I have a FWB who we have been getting really close, she wants commitment. But she hasn’t been pushy about it. Just let’s it be known. I’m still screening her. It’s been about 8 months now. I enjoy her a lot and the value we add to each other’s life. I realize it’s still fresh so I’m still hesitant.

She constantly sends me nudes. Does things for me without me asking. Compliments me out the ass. “You’re so hot” “I miss you” “ I love you” “come love me” yadda yadda.

Most of the time I will send a 😈😘 emoji or something of the sort. Other times I’ll tell her I miss her too if I do. But it happens so often I’m wondering how I’m supposed to be handling it. I understand she’s probably doing this to get me to commit. But am I supposed to reward this behavior? I feel like I should be since it’s all good and it seems genuine. But it happens so often I feel like it’s causing me to express my feelings back maybe too much. Idk maybe I’m overthinking it.

If I ignore it I feel like then I’m acting like I don’t care and so I do usually respond. I always lead and invite her to do things. Etc.

Should I back off a bit? Keep doing what I’m doing? I don’t want to seem over invested