I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago. We spoke earlier today for the first tine since. She didn't know why I broke up with her, so I explained ; It basically boils down to she wanted me to change the way I act but I didn't want too, and the relationship just wasn't really going anywhere. My issue is that I still care for her. I put my feelings aside and ended it. I would like to stay friends with her because she's just a really nice person. I didn't tell her today that I still cared for her because I believe she would just take that and use it as ammo against me ( probably go whore it up when I don't feel like talking to her). Was I right in my decision to keep my feelings to myself?