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“I know this is probably wildly inappropriate, but would you like to grab a drink Friday night?” I wouldn't do it like that. I would just give her my number and say, "Here's my cell in case you need anything else." It gives you a level of deniability and if she's not interested she can just lose your number. If she does call/text, arrange a meetup.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:33 PM
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Dude, you need to not be around this person anymore. You have to move forward with your life--she obviously has. You'll find dating isn't so bad and can be fun.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:24 PM
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That's not unusual. Eventually that won't happen. It'll get better. Don't try to contact her and stalk her on FB. Focus on yourself. You working out? Setting goals? Staying busy?
/r/askTRP03/09/18 09:05 PM
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Take a deep breath. It'll be okay. My biggest advice: Don't do things that are going to make your life worse or measurably difficult. Don't get into a high amount of debt. Don't become an alcoholic. Don't put on weight or not take care of yourself. A lot of people are in your shoes, but instead they are in their 30s and are overweight, burdened with debt, or struggling with substance addiction. So... Avoid these things at all cost. Eventually you want to find a career that you're good at and can…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:46 PM
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Yup. "I'd never date a girl who does XYZ." And if she does XYZ you next her, no questions. The secret is you state these boundaries without any sort of mate guarding or lack of confidence. They're just your uncompromising standards. And always be willing to walk away if someone else isn't okay with that.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:18 PM
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Your first part was fine. Solid frame. When her best friend texted you "once in a lifetime huh" you should have not even responded. Let girls have their stupid girl drama, but don't get involved. Honestly, who gets upset at someone taking them bowling? You didn't call anyone a name. You didn't really do anything wrong. This behavior seems petty, bitchy, and is a red flag. Do you really want to date someone who acts like a petulant child?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 08:53 PM
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Just put anything that triggers emotions for you in a box. You don't have to throw it away right now. But eventually, when you're ready, get rid of it.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 03:38 PM
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You can buy your ticket online before the show. Or, just have solid frame: "Let's split this." Here's the thing about splitting costs: It doesn't matter in the end. If they're into you and want to fuck you, it won't matter if you spend $12 on a movie ticket or not. And if they aren't into you, paying for the movie isn't going to change anything. So don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:46 PM
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In the future, never let an LTR or friend borrow money. It's just not a good situation to be in. Next, less words. Stop trying to reason with her. That long first text from her? She's drawing this out, probing for affirmation and significance. Don't give it to her. Either say, "Ok" or just don't respond, and have her clothes sitting on the doorstep in a garbage bag when she comes by tomorrow. At this point, you're in a lose-lose situation. You say nothing, that'll just be "proof" for whatever sh…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 02:43 PM
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It really depends. Do you still have feelings for this person? Is it keeping you from moving on? If so, then you should probably cut contact. If you don't have feelings, don't want to get back with her, and have a lot of mutual friends or whatever... I guess it's fine to be friendly towards her. Why burn that bridge if you've really moved on?
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:38 PM
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Seduction always follows the same formula: Have value/demonstrate value. Build rapport. Isolate. Escalate physically. Everything else is just details. They're either interested or they are not. And if they're not interested, you walk away and approach a different woman.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:32 PM
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"Thanks."
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:26 PM
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Totally agree. The libertarian party had a serious chance this last ejection... But they nominated an inept dumbass in Johnson.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 03:31 AM
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"socially liberal, fiscally conservative" Basically, libertarian. "Do what you want, you're responsible for yourself."
/r/askTRP16/07/18 12:25 AM
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Soft next and start making plans with another girl. It'd be funny though if she actually showed up to the original date. If she does, and text you asking you if you are still coming, just be honest (but perhaps don't text her till the next day): "Didn't sound like you were coming. Met up with a different girl." We have to stop tolerating wishy-washy behavior from these types of women, or else they'll just keep getting away with it because thirsty guys enable them.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 07:30 PM
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Back in high school women said “I was the hottest guy in school” now I’d never hear comments like that. You're not in HS, man. You're in college. People are busy and they don't care if you were popular in HS or whatever. You play basketball and do BJJ? Why don't you make friends doing that stuff? Most adult friendships are formed based entirely on common interests, but it's not going to be like a bunch of kids hanging out because "this is the cool group of kids." You're going to have different s…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:10 PM
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Is red-pill against liking one ever so often for big events such as graduation etc? You're way over-thinking things, dude. Just be busy, be improving, and have an amazing freaking life. If you think liking the occasional post is the difference between a chick wanting to be with you or not, you've already fucked things up. "If only I hadn't liked her IG post last week, she'd still be sucking my dick!" /s Of course liking the occasional post is fine. But if you're spending too much time on any soc…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 08:20 PM
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Right? What's this BP fantasy anyway? Let's say the dude makes a lot of money, why would he get married? So his soon-to-be ex wife can take half his stuff after a few years?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:30 PM
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How can I escape this feeling? By making real changes in your life. Figure out what sort of life you want, set goals to achieve that, and do them. No one is coming to rescue you.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 11:26 PM
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If she gave me the number, she's somehow interested, or at least she was when she did Not necessarily. Maybe she just doesn't know how to say no to a guy asking for her number? Maybe she never was interested enough to actually date/hook up with you? Look, they either want you or they don't. And if they don't, any effort to change this is beta AF, is waste or your time/energy, and ultimately is self-defeating. Obviously, having good game (even over text) helps a little, but there isn't like any m…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:26 PM
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Low level interest means you put out low level effort. Basically, at this point you're playing with house money and should just go all-in. Invite them out for a drink, or invite them over to watch a movie... They either say yes and follow through, or they're just not interested (most likely). And then you move on and soft next them. Maximize your time and game other women.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:04 PM
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First of all, don't believe anything someone says when you break up. They can give you a total mindfuck if you do. Next, you need to just cut ties with this chick. She wants to break up, she wants distance, let her feel like she's on the fucking moon. Stop feeding her attention/validation. Stop caring. You're not together anymore, so you need to stop thinking about her and start thinking about you. Use this time to grow. Lift weights. Change your diet. Set goals. Use the pain you feel as fuel fo…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 07:05 PM
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News flash: Unicorns don't exist and your LTR isn't one of them. She's nice and sweet and into you right now, but give this LTR time and that can easily change. Don't buy into the BP fantasy that this chick is some noble woman, who has kept herself for you, and is going to love you the way you wish to be loved. Life doesn't work like that. We say AWALT for a reason. This chick will be good for you, until she's not, and then it's time to walk away. And you know what? After that (if she hasn't alr…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:42 PM
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You're only looking at part of the issue. The real issue is this: What sort of boundaries does she set with men when she's in a LTR? If a new guy wants to be her "friend," is she going to start hanging out with him too? Chad befriended her at the gym, and he's invited her over to watch a movie on Friday, is she going to be his "friend?" Don't LTR a woman with shitty boundaries.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 10:10 PM
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"On a scale of 1-10? I prefer a scale of XXX-XXXX" and give her your number. Then cut the boring small talk and invite her for a drink. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:35 PM
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In the end you have to realize that it doesn't matter. If you want to say hello, do so. If you don't, then don't. It's not like you're trying to game her or anything. Whatever you do, be the better person. Be civil. Be proud of anything you say or do.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 04:00 PM
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Heartache sucks. Heartache can sometimes be so intense that it can even affect rational thought. Your body is going through withdrawals of oxytocin, which can be like breaking any other addiction. The first step: Get rid of everything that triggers any emotions for you, or reminds you of her. If you're not ready to throw it away, fine, put it in a box and eventually chuck it if you want. The second step too: Block her on social media. Don't unblock her. Don't check up on her. You can drive yours…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 03:54 PM
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Is asking her to hang tomorrow too soon? Not if she's attracted to you. Stop overthinking things. You have free time and a free place. Invite her over and hook up. If she's busy or doesn't want to, you're on Tinder, invite the next chick over.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:59 PM
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I’m probably over thinking this You're over thinking it. Cut the toxic insecurity out. Often, women who flake won't respond when you confirm your plans with them that day.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 04:12 PM
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My basic Tinder game is often the same: If you're going to meet them far away from your house, I'd ask them what area of town they live in, then I'd pick a beer/cocktail place close to their house/apartment. Makes it easier to transition back to their place. When I meet them, I always go in for the hug. Then during the date, I focus on my body language: Head up, shoulders back, good eye contact, arms/legs open, speak slowly and calmly, etc. You're projecting confidence and ease. I'd have a drink…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:07 PM
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Some men like Asian women. Some like redheads. Some like slender girls. Some like women with a big booty. To each their own. And some women love black men. Some women will sleep with you simply for that part of you (assuming you're a person of color). And some women aren't very interested in black men. Just like some women love beards, and others don't. What each person finds attractive is entirely up to them and a matter of preference. I'm not attracted to healthy looking women because society …
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:42 PM
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White privilege doesn't exist, certainly not in dating. Different people have different preferences and sometimes fitting a person's "type" is all it takes to have them interested in you. There are plenty of women (read: a lot of white chicks) who love black men. Just a guess... But making a quick judgment from your username, your difficulties might be stemming from your incel mindset. You need to cut that shit out. Take responsibility for your life, don't blame your issues on others, don't be b…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:05 PM
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Where can I find you at X time? You're shit at planning. She asked if you're still on for tomorrow. You give her an answer: "Yes. I'll see you at 8 at XYZ bar." No ambiguity, no wiggle, you're leading and she'll be there. Gosh golly gee I'm not sure, my friend is coming to town and we're going to eat carrots and play monopoly together at the laundromat, but I guess I'll probably be free around X time. If a girl gave me that answer I probably would start making plans with a different girl.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:26 PM
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I've heard from so many girls that their friends "went to a party and someone definitely slipped drugs into their drink." Who knows how often this is true? I tend to think that stuff is more of an urban myth than a common, every day occurrence... And there's a paranoia about it happening akin to children being kidnapped by strangers out of their own front yard and razor blades being put into Halloween candy. Do those things happen? Yeah. But is at something you have to worry about constantly? No…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 06:18 PM
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Do whatever you want, but don't give too much credence to anything an ex tells you. If you were jealous, she would have broken up with you for being jealous. In the end, the pretext doesn't matter very much: They either want to be with you or they don't. If they lose interest and don't want to be with you, you could be the best man in the world, handsome, make good money, etc., they'll find some shit to be upset about and break up. And some of the "reasons" they give you can be a total mindfuck.…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 09:55 PM
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Also, stop drinking. /thread
/r/askTRP20/06/18 09:37 PM
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It's the same with every chick. It's sink or swim: If you don't want to be friends, you have to try to make a move and escalate physically. Either they reject you or they don't. If they reject you, you move on and approach other women. No games, no gimmicks... That's just how the world works. If she gives you the "I just want to be friends" speech, look her straight in the eye and say, "I'm attracted to you and I'm not interested in being friends," and then move on if she doesn't want that. Some…
/r/askTRP19/06/18 10:45 PM
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No. It means you don't reach out until they reach out to you. Just be busy and living a good life, make it clear about what you want, and give her space the rest of the time.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 07:17 PM
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I'm going to think about it, Okay? Soft next. Don't chase. Approach other women and keep working on yourself. They either want you or they don't, and when they don't... Any attempt to get them interested is counterproductive because it doesn't work like that.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 06:50 PM
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Whether she realizes it or not, she's making a choice about her living situation which ultimately communicates to you that she's not serious LTR material. Downgrade to plate status.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 04:39 PM
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How would you respond to her text? Soft next. She's not showing any interest or putting out any effort, and your best play is to approach other women. Do you're own thing. If you're going into town any way, then be there, and if she reaches out to you, you can see if she wants to make plans then (read: don't reach out first), but don't put any effort into this chick.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:09 PM
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I think my mentality stems from a rejection of guys trying to derive a sense of self-worth or validation from an arbitrary number we assign to women ("Bro, I'm talking to this HB9. She's so hot!"). Also, the mentality you describe (almost like school grading, where a 70% or "7" is passable and this average) tends to over-inflate the value of women and ultimately can put them on pedestals. If about 7 is average, and a lot of women can be 8s and even 9s, what is the point of rating them? And even …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 04:19 PM
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Random question: What were the dinner places like that she suggested? I went out with an Eastern European woman (Moldovan) a few weeks ago that I met at the gym... And dear god, she just wanted to enjoy "the finer things in life" (read: overpriced restaurants). We just got drinks, split the bill, and went for a walk. Dropping a load of cash on a woman you don't know, isn't sleeping with you, is beta bux AF.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 12:35 AM
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I appreciate your insight. I'd probably take you up on that offer for a beer.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:28 AM
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You're mad a the OP No. Nobody is mad about anything. Look, I've known about TRP and have interacted with this sub and its related subs, to varying degrees, for about 5 years (obviously, a lot less the last few years). I think there was about 30k subscribers when I found the sub. But one thing I've noticed is this: Way too many posts like FRs and posts like this read more like self-congratulatory RP fanfiction, devolving more into what sounds like a parody of TRP and one giant dick measuring con…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 10:20 PM
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Weave them all together into a colourful, entertaining read and many guys come way much more learned and motivated. Oh God. I think you need a psychologist to check you for narcissism, man.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:14 PM
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ProTip: On this sub take posts that meantion ratings of looks with a heavy grain of salt. Because when guys on here tell you they were gaming an "HB9" or "HB10" or whatever number they arbitrarily assign to a girl, it's often either one and/or two things: 1) They just want to post a humblebrag so that their ego can be stoked. 2) They're honestly overinflating a woman's value, putting her on a pedestal, and are in the beginning stages of oneitis. And I can imagine telling others your own rating w…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:07 PM
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Just another self-masterbatory rant that reads like RP fanfiction. You don't need five-thousand words to tell guys that there are no shortcuts to success or "hacks" to getting what you want out of life: tl;dr Stop making excuses. Fix the things in your life that need fixing (diet, fitness, grooming, confidence, finances, whatever, etc.) and women will be more interested in you. Many of them will let you bang them on the first date, and will even do all those things you saw in the porn clips. Jus…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 07:04 PM
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I can't count how many single moms in their late 20s/early 30s on Tinder or other places that I've met whose stories are basically the same: I was married, the guy still loves me and is relatively attractive, he didn't want a divorce but I just had to do it to be happy and "find myself." Honestly, it's a suckers bet. They're not going to find a high value man, like perhaps they could have 10 years prior; they've gained a few wrinkles, have had two kids, put on a bit of weight and have all that e…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 10:32 PM
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All you need to do is give up the fantasy that there's one pure-hearted unicorn that is saving herself for her one true love, and that you're him, and you two will get together and be deeply in love forever, and overcome all obstacles with your higher ideals and unwavering affection for each other... Because that's totally how life works, right? And then join us on planet earth where life doesn't work like that. And then realize that she doesn't belong to you, it's just your turn, and eventually…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 09:37 PM
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Well, start by reading "No More Mr. Nice Guy." But you're misreading things. It's not "asshole" vs "non-asshole," with asshole being an attractive quality for women. That's a really superficial understanding of the situation. It's that women want different things than men. They are attracted to different qualities: Dominance, confidence, strength, competence, affluence, etc. A lot of these qualities overlap with "assholes," but not necessarily. A lot of guys think about things they like in women…
/r/askTRP12/06/18 06:40 PM
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Lesson learned? Be high value and attractive Or maybe you just go for really low value women who get zero attention from guys so they're ecstatic when an average dude who isn't overweight gives them attention?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:13 AM
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As a guy do I constantly need to be messaging girls every few days or so to keep the relationship alive, else it's doomed to fail? No. This is just the way chicks can be. When you're hanging out, hooking up, and they're feeling all the feelings... You're the center of their world (for that moment). But once that feeling is gone, it's like it never happened (read: Briffault's Law). And they're onto the next guy making them feel those feelings, rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 09:35 PM
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You need to learn to communicate and advocate for yourself. Look him in the eye and say, "You mind if I work in here with you?" He won't say no.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:27 PM
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It reads like a humblebrag RP fanfiction.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 07:25 PM
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Plus, I think what OP is presenting would do more damage than good. I used to frequent the MensRights subreddit and sadly it has devolved into one giant circle jerk complaining about female child molesters and shit feminists say on facebook. Too often they're trying to win the "oppression Olympics" against third wave feminists and in doing so they're actually emasculating men and turning them into women. What has always made men so great is that they overcome difficulties and in doing so grow as…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 11:40 PM
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Now one thing I’ve realised is that most girls are not down to fuck within 2-3 hours of meeting them during the day. C'mon, man. You'd be surprised what women will do. Get the right girl who's into you, she'll invite you to her bed without even meeting you first. Hedge your bets. You've got three chicks who are showing potential interest. In due time, one or all three of them could be sending you naughty pictures and making plans to meet for a quick bang. Without being a needy beta, just flirt a…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:44 PM
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Good on you, man. Sounds like you're both going to have fun. Remember, she doesn't belong to you, it's just your turn. Always be able to walk away if it's not what you want.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 03:39 PM
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Do you want to be her friend or do you want to hook up and have fun? (read: girls make shitty friends) Seduction always follows the same formula: Find a girl who is interested in you, get her alone, and escalate physically. She either goes along with it and wants to hook up or doesn't. But think of it this way: You're playing with house money. You lose nothing by a girl rejecting you any ways, because she's not really this deep, meaningful friend who is going to be there for you and cares about …
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:33 PM
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Not necessarily always. Gaming girls is like reading a baseball, you've got to read the pitch. Some women it'll be fine with, other chicks might blow you off. Don't worry about this and just have solid frame to maximize your chances of success.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 06:01 PM
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Often chicks say this because they've been pumped-and-dumped too many times, and even though words like this mean exactly fuck-all before you're alone in a room with someone, they want to try to get you to hint about commitment before you've even vet them as a decent LTR. The problem with these women is that they're playing SlutGameTM and it doesn't work. A slut isn't a woman who sleeps with a lot of dudes; it's a woman who doesn't have any real qualities that would make a high-value man want to…
/r/askTRP04/06/18 04:20 PM
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Says she doesn't feel comfortable meeting up Claims to have a history of trauma Dude, move on. She's not the girl who is going to come right over. There are lots of women who will come right over for sex if you play your cards right. This girl is not one, so don't waste your time. How many more red flags do you need?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:56 PM
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Stick with your decision. Her boundaries are shit and she's not LTR worthy. It's only a matter of time before the right guy slides into her DM and biology takes over... She's already lied to you, she'll gaslight you again. She's not worth your commitment. After finding out that she lied to you, you'll never be able to fully trust her. She's too far gone. Move forward. Love is just a feeling, and heartache is oxytocin leaving the body. It will get better eventually. Message me if you want advice …
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:49 PM
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Just move on. This is a lost cause and any more energy is wasted energy. Don't even talk to her. If she asks you if anything is wrong, you can ask her, "Are you social inept?"
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:44 AM
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once we get to the bar for our drinks say something like “I don’t usually buy drinks for women I haven’t kissed yet” This is cringe inducing. Don't say this. Women like confidence, so if you want to kiss a girl you should just go for it and be okay if she shoots you down, but don't talk about it before hand. Much too easy for it to come off as beta and creepy. I was on Tinder for about 4 years. I went on way too many beer dates, and let me tell you something: It means exactly nothing whether you…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:43 PM
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Maybe, but nothing is guaranteed. I know solid families at my church, they seem genuinely happy and the women are committed. They are devout in their faith, but not kooks. But who knows what life is like behind closed doors? Time is not on your side, however. If a girl is religious, solid marriage prospect, and wants to get married and has a family... The longer time goes on, the more of a red flag it becomes. Is she going to settle for you after spending a decade of her life rejecting every oth…
/r/askTRP30/05/18 06:19 PM
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Fucking a chick off of Tinder is literally the easiest thing ever. They're on Tinder. It's simple: Follow Rules 1 & 2 Don't be creepy/weird Strike while the iron is hot That's it. You can literally have them come over to your house for sex without ever meeting them. But most of the time, Tinder chicks are on to the next cock on the carousel pretty fast. Once a woman gets a phone and downloads Tinder (and even before Tinder), it's a dick tornado for her if she wants it to be.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 09:23 PM
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If everything you do is "wrong" to feminists you might as well stop caring.
/r/MensRights23/05/18 10:47 PM
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But she apologized guys! Nothing to see here. /s
/r/MensRights23/05/18 10:41 PM
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None, really. They're plates. You should be the guy whom they hit up to have fun, hook up, and not worries about the stresses and pressures of life. Just always wrap it up with a plate.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:44 PM
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It's a tricky situation based on the timing (2 months is pretty fresh and you're still figuring out "what you're doing here"). But it does show you this: She's not a good long-term prospect and not serious LTR material because either she doesn't "get it" about boundaries with other men, or she doesn't care. You don't want to deal with that shit. Let me ask: How old are you? Perhaps early 20s? Not saying it's okay, just saying it adds context. If you were together for 2 years and in your late 20s…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:40 PM
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Are you attracted to her? If yes, ask her to do something. Get drinks. Go for a walk. Come over and watch a movie. It's all a pretense to get her alone. Then, be charming and the best version of yourself without trying hard or making it awkward. Then, get her alone and escalate physically. The details change, but the seduction game is always the same. The longer you pussyfoot around, though, the dumber it gets and the less chance you have of success, if sex is your goal.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:20 PM
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What a waste of time and energy. You should never be in an LTR with a chick like this. Cut her out and move on.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:34 PM
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She won’t stray; she won’t cheat. Hey man. I have some swampland in Florida I want to sell you... You're over-simplifying things. It's not that easy. We say AWALT for a reason, because any woman could cheat, and for women it would be very easy as the opportunity is always there, and there are always better looking, bigger, stronger, more successful men than you in this world. And while having a higher SMV certainly is one factor, it doesn't guarantee a certain outcome (faithfulness, long term su…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:24 PM
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What I don't get is where is the confusion? Why does one person think they're together and the other thinks the opposite? Something is not adding up.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 06:15 PM
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You're over complicating things. Seriously: Don't text her too much. Just for logistics to meet up again. Keep hanging out and escalating. Other than that, don't worry about shit. When women like you, they'll make it easy on you and will "open the door for you." All you have to do is walk through that open door. When they're no longer interested, they'll close that door, and then you just walk away.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:21 AM
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Girls like this do not deserve a second chance. Hard next, erase her on social media, and do not engage. She'll try to pull you back in eventually (after Chad pumps and dumps her), but you'll be a much better man in the end to not deal with the BS and just move on.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:13 AM
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CHECK OUT BOULDERING Goodness, I hate bouldering. As someone who has roped climbed for years (indoor/outdoor, sport, trad, alpine, etc.), topping out on some of those highball problems freaks me out that I'm going to jack up my ankle or knee. Bouldering gets you way strong though.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 05:42 PM
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Agreed. I used to go to a big corporate gym, but it was such a ratrace shit show. You'd have the tanned old timer gorillas who had massive beer bellies in spaghetti strap muscle shirts and a bunch of yoga pants chicks resting on the machines, and I'd always cut my workouts short because it was so packed. Now? I go to a gym that is in an old warehouse. It has a ton of free weights, I walk down a sketchy alley and swipe my key card and have 24/7/365 access. Most of the time there's only one or two…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 07:23 PM
4

How about, put down the fucking fork, stop shovelling grease into your face hole and do something to burn a few calories and maybe next year you might fit!? Good idea. But what she actually did (if you read the Huffpo article) was: Buy a churro and beer and take a "sassy" selfie to post on social media with the caption "Bite me, Hogwarts ride." So, almost...
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 03:40 PM
1

We'll be going to a politics conference, going out to eat, then a classical concert with a musician I love Seems very formal and like a lot for a first date? Just relax, be yourself, be attentive (read: don't be on your phone), don't do anything you're not comfortable doing (read: advocate for yourself. If he tries to make a move on you and you don't want him to, clearly say "No" and if he respects you, he won't keep pushing or act annoyed/hurt). Don't worry about what to say. Just be yourself. …
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 10:54 PM
2

what are the odds of finding a quality girl again who desires me and invests in me the way this one did? Stop putting this chick on a pedestal. Sure, she probably was good looking and had some cool qualities. So what? Also, stop letting your sense of self-worth be defined by whether a woman desires you and wants to be with you. Women are like light switches: When the switch is on, you feel the warms and everything is good. When the switch goes off, it's like the light was never on. There is no l…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 07:31 PM
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In terms of the attention thing and always acting busy, couldn't that lead to her cheating? First of all, don't "act" busy. Have an interesting life and be busy. A woman should never be your #1 priority. Not even top 3. You should have your mission in life, and other interesting hobbies/pursuits, and she fits along for the ride. Next, if a woman is going to cheat, it's not going to be because you didn't fill her life with attention/validation. It's going to be because she's a shitty LTR with shi…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 10:43 PM
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I cant imagine myself without her and that's the scary thing. It isn't good to feel this way about any girl. You came into this earth alone, you will die alone, and people will come and go throughout your life. You need to accept this fact. You need to do things that will keep you strong and centered and not "afraid" of a person leaving or not being around. At the end of the day, you are responsible for yourself and your own well being. Do not rely on other people. I'm also scared though, that s…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 11:09 PM
1

Next time, at the end of the date: Tell her to call you sometime if she wants to do it again. Wait. She will call/text or she won't. You have to give a chick time to miss you, to think about you, to wonder what you're up to, etc. This assumes you're a high-value male. Familiarity/over-availability often kills attraction. You can always try to reach out to make more plans in a few days (or whenever you feel like it... Your schedule should be filled with interesting hobbies and cool stuff you're w…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 07:45 PM
1

The guy has no idea I was banging her during the first few months of their relationship They're always going to hamster a reason why it's still okay to bang you. "We haven't had the conversation about being exclusive yet." Etc.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:44 PM
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If you're doing everything else right, and do it for a long time... Women will "change" their preference for whatever you are doing. Seriously, when I was young I shaved my chest. Every girl in bed told me they like it. And eventually I stopped caring and quit doing it. You know what every girl told me after that? They liked a little chest hair. Women are like water and will fit the glass you fill them. What they really like in the end are masculine traits: Confidence, strong frame, strong body,…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:49 PM
3

Ahhh. The games we play. Why are you ignoring her? Look, you should be doing cool shit, having a fulfilling and happy life, talking to other girls, and be so busy and content that you don't have to pretend to ignore some girl. If you're not doing that, fix your life.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:46 PM
5

Women want to enjoy the end result of the work. They don't much care to be around while you're doing the work though. Sheesh.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:55 PM
1

She came over just for sex. That's all we did, even anal. Afterwards we talked and I learned this other stuff about her.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:42 PM
1

I've been with only one 18 year old (I'm in my early 30s). She had been molested by her brother-in-law when she was 13, and explained that she now has a fetish for much older men. She told me that she's been with men who were much older than I am too. Do what you want with that information... I'm not saying this girl is the same though.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:24 PM
3

Single moms are often easy to hook up with, but make horrible plates, because they're quickly pushing you to come and commit and fix their lives. The fact that they got pregnant outside of wedlock in 2018 with all the birth control available and women's rights and all that shit just proves they have horrible future planning and/or decision making. Like, I'm not sorry you barebacked some bartender and now want to keep the baby, but if you keep shouting that it's "Your body, your choice," it's als…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 09:02 PM
1

Planks are... OK. Your body will adjust fast and then they'll become pointless. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jYX5FpYZA7c
/r/askTRP05/04/18 02:15 PM
2

Read books for more information and ideas. Lots of information in magazines like Muscle and Fitness, etc. Arnold Schwarzenegger's book on Bodybuilding is basically the Bible, but might be a bit dated these days. I really enjoy Athlean X's youtube channel, the guy knows his stuff. There is no shortcut to success, you have to put in the work. Start now.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:31 PM
2

Listen to your body, you are an expert on yourself. But a few thoughts (and what I do): You can probably get by with less days per week. Overdoing it can lead to injury. Your muscles are torn down the days you lift and build themselves when you rest. A lot of guys who start like Stronglifts 5x5. It hits the major muscle groups to give you good results quickly. Focus on your diet. You can't outwork a bad diet. You need plenty of calories to build muscles. Choose whole real foods over processed ga…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:04 PM
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Serious question: Does he use pornography? Because if so, he's training his brain to only seek out certain stimuli for sex (e.g. new women) and it will affect your sexual relationship with this man. If he cuts out the porn and reduces masturbation, he'll likely not be able to keep his hands off of you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 10:47 PM
1

You can't quantify it with an equation, but there's some mental formula here where you have to weigh the headache/dumb shit she's doing vs. the amount/quality of the sex vs time/effort it costs you vs. what it adds/takes away from your life. The moment it's not worth it, and only you can decide that, you move on. Her behavior isn't going to change.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:44 PM
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all of them watch romantic movies, read romance novels , and listen to love songs, and think that the goal is to achieve something that the song perfectly describes 1000% of the time . You're describing my last relationship to a T. We were only together a few months, and we were just having fun dates, I was taking her outside and teaching her how to rock climb, and we bought tickets to go on vacation together... I mean, it should have been good. But somewhere along the way, BAM, it was like noth…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 10:51 PM
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And if your marriage is not going well... Just have another kid! /s I have a female coworker that is in her mid-30s. She and her husband divorced a few years ago, but got back together. Then they had another kid about a year and a half ago (so now they have 4 children, one of them has autism). And now? She wants to separate from him. They got together when they were in their early 20s... And even got back together. He doesn't want to lose her or the kids, and they even bought a house together. B…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 10:04 PM
12

It's always funny to me (funny-sad, not funny-haha) when guys get overly upset or hung up on an LTR that doesn't work out. Like, when you're just dating, you're just hanging out, having fun, and hooking up. It should be easy, right? Like, you're just going out for drinks, maybe taking a vacation, having sex, and doing easy, fun shit. But then it goes sideways. She starts acting bitchy. Or becomes distant and is losing interest. Whatever... And so the relationship ends. But why do some dudes get …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 07:21 PM
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Stop giving arbitrary numbers to women to inflate their value. It's easy when you're dating an attractive woman to attach a part of your ego or sense of self-worth to being associated with her, but you need to cut that shit out because it will kill a relationship fast. Show me a certain attractive woman with a boyfriend, and I'll show you a man who is tired of having sex with a certain attractive woman. We latch on to these arbitrary markers thinking that they create value (i.e. a man dating a w…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 11:00 PM
3

Trying to practice sobriety? I'm there with you. You can still often go to bars and stuff and just get something non-alcoholic. Or go for a hike. Or something active and fun. Or go to a coffee shop. Don't fall into the myth that no one wants to hang out with you if you don't drink, or that drinking is going to make you more likeable/social. It's a lie.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 10:35 PM
1

Dude, I'm 34, I work a job making a very modest salary. My living situation is less than ideal. I'm not tall (5'8), and until recently wasn't even lifting that hard or was very good on my diet. My teeth are so-so. My hair is slightly thinning... You get the point. While at times I get told I'm cute, I'm not "Chad." Stop making excuses. Stop being needy. Invite Tinderellas to get drinks a few times per week. They will say yes, if you stop being a whiny bitch and making excuses and just go do it. …
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:43 PM
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You sound needy and not at all centered... And that is a huge turn off to women. So you need to quit that. Try meditating and other activities that center your emotional core. You're 6'2 and attractive? Get on Tinder, don't try too hard, don't go for the ridiculously hot women (i.e. find cute but fuckable girls) and just meet up for drinks, escalate, and start hooking up with them. Before long you'll have 3-4 women wanting to hang out and hook up with you, and boom, you'll see life isn't bad, it…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 04:33 PM
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Man, you want to give up on the porn. The idea that we sit in front of screens, every day (some guys multiple times per day) and fantasize about women who aren't there and thus aren't real, just to illicit a neurological response is a sad commentary on the current state of human existence. Honestly, it will mess up your interactions with women. Jerk off occasionally, but avoid porn, it's desensitizing your brain to certain stimuli.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:49 PM
13

Me? Well, I think that I probably have the mind of an alcoholic, meaning that I always want "at least one more," and self-control goes out the window after I have a drink or two. I often end up drinking more than I intend to drink, and make poor decisions when I do so. Besides the hangover, I feel shame, I feel bloated and tired, I am not as productive at work, I don't feel like I'm going anywhere in life, etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 10:08 PM
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I've come to the realization that drinking and weed, rather than just be a part of my life that I indulge in from time to time, have really overtaken my life in too many ways. While I haven't hit "rock bottom," I've realized that perhaps sobriety is the way to go for me. So I abstained for a month. And then I had a drink (well, a few drinks). I was shocked at how much it pushed me off my center and affected me the next few days.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 07:53 PM
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I've heard a quote: If a woman is currently into you, she'll make it easy for you. She'll open the door and all you have to do is walk through. When that same chick closes the door, all you have left to do is walk away. So many of the posts on askTRP are, "There's this one girl, things were good, now they're not... What can I do to fix this?" They don't get it. Bro, there is no "fixing it." There's walking away, bettering yourself, and finding your own path. Women will come along for the ride as…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 07:26 PM
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Stop looking at porn. Start talking to real women. See which ones are friendly. Ask the friendly/ interested ones to hang out and/or get a drink. Try to escalate (read: start with kissing and see how that goes). Stop immediately if they seem highly uncomfortable/disinterested. Some chicks will be really interested and will want to fuck. Go for those. You'll have success and failures. Learn from them. And always wrap it up. Keep condoms with you.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 07:11 PM
5

Enjoy the respite while it lasts.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 04:49 PM
3

Should I delete this one too? It's like that movie, "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind." All evidence gets thrown away, friendships get erased on social media accounts, even digital photos are erased. And, depending on you, it can be the right thing to do. Is it holding you back from your life mission? From moving forward? If so, delete it eventually. If not, then it doesn't really matter. Only you can decide for yourself. I've had three serious girlfriends in my adult life. Two I don't talk…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:47 PM
3

We need to stop tolerating shitty behavior from women. She was over 30 minutes late, didn't even call/text to let you know, and still expects you to be available at her whim. Don't respond, erase her number, and go to the gym. The self-respect you show will pay dividends in the end with other women.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:16 PM
20

Fight Club is a novel/movie made in the 90s that touches on male disillusionment in modern society. Yes, it has a lot of "truth" in it, but it's still just a novel. Tyler Durden is not real. Shit, he's not even real in the novel/movie. He's the narrator's psychotic projection of himself (read: dissociative identity disorder). But if you want to be more like the character... Lift, read books that help you grow, fix your diet, stop doing stupid meaningless things that waste your time, have a sense…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:09 PM
3

You may never know the answer to your question. While I think TRP is generally true, life is complicated and everyone has their reasons and motivations, and even we don't always understand ourselves. Perhaps another guy is giving her attention? Perhaps she's just tired of you and she's really not that nice? Who knows? Learn as much as you can from it. Learn about yourself. Figure out what you want in life. Get into the weight room and get into great shape. Set some goals. Further your career. He…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:28 PM
2

I've been climbing for about 5 years. I'm getting pretty good too, just recently placed in the advanced category in a competition, climb 5.12 at the crag, trad, etc. Can confirm: Get into great shape and become an elite climber and you'll have zero trouble picking up a fit climbing chick.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:22 PM
5

This is not going to fix itself. She doesn't respect you, doesn't want you, and is looking for a way out. She'll keep acting shitty until you can't take it any more, you say something or become upset, and she'll dump you with "plausible deniability" because it'll be "your fault." Fuck that noise. Accept that this is over. She's acting like a bitch. Only one thing for you to do: Find your balls and dump her before she dumps you. Yeah, it'll suck, your body will go through withdrawals of oxytocin,…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:20 PM
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She's a wonderful person she was saying "I miss you, I miss you in my bed, I miss your D" to guys who would never commit to her and actively hitting up some social media randos with "your handsome and I want to know you" Does. Not. Compute.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:15 PM
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You're just asking for trouble. Don't flirt at work, especially with a married 45 yr old post-wall hag who is likely just looking for validation. Don't shit where you live. Go out and practice with girls at coffee shops, concerts, or Tinder.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 06:45 PM
2

Thanks, anonymous stranger on the internet... I'll consider your words and think about ways to apply them.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 04:40 PM
10

It's been a couple months for me. I gave up drinking. I stopped smoking weed. I cleaned up my diet. I cut out sugar and other crap. Working on cutting back from jerking off and giving up porn. I cleaned up my room and took a long inventory of my life. I've made goals: Goals for my fitness. Goals for my hobbies. Goals for reading. Goals for personal development. Goals for my finances. Goals for my career and my future. You get the point. I've centered myself and am learning a lot. I'm learning I …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 11:13 PM
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Realize the relationship is going to end sooner or later. "She doesn't belong to you, it's just your turn." Enjoy it while it lasts, and don't fear the reaper. Next... Stop worrying about this chick. Stop worrying about social media, texts, what she's doing, etc. because that's shit you can't control. Keep a diligent eye, next her if she gets out of line, but other than that... Stop worrying. Don't attach part of your ego/self-worth to being associated with this chick or her approval. Right? For…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:32 PM
3

Yup. And her behaviors show shitty boundaries with other men. What happens when she's out on a girls night and meets another man when she's had a few drinks? Does she add him on FB too and start talking to him? OP is giving her enough rope to hang herself, and she's doing a pretty good job of it. Before dumping her, OP should act the same way towards one of her girlfriends who seems interested, add her on FB, and start messaging her... Just to dread the shit out of her. And then dump her.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:56 PM
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Let me help you: Wasn't that interested before and now wants attention. Was definitely seeing other guy(s) and now they've dried up. Doesn't miss you, doesn't care about you as a person the way you'd want, and doesn't regret staying in touch. If you try to make plans with her, don't try too hard. Suggest a place close to your house at a time that is convenient for you, because there's about a 60% chance she'll flake. Meet her and try to escalate, don't worry about the outcome. When she ghosts/fl…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:46 PM
3

"you have to work hard for my number (or me)" Screw that Disney princess attitude. She sounds like a pain in the ass. Don't DM her on IG. You should told her, "Message me your number on IG when you get a clue." Then stopped talking to her. Bring a hotter chick into the bar next time. Cute waitresses get picked up all the time. They have the numbers game. So, unless your SMV is sky high, you're energy is best spent somewhere else.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:20 PM
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Who cares what she thinks? Stop worrying about it. I would have said something like, "Never heard back from you. I'm busy tonight, another time." We have to stop tolerating shitty behavior from chicks. Not communicating is shitty behavior that is enabled by thirsty betas.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:16 PM
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First of all, there is no such thing as an "alpha" or "beta." These are just shorthand phrases we use to describe a very masculine male (alpha) and emasculated and weak guys (betas). The truth is everyone--everyone--is a mix of both of these traits to varying extents, and even the most jacked guy in the gym can act like a "beta" weakling under the right circumstances if they aren't centered and able to hold frame. Choose friends that you enjoy. Avoid toxic people. Be around people who build you …
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:49 PM
1

No. She paid for it. She offered to pay for it. It's her deal. If you want to be nice, you could offer to reimburse her for the ticket, but it's whatever.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:31 PM
1

"We probably won’t be able to have sex." She obviously likes having sex with you. But who wants to have period sex with a plate? Just find another plate, and wait a week or more before seeing this chick again.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 06:24 PM
1

Call the airline and explain to them the situation. Sometimes customer service can do great things, perhaps even refunding the ticket (this is unlikely however). At least, the can cancel the ticket so this girl knows for sure it's over. Next, block this girl from everything. But... Keep all records of any time she tries to communicate with you. It's not okay for anyone to threaten or harass another person. If she someone contacts you again and threatens you, calmly respond that you're going to c…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 11:36 PM
3

Dude, your family sounds awful, which isn't your fault because you can't choose where you were born, but... You need to get your life together. Move out of the house (can you move on campus for a semester or two?). Cut/limit ties with this shit show. Don't get in trouble with the law. Finish school. Have a good/productive life.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 08:12 PM
1

Follow rules 1 & 2. Invite them over. Try not to be bored with their shitty personalities.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:44 AM
1

She is who she is. You can't change her or reason with her. You can't "fix her" from complaining non-stop about her life. And here's the truth: On a long enough time frame, you will become one of the many things she's complaining about to other people, if she isn't already. Put up with it for a while, tell her you don't care to hear about it anymore and watch her squeal like a petulant child, or dump her and find a chick that doesn't complain as much.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 08:48 PM
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OP dodged a bullet. He better not hook up with her again, or she might go "Oops, my birth control didn't work!" and try to hook him in. Also, if she comes back in a few weeks explaining she's 10 days late, OP better lawyer up and demand a paternity test.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:37 PM
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I really only play videogames and i don't do much, but i see nothing wrong with faking what i do. Dude, are you chasing your dreams and living the life you want? If not, you're doing it wrong. You should actually have interesting hobbies and be doing cool shit and that is what you should share with people. Don't just "hop on a surfboard" for some pictures. Actually learn to surf, if that's what you want to do. Or whatever interests you. Your life will be 1000x better because of it, trust me. May…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 05:16 PM
8

Realize that life is short and some day you're going to die and it will all be over. What's one big thing you want to do before you die? Write a book? Climb K2? Build a business? Only you can decide.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 04:56 PM
3

Ask yourself: Why does it matter to you that her FB status says you two are in a relationship? It's not going to make her stay with you one minute longer than she wants, not going to make her "love" you more, not going to make her fuck you more than she already does, nothing. Is it possible that you're deriving a sense of self-worth, ego, or happiness from being associated with this chick? If so... You need to center yourself and cut that shit out, because you're on a path to getting wrecked by …
/r/askTRP22/02/18 06:27 PM
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Hijacking the top comment. I think the people on this whole thread are acting like a bunch of women. Relationship statuses on FB mean fuck all as to day-to-day interactions. Personally, I keep that stuff off of my FB. Sure, to some women that's important, but not every chick is like that. Some women who want to post the relationship status and a bunch of pictures of you on social media is a sign of craziness and toxic insecurity that can make the relationship a living hell. To each their own. As…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 05:44 PM
1

It's called compassion. People who want to be understood also tend to want to understand others.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:51 AM
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Man, you sound a lot like me. I've come to understand that I have a deep need for connection, intimacy, to be understood, and appreciated. But let me tell you this: If you look to a woman to ultimately fulfill those needs, you're going to feel hurt and alone. Sure, some women some of the time will touch a nerve that meet that need. Maybe they're cute and excited about you at first. Or whatever. But what happens when they stop? It's painful and sad and will hurt you to your core. I just broke up …
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:20 PM
1

If i were to plot effort and affection over a time series then on this particular day it nose-dived to 50% of pre-committed levels. This was not just a reduction in the amount of sex and affection, but in general courtesy and behaviour. Did you date and marry my recent ex-GF? HA Sorry, brother. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 04:50 PM
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Chicks. They're just chasing feelings. Sometimes they want to date a "good guy" until they get bored, then they'll go out and get railed by a bad boy, then they do whatever... Don't overthink it. You were her latest stop on the CC and it's onto the next Chad. Some chicks just want to be fed constant validation and dicks.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 07:28 PM
1

It sounds like you see the LTR isn't working and you're only prolonging the agony... Plus, you're not pursuing your goals or getting the things that you want out of life. Read this: This relationship is going to end and probably soon. You can choose how you want it to end: Break up with her and retain the power, or wait until she keeps neglecting you (and maybe even fucking with your head) and you act out, then she breaks up with you and tries to make it seem like it's your fault. Chicks are not…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:37 PM
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It's never too late to change. Fix your diet, lift heavy weights, apply some self-respect and light dread game... And things will be going much better for you. Also, there's no such thing as an "alpha" or a "beta," we're all a mix of different dominant (masculine) and submissive (feminine) traits, and it's up to you to figure out your own path and make it work. Everyone's personality is different, some are louder and some say less words. Be the best version of yourself, be proud of who you are a…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:01 AM
3

You can't negotiate attraction.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:46 PM
1

First of all, you can always change your path. Always. Hell, I'm 34 years old. I woke up living in my friends basement, I'm in so-so shape, have a problem with drinking, ex-GF and I broke up two months ago, tens of thousands of dollars of student loans, dead end career, etc... You get the idea. But there's always hope for a future if you're willing to make different decisions and put in the work. Because that's what winners do. From your post I can tell you're very intelligent. You write well an…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:44 PM
7

POF should be called "Plenty of whales and single moms" Tinder is okay. Try raising your SMV, it'll help. Lose the weight or bulk up, figure it out. If you want to find decent chicks for an LTR, Tinder probably isn't the place you want to be.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:07 AM
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I just can't get over the fact how little self-respect I had and I can't forgive myself for this, also I have a feeling that she now thinks her cheating on me is 'okay' because I acted so beta. Learn from it, buddy. Work on yourself. Grow. Lift heavy weights. Set goals. Show self-respect.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:30 PM
1

It feels like living with a stranger who doesn‘t like you. Shit, man. As a guy who just got out of an LTR... I know the feeling. It's a total mind fuck and like you don't even know this person. Women almost seem like a different species sometimes. Be strong.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:37 PM
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I don't want to fuck up again, I kind of like this girl. First of all, you need to get that shit out of your head. You've had some good moments with this girl, and maybe you'll have a few more good moments, but eventually every relationship you have will come to an end (Read: She doesn't belong to you, it's just your turn). This is inevitable. Chicks, man. It's like they're just chasing feelings. And while they feel those feelings, life is good, and once they stop, they're onto the next dude. Ev…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:33 PM
1

Be kind, but not "nice." "Nice" is transactional (i.e. NiceguysTM think that a certain amount of niceness should earn them love and sex. It doesn't work like that). Balance out your kindness with boundaries. Don't let people take advantage or walk all over you.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:07 PM
1

It's simple: Stop texting this chick and fix yourself. The faster you accept that this relationship isn't working and move on, the better you will be.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 09:43 PM
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You are over-invested. The relationship has likely run its course. Of course you feel under-appreciated, she's losing interest in you. I've dated chicks like this (recent ex-LTR) and there is no winning. It sometimes feel like everything you do is wrong or not enough--but man, it's not you, it's them. You're spinning into beta status. Don't do it. Detach. Move on. This relationship is ending, but you can decide how it ends. Wait till she starts a bullshit fight and then breaks up with you? Or do…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:20 PM
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I feel like this post is describing my last relationship. I dated this fun and cute girl who loved to travel. She probably spends 1-2 months per year travelling. She literally will be buying tickets for her next trip before she even goes on the current one she's planning. And it's almost as if the planning and the possibility of travel and new experiences are her addiction--but she's just chasing feelings. When things are new and exciting and giving her those feelings, then things are at their b…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 05:48 PM
3

Right? You should only block exes if you're not emotionally able to handle it, feel the need to "chase" or contact them, constantly is checking up on them on social media, or they're toxic. Other than that, handle your shit and live an awesome life. So there's a couple pictures of me with a cute chick doing fun stuff? It only adds social proof, mixed with the other photos of me doing awesome things and living a great life.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:29 PM
8

Tease her a little and joke with her that she'll just have to buy the first drink.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:25 PM
3

LTRs are often good... Until they're not. And women are always testing. And it's often tough to find the answers you seek while you're in the middle of it. In a relationship, both people have emotional needs and most of our behaviors result in trying to get these needs met. Sometimes these needs are in competition with each other (e.g. she wants you to go to DR, you want to be independent and not go, etc.). But this is all superficial BS. At the end of the day, if a chick is still into you, she'…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:22 PM
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Don't worry about it, man. Women come and go, and some chicks will stick around longer than others. Some women will meet you on a first date, you'll go back to their place and fuck a bunch of times that night, then they won't want to hang out again or they'll ghost you. Don't worry about it. Women are largely emotional creatures and these behaviors are driven by their emotional needs and desires. Now, the whole "texting back too quickly" or not is just window dressing. You're missing the point: …
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:18 PM
4

I used to have bad acne as a teenager. First of all, don't pick or pop your zits... This will make them worse. Avoid touching your face or sleeping so your pillow touches yours face, and wash your pillow case regularly. This is going to be counter intuitive, but don't wash you face a bunch of times. Maybe just once per day, maybe twice if you're sweaty or working out. Washing too much will irritate and dry out your skin too much. I don't really use soaps, just an oil absorbing mask once per day …
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:06 PM
2

Right now, you need to focus on yourself and your future. Set goals and have a direction that you're heading. Any sex/women is just bonus right now.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:03 PM
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Do you have interesting hobbies? Have pictures of you doing that stuff. Don't make it look like you're trying too hard though. Just let it be.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 06:01 PM
0

Donny Osmond - I'll Make A Man Out of You (from the Mulan soundtrack)
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:01 PM
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Women can have a way of fucking with your head during breakups. Don't give much value to what they say in those moments. Keep moving on. Learn from this situation, but try not to dwell on it, if that makes sense?
/r/askTRP14/02/18 04:59 PM
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https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:28 PM
1

Google Mark Manson's "Fuck Yes or No" Why she came to your place under those pretenses... Who knows? Maybe she wanted the attention/validation? Either way, you don't want to hook up with a chick who isn't "fuck yes" about fucking you.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 10:04 PM
2

I agree with you. The more male friends (even beta AF) a woman has and keeps around, the less she's worth being in a LTR with. Because... What's her boundaries? She could pull some shit where she meets a dude she's interested in, and if you say anything, you lose. "Why is it okay for me to be friends with Beta Bobby but not Chad?" Mate guarding is beta AF. But if a girl likes you and respects you and wants to be with you, she'll make it easy on you and avoid orbiters. It's as simple as that. In …
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:58 PM
1

Read No More Mr. Nice Guy. Examine yourself. Figure out what flaws and limitations are affecting your behaviors and attitudes and are causing you to be a Nice Guy. This journey might take a long time and might require a lot of reading and soul-searching. Writing after self-reflection seems to help too (from what I've read it even re-wires your brain).
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:13 PM
3

The chicks I've dated with the best tasting/smelling/feeling vaginas have all been vegetarians that care about their health and the stuff they put into their bodies.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:02 PM
2

When women are into you, they'll make it easy and open the doors for you. All you have to do is walk through it. But once they decide to close a door, you just have to walk away. Don't chase this chick. But if you want it usually does hurt to reach out if you want to get laid... If the chick is into you.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 05:01 PM
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Well, why are you starting drama like a schoolgirl? If you felt a lack of gratitude, so what? Just never take her to anything again. You can't undo the concert that you already went to together. But drama is just pointless waste of time and energy. Erase her number and move on.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:51 AM
1

I've seen it multiple times. It's excellent, and highlights lots of issues that disproportionately men face. Some of those issues are brought up on TRP sub, but mostly they're discussed on MenRights sub. I definitely have some criticism of the MensRights subreddit (and movement as a whole), but I guess I also have criticism of some TRP ideas.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:49 AM
4

Right? It's like we get a good thing, then we start getting bored or nitpicking... And think something else will be better for us.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:45 AM
1

It's normal to have the feelings you are having. But, you have to move past it. So many women are sluts, or have had wild/slutty pasts. I think about my last LTR, and she seemed like such a sweet girl, but she likes to drink and has kissed a lot of guys, and has gone home with dudes from the bar. Just like the rest of us. And every chick will beg the next dude to cum inside of them, just like the rest. If it's your ex... Don't think about it. Ultimately, whatever number she gives you (if this du…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:24 AM
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I've had a ton of women beg me to go bareback and cum inside of them on the first Tinder date. Honestly, I've been lucky to not catch anything or get anyone pregnant, because there have been a lot over the years. Sometimes I've used condoms. It's very common. Even intelligent and "nice" girls like sex, and they like it just as naughty as the rest. Sometimes more, because they want to let the tiger out of the cage.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:20 AM
1

Hmmm. Interesting. I'm looking to switch careers and increase my income/wealth.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:19 PM
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It's a movie. Movies give us stories that inspire us and make us feel good, but often have little or zero reflection of the way the world actually works. So watch any movie with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:48 PM
1

Where my question comes into play is whether or not I should call her out for the blatant BS. No. Just move on, man. Accept the fact that she never was into you, and was just stringing you along for attention/validation until a guy she was actually interested in came along. Work on yourself. Raise your SMV, and slaying these chicks will be easier.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:43 PM
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Do you have an amazing life? Like, are you a world traveler, or rock climber, or have something that people want to see? And then have great pictures there? You need to have a sick Instagram and get lots (read: thousands) of followers. Then when cute girls follow you, you can dm them, and arrange a time to meet up. But unless you're killing it, any attempt of picking up women on IG is pretty beta.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:14 PM
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But she started saying things like, do you really like me? Are you going to see me again? Are you being serious? Will you be my boyfriend? Do you see other girls? Bro, she's crazy and insecure. You don't stick your dick in crazy. Just go home and jerk off.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:10 PM
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The relationship has likely ran its course. LTRs are good, until they're not, and when they go they often go fast. It doesn't matter to a chick if you've been together 2 years or 2 months. Once they decide to hit the eject button, it's done. She might already have a new guy she's interested. Or she might not. She might meet a new guy next week. Or she might not. All this stuff shouldn't concern you, it was just your turn and now that turn is ending. Best thing to do is to make peace with the rea…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:57 PM
1

What'd you do to increase your pay?
/r/askTRP09/02/18 04:40 PM
2

Avoid porn. It's no Bueno. But if you occasionally partake, use incognito mode on your phone. Then you never have to worry about it.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 12:26 AM
5

I forget how high school works, but in the adult world friends are formed around mutual interests. Do you do sports? In a club? Find people in those activities and make friends.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 11:57 PM
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Man, don't worry about it. You got some cool experiences, got some sex from a hot chick, and hopefully you've learned more about yourself and life. I wouldn't trade that for anything. I went to Hawaii with my ex two weeks ago. She paid for everything herself and I paid for me. Got to do some cool stuff: Whale watching, kayaking on the ocean, hiking in beautiful places, touched some waterfalls, rock climbing... And she already has a new dude and I have a date with some 20 yr old with big tits ton…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 11:54 PM
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Two children, working a part time minimum wage job, still single and now in her words a “ renowned and born again Christian looking for a good man to settle down with” If you are dumb enough to look on ChristianMingle, you'll quickly find that every woman on there is a single mom who "found Jesus." But they're just looking for a sucker to jump on the grenade and be their white knight in shining armor.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 10:55 PM
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LTRs are funny. They're good until they're not, and when they're not... They can be rancid and soul-sucking. Always be ready for the relationship to end and to walk away. Obligatory "She doesn't belong to you, it was just your turn."
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:51 PM
3

It's not what you do so much it's how you do it. You can talk to girls and be friendzoned or you can talk with girls and seduce them. Seduction follows this general formula: Initiate, generate interest/build rapport, isolate, and escalate. Sometimes we match on Tinder, have a few handsome photos, send a few messages where the chick sees you're not creepy or needy, and they invite you over for sex. Other times it's more complicated, you meet a girl at the gym, talk a few times, see her at the lib…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:43 PM
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Heartbreak sucks. Your body is going through withdrawals of oxytocin, which can be like breaking any other addiction. You've done the first step: Get rid of everything that triggers any emotions for you, or reminds you of her. You threw it away, which is good, if you weren't ready for that you could put it in a box and eventually chuck it if you want. You've done the second step too: Block her on social media. Don't unblock her. Don't check up on her. You can drive yourself crazy wondering, "Wha…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:35 PM
1

That's not too bad, if you use your degree to get a good career path.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:36 AM
2

Is she cute? Is the sex good? Just go and have fun. Avoid other "boyfriend" situations, and if she gets too clingy and tries to nail you down for an LTR, next her.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:50 AM
1

If they're not a real person, who the fuck are you banging? You might as well be at home jerking off if they're not real.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:48 AM
1

Try to get out of college with the least amount of debt as possible. When you're ready, buy as starter house. It's a good investment and you can turn it into a rental later, or sell it and move into a bigger house. Stay away from drugs and heavy alcohol use. It'll set you on a path you'll regret. Don't waste your time on chicks that aren't worth your commitment. Be willing to walk away from a bad relationship. Don't get randos pregnant. Wrap it up. Try to travel somewhere cool at least once per …
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:47 AM
1

Depending on the chick... Take her hiking, or invite her to your place to watch a movie, or just bang.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:29 PM
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Yes and no. Depends on how handsome you are and how much of a slut she is. If you're handsome enough, and just want sex, she'll probably help you out with that. But usually, we're all not 6'4 Chads, and so we play this game called "seduction." Develop attraction, build rapport, get the chick alone, and escalate. Rinse and repeat. The best sexual strategy is the one that gets you the results you want with the least amount of effort.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:28 PM
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Stop thinking about how beautiful she is. Stop putting her on a pedestal. Think about this: Show me a beautiful girl with a boyfriend, and I'll show you a guy who is probably getting tired of putting up with her BS and fucking her. Even really beautiful women fart, have morning breath, get athletes feet, etc. You need to keep working on yourself where you reach a point of total outcome independence. It shouldn't matter if she's interested in you or not. Your value isn't determined by her wanting…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:05 PM
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Read books. Even novels can be amazing and appreciated for their art. Every interesting person that I know reads books.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 09:49 PM
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She could just be emotionally volatile and prone to drama. Don't buy into a lie. She's not a unicorn, she's not "different than all the rest." There are some chicks that are better than most, but in the end AWALT. So don't believe you've found a "special one." Your own post contradicts itself. You'll say things like, "We get along really well," but then she is dramatic and demands a break. Those things don't go together. You're a few months in... Honeymoon is over and now you get to see things f…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:05 PM
2

And only once they realize things are bad for women do they actually want to change them. Never any empathy for when things are bad for men.
/r/MensRights07/02/18 07:20 PM
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She doesn't belong to you. It's just your turn. After 2-3 months in an LTR people start being themselves and you see the true nature of a chick. She sounds insecure, and even like the magic might be wearing off. Be warned: Often women will insist on sporadic "breaks" because there is an offer of dick on the table, and she wants a guilt free go at Chad. After he dude pumps-and-dumps her, she'll come back to you and let you know the "breaks over." I'm not saying this is 100% the case, but keep tha…
/r/askTRP07/02/18 07:08 PM
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Dude, you're describing my last relationship to a "t." I felt like I was bending over backwards to accommodate this chick, taking her out on dates, taking her climbing, planning trips, planning fun things... And over time it just felt like she was just showing up. And honestly, I was getting more sex spinning plates. Since being single I haven't really tried for chicks, still focusing on myself and getting into great shape. But I'll get back. First you get the power, then you get the women.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 05:46 PM
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Use protection, get tested regularly, but mostly things are good. https://markmanson.net/std-guide Full disclosure: I've bareback fucked too many chicks off Tinder/Bumble. It's a mix of poor decision making and drinking. I would suggest always having condoms to lower the chances of pregnancy or STDs. I wish I had used condoms, even though I've never tested positive for anything.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 05:41 PM
2

I'd expect less shit testing at first, because she's a friend of a friend. Just treat it like any other date.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:43 PM
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He's very RP. I've found his advise spot on, but put in a way that's acceptable to BP masses but still gives them the right advise. I don't think he's going to come across as radical RP because it would hurt his business. I imagine he makes a lot of money. He charges $1000 an hour for one-on-one coaching, and his YouTube videos get millions of views, plus his book... Even though he basically gives the same advice to every guy (the same stuff you'd get on TRP sidebar).
/r/askTRP06/02/18 07:37 PM
3

I think there are different sexual strategies. Some animals (and humans) have a lot of babies, invest very little in them, are shitty parents and that is their "strategy." It's a numbers game (think: poor trashy people at Walmart with 6 kids). Other animals, and people, are pickier about their partner. They want a partner who will stick around and help invest in the child until the child is mature enough on their own (think: wealthy married people with only one or two kids).
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:57 PM
1

I would agree if she was just another girlfriend. This is like my 12th relationship though so I can recognize that we have a special connection and she's someone worth keeping around, and we've been extremely happy together to show for it. Ugh oh.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 11:00 PM
2

Dude, she's just using you for attention/validation, but she has no interest in you. Your game will improve 1000x if you stop caring about the outcome with this or any other girl, and just be honest with what you want: "I'm on Tinder to actually meet up with women, and not to chat endlessly." And either she gets with the program or you move on. At least you won't waste your time.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 09:05 PM
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I'm going to speak to you from experience. I recently broke up with my last LTR, and probably shouldn't have gotten with her, because of her guy friends. You have to accept two facts: A beautiful woman is never going to lack from attention from other men. And mate guarding is beta AF and a sure way to kill attraction. So... Your only option is to only LTR chicks that show to you that they set good boundaries with other men (these boundaries should be along the lines of not texting them much, no …
/r/askTRP05/02/18 08:56 PM
1

Get an education without going into student loan debt. Otherwise, you'll spend years paying off debt. Learn to be good with money and find a decent job that pays well and you're interested in. Save your money. Put the work into your body now, rather than have to catch up and lose weight later in life. Don't waste years of your life binge drinking. Read lots of books and grow as a person. Travel. Set goals and achieve them. Have hobbies you enjoy, be realize your interests are likely to change ov…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:58 PM
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The fact that my boss is a reasonable person is what helped the situation. Plus, I've been with my company for over 12 years and she knows my character, and there were other people around during the incident. I didn't even get in trouble, she just talked to me.
/r/MensRights23/01/18 04:29 PM
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why is the world would you bother to compliment her hair It was a small compliment, just randomly, because she changed her hair so drastically. Personally, I'd like to live in a world where people show kindness and consideration, and giving non-sexualized compliments to coworkers fits just fine in that world. I've complimented lots of coworkers on their outfits, work, hair, etc, whatever, and it's never been an issue (and I've received a few compliments).
/r/MensRights22/01/18 09:40 PM
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I'm not sure. My boss is a fair woman, and made a comment that this employee had done similar things to other men at my company.
/r/MensRights22/01/18 08:59 PM
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I'm a pretty friendly guy. A few months ago, I noticed a women I worked with had dyed her hair red. I told her I noticed and that it looked nice (not at all in a suggestive way). There were even others in the room. It was just a nice compliment to an otherwise homely and pudgy girl. Well, a few weeks later my female boss sits me down and tells me that this employee wrote an email to HR. Saying I would "eye" her and I told her that her red hair looked "hot." This girl who complained is the same g…
/r/MensRights22/01/18 08:00 PM
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You shouldn't care about it. Maybe her dad died and she's having a shitty day? Maybe she hates her job and she's 3 months late in rent? Maybe she's hungover? Maybe the sight of your AlphaBodTM made her cream her panties and she couldn't look at you again without breaking into an uncontrollable orgasm? You're not the center of the universe. Every behavior of every person doesn't revolve around you. Stop caring, and move on with your day. Was the drink good? Stop caring about what everyone thinks …
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:53 PM
3

You should man-up, get a job, marry one of these noble single mothers and help support them. Trust me, it'll be perfect. /s Do what you want. If they're cute enough, you can pump and dump them or turn them into a plate. Just don't marry one.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:49 PM
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Right? Did you hear the recording of him in the hotel pressuring the woman to go back to his hotel room? Not okay. I hope this sub doesn't change to defending people who are guilty of actual wrongdoing simply because they're men. Sometimes I have that concern because I've seen similar things in feminist circles. In the twox sub some time back, I saw a post where a female teacher accused of molesting a teenage boy was cleared of charges (the boy lied). The post got a few hundred upvotes. And whil…
/r/MensRights22/01/18 06:33 PM
2

You have to decide: Is the benefit of the LTR more than what it's costing you. Personally, an hour of crying every time you hang out is petulant, child-like behavior. How old is this girl? You could try just laying it out there: "I don't do drama. If you're going to keep making up things to be dramatic about, this isn't going to work. You choose." Her crying for 90 minutes because she imagined you sleeping with another girl is BS drama (unless you're doing worse stuff than what you're describing…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 04:49 PM
3

I think I forgot about the dick measuring contest.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 11:40 PM
2

Next time I'll use my AlphaTM voice.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 11:11 PM
3

Or maybe I think club girls are vacuous and a waste of time?
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:10 PM
1

Just giving valuable advice. While TRP might be "amoral" in the sense that people can choose to live how they want, nobody likes hypocrites, and by extension, cheaters. A person cheating on their spouse is whatever (make your own judgement). A person cheating on their spouse and complaining about cheaters is an idiot.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:07 PM
1

I chuckled when I saw your top comment is, "On the bright side his cheating whore of a wife is dead." My advice isn't specifically about sexual strategy, it's more about hypocrisy and advice on how to live a good life.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:10 PM
7

I always thought "vagsplaining" was a good response to "mansplaining." I'm sure it would trigger at least a few of them.
/r/MensRights19/01/18 08:34 PM
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It's really ironic that we have a huge circlejerk on TRP whenever a girl cheats on her man: "Bro, she's a skank, NEXT HER!" And posts where the dude gives her the harshest next get celebrated with the most upvotes. And then we chant the mantra, "TRP is amoral. Don't tell me not to cheat if I want to cheat." Dude, if you want a bunch of random pussy, don't be in an LTR. If you feel like you need to cheat, don't be in an LTR. If you want commitment from a girl and want random hookups, have an open…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 07:33 PM
2

Your SMV and game is too low for Girl A. Keep improving. Your SMV and game is good enough for Girl B. And it's so good, not caring and being a dipshit is actually working to your favor... She sees you as having solid frame because you don't care about her. Oh, the irony of sex and romance.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:11 PM
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Unless you're 6'2 or taller, have been working on your body for years, and have impeccable fashion... Club girls are a waste of time. Stick to what works for you. What's so great about pulling club girls any way? You want a bunch of makeup on your pillow? Want to babysit tipsy, entitled trust-fund chicks?
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:09 PM
5

The first girl still watches all my snaps very closely but the second one seems to have stopped after like a week. A third girl I blocked from viewing my stuff but chat with her almost daily but she gets jealous easily. They're all around 18. Dude... This is information that you shouldn't know, shouldn't care about, and shouldn't even think about (and certainly shouldn't talk about on the internet). You are assigning way too much motive to each of these chick's behavior. For all you know, the gi…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:05 PM
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I was very disappointed at the interviewer. It was like she wasn't even listening to him at all. Peterson couldn't finish a thought without her jumping off her seat to be offended and accusing him of saying or implying things he never said: "So you're saying women should earn less than men?? So you're saying the gender pay gap doesn't exist?? So you're saying women should be more disagreeable??" And so it goes. I'm not sure why, but I get this same phenomenon often when talking about the overall…
/r/MensRights18/01/18 08:28 PM
2

Well, obviously you'd make the laws the same for everyone and apply them equally. But, there wouldn't be an equality of outcome because men and women are generally different.
/r/MensRights18/01/18 02:57 PM
2

I was referencing Karl Marx and his economic theory to explain how cultural Marxism works. Obviously Marx didn't apply his theory to cultures, and I apologize if I implied that as true.
/r/MensRights17/01/18 11:24 PM
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It's because of the predominant culture that discusses these issues: Third-wave feminism. Furthermore, it's because third wave feminism functions via a culturally Marxist worldview (and by extension, other social justice circles). Remember Karl Marx? He was a philosopher that had a theory--Marxism--whereby he basically divided society into two classes: The bourgeoisie (privileged class that controls the means of production), and the proletariat (the oppressed class which the bourgeoisie "exploit…
/r/MensRights17/01/18 08:17 PM
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I think it's really expensive and not really attracted by the mentality with all these guys checking their veins in the mirror. Dude, have you even been in a gym? Check out a variety of gyms in your areas. In my experience, each gym has their own culture. Some bigger gyms have gym bros like you're describing (and they're mostly not bad or douchy dudes, trust me). And gyms don't have to be expensive. I quit the corporate gym and found one near my house. I didn't even know it was there. It's $30/m…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:05 PM
1

Work out in the afternoon. You're paying thousands of dollars to get an education, you need to attend class and learn something useful, and get good grades.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 09:20 PM
5

It's probably a combination of a lot of things. I work with people with developmental disabilities, and overall I think there's too high of a diagnosis of people with ASD. I've had lots of clients who have been "diagnosed" as children after their single moms read a few symptoms on the internet and talked with a specialist that absolutely do not have autism. What we used to just call "weird" or "quirky" in the 80s/90s now comes accompanied with official diagnoses in the DSM-V. Also, I think it co…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 08:11 PM
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One thing I've realized about people in general: We often expect too much of others, while at the same time we often give too little of ourselves. This is true of friendships, coworkers, LTRs, and almost every other human interaction. She's not interested in walking and talking with you. Who cares? You said she's old, awkward, and unattractive. And also that you're her supervisor. There's literally no reason to have much personal interaction with her. Whether it's because she's uncomfortable aro…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 08:05 PM
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after writing a controversial op-ed in which she wondered if she was a “bad feminist” for questioning the tactics of the #MeToo movement What a society we live in... If you even question the narrative and don't get in line with the vitriolic feminist agenda, you'll be eaten alive. Prediction: The #MeToo movement will go too far, where what has always historically been understood as normal human interactions involving romance/sexuality will eventually be redefined as harassment and sexual miscond…
/r/MensRights15/01/18 05:45 PM
1

Stop texting her. Stop going out for dinner and drinks. Only talk with her about work. Find a new woman.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 04:36 PM
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I'm not sure. I eat pretty simple and cheap. I'll cook some chicken breasts on the traeger (yum!), and when I eat them I'll add some spicy salsa or hot sauce. I'll also roast veggies or just get them frozen. And I'll eat cheese. I don't like to cook a lot of complicated meals (too hard to track macros). I also to cook a really good steak. Look up videos by Gordon Ramsey on how to cook a good steak.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 01:58 AM
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7-8 lbs in a week is very possible if you're very overweight and doing a strict diet like keto. Likely, the first 3-4 lbs are water weight.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 10:16 PM
13

I've been in the middle of a cut. I'm down 11.4 lbs in the past month and starting to show some abs (thanks, meal prepping). Two weeks until my vacation. Also have become a voratious reader. I'm about to finish my 3rd book this year. I've been waking up at 6:30 AM and reading about 90 minutes before work each day. Saving a lot of money by not drinking and by prepping all my meals. Feels really good.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 10:15 PM
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Go to bed early. Don't use electronics in bed or before you sleep or if you wake up at night (charge yours cell phone in another room if you must). Have a good diet and exercise, but not too close to when you're supposed to sleep. You might have to teach yourself to go to sleep at a proper time. And when you're going to wake up, have a plan about what you're going to do... It helps if it's something you're really into or motivated to do (i.e. reading, working towards goals, school work, etc.). D…
/r/askTRP12/01/18 09:05 PM
3

Donny Osmond - I'll Make a Man Out of You from Disney's "Mulan"
/r/askTRP12/01/18 06:23 PM
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IMO, decent judgment call. The date was for 1 pm, if she knew she was going to be late (for whatever reason), she should have let you know before 1 pm if she could. Being "bad with directions" isn't an excuse to call at 1:15 to say she's late... Being stuck in a meeting, maybe. And then saying she's "15 minutes away" and still not being there for another 30 minutes? Forget that. 45 minutes late for a first date is BS. You did the right thing. "My time is valuable to me. 45 minutes late is not ok…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:24 PM
2

asking her what was wrong (even though I knew I shouldn't) It's okay to ask your LTR "what's wrong," depending on the situation and how you do it. If she seems genuinely troubled and just needs comfort, perfectly fine. If she's being bitchy, maintain frame, maybe say "You okay?" (which she'll likely say she's fine... Women do that when their being bitchy and they know it), and then maintain frame and ignore the bitchiness till they text you some dumb apology tomorrow. Other than losing your temp…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:44 PM
3

And are vegetarian but will eat sushi/fish. And they do yoga... One time two years ago they read a book about Buddha!
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:35 PM
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Don't forget they all need to "prove" that they're so unique and artistic. Haven't you seen their Instagram? They are a foodie and love to travel!
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:34 AM
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dont know how to say no and still be friends with her without seeming like a dick Just tell her "No thank you" when she asks you to hang out. If she keeps asking you to hang out, just tell her, "Hey, I noticed you've been asking me to hang out a lot lately. I just want to be clear, I'm only interested in being friends with you and nothing more." That's all that needs to be said, even if you text her back the next time she asks you to hang out.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:32 AM
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One of two things are likely happening: You're a highly valuable employee and the owner of the company you work for is an idiot putting people in positions they shouldn't be in. If this is the case, he's going to run the company into the ground and you should jump ship as fast as you can. Your post is an example of The Dunning-Kruger effect and you need to wake up. Either way, your two best solutions are to change yourself or change your job.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:28 AM
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I do intermittent fasting, but eat 8 am - 2 pm. I work out at night though.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 08:07 PM
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Heartbreak sucks. Your body is going through withdrawals of oxytocin, which can be like breaking any other addiction. You've done the first step: Get rid of everything that triggers any emotions for you, or reminds you of her. You threw it away, which is good, if you weren't ready for that you could put it in a box and eventually chuck it if you want. You've done the second step too: Block her on social media. Don't unblock her. Don't check up on her. You can drive yourself crazy wondering, "Wha…
/r/askTRP10/01/18 08:06 PM
2

Have fun on babysitting duty. What do you talk about with these chicks? How their spring semester is going? If a woman takes care of herself, 23-29 yrs old is fine, and often they don't act like vapid children. Too many of the girls I've hooked up with in that are younger than 21 are that way because they have daddy issues, or sometimes even were molested when they were teens by older men (I'm in my early 30s).
/r/askTRP10/01/18 06:38 PM
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I think that length of time is unrealistic, given women's sexual strategy. 3 months seems more reasonable (and typical time frame for women). Remember: Commitment is a fluid thing. You screen, if things look good and you want an LTR, you go for it, and keep screening. You can always next them just as fast. But 8 months of non-committed dates and sex is not realistic for a woman in out of college, in her prime, who has good SMV/RMV.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 05:43 PM
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I've lost 10 lbs in the last month (am on a cut for vacation in two weeks). I'm doing a very strict keto diet and using intermittent fasting. IF is one of the best ways to lower stubborn bf. On keto I'm not that hungry, even with an 18+ hour fast.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 04:39 PM
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Never commit to any chick that you haven't been casually fucking for at least 8 months. What half-way decent chick is going to fuck a guy for almost a year without some kind of commitment? Perhaps one with low self-esteem and no options? I don't think you can have it both ways. Have an abundance mentality, don't commit to an LTR at the drop of the hat just because she has a vagina and is wanting one, but honestly 8 months of casual sex without a LTR sounds like a woman full of dumb decisions to …
/r/askTRP10/01/18 04:37 PM
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She's a plate. Have fun, don't worry about the "spark" and do not LTR her.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 12:22 AM
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Do you have the feeling women with those looks are out of your league? Yes. Because I'm not famous, I'm not 6'5, and I don't have millions of dollars. But who the fuck cares? There are plenty of good looking women in my league. Stop worrying about things that don't matter. I never licked an A-list celebrities asshole. So what? There are 3.5 billion women in the world. If yes, how do you deal with it in a non-whiny and non-BP way? You only care about the things you can control. And you can't cont…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 05:08 PM
2

You mean having genuine self-esteem/confidence and having the perspective in life to focus on the things that matter, and let the dumb things fade into the background? It just takes a commitment to personal growth and life experience. Some people never get it, have shitty social skills, and worry about stupid things. Read books. Learn. Live life. Take care of any mental health problems you face (e.g. depression, whatever), and have a solid direction in life and know who you are as a person.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 04:56 PM
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Self-Management skills: Budgeting, cooking, keeping your living quarters in order, grooming and how to dress, etc. Employable skills: Ideally, something you're interested in or passionate about, and you can make a decent income. Hobby skills: Whatever you're interested in. You don't have to do MMA like every TRP says on here (honestly, how many fights do people get into in their life? Especially after the age of 30? But to each his own). I do rock climbing, other people like outdoors stuff, or a…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 04:53 PM
1

I think every subreddit goes through this crap. I joined TRP back when there were less than 40k users. It felt like the golden age... Most of the content was good. But as the sub grew, the content being posted daily became less and less valuable. Eventually, so many of the posts felt more like TRP parody than something constructive that actually benefits the sub: "Yo bro! I fucked two chicks this weekend so I'm Chad Thundercock and I am the biggest ALPHATM ! If a girl doesn't get your dick wet w…
/r/askTRP08/01/18 08:37 PM
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Set your Tinder to whatever age range you want. Swipe right. Don't be creepy, flirt a little, but usually don't mention sex until you're hanging out. Escalate. They're not much different than women you're age.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 05:49 PM
8

I lift about ~90 minutes 3 days/week, and climb at the climbing gym about 2-3 hours 3 days/week.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:42 PM
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Two words: Light dread. Hit the gym hard. Be the best version of yourself. Don't be so available. Be busy and don't answer her texts right away. Buy new underwear. Casually mention how the new intern at work seems like she's a bit friendly towards you. Plus, some chicks (especially young ones) want to ride the CC, and a stable healthy dude is too much for them. Enjoy the ride while it lasts, she doesn't belong to you, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 08:06 PM
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If women want to be paid overall the same as men, the should make the same decisions as men: Work less fulfilling jobs, work more dangerous jobs, work longer hours, move to less desirable places to work, have more stressful jobs, etc. Basically, give up part of your humanity to earn a paycheck. Die 5 years earlier while you're at it. And then get the joy of being dumped on by society by being told you're so "privileged" because being a construction worker/garbage man/coal miner/lumber jack earns…
/r/MensRights05/01/18 06:15 PM
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Don't mate guard or be too available. That's beta AF. Enjoy your life and have the best 3 weeks possible. Does she follow you on IG? Occasionally post something if she does that shows you're having a good time and increases your value. Answer her texts when she reaches out, but not too quickly (read: you should be busy). When you're back, organize a meetup. Don't worry, she's probably not getting married within the next 3 weeks. And date other chicks.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 05:22 PM
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my question is: is there anyway to salvage this relationship? Bro, your relationship will be fine, until it's not. It has less to do with the nature of this chick and more with the nature of people/women in general. LTRs are always good until they're not. Once they're not, it's whatever, and then you move on. She doesn't belong to you, it's just your turn. She's not your unicorn, some virtuous "flower" that you can cherish each other forever, it's not like the movies. She's just a human being, s…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 08:48 PM
1

Alcohol is a depressant. It can mess with your serotonin levels, especially if you've been drinking for several hours and are pretty drunk. And it doesn't matter if you've been a drinker for a few years. I've had it happen a few times in my adult life and it's embarrassing. Drink less. Drunk/blackout drunk is a no-no. You're just stealing happiness from tomorrow and hurting yourself in the long run. Slow down.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:07 PM
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Next time you hang out with a girl and hook up, you very specifically tell her when she's leaving: "Get ahold of me later this week." Then wait for her to contact you. When she's wondering about you, she'll contact you. When she contacts you, make a "date" (I don't know, invite her over to watch a movie? Have drinks? Whatever) and hook up again. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 11:42 PM
2

Don't. Shit. Where. You. Eat. Period.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:01 PM
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How do I deal with this ? Keep working on yourself, keep lifting, get some real confidence, and get better friends.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:39 PM
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It's probably a combination of living in a modern society with basically a caveman brain, plus possibly a mix of psychological and self-esteem issues (e.g. Stockholm syndrome, fear of their abusers, etc.).
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:38 PM
2

What is The Red Pill?
/r/askTRP02/01/18 08:49 PM
2

Dude, stop analyzing every little text. You're making it way too complicated. And stop texting her like a girl. When she's saying "You don't give me enough attention," stop negotiating with her. Simply say, "Awww, baby, when are you free? I'll come over and give you plenty of attention." AND MAKE A FUCKING DATE to hang out and have sex. That's all you need to do. Rinse and repeat. If she's just being bitchy and the LTR is going to shit, next her.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 07:21 PM
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Doesn't matter if she actually cheated (in the sense they had physical sex) or not. Her behavior is inappropriate inexcusable for a married woman. She's being sexual with another man. Period. And she tried to hide it and gaslight you... You're not being "paranoid." You saw smoke and checked, and yes, there's fire. You caught her red handed. If you stay with her, you'll never be able to trust her again, and she'll likely do it again. Get screen shots of the conversation and save them. They will h…
/r/askTRP02/01/18 07:15 PM
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how would i maintain attraction the best way during an LDR You don't. No firm commitment. Demote her to a plate, keep contact, and visit her for fun and sex if you want. LDR is a sucker's game.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 04:49 PM
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How long do you have left in university? Hang in there, it will get better. Focus on your goals right now: Taking care of yourself, getting through school, getting good grades and scoring a decent job. That is your main focus right now. Any sex/fun is bonus. After school gets over, life will get easier and easier. Less stress from not studying, you'll be able to afford a place to live, get some hobbies, make friends. Your friends will come from having similar interests and hobbies. What do you l…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 11:42 PM
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He’s 31!! If he hasn’t learnt now, will he ever?! Don't ever date or marry someone expecting them to change. You could have a serious heart to heart, and kindly (without nagging) tell him that financial responsibility is important to you in a future partner, and you could never marry someone who isn't a saver or responsible and lived within their means. A lot of being poor isn't how much you earn, but what you do with the money. School teachers don't make much, but if they're responsible they ca…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 10:00 PM
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Hard next. Don't respond at all when she reaches out. Work on yourself. When you're ready, approach other women.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 09:54 PM
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Well, the issue is you're in high school, so the advice you'll get from the guys on here is skewed. There's a good chance she might be a virgin, simply because of her age. As long as she hasn't done anything wrong (kissing another guy, being alone with another guy, etc), I'd say let it go. I imagine if she did something sexual at the party then word would get out? But I'd also set some boundaries. You might subtly bring up that you wouldn't ever "get serious" with a chick who gets drunk with oth…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 09:13 PM
3

All relationships end eventually, LTRs are no different. Always be proud of the decisions you make, self-respect first, and if she doesn't respect you, next her.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:31 AM
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Shitty GF alert. Next her, block her, and never talk to her again. This BS is hard-next material.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 10:48 PM
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Dude, keep on the path. It will get better. A little about me: I had horrible acne and a farmers tan almost all through high school, frizzy hair (didn't know how to take care of it), and glasses. My family was poor, and although I was smart and a decent person, I really didn't have a social life apart from church and the cross country team (which I didn't do senior year). I also played basketball, but at 5'7, I was 3rd string and almost never played. I went to a very conservative Christian colle…
/r/askTRP28/12/17 11:14 PM
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Right? And OP spelled "ex-friend" wrong. Edit: And if some random Chad got any girl I was seeing to cross the line (e.g. give him her number, agree to go out to drinks, kiss, etc.), I wouldn't be mad at the guy. I'm not friends or dating the dude, I'm dating the chick. I'd tip my hat to him and move on from the lousy woman. But a friend? Nah, you don't even try to mess with a friend's girl, unless you don't want to have friends any more.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 07:56 PM
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In the early 90s studies came out which cherry-picked statistics to show how girls are "disadvantaged" in schools (e.g. boys routinely outperform girls in math and science), but ignored places where girls were outperforming boys (e.g. by the time of high school graduation, girls are performing an average of 2 grades above boys in reading/writing). Anything to fit the narrative. And if you try to start any club or organization to help boys in places where they are underperforming, you'll likely g…
/r/MensRights28/12/17 05:12 PM
3

Oh... Rest easy, u/episodic, if there's a man doing something anywhere, it's likely already being criticized.
/r/MensRights28/12/17 05:08 PM
3

Just went through a breakup two weeks ago. First thing I did was buy a gym membership. It's 4 blocks from my house, $30/month, 24 hrs/365 days... You go down this alley and swipe your key card, and it's in an old warehouse where there's usually only 0-3 other people. I love it. It's my sanctuary. Two and a half weeks later, I've started to notice a visual change to my body: I'm down 7 lbs, muscles are forming, the future is looking brighter and brighter. Can't wait for 6 months down the road. I'…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:05 PM
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She's starting to push for an LTR. If you think she's LTR worthy, fine, if you don't, let her go. Letting her go easily will likely mean she'll be back off and on for a while, until she finds another dude.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 05:00 PM
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Follow rules 1 and 2. This is the most important thing. Right now, you might be an in-betweener, where your SMV is high enough to pull, but then they don't want a repeat performance. Fix that (lift, lower %bf, etc.). After the first encounter, clearly tell her before she leaves to call you. And then wait for her call. When she reaches out, schedule another get together where sex and fun can happen.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 04:53 PM
1

Screw other people's approval. I've found the harder you work for that stuff, the less you get any ways. Start with approving yourself. You don't need other people to approve you, because you approve you. Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy," "The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem" to start. Start affirming yourself. Stop trying to gauge where you fit in your social heirchy, because that's high school mentality and won't matter after college. Once you start liking yourself (you have a lot of negative self talk:…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:55 PM
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What's really disgusting is how she blatantly admits how the system can work for women: "I beat my child with a wooden spoon until she needed hospitalized. I got off free, because female. Everybody hates me right now, but in time I'll just take some cute pictures, play the victim card, and I think I can get custody of my child down the road ;) (and likely child support payments from the father)."
/r/MensRights27/12/17 06:47 PM
3

Years ago, after my last breakup before TRP, my self-esteem was really low. I read this book, and it was a huge help. Women like confidence, which I think is just another word for self-esteem. I haven't read it in a few years, but I might browse it again. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 06:37 PM
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Real friends are very hard to come by these days. Many friendships now are superficial and based largely on a mutual benefit from each other. It gets more difficult after college as well. Do you have any interesting hobbies that get you out and cause you to form friendships with other people? My hobby is rock climbing, and almost all the friends now are from the hobby. We climb together, have a few beers afterwards, and share our lives together. Find sometimes similar (doesn't have to be climbin…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 06:11 PM
2

Lawyers can make lots of money. That's lots of money to go places to surf and skate and stuff... Which you can do when you're not working. Also... I'm 34. When I was 22, I thought skateboarding was amazing and wanted that to be my life. And you know what now? I haven't touched a board in 10 years and I'm happy. I do other things: Rock climbing, camping, travelling, etc. My point: You're not going to be the same person forever. Don't throw away your future based on who you want to be now.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 11:51 PM
5

AWALT means just that: AWALT. One of the top posts on the main sub this last week answers this exact question, so look it up. And no, you can't keep a woman from cheating. All you can do is be smart about which women you date, and next them if they have shitty boundaries. Hint: You want a chick that doesn't text other dudes, doesn't feel the need to go out and club, doesn't put herself in those kind of situations... You know, boring church girls.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 11:48 PM
2

Man, it sounds like you need to get on a better path. Women often take energy and distract us from our mission. I'd say keep hitting the gym, set some goals and pursue them, figure out your path, and then think about chicks. Approaching will probably be harder for you sober, but you'll be a better man for it. And stop picking up chicks from your DUI classes... You need to learn what is a good LTR prospect and what is a bad one, so you don't get into this cycle again. Stay vigilant.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 11:45 PM
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We're grown ups. Most of the advice on this thread is shit. It's a break up, it's not a game. It sounds like the LTR really isn't working if you're going weeks and weeks without seeing each other? In the end, the reasons don't really matter. LTRs are good until they're not, and then it's time to hit the eject button. If you're putting in the work on yourself, your value can go up and up, even as you get older. Her value (which for women is based on youth and beauty) is only going to fade over ti…
/r/askTRP26/12/17 05:37 PM
3

Dude, you need to accept the fact that it's over. You two broke up for a reason. She doesn't belong to you, it was just your turn. Why'd you guys break up any ways? Your best bet, if you want to plate her or whatever, is when you have the "let's just be friends" talk, tell her you don't want to be friends, you want to date her. And then don't chase, don't beg, and move forward with your life. Work out. Be happy. Be healthy. Go on dates with other women. And eventually, she might reach out to you…
/r/askTRP22/12/17 05:23 PM
8

The chances are she's just using you for a free meal ticket. Never meet a Tinder girl for dinner, just drinks.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 05:18 PM
7

Depends on the girl. If she's down, it's whatever, as long as she wants to meet up later for the real thing.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 05:01 PM
7

Having ginger hair and recently having grown a ginger beard I have dirty blonde hair and a ginger beard... Let me tell you, you're fulfilling a niche market, which means some girls will love you, and others will be turned off. This is all to your advantage. You'll stop wasting time on the chicks who aren't interested and other women will be on easy mode. My advice: As with all compliments, just say "Thanks" and move forward with the conversation.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 05:19 PM
2

Say nothing. Obviously you weren't interested enough to actually want to hang out, so stop wasting your time with this chick.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:49 PM
2

You do what you want. Remember, so many of the guys come to this sub because they've had horrible experiences with women in the past, so their advice is likely to be skewed towards "scorched earth to all women who aren't currently fucking me!" Just as long as you're not chasing some chick who isn't into you, I think you're golden. You have abundance mentality, outcome independence, etc. so do what you want.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 04:48 PM
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I had a hardcore third-wave feminist acquaintance as a friend on FB once. I faintly remember her posting about how horrible pornography was because it objectifies and degrades women... And then months later, she posted about how wonderful pornography was because it was sex positive and women were able to make choices for themselves. Literally, women will be portrayed as victims whenever it is useful for furthering their cause, but also celebrated as being "free" and "empowered" when it also furt…
/r/MensRights19/12/17 09:25 PM
6

"What did you do when Trump came to power?" "I dressed up as a vagina and walked down the street."
/r/MensRights18/12/17 11:24 PM
0

Only hang out with her when the plan is to bang. See if she wants to come over, smoke weed, and have a threesome. I bet she'll love you. She'll probably will drive over with a six-pack just to hang out and fuck you. Some dudes just have all the "problems."
/r/askTRP15/12/17 07:35 PM
1

I met her off Tinder. She was pretty open about it. She said she wanted to explore get sexuality, but more specifically her bisexuality (but also wanted to see guys too). She lived in an apartment downtown. We met for drinks. This went well. She said her husband was home, but snuck me to the rooftop (it was summer). I didn't have a condom with me, so we went back to my car, then drove to a parking garage and fucked in my car. A few days later I came over and had sex in the apartment while the hu…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 03:14 PM
1

What do you want to know?
/r/askTRP15/12/17 05:52 AM
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After a few years on Tinder, I'll tell you... Most of them do, and it's fucking scary. Many of them act sad our pouty if you insist on a condom. But so many chicks are like, "You're in luck, I'm on an IUD!" I even had one woman who just started an open marriage, I was her first guy, wanted me to fuck her on top of the roof of her apartment raw.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 08:56 PM
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Then you just have to decide what you want. Break up with this chick and spin plates? See if this chick wants to have threesomes with you and other women? Etc. You can't always have your cake and eat it too. And the grass always seems greener on the other side of things... But sometimes the "other side" has a lot of manure.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 05:33 PM
3

Is the LTR going poorly? Eventually, you need to decide if this situation is working for you, and if it isn't... You need to next this girl. Some men try to plate their ex-GFs. A lot of men don't. Depending on the breakup (and usually, break ups suck and happen for a reason) I would advise against plating an ex. If you feel like she's the only one who wants to fuck/date/etc with you, it will kill you abundance mentality. When/if you break up... Take a little time to center yourself, heal up, mak…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 05:20 PM
2

I just broke up with my LTR. This girl was exactly as you described (maybe worse!). She had a lot of guy friends before we met and started dating, and would hang out with them one on one in public sometimes. I don't think she ever really hung out with them alone in private, although I can't guarantee that. Let me just say this: It's up to her to set good boundaries with other men. And if she wants the relationship to grow, it's up to her to show you that she has these healthy boundaries. You can…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:55 PM
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It's up to her to communicate to you that you are her Number 1 priority (as far as guys go), and to show you that she sets healthy boundaries with other dudes. But you can't ask her to do this, or to tell her she can't text this guy specifically. Mate guarding is beta AF and in that situation, you will lose. If she doesn't show you that you're a priority and that she's setting good boundaries with men, you need to next her.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:38 PM
5

Isn't it crazy how you find a hot girl, and all of a sudden you fuck everything up? Change you mentality: Right now, this girl is just practice. There will be no "happily ever after," every relationship with every chick you ever date will come to an end, either you'll break up, they'll ghost you after a date, you'll realize they're shitty leave them, they'll die, or you'll die. So... You might as well enjoy the moments while they come. You might want to check out Corey Wayne's youtube videos. Hi…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 11:11 PM
4

Yes and no. It's part of that, but so much more. Honestly, TRP is about accepting reality as it is, on it's own terms, and to stop lying to ourselves. Specifically, to know the truth about sexual strategy and then to make informed and empowered decisions with that information (what each person does is up to them). Now, about your self-improvement question. Self-improvement as a sexual strategy is one of the core TRP principles. Often the advice you hear when dating is, "Just be yourself." TRP te…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:13 PM
3

You can't take that stuff personally. People are inherently self-centered, so actually making plans with you on your birthday is unlikely. Usually, as an adult, if you want something to happen on your birthday you have to organize it yourself.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 04:58 PM
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she wanted to open things was because she felt like our emotional connection was lacking Lies. The reason she wanted to open things up is because she already had a dude she wanted to screw, but didn't want to deal with the guilt. We sat down and developed a game plan for her to get that emotional / mental connection she’s craving by doing more activates together but I needed her to end this relationship with this man, she agreed to the plan. The next day she called divorce and there was no talki…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:59 AM
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First, I wouldn't go to a restaurant for a first date off of an app, but too late to change that now. I always would go out for drinks. It's cheaper, takes less time (so you can leave shortly if it's not going well), and alcohol is a social lubricant. Don't just talk on the phone with this girl to talk, but to make plans to meet. Ideally you meet within a few days, so things don't go stale. Just have fun. Ask her about her interests. Make jokes. You can literally talk about anything: Common inte…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:52 AM
1

Yeah, they say that it can go away on it's own after a year or two.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:14 AM
1

Just out of curiosity, did you meet your current LTR from Tinder? Not exactly. We matched on Bumble, but I recognized her from the gym we both go to. We have a lot of mutual friends, so I knew a lot about her and she has decent character (read: good enough to LTR but not a unicorn). You can judge character, but if a chick is willing to bareback you, they're willing to bareback other dudes. I've had more than one girl tell me they tested positive for Chlamydia (I've tested negative each time). Yo…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 11:38 PM
9

I had been on Tinder for a few years before my current LTR. Let me tell you: The amount of women who claim to have an IUD and want you to go bareback (on the first date!) is high. They will let you cum inside of them, or all over their ass, or whatever. But you know what? It's a dumb idea. While I never had chlamydia or anything like that... HPV and HSV doesn't go away. And now that I'm in an LTR with a decent chick, and we both got tested before going bareback, I'm freaked out that I fucked too…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 11:05 PM
6

Just so you know... A MMF threesome is when the dudes are bi and playing with each other and the girl. And a MFM threesome are when two dudes are fucking a girl. FYI. And I'd say never do this with an LTR, and if she asks for it (or an open relationship), break up with her right away. Because 99% chance she already has a guy she wants to cheat on you with, and just doesn't want to feel guilty about it. As long as it's not your girl... Do whatever you want, I guess.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:58 PM
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I honestly think women can be worse in those situations, because they know that no bouncer is going to grab them by the throat for groping some guy, nor will anybody else care if they do ("He probably wants it!"), and their girlfriends will hoot and holler encouragement to them.
/r/MensRights07/12/17 10:45 PM
18

Well, that's because feminism is never about equality, but only about further advantaging women and only women. Example: I once googled "feminists against abortion," thinking that maybe a small percentage of them might view abortion as immoral because it was the killing of an innocent life. Nope. The websites I found argued against abortion because they viewed it as bad for women, without zero acknowledgement that there is another human life to account for in that decision. Now that's some next-…
/r/MensRights07/12/17 08:35 PM
4

Dude, you can't live your life for someone else. You should only live your life for you. Someone else's happiness is not a reason to stay in a relationship or even to start an LTR... And breakups are a part of life and dating. Also, there's no such thing as a "good girl." Just ones that are better than others for LTRs, but they've all hooked up with more men that you would probably guess. Here's your Redpilling: Get on Tinder, match with some nice lawyers, PAs, nurses, nannies, etc. or other "go…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:25 PM
51

When it comes to pregnancy/abortion, it's "Our bodies, our choice," but once the baby is born it's, "My baby, your money." Kind of messed up.
/r/MensRights07/12/17 06:23 PM
1

I only do dates if I'm interested in LTRing a chick. Plates? Getting a drink and sex.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:27 PM
3

Right? Most escorts in the states are out of shape, strung out on drugs, and overpriced. It's much more cost effective and fulfilling to find a young and hot girl who wants to fuck you for free.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:14 PM
2

Stop being needy. Give her time to miss you. Go out and do interesting things. Work out and be the best version of yourself. Let her text you first at least 2/3 of the time, and use those times to arrange dates. Your interest should match hers. If she starts showing a lack of interest, do nothing, and eventually she'll come around and then you arrange a time for dates/sex. She sounds like she's clinically depressed, so hopefully she gets help. Don't be afraid for the relationship to end.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:12 PM
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It's wildly popular these days. And I'm guessing it's a combination of pornography usage and BP conditioning. Men's porn-soaked brains are conditioning themselves to find pleasure in watching other men fuck the women they desire.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:09 PM
1

It does kinda make it sound like a competition Because feminism is steeped in cultural Marxism, so much of how it operates is as a competition as to who has it worse (i.e. the "oppression" Olympics). That's why any mention of men's issues is often interpreted as "guilting" or "silencing" women. I mean, it's not like both sexes face issues, and we can look at these incredibly complex problems and try to solve issues that both men and women face, right? /s
/r/MensRights06/12/17 04:56 PM
20

Go back to not noticing her in class.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 12:18 AM
5

Today I said I wanted to talk and tomorrow we will No! As men we're goal oriented and feel like we need to "make things happen." Talking and being a girl's friend will never make her attracted to you and almost always has the opposite effect. She say she wants to stay friends, in other words orbit me. Dude, you have that backwards. She wants to use you for attention and validation and you get nothing in return. You're her orbiter. When you want to make a girl a plate, or LTR some chick, and she …
/r/askTRP05/12/17 11:50 PM
1

They talked about me? They want to stalk my profile? Maybe. Or maybe she thinks you're cute and is interested in you. Either way... Don't rack your brains out over this.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 11:18 PM
3

It's not a cologne. It's you. Raise your SMV, have a healthy diet, and women will tell you how much they love the smell of your sweat.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 12:23 AM
4

Isn't it funny how when our hearts get involved we just do the opposite of everything that made us successful? Right now just view women as practice. From each one, you'll learn a little more. Some day, a woman worth your time will come along and maybe you'll be ready. You should check out the book "The 3% Man," which is very Redpill and has excellent advice. Also, the author has a lot of videos which are also good, but they all boil down to one principle: Don't chase a girl. Make sure she's pur…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 12:23 AM
1

I trim mine at a 7 or 9 everywhere else, but go down to 4 or 5 on my mustache. Don't press too hard on your cheeks, but you can press hard when trimming your jawline.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:32 PM
1

You want your beard to be thick, but well-groomed. Your jaw line will look much better when you build some muscle.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:26 PM
3

Your plan: Lift. Fix your diet (need to build muscle). Grow a beard (speaking from experience... A lot of women love ginger beards, so you fulfilling a niche market). Shave your head because your hair is visibly thinning so it'll look better to just let it go. Then dress slightly better, have some confidence, and you'll be able to bang new chicks every week. But it'll take a few months of hard work. And yes, you can bang chicks in their early 20s. Not too late, but you need to work for it.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:24 PM
1

If you're doing everything else right, asking a chick, "When are you free?" isn't bad. But if you ask multiple times and she doesn't give you any times when she's free, she's obviously not interested and might be just using you for attention/validation (which she shouldn't get if she's really not interested in you).
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:29 PM
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She's probably being a little paranoid, and he most likely is trying to be friendly but doesn't understand it's not appropriate to FB "stalk" someone with which you're not friends or never had a conversation. Tell her to block him, and if he tries to contact her again, you tell him straight that she didn't give him her name, and it's inappropriate to contact her without her permission. That's usually enough to scare most creepers away. Document everything. If anything weird happens, contact the …
/r/askTRP04/12/17 10:27 PM
3

It means always understanding that there are more women in the world. If a situation turns bad with a girl I'm dating, I'll just move on. Too many people don't want to give up on a bad LTR (read: the sunken cost fallacy), but life is short and if a relationship is not going well, you should just end it. Also, if a plate is being difficult or bitchy, just next the girl. You don't need to bend over backwards for sex/affection. Always be able to walk away. Don't give some girl your balls. Also, too…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 08:52 PM
6

"And after that?" "We do whatever we want to do." Then text her your phone number, don't ask, and see if she texts you. Then arrange a time when you're both free to hang out.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 07:06 PM
2

Yeah, just stay friends on social media, respond if she texts you, but don't constantly text her. Then when you're in her area, initiate and see if she wants to get together.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:20 PM
2

You can have a girl come over or go over to her place and hook up on the first date. Just match with a girl, flirt, exchange numbers, and see how she responds. If she responds positively, then you can try escalating via text (Protip: Don't send dick pics, but perhaps a pic after you get out of the shower. Use an Instagram filter and blur a little bit for maximum effect). Some women will shut you down, others will invite you over for a booty call. Some chicks will invite you over to their house p…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:54 PM
3

Recently my girlfriend flat out told me that she can do better than me easily if she wanted to "optimize" but that I most likely got the best girl I could ever hope for She said that to you? What a horrible thing to say. This relationship isn't going to last very long, and you should probably be the one to end it. Find a girl who appreciates you.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:47 PM
1

Don't stick your dick in crazy. This girl is not worth it. Find a different woman.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:44 PM
10

This is a toxic relationship with lying, cheating, and intimate partner violence. You need to cut this girl out of your life and move on. Then heal up so you don't have anger issues when you try to spin plates or whatever.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:42 PM
3

"Thanks."
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:24 PM
3

Pretend it never happened. You're fine. But be careful to not send mixed signals next time.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:24 PM
2

Yeah, brother. I can relate. My ex before TRP was cute and had a great body... And she branch-swung to some other dude. It hurt like heck for a long time. Heartache can be the worst pain, and can even affect your rational thought. Reading does seem to help... I felt really emasculated after my breakup, so I read a lot of books on that stuff. I also went hiking a lot and started rock climbing. Find stuff you are interested in or need to improve on and study that stuff.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:33 PM
3

You had feelings for a hot girl, she cheated, and then you got a massive redpilling that women aren't the innocent and noble creatures that society makes them out to be. Welcome to the club. As far as this chick goes... She has shown she's not worth your commitment or even attention. Cut her out of your life completely. Block on social media. Block her number. Don't talk to her again. Stop thinking about her. She's young and has a hot body. But so what? Once your feelings dissipate, you'll have …
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:14 PM
1

Well, I think cheating is shitty and I don't like drama, so I say no and find a single girl, but that's just me. Also, some slutty chick cheating with you doesn't make you "alpha" or "Chad," some women just are shit when it comes to decision making and it's your turn.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:40 PM
3

Fuck, the level of insecurity in this thread is crazy... Just because she wants to go out with her married lady friends doesn't mean she's going to get railed in the bathroom by some dude. Most of the guys on TRP just spin plates, so the advice you'll likely get from them is shit. If a girl wants to cheat, she'll find a way. Nothing you can do about it. Overall, /u/master_beta89's advice is very good. You said she doesn't go out and party almost ever, so that's good. Has she ever given you a rea…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 10:39 PM
7

I feel like too many men's priorities are way off. They make women their top priority, or the things they do are simply to attract women, etc. Really, women shouldn't be in your top 3 priorities. Or even top 5. Your life should be about you. Taking women off the table... What are your dreams? Goals? What are your hobbies and interests? Do the things that make you happy, healthy, and successful. Chase your passions and don't wait for some girl to come along. Life weights, have a good diet, read, …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 05:10 PM
3

ITT: Go no contact. Block her on all social media. Don't go to places where you know she frequents. Then approach other women and have sex with them.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:23 PM
1

So you caught your unicorn, eh buddy?
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:22 PM
1

I always schedule dates close to where the girl lives. Usually at a nice brewery or pub I like. If it's a first date, and a girl has options, you want to make it as easy as possible. You can hook up at the girl's place, no?
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:21 PM
3

"/u/Chevellephreak, you've been found guilty of 'problematic thoughts.' Please report to the Ministry of TruthTM for reprogramming."
/r/MensRights28/11/17 10:59 PM
3

Good bot.
/r/MensRights28/11/17 09:55 PM
7

If you want to be in an LTR and don't want your girl to find out you cheated on her... Then don't cheat on her in the first place.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:07 PM
8

3 strikes? I can count three from the story. She sounds like a crazy, petulant child.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:06 PM
7

Just getting a job is no reason to break up with a girl. A girl having shitty boundaries with other men is a reason to drop her. Here's the truth: Any girl you date could cheat any time they want, and likely you wouldn't know about it. There are always male coworkers, no matter the job, and random men who are friendly, and old HS friends, and men at college, etc. It's up to her to set good boundaries with other men, and to show it to you every day. Does she start texting her new male coworkers? …
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:12 PM
4

I'd say most of all: Be understanding of his situation and support him for wanting to improve his life. If I had a dollar for every post (not necessarily on this sub) where the woman says, "My boyfriend/fiancé is working and now going back to school too, I'm just so sad that he spends a little less time with me" I'd have a lot of dollars.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 07:27 PM
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Hey man. Glad you're here. Sounds like you need a complete overhaul. You're working out and see a psychologist (counselor?), that's good. Your height is good, dick length isn't horrible (at least you don't have a micropenis), so don't worry about that. Only control the things you can control. Lift weights. Fix your diet. Then, consider fixing your wardrobe? While you're doing that, set some goals in life. Read "No More Mr. Niceguy," "The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem," and other books to grow in pl…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:21 PM
13

Is there a tasteful way (not obvious and desperate) way of making sure the other girl knows? No. There's not. In a soft next, you don't reach out until they contact you. It could take a day, or a few days.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:38 AM
3

You're in high school. This girl is in high school. It's just high school BS drama. Ignore social media. Arrange times where you can hang out with girls you're attracted to privately. Try to escalate. You'll get rejected sometimes and make mistakes. Learn from them. Don't get any chick pregnant. Ignore the drama. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 07:56 PM
3

There's nothing wrong with being in an LTR, even though most guys on this sub enjoy spinning plates. "Oneitis" is when you're so emotionally invested in a girl that you can't see the forest from the trees, and no longer think objectively about the girl (which often leads to beta behavior). The best LTRs are usually when the woman loves/adores the man, and the man likes the girl, but isn't as emotionally invested. This allows the man to maintain a strong frame and be a good leader. Don't shit whe…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 08:14 PM
3

First of all... You need to accept that this relationship is over. It could be over in a day, a week, etc. But looking at your post history, it's obvious you're in a very bad situation. Your GF doesn't sleep with you, you've "opened" the relationship thinking that will fix things (giving her a free pass to fuck other dudes and not you), and she's blatantly disrespectful. It's time for you to grow some balls, man. Get into the gym. Change your diet. Stop caring about what she thinks, because it's…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:48 PM
2

Are you good company? (i.e. interesting to talk to and to have around, the kind of person a guy would want to take out and do things with, etc.). Do you have interesting hobbies that a guy would do with you and puts you around men? I met my current GF through rock climbing: I'd take her outside and we'd climb some stuff. I wasn't trying to date her at all. But she just had too many good qualities to ignore. She'd always be positive, was fun to talk to and joke around with, etc. After a few month…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 12:37 AM
3

Meh. It could all end today, and besides having to find some other place to enjoy Thanksgiving, I'd be fine.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 11:07 PM
9

Yeah, if you read her comments she says they've been together 20 years. Having children together and still having sex a few times per week (with her initiating at least once per week) is decent for a marriage that has lasted that long.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:55 PM
2

Because at this point she does add a lot to my life. I have dinner at her house (she lives with her family) and enjoy it. We travel together, and go rock climbing, and other things I enjoy. The sex is good, and I wouldn't mind her sticking around longer than a plate. I like doing the other stuff too: Thanksgiving, my birthday, Halloween, etc. She funny and good company too. So it doesn't surprise me that other men notice her and try for her attention. So far, though, there's no red flags that I'…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:50 PM
2

I'm not too worried right now, because in my mind we're "just having fun" and I'm not too invested. As long as you're always able to walk away, you have nothing to fear.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 05:23 PM
4

She's your ex. You don't owe her anything. Don't respond to any messages, regardless of whether it's your birthday or not. You're free. Enjoy being single and focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 05:12 PM
4

Honestly, because life is more complicated than TRP model makes it out to be. While I think TRP is generally true and a good rule of thumb to follow, people are very complex, with a variety of motivations and ideas and worldviews. Why do some people have weird fetishes and behaviors? Why do some men go for obese women? Why are some people into S&M and the like? Etc. Many of these women follow TRP model: They rode the CC, Chad never committed because he was getting too much action and saw that ma…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 08:43 PM
5

"what's the big deal, you followed some random nobody in his underwear __ months ago" No. This will come across as mate guarding and beta AF. Stop checking your LTR's follow list and focus on yourself. Every woman in an LTR always has enough rope to hang themselves, you just don't want them to know that you know this. Ignore the petty BS, and if you see any major red flags (i.e. being secretive with her phone, etc.) next her. Following some random dude is not the same at DMing him, which is not …
/r/askTRP21/11/17 07:15 PM
-1

Even though TRP is amoral, I hold the personal belief that cheating is the worst thing a person could do in a relationship/marriage, regardless of their gender. With that said, you have to acknowledge one thing: Men and women are different. There's a reason it is viewed as worse for a man to hit a woman than the other way around. Men are physically stronger, so when a man hits a woman, it's likely to cause worse damage. Of course, it's shitty for anybody to hit anybody, regardless of their gende…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:38 PM
1

Thanks, Heidi. Is my stupidity a subtle form of misogyny?
/r/MensRights21/11/17 02:48 PM
1

Hang out alone with her. Maybe you're watching a movie or something? Sit close to her... Maybe your legs or knees are touching, who cares. Let the tension build. You can reach over and lightly touch her knee, leg, or hand. See how she responds. If she responds positively, look at her, lean in a little and tell her, "Come here." She'll other kiss you or she won't, but you have to not care about the outcome. Then go from there. Make out. Kiss her neck. Touch her breasts. Suck on the breasts. Go wi…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:13 AM
6

If your girl is even remotely attractive and social, this is very hard to prevent Yup. I'm in an LTR with a girl, and I'm not dumb... I see her phone notifications. It's insane because the screen is full from snapchat, texts, etc. She says that someday she wants to get married and have a couple kids, but that's not going to happen because I've seen too much. Right now, we're just having fun, I'm not too emotionally invested, and I have no intentions of getting serious or marrying this girl.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 11:16 PM
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We'd need more information to figure out the real problem. How often do you lift? Other workouts? How many sets/reps? Are you giving muscle groups days to rest? What sort of progress have your made in 5 months (i.e. weight gain, change in %bf, etc.). What's your diet like? Taking a few extra days off isn't going to hurt you, and sometimes it's even good to give your body a longer recovery period. Especially if you keep your diet strict.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:54 PM
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She's an ex girlfriend with a new boyfriend. She's probably just searching for emotional comfort from you while her BF wasn't texting her back (read: light dread). Best to completely ignore.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 06:35 PM
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Right? Someone who flaunts themselves in public still can be harassed. And the picture Franken had taken (without her consent and while she was asleep) was in horrible taste, especially as a US politician. I don't even understand why this post is on this sub? Are we just becoming a male parody of the feminists we love to hate? Any time a man is accused of impropriety, do we rush to his defense simply because he is a man? Feminism is becoming a movement where the measuring stick of what is right …
/r/MensRights20/11/17 06:17 PM
5

Well, you could go back to your BP fantasy where it's your job to "make your GF happy" while she's never happy... Or you could keep improving, she'll figure it out eventually, (read: she likely won't) and you'll break up with her. She just finished college, is living at home, no direction, and is drinking to cope? The ghost of Christmas future is knocking, he says your girlfriend is going to put on 40-60 lbs over the next five years, continue to remain unhappy, will nag you to buy a ring thinkin…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 06:11 PM
2

I say do it for the amusement.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 05:25 PM
381

Remember: Doesn't matter what happens, according to feminism women are always the victims, men are always the to blame. Remember this Hillary Clinton gem? "Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat." It's like men aren't even human beings. Anything to fuel the narrative.
/r/MensRights20/11/17 05:25 PM
3

You go for the one that is attractive enough that you'd want to hook up with her and shows the most interest. Don't waste your time on a chick that it "takes a lot of effort" just to talk to her. Asking the hotter girl for her friend's number could end up being a laugher though. She might actually want to gain your interest if you show interest in her "ugly" friend. Girls are weird like that. In fact go for the lesser attractive girl and never show interest in the hotter one, it'll drive her cra…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 05:14 PM
1

You want it to feel as organic as possible, and not at all rushed. Every chick is a little different. Some will flirt and sext right away, and you could get a booty call that night. Other women are spontaneous and will meet for drinks pretty quick. Others are busy and want to see if you're a weirdo/pushy. Just be confident, be fun, don't be creepy and it all sorts itself out eventually. Abundance mentality is key. Every day there are new chicks with which you'll match. And strike when the iron i…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 12:20 AM
1

I meet women anywhere from a couple hours, to a week or two after matching. If you're matching each day, it's not hard to have 3-4 meetups per week, or less if you're spinning plates.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 07:09 PM
6

The only reason women are able to be doctors, teachers, social workers, etc. and not at home primarily raising children is because of all the wealth, time-saving technology, and other advances created almost exclusively by men (and consequently, women are benefited greatly by masculinity). Feminism might have pushed for a woman’s right to enter these professions, (which is a good thing, everyone should have a right to self-determination) but the possibility would have never existed without men b…
/r/MensRights15/11/17 12:17 AM
1

Why don't you both try to solve this problem together? He throws his clothes in the hamster, which is good. Put a friendly sign in an obviously place on the hamster that says, "Remember to empty your pockets :)", so he can be reminded to try to do it (without you nagging!). Then post another sign for you by the washer: "Remember to check the pockets :)" That way, you both are trying to solve the problem? Just a thought.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 11:36 PM
1

You have her phone number or contact information? Just tell her you're back in town. See how she responds. If it's favorably, invite her out for drinks. Sending a message requires zero effort, and with this chick you're just playing with house money and have nothing to lose. If she's single and the flirting/interest was high before, there's a chance she'll want to see you. If she shows low interest, move on.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:38 PM
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Oh, the delicious irony... All these people attending this lecture are going to drive cars that were designed and built and maintained by men, filled with gas that was delivered by men, driving on roads that were built and maintained by men, to a building built and maintained by men, where they will be kept safe by men who will risk their lives if something goes wrong, in a free country that was built historically upon men willing to sacrifice, risk their lives, and willingly make themselves dis…
/r/MensRights14/11/17 07:03 PM
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Right? It's almost like the person who wrote the email believes that men are human beings too, deserving of compassion and understanding, as well as awareness of issues they commonly face... Hmmm...
/r/MensRights14/11/17 05:52 PM
7

You suggested a meetup. She gave you a vague and noncommittal answer. Soft next and approach other women. Do not open her snapchats. Repeat: Do not open any of her snapchats. When/if she reaches out again, be chill and suggest another meetup. But... Be more specific than "ask to take her out this week." Sometime more like, "I was going to check out this new pub/bar/whatever on Thursday, you should come with me." If she gives you a vague answer, soft next again.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 05:28 PM
3

Nobody is a subhuman male, so you need to change your self-perception. And if you gain a little confidence, work on yourself (honest work), women will show interest in you.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:41 PM
4

You're coming off as too thirsty which is a sure way to turn women off. Seduction needs to seem more natural/"mysterious." I'd suggest removing the shirtless pic, especially if it's a mirror selfie. I might leave it if you're on a tropical beach during a beautiful sunset. Instead, find clothes that suggest you're jacked, but without trying too hard. Also, keep your bio brief (Mine used to say something like, "Adventures. Indie Music. IPAs."). When I match with women I simply will say something f…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:40 PM
7

I don't understand how can men go for a girl who lacks beauty AND act like this, can someone explain Because some men have no self-respect and are thirsty AF. They would literally fuck a pile of cow manure if it opened their legs for them, even if that pile of cow shit insulted them all day. That's how far society has come. Also, either amuse yourself with her occasional post, or block her and just enjoy life (myself, I enjoy the occasional train wreck to laugh at).
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:24 PM
3

Start lifting right now. Building muscles will increase your metabolism and help you burn the fat. Change your diet: Are you eating a bunch of sugar and beer and shit? Cut that stuff out. Beer goes right to your belly. SOda makes you fat. Eat a healthy diet of whole foods (e.g. meat and veggies, maybe some brown rice). Figure out your macros (the fitness subreddit can help with that), get a food scale and weigh everything. Prep your food in advance. MyFitnessPal is a good way to log and keep tra…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:21 PM
8

The only thing we know for sure: Don't ever get in an LTR with this chick. Her boundaries with other men are shit. She might be using you for validation. She might be DTF. Who knows? It's your time, use it the way you want to use it.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 09:17 PM
0

I've been considering switching to a more plant based diet, mostly because so much of the meat produced in the US is very unhealthy and poor quality. They're animals that are raised living on a pile of their own shit, and pumped full of antibiotics so they don't die too early, and given an unnatural diet to grow faster. If you watch videos of the production lines when they're butchered, often as soon as their skin is nicked, puss comes out. If we hunted an animal and found its insides looking li…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 04:58 PM
0

I don't play video games because they bore me and are a waste of time. I'd rather be outside climbing, hiking, or doing things that are fulfilling. Or traveling with my gf. To each their own.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:57 PM
6

Will she still view me as that same loser guy she worked with? Yes. She will. I wouldn't communicate much with her. If you want to amuse yourself, you could try asking her to grab a drink and then escalating, although there's a 99% chance it will go poorly and you'll be rejected. But YOLO, right?
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:56 PM
2

Don't send her a friend request. Go back and talk to her. "Casually" ask her about herself (e.g. "You going to school?"), and when you "discover" that she lives in the same area and goes to the same college, suggest a meetup.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 07:19 PM
1

If your parents are emotionally unwell and consequently abusive, you need to distance yourself from them. Move out, set healthy boundaries with them, and if you think it's done some damage (it has), find a solid, good male counselor to talk with for a while. You are an adult. You are legally a free person, you need to start living as such and to sort out your life.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 07:17 PM
7

This why intersectional feminism (and other culturally Marxist worldviews) are cancer: They must create victims for the worldview to function. And the closer women get to "equality," the more crazy and outlandish ideas they need to have to "prove" their victimhood (e.g. air conditioning is sexist, manspreading, etc.).
/r/MensRights10/11/17 10:14 PM
6

Mate guarding is beta AF. But if you're in a LTR, it's up to her to set decent boundaries with other men, including your friends and family. If a woman has shitty boundaries, it's not worth being in an LTR with her... Because eventually biology will take over. What you really want is the kind of girl who isn't going to put herself in that situation. And as far as your friends and stuff... They shouldn't be trying to hang out with your GF alone. I mean, why? If they want to hang out with you and …
/r/askTRP10/11/17 05:19 PM
2

Nobody is lying about "wanting to 'get married at 25.'" Women are attracted to mystery. If you stay purposefully vague with your intentions with a chick, it will often increase her attraction to you. You're not lying, you're being ambiguous with your intentions. It's much more powerful than saying, "I'm never getting married." Look, when I meet girls off of Tinder, and they ask what I'm looking for, I say the same thing: "I'm open to whatever." It works like a charm. The chicks that ultimately w…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:25 PM
12

Your best bet is to own it and break up with her. You said you're having problems, you've already soft-nexted her, she's snooping around your messages... You even said she's not good enough. Your problem? You lack an abundance mentality: "and I would go with something better if it came around." Branch swinging is chick behavior. If she's not good enough, dump her. Find a better chick for an LTR. Or just spin plates. There are 8 billion people in this world and about half of them are women.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:20 PM
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Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:17 PM
5

Stay purposefully vague, but something that could be interpreted as what they want to hear: "You get married when you know you've met the right one." A statement like this is enough to keep interest, doesn't pull you into their frame, and you're not even lying. You should probably expect follow up questions though.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 08:11 PM
2

Find a hobby you like and are interested in that puts you in friendly contact with men. Personally, I met my current GF at the climbing gym. We chatted a little, I offered to take her outside, and we started climbing some this summer as just friends... Then I realized she just had too many good qualities, so it turned romantic. From your post you sound like a quality woman. You just need to put yourself out there and men will notice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 12:36 AM
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My last LTR went to shit. I had this BP fantasy that if I was a good guy, she'd respect me and love me, and it would all work out. It didn't. In the end she started hanging out with this other guy without telling me, we broke up, and she started dating him right away (4 years later... they're married now). I was crushed, it drove me insane. In my heartache I started googling things like "How to text your ex back" and stuff. Also, when she left she said some fucking emasculating things about how …
/r/askTRP09/11/17 12:15 AM
1

That's awesome. Her favorite whale is the blue whale. I think you can see them in the fall in the bay near San Francisco. That's another idea for future adventures...
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 04:34 PM
5

When's the wedding?
/r/askTRP07/11/17 08:49 PM
20

There's nothing wrong morally, but depending on what their ultimate goals are, it can be very unwise. Women are valued for their youth and beauty (because these are indications of fertility and health), which diminish over time. Typically, a woman has less options at 30s than they do in their 20s. The idea that they can fuck around for a whole decade, still retain value, and find a high value male who wants to commit and build a family is a sucker's bet for women the older they get. Plus, why wo…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 05:20 PM
3

My current LTR just bought tickets to Hawaii for next month. She loves to travel and I'm super excited to go with her. One of her lifelong dreams is to see whales in the wild (her favorite creatures), and January is peak whale watching season. Winning! We do lots of other things too. We go rock climbing together (my favorite), but also have a good mix of doing "at home" things too. I honestly think it just comes down to speaking the other person's love language (hers is quality time/acts of serv…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 12:51 AM
2

Here's your game plan: Keep hitting the gym, finish up school, and during that time think about things you'll want to do with your life. Hopefully you'll find a job where you can have some time off and make enough money to do interesting stuff.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 12:45 AM
2

I feel like I have nothing interesting to offer to a girl It sounds like your life is pretty boring, man. Why don't you find some interesting hobbies? Do these things for yourself, get good at them, and bring women along for the ride. For example: I've been rock climbing for about 5 years. The way I met my current LTR was through climbing. I took her on a few climbing trips, thought she was pretty cool, and we started dating. As far as interesting things to do... It varies from person to person.…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 12:25 AM
1

Yeah, so far the LTR has been really good. But I would never hesitate to end it if moments like this becomes more common. Thank you.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 10:00 PM
2

My mission is to get the pussy. Please help me. First of all, sex is only a side mission. You should other cool stuff that you enjoy and are good at. The easiest way to make sure you don't get girls is to make them the #1 priority. I'm going to assume you're working out and taking care of yourself.... But what do you do for fun? What makes you interesting? For me, I like to go rock climbing. Other guys do MMA or wood working or something cool. Figure your life out and the girls will come along f…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:23 PM
6

she started mentioning these "doubts" and the need for a break in our relationship You're breaking up. Whether it's because she's found another guy she's interested in (likely) or not doesn't matter. Let her go, the heartache is going to suck, but use it as fuel for your self-improvement.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:48 PM
4

Don't. Shit. Where. You. Eat. Period. It doesn't mean you can't be friendly to people who come into the gym, and "professionally" flirt/be friendly to patrons. But the other people looking up clients in the system? No Bueno. Sounds like a poorly ran gym and a good way to potentially scare clients off.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:45 PM
1

I'm not saying they're all cheaters. I'm just saying, cheating is really common, don't put it past any person (including any woman). I've heard that statistically, in 50% of relationships at least one of the persons cheat, and most of the time it's not because they're unhappy. And the best indication of future behavior is based on the past. If she's cheated multiple times, and is honestly telling you about it now, what makes you think she'll be faithful later in life? What has changed? What is s…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 06:03 PM
1

If AWALT how the fuck do I have a family Well, start by getting smarter about the kind of women you date. How old are you?
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:32 PM
1

Have a couple drinks, be friendly, don't get shitfaced and then go to bed.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:06 PM
2

She's unlike any girl I have met before and... every one of her boyfriends has cheated on her and some hit her and that she has also cheated on these boyfriends Dude. AWALT. This is not the "unicorn" you've been looking for, because they don't exist. She's giving you some prime trickle truth... Do you want to be the next boyfriend who is "abusive" to her (which is what she'll tell the next guy after you), and for her to cheat on you too? You're already checking her social media because you can't…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:05 PM
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But with all their reporting on the alt-right Neo-Nazi white supremacists taking over this country with their tiki torches, they have to claim to find them somewhere. "Surely this is the inner sanctum of the American Nazi regime!"
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:37 PM
1

First of all, you're doing it all wrong. Matched with a legit 9 Stop saying she's a "legit 9." Yes, there are women who are very beautiful, and very sexy, but who cares? Most of them have been good looking for so long, life has been on easy mode, and they've had every beta orbiter doing nice things for them and every "Chad" offering them dick for so long... They don't even live on the same planet as you and I. And consequently so many of them are vapid, boring, and have shitty personalities. So.…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 01:47 AM
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No matter how good your LTR is going, always listen to your gut, always be able to walk away, and the moment you question your trust in them to the point where you feel like you need to check their phone, or check whatever... Well, that's the point you should have already dumped them five minutes ago.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 12:45 AM
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Don't overthink it. Just get into the gym, fix the issues in your life, read the sidebar a few times, read the top posts (preferably from TRP golden age a year or two ago), and you'll figure it out over time. There are no "betas" or "alphas." Just emasculated men and masculine men who have taken control of their lives and figured shit out. We use "beta" and "alpha" as shorthand to describe these traits. So stop saying you're a "beta" and start taking some responsibility for yourself and improve …
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:08 PM
2

I agree with your sentiment on Five Languages of Love, but there's nothing wrong if you know what your LTR likes to do those things occasionally. It's more of a metaphor. She says she likes those things, but it's obvious she likes physical touch as well, and all that other stuff.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:55 PM
3

I'd ignore the dumb texts and keep her in plate status. Eventually though all plates fall and break.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:46 PM
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Matched with a girl on Tinder. Texted, made plans to hang out. Hang out, kiss close. The Tinder girl loses interest and is moving on to the 10 other guys texting her. Sounds pretty standard for Tinder (except you probably could have had sex if you had time). Soft next her until she reaches out to you again, and then try to make more plans with her and escalate further. Until then, approach other women. Do not chase this chick.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:45 PM
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She sounds like she's bored and boring. And so she texts you random, meaningless texts because she wants constant validation/attention. What's the nature of your relationship with this girl? Plate? Her behavior would make me hesitant to get into an LTR with her... Needing constant attention is a no-no. I'd ignore most of the pointless stuff and just use texting to make plans if she's a plate. And never worry about the fact that "she might just go to someone else." Because you know why? That's ju…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:39 PM
1

Yes, keep your feelings to yourself. Move forward, meet other women, and avoid talking/interacting with this girl. I honestly think remaining "friends" with someone you dated isn't worth it. IMHO.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 08:19 PM
1

She was acting shady and I wasn't having it. AWALT, so I noticed the smoking gun. I told her she was bullshitting me. As I was getting ready to pack my things and dump her. She immediately flipped and broke up with me like she knew what was coming and wanted to take the power role. As impressed and turned on as I was, I maintained my frame and peaced out. The fuck? What do you mean by "smoking gun?" If she cheated or lied, dump her. Honestly, this whole thing sounds like a shit show. Stop talkin…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 07:57 PM
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You're going to get shit answers on this sub because 95% of the guys on here aren't in LTRs and just want to spin plates. But as someone is a decent LTR (like you seem to be) here's my perspective: It's fine to do little things like that, but not all the time, as long as it doesn't come off as "trying too hard" and you're not doing these things to "get the girl to like you" or have sex with you. Make sense? My LTR's love language is quality time and receiving gifts, but the kind of gifts she lik…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 07:13 PM
2

He's trying to be nice and give you something you want, and you absolutely won't give him a chance. Just give him a chance and let him try to make you something similar to what you want. If he does, you both win (plus, wouldn't it be more meaningful for your husband to make you the table you want instead of spending a bunch of money on on?). If he can't, it will be a learning experience, but absolutely do not throw it in his face (e.g. "I told you so..."). But it's a table, right? He's not build…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 05:25 PM
0

If you're doing everything else right (i.e. you're centered, confident, are improving yourself, lifting, owning the things you do, etc.), it doesn't matter what kind of music or art or movies that you like, as long as you're not weird about it or it's not too far out there. As far as music goes, I like a little bit of everything: Indie, punk, folk, rock, rap, pop, etc. I'll listen to serious artists, and I'll listen to oldies, and sometimes I'll listen to Mariah or a musical I like. Honestly, wh…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 04:35 PM
5

Being in an LTR is a mutual agreement from two people. Once one of you decides it's over, there's not much you can do (read: there are no "magic words" to fix a lack of desire by one person). It sucks, but you ultimately don't want to be with someone who doesn't appreciate you. You sound awesome, btw. You remind me a little of my current GF (except we met through rock climbing). The chances are this relationship will eventually end, as all relationships do. Maybe you'll find another person who l…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 11:33 PM
4

It likely shows a lack of interest. The ball is in her court: Don't chase. If she comes back and contacts you, then try to schedule a time to meet up, but certainly don't text until then. Meanwhile, approach other women.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 10:36 PM
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The term “kafkatrapping” describes a logical fallacy that is popular within gender feminism, racial politics and other ideologies of victimhood. It occurs when you are accused of a thought crime such as sexism, racism or homophobia. You respond with an honest denial, which is then used as further confirmation of your guilt. You are now trapped in a circular and unfalsifiable argument; no one who is accused can be innocent because the structure of kafkatrapping precludes that possibility. Yup. Th…
/r/MensRights27/10/17 08:55 PM
4

First of all, don't ever give up. Next, if you have issues in your life that need fixed, fix them. Nobody is coming to rescue you, so you have to show self-responsibility and do this yourself. Sometimes therapy can help. But you've been seeing this one therapist for 2 years and you don't see improvement? I'd say time to get a new therapist (preferably male and successful, which might be difficult to find). With your new therapist, give him very specific goals you want to achieve (e.g. I want to …
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:51 PM
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Personally, I'd lay back a bit, pretend I don't see what's going on, and see how she handles herself. Does she give out her number? Does she let him buy her a drink? If he touches her, does she tell him she's with you and that's not okay? When you're near, does she introduce you as her boyfriend to this guy? Stuff like that. But in this situation, you need to be careful. Mate guarding is beta AF and if you lose frame, you lose. You could chat up someone near you, but if it's a chick try to not m…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:57 PM
1

Obligatory: "There's this one girl..." You're honestly thinking about this all wrong. She likes that you're constantly trying to make plans with her when you're in town, but she not interested enough to change her plans or to meet you. When she said, "If we do we should elope," she didn't mean anything by it, as far as interest goes, she's just keeping you on the chain and being clever. It's whatever. On her radar, she doesn't even think of you as an option. So that's what you should think about…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:35 PM
1

You'll do good. I was on Tinder for a few years before I decided to get into an LTR. It can be a lot of fun if you do it right. You can literally get women to come over, fuck you, leave, and then have another chick come and hang out the same afternoon. Or get chicks who will give you their address, tell you their door is unlocked and they're pretending to "sleep" in their beds, just so you can sneak over and fuck them. Or get high and screw. Or have a threesome with other Tinder chicks. The worl…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:21 PM
2

Whenever a girl has a "crazy schedule" it means they're not interested in you. They keep texting you because they like the attention/validation. Once they sense a hint of neediness from you, your attention and validation means nothing because your SMV has dropped to zero in their eyes. Next time, text less. Give them time to miss you and wonder what you're up to. If they don't put you on the schedule with definitive plans, soft next (don't text unless they reach out to you). When/if they do cont…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:56 PM
2

An absurd question? Oh God. And your advice is horrible. The kid is in high school. Your advice sounds like the perfect way to create HS drama.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:53 PM
2

95% chance you are wasting your time.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 11:21 PM
1

If she does have a boyfriend, her boundaries with other men are shitty. I think it's always best to be honest about what you want. You want a date, she says "let's just be friends," that's the moment you say "No thanks" and approach other women.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:58 PM
4

Don't lie. Because if the truth came out, you'd look like a fool and you don't want to put yourself in that situation. Leave your answer purposefully a little vague but own it (e.g. "We just hung out."). Don't give details or feel like you need to justify your behavior or decisions (the worst thing you could do).
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:51 PM
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Your text response did show a level of neediness/pettiness ("I had fun meeting you, hope you find someone what you are looking for. Take care."). That'll turn a woman off fast. Next time be less invested: "Let me know if you get your schedule figured out." Definitely don't demonstrate neediness. Just have fun, flirt, and escalate physically. Don't ask her to come back to your place though. That can come off as pushy/needy, especially if she says no. She'll give you subtle hints if she wants you …
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:35 PM
-5

I love the "Would she treat Brad Pitt/Channing Tatum like that?" fallacy. And it is a fallacy. Why? None of us are Brad Pitt or Channing Tatum. So why the fuck are we expecting any halfway decent girl to treat us like Brad Pitt? So dumb.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:19 PM
4

First, you're way overthinking this. Second, things with this chick are basically done because you fucked them up. So learn from it and move on. Third, just reading your two posts... You have a lot of growing to do to mature as a person, to become the type of man women are interested in (and stay interested in). You went out and had a good time. That's good. She was texting and flirting (chasing you), that's good. Where you fucked up is when she would text or call, you didn't arrange another dat…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:16 PM
2

Mgtows are not losers, on the contrary Just have fun with your sex doll, okay?
/r/askTRP26/10/17 04:35 PM
8

TRP is just a bunch of information on sexual strategy. It is an attempt to accept the truth about what is happening in society, the nature of women, the nature of ourselves, etc. on its own terms. What each of us do with that information is up to ourselves. MGTOW are just men who see the BS, and choose not to participate. Likely, they're not successful with women any way, so their choice to go MGTOW doesn't effect others, just for them to stop being miserable by their repeated failures.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 04:07 PM
3

If you're free, strike when the iron is hot. Meet and escalate. Don't overthink things.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 09:09 PM
2

As a general rule, I mostly avoid friendships with women, mostly because they often make shitty friends (e.g. can be more drama, can be flaky, boring with no interesting hobbies, etc.). But as with all things, there are exceptions. I'd only be friends with a girl I'm not sexual interested in or pursuing, if we had mutual interests, and they added value to my life (cooking is always appreciated). But if they ever become drama, or don't add anything to my life, or whatever, I just cut them out.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 09:07 PM
1

I do think the bubble on this sub has burst. I joined years ago, maybe when TRP had less than 40k. Now, it's at 230k+, and so many of the posts read like a parody of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 10:56 PM
2

You'll do fine. Just remember: If it ever reaches a point where you don't feel like you can't trust a girl because she has shitty boundaries, you leave. Edit: grammar/words
/r/askTRP24/10/17 10:19 PM
6

I've climbed for 4 years. Let me tell you... There is an unending line of good looking women if you climb hard and can take them on adventures (that's how I started dating my current LTR). A study was done where women ranked rock climbing as the sexiest sport. Plus, a rock climbing gym is just about the only gym where there aren't any fatties. As with anything, though, choose activities you want to do for yourself.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:52 PM
2

Classic "There's this one girl..." post. This woman isn't even an option. Look, she doesn't even sound that nice (multiple times you mentioned she doesn't even ask you about yourself). She's just using you for attention and validation. And your gay friend is wrong. Girls are smart, they get hit on by guys all the time. She knows you like her. But she's not attracted to you. Period. So stop wasting time on a losing effort. She had her chance, she wasn't into it, so move on and use your time bette…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 08:14 PM
1

"If you're very busy, let's pick another time. Let me know when you figure your schedule out." Then soft next (stop engaging until she reaches out). When/if she reaches out, try to schedule another time to get together. Meanwhile, approach other women and make dates with them.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 07:26 PM
6

About half the posts on askTRP are basically, "My girl might be in contact with other men when she's at school/work/Halloween Party/whatever. Should I just end it now???" They all come across as having toxic insecurity. It all comes down to this: If you're in an LTR and your girl is determined to cheat, she'll find a way. There are a million opportunities for sex, even for an average looking girl. And if you're dating someone who is cute/fun/feminine/etc. of course other dudes are going to try t…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 07:23 PM
2

Right? Isn't that way of dealing with things beta to the core? The girl I'm dating right now is pretty rad: Very kind, funny, good looking, likes to do things... Of course other men are going to notice these qualities and try to be friendly to her. Do they all want to "just be friends?" Of course not. It's up to her to set boundaries that show me respect and commitment, and to communicate in a way that proves she's worth my trust and commitment. But I'm not going to freak the fuck out because so…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:57 PM
2

Here's my thought: If your girl is big into salsa dancing, you better be into salsa dancing as well, or it's not going to work. I'm not saying become into salsa dancing to please some woman, but you should already be into salsa dancing and be better at it than this girl. Or else she'll find a guy who is good at salsa dancing and will probably be into him. Salsa dancing isn't really a GNO activity. It's something couples do together. The kind of women who feel they need to go out salsa dancing wi…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:28 PM
5

Depends what you mean by "dance." My current LTR is a former LDS girl who just likes to dance. We go out, have a few drinks, and dance... There's no bumping and grinding, it's all just fun, and we uber home together and pass out. We live in a midwestern state and don't really go to clubs where people dance like that. Honestly, if another guy tried to "dance" with her, I'd probably laugh. She doesn't really do GNOs, maybe a karaoke night with some mutual friends. I swear, some people on this sub …
/r/askTRP23/10/17 08:51 PM
1

Her interest is very low. Don't waste your time chasing women who aren't interested. You're giving her a constant stream of validation/attention, and she doesn't give you anything. Just approach other women. If you guys are in the same area, you can try to arrange a meetup and if she says yes try to escalate, but 99% chance this is going nowhere.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:31 PM
44

Yup. With all the access any man has to just about any chick (snapchat, texting, IG, etc.), if a woman can't set good boundaries with men, she's not even LTR material. Giving out your number to strange dudes is not GF material.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:41 PM
1

You've been seeing this chick for 8 months and you don't know if she's a good LTR prospect? What else do you need to know? If you want to date this chick, she's right there. If you don't, just keep doing whatever you're doing now, but if she pushes for commitment, you've got to just let her go. Even if you get into an LTR with this girl, and it becomes something that you don't want, just break up with her.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:34 PM
4

There are about a half-dozen red flags with this woman (PTSD, "pretending" to get angry, saying she is stubborn, etc.). You don't want to get involved with this woman. Next, get your game a little tighter. Approach other women, see what happens, and learn from the mistakes. Grabbing a drink and then going for a kiss close is fine, but never keep asking them/trying to convince them to come back to your place if they say no. You need to have a take-it-or-leave-it kind of attitude towards women to …
/r/askTRP20/10/17 08:01 PM
2

Like OP said, it's a lose-lose situation. Ideally, you want a gf who doesn't even go near that stuff. I don't think briefly explaining to her the facts of life and then seeing how she responds is BP at all (e.g. "You know what those setups are really for, right? They're basically a front for prostitution, and your clients are going to expect sexual favors."). If she doesn't abort her plans immediately, you dump her, show no emotion, and move on.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 09:44 PM
7

Ask her if she understands what the situation with this setup really is (i.e. these clients are looking for an escort/possible hookup). There's a small potential she doesn't quite get it. Then, if she still wants to do it, dump her.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 09:34 PM
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TRP can be really funny. People take things way too far sometimes. It's like, "Yo bro, she didn't go back to your place and fuck you on the first date? You're a fucking beta orbiter and need to next that bitch!" and then they wonder why all the chicks they date can't be trusted at all. Well... You can't have it both ways, right? I like to think of AWALT as a spectrum. Some chicks fall on the far ends of the spectrum (total prudes <-------> total sluts), with a lot falling in between. And if you …
/r/askTRP19/10/17 05:07 PM
1

Find hobbies that are fulfilling and interesting. Do those things. Share those experiences with other people. Laugh about the dumb stuff.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:57 PM
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Hang out with a chick, have fun, hook up. It's that simple. There's no need to "manipulate" or "create a rollercoaster" (what is that even... Drama?). If you want to date a chick who needs drama in her life, don't be surprised when you have a lot of drama in your life.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:55 PM
1

There's a time to step into a situation, but those are rare. Personally, he probably got what you would expect when you try to become a babysitter/ref for a bunch of drunk middle-aged women. Those women can literally be the worst people alive... Of course they're going to slap asses and act completely out of line. They probably haven't had anyone tell them no for decades. Best to avoid it, and if you're the person being targeted for the drunken groping or ass slapping... Leave. Or pull out your …
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:12 PM
2

Woman have a week in every month where they are god to themselves and think they are allowed to be an asshole with merit because they are spewing blood If this is your experience with a girl, that she's bitchy 1/4th of the time and is a "god to [herself]," break up with her. There's no excuse for shitty behavior, and that frequency of bitchiness disqualifies someone for LTR status. For little shit tests (which in a healthy LTR should be minimal), just ignore, or agree and amplify, but just maint…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:59 PM
1

As long as she's agreeing to hang out, keep going.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:46 PM
3

While you shouldn't text too much or be too available, you should just keep scheduling dates where fun/romance/intimacy/sex can happen. As long as she says yes and goes along with it, keep going. If she shows a lack of interest (not wanting to schedule a date or flakes), then you soft next. When/if she reaches out in the future, then you try to schedule another date, but if she doesn't show interest, next. In the mean time, keep approaching other women. Ideally, she should be "chasing" you and y…
/r/askTRP18/10/17 04:07 PM
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Ahhh... Step by step instructions for 90% of the male population to turn into creeps. Bravo. As with all things, take this advise with a grain of salt. Know when you're barking up the wrong tree, when a chick isn't interested, and when she actually has a boyfriend and zero interest in fucking you. Communication (both verbal and nonverbal) is subtle, as with the seduction game. If you get zero nonverbal IOIs and she says she has a boyfriend, your time is best spent gaming other women (i.e. don't …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 08:25 PM
1

This girl is a horrible person to date. She lies, cheats, and is unkind, and does nothing for you. She's zapping you of all your resources and not adding anything to your life. Do you really want to be treated like that forever? You need to cut her completely out of your life. Block her on all social media, block her number, don't look her up, don't communicate with her. You're a teenager, so you don't really have perspective on things, and it might sound like we're asking you to do the "worst t…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:59 PM
2

How old are you? Are you in school, or have a career? Start small and prioritize a few things in life. You're poor? Come up with a plan to: a) make a budget b) get out of debt c) increase your income. Where do you want to be financially in 6 months? 1 year? 5 years? 20 years? Come up with a plan and do that. How tall are you? How much do you weigh? Yes, joining a gym and lifting weights will be good, but also look at changing your diet. There are lots of subreddits to help with this. You said yo…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:44 PM
6

There's no such thing as an "alpha" or a "beta." As with everything, people are on a fluctuating spectrum. We use the term "alpha" for a shorthand to describe an ideal male whom possesses masculine traits (e.g. strength, dominance, confidence, intelligence, charisma, social skills, etc.). A "beta" is shorthand for describing a male who lacks many of these traits. With that said... I choose to be friends with good people who have common interests and treat me well. I honestly don't care about the…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 04:36 PM
1

On keto you're only concerned about net carbs (subtract grams fiber from grams carbs to get net carbs).
/r/askTRP16/10/17 10:10 PM
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I've done keto in the past, it's a great way to cut. You'll slim out pretty quick (water weight to start), and then you'll be in fat burning mode. A few thoughts: Buy a food scale and weigh your food. Download MyFitnessPal, use the Keto Calculator to figure out your macros, and set your macros on MFP, weigh everything. You'll need to run a caloric deficit to cut, even with keto. Make sure you get electrolytes and the "keto flu" will be minimal. I'd take a multivitamin, along with magnesium and p…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 07:10 PM
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Right? I hope they enjoy being middle-aged, alone, and bitter. Respect precedes everything else, then attraction, and a woman's actions flows from those two things.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 06:04 PM
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I'd say only in a committed relationship and only if you do it without any hint of neediness or desperation. I'm in an LTR and I'm often out on trips or travelling. Sometimes she'll text me, "I miss you so much," and I'll respond with "I miss you too. I'm excited for _____" (the secret is to always show positivity and forward progress). Don't say it too much. Almost never be the first person to say it. But as long as you're doing everything else right (you have high value, you're being a leader,…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:21 PM
3

Some women are pleasers and love to give head.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:07 PM
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Usually if a chick I've been hooking up with in the past would move or go on trips, I'd not text them, but would briefly respond if they text me. No need to burn bridges unnecessarily. Usually, just keeping them on IG is enough of a connection, right?
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:16 PM
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Agreed. If you want a good LTR, find a chick who is a good LTR prospect, and make sure you're in a good spot in life where one could work. You probably won't meet her off Tinder. Here's something I've thought about: People on TRP take things too far (I mean, concepts like "alpha," "Chad," "AWALT," etc.). Not that I don't think those concepts don't have truth in them (they do). But... Here's an example of what I mean: Dudes on this sub will get into great shape, have some success in life, and con…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 04:34 PM
2

It's good that you've realized that women (and men) aren't perfect and to not have a false illusion of what life/love/romance is all about. What you do with that information is up to you. Me? I spun plates and hooked up with chicks off Tinder for a few years, and out of dozens and dozens of chicks, almost none of them seemed that great for something more. Maybe 2 were decent, but those things didn't work out. Now? I met a girl at the gym, she has a kind heart, good family values, a good attitude…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 04:18 PM
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"this girl isn't even respectful attracted to me enough to reply. She does I do not live up to my her standards." FTFY. Now, OP needs to raise his standards of himself so that he's the prize. Forget about a date Saturday night and get your ass to the gym.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 03:58 PM
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You should be approaching other women. You know how sharks can smell blood in a water a mile away? Women can do that with neediness. So have some abundance mentality and don't worry too much about any one chick. She said, "oh shit I am so sorry, just saw this." Say, "Sweet. I'll see you tomorrow at 8" or whatever the time it is. She'll either say yes, no, or whatever. Just don't worry about it. If she says yes, go and meet her. Is she says no, for whatever reason, just say, "Let me know when you…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 10:10 PM
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Look... You're not "stealing" her from anybody, and you're certainly not "stealing her back" from anybody, because... She doesn't belong to you or anybody. She's her own person and can decide to be interested in anybody she wants. Girls become interested in guys because they're strong, confident, fun, successful, etc. Are you any of these things? If not, there's your first fix. Work out. Fix your diet. Gain some confidence. Talk with lots of girls, tease and flirt with them (in a non-creepy way)…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 09:57 PM
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Man, you're in deep crisis in your marriage. You've gone long down the BP rabbit hole, and usually there's no hope in turning the ship around. You need to go on this RP path first for yourself, (work out, grow, overcome your problems and become the sort of man you want to be), with no expectations that she'll come back around. And then? Either she takes it or leaves it. You can't negotiate respect/attraction... And once those are gone, they almost never come back. Do your best, but have a good l…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 05:02 PM
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Good. Escalate (only a little) and ignore her previous shit test. She just got a dose of light dread, seeing you looking good. It'll pass and she'll be all over you.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 04:57 PM
2

I would have done the same thing, but I would have been direct and communicated why you were doing what you did: "Look, you need to understand something. I'm using my time, which is valuable, to help you move. I packed your stuff in the car, you didn't. You're dragging your ass and being rude, which is no way to treat anyone, especially family. You need to check your attitude and grow up. It's all about mutual respect." And then leave his stuff on the curb for him to move.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:02 PM
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After my last breakup I felt very emasculated. I was completely BP, and basically let this chick have my balls during the whole relationship. And I was a heartbroken mess. So I started to read... One of the books was Bly's Iron John. It's pretty good, although I only got a little bit out of it. Eventually I found TRP. Take everything you read with a grain of salt, even stuff on TRP. Hold onto the good stuff.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 06:50 PM
8

There will be no recovery. "Once the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?"
/r/askTRP04/10/17 11:42 PM
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tl;dr "Asshole game" works well to pump-n-dump poor LTR prospects because their father's never told them "no" growing up, and everyone around them told them what an amazing snowflake they are every day.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 07:26 PM
1

Donny Osmand - I'll Make A Man Out Of You Hall & Oates - You Make My Dreams Come True Rachel Platten - Fight Song
/r/askTRP04/10/17 05:48 PM
2

I too am aware of the ways of Jessica Valenti
/r/MensRights03/10/17 09:32 PM
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Right? This post and all of its upvotes are just evidence that this sub is slowly becoming a parody of itself. So many people on this sub walk around talking about how they now have become, "Chad, destroyer of worlds," and don't even get that there's no such thing as an "alpha" or a "beta," these are just shorthand for an ideal man vs an emasculated, weak male. The truth is that we're all a mix of "alpha" and "beta" and these indicators and how they're expressed can change over time. I worry tha…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 05:06 PM
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Sheesh, dude. You are putting in way too much thought into this... So much that we can almost guarantee you'll fuck it up. At some point you just have to stop caring. Yes, she's good looking, but you have to care less whether she fucks you or not. Because when you reach that point is when you have abundance mentality and no matter what, you win. And she has to believe that she should hook up with you, because that's just want chicks do when they're with you (preselection). And it's a very subtle…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 06:13 PM
1

Yes, you should approach women. If it goes well, exchange contact information and plan a time to meet up for drinks or to "watch a movie," or whatever. If that is going well, isolate and escalate (almost always at least go for the kiss), and then rinse and repeat. How old are you? You sound like you're just learning this stuff... So, there will be failures. Just saying.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 04:14 PM
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Most likely her excuse is BS and shows a lack of interest, so don't chase. If she's into you, she'll suggest another time. Soft-next (don't text/call unless she texts/calls you), and if/when she reaches out, you directly try to plan another meetup. If she doesn't say yes, move on. In the meanwhile, approach other women.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 04:10 PM
6

This. And the obligatory "approach other women."
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:13 PM
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There was a post in the main sub a few years ago, "Plate the tallest girl you can find." I'm 5'8 (well, 5'7.5", but I round up because math). At some point, you just have to stop caring about things you can't change. I've gone out with women who are 5'9, 5'10, 6'0, even one that was 6'2 (former D1 college volleyball player too!). You get over the "short man syndrome" fast. What I've learned is this: Some women will care about height, some won't. But all women will care about height if you're ins…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 07:10 PM
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It's fine. Just as long as you realize spending money doesn't get a girl to like you or want to sleep with you. Women like men and want to fuck them for different reasons. But still an alright excuse to hang out with a girl. Make sense?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:40 PM
2

Right? If OPs not planning on cheating, he should just go to the bar with buddies and there will be plenty of people (including chicks) to with which he can laugh and joke around. It literally happens half the time I'm out, even by myself.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 09:02 PM
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Why would you even talk to a chick again if she's your LTR, on Tinder and looking for strange dick, and lies to you about it? You need to show self-respect and hard next this girl. Scorched earth, don't talk to her again. She had a chance and blew it. She is not a good woman. By even allowing her to be part of your life, you are validating this girl's behavior by giving her a hope that she might "rope you back in." Grow a backbone, buddy. And contrary to what u/Kommanderdude said, there are no "…
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:51 PM
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As soon as they show the bitchiness or (worse) the BDP traits, you have to cut them loose. Show self-respect in all things first, or they never will respect you. Your (ex) GF's boundaries are shitty, her best is shitty, she was showing you all this via trickle truth, it was just your place to man up and make the right decision. Don't ever get back with this chick, and learn from this.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:28 PM
1

puts fingers in ears "La la la la la can't hear you!"
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:54 AM
2

Then don't read it, dude. But every person on this sub acts like every girl alive is going to suck the dick of every "Chad" alive every opportunity that they get, and it's not like that. AWALT, yes, but you have to have a perspective of what is going on. Dudes on this sub act like if a woman doesn't come back to their place and bang them within 20 minutes of meeting them, then the girl needs a hard NEXT, but then they wonder why all the women they date are sluts that they can't trust? Well... Du…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:42 PM
1

"3% man" by corey wayne His stuff is spot on. His youtube videos each have hundreds of thousands of views, and it's pretty solid RP stuff. There's a reason he can charge $1000 for an hour coaching session.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:28 PM
1

I know all the responses are going to be: "She's cheating! She's going to cheat! Next that bitch!" But it's more complicated than that. How long has she been your LTR? If you've only been dating a month, and she had this guy friend before (who might be an orbiter), you wouldn't expect her to cut all ties from every male right away. Again, there's always a context to behavior. Like, if you were engaged or married to a woman and she went out alone with a new "guy friend," (or even an old one), tha…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:24 PM
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It sounds like you're looking for some sort of externalized form of validation, like for some woman to say, "You! You are enough of a man! You've done it." But life doesn't really work like that. I'd suggest growing in your self-esteem (read: The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem). Get to a point where you don't care about other's approval, because you approve yourself and the things you do. Make sense? There will always be better men than you. Taller men, stronger men, cooler men, richer men, etc. So …
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:05 PM
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If you're doing nice things for her to try to get her to like you, you're doing it wrong. That's a pretty beta mentality and never works. If you're letting her ride in your car because you want to get to know her more, and see what happens, there's nothing wrong with that. In fact, it's a good excuse to get a girl alone. Just have some outcome independence, don't try too hard, don't chase, and be able to walk away if the situation is not what you want.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:45 PM
1

Don't do too much at once. Quality over quantity. And flirt with her a bit, touch her, see how she responds.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 11:31 PM
1

You have plans with a girl tonight but you don't know what you're doing yet? Even before TRP, I knew only one thing about women: They hate if you pick them up for a "date" and don't have a clue what you're doing with them! So, figure it out, buddy. Really, you should have cool things that interest you and then bring her along for the ride. Hopefully she likes these things too. Check out a new brewery or coffee shop that you want to try out. Go to a comedy show. Go to a concert. Go for a hike. Go…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:51 PM
2

I wonder if it's a beta move to invite her at this point. (Recall that she's thousands of miles away.) "Doesn't this guy have anyone else to go with?" Yes, extremely beta. It shows you have no self-respect and little self-worth. Look, your commitment is the most valuable thing you can give, and you've given it to this chick for just about nothing. Sure, she hooked up with you a lot when you were around, but that stuff only is temporary. You can literally fire up Tinder and have that with a diffe…
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:45 PM
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Find a girlfriend who is compatible with you.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:39 PM
1

You'd probably get better advice on r/RedPillWomen.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:14 PM
2

If only I could see the future in 2010. I'm still waiting for my 90s pogs to appreciate in value... /s
/r/askTRP26/09/17 09:50 PM
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Treat every girl the same to maximize your chances of success: None of them are special. None of them are unicorns. None of them are snowflakes. Send her a few messages and try to arrange a meetup. Get her alone and escalate physically. Soft next if they reject you. Hard next if the disrespect you. Seduction is the same for every chick.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:21 PM
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Yeah, you messed up and seemed too salty. Here's the secret: You've got to be totally unphased if she rejects you. Completely maintain frame if she shuts you down. If you seem butthurt at all, you lose. I'm not sure about a ONS, but if she's a plate or LTR, also keep her in a state of light dread.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 11:02 PM
1

You say, "Thanks." And if you're interested in this chick, you arrange a time to meet for romance/date/sex.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:58 PM
2

Stop trying to get people to like you by being "nice," and instead be the sort of person that you can be proud of, whether everyone likes you or not.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:07 PM
1

My advice: Don't worry about this girl and focus on you. I don't know anything about Pakistani culture, but biology is biology, and if a girl says no it means she's not interested. You already displayed low confidence to her, so 99.99% chance you are categorically not sexual partner material to her and never will be. But don't lose heart. Move on, grow as a man, lift, read books, get interesting hobbies, find your mission in life, learn confidence with women, and ready yourself for when a better…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 09:12 PM
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Lift, change your diet, read recommended books, set goals, have interesting hobbies. Once you're centered and squared away, focus more on game and approaching women (you can approach while you're getting the first part squared away if it doesn't take away from those things).
/r/askTRP22/09/17 07:35 PM
0

No, what you're describing is abuse, you dipshit. You say you've never done BDSM, and what you're describing isn't BDSM. It's abuse. Sure, she cheated by sexting some dude. Just break up with her. Why is this older, professionally successful woman obsessing over making things work with you (even though she was unfaithful)? Sounds like she has issues too--especially if she goes through with your bullshit "punishments." You need help.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:13 PM
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Will it signal insecurity or is that just my blue pill upbringing making shit up? If you're insecure, it'll signal insecurity. Shoot, anything will signal insecurity if you're insecure. So: Be confident. Have a take it or leave it attitude. I touch my LTR quite a bit. But I don't if she's shit testing me (which is rare). If we're having a good time and she's being really sweet or good, I'll give her random hugs or lightly kiss her, or let her hold onto my arm, or hold her hand. But... As with an…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:53 PM
9

You've hit the nail on the head. As far as worldviews go, intersectional feminism is cancer. It turns victimhood into the highest virtue, judges people by the color of their skin and not the content of their character, and doesn't care so much about a person's individual story rather than their group identity. In that sense, it is racist and sexist and creates more division and hate in this country by looking at everything through such a hyper-racist/sexist/etc. lens. Story time: A girl who used…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 07:11 PM
4

Why do you even worry about their number? You can find the information out you want about a chick by looking at other things. Women will lie about that stuff anyway, so whatever "number" she gives you (I never ask or care), multiply by a couple factors. It feels like every chick I've ever hooked up with in my early 20s (back when I used to ask such dumb questions) had "only hooked up with 5 guys." All of them. Of course, most of them were probably lying. I've only ever fucked one virgin. She was…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:23 PM
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You're right. You have to become a rich, hot celebrity if you want to never have to approach women (think: Dan Bilzerian). Exceptions might include if you're in the top 0.1% genetically (tall, great bone structure, skin, hair) and work out like a madman, have a good sense of style, are charismatic, and make a decent living. Other than that... Keep improving and keep approaching (like the 99.99% of the rest of men).
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:20 PM
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"Do you need me to get yours?" So subtly patronizing. I love it.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:03 PM
2

I agree with you. I've found it makes zero difference if I pay or split the bill whether she wants to fuck me or not. In fact, I've found that the women who don't even offer to split the bill are the least interested (and the ones who are the most fun to say to, "Hey, we should split this.").
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:01 PM
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During the second date she asked “where is this going” “what are we” or “why are we doing this”. That's some light signs of toxic insecurity. Tread lightly and look for signs of crazy before proceeding with this one.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 04:17 PM
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"My colleagues have been commenting about my new hat today" "That's good to hear. Hopefully none of your colleagues wear the same hat on the same day as you!" And then move on. She's experiencing a small amount of dread. Keep fucking her in the bedroom good and having fun with her, and ignore the dumb BS (because it's really nothing).
/r/askTRP20/09/17 04:16 PM
2

Is it my inexperience with women? Should I just say fuck it and approach other girls even if I -admittedly- am not totally over her? Yes and yes. Honestly, three months is very short for a relationship. You're young and lack experience and perspective. Honestly, you're going to date lots of girls in your life, and some of them you'll have feelings for as well. And you know what? Every person you've ever met has broken up with every person they've ever dated, except with the person they are with …
/r/askTRP19/09/17 04:22 PM
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I don't care about your gender, because this is true for everyone: You can't have a relationship if you can't trust a person. But realistically, this post would be much more appropriate in r/RedPillWomen and you'd probably get more advice/support there. Cheers.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:35 PM
5

I just wanna know if I'm being set up to gang bang this girl with the DJ and the Bouncers or whatever Christ. I can't tell if you're trolling, or mildly autistic, or what. Yes, girls will sleep around with guys and some of them will do occasionally wild and slutty things, but the average amount of sluttiness for chicks sometimes described on this sub is way blown out of proportion. If you're hooking up with this girl and things are going well, there's probably a 95% chance she wants you to come …
/r/askTRP15/09/17 08:22 PM
7

Just take your time and get to know her. Always be willing to walk away if it's not working for you (read: sunken cost fallacy).
/r/askTRP15/09/17 06:06 PM
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Unicorns don't exist. But she sounds like a decent LTR prospect. Keep vetting and looking for red flags. Her inexperience in relationships could cause some hangups though, FYI.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 05:45 PM
2

I always have a knack for telling when a girl isn't going to even offer to pay: It's when there's zero interest from her in me as a person or romantic partner (ironically, the girls who are most interested always seem to offer to pay). And I know I'm not going to get laid or even worry about a second date. And so those are the ones that I love to split the bills with... Bonus points if they act pissy because it just shows how shallow they really are. When the bill comes, just let it sit there fo…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 09:45 PM
2

How's the banter/chemistry? You could joke around and tease them (light heartedly). You could play pool or darts with them, and make a bet as to what the loser has to do. Shoot, you could even go for a walk after getting drinks. The trick is for it to not feel forced or like you're trying to be fun. You should just be fun.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 08:11 PM
3

"Don't worry, you'll find the right one!" It means they think you have good qualities (beta), but not sexually attractive qualities (alpha). You're basically the beta bux someone will settle for later in life (if you have money). My advice: Grow as a man. Lift, fix your diet, do interesting hobbies, build confidence. Become the ideal you, the type of man women are attracted towards.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:22 PM
3

security and trust attraction killers Like, being secure in yourself? That's probably one of the most attractive qualities a man can possess. And if she's just a FWB, why do you even care what she's doing when she's not with you? She's not in a committed relationship with you, so you should just assume she's seeing other guys and not care about it.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:37 PM
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You're spot on. If you feel you need to check your LTRs phone, why are you even with her? You can't date someone you don't trust. Snooping and frequently checking on someone, mate guarding, etc. is beta AF and shows huge insecurity. In fact, I'd argue even engaging in that behavior creates a lack of security and mistrust. Now, if your LTR starts acting differently (hiding her phone when you hang out, "randomly" placing a screen lock, etc.) that is some smoke that should probably not be ignored, …
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:29 PM
2

Your advice is spot on. The best way to "win" the game is to not read into every little thing and to stay centered. Women are attracted to confidence. Neediness/lack of stability is a sure way to kill attraction.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:24 PM
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Show me a hot girl with a boyfriend/husband, and I'll show you a guy who is tired of banging her. Hot girls are still just women... Their farts still smell bad and they get bad breath. No matter how much you put them on a pedestal... They can't live up to the hype. Also, imagine if your LTR had "this one guy she was always into who was super hot" that she always wanted to fuck, and she went to these lengths to do it... How would you feel about that? Would you trade one moment of passion for pote…
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:30 PM
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Yup. "Look what an amazing person I am. I spent 10 days in Africa helping all the orphan children." But then they won't do a damn thing for the kid around the corner whom they should call CPS on the parents, or wouldn't volunteer at the homeless shelter in their city, or do jack shit for people literally in their own neighborhood, because that doesn't make for a good FB photo.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 11:34 PM
2

this hb8 that he is has been trying to rail since last year A year? Fuck, man. At this point I would respond by approaching other women and forgetting about this girl, because it doesn't seem like she's interested. it's an obvious shit test Not every time a woman opens her mouth is a shit test, man. Maybe she just wants your friend to leave her alone because she's not into him?
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:17 PM
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You just need to follow rules 1 and 2. Then, don't be weird when it comes to sex. A woman should feel like she should hook up with you just because that's what women do with you.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:28 PM
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How long have you been with this girl? Relationships are like a negotiation, when you first start seeing a girl you wouldn't expect her to cut every dude out of her life. But depending on how long you've been seeing her and the level of commitment, her behavior may not be okay (e.g. a married woman wouldn't hang out with another man, etc.). Here's the issue: Whether she wants to admit it or not, she's communicating something about how she feels about you and her relationship with you by the boun…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:25 PM
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"randomly" HAHAHA She wanted to branch swing to Chad, he got tired of her after a week, now she's trying to crawl back to you... Without knowing any other details, she's shown you zero loyalty and that she's not worth your commitment. Honestly, you should hard next her and not speak to her again for this. I know your heart is probably hurting right now, it sucks, but the right thing to do is to move on. You can't trust her anymore. Block her on social media, put away anything that reminds you of…
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:14 PM
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can this be salvaged? She seemed pretty promising. No. You need to approach other girls. Also, read the "there's this girl..." post on the sidebar. This chick isn't even an option yet, you just met her, and it sounds like she's not into you. You should be exchanging numbers and going out with lots of women.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 07:09 PM
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Women aren't magical, wonderful, pure unicorns that you can just trust your heart completely to like in the movies and stories... And now you finally realized that and the illusion is shattered. They are human beings with natures just like our own. There are ones that would make horrible LTRs, and ones that are better LTR prospects. Right now, it sounds like you shouldn't be in a relationship and that's okay. Why are you working your ass off for sex anyways? Here's my advice: Keep on the path. I…
/r/askTRP11/09/17 08:11 PM
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Dread game all comes down to this: Demonstrating real value. In order to do that, you need to have actual real SMV. Get in great shape (lift), fix your diet as well. Have interesting hobbies and activities that keep you busy. Fix your wardrobe so you look good (buy new underwear!). Be charming and interesting. Just... Whatever works for you. Then, go out and live life. You don't have to purposefully not text your LTR for 6 hours if you're out rock climbing, or riding bikes, or skiing, or whateve…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 07:26 PM
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My plan is to go bowling, have some drinks, tease her and head up to this rooftop cathedral and have a bottle of champagne. Might come off as trying too hard. Since you've already made plans to go bowling, I'd personally do that, joke and flirt with her a little there, and then invite her up to your place (or hers) for a drink. Isolate and escalate, it's that simple in the art of seduction.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 06:23 PM
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Can it simply be just because she was horny? Yes. Spend any amount of time on Tinder and you'll have lots of experiences where a chick will bang you senseless and you'll never hear from her again... Just like a lot of dudes do. Women aren't these noble, mystical creatures that only champion purity and moral goodness. They're just people doing people things. Sometimes a girl just wants a good dicking and nothing more, so don't have an illusion of otherwise.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 04:06 PM
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So while she was in an LTR she met another man (whether she hooked up with him or not is irrelevant) and she bought tickets to fly to Australia to visit him? That's how a single girl acts, not a girl who should be in an LTR. You know the answer: She's a plate at best, not LTR material. Also, after reading the first line in your post, you should look up "the halo effect."
/r/askTRP11/09/17 04:00 PM
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If you were free, you should have responded with: "Great, but it would be more fun if you were having a drink with me." Boom. Text only a little to build a level of rapport and interest/attraction when you don't already know a girl (that's how Tinder and all that stuff works) and then schedule a date. Rule 1: Be attractive. Rule 2: Don't be unattractive. Rule 3: Don't come across as needy/creepy/beta. Rule 4: Don't be too available. Texting too much or too frequently can lower your SMV (think: s…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 10:23 PM
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Your post is spot on. Everything needs to be in perspective. Another one that made me chuckle: "Bro, if she doesn't come over to your house and drain your balls after 10 minutes of meeting you than you're a BETA and she put you in orbit!!!!1!" Another example: I've had two separate girls off Tinder invite me over to their house after midnight, telling me they would leave their door unlocked and would pretend to be asleep. They each wanted me to wake them up and fuck them. A total stranger. And I…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:27 PM
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High five!
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:35 AM
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Wait... You mean you have to do the basic shit you do with every woman? /s (not poking fun of you, just OP)
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:27 PM
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"Soft Next" means you don't initiate until they contact you. And she is texting me saying you left just because you didnt fuck. "If we aren't going to help each other get our needs met when we hang out, what's the point?"
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:02 PM
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"I just didn't see it working out, and once you realize that, you just have to move on."
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:06 PM
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You just say, "Can't wait to see you too." and then make plans to hang out with her again when she's back in town. It's easy: Just hang out, have fun, hook up. Don't get in an LTR with this girl though if she has a boyfriend (she's DQed!).
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:05 PM
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Just read the sidebar, read the posts, after a while comment and contribute to the discussion... Don't worry about making new posts right now. If you have a question that isn't answered in the sidebar, use r/askTRP
/r/askTRP06/09/17 04:00 PM
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Dude, she had her chance. Move on and enjoy some nice, easier pussy. Best thing you can do (and funnest!). Never, ever chase. That's all that some chicks want. And once you do... Game over.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 03:47 AM
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Short answer: Occasionally. Don't ask too much. Your life she be interesting enough you're not constantly thinking about whatever some girl is doing all the time.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 11:00 PM
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Just do yourself a favor and go full MGTOW right now.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 09:26 PM
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"I am not too young for you, but you might be too old for me." This. Honestly, a woman will fuck you no matter your age if she's turned on and attracted to you. Just have to show confidence. Sounds like OP might be letting this feel bigger than it is. You can't change your age. Another possibility: "What's your hangup with asking about my age? I've been with a few women your age and even a little older, none of them made it seem like anything at all." This chick needs to feel that she should be …
/r/askTRP05/09/17 08:17 PM
1

How old are you? I'm in my early 30s now, and I keep in touch with very few, almost zero, friends from college or highschool. People just naturally get on with their lives and grow apart. The good friends you'll keep around though. You don't need to burn any bridges. What good will that do? Just find hobbies that you enjoy and help you build the life you want, and you'll gradually will make different friends that reflect the values you want to cultivate in your life. What are your goals? What do…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 07:53 PM
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Right? And all of their bitching and moaning probably makes him miss them even less. "Of course I miss you. When are you coming out to visit? Oh, you're not anytime soon? I guess the feeling is mutual."
/r/askTRP05/09/17 03:22 PM
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Things like letting guys cum inside her while she refused it for me and a number higher than she told me beforehand, but i just assumed these already She told you these things just randomly? And now is flying out just to "fix things" and let you do all the "freaky" things she did with a bunch of Chads and would never let you do before? Bro, stop. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. Because there's a small chance she's pregnant and wants to make you think it's yours by letting you get in on the …
/r/askTRP01/09/17 11:35 PM
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"I didn't want to say anything cuhz you were a waste of time in the past". Ummmm, no. Don't say this. If she reaches out to you, arrange a time to go out together. "There's a new brewery/bar/whatever I want to check out this week. You should come get a drink with me. When are you free?" At this point, only text her to arrange a meetup. Either she agrees or she doesn't, so you're not wasting your time. When you're with her, show off your confidence (even if you have to fake it till you make it). …
/r/askTRP01/09/17 11:28 PM
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Ask her if she wants to have a threesome. She'll either say yes, or be pissed and stop talking to you. Boom, problem solved. Or just ignore her pesky BS and date other women.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 08:43 PM
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You're thinking about this all wrong. TRP isn't opposed to LTRs or commitment, it's just that when you commit to a girl, she damn better be worth your commitment. Which, if you ask me, needs to mean more than giving you sex. Sex is the bare minimum in a relationship. Is she good company? Nice to be around? Do nice things for you? Meaning, does she have the sort of qualities from a woman with which you'd want to be in a relationship? If the answer is "no" then don't commit to her just so she'll p…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 07:54 PM
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You're going through a withdrawl of oxytocin (the chemical your body produces when you're dating). And trust me, it sucks. Here's my advice: Keep no contact. Block her on FB/Instagram/etc if you haven't done so already. Avoid anything that might trigger you to think about her (if you have to put everything in a box for a while, do it. You can get rid of it when you're ready). Then, get ready to start something awesome. Imagine this feeling you have right now as a fire. Fire can be a force for a …
/r/askTRP01/09/17 06:11 PM
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The fact that she messaged you on FB and then branch swung to you is a serious red flag. Also, the fact that she moved in with this shitty Chad after a month and they argued all the time, etc., and within a short amount of time she's looking to move out and find another dude shows a lot of volatility and poor decision making, FYI. Here's the thing about LTRs: They're good until they are not. She'll cook and clean for you and suck your dick every day, until the day she decides she's done with you…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:18 PM
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People are just shitty and selfish, and they are like this because of an overwhelming drive to maximize their access to sex and resources. The truth hurts sometimes. Sigh.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 04:52 PM
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A month and a half is a long time, but not really. I'd suggest not committing to this chick if you knew she was going out of town for so long. Stay busy. Let her wonder about you a little. If she asks what you're up to, maybe let her know you've been going out and doing things, but leave it purposefully vague whether you're around women or not (read: light dread game). Ideally, you should be going out with your friends and being around women, but you don't have to fuck them. Don't text too much.…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 04:29 PM
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let it simmer This. Women are like cats. They'll come around when they're curious about you, and you use that as an opportunity to make plans, hang out, and hook up. But you can't chase them or blow up their phones trying for their attention--that'll lower your SMV and kill attraction. All OP needed to do when she texted him is a little bit of a pressure flip: "I'm not uncomfortable or going to get hurt. Are you?" And she'll give some BS answer for her own shit test, then OP should respond: "Wel…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 04:03 PM
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Yeah, man. Just focus on yourself and taking care of your own stuff, and either the women want you or they don't. And... While there is only one you, there are plenty of women to date/fuck/whatever.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:20 PM
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She is a solid 10 and single Stop putting attractive women on pedestals. There are no 10s. Just women you're interested in and women you're not interested in. So she won the genetic lottery and is very attractive, and she knows how to put on a little makeup? So what? Her farts still stink and she gets bad breath, just like the rest of us. There's a phrase: "Show me an attractive woman with a boyfriend, and I'll show you some dude who's probably getting tired of fucking her." Really, you haven't …
/r/askTRP31/08/17 10:05 PM
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No, but somebody else commented about how women will lose interest in three days. You can't worry about that stuff. I don't think it's bad to say you're busy for two weeks, and then try to make plans when you get closer to that time.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 09:21 PM
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Usually, you want to strike while the iron is hot. But don't have a scarcity mentality. You could always try to hedge your bets (make a date with two girls on the same night, pick the best prospect and put the other on the backburner).
/r/askTRP31/08/17 08:16 PM
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I had her on Snapchat and posted on my story that I was blocking everyone who saw it and didn't reply Fuck dude, you're acting like a chick. I'd advise you, if you use social media, to be subtle about it and to not care about how many likes/views/responses you get. Because needing that sort of validation is beta AF. said if she couldn't make it happen she's done. You can't say it explicitly. Women aren't dumb when it comes to sex/relationships. Ultimatums like that are never good. Honestly, she …
/r/askTRP31/08/17 08:07 PM
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When she reaches out to you, you need to take the lead to make plans. Don't over text, but when she reaches out, schedule times to see her again. She shouldn't be doing all the planning. How many times have you hung out vs her flaking? Did she apologize and offer an alternative? Don't forget, at this point this girl is just an option. So you should be having other options going on as well.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:59 PM
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Sometimes. Women like it and get turned on if you lead them. So if we're out bar hopping I'll sometimes hold her hand while walking, or let her put her arm through mine. She loves it. But you need to make sure you don't come across as needy/clingy. There's a subtle difference sometimes, so be careful. If she's shit testing me, no... She needs to reach out after I pass the test.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 07:56 PM
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desperate for getting laid. This is the worst place to be. Luckily, you're young and have lots of time to improve. Dude, I never kissed a girl until I was 22, and never slept with one till I was 23... I'm 33 now and dating feels on easy mode. You just need practice and to grow as a person. My point is this: It can get better, but you have to put in the work. Women aside, what do you want out of life: Set goals. Take care of yourself (lift! fix your diet!). Read books to grow past your weaknesses…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 10:16 PM
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Don't send the long text. Abort! Say nothing. If she's interested, she'll get ahold of you. You've text with an attempt to set up a meet-up, it's all up to her to either agree, or suggest another time. You can't chase. Meanwhile, approach other women.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 10:09 PM
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You can't change other people, but you can change yourself. Why are you even getting involved with these women? Honestly, they sound like shit and any sane guy wouldn't have given them a second date.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 10:07 PM
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Keep beating her, but be a good winner (i.e. be the better and more attractive person). But if she's acting like a child, "treat" her like a child. When I'm with children and I anticipate something that could cause problem behaviors, I tell them my expectations before we do anything, but don't sound condescending or like you're making it a big deal: "I'm game to have our softball throwing contest, but you have to promise that when I beat you, you're going to be a good sport. Deal?" Try to make i…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 10:03 PM
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Stop airing out your dirty laundry on the internet, you idiot. Stop caring about this girl. She's gone, and this is pointless drama. The less you care about her, the better you life will be from now on. Erase your twitter if you can't handle it.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 05:49 PM
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Yeah, you need to be more direct and show more confidence. A lack of confidence is such a turn off for women. 99% chance it's too late for this girl, so don't beat yourself up about it.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 10:29 PM
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You can text some to build rapport and attraction, but be careful. Too much frequency can lower your SMV. The trick is to keep whatever you text light and fun, and to present you as having forward progress in life (a very attractive quality to women). Be busy and doing cool things, and when you text in between, subtly mention the cool stuff in your life. It can even potentially raise your SMV. Avoid "nothing" texts (e.g. "Hey." or "What are you doing?"). Give the girl time in between to wonder a…
/r/askTRP25/08/17 07:27 PM
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It's good you're picking up on this stuff early on. Internally, I think you need to keep growing, so you don't get that deep, visceral gut reaction (breaking frame). Because some day you might be interested in a girl and be thrown in a similar situation, and you don't want to fail that moment. When vetting a girl for a potential LTR, she's going to show you, both through her actions and subtly things she says (i.e. "trickle truth") whether she's worth your commitment or not. And remember, you ha…
/r/askTRP25/08/17 04:53 PM
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Google "The Sex God Method pdf" You're welcome.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 05:16 PM
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Well, besides hoping you've read the sidebar, here's a little advice: I wouldn't do a coffee date if you're trying to get laid, unless you or here aren't old enough to drink. I would get drinks (e.g. beer or cocktails). That is much better. But don't back out or try to change plans now, because it would show indecisiveness. When you're out with her, be the best version of yourself. Hopefully you've started to work out and fix your diet if it's shit. Get better clothes, a better haircut if you ne…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 10:42 PM
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She just wasn't into you. At least she was honest, so you don't have to waste your time or wonder if she's playing games. Attraction is a tricky thing. If you try too much to make things happen, you kill it. Sounds like you might have been trying too hard without realizing it? Hoping for some response? Keep going out with other women. Develop rock solid frame and get good at dating, so that these things come naturally. There might be an aspect of "fake it till you make it," but when a good prosp…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 10:33 PM
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frankly beyond my SMV Here's your problem. You need to raise your SMV or your "dream chick" will always be just that: A dream. But then you can't put them on a pedestal or you'll fuck it all up. You need to be the prize.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 07:36 PM
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Come up with a real plan and stick to it. At some point you have to take responsibility for your own life. What is your end game? Get back into university and finish your degree? It's going to take real hard work and sacrifice, and no one can do it for you. Nobody is coming to rescue you.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 07:08 PM
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They didn't call it a "romp" probably because the perpetrator isn't attractive.
/r/MensRights23/08/17 06:32 PM
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It's so weird... Guys on this sub will be like, "Bro, if she doesn't come over to your apartment and agree to fuck you within 10 minutes of meeting then you're totally a beta orbiter and she's out getting railed by Chad! NEXT!" and then they wonder why so many of these chicks are just "sluts" and AWALT and all that good stuff. What I think you're talking about is that you've found a girl who isn't playing SlutGameTM . I want to make a post on this, because I think it's important to understand: G…
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:43 PM
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Nice troll. In the 0.0001% chance you're not trolling... God, you're stupid.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 04:01 PM
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You mean, why would I care about another human being? Because they're a human being. Obviously, it wasn't like a life changing experience or anything, and I didn't even do anything, but I did care.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 12:28 PM
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"Thanks." That's usually about all you need to do. Maybe occasionally a little more if you're in an LTR and you can tell she's making an effort to be kind to you.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 11:41 PM
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Man, I feel for you. I walked into a gas station last week and I saw a drunk woman just giving it to an omega male, making fun of him, being a total bitch. Talk about stripping someone of their humanity... Keep on the path. Keep doing good stuff and building your dream life in all ways: Physically, socially, financially, mentally/emotionally, etc. You can't change the past. You can only make decisions about what you're going to do right now. If your past is bugging you enough to cause this level…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 10:05 PM
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Unless she shows up to your door holding condoms and beer, ignore her. She wants to make sure you stay in beta orbit, but you're already breaking free... She does like you or really respects you, so don't turn back into her little puppy, ok?
/r/askTRP22/08/17 08:45 PM
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It's simple: Tell them that you have one of the best sunset viewing spots in the world, and tell them they should join you. Either they will or they won't. Then do your voodoo dick magic with some booze and see if they're down. At some point, you have to care less about rejection.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 06:33 PM
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Sorry, dude, we can't help you fix your life with "wisdom" that is less than 140 characters. You have to do the work. There is no magic genie that is going to come make your life better. No one is coming to rescue you. Start with the Sidebar made simple. Read all the links too. Then go to the main sub, filter the posts by top posts, and read all the top posts. Knowledge is power.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 09:06 PM
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You need to get in better shape. You can't change your height, so don't worry about it, but 230 is coming in rather heavy. What's your %bf? Skip POF (which is really plenty of whales and single mothers) and download Tinder and Bumble. And don't even bring up your height when talking to girls. It's a non-issue. Ditch the selfies and get better pics that show what make you unique. What are your cool hobbies? Me, I have pictures of climbing trips, as well as going out and doing things. Being unique…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 08:22 PM
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You're spot on. People talk in bars. Men approach women. It's the girl's job to communicate boundaries to any guy with which she comes in contact. And these situations are always a win-win: Either she does a good job setting boundaries and thus shows you she's worth your time, or she does a shitty job and flirts up the guy next to her, and you can next her.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 06:23 PM
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Dude. Here's a girl that you work with, has a boyfriend, you've never slept with, never dated, and you're living in a fantasy world thinking she might be into you and you're jealous of her boyfriend. The simple truth is you just need to grow up. Move forward. Stop living in a fantasy land and making yourself miserable. You see her as this really high value girl because she's showing you the best version of herself (at work). But you know what? Her farts still stink and she gets bad breath and ca…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:44 PM
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I was like you. I listened to the audio book several times. I was shocked: The things that society tends to think of as "male power," when really examined, are just a form of powerlessness. And then feminist pigs have the audacity to call most of these things "privilege." It's utter BS. It gets better. Use your knowledge to make smart decisions. Be careful who you share your ideas with, because many people will think that you're a horrible person who hates women simply because you think differen…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:31 PM
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Honestly, this might be the tip of the iceberg and you she might be a pain in the ass. Tread lightly. You can always agree and amplify, but take it way over the top: "Your majesty, may I pretty please have the joyous pleasure of your magnificent company?" If she's not a total bitch, she'll laugh and you've crushed the shit test. If she is a total bitch about it, next her.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 10:43 PM
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These are tough situations, and your response really depends on the context. Is this a plate? LTR? A first meeting? How crowded is the bar? How intense was the flirting? Did she flirt back, or was she just trying to be polite? Sometimes people (especially women) will get into these situations where they don't feel comfortable telling a guy to go away. First step: Don't let it phase you. Don't break frame. It's a chance to flex your inner game muscles: Show that you're not needy, not insecure, et…
/r/askTRP18/08/17 09:30 PM
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Ditch the scarcity mentality. A woman that thirsty to fuck you will jump back into plate status at a moments notice. She'll definitely be finding more guys between now and then, but I bet she'll be up for more fun. Either way, approach other women at your university.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 08:24 PM
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Wait. Roomate's bf's friend? Is this a dude? And he's sleeping on the couch in her room? Hmmm... Any way, if she's shit testing too much, you need to decide if she's worth the pain in the ass. As soon as a girl is taking away more from your life than she adds, you need to next her. Don't think in terms of "but we've been together for 9 months." Look up the sunken cost fallacy. You don't want to keep investing money in a failing business.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 05:17 PM
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Right? A girl that fights with you every day is not "sweet and nice." OP has blue pill colored glasses...
/r/askTRP18/08/17 04:47 PM
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Don't mate guard, dude. Don't even worry about this guy who has a girlfriend. Don't worry about being more "alpha" than the guy next door. Because you know what? There is always someone more "alpha" than both you and the guy next door. Handle your own shit. Be the king of your own domain. If you see concerning behavior from your girlfriend that shows shitty boundaries or a lack of loyalty (e.g. her hanging out with the guy next door would be a huge red flag), dump her. It's that easy.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 04:12 PM
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she's totally out of my league in almost every way. Stop saying things like that or you're going to ruin things. You have to be the prize. Focus on yourself. What do you bring to the table? I have a thing for smart women. I have dated PAs, lawyers, women with advanced degrees from Ivy League Universities, etc. In a lot of ways, they're the same as other women, but in some ways they are easier. Often in their circles they only have intelligent men, but not many masculine/alpha men. If you are bot…
/r/askTRP18/08/17 03:49 PM
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Lower your % bodyfat. That's it. Keep lifting, perhaps consider cutting (or doing keto for a few months), and you'll get there. It really is 90% diet.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 09:42 PM
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Be the better man. Don't even talk about him. Pretend he doesn't exist. Date the girl. If he says anything about this to you, tell him calmly but straight: "You're acting like a petulant child and need to grow up. You had feelings for a girl and she wasn't interested in you. It's not the end of the world, but you need to get on with your life and stop being miserable."
/r/askTRP17/08/17 06:01 PM
15

Yeah, it's total projection. It's like when a classic beta "nice guy" gets salty and calls a girl he's been orbiting a bitch because he didn't get what he wanted. People need to figure out that the problem with their life mostly isn't other people, it's themselves. "Fuckboy" is just another attempt to shame male sexuality when it doesn't fit into the female imperative. And it won't work, because women (especially feminists idiots) have given up the fight. As long as men are seen as a "privileged…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:55 PM
2

That's a good sign that you both reached that understanding in a relationship. Keep an eye on it, focus on yourself, and crush the shit tests. The girl I'm dating now I met at the climbing gym. We don't climb together at the gym, and a lot of time she has this dude in a man bun belay her. Honestly, it doesn't bother me at all. Why? I'm light years better than this guy at climbing, take this girl outside on rad adventures every weekend, we hook up throughout the week, and I know she's head-over-h…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:46 PM
1

Again, stay within your macros. There aren't necessarily "good carbs" or "bad carbs;" they're just carbs. There are however, better foods to get carbs from (e.g. vegetables, whole grains, brown rice) and bad foods to get carbs from (e.g. white bread, white rice, junk food, processed crap, etc.).
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:40 PM
2

"Trust, but verify" is horseshit as it gives incentives to insecurity and possessive behaviors, and these are hardcore attraction killers. You are spot on, u/quicklogaccount. And if you think about it, snooping on someone's phone creates insecurity through the behaviors you are manifesting. If you reach a point where you feel like you have to check your partner's phone or FB, you're already past the point where you should have dumped them.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:05 PM
2

Don't show jealousy. Mate guarding is beta behavior and will turn off a girl quicker than you can believe. LTRs are interesting things... I believe a girl will show you if she's a legit prospect by having appropriate boundaries and letting you see that. For example, if I was dating a girl for a length of time and she was my GF, and she went out drinking with some guy friend and got drunk, I'd just drop her... Even if at that point she hadn't done anything physical. Why? Because whether she wants…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 04:02 PM
1

Dude, figure out your macros and stick to those. Download MyFitnessPal app and get a food scale. Weigh your food and log it into the app. Try to stick to your macros (e.g. If you're trying to cut, run a caloric deficit, etc.). If you like pasta, you can occasionally have pasta, if it fits into your macros. I'd suggest switching to whole wheat pasta though.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 03:52 PM
3

he always mocks me for not being a gentlemen to girls and that's why I can't get girls You're father is wrong. Girls aren't attracted to gentlemen, they're attracted to masculinity: Strength, dominance, success, etc. (i.e. "alphas"). Being a gentleman is only show dressing. Woman always say they wish they could find a "nice guy" or a "gentleman," but what they really mean is that they want a Chad who is also good to them. The two are not related. A woman will settle for a IDGAF attitude is it me…
/r/askTRP17/08/17 03:47 PM
2

Ok, well, unicorns don't exist and there's no such thing as a perfect woman who is going to be everything (hot/interesting/intelligent/have had great experiences/loves you.)
/r/askTRP16/08/17 10:23 PM
6

Women (and even people in general) who are genuinely interesting are rare to find. Too many people are rather vapid and live boring lives. You might have to prioritize differently, or hang out in different circles (i.e. instead of a "hot" girl, find one who is "girl next door cute," but likes to read good books and do interesting things and has a decent body). Every time you add another desire to your list of potential partners, you narrow down your selection a bit. Unless you are a top 0.1% mal…
/r/askTRP16/08/17 09:27 PM
6

She's not an idiot. She's just from beyond and wall and is unlearned.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 06:45 PM
2

Yeah, she posts occasional pictures of herself in her hijab. And does other stuff. Really, some suburban white girl doing all these things and posting non-stop pictures of people of color is total virtue signaling via cultural appropriation. The lack of self-awareness is crazy.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 06:44 PM
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I have an acquaintance who is a queergender intersectional feminist... And she just became a Muslim. Her Instagram is mostly just posts of pictures of food, sexual things, and large black women. It's strange, but I think it stems from a culturally Marxist worldview which places "oppression" as the highest virtue. Only you don't actually have to be oppressed, but simply associate yourself with perceived oppressed groups or claim to be their ally and virtue signal.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 04:42 PM
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Remember the huge internet backlash when Sansa was raped off screen by Ramsey? It was like, "Whoah, GOTs, too far!" Like we've literally seen men get their genitals chopped off, beheaded, burned alive, cannibalism, tortured, etc. but this was too far. It's just a story, ya'll.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 04:09 PM
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Yeah, he did. Theon done fucked up! But my point is more this: Authors are free to write stories with men, where the male characters run the gamut of human experiences. You can have dumb males, evil males, cunning males, heroic males, etc. and nobody is going to care about how a man if portrayed because we all understand having different characters makes a stories colorful and interesting. But women? Oh, if you have a very dumb woman in a story, it's "proof" of misogyny and you will hear critici…
/r/MensRights16/08/17 03:59 PM
1

That's a good perspective. Women are attracted to masculine energy, so if you have goals, are working hard, have forward progress in your life, etc. they're going to find you much more attractive.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 03:51 PM
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And whenever GRRM or the show has an empowered woman doing something rad, all the feminists cheer, but if something shitty happens to a woman on the show, it's patriarchy and sexism striking again... Ignoring the fact that shitty things happen to just about every person on that show (see: Theon Greyjoy).
/r/MensRights16/08/17 03:50 PM
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Some people on this sub call it "The Brad Pitt rule." Like, if a girl was dating Brad Pitt and he told her he was into butt stuff, the girl would totally then be into butt stuff, right? But guys on this sub need to take this concept with a grain of salt, because 99.9% of them aren't Brad Pitt, so she'll never think of them as Brad Pitt, and expecting her to treat them like Brad-fucking-Pitt is not a reasonable expectation for another human being.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 03:47 PM
1

Well, I was just friends with this current girl for a while and got to see how she acted in a lot of situations--both good and bad situations. And so I got to see a different side to her. And I don't tell her what to do. I simply tell her what I like, but very subtly, and just wait and see. They either care or they don't. And if she does something good, I'll make a point to tell get later on, but again, make it not obvious what I'm doing.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 03:26 PM
1

How old are you? I used to do the "Can I kiss you?" thing in the past, when I was afraid of offending the woman. I think it can easily be interpreted as weakness or a lack of confidence. But a lot of it might be in the delivery. The last time I did it was years ago, when the girl responded, "Only if you don't ask." So I stopped. Now, I just lean in and say "Come here," and 95% of the time they kiss me. Of course, they can always say no, but they usually don't.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:52 PM
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You need to set real boundaries and expectations... But do so subtly. I'm currently vetting a girl for an LTR. Early on we were discussing our previous dating experiences, and I mentioned about how the best women I had dated contributed when we went out (i.e. even if I made a lot more money, they'd still pay for drinks, or contribute financially in one way or another). I explained to her that a girl offering to pay shows that she's not there for a "free lunch" and is actually interested. You bet…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 05:57 PM
1

How'd you try to kiss her? If you ask a girl ("Can I kiss you?") it's a total turn off. But don't worry about it. Plus, some girls are just shy or want to "make the guy wait." Ask her out again. Be specific (e.g. "There's a show on Thursday night, we should go." etc.). Either she'll say yes, or say no and offer an alternative, or she'll ignore/say no. The first two mean she still might have an interest. If she says no or ignores you, soft next. Don't text her again to make plans until she reache…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 03:37 PM
2

Don't meet her. You're different people now, and no need to dig up old drama that will throw you off your game (sounds like you're killing it!). Find a good girl who gets to reap the benefits of your growth. Or spin plates. Or whatever... Just don't meet up with this girl. MOVE FORWARD.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 03:53 PM
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You need to find happiness outside of women and never expect a girl to make you happy. Sex is fun, dating is fun, hanging out with girls can be fun... But you need to have realistic expectations and be happy/content first. When you finally get some abundance mentality, getting sex will be on easy mode. I always go into dates with potential plates with zero expectations. I'm not trying to get laid, I'm not trying to "see how far I can go," nothing. If she's a shitty person, even better, then I ca…
/r/askTRP11/08/17 07:56 PM
1

Tell him that everyone is responsible for themselves and that at the end of the day only he can fix his problems. Nobody is coming to rescue you. Tell him if there ever comes a day where he wakes up and wants a better life, to get ahold of you for some advice. And then leave it at that. You can't do the waking up for him.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 07:44 PM
3

Stop looking at anything that reminds you of her. Keep working on yourself and moving forward. Approach other chicks and sleep with 10 of them (you're 2/10 so far).
/r/askTRP09/08/17 09:42 PM
1

I always erase the texts eventually. Sometimes you can keep the number, as long as they don't become a distraction. It's rare, but occasionally a girl you talked to a long time ago will reach out to you, and you can get a date or hook up, but I never count on that. Strike while the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:43 PM
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Yeah, just move forward, man. You'd be surprised at how quickly a girl is out of your life when you no longer initiate. If she reaches out to you (for whatever reason) and you want to respond, make sure it's with no inkling of desire that maybe she'll "finally come around," because that's not going to happen. You have to just be secure in yourself. Have fun in Europe. What part are you going to? Maybe you can have fun and fool around with some European girls.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:40 PM
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If she's "pretty popular," she probably has a ton of dudes taking her out that she's also rejecting. Don't worry about it. Date more women, always be proud of the decisions you make, and don't worry about the outcome (read: you can't control other people).
/r/askTRP09/08/17 06:53 PM
2

She is the coolest person besides me on this trip and I was legitimately looking to traveling with her and getting to know her better... Man, you're way in beta orbit. Forget about this girl, don't act butt hurt, don't confront her, and enjoy your other friends on this trip. Make experiences. Be happy. And don't chase or think about "the coolest" girl once while you do all this, you pussy. If she goes out of your way and talks to you, it's whatever, I wouldn't create any drama because it's not w…
/r/askTRP09/08/17 06:51 PM
4

I'm guessing you watch a lot of internet porn? I'm just trying to figure out why it is that as a virgin you'd want to turn down regular sex with women, and instead try freaky BDSM type stuff to some random landwhale?
/r/askTRP08/08/17 10:23 PM
1

Sounds like you have a good start, man. Yeah, eventually you'll need to start approaching and learning to "game" women (read: not "trick women, but attract them naturally and learn the "rules" of romantic relationships), and that will take time and practice, and will come with successes/failures. But work on those other areas first and more importantly. In the end, you can't control if a woman stays or is interested, nor should you try to do so. You can only control what you do, and who you are …
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:36 PM
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the guy just said something 5 year olds realize So... Girls have vaginas and boys have penises and they generally act different and stuff? And each individual person should be basically free to choose to do what they want with their life, but because of those general differences, we'll never have the same outcome between the genders in certain fields and situations?
/r/MensRights08/08/17 06:21 PM
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There is a certain type of person that just can't be alone. I once met a woman who was married for 8 years, divorced, and within a week or two had her next boyfriend. They dated a year, broke up, and within a week or two found her current boyfriend. She gets away with it because she's attractive, but really it screams insecurity. You need to be okay with being alone. You need to be secure in yourself. Why? Because then you can actually date successfully and vette potential women for an LTR. Or y…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:02 PM
2

Man, you're really young, so you have a lot of time to grow, but you really need to grow to end up with a good life that you're proud of in the end. First things first: This girl is gone. Don't try to communicate with her, stop thinking about her, don't give her any more power over you. You had an experience, you had some good memories, you made your mistakes, now it's time to move forward. It's been a year, so you've given way too much time and emotion to someone you've never met. Next: Why are…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:30 PM
1

You're doing a lot of good things. Keep going. And you're obviously intelligent from your post. But it sounds like you need to do work in a lot of other areas? Are you happy? I think you need to find happiness first and not count on women to make you happy. It sounds corny, or maybe even backwards, but it's true. And confidence... You need to boost that. I'm only 5'7.5", so we're not that much difference in height. My suggestion is to stop worrying about it. Some girls will care, other's won't s…
/r/askTRP07/08/17 10:55 PM
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she always talks to me through texting but when I ask her out, she always refuses. She's using you for attention and validation. You made your intentions clear, and it's obviously not what she's looking for (commitment). Although, you probably could have made your intentions clear in a less obvious way (think: salesmanship).
/r/askTRP07/08/17 08:57 PM
3

She wanted to date you, but you didn't? And now she's talked to a bunch of her friends and they're trying to work on you to "make" you interested in an LTR? Just next this girl, if she doesn't get the hint make it clear you're not interested, and tell her to not talk to have her friends talk to you. It's exhausting. I hope your time is too valuable to waste on petty drama?
/r/askTRP07/08/17 08:55 PM
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Wait... You're in an LTR, are cheating with this girl, and you're worried about her cheating on you? What a cluster fuck. Look, dude... You should be single if you want to fuck around with a bunch of random girls.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 06:48 PM
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Yup. Mate guarding and jealousy is going to kill any chance with this girl, or any girl, and shows OP is not ready for a successful LTR. He should probably just spin plates and work on himself.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 06:16 PM
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We need to call people out on their shitty behavior. Sadly, women often get a pass from society for a variety of things. Don't be a beta white knight and tell it to her husband straight. He asked you as a man, you tell him as a man. Covering for this woman only enables her BS.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 05:05 PM
1

Ahhh, the classic "There's this one girl..." post. she is nothing more than an option. Treat her as such. She might have boyfriend, she might hate men, she might hate you. I guarantee she has a whole load of stuff (good and bad) going on that you know nothing about. You can't take her seriously as a sexual option until you've had actual sex with her on two separate occasions. Until then - she's an option and nothing more. I would argue that having sex two times isn't enough. I would say sex mult…
/r/askTRP03/08/17 04:01 PM
1

But you can be drunk and rape another drunk person. The issue comes down to consent and intent. And somebody who is willingly going down on you, nods off for three seconds because they're tired, then keeps going shows clear consent, even if they've been drinking. Of course, there's a line there where a person is so drunk that they're incapacitated and cannot give consent. I guess my point is these issues are a lot more complicated, and it's difficult to sort them out, unless you're in the situat…
/r/MensRights02/08/17 05:54 PM
1

Protip: To get away with sexual assault, make sure you're drunk too! /s
/r/MensRights02/08/17 03:40 PM
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Passed out? Or dozed off for 3 second, woke up, and continued going? Because there's a huge difference. There's a huge difference between someone sneaking into a bedroom of person who is passed out and forcing themselves on that person (rape), and what Amy described. I just feel like we're feeding the hysteria.
/r/MensRights01/08/17 07:57 PM
1

That would be a good idea! Try it a few times and see what you think.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 06:49 PM
2

Find a masculine hobby that you genuinely enjoy, that will allow you to meet other masculine men and bond with them. Some people do MMA. Me? I love rock climbing. I go to the gym and climb with the guys, and they're all pretty cool, type-A badasses. We get out on trips and climb mountains and stuff. Many of them are older, still in great shape, and have successful careers. Those are the type of relationships you want to cultivate, but it might take time.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 06:33 PM
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Thanks. I think these discussions are important to have! So if a girl I have a crush on gets drunk, booty calls me, is tired from partying all night, falls asleep while performing a sexual act on me (I am the "object" being acted upon in this instance), wakes up a few seconds later and wants to continue... I am guilty of sexual assault? I am worried that we're going to turn into a male parody of the third-wave feminists we so love to criticize, and in doing so we'll contribute to this "sexual as…
/r/MensRights01/08/17 06:07 PM
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I'm glad you posted the transcript. I do not believe this is sexual assault... The guy had been drinking all night, wanted sex, and fell asleep while trying to give her oral. For years on this sub, we've heard stories of two college kids getting drunk, hooking up, and one later regretting that decision (usually the girl) and claiming sexual assault. And we've argued it doesn't matter if you're drunk, you chose to have sex (of course, if a person passes out, they can't consent.). Now we're taking…
/r/MensRights01/08/17 05:01 PM
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I disagree. While I think Amy Schumer is a dumb, fat cow towing the feminist line... A guy came over (albeit drunk) and willingly had sex with her. Yes, Amy was sober. Did this guy pass out? I don't know. It's Amy's story, I haven't heard from this guy claiming he was "raped." Perhaps Amy is embellishing the story a bit for "comedic effect." Who knows? But my point is this: For years on this sub, we've heard stories of two college kids getting drunk, hooking up, and one later regretting that dec…
/r/MensRights01/08/17 04:54 PM
1

I agree to a point. If the man is attractive, calling a woman sexy (and owning it) can be a turn on. If the man is not seen as attractive, calling a woman sexy can come off as "creepy" or get the "Hey we're just friends you shouldn't do that!" Being in beta orbit and sheepishly sending a text like that is a good way to trigger the "creepy" vibe. OP has a lot of work to do on himself if her wants to be successful with girls. He should forget about "this one girl..." and focus on himself, having t…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:45 PM
1

This is good information. Yeah, try to avoid the drama. And the guy's SMV is always going to be higher than the woman's SMV. That's just how it works (women are biologically the "more valuable" sex because they can reproduce, thus always date/marry "up"). That's also why it's important to keep your SMV high. You've been with this girl for two years and have a (seemingly) successful LTR, but your family doesn't like her? This doesn't add up. Is it just that she's a different race and your family …
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:39 PM
2

I feel like there's a lot more going on here than on the surface. How long have you been in an LTR? Why are you trying to "eliminate contact with your parents for the time being"? Why ignore your LTR for a whole day over a bunch of manufactured drama? There are possibly other issues here that scream of dysfunction. Here's the TL;DR: You brought your LTR to a festival about your culture. Cool. Your sister was being a bitch and didn't want your LTR there. Not cool. You let your sister manufacture …
/r/askTRP01/08/17 04:08 PM
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Don't shit where you live, especially with a girl who has a boyfriend. You could create a ton of drama at a place where you're working (training?) and it would suck. Plus, women, when they're caught cheating... Occasionally don't tell the truth about what happened in the bedroom, and it could be your word against hers. Bad news. It's not worth it for a girl who is "not too attractive, but passable." Passable.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:21 PM
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Right now you should be making decisions are is going to set yourself up for success the rest of your life. Figure out what you want your life to look like in 20 years, then go backwards 10 years, 5 years, 1 years, 6 month... And have a general plan as to what you're going to do to get there. If you don't already, make a budget and live by it. Make sure you have at least 1000 in savings for emergencies, then get out of debt as quick as possible. Not having debt will set you up for a lot of succe…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 05:31 PM
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This. I've always been honest with plates about other women I've been seeing. It shows solid frame, honesty, preselection, can be a form of minor dread... And then most of them are willing to hook up again if it doesn't work out. Plus, a surprising amount of women say they're down for a threesome (although I've never put the effort into making one happen, have come close a few times).
/r/askTRP31/07/17 05:26 PM
2

BUT CHAD DOESN'T TEXT BRO, HE JUST FUCKS PLATES AFTER THE GYM /s
/r/askTRP28/07/17 06:03 PM
2

Not necessarily. Sometimes you can text to build slight rapport or generate interest, depending on the situation. A lot of it depends on how much/why/what you text. Texting to seek out validation/attention is beta behavior. Generally, I think texting too much is bad because it lowers your perceived SMV (think about supply/demand). Overall, I would suggest to decrease your frequency of texting, but increase the quality. Avoid "nothing" texts, and have a clear purpose in mind for what and how much…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 06:01 PM
1

That's a tricky one. She obviously is excited to see you, and maybe throwing out some self-depreciating humor. You can either use it as an opportunity to flirt or just ignore and text her about something else at a later time.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 04:45 PM
3

It'd be funny if OP never got back on reddit to see your answer.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 04:16 PM
1

You just need more balance and to not drain your life away in front of screens. Decide how much time you want to allow yourself in front of a computer and set a timer. Then, find hobbies you enjoy. Me? I love rock climbing. I started when I was 30, and I wish I had started earlier. It's really easy to get into because of gyms. But I'd suggest to you to try a lot of different things that you might be interested in: Playing guitar, hiking, wood working, etc. and see what sticks. Don't invest a lot…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 04:15 PM
1

how have you not googled "Fun hobbies to learn" Dude, you're sending him back to the computer!
/r/askTRP28/07/17 04:12 PM
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You shouldn't even be thinking about FWB until you've slept with her multiple times. Sometimes, depending on what your SMV is, what she has going on in her life, the chemistry, etc. there might be things going on that you have zero clue about that affects her decision. Maybe she's been seeing a guy and wants to get serious with him, and you were her last stop on the CC. It's whatever. You biggest power play right now (and best chance) is to show you have the complete ability to walk away. She sh…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 11:50 PM
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I would advise against posting pictures of yourself on TRP. People are still crazy in this PC culture and they'll make you "guilty by association." With that said... My advice: Move the mention of 6'2 to the end of your profile. It'll have the same effect, but will come off as less subtle. Good job getting shredded. Don't have a shirtless mirror selfie, though, have something with you at the beach or some place where you "happen" to not be wearing a shirt. Again, same effect, but subtly is the k…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 10:47 PM
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Your initial solution was the correct one. "Thanks, but I have plenty of friends, and so I'm only interested in romance." She'll either go along with it, or she wont, but you don't want to waste your time/energy with a girl who isn't interested in you in that way. If she mentions her boyfriend again, just tell her, "Best wishes." and lose her number.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:09 PM
1

Nah, bro, NPR is where I turn to really get my rocks off.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:18 PM
2

Then buy a Lambo in China and get fucked like a king.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:17 PM
3

You wouldn't even need to go to the club. Just drive down the street, pull along side them, and tell them to hop in. 5/7 times, it works every time.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 07:40 PM
3

Ahhh, "So there's this girl..." Don't chase this girl. Basically, the door has closed and you're going to waste time and energy just to become a beta orbiter. Fix the root of the problem so in the future it doesn't happen again.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 07:35 PM
3

Stop paying for her things. Then try to hook up with her. She'll either go along with it, or she'll drop you fast. Problem solved. Either way, it's a win-win. Also, read the sidebar again and sign up for the gym. Stop jerking off so much and do something with your life before you die.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 03:57 PM
1

Have rock solid frame and be straight with them: "I believe in 'equality,' in the sense that everyone is free to do what they want with their lives, but I'm not a feminist, because intersectional feminism itself is racist, sexist garbage, and its culturally Marxist worldview doesn't empower anyone, certainly not women, because it turns victimhood into a virtue." Then tell her that feminism is not about equality and that the concept of patriarchy is overblown. If you're feeling extra sinister, te…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 04:56 PM
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Lowe, looking tanned with her blonde hair in a bun, wore a black leather jacket with a black jumper and blue jeans as she spoke Because they want to infer that she was looking "cute" and obviously the boy wanted it, so age of consent isn't "that big of a deal." Disgusting. Imagine a man raping a teenage girl, and then the article described him as "looking ripped, with his chiseled jawline showing some hunky stubble..." There does seem to be some fetishizing when female teachers commit statutory …
/r/MensRights20/07/17 04:30 PM
1

Yes, your analysis is spot on. That's why it's usually important to schedule a meeting within a day or two. Saturday will be fine. My strategy: Keep the conversation going occasionally, but don't be too available. Avoid the "nothing texts" like, "How are you?" etc. and keep whatever you say interesting but brief. Hopefully, your life is interesting and full enough that you're not sitting around waiting for some woman to text you. If it's not... You have bigger problems than some girl, because yo…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:59 PM
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"Who told you that you would get that lucky?" Why are women so fuck-all crazy? I had a girl at my apartment, and I wanted her to stay the night. So I asked her... And she said no. She had been drinking, and I didn't think she should drive (plus, romance). So I asked her again. Nope. This went on for a while, and I even think she had some guy named Steven calling her? Finally, I said, "Just go. I honestly don't care. And it sounds like Steven is trying to get ahold of you." Right at that exact mo…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:46 PM
1

Just make it clear that it's over, it's non-negotiable, and you have no interest in communicating with her. Period. If you're at all close to her family you might consider sending them a quick note for the heads up, but also let them know that you feel it's healthiest to not have any communication (for obvious reasons).
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:29 PM
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Easy: Stop worry about her. Stop inviting her to hang out. Stop trying to have sex with her. She's made it clear she's not sexually into you. Move on. The best way to get over a oneitis is to go out and fuck 10 different women. Honestly, it's a fun thing to do too. When you see her at school or in class, be friendly, but don't try to be her close friend. Keep the interaction to a minimum. Make other friends in class and sit with them. Listen: You're honestly going to have lots of interactions wi…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 06:19 PM
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Just play to your strengths then and you'll find women who are into you. If you're not quick witted, don't try to be. And try not to dissect every behavior or decision from this girl. There's too many variables to know someone's ultimate behavior, nor should it matter so much to you (outcome independence).
/r/askTRP19/07/17 06:04 PM
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I assume it's because she's trying to confirm that I'm beta ( I am) What's with this self-defeating attitude? Who cares if she brought a guy? Her teasing you (shit testing) is a chance for practice. It should be fun. When she asks you about being sponsored by Baby Gap, say, "Why? You never dated a model before?" and if she asks why your clothes are so tight, "You're just used to dating those skinny fuckers" and then make fun of her. Let her decide if she's out of your league. Even if she thinks …
/r/askTRP19/07/17 05:32 PM
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Yup. Feminists look at the benefit men get from working like they do (i.e. "The gender wage gap! Male privilege!"), but they never acknowledge the immense tradeoff men make to earn more money. Men often work less fulfilling jobs than women, more dangerous jobs, longer hours, less desirable hours, etc, because so much of their worth as a man is attached to the amount of dollars they make. And that is very dehumanizing. It is understood that many women don't want to be treated as sex objects, and …
/r/MensRights19/07/17 04:19 PM
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Dude, you need to seriously work on yourself. You've been chasing after a girl who is not at all into you for years? And she made fun of you and laughed in your face? That's not a beta orbiter, that's an omega orbiter. First, don't talk to anyone about the redpill. If you hear people talking about it in public, play dumb (i.e. "The red pill? Is that a matrix reference?"). Talking to people about TRP isn't going to improve your life at all, because most don't have a clue what it means. Next, stop…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 04:12 PM
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Your plan is good, but I'd also suggest this: If she shows up at your house, pull out your cell phone and record everything. You don't want to end up in jail if she has a meltdown and a neighbor calls the police. Also, keep any attempt of her to communicate or threaten you. Depending on her reaction, you might need to get a restraining order.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 09:29 PM
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Unless you have a conversation about being exclusive, don't assume anything. You should assume they're seeing other people and so are you until you both agree to be exclusive.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 06:42 PM
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I find with plates either it's feast or famine. You'll have 4-5 girls wanting to fuck you on the regular (so much that you're turning them down too much) and then, bam, they'll be gone. It's a part of the cycle. All plates fall and break eventually. My biggest advice: Don't let your sense of self-worth be affected at all by a woman's interest in you. Trust me. This will help you loads in life, not just in dating but in everything. You shouldn't need their approval because you approve you, if tha…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:50 PM
3

Literally, everywhere. You're going to get the same distribution of women no matter the career or place you go. Or stalk college volleyball teams.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 11:05 PM
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I imagine they're just trying to be nice. Their responses make me think of when a person goes on a diet or starts to work out, and people insist, "You don't need to lose weight! You look great!" I would just smile and nod and change the conversation. Ultimately, you're responsible for your own life and to achieve your goals. Wanting to find a good man, have a healthy marriage and raise wonderful kids? These are very, very great goals but they don't "just happen." You're young, make good decision…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 11:03 PM
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Hysterical crying isnt the natural reaction of a person that has no guilt in the matter. People handle things differently. Some women might get enraged, some might cry. I wouldn't read too much into this. I think, though, the truth will come out eventually via trickle truth. OP needs to gather more information.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 04:27 PM
1

Because, teenagers and wanting to "fit in"
/r/askTRP14/07/17 06:37 PM
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Make fun of her, then dump her if she actually starts smoking. Zero adults who are addicted to cigarettes are ever glad they started. "Wow, I'm so glad I'm pissing away thousands of dollars a year to smell like shit, feel like shit, look more like shit, and increase my risk of cancer and other diseases!"
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:25 PM
4

Is this just me or is Toronto have something specially horrendous going on? Yes, it's a SJW shithole. Literally half the outrageous videos (e.g. Big Red, Warren Farrell protest, etc.) are from Toronto. It's any easy target. Meanwhile, Evergreen State College is saying, "Toronto, hold my beer..."
/r/askTRP13/07/17 11:33 PM
2

She drew on his face? (flirting) He's sleeping at work? What kind of ass-grabbing shit show does she work at?
/r/askTRP13/07/17 07:40 PM
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Follow your intuition: She's likely not following the boundaries that she should in an LTR. And letting some rando hang up her phone while she's talking to you? Disrespectful. My advice would be to perhaps gather a little more info while laying on the nuclear dread, then if it doesn't look good (right now it doesn't), just next her.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:32 PM
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Go to the main sub an search "dread game."
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:29 PM
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If you want one and can grow a good one, do it. Myself? I have an excellent beard. I get compliments all the time. Right now, it's very popular for many women to basically have a beard fetish (thanks, hipsters). Other women don't seem to mind. Just be sure to keep it trimmed, even if you grow it out a little. Shave the parts of your neck/cheek that you don't want a beard. Make sure your hair is well-groomed too. If you lift and are buff, you'll get extra bonus points. I find the mustache area to…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:23 PM
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Hmmm. Tough to say. I am picking up on a small amount of insecurity on your part, and I think your actions might have come across as butthurt and too harsh. Only pull something like that if you intend on never talking to this girl again (i.e. Hard Next). I imagine it was mostly professional and innocent from your description of the guy. Perhaps she didn't realize she was being a poor date? Either way, I probably wouldn't have gone out with this girl again, but I would have not told her why nor w…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 06:32 PM
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You can't negotiate attraction. Either they want you or they don't. It's hard to tell about this one? Also, the way you're going about it might come off with a creepy virgin vibe. Try if you want, but be ready to hit eject if she makes it obvious she's not sexually attracted to you. Grab some drinks, try to escalate with this girl, and if she's receptive to that, take her back to the hotel. Honestly, I wouldn't go visit a woman and get a hotel room if sex was not a guaranteed thing... But I also…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 05:24 PM
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I'm not OP.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 10:35 PM
1

Neither last forever, I never said that.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 10:24 PM
1

What theory?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 09:55 PM
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Right? Because even people who stay married for long periods of time tell you they always feel "so in love" with their partner, just like in the fairy tales... All mocking OP aside, you know who the highest risk of suicide is? Men right after a divorce. Think about it: They've lost their kids, half their stuff, have been screwed over by a biased legal system, etc. and the woman that once loved them now likely hates them. Oxytocin withdrawal is a bitch.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 09:42 PM
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Yeah, back in my drunk text days I'd always erase the texts before I went to bed so that sober me didn't have to live with the shame and regret.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 11:16 PM
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Yup, it's all about boundaries and respect for your partner. Maybe this time she'd go and nothing would happen. But then what about the next time? And the time after that? At some point it sets a precedent that is not good. Story time: My last gf (before the RP) was very outdoorsy. I worked two jobs, and would sometimes go out with her, but sometimes she'd go out with friends. When she'd go out with her girlfriends, no problem, but eventually she'd go out with guys. Like, backpacking alone with …
/r/askTRP07/07/17 10:11 PM
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Next time, don't get drunk and text girls. That never goes well. Know your limits, and if you think you're at the point where you've had too much, put your damn phone away where you can't get it. Trust me, I'm speaking from experience. Next, don't apologize. What's done is done, and you didn't actually hurt anyone. You only told the unfiltered truth. Girl A might be trying to sabotage you with Girl B. You should next her, and progress like nothing happened with Girl A. Don't get involved in the …
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:41 PM
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Since then it has been radio silence. So I doubt she will flake. Nice. You might want to consider sending a text about 20 minutes before ("On my way. See you soon."). I do this sometimes when there's not communication. 22 year olds can be notorious flakes... Sometimes.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:53 PM
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You should not be in an LTR with a dumb girl who goes clubbing alone with her cheater girlfriend (who also jokes/encourages her to cheat).
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:20 PM
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Any tips besides the usual push,pull kino etc. ? Go out for drinks, not dinner. That way you can bounce if she's really lame, and you're only out a couple bucks and about 40 minutes of your time. I always focus on body language and other non-verbal communication when I meet a new girl. Don't cross your legs or arms, keep your head up, good eye contact, etc. to communicate confidence. If she's "too cute," focus on her "flaws" and acts like you've slept with her before. Maybe her nose is a little …
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:15 PM
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Because the girl is play "Slut Game" and it didn't work. A slut isn't a woman who sleeps with a bunch of guys, a slut is a woman who has nothing else to offer a guy but sex and so no guy commits to her. Sure, they'll hook up and have fun, but the woman's RMV (relationship market value) is so low, she can't get what she wants from the man: Romantic commitment. And because she only offered sex (because that's the only thing of value she has), and the guy took it, she feels like he "used her for se…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 08:40 PM
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You're catching feelings for a girl who has a boyfriend and yet invited you along to hang out (and she told you she wants to sleep with you?). Move on, buddy. Do not LTR this woman. She is not worth your time, and is not worth more than a pump-and-dump.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:42 PM
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Society is so entrenched in the "women are wonderful and can do no wrong" and "men are the cause of all evil" that this isn't surprising. People actually get upset when you suggest otherwise. It reminds me of the feminist response when Erin Pizzey suggested women can be prone to violence as well, or also when a researcher wanted to present on women committing sexual abuse against children.
/r/MensRights05/07/17 05:38 PM
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First of all, unicorns don't exist. So stop saying she's a "unicorn," even in your mind. Second, why a LDR? Those are a no-no. How'd you meet this girl? Anyone can seem "perfect" when they live hours away and only see you every now and then. You don't know anything of substance about this girl to decide if she's LTR worthy or not. Second... Did you have a conversation about being exclusive with this girl? It sounds iffy as to whether you did or not, and if you didn't then you didn't have "an aff…
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:19 PM
1

the appropriate thing would be to say I'm not interested and that we should both move on Yes. Be an adult. Forget about "possible hookup later" and just tell the girl you're not interested. You haven't done anything wrong, and this girl sounds like she might be crazy. After you tell her you're not interested and to give you space, then don't respond to future texts. Be civil when you see her, but don't go out of your way to talk to her. Cheers.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 01:03 AM
1

Perhaps we should encourage them to sign up for a STEM degree? /s
/r/MensRights04/07/17 08:40 PM
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This is a well-studied, scientific phenomena and its existence and harm towards women is not up for debate. "We've noticed you have some independent thoughts and have labelled you a malcontent. Please report to the Ministry of Truth for reprogramming." Adjust for the circumstances women face when making hiring decisions (including wage decisions) to help offset the male privilege from the patriarchy There was a study that just came out recently, where they removed any names or other information …
/r/MensRights04/07/17 08:40 PM
1

I'm still trying to trade my male privilege in for one of those $100k/year jobs that I keep hearing is so easy for men to get. Where's the escalator line for that?? Can't the patriarchy help a CIS white male shitlord out??
/r/MensRights04/07/17 07:31 PM
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What I've found is that if you dialogue with feminists, it doesn't matter to them the reasons behind the "pay gap," because they've completely bought into the Culturally Marxist narrative of the "oppressed"/"privilege" dynamic. Yes, it's stupid, but I've met people who were so entrenched in that worldview, that they still believed that even though women generally choose easier, safer work with kinder hours, etc. and consequently less pay, it's still "proof" of male "privilege" and female "oppres…
/r/MensRights04/07/17 07:24 PM
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It's possible to lose like 30 lbs in 2 months Yup. Especially if you're fatter, you can lose a lot of weight. I started keto weighing 181.6 lbs, and went down to 162 in about 40 days. A lot of the initial loss is water weight, but it felt good to slim down. I would rock climb a few days per week for several hours, and lift a few days on my off days. I also did intermittent fasting (breakfast at 8 am, lunch at 12, dinner at 4 pm). I haven't been on keto for two weeks, so I've probably put on 5 lb…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 07:12 PM
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Most important: Diet. You can't outwork a shitty diet. Cut out sugar, avoid booze, drink lots of water, and get your macros dialed in. Next: Be active. Lift. Find a sport you enjoy, whether it be running, climbing, hiking, basketball, whatever. Just move. Last: Get plenty of rest. 8 hours per night. Your body needs to recover. Listen to your body. Make sure when you lift you're using proper form and working antagonistic muscle groups so you don't mess yourself up and get a shoulder impingement o…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 09:38 PM
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Depends on your frame and how you generated interest, and the girl. But generally, don't text "boners" because it just seems odd. With that said, too many men on this sub want a cut-and-dry formula (e.g. "Wait 24 hours and then text her this exact text, then when she responds wait an hour and send her this text"). It's dumb, low-level PUA BS, and isn't really how gaming women works. Understanding dynamics about interacting with women and how seduction works is much more powerful than running a r…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:25 PM
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Are you a Saint sucker? Hard next. FTFY.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:31 PM
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My Tinder just has pictures that show what make me unique and doing the things I love (e.g. rock climbing, etc.). I don't write much in my profile. If I were above 6', I'd mention that as well, but I'm not that tall.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 11:41 PM
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I always found I was at my best when I was in a relationship with a woman I possibly wanted to marry. I took budgeting classes, started saving, cleaning more, having a plan for the future, etc. Those are good qualities to find in a partner.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 10:02 PM
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The truth is that a person could probably find 1000 reasons to lose respect for their partner. Some of these a legitimate problems, and others are not. It sounds like you might have some things to think about: What's your boyfriend's long-term plans? To move up in the company? Grow his side projects into a legitimate business? Long-term, how is he going to be happy with his career? Because the way he answers that question and then implements it shows more about whether he's Captain material for …
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 09:42 PM
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Just start by increasing your interaction with women. Talk to them, but with no intention of getting their number/asking them out/anything happening. Just make any excuse to interact with a woman you don't know: Asking about a book they're reading, question at the grocery store, make a joke to the girl sitting next to you at the bar. Try to be interesting, show confidence, and put forward your best qualities (eye contact! body language! say something interesting/funny). Then, after you've had lo…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 07:23 PM
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You do you, man. Stop letting a possibility with some chick affect your behavior, because that's beta AF. If you want to hang out with your friends, do it. It may sound counter intuitive, but the moment you reach a point where you don't care about the outcome with this girl and just make decisions for yourself is the moment you reach the point where you're the most powerful and attractive.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 05:35 PM
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First things first: Do not date this girl. She's a plate at best. Her last relationship was shit, and she shouldn't have been talking to you while she was with him, so don't get into a LTR with her. Next, you have the right approach. Don't chase her: Just work on yourself. Be the best version of you, work out, eat right, approach other girls. And then on the possible occasion that she's single and you're there... Go for it. Escalate more and see what happens. But don't count on it happening or t…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 04:26 AM
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"There's this one girl..." is the advice you need to hear right now. Especially this paragraph: Conversely... if you're not in an LTR and you're trying to get with "this one girl", and you've not fucked her on two separate occasions, then she is nothing more than an option. Treat her as such. She might have boyfriend, she might hate men, she might hate you. I guarantee she has a whole load of stuff (good and bad) going on that you know nothing about. You can't take her seriously as a sexual opti…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 08:52 PM
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This girl is not your friend and she's now single. What's wrong? You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Let her decide if she's "out of your league." We all have times where we bat above our league, and those are fun times. Your older than her, so you have that advantage. You're not in peak shape, but not a fat ass. It's fine. Get some confidence. Your game plan: Invite her to come to your place and watch a movie. Offer her a drink if she drinks. Escalate and see how she responds. You either…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:38 PM
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She's making plans to hang out alone with this guy without any sort of communication with you? Next her.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:13 PM
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Listen: You don't get revenge or closure. That is a beta fantasy. Move on, never ackowledge her again, and keep getting into the best shape of your life and approaching other girls. The best "revenge" is living well.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 09:15 PM
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Bring the roommate, it'll be your final push into the friendzone of this girl who already has a boyfriend. Shoot man, invite the boyfriend too. Make sure you buy him lots of drinks. It'll work.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:43 PM
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She's going to start pushing for a commitment soon. Are you vetting her for an LTR? If you have no interest in a commited relationship, and she keeps putting feelers out for that, you have to do the right thing and cut her loose.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:50 PM
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Just be direct, but in a somewhat politcal way. Some people will think you're an asshole, but you'll get what you want: "No offense, but I want to be left alone. Thanks." I've used this on annoying people, drunks, just anyone I don't care to interact with at that moment. Some people take it in stride, some act pissy. But really, who cares?
/r/askTRP27/06/17 10:12 PM
2

When you bring up your biggest height difference with a past girl and boldly say that you don't care, it does a few things: The girl who is an inch taller than you is going to be pulled into your frame that it's not a big deal and it communicates preselection from other women (without seeming like you're trying, very important).
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:35 PM
1

100% this. Even on dating apps, there's an art to women, and for me the best approach is to not have an agenda (it's a lot easier to do this when you're in your 30s, have sex regularly, and don't have raging hormones). Coming off as needy or thirsty AF can be a serious turn-off to women. And then just "own" who you are and what you want. I think a lot of NiceGuys are afraid to embrace the fact that they enjoy and want sex, so escalating seems conflicted, uncomfortable, and cringy. If you try to …
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:33 PM
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You'd be surprised, buddy. It all comes down to how strong your frame is compared to their frame. I've gone out with girls who were 5'9, 5'10, 6', even 6'2 (I'm 5'7.5"). At some point, you stop caring. In fact, the "tall girls" off of Tinder, if they ask about height, I'll always respond with almost the same line: "One time I had a couple dates with a 6'2 former college volleyball player. At some point you just stop caring." and 95% of the time it's end of the height discussion, because usually …
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:28 PM
1

Start talking to girls now. Don't wait until you think you're "handsome enough" or whatever. Keep improving your looks and hygiene, as well as dressing a bit better, but don't wait. My first advice would be to talk to girls where they are at. But do so without any intentions... Like, don't try to get dates or get their numbers or anything. It's always easier and less "creepy" if you don't have an agenda. Ask them about what you can't find in the supermarket, or make jokes in the check-out line. …
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:22 PM
2

I've always found it best to never bring up height, and most girls won't care. There was a post on TRP years ago entitled, "Plate the tallest girl you can find." Try it, it's good fun, and a good way to kill any "short-guy syndrome." If she teases you for it, and it's in good fun, just roll with it. You can't change your height. If it's in not such good fun, she's a bitch, and you should squash it immediately. "You have a height requirement? Does every man who is tall-enough get to ride the ride…
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:07 PM
1

I don't know much about the ego, but a great book to build self-esteem is "The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem." There are exercises to practice at the end of each chapter.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 08:01 PM
2

All plates eventually fall and break. It's a part of the cycle. Always, if a plate says she doesn't want to hook up anymore (for any reason), you have to be willing to drop them easily: This is the most powerful position you can take. And sometimes a plate will keep spinning for a while because of this. For example, if she says, "I don't want to hook up anymore," just tell her, "That's fine, but I'm not really interested in being friends." No bargaining, no trying to convince her, nothing.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 11:46 PM
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but she wants to hold onto you in case he turns out to be a creep. You mean, Chad pumps-n-dumps her because that's what he does...
/r/askTRP23/06/17 06:51 PM
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Tell her that she can come drop the bands off on a certain evening. Ask he how she's been and offer her a drink when she comes over. If she says yes, sit down so you're both on the couch. You know the rest... A lot of exes will bang you after the breakup. Usually it's just a one-off thing if you haven't seen each other in a long time. Isn't that what you're looking for?
/r/askTRP23/06/17 04:34 PM
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Of course sex is so much better with a healthy person. Weight is a funny thing, because it often can be an indicator of so many other things about a person (e.g. activity level, diet, attitude, etc.). People who take care of themselves and don't get overweight just do better in almost every facet of life, and consequently make better sexual partners. Likewise, women who are a healthy weight not only look better, they smell/taste/feel better, and are happier. Really, you shouldn't fuck fat girls,…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:33 PM
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tl;dr Some person asked a question on the internet and you have to answer it just right to show you're the ultimate "alpha" and pass the shit test. Who cares? This is why TRP is slowly turning into a parody of itself. The majority of answers on AskTRP are basically "stop being a little bitch" or "Next her, bro!" and then we all slap high fives and have a dick measuring contest.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:23 PM
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"So, what's her name?" You have entered a state of soft dread. She sees that your SMV is going up just by being awake and taking control of your life. Good. Keep going. Eventually you'll be light years out of her league, and this same "test" might be a comfort test (learn the difference). Just wait until you build more muscle, lose far, and buy new underwear. Congrats, you've found your balls again and you're ready to be the leader and the man of her dreams. But first... How the hell did you end…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:29 AM
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Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score. Listen: Every girl you talk to/approach/hit on is going to have "some guy" hovering in the background (unless she's a ham planet with a horrible personality). It's just how life works. Every girl is going to have a history, or just ended a relationship, or has a FWB, or whatever. She doesn't belong to you, but she also doesn't belong to some other guy either. Nobody has "dibs" on another person. I personally don't go after women with bo…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 10:01 PM
2

It's only "harmful" if hearing different perspectives is damaging to you, which in that case the problem isn't TRP, but your lack of ability to deal with different worldviews. I agree with most of what I read on TRP, but not all. With any subreddit, as it has grown the content has often suffered, and some posts read like a parody of what TRP should be. The Red Pill is about trying to give men honest information about dating and life. It's targeted at men, but women at times can find it helpful a…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:55 PM
1

We actually met off of Reddit (my main account). She lives a few states over but travels for work most weeks. We had been messaging/texting because we both have a similar hobby, and the messaging turned to sex (oops). She was cute, young, had a good body, so I drove out to meet her and spent the night. Would do again.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:13 PM
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Pick the top 3 things and focus on those: Passing Calculus (bust your ass!) Working out (will help in long term and with depression) Whatever else has been helpful/important... There may be seasons in your life where you put things with girls on the backburner, and this is OK. You can't do everything, all the time, and if you try to make too many changes at once you might get overwhelmed and fail. So prioritize and make sacrifices.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 04:49 PM
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First of all, I don't think it matters much if you get there before or after the girl, just as long as she's not ridiculously late. Next, always say hello on a date with a hug. Try to not have it be an awkward side hug. Next, coffee shops really aren't for escalating physically. Have you ever seen people on a first date making out in a coffee shop? No. Depending on the weather or whatever, take her for a walk, and then try to escalate if you're picking up on IOIs. You don't need to "move it into…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 03:59 PM
1

I think so much of it comes down to having a life that you genuinely love, a great sense of purpose/direction, and hobbies that you enjoy and are interesting. And those qualities will automatically show. Women love men who are passionate about something, whether it be fitness, rock climbing, backpacking, restoring cars, woodworking, playing music, etc. But do it for yourself, not for women. Ask yourself this question: If you were to wake up and it's five years in the future, what sort of things …
/r/askTRP21/06/17 03:48 PM
2

I'm assuming this is mostly playful banter? Just turn it into flirting by agreeing and ampliying: "You are mean." "The meanest!" (and then slap her butt) "You are supposed to be nice to me on my bday." "Am I?" (and then slap her butt) Mostly, just laugh and slap her butt.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 10:39 PM
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Are you new with gaming girls? You're 18 and it sounds like you are. That's ok. Everything you do now is basically practice for the future, and learning to game girls is an important part of life. Seduction follows the same basic formula: (1) Generate interest/demonstrate value, (2) isolate the girl, and (3) escalate physically. Rinse and repeat. It should be fun for both of you. The better you get at it, the more natural all of it will feel and the easier it will be with girls. Also: You will h…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 06:24 PM
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Why do you act like it's some sort of elaborate mind game that requires the "perfect" response to win? You suggested a time. She said she already has plans but wants to know if you can meet up afterwards. You've already hooked up with her (according to you). What do you even want from this girl? If you want to bang, tell her to come have a nightcap at your place when she's done with her cousin. You're reading too much into things.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:09 PM
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It's all about passing shit tests 101. Read more on the main sub. Also, follow the advice from the other posters (i.e. "There's this girl"). From your comments, you're going to mess things up if you don't make changes. Don't put this girl on a pedestal. Don't say, "She's the best sex on my life." You're 22. You don't know anything. There's going to be lots of women, lots of better looking women, lots of women who fuck better, lots of women who are nicer, more fun, etc. You need to have an abunda…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:19 PM
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It's simple: Tell her you've got plenty of friends, and you're not really looking for more friends, but you want to see her and hook up. If she's not interested, there's the door. And mean it. If she says, "You just want to use me for sex," tell her, "What? You don't like sex?" And go from there. It's just a shit test, so whatever she says you can A&A (e.g. "Does this make me a slut?" you then slap her ass and tell her you like sluts, etc.). If she says no, show her the door. Always be willing t…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 09:41 PM
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would you approach anyway for the sake of embracing awkwardness ? Not really. You tried, she's not interested, move on. This is the best use of your time. But I only go to the gym to work out...
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:54 PM
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Well, first: You need to handle your booze a little better. If you can't remember the conversation or keep your senses of what is happening around you, you drank too much. Slow down, save some money, and nurse your drink a little longer. Next: Buying drinks for a girl doesn't get you anything. If she's attracted to you, not buying her a drink isn't going to change that. If she's not attracted to you, buying her a drink isn't going to change that. Third: Don't worry about AMOGing the random guy. …
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:53 PM
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just a girl who bang dudes on the regular who said peace out and is most likely on to the next penis? Yes. Also, it seems she's attracted to drama, probably has mental health issues and/or a history of abuse, and as you're not her type unless you are a total piece of shit, she probably doesn't have any further interest in you.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 06:34 PM
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Invite her to some place to get drinks (alcoholic). Have a couple. Then have her take a walk with you. When you're alone, go in for the kiss, and escalate more if she is good with the kiss (she won't be). Because... There's really no way to fix this. Get shot down if you want, at least you tried, but your energy is better spent at this point by approaching other, hotter girls.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 08:32 PM
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We'd need more information... Could be everything from your personality/energy/the way you dress/etc. to what's turning off people. Also, why do you want to be "friends" with girls? My success rate with women has gone up the less I've been their "friend."
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:35 PM
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She's not attracted to you and just using you for emotional validation (AKA beta orbiter). You feel the need to text her because you're still holding on to the foolish hope that maybe some day she'll see what a "great guy" you really are and will want to be with you. Listen: That's not going to happen. Best thing you can do is move on. You have feelings for a girl who doesn't have feelings for you. Square peg, round hole. Stop making youself miserable. Work on improving yourself (i.e. follow you…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 03:59 PM
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The definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over. What is your approach? You're 6'2, do you mention that in your profile? Don't write too much on your profile (e.g. "Backpacking is life. I'll probably swipe right if you have a dog. 6'2"). You said you get numbers? You want to arrange a meetup within a day or two, sometimes longer if she's busy or on a trip. I usually just meet at a brewery or bar near where they live (make it easy on them). I wouldn't suggest something like an a…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 07:50 PM
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Just in my observation, at least from what you wrote, it felt a little forced. Maybe that's why girls aren't meeting you? If you're moderately attractive, you should be able to get girls to meet for a drink off of Tinder a few times per week.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 04:43 PM
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tl;dr: Met a chain smoking fat girl off of Tinder with a horrible personality. Why wasn't she creaming her panties for me? Look, you don't want to go out with a girl like this. 95% chance she has mental health issues. Don't even validate the fatties by going out with them or trying to escalate. With any other girl, as soon as you saw there was no connection, you should have quickly bounced. Self-respect is the most important thing. But in this FR you come off as being overly touchy and try-hard …
/r/askTRP09/06/17 03:45 PM
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It all comes down to managing expectations. You've learned this guy wants to have casual/sexual relationships with women and isn't looking for a commitment. Don't expect him to change any time soon, don't wait for him, and move on. I think not going out with him again is the best bet. Also, minimizing interaction is another good idea. Unfollowing him on social media, don't text, etc. Him sending you a pic of you two on a date might be because he just wants to sleep with you? You're going to make…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 04:36 PM
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It's not surprising. The end result of the culturally Marxist SJW worldview is for these "oppressed" groups to eat each other. That's why you have black feminists telling white feminists to shut up, BLM Philadelphia telling white people not to attend meetings, Christina Hoff-Sommers "banned" from the sacred sisterhood of feminism for even questioning this madness, BLM activities hijacking the vigil after the Orlando terrorists attack to politically grandstand their cause, etc. In this worldview,…
/r/MensRights08/06/17 03:27 PM
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sit next to me during lunch You guys work together and you want to do that kind of drama? Don't be an idiot.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 03:16 PM
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You should have read the signs earlier in the date (i.e. don't wask your time), and after about 15 minutes tell her that you're bored and that you're going to leave. People make their decisions within a minute or two of a date whether they'll give the other person a chance or sleep with them.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 11:47 PM
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She knows what she wants. She's just holding on to one branch until a better looking one comes along. When that "branch" doesn't work out, she'll go back to the origional, until the next opportunity. Rinse and repeat.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 05:55 PM
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You're pretty new to TRP. I think sometimes the pendulum has a way of "swinging too far" before it finds a good balance. I probably had a string of 6-9 months there where I was still going throw the anger phase and other things where I was a little bit more unkind than I am now. "Niceness" is not a good quality. Why? It's because "niceness" is transactional: You're being nice to people so that they like you. This is not how life should work, and it's certainly not a way to get women to like you.…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 04:01 PM
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Stop using the phrase "hooked up." You didn't "hook up." You drunkenly made out with a girl you find attractive. There's a huge difference. Next, stop referring to her as an "HB9." Anytime I read "HB8/9" it always means the girl is on a pedestal, you think she's out of your league, which creates scarcity mentality and ruins your game. (ProTip: Focus on her flaws. Most women look weird if you think about their looks too much. Maybe he nose is too big, etc. Also, I bet she's less intelligent than …
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:21 PM
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In either case, how do I find closure? You secretly had strong feelings for a girl, never dated her, never hooked up with her, and it sounds like you're the epitome of the friend zone. You don't get closure. There were no "games" or "shit testing." She's not romantically interested in you, and she never was romantically interested in you, despite your feelings. Keep improving yourself. Move on. Find another girl and do better.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:11 PM
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There is no "set plan." Some girls will come over and bone you every day if you want them. Some just once or twice a week. Some less, maybe once per month. It depends on a number of factors: Their interest level in you, libido, how busy you/they are, if there are other men they are seeing, etc. Use your best discretion to decide what each girl would be into without overwhelming them/them becoming "bored" with you/etc.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:03 PM
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You're going through oxytocin withdrawls. It's human nature: We always want what we "can't have," but nobody wants the doormat they can't get rid of. You need to learn from this and grow as a person and a man. Really, you've been given a great opportunity to grow and become the sort of man you want to be, learn from this, and find a girl who will make a decent LTR.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:34 PM
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that I choose friends that aren't dumbasses that get into petty fights for being dumbasses FTFY Seriously, if you're an adult... You shouldn't be "getting into fights" unless you're a victim of some random crime.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:36 PM
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Well, considering the fact that I choose friends that aren't dumbasses that get into petty fights for being dumbasses, yes, because in that case there's something really wrong. I'd risk my life for my best friend.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:09 PM
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If she's just a plate it really shouldn't bother you. Yes, it might be a shit test, but you're not in any sort of commitment with this girl and are just getting free sex. Use is as an opportunity to practice getting good at crushing shit tests by A&A or something. Remain unaffected. There's always going to be men who are bigger, stronger, and more hansome than you. Just got to deal with it and show that you're the master of your own domain.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:07 PM
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No one is coming to rescue you. You're not going to win the lottery, you're not going to find a magic lamp with a genie, you don't have a rich uncle who will change your life. You have one chance at life, one chance each day to make it better and do the things you want to do with your life, so don't waste it. If you're a "do nothing type bitch," I'd suggest start small. If you're life is a mess, don't expect to be able to start a successful business or be a bodybuilder or whatever in a day. I lo…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 04:45 PM
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I know you just went through a breakup and you are hurting, but your life isn't going to be quantifiably different in one week. Right now you're going through a withdrawl of oxytocin and you're probably a crazy person who is "afraid" (for lack of a better word) to lose this girl. I know you believe this girl is different and perfect for you, but let's be honest... There is no perfect girl (AWALT). You are in a weak position, which is not the position to get your LTR back. 95% chance it won't wor…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:31 PM
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Just don't be a total stoner loser. Have interesting hobbies, have your life together, be going somewhere, and occasionally partake. Getting a little high and screwing is amazing, and I know a lot of women in their 20s who are attractive and have good careers who like to do just that (and I join them).
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:11 PM
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I was programmed to be nice to the girls We all were. Society has largely removed fathers from the home for a few generations, labelled boyhood a pathology, and made all the teachers female. They all "teach" us that if we're "nice," and are "nice to girls," then we'll find a good woman who will love us. It's a nice myth, eh? LTR is not good Not necessarily true. Many men have good LTRs with the right women, and when they've reached the right growth in their lives. I was afraid she might accuse o…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 10:17 PM
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No. You should just not care. You met her 3 weeks ago. There are a million things that could be going on that have nothing to do with you (e.g. Maybe she's met a guy she likes, or has no romantic interest in you, etc.). Have you guys hooked up at least twice? If you haven't then you shouldn't even ask her. Don't ask. It's beta AF and a good way to creep a girl out. Move on and approach other women. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 09:19 PM
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I just find most women I'm into are actually "grown ups." Both men and women take a lot more time to grow up these days, and people in their very early 20s and late teens still seem like high schools (often because they are!). I find women in their mid 20s who take care of themselves and have a career make for both better LTRs and plates. They usually aren't as hung up on sex like some younger girls seem to be, and don't flake, and are just more intelligent in general (if you pick the right ones…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 09:08 PM
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I'd be wary, man. Agreed. To add to this... I'm 33, and I've hooked up with a couple of girls who are 18-19 on Tinder. In the end they all had issues. After sex, one told me she had sex with her adult brother-in-law when she was 13 years old. And that she was hooking up with men who are in their 30s and 40s. There's often a reason very young girls act out like this. Personally, at this point in my life, 24 years old it the cut off for me. I like them out of college and doing something with their…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 04:01 PM
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You need to move on from this girl and work on yourself. Grow so if you want to have a successful LTR in the future, you don't make the same mistakes. Stop with the passive-aggressive controlling behaviors, impulsiveness, etc.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 10:36 PM
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/u/4nt43us's advice is spot on. You're young, so you're going to be learning a lot on the fly. This girl you hooked up with is young and showing signs of immaturity. A little bit of that is normal for the age, but if it gets worse (serious unhealthy/manipulative behaviors) you'll need to walk away because it's not worth the drama or to be sucked into a codependent relationship. And please, always wrap it up. STIs and pregancies are no laughing joke. Get tested regularly (at least once every 6 mo…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 06:08 PM
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I was clinically depressed in college. It was due to a combination of stress, lack of healthy habits (e.g. healthy relationships, good diet, rest, taking care of my body), working a night job in college, and just general unawareness of what is going on. I almost flunked out of school as well. I saw a free counselor through the university and got on a SSRI (Welbutrin XL). In about a week, I was waking up on time, my counselor had contacted my professors and were willing to work with me, I had mor…
/r/askTRP30/05/17 06:01 PM
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You're vetting her for an LTR? I wouldn't answer the question straight. I'd probably say, "I want to keep seeing you," but maybe some of the other guys on this sub have better advice. If she keeps pushing about possible commitment, you'll need to assess whether she's a good LTR prospect or not, and then cut her loose if she's not.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 08:05 PM
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"I want to work as a preschool teacher but get paid like an engineer. It's violence if I don't..."
/r/MensRights26/05/17 06:19 PM
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This is true. Also, whenever someone needs to inform you that "there's this HB8/9," just subtract two points. And if they claim they don't have oneitis after giving her avery high numerical value, he's either lying or doesn't know it yet. This is TRP. We're not some PUA who are trying to gain validation through women's affirmation or the approval of strangers on the internet (which is beta behavior to the core). "Yeah, man! You totally number-closed that HB9!! Right on!"
/r/askTRP26/05/17 05:04 PM
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You sure? Feels like the Patriarchy strikes again! /s
/r/MensRights26/05/17 04:24 PM
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Okay, this is going to seem counterintuitive, but right now you need to forget about girls and focus on yourself. Listen: You're at a pivotal moment in life right now. The decisions you make over the next few months or years could be the difference between a decade (or even a lifetime) of difficulty or setting yourself up for success in the future. You decide. Why'd you flunk out of university? How close were you to finishing? Whatever caused you to fail, change it. Too much drinking/partying? C…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 08:12 PM
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Own it. Shave your head. Do you look good with a beard/facial hair? How tall are you? Whenever you're with a girl or talking to a girl (like on Tinder), don't even bring up height. If you're confident and make it a non-issue, it's more likely to be a non-issue. Getting in top shape will be best. Having a fit body with muscles and abs goes far.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 05:30 PM
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First of all, unicorns don't exist. Stop thinking about her as an "HB9." In fact, don't give her a number that overinflates her value; don't even give her a number. Right now, it doesn't look good. But feel free to take her out again if you want. Get drinks (if that's what she's into), go for a walk, and try to kiss her (unless she's throwing some serious disinterest your way). You will likely get shot down. It's okay. Feel glad that you tried and move on.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 08:11 PM
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Here's how to solve two problems: Women could sign up for a STEM major (instead of lesbian dance theory) and then would be able to pay back their student loans.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 07:34 PM
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First of all, they refer to traits, not states of being. I cringe when people say, "I'm an alpha." There's no such thing as an "alpha" or a "beta" and the more people talk like this, the more TRP becomes a parody of itself. Yes, we use those terms as shorthand, but it creates confusion at times to newcomers. I would explain it differently than you, though: "Alpha" are traditionally masculine traits (e.g. strength, dominance, competance, etc.), while "beta" are traditionally feminine traits. Ever…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 04:01 PM
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Time for women to marry down? Work stressful jobs while the men stay home doing "the hardest job in the world" and women die five years earlier? Can't wait for feminists to talk about this new "oppression" of women.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 03:52 PM
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The lack of self-awarness is amazing. Really, most issues men face stem from a lack of empathy towards the suffering or difficulties men face. I think the Manchester attacks are really an attack on western values.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 03:50 PM
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I'm just troubled by something I see more and more frequently in this sub: Slowly, it feels like many MRAs are buying into the Culturally Marxist worldview that third wave feminism has adopted (i.e. "the oppression Olympics"). This is not an empowering worldview, and must keep the "oppressed"/"privileged" narrative going to function. It's problematic because it turns victimhood into a virtue, and consequently people who buy into this sort of thinking attempt to out-victimize others based on thei…
/r/MensRights24/05/17 03:48 AM
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I think they have a bot that finds users who post on "problematic" subreddits and automatically ban you. I got a notice too.
/r/MensRights23/05/17 08:25 PM
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Well, it's not like it's a contest...
/r/MensRights23/05/17 08:14 PM
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Guys forcing themselves onto women is fucked up and illegal, and is not what TheRedPill is about at all. TheRedPill is about sexual strategy, about improving yourself and your life, and in doing so more women want to have sex with you. I hope you're a troll.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 06:42 PM
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While I think it's dumb to make this about "an attack on women" (really, it's an attack on Western values), to be fair, we're talking about radicalized Islam which treats women really shitty.
/r/MensRights23/05/17 06:35 PM
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What's the point of getting to know me, if you just want to bang me? How could a man be mature & ahead of his time in every other aspect of his life, but be so stereotypical when it comes to love? He's being honest with you, and you should be thankful for that. There are a lot of creeps out there who lie to women and tell them what they want to hear, just to use them for sex and them move on. It sounds like many of his interactions with women haven't worked out (i.e. divorce, LTR not working out…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 11:13 PM
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This post is more appropriate for askTRP
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 11:08 PM
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Don't be friends with flakes, especially flaky girls. Get some good guy friends. Real friends. They're rare, but just having 1 or 2 is totally worth it.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 11:05 PM
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I think alimony should be done away for both sexes... It's basically a new form of legal slavery, most of which is perpetuated against men.
/r/MensRights22/05/17 09:16 PM
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Protip: Stop letting your self-worth be dictated by which girls you kiss or with which ones you do stuff. Find real self value by working on yourself, building your body/self-confidence, doing cool hobbies, etc. and the stuff with the girls will happen.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 06:56 PM
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Get rid of everything that reminds you of her. Social media, pictures, etc. Put them away so you don't see them. Go out with other girls and hook up with them. Boom, cured. You're body is going through a withdrawl of oxytocin.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:02 PM
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How long has your stall been? You're 5'7" and less than 130 lbs? You look skinny fat because you don't have muscles. You can stay on keto, but seriously up your calories and protein (look at the ketogains subreddit). When you build your muscles, your metabolism will go up and you'll burn more fat on keto. But you need to add at least 20 lbs of muscle, IMHO. Chest, arms, shoulders, lats... All need to be much bigger. Stop running a deficit and bulk. You need a lot of calories to build muscle. Che…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 05:00 PM
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I'm the same. I've been on my diet about 12 days, down almost 10 lbs, quit drinking, and have been climbing a lot more and lifting. I'm going on a climbing trip this weekend and I have my macros dialed in.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 09:26 PM
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I doubt they'd seriously let politics override a business decision. Lately it seems Netflix is the streaming service most likely to push the progressive/social justice narrative. They are streaming "Bill Nye Saves the World," which is just progressive garbage. They went as far as to change their whole rating systems to shelter feminist darling Amy Schumer from criticism. They are even promoting the tounge-in-cheek social justice show "Dear White People." So... Do I think they place politics over…
/r/MensRights19/05/17 08:41 PM
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Dude, don't you realize she's a woman? I mean, she only stabbed a man... What's the big deal? /s
/r/MensRights19/05/17 08:36 PM
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All the protests are some of the best advertisements for the documentary. And once people see it after all the protests, they'll realize just how true the issues raised in the documentary really are, as well as how ignorant and hateful the protesters really are.
/r/MensRights19/05/17 08:35 PM
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It is funny how tribal people become, even with the douchiest trends (e.g. trendy and stupid tattoos, etc.). At some point people become caricatures of themselves. Women are funny, though. So many of them don't want to just date a man, but a man with a certain type. "I just love cowboys." "I want to fuck a guy in uniform." "I want to date an outdoorsy boy." And on and on it goes. I think having a niche market can give you an advatage with a lot of women. I have a nice beard, and some hipster 20-…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 08:09 PM
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Nobody wants you to "settle." People want you to make smart decisions. The idea that you're going to meet a 9 who has a great personality, is kind, good LTR prospect, great in the bedroom, etc. is highly unlikely. Unicorns don't exist. Don't choose an ugly one. Don't choose a hot one. Choose a good one and make a smart decision if you're getting into an LTR.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 06:19 PM
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Agreed. I think Lauren is great. She doesn't post too much on IG, is intelligent and has obviously worked hard for a person of any age, presents herself pretty well (for the most part), and her video "What Every Girl Needs to Hear" is RP gold.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 11:25 PM
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Commit 1-2 hours several days per week to lifting. Put in the work now and it will reap rewards.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 11:22 PM
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You're not crying over something dumb, you're saying goodbye to your grandparents who raised you. I assume you're not balling and making a bunch of noise like a child? A few tears over saying goodbye to these important family members is fine. Give yourself permission to feel those emotions for a moment, then go forward with your day.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 08:14 PM
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If she's really that hot, she probably has a lot of matches. Interacting with you might have been just for quick entertainment without any genuine interest or desire to actually meet or for it to go anywhere. Or it could have been a catfish who was bored. It's best to not over-analyze until you exchange numbers/actually meet. "how do I know you're not younger pretending to be older" She sounds annoying if she's being serious. Make fun of her: "You caught me. I'm 80 and have the Benjamin Button d…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 07:14 PM
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So much of third-wave feminism/social justice is simply a deconstruction of traditional gender roles and values, and consequently anything that appears to keep traditional gender roles in place (even something as innocuous as urinals) is seen as "oppressive" and preventing the narrative they're trying to create. It's dumb, but it's something I've been noticing more and more. For example, feminists love traditional masculine traits, but only if those traits appear in a women or someone who is gen…
/r/MensRights18/05/17 06:56 PM
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Then dump her because she peed her pants.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:47 PM
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I used to be really needy. Like, it was as if I needed affirmation/attention from a girl to feel good about myself. If I got it, it felt great. If I didn't, I felt hurt/rejected/it lower self-esteem. This is primarily an internal struggle which comes from low self-esteem and inexperience with women. And it really is the biggest turn off for a woman. They can smell it a mile away. My advice: Start by working on yourself. Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" (if you haven't yet) as well as "The Six Pillars…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 04:45 PM
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Women are women, no matter where they're at or what they're doing. If you're interested in someone, show some confidence and go talk to them and make them laugh. With a girl you see a lot at the gym, you might want to play the long game: Don't come on strong at first, just a word or two, and a little more next time, etc. until you've built rapport and then go in for the kill. It won't be awkward if you're not awkward, and the more exposure people have with each other, the more likely they are to…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 07:40 PM
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Yes. She's batshit crazy and you should not let her be any part of your life.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:28 PM
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Soft next. Don't respond to any drama or dumb texts. You don't have to justify anything you do to a FWB. Find more plates. Only spend time with either of them when they want to come over to your place for sex.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:26 PM
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We should stop calling it "body positivity" and start calling it what it really is: Obesity/fat acceptance. I'm all for bodies of different shapes and sizes, as long as they're heathly.
/r/MensRights15/05/17 10:50 PM
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She sounds like she might have Borderline Personality Disorder. My advice: Run. Don't be around this girl. Don't text her, don't let her come to the concert (you've already paid her back the money). Wash your hands of her and move on. You and your friend should bring two other girls or friends. Then work on yourself. Why were you drawn into this drama? You don't want to repeat this stuff, do you? What did you do wrong? Fix all these things about yourself.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 09:32 PM
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Good on you, man. Honestly, even though this was a huge and uncertain situation, this is just one challenge on the long road of life among many challenges you will face. I'm glad the weed helped with the pain. As a person who occasionally partakes in some green, I'd encourage you to not let your life become a full-fledged stoner. Once her cancer is gone, and the pain is gone, you'll need to keep moving forward with life, because life hasn't stopped simply because your girlfriend had cancer. That…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 06:26 PM
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Third wave feminism (i.e. batshit crazy feminism), far-left progressivism, and other social justice movements really only thrives when they can censor free speech to craft their narrative. Once you challenge the narrative, even if you do so under the with good intentions (like Christina Hoff Sommers or Erin Pizzet), you are a heretic and are often de-platformed, protested, or threatened. This is even happening in academics. Anybody see the "redpilling" of Laci Green? Researchers are being preven…
/r/MensRights15/05/17 04:57 PM
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This. Start by getting good at being witty and interesting and making conversation without trying to get anything out of it. It helps if you have an "in" like if she's holding a book you can ask about, or doing something you're interested in, or even has a dog, etc. Just going up and talking to a girl, without any pretense to do so, (other than the fact she's a girl and you think she's attractive) is a certain way to cause massive cringe if your game isn't on point.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 04:48 PM
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Yes and no. I think she's being purposefully inflammatory to make a point: Women shouldn't willingly become single mothers. They're not reason to do so. Right now, women have access to all kinds of birth control, condoms cost $0.50, society gives them autonomy over their bodies, etc. No woman has a child by accident, but instead by ignorance or on purpose. By every measurable statistic, children are worse off when born out of wedlock and raised by single mothers. Modern prisons are basically rec…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 11:07 PM
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Agreed. I believe first and foremost in free speech, not the banning of groups or ideas. While it's fun to see a group like this get a taste of their own medicine, I think it's take the fight in the wrong direction.
/r/MensRights12/05/17 09:07 PM
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Title IX makes it illegal to discriminate based on sex, and not gender or "gender identity" or whatever you want to call it. So yes, they're open for lawsuits based on how the law is written. But good luck getting a court that's actually sympathetic towards men.
/r/MensRights12/05/17 09:03 PM
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"You need to own your height." Just stop caring about it as an issue. Sure, women are superficial and love tall men, and you can't change what they might like or your height, but you can change your attitude. Confidence is sexy. I've plated plenty women who were taller than me. I'm 5'7 (well, 5'7.5"), and I've gone out with women who were 5'9, 5'10, 6'0, even a former college volleyball player who was 6'2. Stop caring about it as an issue and many women will do the same. If you're on Tinder, swi…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 07:08 PM
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Dude, you're putting pussy up way too high on your list right now. Sacrificing any part of your future to chase women at this point in your life is going to screw you over royally. Get your priorities straight: Get a good career set up. Take care of yourself physically (lift, eat healthy, don't become an alcoholic) Get a place to live, even if it's not ideal If you think a college education will further your career, do it. Again, everything you do right now is setting up for the future. You're n…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 07:02 PM
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Do you want to continue to live in a fantasy that doesn't exist? Or would you like to know the truth, and then to make changes and grow, in order to be happy and successful in life? Nobody is coming to rescue you.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 06:13 PM
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Some people would want to call you a hypocrite for fucking a girl and then feeling sorry for the decisions that she made. But I don't. If she doesn't sleep with you, she will sleep with any other Chad that turns her on. It's a stupid cycle and a messed up society we live in. I've fucked young plates that turned out to have the biggest daddy issues later. In a few of the cases, I wouldn't have slept with them if I had known... It's not me. And I don't even think of myself as a "Chad." I'm just a …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 05:36 PM
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Jordan Peterson is killing it lately. I keep seeing him everywhere and it feels like he's the next prophet sent here to redpill Western society. Also, whenever I see video of batship crazy SJWs and feminists it's always at the U of T? Why? That's where you see Big Red, the Warren Farrell protest, etc.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 03:49 PM
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Honestly, these protests are one of the best things that could happen to a documentary like this. It's the Streisand effect, and honestly is some of the best free publicity this film can receive. Plus, once people see the documentary with the juxtaposition of feminist protests and attempts at censoring its screenings... It'll only prove the validity of The Red Pill's arguments. People are about to get a major red pilling thanks for rabid man-hating feminists.
/r/MensRights11/05/17 04:37 PM
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I'm 33 and just waking up to my demons. I quit drinking beer this week, and have always had an "okay" physique, because I rock climb 3x/week, but I'm honestly 30 lbs overweight. I lost 20 lbs last year cutting carbs/sugar in about 40 days (keto + IF). I'm looking to cut again, plus more, and keep it off, because I plan on being sober. I do not want to go through the rest of my life as an average loser unhappy in life. But it takes sacrifice.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 04:31 PM
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First rule: Don't let your sense of self-worth be dictated by whether some girl sleeps with you or not. Once you reach that point, lots of women will want to sleep with you because your SMV will go up (just be the changes in your behavior). When a girl plays games, you just have to be able to say, "there's the door."
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 11:32 PM
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She attempted to kill a man, then tried to ruin the life of the man she "loves" just to save her own skin. Male disposability is a real thing.
/r/MensRights10/05/17 11:12 PM
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I've found that the women I talk to about men's issues who are actually sympathetic and listen to the arguements and statistics are almost always mothers of boys.
/r/MensRights08/05/17 08:33 PM
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Watch the Redpill movie. It lays it out there pretty well. My thoughts: Feminism largely opperates from a Culturally Marxist worldview, reinforcing the "oppressor"/"oppressed" narrative. That's why you'll see feminists and SJWs yelling at men and white people, telling them how privileged they are, and that women are this highly oppressed class. Because of this, any attempt to advocate for the "privileged class" (i.e. men) is often seen as misogyny and a threat to women's rights (as well as other…
/r/MensRights08/05/17 04:00 PM
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Ahhh. Now I see. There's probably a lot more going on there. In my experience young women can be notoriously flakey. Also, you're so young you're probably still learning all the subtleties of game. Women, as they get older, get easier, game gets easier, etc. I've had more sex in a year in my 30s with different women than all my 20s combined.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:54 PM
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Besides what everyone else has said, think about this: There are lots of threads on AskReddit where people talked about their failed suicide attempts. Every single one of them are glad it didn't work out. Every. Single. One. Life has its ups and downs, and sometimes people can get into really dark places. I've been in a few myself. Call the suicide hotline if you don't have someone to talk to. Go see a doctor (I did just recently for depression and got medication). Start seeing a counselor. Ther…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:47 PM
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We'd have to see your messages to see what's really going on. Communication is subtle, so it would be easier to judge on a case-by-case basis. First, unless you're an alcoholic, skip coffee and get a drink somewhere. Alcohol is a social lubricant. Next, you shouldn't ask them like that. Also, start by giving them your number. I'll usually say something like, "You can text me if you promise to not be weird" or something playful like that. Then I won't wait for them to respond, but will just messa…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 06:42 PM
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Soft next and make plans with another girl. Abundance mentality. Always hedge your bets. If she reaches out and you've already have made plans, pick the one you prefer and gives you the best chance of success. Men need to stop tolerating indecisiveness and flakiness in women.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 07:05 PM
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What are your pictures? What is your profile? Choose pictures that show that you're unique. Women don't want to just date a man, they want "a cowboy" or "an outdoorsy guy" or "a rock climber" or "a police officer." Online dating, if you're not in the top 5%, is always easier if you fulfill a niche. Do you have any hobbies? Have a couple pictures that show those things. Also, do you have any pictures of you doing cool shit in your firefighting outfit? Perhaps with a hose while climbing the ladder…
/r/askTRP03/05/17 04:38 PM
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As a side note, apart from having nothing to do with men's rights I see no problem with the article. I bet many people would call this misogyny, because they're idiots. Exactly. It's ironic that in a Men's Rights sub, we would still have a circle jerk to shame male sexuality and sexual desires. TRP exists for that very reason: To give men honest advice about life, relationships, and sex in a way that is open and amoral. What each man does with that information is up to him. Some men choose to fi…
/r/MensRights02/05/17 09:55 PM
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Typical order I follow with a new girl: Make out, kiss neck, kiss/nibble ears, pull down shirt and kiss breasts/suck on nipples, grab ass on top of clothes, grab ass under clothes, move her hand on top of the front of my jeans, then unbutton her jeans, oral, sex. The most important thing is don't ask, as this is a huge turn off for most women, but listen to how they respond to your lead. Each step along the way you're looking for her response and enthusiasm. The more enthusiastic her participati…
/r/askTRP02/05/17 05:10 PM
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How strong were you to begin with? I don't care about being hugely bulky. I'm a rock climber, so I like to be lean and fit. Strong enough to get to the top, but also to have muscles to look good in my clothes and at the beach. Also, I've lifted since high school (I'm in my early 30s now). Not all the time for the past 15 years, I've had breaks here and there, but I stay active in other sports (played basketball in high school/college, started climbing after college, still play city leage ball). …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 07:30 PM
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There's all sorts of conflicting information on this, depending on who you ask. Just look at these two articles from Men's Journal and Men's Fitness: http://www.mensjournal.com/health-fitness/articles/fats-vs-carbs-whats-the-best-fuel-for-athletes-w209509 http://www.mensfitness.com/nutrition/what-to-eat/truth-behind-worlds-most-cutting-edge-fat-burning-performance-meal-plan-keto
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 07:25 PM
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It is a tough transition before you get into ketosis, but if you stick it out, I felt stronger on the other side, and much, much leaner. It is hard to build muscle and cut at the same time though.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 07:03 PM
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You're not hungry, because you're still getting enough calories (but running a deficit), and being in ketosis, your body is using it's fat reserves for energy. I eat a lot of steak, chicken, bacon, pork, etc. But I also eat a lot of dairy (cheese, butter, heavy cream), veggies (roasted broccoli, green beans, etc.) and some random snacks that fit into my macros (pork rinds, healthy fats like nuts, avocados, etc.). Really, if you stay within your macros, limit your carbs and don't have sugar, you …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 06:52 PM
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The real secret is having a plan and sticking to it. If you meal prep for a few days, or a week, you're not going to mess up your diet. You can get away a little with not prepping if something happens (like getting a couple burgers from Wendy's with no bun), but you don't want to make it the norm.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 05:32 PM
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You don't need keto shakes. Just to follow a few guidelines. Here's the concept behind keto: You lower your carb intake to ~20 net carbs per day ("net carbs" are the amount of carbs in a food minus the fiber), and get your calories through other means (protein and fat). After a while, your body will enter the metabolic state of ketosis, where ketones are released, signalling to your body to use fatty acids as its primary source of energy. You run a caloric deficit, and your body will literally b…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 05:25 PM
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Thanks for having an open mind. TRP isn't what people on the outside often think it to be.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 04:37 PM
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Yup. I would eat half a small avocado with my breakfast, occassionally drink bone broth, would salt all my food, and take a magnesium supplement. It really helped. But I liked the foods on keto: Steak, veggies, hot wings, bacon... Yum.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 04:34 PM
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Keto + IF = quick weight loss I did keto to cut, would only take 1500 calories, would eat breakfast at 8, lunch at 12, dinner at 4, and then fast for 16 hours. I lost 20 lbs in 40 days, although the first bit of that was water weight.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 04:01 PM
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Bro, have you been hitting the gym harder these days??
/r/askTRP28/04/17 11:30 PM
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My first girlfriend, who had a kid, would tell me, "I we break up I'll just be single for 12 years" (when her kid was finally 18). It would really bother me back in my BP days. I felt responsible. Well, we broke up and a few years later she's married. So much for that shit.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 11:04 PM
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OP was probably spinning a few plates and now they've all dropped.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 11:00 PM
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Yup. And the things that make her a good LTR prospect will likely make her n-count somewhat lower than average.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 05:23 PM
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Protip: Any time they mention a number (i.e. "HB9"), take 1 or 2 off of it. It's always a humblebrag. There's zero reason to mention how attractive you find her. What does someone want, a high five? Really, there's two ratings: 0 - Would not bang 1 - Would bang
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:27 PM
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Stop mentally putting her on a pedestal and thinking about how hot she is (i.e. "she's a ballet dancer for an exclusive company in NYC-- her face and body are unlike anything I've ever seen in this world"). Really, focus on her flaws. Is her nose too big? Eyebrows weird? Maybe she has a flat ass? The more you look at her like she's just another girl (which she is), the easier it will be. The more you treat her like she's extremely hot and above your league, the more likely you're going to screw …
/r/askTRP27/04/17 07:09 PM
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Arousal addiction causes people to seek out novelty (both men and women). There is a different type of excitement when there is a new sexual partner, a new "conquest." And I think it's different than having just having a high sex drive; it's a pattern of behavior that makes them not good LTR prospects. A met a girl off of Tinder a few weeks ago, she was in her late 20s, just came out of a very long LTR, and had been single for about a month. She told me that she had a different guy come over eve…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 05:44 PM
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But really, don't try too hard to make it work. Sounds like it sucks. Don't be the loser "trying to save this dying relationship" while she eats up your efforts. Sunken cost fallacy. OP is two months into this relationship, and already the dead bedroom is slowly setting in. Imagine in six months? A year? Two years? Fuck. Soft dread is good, and OP needs to step his game up, and be willing to walk away at any point.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 05:12 PM
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I know it's bad, but I just flush mine down the toilet. I don't want to take a chance. If I'm over at a woman's house, and I've had some drinks and am sleeping over, I don't want to leave the condom just in the trash or keep it around all night. And I always bring my own condoms. I'm shocked at how many women you meet who claim to have an IUD. It's seriously shocking, not that they have an IUD (or claim to), but that they're willing to have unprotected sex with a man they just met. Seriously, ab…
/r/MensRights27/04/17 05:03 PM
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I love how the whole conversation around female pregnancy is framed as "her body, her choice," but once the baby comes it's "my baby, your money," even if it's against the man's consent. This woman is diabolical and knew exactly what she was doing. She's exploiting the system for her financial profits at the expense of another human being. And it happens a lot. There are men who were victims of statuatory rape when they were teenagers that later are expected to pay child support. Disgusting. Or …
/r/MensRights27/04/17 04:48 PM
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What's your age? Have you ever struggled with clinical depression? You might want to talk to your doctor if this persists. Or make some serious changes in your life. What's your plan or goals in life?
/r/askTRP27/04/17 03:54 PM
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What was the context that she shared this information? Look up "trickle truth," there may be more going on. Sometimes a relationship isn't salvagable and you have to hit the eject button, but that's up to you. Is the benefit for the relationship worth more than what it's costing you? You always need to be able to walk away when it's costing you more than you're getting back. Also look up "sunken cost" fallacy. Don't keep investing your time, effort, and commitment into a losing cause.
/r/askTRP26/04/17 10:30 PM
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How am I as a Christian supposed to find a woman that is a virgin when they don't seem to exist? They do exist. They'll be ideally young, very plain and shy. You likely don't notice them when you go to church, but they're there. Women who get your attention likely have gotten other men's attention and have had ample opportunity for sex. Many of them have had sex. How do Christians on this sub justify not sleeping with women or how do you justify sleeping with women? You need to live according to…
/r/askTRP26/04/17 08:53 PM
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What's great is that the more fuss they throw about the film, the more free publicity it gets. Also, the lies are easily exposed if someone watches the documentart, and just becomes a first-hand example why feminism is cancer, and the vocal third wave feminists are actually anti-male and against supporting men's issues. Really, it's a win-win. The video is on Youtube and other places. People who really want to watch it will watch it.
/r/MensRights26/04/17 04:38 PM
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Whenever you hear a ridiculous claim, here's two important questions to ask: What do you mean by that? How did you come to that conclusion? People make handwave arguments all the time, with little or no basis in reality. When pressed on it, they're often exposed.
/r/MensRights25/04/17 07:48 PM
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Wrong, man. He's sexist by simply being male and existing. /s
/r/MensRights25/04/17 07:44 PM
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Of course fucking Jessica Valenti tweeted this. She's just bitter that he didn't catcall her. The struggle is real.
/r/MensRights25/04/17 07:43 PM
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Man, I thought I had a "this girl is different" girl as well. We'd go to church every Sunday, read our Bibles and prayed together, she came from a good family... When she branch swung it was the most painful season of my life. It was like everything we shared meant nothing. Fuck. It's okay, dodged a bullet and found TRP.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:41 PM
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Just wait till she responds. If she wants to go out with you, she will. If she's just using you for attention or validation, she won't. Meanwhile, hit the gym, do cool stuff, and approach other women. Don't wait around.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 02:27 PM
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TRP is about providing the most accurate and unfiltered information to men about life, women, sex, relationships, etc. so that they can have a solid sexual strategy and do what they want with their lives.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 09:48 PM
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Pretty? You mean "handsome," right? Girls want to date handsome men. Looking at your post history... Looks like you've asked this question before? Are you kind of young? Learning stuff from PUA is ok, but what women really like is confidence, which is hard to fake. And the only way you build confidence is by experience. Approach and interact with a lot of women. Do it on Tinder. Do it in public. Go to the pub/coffeeshop. On and on. You need to get to a point where you don't care about the outcom…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 08:34 PM
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I am not sure on how to approach this because I have fear that she might turn me down for the third time You need to stop caring about the outcome with this girl. All relationships eventually come to an end, so she doesn't belong to you. My advice: Don't pursue her, but keep letting her buy you lunch and letting you smoke her weed. Don't buy her anything. Keep lifting and becoming a beast. Fuck other girls. Fuck hotter girls than her. Eventually she'll go for you, or she won't, but you'll have l…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:40 PM
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Protip: Any askTRP post or field report with an HB8 = OPs going to get or already has oneitis. We need to stop putting potential plates on pedestals. The only numerical numbers we should use is a 1 or 0. 1 = I would bang 0 = I would not bang
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:33 PM
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Where on earth is there not parking within walking distance of where someone lives? Even $10 parking for all night? Have her come to your place, bro.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:31 PM
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They love the men and not the characters. Except Magic Mike. Every woman wants to bone Magic Mike. MAGIC MIKE XXL FTW BABY!
/r/askTRP24/04/17 07:28 PM
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I find the 2/3 - 1/3 rule only works if your SMV is significantly higher than theirs. On Tinder/Bumble, women have access easily to so many men they can lose interest, that's why your game has to be tight and try to get a meetup sooner than later.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:40 PM
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Yeah. Communication can be subtle and sometimes it's not hard to turn a woman off--especially if she doesn't know you. What kind of dates are you trying to arrange? How often are you texting? What sort of things do you say?
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:22 PM
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TIL attractive, rich, fit men like Ryan Gosling and Channing Tatum are betas.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 06:21 PM
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Hmmm... There could be a lot of things going on. I've chatted with a ton of girls on Tinder, then got numbers, and most of the time we end up meeting up... But not all the time. I'm in my early 30s, so I think women that I date (25 years and older usually) are pretty serious. The biggest flakes are the youngest women (25 and younger, with the younger they are the more flakey they tend to be). How old are you? Really, you want to chat a little, get their number, and arrange a meetup within 5 days…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 05:10 PM
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It's always a proud moment when one of your comments or posts reaches the top of TheBluePill or SRS.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:30 PM
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Just act surprised, man, like it has never happened. Most of them are probably acting too...
/r/askTRP21/04/17 02:08 AM
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Yes, generally, if a girl doesn't like having sex with you, it makes for bad sex. You're a virgin. I wouldn't worry about "dominating her" or trying anal or all those things. Most virgins aren't going to last two minutes once they actually start having sex. Just go into it with a good attitude, be clean (take a shower and brush your teeth), have fun and enjoy having sex. If it's short, maybe you can do it twice. If it's good, maybe you can get your training wheels by hooking up with this girl a …
/r/askTRP20/04/17 11:04 PM
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If you're not a troll, you've got other issues, buddy. Just about every woman I've met likes rough sex, but they like it with a man they're attracted to. You fucking this girl as some sort of virgin "revenge" fantasy is cringe worthy at best. Look, if you want to have sex with someone and they want to have sex with you, go for it. Wear a condom. Don't be creepy (which might be the hardest part from your post). And most importantly: If she says "stop," stop right away, because you're probably goi…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 10:53 PM
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Just don't ask. You're either going to get the truth, the truth you don't want to hear, or a lie. If you're vetting a girl as a posible LTR, there are other ways to do this.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 10:39 PM
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Also, women are full of shit. If I had a dollar for every girl who told me she's only slept with "5 guys" before fucking me on the first date and saying, "Wow, I've never done this before!" Yeah, right. We've all done this with a girl who's "never done this before..."
/r/askTRP20/04/17 09:37 PM
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No, not all women cheat. But... All women are people, and all people can and will cheat under the right conditions. The best you can do is find a good LTR prospect and who purposely minimizes opportunities that will lead to cheating. These include: Going out to clubs, even with just her "girlfriends" Being an attention whore on social media Having a lot of guy friends Befriending male coworkers and new men she meets while being in an LTR with you Texting men or being alone with them (even in pub…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 08:57 PM
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No, it's her fault. We have to stop making excuses for shitty behavior.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 08:50 PM
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Oh, a few things I realized I didn't mention. When you get their number, and if the flirting is solid and you get a lot of heavy flirting/interest, sometimes I'll send a "sexy" pic. If you're in good shape and feel like you have the green light, this is fine and sometimes a move that escalates the sexual tension and/or shows their intentions. The only thing is: Do not send a dick pic. I've had countless women love getting a pic of me in a towel after a shower, or something like that, send me nau…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 07:15 PM
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I've been single for about 3.5 years and I've gone on hundreds of Tinder dates. It's simple: When you message first, don't just say "Hey." Say something specific about their picture or profile, hopefully something witty and clever. Maybe tease them a bit or make a joke. And then always ask a question (e.g. "Oh gosh, you're a UK fan? How much do you hate Christian Laettner?"). It doesn't matter what the topic is, just make it interesting and easy for them to respond. You should be clever enough t…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 06:25 PM
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When satire and trolling can't be easily distinguished from reality, we know we're at a critical point in history. It doesn't matter if the author of the article doesn't believe a single word he wrote, HuffPo believed the ideas contained in the article had enough merit to publish. They need to take full responsibility for the garbage they post on their shitty website.
/r/MensRights20/04/17 05:54 PM
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You need to grow as a person. You need to reach a place where other people's approval (especially women) have zero value to you, because what matters is that you approve you. The is no such thing as "winning the breakup," only moving on. The best "revenge" is living well.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 05:29 PM
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She showed up almost an hour after you two made plans to meet? Unless she has a legit excuse, it shows a lack of respect for you as a person. It doesn't matter how "nice" she seemed when you first met her, "nice" people don't get mad when someone doesn't wait around an hour for them. If you would have applied some boundaries and told her that's not acceptable, you would have probably gained more respect from her (and likely attraction). But it's too late for that now. Try again if you want, but …
/r/askTRP19/04/17 05:17 PM
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You have a problem with the way you're thinking. I've struggled with alcohol, and it always comes down to my thought life and the lies I tell myself to keep drinking: "I can have one or two beers tonight and I'll stop tomorrow." "There's a basketball game on tonight, so I'd like to have a drink, but on Wednesday I'll quit." "I've had a tough day so I deserve a beer, I'll stop when things get better." And on and on it goes. What lies are you telling yourself that keep you choosing sugar? Identify…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 09:06 PM
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Hard to say without more information, but just soft-next her. How often do you text/see her? Don't respond to texts unless absolutely necessary, but if she asks if everything is okay or what is going on, just be somewhat honest: "I'm not interested in seeing you anymore," or "I'm not really interested in seeing anyone right now, I'm just focused on myself."
/r/askTRP17/04/17 08:58 PM
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I honestly think the elephant in the room is the one thing no one talks about: Our national debt. It is Bush doubles the debt, and Obama did the same. I hope Trump cuts a lot of unnecessary spending and the economy keeps booming, or else we're headed right off a cliff. All the craziness (e.g. SJWs, transgenderism, etc.) are symptoms of a cultural collapse. If you look at a lot of the great societies that have risen and fallen, like the Greeks or Romans, you get a lot of gender dysphoria towards …
/r/askTRP17/04/17 08:54 PM
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It's crazy that we've reached a point in a society where satire and parody can no longer be obviously distinguished from reality. A liberal communist professor tweets out "All I want for Christmas is white genocide" and nobody knows if he's joking or not. I don't think he even knows if it's a joke, because his other rhetoric is filled with such bias and hate, where are we to know where the line really is? Feminists scream, oink, call men pigs, and swear at them for simply wanting to listen to Wa…
/r/MensRights17/04/17 06:05 PM
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Yes, these are early signs of an impending collapse. There will be no recovery, the train has no brakes, until the bubble bursts and everything starts over.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 05:49 PM
1

I agree. Is this supposed to pass as satire? Is he trolling HuffPo or white CIS males? Or is he serious? What a shit show.
/r/MensRights17/04/17 05:02 PM
3

Yeah, it's good because she sees you as different from other guys. But don't read too much into it or care too much about what she says. The best way to win the "game" is to not play (i.e. not worry about what they say or do too much, focus on yourself, squash their shit tests in the moment and move on, etc.).
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:54 PM
3

I find it easiest when I don't take them too seriously and tease them a lot and say whatever I feel like.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:38 PM
13

Translation: I did anal with a geeky girl who just lost some weight and has a bunch of loose skin. Am I the alpha now??
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 04:35 PM
1

This is true. There's a line in the book OP mentions that I'll always remember: Nobody is coming to rescue you.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 06:15 PM
4

"stumbled" lol. You didn't stumble, you looked. That's okay. I'm not sure if it'd be weird If you're very attractive, I honestly don't think she'd care. If you're not attractive, she'll think it's creepy. That's just how these things work. I doubt she wants to give lessons. Girls want men who are better than them at the things they like, not to help a man improve themselves. Doesn't matter if it's music, rock climbing, fitness, whatever. Women tend to "date up." My advice: Approach her, don't me…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 06:09 PM
6

Sexual strategy is amoral, so what everyone wants is different. The vocal majority of men probably just want to spin plates, because far too North American women have very little to offer as far as an LTR goes. Some men have LTRs, some men are already married when they find TRP and just want to have a successful marriage. To each his own. TRP is about giving you unfiltered information so that you can make the best decision for yourself and make the most of your life.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 04:09 PM
3

she jokingly says "kiss that girl" while pointing to a random girl A&A: "But why would I stop at one?" then forget about it.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 10:29 PM
1

At that point you have to just cut them loose.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:04 PM
7

Girls can lose interest at any moment for a variety of reasons. For example, they might meet a guy with a high SMV and want to try to start a relationship with him. And on and on it goes. I find either it rains or it pours when it comes to plates. I can have 3 or 4 plates going, and then for different reasons (boredom on my part?) can lose them all within a day or two. Rinse and repeat. I also think the higher your SMV, the longer you can keep plates spinning.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:55 PM
5

Uninstall video games from your phone, sell your console and games, and then find something more fulfilling/interesting.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 08:03 PM
2

You need to make a move next time. She'll either reciprocate and it's on, or she'll shoot you down and you move on. That's all.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:37 PM
1

Part of it may be that I generally take Asian girls less seriously. This. If it's a girl from Tinder or something, you don't want to take them seriously. You want to be fun and interesting, and not try too hard. Your height isn't ideal, but it also isn't horrible. I'm around the same height, don't lift as much as I should, and have a few extra lbs (175) and don't have trouble getting a date, even with girls taller than me. The problem has to be with your approach and subtle cues you must be sign…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:31 PM
1

If you know this girl from real life, text less. If you don't know this girl at all because it's from a dating app, text a little more to generate interest and build slight rapport, but not too much.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:25 PM
4

I always have to scoff at the idea of "toxic masculinity." Feminists will cherry pick the shitty things that some men sometimes do and try to create a narrative: Masculinity itself is "toxic" and problimatic men need reprogramming through feminist indoctrination. But at the same time they ignore all the wonderful things men do: Men can be wonderful fathers, men build all the buildings and bridges, mine all the coal and oil, clean up all the garbage, do all the dangerous, undesirable jobs that wo…
/r/MensRights12/04/17 04:23 PM
7

That's exactly what I thought about when antifa rioted at Milo's event at Berkeley. If they had done nothing, then just a few hundred college kids would hear him speak--most of whom I expect already knew who he was and agreed with him. Yet because they rioted and protested, he got all this free publicity, had one of the top trending videos on youtube, got to go on news networks (and look like the reasonable side), etc. Antifa may have won the "battle" but ended up losing much more ground in the …
/r/MensRights12/04/17 04:19 PM
1

Be confident, don't be annoying, don't be needy with the girls.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:58 PM
1

Why is the date almost a week away? Ideally, you want to meet within a day or two. Is this girl from Tinder or something? Text only to generate intruige and interest, but don't be too available. None of those "Good morning :)" or "How are you?" texts. Still, the longer you wait for the meeting, the less interest in you it shows unless she has a legit excuse like a vacation or something (Remember the Brad Pitt rule: Would she make him wait a week? Probably not). Keep approaching other women and k…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:57 PM
1

Your story is a bit unclear. You've guys have fooled around, but never hooked up? This girl is a PLATE material at best, not an LTR prospect. If you want to keep (or start?) spinning her as a plate, fine, but don't worry about what she's doing without you, don't even ask about it, don't ask other people about it, don't get caught up in the drama. It's a waste of time and you have stuff to do with your life. She doesn't belong to you--and has never committed to you, so it's none of your business.…
/r/askTRP11/04/17 11:48 PM
1

They do it because they know it's socially acceptable and that they'll get away with it. They also know that if that man even raises one finger in self-defense, they're likely to have a dozen white knights jump to defend them, plus a biased legal system to protect them from "those horrible and violent men."
/r/MensRights10/04/17 05:34 PM
1

i have had more feminists 'mansplain' to stuff to me than anyone else ever Call it "vagsplaining" and watch the triggering go nuclear.
/r/MensRights10/04/17 05:31 PM
5

She agreed to not text him anymore and then she lied to you about it. She's a plate, at best, and not an LTR prospect.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:29 PM
7

Yup. Imagine a woman you're not attracted to at all. Now, imagine her with a six figure income. Is she more attractive? Nope. A good income is great, but becoming the the ideal you is much preferred.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 07:33 PM
2

pillock That's the first time I've been called a pillock. Props. Look, if you go on Spotify and look at DMX or Ice Cube radio, it's just going to play the same artists over and over. Why not expand out a little? What kind of music do you like?
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:25 PM
2

There's plenty of other chicks. I say it's probably a waste of time. Find other plates to spin.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:17 PM
1

She either is hanging out with you for the attention/validation (beta orbiter) or she wants to hook up with you. There's only one way to find out: Isolate her and try to escalate. Is she just "seeing somebody" or does she have a boyfriend? Personally, there are plenty of girls in this world who don't have boyfriends, so I don't see the point of trying to spin plates who already have a guy. Drama is dumb.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:11 PM
2

Oh God. It's music for fuck's sake. Who cares what type of music a person listens to when they work out? What's important is that they're lifting and working out. Obviously, there's a balance there. But overall, I think it's a bit unmasculine to get caught up in group think and to care too much about other's opinions when it comes to social trends, musical genres, etc. I spent too much of my 20s worrying about things in attempt to try to appeal to women or other people: Things like how my apartm…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 09:28 PM
1

Listen to whatever you want. The most "masculine" thing you can do is be your own person and do what you like. /thread
/r/askTRP07/04/17 08:07 PM
2

if she hasn't said those 3 words in a certain time frame, you should start looking elsewhere Who says this is a cut and dry rule? Stop analyzing everything she does. If she's really submissive, perhaps she won't say it until you've said it. You've been seeing this girl for 5 months. How often do you see each other? How often do you hook-up? Look at her actions, and stop worrying about her saying, "I love you." My advice: Keep working on yourself. Insecurity kills attractice. Also, is the relatio…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 08:06 PM
2

If you want something to happen with this girl, you need to escalate the next time you two are alone. Or else you're just in the friend zone and she just likes the validation/attention you're giving her.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:49 PM
2

Read the sidebar on the main sub Get a gym membership and start lifting Read the top posts of all-time from the main sub. Look for posts by the endorsed contributors. Personally, I think posts around a year old or older are the best. Currently, the sub has grown (197k) to the point where there are a lot of shit posts from people who likely shouldn't be posting. Examine yourself. Figure out your mission in life and pursue it. Get rid of all the shit that holds you back. You get one shot at life, …
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:41 PM
10

Simple: Break up with your girlfriend. You're guilty because you want to stay faithful, but you're young and your hormones are raging and you want to get laid. Break up with her and spin plates. Maybe when you're older, then you'll be ready for an LTR without cheating. I know most guys on this thread are telling you just to deny it. Do what you want. But would you want to be in an LTR with a girl that cheats on you and then gaslights you about it? I think you should show her the same courtesy.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 05:22 PM
12

Because modern society says it's unacceptable for men to be honest about their feelings if they've had bad interactions with women. They'll label it "misogyny" rather then what we call it: The anger phase.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:54 PM
1

Take all the things that remind you of her (pictures, memories you shared, etc.) and hide them so they don't trigger you. If you're not ready to throw them away yet, that's okay, but just at least put them in a box so you don't think about it. Next, block her on social media. Don't check her FB or IG, you're a crazy person right now. Don't text her and avoid going to places where you likely will see her. Next, if you can't make it to the gym, at least start working out from home. Do push-up/pull…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:51 PM
2

22, dropped one uni, failed a year at another. Had a failed exam last week for admission at the second one. Thankfully, I have another shot. Ahhh. That's what I kind of felt just reading your post. Right now you need to get yourself on a path of success to set yourself up for the rest of your life. The things you want in life are good, simple things, easily attainable with a little effort and sacrifice. Look, when you're young sexual encounters can be lame, because often you're trying to find yo…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 04:26 PM
2

I feel like there might be more going on with you than just what's on the surface. Maybe for you they're a waste of time? We need more information: How old are you? What are your goals in life? What makes you happy? Where do you want to be in six months? A year? Five years? 20 years? The answer to these questions are more important than "is causal sex worth it?" It's worth it if it doesn't take away from your mission in life, or distract you from your goals. You've had sex with an older woman, t…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:57 PM
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Your analysis is very good. I've thought about these issues a lot. Cultural Marxism is cancer, and people who buy into that worldview and all its varients (feminism, BLM, etc.) are worse because of it. Why? Because in order for that worldview to function, the person always has to be the victim, and in doing so you give power over yourself to your "oppressors." There's a growing backlash in society against feminism because of this. Feminists want to continue their "oppression Olympics," and the c…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 11:52 PM
108

People are tired of have a social justice agenda crammed down their throats. I don't care if the lead of Star Wars is a woman, or a black dude, or whatever, I just want it to be good. I watch movies to be entertained, and not for politics. The reason Ghostbusters failed was because it wasn't funny, it was a reboot of a beloved franchise (people are tired of shitty reboots), and on top of that it was held up as this feminist statement that "Girls are funny and successful too!" People are mostly t…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 11:39 PM
3

There's a man inside of you that's been beaten down, sedated, and forgotten. But he's still here. You are still here. Let that count for something. Show the world what you're really capable of. Thanks, friend. I needed to hear this today.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 04:28 PM
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How the hell does this have 200 upvotes? Dumb. I'm not saying someone should "ask for permission," but we need more information for this post to mean anything. Some overweight, unattractive guy came into a store and asked about a sale, and then asked his wife about it... So what? Yes, he should have a plan and be a better leader, but what's the point? It's stupid. I'm just going to take everything at face value, and just say, there's way more going on in this guy's relationship. He needs to take…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 12:27 AM
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"You can join if you want, or else it's best if you just go." You did literally nothing wrong, except not locking your door. She knows you are not exclusive and are sleeping with other women. She was not invited and did not ask to come over. Another advice is don't talk about making plans with your "back-up plan" unless you know you don't have other options. You wouldn't need to lie or anything, and if your plate was into you enough that she might want an LTR, she's likely to drop whatever she's…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 08:29 PM
4

This is the only comment that matters. /thread
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 08:23 PM
2

It's pointless. Most of the time it just turns into a humblebrag or is a form of putting the woman on a pedestal. Protip: If anyone on this sub mentions a girl being an "HB9" or "HB8" then just drop the number by at least one or two points, maybe three. The rating system tends to over-inflate the woman's value. I think it's because men want to grade them like they do in school, with a "7" being average. This is bad for a several reasons. Really, it should be distributed like a bell curve. The av…
/r/askTRP02/04/17 08:20 PM
2

I've been with several women who were married and in open marriages. It's whatever. Wear a condom. Most of them will likely agree to a threesome with you and another chick. If you get the sense that this woman is wanting to branch swing, next her right away. She's not LTR material, even if she is an "HB8."
/r/askTRP02/04/17 08:08 PM
1

Well, good thing it's "her body, her choice." BTFO!
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 05:21 PM
3

When an ideology constantly tells someone that they're "oppressed," they must then identify their "oppressors." Feminism names everything wrong with the world after men (patriarchy) and then names the solution to all the world's problems after women (feminism). Sure, feminists will insist that "feminism is really about equality," but then they never talk about men's issues, or worse, when men want to bring up those issues or meet to discuss men's issues, feminists will protest or call those men …
/r/MensRights28/03/17 10:41 PM
1

Man, you need to work on your inner game, because that stuff doesn't matter. She doesn't belong to you, she never did, it's just your turn, so put it out of your head and focus on the things that matter.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 11:21 PM
2

Stop talking to your ex. She's not coming back. Shit, she doesn't deserve you. Get rid of everything that reminds you of her or triggers emotions. Keep lifting and improving yourself, then when you're ready start gaming other girls and spinning plates.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 11:19 PM
2

Really beautiful women have guys FBing/texting/etc. all the time. If you want to increase your odds, you should do it in person. I mean, we've all done it over FB, but I'm just giving you my advice. If you haven't interacted with this girl much in real life, FBing her is just a path towards beta orbiter status, unless you have a really high SMV.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 04:48 PM
3

People don't meet up from Tinder anymore? Really? While I don't think Tinder is as good as it used to be, I still meet up with 1-2 new Tinderellas every week, and I'm no "Chad."
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 04:38 PM
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First of all, stop saying she's an "HB9." Stop putting her on a pedestal. I don't even assign numbers to girls, but instead just go for the ones I find attractive. Let her decide if she's out of your league. If you think she's "too hot," one tip is to focus on her physical imperfections to bring her down a notch or two. Maybe her nose is a little big? Her lips are funny? Shoot, any human being looks weird and not as attractive if you look at them long enough. You have to have self-confidence bec…
/r/askTRP27/03/17 04:30 PM
3

why do people link the idea that saying "Women are not oppressed from my point of view and here is why" is seen as that person saying "I fucking hate women, just hate them". Because they don't want to tackle your argument but instead will attack your character. Lots of groups do this: If you don't agree with the feminist "doctrine" then you must be a misogynist. If you don't change your way of thinking to align with BLM, then obviously you're a racist. If you have different moral views on homose…
/r/MensRights27/03/17 04:13 PM
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I've seen this article posted a number of times across the web. I once tracked down the original post, which was posted on twoX. It got a ton of upvotes, but wasn't without controversy, and the mods ended up locking the post. It's just shocking that a woman realizes she's the primary problem in her relationship, and it becomes such a controversy that there can't even be an open discussion and allow others to learn from her experiences. Everything has to fit the "narrative," right?
/r/MensRights23/03/17 10:39 PM
1

There's such a thing as "age of consent" for a reason. A 14 year old should not be in a sexual relationship with an adult, regardless of gender. Period. Statutory rape is rape. It may not rise to the same level as a violent and forcible rape (like if the person is drugged or there's threats of violence), but it doesn't make it okay.
/r/MensRights23/03/17 05:31 PM
2

Here's my plan for you: You learn game by trying game, failing/succeeding, then analyzing what worked and what didn't, and reading from other men's experiences. Hang out with this girl, be confident and fun and flirt a little, then try to escalate physically when you're alone. You don't have to "make it known subtly but firmly what you want and don't bend" because romance/attraction/sex is a lot of give and take.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 11:01 PM
2

Would an appropriate response be "I'm not sure I can carve a huge time slot from my day, I'll come by for the last 45-30 mins of it and we can go from there?" I don't think so. I think you should just suck it up and enjoy the whole play. Imagine if you invited a girl to a movie and she said she'd just come watch the last half of it? Pretty dumb, right? Either go to the play and don't say anything, or tell her you can't make it to the play but that you can still meet afterwards. Don't go to half …
/r/askTRP22/03/17 10:02 PM
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Imagine a girl you don't want to kiss at all. Now imagine that she said she'll buy you coffee if you'd kiss her. That is you. That's who you are right now. A girl will kiss you if she's attracted and wants to kiss you. Buying coffee isn't going to affect the outcome of that. Work on better game... You need to demonstrate value and generate interest.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 08:01 PM
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Off. The best way to "win" the game is to not play, but to just be busy and have an interesting life. And you shouldn't check to see if she reads your texts and how quickly she responds or not.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 07:58 PM
3

I like it. Simple, clean, effective.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 07:02 PM
13

I've been on Tinder on and off for a few years. I've found that if I'm in my area (an okay sized city but nothing else), I won't get many matches because I've already viewed most of the girls. Some days I'll get a few matches, some days none. But if I go on a trip, I'll get a bunch of matches quickly. I think it's just a numbers game: If you milk your area dry, you're not going to get new matches as much.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:46 PM
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I finally thought i became an alpha male. First of all, you need to get this idea out of your head. There's no such thing as an "alpha" or a "beta." These are just shorthand descriptions of a man who is either very traditionally masculine (alpha) or less masculine (beta). The truth is that everyone exists on a spectrum and have a mix of masculine behaviors/traits and not as masculine behaviors/traits, and even these can fluctuate depending on your mood, situation, etc. So it's not like you're go…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 10:41 PM
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I had a little bit of that issue when I was first sexually active. It's gotten better over the years. My suggestions: Don't fap much (and if you do, don't use a Chinese death grip) and don't watch porn. I think porn is a totally killer for male sexuality. Be willing to try different positions. When I first started to be able to do it, I'd have to lay on my side in a sort of doggy position with my thighs flexed. Now I've learned to relax more and do it in other positions. If these suggestions don…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 10:29 PM
10

Keep approaching women, it'll get easier the more you do it. If you're able to be clever and interesting and make this girl laugh, and then get her number, you now know you can do it with other women. She said she has a boyfriend, and that's probably true, so don't put too much into things with her. Approach other women and don't try too hard with any one girl.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 07:35 PM
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You're spot on. He's known this chick for three days. Sure, she's hot AF and the sex is good, but there are so many red flags that this one is not LTR material. Drug addiction, using men for drinks, manipulative bitch behavior, etc. all show she's drama and selfishness. Even cleaning OPs house is all show to try to get commitment. Anybody can be nice and think you're amazing for a few days... Vetting women for LTRs is subtle and you should err on the side of caution.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 05:05 PM
3

stop feeling sorry for yourself and get out there People need to stop worrying about the things they can't control and start putting their energy into the things they can control. I'm 5'7, and I've been with women who are 5'9, 5'10, 6'0, shoot, even a former college volleyball player who was 6'2. At some you just stop caring, and if you don't care then mostly women won't either. I feel like this sub is getting so big that the psyche is slowly shifting at times. Two years ago there was a post wit…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:41 PM
3

Ding. Ding. Ding. You're exactly right. Men on this sub need to realize this: Spending $20 on drinks for some random girl isn't going to make her want you. I've found in every date I've gone on, it makes no difference if you pay or not. They like you or they don't. In fact, the Tinder dates where I can tell there's zero connection are the ones where the women are the least likely to even offer to pay. This is why I never take a new girl out for dinner. Just beer or coffee. And I almost always sp…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 10:47 PM
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Ahhh, the humblebrag rebuttle. Nicely done. Slow clap.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 10:34 PM
3

How does some dumb Australian kid's actions have much of anything to do with men's issues? If a girl does something stupid, is that then a feminist issue because she is a woman? Stop ruining this sub with dumb posting. Now I understand why r/feminism is so heavy with the ban hammer.
/r/MensRights20/03/17 08:10 PM
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