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| 68 | Positivity Time! Say something nice about the opposite sex, or say something you feel bad the opposite sex has to deal with! | Discussion | Makuta_Servaela | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 02:16 PM |
| 28 | What Things do You Do to Support the Opposite Sex? | Discussion | Makuta_Servaela | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 04:15 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a trans man that passes well? | Question For Women | Makuta_Servaela | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 09:03 PM |
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| 11 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?I've had sex with loads of women, and it's a common talking point we have to be happy that we can finally request clit play without expecting pain. Lots of women tell men "I don't like my clit played with" solely because it's less offensive than telling him the truth of "You're bad at playing with my clit." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 11:24 AM |
| 3 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?Unless he's recently shaved. His stubble scraping against my genitals hurts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 11:23 AM |
| 16 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?And clitoral hood stimulation. Some women's clits are too sensitive for direct contact, so you should keep pressure to the hood (the skin protecting the clit). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 03:06 AM |
| 4 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?Nah, you're right that I could have made my point more clear. I appreciate you pointing that out and giving me the chance to explain better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 16 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?Yes, you are misinterpreting what I'm saying. Good sex is when sex isn't just about the "finishing". It's when sex is about both people caring about each other's pleasure and having a good time. I didn't say that the guy couldn't orgasm. Just that his orgasm was as likely and took as much work as my orgasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 01:59 AM |
| 5 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?You would have to clarify the forums, then, clarify your confidence in that 99% number, and clarify your confidence that the women here and the women there are the same, because your post is based on us assuming that what you describe is an accurate assessment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?See point #2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 12:48 AM |
| 7 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?A few flaws with your premise: If you're able to see the conversation, then it isn't women talking amongst themselves. They're women (and men) talking while knowing they have a male audience. If the place is about discussing those traits, then people who come to them will talk about those traits. That doesn't mean that's the only thing they care about, just what they talk about in that specific forum. That's like someone looking at this sub titled "Purple Pill Debate" and thinking that every per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 12:39 AM |
| 6 | If you could get away with it guaranteed would you commit paternity fraudI'm still confused. Why are "fit man/better genes" and "my husband" mutually exclusive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:54 PM |
| 6 | If you could get away with it guaranteed would you commit paternity fraudI guess I don't understand how it could be another man's? My husband is right there and easily accessible. If I'm deadset on birthing a baby, then why would I go out and find other guys when I have free access to male genitals at home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:50 PM |
| 43 | QFW: Women - we hear you on the orgasm gap and how frustrating it is. Is the solution for men to simply ask women what they like, and perhaps have the women guide them a bit, when in bed together?The biggest problem is that men see sex as "I do what I can to get my penis in her, and then I keep my penis in her until I orgasm." That's not what sex is. Sex is a bond/connection between two people involving their genitals. It does suck for men that they can't keep going after their orgasm like women can, but I've found that the best sex I've had was with a guy who was on some medication that made it hard for him to orgasm. It completely changed his perspective on sex, and made us much more i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:44 PM |
| 6 | If you could get away with it guaranteed would you commit paternity fraud“I want to only love a child that is mine” you’ll respect that. No, the opposite. If that's his opinion, then that means he'll refuse to love a foster child or adoptive child. I care about that (meaning, that is a thing I can't ignore). Adoption/fostering = a parent loving a child that isn't from their balls/ovaries Paternity fraud = 1. A man loving a child that isn't from his balls + 2. Lying to the man. The second part, "Lying to the man" is the problem. I would never do a thing to my husband … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:36 PM |
| 4 | If you could get away with it guaranteed would you commit paternity fraudCan you clarify your question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:21 PM |
| 0 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionThere's a reason that Romeo and Juliet laws exist. If both parties have underdeveloped brains, then you can at least brush it off as two idiots being idiots. But if one party has an underdeveloped brain and the other doesn't, of course we should acknowledge the risk of predation. Also, it's not just that the brain is developing, it's that the last part to develop, the part that matures in early 20s, is the part that processes long-term consequences. Of course I find it creepy that a fully-mature… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 09:19 PM |
| 12 | If you could get away with it guaranteed would you commit paternity fraudNo? Seems pointless. Do you care if your man is represented in the literal dna of your child? Well, that's an entirely different question. The problem with paternity fraud is that it's lying, not that it's expecting a person to love a kid not related to them. Yes, I care if my man thinks that, for example, adopting or fostering a kid means that he shouldn't love that kid like his own, just like I would. My two nieces aren't related to me at all, but they're as much my nieces as my bio nephew is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 09:16 PM |
| – | Getting laid as a guy shouldn't be this difficultThat said, even a guy can't have guaranteed orgasm due to ED or whatever. That's true, that's why I said "basically". But that also leads to the conversation about how there is way more medical research in getting men's dicks to work than there are for curing vaginismus (the female equivalent of ED) or low female sex-drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 06:27 PM |
| – | Getting laid as a guy shouldn't be this difficultCasual sex exists because women do still want sex, even if it isn't that great for us. Regardless of how good or bad men are in bed, humans are innately a social sex species, and will still desire social sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 03:05 PM |
| – | Getting laid as a guy shouldn't be this difficultI think women who peg do have it a bit harder, mostly because most men think prostate play must inherently be gay, and refuse to try it. Hell, I know guys who won't even wash their ass because they think doing so is gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 03:04 PM |
| 31 | Getting laid as a guy shouldn't be this difficultWhere as for women, just have to say yes or no. I just shouted the word "Yes", and didn't suddenly get laid. But anyway, sex is designed for primarily your pleasure, with little direct risk to you, you are incapable of getting pregnant, you have a much lower chance of STDs as the penetrator, and you are almost guaranteed an orgasm. Seems pretty fair that if you get way more out of it and risk way less, then you should work harder for it. The thing is, you're seeing this as a gendered issue rathe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Are fully straight women who don't watch lesbian porn minority?Not straight, but from what I understand, lesbian porn tends to involve less physical violence, less misogyny and slurs, and more attention to female pleasure, and that's why straight women often like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Have you or a female friend of you actually actively pursuit there (now) Partner?I don't currently have a partner, but the last one I had, I asked out. There is only one time I can think of where a guy made the first move on me. I generally approach first, especially when seeking dating. Some times, he was the first person to interact with me, but the number exchange and date planning was almost always my idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 04:32 AM |
| 3 | How did you meet the last 5 guys you had sex withMid 20s. Met him at a pup event at a kink event. We'll call him Guy 1. He's a bisexual whore (affectionate). Guy 1 told me his friend was into me and set us up. Guy 1 invited me to join him in a threesome he was having with another guy. That threesome became a foursome because Guy 1 invited another guy. This was not "train run on me", they all gave each other equal attention. Seriously, spend an evening with pup players, they get an insane amount of tail. Friend I met at a different kink event. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 04:30 AM |
| 5 | did the woman lie?I don't know if she lied or not, but what I do know is that you've made up your own story of the events, and it's really weird. You've decided that there were 180 men. Google can't tell you the amount of men who showed up to her specific attended events, because there are too many variables. You've decided that she only rejected them based on physical attraction and for no other attraction reason. You've decided that there absolutely must have been physically attractive men in the group that she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot."it will happen when you stop looking" translation: This means that when you're actively trying to impress someone, you get anxious and stuck in your own head. If you're out just trying to enjoy yourself and make connections in general, then you won't feel as anxious and won't get in your own way. It'll be easier for you to find a girlfriend because it will be easier for you to interact with women in general. "stop bothering women going about their day, join a hobby and meet women there" transla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 05:54 PM |
| 2 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?I mean, hot is subjective, so what any particular person might find hot isn't exactly required to involve youth. Of course I see people being afraid that they won't be found attractive in their age, but that's because they don't run with the right crowds. Most people are socially groomed with that "old hag when you turn 30" type talk, so they often believe those lies. The thing is, young hot people tend to need more attention or not know how to actually get someone, so they are the ones often ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?There are two phases here: The "It's in your body" and the "It's our of your body". If you both select "Yes" on Phase One (move it from your body to the next place it needs to go to be a child), then you move on to Phase Two, where you both decide together to support it or abandon it to the state. Women's Phase One lasts from her puberty to her giving birth (when it leaves her body). Men's Phase One lasts from his puberty to his ejaculation into her (when it leaves his body). That is equality. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?Plenty of women don't feel bad about having abortions. Plenty of women feel great relief. Plenty of women feel terrible about pregnancy, even if they initially wanted the baby. Plenty of people feel bad about exercising. Doesn't mean it's bad for you. Plenty of people feel bad about people of other races. Doesn't mean anything is wrong with those races. Our brains just make us feel bad about things. Sometimes it's our brain being smart. Sometimes it's our brain being stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?Both have a choice to do a part in making the baby (Phase one). Then, both have a choice on what happens afterwards to the baby that exists (Phase two). If both of you choose "Yes" in Phase One, then you both automatically move on to Phase Two. The man and woman get to opt out of the baby's existence every moment from the time they become fertile to the time the baby-making step exits their body (puberty to childbirth for woman, puberty to ejaculation into the woman for men). The baby can only e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 12:38 PM |
| 4 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?Our bodies are literally designed to reproduce. Actually, they're not: We're a social sex species. We have the lowest sex-event to conception rate of animals, because our bodies are literally designed to have pleasure sex to build social bonds, with reproduction as only a second reason for sex for us. We're a menses species, unlike most other animals, which means our females are only fertile 1-2 days a month, but we're horny all month, including the point right before our period (when our sex dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?The situation I use is this: If I accidentally knock a glass over and it shatters, what is the more responsible option: ignoring it and leaving it there as it inevitably causes someone pain and injury, or picking it up and cleaning it? If you didn't intend to have a baby and are not ready for the baby, then having the baby will cause immense harm to that child. The responsible thing to do would be acknowledge your mistake and clean it up before the baby exists as a sapient and independent human,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Is the right to Abortion more about a woman's body autonomy, or simply dodging responsibility?The right to an abortion is being responsible. If you make a mistake that will in the future cause someone a lot of harm, like have procreative sex when you aren't ready to have a child, then the responsible thing to do would be fix the mistake as soon as possible while you still can and while it's still in your control, like have an abortion. The idea that birth is just the "punishment" for sex is dehumanising to both the woman and the baby. Babies deserve to be born to parents who want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 12:13 PM |
| 1 | What parts of hypergamy do you disagree with?The idea that women like attractive or productive men, and the idea that women are generally going to have better luck in dating than men is not an issue with me. The issues I have are: This is a gendered thing. People generally want what is beneficial for them. Men don't pursue the same things as women because men are just groomed to see different things as beneficial to them than women do. This is objectively true in all cases. 20% of men are not the only men with partners, so the 80/20 rule i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 12:06 PM |
| 7 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?Eh, not really. Young, hot, and energetic are not explicitly correlated, nor are they all explicitly related to "good at sex". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:37 AM |
| 10 | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?I took that line straight from Greta Thunberg's kick back against Tate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?This. Likewise why some feminists are against body shaming men when it's punching down, but will refer to "small dick energy" or call a man bald when it's punching up. You're just hitting where it hurts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 10:32 PM |
| 65 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?I know plenty of guys and girls, straight, bi, gay, who are hoes well into their adult years. Hell, I used to work at a senior center, and we have several male and female hoes in their 60s, 70s, 80s. Missing out on being a hoe isn't real, you just gotta find your people. What I do see some women mean when they say that is that they missed out on being an independent young adult in general. Like, if this woman is married, and started the marriage by age 18, then she has no real understanding of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 10:29 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?Yeah, I've gone to dating events and happened not to hit it off with anyone. Sometimes, you just don't find that spark. He also didn't clarify the timeframe for the dating events: was in 9 in a day? 9 in a week? 9 in a month? 9 in a year? 9 in 5 years? Side note, putting an exclamation point after a number makes it a factorial. 9! = 362880, and yeah, if she went to that many dating events, then she must really care about dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Would you find it weird or embarrassing if your long term girlfriend proposed to you?I'd probably try to do it in a nice, public, scenic way. I'd never have a public, scenic proposal before a private conversation, though, to ensure he actually wants to be proposed to, and that conversation will probably open the door for him to sneakily beat me to it, lol. I just feel weird about doing the knee and ring without actually talking about it privately first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 06:10 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?And that's true for the basement-dwelling idiots who only wants women who look like instagram influencers? Putting aside that yeah, people don't pick on those guys solely for the attraction they have, more of what they do with it and say about it, Why, to make your point, do you have to add so many details beyond what OP added? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:50 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?You keep saying "if a man did that" despite proving that a man did that and wasn't told that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:19 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?The fact of the matter is that when you tried to prove that "people are absolutely okay with telling men their standards are too high", you compared OP randomly calling a woman ugly and implying that she doesn't deserve to have attractiveness standards solely due to her appearance, to a man asking his friend "Why can't I get women?" And the friend responding "Maybe you're looking for too much out of one person" with no insults, no calling him ugly, etc. Double standards only apply when you compa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:07 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?Might want to read the comments of the post you shared. It proves you wrong. Literally the top comments include: " you approached this mindfully and with good intentions" "you’ve risked looking like the bad guy to genuinely help your friend because you want him to be happy and you spent time and energy thinking how to do that in a way that wouldn’t hurt his feelings. You didn’t call him unattractive or say they were out his league," (This one acknowledges that suggesting someone lower their stan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 04:54 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?Yeah, her standards are realistic. She doesn't find the guys attractive. It's not like not ever running into a guy you find attractive will ruin your life. Cats are pretty chill, and there is way more to life than romance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 04:27 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?Why are you implying the way you look directly affects what you find attractive? "Plain, overweight" doesn't like affect the brain like that or anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 04:25 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?The fact that you don't personally find her attractive doesn't mean she's not allowed to have standards for what she finds attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to "chase?"Indeed men, contribute to patriarchy, which harms women and other men. Yet women also contribute to patriarchy, and not solely on an individual basis but also a systemic, cultural one. They do, yes, as a coping method. If a woman distracts the misogyny witchhunt to chase after another woman, then she can earn herself some extra time before the witchhunt turns back around on her. So if feminism's primary goal is dismantling patriarchy, what justification does it have for being a movement "for wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to "chase?"Feminism has fought against men’s issues and applied policies What men's issue or applied policy did feminism fight against completely unrelated to defending a woman's issue? (Ex. Making it illegal to rape your wife does mean men don't get free access to sex slaves, which makes those men sad, but feminists didn't do it because it hurts men. They did it because not stopping it hurts women). Maybe not, but “equality” is sure as hell one of its fundamental tenants. Interesting that you ignored the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 01:41 PM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to "chase?"Even though women are the ones who most heavily uphold your so called patriarchy Yeah, it's a form of self-preservation. Basically, if she directs the witchhunt at another woman, then the witchhunt is less likely to come for herself. She wouldn't have to do that at all if the witchhunt wasn't happening in the first place. Well, were a more than five decades in and men’s “help” are nowhere to be seen so allow me to doubt that chief. I work in mental healthcare, and I have way more male clients th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to "chase?"Problem is, you are not the only ones oppressed by your sex. There is a difference between facing struggles, and being oppressed by your sex. No one argues that every man has an easy and grand old time. But when men have struggles, they are largely caused by either circumstance or by other men. Even when a man faces an issue from an individual woman (ex. woman rapes a man), his greater part of that issue is male-caused (ex. male judges and male-run police and male-run lawmakers don't believe tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to "chase?"I answered that elsewhere: This is exactly why feminism isn't about "equality", it's about freedom of women from oppression based on their female sex. We can both acknowledge that men and women have different reproductive roles and different bodies, and equally acknowledge that having different bodies doesn't make women less human. (And we acknowledge that men being stronger than women doesn't make them more human, since if that were the case, chimps, gorillas, and virtually every other Great Ap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to "chase?"I just thought back and realised that I have pursued and asked out nearly every man I've dated. I've almost never been approached first. I would love to see these people actually bring stats on how many women initiate vs men. It will likely be more men than women, but the difference, I imagine, will be way smaller than they think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to "chase?"Those are the minority of women, The risk of avoiding pregnancy still largely falls on her, We're still sexually dimorphic. Human males are larger and stronger than human females of a similar regional origin, so women are still at more risk to men than men are to women. Women have less overall to gain from a mate than men do, since women are at risk by that very mate. And iirc, a woman's significant other/a man close to her is way more of a risk to her than a strange man she doesn't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Why are men expected to "chase?"Why do we always go to 'women get pregnant and do domestic labor' whenever we talk about equality which feminists fought for? This is exactly why feminism isn't about "equality", it's about freedom of women from oppression based on their female sex. We can both acknowledge that men and women have different reproductive roles and different bodies, and equally acknowledge that having different bodies doesn't make women less human. (And we acknowledge that men being stronger than women doesn't make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to "chase?"In the animal kingdom the females don’t get a say in who they mate with. Yeah they do? Rape is performed in very few animal species. A male can't waste his energy chasing down one unreceptive female, especially if she responds violently, since risking a blow to the wrong place or spending all of his time chasing one female risks him wasting the entire mating season. Not to mention that most social animals are matriarchal (since the leadership is done by the oldest female who knows the group and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Why are men expected to "chase?"This. And it's not about living like animals or anything: Women objectively take more risk in mate selection. We're a sexually dimorphic species, with females smaller than males, and we are affected by great risk from pregnancy and child birth. It's not appeal to nature, it's acknowledging that the pattern is there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 02:20 PM |
| 9 | The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of WomenA woman being a virgin displays mental strength, an ability to resist temptation. Or just bad luck. Ain't any interesting guys around her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 01:14 PM |
| 4 | The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of WomenAre you going to actually defend your point, then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:40 AM |
| 8 | The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of WomenHow else would you interpret "has enough money to support himself, has physical size, and has dominance/self-confidence needed to approach a partner"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:23 AM |
| 11 | The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of WomenLarger size, higher income, and dominant personality are all strengths. By your logic, women are interested in men who are strong and independent. Valuing virginity is valuing stupidity about sex and oneself. It's valuing ignorance. A weakness. By your own admission, women want to encourage and strengthen men. Men want to discourage and weaken women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:04 AM |
| 8 | The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of WomenWhy would women have to hold the same stupid standard in order to note that it's unfair? The point is that virginity is based on lack of knowledge. Valuing virginity means valuing ignorance. Women don't have to value ignorance to earn the right to point out that it's rather creepy for men to value ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simpsInteresting. Though the discourse isn't about the rate, it's about the issues that arise from it. In the same vein, we complain about, say, pedophilia, way more than it actually happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Women who have traits that would be undersireable in men should not bear sonsWhat? You might want to edit your comment, it has several misspelled words that make it hard to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Guys simply need to stop listening to online discourse that is largely driven by women and simpsTake age gap discourse for example, women will tell you that they will absolutely not date someone more than 2 years older than them. That's not the age gap discourse. The age gap discourse isn't just about a man being older at all, or any couple happening to be 10 years apart. It's about a woman who has barely been an independent adult for that long and a man who is well-established into adulthood. Basically, things outside of the "Half your age plus seven" range. Another example is people tell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Women who have traits that would be undersireable in men should not bear sonsIt's not. Eugenics is when the government or other power outside of the specific couple controls reproduction. One person choosing for themselves alone is not eugenics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"The average man and woman before modern labour laws worked a strict over 9-5 schedule hours (they worked from dawn to dusk) and generally did not have weekends. Also, neither the average man nor woman left far from home because towns were walkable before modern transportation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:44 PM |
| – | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?What do most old couples hate each other? Growing apart doesn't mean hate. Quite the opposite: If I love someone, I want to see them happy. If they happen to have grown in a way that makes them incompatible with me, and now they're unhappy, then I want them to be happy because I love them, and will let them go if that is the best way to make them happy. It's sad, but it's life. People change as the years pass, nothing wrong with that. Some people change compatibly, some people happen not to. , t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 04:02 AM |
| – | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?I didn't say we're just mammals, I pointed out that every animal that is anywhere close to our level of sapience, lifespan, and social ability communal raises. This is because communal raising is the most efficient way to care for children that are high-sapient, long-living, and highly social. We arnt dogs or cows. Neither of which fit my specifications (dogs aren't long-living, and cows aren't stupid, but they're not high-sapience) (Ironically, dogs are lifelong monogamous and live less than 20… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:23 AM |
| 6 | Post-pregnancy expectations, power, and the law: Do marriage and divorce systems discourage mutual effort?Grandparents, cousins, siblings, other parent friends, etc. Today in general our society is too split up and individualistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 09:11 PM |
| 5 | Post-pregnancy expectations, power, and the law: Do marriage and divorce systems discourage mutual effort?I think the thing that really damage mutual effort was the nuclear family. Every other social, high-sapience, long-lived mammal communal raises. The reason women get so exhausted is because we're not supposed to have all caretaking of our children done by one person or 50/50 two people.. We and our relationships just aren't evolved for that, and struggle to handle it without being forced/pressured to. We acknowledge that in some part given that we have public school (kids taken care of by multip… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 09:01 PM |
| 6 | Most male-female friendships are built upon a foundation of female deceptionhe is mad that he has been used for attention, walks, jokes, learning materials and favours without anything in return He got attention, walks, jokes, learning materials, and likely at least some favours in return. The reason he doesn't see friendships with women the way he sees them with men, is because he sees friendship with men as socializing, and "friendships" with women as transactional. He has chosen to do that. I doubt he keeps a list of all of the favours he has done for his male friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?Yes, that's why that period didn't last long and was incredibly novel for the human experience. There were large(er than average) women suddenly being forced into the home, and there was economic shifting and challenges as a result, and then many of those women clawed their way back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 05:50 PM |
| 2 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"Both. Rather than have every woman working in their own kitchen, one home (or the church) would have a communal kitchen where many of the women would work. Some of the homes would have various types of textile mills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?It was forced. Women could be legally denied jobs and promotions, so even if they worked, they couldn't support themselves. And abortion wasn't legal until over halfway through the 1900s, which meant a woman could be impregnated by her husband against her will and forced out of work. Not to mention that a big push behind prohibition was about how men would take the family savings and drink it away, and their wives couldn't do anything about it. Women couldn't avoid that by not marrying, because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?In the mid 1900s, after the men returned from the World Wars. You're right that women always worked, because we've never had a consistent time in history where we could afford to not have women working. I was referring to how men today look at how in the mid 1900s, women were literally forced to stay home and take care of their kids, and men believe that women have always done that and that men have always been the "providers". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"I can't, its paywalled. And husbands' domicile/land would be external communal labor force, since rather than every woman cook for, sew for, clean for, etc, only her own children, various families would own community kitchens, linen cleaning areas, textile mills, crop mills, etc, and various women and children would work at them. Day-to-day tasks required more hands and time before modern inventions, so you couldn't have one woman only doing domestic work for her own family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 03:06 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"There has virtually never been a time in history outside of a few decades in the mid 1900s where the majority of women stayed in their own house only tending to their own kids. Society has never been able to function with that much of the workforce not working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:49 PM |
| 4 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"Women always had to as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?If you want to bring evolution into this, you'd have to keep in mind that lifelong monogamy is virtually non existent in any mammal that lives over 20 years, and that every social, long-living, high-sapience mammal, including all of our primate relatives, and including humans' ancestors and human societies beyond 150 years ago, are communal raisers. The nuclear family is incredibly inefficient in raising high-sapience, long-lived, social species children. The best lifestyle is that grandmothers … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 08:06 AM |
| 5 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?The "provider" thing is stupid, anyway. Men forced women out of the workforce and then used that to claim that men's purpose is to provide for women, when what we should always have been doing is have that equality/equity. Everyone should provide for society what he or she is capable of providing. It's like if a guy stands around smacking his head against a tree, and insists that by doing so, he is blocking this tree from the potential of you accidentally hurting yourself by running into it. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 08:02 AM |
| 4 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?Of course not, until men are the ones that have to take time off for pregnancy and birth, and until formula can be as nutritionally excellent and custom as milk (formula is good, but milk directly from the breast is better, as the nipple can sense the baby's needs through its saliva and change the milk's content to match). Women will always have a slight disadvantage in the workforce there. Employers will pass them up for promotions, and women will have to sacrifice their work ethic for their ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 07:58 AM |
| 2 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"Raising children is important, but there was no reason for each woman to waste her time raising only her own kids, when she could be out serving the community, and one woman could take care of her and three other women's kids. I keep telling you why the women had to be out: the community could not afford 60-70% of the population (all women and most kids) not doing textiles, food making, farm work, and other manufacturing for the community. There was physically too much community work to do for o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:05 AM |
| 5 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"And other duties. Textiles and food were one of the biggest factors: We need fabric for clothes, blankets, fishing nets, sails, etc, and before modern inventions, no one person could make all of the food her family needed for the day by herself. Women would often work in textile mills and large community kitchens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"They almost always stayed home and their primary job was having and raising children. As I said, no, their primary job couldn't be having and raising kids because the society couldn't have functioned without the women and kids in the workforce. You're right they weren't getting paid, though, since they were considered either doing a service to society, or their husband would get the pay. Usually for childcare, you'd have maybe 4 women and their over age 10 kids all working in a textile mill, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | The fact that prostitution is partially or fully illegal in most of the world is proof that the world is misandrist.In the same way as masturbation doesn't count as sex. They see sex with a prostitute as basically equivalent to using a fleshlight that happens to be warm and expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Why do women friends share sexual encounters so freely with their sexually frustrated friends?A lot of assumptions there. Not very useful conversation for you to tell me what I do and do not know. And even presuming women have power over men, it's possible to have a type of power without knowing it (ex. Men may not realise that their presence is physically imposing and might be scary to a woman). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The fact that prostitution is partially or fully illegal in most of the world is proof that the world is misandrist.I was referring to specifically the incel community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Why do women friends share sexual encounters so freely with their sexually frustrated friends?And for women, it's not that. Sex is a way to socially bond and connect, so when women see men talk about their sex events, they have no idea that men aren't doing that to be friendly, they are doing it to compete. They talk about it in a friendly and casual manner, so we just assume that they're being as casual as their tones sound. We have no idea that their casual tones are actually a form of passive aggression/competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:04 PM |
| -1 | Why do women friends share sexual encounters so freely with their sexually frustrated friends?I talk about lots of things with my friends that they don't experience. I have a friend who wants to have cats, but can't because she's allergic, and I chat about the antics my cats get into. My friends chat about events they went to that I would have liked to attend, but wasn't able to. It's likely that she didn't see it as "bragging", just casual conversation about what she's been up to lately. Especially with how women often are told that men like to chat to each other about their sexual enco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 05:42 PM |
| 6 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"That's often the point. If the man is never on-screen or public, then she can pretend that the trad wife lifestyle will bag you a handsome, hunky man, without him having to do any work to actually present himself or look good. Keep in mind that women tend to prefer erotica/written things to images, so it's way easier for her to use her female viewers' imagination if she makes sure they never actually see her husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 04:41 PM |
| 2 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"I was using the "promote" definition of "sell". She doesn't directly gain anything from her viewers, but she's likely on board with or being pushed by her conservative husband. (She is also likely getting advertiser funding) Basically, alpha male dudebros want to push the narrative that being an alpha male dudebro will guarantee you a woman. But in order to do that, he needs women pushing the idea to other women that they should want alpha male dudebros. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 04:26 PM |
| 10 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"Women have always been able to work, but that doesn’t mean they did (if we’re defining work as paid work that is, not work around the house). Keep in mind that before modern industrialisation, you couldn't afford to have 60-70% of the population (women and children) not providing services to the community. Things we take for granted today took more hands and time to accomplish. Women didn't just stay home taking care of kids, because she would be working on the jobsite with her kids. And if a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 04:10 PM |
| 0 | You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and betterI think it's also interesting that physical sports tend to only be popular when the rules are specifically designed to cater to men's strength. I saw once a video of a woman doing American Ninja Warrior by relying more on her lower body than upper body. She looked nothing like any male ANW, and she looked way cooler and flowed through the steps way easier. But she didn't do it "right", because "right" is the male way. Likewise with things like Foot Archery and Ballet. We don't treat those like r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:49 PM |
| 36 | The fact that prostitution is partially or fully illegal in most of the world is proof that the world is misandrist.Incels pretty famously hate prostitutes. They think it doesn't count if she doesn't actually want him for him, and just wants him for his money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:31 PM |
| 35 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"There's been an increase in conservative tradwife content lately, often made by rich women who can afford housekeepers (hence why they have so much time to film themselves "making cereal from scratch" and run their influencer accounts). They make SAHM life look very easy and fun, because they're trying to sell the life to young women who don't know any better. This is also why there's been this false notion lately that feminism "made women work" (when really, women have always been a part of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Why is slut shaming wrong?I mean, yeah, all of the highest sapience, longest living, social species are communal raisers, with children generally raised by moms, sisters, aunts, and grandmothers, and fathers and brothers primarily taking a role to guide teenage boys. And we know that as well, which is why we always instinctively create that: before the modern era, kids were generally communally raised by most female relatives in the area (town/village/farm), and in the modern era, where we are more spread out and cut off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 12:53 PM |
| 9 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Because we're a social sex species. It's in our nature to bond over sex, hence why our art and stories have been filled with it and we've been making dildos and contraceptives since before recorded history. Even our closest primate ancestors have social sex. It's also why our sex-to-conception rate is one of the lowest of mammals, and why we desire sex at all parts of the month even though we're only fertile 1-2 days of the month. Females desiring sex when not ovulating is very rare in the anima… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 02:08 AM |
| -1 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?Oh, you mean like guys don't generally think "Wow, I'm expendable! That's my purpose in life!" Yeah, I agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 09:46 PM |
| -1 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?I mean, the guy I'm responding to just said he and his dad consciously choose it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 09:38 PM |
| 2 | You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and betterNo, really? I thought it was invented by aliens as an excuse to watch Earthlings flail around naked. Although by your own logic, it was invented by humans for gods, and those gods had no problem presenting themselves as animals, elements, etc, so I see no reason why the guy who would turn himself into a bull to fuck a girl would have a problem with bulls participating in the Olympics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:50 PM |
| 5 | You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and betterIf the only thing that matters was objective physical prowess, then the Olympics should include polar bears and cheetahs and no human would ever win. Human males are physically weaker and slower than most animals of a mass anywhere similar to a human's. That's why we have leagues: Men's, Women's, Mixed, Children's, Regional, Disabled, Weight-Class, and even animal leagues, like racing horses, tortoises, and dogs, showing cats and dogs, etc. In every other situation, we're totally fine with point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:47 PM |
| 9 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?And it makes evolutionary sense for men to feel that way. Women generally evolved to live longer and be more durable, men evolved to burst, impregnate, and then die. My closest male friend just had two kids and turned 40, and he vented to me once about how he feels like his body is just done now. He's done his part. Of course, I don't want my husband to die, hence why I don't expect it from him, but if it's basically in men's genes to want to sacrifice themselves for the family, it makes some se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:05 PM |
| 23 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?Not really. It would be appreciated, but we can't control what our response to fear is, so if his response is to save himself, I won't fault him for that. I'll be dead anyway, so it's not like I can sit around stewing on it. Now, if we were, say, being chased by a bear, and he throws me down so it will eat me, then yeah, I'd be pissed as I die. But if he just runs away on his own without thinking about me, that's fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 05:15 PM |
| 3 | What makes a man creepy? Is the term creepy overused, or is it warranted?All posts are debate posts, There are reasons for different post flairs. "Debate" flair means you have to come in with objective arguments and sources. "Discussion" means you're not held as strongly and don't have to disagree with the OP. "Q4W/M" means it's asking the Women/Men their subjective opinions on things, and why they have those opinions. If you came to a Q4W, saw me state my opinion and perspective, and then your response was to call me a liar, then you're not coming here in good will.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 05:11 PM |
| 6 | Feminism indirectly stole masculinity from men and disturbed dating in its own wayOh, I agree. It's not the point of your or my argument, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 05:08 PM |
| 10 | What makes a man creepy? Is the term creepy overused, or is it warranted?This is a Q4W post, not a debate post. And even if it was a debate post, "Nuh-uh" isn't a good debate response. There is nowhere for the conversation to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 03:20 PM |
| 6 | What makes a man creepy? Is the term creepy overused, or is it warranted?Creepiness isn't overused, but it is subjective, both on the person, and on the emotions they happen to be feeling at the time, so it's not really possible to put one answer on it. "Creepy" is kind of like words like "Pretty" or "Ugly" or "Mean" or "Friendly". There are some things we all can agree are "Mean", like randomly attacking someone and beating them up, but I might think that someone is mean for calling me "cunt", but that same person just lives in a society like Australia where the slu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 02:17 PM |
| 8 | Feminism indirectly stole masculinity from men and disturbed dating in its own waybut the perspective tend to tell people "Women are wonderful" while men are devalued to the point of being evil by just existing The "Women are Wonderful" thing confuses me. Even in your OP, you want to discuss what men experience, and discuss it as "women are achieving the default, men are told the default isn't good enough" and that your post is about men being devalued. But you still call it "Women are Wonderful". Every time I see someone use that phrase, it seems like they want to vent about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Regarding Cold Approaches, location doesn’t matter much tbh.Attractiveness does play a role, but that doesn't mean location doesn't. If I'm at the gym, I won't even look at you, so I won't notice if you're attractive or not. It's dangerous for me to stop focusing on my workout, depending on what I'm doing at the time. Basically, if the location is something where you need to focus, then there's a massive chance that cold approach is not going to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:15 PM |
| 7 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?So basically, most young women nowadays at some point end up having a short-term fling or sexual situation-ship with a handsome, masculine Chad who’s 6'4", built like a QB, and has a 7" dick. No, most women don't. he doesn't have to do the chores and he could well have dirty apartment, have a sweaty ass and you'll still want to lick his asshole. I have never seen a straight woman talk/think like this, but I've seen plenty of gay men talk/think like this. Letting us know something, OP? after you’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 12:15 PM |
| 0 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.I looked up "Myron" and the first result is a Greek sculptor. Given that Mannosphere occasionally does take things from Greek philospohers, I presume that's to whom you're referring? It's also a type of oil, a type of snake, an Archbishop, a character from a game, a character from a book, a song, and the name of a different book. Is the book Myron about Red Pill philosophy? Are you quoting the Archbishop or one of the two characters? I legit have no idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.If you make a reference on a debate subreddit, you're responsible for providing context. You can't just drop a given name and demand people Google for the name, or they might come up with the wrong person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Nah, influencers come and go. It's not too weird for a concept to be popular, but a specific name to happen not to be heard of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Maybe it could possibly have something to do with the fact that we're a social species. Also, the majority of people burned for witchcraft were women, and "witchcraft" literally just meant "whatever the (male) religious leaders didn't like. A lot of our social norms are created by men or male religious/group leaders. But besides that, men absolutely have a herd mentality, and do things to impress both their peers and women. They just don't do as much stereotypically "feminine" things, like using… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 06:37 PM |
| 3 | How would you react to finding that your man experiences an emasculating sexual kink?It's some nature, some nurture. For example, you can't have a fetish for, say, pony play, if you live in a society that has no horses or any equivalent animals. Some fetishes are more common in different societies than others, because those fetishes are partially created from their social environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 04:01 PM |
| 7 | How would you react to finding that your man experiences an emasculating sexual kink?I might get a little weirded out by some misogynistic or abusive elements, like implying that looking feminine makes you stupid (like some versions of bimbofication), upsetting people on purpose to trick them into humiliating him without their consent of participation to his fetish, or stealing my clothes/undergarments without consent, which is not unheard of from men with those fetishes. Otherwise, as long as he's not hurting anyone (me and my property included), I don't care. You do you. Domin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 03:59 PM |
| – | Merry ChristmasMerry Christmas, OP, and to all of the rest of you. I've had a lot of fun debates in this sub, and I appreciate the mental exercises I get from them. Here is to another great year of a bunch of lonely guys and gals keeping each other company, teaching each other, and learning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?Yes, I'm bi and can experience it when I'm with a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?For clarity, mine does not require actual physical contact between my genitals and the thing I'm humping. It can, but it can also be purely psychological. Mine is actually AAP, not just contact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 02:19 PM |
| 5 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?Yep, Autogynephilia and Autoandrophilia are 100% real. The myth aspect of them is the idea that all trans people are them. You can be an AGP/AAP and be trans, or just be AGP/AAP without being trans/ trans without being AGP or AAP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 04:41 AM |
| – | The "she provoked me" trend where women try to prove dogs have more self control than men is just another man hating campaignIt's shocking to me seeing just how many women think the majority of men are rapists or would rape a woman. No one thinks the majority of men are rapists. What they point out accurately is that the average rapist looks and acts identical to the average man. And that many men feel very entitled to sexual access/are socially groomed to see a woman not wanting to have sex with him is her personally slighting him. If it was the other way around, men generalising women, it would be all over the news … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 02:07 AM |
| 12 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?There are a bunch of different orgasms I can get. Weakest to strongest is: G-Spot: Through fingering. This feels like very little. I don't wear out from it. Anal: Feels more than G-Spot, but not enough for me to ever really crave it. Pleasure is localised around genitals and head. I don't wear out from it. Clitoral (general): Pretty strong, especially because these can easily stack. The first isn't usually so big, but I can have another every 20 seconds or so. Pleasure is usually localised aroun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:03 PM |
| 2 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenExactly. Brushing teeth is harder than cleaning foreskin, so if the kid has brushed teeth and balanitis, that's proof that the "but I have to cut the skin off so he won't have to clean it" is not a valid excuse. That is the parents proving that they could teach him to clean his dick, but willfully choose not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 03:42 PM |
| 2 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenAre parents comparing their sons penis to other boys pensis ? Yes. The common excuse the parents use is "I don't want him to look weird", and from the dad, "I want him to have an easier time getting laid" and "I want his to look like mine." It's weird as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 03:01 PM |
| 5 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenIt's because girls don't develop inner labia until puberty I already addressed that. There are three different types of flappy bits that girls have that need to be cleaned, two of which are on infants, and can easily get infected because even wiping the wrong way can get feces stuck in them: the outer labia and the clitoral hood are both on infants. You can't pull a babies teeth because they don't have any I meant pull them as soon as they start teething. They just require a lot more maintenance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 01:48 PM |
| 9 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenI never saw a little girl with a similar issue. That's because girls clean it. We get a female version of smegma as well. The foreskin is basically the same as our clitoral hood, and the rest of the labia, including the outer labia, definitely gets gunk in it. Hell, during infancy, the baby can get feces in her labia, which you have to clean, and will also get feces in her labia if you don't teach her how to properly wipe front to back. We have the clitoral hood and outer labia at birth. My moth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 12:16 PM |
| 13 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenYeah, that's true for any of the excess covering parts of the body like ears, hair, nails, labia, etc. When you have kids, you have to clean them, and then teach your kids to clean themselves. It's so bizarre to me that people would rather chop off a healthy, protective part of their child's body than just teach them how to clean it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:38 AM |
| 10 | The bigger obstacles to male rights are simps and conservatives, not womenFor the Circumcision front, it's primarily a thing because of Western Christians and Jews, and purity culture, and Conservative Christians do have power in the West. Among those who aren't conservative Christian or Jewish in USA, it's pushed because the Christians are so prevalent about it, that even the Atheist/Liberals do it because they don't want their boys looking comparatively odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 11:18 AM |
| 2 | QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”?I recommend you actually make a debate post about that, if you really care to discuss it. This is a Q4W post, not a debate post, and your debate is irrelevant to the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 01:10 AM |
| 8 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsThe work was always demanding, and the household was also at the fields. Kids worked too. Kids and women staying home and not working is a very recent phenomenon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 01:09 AM |
| 7 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsI didn't say it's a stop everything kind of deal, but the fact that you have to teach women how to work around it proves my point that it's not as simple as "Well, men can just bottlefeed pumped milk, problem solved". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 11:50 PM |
| 6 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsBreastfeeding is hard and painful, so I don't blame a woman who doesn't want to do it. It's better for the baby, but harder on the mother, and mom's gotta balance what she can handle versus what she provides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 11:46 PM |
| 6 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsPresuming that you want to go the formula route. My comment is about the route I would like to take, and I wouldn't like to deprive my baby of the benefits of breastmilk, especially straight from the breast, unless absolutely neccesary (such as a medical issue preventing breastfeeding). Our nipples can sense what the baby needs based on its saliva, and change the breast milk to match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 11:43 PM |
| 3 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsSo you think pairbonding is fine until you hit 40 or you face any adversity? This is another strawman. I didn't even mention adversity or specific ages. Basically, think about how many friends from 10 years ago that you still have now. Probably a few, and probably not all of them. We change as we experience things, and we don't all change the same way from the same experience. Some people get lucky and happen to stick it to the end, other people happen to grow in ways that make them still compat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 11:05 PM |
| 3 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsYou are saying lust is a larger human push than relationship. I say bullshit. I never said that. We are a social sex species, so our interest in sex is beyond just lust, it's a prominent part of how we create society. That's why a lot of our art and nature is built on sex, why contraceptives are so old that abortifacients are mentioned in the Bible, why male humans have the largest penis-to-body ratio of any animal that has our level of flexibility, and why I have repeatedly told you to stop str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 10:43 PM |
| 9 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsYes, but you're not a farmer when you only tend the field when you have free time of your main function. Her main function was farming. The children farmed as well, so she wasn't primarily tending to them. They were also tending to each other. The rest of your responses are just "Nuh-uh" without any actual arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:57 PM |
| 8 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsI get where you're coming from as well, and I think you're coming at it from a more general perspective than a personal once, hence why it's not really an answer to my specific personal issues. Hybrid/remote jobs make it even more complicated, though, since you'd have maternal hormones flaring every time you'd hear the baby cry. I have a friend with a 4 year old and year old, and I've seen so much of that. Basically, your options are to work out of the house, but still set aside time to pump at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:58 PM |
| 7 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsThat's why I think it's best for one of us to work part-time and the other to work full-time. We definitely shouldn't both have to work full-time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:50 PM |
| 8 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsThey did not "work" they would help tend the field, even factory work was a minimal part of it mostly textile work. Tending a field is work, as is factory work. Textile work is a major part of our society, especially before the invention of modern machinery. We're a species that hasn't been able to regulate our temperature and been prone to sunburn for thousands of years. Sails on sailing ship are made of fabric. As are fisher's nets, bedding, sacks for storing things, etc. One of the reasons th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:49 PM |
| 13 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsBut men can bottle feed for pumping mothers. The mother still has to pump, though, which takes hours out of her day. Don't get me wrong, I agree that a man can help with childcare. My point is that it's just easier to schedule around me doing it rather than him trying to work around doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:43 PM |
| 4 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsThe vast majority of couples are monogamous. You’re really telling me they were “groomed” into thinking that way? The vast majority of society teaches that if you aren't monogamous, you're a failure as a person. No Fault Divorce wasn't even legal until less than a century ago. My own mother believes that my lack of hymen (which I was born without) means no man will ever pairbond with me at all. So, yes, the social grooming is pretty obvious. Shame hurts in a social species. Or do you think it’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:41 PM |
| 7 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsI recommend you to separate a bunch of apes that discovered fire to the set of behaviors that produced the people that stepped on the moon. By recent, I meant "a few decades in the mid 1900s". Up until the mid 1900s, women generally did factory and farm work, which was the primary labour being done and required way more people to do before the invention of modern machines. Nuclear families with Stay At Home moms has never been our primary way of doing things. Women just weren't allowed to contro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:33 PM |
| 10 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsThat’s why you get a special feeling around your husband or wife, why you long for them. We literally have evolved within our hormones and bonding systems for monogamy. We don't know that, because state-enforced monogamy and wife-ownership under religions like Christianity is socially groomed into us. We don't really know what humans are naturally like without that amount of social grooming. It's like how we think nudity is morally wrong and disgusting, but there is no biological reason to think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:20 PM |
| 5 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsNever heard of that one. I was more referencing the parenting styles of the other high-sapience social species, the general understanding of why menopause and gay people exist (more hands caring for kids without making kids of their own) and recent anthropological findings that ancient women were just as likely to hunt and whatnot as men were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:15 PM |
| 6 | Should men be openly critical of women who are bad or boring in bed ?I think in general you have to be very careful about criticism about sex. It's a very vulnerable situation, and most people don't want to hear that you didn't like what they thought they were putting their heart and soul into, unless they specifically asked. Your advice is definitely good for both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:09 PM |
| 21 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsBut I don't think I'd be able to utilise weaponized incompetence quite like men do. I'd feel bad pretending I don't know how to properly put away the leftovers I'm tomboy to hell and back, but I still end up in the kitchen during Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners. I just can't stand sitting around chatting like all of the men do, and leaving my mother and grandmothers to all of the cooking and cleaning work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:03 PM |
| 7 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsTechnically, the evolutionary standard for high-sapience social species is that the family unit is primarily made of the mother, her mother, her aunts, sisters, etc. Fathers are around in Great Apes, like gorillas, chimpanzees, and bonobos, but nuclear family monogamy is incredibly inefficient for long-lived high-sapience species, and "Men go out and hunt, women all stay home" is a super recent trend in human history. Early human societies couldn't afford to have half the population stay in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:02 PM |
| 9 | Should men be openly critical of women who are bad or boring in bed ?It's become a socially accepted punchline to demean men by joking about how they don't "last long" or can't find the clit. While the average woman just...lays there and expects men to do all work ? The head that a good many give is either toothy and borderline painful or just awkward and doesn't hit the spot. While I do generally agree with "You get what you give" in terms of picking on people, these are insanely different things. There's definitely a difference between a man not finding a spot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 07:36 PM |
| 22 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsI'm generally not looking for a SAHH because even if he's staying at home, he's not going to be pregnant, give birth, or lactate, so I'll still have to do the primary childcare for 3 years (one for the pregnancy, and 2 for the nursing) and risk serious disability, both of which will tank my career, so might as well not risk it. Otherwise, if we don't ever have kids, and my career could afford it, then I wouldn't mind it. But it is a bit weird for me to be contributing financially and him to not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thingIt's a rather interesting comparison: 6 foot is an actual number measurement, while "fat" could be anything from "not anorexic" to "has lots of fat, but only in the specific places I like", to "actual obesity". At least women are specific. When women complain about being told to be "Not fat", it's often women who are legitimately a healthy weight- Like I have never reached even up to the higher end of "Normal" in the BMI, but even I am self-conscious about the potential that I might look fat. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thingWhat's true? I said a few things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thingWhat? The spelling and grammar- Not being coy, I legitimately have no clue what you are saying here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:29 PM |
| 9 | Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thingTbf, the OP post didn't say men have "high" standards, just standards in general. The last sentence clarifies that. It looks like she's trying to confront the "Women are the picky ones, while us men literally give no shits except that she gives me sex." meme that goes around sometimes. Or the mentality of men getting mad when he isn't picked, and believing that no woman knows what it's like to be rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:07 PM |
| 2 | QFW: Assuming you’re talking to a man who is level headed, genuine, and wants to engage in an honest discussion, how do you respond if he believes that “women have it easier in society nowadays” and in turn, “men face way more discrimination”?I'd recommend him read some Feminist literature. Invisible Woman is a good one, which talks about the problems with male defaultism even in today's world, in everything from safety equipment, to medicine. The "What Were You Wearing" exhibit was also one that really hit me, showing how women's sexual abuse primarily occurs because women are female, not for their behaviour, clothing choice, etc. I also would want to look at any studies he has read that may have strengthened his beliefs. And I woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 01:44 PM |
| 5 | What advice would you give a woman to find a good men?"Good man" depends on what she wants in a man. I'd advise that she list her "Needs" (He has to have this), "Wants" (Would be nice if he has this), and "Bad" (He can't have this). We could work out where to best find men who check off all Needs, as many Wants as possible, and no Bads. For example, if he Needs to be of her religion, I would recommend her check in her religious meeting place. If he Needs to be okay with dogs, I'd suggest she casually bring up her dogs in conversation on any first d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourseI'm not sure what your question has to do with the quoted line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 11:33 PM |
| 5 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourseI was born to a Conservative mother and a Liberal father. I generally have been in both liberal and conservative circles, from the female perspective, and I have seen my findings pretty equally across both spectrums. The liberal men are just as willing to turn on women as conservative men and hold them more accountable than they hold liberal men: more so, I've noticed, since conservative men generally know they'd get picked on for picking on women, but liberal men are much quicker to brand the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 11:08 PM |
| 12 | Men are more frequently framed as responsible moral agents than women in dating discourseFor example, when someone says that older men who specifically seek younger women are creepy, the socially acceptable response usually isn’t to reject the claim entirely. I find the exact opposite. The most common response I see is complete shifts of the focus from the man to the woman. Complain about old men creeping on barely legal girls, the high risk of the average John using a trafficked or non consenting prostituted woman, or even the idea of sexual sadism, and the immediate response is "M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 10:13 PM |
| 4 | What does "sexual health" mean to you/women?Sexual health means health related to sex. Things like: Regular medical check-ups. Education on contraceptives. Education on how to properly wash genitals, and the potential correlation between unwashed genitals and UTIs (as I understand it, female UTIs often correlate with the unwashed state of her partner's penis). Education about appropriate amounts of masturbation (warning about excessive masturbation potentially causing things like erectile dysfunction, if that's true, about ensuring that m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Men have inexplicably rejoiced in their own subjugation - but only selectivelyWomen who don't go into higher careers are also split into two categories: the ones who are bullied or socialised out of them (which would be comparable to the men who are bullied by their bosses not to do safety procedures) and the ones who choose not to take them purely out of their own volition (which would be comparable to the men who choose to ignore safety procedures). The wage gap complaints are not about lots of women choosing not to do high paying careers. Most people in general don't t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Children Possess Rights to Parental CareThere is literally no reason for "Conception" to have any relevance as its own step. Conception is just a part of the pregnancy, which exclusively takes place in the woman's body. The steps should only be: All of the years between age of consent and the moment it exits your body. (18 to ejaculation, with the "ejaculation" being ejaculating sperm for male or baby for female.) All of the years after it exits your body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:46 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedIs it not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Children Possess Rights to Parental CareThere is no meaningful differences between the sexes when it comes to conception There is a massive difference: Sperm leaves the man's body. Every part of the baby-making process exits the man's body at ejaculation (hence why his point of exit of Stage 1 is ejaculation, not conception. Conception doesn't occur in his body). Every part of the baby-making process does not exit the woman's body. They do not conceive or birth at the moment of ejaculation, so it makes no sense to count conception. Co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Children Possess Rights to Parental CareSexism applies when sex is not directly related. For example, it's not sexism to not offer cervix exams to men or prostate exams to women. Likewise, it's not sexist to treat the pregnancy as women's biological role in the development of the child, and ejaculation as the man's biological role. The decision on your part of the biological role is directly related to what part you biologically play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Men have inexplicably rejoiced in their own subjugation - but only selectivelyFor the first category, no. The victims are the workers, the perpetrator is the boss. The boss is solely to blame for forcing unsafe working conditions on his workers. For the second category, there is no victim, as it's a Self-Harm scenario. Self-Harm doesn't really have a victim/perpetrator setup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:08 PM |
| 10 | Children Possess Rights to Parental CareI hear that a lot but I usually see some wild posts on Reddit over the years that seem to paint it as pretty common. Because people who don't pay alimony aren't going on Reddit to complain about how they're not paying alimony. Survivorship bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Children Possess Rights to Parental CareIn my mind, there are two stages of child abandonment: The stage where the child does not yet exist in the world. This stage occurs between the age of consent of the parent, and the point in which they complete their part in creating the child (for men, it's age of consent to ejaculation in a woman. For women, it's age of consent to birth of child). In this stage, each party is allowed to abandon his or her process in creating the child, but is not allowed to control the other party's role in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:05 PM |
| 6 | Women don’t need menSource And one of the studies that go into the methodology of recognising the myth. And to your other comment about women mostly staying home and taking care of kids, the reason we have menopause is so grandmothers can take care of kids without making more of their own. That's likely also the reason homosexuality is prevelant. This is also what we see in other high-sapience social species, like whales, other Great Apes, and elephants, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:52 PM |
| 10 | Women don’t need menMen hunted, fought, built, enforced. Of note, the reason we believe this is because we kept digging up skeletons and then sexing them based on what was buried with them: weapons or building tools, we would just assign them as male. Recently, we started actually genetically sexing the skeletons, and found that many of those warrior, hunter, and builder skeletons were female. The idea that most women didn't fight, hunt, or build is a comparatively very recent trend of our history. We're a pathetic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .I'm not a hardcore Christian, but I am a man and I've definitely been hit on many times over the years by gay men. I don't see why it would be any different for Christians. Hardcore Christians are usually not the kinds of guys that gay men want, is the point there. They don't go to places that gay men tend to socialise, they often make their Hardcore Christianity very clear, which the gay men take as a sign not to bother, and they often don't ping the "Gaydar", so to speak. Certainly one could h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 02:07 PM |
| 0 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedSo push for the laws to exist. Stealthing didn't become recognised because some lawmaker thought about it one day. Only very recently did countries start passing laws about it, and that's because people pushed their lawmakers to do so. If you want the laws to exist, you have to actually put work in, just like women did to get the Stealthing laws to exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:20 PM |
| 10 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .You know how hardcore Christians are convinced that gay people will frequently hit on and harass them, but that doesn't really happen? Unlike with them, it does happen to us with balding old men. The reason we think about them is because they forced us to think about them since we were young. I was 16 or so when a 70 year old man walked up to me in my place of work and told me "I wish my wife looked like you". I was around the same age when a guy followed me around in his car while I was on a wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: How do you reconcile the average man's experiences with your observations?My observations is that society in general is losing social skills. The men who spend time here are, like me, the kind of people who have even less than average social skills, so struggle more in social areas. The men and women who have better social skills also have better things to do than hang out on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:29 PM |
| 8 | Men have inexplicably rejoiced in their own subjugation - but only selectivelyWorkplace fatalities is also men on men violence. It's often either: Boss, who is likely male, trying to get more work out of his workers, so pressures them to ignore safety procedures (ex. trucking is one of the most dangerous jobs, because truckers are required to drive long spans of time on too-little sleep, so get into lots of accidents). Men choosing to ignore safety procedures out of habit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 07:00 PM |
| 9 | Men have inexplicably rejoiced in their own subjugation - but only selectivelyMedicine generally ignores women's symptoms Medical research is largely done on male bodies as well, so most medicine and treatments, and standard things in our day-to-day life like the size of handheld objects, workspace temperatures, car seats, crash test dummies, safety equipment, etc, are designed with the average male body in mind. Constantly having to fit in a society that physically is not designed for you to fit in starts to stack up discomfort after a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Men have inexplicably rejoiced in their own subjugation - but only selectivelyHere's the thing...how did men not only fall for this, but take pride in doing so? Because we're a social species. Women take pride in the sacrifices they make (hence why women who don't have/want kids or put their careers first get shamed, women who work rather than rely on their husband's income and be SAHMs get shamed, women who give her kids her own surname are treated like she hates her husband, women are shamed for having C-sections and formula rather than birth and breastfeeding, women wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:53 PM |
| 0 | Women want to be approached depending on the angle they want to own the OPHowever it is not applicable to upvotes. Upvotes are about what majority think. No, upvotes are about what people who give upvotes happened to vote for. I don't ever upvote comments in this sub. Doesn't mean I don't agree with any. If I find a thread I don't find interesting, then I don't go into it at all- which means if I was a voter, I wouldn't vote for anything in that thread. It could just be that some voters are more attracted to some threads than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Women want to be approached depending on the angle they want to own the OPOr maybe different women have different opinions. Because women aren't a monolith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherYou're proving my point by your insistence on sexualising all of your problems and ignoring any point I've made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherSure but a huge complaint is the sexual needs not being met, Just because that's a huge complaint doesn't mean that's the primary issue. Men are taught that emotional, physical, and sexual needs must all be met at the same time by the same person, hence why many men find it "gay" to hug, cuddle up to, or vent and talk about emotions to another man. None of those are inherently sexual, but men are taught to believe that they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidI've had like three debates on this sub in the past two days that ended with the man assuming my intentions and only arguing with those. For one of them, a guy made a claim, I asked for a source, his source was a news article that was objectively badly written, and when I pointed out the issues with the writing and how it wasn't a good source, he kept calling me "emotional" and stating that I only didn't like the article because it was made by the "woke" BBC. Purple Pill Debates are primarily he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherI said "like women can with other women" to clarify the non-sexual nature of the needs. You can have physical and emotional needs met non-sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Where do women want to be hit on?I just listed two male friends I have. You're shooting yourself in the foot with that kind of mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Where do women want to be hit on?It wouldn't be as big of a problem if the guy didn't literally use "females" and "guys" in the same sentence, and "Females" and "Men" in the same sentence elsewhere. It's very suspicious that he is perfectly fine using multiple humanised terms for men, but not once use one for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Where do women want to be hit on?Females want to be hit on by guys they already know I don't think my cat would appreciate a man hitting on her, even if she knows him. I'd probably call the police. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Where do women want to be hit on?I want to be socially approached in social settings. For example, at my library's Craft and Chill event for adults, I would love for other adults to sit with me and chat about our art projects, find things to bond over, and then suggest other places we can hang out, with our mutual interests in mind. I don't mind at some point during one of our hangouts, if he pops the idea of us dating, as long as getting to that question is not the only reason he wants to hang out with me. Also, just because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherVirtually all human cultures have been fundamentally based on monogamy, Have they? Keep in mind that most of today's history books are written by Christians, or are based on records written by Christians, who looked at the cultures with the Christian lenses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:18 AM |
| 6 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherYeah, a good chunk is still not an exact number. I just meant "enough that the difference is noticeable". But yeah, I don't want to answer things that stray too far from my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 12:49 AM |
| 4 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherI asked for your opinion since you're the one making a claim If I had an opinion on that, I would have added it to my claim. There is a reason I just said "A chunk" and "More men in a population than women". That's my understanding. in another comment you said women select the best genes. I didn't say that, that was another person who was also responding to people who responded to me. I think there are all sorts of things women select for, but at the end of the day, women are selecting more than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherMy claim has nothing to do with exact numbers, nor "worth". Plenty of people reproduce who probably shouldn't, so not reproducing is not necessarily about "worth". It's just about logistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 12:33 AM |
| 6 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherSo called "culture" is made from biology. You literally argue against nature. Oh, you're making the "Humans are animals, so everything we do is technically nature and can't be defined as nurture or not natural" argument? It's one of those "What is a chair" type arguments that's designed to be dumb and waste time. I have no clue what any of the rest of your points here mean, or their relation to the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 11:55 PM |
| 7 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherYou are saying, that society has made the pressure. I am saying, nature made the pressure. They both made some pressure, but only society made laws that made it so that if a woman walks away from a mate she doesn't like, then a bunch of other unrelated males who don't personally know her or her mate will gang up on her and drag her back to the male against her will. (which was the case back in the early days of women's domestic abuse shelters in the mid 1900s. It was literally illegal to house a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 11:42 PM |
| 6 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherYou literally are saying, that "society" has made the Illusion, that they will find a family. Yeah, my mother was alive at a time in which it was legal to ban a woman from having a bank account without her father or husband's name attached to it, and it was legal to refuse to sell/rent your house to a woman who had kids. In the West, we are literally one generation from when it was legal to ban a woman from living independently from a man. Outside of the west, it's still legal in many countries.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 10:56 PM |
| 10 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherThis is bad biology. Humans are not the same as other mammals. Appeal to Nature fallacy is a thing when the thing of nature is not related to the conversation. It's not a thing when the specific trait is related. The average human male in a population statistically is less likely to mate in his lifetime than the average human female, because as OP stated, we experience attraction differently, and our difference of attraction, while having some learned traits, also has some natural traits built i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 10:45 PM |
| 7 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherThe vast majority of humans reproduced in the past, even during the hunter-gatherer era and beyond. That's a different claim. I'm not saying the 80/20 thing is true or anything, just that statistically, more females of a population naturally mate than males do. For most species, including humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 10:42 PM |
| 15 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherDon't get me wrong, it might be true, however, you are trying to prepare men for something, you cannot prepare them. I agree that the culture shock will hit men very hard, and will take time for us to shift culture to better support men and help to reduce the social grooming that put so much pressure on them. I feel very badly for men, that they are forced under so much pressure to value something they never should have been made to value so hard, which is completely unhealthy and unrealistic to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 08:33 PM |
| 4 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableYou claim it shares "links", but it shares one link, and it's to another BBC article. And that link and article is just about the fact that women can be pedos as well (ironically, that article is way more objective and detailed). It named "places where the studies were conducted", by naming a few countries where supposedly studies took place. NOT naming the actual websites where the studies are listed, where their methodology can be reviewed. When it does name specific colleges, it only names th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 08:19 PM |
| 4 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableThat's not a source, it's an article, about a guy mentioning surveys without even naming them. It's basically an opinion piece. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:55 PM |
| 18 | Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each otherThe truth is that "straight" women don't really experience attraction to men the same way men experience attraction to women. Yeah, that's the point of the existence of the male and female sexes. Females are the default sex that creates- and in mammals case, gestates and nurses- offspring. Males evolved to assist in creating genetic diversity, hence why they have the small gametes that move more, and can't contribute anything directly in childcreation outside of some of the initial blueprints. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 07:51 PM |
| 6 | Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will.By this logic, any rights are not an idea but instead technology. This is basically true, because bigotry and abuse is born of ignorance, and knowledge leads to technology. Technology does correlate with less bigotry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:58 PM |
| 7 | Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will.Their proto-feminist spiritual ancestors spread their legs for aristocratic men That's a weird way to spell "it was basically legal to rape a woman as long as she was societally pressured into marrying you to 'preserve her honour', and it was legal for her to be abused or thrown out into the streets if she didn't go along with whatever the rich male sexual abuser wanted from her." This episode is quietly buried, for obvious reasons. Proto feminists were written about by Simone de Beauvoir, one o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirable"Attractive young women" are in multiple vulnerability categories: Makeup category (groomed to hate themselves and their natural skin, desperate to preserve their youthful appearance) Lack of experience as adults in the adult world category (meaning they are more desperate to appease adults to fit in, and have a harder time recognizing toxic adult behaviour, because they don't have as much experience with red flags) Lack of peers category (Young woman are often ostracised from older adult women,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:27 PM |
| 1 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableIf this was true, men would seek out sickly, unattractive women (even extremely fat and downright ugly women with low self-esteem Never heard of chubby chasers or trans man chasers? (the latter is straight men who go after trans men, seeing them as sickly and desperate women who will do anything if you call them a dude). Also, men go after anorexics and bodyshame even physically healthy women, because not getting enough nutrients will affect you mentally. And men go after women who do "nude make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:20 PM |
| 5 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirableUPPER very frivolous estimate on pedophilia is 5%. Source? And not source on pedophiles who are caught, by the way. Source on the rate of men who feel any sexual attraction toward people under 18. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | The way those who hate age gaps talk about them is actually reinforcing tropes about younger women being more desirablePeople who make fun of older guys interested in younger women can't help implying that She can do better than you, suggesting logically that Younger women have more options because they are more desirable. As someone who is in the age range in which I'm still being preyed on by older men, yes, older women know we're more desirable: we're more desirable by bad people who want to hurt us. The men who target us over the older women are targeting us because the older women aren't as vulnerable to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:05 PM |
| 6 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)Don't have the attention span. I'd be doing way more advertising of my art, writing, and would make porn of myself, if I had a social media manager handling all of the uploading and schedule-keeping. Basically, if my job was "interact with fans" and "make art/write/photoshoots", and I had someone else to handle all of the "upload the media at the right time and to the right websites, let me know when I am due another art piece/photoshoot/writing of a particular theme", etc, I would do great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 02:25 PM |
| – | Suddenly all female preferences are "heckin valid" and not to be questionedNot even unrealistic beauty standards anyway, it was mainly just don't be fat. This being a time period where lots of traits that are objectively healthy were considered fat, though, like having normal, healthy levels of stomach rolls that appear when you bend over forward, or a muffin top on someone who had several kids. We often forget that in the 1990s and 2000s legitimate anorexia was all the rage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:33 PM |
| – | What do women think when men say "women don't take accountability"?When a man says "You don't take accountability", I usually hear it as an honest criticism. Like in your situation with your friend, that is not a woman not taking womanly accountability, that's that specific person not taking it. When I hear a man online say "women don't take accountability", it's often followed by a misogynistic rant. If a man wants to point out a common issue of women often not taking accountability of a specific thing (ex. Women often don't acknowledge when women bodyshame ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsI cook for myself. If my guy happens to be over at a meal time or he's spent the night, I'll cook for him. And he has cooked for me many times, probably more often than I've cooked for him. I've cooked for my friends, as well, and they've cooked for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:10 AM |
| 2 | How often do women hold other women accountable ?Did you mean to respond this to me? Your anecdote and rant aren't related to this conversation. You might have meant this to someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 12:49 AM |
| 9 | Domestic labor being a point of contention in marriages is the fault of feminism, not menWomen worked menial jobs but they weren't expected to be breadwinners. Women worked mostly the same hours, especially in farms, textile mills, factories, and janitorial jobs. Society couldn't function with the majority of women not working full-time jobs. Women didn't forego husbands and children all for the sake of their careers. Because all of the money she earned went to her father or husband. Women were not allowed to own property or money in their own names throughout most of history. She w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 06:49 PM |
| 8 | Domestic labor being a point of contention in marriages is the fault of feminism, not menWomen were the ones who wanted to work outside the home and work alongside men Women were already doing that. Almost no point in history involved all or most women staying home and only tending to kids. Women have always been a part of the workforce, and all of the money she earned went to her father or husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Sell Themselves ShortThere seems to be a growing pattern of you not engaging with the substance of the argument, instead you’re litigating phrasing in order to neutralise a reality you’re clearly uncomfortable sitting with. Back at ya. You acknowledge porn as extramarital, then dismiss the emotional impact away by claiming women are “naturally” poly and only hurt because they’ve been “groomed” to care. That’s not liberation, that’s asking women to dissociate from their own discomfort so men don’t have to adjust thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 04:58 PM |
| 3 | How often do women hold other women accountable ?It's because men have historically been more productive in real economic terms. You realise that's still a circle, right? Men value men's labour as more productive. Until the one child policy, men stuck women in the home with back to back babies (and take her away from her mother, sisters, and aunts, who could help raise those babies, giving her more time to work outside the home) and even with the one child policy, men value men's creations more, even though many of China's main exports have be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:01 PM |
| 3 | How often do women hold other women accountable ?It is driven by Grandmothers who want retirement plans. And it was men who decided that the existence of granddaughters would deny the grandmother her retirement plan. Female children leave the family. And it was men who decided that female children leave the family, but male children don't. That female children don't get to carry on the family name, and are just considered the broodmare of her husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Sell Themselves ShortYou don’t get to say “it’s her house too” as if that magically erases the fact that: he benefits from a cleaner, organised environment without contributing proportionately and again, for free That wasn't your initial claim, though. Your claim was "clean a man’s house for free". Your initial claim wasn't about the nuances of load distribution, it was an exaggeration that the house she is maintaining is completely irrelevant to her. Same with the kid thing. You even contradict yourself by admittin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:23 PM |
| 3 | How often do women hold other women accountable ?or it would have never ceased. It occurred for almost a thousand years, and only stopped early in the 1900s, and the reason it ceased was basically because Chinese traditions in general were being heavily challenged, so that one went too. Several attempts to stop it on its own failed. They do it because they wanted a grandson -- but why do they want a grandson? Because grandsons are culturally liable for aiding the family financially. Female infanticide is driven by men, yeah. Men decided that m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:15 PM |
| 4 | How often do women hold other women accountable ?If women are openly for holding other women accountable for things that aren't even problems, like pre-marital sex, then why wouldn't you think women aren't holding women accountable for things that are? OP didn't list any examples, so I have no clue what the "spirit" of the question is. But regardless, everyone else seems to be answering the "spirit" that you want to discuss. I wanted to address from a different direction: Women holding each other accountable regardless of the toxicity, and how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 01:22 AM |
| 9 | The man paying for the date is a status symbol to womenMy bisexual-ass will never understand this hetero problem. I pay for my girlfriends, they pay for me, we split the bill, etc. This just isn't something people really have to worry about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 12:38 AM |
| 4 | What is the definition of a 'low-value man' from a women's POV?When I am at a party, I don't walk away from a man because he's "low value". If I walk away from him, then it's usually because of one of the following: Social anxiety I wasn't there to hook up and I suspected that he is. I didn't realise he wanted an extended conversation. I was doing or thinking about something else and he interrupted me. The conversation was boring. As for the title question: I don't think of "value", but if I think of someone I don't want to date, it's someone who would make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 12:36 AM |
| 3 | How often do women hold other women accountable ?Women are constantly groomed to hold other women accountable, including for things they didn't even do. Female Genital Mutilation, Foot Binding, etc, were usually performed by women on their own daughters, because she knew that if her daughter didn't have those things, she'd upset the men around her, never get a good husband, and suffer. My own mother called me out for "losing my hymen" (even though I've never had one). "Not like the other girls" is a common phrase that women use to say "You're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Most Women Sell Themselves ShortSure, but you’re also cleaning up after a grown man who benefits from the labor without matching it. That's an assumption. Sure, most women do more housework, but that doesn't automatically translate to "she's cleaning his house.". Basically, you're swinging the dial way too far in one direction while acknowledging a small imbalance. But pretending the father is contributing equally is delusion. Which is irrelevant because they're still my kids, and me taking care of them is me taking care of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Most Women Sell Themselves ShortOn one hand, I don't shame sex workers. On the other hand prostitutes are often enslaved. The vast majority of them inherently do not have control, clarity, or boundaries, which is evidenced by the fact that the murder, abuse, and rape rate for prostituted women by a John or Pimp is way higher than the murder rate for a married woman by her husband. It's also interesting how people call sex workers “demeaning” but women will: clean a man’s house for free: I am cleaning my house. In which I live.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Holding up your partner to standards you can't meet yourself is not always hypocritical.Different standards mean different things. The reason people complain about the virgin one isn't just about being equal, it's because virginity is inherently "stupidity". As in, it is having a lack of knowledge in a topic. In any other situation, we would consider it creepy for someone with great experience in an activity to be terrified to participate in that thing with someone with equal experience. Think of like a professional soccer player who brags about his win streak, but only plays again… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 02:09 PM |
| 7 | Genuinely, What is the orgasm gap?For contrast, look at the pay gap, last time I checked it was around 30% (70 compared to 100) yet I have never heard a woman say “we rarely ever get paid” it’s always just “we get paid less than men” Because those are two different things? An orgasm is something you either have or you don't have (I guess you could have a ruined orgasm, so there are at least three options). Pay is something you have equal to, have less than, have more than, or don't have. The orgasm gap is "I rarely orgasm/Sex is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 02:01 PM |
| 10 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Under every video about her are a bloodbath of female fury. “She deserves to be raped to death,” “I hope she gets acid attacked,” “kill yourself whore” and the lovely “you deserve to be trafficked for real this time.” These are comments I pulled from random videos today with unmistakably female avatars. "Female avatar" does not mean feminist, or even female. My father exclusively uses redhead women as his avatars because he has a fetish for them. I barely see anyone talk about her in the radfem … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:55 PM |
| – | There are more bad women than men these daysThat's an observation in the Rules of Misogyny. Number 15. It's definitely not just your feeling: male philosophers and doctors throughout history pretty openly stated it, from everything from the vagina being treated like just a hole and the absence of a penis (despite being a complex organ), to it being super common for anatomy textbooks in schools to only show male skeletons, male anatomy structures, etc, to represent humans in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:45 PM |
| – | There are more bad women than men these daysBut not wanting to date men isn’t that. Not wanting kids isn’t that. Hope that helps. This. I think it's important to remember that if your human society requires half the population to be breeding stock to the other half, then establishing that and raising the birthrate will not save humanity. Your society has homo sapiens, but it's already lost its humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:25 PM |
| – | There are more bad women than men these daysNot going to go down the whole list, but I will pick some to debate: You will rarely, if ever, see a politician or a main stream tv show try to talk about women's role in regards to falling birth rate, marriage rate and the growing divide between the sexes. What are you talking about? Women are primarily blamed for the birth rate, and the birthrate is used to argue against women having rights, from abortion and contraceptive access in the states, to higher education access in some countries in A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?Did you mean to reply this to someone else? It's unrelated to my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?My female friends aren't prostitutes. Why would I glorify your violent behaviour? Self-defense wise (as in, the specific and super rare circumstance of getting jumped), though, it is a problem that most women don't learn self-defense skills, or at the very least how to properly crush a male attackers' testicles. Conversations require cooperation between two or more parties. Maybe it's you who can't participate. I have no problem talking to my friends. Again, why I would I glorify your hateful be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 11:25 AM |
| 4 | Is your partner meeting your standards for the house chores, cooking and cleaningLol, some people just like to fold so they can see what clothes they have. If I happen to want to wear a particular shirt, it's nice to be able to actually tell where that shirt is without digging around. Also, the physical act of folding is just fun for some people. Manipulating things with our hands is a basic instinct, and is also why many people like making things out of clay or building with Lego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 10:15 PM |
| 11 | Is your partner meeting your standards for the house chores, cooking and cleaningThe men I've dated and been around generally did to housework, but did way less housework than they thought they were. For example, the laundry needs folding and putting away, supper needs to be made, and the dogs need to be walked. Each takes 30 minutes to do, and the person doing them has 1 hour to do them. I and the women I know would walk the dogs, and then do laundry and supper at the same time. (Ex. sort clothes, chop veggies and meat for supper, put food to cook, fold laundry in the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with menI didn't actually say anything about the root of the differences, just that many women acknowledge men's difference and many men acknowledge women's. You may have mistaken me for someone else. I don't think the root is a bad discussion to have, it just wasn't what I was discussing there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with menTo be fair, just like men know that women consider emotional and physical bonding as platonic, women also know that men consider the same emotional and physical bonding as sexual/romantic. So, it could be that she wanted to bond with him platonically, and found it generally easy to convince the friend to relax about it, but didn't want to deal with the hassle of reassuring both her male friend and her boyfriend, so just decided to step back from the male friend to save herself the headache. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with menIt was in OP's scenario. Quote from OP's post: You’re ignoring everything the Man has done for you just because your current boyfriend says he doesn’t like it. And they just don’t talk to you anymore because their boyfriend doesn’t want them to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 05:58 PM |
| -2 | Women are extremely hypocritical when it comes to friendships with menThe first issue is women constantly say they want to get to know the guy before they go out. Depends on how they learned about him. I've generally done things like: Gone out with former coworkers, who I had learned about during the work time, but hadn't attempted to date until after we were no longer working together. Talked to someone on a dating app a bit before going out. Been set up by friends, and talked to the person online a bit before going out. I would consider none of those "Becoming h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 03:53 PM |
| 3 | What’s the common preference in modern dating for women , traditional roles or equal partnership?There are 4 billion women on this planet. You're not only not asking any decent portion of the 4 billion women, but you're specifically only asking women who frequent this very biased subreddit. I will say, though, the main thing women want is to feel like they are being treated like a human. Depending on how the woman is groomed up from birth, she will perceive that as coming from different places. For example, a strictly traditional conservative woman doesn't see her husband ordering her aroun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 03:25 PM |
| 9 | Why don’t women like passport bros?Passport bros often go way out of their way to describe, in great insulting detail, what they think of modern western women. And in equally insulting detail what they think of the women they're passporting at. When defending passport broing, they insist that it's just innocent, lonely men looking for love, but when actually passport broing, it's all about how desperate and submissive (read: devoid of her own personality and humanity, servile) that the women are. Not to mention the fetishes they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?Dude, I have no clue why you're getting this worked up over a conversation that isn't even occurring. It isn't my fault that your ramble is off-topic to the conversation I was having with OP. Since you refuse to engage, there's not much else here, so I'll mute and bounce. See ya around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?Let’s just assume OP is being fully honest My debate response to OP is on the presumption that we have no clue what part his biases and perspectives play. If you want to debate with someone who is giving him that benefit of the doubt that every thing the women do is exactly as irrational as described, you are welcome to go find someone like that to debate with. I have no reason to change my debate focus because you don't like the perspective I want to bring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?Is repeatedly going for partners who value things in ways you don't agree with an okay and adult way to handle dating? "Spazzing out" is completely subjective, and we're only getting OP's side of the story. I can't make presumptions about their specific behaviour or the specific context of each reaction, because we don't have enough information there. What we do have information on, though, is that OP is repeatedly dating women whose values he doesn't share. So that's the only thing on which I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:32 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?it’s moreso the spazzing out and flipping shit because your guy couldn’t cuddle you. Why date multiple women who find cuddles important if you don't find them important? Are you actually ever going to hold these women accountable for their childish behavior? If it was one woman, then sure. But again, when it's every woman, there's a common denominator, and it's not the women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?Clearly they aren't working a similar schedule as you, though, if all of them were in bed waiting to cuddle and you weren't, or if all of them weren't exhausted from their jobs and you were. You keep repeatedly choosing to date women whose lifestyles are so different from yours that they aren't too busy with their work to want to spend time with their partner. And if you don't even have time to have a partner, why even string the women along? (And then blame them) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?I meant that you keep repeatedly dating women who don't have crazy schedules, and then blame them for having normal schedules. Rather than just going for women who also have crazy schedules. If every relationship you've had has had issues because of your schedule, can you really blame the women at that point? You and your schedule is the common denominator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?Why are you dating so many women whose schedules and lifestyles misalign with yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | If a guy friend had a crush on you, but you rejected him but wanted to stay friends with him; but later you got a new bf, would you be considerate of your friends feelings?A guy I had a crush on introduced me to one of his new girlfriends, and he actually dated a close friend of mine for a while. A woman with whom I have a mutual crush, but I turned down due to conflicting lifestyle issues, occasionally shows me her new boyfriends/girlfriends/flings, and has no issue showing PDA in front of me. I haven't been in that situation from the side of the person getting the new partner, but as someone who was "the rejected person", I didn't really care. Stewing about thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse.Just because a kid has a single parent doesn't mean they have no other support. They often have a consistent place to live with a consistent school and consistent peers, they likely have at least one set of grandparents, aunts and uncles, etc. Kids in foster care have none of that. They can't rely on each other, can't rely on any individual parent to provide long-time or more expensive support, move around a lot so frequently lose their peerbase or job, etc. They may even lose their siblings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 12:51 PM |
| – | What are your thoughts on promoting arranged marriages in the west?Whats everyone's thoughts on arranged marriages? Why would I want to be stuck in a marriage that isn't my choice? This is about with whom I'm going to share my life. If my mother or the president thinks that guy would make a good partner, then they can marry that guy. I'd rather be alone than be forced to share a bed and my private life with someone, even if I happened to like that someone. It not being my choice immediately removes my ability to really like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Would You Take a Man's Treatment Without Becoming One?I don't see why not. I work in mental healthcare as a case manager, and male clients work better with male case managers, so I'd probably get assigned all of the dude clients. That's the main difference I think I'd see in my life. That and just generally being left alone day to day, which I'm fine with. I'm asocial. Most of the friends I run with are bisexual kinkster dudes, so my access to physical intimacy wouldn't change. Those guys would be just as likely to want me regardless of my sex. May… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 12:43 PM |
| 0 | Apparently even progressive women have a habit of demonizing sexuality of average dudesThis is the basis of female and male socialisation: We are socialised from birth, and our liberal or conservative or identity views on gender come up later. Meaning all women experience points where they are told "you are inferior because you're a woman", in obvious or non-obvious ways. Even if her parents are liberal, she still saw adverts or heard some peers expressing it. Creeps who prey on women prey on any woman, misogynists abuse any woman. Women, regardless of her identity, are more likel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?What you describe as a "good leader" is just a functional, independent adult, and none of the traits of the "leader" and "friend" are mutually exclusive. Except maybe "emotionally supportive" vs "holds you to promises". Does that mean if I have to cancel a date due to coming down ill, the "leader" will be obnoxious about it, while the "friend" would be understanding? Likewise, if the "Plans things out thoroughly" means planning things with me, or planning things without caring about my plans or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:54 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)This. I'm in my mid 20s, and I just aged out of the type of woman that the worse of the worst creeps prey on. I still get creepy guys at my age, but looking back on who I was just 3 or so years ago makes me very grateful that I had kind people watching my back and warning me from those men. I don't think I was a total idiot 3 years ago, but that doesn't mean I wasn't vulnerable in that specific regard. People really need to get rid of the mindset of "Stupid/inexperienced about this specific thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:03 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)I'm just saying you're being insufferable and sticking your nose where it doesn't belong. If that's too complicated for you, then best of luck saving all us women from our own folly I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 03:18 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)Holding you to your own standards does not make me a hypocrite. I do think you have the right to whine about my conversation with another person. Hence why I am here in this debate sub responding to the debate about this topic. You're allowed to comment about my interaction with someone else, and like she's allowed to decide whether she cares what I have to say, I'm allowed to decide whether I care what you have to say. I can block you if you will be uncivil or dull, and she can block me if she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:52 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)I would intercede if I thought someone may be in trouble, because we're a social species who are strengthened by empathy. If the woman herself asks me to stop, I will stop. If anyone who isn't the woman asks me to stop, then that would make me very suspicious about what they may be gaining from people being denied safety information. Only the woman has the right to decide if the information is or isn't useful, so only she herself has the right to decide she should be barred from hearing it. If y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:43 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)I answered that in the third argument response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:31 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)Argument 1 "Her body, her choice", means the law shouldn't ban someone from physically removing something or someone from their body that they don't want in their body, and retaining their right to their own body. I can judge a pregnant woman for smoking or drinking while pregnant all I want. Argument 2 Anti-Abortionists hate the women too, so I don't see how this is even relevant. I mean, it's not, due to the reason above, but also they objectively do hate the women. The only person they rarely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 01:06 PM |
| 17 | Question for women: Do you think it’s reasonable for a man to stick strictly to dating apps when looking for a potential partner nowadays?If that's the only option you want to do, then do that. It's not really another person's place to tell you you can't aim for your goals the way you think works for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 12:58 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, have you even not been into someone despite them being good in bed?Yeah, my main FWB is good in bed. He's also a hoarder, momma's boy, and has a habit of talking to everyone as if he's lecturing them (he used to be a professor). I love hanging out with and sleeping with him, but there's a reason he's just FWB and not boyfriend (There are more reasons than that, but that's some of them). I've also met a guy who was good in bed, seemed nice, but surrounded himself with really bad company, and that turned me off, because I felt if he fit in with them when I wasn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:06 AM |
| 3 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationI mean, the patriarchy isn't just a nebulous cloud raining oppression on people. It's people. Generally men, or women who worship/submit to men's authority. Richer men use their power to hurt poorer men, and keep poorer men from standing up for the women in their lives. Masculine men target less masculine men, etc. But I do think that people often, through maliciousness or ignorance, reinforce the patriarchy from under the moral cover of feminism. Now this, I agree with, and is why I get iffy wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 06:03 PM |
| 5 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationBut, obviously feminism aims to achieve equality by removing the oppression of women and not by increasing the oppression of men. The problem there is that, presuming a scenario where men are oppressors and women are oppressed, then women gaining rights would cause men to lose some privileges. For example, when women can have bank accounts in their own names, men will have less access to wives (because wives won't be as desperate). Although, feminism as a collection doesn't really have much powe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:25 PM |
| 5 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationOh yeah, there are definitely crazies on both sides. I don't dismiss that any individual woman pushes for that. She just can't meaningfully argue why her opinion benefits feminism as a movement. Contrary to some people's popular belief, feminists do frequently infight and debate amongst each other as well, on their path to a better feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:54 PM |
| 9 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationSexual assault is an outlier Is it? Do you have a source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:24 PM |
| 2 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationThere’s liberal/intersectional/egalitarian feminism which frames patriarchy as an extension of “gender essentialist” or “gender determinist” beliefs. Basically feminism that opposes sexism as a whole. Which definitionally isn't feminism, it's egalitarianism. If it doesn't focus on women, it's not feminism. Rights movements are allowed to focus on one specific group of people. No "Feminism is for everyone" person has actually read any feminist theory or can clearly explain why women don't deserve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:23 PM |
| 9 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationI want you to look up any court cases where women has been found to truly of lie even through text message or found evidence or confession after a males conviction and tell me if they went to jail. I want you to compare that rate with court cases where a person has been found to truly have lied about being the victim of a crime, and as a result, received any significant jail time. Especially jail time equal to what the perpetrator would have received, which many MRAs call for. Again, it's very i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:15 PM |
| 10 | As Gender Equality Grows, So Does Women's Prison PopulationI have seen feminist and non-feminous women say they don't want women who lie about sexual assault to go to prison and they have defended that point aggressively. That is a very specific thing, though. That's not a general "women shouldn't go to prison", it's "This specific issue is way more overblown and men demand way more punishment than is warranted for this thing, purely for sexist reasons". The problems with the "Women who lie about sexual assault should be in prison" include: Sexual assau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:04 PM |
| – | Almost every academic article says men and women have higher sexual satisfaction in committed relationship vs ONS or short term encounter. Yet I do not believe it.Okay, that one worked. I'm going to review it, and then go back and edit my first comment with my review. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 10:45 PM |
| – | Almost every academic article says men and women have higher sexual satisfaction in committed relationship vs ONS or short term encounter. Yet I do not believe it.You can't just post a link to your ChatGPT chat. It will only show for you, and for me it shows as a new chat. You have to actually copy and paste its' list of sources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 10:39 PM |
| – | Almost every academic article says men and women have higher sexual satisfaction in committed relationship vs ONS or short term encounter. Yet I do not believe it.Yes, please do it again and share the specific source citations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 10:21 PM |
| – | Almost every academic article says men and women have higher sexual satisfaction in committed relationship vs ONS or short term encounter. Yet I do not believe it.Your Chatgpt link is broken, so I can't review the sources it found/potentially made-up. Can you share the sources? I'd like to review them. Edit: OP's fixed link: Here Citations 1,2,3,4, 6 do seem to say what Chatgpt claims they say. Citation 5 is a real study, but doesn't seem to make any claims about sexual satisfaction, despite Chatgpt claiming that it does. It discuses things like thoughts of worry, plans for the future, and amount of partners, and how those correlate with each other. Citat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 09:32 PM |
| 3 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.No one has been found guilty. No one should be insisting that anyone is guilty here. I'm on this sub because it's a debate sub. I have no reason to go debate in a non-debate sub like TwoX. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 07:56 PM |
| 3 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.I'm confused: So if I make a Doordash order, put in the instructions "Leave at door", and then leave the door open, then that instruction is evidence that I didn't leave the door open? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 07:35 PM |
| 3 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Odd that with all the evidence, she was the one arrested, no? Not really, no. People get arrested over nothing all the time. My neighbour entered my yard once with his dogs after he had been told not to, my dad confronted him and told him to leave, and when the cops came, they arrested my dad and not the neighbour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 07:33 PM |
| 2 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.There is a difference between "He was drunk.", stated officer Sam. Police are also looking at Ring footage. There is Ring footage showing that she entered the house. and "He was drunk, and we found Ring footage showing that she entered the house.", stated officer Sam. The first sources the drunk claim, but doesn't actually source the Ring footage claim. It just wants you to infer that that claim came from the police as well. The second states clearly that both claims are from the police. It's no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 07:31 PM |
| 1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.What does that have to do with proving who opened the door? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 07:25 PM |
| 3 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Or maybe that men need literal video evidence Well, yeah. She provided literal video evidence of her side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 07:25 PM |
| 2 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.You're still shifting the burden of proof, deciding my intentions for me, and straw-manning. My presumption that you don't want to actually have an honest conversation seems correct. So, again, see ya around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:42 PM |
| 2 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable."A lot" isn't a percentage. "Every" and "Most", which was your claim, is. Elsewhere in the comments, though, you argued very dishonestly with me (making up my intentions for me and refusing to let me discuss a hypothetical scenario). So I presume you don't want to have this conversation either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:36 PM |
| 3 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Why does your "direct quote" not mention anything about the footage finding that she opened the door? Even your quote of the "direct quote" doesn't include that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:33 PM |
| -2 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.She hasn't been found guilty of anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:32 PM |
| 1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.You're just making claims, you're not actually providing the percentage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.As I pointed out, the article and videos don't actually directly quote the police about the information in the Ring camera footage. The article provides direct quotes, but not specifically about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:27 PM |
| -5 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.What percentage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:24 PM |
| 2 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable."I see news articles directly quote the police statements of him being drunk". They literally have given direct quotes about evidence already. It's just that one specific piece of evidence they aren't directly quoting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:24 PM |
| 6 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.It's rather interesting that you keep quoting and responding to half the sentence out of context. Why did you ignore my point about how the article does provide direct quotes about other details? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:22 PM |
| 3 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Ring doorbell video which the police have stated shows her doing so, I see articles summarising that police stated that, but those same articles directly quote the police's comment about him being drunk. I have yet to see an article actually quote the police saying that the Ring doorbell footage shows her entering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:08 PM |
| 3 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Do you think this woman going viral for lying about SA and using it for clout is also making it harder for victims to be believed? A liar does hurt victims, yeah. But the fact that she is getting way more attention as a potential liar, than she ever would have gotten as a potential victim, definitely hurts victims way more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:01 PM |
| 4 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Thank you. I've asked so many people, and no one ever provides it, so I appreciate your willingness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:57 PM |
| -12 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.SHE ENTERED HIS HOME!!! How do you know? I see news articles directly quote the police statements of him being drunk, but when they reference her opening the door or entering, it's never direct quotes from police, just summaries. Right now, it seems like she's only getting arrested for filming, not for entering or whatnot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:56 PM |
| -7 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Well, the evidence in this case shows that she pushed the door open Where is that evidence? I see news articles directly quote the police statements of him being drunk, but when they reference her opening the door, it's never direct quotes from police, just summaries. Right now, it seems like she's only getting arrested for filming, not for entering or whatnot. Even if she is a liar, this one case is now going to be used to even further push the idea that all or most cases are liars. Men are so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:53 PM |
| -1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.The police are claiming he is blameless because he was drunk passed-out, as well. I find it interesting that he was apparently too drunk to know not to "sleep" pantsless in front of his open door while he has a DoorDasher coming, but he wasn't too drunk to be unable to order DoorDash. I definitely wouldn't be able to if I was drunk to the point of imminent pass-out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Asia Argento raped a 17 year old, yet she still has a career. A lot of guys rape teenagers and still have careers as well. That's less of a gendered issue and more of an issue about no one really doing anything about child/teen predation. People whine and complain about it, but rarely does anyone actually face any real consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:38 PM |
| – | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.(Edit: Answering in the general scenario, not for this specific event) Evidence. When women don't get evidence, they are written off as liars. When they get evidence but don't share it publicly and only share it with the police, they are written off as liars and the police take and disregard it. When they get evidence and share it publicly, they are written off as just wanting to shame the guy for attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:37 PM |
| 22 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Turns out he had a ring camera that allegedly caught her walking up (with "leave at door" instructions, mind you), and seeing the door was slightly ajar, pushed it all the way open, Does it turn out? Every news source I see directly quotes the police saying "There was no sexual assault" and "He was drunk", but when the article references the Ring cam, they never directly quote the police saying "The Ring cam showed her entering the building". It seems to me like the police are just arresting her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?Yeah, I have. Never been with a guy who has like a 3000$ doll, but I run in kinkster circles, where people are way less ashamed about buying what they need. Most guys I've been with have at least one hitachi vibrator (yes, they work for men as well), at least one had an anime girl pocket pussy I knew about, at least two had fleshlight-type devices, and many had dildos (straight guys have prostates too). Any other toy, I didn't know about, but then I don't go snooping. What you do in your room is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Bear in the woods - let’s revisitIt's not. Everyone has immediate biases and instincts- although, there are many people who think they are intelligent because they are able to quickly word-salad argue why their immediate biases are logical. That's where a lot of bigotry comes from. Bigots are convinced that their biases are right, and they're often very good at quickly making up justifications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Bear in the woods - let’s revisitOtherwise we’re not examining instinct Instinct isn't based on accuracy. “Id rather free climb down the side of a 9 story building than take an elevator with a jew”. In your examples, presuming a non-jew would be more likely to say "free-climb", would a jew also be more likely to say "free-climb"? Would a black person also be more likely to say "Black people contaminant drinking fountains"? The problem with your examples is that you're intentionally picking categories of oppressed class. In the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Bear in the woods - let’s revisitthat instinct deserves to be examined rather than treated as a given. Examining the instinct does not mean actually going into the threat level of bears, though, or any of the three points in your OP. The point of bears is just "compare our (male and female) feelings about human man's risk to women to our feelings about something that we know is dangerous." The specific thing is irrelevant, and doesn't even have to be an animal. So yes, the meme is about instinct. I’m asking why that instinct ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 02:58 PM |
| 8 | Bear in the woods - let’s revisitThe actual "Debate" was never meant to be a debate. It was meant to be a thinking point. If women are asked, they are likely to immediately choose bear. If men are asked (about their daughter coming across a man/bear), they are likely to immediately choose bear. The point was never "debate why one is a better option". The point was "Let's think about why all of us, men and women, automatically perceive men as threats to women." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Bear in the woods - let’s revisitDo we really need to reopen the topic, while completely ignoring the point of the topic? The debate was never "Provide a clear and precise argument for each side". The argument was "Without thinking, if you were alone in the woods, what is the first thing you'd presume was safer" and (if you're a man) "Without thinking, if your daughter was alone in the woods, which would you prefer she be alone with?" and since the answer from most people, women for themselves or men for their daughters, is "Be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Why do men need women?"Artificial wombs" still require a female body. Test tube babies only start out in the test tube, and then are put into person's body to gestate, because of all of the very specific things the female body keeps track of and manages during gestation. We are nowhere close to actually making an artificial womb where the fetus spends the entire time from start to finish without being inside or connected at all to a living being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:21 PM |
| 3 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.I'm still having a little trouble understanding what your argument here is, then. I don't know if you're not being clear/specific enough, or you're using some words incorrectly (I don't mean this as an insult). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 07:22 PM |
| 5 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.your parent comment and all of the others ought to first acknowledge that not all women have some altruistic/safety-first objection to casual sex All but the very stupid women generally acknowledge the fact that sex is risky and that men are generally bigger and stronger than them. They don't just ignore it for the man they want to have sex with, they consider that man safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 07:17 PM |
| 2 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.these same women still have casual sex, just with men who they deem to be worth the risk of pregnancy and physical harm. Or if her standards for casual sex were related to the risk factor. According to OP they have higher standards for casual sex than for relationships, so if those standards include risk or perceived risk, then it would make sense. It is natural to perceive attractiveness as more trustworthy, regardless of sex. (Hence why megachurch pastors, cult leaders, etc, tend to do better … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Women fail to understand the sheer scale of emotional labor men perform for women.Basically, a man studied a group of wolves in a very specific environment and with a lot of his own specific personal biases. He then wrote a book stating that that specific thing was the basis of all wolf pack dynamics. That is what this post feels like. Although in his case, he realised he was wrong and spent the rest of his life trying to tell people not to take that book as fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Expecting your date to state their ultimate intentions with you on day 1 is WILDLY unrealistic.It gets asked all too often on first dates: “So what are you looking for?” I have never had an issue asking this question before the first date. Most dating apps I've used have an option to select if you're looking for hookups, casual, serious, casual and open to serious, or serious and open to casual. For the Cold Approach type situations, usually guys will casually mention in the first five minutes something like "I broke up a few months ago, so I'm getting back into the dating market" or "I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:45 PM |
| 2 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.Project 2025's authors are not "MAGA" Okay, so that's where the issue rests, which was my initial question. I had needed you to define feminism and MAGA. You defined feminism, and we discussed that definition, but you haven't defined MAGA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.The part where Marjorie Taylor Greene is a congresswoman and Pam Bondi is the top law enforcement agent in the country? The fact that they use female spokespersons doesn't mean they don't want women to submit to men and not have jobs. Those women do not represent the majority of MAGA women. This predated MAGA. As you said, MAGA wants "traditionalism". Everything MAGA wants predates them. Their whole goal is banking off of false nostalgia. Please source this x2 They're both in Project 2025. What … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.Of note, feminism is quite torn on that debate as well, hence why trans rights activists have designated "terf" as a label for feminists who don't agree with them. Radical feminists (terfs) are the majority of feminists around the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.So do you believe choosing to live a traditional lifestyle is self harm? Depends on what you mean by "choosing to live a traditional lifestyle". For one thing, the lifestyle that MAGA promotes is not "traditional", as it only barely existed for like two decades in the mid 1900s. Otherwise, a woman not having an income in her own name is not in her best interest, unless she is taking steps to mitigate the husband's ability to financially trap her (ex. She receives a percentage of his income that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:49 PM |
| 3 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.Not entirely, feminism is the movement to fight oppression of women based on their female sex. It does promote women making their own choices, but also acknowledges that choices are not made in a vacuum (for example, we intervene when an anorexic woman chooses to starve herself.) Feminism challenges the ideas that force or pressure women to "choose" self-harm options that they would not otherwise wish to choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:24 PM |
| 3 | MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues.I'm honestly curious: how can you be MAGA and feminist? I suppose you'd need to define both, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:08 PM |
| 2 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.I edited it when I realised I was talking to OP. I got a lot of comments and wasn't checking usernames. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.Some levels of lying in a job interview count as fraud, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.It's not horrific when you realize they're only doing it to women who are lying by omission to them to begin with. Your OP claim is that she's not lying, though. That she just has different standards, and he's lying to reach those standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:42 PM |
| 8 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.Can you at least concede that many women will in fact overcome their inhibitions, if all else being equal, the man is more desirable? I can't concede to that because I don't entirely understand what you mean by that. Can you try rewording it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:41 PM |
| 74 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.I'm not sure that "The justified reason that I lie to you is to manipulate you into having sex with me" is the defense you'd want to use. I generally think that most men don't want to be represented so horrifically. Finally, if a woman would only have sex with a man if he gives her companionship in return, then that means she's not really attracted to him anyway. Or maybe women risk pregnancy and physical danger when they have sex, and it's much harder for women to get off if she's with a rando … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 04:10 AM |
| – | Many of women's sexual instincts were meant for concubinesSo, you admit you're just trolling? Kinda sad, you showed that you can actually make debate points (even if I personally didn't see much to debate with it), but you're choosing not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 04:04 AM |
| – | Many of women's sexual instincts were meant for concubinesSee, this is why everyone is so confused and are making fun of you. I appreciate that paragraph there, because it makes more sense as an argument than literally anything in your OP. It's also way less emotionally charged/rage-baity. Once your OP gets deleted again, I suggest you just debate using paragraphs like that, that are super specific. Okay, going back to actually debating: My claim is that many of women’s instincts and socializing works well in within a harem This isn't really much of a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:59 AM |
| – | Many of women's sexual instincts were meant for concubinesConcubinage is a noun, concubining, while technically an invented word, would be the verb form of concubine. That sentence could be correct with either verb or noun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:46 AM |
| – | Many of women's sexual instincts were meant for concubinesThe post is a debate post. I'm trying to see if you can actually back and discuss any of your claims. Your post just makes wild assertions, doesn't actually defend any of them. Your title refers to concubines, but your OP doesn't ever define what you even mean by concubine. Hence my challenge. Whatever you mean by that word is clearly not what the word actually means. So, make a claim, and defend that claim, so I can respond to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:40 AM |
| – | Many of women's sexual instincts were meant for concubinesI'm actually impressed that he managed to make AI slop look coherent by comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:33 AM |
| – | Many of women's sexual instincts were meant for concubinesOnce again: Women existed before concubining existed, and women have existed in every culture, where concubines have not. You'll have to be more specific. Name one "Woman's instinct" and how you think that specific instinct came from "being part of concubines". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:32 AM |
| – | Ladies, what are the emotions and thoughts going through your mind while having an orgasm? How can men make it better?Generally no emotions or thoughts go through my mind when having an orgasm. That's kinda the point of orgasms. Head empty, only Happy. And is there anything a man can do in that moment to make the experience better, more comfortable, or more meaningful? Asking in this sub won't provide you any useful information. It depends on the specific woman with whom you're sleeping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Are you smarter than your man?Kinda. He has a PHD and a wide range of education, but he has a hard time seeing things that are right in front of his face. Like, one time I had to explain to him that the reason his toddler was staring blankly off into space was because she was bored (he thought she was just overwhelmed by the event we were at), or the reason she doesn't pay attention when he reads to her is because his reading style is very, very boring. I do have a hard time having equal conversations with him sometimes, bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:03 AM |
| 10 | Women fail to understand the sheer scale of emotional labor men perform for women.Yeah, this feels like a dating version of that one "alpha wolf" study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:56 AM |
| 5 | Does the 80/20 or 90/10 rule exist or does it not?Of course it doesn't exist. There's no way the amount of monogamously coupled people would be as high as it is if that rate were true. When I say I find most men not attractive, I don't mean I find most men ugly. I mean I don't look at men very often, because men take eye contact as a sign that I must want their attention, and then they harass me. I'd imagine most women who say that are similar: Not attractive =/= unattractive. It just means they are not in an attracted mood right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:52 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Grab his junk and scream in excitement that I've found the Dragon Balls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 02:40 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Wow, that is the worst attempt at negging I've ever seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 02:39 PM |
| 6 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menSo as long as I keep an open hand I never said anything about open hands alone being the point of focus. The point that makes women see it as less of a threat is that humans are a sexually dimorphic species. Male humans are specifically evolved to hit harder than female humans are capable of hitting. I don't agree with those women, and their mentality didn't pop up out of nowhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 01:42 PM |
| 0 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menTo me, spanking children shows them that I can’t express myself appropriately with words and have to use violence and the size/strength advantage I only have due to age to convey my point. I agree. I wasn't defending the action, I was pointing out why women have a hard time seeing the problem in it. It's for the same reason the vast majority of parents are convinced that spanking is perfectly fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:56 AM |
| 9 | How polarized you are in gender wars? How often do you support "male side" in arguments?Most of my jobs have been women-dominated (Fast Food, Hospitality/Hotel, Group Home worker, and now Case Manager). From women, I have never heard: "I hate all men" Anything to do with wanting men's wallets or finances. Anything about "good men" being absent. Anything about preferring rich men. Anything to do with upgrading a man. Any locker room talk beyond just calling the guy cute or hot. I have like one friend who has chatted about dick size to me, but never complaining about small dicks. She… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:50 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menWhen did I say anything was okay? Although, the use of names makes it pretty clear you're trolling. Civility is a rule on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:08 AM |
| -2 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menYou think it's cool for men to assault each other and adults to assault children? I didn't say any of my examples were cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 02:37 AM |
| 4 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menThat really depends on the friend group. My brother is a marine, and his marine friends would definitely say something way worse and demeaning than that to him, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 12:55 AM |
| 16 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menVerbal abuse is an interesting one: We see men josh each other verbally all of the time, but women just rarely do that to each other, so women don't know how to do it. My brothers jokingly say things to each other and their friends that, if I said to my female friends, would ruin our relationship. I presume a lot of those women legitimately don't understand the harm they are causing men, because learning the difference between a light-hearted insult and a cruel one is just not really something w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 12:49 AM |
| 27 | A lot of women genuinely don't recognize when they're being abusive toward menDo some women not register their own actions as abuse when the target is a man? I think in general women register a slap from a woman to a man in the same way a man registers a shoulder check from a man to another man, or a parent registering a spank on their kid's ass. They all register as more "Making a point" than "Assault". They are all assaulting, but its ability/intention/likeliness to do serious damage is just so low, that it's hard to process it as assault. The harm that a woman can do w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 12:43 AM |
| 8 | How polarized you are in gender wars? How often do you support "male side" in arguments?I can't remember the last time I've actually heard a woman IRL say something misandristic or toxic. I hear it from men often (ex. I used to work at a group home for elderly people, and those old men were sometimes misogynistic as hell, but the old women were rarely misandristic, I hang around gay men and lesbians, and the gay men are misogynistic, but the lesbians are rarely misandristic, etc). If I did hear a woman say it, I'm sure I wouldn't agree, but I just don't hear it. I'd also like to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismTrue, but so was his point there. It was a side step to an overall conversation, which he and I fleshed out going down the comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismThe confusion is that the "Equal Rights For Women" stuff is a simplified, laymen's understanding. That's why I point out elsewhere that people who only use that one don't get anything done. It's not a real rights movement, it's just a catchy phrase that vanishes the moment you think about it (hence my example: No one is calling for the right of prostate exams for women). The Rights Movement part, which is what feminism is, is the part that actually focuses on oppression of the female sex. You ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 08:13 PM |
| 4 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismI shouldn't have to explain the no true scotsman fallacy to you but suffice it to say There is a reason the fallacy is called "No True Scotsman". It comes from this: Person A: "No Scotsman puts sugar on his porridge." Person B: "But my uncle Angus is a Scotsman and he puts sugar on his porridge." Person A: "But no true Scotsman puts sugar on his porridge." No True Scotsman means "Removing someone's claim to an identity based on a trait that has nothing to do with that identity." If you're challe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismOhh, see my bad, I didn't realize fhe majority of feminists were not TRUE Scotsmen If a man was born in Ireland, lived his entire life in Ireland, visited Scotland for a few weeks, and then declared himself the arbiter of Scottish culture, he is objectively not a Scotsman. No True Scotsman is about when the thing has nothing to do with being a Scotsman ("No True Scotsman drinks Irish whiskey!") It doesn't apply when the person is literally not a Scotsman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismBasically, egalitarians invaded feminism and lied to everyone about what feminism is. That's what that big "Liberal Feminism" movement in the west is. There's a reason that the "Feminism is for everyone" people never get anything done: it's because they never read any feminist literature, never center women, never focus on specific issues, etc. The Left knew that "Everyone should be equal" was a problem when it came to tackling the "All Lives Matter" thing. They all knew perfectly how to argue, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:23 PM |
| 7 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismYou've got me mixed up with the wrong person. I said: "It's not an equality movement. It's a movement about freedom from oppression based on the female sex. We're a sexually dimorphic species, so we have different needs based on our sex. No feminist is demanding that proctologists offer prostate exams to women." Egalitarians have invaded feminism and spread the false message that it's about equality. None of them have ever read feminist theory, and their "the goal is equality" thing is useless a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:20 PM |
| 5 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismI did not provide a discussion about modern warfare. You've confused me with the other commentors. My focus is addressing your claim about feminism being an equality movement. Hence why that is the line I quoted in my response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:00 PM |
| 0 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismSo are bullets shot by women less effective that one shot by men? Yeah? Recoil is a thing, which would affect women more than men, since women have less upper-body strength. Why are there female police officers if they are sexually dimorphic and less effective? Because being a police officer isn't just running around punching bad guys. The vast majority of policing work is administrative, wellness checks, conflict de-esculation, or involves driving. (Women are better drivers, hence why insurance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismBut if women's equality movement avoids areas where they have an advantage, it is a failure of the equality movement. It's not an equality movement. It's a movement about freedom from oppression based on the female sex. We're a sexually dimorphic species, so we have different needs based on our sex. No feminist is demanding that proctologists offer prostate exams to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:15 PM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?A few reasons: It's making stupidity attractive. It's on par with saying "I prefer a woman who didn't graduate high school". When you prefer someone who doesn't have knowledge explicitly based on them not having knowledge, it leads to a bit of suspicion on the power dynamic you may be trying to set up. Hence why women are a lot less offended when the man has a low body count himself. If his is high and he wants low, then he's saying "I am highly educated and I want a woman with no education." Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 04:07 PM |
| 2 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.Civility is a rule on this sub. Judging by your comment history (and this and the previous comment), and your starting point of knowing me (I have no clue who you are), you're not here to actually debate. I doubt you would be okay with someone talking to you like you've talked to me. I'm interested in a civilised conversation, and most of your point is responding to other people anyway (like the Ring footage: that was initially OPs claim). So you're not even addressing me. I'm not interested in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:29 AM |
| -1 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.You really should take this up with the people insisting there is Ring camera footage of her entering the building, and that the entire issue is based around that. That'd be an interesting conversation. By your admission, the only thing she is being charged with is trying to provide proof of what she presumed was sexual assault (him being apparently not drunk enough that he could order DoorDash, but simultaneously too drunk to know not to leave the door open and present his naked body to the Das… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:11 AM |
| 0 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsI also don't fantasize about working in a crack warehouse, because even though it's illegal, it's still just working in a warehouse at the end of the day. Which is boring. Tabooness adds to the appeal, but some things are still boring despite being taboo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 12:53 AM |
| 0 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsWhat's interesting about them worth fantasizing? I don't fantasize about working at a warehouse, even though I've never done it. It's just not an interesting fantasy. The second isn't uncommon, though. Femdom/Mommydom is a pretty standard fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 12:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsCan you provide an example that isn't answered by my last comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsBecause fantasising about things you do or can experience every day is boring. We're a social sex species, so of course we think about sex things more than non-sex things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 12:02 AM |
| – | AI Would Choose a Drug-Addicted Mother Over a Stable Father. I Tested It.Scenario One: "Problem with food" is unclear about what the problem is, but makes it very clear there is a problem. The range is too loose. "Spanks" doesn't make it clear that there is a problem. (Spanking is a problem, to be clear, but given how divided laymen are, I could see it being easy for an AI bot to side with "spanking is not a problem" in this situation. So: Man with confirmed problem, vs woman with no confirmed problem. Scenario Two: No information is given about the father. The only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 10:17 PM |
| 2 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.The original video was not blurred Source? Not of the video itself of course, but I've only ever seen the censored one on TikTok, since you can't post porn on TikTok. She posted the video online then got banned by DoorDash for sharing personal information and content of their customers online — you can find their statement online going into detail They being DoorDash? They have just as much reason to insist that order as she does to insist the other order. Semantics in this case, but sure It's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:35 PM |
| 3 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.you still cant whip out your phone and record them nude with their full name, address and post it online. She did censor his nudity even in her video. From what I understand, she initially just shared the video with DoorDash to report him, then she got banned from DoorDash, then she shared the censored video publicly to shame DoorDash. That leads to another issue, though: If she doesn't share evidence, she's immediately brushed off as a liar. If she does share evidence, she's immediately brushed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsThe fact that you have that "preference" and are still advocating for men to stop having any sexual desires I answered this already: "I'm poly, though, so for me, the concept of my man being attracted to another actual real woman doesn't bother me. I'm speaking for the monogamous women." And that "preference" I have, is "I prefer my husband not watch hours of an actual woman actually get raped and abused". My personal preference has nothing to do with his sexual desires and everything to do with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 09:05 PM |
| 2 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.That's fair. But it still backs up my original point: when she first posted, people were jumping to attack her, with debates on both sides. Now, with only one very unclear police statement to go off of, people are immediately jumping on her, women in general, and the entire Me Too movement. It really goes to show that men as a collective gain way more for calling a woman a liar than any individual woman gains from saying anything, truth or lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.The police obtained ring camera footage that hasn’t been released online yet How do we know this is true? I see articles claiming it, but what is the source those articles used? AI is also nowhere near advance enough to pass off as credible evidence lol I'll go back and dig up the clips in the thread I was discussing it in previously. It would have been super easy to fake, as it was super grainy and like 5 seconds long. Edit: I can't find the Ring footage. Which is even more suspicious, that eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsAnd if women see their man getting off to a [an actual human being who is presenting herself for the man to get off to]. FTFY. Again, she's upset because her husband is getting sexual gratification from another woman. He has excuses (he's not actually talking to this woman, etc), but still, the issue wives have is the fact that her husband wants sexual gratification from another human woman who exists. [2nd paragraph] I am aware. I'm not generally one of the women who complains, although I prefe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:01 PM |
| 7 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”.Turns out she lied about it, and actually opened the man’s door to record him in order to gain sympathy This is highly debatable. The Ring doorbell footage looks fake as hell (shows a different house exterior than what hers shows, only shows her going in and cuts off, doesn't show its angle of her filming her video, her video shows an open space where the Ring camera would be at, etc). In another thread on another sub I was on, every one who pointed those out were viciously attacked more than I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 07:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsThere is a difference when it's a real person on the other end of that screen. The reason the man never asks if he's devil-enough is because he and she both know that him being a devil is impossible. I never question if my GTA loving boyfriend actually wants to run people over in his car, because he's only running over fake characters, not watching hours and hours and hours of real people being violently run over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 07:36 PM |
| 7 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsBecause fantasizing about against the status quo provides a different perspective from that of your day to day life. That's also why crime-committing games like Grand Theft Auto and Payday are so popular, and why kids are obsessed with stories like Warrior Cats and Wings of Fire and whatnot. I have to be a human every day. I have to follow laws every day. The only sex I can experience that isn't dangerous or traumatic is consensual sex. When we fantasize, we want the fantasy world to include som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | It's not going to get betterBirth rates are going to get better. Their current decrease is a part of that: Birth rates shouldn't be as high as they are. We don't need this many people. The birth rate today being lower than it was 50 years ago is a good thing (the "better" thing), because the birth rate 50 years ago was a bad thing. People act like birth rates being low means we're going to go extinct. It's not, it just means our overall population will reduce a bit to more reasonable numbers, and then will stabilise again.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 01:58 PM |
| 9 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?The usual cliche is that men don't want monogamy. They want open or "open" relationships, as in "I want to have at least one woman that I claim as mine, but I also want access to other women when I'm in the mood for that". For some men, that's cheating or prostitutes, and for the vast majority of men, it's pornography. One of my FWBs has a wife and kids (he's not cheating, it's a consensual open relationship. I'm friends with her, and she has a boyfriend on the side as well), and he told me that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 03:42 PM |
| – | Is the idea of "the one" a harmful narrative in dating and relationships?I think it causes problems, yeah. Beyond the ones you stated, I see issues with: Change: We change as we grow. Sometimes, we change in ways that make us more compatible, and sometimes not. How many of the friends you had 10 years ago do you still have today? Someone could be "The One" for one period of your life, but not the following period. Nature: Lifelong monogamy is basically nonexistent in mammals that live longer than 20 years. I'm not really sure why we're obsessed with the idea of being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Is promiscuity and casual sex just the norm with women nowadays?We're a social sex species. If you don't explicitly outlaw social sex, then people will have social sex. And if you do explicitly outlaw it, people will still do it. It's just in our nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a bi man?I prefer bi men to straight men. A man who's been harassed by men knows what it's like to be harassed by men and is less likely to do it to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 02:06 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Gotten into coding. My little brother was into Scratch. I should have gotten into that when I was his age, and moved up from there like he did. I don't want a career in coding, but being able to understand the basics goes a long way, and I have no attention span for trying to learn it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 01:53 PM |
| – | How is sex with an ugly male provider?Maybe she's into that, idk. Or they just do it with the lights off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 06:55 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys?What kind of harm can an eating disorder cause to those around them? Some examples Stealing food from other people. The disordered person destroying other people's food so the disordered person doesn't feel tempted to eat it. Expressing paranoia about food or weight around their children, which will cause the children to develop the same paranoia (ex. discussing how disgusting and fat they feel, even when they are a healthy weight, in front of their kids, causing the kids to develop an internal … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 05:50 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys?Dude, I don't care about your personal lifestyle. I'm not trying to date you. If the diet in question is directly caused by or directly causes serious stress to the dieting person and people around them, then it would be an eating disorder. I don't generally date people who have serious disorders like that that may harm me. That's it. Whether your personal diet falls into that category is your business, not mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 05:35 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys?A disorder refers to a consistent neurological, emotional, or behavioural state that directly negatively affects the person and the people around them, so if your very controlled diet is directly caused by or directly causes serious stress to you and people around you, then it would be an eating disorder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 04:42 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys?That's a conversation you can take up with the psychology community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 11:46 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of dating or having relationships with muscular guys?For example bodybuilders on off season or GYM guys who take steroids or are natural but has been weightlifting for several years Drug abusers is a no. Those guys tend to have pretty severe eating disorders, which is a no. Gym addiction is the most common type of male eating disorder iirc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What qualities do you look for in men that you don't consider "bare minimum"?Knowledge of some of the fandoms I'm in. Artistic skills. (Appreciates are is a bare minimum, can make it himself is beyond that minimum). Good with kids (I'm not hard pressed about having kids, but I'm definitely more likely to have them with a guy who is good with kids). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 10:48 AM |
| 2 | When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment.There are different ways to "ask for help". For doing a task, he feels unmanly if he looks like he can't do the task. I agree that men will not say "Can you help me?" For a mental health issue, he's not asking for help explicitly, but he is expecting it, and will make a big stink if it isn't handed to him. He won't say "Can you help me?" But he will act more and more obnoxious until you just step in and help him. For the men I've worked with, anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 10:11 PM |
| 2 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Then he would only be having sex with young women. Dating is when it's beyond just attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 08:41 PM |
| 3 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.My point is that this really has nothing to do with whether a couple treats each other with mutual respect. You can be 20 years older than your partner and choose to treat them respectfully from date #1. It doesn't actually require growing together. Hence my paragraph's difference between Man 2 and Man 3. Man 2 happened into it, Man 3 only wants a woman 30 years younger than him. His primary goal is a woman who is not his equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Or we're only talking about the men who do it exclusively. If most men don't apply to the conversation, that's fine. The conversation isn't about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 07:54 PM |
| 4 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Wanting something and getting it is failure? No, your quote was "wanting something and not trying to get it." I mean, while we're stereotyping age-gap relationships, let's not forget that same-age relationships between young people also have a well-earned reputation for being messy. So? I said nothing about relationships being immature in general. My point was a mature, developed person who intentionally wants someone who is immature and not developed, so rather than develop more with her, he ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 07:42 PM |
| 8 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Did you mean this question to OP? I'm confused. I stated that I don't find the ability relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 06:54 PM |
| 8 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.If he's Man #3, then his ability is irrelevant, so I don't think about his ability. Ability is only relevant to Man #2. He is Man #3 (Regardless of his ability, he only wants younger women). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 06:39 PM |
| 11 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.He would be Man #3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 06:29 PM |
| 11 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.particularly when it comes to very long-term couples, who may have gradually adopted "mature" standards for their behavior regardless of whether or not this reflects any sense of inner happiness. That's the point. A long-term same-age couple has the ability to grow that bond. They might fail to, but they have the ability. A couple where one party is already established middle-aged, and the other party has barely been an independent adult for very long, has way, way less of that ability. Cowardly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 06:28 PM |
| 12 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.That's the difference between Man #2 and Man #3 in my scenario. I've met ones who happened not to be dating a woman his age, but had nothing against dating them if the option was available. They would be Man #2. And I've met the ones who were exclusively into my age, and wouldn't take a woman his age even if it was an option. They acted like Man #3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 06:16 PM |
| 8 | When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment.If I'm experiencing acute emotional distress that I can't handle on my own, the last thing on my mind is whether I'm expressing emotions in a way that she finds palatable. I'm sure it depends on the person, but this is honestly one of the first things on my mind when I am experiencing acute emotional distress. I'm terrified of being a burden, so the idea that other people are affected by my actions is horrifying to me. My tics making people think I'm on drugs and being afraid of me, my panic att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 03:53 PM |
| 176 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Y'all do realise that younger women have this complaint as well, right? I'm in my mid 20s. I get plenty of male attention. I would presume that I am pretty attractive. I've seen the way 50 year old men with 50 year old women partners treat their partners. I see the mutual respect. I've seen the way 50 year old men who happen to be into me, but are not exclusively into women my age, treat me. They tend to be more respectful, treating me more like a person. I've seen the way 50 year old men who ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 03:11 PM |
| – | why am I blocked by every single guy? 20FYour entire comment history is only three things: Debating in this sub Asking for Dating Advice Talking about your severe mental health problems. If I had to guess, it'd be you doing the third one during dates. Early dates shouldn't be big and heavy. On dates that I've been on, if the other person didn't like me, they just ghosted me, not full on blocked me. If you're getting blocked, then you're probably doing or saying something very obnoxious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 12:41 PM |
| 6 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare stateGreat, so you're pro child welfare, and anti lazy moms. And I am pro military protection and anti soldiers raping foreign women. And you agree that it's our job to pay taxes and let the elected officials deal with sorting out the two military options, so therefore, it's the same for the two parenting options. There is no evolutionary reason for me to do so. So many commentors, myself included, have repeatedly pointed out to you why you benefit from society having a next generation, which you hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 02:51 AM |
| 5 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare stateSure, we elect skilled officials to make this decision, but in general militaries are essential. Exactly, we elect skilled officials to make this decision, because each of us individual people aren't personally looking over each case. I can't declare that "Military funding just incentivises shipping men out to poor countries to rape women, and that's the only/primary purpose of it", even though that is one of the things that can and does occur at some rate. Child welfare helps all kids, whether … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 02:38 AM |
| 7 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare stateIn general, militaries exist to protect the nations which they serve You pretty much proved my point there. In general, militaries exist to protect the nation, but we don't immediately discredit the military and throw it away the minute it happens to do something that does nothing to protect us. We don't weigh all of the "waste of time" versus "actually did something useful" before we hand it general funding. You don't tell the military "You can ONLY use this tax money to support the specific dr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare stateYou pay veterans to protect the country. My money is going to pay for that veteran regardless of if he did nothing except bomb and rape a bunch of innocent women in a far country. The majority of veterans alive today have done absolutely nothing to protect me. Yet, my taxes should still pay for the PTSD they got from watching their friends accidentally step on his own landmine. I am not being cucked by the state out of my own volition. You can leave the state at any time. If you don't want to pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 02:04 AM |
| 7 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare stateMen can opt out of the male role in reproduction (ejaculation). Why would it be fair for him to opt out of his role in reproduction and her role in reproduction (gestation)? Unless you think she should be allowed to force his ejaculation against his will. Or, I guess the comparison would be something like her physically grabbing his genitals right before he ejaculates against his will and forcefully stopping him from doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare stateYou going to read my comment? I answered those questions in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 01:37 AM |
| 4 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare stateSafe haven laws are gender neutral. Basically, each party has the right to abort his or her biological role in reproduction. Once both has chosen to complete their individual role (ejaculation for him, gestation and birth for her), then both will have to decide together to abandon it to the state or have it be both of their responsibility. Their rights are equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 01:32 AM |
| 13 | Most feminists say they want equal rights, but also vote for the welfare stateMost people would define feminism as "equal rights for men and for women". And those people are wrong. Egalitarianism or humanism is the "equal rights" one. Egalitarians invaded feminism. Feminism is "Freedom of women from oppression based on their female sex." The people actually versed in feminism with actual clear goals are the people who understand that. Effective rights movements aren't about making everyone equal, they are about specific issues faced by that specific group. The average sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 01:28 AM |
| 10 | Do most guys never experience the "talk" with their parents about relationships?I literally never had a talk with my father about relationships. My mother told me about hymens, since she believes in that, and condom usage and the religious stuff, but my father has never given me any advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 08:44 PM |
| 2 | The hatred for womens romance novels is insanely stupid and hypocritical.That's the one, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | The hatred for womens romance novels is insanely stupid and hypocritical.Very well, what is your source for how many books labelled "romance" have plots that are only about sex specifically and have no/few other main plot themes (such as, for example, romance), versus books labelled "romance" that may have sex as one of, but not the only theme? I can't address your claim until you back your claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 04:57 PM |
| 2 | The hatred for womens romance novels is insanely stupid and hypocritical.How many scenes in an average romance book is explicit, compared to how many are not explicit? Where is your source? And what ratio would you consider "Plot with some sex" versus "Sex with some plot"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 04:10 PM |
| 0 | The hatred for womens romance novels is insanely stupid and hypocritical.They're not, though. The average person can basically only name 50SOG, or maybe that male stripper movie I can't remember the name of. Like, those two are basically the only ones who became famous. Meanwhile, porn for men is so commonplace that we barely notice it anymore. There is a running joke in the horror community about how often women are naked or killed in sexualised ways in horror movies, Game of Thrones ran for 8 seasons and like 1/4th of it was just sexy/naked women (very rarely were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:32 PM |
| 10 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?You have yet to explain why you didn't make "Why do men hit on women?" a Question for Men. Most of the women are calling you out as well. Edit: Rather than actually answer the question, the dude blocked me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 04:17 AM |
| 11 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?That wasn't the OP question. The OP question was why men in general hit on me. To answer that as a woman, I'd have to know why all/most of the men who hit on me do it, not just the specific ones who ended up with me. Meanwhile, to answer that as a man, he'd have to just answer why he specifically did it. It's nonsensical to ask a woman a question an answer she couldn't know. I have no clue why 90% of the men who hit on me do it. I'm not in their head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:50 AM |
| 11 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?That doesn't make this a reasonable question for women. You should be asking "What draws men to women" to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:41 AM |
| 13 | Other than the obvious "sex" aspect, why do men hit on you / approach you trying to get to know you?Why would you ask women what draws men to us? We don't know what's in men's heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Do women realize that many adult men just don't have people they consider friends?Rule #2 and #3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 10:58 PM |
| 5 | Do women realize that many adult men just don't have people they consider friends?The point is not to enjoy the thing, the point is to spend time around other people in a setting where you have something to focus on other than the specific person. For example, you go to the crafting event because doing something with your hands is physically and mentally good for you. You can use the crafting theme to launch into conversation with other people. Having a craft to think about puts you and them at ease, and makes you both much less anxious about your chatter. The more you go and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Do women realize that many adult men just don't have people they consider friends?Says the one afflicted by the "male loneliness epidemic". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Why would single and childless women be happier and live longer than married women and those in relationships and those with children?Well, yeah, when there is a whole other person in your house to call the ambulance and perform CPR when you have a heart attack, then you're more likely to not die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Do women realize that many adult men just don't have people they consider friends?Making friends as an adult is damn near impossible I provided some examples on how to make new friends: My local library has lots of free adults events, like book club, writing group, craft and chill, board games, etc. Local rec centers often host pick-up games and sports. Local park centers often have free or cheap events for adults as well, like nature walks, crafting events, educational events, etc. If you're in a country that has any of these available, try them. And don't just stop attendin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:22 PM |
| 7 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?I explicitly said "I don't think most men are unattractive" My entire comment was literally that I don't know how many men are attractive, because I'm not looking at them. Did you mean to respond to someone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?I'm Bisexual, yeah. Not really relevant to the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys think most men are ugly/unattractive?I don't think most men are unattractive, but I do think most women are attractive. I don't really look at men that much (mostly because it seems to draw their attention and make them think I'm hitting on them), so I don't consider the rate of attractive to neutral to ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?A white blonde woman from a upper middle class family or a brown man from a poor family? Already answered this to someone else: "Oppression is intersectional. It's not a single number, where, for example, a black lesbian woman is More/Less Oppressed tm than a disabled hispanic bisexual man and therefore has a higher Oppressed tm score. I agree, the Oppression Olympics thing is dumb. Each axis is a separate thing. A separate conversation. That's why we can't talk about race in this subreddit: the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:39 PM |
| 59 | Do women realize that many adult men just don't have people they consider friends?Of course we do. We know it every time men brag about how they could spend an hour car ride with their "bro" and not learn a single thing about him that entire time. Or when we go out to local free crafting or book club events at the library and see a room full of women. Or when men talk about "male loneliness epidemic" and solely think the solution is for women to touch his penis. We also know that humans are a social species, and there is nothing really stopping you from learning how to make f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:13 PM |
| 22 | Why would single and childless women be happier and live longer than married women and those in relationships and those with children?It just depends on the woman and situation. I used to work in a group home for people who were elderly, but had a specific type of disorder that normal senior care homes don't take. Some of our women were as follows: No kids, close relationship with her sister, couldn't be happier in her old age. No kids, close relationship with her sister and mother, active in the community, couldn't be happier in her old age. Had a daughter who died in an accident. Miserable and depressed (her daughter died fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:09 PM |
| 7 | Do you believe relationships are riskier for men or women?Physically riskier for women, financially/legally riskier for men. Emotional/social risk depends on the individual. I'd kinda agree with this, although the only reason it's financially/legally riskier for men is because of aggressive fighting by feminists to lower the risks to women that benefitted men, and has only been the case for the past 50 years or so. Likewise, the risk to men is deteriorating rapidly, since alimony and child custody are way more equal now than they used to be/not as much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?If I were from the same culture as her, then that argument could not definitively be made You already said you don't, so that's redundant, and I already answered that. I have more in common with an Indian woman than you would if you were Indian, because, while I've never been shoved into a menstrual hut, I understand the basis of being shamed and forced to hide my menstruation. You have never and will never have to think about your menstruation. A western woman probably is in a much better place… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?Different women are different categories. Based on their differences, but they are all still women. That's the point. I don't understand all of the woman things she experiences, but I do understand the core of both she and I have been valued by our having uteruses, both she and I lack proper medical studies on our female bodies, both she and I have the social pressure of carrying the brunt of the responsibility for contraception, both she and I have the problem that safety equipment sizing is ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:49 AM |
| 4 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.So many people asked this XD It's the logical solution, but it doesn't fit OP's narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:38 AM |
| 8 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.Lol, why would you ask a Question For Women post with such dishonesty? "Either you answer exactly how I want you to, or you're lying." The majority of people who said yes made it very clear that they are dating someone who is fine with it (either an open relationship, or just mostly mono but fine with the specific parameters). You refuse to acknowledge the fact that it's not cheating if you and your partner are okay with it. Literally no woman responded "I would sneak behind my partner's back an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.What exactly is the point of the line of questions? If there is a specific end point you're trying to get, please get to it, rather than asking one question at a time. It's suspicious that you're only questioning people who didn't say neither. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:27 AM |
| 6 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.For what? Given that I wouldn't be dating a guy who would feel bad about me sleeping with other people (especially if he gets $5 Million out of it), and the selection was made by a fair coin flip, who's getting hurt? I mean, I guess I'd feel a little bad that my partner didn't get to bang a hot woman too, thanks to your "we don't both get to do it" rule. It ain't as fun if it's just me having fun. But the coin flip is to blame for that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.Aww, you're no fun. I'd probably just flip a coin, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?We can’t really talk about race here, but aren’t minority men of an oppressed class? Yes, a black man in USA is oppressed on the axis of race, but not on the axis of sex. For example, black men oppress black women in their own communities (such as obsessing over rappers who rap about raping and beating women, or abandoning the mothers of their kids in high numbers), and back during slavery times, slave owners knew the difference between black women and black men, since they knew which ones to ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:22 PM |
| 8 | What is emotional labor, really?So, that answers your previous question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:07 PM |
| 19 | What is emotional labor, really?And most of what you’re describing sounds like basic life management. If you’re single, you’d still be doing those things for yourself. Yes, and I'm describing things I've seen about an entire adult, the man, not doing them for himself, and another entire adult, the woman, doing all of them for herself and for himself. And the man claiming that she's not doing enough, because he's convinced she's doing only like 10% of hiding the stress from him, while she's actually doing 10x as much that he is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:42 PM |
| 7 | What is emotional labor, really?Where in my response did I say I was married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:41 PM |
| 14 | What is emotional labor, really?Agreed, but if women started actually acknowledging the unfair share of emotional load, women would never marry at all. Then, there is the religious or childhood grooming aspect, that teaches that a woman who doesn't do all of this for her husband ranges from worthy of burning in hell, to just generally worthless as a human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:03 PM |
| 15 | What is emotional labor, really?Yeah, being treated like a computer, an emotional punching bag, his nanny, his maid, and all of that while tricking him into thinking that you're not stressed or overwhelmed at all, takes an emotional toll. Then you tried to switch to a long ramble about whataboutism. Your question was where the emotional aspect was in my list. That's what we're discussing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Do women generally prefer to date someone who is to the right of them on the political spectrum?Men are just going to be to the right of me regardless. As one feminist thinker put it: "men are liberal from the waist up". The left is about uplifting the oppressed classes, and as an oppressor class, men will just never really be able to have see liberalism the same way as women do, likewise with any other oppressor/oppressed group. That doesn't mean all women are left: of course not. Most are likely either center or right (there are two ways to fight oppression: be a "pick-me" and turn on yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 04:52 PM |
| 16 | What is emotional labor, really?I don't know any men who do any of these things, or at least never to the extent that their wives/girlfriends do. The emotional aspects are, in order: Worrying (about his health), being practised in processing remembering lots of little things, keeping the peace (being more worried about him being stressed about seeing her workload than her workload), keeping track of and assuming responsibility for his overwhelm (while not keeping track of her own), reducing aggression and remaining calm and fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapBisexual women have the highest rate of being domestically abused than any other sexuality/sex combo. (There is a myth that it's lesbians by other lesbians. No, it's bi women by men). Bi women have the worst mental health if I recall as well. Straight men fetishize us because they think our love for women is just something that exists to get their dicks hard. Lesbians hate us because they think our love for women is just us lying to get men's dicks hard. Straight women hate bi men because they t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 02:31 PM |
| 19 | What is emotional labor, really?Some things I consider emotional labour: Doing the planning for the future. He eats whatever he wants, and lets me do all of the worrying about his weight and pushing him to exercise. My father is a diabetic, and literally does nothing to take care of his health. My mother has to do all of his blood sugar monitoring, give him his insulin, plan his meals, etc. He is literally at risk of dying, and doesn't care. (Or, he feels bad, I guess, but not enough to actually take any charge.) Keeping track… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 02:15 PM |
| 33 | Would you cheat for $10 million dollars; let your bf/husband cheat for $10 million; or neither.I mean, if I'm letting him do it, it's not cheating. Can we both do it and both get 10$million? I know you said that we can't "even the score", but like it's not evening the score, we're just both going for it. Sucks that we can't be open relationship after we get the money, though. Is there like a timeframe until we're allowed to be open again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:57 PM |
| 3 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menAnd that's not to mention that he can't simply find another woman if things don't work out with this one, because he's unattractive Yeah, that's the point. He's afraid that if she leaves him, he will never get another girl. So he manipulates her into never leaving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:17 PM |
| 3 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menSince when attractive men being abusive is perceived as not as bad as ugly men being abusive I didn't say the abuse specifically is not as bad. Also, this is why I am using "incompatible": this isn't just about abuse. I used that as an example, not the be-all, end-all. Okay, let's try an analogy. I want to get a cat. I love to cuddle, so I want a cuddly cat (this will represent good behaviour). Also, I don't like how flat-faced cats look. I prefer a full, more standard muzzle. (This will represe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 07:11 PM |
| 5 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menYou never talked about compatibility in the first comment. I did that to help you be less confused about the point I am making. "Bad" is too loose of a term and confused you from my point, so "compatible" makes it more clear for you. Try reading and responding to the my previous comment with that in mind, and see if it makes more sense there (not trying to sound flippant, but don't know how best to say that, sorry). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 06:21 PM |
| 1 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menIt’s so rare for an attractive woman to give some ugly dudes a chance That's such an intentionally loose claim that it's useless to the conversation. That use of "Some" means that you can define the parameters however you want that's convenient to you. And I didn't say anything about the attractiveness of the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 06:00 PM |
| 5 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menThe problem is the conflation of "bad" here. Both men can be morally incompatible. Ugly men are [presumed for this conversation] men who are aesthetically incompatible. A good ugly man is morally compatible, aesthetically incompatible. A bad ugly man is morally incompatible, aesthetically incompatible. A good pretty man is morally compatible, aesthetically compatible. A bad pretty man is morally incompatible, aesthetically compatible. If you have one of each man, you have a 1 in 4 chance of gett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:55 PM |
| 3 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menI don't see your logic. My point was that if you are seeking a partner, and attractiveness only greatly correlates with attractiveness, not really much else about the guy, then there is no point in sacrificing attractiveness. Doing so won't greatly boost your numbers in other satisfaction departments, if at all. You can find a guy who makes you happy. It's not more likely than not that the guy in question is unattractive to you. So, on your quest for your couple, don't turn down the hot guy just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:25 PM |
| 27 | "Women want to be loved not lusted over" yet they keep pitching out for the top % of menAn attractive man can be shallow. So can an ugly man. An attractive man can be deep. So can an ugly man. An attractive man can abuse his woman because "he can just get another one". An ugly man can abuse his woman because he wants to break her spirit and believe that she doesn't deserve any better than him. Getting an ugly man doesn't guarantee deepness, kindness, or love, so why settle for a man she's not attracted to? Edit: Circlejerking is against the rules of this sub. A bunch of guys in thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:52 PM |
| 9 | You have the chance to make one thing go internationally viral for the opposite sex. What do you choose?I would push memes of men being responsible for caring about men, such as getting degrees in mental health care: counseling, therapy, psychiatry, etc, and doing so out of an honest want to care about other men. Basically, memes about shaming men's self-harm and encouraging men's self-care. (REAL self-care). Men who work mental health and nursing jobs would have memes praising him, especially if he makes sure to protect his female colleagues from male client abuse, and works to help his male clie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itwhich is why they’re protected and compensated on different scales of magnitude. Which is irrelevant to my point. My point was just the fact that they're not comparable. That utilizing the only real method by which one can legally and morally have biological offspring as a single man with no custody issues is shameful? I did not contribute a moral argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itWanting to be a single father is not indicative of being a bad person. Strawman. My claim wasn't "Wanting to be a single father is bad". It's "Sperm donation and Surrogacy aren't comparable, because there are too many differences between them. Having no complaints with Sperm Banks and having complaints with Surrogacy is therefore not contradictory/Double standards". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itLiterally all of those are covered through any reasonable surrogacy contract. Except it's not. There are plenty of cases of the parents treating the surrogate like garbage, abandoning the baby, or people who are convicted sex offenders getting surrogate kids (since the adoption industry has balances in place to stop that, but surrogacy does not). The surrogacy industry is too unstable and too reliant on poor, desperate women who can't afford the court fees of chasing down the abandoning parents,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:19 PM |
| 20 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itWhile I don't think a man should be shamed for adopting, the conception comparison (sperm bank vs surrogate) isn't similar. Getting sperm from a sperm bank is way different from hiring a woman for 9 months to go through pregnancy and birthing for you. There is often criticism about risks such as the surrogation payment not covering pregnancy costs, what would happen if the fetus is still born or disabled or the father changes his mind, if there are any neurological harms to woman or baby from ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven falseWe can't really help that the fear of being disbelieved is a factor, for ex. The way to treat the issue is described in the second study. Also, as the last study points out, we don't even have statistics on how many allegations are false, so by definition, we wouldn't have statistics on how many "the falsified allegation was false" there are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven falseHere's an article that talks about it, although this article is about domestic abuse, the events still apply [Here's one that talks about sexual abuse recantations It notes, quote: The majority of adult sexual assault survivors do not report the crime to police. Studies have found non-reporting rates of ranging from 54% to 98% (Feldhaus et al., 2000; Jones et al., 2009; Langerdorfer-Magruder, 2016; Thompson et al., 2007). The reasons for not reporting vary from person to person and include: expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven falseHow can someone claim to be an advocate for victims while defending or staying silent when an allegation turns out to be false? Proving a claim false is a tricky one, because then you have to figure out if the "proof of the claim being false" is itself a false claim. People who report sexual abuse crimes get bullied and harassed by the community and by the police to whom they reported, and are forced to relive the trauma over and over again. Often, they will recant to get out of that pain, or wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 12:06 PM |
| 18 | Q4W: Why do you think being a hive mind is a bad thing?There are remarkable creatures in nature that operate in a hive mind Living in a hive and being hive-minded are two different things. Hive-minded usually refers to a fictional species that shares the same brain, like the Borg. It's not a bad thing to call women hive-minded, it's a stupid thing. We literally do not all have the same brain. Even if you're going the bee or ant angle: those are beings that do not have higher conscious. If you put death pheromones on a living ant, it will walk to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 10:46 PM |
| 0 | What do women like about going out on a date?Getting to know the person, doing something with them, getting out of the house in general, being a member of a social species, etc. What I'm looking for is what in the whole process do you get out of it? It's literally that. The whole process. The whole process is a variant of social and emotional connection, which produces oxytocin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 08:48 PM |
| 12 | What is your probabilities?Impossible to tell, and useless anyway. I will either find a good partner, or I won't. Either way, I can make a satisfactory life for myself. Your example doesn't make any sense. I don't have any people lined up for me. I'm either interested in them, and they've turned me down, which is why I'm not currently dating them, or I'm not interested in them/we're not compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 08:45 PM |
| 6 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themIts not funny to make women uncomfortable Boys have snapped my bra straps, broken or done sexual things to my toys in front of me just to get a reaction out of me, flashed me, and asked about my pubic hair status in the middle of my work day and in front of the children with whom I was working. Men have followed me around a club silently staring at me, followed me around a grocery store silently staring at me, followed me in his car for miles while I was walking, and for that last one, after I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Is there less of a worry of the provider being exploited when it comes to femdom sex-work?Sure, but right off the bat you admit that you're debating in bad faith, since you weren't looking for a debate, and I didn't give a debate. Not to mention that I've debated you before, at the end of which you revealed you had been debating in bad faith the entire time. If you had made this a debate post, I wouldn't have responded because I know you're not an honest debater. I only answered because I expected you to be civil and not try to trick a debate out. Since you're not doing that, I will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Is there less of a worry of the provider being exploited when it comes to femdom sex-work?Ok I'll try to debate this seriously This is a Q4W post, not a debate post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 11:42 AM |
| 8 | Do women like sober casual sex?I have plenty of sober casual sex. I'd presume that most sex women do is sober, solely because sex is free and alcohol is not. if you can't do casual sex without alcohol then you never wanted it at all. Tbf, being tipsy is just a horniness trigger for some people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:31 PM |
| 3 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themYes it’s called getting teased and it’s a way men flirt with women. Non-malicious. Just boys who don’t know how to express their feelings (which is hardly surprising). Little boys bully... girls they like Whoop, there it is. This is exactly why men don't grow out of it. A girl complains about a boy snapping her bra (as in, putting his hands on her and grabbing her underwear), and she's told that "boys will be boys" and "he just likes you". You're literally proving your own case wrong, by giving … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:39 PM |
| 3 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.You should probably use actual sources. The first is just a woman rambling (I would try to summarize her points, but honestly, I have no clue what she's saying). The second is just a woman saying she doesn't like guys in dresses, not specifically about her not liking men being feminine in general, and then it ends with her saying she learned to love it after she unpacked her understanding of masculinity, and the third is a rambly article behind a paywall. You literally just picked three ragebait… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:36 PM |
| 5 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themMen go out of their way to bother women and girls all of the time. I have brothers. They had male friends. I was around boys in classes. I know firsthand. My brothers harass me in non-sexual ways. The other boys harassed me in non-sexual ways until they hit puberty, and suddenly they were harassing me with the same look in their eyes, except now it was sexual. And men have that same look as they do the same thing. It's pretty well-known that little boys especially bully little girls explicitly b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:01 PM |
| 7 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themWhy would a dude risk hitting on a young girl just to disturb her? Another guy in the comments already answered that from his perspective: Men perceive attractive women as some sort of "threat" to his power, so they do it to "humble" her. Basically, he's doing a thing he knows she doesn't want him to do and forcing her to pay attention to him and think about his attraction to her. Older men aren't stupid. They know their comments are unwarranted and make her feel uncomfortable. Just like a littl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:23 PM |
| 6 | If you could ask your partner one question and guarantee a truthful response, what would you ask?Ooh, this is a good one. I'd do something along this line as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:20 PM |
| 2 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themWhat makes you say that? Basically, the information on his initial arrest was super suspect. I'd have to go back and look over those conversations from back in January, but if I recall, it was things like: A note admitting to the crime was found in his backpack, but uses specific wording that primarily only cops would use and was unfamiliar with his usual writing style. The killer intentionally left his backpack and weapon near the scene of the crime as a message, but Luigi was caught by identif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:16 PM |
| 20 | What piss you or please you the most about dating and male-female dynamics?I don't like that women are not taught to pursue/how to pursue. It is so hard as a female to get a girlfriend, because we get stuck in a loop of waiting for the other to pursue XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 12:55 PM |
| 14 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themI never really thought of it that way, that's a good point. The reason old, geriatric men hit on teenage me was because they felt slighted and wronged by this little me just existing. He knows he has the power to hurt or humiliate me with the unearned status of his sex, but me just existing made him feel threatened and like he needed to lash out. It's an especially good analogy, since Luigi Mangione didn't even do anything. He's just some guy that got framed. So, his name is literally a threat t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 12:45 PM |
| 23 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themGeriatric men don't hit on 20-year-olds because they think the 20 year old wants them. Geriatric men hit on 20-year-olds because they find it funny to make 20-year-old women uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 12:02 PM |
| 6 | men and women are exactly the sameWe're a sexually dimorphic species, so no, we're not the same. No matter what you do, a male human will never see past his male socialization and his role in reproduction (as the one who spreads genetic diversity), and a female human will never see past her female socialization and her female role in reproduction (as the one who is at least initially the primary caretaker for the child). There are similar patterns we see with animals who are like us, both on the genus level and the sapience leve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather date an NBA player or a nerdy tech geek?Would you rather date an NBA player or a nerdy tech geek? Depends on the player and the geek? You'd need to provide more information. Main athletes I wouldn't date are the ones from concussion/violence sports, like football, boxing, etc. I wouldn't marry or hook up with a person with brain damage who does violence as a career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?"Not sure if you're even dating" implies that I can't pick 1, because he's not interested in being my partner. (The title question says "partner", not just FWB). If I actually have assurance that we're in a relationship, and he's honest about his other endeavours (I don't mind poly/open), and he always uses protection with them, then he's fine. 2 is out due to the "stubbornly thinks I'm a virgin". The rest of the points are decent, but I'd be open about not being a virgin, so that means he is ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:38 PM |
| 12 | Does statistics matter in dating?Why would they? Being single is also an option. I run in the kink community, and people my age (20s) who are in the kink community tend to be rather bad with money/mentally unstable. I am the rare few of young adult kinksters who is stable, career, renting independently, etc, and happen to be a kinkster. Which means I know people like me exist. It's hard to find people like me, but I won't settle for someone unstable or someone who is anti-kink, when I know a stable person exists, and just stayi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?Yeah, that's why I just said it's a red flag, not a deal breaker. Although, if he's like that second example, that definitely screams "manchild that lives with mom because he can't be bothered to do his own cooking and cleaning". If you've got that much money saved up and have absolutely no interest in independence, that's concerning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?"Unreasonable" and "Red Flag" are two different things. I don't think finding ways to save money is unreasonable in and of itself, and that is a logical way to save money. By "red flag", I mean it would make me more suspicious and observant of his behaviour to make sure that when he says he is just planning for the future, he's being honest, and not just secretly planless and making excuses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?"Own", no. "At least have his own apartment and pay his own rent (with or without roommates)", depends on age and circumstance. If he has a good reason to still be with his parents in his 30s and not paying any rent or anything (ex. A parent is sick and he is helping care for them, he honestly just had a streak of really bad luck, etc), that's fine. In his 30s and renting an apartment with a roommate is fine. Rent's pricey nowadays. But if he's in his 30s and doesn't pay his own rent/bills, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 12:22 AM |
| 3 | If you became the opposite gender, what would you want to look like, what sort of life career and relationships would you pursue?Can't get pregnant, and gay bathhouse-type culture looks interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Is there less of a worry of the provider being exploited when it comes to femdom sex-work?I'm not sure what this comment is intended to contribute to the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 06:13 PM |
| 3 | If you became the opposite gender, what would you want to look like, what sort of life career and relationships would you pursue?ENORMOUS. Like The Mountain. 6'9 and 450 pounds. RIP your knees and back! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formYou brought an argument to me. Once again, I did not bring an argument to you. I agreed with you and helped build your case. Now, you're arguing with me about whether I want to argue with you, which is weird, so I'm going to mute and drop this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formI'm so confused at the hostility and why you're convinced that I'm arguing against you. I was just adding to your point, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | If you became the opposite gender, what would you want to look like, what sort of life career and relationships would you pursue?How would you want to look? Able to hold muscle, able to grow a decent beard, maybe 5'10 or so. I'd be a bit fem for a guy, so I wouldn't want to be very tall. Wash sort of career would you want? I'm currently a case manager for people with Autism. I'd hope I'd still be doing that as a guy, especially since mental health jobs like this are desperate for male workers, since we know male clients work better with them. I'd probably be a hero in my job, and have a lot of leverage for raises and what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formWhat? No one believes women “didn’t have to lift a finger”, The women who have that complaint think about the housewife workload as similar as it is today, because they don't realise that things like washing machines and vacuum cleaners being easily accessible are somewhat recent inventions. But also, they believe that they would just get to be stay-at-home wives/mothers, despite the fact that women have always worked out of the house as well, doing things like factory, farm, and textile work. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formNeither of these are feminists( Kamala Harris, Alexandria Ocasio Cortez, Angela Merkel) . Kamala Harris: Has fought for abortion rights Has fought against sex-trafficking Has fought for more safety and regulations when it comes to detaining pregnant women Introduced the Maternal Care Access and Reducing Emergencies, which is for focusing on issues that pregnant and birthing black women face in healthcare access AOC: Has fought against the beauty standards forced on women Has fought for abortion … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 01:21 PM |
| 8 | Feminism is not bad for women in any way shape or formWhat most people mean when they say “feminism is bad for women!” is “feminism makes it harder for men to get women to need them.” And women in the workforce who honestly believe that if it weren't for feminism, they'd be sitting at home watching the tele and not have to lift a finger to work. They don't understand that women have always been in the workforce, they just couldn't always own their earnings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 01:10 PM |
| 5 | Is there less of a worry of the provider being exploited when it comes to femdom sex-work?No, femdom is just as much about female submission to men as femsub is. You can tell by the fact that in femdom, she is usually required to wear tight, restrictive clothing (very high heels, corsets), wear full make-up, and scenes usually involve her pleasuring or stimulating the man, but rarely her getting directly stimulated or pleasured. (As opposed to maledom, where the man is usually wearing comfortable non-restrictive clothing, not expected to wear make-up, and is more likely to receive di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalYou don't LIKE my characterization of (average, neurotypical, heterosexual) women's general fantasies I don't like the weird malice you made-up while you tell me that you know what's in my head better than I do. But NEITHER sex's (normal/typical) sexual fantasies come from a place of wholesome pure selfless pro-sociality and/or compassion-for-the-weak I get that you don't appreciate empathy and pro-sociality, but that doesn't mean no man or woman does. Speak for yourself, dude. It certainly DOES… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalThe beast is still tamed. For her. I'm not sure what you mean by "beast is tamed for her", when the whole point is that he is no longer weighed by the trauma that makes him afraid of being submissive and respectful. That would apply to his interactions with anyone. And also that it ends in them having two kids, so clearly, he's not just paying attention to her. He's not just a husband, he's a father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 11:38 PM |
| 5 | How do men view fwb/casual sex relationships?I have been having casual sex for about 3 years now and I'm getting burnt out on the same old cycle. Have you tried doing non-sexual things with him as well? Every FWB I've had, we had at least 2 non-sexual things to do. Sure, we bang, but we also go to conventions together, or we draw together, or go out to lunch to hang out, have nature walks, etc. The "Friend" in "Friend with benefits". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 04:32 PM |
| 10 | Maybe you are the Fox?And they look identical to the fresh ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 02:50 PM |
| 15 | Maybe you are the Fox?Grapes have never sexually assaulted, screamed at, or stalked me for deciding not to eat them. Women's ire/fear toward men doesn't spawn out of nowhere. It spawns out of being raised by a mother who couldn't keep a bank account in her own name, being raised in a church that teaches that it's your fault if a man rapes you. It's spawned out of trauma, either our own, or that of our women friends. My mother insisted she couldn't possibly hate men, yet she still banned me from having a male gynecolo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalThe "helping Christian learn to be vulnerable" is because his own introduction into BDSM was when he was abusively groomed by his previous dom (a woman), and Ana helping him learn to overcome that trauma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalWomen think they have a power People think they have a power to make bad go away. As my last paragraph said, its' not just a woman thing. The only difference is that men want to defeat evil with violence, and women want to defeat evil with love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 11:48 AM |
| 7 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?My experience is similar to yours, I've been cold approached by ugly men, handsome men, old men, young men, teenagers, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:30 PM |
| 21 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmfeminism has caused wealth and status equality among men and women, though women still won't "date down", Plenty do, but also feminism hasn't removed the fact that a woman's career will be harmed by the fact that she can get pregnant. From jobs assuming she will get pregnant and not wanting to promote her, to having to take off for birthing and lactation, and she will likely be the one who has to deprioritize her job to be available for her kid if he needs to leave school early. Women don't have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalMale romantic leads written by women seem to only know how to dominate, lead, dominate some more and let out a manly grunt during sex. Did you actually read the erotic literature, or just scan the summary on the back of the book? The books usually involve the man being aggressive because he's guarded or traumatised, and the woman has to unlock that and get him to be vulnerable. The fantasy isn't "mean man is nice to me", it's "Bad people will become good people if you're kind and patient to them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:05 PM |
| 17 | Where do autistic and adhd men fit in?This depends very heavily on the severity of the autism. Autism can make it hard to process sensory information, so having two autistic people who, for example, are both unable to control their volume, but also both sensitive to other people making loud sounds, will be disastrous for both of them. I work as a case manager for autistic people, and one of the struggles I have in finding resources for them is that many autistic people can't stand being around other autistic people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:36 PM |
| 8 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?Depends on the parents. Roommates have way less power over my partner than his parents. I don't have to impress his roommates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:31 PM |
| 8 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?In my mind, me and that woman were equals. Tbf, you're not both equals, unless you are a single dad. Staying with her mum means she has more assistance with the childcare. does dating traditionally workout for women like her? Sure it does, happens all of the time. There will be a little bit of difficulty in finding a man who doesn't mind her already having kids, but that will be the hardest part. Finding a man whose home is more stable than hers wouldn't be too hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:30 PM |
| 3 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightThis was clearly not for the purposes of alerting people. If you need to “alert” your local community of something, you don’t post it on your public Tiktok profile for anyone, including those outside of your community, to see. Sure you could. If I put on Facebook a couch I'm trying to get rid of, you could see that without being anywhere near me. Doesn't mean I'm trying to give you the couch. I don’t have the answers to since I am definitely not a lawyer. That's fair. You don't have any objectiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:59 PM |
| 3 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightAlerting people is not vigilantism. It's neighbourly. Providing evidence during the alert is not always required, but she did so to avoid claims that she was lying. Because now she has posted what could legally be considered revenge porn of an assumed innocent man since he was not afforded due process That is actually a really interesting question: If someone exposes themselves to you without your consent, therefore sexually assaulting you, and you post a video of them sexually assaulting you, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:14 PM |
| 4 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightI don’t understand why she didn’t just get evidence for the police Because the police have just as little reason to care as DoorDash does, if the rest of the public aren't aware to hold them accountable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:30 PM |
| 3 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightSo realistically maybe a day after it went viral. So it does take them a day to respond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:29 PM |
| 3 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightBut she literally took less than a single day to report to them and then post the video on Tiktok. Like I'm sorry, but name any large global company with millions of users and employees that makes a response to a particular report in less than 2 days. Nobody is that efficient. How long did it take them to act when the video went viral? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:59 PM |
| 3 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightShe reported it first to DoorDash, then posted it to Tiktok to get views. How do you know that DoorDash's response only happened before the TikTok was posted to bring attention to the situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:34 PM |
| 4 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightSo, it would have been okay to post it on the internet only after she sent it to DoorDash and they did nothing first? That's not unreasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:24 PM |
| 15 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightShe was stupid for not just doing her damn job and leaving, and evil for getting him on camera. Problem is that if she didn't get him on camera, people would have claimed that she just lied about the whole thing. DoorDash probably wouldn't have done anything about him if she didn't get the video, or got it and only gave it to DoorDash. Damned if you show proof, damned if you don't show proof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 07:58 PM |
| 2 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.You've moved the goalposts so far that you're in another sports field entirely, dude. I'll give you credit that you're having three different simultaneous debates right now, so It's not unreasonable that you lost my original point. Given the last sentence, I'd presume that you're getting about as exhausted as I am, so I'm going to mute and leave this one, and focus on more productive conversations. This was a good convo for a while, though, even if it did end up kinda falling all over the place.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 07:51 PM |
| 2 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.That would be fine if feminism didn't claim to be for equality, They don't, or at least the ones who actually read feminist theory don't. There is a confusion there, I know. It's because egalitarians for some reason took over feminism and pushed this "feminism is for everyone" crap. They ignore actual feminist theory, they ignore data, and they don't care that focusing on everyone leaves them no energy to actually help anyone. A real feminist only stops men's rights activists if the MRA is activ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 07:14 PM |
| 2 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.Just to be clear, are we talking about fantasy, or are we talking about irl stuff? We can talk about both, but we were talking about fantasy stuff and now you're bringing in a completely different issue. It's irrelevant. In porn, femdoms wear high heels, makeup, and tight-restrictive clothing. In IRL kink scenes I've seen, femdoms wear high heels, makeup, and tight-restrictive clothing. In porn and in real life, maledoms may start off with like a suit and tie sometimes, but usually, they start o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 07:09 PM |
| 2 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.I'm sorry but no. Women are far more picky. Sorry, I misspoke, I meant women have more to pick from. They have more options. But there are significantly more women who want to be dominated and significantly less women who want to dominate, while most men tend to to either be dominant or switch. Already answered. The exact same group of feminists who constantly do vocal calling out of anything and everything that could be even remotely sexist. The exact same group of feminists who constantly do v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:58 PM |
| 2 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.It is still true however that there are far far far more men willing to be dominated, than there are women willing to dominate men I answered that elsewhere: It's basically just because women aren't as picky, so they can get away with not having to be as open in interests. Both men and women want to be dominated, but women have more to choose from, so a man's options are "Dominate, and hope eventually she will decide to dominate me back sometime" or "Don't get a woman". Whereas, a woman can ask … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?Can you ask your question in an actual sentence? I still have no clue what your question is here. Edit: Sorry, thought you were the same guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:26 PM |
| 2 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.all idealize and fantasize about the top 1% of men who are tall, muscular, dominant, charismatic, and caring, How many men in women's erotica novels do things that make it hard to breathe, damage the muscles in their feet and ankles with high-heels, or paint unknown chemicals on their faces to the point of having trouble feeling comfortable with their real faces? but if that's the logic you're using for men and femdom, then what I wrote above is the exact same logic you used when it comes to wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:25 PM |
| 3 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.Oh yeah, I won't argue against the point that 50 Shades is an abusive relationship with very inaccurate informstion on basic safety. My point was just that it's not just women wanting to be dominated, it's women wanting to know that dominant men are actually secretly weak to her, and his desire to dominate her is actually just him submitting to her desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 05:32 PM |
| 2 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.Many many many many men absolutely want a femdom who is enjoying herself. If that was the case, then the vast majority of femdom porn would have the woman in the same clothes male doms wear: comfortable, loose fitting clothes, flat shoes, no makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?I looked that word up, and couldn't find a definition for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?So what is the probleman? probleman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.Yeah, there are a lot of reasons they do that, but the biggest reason is pretty obvious: convenience. As I said, If men had the easy ability to get sex and opt out of having to do any physical work, they'd take it in a heartbeat. It's not "Most women want to be dominated". It's "Most men want to dominate, and being dominated means women have to do less work, so they just go with it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 02:29 PM |
| 6 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.50 shades sold 165 Million copies for a reason. Ironically, 50 Shades isn't about a world where men are all dominant and women are all submissive. A core plot point is that Christian Grey's first BDSM experience was when he was dommed by an abusive woman, and about the protagonist learning how to dom him back in a way to help him get through his trauma and learn to love being dommed again, and the couple eventually learning how to be equal and respectfully dominate each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 01:53 PM |
| 7 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.If men had the easy ability to get sex and opt out of having to do any physical work, they'd take it in a heartbeat. What I've found in my experience in the kink community, is that submissives on both sides are the most common, and femdoms are the least common (probably since femdoms as advertised in porn are designed for the male gaze, with tight, restrictive clothing, make-up, high-heels, etc, and not comfort). The reason that men tend to advertise themselves as dominant more often is because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 01:52 PM |
| 13 | Do you think that less attractive women are more opposed to being approached?This. When a man gets turned down by an attractive woman, he gets pissed off because "How dare she think she's better than him just because she's pretty?" When a man gets turned down by an unattractive woman, he gets pissed off because "How dare she think she's better than him? Does she really think she's worth a man higher than her league?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same?Domestic violence becomes an addiction for three reasons: "Don't deserve better" mentality, religious control, and "Calm Before The Storm". Don't Deserve Better: The victim is manipulated into thinking that they are worth the abuse they receive, that no good person would want a "tainted" partner, or that the abuser is actually above average, and treats them better than any other person would. Religious Control: The religion manipulates the victim into thinking "if I put up with this now, I will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same?They are "Pick-mes". The problem is that "Pick-me" stereotypes never mention why women want to be picked. They are just blamed for wanting to be picked. It is common for an oppressed person to want to appease the oppressor party, to lighten the pain that that individual oppressed person feels. They do selfishly choose their own hide over standing strong with their group, but having to make that choice at all is still a sign of their oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 03:45 PM |
| 17 | Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same?Bringing up the Third World examples is showing that in every situation where a man forces things on women, mothers will force it on their daughters to protect their daughters from the ire of the fathers and brothers. In the first world, teenage girls are still way more at risk from being pregnant than teenage boys are. A teenage girl who gets pregnant and is pressured or forced to carry to term will lose access to an equal education to what a boy gets. And in the Bible Belt, teenage girls are g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 02:16 PM |
| 8 | Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same?Because conservative values are designed to weaken women more than they are designed to weaken men. If girls are given poor sex-ed, then pushed to drop out of highschool and raise their resulting teen pregnancies, they when that girl becomes a woman, she won't have the education to educate her daughters on how to avoid her fate. When girls are taught that she should submit to her husband and not taught how to make her own choices, then she won't know how to leave behind conservative values. Or, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 01:57 PM |
| 4 | How do you have so much confidence or ego?There is so much media showing perfect women with the perfect life with a lot of them not doing much to achieve it. I don't know any media that shows women have perfect lives without doing anything to achieve it. Most media don't show what women do, but that doesn't mean they do nothing. It just means it's not interesting to show the work. So how do you remain so confident or have ego when there is so much competition or people who just out right are just more capable of getting more out of life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 01:25 PM |
| 4 | Do you ever feel less confident because of social media?Not particularly, no. Depends on what I'm scrolling. I generally scroll the art side of social media nowadays, and when I scroll art that is better than mine, I study it to learn what tricks I can add to my art from it. If I scroll depression-bate/rage-bait, then I feel a bit bad. Like stuff about how the environment is getting destroyed or whatnot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 02:01 AM |
| 5 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory."This whole thread" didn't make a debate post. You did. I'm only here to debate with people who bring their words to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 12:12 AM |
| 6 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.For example, a man wearing tight compression shorts without a cover-up that clearly outlines his groin would instantly attract disgust or accusations of being inappropriate I get the overall complaint, but it's just an unfortunate side effect of having so much external genitalia is just that you can't compare a woman going skin-tight with a man going skin-tight. A man can have something that hugs his ass, which is comparable to a woman having something that hugs her ass. A man can have something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 09:00 PM |
| 6 | Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing?Your responses are garbage. Reading them doesn't actually help them make sense or be useful. Civility is a rule on this subreddit. I will answer your question, because it is a valid question, but you are required on this sub to ask it with civility. How do we magically erase all the conditioning our society has gone through since ankles were the bee's knees? Three parts, the receiver side, the giver side, and the legal side. The Receiver (The one who receives the attention): Do it. We normalised… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing?You can't just say let's be like some obscure tribe in sub Saharan Africa. I didn't say that. I said "Let's be like most cultures throughout history. Let's be like Americans were literally 100 years ago when they changed from sexualising ankles to not sexualising ankles." Are you actually going to bother reading my responses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 02:22 PM |
| 8 | Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing?So your solution is to just stop sexualizing breasts? Lol jfc how would you even go about doing that, exactly? The same way it's done in every society that doesn't sexualise breasts, or for any breast that isn't stereotypically sexualised. You do realise that all across the world, there are places where nudity or breasts specifically aren't sexualised, right? Japanese people at the sauna don't go around oggling each other. The average artist has to study nude figures to learn how to draw anatomy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 02:17 PM |
| 12 | Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing?That doesn't mean they aren't sexualised as much or even more than vaginas. That doesn't make them as sexual as vaginas, though. Ankles and wrists also used to be sexualised as much as vagina. That is society's fault, not breast's fault. The solution is to stop sexualising breasts so much. If an obese man's breasts aren't censored despite being bigger than mine, then mine shouldn't either. (Neither of ours should be, but still). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 02:00 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about talking to multiple people all day and even planning different dates during the early stages?I don't think it's unreasonable to have more than one person in the "first two dates", or "first month of seeing each other" (whichever is the shorter period). I think by the end of those, though, you should be sending off the less preferred option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:57 PM |
| 15 | Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing?Now if men started dressing the same way how would you feel? If men at formal events had clothes that showed their entire chest area and buttcheeks. Showing off butt cheeks isn't "formal" for women either outside of the Mett Gala, and I totally think men should be as nude as women at the Mett Gala. If men wore sheer see through tight pants where you could literally see their dick. How often do you see a woman's vulva in formal wear (outside of, again, one of those rich people galas that exist to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:41 PM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextA woman asking a man to help her move implies she wants him there to do all the heavy lifting she can't do herself. Last time I helped my female friend move, there were only women working. Of course, this resulted in every object over 20lbs getting left behind because our dainty little woman hands couldn't lift them. Or you can get free labor by batting your eyelashes at your new guy friend, squeezing his muscles and cooing about how strong he is, and he'll do anything for you Not every woman is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 08:07 PM |
| 3 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextAnger at the sense that they feel like they were being lead on by your (friendly) affection? Sure why not? You get angry when someone doesn't want to touch your dick after they hung out with you? Or maybe, in some cases, you actually were using him for free labor or meals, and were intentionally disingenuous in your interest. Don't pretend that doesn't happen sometimes too. I helped my friend move, and not once did I get mad that she didn't sit on my face afterwards. I've bought friends lunch an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 07:57 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I'd imagine it's this part: "I like big boys, itty bitty boys Mississippi boys, inner city boys I like the pretty boys with the bow tie Get your nails did, let it blow dry I like a big beard, I like a clean face I don't discriminate, come and get a taste From the playboys to the gay boys Go and slay, boys, you my fave boys" There are definitely better ways to do body positivity than "I'd fuck any guy", but I get what they're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 04:15 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think the reason they find it manosphere is because of men who demand it without any care about what happens to the kid. For example, a man who says the kid isn't his problem because he shouldn't have to pay for a kid he doesn't want, including he doesn't want his taxes to go toward childwelfare funds the single mom now has to use, or he doesn't want to have to pay for the kid himself because he wants to punish the woman for having the right to not have her genitals torn open by childbirth (th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextWhat if a guy genuinely enjoyed your company so much that he gained feelings for you over time and only realized months down the road? I did that for a guy once. Asked him if he was okay with our friendship turning into a relationship. He said no. We kept being friends and continued as normal. As I said, women are generally complaining about a specific thing: "I am pretending that I have no interest in dating you whatsoever, I am just an innocent friend who just likes your company- wait, you don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextbut on the relationship level, if you were actually interested, wouldn't you want someone that's willing to pursue you for months and months? That's what the early stages of dating are for. You make your intentions clear early on, you go out together and spend time together, and eventually the dating becomes more serious. The difference is that you make it clear beforehand "I am getting to know you with an end goal of being with you or not" versus "I am pretending that I have no interest in dati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 03:26 PM |
| 9 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.Fun fact, STD new infection rates are quite high among the elderly. Lots of older women (and men) have that exact mindset! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 09:18 PM |
| 13 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.We both have biological clocks. Women's uteri stop working, and male sperm gets worse. No one should be having kids after age 50 or so. A 60-year-old doesn't have the energy to keep up with a 10-year-old. The purpose of menopause is likely to respect that, too, since higher-intelligence social species tend to have a grandmother role to pass down information to younger generations. It would make so much sense for men to get their own version of "man"opause for the same reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 09:16 PM |
| 28 | “Acting nice” and making friends is the only way for a guy to get laid or a relationship in literally almost any contextI think there is a difference between a man making small talk before moving on to the sex talk while chatting with a woman at a bar, versus a man being friends and doing friend stuff with a woman for months and months, then dropping the sex request, then immediately dumping her as a friend when she turns it down. It's the latter that women are complaining about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 05:54 PM |
| 8 | Sexual inclusivity and sex being a solution to sexlessness is not THAT big of a far-fetched idea.I meant that women are much more welcomed in these places that you suggested looking up on fetlife, munches, sex-clubs, orgies, bdsm clubs, according to like all the things I have read about such places. 3 of the five events tonight in my area explicitly ask for men (they are gang bangs hosted by the woman, so logically, they need men). I'm an introverted man with very little experience who knows nobody in the "scene". It doesn't sound too feasible. Maybe one day I'll give something like this a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Sexual inclusivity and sex being a solution to sexlessness is not THAT big of a far-fetched idea.Did you mean to respond this to me? Your comment doesn't seem to respond to anything in mine. You didn't even answer the question I've asked you twice. Also, looking back at that event list, of the sex events tonight, three of them explicitly ask for single men, since they are gangbangs, with a woman seeking many men. You can literally use Fetlife to search for male-on-female gangbangs. Whatabouts country are you in? I will look for some events in your country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 04:27 PM |
| 7 | Sexual inclusivity and sex being a solution to sexlessness is not THAT big of a far-fetched idea.They are small, unedrground, heavily protected places that exist in vacuums and are not too accessible for random men. Try FetLife. It's Facebook for Kinksters. According to Fetlife, in my area, which isn't that big of a place and is an hour from the nearest city, there are 7 Hotel Orgies and 5 Munches (social meet-up for kinksters to meet in a non-kinky setting and get to know each other) tonight alone. My local kink club in that city has literally at least 5 events per week, every week. The ci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Sexual inclusivity and sex being a solution to sexlessness is not THAT big of a far-fetched idea.And there happen to be places where a bunch of people come together and just so happen to nurture just that, collectively. No they don't. As I said, I've been to orgies, swingers events, BDSM spaces, etc. If you walk into a room and start grabbing tits like you'd pick up a penny off the ground, you would immediately get thrown out. Any place that allows that behaviour would quickly go out of business, because people would stop attending it out of fear of those entitled assholes. All I'm saying i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Sexual inclusivity and sex being a solution to sexlessness is not THAT big of a far-fetched idea.Yes, even at a bdsm club "nobody is entitled to anything", but let's be real: there is a theme there that everyone is there for, and it's sexual. BDSM is sensual, not inherently sexual. Sex is a type of sensation, but it's not the only sensation. BDSM can involve sex, but doesn't have to. BDSM, orgies, swingers clubs, etc, all still involve a level of consent and respect. If you walk into any of those clubs and just start grabbing tits without asking first, you will get punched and thrown out im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:01 PM |
| 5 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menAutistic women get approached more, yes, and they are no better at masking (in day-to-day they are, but not as much in dating), yes. But the fact they are no better at masking is why they get approached more. It's not because masking requires confidence. It's because men want to take advantage of autistic women. Autistic women have a very high rate of being abused. Even in the scenario where men approach and women select from those who approach her, and a woman's job is to keep safeguarding hers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 02:00 PM |
| – | Blinded By Beauty?The subreddit's definition of Red Pill doesn't say anything about it being an exclusively western post sexual revolution thing. So I'd like to know what about it you find exclusively western and post sexual revolution, and what about tutsi culture disqualifies them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:02 PM |
| – | Blinded By Beauty?Why is the redpill only a western response to western post sexual revolution? What about the tutsi culture' "traditional" (whatever that means) disqualifies them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 07:33 PM |
| – | Blinded By Beauty?A woman who gets naturally wet for a hot guy but lets say he is an insensitive and disloyal player is also blinded by beauty. There are also three alternatives: He is nice to her in private, she does like the behaviour, and you as an opposing man believe that man is worse than he actually is, because your competitive bias. Whats your take on for example the "Femme Fatale"? It's a trope created by men who want to see women's boobs jiggle in a tight suit. That's pretty much it. She's also generall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:58 PM |
| – | Blinded By Beauty?That's why I didn't respond directly to the post. I was responding to the point on whether the Bible is a good example of what you're referring to. Ironically, it is a good example, but in the opposite way you think it is. It's not an example of beauty blinding people and making men do dumb things. It's an example of men doing dumb things and then blaming the nearest pretty woman for his actions. Which is a thing that occurs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:28 PM |
| – | Blinded By Beauty?Honest question: Why? Idk much about tutsis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:51 PM |
| – | Blinded By Beauty?(Not the person you're responding to, but I agree with her) It's a fictional story from the same book that blames all of the evil on the world on a woman making a choice for herself (and her punishment is to be submissive to men), where the majority of female heroes aren't named or their only role is to serve men. The book is written by men, for men, positing men as the default and the sole creators of life, and women who men don't control as evil, purely as a way to encourage men to control wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:48 PM |
| 12 | Could it be that single woman are only happier because they still belive the perfect men will just dropp from the sky?I'm happier because I have other hobbies than just centering my life around finding a man. Don't get me wrong, I think about men sometimes, but you find it's a lot less overwhelming when you think about other things too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:13 PM |
| 11 | Women tend to be all about mental health awareness, yet practice a zero tolerance policy for socially awkward men(Not so) Fun fact: Seeking empathy and pity are common methods that abusive people, including some famous serial killers, target female victims. That's not saying all men who fumble socially are bad, but that just because a man fumbles socially doesn't mean it's in a woman's best interest to pay him more attention. Your examples seem to acknowledge that as well: every example you gave was of a situation where a woman is being blamed for being unable to protect herself from a threat (froze, unabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?I appreciate that you admit that you're just trolling. I'll mute and leave you to that, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?I don't see any sources in your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 10:44 PM |
| 6 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?Okay, I will respect the misspeak. In that case, the conversation is moot, since what they charge means nothing. Only what they make is relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?I don't generally respond to the same person across two different comment threads, so I'm going to mute this comment and focus on the other one, but if you actually read my comment, you will see me state my exact reasoning, in answer to your "idk why" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?Source on the percentage of prostituted women who make regular wages anywhere close to that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 09:17 PM |
| 9 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?Your claim wasn't what they charge, your claim is what they make. So, to back the claim, you have to prove that they actually make that much money. That that much money is physically and regularly provided to them. If I say my rate is 800$ for a night, but no one hires me, then I did not make 800$. I made 0$ If I say my rate is 800$ for a night, but the website gets 20% of my income, my pimp/producer/manager gets 20% my bodyguard gets 20% and the makeup and outfits and beauty treatments I need t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?I can’t link websites that show rates, I can’t link websites that show rates I'm asking for a statistical average. I can put any rate I want on to a website, doesn't tell you that I'm actually getting clients or supporting myself. Also doesn't tell you if I am the one who put it there, or if it was put there by a pimp who will make me do it regardless of my consent and is keeping a percentage for himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 08:56 PM |
| 10 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?Source on the percentage of prostituted women who make regular wages anywhere close to that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 08:45 PM |
| 3 | What's the difference between red flags and flaws in your opinion?Flaw: Ranges from "this thing annoys me" to "This thing may make this person incompatible with me". Example: He's not a fan of or allergic to cats. Nothing wrong with them just not being your thing, but I have cats, so if he can't ignore or is very allergic to mine, we may not be compatible. Red Flag: Ranges from "this thing actively harms his partners" to "This thing may make this person incompatible with anyone who values their safety or sanity". Example: He hates cats and insists they all hat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 08:08 PM |
| 32 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?Oh yeah, besides the quote being horribly cruel to prostituted women, it's also just straight-up wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 06:47 PM |
| 20 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?I don't often orgasm with the guy in question, and never have often, but it only recently became maintenance sex. In my situation, he used to have trouble orgasming as well, so we'd just both go until we were tired. Neither of us had reason to focus on ourselves, since neither of us expected to finish, so sex was a bonding thing. Then, he changed up his medications, so now every sex event ends in him orgasming if he manages to stay hard long enough. So, it's no longer about us bonding, it's abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 06:05 PM |
| 29 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?You didn't make a debate post, you made a Q4W post. And my answer wasn't "I'm fine with people selling sex", it was "They should have a legal right, but there are two paragraphs full of reasons outside of the law that should/reasonably could stop or discourage them." I don't think my partner should get arrested for cheating on me, but that doesn't mean I'm fine with him cheating on me. It just means that not all rules are legal rules. Some are social or moral rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 05:57 PM |
| 66 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?I'm not entirely against sex work, but I have had maintenance sex (sex that I didn't really want to have just to keep the guy around), and it's hard to explain the feeling if you've never felt it yourself, but the feeling that this thing, which used to be/could be an intimate, bonding thing that you two do together, is now becoming a thing where your body is just being used by someone else, even if you like that someone else, is mentally draining. When someone is physically inside your body, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 05:40 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?My impression from your comment I first replied to was that you don't really think that's possible It's not that I don't think it's possible, it's that I don't think the majority of Johns care to do it. So what, if... [example] I already answered that: "I would only see it as immoral if he had a high chance of raping a slave. If he does know for a fact that he isn't raping a slave and can confidently confirm that, then definitionally he would not apply in this conversation." It is irrelevant to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 04:28 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?Recommenting to edit: I apologise, I didn't realise someone else interrupted us and I had been talking to him this whole time instead of you. But yeah, the "Technically, most people don't like their job" caveat is irrelevant. As the context of the rest of the sentences show, by "She likes it", I was summarizing your "it's absolutely NOT a slave and it's a woman who WANTS to make the money" without having to quote that whole thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 03:54 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?I do not know if there is more of an answer to that than ... Granted, I don't presume you're the dude going out and doing this, so I don't expect you to be an expert, but if a dude actually uses prostituted women, and his answer to those questions was "Idk, try to look on good sites. Trust your gut." then that wouldn't reassure me that he actually cared or was taking this seriously. Imagine saying "Try" when asked "How do you avoid raping someone?" This "see all clients of sex workers as immoral… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 03:33 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?I'm sure there legitimately are ones who love what they do, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 03:29 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?Reposting to add a point No, women who are trying to add non-rape options and trying to dilute out the rape options aren't to blame for men not caring whether or not the option he targets is raped. Men are to blame for their own actions. Notice how my last response wasn't just a statement: it was a list of questions. Valid questions. I would be fine with a man who can answer those all and ensure he didn't rape anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 03:15 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?The OP question isn't about if a woman being in prostitution is okay, it's about men who seek prostitutes. So, your question wouldn't be "What if she likes it?" It's "How does he know she likes it? How did he confirm that she absolutely did not get trafficked, is not just putting on a front because her pimp is forcing her to smile and act happy?" And it's "Why is he going to fuck this woman while knowing that there is a good chance that she doesn't consent and is only putting on a front? Why is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 02:19 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?The "luxury life" is often a front the pimp puts on. Basically, he showers her with gifts as a way of creating a debt, so she has to work in order to pay off her debt. He then instructs her to act like she earned it herself, that she bought it with money she already earned, and that she is living a happy luxury life. Wouldn't want the clients knowing how miserable she is. Even if she does buy it herself, it's still out of necessity, not just want. No one would pay good money for a girl who looks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 12:26 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?I don't want a diamond ring, but green energy and green cars will keep the air in our planet from becoming inhospitable and killing all of us. Not to mention that slavery occurs in those industries, but it's not inherent to them: there is nothing stopping companies from just not enslaving mine workers. They just choose to do so for convenience. Human trafficking is inherent to sex work, since the supply of women wanting to be fucked by any dude who comes by is way, way lower than demand, and ref… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 12:20 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?Out of curiosity how do feel about the sex-workers who explicitly say they love what they do? I'm sure there legitimately are ones who love what they do, but if she doesn't and admits that she doesn't, she might lose her job. Her pimp might beat her for humiliating her, her clients might drop her. So, I have no reason to take that claim as true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 12:16 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?Because there is a much, much higher chance that the prostitute is a sex slave who doesn't want too do this. The casual hookup, ONS, or FWB is more likely to actually be consenting. Wanting someone who is potentially a slave to not be raped is not "punching down" on the person looking to rape her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 12:13 PM |
| 24 | Q4W: What lie that a man tells you to get into a relationship/into your pants, would be seen as the biggest betrayal?Biggest betrayal would be something that directly affects me. He turns out to be kidnapping me and planning on doing something terrible. He turns out to be married and cheating. He stealthed (secretly removed the condom). He is an abuser. Etc. the male equivalent most men would agree is if a woman claimed to be low count, but later into the relationship he finds out she was a huge whore, This being a betrayal, I get, but this being the biggest is pretty sad: you're basically saying that the wors… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 04:56 AM |
| 6 | If you are someone who thinks it's bad that society objectifies women bodies. Then you should be consistent with this opinion in most contexts.brought mainstream awareness to the objectification of women bodies in the media. But yet it's still normalized for men to sexualize women though. We're a social sex species, of course sexualisation isn't going away. Feminists just don't want women to be reduced to nothing but a vagina. And half of the times it's left-leaning or progressive men making these comments in the spaces I'm in. But yet this isn't considered a issue though. Feminists do consider this an issue. There is a feminist quote:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 11:07 PM |
| 5 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SACan only be one chooser, if both choose the same thing they're not choosers. A chooser by default have priority over the other. You keep claiming this, and refuse to defend it. If there is only one chooser, then the other person is a slave. If I choose to have sex with you and you don't choose to have sex with me, I am raping you. If I choose to stab your ear and you choose to be stabbed in the ear, you are consensually getting a piercing. Again a strawman, They have a role in partner selection,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 09:06 PM |
| 3 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SAOh yeah, for clarity, I'm on the side of "Abuse victims didn't just 'choose wrong'. Abusers can be manipulative, abuse can cause a cycle of trauma" etc. I was just granting the hypothetical to argue about the guy's claim that men have no choices. Interesting fact about the cycle of abuse, though, there is a concept referred to as "Calm Before The Storm" that explains why some abuse victims become addicted to being abused, and even become abusers themselves. When you are abused, you exist in two … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 09:00 PM |
| 7 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SABecause the affirmation is "women are the choosers in human mating" Your statement wasn't "Women are the choosers in human mating". It was "Men are not the choosers in human mating". Your statement was that men do not have a choice. Which is objectively false. Presuming your initial point is correct (about men not having any role in partner selection), then women would have the choices "No//Yes (Man A)//Yes (Man B)//Yes (Man C)..." and men would have the choice "No// Yes (To this woman who is cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 08:54 PM |
| 0 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SADid you mean to respond this to someone else? It's an unfortunate story, but is irrelevant to my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 08:44 PM |
| 6 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SAIf your argument about a relationship is not having a relationship you don't have an argument, your argument invalidates the premise. Why? Why is "dating yourself" not a valid option? And the argument is "Men have a choice in dating." Objectively, they have a choice in dating, unless women are enslaving them and forcing them to date against their will. They don't choose between women, but they choose to pursue a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 08:43 PM |
| 5 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SAI just gave that as an example. The point is that if you think women choose abusers, then you also have to think men choose abusers, since even if you argue that men don't pick between women, you can't avoid that men do pick to date that woman in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 08:11 PM |
| 4 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SAI just gave that as an example. The point is that if you think women choose abusers, then you also have to think men choose abusers, since even if you argue that men don't pick between women, you can't avoid that men do pick to date that woman in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 08:11 PM |
| 7 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SAHe may not be choosing between two different women, but he is choosing between dating and his own company. I'd imagine his own company is better than being raped or abused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 07:50 PM |
| – | What do you wish could have been part of sex ed?Oh yeah, and humans are really bad at getting pregnant. We're a social sex species: we evolved to have sex more for social bonding, with reproduction as more of an afterthought. We have the lowest sex-to-conception rate of most, if not all animals. The importance of female orgasm in conception (it seems to - in multiple studies - be correlated with higher likelihood of pregnancy) Yeah, this is likely due to the muscles contracting and pulling the sperm along. Not to mention that the sperm doesn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 03:31 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nah, I don't think it's racist. Each culture has their own rules, and I don't want to force my partner out of their cultural traditions or force myself to get along with something against my values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 03:18 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I used to work at a long-stay hotel by an airport (it had a kitchenette, and is good if you need to stay somewhere a few weeks/months, like if you're in between homes). We had quite a few situations where it was pretty obvious that trafficking was happening (wife was much younger, clearly didn't speak a single word of English, didn't know how to access basic things like transportation services, didn't have access to local currency, while he went to work during the day, she spent most of her time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 03:16 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵A close friend of mine mentioned he feels a spiritual connection when he does it. I tend to prefer the "Gaze at them while they are paying attention to something else that makes them very happy, and they don't notice you looking at them" or "Pay attention while they are undressing so they know I still find them very attractive". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.You bond with like minded individuals in real life. At least some of the people on the internet are real people. Not a bunch of hopeless social failures who are largely going to blame most of their woes on whatever their relevant in group is. Well, yeah, you cherrypicked one specific type of post on one specific subreddit. Only an absolute buffoon would think the same online, parasocial venting would somehow work better just because its women doing the venting. Only an absolute buffoon would mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?So, those guys are against any expensive and time consuming hobbies? Or just that one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 04:03 PM |
| 18 | The worst thing about modern expectations is that women roles and social duties have been eased while men roles and social duties have increased or stayed sameNot OP, but I can give some nuance: For women, dishwashing, laundry, etc daily tasks, definitely take a shorter amount of time now, thanks to dedicated machines. Many women can now opt out of pregnancies and childbirths who could not before. Public schools are free, and provide education and daycare to her kids for most of the morning and some of the afternoon. And No-Fault divorce, meaning she can leave a marriage that has turned bad much easier. One of the reasons for the temperance movement w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:59 PM |
| 11 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.When I read subs like twox, it makes me feel many just use feminism as a mask for their lack of ability to maintain healthy social bonds with other women You said this about a subreddit for women to talk to other women and bond with other women about shared experiences. That's one of the core parts of socialization. Learning about and bonding over each other's weaknesses. You need to learn how to talk about your weakness before you can rely on someone else to help with it. You're right, those wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:54 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?Why are men put off by horse girls, anyway? Most horse girls I've met were pretty interesting and fun girls. Horse guys on the other hand, are 50/50 between really nice guys, and really rude "alpha male dominating this horse and proving that he's like a lead stallion" (ironic, since horses are matriarchal). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:44 PM |
| 12 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Rich women don't have to live with their husband or raise their kids. Her husband can just be eye-candy for paparazzi for all she cares, and her kids have nannies and maids. This is why you see many women without children literally treating their cats and dogs like human children, sleeping with them, arranging doggy daycare and even throwing parties for them. I like my cats because they're not humans. We are a cat colony. Small kids are loud and destructive, and weigh more than 10lbs, so it's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 01:27 PM |
| 12 | What hints do you give your partners that you wish they’d notice more over verbal communication?if the trash or dishes aren’t currently done, she wants me to do them immediately without them becoming her problem This is a big one. I haven't had anyone tell me to clean something since I was a teenager. Sure, I don't always take out my trash right away, but I've lived alone for years and my place is generally tidy. I wish partners saw cleaning our shared home as "This is his house too, he should take care of his house" and not "He is helping her clean the house." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Would you live friendless forever or without the chance to romantic relationships forever?Logically men are going to pick A Dude, this is a Question For Women thread. Men's opinions and assumptions are literally irrelevant. Including yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 01:59 AM |
| 5 | Would you live friendless forever or without the chance to romantic relationships forever?None of this comment has anything to do with the conversation. We're talking about if we'd individually prefer sexless companionship or companionless sex. Reproduction is irrelevant, since you can reproduce without either sex or companionship, and the OP question has nothing to do with my interest in having kids. Since companionlessness literally causes insanity, and sexlessness does not, and I have gone sexless for years but not companionless for years, I prefer the companionship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 01:42 AM |
| 2 | what is ideal frequency of sex in a week or month? how do you want your man to love you beyond sex?Depends on the week, it ranges from one to four times a week. Get me when I'm PMSing and it may be multiple times a day. I see relationships as us sharing our life, so I would want to feel like my life is easier because my partner is in it. I prefer doing things alone, so I would want to feel like being with my partner is better than being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Would you live friendless forever or without the chance to romantic relationships forever?The hypothetical does not prevent me from reproducing. I can hit up a sperm bank, if I felt the need to have kids. Not having kids sucks. Having no socialization wrecks our psyches. There are way more mentally healthy people who choose not to have kids, than mentally healthy people who choose to have absolutely no friends. Not to mention that we are a communal raising species. Not even homeschool moms can handle raising kids without friends to help out (take it from someone who was homeschooled)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 10:03 PM |
| 0 | What do you wish could have been part of sex ed?Separating HSV1 and HSV2 is important when educating about herpes to patients, as laypeople associated herpes with genital herpes, rather than cold sores. The exact opposite: because laypeople erroneously think herpes is just genital herpes and not cold sores and erroneously think it's some horrible, nasty rash all over the genitals, we should connect them. People will understand that the disorder is way less of a deal than they think it is when they understand that symptomatic genital herpes is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 09:07 PM |
| – | Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with?Yep, men would rather buy prostituted women than wash a damn dish once in a while. Says a lot about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you wish could have been part of sex ed?Both versions can show up on either your mouth or your genitals. HSV2 just more commonly shows up on genitals and vice versa HSV1 and the mouth. But still, there is no point in acting like people with cold sores (oral herpes) don't have herpes. The vast majority of people have herpes, the vast majority of people don't show symptoms. You should take precautions, but herpes really isn't that big of a deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 08:13 PM |
| 2 | What do you wish could have been part of sex ed?The opposite: HPV is a much bigger deal, since it can directly cause cancer, so it's important to get your HPV vaccine. About 70% of the population have at least one of the two variants of HSV. Only about 5% of the population has ever experienced any genital-related symptoms of HSV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 08:07 PM |
| – | Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with?Yep. Every married man I know who I've overheard complaining about a dead bedroom was a man who refused to do his own laundry or wash his own dishes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 07:26 PM |
| 10 | Would you live friendless forever or without the chance to romantic relationships forever?B sounds much better. Sex is good, but we're a social species. Our strength comes in having friends. And no, I am not asexual or aromantic, and I can get plenty horny. I can just take care of myself fine. I've existed on this planet for over 25 years, and so far, only had a romantic relationship in two of those years, had no sex at all for 20 of them, so I know I can get along just fine without those two things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 07:23 PM |
| 13 | What do you wish could have been part of sex ed?Women's urethras being in the vulvas, but not the vaginas (and how men not washing their dicks may correlate with female UTIs) In general, the difference between the vulva and the vagina. The benefits of female armpit hair and pubic hair (reducing chaffing for the former, and keeping the vulva clean for the latter), and the normalization of leaving the hair where it is. The entire clitoral structure. It's not just the little nub, it's an entire organ that wraps around the vagina. The prostate (n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 04:58 AM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?Eh, it's not your fault. It's a common troll tactic for a man to pretend to be a woman, and then make a post asking his "fellow ladies" to describe their sex life (so he can jerk off to their descriptions), or claim that some thing that misogynists believe is true, like "Hey, we women really are all vapid sluts who ride the cock carousel in our 20s and then hit the wall in our 30s". You didn't explicitly do either of those, but your post did feel a little bit like one of them. People's "troll al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 06:18 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?Says the one who misread the very comment thread to which you're responding. "I'll give OP credit: if it is a guy, then he's got a pretty well-made history. There are a few sus comments, but honestly it is mostly comments and posts that do look like they could have been written by a femcel." The first guy thought you were lying about your sex. I wrote that comment before you started responding to the other comments in this post. I went through your comment history to see if I could find evidence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 05:55 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?Pretty straight forward. Female incel. You noted that you had trouble getting men, and your comment/post history has you whine about that a lot in the general incel fashion, so that would make you an incel. And according to you, you're a woman, so, femcel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 05:37 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?I mean, it'd depend on where you are in Florida. Keep away from any events that charge more for men than women (those ones may be more sleazy and see women as things to sell to male patrons, rather than be an equal and welcoming social group). Fetlife is the kink version of Facebook. You can use that to find kink events and clubs in your area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 03:02 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?I guess I'm a bit confused by what you're envisioning here. In a kink event/club, generally you will have a "dungeon", which is a place with kink furniture you can interact with or watch other people perform, a bar (they restrict you from getting too drunk), a social hangout place where you explicitly go to chill and chat with people, and often a dance floor as well. It makes it way easier to socialise, since it gives you something to talk about: you could see a girl watching a scene, and chat w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 02:42 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?It seems like single men would still struggle at these Why do you say that? And the OP is a woman, so how is that relevant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 02:31 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?Did you mean to respond this to someone else? It doesn't seem to have anything to do with my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 02:08 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?I'll give OP credit: if it is a guy, then he's got a pretty well-made history. There are a few sus comments, but honestly it is mostly comments and posts that do look like they could have been written by a femcel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:58 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?Depends on where you live and who/what you're into. Kink events are a pretty good place to meet people. See if you have any local kink clubhouses, especially ones that require membership, vet their members to bar people on the sex offender registry, are restrictive on alcohol, and have good dungeon monitors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:56 PM |
| 17 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooGirls didn't invade the Boy Scouts, because the Boy Scouts stopped being a thing before girls were involved. Men sabotaged the boy scouts by molesting and raping boy scout members. Boys stopped joining boy scouts due to general disinterest, and due to fear of being molested and raped. Boy Scouts collapsed due to lack of membership. The group that previously ran the Boy Scouts tried to rebrand and make a new group that was separated from all of the molestation history. They named this new group "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:45 PM |
| 14 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings too(Recommenting to edit, as I found more data) Apparantly the rebrand had nothing to do with equality. Boyscouts became Scouts of America and starting letting in girls for two reasons: membership had dwindled and they were desperate for new members, and they were rebranding due to all of the sex abuse scandals. So, girls didn't invade boy scouts. They saved boy scouts. The Scouts of America/Boy Scouts would have fallen apart because of abusive male scout leaders, and because boys stopped supportin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:19 PM |
| 16 | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?Dating means actually setting up to share my life with this person, so they'd need to have a compatible lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:57 AM |
| 9 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooWhere are you getting any of these numbers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 12:45 AM |
| 13 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooNah, that's fine, I'd just like you to answer my initial question. You keep saying it's a fact without actually explaining how and why you think it's a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 12:00 AM |
| 16 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooHow was it only made for men? And what do you mean by "nerdy" in this context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 11:34 PM |
| 17 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooYou didn't answer my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 11:07 PM |
| 26 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooPPD is a debate subreddit. People come here for the express purpose of having their opinions questioned and debated. I am here because I'm a bored office-worker who likes responding to debate prompts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 10:38 PM |
| 32 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooWhy is Reddit a "male space"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 10:37 PM |
| 10 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooTbf, that one is a common issue in general when you're friends with someone who is in a relationship. Women have the same issue with a girl bringing her boyfriend along to Girls' Night and totally killing the mood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 10:06 PM |
| 35 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings toolately there seems to be a massive influx of a certain type of woman invading male spaces and policing what they can and cant say Such as? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Why is big size so sexualized compared to other sizes?Two reasons: Among women: Dick size directly affects pleasure in sex in a way that almost nothing compares. If the dick isn't long enough, it physically will not reach the good spots. A woman who wants a small penis isn't a woman who actually enjoys the small penis directly (as in, the penis physically isn't stimulating pleasure spots). She likely enjoys the aesthetic or enjoys it indirectly (such as enjoying playing with it, like men like playing at or looking at breasts). In porn: Big dicks ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 08:38 PM |
| 15 | Q4W: Why such a hostile, negative reaction to a woman proposing to a man?This, especially when I often hear men talk about their wives being the "ball and chain" or calling their day before marriage "Last day of freedom". There is nothing wrong in theory with a woman proposing, but plenty of societies are so gross about women having any say in these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 08:35 PM |
| – | Why do women expect traditionalism in relationships?The judicial system will more often than not give women their fair share of finances if they divorce and maybe even too much. What is the stats on alimony and "fair share", that you're going off of? There’s even laws that make it so that if a woman cheats and has a child but the baby daddy disappears, the child will legally be put under the husband’s name Oh? What law is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:37 PM |
| – | Why do women expect traditionalism in relationships?I’m shocked alot of women would want it considering it was a dark time in history for women. I'm also shocked by the amount of women who trust their husbands enough for her to want no control over her own finances. It's common in feminist circles to discuss how to educate housewives on the dangers they are getting themselves into. That tends to be the crux of the issue, though: Women who want to be housewives with no income to her name are usually women from heavily patriarchal religions, with n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 10:57 PM |
| – | Why do women expect traditionalism in relationships?Yeah, and I said in my comment "Traditional gender roles definitely existed before the Industrial revolution, since women often couldn't own property, her own money, or her own children until recently. Men weren't seen as sole "providers", yeah, but they were seen as the "owner" of the woman, or her "master"." Only reason she can be provided for and not do anything is because it's no longer legal to beat her or throw her out penniless and keep her kids hostage for it. It's not that feminists wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 10:43 PM |
| – | Why do women expect traditionalism in relationships?This doesn’t apply to couples where both partners work It's a bit confusing for you to call that Traditionalism, when throughout most of history, both partners worked. Although, only the man owned the finances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 10:25 PM |
| -1 | The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation.I think people who hear this advice take it a little too seriously. It just means that you should enjoy yourself first, focus on romance second. It's easier to be confidant and romantic when you are already having a good time. Go to the pottery class because you actually like pottery. Actually enjoy the pottery. Actually care about what you make. Ask a fellow classmate out every now and then, that's fine. What is not fine is just sitting in that class, staring at all of the women, putting no eff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 05:15 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵His minimum height requirement. Meaning, if he's shorter, he's likely to be a dick about his height. If he's not a dick about his height, then I don't have as much reason to care about his height. I've only ever met a handful of men shorter than me (under 5'5" is in the 8th percentile where I live), and all of them were dicks about their height. Tbf, I'm Bi, and plenty of women are shorter than me. When I'm already used to being into people shorter than me, it's not as hard to be into shorter me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:26 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I wouldn't even notice unless he was insanely tall. Like, if he put 5'10 and he's 6'1, I'd just assume he's 5'10. I'm 5'5". It's hard to tell how tall someone is when you're shorter than them and looking up. Not like I could compare the top of his head to a 5'10 guy's if I can't see the top of either of their heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:15 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If I want to leave a conversation and the person won't let up, I will usually just mute the conversation, not block. But if they start following me to other comment threads, the block hammer comes out. I will also block people who spam posts in a sub (like this one) that are always really stupid posts or they are terrible at conversing, so I don't have to see their posts or be tempted to join in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:13 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Three different carb levels, no tea, and not even a fruit option besides the OJ and Blueberries in the pancakes -_- OJ is just concentrate, not even real fruit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:11 PM |
| 12 | State-sponsored prostitutionWhy do you think that demand would necessarily outpace supply? A few reasons: Because virtually all men and pubescent boys want some access to sex work. Right now, the vast majority of men watch porn, and that's in a society where prostitution is frowned upon or illegal. If prostitution were promoted, it is easy to presume that a similar number of men as those who currently watch porn will want those prostitutes. There is no way for supply to meet demand unless virtually all women and girl child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 12:58 PM |
| 7 | Why do women expect traditionalism in relationships?A lot of women do demand traditionalism, sure. A lot of women refuse to cook or clean. But the intersection of these two opinions is, while not tiny, much smaller than either category. The other thing is, though, that things these women tend to demand of men are things that happen every once in a while. Paying on dates, for example, when they only go on dates once a month, and once they are in a committed relationship, it will likely reduce to a few times a year if ever. Meanwhile, she is expect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 12:41 PM |
| 13 | State-sponsored prostitutionLook up the horrors around "Comfort Women". Women don't oppose it because it "doesn't benefit them". Women oppose it because it directly leads to state-sponsored sexual slavery and violent abuse of women and girl children. The problem is that there will never be enough supply for the demand. While I don't think prostitution should be illegal, making a big push for promoting it will inevitably lead to way more demand than supply, which leads to violent entitlement to women's bodies, which leads t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 12:35 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Have you noticed different dating results across your average guy friends?You have it backwards. Attractive, then crush. By "Crush" I mean that I got to know enough about a person that I perceive us as being personally compatible enough to actually date, but am not currently dating that person due to a reason outside of my control (ex. him not agreeing with that assessment from his perspective and having rejected me, him not being available, etc.) I find both guys attractive, but I have not experienced enough mutual compatibility with the second guy for a relationship… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 02:46 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Have you noticed different dating results across your average guy friends?How come both you and your friend "joke" that you find the first guy attractive but not the second? Because that friend has never met the second guy. The first guy is a mutual friend. I didn't say "find attractive", I said "have a crush". My friend would likely find the second guy attractive too if they ever met. I prefer the first guy for the reason I just stated: The first guy is more outgoing and interesting. When you chat with him, he has things to talk about: adventures he's gone on, books … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 02:24 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Have you noticed different dating results across your average guy friends?Yeah, the biggest difference in results I've seen his is lifestyle. I know two pretty attractive guys who look very similar, both pretty shy, but one is always on diving trips and going to conventions and events, etc, and the other doesn't do any of that. The first one usually has a woman or two pining after him at all times, and the second doesn't. Both a friend and I occasionally joke about how we both have a crush on the first guy. I know less attractive guys who get more attention than some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | If he told you about number of his relationship?I would be upset that he lied. If he's willing to directly lie about something because he thinks it will raise his chances of dating me, then that makes me wonder what else he's lied about for the same reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 01:04 PM |
| 1 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.You must be bad at statistics then. The irony. At this point, I'm pretty sure you're just trolling, though. Either bring actual stats, or that's pretty much it for this conversation, since you have no answer to my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:31 PM |
| 3 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.It means nothing statistically, especially since I don't know how many pages you'd have to sift through to happen into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:11 PM |
| 2 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.So, three? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:03 PM |
| 3 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.The only post in the search results that is about this topic is a man complaining about women who say it. I don't see any results that is just a woman saying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 11:46 AM |
| 3 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.That article is basically just making the same claim you are with the same amount of evidence, so it's not a source. When I looked up "Not Enough Good Men", I found like one or two posts from women, and a bunch of posts from men. I don't see evidence that it's a commonly expressed statement, just that men claim it's a commonly expressed statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 11:44 AM |
| 2 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.If it's "virtually every", then I'd imagine you can share enough for a relevant statistic? Likewise if you think they are the loudest, then there should be loads of samples available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 04:30 AM |
| 7 | A woman ‘struggling to find a good man’ should not be a common issue.I see a lot of posts on social media of women that cannot seem to find a good man I see people make this claim, but I have literally never seen a woman say this. Do you have a source about this being a common occurrence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:47 AM |
| 3 | You should do a distracting activity on your first date with someone if you want them to like youCan you reword your point here? Your post doesn't really clarify how it results in your title. I've noticed that most of the comments also seem confused or aren't addressing your point directly, so I seem to be not alone in this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 07:12 PM |
| 10 | Whať do u think of Arranged marriages¿The overall idea isn't terrible, but there are too many things you need to add to avoid risks: There should be a dating period, and the man and woman should both be able to opt out at any time. There should be NO shame in rejecting the arrangement. Even in places where you are allowed to reject, there is often a heavy shame element involved. Divorce should absolutely be allowed, and there should be no shame in it (I mean, this should be true in any marriage situation, but especially arrangements… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 02:33 PM |
| – | Women make it very stressful for men to stay singleHoly shit, this dude's history is insane. For the past month, he has non-stop thought and talked about that girl, with like 90% his posts and comments directly about or alluding to that one experience with her, or otherwise just being jealous about women. Probably goes back more than a month, but I'm going to stop scrolling -_- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Should we have No Divorce groups?That isn't the claim you made and were asked to prove. We're not talking about single parent households, we are talking about families that have a full, large family support system, and happen to be lacking an older male figure. (Ignoring the fact, by the way, that I never said kids shouldn't have any male role model: I very clearly stated that most of the animals do have a male role model. Cetaceans and elephants, I specifically said do have one, just not in early years. Great Apes have them in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 03:31 AM |
| 11 | Should we have No Divorce groups?Not to mention that I say "Bless you" when people sneeze, but I don't literally believe people's spirits leave their body and have to be blessed back in after a sneeze. Saying "Bless you" is just considered polite. Sometimes, we just say things by tradition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 02:44 AM |
| 6 | Should we have No Divorce groups?How do you think guys end up in gangs? If they don't have a father figure at home, they will find a father figure out on the streets and be introduced to a life of crime, drugs and prison. Where is your source that every man who doesn't have a father figure at home will inevitably end up in crime, drugs, and prison? And prove that whatever stats you find is only based on him having no father figure (so, growing up in poverty, which would be resolved in my scenario, plays absolutely no role in an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 02:40 AM |
| 4 | Should we have No Divorce groups?Orcas also defecate and nurse their young, does that mean we have magically stopped doing those two things? Nature isn't the only basis for an argument, but it also can't be the only stop for it. I gave several points of my argument. I am not arguing "animals do it so we must do it", I am arguing several different angles and points, with one of them being "Every independently evolved high intelligence, high-social mammal does it. That is not a coincidence. There is likely a benefit for doing it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Should we have No Divorce groups?And all of those women end up raising a future gangbanger because the kid has no positive male role models in his life. More specifically, in those animals in question, the young male usually joins a bachelor group when he reaches young adulthood, which is where he gets his positive male role models. In fact, we find that when poachers kill older bull elephants, the young males literally become gangbangers who rape rhinos. That behaviour is seriously reduced by having the bulls around. Cancel al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Should we have No Divorce groups?What else is not found among animals is ... generational knowledge. Generational knowledge is prominent among the same species to which I was referring, such as great apes, orcas, dolphins, and elephants. It tends to go hand-in-hand with "Long-lived social mammal", and is the basis of the social safety nets I mentioned. My entire third paragraph was about that fact. Why would you make an argument to me without even reading the comment to which you're responding? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 02:05 AM |
| 5 | Should we have No Divorce groups?Conflicts are a natural part of understanding, but changing as we grow is also natural. How many friends that you had 10 years ago do you still have? How many of the interests and values you had 10 years ago do you still hold to the exact same degree? We change, and sometimes, two people just change in ways incompatible. Lifelong monogamy is pretty much non-existent among mammals that live more than 20 years. In every other long-lived mammal, there are instead support groups, so if a female is r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 01:06 AM |
| 8 | Playing hard to get? How often is it?This. If she says she has a boyfriend, but really doesn't, it's because she knows you won't take "no" for an answer unless you think the "no" comes from a man. If she blocks you, she is physically preventing you from reaching out to her, so how the hell could that be "playing hard to get"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Question About the friendzoneWhy do women break off FWB relationships when they catch feelings, even if they are genuinely good friends and have quality sex? I haven't done that, so I wouldn't know. The guy I mentioned in my first comment was an occasional FWB at first. I'm still friends with plenty of FWBs, including ones with whom I've caught feelings but just wasn't compatible with. I guess that's what confuses me. These guys are saying that this bad thing is inevitable, but the exact opposite keeps happening to me. Mayb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Dance events or classes are a preferable alternative to dating appsWhy are you trying to attract people in the beginner class, then? Take the beginner class to focus on learning, then once you've learned, go to dance events and more advanced classes now that you're competent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 03:09 PM |
| 7 | People who don't like the fish analogy, are these ones better?Surgery, Tooth Extraction, Carpenter: Implies that a woman knows nothing about her own interests. To imply that she may not know every perspective is fine, but this one fails because it implies she is completely clueless. Food Critic: Probably the best one, since it removes the issue from the other ones and allows the woman knowledge about herself. Food critics are usually somewhat versed in food-preparation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 06:04 PM |
| 22 | Do you think there are sexualized outfits women can wear in real life, and if yes, what?Depends on what you mean by "display sex appeal". Do I, as someone who finds women attractive, find attraction to some outfits I see women wear? Sure. Do I think that there is any kind of outfit a woman could wear that communicates "I consent to being physically touched, commented on, or stared at in a very obnoxious way"? No. Do I find some outfits inappropriate for some settings? When the setting has a dress code, then yes. Also, outfits that expose genital fluids to public seating areas are i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 05:42 PM |
| 9 | Is “holiday dick” and “boyfriend dick” actual terminology that women use or am I just mindbroken by the internet?Honestly, this interpretation of those terms makes way more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 04:24 PM |
| 17 | Is “holiday dick” and “boyfriend dick” actual terminology that women use or am I just mindbroken by the internet?I have literally never heard a woman use those terms. But agreeing with another commentor, if a woman does refer to "theme"-dick, it means the guy in general, not just the penis size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Question About the friendzoneIt's not just about a man leaving, it's about him specifically leaving the moment he is told there is no sex. You're right, it could be another reason, but the presumption isn't too unfounded. (And I agree that the conversation should be held earlier. I didn't go into that because I'd have a shower of men complaining that they can't for various reasons). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Question About the friendzoneWell yeah, you interrupted a conversation I was having with someone else to make up a malicious claim/incorrect assumption against me. So, I responded to the claim/assumption. Now you're trying to change the subject from your initial assumption instead of acknowledging your error. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Question About the friendzoneIt is said every time this topic comes up. A lot of things are said when the topic comes up. If he wants me to have something to respond to, he needed, to actually state the point, not just allude to it. Which he ended up doing, and then we continued the conversation. You can't have a debate by just saying "You know my opinion on XYZ" without giving said opinion first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 11:43 AM |
| 6 | Question About the friendzoneHe didn't tell me what men's feelings were. My point there was that he needed to actually give the explanation, not just say "Men already explained". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 11:17 AM |
| 13 | Question About the friendzoneI guess I don't get why the "Happy for you" kind of mentality is uncommon in men's relationships with women. I don't generally break off a friendship because I'm jealous my friend has something I want or enjoys other things with other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Dance events or classes are a preferable alternative to dating appsEven beginner’s classes women are well ahead of the curve while most dudes show up knowing zero. I think you're going to the wrong beginner's class. Or she is. Either way, survivorship bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 01:52 AM |
| 7 | Question About the friendzone"Okay, and what explanation is that" would have been a fine response, instead of the snarky, condescending junk you just typed. Says the one who could have just given the explanation in the first place, instead of the snarky, condescending junk you typed. Anyway, the reason is most typically because it's hard for a lot of people to stay platonic friends with someone they have romantic feelings for. The first thing I said in my comment was about a man who I have romantic feelings for and am still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 01:49 AM |
| 7 | Dance events or classes are a preferable alternative to dating appsAre you trying to date the instructor? If you're in a beginner class, then no one should be teaching you to move except the instructor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 01:44 AM |
| 3 | did all of your partners grow on you?Depends on what you mean by "Grow on you". Like, yeah, as you get to know a person, the relationship becomes easier, since you actually know what they like and they know what you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 01:26 AM |
| 7 | Dance events or classes are a preferable alternative to dating appsMight want to try a beginner class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Question About the friendzoneYour comment doesn't add anything to the conversation. If you want to give me something to respond to, you'd have to argue the explanation. I have no clue what you're alluding to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 01:24 AM |
| 34 | Question About the friendzoneIt's not a contradiction. I have a male friend that, early in the friendship, I asked if down the line, he would potentially be open to a relationship. He said no. We stayed friends. Simple as. Women aren't upset that their friends have the interest in general, they are upset when the male "friend" immediately stops being her friend the moment the relationship door closes. It's a difference between "Date someone you've gotten to know" and "The 'friendship' only exists for you to get in my pants.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 12:58 AM |
| – | People should not be judged for their sexual past, but there is also nothing to be gained, physically or sexually, with having lots of sexual partners.Feminists will call me an inc-l for this but it’s true. Not sure why you had to throw in a "Feminists are meanies!" jab in there, when it wasn't relevant to the rest of the post. Can't you make your point without the imaginary bad guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 12:14 PM |
| 4 | Why does it seem more common for women to be supporting a deadbeat bum than supporting a hardworking stay-at-home partner?I sometimes hear about women who support their deadbeat boyfriend or husband who doesn’t work, The problem is in the question: You hear about them. Someone who is satisfied with their life is generally not complaining about it. It's the Survivorship Bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think carries more invisible labor — men or women?I think men and women see their invisible labour differently. When a man does a chore, he does that chore. So, the laundry needs to be done, he sits down and does the laundry. The kids need to be watched, so he sits down and watches the kids. Dinner needs to be made, so he sits down and makes dinner. He spends 30 minutes for the first, 30 minutes for the second, 30 minutes for the third. 1.5 hrs total. When a woman does those same tasks, she tends to the dinner while picking up clothes to put in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 12:02 PM |
| 2 | What do you think is the biggest hurdle toward empathy for men?That's a lot of excuses and not a lot of source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 02:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is the biggest hurdle toward empathy for men?Literally the first step in questioning my bias involves looking at the objective fact that proves my bias wrong. If your only response is "Nuh-uh", then how do I know that what you're saying isn't your bias? That's what data is for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 12:58 AM |
| 6 | What do you think is the biggest hurdle toward empathy for men?Which is sad, because we're a social species. Literally one of the first signs of our higher sapience was bones of a human who had survived decades after a debilitating leg injury, meaning other humans took care of him. The first thing we as humans learn to do is cry: asking others for help. Helping each other is what makes us human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 11:51 PM |
| 7 | What do you think is the biggest hurdle toward empathy for men?You are remarkably good at proving my point. You had the opportunity to defend other men, and instead you trolled. Proving my point that men are the biggest hurdle to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is the biggest hurdle toward empathy for men?Source for that statistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 06:40 PM |
| 2 | To appeal to women, a man must be contextual alpha. It is not optional for men. There is no such burden on women.You have to be "above average" in the hobby based on some objective metric that is observable by others. Which a lot of hobbies don't have, especially depending on what specifically he is getting out of it. There is no such burden on women. If your definition of "contextual alpha" means they have to stand out, then there is the same burden on women, because if he doesn't physically see her in a crowd, then he can't pursue her. She can do it for fun. She can suck. She can be good. If he isn't hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 06:03 PM |
| 2 | To appeal to women, a man must be contextual alpha. It is not optional for men. There is no such burden on women.You are mixing up the rarity of the hobby with the degree of competence in the hobby itself to assessing the meaning of "average". I'm not mixing up anything, you're not defining your words. Hence my previous complaint that the word "average" doesn't work here. Maybe "stereotypical". The concept of mathematical average is pointless in a conversation about things that are not trackable by numbers. Astrology isn't really a competitive sport, although you could define a metric for performance based… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | To appeal to women, a man must be contextual alpha. It is not optional for men. There is no such burden on women.Depends on how many areas of life you're including, on the definition of average, and on the actual distribution of competence in each such area. I mean, yeah, if you cherry-pick every word and context to mean only the absolute most convenient thing for your argument. But at that point, it's not much of a conversation. On the other hand, I would say I know plenty of women who are average in everyway. I know a woman who does Uber delivery, is into astrology and doesn't have any other hobbies. She… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 05:31 PM |
| 0 | To appeal to women, a man must be contextual alpha. It is not optional for men. There is no such burden on women.A man who is simply average in ALL areas of his life is not a contextual alpha, and will not succeed with women. It's statistically impossible to be average in all areas of your life. I never mentioned income. You mentioned the job, that's why I added that as an example. I wasn't basing my argument around the income specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 05:18 PM |
| 0 | To appeal to women, a man must be contextual alpha. It is not optional for men. There is no such burden on women.A contextual alpha is someone who is dominant and successful either in a job, hobby or some other environment that is of non-trivial value to society. So, he needs to be a functional, interesting, independent adult? That doesn't seem too unreasonable. Women need to have the same requirements, just geared toward childcare and homecare instead of an income, or if she is making an income, then she usually needs to have those same requirements toward childcare and homecare and gaining and income. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:53 PM |
| 27 | What do you think is the biggest hurdle toward empathy for men?The biggest hurdle for empathy to men is other men. Ted Bundy faked injuries and weakness to attract his victims. Pretending to need help is a common kidnapping tactic. Men deserve to be complimented, but if I compliment that man on the street, there is a non-zero chance that he will take that as a flirt, then hit on me, then get mad at me for "leading him on". So, I keep my mouth shut and my head down. Men can absolutely be victims of abuse by women... but a common tactic of some male abusers i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How do you deal with rejection after intimacy?Basically, the "Wait till marriage" crowd gets the 100% or 0% option. You don't have to worry about a person being interested in intimacy without romance, but if the intimacy turns out to not work out, that will crush the romance and you will have a much harder time breaking off the relationship. "Dead bedrooms" or disconnected sexual feelings are notorious for killing romance and marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How do you deal with rejection after intimacy?surely must affect how you view your value on the relationship market No, because I don't see relationships as a market, I see them as me choosing to share my life with another person. I wouldn't want to share my life with someone who is not a match for my specific lifestyle and whose lifestyle requires me stepping way too far out of my bounds to match, so I wouldn't feel morally bad about someone who feels the same. At the very most, I may reconsider where I am finding partners. As in, "I know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 02:31 PM |
| 17 | The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women.But what I think they don't seem to realize is that what religion, ideology or movement you're apart of can only survive if the people propagating said religion, ideology or movement have children and pass those teachings down to them and so on and so forth. The ideology in question is "Women are human beings and shouldn't be treated like children, pets, or property." As long as women have existed (which is longer than men have existed, technically), women have understood that concept. Now, not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How do you deal with rejection after intimacy?Well, yeah, a disappointment is going to sting inherently, and of course it happens. It's just that someone shouldn't take it consciously as a moral failing. There are lots of women who do take it as a moral failing or feel it on their self-worth. The women in this sub are often women who are feminists, so they likely have better self-esteem and have learned that you shouldn't take it as a moral failing, but the average woman may not have considered that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 02:04 PM |
| 5 | I constantly hear from women about ‘r@pe’ but every girl I have met has that fantasy and more.There are some realistic-ass video games out there. But even then, it's still both fantasy, and in both cases, you know that you're not actually committing the crime, but you're getting away with getting in the headspace as if you are and thinking like the type of person who is doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How do you deal with rejection after intimacy?I've got other shit to do, so I guess I just get back to my other things. I might think about the past experience with him now and then, and if I liked him a lot, then I might daydream about how that relationship could have been, but that's the very most I'd do. How do you mentally cope with being good enough for sex/fun but not for a relationship/commitment? I don't see it as "good enough", I see it as "different". People want different things from a partner than they do from a friend or FWB. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 12:24 PM |
| 7 | I constantly hear from women about ‘r@pe’ but every girl I have met has that fantasy and more.Do murderers pretend to consensually murder others to act out their fantasy of murder but with consent?? You realise how many violent video games there are? People have lots of opportunities to act out violent actions, and not only are we all fine with it, but anyone who suggests it may be correlated with aggressive behaviour or a desire to commit aggression is immediately shut down by people who insist it isn't. Why does the addition of sex make a difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 12:21 PM |
| 3 | What age is it weird to have never been on a date before?Never had at least one first date? I agree with most people here that it would be mid 20s. It wouldn't be bad, just either unusual or really bad luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: A male friend wants to hook up with you. You're not interested. He accepts your rejection, doesn't push it further, and still wants to remain friends. Do you have any issue with this?This and the reverse have both happened to me on numerous occasions, with both male and female friends. We're either still friends, or we stopped being friends for unrelated reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 01:14 AM |
| 8 | Why would a woman want to get married even though men overwhelmingly reap the benefits at the expense of women?Depends on the woman. My paternal grandmother grew up the middle of like 8 kids on a farm, so when the city-boy promised her a new, exciting life, she took him up on that. She was never good at socializing with non-family or getting out of the house, and her life is objectively worse now that he's dead and not taking her to events and vacations every few weeks. After he died, she went from visiting a new country every few months, to spending weeks at a time without leaving her house once, outsid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 01:51 PM |
| 3 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.It literally says, on the very first line: The Office for National Statistics has published its analysis of the divorce rates in 2018 But it's still suspicious that it throws out the name without providing the link or the code for the study. As if they aren't expecting people to actually look at where they got their information. Not being married is consistently coupled with poorer relationship outcomes. That depends on what you mean by "poor relationship outcomes". Do you mean a breakup? That's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 01:08 AM |
| 2 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.And a lot of people aren't using those. Most of the bi guys I know have the HPV vaccine, a few are on prep, and I know like one on doxypep. And I live in an area where that sort of thing is widely available and sex-ed is widely accessible, way moreso than the place I was living in before my current area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 12:00 AM |
| 0 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.That article doesn't cite its source. Not being married doesn't mean the relationship is bad. They could just not feel like getting married. It's normal for Bi people to prefer one sex over the other or experience their attraction to each sex differently, so it wouldn't be weird for a Bi Person to not realise they are bi, get married monogamously, and then live the rest of their life being bi but never identifying with the sexuality. LGBTQ people have some of the worst health, wellbeing and econ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.As someone who regularly hangs out with bisexual men, and who personally is fine with dating them, I think those women just have the fear of STIs, honestly. Bisexual/gay men are weirdly uncaring about risks. At least when a woman is promiscuous, she may fear pregnancy enough to want to use condoms (not every woman, but probably more than not), but I know bi men who gave me weird looks when I expected him to put on a condom for oral/anal. So many of them literally think of condoms as just the "pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.Yea well, my overall point here I guess is that I find it unfair to push this seemingly delicate balance mainly on men. Fair, but that's just kinda what happens when men historically decided to shoulder the role that was never really supposed to be their's. It will take a while to fix the damage that was done by thousands of years of oppression. Historically, a ton of men died in wars. And after-effects of our old past attitudes still linger, but beyond a certain point it's like... come on. If w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.Okay but if this is the experience of a substantial amount of women living in civilization Keep in mind that this is a civilization that, for thousands of years, heavily oppressed women from even being allowed to select their partner based on actual attraction. If she was even allowed to have a say in the selection, she was selecting because she wasn't allowed to have a home without a husband. In almost every other species, mate selection is done by females, but humans forced it to be done by ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters.Pitting women against each other is incredibly common. That's the Wife/Whore dichotomy, the "Wife Vs Mother-In-Law" emotional incest trope, or the "Don't talk about feminism in the West while women in the East are suffering/Don't talk about feminism in the East unless you'd like to suffer like women in the West." If the fact that plenty of women express rarely ever even feeling attraction to men in actual real life It's the difference between overall desire and specific desire to a specific pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 12:45 PM |
| 5 | "Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definitionMen know what consent is when it comes to gay men trying to fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 12:37 PM |
| 4 | There has never been a gender war only war on womenThereby justifying my point that you should focus on I can focus on whatever I want to focus on. If you don't have a response to my post, then "No, you should be arguing about XYZ instead!" is pointless. Not to mention that telling me what to say so you can argue against the topic you're better at arguing is basically trying to build a strawman. It’s overall a weak argument, although your points about bias in the medical industry are very valid, since they show real systemic imbalances. Those bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 07:51 PM |
| 3 | There has never been a gender war only war on womenYou didn't actually address my points. You just added on to your previous comment regardless of my response to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | There has never been a gender war only war on womenA woman’s ability to find her matrilineal history has no bearing on whether she can get a job. So? Why can't a woman be upset that her family is lost? Why do you have to make it about a different issue? Besides that, though, culture affects material. Who we are before we are anything is our culture. If we perceive ourselves as never being allowed to own our selves or our own names, always being a part of our father or husband, or were raised by women who did even though we personally rebel again… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 04:59 PM |
| 1 | There has never been a gender war only war on womenI'll keep an eye out for your actual response, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsDid you mean to respond this to me? It has no relation to what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:35 PM |
| 0 | There has never been a gender war only war on womenwomen impose on other women (like makeup) That's another good point: Women lash out at other women to gain favour for men. When a man lashes out at other men to gain favour for women, he is brushed off as a white-knight, and his lashing is usually quite harmless to other men in the long-run (or, if it does harm other men, people blame "the evil feminists" and not the man himself, even if the feminists/women didn't even condone that man's actions). Yet, when a woman lashes out at other women, she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:30 PM |
| 17 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsIf a woman-beater isn't in a relationship, how do you know he's a woman-beater? How do you know so many woman-beaters? A bit of Survivorship bias going on here. being from a bumfuck town myself That skews your perspective quite a bit. If the women grew up there, they will be groomed into thinking that's the best they can get/"Might as well be with the danger who will protect me from the danger I don't see". On that note, abusive behaviour literally becomes an addiction. Abuse occurs in two steps… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:18 PM |
| 7 | There has never been a gender war only war on womenBeyond the physical advantage of strength, they also have the social advantage of being considered the default: Medicine, PPO, safety procedures, etc, are made for men. Medicines are rejected if they don't work for men, even if they could work for women. The average male height and weight is used for safety limits. Male animal test subjects and male tissue is used in research. The standard male body (ex. body hair, normal face) is seen as default, but a woman who goes without makeup or shaving o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:59 PM |
| 7 | Do you, deep down, believe that casual sex is only for women to experience & enjoy, while most men must only experience sex in serious relationships?Notice anything I said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 01:00 PM |
| 6 | Do you, deep down, believe that casual sex is only for women to experience & enjoy, while most men must only experience sex in serious relationships?Double standards don't apply to things that are objectively different. Like, providing a bag of hay to a horse, but giving a meat-based food to a cat are not double standards. They need different food. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 12:43 PM |
| 18 | Do you, deep down, believe that casual sex is only for women to experience & enjoy, while most men must only experience sex in serious relationships?Did you just compare having a say in the laws and leadership of your government, to being able to insert your body into someone else's body? Women are called cars/gas mileage, candy that gets ruined, locks, etc. Calling women "a piece of paper with check bubbles on it" is a new one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 12:29 PM |
| 7 | Do you, deep down, believe that casual sex is only for women to experience & enjoy, while most men must only experience sex in serious relationships?I don't generally care about what people who aren't me do in their bed, as long as everyone consents. "You're not entitled to sex" doesn't mean you should be banned from having it with a consenting party. It just means that you should not build yourself up on the idea that sex is the only way to feel meaningful. The problem with hookup culture is that men's part in sex can and has disabled or killed people via causing pregnancy, or the fact that being the penetrator makes you more likely to spre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Rejection is Humiliating to Men.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:35 PM |
| 6 | Rejection is Humiliating to Men.The response works regardless of whether or not she actually has one, so it's used regardless of whether or not she actually has one. So just because she says it doesn't mean you should feel humiliated or just assume she's lying, since there is at least a decent chance that she does have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:15 PM |
| 6 | Rejection is Humiliating to Men.I made three bullet points. Are you going to respond to/acknowledge the second and third? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 07:00 PM |
| 5 | Rejection is Humiliating to Men.Dude, I did engage with the post. The grammar thing was just one of my three points, and I did acknowledge that it wasn't something on which I usually comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Women, seriously, what the hell is so important about wedding photos?See, that would be a much better question, though. OP could make a post about why/if there are gender differences in how each sex approaches weddings in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 06:01 PM |
| 21 | Why must girls nights and / or girls trips (ie excluding and disconnected from your partner) include places that are known for flirting, hooking up, etc?Your girlfriend’s not single, but her friends probably are. This. Just because I'm not playing the game doesn't mean I can't wingwoman my girl, or be her designated driver/drink-watcher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 05:59 PM |
| 9 | Women, seriously, what the hell is so important about wedding photos?That's not PPD's problem or an excuse to post inappropriate questions here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 05:57 PM |
| 9 | Rejection is Humiliating to Men.1: I don't usually pick on this, but your grammar is atrocious regarding run-on sentences. Your post is very hard to read. 2: Your title: "Rejection is Humiliating to Men" Your post: "Being rejected on it’s own is not bad[.] What’s horrific is the humiliation from women who find the idea of a man she doesn’t find that attractive repulsive so she goes out of her way to publicly humiliate him " "rejection is humiliating due to how many rejections you have to go through" Your post disagrees with yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 05:55 PM |
| 11 | Women who hook up... why?It's a way to meet people and quickly get to know things about our sexual compatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 05:49 PM |
| 10 | Women, seriously, what the hell is so important about wedding photos?This subreddit is for Purple Pill debating, not just "Ask Women". The Question For Women flair should be used for questions actually related to the Pills or the theories around them. Ask this in a wedding sub, AskWomen, or AskReddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 05:48 PM |
| 11 | Why should men in developing nations support excessive women rights?Because those women's gestation and nursing of those men are why those men exist. A little respect doesn't seem that farfetched. Because if you decide that it's okay to oppress some people, eventually that is going to bite you in some way. Because empathy and social connections are some of the main things that put us above the other animals. Humans aren't the fastest or the strongest. We are smart, and we are great at working together. Being a human who chooses to be shit at working with 50% of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 10:06 PM |
| 1 | How many dates do you think you need to know a person.How many dates do you think you need to know a person. You could go your whole life without knowing a person. They can hide stuff, and of course, they can change, so it's impossible to know everything about them at any given time. Presuming he's not a very manipulative and he is honestly trying to be an honest person, I'd imagine it would take me: A few months to get the general information about him. A year or two to get his more in-depth information. A year or two of actually living with him t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notYeah, we're talking about rates, so generalizing is appropriate when creating hypothesis about why the rates are as they are. Your personal experience is irrelevant to rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notmen are never gonna view it that way since being ejected back into the terrible dating market can't really come off as anything but a failure. That's just a weird way of looking at it. I don't think a car was a waste of money just because I won't be driving it in 20 years. I don't think my first apartment was a shitty apartment just because I happened to have moved to one closer to my current job. I don't think any of my previous jobs were failures just because I happen not to be working at them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Has feminism gone too far in the west?Responding in the other comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Has feminism gone too far in the west?I presume the reason you needed to spread that into two comments was because of a word limit. That word limit is rather useful to stop Gish Gallops. Basically, the more you throw at your argument, the less you actually care about the argument. It's about throwing as much as possible to see what sticks, rather than actually reviewing your own sources and putting interest in your actual case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notIt makes the stat about women initiating more divorces even weirder. Yeah, it's rather interesting. Women get more judgement for divorces, but women also initiate divorces more. If that judgement didn't exist at all, I bet you that lifetime monogamy would be basically uncommon as polycule relationships currently are. It would be so uncommon that it would be seen as weird and fringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notPart of that is internalized misogyny. Especially since many (male-led) religions push the rhetoric of "If he beats/cheats on/leaves you, it's because you are a failure as a wife" and "women exist for the purpose of marrying a man and mothering children". If you're groomed since birth to see a marriage ending as your moral/personal failing as a woman, then it makes sense that you would have negative beliefs about ending relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:49 PM |
| 7 | Has feminism gone too far in the west?so you think feminism is supposed to change people's personal opinions on things like promiscuity? Historically, it has. Christianity likely exists because a teenage girl made up a story to avoid the death sentence of having sex out of wedlock. Nowadays, most civilised parents think of their daughter having sex out of wedlock is a mild inconvenience at most. Places with higher feminism tend to have less people arguing why a sexual woman should be murdered or have her clitoris cut off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notwith why even get to the point of a relationship until you fully know them? It's impossible to fully know someone, because we change over time, and those changes can be impossible to predict. For example, when my parents married, both were liberal, atheist, and egalitarian. One pregnancy-induced stress hallucination and a few uses of a daycare center that turned out to be Baptist-run later, and my mother is a conservative, Baptist, and mostly anti-feminist, homophobe, etc. My dad is still a libe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:35 PM |
| 7 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notSociety doesn't just decide what our instinct is. It's not that I want short relationships in a society that hates them, it's that what happens to me relationship-wise is going to happen, and the healthiest option is for me to accept which discomforts are my fault (forcing on a relationship that has ended) and which discomforts are other people's fault (society's treatment of me for ending the relationship). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:25 PM |
| 7 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notYeah, we exist in a society that shames, and previously banned, relationships ending, and doesn't appropriately teach people how to healthily end a relationship. Of course a person is going to feel worse mental health when they're treated like they're a bad person for acknowledging the need to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:19 PM |
| 11 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notBut that kind of just shows that women are driven by emotion Quite the opposite. Dragging a partner along, hurting both of you, because you are so afraid of being alone, is definitely more "driven by emotion", than accepting the logic of "This relationship was okay, but it's not working anymore." Contrary to popular belief, humans are not a long-term monogamous species. Some humans do manage to make it work (or force it to work via shame and/or laws), but long-term monogamy is basically nonexist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:12 PM |
| 21 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notHigher rates of breakups, shorter average relationship length This is because they are easier. If women aren't happy, they end the relationship. If men aren't happy, they drag their wives along because they are more afraid of being alone again than the stress of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:05 PM |
| 10 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doEdit: He admitted he was intending to talk to someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:37 PM |
| 8 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doSo, you admit you weren't talking about me? If you have a problem with "some posters", then go talk about it with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:36 PM |
| 6 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doUncivility in debate is against the rules in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doDid you get me confused with someone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Has feminism gone too far in the west?They kinda have to. The minute they stop pushing forward, they get yanked back, and things they obtained quickly get taken away again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:02 PM |
| 7 | Has feminism gone too far in the west?We didn't even have Roe Vs. Wade for 50 years. The current USA campaign is absolutely into the idea of making it harder for married women to vote, stay single, etc. The Tickle Vs Giggle and similar lawsuits are barring women from having sex-based spaces to talk about sex-based issues. Childcare is absurdly expensive (most single parents are women). USA is very interested in stopping contraceptive accessibility, and the low birth rate is blamed on women not having kids instead of being blamed on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:01 PM |
| 3 | How to hot women deal with breaking so many hearts?"Heart breaking" from the breaker's side is very different from the broken side. "Breaking someone's heart" could literally be anything like "The guy had a crush on me until he found out that I have an opposing value/already dating someone/ am not interested in some trait about him/etc." You can break someone's heart without knowing they exist at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doThe majority of women aren't dating inmates, so that's not a very good sample size. Being an inmate doesn't inherently make you a bad person. More people are arrested for just stupid or mostly harmless shit than explicitly violent or dangerous things. Dating an inmate isn't the same as dating someone on the outside. While he is incarcerated, the inmate is basically harmless. I'd be more interested in how many of those inmates' girlfriends stick around after he is out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Women, when you say an “unattractive” woman is attractive — do you actually mean it?I don't think anyone is 100% unattractive. She likely has some traits to honestly compliment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 05:05 PM |
| 16 | Women's ostensible attraction to "badboys" may just be misattribution of fear-based arousalI was recently trying to understand why Game of Thrones was so absurdly popular It's well-written, with an interesting story and lots of cool characters? Doesn't seem that unusual for it to become popular. I think one of the big aspects is that no one was really designed to be the main character, so anyone can find a favourite character in the cast, from the sword-fighting little girl, to the woman who seeks retribution for having been humiliated, to the boy who loses his family and tries to fig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 04:03 PM |
| 18 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?This is honestly one of the things that will actually help. Providing better support systems makes raising kids easier, which means more people can feel comfortable having kids. It's suspected that that's the reason gay people exist. More hands working that aren't making more mouths to feed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 08:46 PM |
| 13 | What would your contribution look like to efforts to raise the birthrates ?Yeah, I have no clue why people are so insistent on the birth rate being so high. Like yeah, it's gonna suck for the next few decades, but it will even itself out eventually. It's not like humans are going extinct. There really is no reason for there to be 9 billion of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Women support patriarchyI'm not the arbiter of what is physically possible. So, "I don't trust a man to do it" can't be the same as "Men can't do it." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:50 PM |
| – | We shouldn't look down on people who goes through surgeriesThat isn't what I meant by "Ugliness is subjective". I explained what I meant in the following two paragraphs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:49 PM |
| – | We shouldn't look down on people who goes through surgeriesBeing ugly also not healthy though It's not not healthy. It doesn't affect health directly, unless it is caused by a health issue. I believe 'fixing' can be reasonable to 'a degree' if you know where to stop. That "if" is doing a lot of carrying. Ugliness is subjective. You see it in makeup all of the time: She starts out with a little eyeliner to look nice. The more she looks at her eyes to apply eyeliner, the more chances she has to notice other things on her face: a wrinkle here, a pimple the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Women support patriarchyI didn't say "men can't be trusted." I said "I don't trust a man to do it, because I have never met a man who did it, and most men I've met explicitly lied about it." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Women support patriarchyYour entire post was about complaining that men can't be househusbands No it isn't. I never said that men can't be househusbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:12 PM |
| – | We shouldn't look down on people who goes through surgeriesObsessing over your appearance enough to want to drastically change it becomes an addiction. The more things you "fix" the more things you find will "need" to be "fixed". Not to mention that unnecessary cosmetic surgeries are dangerous. We don't pick on going to the gym, because going to the gym is physically healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:10 PM |
| 4 | Women support patriarchyIt looks like you just zeroed in on the phrase "50/50" completely out of context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 06:04 PM |
| 12 | Women support patriarchySimple solution is to become the breadwinner but they're hypergamous so they're not going to settle for a househusband. Unless the househusband is the one who will gestate, birth, and nurse the child[ren], we're still going to rely on his income for months to years at a time. Not to mention the concern of a job giving a woman less hours or not hiring her at all out of fear that they will lose her to pregnancy, even if she has no interest in actually having kids or plans on being the working pare… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Women, would you be friends with an active sex worker?In your rant, you didn't actually answer the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 11:13 AM |
| 6 | Women, would you be friends with an active sex worker?How/why would I control whether my daughter was friends with a prostitute? Did you read anything else in my comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Women, would you be friends with an active sex worker?I am currently friends with an active prostitute. I don't see why I should stop being friends with her over it. I don't generally reject a friend over just an occupation. She doesn't quite fit your model of "she only does it to afford expensive shit", but then, I have never heard of a real prostitute who does. This idea that prostitution is "just easy money" is pretty much just a fantasy made by Johns and Pimps, which is made obvious by the fact that those Johns and Pimps are magically never wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 01:35 AM |
| 4 | QFW: How do you feel about men who legally change their sex to retire early, as occurred in Argentina a few years ago (story inside)?You're*, and sentences end with periods. (I'll mute and head out, though, I don't feed trolls). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 10:52 PM |
| 5 | QFW: How do you feel about men who legally change their sex to retire early, as occurred in Argentina a few years ago (story inside)?You are remarkably good at proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 10:51 PM |
| 2 | QFW: How do you feel about men who legally change their sex to retire early, as occurred in Argentina a few years ago (story inside)?I used to work at a group home for senior citizens... the reason men die 7 years younger is because that's what happens when you choose to not take care of your body. The self-care behaviour between the men and the similar-aged women was drastically different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 10:10 PM |
| 2 | QFW: How do you feel about men who legally change their sex to retire early, as occurred in Argentina a few years ago (story inside)?The majority of these sorts of things don't require any change besides just a verbal declaration. Beyond that, in your 60s, your testosterone is crippling due to age anyway, so it's not that big of a deal, I don't think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 08:32 PM |
| 5 | QFW: How do you feel about men who legally change their sex to retire early, as occurred in Argentina a few years ago (story inside)?It's basically to be expected. If sex laws are built around a personal identity and not actual needs, then people are going to use that loophole to get around them. I don't really think retirement has a reason to be sex-based anyway, and I don't think people should be able to change their legal sex on official government documentation, records, and censuses. Your gender identity is your personal identity. Your sex is an objective measure of census and record. So, I'm not a fan of any part of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 08:31 PM |
| – | Expecting autistic men to mask and upgrade their entire lives, especially dating, while not even giving them a chance or ever trying to approach them is hypocritical and illiberal.I meant masking is easier when the requirement to mask is forced on you at a young age, and it's harder when the first time you're told "no" is well into adulthood. Not that the overall experience is better for girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:34 PM |
| – | Expecting autistic men to mask and upgrade their entire lives, especially dating, while not even giving them a chance or ever trying to approach them is hypocritical and illiberal.How do you know its easier for women to mask? My first thought as well. I think it is easier, though: I work with people with autism for a living, and you would not believe how much the moms coddle the boys. Men who really could be more independent than they are are still at home with mommy well into their 30s, still being fed by her instead of being encouraged to cook for himself, still letting her handle all the paperwork when I know he could pull some weight with it, etc. Dad does it too, don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:05 PM |
| 13 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)Literally the purpose of letting women enter and drink for free is to sell very drunk women to men. There are way better places you can have a ladies' night with friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:42 PM |
| – | Exactly when did hating men become “popular culture”?then they would be a bit more careful about what they say and how they treat men. They are. Hence why these sorts of things are usually only complained about online, where no man is actually present, or otherwise in situations where she is not alone with a man. Iran should be a cautionary tale to women that the backlash can be swift and irreversible and that their rights are contingent on the acceptance of the majority of men. That cautionary tale makes so little sense to me. Men are so terrifie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:32 PM |
| – | Exactly when did hating men become “popular culture”?While I haven't seen all of those, the usual common factor isn't just that he's an oaf, but that he's a loveable oaf. A woman portrayed as an oaf is played off as "Look at this stupid bitch. Anyone who tries to correct or direct her is clearly in the right.", while a man portrayed as an oaf is played off as "Look at this silly, wholesome dad. Anyone who tries to correct or direct him is clearly just a nagging bitch (his wife)." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:12 PM |
| – | Exactly when did hating men become “popular culture”?These days it has become so lopsided that even the hint of it coming from a man gets you canceled but coming from a woman gets you applause. Not that it's a good thing, but in fairness that difference of response is probably because a man can kill a woman easily with his fists alone, and it's way harder for a woman to do the same to a man. It's kinda like how people freak out way more about a pit-bull biting someone than a cat biting someone. It's not a double standard if you are describing two … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 02:09 PM |
| – | Exactly when did hating men become “popular culture”?Venting about a group who has collectively threatened you and caused you harm pretty much occurs as soon as you have some safe place to do so. The only difference for men is that in the past, complaining about men occurred over tea time when no men were around, and nowadays it occurs on the internet, where a man might stumble into and see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:29 PM |
| 6 | Women, are you consciously aware you treat attractive men differently?Isn't that what you want? Guys complain when women don't give them signs we're not interested in him, and now they complain when we do give them signs we're not interested in him? Make up your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themLike everything you wear automatically shows off cleavage and underboob because your boobs are just too big to cover up and it’s not your fault? You literally said "Every single dress or club outfit is designed to show cleavage and draw attention to the tits." So, that's your claim. I don't entirely agree, as I don't think it's every outfit, but yeah, the majority of outfits that aren't explicitly outfits for very cold weather and therefore be very bulky, will in some way wrap around the cleavag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themIt's weird that you're asking me that instead of actually responding to my points. I have no reason to answer your question if you won't respond to my points first. Why would I answer you if you're not reading my answers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themYou didn't respond to either of my points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 12:07 AM |
| 6 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themDid you mean to respond this to me? It doesn't seem to respond to anything from my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 05:01 PM |
| – | Gender non-conformity can't really existI have more than just PCOS... I appreciate that answer, at least. The reason I asked is because you're waving around "your" DSD as if it's relevant, but you refuse to state what your DSD is. This is very common in the DSD version of AsABlackMan (pretending to be something you're not and using it to shut down conversation). You can't say "Why would you ask about my condition?!" when you literally started a conversation built around your perspective of supposedly your condition. That is super dish… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:57 PM |
| 14 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them1, I already answered that: Problem is that when you have big ass/tits, then everything accentuates them unless you are going far out of your way to hide them. As you said, all of the clothes are designed to show them off. It's not like she can temporarily deflate her large tits/ass. 2, I already answered that: I've also had no problem with a man finding me attractive if he was being respectful about it. My point of "If she doesn't know" is that if he's not being obnoxious, then she wouldn't hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:42 PM |
| 18 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themWomen basically want to see themselves as sexy sexual beings, with hot bodies and good looks, capable of drawing sexual attention. But they see the men who sexualise them as disgusting pigs Idk, I run in lesbian circles, and we have no problem finding each other attractive. I've also had no problem with a man finding me attractive if he was being respectful about it. Yet every single man who dares look at their breasts. If she doesn't know you're looking at her breasts, then she wouldn't have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:29 PM |
| – | Gender non-conformity can't really existEDIT: I just looked up your post history, and I see you talked a bit about having PCOS. Is that what you're referring to by your claim to be Intersex? Or do you have another diagnosis from which you base your identity? Which DSD/Intersex variant are you? DSD is an outdated and sexist term. Intersex variants aren't disorders, You got a bit mixed up there. The first D can either mean "Disorder" or "Difference". Also, a majority of people with DSDs feel positive or neutral to the term Basically, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 02:54 PM |
| – | This subreedit should have a rule against derailing and for sources.Besides reporting the comment for irrelevancy, you can also just stop responding to the thread if you're in it. That's not how studies work. If I made a "study" where I asked my 10 male friends a question, and then uploaded that article somewhere, that's not a real, peer-reviewed study that can actually back the argument. In the same vein, just because a study is old doesn't mean it's not valid. I don't think quoting things is worth being a whole rule, but I agree that it's helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Gender non-conformity can't really existIt doesn't hinge on belief. Belief is irrelevant. Again, this is just religious talk. Hence why you claim there is "evidence" and "academic assessment" but don't provide any evidence. There's a reason people are declared essentially dead if their brain ceases to function even if their body does not Yeah, the reason is because the brain sends the commands to the rest of the organs. Not because everything you experience is only in your brain. It is very likely that in the near future, we will have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Gender non-conformity can't really existFancy talk, but doesn't provide any evidence to your implication that brains and bodies are two completely different things. Basically, it boils down to if you believe in spirits (that our identity is a separate thing from our physicality). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Gender non-conformity can't really existIf you don't have a body, you don't exist. Your brain isn't a separate entity from your body, it's intertwined and connected to your body through your nervous system, which directly affects your thought processes and emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Gender non-conformity can't really existTbf, that term has very subjective definitions. If you polled the sub on how many people believe consenting adults should be allowed to transition their body if they choose, and participate in any event of their transitioned gender that is not explicitly affected by any part of their sex that couldn't be transitioned (ex, trans woman wants to wear a dress, trans man wants to be a voice actor for male characters), I'd wager most of the sub would be fine with that. What I'm mostly seeing here is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Gender non-conformity can't really existAll intersex disorders are either male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Gender non-conformity can't really existThat red hair statistic is wrong. It tends to count people whose sex was affected later than developmental stages (like Late onset congenital adrenal hyperplasia, or even Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome). If you specifically are counting disorders in which a person's sexual development is disordered, the number is much lower. like there was a story about a woman who had birthed children but was intersex Yeah, there are a few DSDs that do not affect a woman's fertility. For example, Trisomy X (XXX ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Gender non-conformity can't really existIntersex people do fit the male and female categories. I also have a list of intersex/DSDs, which states which sex each one fits into and why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Gender non-conformity can't really existThere will likely come a time when human brains can be put into other bodies. What will people be then? Does the brain define sex? Bodies are sexed, brains are not (outside of the fact that your brain is your body). Brain development is affected by your experiences, but your body was sexed before your brain even existed, and your sex is built into every single cell of your body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 03:32 PM |
| 10 | What opinion do you see other women commonly openly share, that you don’t agree with?Honestly, I think they just like the pretty number. I doubt most women could actually correctly guess that a man is 6'0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | What opinion do you see other women commonly openly share, that you don’t agree with?The whole idea that a tradwife is a good thing or that giving up your name and your kids' names is no big deal. Why any woman goes through birthing a child- a process that is life-threatening or can cause permanent injury if not closely monitored by a doctor and was a massive cause of death until like a century ago- and then gives no shits about the man's name being plastered on the baby is beyond me. The overall idea of letting his name be on the kid isn't my issue, it's the idea that this is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:30 PM |
| 13 | Would you have hooked up with all your past boyfriends?I have one past boyfriend, and yeah, I'd hook up with him. At the time, I was looking for a boyfriend specifically, and wasn't open to FWBs, so I would have rejected that then, but I wouldn't reject it now, since now I'm open to FWBs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:24 PM |
| – | Are women relatively happier dating bisexual men than straight men?The majority of men I've dated or tried to date were bisexual, yeah. They tend to be more respectful (although I have met one or two who were still horribly misogynistic). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Millionaire ‘regrets’ not marrying wealthy ex so she could ‘divorce him for money’Yeah, as I said, he made a bad investment and now he's whining about it. Should have gone for hiring a nanny and maid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Millionaire ‘regrets’ not marrying wealthy ex so she could ‘divorce him for money’And yet he chose to have kids and chose to not hire a nanny and maids. According to your story, he had the finances, so he could have done that at any time. If he did that, and she still refused to work, then he could have divorced her right off the bat, well before those 20 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Millionaire ‘regrets’ not marrying wealthy ex so she could ‘divorce him for money’Ah, I misread your comment, sorry. I thought by "Refuses to work", you meant "She actually refused to do any work". You just meant she couldn't do paid labour because she was spending all of her time and energy doing housework and childcare work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 02:30 PM |
| -3 | Millionaire ‘regrets’ not marrying wealthy ex so she could ‘divorce him for money’I didn't ask why he left her after the 20 years, I pointed out how suspicious your story is that he stayed during the 20 years of her doing and providing nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 02:27 PM |
| -1 | Millionaire ‘regrets’ not marrying wealthy ex so she could ‘divorce him for money’I edited it. I still find it very suspicious that he was married to her for 20 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Millionaire ‘regrets’ not marrying wealthy ex so she could ‘divorce him for money’I'm not sure that a gossip blog is all that useful to make your point. It's not exactly a factual or unbiased source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Millionaire ‘regrets’ not marrying wealthy ex so she could ‘divorce him for money’Why did he stay married to her for 20 years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:53 PM |
| – | Q4W: Paternity tests changes the gameI think the best solution to this issue is just to have better social safety networks for kids. The "nuclear family unit" was always stupid, anyway: we're communal raisers. All higher-intelligence social mammal species are. That way, there would be no reason for France to outlaw paternity tests, and no reason to lie about paternity. If it's not his kid, he can just know that, and him knowing that and deciding to opt out won't fuck over the kid for life. She would have no reason to lie just to en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Do women see a male lack of strive as a moral failure?I think it depends heavily on what you mean by "lack of strive." If whatever he is doing does negatively affects anyone else (ex. He has no long-term goals despite other people being dependent on him, he falsely drags women along with a promise of commitment when all he actually wants is a lay or two) then there is a problem. If what he is doing doesn't negatively affect anyone, then I might see a woman complain because, for example, she has a crush on him but he isn't becoming someone who could… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:27 PM |
| – | I think discussions about x sex(which don't involve a single person from x sex) are fueling sexism and hate.but are actually being answered by women who hypothesize what guys think according to their own personal experiences and biases. Because the questions often aren't intend to be "Why do guys xyz". They are "Why do you think guys xyz". As in, it's trying to get the female perspective, of what goes through a woman's head when a man does something. Like, if you ask me why my cat stares at me, I would say "Probably because he likes looking at me." My dad would say, "Because he's angrily glaring at me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Women, would you agree to do sex scenes/nudity in movies if you were a famous actress, and would that answer change if you had a boyfriend/husband?why famous rich actresses agree to do something which would be very humiliating in any other context Clearly it wasn't humiliating to her, or she wouldn't have done it. I think if you're that experienced as an actor, you just get used to doing weird stuff on camera. And if you had a bf/husband who wasn't super duper okay with it, would that change your position? I don't think I'd be married to a person who had opinions on what I do for my acting roles. If I was a famous actor, chances are I woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 12:50 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as "platonic cuddling" between a straight guy and a womanSurely if it was so well known, you would be able to provide a source on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 03:28 PM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as "platonic cuddling" between a straight guy and a womanWhat source do you have that it is impossible for a healthy man to be not horny in the presence of a nude body? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as "platonic cuddling" between a straight guy and a womanAnd people aren't generally turned on by neutral presentations of adults' bodies. I've been to nudist areas, and I can promise you that the men aren't just popping boners 24/7. The less of a deal you make it, the less of a deal it becomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 03:15 PM |
| 4 | There is no such thing as "platonic cuddling" between a straight guy and a womanI've seen men cuddle with their children and pets all the time. If they can do that without getting horny, then I'd imagine they can cuddle other adults without getting horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 02:58 PM |
| 2 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?Even the Code of Hammurabi, the first written laws, notes that the reason Alimony exists is to support her labour of caring for his children: " If a man wish to separate from a woman who has borne him children, or from his wife who has borne him children: then he shall give that wife her dowry, and a part of the usufruct of field, garden, and property, so that she can rear her children. When she has brought up her children, a portion of all that is given to the children, equal as that of one son… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 02:56 PM |
| 8 | There is no such thing as "platonic cuddling" between a straight guy and a womanask yourself does your male bestie “spoon” with his male friends? If he doesn't, that's his problem. Most social mammals like cuddles and physical affection, including resting with each other. We're a very physical species. I've spooned my cat, and I definitely don't want to fuck my cat. does he massage the feet of any of his lads? Not even my sexual friends do that, but in general, I do have male friends who give each other platonic massages, yeah. My friend group, male and female, are a group … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 02:36 PM |
| – | Is it common for people over 60 to move this fast in dating?I don't... think a debate subreddit is the best place for you to go about this. Maybe a family therapist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 11:56 AM |
| – | What can we glean about men vs women from the TV show Alone?but there have been contestants with stage 1 frostbite that they didn't pull until it got to stage 2 (or 3?) Have there been? Or did they write that up for the drama? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 06:30 PM |
| – | What can we glean about men vs women from the TV show Alone?What can we glean about men vs women from the TV show Alone? Nothing, it's a scripted TV show. Even if it claims to be unscripted, it's still scripted. Competition shows usually are. Their reported reasons for tapping out are likely scripted to be more interesting. Also, article about how they're not really all that alone, and tap-outs are often triggered by the producers to keep away bad publicity if they suspect any medical issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 06:09 PM |
| 6 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?A woman would absolutely choose to not support her man and support her own kids, That's what Stay At Home Mom is. It's her sacrificing her income for her family. Hence why you could only make that point when you took that line out of context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 05:23 PM |
| 8 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?Interesting that the only way you could make that point was by talking that line out of context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 05:22 PM |
| 9 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?And weaponized empathy is literally the downfall of any civilization. Not all empathy is weaponized empathy. Sometimes, empathy is just empathy. Such as when it's being kind to the woman who willfully sacrificed her career to support you in building hers. Supporting her isn't even just empathy, it's just basic social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 02:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumdoes recent research suggest the pull-out method is actually effective, or it’s not, but commonly attempted, which is why you listed it? It's not not effective, it's just not the most effective. The most effective is multiple forms of contraception (ex. Pull-out and condoms). The reason pull-out is ineffective is mostly just because people are bad at doing it. If you piss before sex (to get sperm out of your tubes, so it isn't in the pre-cum), and don't ejaculate in or near the vagina, then yeah… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 02:21 PM |
| 12 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?Bullshit. No government enforces that Kinda ironic, isn't it? A woman can choose to support a man and support her own kids, but a man will not do the same unless he is told to by someone else. A woman can sacrifice 10 years to make a man rich, and he can just cheat on her, lose her, and cost himself nothing and her everything. Well, that is an immoral view. The whole idea of state-sanctioned "safety net" is extremist bullshit that is very much characteristic of extremist and uncivilized societie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 02:09 PM |
| 15 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?The very existence of alimony is immoral. As immoral as "Working parent, stay at home parent", anyway. If one party is only able to make the money because the other party has given up their income, then the party with no income should have a safety net. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 01:44 PM |
| 13 | If marriage benefits men more than women, why are women always the ones pressuring their partner into marriage?Why women want it: Because women are taught that marriage benefits them more than it does. Hence why little girls are groomed up with romance stories, and why they are taught about how terrifying it is to be a "Crazy, single cat lady". Also, if they want to have kids, their legal bind will make a more stable home for the kids, since it makes it take more effort to break the bind. Not to mention that if you're already dating for years and years, then not getting proposed to kinda implies that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 01:14 PM |
| 8 | Women in the past were not unhappy in their marriages, modern women's psychology have just adapted to modern societyif we asked our mothers, most of them would not say they were unhappy in their marriages. I used to work at a group home for elderly people... Elderly women have skeletons in the closet, let me tell ya. they were legitimately happy when they found this man. Women weren't allowed to own property in many places. Being able to have a house and food would certainly make someone a bit less unhappy, yeah. My, and your mother lived in a time where women couldn't own credit cards. We even see this with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 02:03 AM |
| 4 | What kinds of social media habits are red or green flags for men?The only real trend I'd consider a concern, other than like illegal stuff, is spending too much time on any social media platform. Otherwise, the differences I've noticed on different platforms is: Reddit: I do not know a single friend's Reddit account. I feel like Reddit is the kind of site that you don't really share your account. Most of my friends know mine, though, since I run a sex-ed-for-adults webcomic on Reddit. Twitter: Someone who wants general news. Discord: Wide range, but very like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 12:41 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumI mean, you had every opportunity to address that one teeny little issue, but I suppose I can't force you. See ya around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 08:50 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumThis is just not a fruitful discussion because you're just dishonest. Ironic coming from the person who apparently missed sex-ed. Sex doesn't cause pregnancies. Sperm entering a woman's vagina causes pregnancy. The vast, vast, majority of sex acts do not involve a sperm entering a woman's vagina. You don't need to keep being up sex. No one is insisting the man doesn't have the right to or not have sex. In my previous comment, I distinguished that as Number 1. Which is separate from Number 2. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumBut once a woman is pregnant, Why are you skipping a step? They both agree to have sex He chooses to ejaculate in her (as opposed to ejaculating in a condom, pull out, etc) THEN she gets pregnant. That second step that you keep skipping is the part where it's in his body, and his choice what he does with it. She doesn't have the right to force where he ejaculates his part of the baby-making process. He doesn't have the right to force where she ejaculates her part of the baby-making process. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumA "baby" requires birth. That's why I said "to-be baby". A fetus doesn't magically spawn in the woman's uterus. Y'all act like a woman looks at a man and just decides to teleport his sperm into her uterus with a snap of her fingers. Step one: A thing is in the man's body. A thing is in the woman's body. The woman's body one can't exit her body (except menses or surgery). The man's body one can. Step two: The man chooses to put the thing from his body into the woman's body. Step three: The woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 05:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumIf women have right to an abortion, why shouldn't men have right to a paper abortion? Both have the right to biological and paper abortion. The to-be baby spends time in both of their bodies. It will only become a baby if both parties choose to participate in their part of the baby creation. Each party can choose to opt out his or her part. Once the baby exists, the state won't take partial custody, so either both parents together or neither parent together can abandon the child. I don't get why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindpool to draw from is larger, Which does not mean the amount of feminists is larger. Not to mention that active and productive rights groups tend to do best when they focus on local issues. For example, Indian feminists are more focused on Indian misogyny issues, and do little to help, say, Korean feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsResponding to this in the other comment thread, to keep it straight. Muting this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsResponding to this in the other comment thread, to keep it straight. Muting this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Wife told me she prefers chocolate to sex. Is this a common experience with women?In favour of Sex: Good sex is better than good chocolate. Sex is healthier than chocolate. Chocolate doesn't care about me personally, and can't do other things for me. In favour of Chocolate: Chocolate is (usually) consistently good. Sex is hit or miss, even with the same person. I don't need a good headspace to enjoy chocolate. I need to be in the mood to enjoy sex. Being unhappy makes sex physically painful. Being unhappy doesn't generally affect the taste of chocolate, and definitely doesn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsNow you're responding to me in a third place? Stick to your conversation with me, dude. I don't talk to people in three places in one thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindssomeone has to push it there. Which is part of the natural evolution. I don't know how I could make this point more clear: People choose what to converse about. When I say "natural", I mean they both agree to move the conversation. Who started the move is irrelevant, it is natural because the other party agreed. When I say "unnatural", I mean one decides to push the conversation and ignores the other person's input, or just kills the conversation if the other party doesn't agree to the move. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindFeminism has far more influence than other rights groups That's like saying "There are more chickens than humans, therefore animal rights groups are the strongest rights group". Not every woman is a feminist. I would presume that most aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsI presume you didn't intentionally mean to respond to me in two different places. I don't generally have conversations with one person in two different places, as it tends to cause confusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women expect men to read their minds"By natural evolution, I mean that both parties consented to it becoming more relationship-oriented, generally via one party casually moving it to that, and the other party reciprocating" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:00 PM |
| -2 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsAnd conversations don't naturally evolve on their own Dude, you're acting like conversation is a distinct thing that just happens to people, or some kind of battle of minds. If two people want to talk to each other, a conversation is naturally evolving on its own. If one person forces the conversation and refuses to let the other person have a decision in what the conversation is about, then it didn't evolve naturally. That's what I mean when I use my words. If you use those words differently, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindI'm familiar with the second most spoken language in the world and certainly people consider themselves feminists in that country do not share much in common with what we'd consider radfems. That would be Mandarin, which is the primary language of one of the countries that just got over its one-child-policy, which resulted in millions of female infanticides and women having to face a reality that if a large number of parents had the option of shoving nails in the skull or sand in the mouth of an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsAh so by unnatural evolution, you mean the man actually directly stating what he wants No, I was pretty clear in my words. By Unnatural evolution of the conversation, I mean the conversation doesn't evolve. He shuts down the conversation to make it into only what he wants to talk about, and then loses interest (ends the conversation) when it doesn't do what he wants. Feelings are not reality. Not in general, but in the topic of "Is this an actual conversation?" then yeah, her comfort and consent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 05:55 PM |
| -4 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsIf it evolves its because the man made it happen. Which is natural evolution. By unnatural evolution, I mean the man interrupts the flow of conversation, stares at the woman, and says "I want to date you". By natural evolution, I mean that both parties consented to it becoming more relationship-oriented, generally via one party casually moving it to that, and the other party reciprocating. If it felt natural to the woman, then it is natural. No one said conversation occurs mindlessly, with broug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindYou rarely ever see radfems outside of leftist spheres in the West... That's because the majority of the world doesn't primarily speak English, and the majority of rights fighting isn't done online. Libfems are more prominent to white, rich cultures because they can afford to waste time online and speak English. Rad fems make up the rest of the world that doesn't have English as a first language, and are actually physically acting. I wasn't advocating for anything there, just bringing up the fac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 04:55 PM |
| 0 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsPart of the issue is that many individuals on the autism spectrum struggle with non-verbal communication. That's not her problem (being autistic doesn't mean a woman must make an exception to her body for you), and As I keep responding to every single person who has made that argument and missed where I said "verbal and non-verbal aren't mutually exclusive levels. You can mix in some verbal and some non-verbal until you've got a good feel of things." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindFeminism focuses on issues that disproportionally affect women, in contrast to humanism. Yeah, the focus is on the female perspective. No one said feminism doesn't do anything to improve men's wellbeing: in the same vein, a homeless shelter does help non-homeless people, because by having homeless people off the streets, the streets can be safer, and those homeless people may become homed, independent, and able to pay taxes and contribute to society. The difference is the focus. Feminism helps m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindIf the homeless shelter forcibly took your house to give it to men, you wouldn't be so eager to help. This is extreme and is not what happens with feminism, but it's how some men experience it. Why would you use that as an argument if you admit it's not even happening and is just men's perspective? Why would it be feminist's fault if someone perceives that but it's not actually happening? You could at least provide an example of something feminists actually objectively do to men, (specifically f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindThe mainstream view of feminism includes equality That's called "Egalitarianism" or "Humanism". The "Femin" in "Feminism" exists for a reason. Also, Radical Feminism, or variants of it, is the primary feminism found in most countries and regions. Liberal Feminism is only prominent in some parts of USA and somewhat in the UK (Rad Feminism is taking back the UK, though). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindThat opinion seems to change when it's time to convince men to join the cause. Depressing, isn't it? I can support a dog shelter without that shelter rewarding me. I have actively volunteered at a men's homeless shelter, which would not support me if I was homeless. I have volunteered in lots of places that would not be applicable to me. Kinda sad that men have to be given rewards in order to be social and empathetic. A movement is represented by its largest/loudest group, The problem is that if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsYeah, hence my "But still, verbal and non-verbal aren't mutually exclusive levels. You can mix in some verbal and some non-verbal until you've got a good feel of things." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:50 PM |
| 8 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsI have literally never met a woman who complained that a man casually mentioned he was single. It's super casual, too. I've had a guy drop it as "Oh, I go there with my girlfriend all the time too- Well, I don't have a girlfriend right now, but back when I did". Or "So, you here with anyone?" (I respond 'No') Him: "Ah, me neither. I'd usually go somewhere like here with a girlfriend, but I'm single right now." The only complaints I've ever heard was when he clearly wasn't casual about it, or jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsin other words they want to dictate the time and pace of where the thing is going without having to verbalize it directly. It's almost like nonverbal communication exists. The main barrier to deal with is learning about a woman's nonverbal communication- and yeah, if she expects you to know it right off that bat, that's on her. But still, verbal and non-verbal aren't mutually exclusive levels. You can mix in some verbal and some non-verbal until you've got a good feel of things. They dislike get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindExactly. Neither does any feminist who actually thinks for a moment about feminist theory. The "Equality" one is Egalitarians and Humanists falsely claiming the Feminist label. The reason "Femin" is in "Feminist" is because they are a rights group for tackling oppression based on the female sex. Versus "Egali" and "Human" in Egalitarian and Humanist. Feminism is a rights group for women. Dog shelters are resources for dogs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindOR, feminism is not for equality, in which case the movement is sexist, No one complains when a dog shelter "discriminates" against homeless humans. No one complains when a group home for people with certain mental illnesses "discriminates" against mentally healthy people. No one complains when a "Park Cleanup" group "discriminates" against cleaning up his personal backyard. Rights groups are allowed to have one specific group that they focus on. Feminism supports a group that consists of 4 Bill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 12:28 PM |
| 5 | Feminist modern society has given women the freedom to choose non traditional paths, yet still expect men to uphold traditional roles while also compensating for the roles women left behindFeminism fought for many thing, womens vote, women education/career, sexual liberation, reproductive rights, etc. Yet while it gave women the right to choose, it did not account for how men would adapt to the new normal, Feminism has no reason to account for how these things will affect men, anymore than a homeless shelter has to account for all of the homeless dogs while it's busy housing homeless people. Nothing wrong with men fighting against their own oppression, and women choosing to help m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 12:24 PM |
| – | American boys have become less supportive of eqaulness effect more pronounced among the highly socialized.Thanks for proving my point. As was presented farther in my post: "having PIV sex with someone who doesn't identify with their penis, doesn't magically make pregnancy less dangerous to the women." The point is that there is nothing transphobic about this, because the reason trans women are counted in 4B has nothing to do with their identity. You can 100% accept the person identifies as a woman, and still acknowledge that their sperm, if they have any, can kill or maim you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:40 PM |
| – | American boys have become less supportive of eqaulness effect more pronounced among the highly socialized.A blog post isn't really a source. It can't be peer-reviewed, especially when it draws conclusions it may not have enough information to draw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:39 PM |
| – | American boys have become less supportive of eqaulness effect more pronounced among the highly socialized.I mean, a blank "Nuh-uh", followed by agreeing with me and proving my point, isn't much of a bubble burst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:34 PM |
| – | American boys have become less supportive of eqaulness effect more pronounced among the highly socialized.I'd presume it's a reward thing. They feel like being pro-social should be something for which they personally get rewarded (with sex). That's also why, for example, liberal men threw a tantrum about and silenced/brushed off things like American women's call for 4B. When abortion rights were restricted, women said "Let's not have sex with any men, so we won't need abortions." And the liberal men said "What about me? I didn't vote against your abortions? Why are you punishing me?" And the married… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:25 PM |
| – | Why are women who talk about 'decentering men' still using male owned businesses?Basically, it isn't hypocrisy if it's a thing you need to function. Nearly every job requires using computers on the jobsite. Getting hired requires having access to a phone number and email. Getting access to free-flow of information requires access to forums, which requires the internet. My job specifically is contact-heavy. We are not the society we were 50 years ago. We are a society built around the information highway that is the internet. It's not my fault that companies who create these … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:11 PM |
| – | Why are women who talk about 'decentering men' still using male owned businesses?So, you're pro slavery? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:05 PM |
| – | Why are women who talk about 'decentering men' still using male owned businesses?Because men are more likely to be entrepreneurs and be into tech And have generational wealth in order to fund their sons and male friends. The vast majority of male CEOs you can think of got their position that way. They didn't "work themselves up from nothing" like they like to pretend they did. Are you trying to tell me that all the women in tech are secretly trans? I never said "All" or "Secretly". Honestly, I am rather curious of the rate, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:00 PM |
| – | Why are women who talk about 'decentering men' still using male owned businesses?The thousands of women graduating with CS degrees every year? What percentage of men with tech degrees are CEOs of companies? As I said, it's not just a degree, it's also nepotism/cronism. A higher percentage of men have both than women have either. All men in disguise. coughcough There is a reason why every lesbian subreddit forbids talk against trans women, and every gay subreddit is perfectly fine with talk against trans men. It's because the lesbian subs have trans women moderators. Tech deg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 12:48 PM |
| – | Why are women who talk about 'decentering men' still using male owned businesses?These women don't regularly interact with any of those men on any personal level. I'm also against slavery, but I use a smart phone and a hybrid car, both of which very likely had materials made of slavery. Decentering men is about how a woman shouldn't sacrifice her identity for an individual man's identity. It doesn't mean she can't interact with her entire social community, in which men happened to nepotistically/cronistically hoard all of the CEO jobs for each other. (Of note, though, femini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Polygamy is actually very ineffective as a reproduction strategy for humans.I'm not sure what you're saying here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Polygamy is actually very ineffective as a reproduction strategy for humans.why would most hunter-gatherer societies not be structured like this Many of them were. It was the advent of misogynistic religions that demanded women's submission to men that mostly nixxed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Polygamy is actually very ineffective as a reproduction strategy for humans.Yeah, the problem is that you're looking at polygamy from the wrong angle: Who is the leader? The stereotypical view is "If there is one male, and a bunch of females, then the male is the leader!" And that's wrong. We almost never see that in the wild in groups of this makeup, especially in higher-intelligent social mammals, with only a few exceptions like the sociopathic Chimpanzees, or the extremely sexually dimorphic gorillas, neither of which are traits humans share. What we see, is males le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 01:56 PM |
| – | We are looking at the gay man analogy wrongwouldn't that further prove the point that they're not seeking it out? No. Think of it like the difference between going to a massage parlour, and taking a home remedy like pain medicine for sore muscles. Men are probably less likely to go to massage parlours, because many men would be less comfortable withe idea of being felt up by a stranger. But that doesn't mean men are less likely to have muscle pain. The r/becomingorgasmic sub is mainly women. And the r/erectiledysfunction is mostly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 10:07 PM |
| – | We are looking at the gay man analogy wrongInterestingly, the only study about lesbian sex vs gay sex vs straight sex that the article cites, is a study from 50 years ago. The study that notes the bias of the need to broaden the definition of sex for these estimations to be accurate, is a study from 15 years ago. Grindr is irrelevant to this, since hook-up and horniness are two different things. Getting off takes more work for a woman and knowledge of her body by the partner, so hookups are inherently less pleasurable to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Men should take up their issues with the women that caused themThe opinions of the Korean men, to whom the 4b Korean women don't speak. So have no actual perspective on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Men should take up their issues with the women that caused themTalk anyone in real life about what 4b is and they’ll look at you like you have 3 heads When you do, yeah. Because 4b women aren't talking to you. Koreans said it’s more of a fringe movement, Proves my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 07:00 PM |
| – | We are looking at the gay man analogy wrongRegardless of whether it changes my mind, it will show that you're actually trying to discuss, rather than just throwing out things to see what sticks. I think that's an important step, so it will be useful regardless of if it changes my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Men should take up their issues with the women that caused themBy definition, you couldn't know about 4b because 4b women aren't talking to you. So, Survivorship bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 06:13 PM |
| – | We are looking at the gay man analogy wrongBut gay men have way more sex than lesbian women. Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Men should take up their issues with the women that caused themThere are crazy mass shootings on a daily basis in your country, and yet you fixate on ONE not particularly bad one from ten years ago…. Ironically, one very common thing that school shooters have in common is usually a hatred of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 11:38 AM |
| -2 | Men should take up their issues with the women that caused themIt already has been, hence why men have been on a warpath to silence and censor it and pretend it doesn't exist. I follow plenty of blogs of women who are casually 4b or separatist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Men should take up their issues with the women that caused themMany of "The girls that slighted" Elliot Rodger were random women he didn't even know. Often, "slighting" a man/boy is just her trying to exist. She dares to exist without catering to him. She dares to date someone else. Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Would you blame a woman if she got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way? How about men if they got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way?I don't respond to the same person in two places. Responding to this in the other comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Would you blame a woman if she got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way? How about men if they got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way?Still don't have the courage to give the number, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Would you blame a woman if she got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way? How about men if they got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way?So? What was the number? If you're really an arbiter of honesty and statistics, then what's the number of sexy women's clothing in the article? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Would you blame a woman if she got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way? How about men if they got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way?Lol, are you admitting you didn't actually read the article? There are arrows on the slides. There are 6 different exhibit slide shows, featuring 25, 26, 51, 76, 101, and 126 different stories respectively. A total of 405 stories. Before calling it "fallacious and ignorant", maybe prove that you're not fallacious and ignorant, by reading through those slides and counting how many of the stories were of grown adult women wearing provocative clothing, and how many were not (ie. Normal clothing, ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 12:42 AM |
| 9 | Would you blame a woman if she got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way? How about men if they got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way?There is an interesting exhibit on the events | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Would you blame a woman if she got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way? How about men if they got sexually assaulted/harassed in some way?No? There is not a single thing a person can do that will make them get raped, if there is no rapist present. The literal only one thing that all sexual assaults/rapes have in common is that a rapist/sexual assaulter decided to commit a rape/sexual assault. There is nothing wrong with teaching safeguarding, but safeguarding should only be talked about in the conversation of just general self-protection. It should never be brought up in conversation of blame. No matter how well-guarded you are, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | If its offensive when women say it about men, then be offended when men say the same thing.If you dont like how feminists see male sexuality as disgusting and degrading…..how about calling out loudmouths normalizing toxic behavior as “men being men” and/or blaming women for that toxic behavior? Why not do both? The men who degrade women aren't mindless robots. They can stop at any time and question their own actions. I see no issue in a woman both calling out a rude man and a woman calling out bad parents/teachers. There is a note, though, that people in a rights group focus on the th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Are porn viewers complicit in the abuse that is rampant in the porn industry?Are you pirating? Is the average person pirating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Are porn viewers complicit in the abuse that is rampant in the porn industry?We can only attach criminal liability to the producer of the abuse, The OP wasn't explicitly about criminal liability. It was one of his many questions, but I didn't answer that one. I just answered about moral and social wrongness. the law has not yet been changed to treat adult nonconsensual images in the same way that it treats csam, Rape porn is illegal to possess. It's just harder to prove in court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Are porn viewers complicit in the abuse that is rampant in the porn industry?Animated abuse is still capable of desensitizing the viewer to irl abuse. Potentially, yes, and the desensitizing is a separate, but equally interesting conversation, as the "You are encouraging this company to straight-up let you watch them abuse an actual human being" conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 02:52 AM |
| 4 | Are porn viewers complicit in the abuse that is rampant in the porn industry?Are porn viewers complicit in the abuse that is rampant in the porn industry? Yes. If you view media that has a very high likelihood of depicting actual rape, abuse, drugging, etc, then you are giving them advertising money, and are complicit in the abuse. If you view media that has a low likelihood of this, like drawn media, animated media, written media, media where you personally know the actor in it, media performed in a place that has very high regulations and standards for their actors, wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 02:00 AM |
| – | Breasts are the reason everyone is unhappy, especially womenIt's women's bodies' whole deception tactic. It wouldn't be if we were more exposed to women's natural bodies. There is a reason that public bathhouses are very important for a society: they allow people, including children, to see and understand how bodies change as we age. If the only breasts you see are the ones in porn, of course you'll get the wrong idea. And they only exist in order to cause those problems. Besides feeding babies, they also exist to protect our hearts, and to store fat to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 06:05 PM |
| – | Dating in your 20s is impossible if you want true loveI think this guy is a teenager. The only people who might think teenagers aren't insanely shallow and status conscious are people either younger than, or who are teenagers. (And even then, many kids and teenagers also know it's not the case). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 04:23 PM |
| – | Dating in your 20s is impossible if you want true loveAdult love can t be stronger by definition because 99% of women reject you If you are unemployed with no goals Exactly. A teenager is capable of "loving" someone who is bad for them and likely going to sabotage them. How is that love? That's just blind vulnerability. A (mentally healthy) adult loves and respects themselves, so if that adult loves you, it's because they feel like you love and respect yourself too. That's actual love. Not just blind vulnerability. When they are older they want a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 02:49 PM |
| – | Dating in your 20s is impossible if you want true loveThe last part of the brain to develop- which matures in early 20s, is the "Long Term consequences" part of the brain. The reason why teenage love is so overwhelming, is because teenagers literally cannot meaningfully process the future. All they really understand is the here and now. So, does true love die after your teenage years? Yes and no. Yes, you won't feel the same after teenage years as during. No, because what you felt in teenage years was not true love. It's kinda like how we look at k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)that tells them they don't deserve to date who they want to date. No one deserves to date who they want to date. You don't deserve access to other people's bodies. the narrative also tells women that they should despise older men by default Despise? No. Have educated consent, yeah. If the relationship was really innocent, then any judgement wouldn't affect the couple. If her being educated by a concerned party causes her to leave the man, then he wanted her lack of educated consent. If she is ed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 06:12 PM |
| – | Why does the phrase "Nah, she's too hot for me" annoy women?And the classic male-female understanding of a normal guy doing the same/similar thing that an actually malicious guy would do, and then getting confused as to why women put their guards up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Opinion on the Online Safety Act / Surveillance ?I don't think the way it's being done makes sense. On one hand, I do like the idea that media promoting rape, pedo, incest, etc, becomes much harder to easily access. On the other hand, individual websites shouldn't have to remove media, and shouldn't store our personal information. The best course I've heard is using a device lock. Where the device account itself is listed as either "adult" or "kid", and the device communicates to the website if it's okay to show adult stuff. although the latte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 03:18 PM |
| – | Why does the phrase "Nah, she's too hot for me" annoy women?Like many of the people here, I have literally never heard that phrase. who're a little more plain, maybe a bit rough around the edges It falls a bit in the range of negging. Negging men state that the reason he wants a woman is because she's not attractive, as a way of hurting her self-esteem and making her desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Men love women for who they are. Women love men for what they can do.Did you ever have the experience of having to set out to meet and approach other people for friends and/or LTRs within your local communities at social groups and events, aka the other one’s outside of the “most”? I go to plenty of social events, especially kinky ones, but I run into the issue that most of the crowd I run in just coincidentally happens to be the crowd a bit too old to be partner-material. I'm also just not very social in person, so even when I go to events, I tend to spend the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Men love women for who they are. Women love men for what they can do.Women, it was him who started it, correct? He made all the big moves to establish something serious. Did you find him attractive first or he found you? My first boyfriend was pretty mutual: He was my coworker at a festival, and his jobsite was the place other workers liked to hangout when they were on break. Our interest in each other was mutual, but our first interactions were purely me coming to him (because he couldn't come to me- my jobsite was Floating, lol). I think I asked him on the date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:24 PM |
| 4 | How would you want to be told that your married partner is sleeping around?she went home and flashed me a pic of her chest, except her husband was sitting in the background looking away from her, Of note, poly/open couples do exist, so you don't have to presume he's not in on it. If that makes you feel a bit better. Otherwise, I'd want some proof, like screenshots from the girl or details about him you wouldn't know unless you've slept with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:08 PM |
| 3 | How do you all talk about this online discourse in real life?Ah, I see. Yeah, you misread: I didn't say a man who is critical of feminist thinking is ignoring me. I meant that I don't generally meet men in real life who are both critical of feminist thinking and educated on feminist thinking/able to hold an honest discussion. The critics I meet online are 50/50, with plenty of them actually being educated on and able to hold a conversation about it, but the only IRL men I meet who are interested in talking about the topic for some reason are never in that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:34 PM |
| 2 | How do you all talk about this online discourse in real life?Did you mean to respond this to me? I don't see the connection between your comment and mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 02:07 PM |
| 5 | How do you all talk about this online discourse in real life?The worst I'd do to talk about this in real life, is that sometimes, it's common for women to vent about the men in their life, and share discussion about patterns we notice. We don't do it in a "Men are so awful and should die", but more of a "I don't understand why my husband does XYZ" "Oh! My boyfriend does that too!" I occasionally read up on feminist literature, so some times I slip that into conversation, "Oh, this author I read about once theorized why it's common for men to do that." Whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Women’s vetting does filter out the majority of menYou just distilled male suffering into “have a hobby.” That’s not empathy. That’s deflection. It's kinda like that conversation about "If you have depression, go outside and exercise more." Like, we tend to brush that off because yeah, going outside and exercising won't literally cure your depression, and anyone who thinks it will is an idiot, but your depression can't get better if your body is deteriorating. You do actually need exposure to sunlight and fresh air on your recovery journey. Sure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Women’s vetting does filter out the majority of menSo you admit the system's real, My first words were "Presuming all of this..." I don't know that it's real. I was just trying to move past the numbers conversation into the next, more interesting step of the conversation. Cool, and if men wanted to be less frustrated, they'd be less frustrated. But only one of those gets called entitlement, the other gets called empowerment. Being less picky requires dating a person you don't want to date. Being less frustrated requires just... thinking about so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Women’s vetting does filter out the majority of menShouldn't an awareness post be flaired under "Discussion", and not "Debate"? I mean, the OP is a mod, so rules don't apply to her/she can reinterpret them per her convenience, but still, if it was a normal person making this post, it would likely be judged more critically for if it actually fits the sub/flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Women’s vetting does filter out the majority of menI'd like to debate the OP, I just am a little confused about what specific point you're trying to make that you want debated. Other people seem to be holding conversation with you just fine, though, so maybe it's just me. I'll leave this one there, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Women’s vetting does filter out the majority of menOkay, I can draw back a bit: What sort of engagement were you expecting with this post? What overall point were you hoping to debate? Why did you feel this topic is worth discussing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Women’s vetting does filter out the majority of menSo, why'd you make the post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a man who has full custody of his kids?I don't really want kids myself, so probably not. (I'm not Childfree, kids just aren't in the cards for me in the near future). If I happened to be a single parent, then yeah, I would have no problem combining my forces with another single parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 12:51 PM |
| 4 | Ladies! I’m just genuinely curious on why you don’t care if your man lusts over other women?Because we're a social sex species. I'm only affected if it actually affects me (ex. He has bare sex with other people, exposing me to the risk of STDs or him to the risk of fathering a child he can't support). Disclaimer: I'm pro-poly, so my jealousy standards are a bit lower than most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Women’s vetting does filter out the majority of menPresuming all of these "80/20" and "Women are so picky and would never date anyone" are true... So? If the women wanted to be less picky, they'd be less picky. If the men want access to women who explicitly don't want them, then why would that woman feel safe around that man? What exactly do men hope to accomplish by spamming this complaint? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 12:49 PM |
| 20 | Question for women who get approached regularly on the streetThis. The only people who have ever approached or catcalled me have always been either 50+ 15 Around my age, but noticed my Bisexual pride necklace or whatnot and is trying to Unicorn hunt me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 12:11 AM |
| 6 | We are looking at the gay man analogy wrongThe point is that there are many reasons a woman would reject a man who has no rejection reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 02:48 AM |
| 6 | We are looking at the gay man analogy wrongAnxious and less social people like myself just prefer being alone. No matter what I'm doing with this person, doing that thing alone will likely be better and more comfortable. Being allowed to stop doing it whenever I want just feels better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 02:15 AM |
| 5 | We are looking at the gay man analogy wrongIt's impossible for me to have a good first interaction, is my point. Not to mention that some people just have stuff going on and don't have the time or interest in having a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 02:04 AM |
| 7 | We are looking at the gay man analogy wrongbut would also say if she would rather be in solitude then you’re (the man) not her type. Tbf, it takes a while of getting to know someone to learn if they're your type. It's something I struggle with: I am always anxious around someone the first time I meet them, no matter who or how attractive they are, and I instinctively want to avoid the anxiety. but women like men are very sexual the big difference is the percentage of men that women are attracted to is much smaller than the percentage of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:50 AM |
| 7 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.Which suggests that all those jobs are if not onerous No it doesn't. It says "Here is the list of things to do for baby, and I'm not even going to list all of the things parent needs to do for themself either, but just know that is also a list." If you viewed parenting as I do, your comment would reflect it as mine does. Literally no one cares or asked how you view your experience parenting. My comment is just an objective list of parenting tasks to respond to OP stating an incorrect list of par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:34 AM |
| 9 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.I'd not generally note this sort of thing, but holy crap, learn how to make paragraph blocks. Why is dad “neglecting” anything if he chooses to give his full attention to the child. What’s stopping him from then giving his full attention to the dishes afterwards I answered that: "If you only have 1.5 hours to do three different hour-long tasks, you have two options: Multitask them, or do one, neglect the second completely and half-ass the third." The rest of your rant is nonsensical and has noth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:32 AM |
| 8 | We are looking at the gay man analogy wrongThe gay man analogy is literally just "You know how we can easily get something physically shoved in our body, to great physical risk to our health? So can you. You know how you struggle to get sex where your pleasure is prioritized? So do we." is there a guy in the world where 50% of straight women would sleep with Probably. how many men would that even be even if all the men’s got their shit together. By shit together, you mean in this hypothetical, no man has any trouble getting resources, be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:28 AM |
| 10 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.I've never understood why when a parent hears someone describe the many responsibilities of a parent, they immediately jump to exclaim how happy parenthood makes them when they look back on it and empty nest about it. This conversation has nothing to do with that. Literally no one said "All of this will make you hate your kid and be so regretful about being a parent!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 11:25 PM |
| 34 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.Yep, you have to do all of the dozens and dozens of things to take care of the kid while he is actively fighting against you. And since Neglect parent is only around for the fun stuff (or the SEVERELY bad stuff), Multitask parent has to handle all of the emotional pain of being standard Bad Cop all of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 08:27 PM |
| 124 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.There was a comment I made about this the other day: For example, a mom I know follows her toddler around while he toddles around the house, and she simultaneously watches him, responds to and interacts with him, picks up clothes on the floor to throw them in the hamper, and checks on and adds things to the dinner cooking on the stove. When her husband is watching the kid, he is usually scrolling his phone while the kid toddles. The more attentive dads I know will play with the kid. They won't m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 04:50 PM |
| 7 | Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standardsYou are essentially comparing the attraction of heterosexuals to heterosexuals to the attraction of heterosexuals to gays. No, we're comparing getting a penis shoved in you with no interest in how much or if you actually enjoy it. This literally confirms that women experience exactly the same emotions and disgust towards male sexuality as heterosexuals do towards homosexuals in a romantic and sexual sense I think this bias comes from a place of homophobia. I'm bi, so there isn't a sex I'm not at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysAre you just talking to yourself? You're not actually responding to my points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysExcept when they're religious leaders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysAnd? I didn't say all MGTOWs do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 04:13 AM |
| 8 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysBasically, medical procedures already have a thing in place that decide on if the practice of that procedure was correct. Deciding if that procedure was appropriate or not, how to perform it, how not to perform it, what to do if a doctor performs an inappropriate one, etc. These codes and procedures are written by a team of highly-trained professional doctors. These codes are not written by or judged by laymen. These procedures are carefully crafted and written with exact wording, and doctors ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 12:09 AM |
| 13 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysThe vote on abortion, which was directly on the ballot in USA's recent election in many states, wasn't on just banning abortion. It was "Should people who are irrelevant to this medical procedure get to have an opinion on the medical procedure?" So, the men didn't just opt out of the vote or have no opinion. They voted "I should get to have an opinion on random women's healthcare." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 11:15 PM |
| 7 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysAfaik, yeah. Feminists aren't really in support of the military or wars in general, especially since drafted soldiers tend to take their aggression out on female civilians/prisoners of war (and sometimes even the males). I can't see women wanting to send a bunch of frustrated young men off to the middle of nowhere with weapons and free reign to do whatever they want to the locals. Likewise, the main feminist argument against the female draft isn't "Women are dainty and weak", it's "If you send a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 09:22 PM |
| 3 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.I still don't understand what you "did" to me in this hypothetical, or how it relates to what the Tea women are doing. Hence why I gave detailed examples. Did what you "did" to me fall in any of those examples, or is it something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 09:20 PM |
| 2 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.Your definition was confusingly similar to gossip. The whole point of my comment was to say "It's not doxing, it's gossiping", and you responded "What you're describing as gossiping, I describe as doxxing". So, I need to know what your difference between gossip and dox is. would you say that you were "doxxed" if I determined your identity then posted your name, photos and relationship history on reddit? It depends on how you "determined' it, and what access any other person would have to "determ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysWomen don't respect virgin males. We're talking about MGTOWs, which don't inherently have to be virgins. They're just not currently having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 08:29 PM |
| 7 | Looking through the wrong lense: Which issues do men and women get wrong because they assume the other sex thinks like them?Housecare. Studies of self-report claim that men self-report spending more time doing housework than women, but I have not met a single married man who I have witnessed doing more housework than a woman does. I think men overestimate how much they do, and women underestimate how much they do. Women don't really see the active cleaning stuff they do as an activity in itself, while men do. For example, a mom I know follows her toddler around while he toddles around the house, and she simultaneousl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 08:21 PM |
| 7 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysNo one talks about them ( including women ) because they have no social dominance. Or they do have social dominance, but their social dominance is just built around other things. The Pope is abstinent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 07:51 PM |
| -2 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.I can't. The question is built around us potentially using the word "dox" to mean different things, since I don't know how you distinguish it as different from gossip. If I don't know how you define "dox", then I can't answer your question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 07:50 PM |
| 10 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysAnswer my questions first (what Men's Rights Groups are you referring to?, What laws for or against having a draft did women majorly vote for?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 03:02 PM |
| 11 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysTaking away paper abortion harms women, DEI is designed to remove discrimination against women, and what Men's Rights Groups are you referring to? What laws for or against having a draft did women majorly vote for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 02:54 PM |
| 8 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysIsn’t this what voting is about though? Women have no problem voting against men’s interests. What men's interest do women vote against that, if was voted for, would not directly harm women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 02:33 PM |
| 35 | Women care even when undesirable men are going thier own waysThis. MGTOW men often aren't going their own way. They fight to strip women of their rights and punish women for "making" Men Go Their Own Way. There are plenty of MGTOW men who do go their own way, and no one talks about them, because they're minding their own business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 02:30 PM |
| -4 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.Posting any personal information without a person's consent in an effort to shame, harass or intimidate them is doxxing. The Tea app is "actual doxxing". What would you say is the difference between doxing and gossip? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 11:43 AM |
| 4 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.Lurkers count as participants if having any access at all to a thing is illegal. Entering and remaining in a revenge porn Telegram chat immediately gives you access to all of the revenge porn on the chat. I haven't even seen anyone actually evidence what information any individual women were sharing, but the Tea app doesn't automatically give all women on the app all access to anything shared. It worked more like, say, Reddit does, where there may be illegal things on Reddit, but most Redditors … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 03:23 AM |
| 5 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.And how do you know that all of those thousands of men were posting stuff and not just lurking? Revenge porn in and of itself is illegal, so any participation, including lurking, is illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 03:02 AM |
| 5 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.Thousands of men on that one specific Telegram chat that was caught explicitly sharing revenge porn, versus millions of women on the app all together. That's not specifically the number of women even active on the app, nonetheless participating, nonetheless specifically posting immoral things. The app also has a requirement/bonuses for signing up friends, so you'd have to calculate how many profiles are fake profiles to get around that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 02:58 AM |
| -1 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.You are also downplaying what information was being released on the app. This depends on what you mean by "released", although disclaimer that if there was something as bad as men's ID's getting shared, I do honestly not know about that. According to the appstore page, the app had: Criminal background check (which is publicly accessible information) SO registry check (which is publicly accessible information) Reverse phone lookup, which are features commonly found on websites across the internet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 02:27 AM |
| 3 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.Gossip isn't doxxing, no. It's not polite, but it's not illegal to just talk about your experiences. Doxxing is providing private/protected information, like their SSN, their ID, date of birth, place of birth, medical information, etc. Just "I went on a date with that guy and found out he's actually married. Head's up to avoid him if you don't want to be a homewrecker" or "I went on a date with that guy, and he made a big stink about wearing a condom." isn't doxing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 02:09 AM |
| 4 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.I guess you admit that all you're complaining about is women complaining about men... so backing OPs point... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 02:00 AM |
| 8 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.I don't see that for Tea, either. The ones praising it aren't praising it for "Look at this app that promotes you posting screenshots of the IDs of men you've dated for other random women to see" (which is what 4chan did, and afaik not a thing that Tea did). They're just praising it as a chat/gossip app, which is neither inherently doxxing nor illegal. Basically, either what happened on Tea is the complaint, in which case 4Chan and Telegram are way worse, or what Tea was promoted for was the com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 01:53 AM |
| 8 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.Lies about men make people fear them and treat them like a threat, whereas lies about women rarely evoke that intense of an emotional response. Lies about women get them honour killed, abused and abandoned by friends, or brushed off as liars themselves if they try to speak up about abuse they've faced, allowing their abusers free-reign to keep abusing them. I know several women who lost literally their entire community because one man lied about them. Also, in the context of dating, lies about w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 01:48 AM |
| 11 | 'Tea App' rage just proves men cannot handle being treated like women.Telegram got in trouble for having Telegram groups where thousands of men shared revenge porn with other men. Not to mention that after Tea was leaked, 4Chaners made several websites showing off photos of the leaked women's IDs, which is actual doxxing. Of note, Tea afaik wasn't dedicated to doxxing- the only address and other type of personal information the app had was just via it having one of those "People lookup" search things built in, which are pretty common websites you can use to look u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 01:45 AM |
| 12 | Do you actually think men who are decent in bed have a line of people waiting for them?Do you actually think men who are decent in bed have a line of people waiting for them? How would the other people in the line know he's decent in bed? Not once have I told a female friend, "Hey, that guy is great in bed! You should take the next turn with him!" If he attracted me, though, he likely has qualities/charm that will help him attract others. That's less about his bedroom skills specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:26 PM |
| 5 | People who moralize around "sexual objectification" are its worst offendersBDSMesque parties where you get armbands with inscriptions "anal only" "fisting" or "spanking" where they can select and fuck complete randos in a seedy back room Of note, consent is still required in these events. Armbands just advertise what you're interested in, but you still have to actually communicate, and the person can opt out at any time. Also, these events are usually moderated and supervised to ensure no one is being made to do something they don't want to do or being harassed by some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Feminism has actually accentuated gender differences and made ancient relationship models reappear in the WestI could have sworn it's not what most feminist outwardly proclaim. The ones who do so don't understand what "gender equality" would entail. The two different sexes have two different sets of needs. The only equality needed is the acknowledgement that neither sex is more or less human than the other. We all have pros and cons, strengths and weaknesses, and there's nothing wrong with that. Otherwise, feminism focuses on freeing women from oppression based on their female sex. Humanists and Egalita… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:45 PM |
| 1 | If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right nowIf men are willing to greatly sabotauge themselves and each other just because women dare to say no to them, I doubt getting a little pussy will suddenly change their minds. Empathy means doing good regardless of what you get out of it. I want the ASPCA to be funded even though it doesn't do anything for me. I want a better foster care system even if I may not ever have kids. I want forgiveness for predatory college debt even though I don't have any myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityDo you think “Don't hit a lady” sounds sexist Kinda. Depends on context. If it's in the context of "If a woman hits you, just take it", then yeah it's sexist. I don't think a man should full-force punch a woman just because she slapped him, though, but he should at least be allowed to push her away. If it's in the context of "Don't allow women to ever play contact sports even if they consent to playing the sport" then yeah. If it's in the context of "Don't hit a lady, but it's fine to smack a bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityI'm not entirely sure what your question is here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 05:11 PM |
| 2 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?I already answered that. There are two types of hobbies: Productive ones (as in, they in and of themselves produce something, such as a material craft, measurable objective skills, etc) and unproductive ones. They're just like the difference between normal food and sugary food. Sugary food is good for you. You do need some sugar in your diet. Nothing wrong with having some cookies or ice-cream every night for dessert. It's just not healthy for it to be your only diet. (Also, by "They produce som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityHave you tried going outside and observed that most men see women as equals? If that were the case "Don't hit a lady" or "boys will be boys" wouldn't be a thing. It would just be "Don't hit anyone" and "kids will be kids", which, to be clear, are also things, but the former two are still things as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Western women preferencesThere is also the fact that being tall doesn’t actually necessarily relate to health in most cases Yeah, which is why most women don't cite 7ft or 8ft as their preferred height. Those heights are when poor health starts to be correlated with height. Otherwise, a man who is taller than a woman of similar genetic makeup is a healthier man/has more testosterone, simple based on sexual dimorphism. Sexual dimorphism causes male humans to be bigger than female humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Western women preferencesAnd? As I just expressed, height is directly correlated with health, since a healthy man is bigger than the average healthy woman of the same culture. The 6ft preference specifically is just because it's a pretty, round number. Most women can't estimate how tall 6ft actually is. They just register 6ft as "tall". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:28 AM |
| 10 | Western women preferencesLikely because when you complain about "women's muh preference", you don't actually care about or listen to logical reasons for them. You just want to complain about women for daring to have preferences. Edit: Lol, he complained and then ran away and blocked me to avoid my response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:18 AM |
| 4 | Western women preferencesYour debunk doesn't amount to much, since male models are usually or usually depicted as taller than their female counterparts (depicted even if he is shorter than her), and just because a few actresses were tall doesn't mean their tallness was directly the cause of their popularity. As I showed, height can be hidden by camera angles. Wearing heels makes the ass pop out more. Most women who wear heels don't wear heels tall enough to really effect their height, as the average heeled shoe is 1-2 i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:17 AM |
| 10 | Western women preferencesAnd yet men don't say "you must be shorter than me" Sure they do. There are plenty of men who feel emasculated by a woman who is taller than them. For example, Prince Charles was caught doing that with Princess Diana. "Transvestigating" is also a somewhat common phenomenon, where women who are tall, have small hips or wide shoulders or muscles or whatnot are presumed to be trans women. Not to mention, of course, that our size is evolutionarily picked. Men have controlled women's choice in breedi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 01:58 AM |
| 18 | Western women preferencesI will put this delicately, but does the fact that most western women to use a euphemism, have a high body count, that it makes them prefer men with a larger endowment? The vagina is only so deep, dude. They all seem to prefer taller and bigger men. Because we're a sexually dimorphic species. The average healthy man is bigger than the average healthy woman of the same culture. The women will probably try to deny this but the more partners you have it does seem to stretch Wrong, but elasticity in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 01:29 AM |
| 10 | How can men learn/evolve to enjoy their single life like women and not be needy of long term relationships? How can single men live like single women?Hobbies. Specifically creative, productive hobbies, that give you a sense of accomplishment that you can share with other people. It's important to have things to look forward to (the completion of your project, the next event at which you can show off your project, etc). Make sure to have at least 1-2 hobbies that involve doing something physically with your hands (besides using a keyboard/mouse or wanking). We're sensory. We need sensation. (Non-creative hobbies are more like candy. They're go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | If you dont realize that bad men come in all forms, you are incapable of lecturing women to “choose better”.and the number of love letters that violent male criminals receive from random women they've never met is astounding. When that criminal gets out, how many of those women actually go to be with him? The "love letters to criminals" thing is on par with the "Vampires vs Werewolves" thing of the Twilight craze, or "Bodice-Ripper kidnapped-by-pirates" romance stories. It's not actual love, it's just a fantasy. Those women see that criminal as a fictional character, even if he's real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 11:41 PM |
| 13 | Feminism has actually accentuated gender differences and made ancient relationship models reappear in the WestAlthough feminism had the goal of bringing about gender equality Feminism is about freeing women from oppression. It's not about gender "equality", because we're a sexually dimorphic species Studies point out that in societies with gender equality and stable economies,, attraction to more dimorphic features is more prominent Presuming your unsourced claim is true, Is it "women in liberal countries prefer more dimorphic features than women in conservative countries" or "women in liberal countries… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 11:37 PM |
| 5 | What makes a guy boring?The women deciding which hobbies are more likely to indicate a boring or irresponsible man, versus which hobbies are more likely to indicate a fun or happy man. That is what OP's question is about. A hobby by definition is "An activity one performs for fun". Occasional gambling can be fun, but regular "hobby" gambling is generally performed because it feeds an addiction, not because the person actually finds it fun. Especially in gambling-addiction encouraging activities, like gacha/lootbox game… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityI guess if you're not interested in a conversation, that's fair. At least you admit that, so I'll mute and leave you to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityExactly. Your mother and grandmother both lived with those social grooming. It takes more than a generation to heal it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityNot strange at all, when men are socially groomed since birth with "Demand more, never settle, compromising with your wife means you are a pussy loser", while women are socially groomed since birth with "Demand less, always settle, give up your and your childrens' names to your husband. If he doesn't clean up after himself or help with the kids at all, and you ask him to do so, you're a nagging bitch. Women are Helpmeats designed to help men." Challenging the status quo means challenging social … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 06:50 PM |
| 8 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinityAre you advocating for paying your half on dates? I always wonder if RP men think lesbians just dine-and-dash all the time. I'm female. I want to impress a girl, I give her a gift. If the date is a dinner date, the gift is a meal. Simple as. If you are only interested in girls who pay for dates, then date girls who pay for dates. No one is stopping you. Are you advocating for settling for a man in your league? Fun part of this is that you don't get to decide what's a woman's "league". That's the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Hot take: (CMV) The "Healthy Masculinity" feminism pushes is more toxic than the toxic masculinitySacrifice yourself for others for nothing, serve others and expect nothing. You mean "Being a member of a social species"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 06:41 PM |
| 7 | What makes a guy boring?I think it would depend on the hobby. Crypto, for example, isn't so much as a hobby as it is gambling. It's not inherently productive, mentally or financially, with productivity being largely a risk. Same with some gaming, like Gacha/Lootbox heavy video games or card-collecting games, where yeah, it's stimulating, but it also can become irresponsible very quickly and easily. A car hobbyist I knew had a habit of spending lots of money on fancy 2-seater sports cars, despite being a dad with a 9-5 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 06:39 PM |
| – | Are most men misogynistic or are most men not misogynistic?Just because you've self-crippled the ability to entertain yourself doesn't mean humans were unhappy. I recommend taking a break from porn and trying to build up your ability to masturbate without it. You'd be surprised at how much don't need to rely on it as much as you think you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 04:14 AM |
| 3 | How would you feel about a guy that gave you a fake name?It's very context dependent. There's a difference between a scene name (which is basically like a nickname), and actually trying to hide your identity. The latter is shady if he wants me to be vulnerable (ex. He wants me to come over to his house alone) or he is secretive and absolutely does not want me to know it after we've met (In the scene, we casually learn each other's real names, but just don't mention them to others in the scene). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a guy that gave you a fake name?I do it. I run in both the kink and furry communities, where it's quite common to have "scene names". If I go on a date with someone on a dating app, though, then on the first date I let them know my actual name and tell them the username is my internet pseudonym. By the first date, I've generally vetted them more than I've vetted the other hundred strangers who scrolled past my name on the dating app. The first time I go to their house, I tend to snoop a bit subtly and look for packages or pill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Would You Feel Insecure if Every Guy You Met Had 50x More Options Than You?would you be cool with it? I mean, it wouldn't effect me. He's either interested in me or he's not. It's either one or the other regardless of how many options he has. Idk how many options a particular person has. Worst case scenario, if he's like really attractive and stable, I'd probably just assume my chances are a bit lower, but at the end of the day, it's either going to happen or it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Is there an internalized belief among women that they are fundamentally more moral than men?I think women are more social/empathetic than men. There are definitely nurture and nature elements as well, since in almost every social mammal species, the females are more social than the males (ex. Females stay in the family group their whole life while male sets out to find his own mate and territory, groups usually having 0-1 adult males regularly in the group, males usually doing most socializing only with other males). There is also the historical context: Throughout most of human histor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:37 PM |
| – | Are most men misogynistic or are most men not misogynistic?Normal actors: Have unions Their contracts are taken more seriously Have Fair Pay and Minimum Wage laws requiring them to be paid for work already done even if the producer tries to go against their contract and make them do nonconsensual things half way through the scene, Have Rights to Stop an Unauthorised Use of their work due to Intellectual Property Rights, Have more laws about Health and Safety Rights on set. Are often required or likely to have safety guidance staff onset whose whole job … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:26 PM |
| – | Are most men misogynistic or are most men not misogynistic?If the industry standards raise, then proof of consent from the studio can be accepted. With how easy it is to force a porn actor into doing things she doesn't want to do, and how often it happens, we just can't take the studio's word for it. If forcing a porn actor to do things they don't want to do or putting them in actual danger was incredibly rare or almost unheard of, like it is in most other movies and shows nowadays thanks to actors' rights, then it becomes much less the viewer's respons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 02:12 PM |
| – | Are most men misogynistic or are most men not misogynistic?"Live" meaning "There is an actor involved, who is physically being hit, strangled, and/or penetrated". Not "This is being filmed right now in real time". (So, as opposed to erotica, drawn art, 3d models, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 01:54 PM |
| – | Are most men misogynistic or are most men not misogynistic?That's the problem: you can't. The porn could claim to be ethically made, and just be lying. The actress could have filmed a little interview talking about how much she loved it, and could have just been scripted to have that interview to get paid for the overall scene, regardless of whether she actually wanted it. The actress could be on drugs to get through the scene. The actress could have consented to, say, vaginal, but not anal- and then they start having anal with her halfway through the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 01:27 PM |
| 2 | You can’t expect women to take men’s issues seriously, when you point out inequities but never go into the context of itThere is a difference between talking about why men do what they do, which feminists do, and focusing on solving men's problems for them, which is what men want when men demand feminists pay attention to them. drawing out a map for them about how exactly to change and "educate themselves" Most feminists don't do this either, since it's ineffective. Women can't control men. The more effective types of feminism are usually about women providing resources to other women, and only directing things a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 08:28 AM |
| 4 | Are most men misogynistic or are most men not misogynistic?99% of dudes will tell you that your beard looks like shit and is probably greasy and dirty if you just grow it out without ever cleaning it up. I find it rather hard to believe that dudes sit around thinking about each other's beards. I mean, if you do, that's you. Nose and ear hairs are almost universally considered disgusting. Notable that you are comparing hair that grows in orifices to other hair. It's the orifice that is considered disgusting, not just the hair itself. Not to mention that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 07:11 AM |
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