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I can't remember the whole context, since it's been about a year old now, but I don't see the need for whataboutism here...
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:13 PM
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if you really lost all your "friends" for telling them something they didn't like to hear, they were either crazy leftists (good riddance) or not your friends at all. I have told friends some heavy (and have done some stupid) shit and not lost one for that.
/r/seduction27/01/21 09:09 AM
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You forgot another lesson to be learned: when a girl says she's not interested in anything serious right now, she's basically saying "I'm not looking for anything serious with you!"
/r/seduction16/01/21 04:36 PM
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1 in 5 women get raped in some point in their lives, If I remember correctly, that figure is pure bullshit. Citation needed.
/r/seduction09/01/21 11:29 AM
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I think what you meant is: "be the best version of yourself".
/r/seduction04/11/20 09:50 AM
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it is easy to date if you are a girl, that you just need to be beautiful and breath To be fair, it is like that. Having to select from hundreds of potential partners is not a curse, it is just a lot of work. ​ We recieve a lot of messages every day, but most of them are so disrespectful, we need to deal with sexual harassment everyday That's technically true, but you know what? It does not mean any kind of danger to your health, so if you are not capable of just ignoring assholes online, you sho…
/r/seduction04/11/20 09:48 AM
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Why is it so hard? Like going trough the posts and all the advice. Because there are millions of ways, millions of different opinions, and mostly, the majority of advice is very subjective and reeks of "I talked to a girl!!! I am master of women!!". It just feels like its all soooo much. And i mean its fair i guess, you want something work for it right. True, you have to put in the work to achieve anything. But why does interacting with girls and making friends come so easy to some men? Because …
/r/seduction30/10/20 07:50 AM
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I think this is a shallow view on things, one could even say black/white. As always things are way more complicated than that. Getting fit, definitely worth it. Not for others, no fucking never, but for your own well being, health and life expectancy, absolutely. It has so many different effects on you, it is amazing, but it has different effects on others people. Sure it shows to woman that you are taking care of yourself, it might even make her feel attracted to you, but that does not mean any…
/r/seduction27/10/20 11:32 AM
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It's not the words but the delivery. I have used a number of lines like these a lot, and if I would have said it in a serious tone, or as an honest statement, I'd agree, cringe and a sign for any girl to run. I like to use the "Marry me!" line a lot in a funny tone with girls, and they laugh their ass of (mission achieved) followed by more light hearted flirting. As I said, it is the delivery and context.
/r/seduction27/10/20 10:35 AM
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Damn... Is this the first girl you ever talked to? Even I as a man feel as if people waste my time vomiting those "how are you" phrases... Get to the god damn point! And ask yourself: Why would she even give a flying fuck about you being sick? Do you date? Is she related? Close friend? Your mother? Right. She does not know you, and therefore does not care. Give her something to make her care. Be a personality. Be someone she wants to know more about. In the best case, be someone she is fantasisi…
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:41 PM
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I sent her a long text on WhatsApp Whenever a girl I had something with sent me a long text I knew it was something on the lines of drama. I don'T have time for drama, so I usually ignore that. If that comes from a guy, including confessing your romantic feelings, no matter how you try to rebrand it to something else, well... you fucked up. ​ She replied with an omg and a laugh emoji, and she typed that she heard me, we didn't text since then but on getting to work this morning she was acting st…
/r/seduction20/10/20 10:48 AM
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Ever heard the common excuse women give: "it just happened"? This is a classical case for that. Stop thinking. Start acting. If I were to always listen to what women say, I would never get laid. The whole process is pretty much binary: You either try and might be successful, or you don't and you will fail. So. If you want to hook up with her, first you need to get her to go out with you, but don't chase her. Then you simply enjoy the ride and act where necessary.
/r/seduction20/10/20 09:53 AM
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Stop thinking. Meet her, escalate, and see where it goes. It is THAT simple.
/r/seduction20/10/20 09:47 AM
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Don't put girls on the spot, by asking them questions like going on dates, asking them to kiss you, asking them if they want to be your girlfriend... etc... it makes them uncomfortable because you are asking them to 'commit' to something Partly true, but the most important thing is, it makes you look like you are too weak to take the risk of being rejected. A man who is confident does not need to negotiate a relationship or whatever, he just moves to what he wants and if he does not get it, shru…
/r/seduction07/10/20 08:34 AM
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Over time, I caught feelings for her as she was a very fun person to be around with, one with many similarities to myself. Could it be that you caught feelings because you don't have any options? That's not uncommon We hung out outside of work twice and she even said one day that she had a fun time with me and that I made her feel better. And you did no make sure she knows you want more than friendship? No escalation, no physicality? She also threw hints over the two months such as sending bra p…
/r/seduction07/10/20 08:31 AM
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That's pretty easy, do you want someone who does not really give enough of a shit about you, to reach out to you? You said you don't want to play games, so why let her play games then? Enforce your own boundaries, you offered your attention she knows what you want, and if she does not act that way, you are wasting you time with something you don't want, nor something you will be happy with.
/r/seduction30/09/20 12:44 PM
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she’s had a past partner that was less than nice, very controlling and abusive Let an old guy give you some precious life advice: Run. You will try it anyway and maybe in the end you will remember me and say "Damn why did I not listen?". I tell you how this will go, she will take more and more time, you will get frustrated and work harder to get her, which will turn her off even more, and at one point she will send you something like "You are such a nice guy, and every other girl will be happy t…
/r/seduction30/09/20 11:49 AM
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Quick and short answer: don't chase her, do what YOU want, and if she feels you are high value enough for her, she will come to you. I stopped thinking in terms of "shit test" and all these things, I just do what I want, and in retrospect, that worked way better than any advice anyone could give me. In these times it is even more important to not chase women, since that will put you into the position of being low value. An anecdote of my female friend: She's in her late early 40's 3 children, di…
/r/seduction29/09/20 03:19 PM
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Now is the time to be a man and take responsibility. She caught feelings? Alright, no intimacy anymore, just go back to being friends. She will not make that decision, you have to do it because this will just end in drama and you will be losing a friend if you continue with this.
/r/seduction04/09/20 08:55 AM
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How do we separate genuine advice from women from the not so helpful ones? You can't. What advice has a woman or women told you that works? None. My mother and my Sisters always said to me "Treat her like a princess"... You know the rest of the story. ​ If you really want to learn about women, interact with them, read statistics about dating behavior, read books about evolutionary biology, read about psychology and so on. Then take that information and apply it. If it does not work, use your exp…
/r/seduction17/08/20 08:02 AM
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If you never get approached, most likely it is something like this: You are dressing crappy, you are not as pretty as your family constantly tells you (your family and friends are the worst critics), you are overweight (most men are just not attracted to overweight women, no matter how much modern feminists try to tell you otherwise), you don't go out a lot, you constantly surround yourself with a shield of friends.. Pick the things that apply to you, and work on them. Keep in mind: Men are visu…
/r/seduction13/08/20 11:28 AM
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That reminds me of the guy who had an ebook on making lots of money, it would only cost 29,99. Then you would buy it, and it says "step 1 sell an ebook for 29,99 on making lots of money, step 2 profit". Are you that guy?
/r/seduction11/08/20 11:54 AM
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Hey y'all, there's this girl from work I've been into for about 10 months now. That's already too long, if noting happened yet (it's your job to make that happen by the way, but be advised in today's social climate, it's a high risk, low reward scenario to try to date a female coworker) ​ She knows I'm into her. And then? Have you had a date? No? move on. ​ When I told her that, there were some signs of her being interested (initiated conversations, smiled at me, etc) but then she started comple…
/r/seduction11/08/20 11:51 AM
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I want to stop being interested in her, but I can’t get her out of my mind. Alright. Start thinking about this: Why is it that you constantly think about her? Make a list. You will most likely come up with a lot of things, like "she's pretty" (so many other women are as well) or "she was nice to me" (guess what, others are also). When you are done with that, analyse that list and understand that she is not special, understand that it is you that is the problem. I bet you don't have many women in…
/r/seduction06/08/20 06:31 AM
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It is not about the ignoring, it is about having a life. I see this so often with friends, particularly my best two friends since my youth, one is woman in her late 30's the other is a guy in his early 40's like me. She has been married for a couple of years, has 3 children and is going through a divorce right now. She is super busy with her career and family, and still she's hooking up whenever she can, and wow... She often tells me the stories about clingy men constantly texting her after a ON…
/r/seduction06/08/20 06:22 AM
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depends... like "Hello, my name is john, and my mom said you are my daddy"
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:15 PM
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Couple of things: If you plan for something serious with her, keep in mind, you will always be lower priority to her than herself (which is cool), her kid, and if she has pets, her pets (personal experience, never again) and seriously, in best case, do you really want to raise another guy's child? If you look for a fling, go ahead and have fun, but don't be pissed if she does not have much time for you. About your friend, if he is too immature to realise he fucked it up by not having the balls t…
/r/seduction07/07/20 09:26 AM
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Well isn't it obvious, she's just a slut
/r/seduction09/03/20 08:42 AM
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Well there's just one word that comes to mind reading this: responsibility.
/r/seduction05/03/20 01:03 PM
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Tell her "if you knew what I would do to you right now if we were alone...". Obviously do this when you're not alone Then, she'll probably ask what, and you explain in every detail what you will do to her. It's that easy.
/r/seduction16/02/20 03:58 AM
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Have you ever thought about why you get those "shit" tests? Those are a response to your Incongruent behavior. The more you actually live what you portray to the outside world, the less those tests get, and even the the less you care
/r/seduction03/02/20 03:41 PM
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Let's call you Indiana Jones from now on. Exploring ancient caves lol
/r/seduction03/02/20 08:01 AM
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Not a lady, but let me tell you this: if you want more, then make her know. Not verbally but physically. She will make sure to let you know if she's not into it. No need for looking for signs and all that bullshit, just escalate as long as she lets you.
/r/seduction02/02/20 01:40 AM
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Also, I know you really just wrote this to brag. Lol... He asks how to get her off, I don't see why he should brag about that...
/r/seduction30/01/20 04:33 PM
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That's very covert. Not if you as the guy make it clear you are attracted, by flirting. If you are trying to hide the intention of the first date... Dude. No. Bad communication like that never works out. Agreed, but he doesn't say he should hide his intentions. It also makes you look like a slimeball when she catches on. That's why there is flirting, and she will know what his intentions are. When this happens to people it makes them feel like they have been lied to. ... Because they hav One thi…
/r/seduction30/01/20 04:30 PM
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I've seen your nickname before and, without checking your post history now, I get a feeling like you asked this question once every few months Bullseye. I cannot remember how many hundreds of lines I wrote during the past at least 4 years, just trying to help him. Yes, he posted the same thing hundreds of times already, always neglecting any help anyone offers him, since he thinks there is not way out of his "misery". There was a time when I actually thought he would do some progress, but well..…
/r/seduction29/01/20 03:49 PM
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It’s 100% true. Sure... I didn’t chase her around the bar or anything, I just followed her around a bit. Well... you are contradicting yourself here, but whatever. I asked her for a kiss because I believe in consent Consent is not only given verbally, imagine you finally get a woman into your bed and you start asking her "can I kiss you?","can I touch you?", can I put my dick inside you?".. trust me, you won't get that far this way. Don't believe that bullshit they teach in gender studies course…
/r/seduction24/01/20 01:25 PM
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While I do agree on the "she's not interested" part, I'd like to put another perspective on this: she's not interested yet. Maybe she never will be, but we don't know. The point is, adjust your expectations to expect nothing, move on if you don't want to put in anything anymore, but keep in mind if you give up you already lost. Try this: expect her to not give a shit about you, so basically move on, and after a week or so, or even two, you hit her up again with as low investment as you can, see …
/r/seduction23/01/20 01:14 PM
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What are your intentions with her, making her your girlfriend? If so, I cannot stress enough, if she cheats with you, she will cheat ON YOU as well. If you only want some fun, go for it, since she'll never be faithful just for you, if she isn't for her current boyfriend.
/r/seduction21/01/20 12:32 PM
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Sounds like he had very low testosterone
/r/seduction20/01/20 07:35 AM
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My usual response to such things is "Actually, i don't give a fuck what you think." end of discussion.
/r/seduction17/01/20 10:15 AM
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Why settle for less? You would only settle if you were needy, it's like saying "should I settle for a low salary even though I want more?" without need. If you were otherwise broke, and getting homeless/starving, yeah then settle for less, but what happens if you don't get what you want in a girl? The worst thing that can happen is that you don't find someone, but it's not killing you. It's up to you if you can deal with that.
/r/seduction16/01/20 01:38 PM
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I remember my best friends girlfriend, she snapped randomly for no reason, and the last time I called the guys in white to put her into a mental hospital, was when she suddenly started going crazy on him, and then started cutting herself with a kitchen knife while announcing she would kill herself. You really want to get into this shit? You must be absolutely dumb to even consider that.
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:55 AM
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I am aware what i am getting myself into.... No, you aren't. Except you are some kind of mentally ill guy yourself, who loves being treated like shit, being manipulated and broken, or some kind of crazy masochist.
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:51 AM
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You should not get involved with a mentally ill girl. Trust me, I've learned that by experience, and it was horrible.
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:49 AM
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It actually is harder in Germany (fellow German here) as we people are naturally colder than other people. What I observed is that night game is easier and also picking obvious non German girls is also a lot more rewarding. Try going out in the night and do your game there, if you happen to be in a city where there are lots of foreign people, chances are high to meet foreign students and so on.
/r/seduction16/01/20 08:47 AM
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Don't sweat it. You are visiting a new city to have a change of places, to see something new, treat it as that. Let her show you around, and from my own experience I know this is an amazing thing, since girls usually really enjoy it. Just be your fun self, have fun with her and see where it goes. Expect her to not have a lot of time for you and plan accordingly. Approach other girls while you are there (it is great to be the one not knowing the place and asking girls for nice places to visit, wh…
/r/seduction11/01/20 01:52 PM
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excuse for their shortcomings. I see what you did there lol
/r/seduction11/01/20 01:36 AM
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Understand a couple of things: People do not care what you do or say. They are too much in their own heads to have any time to care. you can't take most people seriously. They always talk and never act on it. you can get away with so many things, it's ridiculous. You could outright be an asshole to a girl and even though she might play upset, after a while she'll either not care about you, or has forgotten. know your value. Why would you care what someone thinks of you if you know you have enoug…
/r/seduction11/01/20 01:34 AM
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Well, truth is that women have been evolved along men to procreate, and during the time they were pregnant, they would not have sex, since that would not do anything for the race's survival. When they then had children, the male would care for the female until the child is ready to survive on its own, which is about 5 years. Usually only the strongest males would procreate with the female but that's another story. In general I highly doubt that early human females would fuck 10 different guys a …
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:42 PM
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Exactly. This is the part that pisses me off the most. They say they care about personality, but in reality they don't want to know my personality, they reject me before seeing it just because I'm not cool enough. I hate to say it, but you are wrong there. Usually the problem is that you radiate your personality through your body language, your clothing, your grooming habits and the way you talk. That is enough to assess if you are fuckable, or not. ​ Also I think it's not only about looks, for …
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:29 PM
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I know you should improve yourself, socialize and go out. But is seduction based on luck? Depends on how you define "luck". Usually people define it in a way that they have no control over it, but the complete opposite is the case. Someone said once: "Luck is just a combination of preparation and taking the opportunity when it arises" ​ But do a lot of people who meet their SOs tend to be in the right time and right place? And do you think it's luck that they were at the right time in the right …
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:23 PM
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I just realized I forgot a small word in my reply: "I stay friends with girls I have NO romantic or sexual interest in" Just for clarification. ​ Looks like u aren’t even in a successful relationship and looks like you’ve never had one so where’s your credibility? Did I offend you? Take it or leave it, my point stands, don't drop friends for anyone. ​ Looks like your female friends ruined your last relationship. Wrong. She did. Because she was crazy, and I didn't see it. The clinical terms for h…
/r/seduction02/01/20 12:10 PM
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Yep, looks like a sjw/feminazi's wet dream fantasy
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:59 PM
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Taking revenge is not undoing anything, it just fuels your misery more, and in the end, you will find yourself not better off in any way, your hate will not go away, you will not feel satisfied and so on. Just cut people out of your life who do you wrong and let them suffer on their own. I have learned that through 40+ years of life experience, and I can tell you how much I wanted to take revenge on certain lowlife assholes, who called themselves my friends, who had the audacity to rob me in my …
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:56 PM
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as for point one, doing that only shows that you are a lowlife and a garbage human. A valuable man doesn't need to play such dumb games, and he stands by his word. I dropped a girl for doing that to me, and we were friends for many years before we started fucking, and she tried that on me once. Cut her out of my life and that was it. ​ I really don't suggest you ever doing this, This is where it should have ended. ​ however keep it in your arsenal in case you ever find yourself talking to an und…
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:52 PM
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Grahaaaam! Stop it!
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:46 PM
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There are girls that are called "size queens", I know one and the stories she tells me ... That one time she had a guy she thought has a big dick, and turns out his one was tiny, and she felt really bad about it... On the other hand, why did you even react emotionally to this? I don't care if I were too small for a certain girl, it's what I have and I cannot change it, and so far many "customers" were more than satisfied with my "tool".
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:46 PM
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That's why a first date should never cost you any more than two coffees.
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:41 PM
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Well the Problem Challenge is to get someone with a crush on me haha Think in challenges not problems. This is why there is this sub, so you can become the guy that girls have a crush on. It is not easy at all, but with enough effort you will become such guy.
/r/seduction30/12/19 01:39 PM
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You reek of insecurity. I have a lot of female friends, no problem. I stay friends with girls I have romantic or sexual interest in, and if a girl came along and told me to drop them, I'd say fuck off. Actually that was one reason I dropped my last relationship, since she always made drama because I would go out with my female friends. Someone who tells you to get rid of your friends, is the narcissist. I remember an good old friend of mine who dropped all of his friends for his fucked up and em…
/r/seduction30/12/19 09:05 AM
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Never compare yourself to others, compare yourself to who you were yesterday. Now get off of your "I have it so hard" train and start bettering yourself.
/r/seduction30/12/19 08:09 AM
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"Have a beautiful day" doesn't count as being hit on.
/r/seduction23/12/19 12:33 PM
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I know of a few that loved it... Mostly during the times they couldn't give me a hand so to say because of distance
/r/seduction20/12/19 12:09 PM
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She's trying to tell you to be a man and take the responsibility for it if it goes wrong. Women love to do that. They do not want to be blamed if things crash and burn, so you should just ignore these remarks and seduce her, showing that you know what you're doing. Next time you are chilling with her, you start escalating.
/r/seduction20/12/19 10:00 AM
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You don't get what the commenter said. People don't treat you bad if you don't associate with them. They physically can't. That said, you don't set a random stranger straight because you will never see him again, and he therefore does not have any importance to you. The only reason to call out bad behavior is when you have to associate with the person, then you cannot ignore it. If you don't have to associate, you ignore it and that's it.
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:09 AM
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I don't think it's that simple for most guys. It is. You have to understand though, not all men are attracted to you.
/r/seduction20/12/19 06:51 AM
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That was not that bad. Next time you are with your guy just do exactly that, but with a bit more anger, he'll love it!
/r/seduction19/12/19 06:59 AM
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Please no comments on my marriage lets stick to the topic thank you.... That will never happen, not in a million years. this girl is driving me nuts! what does she want???? That is not important and not the question you should ask. Ask yourself What do you want? Then proceed from there.
/r/seduction18/12/19 12:48 PM
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The door IS already closed, or it never opened for you. How to treat her now is simple, treat her like anyone else you could not care less about. Be friendly and respectful, but leave it at that. That also means no personal shit, no flirting and all these things you would never do with someone you don't care about. Understand that you are not doing that to punish her, or to trick her, but to stop feeling anything for her, since she obviously doesn't reciprocate, and this will only end in pain.
/r/seduction18/12/19 08:06 AM
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If she enjoyed your company, then its time to make her miss you. Withdraw your attention but still be friendly when you happen to be around together. Don't try to put yourself in her orbit, in fact do the opposite. But she obviously doesn't care. She flaked twice on him and didn't suggest another time to meet up, that's a classic rejection.
/r/seduction18/12/19 08:03 AM
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if you really had a DGAF attitude you wouldn't even be affected by her perception of you If you would not give a fuck, you would not text her again...
/r/seduction13/12/19 12:17 PM
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I've read 12 Rules of Life my guy. Watched maps of meaning and tons of his stuff. Just hard to keep lobster daddy in such high esteem after he had to go to rehab. Does that invalidate any of his teachings? Didnt hurt my ego. Oh yes it did hard, just look at yourself getting whiny at someone asking you for details about your claims. Dont assume, someone of your intelligence should know better Hahaha and again, being such a butt hurt little boy. The funniest thing is, you assume without knowing an…
/r/seduction13/12/19 07:48 AM
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Met up with one and we slept together a few times. Hasn't been long enough for the others See, wasn't that hard was it? Furthermore, I'm not concerned about reaching out to all of them. Things change, I meet new girls, etc. That's the spirit. And yes, I can see you aren't the same username. On the off chance you created a smurf account to ask so humbly I give you props Hahaha I have no time for games my friend, I have a career to tend to, look at my post history, the big gaps in my commenting ar…
/r/seduction12/12/19 03:25 PM
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Right, so I've read some of your comments on other posts. You're the kind of guy who thinks hes really intellectual and has all the answers. I feel some real bad butthurt coming from you... Well to be fair, I am of above intelligence, so thank you for pointing that out. ​ But from what I can tell you have actually no experience with girls That is a really nice try to maneuver away from my question, an ad hominem is always the best way to do that, except I won't bite. ​ all of your posts allude t…
/r/seduction12/12/19 03:20 PM
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I know rejection is inevitable but I’m legit scared just because women are not always nice about it Who told you that? And how many times have you experienced that? The majority of women who rejected me throughout my life were nice about it, usually "I have a boyfriend" and that's it. ​ and that’s gonna hurt no matter how brave of a face you put on It only does if you truly care about some strangers opinion. Why should you give two shits? If she's rejecting you, she is not interested for whateve…
/r/seduction12/12/19 01:34 PM
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Life is suffering. Deal with it. You think that this is the worst thing that will happen to you, and I hope it is, but truth is, you will feel way more pain until you die of old age. The few relationships I have been in always anded with me feeling like I could die from the pain. 20 year ago my mother passed away suddenly without warning, and that was a pain I don't want to feel again. Now, my father is passing and the pain is coming back. You have to learn to deal with it, since it won't be the…
/r/seduction12/12/19 01:27 PM
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So you got six numbers, great, and what about the other points?
/r/seduction11/12/19 01:38 PM
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100% success rate so far. I'm curious, success in what? Getting a number? Getting in touch with her after a couple of months? Having a date with her? Actually having sex with her? And what's the sample size? 1? 10,100? I see you are a salesman, and as such you probably leave out the actual details on purpose, since 100% success without pointing out the thing looks amazing for a non critical person, but I would like to know, since I'm sure that the success rate for the things that actually matter…
/r/seduction11/12/19 12:04 PM
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You tell her "it's no big deal, hope you made it in time" and behave like a human being. Disrespect is something completely different than real life matters. Learn the difference
/r/seduction11/12/19 11:59 AM
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She's always busy? Mhmm never heard that before... Not. Usually it means this: "you are a good guy, and from time to time I enjoy talking to you, usually when I don't have better things to do, like fucking other guys or cleaning up my room, so I don't make any time for you, but still want you to chase me since that feels amazing for my ego ". Move on my friend and find girls that actually want meet up with you.
/r/seduction11/12/19 11:51 AM
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All my friends know tons of girls and know how to talk to them. And what do you think is the reason for that? I bet it's because they actually interact with them in the real world. How do i get to know them without being scared they won’t like my personality. The only way to do that is to not care. The only way to stop caring is to do it often enough to stop caring. On phone i may be somewhat confident but irl i’m another story when it comes to antisocial when meeting new people. So... did you t…
/r/seduction10/12/19 10:22 AM
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I had this girl talking and talking and not stopping once, I looked at her, with a grin, imagining how I would fuck her later. She noticed and asked me what's going on. We had deep eye contact and I pulled her in for a kiss. After that she told me how hot that made her, and the rest is history.
/r/seduction07/12/19 02:51 PM
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Now when I think about it. I should have hit her with compliments when we were alone and escalate the talk to why she is single and about relationships and so on And you got that from a rom-com? That's absurd. Compliment only when you really mean it, and do that rarely. The real reason she tries to avoid you is unknown for us, but very likely connected to you becoming her emotional tampon, never disagreeing on anything with what she said, and imagining this situation, probably you're super borin…
/r/seduction07/12/19 02:49 PM
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You should go out and become abundant. The only reason you would be hung up on a co worker is when you have no alternatives.
/r/seduction07/12/19 02:45 PM
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During the past 3 years that you are constantly pointing that out, you could have actively worked on your "flaws", but you chose to just sit and wait for the magic solution instead of doing something, regardless of how many hundred times I and other people told you what you can do...
/r/seduction06/12/19 12:10 PM
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.Aparaently the rule is your age divided by 5. Lol... A day? A month? A year? And who set this rule? What if I don't follow it, do I go to Jail? Dude... Whoever told you this "rule" it is the same nonsense as all the other "rules" people hear somewhere, like the "age difference rule". ​ in the moment when I’m going to approach it’s like I don’t want to Stop lying to yourself. You are scared of rejection, nothing else. It is just way easier to find reasons not to do it, rather than finding ways t…
/r/seduction06/12/19 12:08 PM
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There’s a logical voice in my head saying just back off again and don’t try to get another reply out of her or bring it up when I see her. Did you know that logic is usually the way to go? Listen to that voice. It tells you the right way to go. In general, if a girl is actually interested, she will make herself available and cooperate with you. She doesn't, so back off. I would also go so far to tell her next time she gets close "no touching." and stay at a distance.
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:18 AM
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the idea that a girl wants to have sex just because she comes to your apartment is not true. Did a girl tell you that? a girl can be pulled to your apartment for various other reasons. True, for instance if you ask her to look at your broken fridge and she happens to be a fridge technician... sure sex can happen, but that doesn't mean that's the intention. And she knows that very well, except you failed to make sure she understands that you aren't there to play cards with her or showing her your…
/r/seduction06/12/19 07:45 AM
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From my experience it's not asking questions that will make things work, but being interested in her. For example, start with an assumption: "you strike me as an artist..." or whatever your guts tell you, maybe she will say "no not really, I am absolutely not creative blah blah blah" and her comes your opening, ask her about some specific thing she said, be interested in what she said. This is how you get a conversation going. Then share your own stories to show her some personality and so on. I…
/r/seduction05/12/19 03:34 PM
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How often do you guys masturbate? Like in the last hour? Be more specific
/r/seduction05/12/19 02:06 PM
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Forever alone. Feeling Motivated now?
/r/seduction05/12/19 07:09 AM
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What do you mean by "waiting"? I guess you aren't a 16 year old high school girl that's waiting impatiently for her crush to text her, staring at her phone constantly. Maybe I'm too old to relate to the current smartphone zombie generation, but usually when I have to text someone, I do so, and put away my phone while attending to the amazing thing that I call "the real world". The benefit is amazing: you don't waste your life staring at a tiny screen all day, you experience a lot of things, and …
/r/seduction05/12/19 06:51 AM
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Every individual has the freedom to be attracted to whoever they want Every individual has the freedom to choose who to associate with. and it appears you’re angry for someone not reciprocating your feelings, Yes, from what he said it appears that way, but we don't actually know. Fun fact: a lot of people tell me I appear to be a guy that is dangerous, aggressive and someone they would be scared of meeting in the dark alone. As soon as they talk to me, they get confused how friendly and nice I a…
/r/seduction04/12/19 07:26 AM
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But if you were just as attracted to blonde white women, do you think you could have as much success in Germany than in other places? That is a very good question... First off I don't like limiting beliefs, and this feels like one if I said "No" (even though presented with the evidence it looks like that is the case). In general where I come from, my city, we have the reputation to be very cold, basically every foreigner who I meet tells me that, while being surprised that I am the complete oppo…
/r/seduction02/12/19 07:58 AM
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Why don't you ask her, instead of random internet strangers?
/r/seduction02/12/19 07:37 AM
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Too many variables to make any conclusion about this. What I do know though is that it also depends on the country you live in and the country you visit, your general type and how you are being perceived in both countries. For instance, coming from germany, being typical German looking in terms of genetics, whenever I visit countries where white, blonde and blue eyed is a rare thing, I get a lot more attention from women than in my home country. Good for me since my type is dark hair, dark eyes …
/r/seduction02/12/19 07:30 AM
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The words “slut” Feminists will disagree with that... and “village bike” are abhorrent, Sure, but it does point out his disgust for a certain behavior, which is equally valid as your disgust for the wording. as she’s still a human and can be a good person. Yes, true, but so are people who steal from you, or kick your ass and so on. Just because someone does something others get hurt by, or go against one's personal value system, doesn't mean they're not human or can't be a good person.
/r/seduction02/12/19 06:26 AM
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just cause they are better Care to explain? Objectively? Not that I would expect anything else than "it looks soooo good!!!" but maybe you will surprise me with something factual lol
/r/seduction02/12/19 05:42 AM
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I disagree on one thing: Tell her you apologize if you made her feel pressured For what should he apologize? Being a man? Having needs and expectations? There is nothing to apologize for. The case is simple: he wants more, she doesn't (even though it looks more like she doesn't want him at all), that's what her reply basically meant. Now is the time to find out what he could do better in the future, but one thing no one should ever do, trying to manage another person's feelings. To the op: why a…
/r/seduction02/12/19 05:35 AM
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Women can be sexually explorative and still desire a committed relationship. Often times they want to have both at the same time, and guess what, they usually get it, with or without the guy knowing it. There is also the phenomenon of them claiming they weren't at fault for being "seduced", and of course there's the "I've been with 100+ men during my 20s, and now that I'm in my 30s, I can't find a committed relationship. Just because she's sexual when she's single doesn't mean she wouldn't be mo…
/r/seduction29/11/19 08:34 AM
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It’s not only what he does, it’s what he thinks when he does it. Come one man... Don't try to sell him this esoteric feng shui crap. ​ It’s what he tells himself. I’m just saying that you have a good mentor with you and you’re trying to get help with strangers over the internet. you can only learn so much, and from what we know his friend didn't do anything to learn from. ​ Use the tools you have around you. I improved so much by surrounding myself with the most attractive people I would meet an…
/r/seduction27/11/19 01:11 PM
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Don't get me the wrong way... but reading this, all I see is a forest of red flags on your part. Honestly, reflect on your self image and behavior, you do seem like you have some deep issues you should work on.
/r/seduction27/11/19 09:39 AM
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First off: don't compare yourself to others. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday. Secondly: Could be one or none of these points here: a fetish paid actor anomaly low standards bored virtue signaling great guy looks don't matter as much pity looking for personality ... This list goes on and on. Now, the real question is: why do you care? Is this about yourself feeling like you aren't getting any because of your looks? People differ from each other, and tastes are different. Live with it a…
/r/seduction27/11/19 05:48 AM
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Yes that's true, but also in nature it leads to a mutual benefit. In theses days due to an abundance of weak orbiters and instant validation through social media, many women get an inflated sense of their value, therefore making it often times a waste of time. Just be aware of that and avoid those women, that's my point.
/r/seduction26/11/19 05:19 PM
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Like right now, you are just viewing it all with just a negative view point, as if she is just being selfish. Well, she said those words, I point that out Simple thing. I'm contributing to the argument and open up the view angle that a lot of women, as she rightfully pointed out, which are getting older, and therefore losing their smv, would love to get their ego boosted without giving anything back, aka online dating. There are plenty of articles written by women that openly talk about that, an…
/r/seduction26/11/19 05:14 PM
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I really want more people to approach me. It makes me feel good about myself. One question though: what's in for the guy? In your post I only see "me! Me! Me!". While I agree on approaching women, it's not to make you feel good about yourselves, if you need an ego boost, get on tinder.
/r/seduction26/11/19 07:58 AM
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Next time you say "thank you, but I have enough friends" and end the conversation.
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:44 AM
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honestly think I've improved but I am not seeing anything. It's impossible to judge for us, but if you're going on a lot of dates, you sure do something right. This situation has played out so many times with so many different girls that this is what I am expecting. I am starting to think that there is something wrong I've been doing, here's the thing, you're right, you are doing something wrong. What you look for is a girlfriend, not a hookup. The problem is that you look in the wrong place. On…
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:52 PM
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Context matters.
/r/seduction22/11/19 08:36 AM
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You didn't ask her anything, what should be her reply? Your conversation is boring and long winded, you were hinting but not asking anything. Ask her out already. Propose a time, date and place.
/r/seduction21/11/19 09:59 AM
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My question is really how to maximise this opportunity because I am getting older and by 35 I do want to be settle and having kids. I just do. What do you mean by maximize? If your goal is to find a woman to settle down, get your priorities right, now exactly what you want, and then date as many women as you can while checking if they adhere to your standards. Even then, 5 years might be too little time to really be sure if the chosen is actually the right oner for you. ​ Does pursuing this oppo…
/r/seduction18/11/19 02:47 PM
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Watching porn is not the same as petting puppies. Several scientific studies have shown watching porn is almost identical in the brain to drugs like cocaine. Awesome! Link to all the studies that have been done please. Then we will see that those are nowhere to be found, and if, they're just random "studies" that haven't been peer reviewed nor taken under scientific circumstances.
/r/seduction18/11/19 12:20 PM
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it says it harmfull for you and has similar effects as cocain in the brain Neuroscientists say that there is no evidence for this myth. Stop believing stuff just because it says in a video. You guys are like flat earthers, no evidence, suffering hard from dunning kruger and unable to produce any kind of hard evidence.
/r/seduction18/11/19 12:18 PM
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Damn why does this remind me of a girl i knew... Right... because she was doing this shit with me too a couple of times, where she would invite me to her home, only to ask me to leave after 20 minutes, which I then did, and she would stop me at the door, begging me not to go. Long story short, I got tired of her games and cut her out of my life for good. She was just mentally ill, and I learned that I have no time for this bullshit.
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:42 AM
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Nice Troll... Aren't you married? Also, you know what she wanted...
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:14 AM
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Having good hair is the number one qualifier, Hahaha good one... This must mean that all the times women were glued to me, calling me sexy or awesome, I suddenly had full hair... Truth is: I shave my head clean for the past 15 years. Try again my friend.
/r/seduction18/11/19 05:15 AM
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Even though this is not a church: Amen brother. This place has become a joke in the past few years... what a shame.
/r/seduction29/10/19 04:12 PM
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I think you are way overthinking this. I remember what my ex used to do was something that got me going pretty fast. Usually we would meet at her place and eat something, then chill on the couch to watch a movie, cuddling. Sometimes she would just put her hand on my leg and slowly stroke it, moving very slowly to my crotch, you can imagine the rest. The trick is the build up, the anticipation. Once when I came in, she took my hand and pulled me into her bedroom, throwing me on the bed undoing my…
/r/seduction29/10/19 04:08 PM
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or objectively hot? there is no such thing...
/r/seduction29/10/19 01:31 PM
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Being confident, fun, and interesting to talk to/spend time with, is a much bigger advantage than just having abs and a chiseled jaw. Agree with everything but this one to an extent. It always depends on the individual girl. It is like a market, the thing one customer wants, the other customer wouldn't touch. It is like with iPhones and Android phones. Some people need to have a shining apple logo on their phone for any price, and others simply don't care.
/r/seduction29/10/19 01:30 PM
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Could someone explain That's pretty easy: It is easier to blame everything on others/circumstances out of ones control ( I am still laughing when I read the same old "I'm too short" crap, while the guy has nothing to offer anyway), than to admit that one is responsible for it and needs to change.
/r/seduction29/10/19 01:24 PM
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Thing is, I don't think that's actually true (although i've obviously read that in PUA books too) It is absolutely true, but not in the sense that you might think. The problem is that there is a huge number of variables when it comes to attraction in people. Sure, most women look for a small number of static traits, but also for a undisclosed variable number of other things that differ from one to the other. This can be something as small as a certain hairstyle, or a millisecond of facial moveme…
/r/seduction11/10/19 01:57 PM
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I kinda have the image in my mind that for a women giving someone a blowjob is kinda degrading, ​ Actually before the rise of internet porn, that was exactly the appeal of it. Deal with it, a lot of women love to feel sexually degraded, it's the same with the fact that a really high percentage of women fantasize about being raped. They want to have this experience in the confined space of being with a trusted partner, where it is obvious that it's just a game. ​ she might just enjoy giving someo…
/r/seduction09/10/19 02:26 PM
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That doesn't sound like you're friends at all
/r/seduction09/10/19 11:11 AM
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I've been reading your posts some while ago and I remember you said you were on the autism spectrum, right? Anyway, you seem to have been doing a lot of work, and that's great! One thing you should keep in mind though is that at one point you become blind to what you're doing. Maybe you should find someone to wing you, so you can maybe get some first hand perspective from someone else that might point out some problems you can't see. In any case, don't give it up! You've put in a lot of work alr…
/r/seduction07/10/19 11:25 AM
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Save the tactics and be authentically you. You are enough as you are, wherever you are. The right person will see it and the relationship will feel easy. That's exactly what incels do... Oh the irony...
/r/seduction07/10/19 07:58 AM
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Are you sure you're not talking about a duck? Givin her bread, she's a bird, and too small and so on, it sounds like you are trolling
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:02 AM
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Hard to say, but yeah, you might have a good chance of finding people with a similar mindset and past. I myself are a lone wolf. I've learned very very early in life that I have to fight, usually the assholes that would try to bully me, so naturally I didn't fit in with the usual groups and had just a handful of friends. I also always liked to not depend on anyone, which in turn made me keep to myself as much as I could. Fast forward to now, many years of experience later, people describe me as …
/r/seduction02/10/19 09:10 AM
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Body count doesn’t mean that much when it comes to experience. But does it matter if that count is... let's say 100? It basically means that there is a lot of experience. Having experience though, doesn't have to signal that it's fun for her though lol
/r/seduction02/10/19 08:58 AM
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That is a very broad assessment. Do you actually claim that women have telepathic abilities to know if a guy has no experience? Op didn't go into detail at all, so you must have telepathic abilities to give such a straight answer.
/r/seduction02/10/19 08:56 AM
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This woman is regularly meeting the same guy and spending time along with him while failing to mention she has a boyfriend. That's shady. It is just a matter of how you think. Obviously your thinking is based on traditional gender roles, which is fine, but I also see insecurity and mistrust. Like I said, if a guy doesn't trust his girlfriend, he's no fit to be her boyfriend. Anyway, thanks for adding to the discussion, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction30/09/19 01:30 PM
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That girl goes out with a guy friend and has a coffee, so what? Are they living in an islamic country? How is that bad? If a guy is so insecure to not "allow" a girl to have coffee with a friend, he is not fit to have a relationship, or is a strong religious muslim, trust me, I had this discussion with muslims and they think the woman has to stay at home, cook, clean and if she even looks at another guy, he beats her ass like crazy. I am not kidding.
/r/seduction30/09/19 11:27 AM
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One quick peep through your comment history is nothing but trolling posts exactly like this. Look again. It’s clear you have all day to be a feminist/SJW hahahhahahahaha You have no idea how wrong you are... But you do you. posting paragraphs on paragraphs of shit hardly anyone agrees with. I didn't know that I am here for people to agree with me. let's say it with the words of the wise Ben Shapiro: "Facts don't care about your feelings" and I am based on facts. I’ll let you have this one bud cu…
/r/seduction30/09/19 11:20 AM
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Nah, this is not the case here. He's not misinterpreting anything. A whole one-on-one interaction with a person of the other sex without disclosing you have a partner is a date. How does that work out for you? do you always give a girl a form where she has to put in her relationship status, or do you ask her straight up? And if she doesn't tell you, does she owe you sex? Do you make sure she knows your terms of service? She knows she is doing something wrong, she just does not care. What did she…
/r/seduction27/09/19 07:51 AM
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Uhhh... it’s very shady of her not to mention her boyfriend. Does she owe him that information? Since when is that the case? NO, a woman in a relationship should not be going out on coffee dates with other men like this scenario. You mean having a coffee with a guy? Did he or she get physical, touching, kissing etc? DI he ask her on a date? did she? For all we know he went for a coffee with a girl, and she was very flirty, which happens with some women all the time. She’s allowed to have other m…
/r/seduction27/09/19 07:47 AM
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Well, I have been in this situation a few times myself. It's weird, but like I said, escalation is the only way to know for sure what's going on.
/r/seduction27/09/19 07:44 AM
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I don't see any mess up there. What I do see is someone who misinterprets things. Women flirt, no matter if they are in a relationship or not. They also go out with friends, male friends as well, since they're grown up and can be friends with guys, you know? So what I think happened is that you misinterpreted her flirting and having coffee with her as a sign that she's into you. This, gentlemen, is an example of how dumb it is to base your assumptions purely on her behavior, instead of just esca…
/r/seduction27/09/19 05:38 AM
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Thank you, but let's be honest, he's the real genius, I am just a scholar of his work.
/r/seduction25/09/19 07:29 PM
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In what Era exactly are you refering to?? The Human era? That time frame where Humans evolved and still live? Id also be interested to know what country you come from? What difference would it make? But since you wonder, and since I never made any kind of secret of it, germany. and No, you are still contradicting yourself because you just said woman are trying hard to become men in the sense of indepence and careers???? Should I explain it like you're five, would that be easier for you to grasp?…
/r/seduction25/09/19 07:29 PM
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I don't agree with the fact that she only wants me to be her friend without any benefits. Isn't the definition of friends with benefits that you are friends in the first place? Since you have feelings that you can't shake off and decide to end the friendship now, means you never had a fwb relation with her. You hoped she would be your girlfriend, and there's the problem, you started on a wrong premise. Your decision was right though, since it will fuck your mind if you don't break off of her, bu…
/r/seduction23/09/19 10:40 AM
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Im sure they did but lets not kid ourselves and pretend that womens wants were exactly valued 100s of years ago because we both know they were not. I agree Damn right women are chasing careers and being independent, HOW on earth does that mean we want to be men? That is actually easy to explain: Women are hard wired to have babies, and if they don't, they are unhappy. There are countless of statistics that show that, and if you don't believe me, look at the countries with the most equal societie…
/r/seduction20/09/19 12:03 PM
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women know what they want Do you imply that they didn't, about a hundred years ago? Evolution doesn't work that fast. Women always knew, and they are still reacting to persistence the same way as they were back in the days. There is a difference though in motivations. Most women today don't have children anymore, and this is because they think they must become men, chasing careers and being sooo independent, but when they turn 30, suddenly biology kicks in and they either ignore that, and feel u…
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:18 AM
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Well look at it this way: She is with you, am I right? She has had the opportunity to get together with guys like him, and I mean, hundreds if not thousands of opportunities. I would not even wonder if she has done that a lot as well, but you know what? She is in relationship with you, and this says something about her. She is interested in a stable relationship, with you, and she is obviously not chasing assholes who will fuck her once and then dump her. I have known so many women throughout my…
/r/seduction20/09/19 10:59 AM
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It's already been most of the day and haven't heard back (it's past night-time right now). How many times I read stuff like this... I always think: "why are you so stressed about it? Calm down. Just because you don't have a life, which makes you have enough time to even care about a random girl not replying to you, doesn't mean she doesn't have a life as well." When I text someone, doesn't matter whom, I forget that I did about 30 minutes later, and sometimes when I get a text back I don't even …
/r/seduction20/09/19 06:31 AM
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Butt stuff?
/r/seduction20/09/19 06:25 AM
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What are you worried about? I seriously don't understand.
/r/seduction20/09/19 05:39 AM
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I haven't seen this high quality content you're talking about on this sub in the 5 years I'm regularly visiting. Only shallow posts talking about the same basic stuff, links to blogs with exactly the same shallow "wisdom" and videos of little boys reiterating the same shallow advice that they read in one of the three books they read about pickup.
/r/seduction20/09/19 05:33 AM
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What? We are capable of thought? Why didn't someone tell me earlier?
/r/seduction20/09/19 05:13 AM
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and some days I ask how she’s doing, usually says she’s tired. That's your opening: "What did you do last night, partying?" with a smile. Or "Who kept you awake last night?" smile... and so on. Then continue with whatever she gives you.
/r/seduction19/09/19 10:36 AM
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Think about it, what are your expectations? Judging by that post, you expect this to be a job you have to do to get your reward, and this is the problem. Better would be to enjoy the process of talking to new women, bantering, flirting and then making it a date. This way it doesn't drain you and it doesn't feel like a chore. Also, why do you not do what you want? If texting is not what you like, and I understand that, get to the point after ... what .. 5 messages, maybe? You have nothing to lose…
/r/seduction19/09/19 10:34 AM
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A few months back I was on a pretty strict diet and monitored all my calorie intake and was working out several nights a week. After almost two months of this I didn’t really see many results, so I stopped watching what I ate as much. I’ve changed a few habits but really didn’t enjoy stressing about what I was eating without any of the rewards. Maybe I just wasn’t patient enough and should try again. The trick is not to diet. Sounds weird, I know, but that's all it takes. Just look at what you e…
/r/seduction19/09/19 07:48 AM
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And what do you think will he achieve? If he's that inexperienced to ask strangers on the internet what to do, he won't get anywhere with her. It's possible to seduce women in relationships, but that usually works ad hoc and not by texting or long game.
/r/seduction19/09/19 06:18 AM
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is it worth the effort? Yes. Will it make the pain and loneliness and feelings of inadequacy go away? No. Will I have someone who cares about me and who I can confide in and who has my back no matter what? This won't ever happen if you don't even try to achieve that. Or am I going to go through the agony of constant rejection through learning this stuff and all the ripple effects that constant rejection creates, only to have a whole new set of problems once I have a relationship, while deep insi…
/r/seduction19/09/19 06:15 AM
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Look, as hard as it sounds, but losing weight isn't only "working out". It starts with stopping to eat crap in large amounts. Look at your eating habits and change them, you'll notice the effects soon. By the way, I know what I'm talking about, I've always been fat but after about 35 years being that I started eating less and losing weight, slowly but surely. I wen from 150kg to about 100 in the time span of 5 years.
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:34 PM
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Not only in the US, but generally in the western world. Even though it's biological, since women have to pick the right man, and of course the rise of social media and the degradation of men into pussies make it so that a big bunch of women get constantly pedestalized.
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:28 PM
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In my opinion, women are simply not that great at seduction. I've only found maybe two that were excellent, but the rest? Mediocre. That's why we always say don't put her on a pedestal, she's not that special.
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:27 PM
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So here is the thing with these kinds if scenarios - when we tell a guy "you arent my type" we are basically saying we like you but arent sure we like you, but could like you more, but our head says NOT to. Confusing...I know! Lol Actually not confusing at all, it can be one of many things: a result of social conditioning. People of both sexes have certain ideals in their minds when looking for a sexual/romantic partner which is usually very strongly impacted by how their friends perceive your o…
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:49 PM
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Yes. You can try to spark interest, but you may fail, so don't go out of your way for her, treat her like any other girl you meet, this way you can make sure you don't look needy.
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:38 PM
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So you realise she didn’t actually reject me, and that’s the point of this post right? Just chiming in here: He realized that she did reject you. I pointed that out in my previous comment. Women love to use the word "maybe" to point out they don't want to say "no" straight up, but in general with very very rare exceptions, a maybe equals no.
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:35 PM
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... after exams maybe That says it all. Usually if it's not a "HELL YES!!!!" it will become a lot of work on your end to even spark any kind of interest. I just really hate all the bullshit, sorry to rant guys. Of course you hate these games, I don't know any guy who enjoys them, so the only option is to interpret her game opening as something you can work with. In this case "maybe" means "no", and the most you should do is to ping her after the proposed timespan, and then be very very consequen…
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:32 PM
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does that sound crazy? Not at all. I just miss his personality even after so much time If this is your motivation, why don't you just write to him or call, and tell him exactly that? We men are usually pretty straight forward and value this approach above all else. If your breakup wasn't a dirty one, I don't think it's a problem being open about your intention.
/r/seduction18/09/19 01:25 PM
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Oh you mean as in "finishing" things, I feel ya. If that is ideal is hard to answer, if it feels ideal for you, then do it.
/r/seduction18/09/19 11:11 AM
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You might be better off at r/sex
/r/seduction18/09/19 07:34 AM
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Is there any kind of benefit to unmatching someone?
/r/seduction18/09/19 06:53 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction18/09/19 06:20 AM
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Always was told that college was supposed to be the best time of my life. And you actually believed that? where getting girls was supposed to be super easy. Hahaha looks like you've fallen for marketing tricks. Don't be so naive... I’ve tried the typical advice of going out of my way to meet new girls but nothing. You "tried"? Wow... There is no try, just do,and something you obviously never heard of: you will fail! Over and over and over again! But at some point, something weird will happen, yo…
/r/seduction18/09/19 06:15 AM
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What is your goal?
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:40 AM
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not funny What do you think about it? Are you funny? lame That goes into the first one, and again, what do you think, are you? no ambition What are your plans for your life? I know a lot of people who have no idea what to do and don't give their best or even a little bit to better their lives, but constantly whining about it. beautiful but easily replaced because I don't do my nails, hair, eyebrows or makeup dumb Well, there's a truth in that. Beauty is replaceable. It always has been. So, what …
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:37 AM
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Sure, that's what someone does who can't take criticism.
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:24 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:23 AM
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it also wasn't ruled out either
/r/seduction17/09/19 08:53 AM
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Awww poor little guy... Are you done now feeling sorry for yourself? Good. Now, here's the thing: you fail, and all you do is blaming everyone else. This isn't productive. Fact is that women are not always attracted to anyone but their partners, or anyone at all. Chances are that many women aren't attracted to most men, no matter how good they look, and even then, what does that even mean? People have different taste, and I have met so many women who had really strange taste, that I finally unde…
/r/seduction17/09/19 06:18 AM
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My question is, why men need to improve themselves while women do absolutely nothing Haha that's so absurd. Do you have any idea how women maintain themselves constantly? All the makeup, hair styling, constantly looking for beauty tips in women's magazines, constantly dieting and all that jazz? Women's magazines write about how they can diet and do millions of things to look younger, sexier, thinner and in the same issue they talk about how they don't have to do that because they're beautiful by…
/r/seduction17/09/19 06:06 AM
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There are better ways to get this information. Let her tell you about it, by asking certain questions, or making assumptions and so on. If you are asking her out, usually she will let you know anyway. I always assume a girl is single until she says she isn't.
/r/seduction16/09/19 03:34 PM
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Don't get your hopes up to score during the first few approaches, it rarely goes that way. Just enjoy the ride and put in the work, in time the results will start coming in.
/r/seduction16/09/19 03:31 PM
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That's exactly what I'd do, just remember you have more important things to do than going out of your way to talk to her
/r/seduction16/09/19 01:51 PM
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So you say she was a dick to you? Why do you even continue talking to her?
/r/seduction16/09/19 10:35 AM
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You asked the wrong question: "How much do you weigh?" would be the more fitting one here.
/r/seduction16/09/19 10:34 AM
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so just dont accept her request at all? That is completely up to you. The main question is do you have to go out of your way to take the request, and what do you think would come of it. If your mindset is like mine, you would say It is not a big deal to take the request if you are already at it, and in the end it doesn't matter anyways what will come of it, so I would forget the next day. I also dont want not doing anything to be seen as doing something. thats why i'm not sure what to do in this…
/r/seduction16/09/19 09:01 AM
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I don't get your question there. What do you need help with? There's a girl that is blabbering about guys and begs you for whatever... If you don't want her, whats so hard to just say no? I definitely don't get your point, or is it just bragging and some need for ego stroking?
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:15 AM
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You should maybe understand that tinder isn't a site to find the love of your life? In any case you're not providing enough info.
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:04 AM
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You first have to send her the "relationship agreement" papers and let her sign them... What you asking for is not going to work. Except you were talking about some kind of business relationship
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:02 AM
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Hahaha that was great line, thanks for the fun troll
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:54 PM
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Understand something here; women can handle rejection even less than men. No one rejects them, they're girls and everyone likes them. Now she tries to get you back, to be her orbiter. Unless she makes an effort to actually get somewhere, ignore her. Don't put any effort into her advances unless it's going somewhere you want it to go.
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:52 PM
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It's only weird if you feel intimidated by the girl. Did you know that a warm smile makes other people smile too? Then, if you are used to talking to people you always have something to talk about. Why not treat that stranger like one of your friends? This way you will talk freely, maybe even make a joke or two and go with the flow. Sure that sounds totally weird, but only because you don't do it. Because you feel inferior, maybe even worthless, but the truth is, you are better than you think. T…
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:12 PM
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I've been out with her once outside of work and there was lots of incidental touching. That happens, nothing to interpret there. ​ I've recently heard comments at work that she's dating someone now. Can be rumors, but also... She was single when we first met. But she hasn't told me. ... she doesn't have the obligation to tell you. ​ Last time we're working alone together I gave her lots of opportunities to tell me. How generous of you! ... really dude, this sounds pretty entitled. ​ Asking her w…
/r/seduction13/09/19 09:49 AM
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I was listening to an old Joe Rogan interview with Jordan Peterson yesterday, and he said something about anxiety and how it's being treated. The gist of it is this: break down the things you are anxious about into smaller and smaller chunks until you are willing and capable of gett over this small chunk. Do it again and again until you are done with it. Also he mentioned that you will not lose the anxiety but you become more courageous to fight the fear and it becomes a habit.
/r/seduction12/09/19 03:20 PM
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Im an F... I don't see the correlation to my argument... and yes, I agree that we all are born with the desire to have sex. Which is driven by the desire to procreate. It literally IS 'human nature'. But this discussion isnt about procreation... His desire to have sex is born out of primal desire for procreation, no matter how much you disagree. Biology 101. I called out his saying "I just want sex" so many timea because had you watched the video, you would hear that he doesnt talk about procrea…
/r/seduction12/09/19 01:34 PM
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Let it go. She has valid reasons and you should respect those.
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:35 AM
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You literally said "I just want to have sex" at least 10x in the video. That is an obsession. That is unhealthy Well, the main reason for being alive as a human being is the act of procreation through the method of what we call sex. Calling the voicing of this primal need, unhealthy, is pretty short sighted. While I didn't watch that video and didn't read the whole reply I do agree on the there's a deeper issue on hand that he should address. Edit: by the way, our whole society has a very seriou…
/r/seduction12/09/19 06:02 AM
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It will hurt his chances. Sex is only something to bargain about when she's a hooker and you're figuring out the price vs. What exactly she will ofw.
/r/seduction12/09/19 05:56 AM
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yes. She's not interested.
/r/seduction12/09/19 05:54 AM
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I think one day, someone will actually come up with an actual "shit test" instead of labeling everything but an actual one, a shit test. Until then, understand this: if a girl doesn't reply to you, you are using the wrong medium. Use a medium where people cannot just ignore you but have to give some kind of answer, and this medium is... drumroll... Real life. Understand that these days, women are constantly on their phones, reading messages, social media, and they are so saturated with guys tell…
/r/seduction12/09/19 05:53 AM
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She’s probably busy tbh. Yes, busy dating other, more interesting guys.
/r/seduction12/09/19 05:46 AM
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I agree with comments about finding new friends, and how how this is ridiculous and so on. I could continue by telling you the usual "drugs are bad" crap, but you either know already or don't care. Well, would also be kind of hypocritical of me, since I smoke weed since 25 years, on and off, so here's some actual "advice": don't mix drugs! It has side effects you might not be able to handle. Now, whenever I got told I was a pussy for not being able to keep up with drinking, I always said, and I …
/r/seduction11/09/19 06:29 AM
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Good reply, but it can be shortened: dude, don't try anything, she's not into you. You're nothing more than helpful for her.
/r/seduction11/09/19 06:04 AM
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I'd say either do what you want to do and be consequent whatever she does, if she blocks your advances, walk away, if she doesn't, escalate. In general, if a girl comes up with such a list of things how it should work, it's a sure sign of her not having any experience but being entitled as shit. If you feel adventurous you could try to feel her out and see how serious she is about this, but without the experience how to deal with someone like that, you won't get far. You should look for someone …
/r/seduction11/09/19 06:00 AM
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How is that a shit test? Define the term for us, please, since I am sure you have no idea what it actually means.
/r/seduction11/09/19 05:53 AM
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youre getting creative... graham... interesting...
/r/seduction10/09/19 12:26 PM
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OK... What you describe as "signs" is how women treat their closest and best male friends. Usually called gay best friend. For her, you are not sexual, you are a beloved person, like a younger brother, which is the probably the reason why she sometimes realizes that what she's doing looks to you like she was interested in you sexually and pulls back. For instance the "her leg on your leg" thing. I remember that from my long ago school time where my female classmates would constantly do that with…
/r/seduction10/09/19 05:54 AM
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Always! It's a bit weird when I'm on the toilet though...
/r/seduction06/09/19 11:21 PM
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Grahaaaaaam! Stop lying!!! Don't make up those dumb stories.
/r/seduction06/09/19 11:19 PM
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Targets of what? And how do you feel about men being the target by women?
/r/seduction06/09/19 06:05 AM
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While I agree with you that the quality in this sub is pretty low usually, and those click bait posts from wannabe pros are annoying, I disagree with some other of your points. Find a woman in your life and ask her for advice. That's one of the most stupid ideas ever. You know what they will say? Basically have no balls and be her beta orbiter. The problem that most young guys have nowadays stems from being raised solely by women. Never ask the fish etc. Or your father? Mhmm... AFAIK the rate of…
/r/seduction06/09/19 06:04 AM
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How often did that work for you when you were already into the friend zone? If I had to guess, I'd say you only read about it in women's magazines, but never even had a girl yourself. Anyway. The best way to get out of the friend zone is to just walk away and stop giving a shit about her, since she doesn't want you.
/r/seduction05/09/19 06:49 PM
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Exactly what I would have answered
/r/seduction05/09/19 06:42 PM
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What was wrong here? Bad break up? Period? Bad hair day? Feminazi? Who cares... It's her problem, not yours. What could I've done so that it doesn't happen again? Screening and apart from that, nothing. Just smile and walk away wishing her a good day.
/r/seduction05/09/19 10:24 AM
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You have a point, but also I can tell you that I have said "worse" things and succeeded in the end. I don't know if that has changed because aof snow flake culture though.
/r/seduction05/09/19 07:12 AM
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It's usually not the text after the approach that kills it, but your lacking interaction and the inability to gauge her interest. Just pushing for a number doesn't do anything, she actually has to want to give it to you.
/r/seduction05/09/19 06:12 AM
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She tested you. Are you the player that I think you are, or are you just pretending. You failed the test. This by the way, is an actual "shit test" or the better term: congruency test. Your answer should have been something along the lines of: "well, that depends on how well you can behave". Make her work for your attention and cooperation.
/r/seduction05/09/19 06:09 AM
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Why didn't you tease her? You basically put yourself into her orbit of complimenting beta boys. She knows she's pretty. She sees that every morning in her mirror, and through the hundreds of likes she gets on her numerous social media sites she posts her pictures. She's not looking for a guy who is paralyzed by her looks, she has thousands of those guys in her life. Be the one to tell her "yeah, you do look kind of old. Look at the wrinkles on your face when you smile, it's kinda cute, but also …
/r/seduction05/09/19 06:04 AM
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Try it. I will tell you this though, she will reject a kiss and give you the lbjf speech. You are deep in the friend zone, first you have to escape that.
/r/seduction05/09/19 05:50 AM
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You are her gay best friend. Hard to understand, and it hurts, but that's reality. Nothing you do will change that...unless you start to date other girls. Only then you might have a shot with her, since if you do, you won't have much time for her anymore, and naturally you will talk about your exploits with her. If you manage to become really attractive, she might start to throw herself at you, but let's be honest here, you will probably not want her anymore then, since you got so much to pick f…
/r/seduction05/09/19 05:48 AM
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I had a plan to get her back after 6 weeks apart, and during that time I learned seduction, psychology, and people skills Sorry man, but this makes me laugh. First off, why do you even want her back? As far as I understand she broke up with you, and you were also OK with that. Usually there's a reason to do that. Secondly... 6 weeks? Seriously? You actually think you know anything after just 6 weeks? Damn... I always wanted to become a world renowned psychologist, since you say it only takes 6 w…
/r/seduction05/09/19 05:42 AM
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I texted a girl from school yesterday and we share an interest in anime. So there's this anime in cinemas and its gonna stop showing in a few days. You have common interests which is good, but don't fall for that and think this will make her fall in love with you. I want to delay my asking her out to try and make an impression but I'm a little pressed for time. What impression? Or is it just that you're scared? Come on, be honest with yourself! Just have the courage and ask her out! Should I ask…
/r/seduction04/09/19 04:19 PM
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The one thing that you don't understand is that those people are not just from "old old countries" but also probably are old themselves, which means they started dating in a time where there was no internet, messaging and no abundance of men to pick from on tinder and so on. This myth of "I wish he persisted" is basically saying "if I don't find men who want me, I will take the guy who persists because I don't want to die alone". Back in the days, people didn't have so much choice at a certain a…
/r/seduction03/09/19 05:38 AM
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Nowadays I don’t give a fuck about it too much, but I’m always ever so slightly self-conscious of it. ​ Looks like you are on the right track, so don't worry about being self conscious, it will also probably go away at one point. ​ I’ve never really been approached by a girl first time meeting them, ​ Then you belong to the 99% of men who don't get approached by women? Not a big deal if you ask me, it's your job to initate with a girl, be proud about it, since it makes you the one to choose in t…
/r/seduction02/09/19 08:08 PM
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Well, question is: are you a liar? A shallow scumbag and as you said unreliable? If you are, and be honest with yourself, those are no qualities. You can be a respected attractive men with boundaries while not lying and being a scumbag. That also doesn't mean you are a niceguy just because you have principles.
/r/seduction02/09/19 06:25 PM
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Rape is per definition the forceful and non consensual penetration of a vagina With any phallic object, usually the men's penis. If you check all boxes then yes he did, if not, stop calling it rape. At most its sexual harassment, but also only if she didn't consent.
/r/seduction02/09/19 06:16 PM
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This is not a new thing, and contrary to what you think, it is not a "universal symbol" for girls not wanting to talk, but it's a universal symbol of people who like to listen to music while they're in public. It also has worked for me a few times, which shows that someone who asks may get an answer. If your only problem is that you don't want to talk to people, just do the following: someone walks up to you and gestures you to take out your plugs, shake your head and if you can, user your voice…
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:26 AM
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she’s always flirting with other guys now, seemingly desperate to find a guy as high value as me I like this sentence, it shows off how big your ego is. The last thing I would try would be to send her a voice message or call her and tell her this: ... " But why? You are such a high value guy, you should drown in date proposals ... ​ Move on. She is not interested anymore. Her "orbiter" friends told you already, and she obviously doesn't see your "high value" as you think it should be.
/r/seduction31/08/19 09:37 AM
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Graham.... You're back!
/r/seduction30/08/19 07:51 PM
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I feel like I'm in love with her because I have never had feelings like these for anyone else even with the ones I have met in person. It would be so great if that were actually because of her real self, but you are most likely falling for the "filling the vaccum with the most noble and desirable traits" phenomenon. The problem here is again: You are holding on to an idea of her, but you cannot have real knowledge about her without the necessary senory input humans have evolved to use, to asess …
/r/seduction30/08/19 04:05 PM
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I'd like to go deeper into this, since I have a good amount of experience with exactly this kind of stuff, but I don't have that much time, so I will try to keep it as short as possible: You are too far away from each other, and this will ruin everything. Humans have not evolved to communicate over large distances, so it cannot work. There is also a big big big problem, you claim to have fallen in love with her but I can assure you, you have been falling in love with the Idea of her that you mad…
/r/seduction30/08/19 01:59 PM
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I am not sure what exactly you want to know. Texting should only be used for logistics, and you did that perfectly by getting to the point. All the attraction should be built during your face to face time, and if you didn't do that right, you cannot change her feeling about you by any means through text, that is absolutely impossible.
/r/seduction30/08/19 11:31 AM
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Also should’ve wait at least a whole day to text her, Actually that is playing pure bullshit games. Text her when you have time. If you have no life, then you should fix that problem first.
/r/seduction30/08/19 11:29 AM
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Cap'n obvious! lol
/r/seduction30/08/19 11:28 AM
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change her mind? does that happen often? I don't want to seem like I'm just gonna be waiting for her current relationship to end. It is meant to be polite and not seem butt hurt, but we both know chances are super slim she will actually change her mind anyway, hence me saying you should just go date other girls.
/r/seduction30/08/19 11:22 AM
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So she's not a supermodel. Those are usually public figures
/r/seduction30/08/19 07:55 AM
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"I appreciate the offer but I am not looking for friends right now. If you change your mind let me know" and then you date other girls.
/r/seduction30/08/19 07:34 AM
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What's her name? I do not really think you know what supermodel means(girls on Instagram are not models) , but maybe you'll surprise us.
/r/seduction30/08/19 07:31 AM
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It all comes down to their intention. You cannot possibly know what the guy is thinking or expecting by liking pictures. What should be known though, is the fact that just by liking a girl's pictures, she won't magically fall in love with the guy, that would bezl ridiculous, right? But on the other hand, it doesn't mean that the girl could never gain interest in one of the guys liking. When it comes down to seduction: liking pictures, talking to girls on social media isn't the best way to get an…
/r/seduction30/08/19 07:29 AM
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You are generalizing. There are women who want the same as he does.
/r/seduction30/08/19 07:23 AM
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Thanks for the explanation, Good luck man!
/r/seduction30/08/19 12:02 AM
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How did this work out so far? genuinely curious. From my limited experience with Tinder (it's useless for men in most cases) it doesn't make a difference since it's heavily geared towards looking at pictures rather than actually reading the bio.
/r/seduction29/08/19 11:11 AM
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Reply "aren't we a bit too curious? looks like you will never know ;)" and then change the subject. She didn't want to attend, so you leave her wondering. If she bites, she might be open to another hangout/date/meet-up, if not you didn't lose anything. Be mysterious, let her mind run wild imagining all the beautiful girls you surround yourself with, and she passed on that opportunity...
/r/seduction29/08/19 11:08 AM
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They didn’t explain it in my biology class because it’s somewhat taboo, they just told us to protect us. No detail about how long sperm lives after ejaculation. I learned it on the internet. If you learned it, was it before you asked the question here, and if why did you ask it again? And the time you spend to write your useless message, you could’ve written an actual answer to his question or do nothing and keep going on with your life. I hate your kind of attitude True that, my apologies. Here…
/r/seduction29/08/19 07:01 AM
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Actually I was just having some fun, but you're right I should not waste my time on trolls :)
/r/seduction29/08/19 06:07 AM
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Since you are young and this is your first relationship, you will do what you feel would be right anyway, no matter what advice you get. I would bet you will try to make it work, but it won't. Probably she will be the one to tell you it's not working, about 2 or 3 months after you are gone, and then you will have to deal with that then. So let's imagine you will listen to people here: tell her it won't work anyway, and move on.
/r/seduction29/08/19 05:52 AM
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Wrong sub. Also, if you seriously have to ask this, you should think about attending school, predominantly the biology class, everything should be explained in detail there...
/r/seduction28/08/19 12:44 PM
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The trick is to be a fun guy that everyone want's to be around. Don't pursue her if she doesn't reciprocate. Make her chase you by being the best option she can get.
/r/seduction28/08/19 12:10 PM
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I feel shes just still a bit more too emotionally invested in her exbf. So you are already her emotional tampon. Congratulations for becoming an orbiter.
/r/seduction28/08/19 06:14 AM
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Her stem brain (the part that makes you breathe and your heart beat) tries to shield her from looking at something horrible, by trying to close her eyes, but her modern brain (higher brain functions come from there) tells her to not do that because it's impolite, so both parts of her brain battle for full control and a wink appears....
/r/seduction28/08/19 06:05 AM
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In this case, what do you assume his mental difficulty/issue could be? Hard to say, my gut feeling tells me "hardcore troll", but the persistence throws me off, so maybe some kind of obsession? Mental deficiency? Schizophrenia? I have no Idea. I'm not questioning anything about this (I don't think you are that weird UK stories guy), but since I'm taking your description literally, I notice you write a decent number of long posts. If the longest time you ever spend in one session here is 30 minut…
/r/seduction26/08/19 05:10 PM
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Graham!!! Your mom is calling, dinner is ready!
/r/seduction26/08/19 03:07 PM
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Jesus. He's my drug lol
/r/seduction26/08/19 03:06 PM
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Aw c'mon man, that is such a lame comeback, you can do better I am sure.
/r/seduction26/08/19 08:06 AM
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What do you want? I can't remember how often I had to ask this already, since you guys don't really make that clear usually, and judging by the typical post like this, one can only imagine that you look for pen pals.
/r/seduction26/08/19 07:05 AM
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Am I? Or is this just an immature way of telling me: "I know better because reasons!!!"? Let's summarize this whole topic again: You open a thread to say this girl is aggressively "testing" you, and you say it's getting to you. The next she is like an angel or something, and you ask how to deal with that. Then, you get a response that picks up on that, tells you that this is not going to go away and you should cut your losses, and sure you don't want to hear that, since you are young and you kno…
/r/seduction23/08/19 08:27 PM
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Man I don't want to disrespect you or anything as you put time in writing that but cmon. Thank you, appreciate it. You seem to have issues with hot girls. They are bitchy because they are used to men who wouldn't let them shit in their boots. So they test guys by being bitchy. Well, we disagree there, but like I said, you do you. You said I probably don't have much experience. I return you the compliment. Theres a common theme in inexperienced men who started learning "pua": They see shit tests …
/r/seduction23/08/19 08:18 PM
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Also, you’re being ableist. Social Justice Warrior confirmed. You do enjoy the victimhood don't you? Please get back to your safespace.
/r/seduction23/08/19 08:14 PM
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That's sounds oddly personal. I pointed out my numerous experiences with bad people in my other comments, so this comes from the real world Pretty sure a girl that hot would leave me before she has time to hurt me, because she wouldn't stay with a guy who would let her hurt him. That's the real world. hahaha Sorry man... you are naive. There are people, no matte if that person has a pussy and is pretty or not, that gain a lot of enjoyment from hurting people and playing them just for the feeling…
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:46 PM
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You obviously don't get it bro. Be my guest to explain it to me then, since you seem to be that master on that topic? It's not done in a disrespectful way, it's a tease. Is it though? Or is it again, just trying to rationalize her bad behavior? Look, don't get me wrong, but I feel like you don't have a lot of experience, since you think this is normal behavior. If a guy teases me I don't care, I don't punch him (wtf?). Wait, I was not talking about "teasing" I was talking about straight out disr…
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:36 PM
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You have no idea how that ends man... Have you ever experienced a woman constantly giving you this crap? In the beginning it might not faze you, but those people, and I speak from experience there, that it's not just women who do that, they look for a weak spot to get under your skin, and they will find one in time, and then it will suddenly faze you, if not hurt you really bad. Why waste time with a crazy asshole just because she has a pussy? Look for the woman that actually is not crazy.
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:21 PM
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It is always funny to see how guys constantly try to rationalize bad behavior, just because a girl is pretty. Look, it doesn't matter how you call it, when a guy would tell you you look gay, you would punch him in the face, wouldn't you? Of course you don't do that with a girl, and you should not with a guy either, but one thing you would never do with a guy giving you shit: You would not rationalize it and try to find a way to deal with him. You would walk away while laughing, or you would tell…
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:17 PM
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I hear you. Basically any behavior is defensive on some level. Good point But the thing is, of course you care. I might not care about some random I approach, but if it’s someone I’ve taken time to know and get close to then yes, I likely do care. Well, yes... This is hard to do, and the only way to deal with this is to stop caring too much if you know what I mean. I have been there so many times that it seriously doesn't faze me anymore when I get rejected. I have been around women I hit on, on…
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:57 AM
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- Act bitter: I feel this is the WORST thing you can do. Act like it bothers you. It just plays at how invested in this situation you are. Yep, nothing to add here. ​ - Continue to flirt, act as normal: If she liked you at all to begin with, she's usually still receptive to your company even if it won't progress. But I feel this is kind of bad also, as it shows you just give out validation without reciprocation, also if you were interested in this girl it tends to keep the feelings stirred. This…
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:47 AM
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My country of birth doesn't recognize me as a citizen and the way this whole stateless thing usually works is that no country ever accepts stateless people. America has no laws or protections in place for people like me, so we just become victims to their fucked up immigration laws. Oh I wasn't aware of that, and this must suck like hell... But I always think there must be some kind of solution to that problem... I don't know much about Germany, but i do know that European girls are much more op…
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:54 AM
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There's no need to be super sensitive about saying gypsy. Us snowflake culture is the most ridiculous and toxic bullshit ever. By this standard the famous group "the gypsy kings" are offensive as well. Stop caring about the sensitivities of random idiots, it's nothing more than a power grab.
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:03 AM
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By dating a lot of them and realize that they're sometimes just bad people. The more you interact with those girls the more you see things that might be a Red flag for you.
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:00 AM
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On top of this I don't really want to tell my new roommates what I'm doing because I'm worried they'll find it weird and I don't know what to say when they ask where I'm going all the time. First: it's not his/her business. Second: why are you even caring what he/she thinks? If they ask, say: I'm going to church! While smiling. It's meant to be sarcasm obviously, making the point that it's none of their business. Or simply say "god are you a curious one" laughing. In general it's not a big deal.…
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:58 AM
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What do you mean by "stateless"? If you don't mind me asking, are you u.s. based? But in any case, I feel you, man. A vacation does help forgetting your current problems but they will be back as soon as you come back. I also think that you are exaggerating about your situation,everyone always does that "only my situation is really bad and unsolvable, no one cares about me and no one can relate." the truth is: the majority of people don't have real problems, they inflate them, but surrz, some hav…
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:30 AM
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Yes, you definitely are very confident in this and I respect that (usually it's called the dunning Kruger effect) even though you are not a trained psychologist as far as I read. I am very confident as well though, having a lot of experience and knowledge myself and I still disagree and think you are judging harshly based on personal bad experiences.
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:04 AM
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But you wrote 26... Look. It's not that I am angry or trying to be mean at guys if they're so young, but the truth is, at that age it's better to learn manners, preparing for becoming an adult by focusing on school and career, and I am sure you don't like to hear that, but yes, you are too young to get with an older girl (some come up with approaching 10 or even 15 years older women). The majority of adults will not touch you. You are still a child and it's in most countries illegal. Maybe I am …
/r/seduction23/08/19 05:58 AM
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But seriously, who cares about this useless karma system? Either you want to spread knowledge and experience, helping the ones who want help or not.
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:11 PM
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Well that wasn't bullying. She was butthurt, nothing more. It's childish and I agree it's not worth the effort, but he explained they both are autistic, and frankly, it's a whole different ball game for them than for us.
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:02 PM
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I know this sub doesn’t like giving this type of advice to young guys I haven't seen this even once. If you were 16 it would be another story. As to the age shit test, taken from rsd Tyler: "age is just a number" and then escalate.
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:56 PM
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Well, then prepare for not having sex until you get with someone else...
/r/seduction22/08/19 03:58 PM
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You could have been more precise about "her culture". This way no good advice can be given.
/r/seduction22/08/19 03:55 PM
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We dated once Why don't you anymore? Probably because dating is to find out if you both are compatible, and judging from your post she realized you aren't, so leave it at that. Find other girls.
/r/seduction22/08/19 12:05 PM
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No, you should feel hungry. You might not make it till September. Hahaha That is an awesome response! Totally my type of humor, upvoted.
/r/seduction22/08/19 11:31 AM
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No one in this world (maybe some alien from another galaxy could) can give you any worthwhile figure. This is du to the chaotic nature of humans. So stop hiding behind numbers and put in the work, only then you can get your own numbers down.
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:51 AM
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This is like telling someone to learn driving a car by practicing on a video game first. Talking to women won't kill or physically hurt you, and it's still the best teacher when looking to learn how to talk to women. Stop trying to find a shortcut!
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:47 AM
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"in my mind it worked!" you, after getting slapped by her and dealing with sexual assault charges...
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:44 AM
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Do you have any interests? When talking to people it's a negotiation of interests. One side has to put topics onto the plate and depending on the other sides interest the conversation flows or the other side will put something else onto the plate to talk about until you found something both sides are interested in talking. An example, you meet a girl through cold approach: hey girl, I noticed you wearing that cool shirt/hot skirt/nice earrings (whatever caught your attention) I like your style" …
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:29 AM
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What I noticed was that the more I consumed content from various PUAs, the more pressure I felt to achieve certain kinds of success socially. Yep. That's what the "I have to make money" aspect of pua instructors is about. Making you feel like they are the messiah and only they can give you what you think you want and since they set so high standards only a microscopic percentage of men can even dream to achieve, you will get stuck with them forever. It's pure marketing.
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:16 AM
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You're misunderstanding the concept. Pua instructors try to sell something. They have to make you believe that their way is the only way that will work, and this might make you believe that you can't make mistakes, but that is far from true. Women are no computers where you have to put in perfectly crafted code to get the exact results you desire. They're different from each other and react to different things in different manners. Understand the pua theory as tools you can use to achieve your g…
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:11 AM
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Why change topics? He opened stromgzamd she played along. He asked for permission in this game, that's breaking the frame! He should have just kept his frame as the dominant guy, since they don't ask, they do. He might have lost her at one point but also chances were good she enjoyed the play.
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:06 AM
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You start off dominant, she buys into it and plays along and suddenly, you ask for permission? You should have said "so you're a bad girl huh? Well, you have to be punished then..." and go from there. Or just don't play a game you don't know how to play. In any case, you should have more than this one in your rotation, so why do you care so much?
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:03 AM
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Self doubting people always perceive themselves as below average. Eradicate the self doubt and you understand that you're not below average, problem solved.
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:58 AM
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Makes me feel extremely frustrated and depressed that i an not in his place. Life isn't fair and never was. No matter what you have to endure it will either break you, or make you stronger. I am also very confused since he is basically a hermit and is morbidly obese, he never tried his luck out in the real world like i have and he got lucky by finding someone on Facebook. Shouldn't you be happy for him? Also, have you looked into the details, like the high probability that he might not be picky …
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:34 AM
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The real question is: What do you want? You want her? Grab your balls and ask her out. You want friendship? treat her like your guy friends. You don't want either? Tell her you're not interested and stop trying to be polite, you don't owe anyone your time. Everything else isn't worth your energy, doesn't even matter the label "beta" or whatever, it's simply a waste of energy.
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:23 PM
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https://images.app.goo.gl/V7DTezkY7QB82NbJ6
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:19 PM
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Since you didn't provide much information I wll give you a quick rundown what an orbiter is, and you decide if you are one: He is attracted to her, but has no balls to ask her out. He thinks by giving her presents, complimenting her, being her emotional tampon, one day she will see that all the assholes she usually dates are bad for her and she finally falls in love with him and realizes you are soulmates. *barf* He is always there for her, but she only uses him for emotional support and complim…
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:06 PM
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hahaha nice! But he's not graham, it's just one of his softcore porn novel fantasies geared towards middle age females.
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:20 PM
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I know eventually he is going to say 'treat or right or wlill beat you up' how would you guys respond to this? I've been on the other end once with my sister. She was with some guy who fucked her and then went home every night, she wasn't happy about it, and I talked to him, he didn't give a shit, but I also could not just kick his ass since this would have pissed off my sister. The moral of the story is that if he's not dumb, he will not interfere with her love life, an if she want's you, she w…
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:19 PM
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Me: “It’s your lucky day! I can fit you in tomorrow for dinner and some games at 530.” Great opening, on the spot, cocky, fun, a bit dominant and still leaving her room to decide, good work. Her: “I am actually busy tomorrow I’m sorry” Well, shit happens, be cool about it... Me: “Don’t send your schedule without specifying when you’re busy” Ok, here you lost it. You give the impression that her response has angered you, like you were entitled to her time, bad move on your part. You should have r…
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:11 PM
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What should I do? Obviously just purely from a texting theory perspective. The short version: Delete her number, she doesn't even know who you are, it's a waste of time, move on.
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:49 AM
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Is it believed to be one person doing this and posting legitimately about (one or 2 topics, the first is the restaurant incident, the second is "are my looks good enough") over and over, no difference, always the same things? Yes. I have encountered this post about ... 3 years ago for the first time. I have a pretty good memory, and I engaged with him at first, and I can tell you, he is either seriously mentally ill (hence the repetition and the trouble of opening new accounts by the dozens) or …
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:25 AM
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hahaha I wish I had the time to program such bot, but unfortunately I am very busy programming for a company and in my free time I don't have a lot of time to work on my side projects
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:10 AM
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I disagree on a few points there: sure it is obvious that women need to see a guy as sexual, but guess what? We still have an influx of oblivious guys who think they need some kind of magic sentence or thing to get a woman into their beds, while those women (from what the guys describe) have no interest at all, and then they ask how to make them drop their pants. So, it's great that you don't need to read that, but a big portion of guys here have no clue at all. I also disagree on this sounding …
/r/seduction21/08/19 06:37 AM
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I've seen you post this a day ago already, and it makes me think that you have no idea what you're doing. You are basically initiating a bdsm session but you don't even know how to do that. If you really need the internet to come up with any kind of reply you're doomed from the start. So. Do you want to dominate her? Do you want to spank her and all that? Then voice that and lay out your plans for her and command her to do her masters bidding. This is how that works and it seems like she is into…
/r/seduction21/08/19 06:00 AM
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Alright. Don't get me wrong, since you already love to feel like a victim I will try to be... Äh screw that. Stop being the poor victim! Stop sitting at home! Do you really think anything will happen if you whine about how bad you have it, on the internet? Get your lazy ass up and do something about it. Start by going outside, talk to women, learn to flirt, and ask attractive women out. Will you get laid left and right? Probably not immediately, will you get laid at all? Maybe, if you put in the…
/r/seduction21/08/19 05:51 AM
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Actually, I skimmed through his recent post history, that's where my suspicion was confirmed. This guy is a known visitor for at least the past 3 years (which was the first time I read his "UK" story) and he is coming up as it seems like every week with a new account posting the same stories over and over, but hey, I am amused by his reluctance.
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:21 PM
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It’s real I swear Yeah, your word bears no weight at all. Someone who constantly comes up with the same copy paste crap, for the past 3 years, and get banned all the time so he has to open new accounts every few days to post this shit again, is very hard to believe... graham, but this is not your name, right? Well in your last version it was your name. It’s detailed hahahahaha you know what? The Lord of the Rings was also very detailed, doesn't make it true. See you with your next account to spa…
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:17 PM
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Why? Just wanted more answers How many do you need? 3million? You were posting this shit for the past 3 years constantly. I have told you before, you are mentally ill, get therapy. You think it’s fake? Yes, I still think it's fake, as much as your other stories you constantly repeat, no matter how many answers you get. I still believe that you must get some sexual gratification from coming up with this crap, so I guess it's masturbation day again for you...
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:12 PM
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Oh! The novel porn guy again lol, didn't you tell me this story were true? Well, obviously you are trolling, or... Could it be the "UK did the girls make fun of me?" guy? at least your writing style matches. Anyways, guys, any kind of comment is wasted time on this guy... ​ edit: Oh shit! Am I good!!.... It IS this autistic fetish guy who always comes up with this "UK girl making fun of me" story for the past 3 years, you really have some mental issues, see a therapist, this is not healthy behav…
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:07 PM
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Look. This is one the usual issues with guys on here, you all think too much. You constantly fear of "losing her" or "fucking things up" that you forget to relax and just have fun, fully outcome independent. This usually leads to you actually fucking things up! You put so much pressure on yourselves, just like this one girl were the last female on this planet while the rest of the population is male. ​ Imagine this: Having a date is a means to find out if you both would be a good match. Both sid…
/r/seduction19/08/19 07:20 AM
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The answer to your question depends on the desired outcome. Do you want to get her to change her behavior? Then it's usually not helping you. Do you want to get it out of your system? If it helps, why not? In general you should just draw yourself some boundaries and enforce them. If you feel like wasting time, then abort and stop thinking about it. If you enjoy the game, keep on playing until you lose interest.
/r/seduction19/08/19 05:56 AM
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Yes, actually I have
/r/seduction19/08/19 05:48 AM
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My friend who studied in russia told me this: "Russian girls are easy, you just have to be persistent and then they are very free giving" Sounds about right thinking about the russian girls I met so far...
/r/seduction16/08/19 03:41 PM
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You know, something like: "She looked at ronaldo, his strong hands holding the hammer while he was repairing the shed. His muscles glistening in the warm summer sun, covered in dirt and sweat..." this kind of shit women love to read which turns them on. Your story sounds exactly like that lol
/r/seduction16/08/19 03:36 PM
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Did you take that straight out of a womens softcore porn novel?
/r/seduction16/08/19 03:27 PM
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Its ok, i was drunk af when i wrote the deleted comment, then i tought better and gave up in the line of thought I personally think you should not have had to delete the comment, I like to exchange ideas. Well, we dont really debate feminism, lgbtphobia and racism in class tbh. More like my girl friends, ex, etc... You are from brazil as far as I remember? I was recently visiting Chile (I live in germany) and I was surprised how things differ from europe, mostly the fact that at least Chile need…
/r/seduction16/08/19 01:45 PM
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Yes, be creative! and learn to cook, it will make you a lot more attractive if you can prepare at least one great dish for a girl you invite over.
/r/seduction16/08/19 11:50 AM
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If we go so far to hang up on semantics, what exactly are you doing? If you mean constantly talking about how bad you have it without trying anything to change that, while arguing agains anything that people tell you, you are right, and I applause you for finally understanding that, and maybe you work on that finally.
/r/seduction16/08/19 10:45 AM
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Today I was talking a walk from the gym. I saw this beautiful girl walking towards me quite a bit further away. When we approached closer she looked at me, I looked at her. Then we both turned away (she actually looked down)and then I took a bold step and looked at her again , she looked at me again. Is this some sort of a sign ? I know it’s not a lot of clues to figure out exactly. What are signs that a girl maybe find you attractive or interesting on the streets? You know what? I could explain…
/r/seduction16/08/19 09:49 AM
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So you mean you can't go to your place? If that's so, you can still tell her you would like to chill with her, cook something for her at her place because reasons... It all comes down to you asking, and her telling you if she's ok with it or not. I am sure she will know what will happen and react according her interest. I have to say I haven't had this scenario yet where I had to basically invite myself to a girls house without having had sex with her before. Usually I get invited and she would …
/r/seduction16/08/19 09:44 AM
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I'd like to add something I would recommend you to read, and watch: Jordan Peterson. If you are not ware, he talks from the perspective of clinical psychologist with 20+ years of experience and so far I have not read or heard anything unreasonable of him. His lectures about personal responsibility are extremely valuable for the development of men in general.
/r/seduction16/08/19 07:15 AM
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Since you deleted this comment, but I was already laying out my perspective on this, don't mind me if I pasting it into this one here. Also a disclaimer, this post may contain "toxic masculinity" but only for dramatic purposes, since you seem to be a cool and laid back guy hehe Nah man... Toxic masculinity is fucking real man, it always forces us on a social basis to be "strong" when u can also be fragile too sometimes, it's human. Did your marxist feminist professor in gender studies tell you t…
/r/seduction16/08/19 07:03 AM
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Not sure if you can infer anything from stone age Venus figurines. It is proof that people back then valued something else than we do today, based on their sexual preferences. If you look closely, there are a lot of men who still prefer a "curvy" woman over a fit one. It's like saying ancient Indians preferred babes with 10 arms and medieval Europeans were hot for chicks with wings. Except there have never been people with 10 arms or wings, but we know for a fact that there are women who are fat…
/r/seduction16/08/19 06:30 AM
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hehe no worries
/r/seduction16/08/19 06:27 AM
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You actually fucked 13+ women in a time span of 8 hours? Hahah why don't I believe you... And toxic masculinity is just a buzz word that has been invented to demonize men, so no, but they didn't nail it at all, just like they didn't nail anything. There's toxic people, and women also can be very toxic.
/r/seduction16/08/19 05:56 AM
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Text her this: "hey xxx, how's it going, are you in town? I have a surprise for you, tell me when you are available so I can make time to meet you." That's the most direct approach I can think of given the fact that you didn't fuck yet, and it doesn't come off as too strong. She probably knows what you mean, but she will still think about what surprise you come up with, but you won't tell, you can only show. The surprise would be your dick in her vagina of course, since you already made out with…
/r/seduction16/08/19 05:44 AM
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Hahaha sure... Whatever someone told you, it's not saying you look gorgeous. I remember my Russian friend shouting blyat when he's very angry, the rest should be obvious if you do a quick Google search
/r/seduction16/08/19 05:13 AM
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But this is Tinder, not an approach on the street. She matched him, and she knows it's about him wanting to fuck her. Talking for hours with no goal would just be a waste of time.
/r/seduction15/08/19 10:57 AM
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So you want to get your dick sucked? Stop beating around the bush and tell us, then you might get more constructive feedback.
/r/seduction15/08/19 10:55 AM
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There is a girl (~25) in office who is cute. I have been thinking about approaching her, but a cold approach would not be good in this situation because we would be seeing each other everyday and a rejection would make things awkward. Good, at least you understand the situation, even though it could work if both parties are grown up enough to not make it a big deal... The best way which I have been suggested is to start with a coworker kind of talk and when she gets comfortable escalate to norma…
/r/seduction15/08/19 10:54 AM
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I am aware of your talking points, we have had this discussion many times already, and your reply again highlights exactly what I said. You are stuck in talking and theorizing. I will predict something now: You will never, not in a million years, get anywhere. You want to find the magic pill that will suddenly make your life different, but there is none. What I also noticed over the years talking to you, you want to convince everyone that you have no chance, just as if this is giving you joy, an…
/r/seduction15/08/19 07:42 AM
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Do your parents know? I am sure they would not be giving you permission lol
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:45 AM
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Imagine how nice it could be, after he tried to put his tiny wiener into her but obviously failed, he will cry and she can cuddle him, make him pancakes or just breast feed that little baby boy, sounds fun, right? </sarcasm>
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:44 AM
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Shouldn't you be in school, boy? Also porn isn't good for you at that age, but nice troll, have to admit I had a good laugh
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:40 AM
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Well, if this is the case, his game isn't that good as you believe it to be. Writing field reports, going out a lot, doesn't mean game at all. If he's capable of learning, and he seems to put in the work already, he should see progress over time. Also realize that only pro puas seem to always get any girl they talk to, but only by the magic of editing and having paid actors to make it look like they're the super pua gods.
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:38 AM
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Three times you posted this today? Are you wanking off to this? Must be some kind of fetish to you, huh? It's funny how you ask this over and over again for the past few years but still didn't learn anything from it...
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:27 AM
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Relax man... You will fuck it up if you can't relax. Fortunately that's not a bad thing, since it is how people learn, from mistakes. I also highly recommend not to play games. Women invented them and they know exactly how they are played, and either she will start playing them too, but a lot better than you will even be able to, or she will get fed up with you playing and you get nothing. Just like someone else already pointed out: you are intimidated by her already, which shows by you saying s…
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:22 AM
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The level of attraction of big tits and asses is vastly overrated because of instagram and porn. Almost true, but also pretty much wrong. The media has created a hype, so that people think they need to like it, but in reality, there have always been men who loved big breasts (look up how a certain move director in the 70s/80s made sof porn movies exclusively showing women with huge breasts, forgot his name), there have always been men into big asses and so on. Most guys IRL are attracted to almo…
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:02 AM
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Well, hate to break it to you, but the older women get, the less desirable they become. So you might want to get yourself a man soon, or you end up unhappy.
/r/seduction15/08/19 05:51 AM
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What can you do? You won't be able to bring her back to life...
/r/seduction14/08/19 02:22 PM
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People, don't engage. He's a troll.
/r/seduction14/08/19 02:20 PM
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This guy! Amen brother.
/r/seduction14/08/19 01:07 PM
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We all have been there, and in general I treat it the following way: Imagine you are talking to a girl in real life an ask her out. She does not answer you, what would you think? Would you actually try to rationalize it as "she was too busy to hear me", or "Maybe she didn't understand the words I said" or some other rationalization? We know the answer is as strict: No. So... why do you try to rationalize it when texting with a girl? If she was actually interested, she would have replied, if she …
/r/seduction14/08/19 01:06 PM
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Yes, great Photoshop skills! 10/10!
/r/seduction14/08/19 12:51 PM
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The thirst is strong in this one... Let the thirst flow through you... Muhahahaha
/r/seduction14/08/19 12:50 PM
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You just got trolled... This is his 50th tinder date he was asking about with the same question.
/r/seduction14/08/19 11:13 AM
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I completely agree with you, I suffered from that too for a long time, but the real question we should ask is: How could we help him get out of this mindset?
/r/seduction14/08/19 11:11 AM
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Don't seek for so called shit tests, they are rare and when they happen, usually it's very obvious. Judging from your exchange, she is not attracted to you, it's more like you are her entertainment (like the other 100 guys she's talking to through social media) and so far you made sure she's not any kind of priority for you, which is good since it will set you apart from the thirsty betas orbiting her. Keep that up, and in the best case you don't plan to text her in 2 days, but you are too busy …
/r/seduction14/08/19 11:09 AM
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It seems he cant commit, because he isn't sure if its a dead end road, I agree on that which would be a total waste of time and like running into a wall if there is no chance of success. But then explain me the following: Is it a good use of your/his time to constantly talk about it without either trying it to verify or to falsify? Take for instance science. In Science you don't talk for 30years about a theory without trying to come to a conclusion, that's why there is the concept of experimenti…
/r/seduction14/08/19 11:02 AM
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You invented that? Thank you! I really appreciate that ;)
/r/seduction14/08/19 06:55 AM
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Your real problem is to put things into action. You have been talked to for many years already, I have laid out countless of points you should take action on, but you still feel the need to just ask the same thing over and over. Realize that to achieve something, you have to take action. No amount of discussion or reiterating of old and already solved talking points will change that.
/r/seduction14/08/19 06:27 AM
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Kind of weird how I never had any interest in her until i finished highschool and any possibility of meeting her again is probably zero That's an easy one to explain: social media has been made for people to show only the best side of themselves. People only post their best moments, they curate their pictures, they make believe that their lives are better than the ones of super stars, and all that while they still have problems while never talking about it, they look like shit sometimes, they ar…
/r/seduction14/08/19 06:02 AM
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Well, I wonder how saying "no thanks" is any kind of disrespectful, or even why you think that you deserve any respect in any Form. Respect is earned and if you propose something to someone, and that someone is polite and says no thanks (which by the way is every one's right) that's the opposite of being disrespectful. The problem is another: you are ex for a reason, and asking an ex to hook up reeks of neediness, and expecting someone to do something for you (since you describe it as disrespect…
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:55 AM
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My question is: since you are a genius, what did you invent so far?
/r/seduction13/08/19 05:43 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction13/08/19 10:12 AM
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The answer is easy, there's a word in basically every language that would be translated into English like this: yes. But let's get to the real issue here, you are scared. Nothing could explain why you reject any advance by a woman you are attracted to, and then think suddenly that you could turn things around after you reject her. So, next time a girl asks you to hang out, say "yes". Work out the details then and have fun. If you have doubts, because she's working with you, then of course trust …
/r/seduction13/08/19 06:26 AM
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Yes. He's posting this story for the past... What, 4 years? Not sure, at least I read this crap about a hundred times since I first started visiting this sub, which must be somewhere around 2014.
/r/seduction13/08/19 06:16 AM
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So... You waited two years to ask her to hang out? Or did you hang out with her before and never made a move? And now you are angry that she doesn't just drop her panties for you after just texting her calling her a brat? This is almost comedic. First off: don't wait two years to ask a girl out. Secondly: seduction means making her want to spend time with you, not waiting forever to do anything, and then trying to brute force her to meet you by commanding her to. This never works without the pro…
/r/seduction13/08/19 05:54 AM
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... and then I woke up ... ​ Just kidding man, you just had a combination of big bull balls and a tiny bit of luck, just continue doing what you do!
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:01 PM
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Agree absolutely. Except the one little detail: There are women who will obsess about you if you are an asshole, but in general those are extremely low quality women who will make a mans life living hell.
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:57 PM
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Usually it is not worth the energy to think about why a girl suddenly acts cold to you, if you don't have any kind of attachment to her. People can be crazy, moody and act weird at times. In general I try to avoid women like that, because they mean trouble, and not in the fun way if you get what I mean. Think of it like "Good, now I know she's off limits... well hello there other hot attractive girl that is straight up looking at me..."
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:55 PM
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I think you did the right thing: Keeping it professional at work to not risk your livelihood. If you think she is really interested, text her and ask her out, no risk attached to that since she's already gone from the company. ​ Good luck man.
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:50 PM
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You did sound a bit harsh, but i can't say you aren't right, because you are. Well i didn't mean any harm, it's the way I talk, brutal honesty. It is true that i'm pretty unstable emotionally but friends don't do that to each other, he could have talked to me before and i would probably accept it, Mabye, but always keep in mind that others cannot know, and frankly, we as men, usually don't put as much thought into how others think when it comes to our primal urges. i mean.. he got out with her a…
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:47 PM
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Part two. Yeah... I don't get how you can still see yourself as the good one here. No more comment needed. I feel depressed, betrayed, confused and i don't really know what to do. Let me preface this with a story of my own: I am 42 now. I have been through a lot of shit in my life, as well as your situation where I was the bad friend (you). I also made the big mistake of fucking the ex of my best friend, and not just once. Things blew up one day, and it almost destroyed a 25 year old friendship.…
/r/seduction12/08/19 12:11 PM
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Okay, so, a good friend of mine (or what i thought he was) slept with the girl i've been in love with for more than 6 months, You mean he is not your friend anymore because he enjoys a girl you thought you are entitled to? At least it sound like that. we been hanging out with this girl many many times to parties etc, and finally one day, i had enough balls to ask her out, but she rejected me. Good. You finally had the guts to do something you should have done way earlier, next time you see a gir…
/r/seduction12/08/19 12:11 PM
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What's the problem? It's a flight, not a brothel. You won't die from just sleeping during that flight, better get approaching when you get off the plane and actually have options...
/r/seduction09/08/19 07:05 AM
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That's a problem with your mindset. Do you feel bad for getting ignored by a random passerby? No you obviously don't, but why is that? Because you don't care about them. Your problem is that you care about some random girl just because she spent some time with you. You probably even imagined already how you and her will be together and in love. You demand respect from someone you don't even know, and this is another issue. You don't just demand respect, you earn it, and frankly, why do you think…
/r/seduction09/08/19 07:00 AM
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Alright. Are you and her, friends? I am friends with a lot of girls and they talk about their dates, how the sex is, and I do the same, it's how adult friendships go (real friendships of course). I understand that you want her to be more than friends, otherwise you would just be happy for her having fun and not feel jealous (don't pretend you are not). See, to be friends with benefits, you have to be friends first, unconditionally, and if you feel like more, then you cannot have sex. I've been t…
/r/seduction08/08/19 07:54 AM
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It's ok, I'm happy to help.
/r/seduction08/08/19 07:12 AM
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her answer was: you wanted me to let you know how it went. Did you? If so, don't wonder if she actually does. Also, you want something else that she does, so you are the one who is at fault for keeping this up.
/r/seduction08/08/19 06:23 AM
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First off, good to hear that you are doing something about your depression. This is just the first step you have to take to get back into a healthy life. Secondly, you say that every 20 year old has sex constantly, that is far from the truth. In fact, there was a study recently that came to the conclusion that young people have less sex than any other generation before them. Also realize that we are facing an incel epidemic, so you are not the only one and far from being a minority. So, how can …
/r/seduction08/08/19 06:13 AM
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What you should do? Listen to a man with a lot of life experience. She's playing with thirsty guys, and there are millions of them. She knows her power over those inexperienced little boys and she loves to use it. Her inbox will already be filled to the rim with thirsty messages and she is laughing at them with her girl friends. Maybe even picking one out to read and laugh at it having a great time. What she will most likely never do: give out her address or even throw a party for random thirsty…
/r/seduction07/08/19 03:33 PM
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I think you should have just took her up on her offer and have fun.I mean, think about it: You and two girls in a bar... Have you ever done that? I have a lot of times, and it's a lot of fun and a biiiig amount of attention from other women just because you are being seen with two (hopefully hot) girls.
/r/seduction07/08/19 11:38 AM
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What do you suggest i do? Say "thank you for your kind offer, but I have to say no". Maybe it's just me but I can't bear the thought of living with people in the same apartment. Usually they're loud, don't clean, eat your food and in general behave like they live alone. Too much stress.
/r/seduction07/08/19 07:15 AM
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You don't. End of story
/r/seduction07/08/19 06:36 AM
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And here's the problem, a therapist doesn't tell you much, he listens and asks you questions. The thinking that results in that is what makes the difference, also get your ass off the fucking internet! Go outside and interact with real people.
/r/seduction07/08/19 06:35 AM
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if no one else thinks it You have the super rare talent of reading minds? Awesome! Joke aside, you don't and will never know what other people think. All you might get to know is what they claim to think, and only if they actually tell you. Now there's another thing that is holding back a lot of guys, the Internet. What do you think would happen if you stopped wasting your time on internet forums, online dating sites and your phones/computers, and actually stood up from your chairs to spend your…
/r/seduction07/08/19 06:33 AM
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So you want to tackle the issue of being too logical with logic? See the problem here?
/r/seduction07/08/19 06:28 AM
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One success doesn't prove a rule. In general it is a waste of time to pursue girls through text since they have hundreds of guys texting them. If she doesn't show particular signs of interest, it's a race against time that you will lose in most cases.
/r/seduction06/08/19 07:24 AM
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Repeating bullshit doesn't make it true. Imagine there's a big group of people who say there's a magical skydaddy, and billions of people say with no doubt that it's true. Still doesn't make it Tru just because so many people believe that.
/r/seduction06/08/19 06:04 AM
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My problem is that she doesn't show a lot of intrest to me. Your problem is that you waste your time with a girl that doesn't show interest. Of course she answers my messages fast (maybe because she is on the phone all the time) and also shows some positive moves(using emojis) but I always ask her question and NOT the other way around. You are nothing more than a minor nuisance to her. She doesn't want to say "fuck off" but she's also not interested at all in you. How can I stop being so despera…
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:44 AM
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And what do you do with those ten girls? Keep them in your orbit for personal validation? You're supposed to go on dates with the girl and progress until you either want to keep her or next her. Get off the phone and onto dates! Having ten possible dates means you should get to the point after a couple of texts, and if the girl doesn't want to, next her, except you only want the attention, then keep on going and waste your and her time.
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:31 AM
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But the real important question is: did it make her want you?
/r/seduction03/08/19 07:26 PM
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People say one thing but mean the other, never trust just a couple of words.
/r/seduction03/08/19 07:24 PM
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So you were talking with each other, and nothing else? You should not wonder that she at one point felt the need for a man who also fucks her.
/r/seduction03/08/19 06:15 PM
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hot women are generally immune to sycophantic compliments because they get them ALL THE TIME from their thirsty orbiters That's a wrong perception. It's not like hot women are perfect, or even all the same, a lot of women, no matter how hot or not, have deep psychological issues, and as you already said, those guys screen for them. Also, did you ever think about how women fall in love? It's not just a matter of doing certain things and not doing others. One guy can do certain things and she will…
/r/seduction02/08/19 05:43 PM
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According to the pareto rule, something around 80 to 99.9999% depending on a extreme high number of variables. In any case, knowing a concrete percentage is just a waste of time, it doesn't change the fact that every one has to work hard to get somewhere. The only thing you should know is that you will lose a lot, but sometimes win a little, and very rarely win a bit more.
/r/seduction02/08/19 02:07 PM
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Im planning a long game with her because I know she isnt ready yet. You mean you are planning to be her orbiter while she fucks around. I'll stay in the friendzone for a long time, probably years No, definitely years, until you grow some balls and realize you are a niceguy with no backbone. although I wont stop seducing her. You don't know what the word seduction Means. Because for now, all she wants is physical relationships with men her age or older. Since you are young, naive and inexperience…
/r/seduction02/08/19 06:06 AM
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And like always, the solution is simple, and you already know it: cool, but I have to decline your kind offer, I have enough friends, thanks. And then you next her, simple as that.
/r/seduction01/08/19 03:40 PM
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Spot on! He's treating you like an annoying little sister, while still loving her.
/r/seduction01/08/19 06:15 AM
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Dodged a bullet there, be thankful for her showing how mentally ill she is
/r/seduction01/08/19 05:55 AM
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Look man, this sounds so cringy. You say she left you for your best friend? He doesn't value your friendship. She doesn't value you as a man. Then you "forgive" her, and play the entertainer for her and friends, and on top of that, you want to play the clown for them even more because you think you actually have a chance with two of them? Have some self respect! They're treating you like a joke. An ex is an ex for a reason, and a "best friend" doesn't get together with your ex. I have been the b…
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:26 AM
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It means you are not important to her. If you were, she would make time for you.
/r/seduction30/07/19 10:55 AM
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Thanks man for sharing the story. you're welcome Glad you left yours at least since from here I can tell that was totally waste of time I had some nice experiences with this girl (pretty rare though), but it definitely wasn't worth the effort, and I payed a lot in terms of getting drama constantly. For instance: She invited me to visit her in her home country for a vacation (she was visiting her family) and so I did. The morning after I arrived, she came to my hotel and we had breakfast together…
/r/seduction30/07/19 07:15 AM
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But my dumbass was never assertive enough when she was visiting to being like, “yeah let’s hang out the two of us at my place,” and then nothing ever happened, I guess she took it as just friends from what I was doing. yea... we've all been there, it sucks but it is how you learn, and my personally best advice I can give is to listen to your guts feeling, not the one that is sitting in your head telling you bullshit like "she isn't into me" or "I can't do that, what if..." but the feeling in you…
/r/seduction30/07/19 07:04 AM
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This is why texting is only good for logistics.
/r/seduction30/07/19 06:24 AM
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Or maybe it's because you sound like a social justice waste lunatic? The majority of people are not racist in the western world.
/r/seduction30/07/19 04:53 AM
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Like in another comment, you're pressuring yourself too much. If you start with a topic, you should know at least a bit about it, or be interested in it that you can ask more in detail questions. For example: She:I'm a photographer You: that sounds interesting, I have to admit I have not much information on the details, but is there a camera you would suggest for a beginner? She: bla bla bla bla You: nice, you seem to know a lot about cameras, but I wonder something. Was photography your first c…
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:59 PM
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If I had the time to lay out the whole story of how I met this one girl online I would, so here's a quick one: we agreed to fuck, but could not because she get sick, and a week later, and after a a lot of texting, she said she didn't feel like meeting at the moment. She wanted to talk though. I was stupid and played this game with her for some months, she would make up dates and flaked numerous times with the usual excuses. I blocked her at one point, and unblocked her about 8 months later and s…
/r/seduction29/07/19 02:00 PM
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Well, good read, women do care about being judged, but you are making a big mistake, you actually think she didn't go with this guy because of you, while you said before she already had it in her body language that she didn't want to. The thing that turns women off the most is being pushy, and never forget that women shape reality to their will when it is needed, in other words: If she felt that guy, she would not have given a single fuck about anyone judging her, because she would just play the…
/r/seduction29/07/19 11:35 AM
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What did you fuck up again? Nothing. What you should do is relax (I am saying this so often, I should maybe rename myself to "Dr.Relax" or something lol). She wants to spend time with you, but for whatever reason (and it doesn't really matter in the end) she want's to invite her friends too, and there is your chance to become even more attractive: Be a cool fun guy to be around, don't concentrate on her, give her friends a lot of attention and get to know them better. Have so much fun that the o…
/r/seduction29/07/19 09:47 AM
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Most are transactional anyways. Dinners dates whatever you want. It's annoying. That is why I usually don't pay for someone else's stuff. I had so many discussions about this already with women... It' s weird, they want equal treatment and rights, but when it comes to paying for their own shit, there is no equality wanted anymore? If I really like someone, I pay for a drink or something else, and usually it is being reciprocated another time, which is the way it should be.
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:32 AM
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Do I call her out on that That is a confrontation, and most people avoid them like the plague. There is nothing to gain from it when, what you want is someone to spend time with you. On the topic of you texting her for months already without meeting, I have seen and been in this situation myself, and nothing good comes from this. Sure you might hook up, but that is rare and is usually paid by drama
/r/seduction29/07/19 06:45 AM
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But how do I know she's not just trying to initiate the "courtship" that way. in 99.9999999% she's not. What she is looking for is a free drink. What does earn a hookup. What a question... ​ Girls do flirt like crazy making me feel like they like me. Until they drop the bomb What bomb? Again. If a girl wants you to give her any kind of physical good or labour in return for "sexual favors", it is the definition of being a prostitute. The way to get laid is to be attractive to women, initate the i…
/r/seduction27/07/19 07:55 PM
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The problem is this: Women are no hive mind. If you would ask a billion women, you would get a billion different opinions. In a statistic you would find certain behavioral patterns that match with a majority, like "women are attracted to men" or "women like to get compliments" but the details are all different from one another. The problem with Pua's is that every one of them want's to sell his product, and only if you have a different product than the others, you have any chance. This is called…
/r/seduction24/07/19 11:05 AM
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Since I an a freely giving person I will give you all here the content of my latest book on how to get back with your ex: How to get back with your ex. Chapter one: you don't. The end.
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:01 AM
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Your learning experience should consist of maybe 1% reading/watching videos and 99% approaching and experiencing the real world. You want to get with physically real women, so you learn by experiencing them.
/r/seduction24/07/19 06:57 AM
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Just ignore the majority of these comments here, they're pretty much all bullshit. The only valuable advice is this: are you OK with it? No? Say it. You don't have to tolerate anything you don't want or like, and if she thinks differently, you both are not on the same page, and therefore not compatible. It's easy as that. Draw boundaries! She will do the same, and frankly, women are extremely straight in enforcing their lines, nothing comes easier for a girl to break up of you overstep her bound…
/r/seduction24/07/19 06:51 AM
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There's a lesson you should learn as early as possible: dating is a team effort. Both sides have to be on the same page. She isn't, and the effort you have to put in is in 99.99999% of cases not worth the outcome. I have a set of rules: didn't meet yet = we aren't anything, not even friends (most definitely not in a relationship). Haven't had sex = at most we're friends, but hell no relationship. Also, I learned that the hard way: if she doesn't do any effort to meet, and think about it this way…
/r/seduction24/07/19 06:35 AM
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And in general, sorry to say that, she's not worth the time and effort. I'm saying this as a man in such a situation on the other end. I was dumb enough to work through months and months of this bullshit, and when we finally met she turned out a crazy mentally ill woman who constantly did drama. I had to block multiple numbers she used to harass me after I ejected to save my own mental health from her.
/r/seduction24/07/19 06:28 AM
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Rejecting racism is a good thing, don't know what would be wrong about it, and also wrong sub.
/r/seduction24/07/19 06:11 AM
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Oh, also, do a Google image search with her picture, usually it's grabbed off of some other site.
/r/seduction19/07/19 03:31 PM
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This looks a lot like an African guy trying to scam money off of you. The way she writes gives it away, the grammar is poor, and the part about "spoil with love" is the typical thing they write to get nice guys to send them money to help them out with their sick grandma. Pro tip: if a girl isn't replying to your request to meet, she doesn't want to. If she says she's too busy, she's fishing for attention or tries to lure you into an internet love to exploit you for money. Why wouldza girl that i…
/r/seduction19/07/19 03:30 PM
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If she's clean it's a lot of fun (once I told a girl to please wash herself, because she was smelling like fish, and she got a bit embarrassed but after cleaning herself it was fun) . I love the way women go crazy about it and I also love seeing them come. What I also learned through it Is that if you want to keep a girl, make her come at least once before you start fucking, so they want more.
/r/seduction19/07/19 03:21 PM
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I’m M15 and never had luck with girls. ​ How often did you even try, and what did you try exactly? ​ I am very bad at making conversation as well. ​ This can be helped by: Having conversations, reading a lot to build up your vocabulary, being interested in everything new which helps you with finding topics and again, talking ,talking, talking. ​ I just wanna know if anyone can please help me. ​ This sub is pretty solid when it come to helping others, so just ask and you will receive. ​ There’s t…
/r/seduction19/07/19 11:25 AM
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There is no surefire way to help anyone. First the person in question needs to understand he needs help, then he has to ask for help and of course follow the guidance he gets, and even then it is not sure the he will even understand the guidance and go with it , or even have any success whatsoever. ​ It is always better to only extend a helping hand to someone who really want's it, and pull it back as soon as you see the person isn't going to follow. I've learned this over the course of decades …
/r/seduction19/07/19 11:12 AM
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There is a lot to unpack. Women are constantly bitching and gossiping about anyone. They talk how slutty their one friend looked the other night, only to dress the same way and think they are different. They tell their girl friends how hot they look, only to turn around to tell their other friends how much she hates that bitch. They see a guy, almost get so wet they have to change their underwear, and when they talk to their friends about it, they say he was such a creep. ​ They tell guys to sho…
/r/seduction19/07/19 07:55 AM
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I agree with you for the most part but isolation is not possible if you are living on this planet, and given the current development, you'd need to isolate yourself from participating in social life to be safe from the madness this society is going through. Isolation from people is something no one really can handle for extended time periods, it's human nature to be social.
/r/seduction19/07/19 06:58 AM
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Some people do look great with sunglasses some don't, depends on their style, and wearing them inside is the same, if it fits it's a nice accent. Thinking about it, they sell vanity glasses (regular glasses with simple window glass in them) and there are actually people who wear them... Not everyone's cup of tea, but honestly, why would you give a fuck about other people's opinions on if they like it? You will never be able to make it right for everyone, and you should not try, it's just patheti…
/r/seduction18/07/19 04:20 PM
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Here is an article about this shit town, could not find the exact article on quickly, but this here is "funny" as well: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2018/jul/09/uk-police-chiefs-urged-to-adopt-harassment-of-women-as-hate
/r/seduction17/07/19 02:25 PM
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If I remember correctly it is "illegal" in britain, in what was the name of that shithole again... nottinghamshire I think, where police announced that if a woman feels harassed (of course only based on her feeling) by a man, he will be thrown into a cell... No joke...
/r/seduction17/07/19 01:44 PM
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What if I draw my crush ? Then you'd have a drawing of your crush. You're welcome.
/r/seduction15/07/19 06:31 AM
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Do it only if you are 100% aware of the following: the chances that she feels the same are probably about 0.1%. Maybe even less,otherwise she would make herself noticed. Also think about how it would affect you. It will very likely kill your friendship if it's not a really strong one (which has become incredibly rare these days) and lastly: can you take the inevitable rejection? If you are aware and actually cool with those things, go ahead and get it over with, but since you are asking, I highl…
/r/seduction15/07/19 06:30 AM
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Oh God... These advices... First off, you behaved like a nice guy. You were giving her the typical nice guy speech. Also, if you actually go out with her, be sure you are nothing more than her gay best friend, and she'll go home with some random guy, leaving you behind. This all looks also a lot like she's trying to get back at her boyfriend for "cheating", while her goal is to make him jealous and come back to her, or said in a short and clear way: she's using you.
/r/seduction15/07/19 06:22 AM
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She's just playing the game, roll with it.
/r/seduction10/07/19 06:51 AM
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Like for the 100th time? Get some mental help man, you have other issues to work out.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:38 AM
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There's nothing to end there. He's begging her basically and she knows that. She would not care if he stopped begging her for her precious pussy, there are hundreds of other guys who she can get her ego boost from and she also knows that.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:31 AM
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It looks like she isn't interested at all in meeting you. Probably she's just into the attention you give her. Stop wasting your time with this one girl who doesn't put in any effort. She ghosted you for two weeks... Dude... Have some standards. A girl that wants to be with you will put in effort.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:29 AM
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You're overthinking. You say it was your second approach and you already try to prepare for certain scenarios. Approaching strangers is never going to be a certain set of scenarios, every person is different from the other and every approach will be different from the other. Also keep in mind you will be rejected a lot, that's part of the game, just keep on doing it and gain experience, in time you will know how to do things and find your rhythm.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:23 AM
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If your girl is attractive, she should go onto any big online dating site and simply look there. It is a lot easier for a girl to get anything, so let her do her magic.
/r/seduction07/07/19 10:25 AM
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I'm above average in all depts. ​ Obviously not... ​ but my results are below average..... ​ ... otherwise you wouldn't say this. ​ I don't have time to read thorough all his posts but could somebody provide a summary of anti-game please? ​ If you care so much about the information you seek, and you don't make the time to get it, then your priorities are wrong. There is no shortcut when it comes to personal deveolpment, you have to put in the hard work, sorry mate. ​ Thank you. ​ You're welcome.
/r/seduction07/07/19 10:22 AM
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Not many. Very few interests me. ​ Well, you should meet more women then. ​ I have this annoying thing in my head. If the woman is hot but boring or annoying. I stop finding her attractive and I'll feel like I jsut waste my time. ​ That is called having standards, which is not a bad thing, but if it get's to a point where you are dissatisfied by every girl you meet, and you meet hundreds a week, then you might have a serious issue there. ​ The women I usually like, like me. But rarely in the sam…
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:46 PM
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I've heard over and over again that the only way to escape the friend zone is to reveal my feelings. ​ Where did you read/hear that? This is usually the fastest way to get even deeper into the friendzone. To get out of it, she has to change her perception of you, from being a gay friend to a hot, sexy attractive man. There is a lot of material out there describing this extremely time consuming, unrewarding and frustrating process, so you should really be sure if she is even worth it.
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:27 PM
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You are too vague, basically impossible to give you any meaningful advice. What do you mean by "finishing last"? How many women do you you approach per week? With how many women do you actually escalate? At which point do you get rejected? What is your definition of teasing in a sexual way? and so on. You also contradict yourself which is confusing: "How do I stop being a people pleaser without being a dick?" and then "I'm honest, not a coward. I stand up for myself. Do not tolerate behavior I d…
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:23 PM
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Sure that must be it... Dude, you are looking for reasons to feel bad. I know I am wasting my time even talking to you, but let's say I'm dumb, so I will just waste my time here. You claim I look better than you, maybe, maybe not, doesn't matter. What I do know is that I shaped my personality throughout the past 15 years, I shaped my looks to counter the weight problem, I fine tune my clothing, my body language and my behavior. It works good, but I am aware it would work better if I was ripped (…
/r/seduction05/07/19 07:09 AM
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Ah fuck that, don't worry about this one girl. There are literally millions out there. Just continue working on it and you will be rewarded.
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:48 AM
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You care too much about the opinions of strangers. Their opinions don't bear any weight on you whatsoever. Did you know that a lot of the people you meet everyday think you are ugly? Others think you're dumb? Or that you're just a loser? Why do they think that? It doesn't matter, since it doesn't matter what they think about you. You will never make everyone like you, nor can you ever make all people think about you in a certain way. You do you and stop giving a fuck! That's called confidence an…
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:41 AM
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Hahahaha this means I'm physically attractive with my 30kg overweight? Shit! I should become a model!! Thank you stranger for enlightening me.
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:32 AM
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Let me guess. You observed something through the lens of defeatism, but you never even thought about trying to prove it yourself, and now you think you have found the truth? Pathetic. What about working your ass off to prove/disprove your non existing knowledge about the things you claim? Oh yeah, it's easier to open a new reddit account every week to whine about how bad you have it, got it.
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:31 AM
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An alpha does not need to fight anyone and he doesn't feel like anyone owes him respect. Work on that and you'll be fine. No random guy is worth the time.
/r/seduction04/07/19 04:55 PM
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Don't sext please you're putting yourself one screenshot away from blackmail. LOL isn't that usually what women do? Remember all the meetoo bullshit? On the other part I do agree, just being straight forward does the trick.
/r/seduction04/07/19 07:14 AM
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You're overthinking. This girl still talks to you. Would she if she didn't give a fuck about you? In this day and age a lot of guys need to learn how to be a real man, and one aspect of being that is to realize that men are brutal, not thinking much about doing but acting on what they want, not apologizing for things they don't feel wrong about and so on. You smacked her butt, and if she were some random stranger you'd be in the wrong, but you kissed her! Kissing, one of the most intimate things…
/r/seduction04/07/19 06:13 AM
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As a guy, I've always been hyper conscious of avoiding the dreaded friendzone, in which you give and don't get anything in return. I'd like to correct you on that, this is not the friend zone, this is the "who the fuck are you? Stop talking to me" zone. Friends give something back, that is the nature of being friends with someone. As for the rest of your question: if you meet a girl and she's unavailable but you both still connect, and you are capable of having female friends, go for it. If you'…
/r/seduction04/07/19 05:29 AM
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That's the beauty of it, you as a man create that situation yourself. Build tension by touch, proximity, eye contact and at one point you feel that urge to kiss her, then you simply have to have the balls to act upon it and go in. Sure, she might not feel comfortable with it but you'll get a feeling for that and most of the time your gut feeling should be right.
/r/seduction04/07/19 04:35 AM
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When your friends decide to jump off a bridge, do you blindly follow? Become your own person. On topic: have you thought about that she might come back late on Saturday, or if she comes back early, that she might have shit to do? In any way, her remark sounded more like a rejection, at least for the weekend, since her friends are more important than a stranger from the internet
/r/seduction03/07/19 06:20 AM
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That's your worst? Lol... Noob... Joke aside though, that's a mild rejection, have you ever gotten insulted by a girl because you had the audacity to ask her out? That's also not the worst but still a bad feeling if you are 16 and your whole social circle is around, and still you'll survive and thrive through it.
/r/seduction02/07/19 07:14 AM
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my issue is this.. most of the women I've been with are women who I am attracted to but they're not the best out there. What do you mean by best? My issue is that with the more beautiful women, Do I understand right that you equate "best" with superficiality? Serious question here, do you want to have girl you want to be around and actually like her, or do you look for a trophy to elevate your low self value in front of random unimportant people? By the way, I don't know if you know this, but pe…
/r/seduction02/07/19 07:12 AM
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Am I being too picky or am I justified in only talking to girls I feel strongly attracted to? ​ Why do you care? If you are happy with it, then continue, if not, then don't. Couldn't be easier. Being picky is not a bad thing, I am very picky myself, and I live very happily with it.
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:51 PM
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We had met up twice before she hit me with the "let's be friends" text. ​ Remember this... ​ We had one night though where we hung out and it felt a little different. ​ Did it feel different for her too? ​ We got dinner and drinks and she ended up talking about how things might have been different if she wasn't moving away in a few weeks. ​ And of course you now think she's into you... ​ I told her that bummed me out a little because I really like her. She told me she really likes me too (in ret…
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:44 PM
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For a bit of context I'm just 20 years old and never had a girlfriend or any friends who were girls until recently. This was because I was severely overweight {313 lbs) and had massive confidence issues. ​ Let me correct you, you didn't have no friends because of your weight, but because you thought it was a problem in the first place. ​ I've lost just under 100lbs but am still overweight and more confident but not there yet. ​ If you are not 1.50m in height, but the usual 1.80m or something, we…
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:23 PM
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Ok, we probably should define "putting their needs ahead of yours" first. In the most extreme case it could mean "if I can't afford food for all of us, I will die of hunger." which would also mean "my kids will also die of hunger after I died" if you know what I mean. Nature has fortunately made it so that every healthy mind will first make sure that you yourself are healthy and safe before caring about anyone else. ​ Food for thoughts: I was on vacation for 2 weeks in south america, and dated a…
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:39 PM
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I want a relationship where I can put my SO's needs above my own. But why? This is extremely unhealthy.
/r/seduction26/06/19 09:28 AM
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Well... Texting is used to get your logistics worked out, not for conversation, this is what the majority of people here don't get. It can be used to spike interest, but your end goal is to have a date, right? And can you have all the things that come with a date, through texting? No. You are in a position where you can actually interact with her in real life! Do that instead becoming another of her online sources of self importance. Online you are nothing, at most you can be another thirsty bet…
/r/seduction26/06/19 07:37 AM
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Do you want her as a pen pal?
/r/seduction26/06/19 07:31 AM
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I wasn't giving you advice to get her back, mate. It still makes me wonder why you went through the process of opening a topic just for someone you don't want to meet, so why even bother?
/r/seduction26/06/19 07:08 AM
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Nope not going to text her, I value my dignity, if she wanted to talk she would talk right ? And yeah it's pretty annoying, I mean, if you don't wanna meet up then just say it, don't keep playing like that. ​ Did we miss something? From what I see it's you who plays games here. A simple "Hey, I will do x if you think you can behave, I'd let you come with me" would probably suffice to meet her, otherwise like someone else said: ignore her and move on.
/r/seduction25/06/19 11:00 AM
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Did i really do anything wrong? ​ Do you feel like you did? No? Then you probably didn't, I don't read anything that was wrong here. If your story is true, then you were just having a talk with some people and took a womans business card, in which world is this wrong? Look, I have had some similar experiences with a girl where she would get super jealous when I was going out with my female friends (one of which is married, has 3 children and I know her for 20+ years without ever having any attra…
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:14 AM
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I’d just apologize and move on ​ For? Never apologize if you didn't do anything wrong.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:02 AM
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Again, not once have I insulted you. I haven't claimed that, don't worry. Stop acting as if I have. This makes me giggle reading your very next statement... Secondly, you shouldn’t assume anything about someone else’s issues, you will nearly always be wrong. You really don't see the irony there, do you? Hint: You made assumptions about me being offended, and exactly, you were wrong. Third, I have well over a decade on you, I do happen to know some things about life. I am not familiar with your w…
/r/seduction24/06/19 08:47 AM
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So I found the most amazing medium but you have to have money, ​ Why? Can't you be a pleasant sexy man without money? My whole life was a lie!! *cry*.... ​ I’m sorry, you don’t have to be rich but if you’re broke I don’t know what to tell you, focus on that first then the women will come. ​ Wrong. Women will come if you put yourself out there and are attractive. ​ The main point that I centre being a nice guy on is be a nice in her presence.... and in her presence only! ​ Ok... weird way to say …
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:56 PM
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what are your experiences with the '9s' and '10s' compared to anybody lower? ​ I only have experience with 1 and 0 (attractive, not attractive), and those experiences vary strongly... that is probably because women are individuals and therefore, not one is like the other...
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:49 PM
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Your responses are ignorant. No, they aren't. They are criticism, there's a fine difference. I never once said as “ whole therapy “. Good point, agreed. And not everyone suffering from depression has an imbalance. Then please enlighten me, provide scientific evidence that shows that. OP asked for things that might help, and I made suggestions based on my own experiences, and others around me. Much as you did. Yes, and I criticised your advice because I know how dangerous it is. I never alluded t…
/r/seduction21/06/19 06:29 AM
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Are you sure that you felt chemistry, and not just an erection? Joke aside, it doesn't matter does it? She is not interested for whatever reason, and unless this happens to you on a regular basis, it is not you, but her.
/r/seduction20/06/19 03:01 PM
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This.. Yes, I've read this multiple times now. Stop posting this over and over again. It's like a copypasta at this point. this... Dude... you got probably thousands of replies, since you are posting this same post for as long as I am an active subscriber of this sub, which is about 3 years by now. Get professional help (something that I told you at least 20 times during those 3 years already...) And if you didn't open a new account every day (you must have burned through at least a few hundred …
/r/seduction20/06/19 02:56 PM
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Dude, the problem is that you're still thinking about it and spamming about it so many days years later. ​ He's been posting this literally years ago on a weekly basis. He must have some mental deficiency, probably some strong form of autism.
/r/seduction20/06/19 02:53 PM
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Dude... you got probably thousands of replies, since you are posting this same post for as long as I am an active subscriber of this sub, which is about 3 years by now. Get professional help (something that I told you at least 20 times during those 3 years already...)
/r/seduction20/06/19 02:51 PM
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I already unmatched her. ​ Good, you have principles. ​ A no is a no and I'm not the type to try to change anyone's mind. ​ That is wise, usually it would just be a waste of energy and time anyways. ​ She's single and only met up once with someone from Tinder. ​ Here is another red flag for your collection. She is not the right girl for your value system, so don't sweat it, you did the right thing. ​ We had a good convo going with laughing and stuff but I don't know what she was expecting here. …
/r/seduction20/06/19 02:49 PM
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That depends on what outcome you wanted to achieve. It might have made her feel validated, but would it have achieved her seeing you in a more attractive way? Very unlikely. ​ Your reply was very much spot on, pretty much what I would have replied. In any case, your reply was what you thought, and this is worth a lot more than giving out fake compliments.
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:55 PM
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but as soon as I’m done asking (“where are you from” etc), I’ll have nothing else to say. ​ So you are talking to boring people with no life? The solution is to not talk to them... or... Start being interested in those people. Usually they live a pretty interesting life, have hobbies, like certain things, dislike others, and have opinions! Ask about things you care and they will tell you what they feel about it, in other words you have a conversation with them, while working out the details of t…
/r/seduction20/06/19 11:54 AM
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No. That is not a shit test. It was fishing for compliments.
/r/seduction20/06/19 11:41 AM
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Thank you for your input, good points there, but you don't see the big picture here. Agreed, paying games sucks, and faking it will not help in the long term. ​ What you don't see is this: The guys who come here are socially inexperienced or just overwhelmed by women, they simply have no idea how to get together with one. You as a girl, don't even know how that feels, since your whole life you have been valued more than any boy, people would constantly tell you you're pretty, and cute, and be ni…
/r/seduction20/06/19 08:23 AM
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Well, a very interesting question is to find out why it does have such a big impact on your mental well being? Why do you define yourself through the lens of being liked by others? What happened in your life that you feel like that? You might have to go deep into your childhood to find the reasons... Maybe your depressions is caused by something else, and feeling like no girl likes you is just one effect of your depression... ​ Usually it goes like this: You get an appointment, and then the doct…
/r/seduction20/06/19 07:10 AM
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And also, I have chronic severe depression, Is it in treatment by a doctor, or did you come up with it by googling? general anxiety, and ptsd. Sorry to ask, but did you suffer from this because of war? People nowadays come up with this crap for anything, like "Someone said a bad word, now I have PTSD". But you can use me to be all outraged at if you need it. Why does this make me giggle... Oh yes, it does because you seem like one of those snowflakes that project their insecurities and anger ont…
/r/seduction20/06/19 07:00 AM
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In fact, doctors will suggest the things that I did. Meditation, I highly doubt that. Meditation isn't helping a chemical imbalance in your brain that usually causes depression. reaching out, aka a support system, Sure, but not as the go to medication for depression, but as one part of the whole therapy. Usually, and this is a common theme, people don't understand depression, and therefore the usual reaction from even family and loved ones is "Just don't be depressed anymore.", very helpful inde…
/r/seduction20/06/19 06:53 AM
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I got home thinking if she sees me as a potential partner in a serious relationship? ​ Maybe... ​ She initiated a third date after all... ​ This should tell you something... ​ Also, can anyone give me an idea why she felt sorry when she told me she doesn't do hook ups? I have no clue why she was feeling this way. ​ In general I'd say: "ask her!" how should anyone else know? ​ Anyway. You have had two dates, you escalated and this brought you to your third date. For someone without experience you…
/r/seduction19/06/19 03:26 PM
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Start with meditation. ​ You do not realize that this is like telling someone who has cancer to take little balls of water and sugar (homeopathy) to cure it? He should see a specialist. Only they actually know how to help him, and the risk is too big to try other bullshit.
/r/seduction19/06/19 09:49 AM
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How do i deal with severe depression? ​ By seeing a professional. Don't fall for all the other bullshit people come up with, like "just suck it up" or "do yoga" or "meditate" and all these dumb things. Depressions is a serious issue that might go away by itself, or it will fuck up your body chemistry and life in the long run. See a therapist! Get some antidepressants prescribed if needed, and then do therapy. There is no way around this usually. ​ Source: My personal suffering with depression ov…
/r/seduction19/06/19 09:46 AM
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Yes. ​ I guess you want to know how to become one, this is pretty easy: Become socially aware and practice your skills. Be assertive, and learn how to lead. The more you achieve in any sense, the more confident you get, the more people will respect you, the more you become a leader and therefore an "alpha male". ​ The time you need to invest depends on too many variables to count, so just practice the things I mentioned and in time you will realize how your life changes.
/r/seduction18/06/19 11:00 AM
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Women cannot take rejection usually, exhibit: A. I don't see anything wrong here, telling a girl she's beautiful doesn't mean that she is girlfriend material, maybe you should have told her that, but in any case, this also shows how women tend to reduce themselves to their looks and then get pissed if men treat them that way too...
/r/seduction18/06/19 10:56 AM
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Anyways, we’ve had a good time on both dates, ​ Depending on what she was expecting... ​ but nothing serious happened. ​ ... she might disagree with that. I wonder how you call this a date if nothing happened (which would be your decision to make something happen) ​ Mostly us just catching up on our lives from the last few years. ​ That is not a date. That is hanging out with old friends. ​ I’ve recently asked her on another date, currently awaiting her response. ​ You mean hangout with old frie…
/r/seduction18/06/19 10:48 AM
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Talking about feelings is not beta, it is called vulnerability. Doing ballet might not be the manliest thing, but as a guy you either have to be gay or have balls of steel to even talk about doing it. I have a lot of respect for any man doing what he wants, regardless of what others think. ​ So far, I don't see anything that could be called beta behavior, which would be for instance never speaking your mind, always apologizing, avoiding any kind of conflict even if it has negative consequences f…
/r/seduction17/06/19 09:58 AM
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Dude... Is this some kind of fetish of you? Showing your pictures in every second post? Meet that girl from tinder, and have a fun date! Just relax man.
/r/seduction17/06/19 09:12 AM
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What makes him a "beta" in your books?
/r/seduction17/06/19 09:11 AM
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He thinks black people are completely different than other people, If you read the posts here a lot, you will notice that often times people think that women who are older are completely different than other people too, does that make them "ageist" or however you would call them? Or when someone says "this girl is completely different than others" how is that called? he calls black women “negroesses”, I bet that there's a meaning from an earlier time which was completely accepted, even though re…
/r/seduction13/06/19 06:14 AM
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yes, it exists. 20+ years have proved that to me.
/r/seduction11/06/19 11:21 AM
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I feel like I'm out of my prime of what women are looking for ​ You are IN YOUR PRIME right now! Enjoy it! --me being 42 and having more success than ever before.
/r/seduction07/06/19 11:59 AM
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So you think watching porn 3/4 times a day has nothing to do with it? ​ I do. Been there done that. Also, would you be so kind to provide any, even the slightest scientific evidence (yourbrainonporn.com doesn't count though)? ​ Because lest be honest a 19 year old kid who isn’t drink alcohol can’t keep an erection and you think porn has nothing to do with it? ​ Yes, let's be honest, a 19 year young guy who gets hard during masturbation 3 to 4 times a day, suddenly cant get it up, what is more li…
/r/seduction07/06/19 07:21 AM
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All these "Porn is bad" posts... It was your first time, and of course you were probably nervous, I bet even you were constantly thinking of "what happens if I can't stay hard?" and/or "What if I do something wrong?" and all this crap which comes with inexperience. This is a complete killer of arousal. Try to not think, just concentrate on what you see, hear, feel and smell in the moment, and if you don't get hard immediately, go down on her and relax until you feel you get hard again.
/r/seduction06/06/19 07:52 PM
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Never put anyone before your own career They won't pay your rent when you don't have a job, and they won't feed you or provide you with the luxury you will want at some point.
/r/seduction06/06/19 02:41 PM
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Please translate to a human readable format.
/r/seduction06/06/19 06:54 AM
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There is no magic pill to make her drop her panties. Use your newfound knowledge and apply it, you will probably fail, but in the fail you will win. The more you do it the easier it will get, just relax and enjoy the ride, and good luck!
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:00 AM
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The fact that you noticed that shows how early in your development you still are. Pro tip: Enable the privacy setting so no one can see your last online and read status, and you will not see anyones as well. Takes a few weeks to get used to it, and then you actually stop caring as much. To really stop caring about "that text from this one girl" have more hobbies, be busy, and you will find it a curse to even have to reply to texts. This is when you realize that you don't have time for stupid gam…
/r/seduction05/06/19 07:46 AM
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I don't feel like any girl is worth the effort to do anything other than nexting her for flaking/ghosting. If a girl really wants you, she will fight to spend time with you, it's simple as that.
/r/seduction05/06/19 07:41 AM
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The solution is not to collect random phone numbers. Your goal is to make her want your number! During the interaction you have to make sure that she gets attracted to you, otherwise the number is worthless. You do that first off by flirting. The right way to look at her (strong eye contact), the right way of smile, more like a smirk than a full blown all teeth smile, your tone of voice (relaxed, smooth, deep), the way you speak to her, usually I don't take myself or them very seriously, I have …
/r/seduction05/06/19 04:54 AM
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Don't try to come up with a reply, change topics. Since you were giving her a compliment you could go into a comfort question. I usually like to ask the "if you could choose any place on this planet to wake up at tomorrow, where would that be?" question, since from there you can go on to talk about traveling (all women love that) and usually you will notice that her answer tells you a lot about how she feels. In many cases when I asked that question to foreign girls living in my country, they wo…
/r/seduction05/06/19 04:36 AM
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She’s obviously shit testing you. Please lend me your crystal ball with which you made this assumption, I really need to know the winning lottery numbers for next week. Judging from the little information we have, it looks more like the usual: no interest, which is also more likely than "shit testing" since that looks different.
/r/seduction03/06/19 03:30 PM
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Well, that sounds very orwellian and usually I would call bullshit, but in this days social climate, believable. Still makes me wonder what you do that you piss off girls so much they actually complain about you. Never happened to me, because if you are charming, they are usually very friendly. Also one last thing, about the police record, you are aware that you can always disagree with things like that? Usually then this would have to go to court, and without evidence there's nothing to get you…
/r/seduction03/06/19 03:26 PM
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Overthinking, definitely Overthinking.
/r/seduction03/06/19 03:21 PM
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Yeah sure, why not? We have some nice bars here in the city, and I heard our beer is the best in the world.
/r/seduction03/06/19 11:16 AM
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Good work man!
/r/seduction03/06/19 05:36 AM
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Hamburg, when you arrive tell me and you get the details for the drink
/r/seduction03/06/19 05:20 AM
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I totally agree with you, and I didn't say not stand your ground. The difference between the posts message of learning to fight (no doubt physical violence was the meaning) was never necessary for me, and I had some situations where I could easily have had my ass kicked. I always knew very well about the psychology behind aggressive guys, and usually they're too intimidated by me staying cool and having a certain body language to throw the first punch anyway, to get out of any situation just by …
/r/seduction03/06/19 05:04 AM
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Maybe time it down a bit, use the repot function
/r/seduction01/06/19 01:16 PM
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so give me.your address if you want to see we can make a cage match. Haha man, come to Germany and I buy you a drink. Maybe then you realize how dumb your comments sound...
/r/seduction01/06/19 11:41 AM
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I am afraid she will reject me and tell my friend I tried to seduce her ... You already lost. Being afraid of doing what your genetics have made you to want to do (having sex with attractive girls) disqualifies you for getting sex. Look. Whenever your dick tells you to talk to a girl because it wants to visit her vagina, you should simply follow its lead. Stop being a pussy because she might reject you. Why would you even care? And are you in elementary school that you are actually scared of any…
/r/seduction01/06/19 11:35 AM
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learn to fight. To do what? If you are not living in a ghetto, what would that achieve? Oh wait, he shall kick the other guys asses? Hahaha he'll be single in no time... In my 42 years of existence, years of having idiots trying to bully me, I never had to become physical. I got my respect by being confident and never scared. Sure, I didn't grow up in a ghetto, but I'm sure he isn't either.
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:58 PM
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IMHO the message you convey is to not give a fuck, which is a powerful thing. In this case I agree with the others that pointed out that this wasn't a usual flake situation.
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:09 AM
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Tell us what to do then. Criticizing something without providing any other point makes you look like you have nothing to offer other than being butthurt.
/r/seduction28/05/19 04:42 PM
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Planting an idea in someones head and leading them to believe they came to the conclusion on their own is by definition manipulation If I could, I would show you how I roll my eyes at this... Lets agree to disagree. “She thinks its a date and it repels her” what are you doing that repels women at the idea of going on a typical date with you? You obviously have no experience... Women feel a heavy weight on them when a guy says: "I want to have a date with you", and I wonder where you get the noti…
/r/seduction28/05/19 03:58 PM
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I also have a tendency to laugh really hard, thank you for tingling my laughing nerves.
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:17 PM
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You dont need to manipulate her thinking, I don't see how you come up with manipulation here, playing your cards right so a girl thinks its her idea is not manipulation. ​ just ask her if she would like to grab dinner with you, simple ​ You don't have a lot experience , do you? Dinner is the worst you can do to get into a girls pants, it's expensive, you cannot escalate properly (no seduction) and either she immediately knows it's a date and it repels her (women usually get scared because it see…
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:16 PM
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The woman who was talking about my skin was talking about my trypophobia inducing pores. She's still a friend, and we're on good terms, so I'm inclined to think she was being honest and not just reacting to me being a creep So why are you bringing this up? I guess you want some victim points? That's part of what I can't get on board with. You seem to assume in every case that women are mistaken, lying, or equivocating, and they never intend the literal meaning of what they're saying. Well, now Y…
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:13 PM
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Whatever you do, be aware if you "confess your undying love" to her, chances are high she will feel weirded out and try to avoid you. Better play it cool. Seduce her to think it was her idea to get into something with you. Source: my stupid self doing exactly that (well just telling her that I feel something for her) and she went "we are too different, lbjf". After that she started avoiding me.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:49 AM
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I would like to add one thing: self esteem and confidence should not come from other people, but from oneself. It's better if he looks for things that he has control over, like a good career or fun hobbies, and then start dating, otherwise it will end in more depression when a girl doesn't reciprocate his feelings he might develop.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:44 AM
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Do you work close to a place where a lot of people walk from and to somewhere? If you see an attractive girl, approach and try your best.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:37 AM
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Don't be such a grammar nazi...
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:35 AM
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What are you actively doing to get sex? Put in the work and you will be rewarded.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:33 AM
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The real question is: what is your goal? If you feel like complimenting her on something you honestly like, then do that. If not, don't.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:29 AM
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Look man, you wasted your time writing all of this text, because it doesn't matter if we think she likes you. You should find it out by asking her out. Not dinner or some Hollywood bullshit, ask her for drinks or just hanging out over a coffee, then you flirt with her and if you feel she's receptive you escalate. Read up on Kino and how to gauge her interest level and the most important thing: have fun!
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:28 AM
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This! Exactly this!
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:24 AM
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So she's basically insulting you and you still didn't break up with her? Don't get this the wrong way, but you need to grow some balls. You don't like that, tell her, if she doesn't stop this, you say bye bye.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:23 AM
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Attractiveness means literally that someone will feel drawn to you. Women feel drawn to men who make them feel in a certain way. Looks (which can be developed by dressing in a certain way, adopting a certain body language and so on) play a role in some regards, but personality is as important as that.
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:29 PM
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lol Nice troll, made me actually laugh
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:26 PM
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Looks like you salvaged your reputation here, good advice apart from the dinner which is usually not a good idea when you want to hook up. ​ By the way, this guy reeks of troll, but I appreciate you trying to be sensible.
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:25 PM
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You’re racist ​ Totally. Racists always have been known for wanting to mate with other races... Looks like you didn't use your brain. ​ You want to approach a woman by sexually assaulting her? ​ And another extremist thought. Could it be that you are usually found in Antifa mobs striking bystanders heads with bike locks because they are "nazis"? His Idea is definitely a bad one, and definitely out of good manners, but sexual assault? come one man, use your brain.
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:22 PM
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What is right and what is wrong? There are some things that are consensually right or wrong, like murder, violence, theft and so on, but I cannot remember that it was a right for anyone to be another persons friend, and if it felt right for you to not go through constant pain of knowing that she will never be something more than a friend, or if you just weren't interested in her as a friend, it was right for you, and this is what matters. She would have done the same thing if you came out to her…
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:16 PM
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Don't get hung up on a number. A number is just a tool to get a date, but it is not the only way to get a date. I also agree that she is not very interested, since a girl that is, will make time for you and will actually help you to make a date with her. At this point you can either move on and spare you the time and energy to make her interested, or you can play around with it until you either get that date, or get bored of chasing her without having success. I would say play with it to get mor…
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:12 PM
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I just remembered something about the age thing: I had girls as much as 14 years younger than I am (I am in my 40's now) the youngest so far was 19, and I remember going on a date with a 31 year old last year, and we hit it off, but in the end she came up with "you know, I have a problem... your age, you are 10 years older than me" so I asked what would be the problem, she answered "... see, by the time you retire, I will still have to work 10 more years..." lol, this made me wonder if she actua…
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:08 PM
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Some have given specifics, yes. Skin, Your skin color? You cannot change that so don't bother, there are women who don't care about that. If it's your skin condition, there might be something you can do, but I doubt that this is the only reason, or even a true reason for said girls. hair Color? Those girls are not good for you anyways, and like with skin color, some people just don't like certain things, so move on. Is it thinning? Shave your head. It was the best thing I ever did when that happ…
/r/seduction24/05/19 08:51 PM
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I wonder where you read that, do you mind giving us links so we can address them accordingly?
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:49 PM
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Did you bother to ask specifics? If they cannot come up with something like "you are too fat","your teeth are gross","your hair looks gay" or whatever you can think of that you could point your finger at, they don't feel it because your body language is bad, or your confidence is basically nonexistent. Being attractive to women doesn't mean "You have to look like a male model". It's the whole package that has to be appealing. Clothing is one of the easiest things to change and has a good effect …
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:48 PM
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also i'm sure the pressure from all that fame can really tear someone apart. Amen brother.... Amen...
/r/seduction22/05/19 09:42 PM
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When’s the last time you guys got laid? ​ Yesterday ​ How was she? ​ Cumming 5 times that night. ​ I wonder why you even ask that?
/r/seduction22/05/19 09:39 PM
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What do you think came before, the addiction or the depression? Many depressive people use drugs to fade out the bad emotions.
/r/seduction22/05/19 09:35 PM
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getting these foundational habits is crucial to having the drive and motivation to accomplish such things that can bring you confidence, otherwise it's really easy to lose willpower, burn out and give up. Good point. Being healthy is definitely a benefit to having the energy to not give up, but as you already pointed out in another comment, some people are not affected by that, I seem to be one of them who weren't as affected as many others. one example that comes to mind is how tim ferriss ment…
/r/seduction22/05/19 09:34 PM
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Depression is a very complex topic. It's a chemical imbalance of certain hormones in your brain, and this can happen to anyone regardless of bad habits. Think of successful people who took their lives because they were depressed, like curt Cobain or Robin Williams. Both had deep depression but were very successful in what they did.
/r/seduction22/05/19 08:22 PM
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I think you are confusing a few things here. Eating healthy has a great effect on your body, working out as well, and to some degree you will feel more confident, but those are correlations not causations. When it comes to porn, that is a whole other story. It can skew your reality and only whacking off to porn and never having sex, will train you to only get off to the hard grip of your hand in combination with strong visual stimuli,which will make sex hard to enjoy. True confidence comes from …
/r/seduction22/05/19 08:18 PM
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The classic definition is: she tests how much of her shit you're going to take. This can mean anything from trying to shame you for fucking around to inciting drama on your part. The main reason for that is usually incongruity, where you act as something you aren't. For example you portray yourself as the super stud that has hundreds of women lined up, but in reality you are just a normal sensitive guy that can't really rack up the nerve to talk to a hot girl.
/r/seduction22/05/19 08:12 PM
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I was like that when I was in my 20's, now I'm in my 40's and looking back I overcame that by concentrating on my own life, my career and getting the confidence I was lacking so much. Do things that make you happy, take up hobbies, travel! and travel alone! this is a huge confidence builder. Talk to strangers, learn how to be fun and open to people, observe how people start to gravitate towards you as you build up what we call charm and charisma. ​ This is not a short term solution, not even an …
/r/seduction20/05/19 09:43 PM
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The girl i am dating just texted "I miss u!!", ​ So you have an intimate relationship? If she really likes you, she want's to hear that you miss her too, don't be afraid to be honest about your feelings. ​ and I dont want to come off needy, ​ Are you needy? If you are, you might want to be careful, but if you aren't, you would not really have a problem with being honest about your feelings, wouldn't you? ​ nor do I want to brush it off as it doesnt mean anything to me. How do I process these sma…
/r/seduction20/05/19 09:38 PM
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It doesn't matter. You are not the one who committed to someone. If you cheated on your girl, I'd say you were an asshole, even go so far to say you are a coward for not having the balls to just end it, but in this case, all you have is different moral standards than others.
/r/seduction20/05/19 11:02 AM
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Yup, bullshit. Sorry mate, but this is a bunch of excuses, apart from the one with her boyfriend. The problem though is that you do not know if it's her boyfriend or husband, it could very well be her gay best friend...
/r/seduction18/05/19 11:15 PM
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Where are you from, and why are you so hung up on that one online contact (not even sure if it's a real girl)? Here's what you should do: pick out a destination where you would like to go. Go there without any expectations to meet any other person. Go alone! It's frightening if you haven't done that yet, but it's building up on your confidence. If you can manage your expectations, seek some dates before you arrive there, again expect them to not show up. Then when you go there, have fun, see the…
/r/seduction18/05/19 03:18 PM
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Why are you letting her talk to her ex? I'd have to guess, but maybe because he doesn't own her? Correct me if I'm wrong, women are their own people and can do whatever they want, at least in civilized countries.
/r/seduction18/05/19 03:08 PM
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That was actually pretty bad... Now you could have some fun, trying out something else but don't expect a good response. You might be able to turn it around, but that's hard
/r/seduction17/05/19 10:50 PM
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Come on man... Why should that be a problem? You are human, and humans have flaws, just own it. I bet she likes you no matter what.
/r/seduction17/05/19 10:47 PM
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This!
/r/seduction17/05/19 10:44 PM
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Hard to say what would work for him... I was sexting with a girl on and off, and she started sending me images of her boobs telling me she was horny... it worked, just saying. Be more seductive. Hint at things, make him ask you to elaborate on what you had in mind if you come up with vague statements hinting at sex and so on.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:40 PM
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Well... actually a guy telling a girl "I want you" is to her, like a girl telling a guy "I want to suck your dick"... This has nothing to do with insecurity or neediness, it's just a turn on for women. Something else would be to say "I need you", that is a turn off for sure. A girl did that to me, and my dick immediately tried to kill itself.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:36 PM
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But is there anything else I can do to overcome this shit? Yes, time is the way to get rid of it, in combination with distraction with other girls. Also, why can't you go out and meet other girls? Are you in prison? Don't have legs? Working 24 hours a day? Maybe working on a oilr rig? If you come up with "I don't have money" or "I'm working from 9 to 5, those are just weak excuses. You don't need to pay anything to go outside and talk to women, you can even talk to women after working a 12hour d…
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:05 PM
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Actually that is what I experience since I stop giving a crap and assert myself. You will never have every girl you want, it is simply not possible (they have boyfriends, husbands, are not interested at all, are gay, have other issues or it's juts extremely bad logistics) so that is out of the question in the first place, and it doesn't matter how much anyone tries to sell you this crap, it is simply not true. ​ But! If you get the basic things down, presentation (the way you behave, dress and t…
/r/seduction15/05/19 02:26 PM
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Prepare for random insult. That is what he usually does to anyone, so you, good sir, wasted you time. Sorry.
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:34 PM
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What would you say if I told you that this guy gets banned on a weekly (maybe even daily) basis, opens new accounts, posts the same crap over and over again, and insults anyone who tries to help him? ​ Mindblown right? I wonder how this guy manages to have so much time to waste with this crap, and he is doing that for at least the past six months. He got some really, really serious mental issues.
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:33 PM
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That one is easy. First off, don't have dinner with a girl you don't want to pay for. Secondly, don't pay for her food. Sounds harsh, but that what I am doing. If I like a girl, and we have been seeing each other often, I sometimes take the bill, but usually I don't. I had discussions about this before where girls would tell me "it's the man's job to pay" and I disagree, I once or twice even said "Alright, think of it this way: If I take a girl out for date, and she expects me to pay for her mea…
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:06 AM
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You watch too much porn. Seriously, the porn generation has this habit of seeing everything sexually, and I do that too. It can also be subconscious sometimes but mostly it's in your porn affected mind, I speak from experience lol
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:31 AM
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Well, like others said already, there's no magic pill. Just talk to tons of women and make clear what you want. Per Definition this is a chance game. If you don't look like a homeless guy, are not behaving like a 5 year old and actually have the balls to push for what you want, you will get laid left and right. Edit: I just realized that this is the true 3 step method.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:26 AM
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(think Emilia Clarke). That woman only has two expressions: arrogant and arrogant smile... Not a really fitting comparison lol
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:54 PM
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Did your message include the reschedule?
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:52 AM
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Hehe probably even some useless shit like gender studies
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:50 AM
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I'm not trying to seduce her (this has to be done in person). ​ Good, since she would just get dry from your "genius" plan to send her memes. ​ I am trying to get her to reply. ​ What kind of reply are you looking for? "hahaha", "lol", "who are you?" "stop texting me", "I'm calling the police!"? Pick one and be happy. You see the problem there? I'll explain: She didn't reply to your text/s (how many did you send?) so she is either busy, or not interested. The only thing you might achieve is her …
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:02 PM
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Have I missed something? Since when do memes give value to anything? They're fun, sure, but if you want to get into a girls pants, behave like a man, not like a 12 year old boy. ​ Since she doesn't text back, she most likely wasn't interested in you anyways, move on and find a girl who actually is into you.
/r/seduction13/05/19 12:53 PM
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You're a woman and I've told you to fuck off this board. That's what you've been told numerous times too and you're still here, so what gives?
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:19 AM
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But only if you are one of the 1% of mentally ill people who actually believe that being man or woman is just a matter of how you want it to be. In general I am with this guy, any normal girl will know the difference between a guy and random girls on his pictures.
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:05 AM
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Have you ever asked her what she's doing from 11:40 on? maybe she is actually busy. The thing is this... you are hung up on texting. You won't get into her pants through texts, and frankly, why do you even care so much about it? Are you looking for a pen pal? ​ So, here is what you should do: Meet other women. Build yourself a life where you are too busy or bored to text. Stop caring about texts in general, and if you want to chat with someone, there are numerous chat apps and forums to have you…
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:02 AM
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Let's make this quick: if you can't handle a rejection or the inevitable consequences of her rejecting you, and judging from what you wrote, you can't, don't ask her out. If you knew you would not give a fuck, then I'd say go ahead, nothing to lose. Also consider the fact that she might bring guys to her place, if you can't handle that, you should look for an alternative place to stay.
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:11 AM
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So you weren't having sex in those two and a half years while being in Tha was "relationship"? because my last relationship was seriously lacking anything sexual at all. So how did you come to the conclusion that porn is the problem? If you say you googled it, or that some stupid anti porn site, I'm gonna laugh. I dealt with this issue at the beginning of my first relationship and found it out to be Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction. Just for clarification: porn doesn't automatically kill your c…
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:14 AM
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Biology my friend, biology. Unfortunately a lot of men never learned that during their childhood. Mostly because of the fact that they never had any hardship or problems to solve on their own.
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:51 AM
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Just out of curiosity, do you understand the difference between scientific research (which I provided and which is known to describe the factual evidence of our world) and spiritual beliefs (which you are seemingly following)? In short terms: Facts > Beliefs. I don't mind you believing in anything, if it was for me you could believe in a flat earth, but if you do, please have the courtesy to name it as it is: just your personal spiritual belief and opinion, not in any way a fact. A lot of people…
/r/seduction10/05/19 11:46 AM
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Well, you got a point. It wasn't very productive to "hate" on your material, and I apologize for that. ​ The problem I see with it though, is the fact that you are not citing any research, and frankly are wrong in at least some points. Your claims that it has a bad effect on your T-Levels, has been scientifically proven wrong. So, if you really want to spread good information, better do the necessary research before spreading false facts. Here are the points from your article: Masturbation lower…
/r/seduction10/05/19 09:11 AM
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Let me paraphrase one of my ex girlfriends: "Christian bale is super sexy. I love looking at his abs, but if he came over to me and asked me to have sex with him, I would not do it." Theres a big difference between having something fire up your fantasy and living it out. Women love the fantasy bit don't always want to do it in real life.
/r/seduction09/05/19 03:52 PM
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It's funny, all the girls I've been with, constantly say "you have such big dick" and I know they're not even lying but their perception is skewed. They're infatuated and attracted so naturally they think it's the biggest dick they ever had, while I am objectively average. Better is to become charming and capable of making them feel better than with any other guy. From there it doesn't really matter anymore.
/r/seduction09/05/19 03:49 PM
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Well, there's a misconception about hobbies and seduction. Having a hobby is not by itself attractive to women, but the effect it has on you can. Imagine this: your hobby is to play football,and you are very very passionate about it, so you train 3 times a week, play on weekends, go on tournaments and always think about playing. Naturally you will not have a lot of time, which makes you less prone to constantly think about a girl, feel lonely, get needy and you will also communicate that. Footba…
/r/seduction09/05/19 03:45 PM
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The best and easiest way is to let your feelings die by not having her around at all. This means you have to cut her out of your life and fill your time with other things, working out, hobbies, friends, other girls etc. Basically you have to do anything to not think about her.
/r/seduction09/05/19 03:38 PM
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... While spreading bullshit, it's like those flat earthers. They believe their crap but can't provide any evidence, just listen and believe.
/r/seduction09/05/19 09:11 AM
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Think about it. What could you possibly achieve by texting again? She didn't reply, why should she reply if text again? It's not like the text you sent just disappeared after a moment. She knows you texted her. She saw that, and just doesn't care enough to reply.
/r/seduction09/05/19 06:16 AM
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Why do those articles never cite scientific sources? Right, because it's like belief in God, one just has to believe.
/r/seduction08/05/19 09:14 PM
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You seem to have a desperate need for me to validate you as evidenced by your ever-increasing walls of text, yet you keep insulting me. I wonder what insulated you this time. Maybe you should wonder that too, since your perception doesn't seem to be reliable in that regard. The wall of text is a result of my capability to dissect, what other people vomit into this sub, to address every single issue they have. Also I was bored since I was waiting on my girl to come over and already had my work do…
/r/seduction08/05/19 07:47 AM
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What's up with the influx of mentally ill idiots lately? Why are you even wasting your time by coming here, do you actually want help or did you just think "now I will show those successfull motherfuckers how bad I have it!"? Dude I have seen this hundreds of times already. Some guy who has deep mental problems comes here, whines how bad everything is, and when he actually gets good advice, all the he writes are either insults or excuses why this won't work.
/r/seduction08/05/19 07:37 AM
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Looks like it learned how to open new accounts with real sounding names, interesting, it evolves! Must be some new rouge AI lol
/r/seduction07/05/19 09:23 PM
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to everyone but you. wait... did I dream that I got three replies from you? That must really drive you batty. And look how much time you've wasted trying to one up me. Look. If you want to elicit an emotional reaction in me, you are the wrong person. This can only achieved by my crazy ex-girlfriend lol, she was totally nuts. A drama queen like you have never seen. If you want people to listen, you need to provide value. Why do you sound like you were reading too many pickup books without underst…
/r/seduction07/05/19 09:18 PM
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Ok, sometimes the simple things are the best. Since she reached out to you, she has some kind of interest in you already. You text her something like: "Hey <insert girls name> I will go to <insert fun activity that you will do anyways with or without her> on <insert day/time>, you could join me if you like." ​ This gives her the opportunity to come with you if she likes said activity, and it doesn't bear as much weight as a Date. I usually like to invite girls for shopping, since I really don't …
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:32 PM
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The thing is, I know people like you, they happen to wash up in this sub, pretending to seek help, and all they come up with is "I dont want to hear the truth", and then they insult anyone who gives their opinion. Why would anyone even care to help if you come in like that? I personally try to help people here, and I don't really have a problem with telling you how it is. If you feel offended by it, you should definitely look for the problem in yourself instead of others. I am offensive sometime…
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:25 PM
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Ask her out again. What do you have to lose? Also, people change their minds, she could see things differently now, who knows.
/r/seduction07/05/19 03:16 PM
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Ah no worries, shit happens hehe
/r/seduction07/05/19 03:14 PM
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Yep, that's the usual reaction here, but who cares? I get that a lot, still didn't change my opinion on that issue.
/r/seduction07/05/19 03:14 PM
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Just a quick notice, you say it was 10 years ago, I guess that's a typo
/r/seduction07/05/19 02:22 PM
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Thanks for being reasonable tho I try my best
/r/seduction07/05/19 11:28 AM
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Well, I already pointed out that I have my problems hearing, and in loud bars and clubs it's pretty much impossible to understand anyone. So yeah, it is hard, and annoying to constantly remind people to repeat, but that's about it. I haven't had any interaction where someone was stopping talking just because I couldn't hear them.
/r/seduction07/05/19 11:26 AM
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Mhmm wieso rieche ich hier gerade braune Masse? Lass mich noch einen oben drauf setzen: Meine Ex-Freundin ist Türkin, die davor aus Chile (ich weiß, das triggert dich sicher), meine momentane Flamme ist ebenfalls Chilenin und ich besuche sie bald in ihrer Heimat. Darüberhinaus werde ich möglicherweise in den nächsten 3 - 4 Jahren dort hin auswandern weil ich Deutschland nicht mehr als meine Heimat bezeichnen kann. Der typische Deutsche ist ein Nörgler, will ständig anderen vorschreiben was diese…
/r/seduction07/05/19 11:10 AM
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And don't you think it feels gamey and fucktarded to go around complimenting people so that you can get things out of them? Don't do that. It's easy. Never expect anything in return... At least not from them. The thing you want to get out of it is you feeling good. You should only do that because you want to be honest about what you feel and think, that's your goal.
/r/seduction07/05/19 05:32 AM
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Change your attitude. Your last statement conveys a lot of anger. You should realize that you are asking random strangers on the internet for their opinion, and you can't expect them to only say what you want. This is a valuable lesson for life, since the world doesn't pander to your sensibilities The earlier you learn that the easier it will be for you. Getting to the point: stop jacking off... Just kidding. It doesn't have any effect on your ability to be confident, I am doing that and I am co…
/r/seduction07/05/19 05:28 AM
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I’m a 22 year old guy and my life is a total fail. Have you ever thought about... Well I know it sounds crazy but, changing that? Everything about it sucks. Change it. Trying to be confident does nothing for me and I go home alone every single night. Do you think your whole happiness is based on other people? My friends are having fun lives while mine is a joke that gets laughed about. You have bad friends if they laugh about you instead of helping you. So, what are you doing to change your life…
/r/seduction07/05/19 05:08 AM
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I don't know about the u.s. But I am naturally blonde with blue eyes (archetypical German) and I always felt very attracted to darker skin, dark hair and dark eyes. Naturally, the women I've been were 99% darker skin with darker hair and eyes. Most of them told me they are very attracted to guys with my features, so what canarywocoalmine said is pretty much a thing.
/r/seduction07/05/19 04:51 AM
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While I understand your situation there, I can only recommend you to not get into anything with such a person. She has her own really serious issues and I have been hooking up with a girl who had some serious mental issues, and I am not exaggerating here. She started drama all the time, started acting cold and stand off ish every now and then, out of the blue started crying because she realized that her parents would die one day, and so on. She got attached very quickly even though I told her fr…
/r/seduction07/05/19 04:47 AM
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Think for a second. Do you really want to associate with a lunatic drug addict?
/r/seduction06/05/19 04:45 PM
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Well, at least she offers valuable content on this sub, which you aren't. Stop opening more random throwaway accounts and start taking care of your mental issues. You will feel a lot better if you do.
/r/seduction06/05/19 04:43 PM
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OK. You are suffering from oneitis. Google it and follow the advice for that. Also, you mentioned you are not the problem, but she is. This could not be further from the truth. You are obsessing over her. You mentioned she has problems in her life. Ditch her. She is not good for a nice guy like you. She will break you. Your whole story is textbook niceguy syndrome. She's using you for attention and obviously your kindness. The reason why you feel so strongly for her is that you have invested in …
/r/seduction06/05/19 04:39 PM
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I sent her a text and she sent one back meaning so it went pretty well. Yeah I’m very inexperienced so I guess that can be an insecurity. The phone call wasn’t as awkward as I thought but anyways it went well See, it's all fine. Just relax, the rest comes from doing this a few times, and in no time you feel like it's second nature to you.
/r/seduction06/05/19 12:31 PM
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I think you've jumped to some conclusions. Let me break down what I mean more clearly because we probably ultimately agree. ​ Actually, i give you that, you are probably right. ​ If anyone walks up to me in the street and starts talking, I will hear them out (unless I am actually late for something already, in which case I'll tell them that and apologise). ​ That sounds very polite ​ I talk to them because I don't know what they want yet and I'm not going to assume its something unimportant. It'…
/r/seduction06/05/19 12:00 PM
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Wait... 6 hours? Why are you stressing about 6 hours? Women have lives, you should know that. Contrary to the idea that all women are always texting, many or even most of them don't. Give it time and also, don't you have shit to do yourself? If you had you would've forgotten about her already instead of obsessing over her not replying.
/r/seduction06/05/19 11:08 AM
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I can already imagine how sexy it will be if you constantly ask her "is it ok if i put my dick into your vagina?" .. "can I go faster?" .. "may I kiss you?" and so on... ​ All this consent bullshit... If she doesn't say "I don't want that" she consents, this is how it always worked and will always work no matter how loud those fucking feminazis shriek.
/r/seduction06/05/19 10:59 AM
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Thanks for the clarification
/r/seduction06/05/19 10:55 AM
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It's not traumatic, it's just like... annoying and off putting. Like if I want someone to approach I'll smile or generally give some indication that its chill. Well I was being sarcastic, but thank you for providing your viewpoint (This one is not sarcastic) Also you can tell by how someone is walking if they don't want to be bothered. Like if I'm clearly in a rush and someone stops me for no real reason it's annoying. You would be annoyed too. Well, I usually don't get annoyed by people asking …
/r/seduction06/05/19 09:09 AM
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Why are you so insecure? She called you back, which is a sign of attraction, and how is it awkward to talk on the phone, saying it's not face to face, but you text her, which is also not face to face? You don't make any sense. Here's what I think you should do: be honest. You panicked, and that's not a big deal if you own it. It also shows that you are inexperienced, which is also no big deal, just own it. It will come in time. Next time you have this situation make sure that you know it's not t…
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:53 AM
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stress from exams ​ This ​ I also started taking adderall ​ And probably this. I am not familiar with this medication, but as far as I know it is used for hyperactivity which means it makes you have less energy, is that about right? In any case, if you see any strong side effects, talk to you doctor about it, not some random internet forum.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:20 AM
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What exactly are you asking? How to beat depression? You should see a psychologist for that. Just for clarification on being deaf, I'm no native English speaker, so I'm not sure if deaf means actually not being able to hear anything, or if it just means having trouble hearing. About being deaf on one ear, that sucks bad, but I don't see any problem with that in terms of meeting women. I have tinnitus from my early childhood and I always thought it was normal until I read about that it wasn't, I …
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:05 AM
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Have you ever heard of the word "no"? Or when someone walks up to you, using the action called: "ignore"? Is it really that Trauma inducing that there are other people, and they also might Want to talk to you... You have such a horrible life...
/r/seduction05/05/19 01:43 PM
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Are girls just as sexual as us but just hide it? ​ You have no idea... Is there just a switch you gotta hit? ​ Yes there is. ​ How do i hit that switch? ​ That depends on the girl. Some are very open about it, some are not, but the general rule of thumb is: She has to trust you. You have to be the example of being open sexually, and be patient, very patient! My last ex, turkish woman, very conservative, grew up in a village and was very very shy and sexually closed up. She was too ashamed to eve…
/r/seduction02/05/19 01:39 PM
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I moved to Germany from my lovely home country USA for a better safer life. But little did I know that people here in Germany are one of the most closed minded and conservative people. ​ Why does it feel like you are one of those ideologically driven spoiled brats who started sperging about trumps election? If you actually left because of that, you at least did something instead of whining like the others, but Germany? Really? The country with the most incompetent government? I also wonder if yo…
/r/seduction02/05/19 11:30 AM
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If a girl doesn't like your looks your "game" means nothing. ​ Mhmm... Then it was probably a dream hearing the words: "You are usually not my type, but i feel super attracted to you, I don't understand that." ​ If you are below a 6 it's better to ethier status max or become wealthy and get girls in your 30's. ​ And who says that? I understand you feel frustrated by your lack of success, but it's you not them. ​ Cold approach pick up is waste of time if you are objectively 6 or below. ​ Now I'm …
/r/seduction02/05/19 11:11 AM
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Happy to help
/r/seduction02/05/19 07:11 AM
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Don't worry, improvement comes with time and work. If you keep your mind open to learn from your experiences, you will get better pretty fast. so if I'm doing well with one I sorta tend to invest in just that one too much Understanding that is a very important step, so congratulations, you're on the right path. The good thing is, the more you interact with attractive women the more confident you get and the less you care about the outcome. Try to flirt with every attractive girl you meet, just f…
/r/seduction02/05/19 05:57 AM
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what exactly do you do if someone crosses your boundaries after you've already told them? Depends on the person and the connection I have to said person. Random people: "hey random person, keep your distance to me." Work colleague: "I actually don't want to associate with you, thank you", then I will minimize the personal talk to 0. Friends: "you don't value my boundaries, and I warned you enough times about thatz, I won't tolerate such disrespect, don't contact me again." Girlfriend: "it's over…
/r/seduction02/05/19 05:46 AM
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Don't get me wrong here, but you sound like you don't have a lot of experience with women. Reading your post made me think that you are putting her on a pedestal, and that is never a good idea. Combine that with the fact that you work in the same company, and you have a recipe for the perfect disaster. So, that being said I want to give you my opinion on how this could turn out as something good. First off: calm down. Dude relax. Be aware that girls know their effect on guys, and a lot of them u…
/r/seduction02/05/19 05:33 AM
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I've sent a re-start text today, referring back to our old jokes. Well, that wasn't my advice, actually the complete opposite of it. But that's what usually happens, and however it will go, you hopefully learn something from that. Now I'm usually a negative person so I'm just going to assume the worst: that either she'll give me a shitty reply or won't reply at all. This is a whole other story, and it explains some things. The thing is, you should build your life up, learning that women are not …
/r/seduction01/05/19 08:50 AM
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What is the big drama here? I don't see anything bad here. You were showing insecurity so what? If she liked you, she will get back to you. Now the only thing you can reasonably do is to stop texting her and occupy your mind with something else. Like I said, there's nothing to recover from, people are very forgiving for stupid little mistakes like that, if they like the other person.
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:59 PM
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This reminds me of the numerous times when I was watching guys trying their best with girls. Usually it goes like this: they talk and talk and talk and don't pay attention to her at all. If they did, they knew she's bored like hell. I made it a kind of game with my fuck buddy to guess how long it will take until her girl friend rescues her to the bathroom. Usually it takes less that 10 minutes, and it's horrible to watch... Sometimes I even thought of talking to that guy and helping him out... L…
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:53 PM
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Well, this would mean that that random guy has better game, maybe in this case it would be better to just learn from him, since if he's capable of "stealing your girl", your game sucks pretty bad
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:50 PM
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Stop taking advice from this sub. So, why should anyone take advice from you then?
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:49 AM
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Oh everyone tells me that life doesn't really start u ntil 30. That is not completely right, but it doesn't mean you are too old to start over when you hit the 30 mark. And you know as much as I would've liked to be 19 years old and having threesomes like most guys did, I am sure that this is just another myth. Most women had threesomes already, but the majority of men haven't had sex at all that age. This might have been different 30 years ago, but it was always harder for men. just didn't happ…
/r/seduction29/04/19 12:37 PM
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I feel you man... The good thing is though, no matter how much time you wasted or lost, you still can make up for it, you are still young. When it comes to women I can tell you, being in your 30's or 40's is amazing. A lot of young women love that, and they are soo easy to seduce it is ridiculous sometimes.
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:55 AM
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If you look at it form another angle, society is necessary for people. Being alone kills people slowly, I have experienced this, and it was hell. Also never forget, if it wasn't for society, we all would have a miserable hard life, probably also very short, so it is a price we have to pay for security and a not too bad life. ​ When it comes to work, I can only disagree on your sentiment. I enjoy my work, since I can completely use my potential and I have felt useless without it. I think it is in…
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:06 AM
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Sometimes I feel if didn't do those awful things that I did, people (doctors really) would never take me seriously ​ I don't know what you did, but you should keep in mind that because this lies in the past, you should just forgive yourself, and make sure it doesn't happen again. ​ Graphic "attempt" resulted in me getting more sertraline, but I went back to my psychiatrist and she reduced to a third. This made me feel alot more calm and ended my nightmares ​ What do you mean by Graphic "attempt"…
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:01 AM
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were u unemployed for mental health issues? At first I didn't know what I should do for a living, and the things taht I tried made me depressed. Then I burned out after working two years in callcenter having to deal with angry customers for 5 hours daily... It took me many years to recover from that, and then I didn't know how to get back on track. i'm unemployed bc i cant take the shit anymore. look up hampton brandon on youtube. i feel like i could end up like that In my case it was simply tha…
/r/seduction29/04/19 08:25 AM
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Like I said, I have been going through some seriously bad shit. My father ruining my credit when I was 21, Losing my mom when I was 23, Being unemployed between 25 and 30, being ugly, fat and depressive. I got close to the point of taking my life too. I didn't because I felt ashamed for giving up. Now I am 42, and I am still fat, I was never ugly really, but also never really handsome. I still always find girls who tell me how sexy and hot I am. This has been a hard ride for me, and I was about …
/r/seduction26/04/19 12:16 PM
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I think more the problem for me is its not that the 'lower numbered' women possess those better traits, This might have come out wrong here, I didn't say the 5's are better, I was going for: no matter how hot, they can be bad for you and boring as hell, just like a 5. its that because of the perceived attractiveness of the 'higher numbered' women it still triggers my insecurities a bit, were I can enjoy a slightly less attractive women as much if not more. I understand that, this is why I said y…
/r/seduction26/04/19 12:09 PM
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And here we go again... what physical shit?? i just want to look good! Do you work out? No? Then start doing it. No excuses. Do you dress well? No? Then change that. No excuses. You don't have the money? Start a career, again, no excuses. If you are physically capable of doing something, do it. It's hard you say? Stop being a pussy. Life is hard, and only if you realize that you have to put in the hard work, you will succeed, I can assure you that. dude if i could just complete Puberty and grow …
/r/seduction26/04/19 11:54 AM
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I t seems like you are looking for a trophy rather than a woman to enjoy your time with. Stop thinking in numbers... Or better, change to a binary system: attractive, not attractive. If you manage to change this mindset, you will suddenly realize that even your perfect 10 is just a mass of bones, blood and flesh, and not more valuable than a 5. I saw things like you when I was younger, since I got into my thirties, my perception started to change, and the more women I met, the more I realized th…
/r/seduction26/04/19 11:36 AM
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The athlete did the checklist and does the checklist thousands of time when he practices, but he does not do it when his playing his sport. ​ That is literally what he wrote: he’s beyond that level. He has trained himself to be an athlete, he has made everything he does second nature. ​ Your analogy kinda missed the point. People have to practice before they become naturals at it. ​ Uhm... He said exactly that? ​ Also, it doesn’t matter how good you’re at anything, you can always get better. Agr…
/r/seduction26/04/19 09:49 AM
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Big mistake, but I don't blame them. They just wanted to see me get better :) This reminds me of a book I once got which was about depression in combination with family. It described the problem pretty well, as you said, they want the best for you, but they have no experience nor knowledge about this really serious issue, and when they give advice which is form their perspective the best advice ever, and it doesn't have any effect, they feel helpless. Really interesting perspective I didn't know…
/r/seduction26/04/19 09:44 AM
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It's funny how he phrases it, but I would not say it's treating a woman like crap that makes them attracted. He said it himself, they are whining about their douche boyfriends, and this has a reason: They don't like to be treated like this, but they feel super attracted to the independence, strength, confidence and IDGAF attitude those guys display. There is a pretty nice categorization: Bad boys, nice guys and good men. The bad boy is an asshole who displays all those qualities, the nice guy is…
/r/seduction25/04/19 12:47 PM
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I'm going to change everything really ​ This is not an easy task, and it will take time. Took me years to realize i had depression since my teens, and many more years to be stable at all, and even nowadays in my 40's, I struggle with light depression during the winter time. So hang in there and never stop fighting your demons. ​ I mean I came to fast and too hard because I'm 24 and felt I lost my best years due to incompetence ​ I would love to laugh at that, and I can tell you why: I wasted 10 …
/r/seduction25/04/19 12:39 PM
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You are absolutely right, but my biggest weakness is I never give up on people... I at least have to try.
/r/seduction25/04/19 11:28 AM
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But now I’m itching to text her again but I’m beyond terrified of not being ready for a relationship ​ I feel you man... I was scared of commitment too, for too many years, and still feel uneasy about the idea, but if the opportunity arises I will go in, head first, since being scared about it is weakness I don't want to cultivate anymore in myself. Just realize that you can end it if you don't like it, also sometimes in life you have to face your fears, this will only make you grow. ​ I’m scare…
/r/seduction25/04/19 09:46 AM
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Why are men attracted to boobs? Smartass Mode on: when we evolved from walking on four legs to bipedal motion, the breasts began to get full and round to emphasize on fertility in women. Before that it was the display of a females rear end, and since the wasn't so prominent anymore, the breasts evolved to mimic that display. Also, we are being breastfed, and therefore men and women alike find them beautiful since they were our main means of connection with our mother and our sole source for nutr…
/r/seduction25/04/19 08:46 AM
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Well, it's basically impossible for us to make a judgment about how she meant it, but in general I don't take things like that seriously, as long as she is engaging in a fun conversation I'd say it's fine. On the topic of you wanting to go out with her, you might want to be more assertive. Don't leave the ball in her court. Pick something fun that you do, and then ask her "Hey I'm going to do <insert fun activity> on <insert day and time> If you know how to behave, you can join me" this would ha…
/r/seduction25/04/19 08:19 AM
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To me it sounds like this: you are bantering, then you make a bold joke about that she loves you, in my understanding this is meant in a exaggerating way, and she replies in that way too by saying that's debatable. I too like to do those jokes and usually I expect the girl to deny it just for fun, since I don't take myself too seriously left alone her, it's just fun and banter. Don't read too much into it. You could reply with "ouch! Now you broke my cold dead heart... Oh wait, that was just air…
/r/seduction25/04/19 07:56 AM
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I'm way better looking than her exes ​ Here's another lesson to learn: Looks don't matter as much as you want. Women want more than just a nice packaging, and what you have to offer is not enough for her. This is why you have to develop yourself, charm, intellect, confidence, stability, worldview. I see a lot of potential to improve from reading you comments, for instance your obsessive behavior and your nice guy attitude, which are the biggest turn offs.
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:43 AM
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Wow... just wow.... you are extremely creepy. Take her advice before you do something stupid and ruin her and your life because you can't control yourself...
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:38 AM
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She never gave me a chance, and keeps dating ugly unedcated douchebags ​ Fucking hell... She's trying to help you! You are behaving like the typical trope of a nice guy. "If she gave me a chance she would know how good I am for her" and "she's only dating uneducated ugly douchebags"... This is absolutely super creepy, dude get a grip on reality. ​ I'm simply a better choice. ​ No. you're not. Otherwise she would have picked you. You feel entitled to her and that is disgusting. Sorry for my harsh…
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:37 AM
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Last summer I payed for 2 glasses of wine, food and a cinema ticket for a woman. Weird... How do you come with this now? And then she didn't want to come to my home. No way... How could she... Judging from your usual hate fueled posts I can't really see why she would. I just walked off without a word, or maybe I said "ok" and then walked off, don't remember. This perfectly describes your mentality. You actually feel entitled to a girl just because you pay for drinks and a movie? If you were actu…
/r/seduction25/04/19 04:58 AM
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Let me summarize this real quick: You met this girl, she liked you and tried to get you out, you then had sex and she treated it like a one time thing. So far so good. Then you play along and suddenly you come up with "I want a date with you" implying you want a committed relationship... dude... Why... ​ Ok, it is not bad to say what you want, and if the only way you can enjoy the time with her is to have this label on, then sure, you did right, but then also you should end it here and now, sinc…
/r/seduction24/04/19 01:51 PM
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Juts think about it, if you are not into fishing, would you frequent a forum which was about fishing? Women don't need to learn how to be a man, they are not men, and they have control over which man will have sex or not.
/r/seduction24/04/19 01:27 PM
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I think the language around that sort of thing tends to dehumanize women while all the alpha/beta shit isn’t really doing men any favors either. But that’s just my perspective ​ Thank you for your perspective, but it is pretty narrow. Sure, we are a group of random guys from all over the world, and of course there are some idiots around who have really weird views, (along the mentally ill trolls who constantly open new fake accounts to spew their hatred of women) but from giving advice in this s…
/r/seduction24/04/19 01:25 PM
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Man, you're so full of limiting beliefs... First off you actually care that a girl comes up with this bullcrap line of: "I only date tall muscular guys". Sure, she might be stuck up shallow bitch, but usually, it's what they know to be masculine, a guy that will fuck her hard and manhandle her in bed. The good news is: this is a belief they have based on their experience of such men, who are super confident and not scared of rejection. Those guys know their appeal to women and use it. You can do…
/r/seduction24/04/19 12:32 PM
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"Do you want to come to my place and watch some porn on my 85Inch mirror?" ... well... there are no good canned openers.
/r/seduction24/04/19 11:06 AM
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she had a previous and only partner for 7 years before me she isn’t inexperienced sexually but I think things were quite vanilla with her ex, unlike with me and mine. the second I begin to insert a finger, she seems to begin to slowly but surely close her legs very tightly, she puts up a LOT of resistance in her legs. ​ So... those are the things that stand out. For starters, having one sexual partner in 7 years, I would not call that experienced, but that is not a problem in itself. What you de…
/r/seduction24/04/19 10:45 AM
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But how to understand that she is ready to fuck? It definitely looks like you are trying desperately to skip the necessary steps to make her want to have sex with you. You said you had 50+ dates, so to me it looks like you are either exaggerating or you haven't had sex with any of those girls which would show that you are doing something very wrong, and I can only guess that it's missing Kino, flirting, and not really making her hot for you. I might be wrong with my conclusion though. In any cas…
/r/seduction24/04/19 10:25 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction24/04/19 07:13 AM
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This is exactly why wonen are so fucking arrogant and entitled to day Not really... It's social media and the habit of getting tons of likes on mediocre pictures
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:50 AM
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The worst part is that, I drove her home later and she asked if she can kiss me. How is that a bad thing? She made the effort to close the gap I felt so freaking embarrassed that. For? It doesn't sound like things did not go anywhere, so what's the deal? I am totally not good at flirting. It does not come natural to me I would say that it doesn't come naturally to anyone. It's a learned behavior. It incorporates banter, teasing, innuendos, body language and the way you look at a girl. Maybe you …
/r/seduction24/04/19 06:46 AM
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Let me ask you a serious question. How long have you waited for texting her? One, two, three days? A week? Let me guess, at most half a day? The point is this: if you stop texting her, she will start to miss you and then text you. if that doesn't happen, she's not interested as much as you are,and you can move on.
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:21 PM
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Dude... Stop! Relax... Have your date, and fucking relax! If you keep this over thinking up, and play these silly games you will end up chasing her away. Hammer this into your mind: if you go out with a girl, have fun. Show your intentions from the beginning, and enjoy the ride. If she feels attracted to you, she will make it easy for you! Even if this date does not go anywhere, and trust me I stopped counting the ones that went nowhere, you will meet another girl, and try again, and another gir…
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:18 PM
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Lol if she followed 3 then it would be something
/r/seduction23/04/19 03:27 PM
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Think about it: There are people who actually believe the earth is flat. They even write articles on blogs about tit, and if you have no Idea what they are talking about in terms of understanding the claims they make, or when they come up with scientific terms you don't know, you might be inclined to just believe. Same here, there are guys who believe it, and make it sound scientifically proven, but both of those examples lack one very important thing: Scientifically peer reviewed literature and…
/r/seduction23/04/19 01:50 PM
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Im just a little mad at myself for giving in when she said she wanted it to be done. I never do this. But because i had a little to drink i gave in and made myself look weak. If you knew what stupid shit I pulled off already, and still sometimes do... Now if only i can stop myself from thinking about thiis shit. Well this will stop at one point, so don't worry, maybe write a song about that or something. I remember that it helps to write down what I feel when I was angry and tried to hold it in.…
/r/seduction23/04/19 01:11 PM
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Mhmm that must be a culture/age thing, I haven't heard that before nor have I been asked for Facebook or Instagram at all yet
/r/seduction23/04/19 01:01 PM
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No worries man, only people I care about can ever offend me, and I don't mind being wrong at all, it means I learned something new. Back to the topic: your observations are absolutely correct, but mine are as well. This shows the fact that women are not a hive mind, and if done right, women like to see the cock they are going to suck. There are also many women who have a fetish for that. And sure, there are lots of women who are scared to be judged if they admit they love seeing a cock, it could…
/r/seduction23/04/19 12:58 PM
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God dammit... Dude... Stop making new fake accounts just to bitch about your problems... Get professional help, you are clearly not mentally healthy.
/r/seduction23/04/19 12:50 PM
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And what is your question?
/r/seduction23/04/19 10:32 AM
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Bottom line, i fucked up one of my options by gettin in my feelings and showing that I cared. Smh i know better! ​ I disagree with that. It didn't go to shit because you cared. It went to hell because you lost your cool, when you probably usually had this "dangerous" appeal to her, if you know what I mean. This whole story sounds like you both weren't a good match anyways, if you get drama so early in a relationship, it won't get better, trust me, I know that from experience. ​ Anyways, one thin…
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:33 AM
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I actually think women who friendzone you keep you on the backburner in the hope that you improve, or knowing full well that they can have you when it suits them. ​ Of course there are several different reasons for them to do that, but the most obvious one is: they don't feel attracted to that guy. This is also the reason that getting out of the friendzone is absolutely possible. ​ Its a big ego hit to them when this doesn't happen of course. ​ Yes, sometimes it is, but sometimes it is just that…
/r/seduction23/04/19 08:09 AM
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That's an interesting perspective on social media, even though my inner critic doesn't really buy the whole story, but that aside, the reasons why Instagram "game" is so frowned upon is that it is like you say. "it does not mean anything" for girls. It is not "intimidating" which usually tells a girl that you are like all the other thirsty guys, and in my opinion the biggest problem that most young men have is: they don't know how women think. I understand the fact that women are easily being se…
/r/seduction23/04/19 06:47 AM
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Strange... Pretty much every girl I had sex with asked me at one point for dick pics... I must be dating aliens or something... But who am I to judge, I only have real experience instead of repeating what others say
/r/seduction21/04/19 12:27 PM
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She: "what do you do for a living?" You: "I am a dragon slayer"/"I am a astronaut"/"I am a Callboy"... Or whatever ridiculous thing comes to mind, she'll laugh and you change the topic. This has two effects, you are fun and don't take yourself seriously, and you stay mysterious.
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:21 PM
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EDIT: the cheating married woman is just as wrong as the guy who knowingly pursues a woman he knows is married...both are just aa shitty. In this regard I disagree in one point: The married person has a "contract" he/she will break, and this is objectively shitty, the other party though is not bound to any "contract" but the societal expectations random strangers would love to put on them. This is called morals, and the fact that there are countries where being gay is punishable by law, leading …
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:37 PM
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Come one man... Look at the majority of posts here, how could you not get that impression?
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:30 PM
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I wish I could do the same as you but unfortunately I’m entrapped in this virtual world. Out of all social media outlets I only have Facebook but that’s because I have many international friends and relatives which whom I’d like to stay connected. ​ You can. Ever heard of: telephones? Mail? Flights to other countries? Sure, it makes things harder, but imagine that you are not the first human on this planet that has this requirement, and before facebook, people managed to stay in touch too. ​ I t…
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:25 PM
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girls take it harshly. ​ Do they or is that just a "what if" scenario?
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:22 PM
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I can't remember one woman ever asking me for facebook, twitter, instagram or what else bullshit platforms there are. Maybe it just depends on the geography or age, I don't know, but in general if a girl ever asks me, I would simply say I don't care, and it would not make a difference.
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:20 PM
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You romanian? haha
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:17 PM
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in Turkey things are pretty hard. That would be due to the different culture. I have been growing up there, so I would say I know what I am talking about. Although, my experience dates back to the late 80's and I wasn't living in a particularly western city like Istanbul (where you would probably have more success). I remember the general mindset that people have to be very traditional, women are scared to be open to men in fear of being judged and possibly having repercussions if they don't rem…
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:17 PM
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hahaha love that username lol
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:33 AM
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When it is illegal in your country When either you, or she is dead.
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:32 AM
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Where am I encouraging it? I say it's ok. It is not cheating, and I franky drop a big brown pile of steaming shit on anyones subjective morals.
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:30 AM
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Not sure if you are a troll or actually asking if you should next a girl that could not meet you because she has a life, but wants to reschedule...
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:29 AM
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What is wrong with you for caring about a strangers "fetish"?
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:26 AM
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I meet many married women both online and offline and it looks to me that they are interested ​ Interested in? Talking to you? Getting validation from you? Having sex with you? what is it? ​ but since due to fear of repurcussion I don't escalate with them verbally or sexually . So, they quicky lose interest in me. ​ Maybe you are not giving them the attention they crave (and this would be absolutely ok) or you are just a boring guy, or they never had real interest in the first place. ​ I fear th…
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:25 AM
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If she (the married woman) does that, yes it's cheating. If he does it, it's just him fucking a married woman.
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:09 AM
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I believe there is a sub for that, askwomen or something like that, probably the best choice if you want female replies.
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:06 AM
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Why are you making an argument then? I presented my arguments in detail, and all you come up with is "nah", you don't see how stupid this makes you look.
/r/seduction18/04/19 07:26 AM
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Oh, an NPC. What secret phrase do I have to use to unlock your capability to form coherent arguments, left alone answering my question about how many times your "I just want to fuck so women have to give it to me" worked? Come on, be honest, isn't that what you always are?
/r/seduction17/04/19 01:20 PM
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That's some BS you think would happen. When I talk dirty to the girl, the tension increases. A woman is attracted to boldness, vulnerability and non-needines. Imagine this: Some random guy starts talking dirty to the girl out of nowhere, what do you think will happen? Try it out and come back to report to us. Now imagine this: You were talking to the girl, shared your interests, made her feel like a relatable person, and you sprinkled sexual talk in between, and now you start talking dirty, how …
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:36 PM
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He recommends talking about interests, hobbies, making random statements about her, etc. Basically engaging in nice conversations instead of letting her know you want to end up fucking her. ​ I can't remember the book in it's entirety, I was also listening to the audiobook version and I tend to fall asleep listing to them, but I don't think it is contradicting itself there. Being honest doesn't mean you need to be a caveman about it, and take it by force so to say. Women love hints, and innuendo…
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:31 PM
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Oh man... You are super insecure and needy, why? You seem to have at least some things going on in your life, and not having a super model face does not matter at all for men, so why aren't you just awesome, live an awesome life or at least work on that, and see other girls? Also stop thinking she's put of your League, that's bullshit. Sure she might be super hot but if you didn't know, her looks are only such a powerful thing because of guys making it into something powerful. When you have seen…
/r/seduction17/04/19 11:09 AM
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How do I get a woman comfortable with talking about sex? I feel like anything regarding the topic and women will give you that weird sideways "wtf" look. By being comfortable about the topic yourself. Of course she needs to trust you to some degree, first. I have taken on the habit of not censoring my speech, and in the beginning I got these weird side looks from friends too, this is due to them not being used to this behavior and being a beta they will try to shame you into getting back int you…
/r/seduction17/04/19 10:59 AM
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Edit 1: just to clarify, it was a girl who I overheard talking about a casual hook up. It's surprising how open they are about this two their girlfriends, ​ In my early 20's. being a virgin, I felt intimidated by that, now in my 40's I love it, since women talk about this not only to her girl friends, but anyone they trust. ​ I can't help but feel the majority of women live double lives ​ This only feels like that because you didn't understand yet that women are super sexual, but they cannot sho…
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:40 AM
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he hated when guys ask them over out of the blue This means "he didn't make me horny, so why would I want to go to his place?" What is the fix for that? escalate, tease her, make her chase you, Keep her on her toes, and maybe she will be the one asking to go to her/his place.
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:33 AM
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In general I see nothing bad or uncommon in your post, but this here sparked my interest: I legitimately could not tell you a single woman who I’ve successfully or unsuccessfully approached. I know I’ve done it more than once, but I can’t remember any of them for the life of me. Hell, I couldn’t tell you anything about my last girlfriend. I just don’t remember that. And it’s not for a bad memory, mine isn’t bad at all. If you weren't actually exaggerating by saying "I don't remember" and you act…
/r/seduction17/04/19 08:29 AM
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I don't get the downvotes, maybe it's time to leave this sub for good, too many trolls and nice guys who never understand the basic things... sad.
/r/seduction17/04/19 08:22 AM
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When we have these cycles, we will hang out and if we haven't reached that physical point yet, I'll usually end the evening with a kiss on the forehead. I would do it to show that I care, despite her being unsure of what she wants, that she knows I care. Usually this is a great and caring gesture, and I say that because a lot of women would love that and treat it with the utmost respect. Some don't, and that is sometimes due to issues I don't really understand. Reminds me of my dynamic with my F…
/r/seduction16/04/19 09:01 PM
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Anecdotally, I notice her social media today is filled with stuff about regret and how she's made mistakes, and about being depressed/believing things will work out for the best. That might be a try to get your attention, or just her trying to express herself without really knowing why she feels like that. Seems awfully coincidental, as she never posts stuff like that and I never ignore her message. I agree on that. My FWB sent me a couple of "I msis you" messages after a few months of cutting h…
/r/seduction16/04/19 08:57 PM
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But, does that mean cut all contact, period? Of course not. It would be the last resort, and it depends on how you deal with the issue at hand where you want her but she is distant. I know myself that at one point in my life I couldn't handle it, and with my FWB it was a whole lot of reasons, the biggest of course her disrespectful behavior, and in the end also the fact came into play that she tried to manipulate my best friend because I cut her out of my life. I would have given her another cha…
/r/seduction16/04/19 08:45 PM
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What is your goal? This is what you should always ask yourself before you do anything. If the answer is "a committed relationship with her" then ask yourself "why did it end in the first place?". See, the problem is that you might have changed, but she probably didn't, and chances are it was also her who contributed to the issue that led to your break up. So, why would you want to go through this again? ​ Also, something that I see a lot here, in my friends, and sometimes even myself: missing se…
/r/seduction16/04/19 02:26 PM
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Disclaimer: You should not do that, it has a high risk of unnecessary drama and possible negative impact on your career/work in general. ​ If you still want to do it, keep in mind that the girl is still a girl, and that doesn't change just because you are in an office, so the usual techniques should be applied, but since it is in the workplace, you have to tone it down a lot so you don't get in trouble for sexual misconduct or some bullshit like that. Always remember that she is in a position wh…
/r/seduction16/04/19 01:04 PM
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You can cook ravioli with a tent? Nice!
/r/seduction16/04/19 11:06 AM
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If you want to get out of this deadlock of not knowing where to start, make a list of things you don't like about yourself. Leave space for the things you actually do like and start filling that list. You will find that you come up with so many more things you dislike, at first, but the more you think and write the more things you find that you actually have going for you. Then pick the thing that is easiest to change, and start with that. This will give you a success, even if it's small, and af…
/r/seduction16/04/19 09:42 AM
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I wouldn't do that. I remember how cringy it felt reading comments on pictures of girls on online dating platforms, where guys where piling up with "you're so beautiful, please answer my message", imagine how much (or let's be real, how little) value it must have for the girl. They post these pictures to get put on a pedestal by weak guys, while they pursue the ones who don't give a shit and have opinions.
/r/seduction16/04/19 05:50 AM
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Who is "we"? And you would not believe how dumb the majority of people are on this planet, so dumb they wouldn't even understand simple things like the earth isn't flat, mankind has landed on the moon, vaccines don't cause autism, women do lie about rape (and a lot of them do) and the human race has not yet found a single piece of evidence that women are a hive mind. I highly disagree with your sentiment that "we" (which I can only guess means all "women") know the difference between "manipulati…
/r/seduction16/04/19 05:43 AM
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What was your "error" there? I don't see anything. Oh, I see it now, you are worrying too much. Hit her up for a date, or maybe call it hanging out, and then escalate. This way you get closure and stop analyzing her texts.
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:19 PM
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Those friends must be immature and inexperienced. Dating means sex. I wonder if they didn't tell her that. Everything else is called friendship.
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:16 PM
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I can assure you that not everyone likes the same things. Not everyone likes clubs, not everyone likes bars and so on. I would not go so far and claim the reason was some mental health problem, it is simply like it is, some people enjoy it some don't. Also, your point with "it's too loud to talk" is a very good one. Whenever I go out, which happens rarely these days, and when I talk to a girl, about 50% of the time I don't understand a word they say, and the next day I can barely speak since my …
/r/seduction15/04/19 11:43 AM
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So I'd like to know if you think this is actually just my akward old insecure self speaking, or if dance clubs are not for everyone and it's normal for me to not like them and feel awkward. ​ I don't like clubs either, never did. I agree the music sucks hard, and dancing is pretty much impossible for me if the music isn't "moving my body" so to say. The question if this is just due to some old insecurity, only you can answer that, but if you simply don't enjoy it, why would you do it?
/r/seduction15/04/19 10:52 AM
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Thanks for explaining. Being chill and smooth should be your second nature, and i'm sure that this is the only way that you could even have a chance on getting waitress to go out with you, since as others already stated, they re getting hit on by guys constantly, so they have a much stronger filter.
/r/seduction15/04/19 07:42 AM
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No condescension sensed in your response and I appreciate it considering all of bullshit in this thread. I am trying to help, so you're welcome I just plan on leaving my number on the slip with a nice tip and hope for the best... Nothing wrong with that right? I don't see anything wrong with that, since it leaves the ball in her court. You should not expect anything from it though. In general I think it's very hard to pull off, and I have not succeeded yet with picking up a waitress, even though…
/r/seduction15/04/19 07:40 AM
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Have you never gone camping? Usually people cook stuff there too, and they have little cooking devices... Weird huh?
/r/seduction14/04/19 05:29 PM
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Why do you think you need to appear "alpha"? What does that even mean? The problem with this mindset is that you will inevitably come off as weird. Be yourself, and best is if your self is fun and charming.
/r/seduction14/04/19 04:22 PM
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So many people already have, but you don’t want to hear it. That does not mean that he cannot try and be successful. I do agree though that trying to be "alpha" will end in disaster.
/r/seduction14/04/19 04:21 PM
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You can't control whether or not she might get hurt. The only way to not risk hurting her would be not to have sex with her, or not even approach. What you can and should do, is to show your intentions from the start, being honest about what you want. This way she can take care of herself and decide if she wants to take the risk.
/r/seduction14/04/19 12:53 PM
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What you are going through is pretty common, I bet it happened to many of us before. Of course she doesn't owe you anything, and you seem to understand that, but there is this dumb thing called feelings that fucks us over in such weird ways it's unbelievable. I find it interesting that she apologized to you about her one night stand, since it shows she is aware of your feelings about that. Now, lets get to the point here: You feel hurt, and this is nothing to just switch off. It will be there fo…
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:52 AM
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But. :( :( :( I REALLY JUST WANT her. I'm not a thirsty dude who falls for one girl; I will switch targets multiple times in a night even after putting in work. But this girl...shes would be in the top 3 or two women I've ever been with and I just want to make it happen but I CAN'T If I'm trying to put out flirtatious vibes and getting back mixed signals. I know that feeling. I think it is the fact that we cannot have every woman no matter how hard we try, and this is like kick in the balls. I r…
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:39 AM
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Its not like she is the only girl i am seeing. Just curious There's no concrete answer to this. Every person is different, and she could mean this literally or it's the common : "I am not interested in dating _you _." Best way to deal with it is to move on until she shows interest in what you want.
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:31 AM
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But to go out with a woman with that kind of attitude. The same type that made me miserable, for those several months I explored a particular dating platform. They copy-paste the same message over and over, they're from many states away or the opposite coastline... some of them would put in the email, "write your occupation in the subject line, please"... none of them cared about anything other than the job/money. That's it. Nothing else. They wanted to trade their looks for a guy who had money …
/r/seduction12/04/19 09:49 AM
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I knew this would upset some people, but I am serious. If you expect a woman to want sex, and you have her in a situation where she will know, this could lead to sex, she is already willing to have sex with you. As I said, this is field tested and worked. I could also go so far and tell you about how easy it is to get very shy women to do things you would never expect of them. My last girlfriend was one of those women. When we first met (we talked online for some time already), she was so shy, s…
/r/seduction12/04/19 09:28 AM
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So, you are a girl and you are talking about a guy? The answer is easy: men say what they think. Simple as that. He got the impression that you were flirting.
/r/seduction12/04/19 08:40 AM
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So now you are posting bullshit on two accounts? You really have issues you should talk to a psychologist about
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:38 AM
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Technically absolutely correct, but good for us, men usually are not such pussies to cry about it on Twitter and ruin the girls life over it
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:36 AM
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You should never brag, it's a sign of low confidence. Someone who has, or can, doesn't have to tell others.
/r/seduction11/04/19 04:24 PM
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Compliments are a two edged sword. In the right way they can work in your favor, but if done wrong they will put you into her orbit. If you really want to start with a compliment, compliment something that is not too obvious and is about her way to dress, style or anything that she put in a lot of work. So no "you are beautiful" or "you have beautiful eyes". ​ More like "I really love your shoes, they look great with your skirt", or even "I have to admit you caught my eye wearing that dress, its…
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:10 PM
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Last night we go out to their bar and I get SOME time to talk to her but it's like pulling teeth ​ I remember being in this situation a lot, until I understood that it's not what I want. No matter how hot the girl is, if the work I have to put in is not worth the return I just let it go. ​ I think we aren't too compatible but we are attracted to each other Then there's only one thing to do... Make your move. What I am now about to tell you, is no joke! It sounds crazy but this works better than …
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:03 PM
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Didnt ask, and Id rather not make these jokes (doesnt fit with my personality) That's fair, but I think you get the point I was making Just trolled her a bit and left hehe nice This is a very good reply, personally I wouldnt mention her friend though. If she brought her friend up, I would say something like "She doesnt have to know". That's actually a very good reply Dont remember exactly what I was thinking at the time. Looking back I probably should have stayed. She was hotter than the girls I…
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:51 PM
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Ok so by go out and talk to women do you mean just find random girls to talk to that you don’t even find attractive? This depends on your skill level. When I started, I was super shy and had no confidence whatsoever. I started commenting on small things with cashiers and boy did I feel uncomfortable doing that. After a while i stopped feeling weird, and it became a habit. Next step was approaching women in bars, for the sole purpose of talking, when I was drunk, and again, this felt sooo uncomfo…
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:20 PM
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Was at a party and I talked to this short girl who was really cute, but her friend said "wowowowoowow she has a boyfriend". Typical behavior when talking to women who are with their friends, so you shouldn't think anything about it So I started talking to that girl as well and she said "I have a boyfriend too". Did you ask her if she had a boyfriend? If not you could have smiled and said: "Is he hot? Do you think I have a chance with him?". Why not having a little fun with her bitch shield? Afte…
/r/seduction11/04/19 02:12 PM
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Come on boy... On the Internet the only way to judge someone is on their words, and I read this sub regularly. You were standing out for your behavior which I am not really sure is just shitposting, trolling or if you really mean what you write, in which case I wonder how you even got through elementary school. Well, in any case, you are entertaining and a role model for people to not become like you :)
/r/seduction11/04/19 12:50 PM
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Not what your mom said while i fucked her when your dad was watching You like to rape corpses? well in her case ashes, since we burned her dead body about 20 years ago. nigga How did you know? Damn you must be a psychic! ur dad should have worn rubber so a retard like you wouldnt be born lol i didn't hear that before, thanks for the laugh ;)
/r/seduction11/04/19 12:47 PM
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Your support for this method of exploiting the worst parts of the dating market--the whole "money/status" bullshit--is very disappointing, but I've got to say I'm not surprised. There is a difference between supporting something (which would mean that I do my part in this) and expressing that it is a pretty smart way to go about it. We both know that there are Golddiggers, as well as we both know that there are assholes on this planet.He found a way to use this for his benefit, and putting in th…
/r/seduction11/04/19 11:05 AM
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Treat your inner voice as a compass. It will tell you the possible direction but you cannot know until you arrive if it's the place you want to be. This means: it might be her personality but you have to find out to know for sure
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:26 AM
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You already answered your own question. You don't have time for games so the girls in question are already disqualified, move on and don't lower your standards, it will make you miserable
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:23 AM
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I smoke weed for 24 years now (started at 18) , sometimes with longer breaks, but then also for some periods daily. I'd say I turned out pretty well, but I also have a friend, my age who I know for as long as I smoke, and he's unfortunately a text book loser,dealing with gambling addiction, smoking a lot of weed and doesn't get anything done. He always says "I need weed to be able to sleep" which is a big indicator for a problem. So, if you are honest with yourself and say "I need weed to cope w…
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:57 AM
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Does it matter if she was a scam or not? I think all that matters is that she didn't play along your ruleset and has disqualified herself already. You wanted to see her or even talk to her first and she didn't want to. Just be assertive and know your own rules. If people don't play along, it's their right but also yours to say "OK, thx bye".
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:51 AM
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should I go after this girl now No. Go after the millions of other hot girls you potentially could meet and find out they are also as flawed or awesome as any girl.
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:58 AM
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That should be a wakeup call (pun intended), go out and make that happen in reality
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:56 AM
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Such a long rambly text and all I can tell you is this: stop being afraid of getting older. Men get more attractive with their age. We are not women who are reliant on their youthful looks. I turned 42 and I have never been happier, more successful in life and confident. I also get more picky and start to look for more stable relationships than fast sexual encounters. Needless to say all of this makes a man more attractive, so don't sweat it and keep gaming, the more experience you have the bett…
/r/seduction11/04/19 07:53 AM
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Ladies and gentlemen, what you observe here is a clash between two miserable and bitter incels. Let the fighting commence and bring popcorn lol
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:31 AM
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Take a deep breath and relax. Of course she was aroused by what you did, that's how women operate. The only question you should ask yourself is, do you want to have sex with her? I'm pretty sure your answer would be "fucking yes!!!" but hold your horses! Don't just jump on her, pulling your dick out. Next time when you chill, go slow, take her hand and hold it. Create suspension. Caress her in not too sexual spots to make her wonder when it's going to happen. Kiss her but then pull away and leav…
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:23 AM
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There are a few things that come to mind reading this. It sounds like you rarely see attractive girls, while the world is full of them, why are you constraining yourself on one? Go out more. Then, you think you need to sit next to her to get in touch... Don't get me wrong, but this is something I only remember from my time back in elementary school. Grow a pair and approach her. Also you ask if you should become her friend first... This is so counterproductive to your cause it almost hurts. Have…
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:06 AM
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As a rule of thumb: "don't judge people on what they say, judge them on what they do". She doesn't want to be judged as a slut, so it's your job to take the blame. She needs to be able to say "it just happened, it's wasn't my fault".
/r/seduction10/04/19 04:25 PM
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Yes. And I can only guess what you are asking what "this" means, according to the majority of people "this" is called "a reply", made up of "text" usually it is a mixture of "words" arranged in a way that it convey "information" using something that is called "language". In this case it is the so called "english" language. ​ Hope I could clear things up for you, if you still have questions, feel free to ask, no matter how stupid it might sound.
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:33 AM
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Alright, I am curious. Why are you posting this again? The first "10 times" you did (actually I don't know how often you did this, but it was a lot, and don't pretend you didn't you were posting on numerous subs about 2 years ago as far as I know) , you got so many replies, I believe i replied too giving you advice? ​ It seems like you are either a troll, some guy with a weird fetish, or your issues are more mental, why didn't you get help?
/r/seduction10/04/19 08:50 AM
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Don't phrase it as "I never had a girlfriend" say "I wasn't really interested in relationships, I like my freedom". This implies that you have experience but you also are are open for something if the opportunity comes up
/r/seduction10/04/19 08:38 AM
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This!
/r/seduction10/04/19 08:35 AM
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Haha that's Gold
/r/seduction10/04/19 08:33 AM
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Damn... Now you got me... Wait, no that was just a fart... You sound like a broken LP, can't you do better than that? Maybe some threats of violence? I love those the most, I always imagine a 12 year old sitting in moms basement pretending to be such a badass... It really makes me laugh pretty hard
/r/seduction10/04/19 06:13 AM
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Lol. Where I come from there's a saying: if you cannot bring up any kind of intelligent argument, just hurl an insult at your opponent. You clearly are not the brightest candle on the cake, so I will try to explain it to you in a way you might understand: he fucks. Do you? One could think you are just bitter because you don't get any no matter how hard you try, and that would be sad, but understandable. The thing that I admire in his approach is the fact that he tries something ridiculous, somet…
/r/seduction10/04/19 06:11 AM
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Look how charming this little monkey can be, I wonder why women are so repelled by him...
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:27 PM
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You are setting yourself up for a really frustrating experience. In general, people will only take help if they want the help. Did you talk to your friend about your perception? I guess not, since what I guess is that he will feel ashamed and become defensive if you start with this topic. So that being said, be aware that this might frustrate you a lot, and he might simply reject any help. ​ In the case that he is interested in help, I found the best help you can give is to introduce him to girl…
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:54 PM
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Now every time we cross paths at uni she makes it a point not to look at me. ​ Why don't you act like a man and simply talk to her? She is acting childish, but you shouldn't be fazed by that. In your mind there are way more important things going on in your life, and you don't have time for games, hence you simply don't put any thought into her "weird behavior". ​ So next time you see her, walk up to her and tell her that you want to meet for a drink or whatever you like.
/r/seduction09/04/19 12:41 PM
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Are you suffering from tourette? You definitely need some real hard therapy.
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:46 AM
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Oh come on man... Don't be such a pussy. He wanted to get laid and he did, no harm was done to anyone, so would you please stop the moral shit for a second?
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:21 AM
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Well i read most of their bios and they say "they are looking for friends" Do they really? Don't be so naive. Why would anyone go on a dating site? right, for dating, hookups and validation. Women need to label everything about sex as something it isn't. Looking for friends means "I want to meet a guy that I want to fuck, but I don't want anyone to send me dick pics or outright tell me they will fuck me, since I don't want to be labeled a slut by other women. I also want to be as picky as I can,…
/r/seduction09/04/19 07:59 AM
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Actually, like i already mentioned, I have been commenting the same (I am talking about someone asking the same question with the same picture) many times, in a timespan of weeks, about two years ago. I also went to do a google picture search, but didn't find anything. In any case, this person doesn't want advice, this person has some weird mindset or is simply a troll, in any case it is a waste of time to give this person advice.
/r/seduction09/04/19 07:52 AM
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And you didn't get shamed for mansplaining? But seriously. Did it go anywhere? Number, date, sex?
/r/seduction09/04/19 07:05 AM
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Alright, but I don't think you could claim you haven't felt this way before. You're right, I felt like that before, but I never went around and insulted anyone who tried to help me, left alone calling women whores for not replying to me online. I still struggle with it greatly every day. I realized eventually though, it's not so much individuals or groups that I hate, but "mainstream conformity", the way it shapes behavior. There is no acceptable slot into which I fit. I understand your sentimen…
/r/seduction09/04/19 06:36 AM
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But OP didn't ask about that. OP is not the girl on that picture, op (or someone else) posted this on numerous other subs including this one, about two years ago with the same text. Op is either a troll or a weird dude.
/r/seduction09/04/19 06:03 AM
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And no one noticed that those are two different women on these pictures? Also, I remember the first picture having been posted about 2 years ago with the same text, probably some kind of weird fetish this guy has
/r/seduction09/04/19 06:01 AM
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I'm from Germany and we had a time when people (the most fitting description for them would be trailer park trash) named their boys "Kevin" which is pretty much a label for dumb and primitive here, recently those people started naming boys "Dustin" and girls "Jaqueline". All of those names are symbols for no education, no manners and extremely low intellect. Still those kids when grown up had sex. So maybe you stop obsessing over your name just to not address your inability to get with women, si…
/r/seduction09/04/19 05:58 AM
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You should do some introspection. Read your reddit history. All you do is spewing hate and hurl insults around. Hard to believe that you behave differently with women.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:48 AM
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Well you can try, just become a crazy but charismatic cult leader and rack up a larger following. Then invent the rule that all women have to have sex with you if you choose to, and the guys in the cult are only allowed to fuck girls you don't want. Don't forget to do regular human sacrifices to keep your followers in line, oh and keep in mind that you have to commit group suicide at some point to stay believable.
/r/seduction08/04/19 01:24 PM
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Im i really that stupid ? Well, looking for friends, online (probably on dating apps) is not the most intelligent decision... Im i really that boring and dumb and uninteresting?? And that worthless that idiotic? Stop the self loathing. ​ Let me tell you straight: You are fishing in the wrong pond. You will not find friends in online dating, it is not the right place for that. Even for dating, online dating is a waste of time, since it is flooded with thirsty dumb guys who bombard every girl with…
/r/seduction08/04/19 01:20 PM
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That is pretty easy: He always says the same things, he hates women, he hates all people, he talks about how all girls he talks to are whores, how angry he gets because they don't reply to him, he talks about how he hates other guys for being successful, and that in itself is a reason to say he's just an asshole, or mentally ill, but then whenever someone give advice, he only replies with "fuck you" or other slurs. So, either this guys has some really really serious mental problems, and will soo…
/r/seduction08/04/19 12:50 PM
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guys.. why do you still feed this immature troll?
/r/seduction05/04/19 01:43 PM
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From what I read that would be logical conclusion. I personally hold it this way, I communicate that I am not interested in commitment, and she can do whatever she wants, see other guys and so on. and if the girl is not ok with it, she can leave.
/r/seduction05/04/19 12:56 PM
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She's straight forward with you and you should appreciate that. Now it's just a matter of how you see it. Do you want more? Then you should say that and she'll probably break it up, if you are OK with having fun, tell her you see it the same way and proceed accordingly
/r/seduction05/04/19 12:27 PM
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Finding a hobby is simply being open to everything, trying things out and then if you like it you Want to do it again and again. So look around your city what things you could do and then just try it out.
/r/seduction05/04/19 07:53 AM
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Evo-psych. Social Darwinism. Those are not any wing, those are rooted in scientific evidence. No matter how much people might not like it. The importance of social status and money. I cannot recall him talking about money at all, what he says is that women want strong men in their lives. Also status is a very attractive thing, but he also doesn't, and cannot define status, since it is a vague concept, which is completely different for different cultures. Some of us can't hit the fuzzy benchmark …
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:05 PM
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Well, As much as I don't understand your sentiment, so much I respect your position.
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:54 PM
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Women like when the dick touches the cervix You should not believe everything your school friends tell you.
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:57 AM
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Wait until you finally stick your penis into a vagina, after a few times you will start to love it in its whole glory
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:56 AM
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No one who is not out of their mind would say men can't. Also your example where men bring guys to fuck their wifes is a fetish called cuckolding, that's a completely different thing. In any case it's a a fucked up proposition in any case, no matter if women or men do it, and it shows very, very low value on both sides. What are you scared of if your wife would have the same rights as you? Also, usually the only side I hear this from is from Muslims, the majority of them were work colleagues or …
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:53 AM
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In short: You "you are the best woman I ever met and I want to confess my eternal love for you (even though I just met you for a few minutes) ." Her "I Feel so flattered, you stroked my ego so hard, but what do you expect now? I don't even know you and I have a boyfriend.(I won't say that because you are obviously crazy and you creep me out)" I might be wrong here, but that is usually the outcome of what you did, and her remark about what you expect shows pretty much that. If you actually said w…
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:34 AM
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lol I would give you gold for that, if I wasn't such a cheap ass, thanks for making me laugh
/r/seduction03/04/19 08:05 PM
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I'm pretty sure we all know the answer. Women do that all the time. They are scared but also drawn to toxic men because they display those super attractive traits of being extremely independent and free. After they get their ass kicked they make excuses for the guy, how he's just misunderstood and all that. Long story short, dude, run. You will very likely not be happy with her, probably because she will be bored of you because you are not like that guy, hence not as addictive.
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:58 PM
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I kissed her on the second date she sort of kissed back but it felt awkward. ​ What felt awkward? And if you felt it, she probably felt it too... ​ Then I went for another later on and she kissed me on the cheek. ​ Usually I would say this is not a rejection but a "not now" but in this case, you might have blown it from the first try. ​ Then I went for a goodnight kiss and she turned it into an awkward friendly like hug. ​ And again this would usually not be a problem, since it shows you are per…
/r/seduction03/04/19 12:44 PM
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First off I want to say that you are ahead of a lot of guys in your situation, you see what's going wrong, and you don't blame others, which is the most important step to take. ​ I started ignoring her so she can get the hint, ​ That was obviously unproductive, since you were expecting a certain outcome. Better would have been to tell her that you don't feel comfortable with this, and you want to cut all ties to her, then ignore her. ​ but it made her want to contact me more. I've tried getting …
/r/seduction03/04/19 12:29 PM
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Good for us that luck is in our hands, it's a simple formula: be prepared and look for opportunities, when one manifests itself, grab it.
/r/seduction03/04/19 10:28 AM
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The real world is the same way. Actually no. Yeah she's got dudes swiping at her left and right and approaching her left and right. Lol no. Men these days are too weak to talk to women (this is why they swarm those online dating platforms, getting all angry and bitter because all the "bitches only play with them"), and when they do, they are uncalibrated and/or drunk. She doesn't owe you anything. That is absolutely true! Run your game. Don't expect her to pitch in until you've shown yourself wo…
/r/seduction03/04/19 08:21 AM
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but its really sad. ​ Why? Because you have to actually do the work to get what you want? ​ there are sooo many of them tinder girls in my viscinity ​ Some may call this a legend, others cry "fake news" but truth is: There are sooo many girls in your vicinity in the real world! Crazy, right? And what if I told you that a good amount of those women are also attractive? ​ i could literally just swipe for hours without them drying out. ​ "I could literally watch hot girls getting fucked in porn for…
/r/seduction03/04/19 08:16 AM
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Actually when I watch porn, I usually go for lesbian porn, I am just not a fan of seeing dicks and hairy asses as well as the infamous widescreen balls shot... gross...
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:48 AM
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Maybe, but do remember he is also aligned with RP beliefs, What are those beliefs? Clean up your room? Become a better person? Help yourself? Or was it "stand up straight with your shoulders back"? A friendly advice I'd like to give you, listen to him before you judge him based on the toxic leftist snowflake crap that they constantly put out without any, and I mean absolutely nothing, in terms of facts. and a kind of right-wing jerk. How's that? I've been listening to him for the past 2 years, a…
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:25 AM
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I just don’t get why she reaches out after I tell her I don’t want to be friends and to message me only if she wants to work things out. Well, you and her were together, so you both bonded, just because she doesn't see you anymore as a sexual option doesn't mean she want's to let go of the guy who carries her on his hands. This isn't happening consciously, it's learned behavior stemming from her upbringing as a girl in society, they are always in demand by guys and they can pick from a wide vari…
/r/seduction02/04/19 05:25 PM
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If someone treats you like crap you need to call them out on their horrible behavior. Yes, if someone comes to you and punches you in the face, or bullies you, sure. But... Like Sunzi said in his book "choose your battles". Calling someone out will only work if the person care, and frankly, most people do that to do damage for feeling "hurt". The biggest "stand up for yourself" is to just walk away. For instance, I walked away laughing, so many times from guys who tried to get me into a fight an…
/r/seduction02/04/19 05:01 PM
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size doesn't matter dude As much as I want to agree with you, I have to disagree... it would not make anything better anyway to lie to him. To some women it does matter...which of course doesn't mean it matters to all, or even the majority which is very hard to tell anyways. its just your insecurity thats preventing you from women having interest This is absolutely correct... if you have gotten to the point where she is taking off your pants, she generally won't care what your size is And again,…
/r/seduction02/04/19 11:35 AM
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mean, lesbians are able to get each other off, and I'm pretty sure neither of them have a larger dick than you. ​ Well, judging from the various porn videos of girl on girl action, they are using really big, huge, gigantic dildos to get off lol
/r/seduction02/04/19 11:26 AM
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I just wanted to chime in quickly, I see that you are trying to break your negative thought patterns, good work man. What I would like to recommend is to maybe look into Jordan petersons work. He is talking a lot about "fighting the dragon" which is basically what you have to do, fight your "dragon" to succeed. ​ Maybe listening to his lectures might shed some new light on your suffering to give you a way out.
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:47 AM
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Thank you for your very intellectual input, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:40 AM
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Good luck man! do the best you can to achieve your goals!
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:40 AM
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Good for you pal. Thank you. Just watch out, because there are people out there who will fold you for doing what you do. Haven't had a problem in 40 years so far, but thank you. I also hope, if you ever decide to settle down, get married and have kids, that some guy similar to you doesn't show up and do what you do. Mhmm... I think I will just enjoy my life for the next 20 years, I am not really interested in settling Because that very well may ruin your kid's life. Yes, but that would be her fa…
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:39 AM
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I am sorry for what your girlfriend did to you, but you should blame her, not the hundred guys she slept with.
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:36 AM
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Mate, if you keep it up, there’s going to be a guy who beats the shit out of you one of these days. Thank you for caring so much about me, appreciate it, from what I see though, men in these times are too weak to even do any damage. If you live in America, Good for me that is not the case, at the moment it's germany you’ll be lucky if it’s just a fist he hits you with if you’re fuckin his girl Thanks again for your concerns
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:36 AM
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I agree with most of what you said but one thing. giving her an ultimatum This is the most stupid thing anyone can do. An ultimatum only works if the one giving it, is in a position of power to make it work. He is not. Not in any stretch of the imagination. She will either not give a fuck or she will manipulate him into not going through with it. He at least needs to be the one she's chasing, which she's not. Even then it will most likely not work. The best he can do is to walk away and never lo…
/r/seduction02/04/19 06:30 AM
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She basically just told me she doesn’t want to pursue anything with me rn since school is getting into the semester and summer break is coming. That basically means "I want to get fucked by a lot of men right now, but one day (when I am not in demand anymore) I might want to settle... For you." Apart from the other stuff you mentioned, which screams "give me attention!!!! You are my super super bestest friend evar!!!" you should ask yourself what you want. It is absolutely ridiculous for anyone …
/r/seduction02/04/19 06:24 AM
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Nice, trying to start a discussion with insulting your opponents and playing the moral busy body. Well, let me say this much: no matter how much you despise guys like me, I will never care enough about your moral standpoint to stop doing it. Life is no theme park, life means survival of the fittest and its terribly brutal, you really should realize that since you won't change that.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:16 PM
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Not judging, but think about the implications of it: it sounds a lot like stroking your ego, also it's a pretty shitty thing to do
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:03 PM
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First off, congrats for making things happen. ​ Now... You probably think you have to do certain things and other strategies, but truth is : The best you can do is to relax. She might be hot and ho you call "marvelous", but this is very unlikely the case. The sooner you get that thinking out of your head, the better for you. She is a girl, she is attractive to you, she might even have a nice personality as far as you know, but this is the thing, you don't really know her, so don't attribute all …
/r/seduction01/04/19 08:23 AM
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Well it's sad enough that you suffered from depression, and I know what I'm talking about, depression is a fucking bitch, but as long as you are getting help you should not be scared. To the topic of rejection: it only hurts if you care. The reason you care is that you are probably lonely, grasping for any kind of relation some girl might offer you, and then you commence with picturing a perfect future fantasy of you both together. Trust me, I've been exactly there. What you should do: make clea…
/r/seduction28/03/19 06:42 PM
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I'll tell you something, stop caring. Throughout your life you will always meet people who don't like you or who act in weird ways. Only if you actually did something wrong apologize or even care. Anything else is a waste of your time.
/r/seduction25/03/19 12:40 PM
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Pretty sure they're just mirroring your behavior
/r/seduction25/03/19 12:35 PM
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Partly a good point but for the most part you confuse coincidence and causality.
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:59 PM
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I had a date in summer last year where the girl told me I was too similar to her ex, so how do you think this would help you? You are seeking for objective advice for subjective matters, which is very much a waste of time. Also this way you give too much of a shit about what some random people think of you. Better ask yourself: am I great? Why not? What can I do to become great? Am I picking the right women? Do I see a pattern in what I do and does it affect my chances in a negative way? What wi…
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:56 PM
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Which will end in hundreds of contradicting advices from those various different girls... Not really helping anything.
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:51 PM
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Usually the easiest way to get into the friendzome is to giver this sentence: "I love you! You are the most beautiful girl in the world".
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:48 PM
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It also only works if you care. People have no power over you if you don't let them shame you.
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:57 PM
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Actually the last time I used it, it was a sausage fest anyway, dudes wanking off to strangers everywhere, so doesn't even matter.
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:56 PM
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This!
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:54 PM
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Think about this: can you have sex with her in the movie theater? Do you plan on having sex with her? If you invite her to your home she knows what's going to happen, if she doesn't reject that, it's on. I guess you know what your answer will be, right?
/r/seduction22/03/19 03:50 PM
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Look, as much as I respect your right to have your own opinion, I also see only hateful gibberish as long as you don't explain what your point is. Also, one could think you see yourself as the arbiter of what is right and what is wrong, and I am 100% you are not the one to decide what is right or wrong. So, would you provide a more thoroughly formulated explanation as to why he is "going about it the wrong way"? Maybe he will learn something, as well as I might learn something too.
/r/seduction22/03/19 10:30 AM
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The feature of the penis I described is present in others animals. The border of the head of the penis has a larger width than the actual width of the "trunk", this way it can grasp the remainin sperm on the wall of the vagina. This isn't from me but from research paper. Is this research paper talking about Humans? I would love to read that. So far we don't really know the purpose of the orgasm. The studies on this subject didn't conclude that but maybe you have one that say so ? If yes please d…
/r/seduction22/03/19 10:27 AM
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But I worry that if I do it I will stop caring about my partner, and "love" won't make sense anymore, since I can always get someone else, right? Well that's a simplification of things. The key is to still value your partner but also value yourself more. Sounds contradictory but it simply means that you accept that you have a lot of value and you don't need to be super super nice to anyone just so they like you or stay with you. There's a simple recipe I follow to not be too nice (I haveza nice …
/r/seduction21/03/19 04:40 PM
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Alright, let's talk evolution and biology: if a penis is very big how will it "push out" sperm? It would seal the way out. Also, did you take into account that a vagina can dilate to the point a baby comes out? Something that doesn't happen when having sex, since in a optimal scenario her muscle will contract to the point where it seals itself around the penis. When a women orgasms (which is the best case for pregnancy), her vagina will suck the sperm into her "womb" (I actually don't have the m…
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:52 PM
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indeed, back then, the male with the bigger penis would remove the sperm of other male and destroy the vagina so much she couldn't mate with other male (which is also why the females like to get treated like slut in bed I suppose) ​ lol... watching porn or youtube videos are not research ​ edit: since I was laughing so hard, that I didn't read I missed this part here: ​ But anyway, how you guys are doing it ? Any comment or concrete exemple are welcome. Let me tell you what my Romanian Friend sa…
/r/seduction21/03/19 12:00 PM
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Don't be needy. It will kill your chances. Also you left out any details to judge what she might think, even though it should not bear any weight anyway, since only she knows. Best option is to not pursue her, and concentrate on meeting more women so you have more choices to pick from.
/r/seduction21/03/19 10:22 AM
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How so? Because he wants to settle? This might be news to you but some people want commitment. Nothing wrong about that.
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:59 AM
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Looks like she dodged a bullet there
/r/seduction21/03/19 07:24 AM
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You're right, no guy ever in the food service industry got laid in the whole human history! It is just an invention by said industry that people who work there hook up all the time...
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:33 AM
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Made my day lol
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:28 AM
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Ladies and gentlemen, I present you "the wannabe ladies man". Some also call him "the beta male". His strength is talking women into putting him into the friend zone, and he likes to compliment women to a degree that they adopt him as their little gay best friend pet.
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:26 AM
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What he means is that you try too hard to get her to like you. Not giving a shit means that you should just focus on living a great life, having fun, not focusing on a girl. Flirt with every girl you find interesting, but always make sure that there is something else that you want more than just this girl. This way you will suddenly attract more girls, because they want to be part of your life, and because you don't chase them.
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:22 AM
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When he's dead.
/r/seduction19/03/19 08:16 AM
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What is a "visor"? The only thing I can come up with is the thing that Data from Star Trek was wearing, and maybe it doesn't look good, ever thought about that? Sure it is very important to be confident, but there are also limits as to what society will accept. For instance, if you run around in your underwear, shave one side of your head and leave the other side with long neon green dyed hair, having tattoos in your face and hundreds of piercings, you will repell a lot of women. ​ To attract a …
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:36 AM
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The very moment you start caring about what she replies with rather than actually asking her out, is the moment where you have lost.
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:30 AM
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haha this is actually funny. Cold reading doesn't mean you should insult someone. Pro tip: Always think about how you would feel if someone came and "cold read" you by saing for instance "I think you are not getting laid". This might be true, but it is still insulting.
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:19 AM
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Let me ask you this: Imagine you are looking to catch fish, something to eat for instance or you want to compete in a fishing contest. What would you choose to fish in, a swimming pool, or the deep fertile ocean? ​ My best friend is like that. He doesn't go out at all, stays home all the time and he looks for women online on some local chat site. Once I looked into this site and I can tell you, I was so repelled by it... the majority of women are ugly as hell (this site has some kind of matching…
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:15 AM
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i just want to feel validated by hot chicks on tinder honestly bro. ​ You should work on that. You will never be happy if your only self worth is coming from the outside, since it will never be consistent. What happens if someone comes along and tells you that you're worth nothing? You will not be able to deal with it. ​ Work on yourself and validate yourself! This is the only consistent source of validation you will get.
/r/seduction19/03/19 07:04 AM
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Dude you seem like such a tool talking all high and mighty. Looks like I triggered a snowflake huh? This kid did the right thing, Wait... Only he himself can know if it was the right thing. I was giving him my opinion. there's no point in being around a girl who you had or have feelings for just because she MIGHT have friends who MIGHT be single and who she MIGHT help you hook up with. You might have missed my second reply where I explicitly stated that if he already had feelings for her (a stra…
/r/seduction14/03/19 11:51 AM
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Oh noes... It's the current year!!!
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:04 PM
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There doesn't have to be a reason. She either responds well or not.
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:03 PM
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What do you think? ... That I should make me a macro for such questions, since there's only one viable answer: we don't know. Ask her out. Prove that you have balls.
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:01 PM
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Ok, I just said "jk", and I'm gonna leave it for a little and see what she says It would have been better to just take responsibility for what you said. Trying to make her believe that you were just kidding... let me say it this way: if someone tries to do that with me, i lose all respect.
/r/seduction13/03/19 03:14 PM
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and then felt obliged to ask about hers. And this cycle will continue until we have a full blown conversation over Snapchat that 1) I don't really care about and 2) I would much prefer to have in person. So how do I end this conversation quickly and naturally without being rude and leaving her on read? The long version would be exactly telling her this. ​ The short version would be to just tell her "... I would prefer to talk to you over a drink, lets say on <insert day> at <time>?" ​ Just be ho…
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:57 PM
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... and you're digging your hole deeper and deeper ... Now you even look like a beta male. ​ Look. Sometimes people do dumb things. If you did something wrong, apologize and then stop talking about it. By trying to get her to acknowledge you apology, you are becoming clingy and annoying, while looking weak. This is not what you want. ​ When I said something dumb, I apologize once and let it be. Often times the girl was angry for a while, but after some time it was ok. I remember a girl telling m…
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:45 PM
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Usually this is what rejected women or braindead feminazis (the ones who never get laid and become bitter) say.
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:34 PM
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Now, now! Don’t get all sad cuz you prolly never kissed a girl. Well.. I'm gay... Come under my wing, young lad. Awww really? You called me young? What a great compliment thank you! I haven't been called that in the past 20 years... You’ll be getting your 2 inch wet in no time! Really? And I don't have to shower for it? Awesome! When do I start?
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:10 PM
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I can be spending time with someone who actually cares about my feelings for them. What makes you think she doesn't care? Not caring and not feeling the same are two different things. Is that immature? Well, thinking that she doesn't care just because she doesn't feel the same is immature. Sure, I know nothing about you or her, but I know this self destructive feeling of "no one cares about me", it is bad for you. What I actually find immature is to have wingmans and wingwomans, Interesting... y…
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:08 PM
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I literally won't get anything from going out with her, I want to focus in other girls. Are you sure? First off you have no idea what great wings women are, and she has most likely a lot of hot girl friends, so you will miss out on some easy opportunities, and secondly, you should not focus on girls. It is the surefire way to fail. Focus on yourself, and meet women on the side after you haver fulfilled your own needs. Now, my question is, was this a good decision? No. Simply not. I explained why…
/r/seduction13/03/19 12:38 PM
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I remember I had a buddy a "buddy"... Yeah sure... "asking for a 'friend' " lol ​
/r/seduction13/03/19 12:28 PM
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am I weird for thinking this, or is there another angle and I really just missed the point? ​ I would say you have the right idea about how things should be, but you lack the real world experience to know that your ideas are pure fantasy, and will never be a reality.
/r/seduction13/03/19 12:26 PM
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What could I do differently to improve my relationships with girls ​ What about talking to them? All I read is "I am attractive, I am sooo confident blah blah" but what I don't read is: "I talk to girls every day, and I am asking them out...". Look... Girls will not come to you and ask you if they can suck your dick, it doesn't work like that. You have to approach, you have to offer yourself to girls. you have to take the risks, not the other way around. Pro tip: Experiment with how far you can …
/r/seduction13/03/19 08:51 AM
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I got her snapchat when I went in break with her. She not snapping me as much as I thought. Welcome to the real world. All this social media nonsense... You should not waste your energy on things like that, you better go outside and talk to real people, it is a lot more fun. Should I tell someone who works with her, that i talk to, that shes cute and she will tell the girl I'm interested in Definitely not. You are not 6 anymore. Do you want to be seen as a man or as a weakling? Or should i just …
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:58 AM
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You should use a comma, I actually thought he should call her "bro" lol
/r/seduction12/03/19 10:09 AM
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> Not needy imo. Fun fact: She might (probably will) feel different about that > It's OK to communicate your feelings about this Sure it is, but that doesn't mean the addressed party will appreciate it. ​ I can tell you from experience that this type of behavior is extremely feminine and as a guy who want's to get laid, will hurt his chances a lot by doing that. If he was in a serious committed relationship, it would be less damaging, but she will think "What the f* dude? Are you a pussy?" while…
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:29 AM
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Respect is earned. If he has a one night stand and makes that clear its none of their business.
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:28 PM
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Don't forget your fedora while you play fortnite
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:25 PM
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Additional question, do you ever get over the feeling of wanting to fuck someone(if you see them on day to day basis)? Yes. Since at one point you realise she wasn't that worthy of your dick as you thought, and you have much hotter girls lining up to get a taste of it.
/r/seduction08/03/19 04:32 PM
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45 to 50 hours? That's nothing. Its more of an excuse not to move your ass. I've been working for 10 hours straight every day for the past four years, and I still had time to go out in the evening, and I'm 42. It's all about getting out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction08/03/19 07:04 AM
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Should I make something of this? Maybe a rape charge? Seriously, take it literally and wake her up if she's still sleeping. Don't misuse her trust in you
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:54 AM
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Don't get me wrong here, but this makes me shake my head. Let me tell you this from my experience as an "old" guy (42). I missed tons of opportunities in my life because I was "stressed out" about what could be, not taking the slightest risk. I tormented myself for months and months over girls and it wasn't Wort it. Then one day I said "fuck it" and took the risk. What was the outcome you might ask? I got rejected. Not once, not twice...but more times than I can remember. What have I learned fro…
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:34 AM
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Was it really a date? Did you kiss her? If not, you should do that asap to make your intentions clear, otherwise you will be back here soon asking us again something we cannot know, while probably being super confused why "nothing happened" not even think about the fact that you didn't even try anything.
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:18 AM
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The answer is clear, like for the majority of posts asking strangers to assess what a girl means: only she knows. The consequence of this is also very clear: if you really want to know, you have to find out. No one on this planet is known to be able to read minds or look into the future. Women are no hive mind, therefore there is no recipe for knowing what certain vague statements entail. She says she likes you more than other guys, which means exactly that, but also only tells you that this can…
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:15 AM
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Learn comedy From a discussion I had with a girl years ago, she said:"... Jim Carrey is awesome, he makes me laugh a lot, but I would never fuck him." Let that sink in.
/r/seduction07/03/19 11:32 AM
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if you want younger girls on tinder then just knock down your age a bit... or a lot depending If you pull it off on your pics. Haha I did that on another platform, telling them I was 31 though I'm 41. I pass as 30 something so when the age came up a few times they were shocked. One girl started talking about how it would be a problem for her because I would stop working ten years before her, which raised a gigantic red flag for me, since I didn't even know her yet and she already talks about bei…
/r/seduction07/03/19 07:27 AM
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Too soft. It is OK to ask her out. State your intent clearly and as a man there's nothing to be scared about when it comes to asking someone a question.
/r/seduction07/03/19 07:21 AM
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Why the emphasis on texting? Do yourself a favor and stop texting in general. It's simply a waste of time. Use it as a tool to get meetups with people but don't try to hold conversations, it's useless for that.
/r/seduction07/03/19 07:19 AM
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Why so scared? You should go for what you want. There are basically two possibilities: she says yes to you and she says no to you. Based on experience this is already decided in her mind, and all you can do is to get that answer, there is no tactic that can raise the chances for her to say yes (only in rare cases there are)
/r/seduction07/03/19 07:15 AM
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Agreed on most points but this "If it was gonna happen it would have already happened.". Things don't just happen, one party has to actively do something until anything happens.
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:02 PM
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Well... Not friend zoned per say... But if you were to tell her you love her you'd creep her out. You might be able to turn things around by becoming more sexual and harder to get, but you'd have to risk something and it's a pretty long and hard journey to that territory.
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:00 PM
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I know I'm not a good person. Why? Because some random on the internet says so? If he was actually honest to himself, he would have pointed out that he doesn't know anything, and judging someone you don't know is absolutely pointless. On your topic I can only say: make up your mind about what you want from this girl and if your morals prevent you from going with what she offers, tell her honestly and make your choice. If you don't care, escalate it. I think in this case she had to make a decisio…
/r/seduction06/03/19 01:41 PM
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What drug are you on, and where can I get it?
/r/seduction06/03/19 01:37 PM
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In summary, You cannot. I have heard things that were factually less correct than this, but still this is absolutely wrong. You can never make someone be interested in you, they make that choice. True, every person on this planet one day had this thought "mhmm I think I should be interested in this other person"... Again, factuality incorrect. Interest is not a choice, has never been and will never be. If you pursue an interest though, is a choice. Your phrase "she's kinda cute" indicates that y…
/r/seduction06/03/19 07:17 AM
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You should understand something, TV is not real life. If you actually took shameless as an example you would know how extremely unrealistic it is... When it comes to girls going crazy about bad boys, there's a lot of literature on that, you should Google it to understand the psychology of it
/r/seduction05/03/19 07:26 AM
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I believe your real problem was that you actually took this guy seriously. You also have made a great point, don't try to act as if you were something you aren't, since no matter how hard you try, no matter how hard you work out, you will always meet someone who will break your neck in an instant if they actually wanted to. What you should do instead is walk away, and learn about which people actually bluff (I usually call their bluff and nothing happens) and those who are serious (most of the t…
/r/seduction05/03/19 07:21 AM
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... And probably from him too
/r/seduction04/03/19 05:32 PM
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There is only one answer: if you want to. Make sure you don't do it with the intention of getting into her pants, rather than "I Feel like buying this girl a drink because I feel like it without wanting anything in return".
/r/seduction04/03/19 05:30 PM
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I think it's too much of an effort. You would have to fight against a really strong enemy: her friendship and her bias against dating her friends ex date. What might work is if you could make her friend recommend you, but I bet she already talked to your new date and by the looks of it she didn't really have the highest opinion of you.
/r/seduction04/03/19 05:29 PM
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Dude, your grammar is a shit test... Seriously though, it depends on the context. It might have been an honest criticism of you, an insult or maybe a shit test. The point is that you laughed at it and showed you either don't take her seriously or you don't take yourself seriously.
/r/seduction04/03/19 05:25 PM
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I don't think you understand how this works. I seriously might not know, so I'm open to what you have to say. Just because there are hundreds of other guys seeking her attention, it doesn't mean that you can't stand out. Ok. Fair point, but... Have you ever looked into the mailbox of an attractive woman who is online on whatever platform? I have. I remember my Fwb telling me about her online dating account, showing me her mailbox... She mentioned that she couldn't bring up the energy nor the tim…
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:39 AM
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Also it's one of those things my friends told me not to shag my coworker/roommate but obviously if I like her I m not going to listen to them. That is a more complicated thing than just saying "don't date coworkers". The reason for people saying this is mostly because everyone is parroting it without knowing the full context, but it also has truth to it. As a grown up one should be able to assess the risks involved (drama, weird feelings, losing your job etc.). Even if you can say for sure you w…
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:24 AM
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She didn't reject you. She just told you that its not a good idea, which means exactly that. You work and live together, and this is a recipe for disaster. This doesn't mean she wouldn't fuck you if you made clear that you are the one to blame when things go awkward. Then the other girl comes around and she tries to be reasonable, still knowing that it's a high risk situation, but she obviously got jealous,you know, women have strong emotions no matter how hard they try to be reasonable. This is…
/r/seduction28/02/19 05:01 PM
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No. Just your low confidence showing.
/r/seduction28/02/19 07:05 AM
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But first you have to line up with hundreds of other thirsty betas... Good luck with that.
/r/seduction27/02/19 04:58 PM
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Usually I avoid the typical keyboard warrior type of youtuber. Those guys who always post their crap videos on here, basically parroting PUA theory where it is obvious they are not really successful themselves.
/r/seduction27/02/19 01:17 PM
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She has made you into her bitch. Grow some balls and give her the finger... I can't believe it, you actually committed to a girl that you don't have sex with? I have a a personal rule: No commitment without having sex at least a couple of times. You have to "try the product before you buy it" , imagine what will happen if you find out you wasted your time with a girl that is not satisfying your basic needs sexually?
/r/seduction27/02/19 11:58 AM
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Haaaah... How I like the smell of upcoming drama... Just a friendly advice, don't. It will end in drama, and I think that is not what you are looking for, and you will be the one to suffer the most. She knows your weak spots and will use them against you. You both are separated for a reason.
/r/seduction26/02/19 05:06 PM
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This could be all in your head, but to be sure of course, talk to her. If you don't have the time and still make eye contact give her a warm smile to show that everything is fine and you are still friendly
/r/seduction26/02/19 12:29 PM
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It's pretty common for guys to down vote posts that state these simple facts. This is probably due to them being niceguys and therefore believing women are innocent angels and they cannot make their own decisions. But as you said, she's the one cheating not the guy. Very much spot on what you wrote.
/r/seduction26/02/19 07:34 AM
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What put you off, the fact that I know what I'm talking about?
/r/seduction22/02/19 05:32 PM
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No. To what? That women talk with their friends about guys they like? Have you never had female friends?
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:23 PM
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See, wasn't so hard eh? I also agree with you there, very true.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:22 PM
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I'm thinking I come off as friendly, but not sexual That is probably the case. we sat across from each other at a table. Bad planning, be courageous and sit next to her if possible. If not, you chose a bad spot. I just never know when to start kino, The minute you meet her. Start with a hug. like how can I do kino across a table out of the blue in mid-conversation? You don't. You set it up (sitting next to her or on a 90° angle from her) so you can do KINO all the time when you feel like it. It …
/r/seduction22/02/19 10:20 AM
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First off you should think about it, what do you want out of this, so you can manage your expectations. If she is into you, she might be receptive to personal texting, but if she's not sold on you, it will most likely end up in the friend zone. More so if you are not a hundred percent sure what to do, which is why you're here. If you really want to do this, there's an easy way to get people to trust and open up: you open up first! Give out some personal stories so she feels like you are genuine …
/r/seduction22/02/19 10:03 AM
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I'd say it's like looking for a unicorn, the closest I have seen was a Bulgarian girl with Turkish roots, light skin, stunning blue eyes and dark blonde hair...
/r/seduction22/02/19 09:54 AM
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They really like to make it awkward whenever they find out I am into someone and it sucks. They are doing it either because they are assholes, so don't bother, or they feel like you are ashamed of having a sex drive, which is easy to handle, just joke with them showing you have nothing to be ashamed of. Then it will stop at one point.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:44 AM
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Finally someone dropping some truth bombs! That's absolutely overdue here!
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:37 AM
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When I met my last ex she was doing all the chasing, and she had the habit of randomly texting me the same. I don't like to text, so I only did it when I wanted something or to plan to get together again. She wasn't happy with it and I explained it to her, she still didn't like it. At one point I tried to be more friendly about it and actually replied to her "hi" messages and I kid you not, she didn't reply most of the time. Once she told me that she only wanted me not to forget about her, and a…
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:35 AM
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It’s cruel of her to still include him in her romantic life. That's what close friends do, and it's not cruel at all. She drags him around for whatever ego stoking reason Actually no. He is the one that doesn't respect himself enough to make a cut. He proposed to her, she rejected him, and he has no balls to say "alright, I don't feel comfortable with you talking about other guys" and if she doesn't stop doing that, walking away like any self respecting human would do if anyone overstepped their…
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:10 AM
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In which fairytale world do you live? I will tell you a secret... The majority of women all over the world are talking to their closest friends about the guys they like! Boom... Mind blown huh?
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:06 AM
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Are you only going to post unconstructive nonsense or could you maybe enlighten the "not knowing" on what you claim to know better?
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:01 AM
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The only way is to have more options. Go out more and work your way up to having more women you can have sex with.
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:34 PM
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Well to be fair, he asked how not be jealous, he didn't look for a lesson about how he is a weak bitch... In other words, you haven't been helpful at all.
/r/seduction21/02/19 04:33 PM
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What I have done so far? Sex in public which is more tame, finger banging a girl in a crowded bar while I pushed her onto the wall people dancing around us, the same in a dark corner of a bar, fucking her in a sex shop with people standing around watching, golden showers... Those are just a few things I tried so far lol
/r/seduction21/02/19 12:28 PM
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People project their insecurities to the world. Im angry? Yes you are. Yet you're the one swearing, Swearing? You mean I am not sugarcoating my language... I can assure you I am as relaxed as can be. messaging too much, Who am I messaging? I don't get your point. and can't leave me alone. This is an interesting perspective, but absolutely wrong. We are having a discussion, and you are not obliged to reply, I would forget this discussion after about a day and never think about you again at all. C…
/r/seduction21/02/19 11:43 AM
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I don't need to provide arguments. When you are participating in a discussion, you do. And did you participate in a discussion? Yes. Of course if all you bring to the table is random babble, no one will take you seriously or even believe a word you say... Because I don't need to prove anything to anyone. hahaha you really sound frustrated... Provide good arguments and you might convince the other people you are so desperately trying to prove your point to. You on the other hand, have more issues…
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:42 AM
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Out of arguments? You haven't provided even one argument against our disagreements, instead you are trying to turn the narrative.
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:20 AM
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Without writing a long comment here I want to point out a tiny but very important detail here: the fact that you never met her in person makes it extremely easy for your brain to build up a fantasy about her in your head. This is why you already say "she's the one" and chances are really high that she isn't. What I'm basically saying is this: meet real women and stop putting a stranger onto a pedestal. You don't know her, no matter how much you want to believe that. If you want to make something…
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:28 AM
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hehe I would support that if I could. Alright... I really have to think hard about what people would villainize me for, or lets say it this way, I have to think about in what case I would care... Apart from the "fucking thousands of women" (which in all honesty, the majority of guys would love) I have done pretty much everything I wanted to do sexually and I am by no means a vanilla type of guy. If people knew, they would probably say I am a pervert lol, but the girls I've done those things with…
/r/seduction20/02/19 04:03 PM
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I feel this is strong shit test, I disagree, she tells you that she doesn't know what she wants. You said she is recently divorced and her telling you that she cannot give you what you want is a strong indicator for that. seeing how her reason keeps changing and honestly I am not quite ready to throw in the towel yet. Her reasons change because she doesn't know. If you really want to pursue this, you should give it time. Relationships develop or they don't. They are a result of a million differe…
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:58 PM
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What is yours, let's start with that?
/r/seduction20/02/19 03:50 PM
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It's not a game. Suddenly not responding with anything after a mild remark like hers, would be playing games. Your comment describes this in perfection, as in: "she will respond if you freeze her", which is uncalled for. It's understanding women and how they emotionally respond. And you can read her emotions by knowing nothing about her, nothing about the conversation? I call bullshit on this, since if you actually knew how "women respond emotionally" you would know that women are no hive mind a…
/r/seduction20/02/19 11:57 AM
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The "haha" was her way of taking the seriousness off a little... And now you're a mindreader? If she really wanted a date she would have offered a different day. I absolutely agree on that. She didn't. A girl that is interested will make is easy for you to walk through her doors. Half true, and for the most part this is black and white PUA thinking. In general I would agree though that it is not really leading to anything to try to understand her motives. "You're missing out". She don't care. An…
/r/seduction20/02/19 10:02 AM
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Maybe I missed the part where he tried too often, but rescheduling one date (My math is a bit rusty, but I think this would amount to two tries) is not too often. ​ Also, we don't know much about this situation, so we could only jump to conclusions which I don't, since it's pointless. If we would, we could ask what did she actually mean? She suffixed her statement with "hahaha" which could mean she was amused, this could mean she was flirting, this could mean she was nervous, this could mean she…
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:36 AM
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That is bad advice. She sets the frame that he's needy, giving in would lower his value a lot. Asking her out for drinks is not coming on too strong, she doesn't have to say yes.
/r/seduction20/02/19 08:11 AM
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If you are genuinely interested, you might think about reading about evolutionary biology. Everything should be answered there.
/r/seduction19/02/19 05:17 PM
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My plan is to give her a little space. I’m not gonna text back. That is the right decision I want her to put in some effort. It sounds like you don't expect a girl to even put in any effort, while it should never be a one man show. If you usually have to do all the work, something is not going right. I’m a good catch so it’s fair if she meets me half way. I'm with you on that, but it should be in general that way. I don’t want to chase her too hard and screw up the opportunity I have. Wait... Wh…
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:48 PM
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This remembers me of an ex of my best friend. She and him had a naughty couples photoshoot, basically them fucking while being photgraphed by some amateur photographer. Her main motive was that she got off on showing herself off while doing "taboo" things lol... ​ What can we learn from that situation? People have different motives, and a girl showing off some tame pictures, means only one thing for sure: she want's to get compliments. Take a look at social networks where women live for getting …
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:26 PM
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Oh yeah sorry he says he views seduction more as someone doing something to someone else, as in "I am seducing you". Mhmmm well per definition this could also be labeled manipulation, and taken from experience it is not like it sounds. Many people view Pickup or Seduction, as surefire ways to get into a girls pants, which is total bullshit. It doesn't work like that. It is a crutch to make guys actually try, and feel like they have a "blueprint" to make things happen, while in reality it is just…
/r/seduction19/02/19 01:14 PM
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You never get tired of trolling, huh?
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:30 AM
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Where is the part about your therapist telling you about how he views seduction? The only thing I read is that he said he would not approach random women, which is perfectly fair. It doesn't say anything more than that. Also, "the seduction community" doesn't say never to be friends with women, only beginners get that notion because what people say is not to be friends with a girl you want more of, that's a gigantic difference. Your therapist is right that you should become friends with women to…
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:28 AM
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They were obviously imagining a threesome with you lol
/r/seduction15/02/19 01:51 PM
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It could be that you just look hilarious, like a clown? In general it doesn't matter, since giggling and laughing are expressions of fun or nervousness. No one besides her will know what it is exactly and it also does not mean anything more than "I Feel nervous / entertained".
/r/seduction15/02/19 01:49 PM
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I swipe left
/r/seduction15/02/19 07:32 AM
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Alright. Let me as k you some questions: Are you famous? Rich? A politician? The potential future supreme justice? Maybe even the coming president of the U.S.? If you answered all those questions with "no", your fear is irrational.
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:21 PM
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Didnt say all. Well... might have been miscommunication but you wrote: > I love my boyfriend because of pretty much all these things My boyfriend isnt the typical confident guy (he doesnt like drawing attention to himself and that works since im a wallflower too), Being confident doesn't mean being an attention addict, and according to what the OP wrote, it was never about that ever. It was about being confident in oneself, which a lot of men aren't. we dont spend hours looking into the others e…
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:19 PM
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You mean you love him because he is 1. Submissive, 2. Has no confidence, 3. cannot make decisions, 4. always explains himself, 5. never looks you in the eye and 6. values you more than himself? ​ Are you some kind of dominatrix? No judgment, but you are definitely not the norm and I would guess very young an inexperienced. Usually those behaviors are the reason for divorce and/or unilateral (from her side) breakups in relationships.
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:49 PM
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You know what I always say when someone comes up with an irrational fear? Imagine this: Right now, at this very second, there could be a meteorite heading towards your house, bursting through your roof, smashing your head killing you. What are the odds of this happening? one thing is absolutely clear, the chance is greater than 0%, that doesn't mean that it will happen ever, but it could. ​ Now... Judging from the overall climate in the U.S. right now, where a mere accusation of rape will destro…
/r/seduction14/02/19 02:41 PM
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This is an interesting one. You think you have been friendzoned? Usually getting friendzoned is a result of being platonic towards a girl, and being too scared to make a move, resulting in a moment where the frustration hits a new high, then followed by telling her "I love you" which results in her telling you she feels more like a friend towards you. ​ I don't see that here. All I see is a guy who is too scared to try something, and friendzones himself. The only usable advice like in 99% of cas…
/r/seduction14/02/19 01:33 PM
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In this case you should run. Those are the ones who will make you go crazy with drama.
/r/seduction14/02/19 06:52 AM
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How long should I wait before escalating on snap? Escalation towards what? Becoming her greatest entertainer? BFF? Pen pal? Therapist? Gay best friend? Three words: ask. Her. Out.
/r/seduction14/02/19 06:47 AM
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Might as well ask for permission. Totally. Women get wet by even thinking about a guy asking for permission. If you read one of those sex novels for women, the guy always asks if he can touch her, kiss t, stick his dick in and so on... Not.
/r/seduction14/02/19 06:44 AM
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What signs do you look for? She's still with me, she didn't tell me not to do what I do. That is the only signs that are needed.
/r/seduction14/02/19 06:42 AM
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What about... well... you try? And then you come back and answer your own question? Seriously man... Do you think anyone here is psychic? How are we supposed to know?
/r/seduction13/02/19 04:24 PM
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What I feel like doing is calling her out on her BS What bullshit? The fact that she is not telling you "I love you"? Or the fact that she is hooking up with other guys? What exactly? then just completely ignoring her For what? Because you cannot deal with your emotions? Well... this would not be the worst thing though, but the reason is the problem. and going back to the misery of being alone, without a girl to talk to. Awwww poor you... shed some more tears for how bad you have it... and when …
/r/seduction13/02/19 03:52 PM
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I had a job interview on February 7th with this HR. ​ Just out of curiosity, is she a headhunter? As in, is it her job to get you into a job at some company (not the company HR lady)? If so, it is her Job to make you get a job, since she get's paid a pretty hefty amount of money if you get into a job and you stay there for some months. ​ Obvious as it is how nervous I was, she asked me if I was nervous. I said no I'm fine. She was really kind and nice to me noones ever been kind to me like her o…
/r/seduction13/02/19 03:31 PM
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Easy. Stop looking for "signs" and just go for what you want. If she doesn't want to, you know soon enough and move on. Also, those "signs" you mention are pretty much bullshit. Something that no pua guy on Youtube who is only talking the same old points over and over again, will tell you the truth (because they are just parroting) that IOI's, for instance playing with her hair, are context sensitive, meaning: in one situation it can be a sign of "I want to fuck you" and in others it can mean "I…
/r/seduction13/02/19 02:29 PM
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You're welcome
/r/seduction13/02/19 12:35 PM
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One theme I have seen here on a daily basis: Men, well... biological men, who don't know what makes a man a man. One of the traits a man biologically has is taking risks, and this is what a very high portion of men here are missing. Take a risk, and then learn from what it brings. In your case it's simple: You want to express your feelings towards your girl through a letter? Do it! Only she will know how she will react to it, no one else. Not me, not you (maybe a little bit since you know her be…
/r/seduction13/02/19 08:44 AM
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Say nothing, move away from the situation : WRONG. It means the situation is too hard to handle for you. An alpha male as answers to situations or finds one quickly. I disagree with that one here. An "Alpha male" can be compared to the "King of the jungle". He doesn't care, since he knows nothing can threaten him. Walking away from an idiot is alpha, since the "alpha" doesn't take the other guy serious. Trying to fight that guy or play whatever stupid game he wants to play shows that he cares, s…
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:08 PM
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In one sentence you say "it's funny" then you brag about your dick (well honestly no one really cares) then you go on about how the other guys are just losers and were bullied in school... You are contradicting yourself so often in this post, since you don't find it funny, you feel actually threatened by some random idiots. All I can say is: chill. You should not care about other guys, and if you always get into the situation that random strangers call you gay, there are two ways to go about it:…
/r/seduction11/02/19 12:14 PM
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She is probably not comfortable telling you to leave her alone. That's why she makes out with him and goes on multiple dates ending at his house... Seriously man... Stop making excuses for her behavior.
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:28 PM
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He doesn't have a relationship with her guy so it's her who's doing the wrong thing. It's not like women can't decide on their own what they want.
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:27 PM
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No. Because you have been asking this for years now. You should have enough answers already, stop wasting people's time.
/r/seduction08/02/19 04:24 PM
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I would just ignore her ​ Don't do that. It will make things really weird. Deal with the situation like a man. Be polite and friendly, like with any coworker, but don't jump for her or make any exceptions for her. Treat her like any other male co-worker. ​
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:57 PM
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Google "abandonment issues" there are plenty of articles written by psychologists describing how to deal with it. Spoiler alert: It will take a lot of time and work, but it will help if done right.
/r/seduction08/02/19 03:52 PM
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That is a terrible fate... but hold on, there is a solution: Transition to female! You will have a lot more dick that way.
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:56 PM
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What did I done wrong? ​ This ... ​ One day I just jokingly text her that are you straight? ​ You're welcome. p.s. No one here owns a working crystal ball, or is in any way psychic. If I am wrong and there is actually someone, please pm me, I need to know the right numbers for the weekly lottery, the jackpot will make me filthy rich. Thank you.
/r/seduction08/02/19 12:38 PM
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Is it supposed to convey not interested? Yes... wait, no.... wait... maybe? ... wait... who cares?? Just wondering cause I matched twice with this girl and both times I got no response. As in Tinder or some other online dating platform? But tonight I saw her at the bar You know that the universe has given you a unique opportunity here... and we made eye contact multiple times, ... and what did you do? I just want to figure out to shoot my shot at her or move on to the next one to try my shot at …
/r/seduction08/02/19 12:33 PM
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Its frustrating in the moment because I feel like his emotional immaturity is holding me back You should never let anyone hold you back. Not even a friend who you know for many many years. My best friend and I have this situation, he's about my age (I'm 42) and even though I started late with planning and working for what I want to achieve in my life, I am in the middle of becoming very successful in my career. The problem is that my friend is more of a "low life". He works... at least at the mo…
/r/seduction08/02/19 12:04 PM
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You should think about what a friend really is. Real friends support each other, and not put restrictions on their friends. I have had a lot of friendships throughout my life and I learned a lot from it, one thing I've learned is that most "friends" only care about themselves, and they will do anything to keep you from succeeding since if you did, they would lose you. I have once had a fwb with the ex girlfriend of my best friend of 20+ years, and he said he was ok with it, even though it got to…
/r/seduction08/02/19 08:32 AM
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Do you want to be her text friend or do you want to be her lover/boyfriend? Stop this stupid texting shit and ask her out!
/r/seduction08/02/19 07:46 AM
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You should run. Seriously. This girl is toxic and she will eat you alive.
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:07 AM
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Did you know that the definition of "cringing" at what others do is a sign of a weak psyche? Only then someone completely unknown to the person who feels that way, could care enough to feel such strong emotion.
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:02 AM
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no
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:01 AM
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I didn't take the time to read this wall of text since it's the same shit everyone is writing, so I will answer the question you ask in the title: you know when she's lying in your bed still shaking from having multiple orgasms. Stop behaving like a weak little boy and go for what you want. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no.
/r/seduction07/02/19 06:51 AM
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What is the question?
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:47 PM
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"usually I don't postpone dates, since I am a very busy man, but since you seem to be a good girl, I might make an exception"
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:45 PM
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Isn't it funny how often someone posts basically the same thing about a girl? Like, she's super busy, never initiates texts or anything, doesn't reply to your texts or whatever, and still they guy who writes a post about this girl doesn't realize a few very important hints there: You are not worthy enough for her. In her eyes you are simply not important enough to make some time, to take up this shit device they are glued to constantly, to even reply. ​ It would take about 10 seconds, in a day t…
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:27 PM
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I wonder why someone would ignore you... you are such a well spoken charismatic guy... not.
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:17 PM
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yes, but it takes tons of time, a lot of energy and it might also never work. Not worth it.
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:16 PM
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Stop trying to find excuses. "Normal game" is possible here as well. The only reason you ask is that you are scared to make a move, why are you even talking about iois in the first place if you weren't scared? Alright. I'll tell you what I would do in your situation: I would ask her out. Crazy, right?
/r/seduction06/02/19 07:29 AM
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You could try Morse code...
/r/seduction05/02/19 04:59 PM
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Haha that poor guy
/r/seduction05/02/19 04:58 PM
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Me: “ohh 😏😏😏” Her: “Lmao don’t...” Her: “It ain’t like that” What does this mean? This means: "Don't judge me for being a sexual being like you." Or "I don't want anyone to think I am a slut". She’s also said sent me this last week though (yes, she wrote that 2 years ago but only recently showed me since she thought that she’d never show it to me again until recently). Some people say that it’s basically friendzone material while others say that she likes me. She’s also been pretty active in tex…
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:31 PM
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The more interesting question is: did he? It's been six years...
/r/seduction05/02/19 09:05 AM
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I can see it coming... Nine months after fucking her she suddenly has two children lol... Dude don't go that way, it's not worth it.
/r/seduction05/02/19 07:24 AM
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Once one of my close female friends with whom I never had anything sexual before, came up to me while we were in a crowded bar, looked me in the eye and grabbed my balls telling me she's horny. I just thought "challenge accepted" and we became fuck buddies...
/r/seduction05/02/19 07:21 AM
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Well... Sounds like you are nothing more than entertainment to her. Why would she text you, she knows you are crazy for her and she loves the attention, and in the mean time she is busy with more important things... Like everything but you. It's a hard pill to swallow but better now than never. Ask her out. Make her enjoy herself, make your move, and possibly get a girlfriend doing that. And for the love of God, stop behaving like this little cute puppy she enjoys. Show her that you are a guy! E…
/r/seduction05/02/19 07:15 AM
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I remember going out a lot with a close girl friend. She was a social magnet, talking to everyone, and she opened up a lot of attractive women just by randomly talking to them. The thing was, as soon as she and I approached a group, I had no bitch shield, no "fuck off" or anything. This is because I didn't come off as the usual guy trying to hit on the girls. Often times the girls even asked her how we knew each other and when she said we were just friends, they started pursuing me very directly…
/r/seduction04/02/19 02:49 PM
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haha that guy... Balls, check. Will to escalate, check. Timing... fail.
/r/seduction01/02/19 03:36 PM
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I agree with another comment, they are not real friends if they are jealous at you for having the balls to interact with women. But anyways. I usually don't associate with people like that (if they are not friends already), if they display this behavior once, they're out. In rare cases a "friend" has tried that, and the first time I was just letting it slip, but the second time I did the following. I said with a strong, easily audible and calm voice, and a look on my face showing pity for him, l…
/r/seduction01/02/19 02:53 PM
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Mon - she asked me if I had girlfriend during our convo. I ignored the qn. ​ She is interested. You could have been honest. Tue - she asked me how many exes I had. I diverted topic. Why not be honest, or make it a fun topic? Like: you, counting the fingers on your hands, twice, subtracting one or two while making a face like you are actually trying hard to remember, thinking and so on, then looking in her eyes and say "1" while smiling. Wed - she just randomly took food from my lunch plate witho…
/r/seduction01/02/19 02:06 PM
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Reading through the other comments, it is obvious that you are still in love with her. You should really listen to the given advice. It is natural to not want to hear the obvious, because it stands against what you want to believe, but truth to yourself is the most important thing in life. Just think about how it woud feel to see her again, then you become friends, you will hear her stories about her new boyfriend or whomever she's banging, you willl maybe even meet him, and it will fuck you up.…
/r/seduction31/01/19 09:36 PM
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Oh you will like her even more when she constantly starts some real drama until you find out she is constantly cheating on you with other guys.
/r/seduction31/01/19 09:25 PM
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When she texts you with something, you say: "that's cool. I'm busy right now, talk to you later" and stop responding. Only if she invests you should also invest.
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:24 PM
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Best of luck
/r/seduction30/01/19 03:09 PM
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Well, I didn't know that, thank you for explaining. A few points though are the same in every culture, for instance that the media is portraying a false image of how things have to be, but women are women, and no matter how hard one tries to make them into those "pure virgins" they are the same around the world. ​ As for society, I understand that there are strong differences. I lived in turkey when I was a child, so I know the societal differences and I agree on other points you brought up. So,…
/r/seduction30/01/19 02:25 PM
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And by the way, I know it's confusing if someone sweeps into a comment thread, but I am not the other guy commenting
/r/seduction30/01/19 01:42 PM
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Would you mind explaining what you mean? Based on my knowledge there are 1.2 billion people living in India, do you actually suggest that 99% of these are men?
/r/seduction30/01/19 01:40 PM
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There are no other girls Oh oh... Scarcity mindset. That is one of the worst things you can think. There are __always__ other girls, you just have to put in the work to meet them. On the topic, I think "giving up on her" is a bit too negative, see it more as: Don't put all your eggs into one basket. If she is interested, she will get in touch again, if not, you didn't lose anything since you would not fit together anyway .
/r/seduction30/01/19 12:46 PM
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assume that I'm going to be an overweight, undesirable loser forever ​ The truth is, you will be that if you choose to. You can also choose not to be that, by getting your ass up and work on it.
/r/seduction30/01/19 10:49 AM
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In general you should keep in mind that not every woman will want you. But I also sense that there must be something wrong in the way you approach women in general, do you know how to flirt? Do you know how to read body language? Those things are obviously very important, since flirting is the entry to attraction, and being able to read body language is key to assess her level of attraction, and it's giving you the capability to control the interaction more efficiently. When it comes to online d…
/r/seduction29/01/19 03:45 PM
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Am I hearing the "creepy photographer tried to fuck me" trope?
/r/seduction29/01/19 02:15 PM
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It's something I've spoken about before so my apologies. No worries, it's fine Usually I write a ton and get no responses. That is weird, since usually people comment on anything here, be it helpful or not Without meaning to sound arrogant but judging by previous feedback I tick the right boxes. Keep that in mind for a sec Unfortunately nothing clicks. I thought I was just ugly. shrug And this here... Can it be that you are just insecure? No offense, it happens to a lot of people, and looking yo…
/r/seduction29/01/19 01:36 PM
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Ok, how about you sit down and formulate your question with as much detail as you can think of? Otherwise no one will be able to help you, not knowing anything, and giving short answers that are void of any information won't help it either.
/r/seduction29/01/19 01:27 PM
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Alright, lets stop beating around the bush, you are not actively approaching girls, am I right? If you really want to make a change you have to put in the hard work. Make yourself a rule that says: "everyday I approach at least <insert number> girls." and then act on it. For instance my work colleauge and I are doing this 5 days a week, where we talk to at least 5 women on the street. I cannot say this is the best approach, but it will take away the fear of talking to strangers, and on top of th…
/r/seduction29/01/19 01:24 PM
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Same with IRL. I haven't met anyone for four years so looking to boost my chances. ​ To make it easier to help you please answer the following question: How many girls have you approached during the last 4 years? Judging from you telling us you didn't meet anyone, I guess the number is 0. So there you have your problem, you're welcome.
/r/seduction29/01/19 01:16 PM
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Basically there was this barmaid who liked me and she managed to find me on Facebook She invested her time to get in touch with you, she was definitely interested in more than juts friends anyway long story short we hanged a couple of times one to one and she dropped me off home after a night out together on friday. And you didn't make a move? "I feel like in the spirit of us being honest I am just going to throw something out there, it's probably unnecessary and might sound presumptive, but is …
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:55 AM
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No, not that. She lost respect at least when she understood you are letting her treat you like a doormat, when she started bossing you around and insulting you without you enforcing your boundaries. See, women tend to become dramatic sometimes, and it's annoying, but normal. In those moments you have to keep your cool and show her that you don't get fazed by that. If she starts to actively overstep your boundaries though, and you don't put a stop to it, then she will lose respect for you. Here's…
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:27 PM
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Don't say sorry to anyone here, the only one you should apologize to, is yourself. Judging from what you wrote, she was interested in you, and I guess you two met for that coffee? Then you started flirting with other girls, and that is where some women get super pissed and try to punish a man. I call those girls garbage, since this is really bad behavior, and anyone with at least some self respect would not encourage or even tolerate such behavior. You have every right to flirt and date whoever …
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:17 PM
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All of a sudden this girl starts behaving very rudely and bossingly around me(she even insulted me a couple of times) I hope your reaction was to tell her to fuck off, having self respect? While leaving I asked if she'd like to go for a walk and she said "I have to go. " ... one still can dream ... Please hand over your Man-Card™ when you leave. Can someone tell me what exactly happened here? Yes. She treated you like a doormat, and you rewarded her for that. For your own good, never let that ha…
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:10 PM
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I just wanted to see if this was a weird game that girls play That is something only she herself can answer you, but from my personal experience with girls like that (I was dumb enough to have some kind of weird relationship with one) it is more a hassle than a source of constant fun and comfort.
/r/seduction28/01/19 01:03 PM
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Yes, move on and stop analyzing. Women love the attention they get from attractive men, and they love flirting. The things is though, it is easily confused with her having an actual interest in taking things further, that's why it's so important for us men to escalate the interaction until we are either being thrown out, or at the goal which we set ourselves. It is totally normal for them to say no. Just don't stop trying with other women, since there are women who actually want to take things f…
/r/seduction28/01/19 12:40 PM
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I totally understand your point, and looking closely, people live longer, therefore they age slower, but I can't get the thought out of my head how a 50 year old woman must look ... definitely not what I would want hehe. This will probably pose a problem for me when I decide to settle, because even if I do that with a 25 year old woman, she will grow old one day...
/r/seduction28/01/19 12:27 PM
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What is your real goal? Do you want to have sex with her, or do you want a relationship? Is it maybe just that your ego is bruised? Depending on your answer to those questions there are a few things one could advise. If you just want sex, you should not pursue that anymore, since she seems to have a lot of mental issues, having panic attacks is not a good sign. If you want a relationship, it's the same. She will not be good for you or anyone in this state. If it just your ego, just remind yourse…
/r/seduction28/01/19 12:23 PM
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hehe absolutely. I guess the uprising of porn on the Internet has changed a lot of preferences, I remember in the beginning at around 1998, there was not so much weird porn around, more the vanilla stuff hehe
/r/seduction28/01/19 11:53 AM
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You could say me flirting with every girl I meet is fucked up since I’m kinda leading them on I don't see anything wrong with that. Flirting is not a contract for a romantic or sexual relationship with anyone. It is fun for both parties, nothing more, which might lead to something or not.
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:52 AM
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lol... Funny... My father is 84, and since my mother died 20 years ago, he never had a partner again. He always says: "Son... I simply cannot bang one of those old hags... I rather stay single for the rest of my life". Sad but true, I'm in my 40's now and I cannot make myself feel attracted to a woman my age.
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:49 AM
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You might be able to use some things but ones like “saying random shit” probably wouldn’t do much to a woman in her 30’s midway through her career. On the contrary, they are still just women, and they like to laugh too. Of course it depends on the person you are talking to, but definitely not her age.
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:30 AM
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You fight it the same way a phobia is fought, by slowly facing those fears, getting used to it by exposure. Just meet other people and go with the flow. When you start feeling comfortable, you will be fun. If some people don't have fun, just meet others.
/r/seduction28/01/19 10:14 AM
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Nooo, she's not like that, she's average girl First of, this sounds like you are putting her on a pedestal. How much do you actually know about her? I mean apart from the things she want you to think you know? Instagram and the likes are platforms where people only post stuff that makes them look best, so you never know whats really going on behind the camera, and secondly, do you really think that "the average girl" is not motivated by getting attention? You have still a lot to learn... I asked…
/r/seduction28/01/19 09:12 AM
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Any advice? Go and meet women in the real world. It's so ridiculous that so many guys think they could get laid by talking to some attention seeking internet girl. I already see it coming, you write something, and if you're lucky she replies with more than just a thank you for giving her the attention she craves, but suddenly she stops responding, and you're here again crying your heart out why she doesn't respond. Your energy is better spent on a real life interaction.
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:47 AM
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Don't get me wrong, but if you actually care enough to ask, I wonder if you have no other options. If you have/had other girls in your life, you would know how to proceed, but ok, my opinion is that you should not bother any longer. If she gets back to you, fine, if not, also fine, but in general it's a waste of time to run after a particular girl.
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:06 PM
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Three words: Meet more women.
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:02 PM
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No expert with women but don't be touching too much unless she's defo ok with it First you should define what is "too much" since there is no standard for this. Secondly, women will show you pretty obvious if they are ok with being touched.
/r/seduction25/01/19 04:47 PM
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True that some women love the a hole type, It's funny how everyone thinks in terms of black and white but there’s no future or exclusivity. I don't understand that passage here, could you elaborate on the "no future" part? I don’t want to debate. This is absolutely your right, but if you offer advice that is demonstrably ineffective, you have to at least endure the criticism. I just offered another path. It’s not necessarily the only path. Like I already asked, what is the goal for "your path"? …
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:47 AM
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Your not sneaking. It’s more of a reward thing. You take the steps and she reciprocates. As I already mentioned, this is esoteric bullshit, no offense. If somewhere she has a misstep then you figure she’s not serious and one avoids a big waste of time. Ok. Let's define some concepts here. Are we in the "seduction" sub, or in the "how to be a niceguy" sub? In seduction it is about making yourself a man that is capable of seducing women, sexually. What you describe is a concept centered around try…
/r/seduction25/01/19 09:53 AM
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That was basically what I was expecting, weasel words and vague statements. Of course being a girls best friend may land you a girlfriend, but most of the cases it doesn't, which qualifies it as an esoteric approach, or in other words "if you really believe, it will work. If it didn't work, your belief was not strong enough". What is actually working, is not to try to sneak your way into a girls pants by giving her presents or "being there for her" with the intention of getting some. Most women …
/r/seduction25/01/19 08:36 AM
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Basically means take her out, be there, simple gifts How many girls have you slept with during the last year by employing this strategy?
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:42 AM
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You are way more invested than she is. Go out and meet new girls rather than waiting for just one girl to give you attention.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:34 AM
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You will get many different answers to your question since there is no rule. My personal rule is to not text at all, except a quick text the day before if the date is still on. Why would you anyway? It won't achieve your goal.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:32 AM
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Actually, he's just trying to get attention. Someone who really wants to kill himself just does it without announcing it
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:26 AM
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There you have your answer, don't text so much. Do some back and forth but get to the point: you want to meet her.
/r/seduction24/01/19 03:53 PM
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You can "lure" her into replying by texting something like "You won't believe what happened today..." Then, if she replies, tell her a funny story. You can get a feel for if she is genuinely interested in the conversation or not. If she is interested, tell her a modified version of what you wanted to text: "Me and my friends are going to ___. If you know how to behave, you might come with us."
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:48 PM
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Not replying reeks of insecurity. Let me tell you a short story I had lately: There was this girl I was talking to in person, mostly short smalltalk and some banter and she gave me strong IOI's. I wasn't really in the mood to ask her out yet, so I played it slow. One day I meet her randomly and it happens so that she tells me randomly that she is scared to fall in love. Telling me about this guy and so on. We still exchange numbers, and I go about my day. Later she out of the blue texts me: "I d…
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:42 PM
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Judging from your post you are the cockblocking "friend". Incase you actually run into cockblockers, change your approach from giving attention to only the girl, to giving more attention to her friends so they actually enjoy you being there, hence not cockblocking you.
/r/seduction24/01/19 02:04 PM
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I am working in software development, it's pretty tiring and I usually leave work at 6pm. What I found out is that if I don't eat anything after having lunch at 12, I get very very tired. Some small snacks during the day, and forcing myself to stand up at least once an hour, walking through the office helps a lot with my energy, normally I feel more energetic the later it gets in the evening.
/r/seduction24/01/19 10:35 AM
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No need to apologize, and yes you did.
/r/seduction24/01/19 08:39 AM
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To be honest, you seem very insecure already, just by the fact that you still call this woman your girlfriend. Have some self respect. If anyone insults you, and you come back for more, you are the one who is responsible for that.
/r/seduction24/01/19 07:24 AM
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Why not be forthcoming with women about your views from the start? Talk to them about what you think of feminism and women's equality before you ask them if they wanna fuck. Oh my god... you are not the brightest candle on the cake are you? You would not understand sarcasm if it was a wet pussy in your face... Oh and equality is a whole other topic, let me blow your mind up: Women are not equal to men! booom. They have different body features, different interests, different emotions and a long l…
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:44 PM
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There was a time when I thought like you, being called cute or sweet would be like calling a puppy cute. Over the years I started to realize that this doesn't bear any weight whatsoever when it comes to attraction. It's just the way some people voice their attraction. If you behave sexual, like others pointed out already, it doesn't matter what they call you.
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:17 PM
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The problem with lines is that most girls have heard them already, and if they didn't, they mostly still notice you didn't put any effort into what you say to her. Instead of using lines, cultivate a habit of observing things and then comment on them. Situational openers are my personal choice there,commenting on something that just happened or is happening right now.
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:13 PM
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The no contact concept is meant for the case where you have feelings and you don't feel comfortable with staying in touch with the gir l. In this case it is simply to avoid bad emotions, and since we are all human, we do have emotions. You could see it as self respect. No contact is not meant to manipulate her into wanting more from you, so the outcome is achieved by the rule itself: not contact because you do not want to feel bad emotions. If the girl makes it into a big deal, or if she thinks …
/r/seduction23/01/19 10:29 AM
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Is that one of your pickup lines? ​ Actually I usually say "wanna fuck?" ​ After you grab a woman you don't know, do you tell her that the reason she didn't like it is because she's fallen for feminazi bullshit propaganda? Don't get your hopes up honey, I probably would not approach you, so please don't cry if idon't ​ Maybe you should try it and see how it goes. ​ Nah.. I don't associate with fascists. ​ I don't touch women that i don't already know well, or from whom i haven't received overt c…
/r/seduction22/01/19 05:31 PM
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Thanks again, your comments add a lot to the discussion lol
/r/seduction22/01/19 05:16 PM
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