In my BP days, I liked my coworker for maybe 2 years and did nothing. She's 10 years older than me and was recently divorced. We had a lot in common and had some great chemistry. Embarrassingly, I was her orbiter and essentially friendzoned. It made me miserable. Around the time I discovered RP, I realized it was a pointless mission so I kind of moved on. Despite this, I'd sometimes run into her and we'd have the odd drunken kiss but she didn't want to take it further.

Recently, we'd been seeing each other in our social circle a bit. About 2 months ago we had a birthday dinner. At the end of the night the two of us were alone and we kissed again. Has happened far too many times to ignore now but I decided to just see what happened in the coming weeks.

2 weeks ago she text late one friday night and wanted to come over for a drink. We talked about how we kiss sometimes and she said "I don't know how to explain it... it just happens... I don't have an answer"... so I kissed her again, took her upstairs and we had sex for the first time.

The very next day she text and said "it was really fun, but can we just leave it at that? I don't want anyone to get hurt or uncomfortable" ...

Things are not particularly awkward now... but they aren't the same. She seems nervous when I'm around. I really want it to happen again. Any advice on how I should play this situation?

I'm thinking to just relax, play it cool and let her hamster do the work. I mean... it worked last time, right?