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MakotoGreen/r/askTRP19/01/21 02:39 PM
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MakotoGreen/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:32 AM
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It's normal to want affection but wanting the "one" is out of scarcity and inexperience. Meet a virgin and see how boring, or unattractive they are. It's like they don't know how to talk to guys. The more you meet women, the more it's the "same." How a lot of it is just a bunch of testing (seeing where they stand with you, fishing for validation, shit testing). The more you work on yourself and have fun in life, the more you realize how many problems and how boring lives women have (most of them…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 02:24 AM
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What's the point of dating, marriage, relationship when potentially AWALT Well, what do you want? Do you want kids one day? Do you just want to fuck one girl? Do you want to fuck a rotation of women? No one is forcing you to fuck girls. No one is forcing you to have kids. If you don't want to fuck girls anymore, then go ahead and quit. Gives me less competition lol. When women has insta, Snapchat, Twitter that has at least 5 guys dmingher a week (I'm going to the low end). She may potentially ch…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 12:44 AM
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Yeah. I remember when I used tinder in 2016. Those were the golden days. I had a new date almost every week, and my photos were weak. Nowadays my SMV is way higher, my photos are way better but girls are flakier and I get less matches. I'd have 200 matches after 2 months. Now, I'm nowhere near that. I think: The apps started punishing users who don't pay. Male users really upped their game, and the top 20% users get all matches (I have one friend who's a male model and gets a ton of matches and …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 01:15 AM
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Triangulation is a manipulation technique to attempt to make you jealous and get power in the relationship. It's a huge red flag that she mentioned that on a date, that's very manipulative of her. All women are narcissists but this one showed her true colors. She's trouble. That's funny that she suggested meeting you again multiple times. She obviously caught your hint and was trying to "fix" the situation. Again, super manipulative. Ultimately, it was a shit test -> DARE her. Albeit a bad test,…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 12:47 AM
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"mY bOdY mY cHoIcE"
/r/askTRP28/02/21 05:38 AM
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I think you already know your answer but are looking for sympathy. Go MIA. Let her initiate.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 05:33 AM
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You should still date. Spin plates, have fun, you can still have a "main girl" but not spend that much time with her (in fact that would attract her to you). Super serious stuff does take up a lot time. It's up to you, but it sounds like you already have your answer. Friends of mine who spend 3-4 times a week with their GFs just work and get fat lol and have super boring lives.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 05:27 AM
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Stop using "alpha" and "beta" labels. There are simply behaviors that elicit responses given the context. "though it seems there’s no way to win." There is. Just do the fun stuff you want to do, and invite her if she wants to come. You're inviting her into your frame. If she doesn't come, then you win (you're doing fun shit). If she does come, then you win (you're doing fun shit). lol "limit yourself to not showing too much affection." Again, there's a time and place to show affection. You don't…
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:45 AM
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Classic, just be assertive. Ask for what you want, and let her make the choice. If she feels forced to and actually does it, she'll just resent you. You'll maintain power in the relationship if she willfully does it out of her own volition.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:36 AM
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Withdraw attention. Bro, she's testing you and wants you to pass. It's a hot-and-cold disappearing act, basic high-school shit. She's withdrawing attention to see if you'd react. Hold your frame, work on yourself. Don't even text her first. Let her initiate contact with you. And when she does, give her minimal attention. Let her chase you. I guaran-fucking-tee she'll message you and you'll see her again. Let her initiate at least twice to make an arrangement with you. Cool, you see potential in …
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:26 AM
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Be social with everyone. Don't sexually escalate with every girl though. If other girls see it, they'll avoid you because of ASD.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:22 AM
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It's sounds like straight-up triangulation (some weird friendzone-love-circle). Manipulative way to get your interest for some reason. Ignore it. If she wanted to fuck you, she would message you personally, this sounds like some way to manipulate you into caring about her.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:18 AM
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Disgusting af. I'd next so hard.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:16 AM
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I used to care a lot about n-count, now I don't as much. Look at her behavior. If I want an LTR, if she shares her past with me, is feminine, is submissive, and is attached to me, then great. Just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she'd be a good person, it only means she's naive.
/r/askTRP28/02/21 04:15 AM
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Legit posts like these make me realize 80% of posts on this sub are obvious remarks or are asking for help which could just be answered with: spin plates.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 12:10 AM
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The fact that this has so many upvotes and awards goes to show you that you shouldn't take anything on this subreddit too seriously. Yes, comfort tests are a thing, but to say "comfort is all you need" is an "overarching" and "authoritarian" generalization. If "comfort" was the most important thing, the friendzone would be a fuckfest. There's no "most important thing." Everything is contextual. Saying "comfort is the number one thing" sounds like straight-up beta orbiter game. I think this post …
/r/seduction25/02/21 11:21 PM
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Nope. Didn't even have to read your question. She falls into "your frame." As soon as you "change yourself" or "react" to what women want, you'll lose your identity and frame and you won't attract anyone. Think of a king who gives his opinion and decision to his population. Do you think he changes his identity and opinions so that some girl "likes him." Why the fuck would he do that. It's the fact that he's opinionated and holds his frame that women are attracted to him. Historically, whenever a…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:45 PM
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There is no "silver bullet" nor "trick," nor "method" that works 100% of the time. Seduction is entirely contextual. The woman may be interested in you because of some qualities you don't even see in yourself, nor that you're aware of! Maybe you remind of her of her ex (I've been there)! Maybe she doesn't even care about you, maybe you were just at the right time and the right place. Maybe it's your game. It's a lot of correlating factors. Maybe she just likes your face and can't stop making out…
/r/seduction25/02/21 06:42 PM
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Yeah you're missing something because you've never personally experienced it lol. Stop being so idealistic. Its because if you use proper critical thinking and using logic and facts you could come up to logical conclusion, and I am certain this applies for everyone Jesus dude. It sounds like you're a basement dweller incel who's never gone on a date before. "Logically" there's no reason for a girl to dump you if you're well above her SMV and always nice to her right? Watch and see how fast a gir…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:13 AM
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Yes, they're pussies. Avoid their attitude like the plague.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 04:25 PM
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Those immigrants are dirt poor. Toronto and Vancouver house pricing are inflated because foreign Chinese millionaires are parking their money in Canadian real estate.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 12:57 PM
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Exactly. OP mistook entitlement for attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:58 AM
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There’s a difference between entitlement and attraction. Women have higher physical standards than men. There’s a graph from ok Cupid that shows that women have stricter physical standards than men. However because of simping, women have a higher sense of entitlement and may believe they’re worth a lot more than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:57 AM
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Only women who have something wrong with them generally use it seriously - ugly, overweight, older, whorish tendencies. That's a generalization but I know what you mean. Most of the girls I've met through online were plate material.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 12:40 AM
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My predictions for 2021: - 70% of relationships will be from online (instead of 50%). If you want to stand out, do pickup. - Doing cold approach pickup will be the most effective way to leave a good impression on a woman (she'll be tired of all the attention she gets from simps online). If you're ok at pickup, you'll get good results. - US and Canadian governments will impose restrictions on individuals depending whether they've been covid vaccinated or not - Canadian housing market will start t…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 07:58 PM
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Your goals are never complete lol. I think you should just know your worth, and take time off for a bit or get support if you're emotional. I have a 6 figure salary waiting for me at a high-tech robotics company, an engineering degree from a top 3 Canadian university, I'm finishing up a master's degree in a program with less than 5% acceptance rate. I'm in the most fit shape I've ever been in my life. I'm pretty accomplished for my age. I just didn't take care of my social needs well. I'd keep d…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 09:02 PM
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Imo sidebar is 80% of what you need. If you have problems specific to an area (fitness, money, game), then pickup a book relevant to the topic to help yourself out.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 05:14 PM
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Yeah that's the thing. Also if OP has been in a 3-month LTR, he's emotionally attached. All the autistic dudes in the comments are yelling to demote her to a plate. That would work if OP was terminator with no feelings but he said he really likes her. I'd have a serious talk, get her on your program. That's something I struggle with. Figure out what you want. Are you down to do some kinky shit and make money off only-fans (which you'd have total control over) or is she doing it purely for valida…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:34 AM
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I'm just glad I'm not alone on this. And it looks like things were really going really well for you, I didn't even get to meet this girl's parents, fuck I would have loved to. You're not alone man. Plenty of more women. Let's get back on our grind and think of the future.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 09:21 PM
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I don't think it's "inherent value", but rather that men are the "sacrificial sex". Women these days are promiscuous af, there's no value in pussy nor commitment anymore. I can go downtown and pay 50$ to fuck a hooker right now if I want to. It's because men place value on it. The hooker's pussy is worth 50$, because that's what men will pay for it. The average girl's ego is stroked like a teen's dick these days because they're selling their bodies on social media for likes and attention. If an …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 09:14 PM
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Nah man. Still working on it. Trying to finish it. Write a paper and dump it at some conference.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 07:26 PM
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I’ve made mistake #1. I totally agree. I’m in grad school working on a thesis, and was seeing this girl in the summer. We super hit it off. My thesis goes to shit because of some bad experiments or whatever. I started relying on her for happiness. Needless to say, I got clingy af and she dumped my ass.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 06:29 PM
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Find a replacement or someone better
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:15 AM
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Whether you just want casual sex or additionally female companionship from your plates is up to you.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:13 AM
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First time? Bruh is this the first time you’re even messaging a girl? Bro you said the convo is 3 lines. Is she even actually interested? Keep it light, go for close. If she keeps dreading you and avoiding to meet it’s obviously just for attention.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:57 PM
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Women "walk and talk" dread game. Just ignore it and maintain your frame.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:48 PM
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She wants to see if you still care. Validation.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:32 PM
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People should stop doing this shit. Walk, don't tell. Don't explicitly say you're seeing other people, even as a joke, especially over text. It's unnecessary, it comes off as you're "trying to be a player." The only time I ever do is when someone asks me what I'm looking for, I'll tell them I'm dating non-exclusively. I can't tell since I don't know enough context. If you think she's giving you shit. Just send "haha thanks", some small light-hearted text showing you don't care or don't even resp…
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:16 PM
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I'm heavily considering it. Already saw a mental health counselor, it helps. You shouldn't feel ashamed about it. Just don't tell your lovers about it.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 07:11 PM
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Somewhat. Men are significantly more visual creatures, but that doesn't mean looks don't matter to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:20 PM
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Shows weakness. I wouldn't
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:12 PM
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I'm not impressed by them at all anyway. The cost is social suicide. Odds are that she'll have a large amount of trouble getting a "high-value" boyfriend/husband. Imagine a guy who's 6 feet, makes 6 figures, has an athletic muscular body and is highly educated. Why the fuck would he want the mother of his children to be an only-fans girl (if he were at the age of wanting kids). She's plate material. Additionally, friends and family will think she's a hoe. I can't see how that's worth the money. …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 04:53 PM
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Ban OP please
/r/askTRP21/12/20 06:28 AM
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What makes you think the anger is greater?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:54 AM
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Met a guy who would do it. It’s crap. A girl who would have had a 6/10 interest in him would turn him down. Otherwise he could have had a date. It’s really a hail-Mary approach.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 04:23 AM
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Ish. Ok so I’ve done cold approach consistently for months at a time in 2016-2018. In the summer of 2018, it became a question of which day did I not cold approach. Ive done several hundred approaches. Night game and day game. Day game feels easier since clubs still freak me out, but night game is more effective (women go out with the intention of meeting guys). In my city, the guys that killed it had the best logistics possible. They shared an apartment on the street that would be considered th…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 04:10 AM
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Act like a beta. Get perceived as a beta. Get beta results. Want to vent? Get a therapist or talk in the mirror. I've made the mistake to "do things differently, with no regrets." The only thing I regret was behaving in ways I knew were wrong but "felt right." It's soyboy shit. Want a companion to bleed your heart to? Get a dog. That's my plan.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:27 AM
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Isn’t this already covertly happening? Women safeguard and vote on the next generation of children through hypergamy. In the West, women outnumber men in recent college graduates. They’re emphasized more and more to focus on their career, effectively outclassing the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 11:22 PM
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Hustle in school so I’m not financially dependent on a man in my 30s. Get into relationships starting as soon as high school (16) to start getting relationships experience (which is what men want from a women they’re considering an LTR) In college, I’d always entertain multiple options, but be really strict with who I’d sleep with. I wouldn’t be a slut, having a high notch count could mess me up mentally. By 26-27, start to lock down a high value guy in his early thirties. Have kids. Telling wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 11:05 PM
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Eh. Got into pickup when I was younger because I was oblivious as to how to get laid. Legit, my dad gave me "The Game," which is old school shit but still. Had some success, but eventually got heartbroken by women I was actually interested in something more meaningful with, which eventually brought me here.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 08:06 PM
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That’s a catch 22. There’s no reason for it to go down easier other than the fact that we’ve been conditioned of it from the start of our lives. If we were red pilled conditioned at a young age, it would go down easier too.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:57 AM
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I figured it’s something along those lines. Tomassi states that our sexual social behaviour changed since the 1960s with the sexual revolution, but the blue pill knowledge stayed. It’s why my mom who’s in her 60s now thinks I’m crazy when I tell her that women these days are promiscuous.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:51 AM
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Mainstream means it’s for most people. But when has blue pill become mainstream?
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:50 AM
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More as in nonreactive, my bad.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:03 PM
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Does it make you feel insecure that you know they're lying to you? I know it can for me. Personally, I try to follow Jordan Peterson's rule about never lying or at least withholding the truth. Obviously, you can't expect people to be like that too. I'm going on a tangent here. As fucked as it sounds, what helps me is to know and spot a person's weaknesses. Does this guy/girl have past parent issues, feel inadequate in their life for so and so reason, etc. When you know someone's vulnerabilities,…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:24 PM
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Yup. Never going back to porn again for the sake of my mental health. Most men are addicted to porn and don't realize it. Noporn helps: Daily anxiety disappears, libido for normal women increases, you stay motivated.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:41 PM
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Yes. kissinterlude is right. OP has BPD and needs to see a psychotherapist, he's constantly getting new reddit accounts to post about his ex, and attempting to get sympathy from this sub
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:31 PM
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Exactly, it's an insecure gamble that could massively ruin your frame. What if she says, ok fuck it I'm out. Trying to make things work again puts you in a position of no power.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:00 PM
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Yeah I've made the mistake to talk about what I'm grinding on. It just comes off as bragging, girls don't like it.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:54 PM
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Yeah what helps with me is if I ever have the urge to text like crazy, I write down the message on a notepad then throw it out lol.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:07 AM
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Repeat after me, out loud, to yourself: " We Men do not exist to serve the fickle whims of Women. We serve Ourselves, First (and maybe God if you're of the religious persuasion)****". My philosophy closely ties in with Nietzsche's Will to Power. As men, we're born to suffer. We're born to take on the burden of the pain to create and increase the wealth of the state. If "God is dead," and there is no guaranteed "afterlife," then we either give in to the fear of existential nihilism and practice h…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 12:06 AM
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Same, can only be done through experience. I think what helps is to really develop a fun and fulfilling life for yourself. As cliche as that sounds, if you have multiple sources of dopamine, then you feel like you don't actually need an LTR, and dating feels fun. I always fall into a dating rut if I'm not developing my life properly.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:45 PM
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Haha same here man! I fluctuate way too much between the two. As arrogant as it sounds, I think it's something intelligent people do. We find all our faults, and then correct them as much as possible but swing way too much in one direction. The "art" in PUA is finding that middle ground given every context with every girl.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:34 PM
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Tbh I think you can solve that issue with hinting that you'd be OPEN-MINDED to commitment with the right girl. I.e. telling the girl she needs to chase for it. I've been in situations where I told the girl I'd only want casual sex, and she found a guy to get exclusive with a couple weeks later, leaving me to dry like I was a dildo. In other situations, I pushed for a relationship, and the girl would take me for granted (can't blame her, if I'm so easy to commit to, then I'm easy to leave). Final…
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:11 PM
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State clear goals as to why. Going monk mode for the sake of it isn’t enough. I did it for a while because I wanted to get into grad school, get a 6 figure job, and generally increase my SMV. It all worked out and it was some of the least emotional and most productive time of my life in the last several years. Basically, focus entirely on self-improvement and discover WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE. You gotta dream bro.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:48 AM
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Because solipsism. Additionally they’re probably bitter because they’ve hit or are past the wall
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:46 AM
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I agree, it's masculine. To each their own. What will bring a man ahead in society is the use of their brain, want to avoid fucking it up.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 08:07 PM
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Rugby’s cool just risky. You can still get the same social aspect from playing non-contact sports (soccer, basketball) without getting concussions that fuck you up.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 07:33 PM
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Maybe you're pushing for a relationship? I've done that, and it comes off as desperate and the girl will think she can do better (which I wouldn't blame her for that, anyone pushing for a relationship of any kind whether it's for business, friendship or romance raises a hard red flag). I've been on the receiving end of people trying to push a relationship forward (namely for business), and it just raises my suspicion of them.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:29 PM
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For a long-term relationship, women look for a man that has EMPATHY and a PROMISING CAREER: https://thepowermoves.com/scientific-dating-strategies-for-men/ You don't need to be empathetic all the time (don't become her therapist or girl friend).
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:16 PM
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Whatever man, you're at the beginning of your journey. Work on yourself. Increase your SMV and make a fun life for yourself. Do well in school. If you go to college, get into a STEM field that pays well. (like Computer Science: expect 6 figures at large companies in your 20s) Work on your body. Lift 3-4 times a week consistently. Fix your diet. Make friends. Join a team sport for the camaraderie. Doesn't matter if you suck at it, you'll learn. Make a social circle. Have male and female friends t…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:21 AM
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Do what you want. It just sounds like you're humble-bragging.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:18 AM
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True. I've always had 0 interest in something long-term with the girl if we fucked on a first date or I pulled her from a club and fucked her that night.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 08:53 PM
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Idk man. Statistically LTRs work best when the female is 7-9 years younger. When I’m 40, majority of my dating pool is gonna be 30 year olds, fuck that. 35 is decent because you can still find someone at 25-26. Dating 20 year olds in your 40s is delusional unless you’re massively wealthy.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/20 05:09 PM
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If, as a man, you are controlled by your lust (or any emotion), you risk being controlled by external circumstances. This is why I encourage my RP friends to quit porn. Helps you learn to control your lust.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:47 PM
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Jesus. OP has problems
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:23 AM
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Is this a joke?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:18 PM
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Working out intensely is known to help addicts with withdrawal because it rebalances your neurochemistry. People have trouble getting over their ex because their gf was a huge source of dopamine and oxytocin. Find new sources for those hormones.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:39 AM
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To add onto this, if you want to learn the vulva anatomy and some routines behind eating girls out: read "She Comes First." Push-pull/teasing is THE way to build sexual tension: BE "EVIL", MAKE HER WAIT. While making out, build a rhythm where you pull back. Look like you're going in for a kiss, but instead lick them and pull back. Watch as she just pulls into you more and more. Put her hand on your cock, let her feel how hard you are as you finger her. MAKE HER WAIT. She'll beg you to fuck her. …
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:20 AM
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You need higher SMV. Get swole, make money You're skinny and 5/10 looks (your words). Online game is 80% your looks and photos, so that's why it's not working out for you. Pimp out your online game. Check 'Playing With Fire' to know what what sort of photos are best, and how to text. Easier said than done, since it takes a while to get higher SMV. No matter what a PUA tells you, game ISN'T the only thing you need. If you have low SMV (4-5/10), it's going to be extremely time consuming to bang hi…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:07 AM
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Quit porn lol
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:00 AM
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How to avoid this from happening? Fuck that, drop him like it's hot.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 12:59 AM
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We're conditioned to think more of men and women than they actually are. We're all glued to our smartphones, and for the most part our lives are mundane. In my experience, once in a while you'll find a girl that actually gives a fuck about what to do in her life (mainly because of her father's influence) but still has that kind of "basic girl" lifestyle.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 04:18 PM
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