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| 22 | What are some eye opening thing that led you to a successful dating lifeMy life in that department surged when I took my Instagram posts more serious and realized that dating is basically just marketing… that is once you past a certain threshold of confidence and looks. It’s literally just a numbers game after that. You approach irl and initiate DMs regularly, it’s only a matter of time before the flood, not to mention the women that your pics alone will attract. Also, learn to surrender to your nervousness, don’t try to act like you’re not nervous because you are, … | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Directly conveying attractionThat sound brilliant tbh | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Is this ghosting?We weren’t in contact after she stopped responding. That’s basically ghosting right? | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Women’s interest just die outThe funny entertaining joking type, yes, but I suppose I can aim harder for dates and making my intentions clearer | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 08:35 PM |
| -1 | Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond?That’s how I approached it. That’s how the problem started by limiting my texting. Wym? | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeLike music, there’s a certain point where beauty becomes subjective, but before that, we universally favor the same basic traits. Music without rhythm can be unanimously agreed to be distasteful & annoying, but with the nature of rhythm, it opens the door for personal taste. Might be a idea out of the norm, but I say it’s both subjective & objective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:42 PM |
| 1 | RP men don’t like women, they’re just attracted to themBesides the extreme connotations, as a redpiller, I think it’s true, but now what? That’s simple male nature. It’s studies & evidence that men literally see women as sex objects. L..O..L!!- most of the evidence is in front of us, in everyday life. Men literally describe women amongst themselves by their sexual components alone, discriminate women based solely on their sexual features (in dating), give glory to women strictly for their looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think that individual men are responsible for women value in regards to body count?You can call a man a slut, but It doesn’t ellicit shame though, so it isn’t technically slut-shaming. It’s not against most social norms for men to be promiscuous, but it is for them to be virgins: which is why virgin shaming for men is a common weapon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 04:04 PM |
| 2 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?Is the rise of lonely men not expected to urge men to into more hostility & violence? If so that could be a ruinous threat to society. It definitely ain’t the sexually & romantically satisfied men that are doing the atrocities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.Men naturally see women as sexual objects, contrary to what people want to believe. Men literally describe women by their sexual components, which stems from the differences between the male & female brain: men’s brains fixate on the components of things, what they’re made up of, whereas women interpret the whole completion of it. Men get enraptured by a women’s body parts, women: by the entire individuality of a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 07:35 PM |
| – | Why is sex framed as something a woman “gives” and a man “takes”?It’s a seller’s market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Male SMV has the greatest potential to peak at 21-25 NOT 35-50Pre-sexual revolution, yes. Now, who women will date vs who they will fuck is more compartmentalized because they can afford to now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 04:24 AM |
| 3 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?Not crying about it, but from their example, with the woman with 10 or 20 bodies, considering how probability works; a single guy isn’t likely to be of top sexual quality of all of her previous bodies unless he’s an anomaly, but since most dudes aren’t, they should expect to not be as impressive to an experienced woman as her previous partners. Where’s the delusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?I definitely think it’s overall a cope, coming from an average sized dude (down there). Although, I don’t see a woman being more sexually satisfied with a homeless, despicable, guy with a large dick as opposed to a successful, Chad/Tyrone with an average to smaller dick, her overall impression of him is vital. I doubt the “motion in the ocean” cliche I think dick size is more downplayed than anything, to soothe men, but success in that domain isn’t an automatic victory, nor is lacking in it a fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Men are annoyed with women,but women are afraid of the potential of the collective power of men.Without a companionship feature, sure, but with one, it still won’t equally assuage both sexes, just one: men. Now of course, if it can imitate humans to an enough extent then obviously, but let’s say just with sex & companionship: I’d say it’ll take men off the dating market absolutely. We see professed on this sub a lot: women like dudes with status, confidence, etc, it’s a fact, features our hypothetical bot can’t imitate, thus women won’t be satisfied. So it largely depends on the bots featu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Men are annoyed with women,but women are afraid of the potential of the collective power of men.Women aren’t getting off with vibrators because of a certain impression it’s made on them They just get off, ephemeral. A woman will be no closer to content with a vibrator than with a human sex bot, despite how lifelike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Men are annoyed with women,but women are afraid of the potential of the collective power of men.If sex robots were a thing, I’d wager a guess both genders would be equally affected. Men are more aroused by appearances, women, by their whole impression of the man. Women most definitely wouldn’t be remotely satisfied with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Besides sex, do you even like women?Do you deep down see women as equals? I respectfully don’t think so, not in many senses. We aren’t from a social nor biological standpoint. Do you think women and men can connect intellectually and that such a connection is the basis for a relationship? Yes, but I don’t think that connection is the basis for a relationship Do you expect to do half of the work at home? why/why not? Yes, just from traditional values. I think there’s separate work around the house suitable for men and for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:18 PM |
| – | Is it possible to find men who do not put a huge emphasis on looks?I don’t really even place that much of an importance on looks, I don’t think most men even do. It’s obviously important, as a result of our biology, yes universally, but I would be fine with committing to a 7 out of ten woman, easy and I think I’m at least an 8/10 myself. I stress this, I can’t care less about a woman’s quirks or uniqueness in her personality as an individual, as long as she’s just pretty & feminine, in regards to her demeanor & personality, and we’re compatible in other senses,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Low inhibition is the most important trait a man can have.I think the average dude (looks wise) can get away with it, most definitely. The woman will just assume there’s a reason behind that trait, since brazen (low inhibition) men are uncommon which must mean he must have something supporting that trait that most men don’t. I think average dudes have a lot of mobility in their attractiveness, SMV, etc. They’re SMV is more “ambiguous”, women are kinda more waiting to receive an impression of them, as opposed to “hot” men where they’re automatically tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 07:32 PM |
| – | Do you purposely turn around to catch a guy staring at your ass?Doubt it, but could be. These situations the turn is more immediate, the second they get to a point where I could see their full body that’d just turn directly around lol, but you definitely could be on to something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Whats your sexual fantasy that will remain a fantasy? WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI always wanted to fuck a sexy nurse under normal circumstances. Flirtation subtly escalating to pure sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | if a man peaked later in life, what type of women will he get compared to his 20 year old selfI do think the highest desired women (18-21) will be be more interested in your example, “hot 26 year old, compared to the older one. The conditions changed, women can make their own money now, so I doubt a more paid man will be as attractive or even as necessary than his younger counterpart to women. I only know one 25-30 year old dude, out of plenty, who dated an 18 year old and both of them, the couple, are my coworkers and the rest of the employees expressed a disapproval towards it, only sl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on the claim: proximity makes women vulnerable to cheatingNo you don’t get to decide the conditions of a couple’s relationship. Im sure many, especially religious women, would have a different opinion than you on who decides & allows what in their personal relationship. I’m aware not everyone has that view but I’m Christian so obviously that’ll be my default standpoint | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the claim: proximity makes women vulnerable to cheatingBut she might also just be an honest person and just speak what she sees. I think this is the case, although compliments are to flatter & make an impression which I think her concern should be more on what makes her husband comfortable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 10:11 PM |
| -2 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Her accepting my authority as the superior force, not making me the superior human, but most in control. That doesn’t mean her wishes are worthless, they will be considered. This relationship doesn’t imply tyranny. We understand this in every other dimension of life: teacher-student, parent-child, etc (strictly serving as examples of one-sided authority relationships). So it shouldn’t be automatically expected that the woman plea to her man before every single small decision (ex: calling her par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveYou’re entitled to your own standards of what you consider a quality man, i was referring to that of the dating market. A quality man in that sense is, yes, desirable, which tend to be high status men, whom exercise options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:56 PM |
| 0 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveMen explore, women abandon. It ain’t reasonable to expect a high quality man not to indulge in different women. I rarely hear of a man completely leaving a woman, at lease more rare than I hear of a woman leaving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 03:59 AM |
| 1 | This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out.for the same reasons sexless men usually don’t want to just have sex with prostitutes You don’t think it’s because it’s a legal & social risk? I wonder this too, that’s what I always assumed it to be. Sex isn’t worth being exposed to the public & locked up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Anything other than a huge cock is objectively humiliatingIndeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:02 PM |
| 10 | This is how women will behave once the fembot girlfriend technology is out.I don’t think a woman would be capable to be aroused or merely satisfied by a manbot. They’re a lot less only interested in the surface level of the opposite sex. Their arousal depends on their overall impression of the man. Any scantily attractive woman and higher has access to very handsome men with huge dicks, but it’s not that simple, the man needs more qualities behind him than his appearance alone, unless that manbot is completely indistinguishable from human life, capable of ascending soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 07:16 PM |
| -3 | It’s fair that sluts are held in contemptWomen are subconsciously repelled by virgins and are attracted to the opposite, ex: high status man, who is the least likely to be a virgin of any class of men, so no, indeed not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:30 AM |
| -2 | It’s fair that sluts are held in contemptCan’t relate. Just disdain sluts! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:51 PM |
| 19 | Let's just be honest, about men and height.Where Kanye lacks in height he has surplus in money & status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:37 PM |
| 0 | All past times were betterAnd that’s likely her only excellence. That’s the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:33 PM |
| 0 | The plight of “good” black menTrue. That’s not were my impression, was just using that as an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | The plight of “good” black menI most definitely hope so. Thanks for the advice & hope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 07:06 PM |
| 3 | The plight of “good” black menthat’s why black womwn are pushed to date interracially so much. It must be a progressive thing because studys show black women are more interested in black men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | The plight of “good” black menBlack woman with a history of dating convicts Aside from the infinite examples in the mainstream media, the most talked about black women and their partners, my particular experience. It might just be where I’m located because it does match what I’ve described, I’ve been here for all my life (20 years), it’s a small town where I know and am connected to most people here, in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | The plight of “good” black menI used to think like this too. Then I graduated high school which opened up a whole new world of experiences based on vastly different people are and realized that it couldn’t be further from the truth. It’s likely because I stay in a small urban area. I just turned 20 a few days ago, so I guess this is the time where I need to find a new world of experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:26 PM |
| 4 | The plight of “good” black menNot at all. That’s the only way they’ll get held accountable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:24 PM |
| 2 | The sad truth about modernity.The Haves and the Havenots | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Men naturally objectify womenWith the right woman, I would love to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Men naturally objectify womenLots of beautiful women. Just turned 20 and would be surprised for it to be that easy to find in this culture that glorifies casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Men naturally objectify womenIt seems as though you think being visually stimulated and objectifying someone are the same thing - thin line, but they’re not. There’s no line. A man will smash any good looking woman simply because of her looks without having to know anything about her, meaning he will use her body strictly to achieve pleasure. That’s in harmony with the definition of a tool: a means to an end. That’s no different than a man using a screwdriver to fix something. Men outnumber women with buying escorts, onlyfa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Men naturally objectify womenIsn’t it self defeating and contradictory if you want a woman to have high standards, yet want an easy lay where there are no hoops to jump through for you? How does this work? I don’t think it’s contradictory, it’s hedonistic, which isn’t concerned with logic or what makes sense, it’s sex. I just want a quick release. Women don’t benefit from smashing any and evey guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 12:03 AM |
| -2 | Men naturally objectify womenWallets, security + sex objects, more of a combination, less of an object. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Men naturally objectify womenIs that good or bad for the men? It’s an obstacle for men who just want to smash, but I’d love for a woman to have high standards. Does this mean he has to jump through hoops to qualify? Yes indeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Men naturally objectify womenCan also depend on age The way men lust depends on no age. Two examples of how men & women’s responses differ when seeing aesthetically attractive people of the opposite sex: A man goes to store and sees a woman’s single characteristic, she’s pretty, man immediately desires to smash and will smash under almost any circumstance Woman goes to store and sees man’s single characteristic, he’s handsome, she thinks of smashing, but only under the circumstance that the rest of him is sufficient. She is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:40 PM |
| 0 | Men naturally objectify womenIf one had severe mental issues and the other did not, as long as the mental issues didn’t get in the way of sex, are you saying that men wouldn’t care about those issues, and would “rank” both women equally? No. As a man, In the realm of relationships it’s foolish to completely surrender to that instinct. More characteristic of the woman should be considered in the relationship. Concerning casual sex, both women would indeed be ranked equally, regardless of mental illness, insecurities, lack of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 04:30 PM |
| -3 | Men naturally objectify womenNaturally, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Single Men, what are your standards?Height: at least 5’4 & no more than 3 inches above me (5’11) Income: can’t make near or more than me, just don’t work lol. Race: I prefer my own race (black), but it doesn’t matter, beauty transcends all race. Body type: skinny or curvey, just physically mature. House/no house: no house Kids/no kids: no kids ( I’m 20M) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Social awkwardness is the biggest death sentence for menThink it depends on how bad his social skills are. If they’re completely bad and he can’t hold a conversation, I highly doubt it, but if he’s just a little awkward he’s definitely getting laid. A 9 or 10 man will be thought to be more confident than a 5 is, regardless of them having the same level of social skills. I’m 19, arguably a 9, in looks, on a good day. I’m a little shy, but I can hold a good conversation, not at all reserved. I can be very charming & charismatic but a little awkward wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?We’re biologically designed to focus on beauty, that trait is literally not going anywhere. I do see your point though. We glorify beauty then criticize women for flaunting it. Once again, I think the problem lies with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?They take so much pride in a feature that they luckily inherited and is fleeting. Beyond their surface they have no other excellence. Unfortunately, in the west, you can expect arrogance to accompany beauty, they just go hand in hand here. Tbh, you can just expect arrogance period, the women rap figures have every girl thinking they run the world. The most frustrating part is men who are unaware or deny it, since we’re the only hope to change the word for the better. You can’t criticize women fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 04:38 PM |
| 3 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?If you aren’t an athlete or a thug as a black man you won’t be prioritized by black women, but you will be mocked & criticized by them if you date outside your race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 10:52 PM |
| 3 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?It’s only natural to develop attraction to unrelated members of the opposite sex. Men are easily seduced & women use their emotions to justify their actions “it just felt right”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?But there was a thread a while back where guys were commenting on two asian twitch streamers - one a stereotypical hot girl, 10/10 babe with make-up and huge tits, and the other a kind of weird but sweet looking more natural girl. They all claimed to prefer the look of the homely one, but it was blindingly obvious that she was just less scary. Men easily separate sex & romance and categorize women accordingly based on certain qualities. If the discussion was who would they f*ck and they picked t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | This is the worst time in human history to be dating.This is the best period of time to date actually, because we have the technology to ensure we can meet a lot of people It’s easy to say, but the reach & access technology & media provides doesn’t take away the competition in the dating market. It actually makes it worse because of women’s hypergamy and them receiving a thousandfold more options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:16 AM |
| 8 | If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive.If a high n-count guy complains about any women’s n-count, that’s just stupid and hypocritical Hypocritical is commonly meaning: your actions not aligning with your words & claim of morality. What do you mean by that? Are you just using that word to express disapproval of it? If so, why? If you mean by “hypocritical” that it’s contradicting, how exactly? A pretty but broke woman complaining about her husband being broke too isn’t contradicting or hypocritical in my understanding. Men & women ten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 09:28 PM |
| -1 | Do you prefer 50/50 or submission?I think it’s more satisfying for both parties for the man to assume the dominant role & women the submissive, since most people prefer it that way. Financially independent women are likely to have an attitude & stubbornness that runs counter to the peace in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Most women don't care about toxic masculinity and actively perpetuate it when it suits them.Dictionaries aren’t prescriptive, common misconception. They describe how the word is commonly used, not how the word is supposed to be used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | "As long as it's legal" is a common response whenever the subject of significant age gaps in relationships comes up. Is it an adequate response?Guys that think this way see women as objects, not people. Most men see women as objects, if not all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:48 PM |
| 0 | "As long as it's legal" is a common response whenever the subject of significant age gaps in relationships comes up. Is it an adequate response?It’s only a problem for women who want to control intrasexual competition and not have to compete with younger women Correct There is nothing wrong with dating someone who is younger ad long as they are an legally able to make those decisions. So it’s what’s legal that governs what age of consent is acceptable to you? Would you be opposed if it was suddenly legal at the age of 16 or like in other cultures at the moment of physical maturity? Not even trying to antagonize, just curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault.It’s called the sexual over-perception bias | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:13 PM |
| 2 | It's not that only men can be "shut-in" or "socially inept," it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success.I’d say shyness has polarizing effects on women & men. Being shy is extremely attractive for women, probably more attractive than a women who is outgoing (IMO). But you already know the effects it has on men, failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Not talked enough on PPDI can go on about this topic all day, most people don’t consider other people’s disadvantages so it isn’t that talked about, but It’s crazy because I’m not even a “nerd”, I’m simply not hood. I live in an urban area, replete with “ghetto” “hood” black men & women, so my “non-hoodness” distinguishes me from the “desired men”. I say this without pride, I don’t let this get to my head, but I get praised by my attractiveness quite a lot by young & old women. I literally sometimes have women ask me f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Not talked enough on PPDAsian men are most undervoted on Tinder and considered to be the least attractive race of men (and I’m farrrr from Asian, I’m pure black and I still recognize they most definitely are disadvantaged in the dating scene now.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof.His sleeping with another woman doesn’t mean he doesn’t value her. Surely he didn’t blatantly cheat in front of her, he likely thought he could get away with it. Men value sexual variety, and his prestige & riches provides him that opportunity to fulfill his instinctual desires. Women leave when they cheat, men continue on, since most affairs don’t involve emotions with us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.Exactly. Although a man’s attractiveness is more adjustable. He has more potential to become | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.Maybe it’s because evolutionarily, men with status & achievements tended to provide a survival advantage to women in the past, since they need that to compensate for their lack of physical strength and extreme vulnerability during their 9 month pregnancy period. Maybe evolution takes the blame for why men prioritize beauty over any other quality, it signals the man’s status being with a beautiful woman & it increases the chances of descending the beauty trait to their kids which puts them (their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.It’s unfair, life does tend to be like that. You don’t deserve to be loved just because you’re pretty or hot. Logically, I agree with this 100% as a dude, most men would too, but I’m telling you right now, I don’t care how good of a character a woman has, if she isn’t physically stimulating & beautiful I’d never consider the idea of a relationship with her. It’s indeed sad to think about. It’s nature though. Sex & relationships aren’t a logical world, us men are instinctually lured by beauty and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies?Always could be a possibility, I don’t see why it would be though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:50 PM |
| 9 | Women who sexually like men, are you personally not that visually stimulated by our bodies?I work at a grocery store, among hundreds of different women & men throughout the years I’ve been there, equally. There’s all types of people that walk in & out of the store, especially attractive people, from my experience, men respond significantly more to women’s appearance than women do to men. I kid you not man, I seen two of the most conspicuously tall men walk into the store and follow a women around to glance, she had a very nice body, it’s impressive because she was at least 40 years ol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 03:54 PM |
| 2 | What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it?I highly doubt he missed it. Dudes have a trait called “sexual overperception bias” we tend to overestimate a woman’s interest in us and women today being “extra friendly” doesn’t help either. I usually assume women are interested in me when talking to them, but I also know how flirty women tend to be, even when they aren’t interested at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 03:28 PM |
| 0 | I believ that The bar to be considered attractive for a woman is way lower than It is for menThat says a lot about our standards as men That, plus women know most of the men they want find their personalities unbearable and only use them for sex, the problem is; women think sex is a victory for them, they’ve been deluded into believing it won’t sabotage them in the long run, so they see little need to conform to our standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 03:05 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women don’t shame older women who go after barely legal/early 20s guys the same way they shame men who do after barely legal/early 20s womenWomen don’t like anything that puts them at a disadvantage. Older women know women between 18-21 are more inclined to get the attention of men than they are. They combat it with, “what does a woman & man that age have in common?” and by using shaming language, they very much know men prioritize beauty most among other qualities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Men are not looking for a virgin as some women here claim, but rather they are looking for characteristics we often associate with virginsYea, I do think men desire women with qualities associated with virginity. Never really heard a man in real life declare that he desires to be with a complete virgin (probably because of how it would come off), they obviously prefer women with little experience, but I’ve heard many dudes claim that their ideal girl would have been deflowered, with 1 or 2 bodies, (men she slept with) at most. I definitely do think a man wanting a virgin is derived from the ego, but ego is an inherent part of man.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I am fed up with RP trying to hijack the definition of masculinityYeah, I agree, I don’t think it’s an inherent quality of a man. but if you want other people to behave accordingly, you should give them a valid reason to do so Not at all. Regardless of the cause of that preference, it abounds in many men, mostly in men who can afford it, higher value men, but those are the exact types of men women yearn for so if they want to achieve a man of that value then they must comply, without need of an explanation. I attribute it to evolution but who knows exactly? It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsAlways said this, it’s a widespread, irrational instinct for men. No need to explain. Women, either comply or find a man who doesn’t mind, which tend to be lower value man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellWomen aren’t more empathetic than men, just more expressive. I don’t even think women have much capability to empathize with men at all. Women feel the need to fulfill that societal expectation & stereotype as a subtle way of virtue signaling. This idea was somewhat sparked by a study that showed that the men felt more sympathy from hearing a certain bad news than women, but the women expressed their feelings more than the men. I encountered the study a while ago, if anybody has a link to this p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 11:15 PM |
| -2 | Do men lose attraction to their partners over time?Just because a women loses her beauty doesn’t mean to mistreat her lol, especially your wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Do men lose attraction to their partners over time?The qualities women are attracted to in men are acquired with time (confidence, prestige, money, wisdom), so although men’s physical features also decline with time their overall sexual market value doesn’t significantly drop like it does with women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Do men lose attraction to their partners over time?There are studies that show that men of all different ages find 20-21 year old women most attractive whereas women find men of all different ages attractive. But this definitely isn’t a fairytale where women’s charm stays evergreen, it definitely does fade with time. There’s always exceptions to the rules, but most men lose attraction to their partner’s beauty over time. Many older men I’ve discussed with say the same, but they try to remain devoted to their partners despite the fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:50 PM |
| 8 | Do men lose attraction to their partners over time?Studies show women of all ages are attracted to different types of men whereas men are attracted to mostly 20-21 year olds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Do men lose attraction to their partners over time?Anomaly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menI have been in the RP space for a while, and it’s mostly about women, not about men A lot of times that’s true. It’s a place for men to express their sorrow & be understood by fellow men. Considering the suicide rates of men, that’s something men need today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 10:49 PM |
| 19 | Womens body countThe thing is, nobody knows a womans body count but her unless its all like recorded or something. So I dont really understand how its going to affect her socially. There are studies that show women with higher body counts lack the ability to pair bond, but besides that, it’s just an emotional instinct men have. As a result of evolution, the man requires sexual purity to ensure his fatherhood, since before dna test we couldn’t determine who the father was unless the woman dedicated her body exclu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 12:58 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?True. Is looking down on a huge group of people (in many cultures, past & present) worth the energy though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?That same view has abounded in many different cultures, present & historical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 11:42 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Why do women care so much when a man prefers inexperienced/virgin women?Even for the ones that don’t apply it it, what’s the problem? They can have whatever standard they want, especially if they’re in high enough demand (attractive). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/22 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?These women are literally lauded for their ‘reasonable and sensible standards.’ I get shamed for wanting a loyal, submissive women that isn’t promiscuous. Even though my standards are also the result of my evolutionary desires. I really felt this. I think maybe it’s because we live in a gynocentric society (a society that’s focused on women and takes their point of view). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?Yea, at a certain point. I mistakenly didn’t factor in the changes in demand. In my post I was using the analogy of a new business trying to sell their products. In the beginning, when someone is first starting their business, they aren’t in the higher position of demand, the customers are, slightly, but as the business get’s more & more prestige & popularity, they increase in demand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?No in every market is the side that is less buying or selling that set the spot price. Right, the side with the higher demand. Currently women set the standards for casual sex. And men set the standards for marriage, LTR, baby making. So if you don’t meet the standards, regardless of how harsh the standards may be, then you won’t get the quality you desire. Appeal to the position of higher demand, or don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?It is though. Women’s value is dictated by their beauty whereas men’s is dictated by their money, social & financial status, looks confidence, etc. A man with those traits will be deemed more attractive than a man without them, same with a beautiful woman (beauty isn’t as subjective as most people want to believe). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?I wasn’t intending to specify the standards, only acknowledge that there’s only a hand full of options and changing the standards aren’t one. You can comply to the standards and get the quality partner you desire or you could be stagnant and see what fortune just maybe has in store for you, which more than likely will be nothing. A man complaining that women only want rich men won’t benefit him, nor will a woman complaining that men only want feminine women. If you want it, just comply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 02:12 AM |
| 6 | Shouldn’t the buyers set the standards?Well, your argument assumes that women are the buyers and men are the sellers. Yea I do think that’s generally the case, where in my arguement implies that though? I was intending to argue that anyone, male or female, that wants to attract the opposite sex should comply to their standards instead of criticizing them, if they want a quality partner. So anyone who’s unsuccessful with dating and aspires for success should focus on conforming to the opposite sex’s standards if they think it to be wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?When people in this sub use it I think they mean; a woman who gives into the authority of her man. A woman who follows her man’s lead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?The weather is an apparent factor. Does that fact that I wore a short skirt and sleeveless top on a hot day signal to you that I “seek attention and sexual validation from strange men”? So no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Could be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Right. Which is why I said “subconsciously” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Lmaoo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?What? The desire for attention, I get it, most of us just want to be noticed somehow. Was showing that I didn’t think it was a crime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Your reasoning for this assertion? I just noticed more women dressing more provocatively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?I wonder if most women are aware that friendliness usually comes off as interest, and it’s worse the more beautiful they are. Whether it’s intentional or not, it has the same affect though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?*most women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?They represent many though, and they’re surely increasing. It doesn’t even require flamboyant clothes for a woman to get men’s attention, all it take is a little cleavage. It doesn’t require skin to be shown, just a little curve, that’s all men need. Attention seeking can come in all different shapes and sizes, literally. All it take is a subtle change in one’s attire. Attention is a desirable thing for many, the feeling of importance, I think most people desire that. It doesn’t make you less hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Spot on! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?It’s pretty wild to hear such a vastly different experience from other people, I suppose. Same here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Why be ignorant of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 06:08 AM |
| 7 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Btw I appreciate your openness to learn about the perspective of the opposite sex, if other people had the same willingness, we’d be in a much better place in society today. I’m young as well, new to the dating scene, but not to the feelings of desire. The way I think is that men look at women as another world to conquer, subconsciously, another vessel to carry on his genes. I’ve worked at a grocery store for a while now, never have I ever seen any of my female coworkers, whom I’m associated wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 05:41 AM |
| 5 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Wanting to smash isn’t a lack of self control, it’s just a desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 05:19 AM |
| 0 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?No. She’ll allow herself to be seduced. Hence the famous quote “it just felt right”. Men with sexual intentions are sly, they take it slow, sometimes pretend to be a close friend. A women who is aware of male nature can avoid putting herself into situations where she’ll be tempted to commit infidelity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?If you know it, no need to believe it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Changed the post flair and Don’t know what you mean by I can’t reply, so I deleted my comment lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:39 AM |
| 4 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Blonde pill lol, I love it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?The post is concerning beautiful women, true statement though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Uh oh. Quarantine time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:12 AM |
| 7 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?The women who believe it are self absorbed, the women who know it are self aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:09 AM |
| 6 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Most men are. That’s not ego, it’s awareness. Or maybe you’re rightt, men want to truly be women’s friendsss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:07 AM |
| 16 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?As a young man who conversed with all different types of men (Christian, atheist, thug/gangster, nerd, jock, adult, teen, elder) this is the one thing I can confirm that we all have in common. We just want to smash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticedSexual under/over- perception bias | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women?If by admiration you mean; to have warm approval of someone, my answer is yes. I admire, modest, feminine & sexually innocent women. If you mean; to desire to possess a certain quality of someone, my answer is no, not towards women I’m attracted to nor not attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 01:15 AM |
| -1 | Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women?Maybe, but the meaning behind the way he used it isn’t. He meant traits that are most common in men; dominance, combativeness, aggression & disagreeableness. Subjectivity doesn’t refute anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women?Nah I’d say most men definitely don’t prefer masculine women. The one’s that tolerate it have to because it’s the best they’ll ever get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 12:56 AM |
| 2 | There is no difference in how attraction works between the sex'sThat’s objectively untrue, even porn-site stats say otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | What were you told about attracting the opposite sex as you were growing up?I was literally told nothing. I don’t know why. I grew up without a father, but my mom was around & would lecture me about important things in life when necessary but she never spoke about attracting women. Which I prefer over her teaching me things about women that weren’t true, it’s rather neutral. I never grew up a asshole or a simp at all, I never really kissed ass with women or whomever, but I wasn’t feigning to be a asshole to get women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Is hiring a hooker really the end goal for sexless men?I think the main reason men are deterred is the stigma attached to it. It’s always been shameful for men to partake in buying a sex worker, plus it’s illegal in many places. I think if it wasn’t disgraceful, it’ll satisfy many sexless men, but only temporarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Friends can't fill the void of not having a romantic relationship.Exact same in my experience too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionFirst, what even are we talking about? What is “worth”? Self-esteem? Reputation? Objective measures of success like wealth or awards/status? It seems like it’s all of these things but also none of them. There is no ultimate worth/value, all humans are equal from a macro perspective, in the eyes of society there is a worth though. In the realm of sex, people have different worths. We treat people based off their worth. A woman’s worth is mainly dictated by her beauty and how she carries herself, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | [Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice.“Just wait” is one of the most detrimental cliches for a man. Life won’t solve itself. You must take action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 02:19 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Spending time with a woman just for sex is more of a commitment than spending your money. Time is infinitely more valuable than money, you don’t get time back. Trading money for sex is more reasonable than trading your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 04:18 PM |
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