug and rape the girls, and get it covered up because he was a rich black celebrity.
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:27 PM
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ADVICE: Don't ask them out. Start by making a cold approach, and just opening and talking to them. No pressure for a number or anything. Focus on the interaction. Just open with a "Hi, saw you and wanted to come over and say hi...what is your name?" Then, when you are comfortable with that, focus on asking them some open ended questions (questions that can't answered with a yes, no, OK, fine, etc). Questions that start with a "why" or "how". Focus on the interactions with the girls, and the numb…
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:25 PM
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Tom torero's beginner daygame /u/Chicagoj1563 This is a great fucking video for beginners! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-Sehh-yD-c Tom Torero Beginners Guide to Daygame
/r/seduction07/03/17 06:03 PM
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I use that line almost exclusively, as I don't like to play games when I first meet someone new. It has never been poorly received, as its not what you say, its how you say it. When I first see a girl I might be interested in, I make eye contact, and will almost immediately walk boldly and assertively to her, while keeping good eye contact. When closer I will crack a James Bond smirk and say " Hey, I just saw you sitting here and wanted to come over and say hi...what is your name..." Girls want …
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:41 PM
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I say go for it. If you feel strongly about something, then just do it. Keep in mind, she may not leave him, and he will not talk to you anymore too.
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:34 PM
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Introvert - Does not mind being alone, can enjoy one-on-one connections with people Extrovert - Gets energy from others, like to be around other people, likes to socialize in groups. I'm sure there is a better definition out there...
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:22 PM
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Here, watch a bunch of Brent's videos: You Never Have to Chase Women Again | Brent Smith https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oq8FAou_oGQ
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:19 PM
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Better question: why do you feel that you still can not ask her out now?
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:18 PM
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Once a girl has developed an impression of you, that's pretty much how it stays. Come on now. Its completely possible (but not likely) to break out of the friend zone. Most guys are just not willing or able to do the work required. I know from experience, after pulling away from two "Friend-Zoners", that the girls came back to me, looking for more. (Sadly, at the time, I had serious self-image, self esteem, self-worth problems and did not escalate when they did come back to me...)
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:15 PM
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You must: talk to girl flirt with girl Physically escalate Kiss Take clothes off fuck
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:09 PM
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You date someone to get to know them better. FWBs just fuck...
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:07 PM
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/u/TheXXL is right. If you help her now, you only become her BFF. Trust me, I know, I was the "nice guy" on the floor in my dorm that used to always help the drunk girls back to their rooms...never got me anything but heartache.
/r/seduction07/03/17 05:03 PM
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I think you still need to take some time to work on you and get over the 2 year LTR. Use this time to do something for you. Work out, learn a new language, make some new friends and do some new things. Sounds like you could benefit from building back up your self-esteem. See...mentally you need to distance yourself from the old you in the LTR, and build up a new and exciting you that girls will want to hang out with. So yes, you may need to change your wardrobe, and improve your style a bit. And…
/r/seduction07/03/17 04:47 PM
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I think it sounds legit, but what does it change if it is or isn't? You need to give her some space now. TXT her in a few days (like 3-5) and see if she is free to hang out.
/r/seduction07/03/17 04:44 PM
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A few questions can help me better understand who you are: Where do you like to hang out and have fun? Do you socialize a lot? Are you more of an Introvert, or an Extrovert? Have you ever dated? Are you a virgin? Do you have a job? Do you live alone? Do you like cats or dogs? :)
/r/seduction07/03/17 04:41 PM
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You need to make good eye contact with the girl, and smile at the same time. You need to ask her about her, and get her to open up to you. You need to ask her Open Ended Questions, questions that don't end in a Yes, No, Maybe, Fine, OK, etc etc. You want to get her to talk about her Goals, Ambitions, Dreams, and Accomplishments. Things with feelings, that you can make an emotional connection to. You also need to learn to flirt and physically escalate. Its easy. Flirting https://www.youtube.com/w…
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:35 PM
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Get her number and just TXT her, she already knows who you are. Don't wait on this.... Just TXT her a few cute things back and forth, then ask her to "hang out" and see what she says. Do it now before the cabin trip...
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:30 PM
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You just need to learn to flirt and physically escalate. Its easy. Flirting https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_dUqlMkFx8 TrippAdvice How to Flirt over TXT https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmEcPPJMtH0 Tripp Advice Flirting – Verbally and Physically https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LP9zilOUGZ8 Tripp Advice How to Flirt with a Girl https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7c9FhfCtE7M Todd Valentine How to Flirt Physically Escalating https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo TrippAdvice How to touch for the f…
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:27 PM
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Just being yourself and learning how to : talk to girls, asking for numbers, asking her out, and flirting and physically escalating...are two completely different things. Any guy can learn these things. But only you can be you... See?
/r/seduction06/03/17 05:19 PM
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I suggest you try. You will never know unless you try.
/r/seduction06/03/17 12:53 AM
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girls that only see me as entertainment until someone they're really interested in comes along Again, they are only acting that way in reaction to how you are acting... or not acting. I was like you, so I know. You seem to be able to make friends with girls very easily. Now you just need to learn to act on your intentions. You need to be the man, lead, ask them out. Show them you are interested in them, physically. Not all of them will feel the same way, but some will, so don't be discouraged wh…
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:55 AM
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feels like i built a worthless friendship. its not even a friendship. (I am so glad to hear you acknowledge this) Yes, it wasn't a true friendship, because, deep down, you always wanted more, but you were not being honest with yourself, and acting on your true intentions. And you were not honest with her either...She knew (most girls do) so she is not pleased either. (she will have no emotional sympathy for you and your weaknesses either) Girls want guys to lead. To take the initiative, act, and…
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:42 AM
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How much later? I'll agree teenager love is crazy and not based upon much, other then hormones...so you may have point.
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:25 AM
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would it be strange just out of the blue talking to her for a bit and then asking her out? No, it would show her you were interested. Girls want to be wanted. They want the attention, they want guys to be interested in them. See, you just talk to her for a bit, then say something like "Hey, i know its been a while since we hung out, but I really like talking to you, why don't we...[fill in date option here]".
/r/seduction03/03/17 11:16 AM
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Why are we not able to just go out and be ourselves and meet girls like 90% of normal people do? If being yourself allows you to approach, open, engage, and get some numbers from girls, then sure, be yourself. But, if like some guys, they have no clue how to even approach a girl, let along what to say when they first open. And it gets worse if you are a smart guy in a technical field, where you were never exposed or worked with girls while growing up and in school. I believe your statement that …
/r/seduction02/03/17 06:36 PM
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You may have the wrong goals. If your goal is to get numbers, you are doing that. Your goal should be to have a great and memorable experience with the girl before you get the number. You are possibly not flirting or physically escalating enough, if even at all... The interaction should not look like a pickup, it should look like you and the girl hanging out. You don't want to be remembered as the guy who picked her up, but rather the guy she had a fun time with hanging out with. And that should…
/r/seduction02/03/17 06:24 PM
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Ask her out already. What are you waiting for? Seriously. Life waits for no one... She keeps giving you an opportunity to be with her...
/r/seduction02/03/17 06:22 PM
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Yes, it does have its place in biology and evolution. Steven Hawking, one of the smartest guys of our generation, is crippled, one ugly mother fucker, and has been married twice, and had plenty more girls then that. You think those women wanted his looks or his money? They were attracted to his mind...
/r/seduction02/03/17 06:14 PM
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If they are looking at you that intently, I would get closer to them and start the physical escalation!
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:56 PM
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This will help with the Physical Escalation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo TrippAdvice How to touch for the first time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoBDe8gr0VQ Tripp Advice How to touch a girl before you kiss her https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wa9j9ZcJGRw Tripp Advice How to go from talking to kissing Don't be afraid to touch a girl, first on the arms, then hands, you work your way closer to her, then you can put your arm around her. get close enough to whisper to her...
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:39 PM
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true, some girls will lead you on. But you need to change your approach to this whole thing. You need to be the man and lead, and ask girls out, then you take them out, have fun, and escalate verbally and physically. Girls want to be wanted.
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:35 PM
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No. You should not wait a month before kissing them, you kiss them when you have physically escalated to the point that a kiss, is expected and wanted.
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:33 PM
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leading them on for months Dude, you are leading your self on for months. I should know, I was like that back in school. You need to approach and make you intentions clear, from the beginning... It will change your life if you can just quickly tell the girl "hey, I find you interesting and cute and would love to take you out sometime". Instead you are building friendships or worse, you are boring them and never making the move. Don't give up, change your approach. We can help you.
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:32 PM
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I can see where some guys here have a problem with the title and believing the moral of this story. We have been taught or told that the most beautiful women in the world are the most untouchable, shallow and un-loving creatures in the world, and to avoid them at all cost. And until you actually get to find the ones that are not like that, its very hard to believe. An (honest) man who is calm, cool, collected, comfortable and confident will trump an Abercrombie model every time.
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:27 PM
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Very Nice! Now use this momentum to approach a few more girls!
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:02 PM
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I had paralyzing approach anxiety for almost 25 years. For as long as I can remember. (well, I know it started when I was 14...) I too, would literally freeze when I saw a girl I liked. It sucked...for a long long long time... I too, used to get drunk with friends, and sometimes find myself looking into a mirror thinking that I looked ugly... Eventually I just started talking to people like waitresses, hostesses, cashiers, clerks, anybody in stores really. Reading up on "how" to talk to people g…
/r/seduction27/02/17 05:41 PM
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I just can't relate, I don't really like the same things they do, and TBH they don't really have a reason to like me. You don't have to, you need to learn to ask people about themselves. People love to talk about themselves, and will like you, if you ask them about them, and tell them how interesting their lives are.
/r/seduction27/02/17 05:06 PM
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read "How to Win Friends and Influence People". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People Follow the proven tips in this book.
/r/seduction27/02/17 04:45 PM
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Quote Red Riding Hood: "oh thanks...[small smile]..." "all the better to see you with my dear...:) " with a bigger smile.
/r/seduction24/02/17 07:52 PM
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/u/abstractpickupartist is right. You gota figure out what makes you happy in this world, and go and pursue it. Meditate, and figure out what you like to do, figure out what you want and what you need in this life. Only then, will you be truly happy. Then the rest of the pieces will come together.
/r/seduction24/02/17 07:49 PM
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She told you what was wrong "she's sick of being used". You can now either tell her something along the lines that "you would really like to just have a nice date with her at a nice coffee house so you two can get to know each other, no alcohol and no drunkin hookups allowed"...and see if she bites. If that is what you want. If that's too complicated, then move on. Help me reddit, am I doing something clearly wrong? Surely if she wasn't attracted to me she wouldn't have even come back to the bar…
/r/seduction24/02/17 07:28 PM
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To warm up I suggest you go to a mall and talk to all the cashiers, clerks, and waitresses you can find. Ask them how they are doing, are they busy today, ask them if they get annoyed at annoying customers asking annoying questions. By this point, you should be sufficiently relaxed, humored, and ready to approach some hot chicks.
/r/seduction24/02/17 07:21 PM
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Walk up to her, smile, make eye contact and just say "hey, I've seen you a few times in [name of class]...whats your name?" Talk briefly about the class, but ask her how she liked it and what she thought about it. Then just find something interesting about her and ask her about it. Something she is holding, wearing, or doing. Say "Hey I fucking love that jacket...where did you get it?" or "hey, i fucking love that hair color, what do you call it? Do you dye it yourself, do you ever go blond?" As…
/r/seduction24/02/17 07:16 PM
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You need to verbally Flirt and Physically Escalate to get to the point to kiss her: Here are some videos to help you along: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo TrippAdvice How to touch for the first time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoBDe8gr0VQ Tripp Advice How to touch a girl before you kiss her https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wa9j9ZcJGRw Tripp Advice How to go from talking to kissing A proven method of mine, is, after innocently touching her for a bit, is to get close to her and sta…
/r/seduction24/02/17 07:06 PM
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You seem to have Approach Anxiety. Go to a mall and go into every store, and talk to all the cashiers, clerks, watresses, and hostesses you can find. Just say hi, ask them how their day is, ask them if they are bust, ask them if they get annoyed when annoying customers ask them annoying questions... Do this 1000 times, and you not be shy anymore.
/r/seduction24/02/17 06:54 PM
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Ask people about themselves. People love to talk about their interests and hobbies. From "How to Win Friends and Influence People" Six Ways to Make People Like You Become genuinely interested in other people. "You can make more friends in two months by being interested in them, than in two years by making them interested in you."The only way to make quality, lasting friendships is to learn to be genuinely interested in them and their interests. Smile. Happiness does not depend on outside circums…
/r/seduction24/02/17 06:44 PM
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I will find you a link or two this weekend to support my position. I'll post back then I have some. Found a great one. Todd Valentine is a pro, and I would say an Introvert himself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9UZXdGDMShk Todd Valentine An Introverts Guide to Getting Girls
/r/seduction24/02/17 04:58 PM
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Not true. Introverts are better then extroverts for pickup because its easier to make a one-on-one connections with a single person. You just need to learn to approach and open a girl. Takes practice!
/r/seduction24/02/17 11:36 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7c9FhfCtE7M Todd Valentine How to Flirt
/r/seduction23/02/17 07:24 PM
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Dude, you are young and lots of kids your age get braces. So....you need to own it. You have braces, and thats just how it is for now. Own it. It is what it is. Its really not so bad, so don't dwell on it. Not exactly related, but for some reason I always found girls cuter with braces on...
/r/seduction23/02/17 07:23 PM
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except I couldn't get hard Stop Fapping. PIED - Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction. If you don't Fap, then try to relax and not be so nervous. Maybe you are moving too fast for yourself. I honestly hate sex in cars, other peoples closets, etc etc, and always wanted to \ had to finish "in a bed".
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:28 PM
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My boss at work comes across as a VERY confident man. He is 'on his life's purpose' as they say, with a fire in his belly to succeed, BUT he'd fold like origami if I made him approach some Victoria's Secret model in a pub. I've seen him fold and get flustered on a works night out with the gorgeous young friend of one of his members of staff who caught his eye. That was me, many years ago. I was Bold and Confident in my career, took no prisoners, got promoted all the time, but in social setting, …
/r/seduction22/02/17 04:14 PM
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Where did you get the 80% - 20% ratio?
/r/seduction22/02/17 03:53 PM
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Cut back on the alcohol and make eye contact...that's the lesson.
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:23 PM
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I know for a fact, that attitude, confidence, demeanor, body language, eye contact, a genuine smile, clothing style, and vocal tonality all play a part in how girls initially respond and react to you. All of those things I listed can be addressed, improved, and enhanced upon by almost all guys. The ability to make yourself more interesting to girls, is within all guys. (whether they can or really want to make the changes is a different story). I know all this because I was once paralyzed with Ap…
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:15 PM
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While I can't offer any more "proof" that the Simple Pickup videos are real, I will agree they are indeed edited with all the rejections taken out. So...for the opposite end of the argument, I present you with Kong from Simple Pickup getting rejected...all night: (and yes, they address the fakeness of it all) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOHuawIzEqs Kong failing left and right! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UK6ajgz0Rac Kong failing a lot
/r/seduction21/02/17 05:44 PM
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It is easy. Solid Eye Contact Genuine Smile Hugs Verbally Flirt Innocently Touch Ask her about her Thats it for starters. Good luck!
/r/seduction21/02/17 05:37 PM
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In general I follow the following advice when opening girls: I find something interesting about her, something she is holding, wearing, or doing, and I ask her about it, and\or complement it. For example, "hey, thats a cool leather jacket...where did you get it?" "I fucking love your hair color, whats the name of that color? Do you dye it yourself...do you ever go blond?" I won't compliment her on her looks right away, as I want to compliment something she has control over, something she works o…
/r/seduction21/02/17 05:27 PM
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"Hi. Its been a while, how ya been? " "Hey...whats new?" "So...been causing any trouble these last 2 years :) " "Just got out of jail...man its been a while...whats up? j/k"
/r/seduction21/02/17 05:01 PM
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In the end, it doesn't matter "what" you say, as long as you say something (with solid eye contact and a genuine smile). The "hi" just gets her attention.
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:59 PM
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OK, I saw the opener for you when girls are hostile right off the bat. https://youtu.be/rhepecGatgc?t=3m5s Simply said, you shut them down, tell them to stop, tell them you understand why they are coming off so hostile, tell them they don't need to be hostile towards you, that all you want to do is meet them and talk to them a bit. Not sure how well this will work, but, like anything, its worth a try!
/r/seduction20/02/17 08:16 PM
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Depends on where you left off.
/r/seduction20/02/17 08:03 PM
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Ask her to "hang out" and see what she says. Don't ever bring up the BF. When you get her out, even just for a soda, you escalate. Yoi verbally flirt (tease her), and physically escalate (innocent touching) on her arm, leg, hands, back. When you sit with her, you sit next to her, and you touch her foot with yours.
/r/seduction20/02/17 08:01 PM
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would instantly throw a red flag to her (like why is this dude talking to me) Red Flag? NO. It would tell her you were interested in her. She knows why you are talking to her...its not weird. Girls want to be wanted. I would be back at the same baseline and needing a true opener, no? No. You then ask her a few questions. Come here often? Whats you favorite dish? Even better, you compliment her on something she is holding, wearing, or doing. "Thats a cool leather jacket, where did you get it" Do …
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:56 PM
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You walk right up to her, heal to toe, big steps, you stand tall, you make eye contact, you smile and say "Hi, I just saw you and and couldn't forgive my self if I didn't say hi to you...what is you name?"
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:54 PM
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You need to socialize more. You need to get out, find some hobbies or clubs. Even try to volunteer for events. You can always go out to a bar or club and not drink alcohol. You need to get out to meet girls. But I also feel you may still have some Approach Anxiety issues, you may want to learn to work through them first. I don't think you really know how to OPEN a girl you know nothing about... Ask for more help on that if needed. You are a successful college grad with a good job and an amazing …
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:47 PM
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looking for advice on how to make it clear I'm not just looking for a friend When you see her, I suggest you give her a hug. It sets the tone, initially, that this will be a physical thing, plus...no one ever rejects a hug. Don't worry about the Friend-Zone thing right now, focus on simple flirting and physical touching, and getting her to know you. Should I be trying to escalate on this date? Always. You verbally flirt when you can, and physically touch her when you can. Innocent touching of he…
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:25 PM
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Yes Billybreezy...but what did you learn from this?
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:10 PM
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First, I love this Video from Simple Pickup talking about the people who won't try and blame everyone for there failures: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wLtFvC0yAsw Simple Pickup Excuses, Excuses, Excuses Second to answer the OP, Kong and Jessie (from Simple Pickup) are not attractive, were not rich, not tall, and rumor has it that Kong has a small penis. Both of these guys have videos of their successes, despite the noted issues. Its because of their CONFIDENCE. Now, here is what Jessie used t…
/r/seduction20/02/17 06:23 PM
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/u/GlassJOE is really right: Using her name when talking to her is a very powerful and intimate thing to do. "Hi, [name]", is so much better then just "hi". A nice genuine smile, even a small James Bond smirk will be fine. It should be genuine, and not look forced. (you can practice in a mirror if you need to, models practice in mirrors all the time...) Solid eye contact. Look her in the eyes when talking to her. Don't stare, and don't look down, or all around. Look at her.
/r/seduction15/02/17 06:50 PM
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Ask her about her. Find something interesting about her, something she is wearing, holding, or doing, and just ask her about it. Say "hey, I like that leather jacket...where did you get it?". Or try "hey, thats a fucking cool red hair color...what is the name of that color?...do you dye it yourself?...do you ever go blond...." Or "hey, I see you read John Grisham...he is on the NY Times best seller list...what types of books do you like to read..."
/r/seduction15/02/17 06:42 PM
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Because there is more to attraction then you can see, touch, or smell. Its a bio-chemical-physical process that people have no control over. Pheromones and Oxytocin. Still not completely understood. http://abcnews.go.com/Health/story?id=116833 Even the whole Puppy Eyes phenomenom is not understood: http://www.latimes.com/science/la-sci-sn-dog-human-bond-eyes-20150416-story.html Imagine if you could bottle these up and...just spray it on someone you want. LOL
/r/seduction15/02/17 06:17 PM
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I like to start a first date with a nice hug. if she hugs back, or holds me tight, I will kiss her on the head. This immediately sets the tone that this will be a physical relationship. I always try to grab her arm-in-arm when walking, put my hand on her lower back to guide her, and work my way to holding her hand. When sitting, I will sit next to her, and touch her foot with mine, then use my hands on her leg when I can. All of this, while also verbally flirting with her. With no physical conta…
/r/seduction15/02/17 06:08 PM
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You are "The Prize"! PM me if you want some help getting over the AA. [I had crippling AA for a long time, so I'm sure I can help!]
/r/seduction15/02/17 05:48 PM
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Was this the first date? If so, it sounds fine. Always go for the kiss... Follow some of Tripps advice on how to go from innocent touching to a kiss: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo TrippAdvice How to touch for the first time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoBDe8gr0VQ Tripp Advice How to touch a girl before you kiss her https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wa9j9ZcJGRw Tripp Advice How to go from talking to kissing
/r/seduction14/02/17 06:13 PM
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that would probably work. just tell her you forgot its V Day, and didn't want to make things weird
/r/seduction14/02/17 05:42 PM
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For a long time, I too, thought I was ugly and un-attractive. Eventually I came to believe that it was all in my head, and allowed my self to slowly, cautiously, approach. But now, with all the videos of average guys picking up girls, even guys in a fat suit, I learned it was all about confidence. I learned to get over my Approach Anxiety, learned to not-give-a- fuck about the outcome, and go out to just have a good time... ...and my life has never been the same since! https://www.youtube.com/wa…
/r/seduction14/02/17 04:01 PM
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Put a plan together on what you want to change. Set some goals. Break them down into weekly chuncks. So, for instance... week 1: start working out, cut out the sugar week 2: start eating right, no junk food, more vegatables and fruits week 3: start looking for a new wardrobe. Figure out what styles you like...and buy some, donate your old clothes to charity. if you create a realistic plan, with attainable goals, and stick with it, it will work. Follow this guys site, he has a ton of great info f…
/r/seduction14/02/17 03:44 PM
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Keep in mind, last minute plans are bad, especially for people who are on a schedule. Keep that in mind when you ask "so, what are you doing tonight..."
/r/seduction14/02/17 03:37 PM
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Why don't you just ask her....
/r/seduction14/02/17 03:25 PM
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You seem a bit depressed. Do what makes you happy in life. You don't need another person in life to be happy, but most want someone else.
/r/seduction14/02/17 03:23 PM
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Follow these tips for TXTing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9BUiX1zOiGE TrippAdvice Hot to TXT a girl https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ErOwia3Ep8 TrippAdvice 6 TXT mistakes https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_dUqlMkFx8 TrippAdvice How to Flirt over TXT
/r/seduction14/02/17 02:34 PM
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You have chatted them up, but it does not sound like you verbally or physically escalated (flirting or innocent touching). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7c9FhfCtE7M Todd Valentine How to Flirt Here is a great video on how to initiate the innocent touching: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo TrippAdvice How to touch for the first time You will also need to verbally escalate a bit, otherwise known as flirting. Some type of teasing, simple, playful back and forth, is all that is required…
/r/seduction14/02/17 02:10 PM
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Work on finding something to relate to as quickly as possible. It would be clunky at first. Eventually as you practice you'll build a smooth way to do this. Great point. I suggest you find something interesting about her, something she is holding, wearing, or doing, and just ask her about it.
/r/seduction14/02/17 02:08 PM
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They sit next to you because you are not looking at them, and they are not offended by you, and they do not believe you are a risk to them. You are perceived as safe. Take to this heart, as you are not perceived as ugly or a risk, by these women. I think I'm unattractive You should try to get over your approach anxiety...I think you would see some interesting results...
/r/seduction13/02/17 06:41 PM
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99.999999% of his success, is his confidence, his drive, his leading them, his charm, his wit, and his ability to bring them home. The alcohol is not a tool, its just a product of their environment.
/r/seduction13/02/17 05:41 PM
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Well /u/everydaybloke is right, dinner and a movie are absolutely the worst thing to do for a date. There is no way for you two to get to know each other. If you can, tell her that. You acknowledge that your date was boring and not fun. Tell her you want to do something fun with her, where you can talk, and get to know each other better. Go and play miniature golf, get some ice cream, or hot chocolate, and take a walk along the river...the shops...the mall...whatever. Sit on a bench, next to her…
/r/seduction13/02/17 05:30 PM
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great. now track her down and setup a meet up.
/r/seduction01/02/17 07:54 PM
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I meant not too forced. She clearly accepted the hug right?
/r/seduction01/02/17 07:41 PM
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Interesting. For some guys, its going to be tough to do this in 4 days. But a good solid plan, non the less!
/r/seduction01/02/17 07:39 PM
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too forced, not at all, always give a hug if you can. You could have genuinely said, "hey, we both have places to be right now, but I would love to catch up...lets exchange numbers and set something up...." She most likely would have given you her number... {you all worried about the hug...and forgot the number close...}
/r/seduction01/02/17 07:03 PM
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Kong getting rejected all night!: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOHuawIzEqs Its once of my favorites!
/r/seduction01/02/17 06:34 PM
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Maybe you blew it because you don't escalate on the girls you are interested in? Physically or Verbally?
/r/seduction01/02/17 06:23 PM
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Your problem is called "Approach Anxiety". You can search YouTube, there are literally over 300,000 videos to help you get over it: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=approach+anxiety I used to be like you, only i called it a crippling fear of rejection, and yes, it prevented me from talking to anyone I was attracted to. Over time, I acknowledged I didn't want to be this was anymore, and forced myself to start talking to girls in stores, waitresses, clerks, hostesses, anyone in retail.…
/r/seduction01/02/17 05:32 PM
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Direct Approach: You walk to her, walk tall, big steps, make eye contact, smile and just say "hey, I just saw you standing here and wanted to come over and say hi to you...what is your name?" if you are good looking and confident, then this works too: "hey, I just saw you standing here and thought you were cute and wanted to come over and say hi to you...what is your name?" Indirect Approach: You sorta walk over to her, make eye contact, smile and say "Hey, do you know where the Starbucks is...?…
/r/seduction01/02/17 05:28 PM
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Learn to ask better questions, and really listen to her answers. Ask open questions. (questions that don't end in a yes, no, maybe, fine, ok, etc) https://youtu.be/2GtcM_ob1Mw?t=23m55s The goal is to ask her about her. And to listen to her answers and to try and get more information about that topic. Find something interesting she is holding, wearing, or doing, and ask her to tell you about it. Ask her about her hobbies, or what she does for fun. Not like an interview, more like you are really i…
/r/seduction01/02/17 02:22 PM
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Its a game because finding someone, approaching someone, opening someone, creating interest and attraction, getting the number, contacting them in the future, setting up a date, going on that date, getting past the obstacles of a first date, escalating both physically (touching)and verbally (flirting), being more interesting then when you started to allow for another date... ...is like a crap shoot sometimes. Roll the Dice...to see if you get to the next step... It is a game...the game of life!
/r/seduction31/01/17 08:25 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ Corey Wayne https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjTMOi3cpslA7JUmPdfD6MQ TrippAdvice
/r/seduction31/01/17 05:31 PM
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Maybe, as someone below said, you are coming across as a player. Or your vibe is just too strong for them. A nice girl is the direct opposite of the type of girl who will sleep with you after just meeting you. Your entire approach might need to adjust in a similar way.
/r/seduction31/01/17 05:27 PM
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Ask her out, then after the date, ask her about it. Not before.
/r/seduction31/01/17 05:21 PM
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Start talking to all people you can. Everyone. Not just girls. Just get used to saying hi to people all around you. You can practice on waitresses, cashiers, clerks, anyone really in retail. They are paid to deal with the public, so they will not reject your initial approach. People in lines at a store. Say hi to 1000 people in retail, and you will never have a problem saying hi to anyone ever again. trust me. Then you work on approaching girls. All girls. Ugly, average, and hot. Approach them a…
/r/seduction31/01/17 05:13 PM
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I, too, find it hard to smile, and it almost always looks forced. Unless I am laughing, then its real. So, with a mirror and some practice, I learned to put on something I call the "James Bond Smirk". Simply said, its a once sided smile, a smirk. I also learned to tilt my head when doing it, and to also use my eyes. You can practice all of this in a mirror, and find the best smile for you. And yes, a genuine smile, no matter what it looks like, is better then anything forced. https://s-media-cac…
/r/seduction31/01/17 04:56 PM
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Just [grab yourself by the balls] and walk over to her, let her see you walking over to her. (Don't sneak up on her) Smile, make good eye contact, and just say "hi...i've seen you a few times in here...what is your name?" "Have you been coming here long?" Thats it dude, in its simplicity, you can't go wrong. Don't over think this. In fact, don't think about it at all. If you were mistaken, and she was never really looking at you, then no big deal, she will be polite and keep her answers short. I…
/r/seduction31/01/17 04:48 PM
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Go out and do something. Find something to occupy your time...hobbies, clubs, volunteer. or just socialize and make some new friends.
/r/seduction31/01/17 04:44 PM
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So...are you saying that you get all the sex you want with all the hot girls...but can't seem to get a date with a nice, attractive, emotionally stable, intelligent girl you might actually want a LTR with?
/r/seduction31/01/17 04:42 PM
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If your friends say you look like a security guard, you are not dressing well. Sorry. Review this guys web site, it has practical advice on how to "dress to impress". http://sexystyleforjoe.com/ Also, I suggest you review this YT Channel. Lots of great solid advice on how to improve your style: https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting
/r/seduction31/01/17 02:30 PM
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What do I do now? Do I ask her on a date? She just told you...gym buddy. Set the day and time.
/r/seduction31/01/17 02:24 PM
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When engaging in conversation, try to physically escalate a bit. A touch on the arm, a touch on the leg, the shoulder, the back. Innocent touching, not to strong, but a touch none the less. This should also help "him" get the message you are interested in him. Verbally escalating, flirting, with some simple teasing and playful banter would help also.
/r/seduction30/01/17 08:22 PM
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Its not what you say, its how you say it. Since you didn't really acknowledge her or say much in the beginning, you are probably fine.
/r/seduction30/01/17 08:18 PM
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Depends on your own personal goals in life. Do you want to be poor and live in your parents basement and hit on poor chicks... Do you want to invest time and effort into bettering your life and getting more money and then hitting on middle income chicks... Maybe you do nothing, win the lottery, and then hit on rich chicks... Maybe you work your tail off and get hit by a bus...and hit on no one....
/r/seduction30/01/17 07:44 PM
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I respectfully disagree. Do you know why so many guys never get a second date. Its because they did not escalate at all. A minimal amount of escalation is required. Else its just 2 friends out to lunch. I do not believe my advice was very PUA-ish. Do you really think it is? The true PUA would have the date in his bedroom with alcohol and a movie...
/r/seduction30/01/17 07:24 PM
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Damn you are right, I forgot to add anything about a little verbal flirting...I will have to edit it now. Thank!
/r/seduction30/01/17 07:22 PM
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If she doesn't reply, wait a few days and send her a MEME. Something cute and funny, and your type of humor. But keep in mind, she may not even remember who you are. If its been too long, and she has many guys TXTing and Dating her, she is just not going to remember you if you were not memorable.
/r/seduction30/01/17 07:20 PM
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As soon as you see her give her a hug. Not a handshake. A hug is more personal, more physical, and sets the tone for more physical escalation later. Plus...no one ever turns down a hug. Here is a great video from Tripp on what to talk about: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HwBY9spKt8o&t=0s TrippAdvice What to talk about Here is another in how to ask Open questions. (questions that don't end in a yes, no, maybe, fine, ok, etc) https://youtu.be/2GtcM_ob1Mw?t=23m55s The goal is to ask her about her…
/r/seduction30/01/17 06:31 PM
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Quite honestly I think she's either confused about getting in a relationship with me, worried about getting in a relationship with me or is a lesbian. Dude, there is a very good chance that she is just not ALLOWED to date you. She is from a predominantly Muslim country with VERY strict rules on relationships. Her family, her family's friends, and religious leaders may all have a say in who she "dates". And I use that term loosely, as many get set up with an arranged marriage. On top of that, her…
/r/seduction30/01/17 06:22 PM
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Here is video that shows how to start innocent touching (physical escalation) while talking. Its really easy to just touch on an arm or hand when talking without it being too direct or embarrassing. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo TrippAdvice How to touch for the first time
/r/seduction30/01/17 06:00 PM
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Good job on the approaches. I will suggest you try to ask more open ended questions. (Questions that can't be answered with a yes, no, fine, ok, etc) Also, girls love to talk about themselved. You need to ask them about them. For example, with the air hostesses... Did you ask them "so, where is the most exciting place you ever flew to....?" "Oh...you went to Singapore...that's neat...I've never been there...why was it so exciting for you...." and "OMG...thats so cool...so do you love to fly...or…
/r/seduction30/01/17 05:51 PM
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Rock on! Nice report. You may just be getting over your fears, and now the real you is shinning through! I wouldn't expect you to loose this vibe anytime soon.
/r/seduction30/01/17 05:27 PM
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OK....Now...this is the last time you will mention it. Honestly. Ever. Until you tell your kids or help out someone like you in 10 or 20 years... Good luck!
/r/seduction27/01/17 08:28 PM
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I will explain, maybe tomorrow or sunday...sorry no time today! Simply said, you need to verbally flirt and physically escalate with some innocent touching when talking with her, like this: Here are three great videos on how to start to touch a girl, and go from talking, touching to kissing. (Just so we are all clear on the KINO we are looking for here) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo TrippAdvice How to touch for the first time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoBDe8gr0VQ Tripp Advice…
/r/seduction27/01/17 08:26 PM
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Check out Corey Wayne's YouTube Page. He is about 40, and has rock solid videos and advice on dating and hooking up: https://www.youtube.com/user/coachcoreywayne He has almost 2000 videos. Might I also suggest you review your fashion wardrobe, chances are you are a bit behind the times when it comes to looking sharp and sexy: http://sexystyleforjoe.com/
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:55 PM
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Worth trying?! Dude, I am 46, and frequently hook up with women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s! Its never too late to get into the game. After 2 marriges, 4 kids, 2 grandkids, I no longer have the desire to have a LTR or another marriage...and neither do most of the women I hook up with. Women like older men for their stability, their drive, their stamina, their money. I know who I am and where I am going in life, and I am willing to bring anyone along...if only for a while... You will make new frie…
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:50 PM
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Advice? Commit!: Go out there and talk to lots of other girls, get lots of numbers, and have lots of sex.
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:41 PM
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TXT her back and tell her "you have something that can fix her computer issues...if she wants, you can stop by...no charge" I am so serious about this dude. do it!
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:37 PM
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I agree with /u/Polaritical You might just need to be more upfront, at least before the sex part. Sure you might loose a few, but you will feel better about those you do bang.
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:31 PM
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Send her a MEME, something cute and funny, your type of humor. Did she not follow up with a "I am busy this weekend, but I am free [this day] and [this day]..." ? if not, she may not be as engaged as you think. You best start talking to other girls.
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:20 PM
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I know this works for a fact: After you flirt, and feel you want the close, tell them this.... "hey, I can get fired for this...but...fuck it...I would love to talk with you latter...so...put your number in my phone..." It works!
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:18 PM
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You say to drink water, what are you views on Coffee (caffeine)?
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:10 PM
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This is a great video to help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4RJhMT1Vqq4 RSDMax How to build Social Circle
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:55 PM
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Ask her about her. Find something interesting about her and ask her about it. Listen to her answer and ask her to tell you more about it. Learn to ask open ended questions (that can't be answered with a yes, no , maybe, fine, ok, etc etc)> Get to the point that you can ask her about her dreams, goals, accomplishments. You want to get out the "why" she does the things she does, or lives the life she lives...you get to find out "who" she really is... These conversations can last all night...
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:50 PM
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Good luck. Make a plan to use your new-found free time, and use it wisely to better your self and make you a more productive and happy person. Come back and explain to everyone what you did in the last 30 days to make your self better and happier.
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:48 PM
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Are you eating right? Sleeping right? Working out? Cut out the Porn, caffeine and sugary drinks. You may need to focus on you and your goals first.
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:44 PM
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When you are engaging women, you want them to do 80% of the talking. You do this by asking them questions...about them. You try to build up a rapport as you are asking open ended questions (that can't be answered with a yes, no, maybe, fine, etc) learning about their dreams, goals, and accomplishments. Do you expect the girl to ask about you? Its not really about you...when you first meet.
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:40 PM
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Not sure, sound like she's just nuts...
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:37 PM
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I agree with /u/Murfdigidy a lot. I have to question how physical you were with the girl before you kissed her. It sounds like you took her off-guard. I like these three videos from Tripp, about physically escalating up to the kiss: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLY2yVPh1fo TrippAdvice How to touch for the first time https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IoBDe8gr0VQ Tripp Advice How to touch a girl before you kiss her https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wa9j9ZcJGRw Tripp Advice Did you so some of these …
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:28 PM
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She is not angry. She is curious. Just make eye contact, smile, say hi [name] to her, and see where it goes. Talk about "the new you...who just came out of his shell..." No risk.
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:21 PM
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Great! IMHO, When you asked her to yoga and lunch "as a friend", she saw it as a (potential) date. Not a date date where you would escalate and flirt (much), but a nice date where you just got to know each other first, without all the pressure and stress of a sexual date. Guys get hung up on the date \ friendzone lines sometimes. I've said this before, and I will say it again. I firmly believe, that anytime a guy is out with a girl, even as friends, its a (potential) date in a girls eyes. Since …
/r/seduction27/01/17 04:18 PM
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Great start! Congratulations! Now, just don't approach the ones you are attracted to. Say hi to all different types of girls so that you can get comfortable with it. Keep doing it until its a habit, so the next time you see someone you are attracted to, you won't even have to think about the approach or the open...
/r/seduction27/01/17 03:35 PM
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Wow. Great stuff here. Listen to /u/BestOfPUA I will also re-affirm you MUST bury your old self. It no longer matters what your life was like in middle school or high school. Its over 10 years ago, and a potential candidate will never care and only get turned off by it.
/r/seduction27/01/17 03:20 PM
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Sure, do what you must, but you will need to push yourself (someday) to brake out of this mentality that you have. naturally gravitate Like a random encounter? Why must it be a chance accident that you meet her? Most girls appreciate the effort a guy makes when he directly approaches her. (she may not agree to a date, but she would probably not be all offended that you approached, either) I might give off a certain vibe Yes. Exactly. You might actually give off the vibe that you are interested i…
/r/seduction27/01/17 03:02 PM
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But, please understand, there is nothing wrong with approaching people, even to just say hi. Its expected and accepted in our world. A simple hi with a smile. Thats it. There is no good reason to not approach someone. Just start by being friendly. Make friends first, increase you social circles. Every approach does not need to be, or would be thought to be, a hook up attempt.
/r/seduction27/01/17 11:22 AM
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Just say hi to people, especially people in lines or cashiers or clerks and waitresses. People who work in retail are paid to deal with the public, so they will not give you any issues. Ask they how they are doing? Some will ignore you, some will say hi back, some will just nod, and every once in a while, one will engage you back. Use this to get over the AA, and then, when in the student center, you can just say hi to people sitting next to you, or in line for coffee...anywhere. talk to all peo…
/r/seduction27/01/17 11:16 AM
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Great. You spoke to her once. Next time you see her, just stop in front of her and say "hey...its been a while since I've seen you...whats up? How are you doing this semester?"
/r/seduction27/01/17 11:11 AM
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Assuming you have built some rapport with her, and can talk to her. "Hey, I like talking to you, lets go out after [whenever] and get something to eat" Don't ask her (do you want to go out...), be manly and tell her (let's go out...)
/r/seduction26/01/17 07:02 PM
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I've been patting myself on the back for being mature enough to not approach her You should not be proud of that, you missed the opportunity, its not what you say, its how you say it. You said nothing. Commit to improving your self, so you can approach the next one.
/r/seduction26/01/17 06:59 PM
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Approach other girls. Your opportunity with her has probably come and gone. You needed to act right away. You already proved to her you were not interested. So go out and talk to some girls, lots of girls, get some numbers, and go on some dates. So the next time this happens, you will know what to do.
/r/seduction26/01/17 06:57 PM
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join some clubs, volunteer for some activities. Meet girls anywhere. In the library, cafateria are fine, the student lounge is perfect. You will never meet more girls in one spot then on a college campus, so go out there and get some numbers! Try some approaches, and let us know how it works.
/r/seduction26/01/17 06:54 PM
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Seems more like you are playing games with her, why not just ask her to hang out?
/r/seduction26/01/17 06:42 PM
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Good job on the approach! You may have spooked the girl running up behind her then trying to grab or shake her hand, so next time, just a simple "hi", with good eye contact and a nice genuine smile. Try to get in front of her, so she can see you coming, next time.
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:42 PM
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You were also "Outcome Independent". You did not plan on hooking up, it was not your objective that night. You were just a cool and confident guy who let the night go where ever it was going to go.
/r/seduction25/01/17 06:08 PM
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Try to figure out what you "need" out of life and compare it to what you "want" out of life. I could make more money too, but instead I choose to not travel and instead work local so I can have the free time for my hobbies and to be a part of my kids lives. (i teach Cyber Defense at NJROTC and I run a Robotics club) You will learn, sooner or later, that your happiness comes first, followed by your relationships...not the money.
/r/seduction25/01/17 05:54 PM
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TXTing is very limiting, since you can't keep eye contact or show body language. Plus, some jokes can me mis-interpreted, without all the other visual or tonal cues. I have seen guys TXT themselves right out of a date, after over TXTing and giving off a needy vibe.
/r/seduction25/01/17 05:49 PM
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Ok, I found a bunch of your Before and After shots on your Blog. I just spent the last hour or so reading through it. Very Nice. Very Informative! I think a lot of the guys here that are trying to change their lifestyle to improve themselves should read through your stuff. Almost like mandatory reading. I also see you do personal consulting. I may have to recommend you from time to time, as I run into guys that need solid fashion advice. Especially with so many guys looking suggestions for the b…
/r/seduction19/01/17 06:22 PM
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Sorry, but What's A Gratitude Routine?
/r/seduction19/01/17 06:13 PM
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Very Interesting. Do you have any before and after pics you can share? It might help add some credibility to your plan.
/r/seduction19/01/17 04:34 PM
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Keep in mind, some people in gyms just want to get their workout done so they can get on with their busy days, they rush to work, they rush to the gym, they rush home, rush rush rush. Those people are never going to make good conversations. So just be Calm, Cool, and Confident. Solid eye contact, a simple smile, a simple hi, is sometimes the best way to start. Pick something interesting she is doing, holding, or wearing, and compliment that. Do NOT compliment her looks. Here are some tips on wha…
/r/seduction19/01/17 11:20 AM
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Depends how old you are and what your interests are. Ultimately you want to end up somewhere where you can physically escalate.
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:45 PM
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Like if an older guy plays it, he is creepy and seen as immature. LOL. No. I am mid-40s and constantly hook up with beautiful women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. I have never once been called creepy. In fact in some ways it easier, as the women I meet are not out to play games anymore. We want what we want, and just both go for it.
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:43 PM
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I also suggest a dating coach, many will do Skype calls, and some will actually simulate a mock date scenario over Skype. Sounds like that might help you the best. http://www.winggirlmethod.com/category/coaching/ Good luck and don't give up. You can approach and ask a girl out...now all you need to figure out is how to act on a date!
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:32 PM
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Same rules apply. See them, lock eye contact, smile, and just say hi. Some teenagers can be real shy, so don't be surprised by their reactions. If you can get them to engage, ask them about them, what they like to do for fun, what kind of music they listen too, what type of games they play, what college they are applying too...yes that last one was a joke...but should work too. At this stage, your goal should be also to increase your social circles too. Try to make friends with some of these gir…
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:27 PM
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this girl who I like and think is cute doesn't even know my name even though we've had a few conversations. You see her, lock eye contact for a sec, walk over to her (big manly walk, standing tall), smile and say "hey, I just saw you and decided I was going to come out of my shell and finally say hi to you, because I am really shy, but really wanted to just wanted to talk to you...what is you name?" Yup, that'll work. Then pick something she is holding, wearing, or doing, and tell her you think …
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:21 PM
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Here are some of my favorite videos related to How to just approach and talk to girls How to keep the conversations going and not run out of things to say Some of these videos are long. Some may seem bizarre at first, or just outright silly. I suggest you watch them completely, a couple of times each. Yes, you need to watch them more then once. The more you watch them, the more you will get out of them. Try to get the overall message from each video, take notes, and figure out how you can apply …
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:13 PM
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Need to make it clear this isn't platonic. No you don't. Let her ask, or bring up the question "are you seeing anyone else". You haven't even slept with her yet.
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:06 PM
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You just don't want to come off as to needy or insecure. You also don't want her to think you have nothing better to do than wait for her TXTs. In not attractive and comes off poorly. (you could also use the time to go out getting others girls numbers and setting up other dates...right?) So you don't want to ruin it. Its also real hard to have a real deep conversation over TXT, since you can hear the tone or see the body language, so try to avoid that. Other then that, have fun!
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:03 PM
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Since you are a beginner, I say move on to single targets. There are plenty more out there. Personally, since I am older, I would not hesitate to continue for the end goal with her. BF or not, I have no moral or ethical compass anymore. If she is going to cheat, she is going to cheat. It might was well be with me.
/r/seduction18/01/17 06:59 PM
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Yea, sounds like she just wasn't that into you, and all about having a threesome with her roommate. Sad story for you. Now forget it and move on.
/r/seduction18/01/17 06:37 PM
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ah...how about you just walk up to her and ask her out instead of playing some type of eye game?
/r/seduction18/01/17 06:19 PM
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Do things just fall into place for them? No. If they are lucky, they will meet girls that are willing to approach them first, or make it super easy for them. I know this because for a long time I was one of them. Managed to get married twice, but never approached, and never actually asked a girl out. I was shy, quiet, nerdy and had very very low self esteem, and had severe approach anxiety. But eventually things changed for the better!
/r/seduction18/01/17 06:11 PM
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Wow, you and your dad can actually date the same girls! Sounds like one hell of a guy. You should be his wing man and both go out sometime! (yes, I am serious - you only get to live once my friend...)
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:59 PM
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Work on improving them. Dress to impress, get a decent hair cut from a stylist, eat right (cut out the sugar), and work out a few times per week. Do these things and you will not only be healthier, you will look and feel better too. Think about how you feel in a new car. Now, how do you feel getting into a 20 year old car? Same car. Turn your self into a new shiny car.
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:55 PM
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Keep in mind, TXTing can be tough. She can't hear your tone, or see your body language. Those two things would have made a different impact if you were on a date telling the same story. (and...IMHO...a guy pulling his dick out on a train is not "small stuff". It can be pretty scary or un-nerving to some people.)
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:52 PM
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She knows your intent. Her lack of an answer is your answer.
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:48 PM
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So what are you looking for? a. Friends b. Friends with Benefits c. Relationships d. GirlFriends e. None of the Above f. All of the Above I am typically willing to build any kind of relationship with people, so I will accept f. All of the above. Some work out, some don't. I have had friends turn into FWBs, I have had relationships that just dissipated. I have learned to keep my options open and to always add to my social circles if I can. is any escalation whatsoever appropriate to see if she re…
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:46 PM
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Is it acceptable to get her number from a mutual friend Yes. You have nothing to lose, so just go for it.
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:38 PM
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Sure, but if she doesn't put much in her profile, she is either really boring, or just not making it easy.
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:35 PM
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You need to be honest with your self. Your previous LTR sounds like it was pretty crappy, and in the end, it don't matter if she was a 10. If your relationship was toxic, then it was toxic. Surely you can see that you are much better off now. Surely you can see that you both were not meant to be together. Surely you learned something from the relationship about yourself and other people. So why dwell on the shitty relationship that is over? You have SO MUCH MORE to look forward to in life and re…
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:33 PM
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Be respectful, just like you would to your boss or teacher.
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:27 PM
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How about you just ask her?
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:23 PM
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You are so right. Most of the time, its the guys attitude and lack of any patience that gets in his own way... (deleting numbers...what a joke!)
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:21 PM
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I disagree with step 4, Tell her you like her. With step 3, you get busy with other girls, you socialize, you get out and do some interesting things. Take pics of the interesting things and post them to social media, so that your crush or her friends will see them. Especially if they include other girls. So now, combined with step 1, you stopped TXTing her, stopped being her TXTing buddy, stopped being her emotional crutch. You are no longer her BFF. You broke the old emotional connection. You p…
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:07 PM
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So what tips from /r/seduction action worked for you?
/r/seduction18/01/17 03:18 PM
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Ok, you made a move, which is good, but (as we all now know) it was way too late, as her emotional investment in you was only as a Friend (again). Here is what you needed to do, to break the friend-zone, I will post it as future tense, then we can discuss ways you may still be able to try it.: You must become scarce. You get busy doing other things. You must get out and talk to other girls. You must put pics on your social media of the "fun and interesting" things you are doing. Especially with …
/r/seduction18/01/17 12:01 PM
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Yes, but start with the the cashier or clerks at a store. They are forced to deal with the public, so they will not reject you. Its basic psychology. The more you say hi to these people, the more you brain will accept that this is easy to do to anyone. So go to a store today, buy a pack of gum (cheap), and as soon as you get to the register to pay, yoiu look them in the eyes, slightly smile (genuine James Bond Smirk, nothing outrageous or fake) and say "Hi, are you having a busy day today?" It d…
/r/seduction18/01/17 11:30 AM
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Had you hit on her and acted like a man when you saw her again, right away...this story would have had a different ending. You never escalated on her quick enough...if at all. You "slipped" and made a move? What kinda move? Sounds weak and not very manly. I am sorry if i sound so tough, but you put your self in the situation, and kept your self here. Even by your own words "I slipped" (like it was an accident) means you still can't even face the reality that you "want" to fuck her and you "want"…
/r/seduction17/01/17 07:58 PM
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He is considered one of the best, even by other RSD coaches.
/r/seduction17/01/17 07:51 PM
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Lots of good pointers in here, but not an entry level for beginners video on how to flirt.
/r/seduction17/01/17 06:49 PM
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Be honest with her. Tell her what you are feeling. If she can't accommodate you (threesomes, non-monogamous relationship), then you will need to be true to your self. You will never get over this, so you better get out there and figure out what you want out of life. So, yes, you will need to break up with her, and then you will be free. Then you can go out and find what you really want. I, like you, spent way too much time in LTRs. Now, I am having the time of my life hooking up with whoever I w…
/r/seduction17/01/17 03:29 PM
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Yes! /u/altiuscitiusfortius is spot on. When you are not going out, you (self admitted) need to work out. And eat right. Just cut out the sugar for starters, and get to the gym 3-5 days per week. Working out does so much for your state of mind, as well as making you look and feel better. You need to look the part, so if your social wardrobe is 10 years old, you will need to consider some fashion updates. Models is a great book, personally I have not read it, but have seen it recommended a lot.
/r/seduction16/01/17 08:48 PM
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Dude, I am 46, and happily date women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. 3 decades of beautiful women. You are not past your prime, and probably just need some modern tips. You need to start with Approaching girls. Any and all girls. Just walk up to 10 women, say hi, maybe compliment them on something they are holding, wearing, doing. Do NOT compliment them on their looks, not yet. Approach everyone you can, Not just the ones you are attracted to. Lets see to what degree your Approach Anxiety hold you …
/r/seduction16/01/17 08:43 PM
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Why would you loose your job for dating a co-worker...happens all the time.
/r/seduction15/01/17 03:03 PM
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Yes, this 100%. Make you your life great, doing fun and interesting things everyday, meeting new and interesting people all the time, go out and have fun, and just game while doing it.
/r/seduction13/01/17 05:03 PM
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I would just go up to her, point at the earphones, get her to take them out, and just tell her "hey, I've been meaning to talk to you, but you always seem to have those things in your ears...so..what are ya listening to...?
/r/seduction12/01/17 07:32 PM
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Sure, bad choice of word. I will delete it!
/r/seduction12/01/17 05:45 PM
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Just try to setup a date where you 2 can talk and be close together. It could even just be watching a movie at your house or something. If she doesn't reply, she doesn't reply. Go out and talk to other girls.
/r/seduction12/01/17 02:48 PM
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This is a good read: http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/07/the-overblown-stigma-of-genital-herpes/374757/ Genital herpes is contracted during sexual contact, usually spread through fluids on the genitals or mouth. You can only get genital herpes from someone who already has it, can get it during just one sexual encounter, and can get it with or without a condom. Condoms merely lower your risk, according to the CDC. You can even get it if the other person doesn’t have symptoms. Blah..…
/r/seduction12/01/17 02:15 PM
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Here are some of my favorite videos related to How to just approach and talk to girls How to keep the conversations going and not run out of things to say Some of these videos are long. Some may seem bizarre at first, or just outright silly. I suggest you watch them completely, a couple of times each. Yes, you need to watch them more then once. The more you watch them, the more you will get out of them. Try to get the overall message from each video, take notes, and figure out how you can apply …
/r/seduction12/01/17 02:11 PM
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with that attitude, you just may. Watch the videos, I also suggest Simple Pickup https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLC4EA12B1DE96F05E
/r/seduction12/01/17 02:08 PM
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My advice is this: Stop sleeping with them so soon. You are ruining your chances of finding the right one, by prioritizing the sexual side of the relationship. Now, this advice gets me flamed on a regular basis, but I stand by it. Make it a priority to find a girl with the same interests and intellect as you before you get them in bed, and you will be closer to finding the one who is a candidate for long term relationship. Now I am not saying to wait till marriage, but you should maybe wait unti…
/r/seduction12/01/17 01:56 PM
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DO not wait. Do not hesitate. The people around you do not care as much as you think they care. Just walk up to her, make eye contact, smile, and say "Hi..I've seen you a couple of times on this train...where are you going..."
/r/seduction12/01/17 01:42 PM
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I don't have conversations over TXT, I only use it to a. setup the date b. send a cute or funny MEME c. work out logistics I assume you are asking boring questions when you are txting, so don't TXT: "Hey, whats up". its boring. Try :“You’ll never guess what I’m doing right now…” or: [Something] reminded me of you, what have you been up to missy or: OMG what are you doing right now?! or: And what trouble have you been getting yourself into You want to be fun and intriguing. Here is a great video …
/r/seduction12/01/17 01:39 PM
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But i was concerned this might make me look bad as I know she lives independently Depends on "why" you are living at home. best to have a good, productive reason. Don't over analyse this, planning is good, over doing it is going to wreck you when the plans change. Just plan something a few days out, the goal is to plan something where the two of you can talk to get to know each other, and can be close enough to physically escalate a bit. Any day of the week is fine...
/r/seduction12/01/17 01:32 PM
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I don't know why you think you fucked up? She clearly has issues, and probably still has feeling for her old BF. You did everything OK, you tried to kiss her by date 3, and she pushed you away. Then she gave you the "we should be friends" speech. So you move on. Sure you can stay friends with her, and maybe meet some of her friends, but start talking to other girls. You can also try to hit on her again, but she seems to want to take things at a much slower pace. You need to decide if you accept …
/r/seduction12/01/17 01:11 PM
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These are three excellent videos with some solid advice and great examples. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9BUiX1zOiGE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ErOwia3Ep8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_dUqlMkFx8
/r/seduction12/01/17 12:50 PM
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