How do you develop a social circle when moving to a new city?

Clyde_Frag · 2017-01-26T20:03:29+00:00

Seems like you're doing all the right things. I've found that making friends after college can be harder than dating/getting laid.

Also if you meet up with a girl and you both decide there's little chemistry but she seems like a cool person anyways, I wouldn't shy away from befriending her.

sambo_22 · 2017-01-27T01:52:13+00:00

Hey man me and a few buddies I met off reddit have a Whatsapp group and we go out together. We are like 23-25. Message me if you're interested.

aCOWtant · 2017-01-26T19:48:08+00:00

I met my best friends in LA at a camping music festival.

My other circle of friends is coworkers, but I benefited from a large, young, hip working environment.

With those work friends, we networked different friend-circles to form a coed kickball team.

I know what you mean about short conversations, but if the person really seems like someone you would kick it with, ask if they (or the group) wants to grab a beer or bite to eat after the class/gym/game. It's tough man, it was a very depressing first 8 months in this city, but once you make local friends, life gets wayyyy better.

letsgetrandy · 2017-01-26T23:39:52+00:00

Moved a lot in my day. I always find a local bar and go a few nights per week. After a few weeks, you become a regular... immediately friends with the staff, and quickly friends with the other regulars.

TheXXL · 2017-01-27T07:17:46+00:00

You have the basics down, that's the hardest part. Now you need to understand one thing that you cannot change: becoming close friends needs time. Even becoming just friends takes time. So your basic strategy would be, talk to everyone, listen, propose going out/ go out with people and be patient. Things will fall into place then.

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2017-01-27T16:55:43+00:00

This is a great video to help:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4RJhMT1Vqq4 RSDMax How to build Social Circle

ralphnlauren · 2017-01-27T01:02:38+00:00

Your first mistake is moving to Toronto, sorry bro but it is a tough city to make friends in. I found Canadians in general are cold unless we're talking Montreal, somehow the French in Canada are nicer than the actual French themselves.

Toronto is very clannish and it is tough to break into social circles there.

Title	How do you develop a social circle when moving to a new city?
Author	spicyindianfood
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Date	January 26, 2017 7:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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