First steps - Tinder

jb_trp · 2017-07-20T15:59:25+00:00

Yes, your analysis is spot on. That's why it's usually important to schedule a meeting within a day or two. Saturday will be fine.

My strategy: Keep the conversation going occasionally, but don't be too available. Avoid the "nothing texts" like, "How are you?" etc. and keep whatever you say interesting but brief. Hopefully, your life is interesting and full enough that you're not sitting around waiting for some woman to text you. If it's not... You have bigger problems than some girl, because you're living all wrong.

I generally avoid asking questions that are trying to "get to know someone" because I want to have stuff to talk about with the girl. If a woman asks me about what I do for work or my family on Tinder... I just want to die. It's such a boring thing to message about. Sometimes I'll tell a girl that it's a boring question, but they usually get pissy.

Every "relationship" you have follows the same basic formula: Elation, discovery, and acceptance. Elation is when everything about this person is new and exciting, and you're just excited that there's someone there. Discovery is when you get to know what they're like. And acceptance is after you've basically gotten to know them. If you're gaming a girl, you want to stay in the first phase the longest, so that you seem like this new and exciting thing to her. So... Share enough to build interest and rapport, but not so much that she gets bored. Hold some back.

Title	First steps - Tinder
Author	YDvoyc
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	July 20, 2017 3:34 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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