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| 2 | Is it likely to overcome negative patterns in dating or is it more likely to just repeat mistakes endlessly | Discussion | Maleficent_Kale939 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 10:15 PM |
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| – | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.Thank you elder bro, that is really good advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.I guess i'd have to literally cut it off to achieve enlightenment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.I find that we transcend them depressingly less than we think and basically we just rationalize our behavior over and over to maintain the illusion of free will in our own lives. I have worked my ass off the past 2 years to try to change - be less dependent on female validation and find confidence and satisfaction in who i am. Have male friends, do martial arts, work out, look my best, travel the world, have interesting stories, create art that I enjoy. I have done all those things. Yet, there i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.I think that's just kinda how it works OP The woman is a parasite on the man. The kids are a parasite on the woman. The dog is a parasite on the kids. To some degree, the man is a parasite in the end because his sperm gets in the woman and becomes a kid and causes her to be out of comission for the 9 months. But other than that his job is just to be the base of the pyramid and have everything and everyone else resting on his shoulders. If you really think hard about it the way women are is inevi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:44 AM |
| – | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.So literally just grind it out and eventually find a good one through trial and error eh? .... I can respect it. Thanks for understanding my premise. A lot of people don't seem to fully get it when I try to explain how I feel there's a certain unpleasant splinter of futility in the act of trying to vet out all the bad women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.i think my problem with your logic is that you view things as 100% transactional or not, and that's not how life works. sometimes there's a middle area where you have a transaction with a person (like i do with my nanny) but still genuinely care about them and your relationship ends up being LESS transactional than it would normally be. coworkers can end up being friends, friends can do business with each other, business partners can end up married.. etc etc. shit i even considered marrying my n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:37 AM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).Is he also a virgin? Because otherwise that's hypocritical If he is, it's based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:05 AM |
| 2 | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).support me while i play videogames | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:04 AM |
| – | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.sure. the point is it needn't be all about sex though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.depends on reciprocity and goodwill of the other person. that's the problem. game theory shows that a lot of bad actors will form that want you to provide all the things and feel nothing towards you other than gleeful contempt. maybe they reciprocate for a while but only to draw you in deeper to the spiral of ruthless extraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:02 AM |
| – | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.bro how the fuck do you find the benevolent self-aware non-harm-causing women and screen out the materialistic venal unevolved predatory ones, i think about this every day and everything i come up with feels unsatisfying. is it just RNG at the end of the day? when i tell myself "i'll just look for ethics and screen out women who have red flags and not flaunt my money and..." it just feels like weak tea to my own ears. the truly sociopathic woman will have already anticipated my strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:01 AM |
| – | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.An interesting point, perhaps men inflict an emotional parasitism onto women. I think it transcends emotion though, it's spiritual. People will always find a new god after killing the previous one. The enlightenment dorks who tore down religion started revering politics, the various -isms. In our hyper skeptical world we've checked out of that too. The only thing left to worship is women, and both men and women worship that same divine feminine.... we've looped all the way back to the paleolithi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.the guy who wants to provide for her gives off "boring" vibes and gives her the ick, that's the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:51 AM |
| – | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.i enjoy providing for my nanny because i know she genuinely loves my kids and wants what's best for them and that makes me feel a quasi familial tie to her. same providing for my mom, siblings (on occasion) etc. im the wealthiest in the family. i probably wouldnt enjoy it if i wasn't. in theory, i wouldn't mind providing for a woman even in absence of sex, but i think lack of sex would make me feel disrespected for other reasons even if i wasn't providing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.hmm, not necessarily. it could be like sex - you could spend it together in a mutually enjoyable way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.if your point's true then how do you explain any male in a relationship that is outearned by the woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:48 AM |
| -2 | Many women have a parasitic approach to relationships.Do you really believe it though? Or are you just trying to have a witty comeback? Because if you really believe it, and don't bother to counter OP's point you basically accept the premise of unrelenting warfare between genders and both sides are evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?lots of extramarital fucking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Single mothers blame all menwomen will literally say "oh god" during sex and then claim this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Single mothers blame all menEven if i died from plague or get post birth aborted, that just resets the game and i get reincarnated and get another chance to roll my stats and possibly be a Chad Thundercock, or in this case Cassius Thunderphallus Better a quick death than an ignominious life as a member of the sexual proletariat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:41 AM |
| – | Single mothers blame all mennah nah nah nah nah nah na, i would've been one of those super burly macho roman badass patriarchs fighting in the legion, definitely not a slave getting topped you just gotta trust me on this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:28 AM |
| – | Single mothers blame all menthat you could butt fuck your catamite (not considered gay then), fuck your wife at will, fuck the temple prostitute and fuck the occasional slave or captive in the arena, fuck any war brides you took fighting on the frontiers, and just find your way into whatever random hole presented itself when it was bacchanalian orgy time, so basically it was a peak time to be a penis-haver | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:22 AM |
| – | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.I agree that what controls the individual male fate is usually micro rather than macro scale but the same can be said for many social issues. Usually it's much more effective to just grind the job market and increase your education rather than complaining about late stage capitalism, yet it's obvious to anyone with a brain that our society is riddled with deleterious levels of wealth stratification, corporate power and massive economic unfairness. You can do both things at once - you can try to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:12 AM |
| – | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.It's all just hegelian dialectics. State of nature was brutal, no paternal certainty, therefore no concept of investment - ie inter-generational investment into specific parcels of land (agriculture) tied to a family line (private property). Without those building blocks, no resource surplus, no specialization, no urbanization, no medicine, no computers, etc etc. So patrilineal, hierarchical, strictly governed, resource abundant civilization evolved in opposition to the state of nature where ana… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 02:54 AM |
| – | Single mothers blame all menEvery time you have sex outside of marriage or touch yourself for that matter, god hates us a little bit more and his will to protect us from the ruinous powers wavers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 02:06 AM |
| – | Single mothers blame all menYou're sitting there sucking and fondling and inserting god knows what into god knows where, and suddenly a pit opens into an extradimensional abaddon like nothing your mortal eyes have ever seen - or WILL see, because they're seared out of your skull in that very instant. Squealing with delight, demonesses come crawling out of the abyss to rend mortal flesh and paint the walls with the blood of everyone you ever loved. All because you couldn't keep it in your pants and just HAD to get some poop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 02:00 AM |
| – | Single mothers blame all men1878 was already degenerate af, need to go back to pre roman empire times, maybe during the early republic gender relations were at their peak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:56 AM |
| – | Single mothers blame all menSex outside marriage is an abomination, leads to slaaneshi corruption and quite possibly culminates in a demonic incursion into our reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:49 AM |
| – | Single mothers blame all menHe doesnt care, he’s based like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:41 AM |
| 1 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexgo get all the pussy i wish i'd gotten when i was a young blood. stay fit, stay confident, stay social, always be teasing and doing kino. you got this bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:35 AM |
| – | Single mothers blame all menWe can do both, we can shame women who choose bad men, and we can shame bad men for being bad. There's plenty of shame in my bag for everyone. Having said that - shame doesn't have the same sting it did in like the 1700s when you live in a small town with little social or economic mobility, and are effectively stuck in one place for the rest of your life, unless you want to be a complete indigent roving from town to town doing menial labor. Nowadays, people can just rotate their friend group on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveYeah i mean it's not just women's fault, the isolated young males also got weaker over time. 10k years ago I could have showed up at your hut on a moonless night and been like "grab your spear homeboy we're getting rid of Chadgar tonight" and enforced sexual justice through strength of arms. But in this world of police, jails, laws, and distractions to keep you barely-satiated like vidya and porn? It'd never happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Having kids is an IQ test too thats why we live in an idiocracy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Fucking womb mogged, how am i supposed to argue back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:50 PM |
| 2 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexLmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:42 PM |
| 2 | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.Nah bro I just like effort posts and Op made a doozy even if i disagree with him Lmao, although i know this comment will do nothing to beat the allegations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:39 PM |
| 2 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexStop customizing your damn avatar and play the game, reeeeeee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:36 PM |
| 3 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexYou knew what you were doing!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:35 PM |
| – | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexBased username homie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:35 PM |
| 1 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexWould be handy when i have breakouts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:31 PM |
| 2 | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.You’re just having some silly fun bro I get it. Dont let the haters stop you from jestermaxxing and pointing out that the king wears no clothes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:11 PM |
| 4 | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.I think he actually wrote his post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:09 PM |
| 1 | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.Probably one of the few areas where the hoi polloi are relatively enlightened Why formalize something that doesnt happen in actuality anyway (loyal monogamy in perpetuity) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:08 PM |
| – | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.Its different enough man, men have a significant malus in dating. The red pill version of the story is overblown but like….. its ok to just admit that in this one area of the human experience men do have a disadvantage. Not insurmountable, not reason to abandon all hope or lean into the grift or go full black pill, but it does effect us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Wholesome aunt!!!! 😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 10:23 PM |
| – | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.1.4 to 1 is still a huge problem, thats where i think we differ. Youre too hung up on winning the data war and not addressing the problem thats still on the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Damn you know what, I like you after all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?If you are a woman and divorce your husband and run away with your personal trainer because your husband is boring and doesnt go out or have tons of hobbies, and ignore the fact that your husband is busy working 70 hours a week to pay down the mortgage for the house you insisted on having, and the credit cards you maxed out… then you are shallow in terms of personality Same exact way a man is shallow if he runs away with the secretary because his wife is old and saggy and boring after birthing h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 10:05 PM |
| – | I have a better metaphor to replace the "fish/fisherman" rhetoric.B-b-but jargon is how we keep things cool and unique and niche | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Yeah i guess i understand, i think i feel similarly to you, i want a woman to look the superficial parts of personality to deeper things like character, judgment, kindness, creativity, devotion etc. I think I’m just the upgraded version of you who thinks EVERYONE is shallow not just men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:57 PM |
| – | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Yeah in france you may as well assume its some other guy’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:55 PM |
| – | I have a better metaphor to replace the "fish/fisherman" rhetoric.Wtf? Your initial post was sassy so i thought you’d have a sassy followup Cmon, insult me, this is PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:54 PM |
| -2 | I have a better metaphor to replace the "fish/fisherman" rhetoric.Yeah OP, but for me i try to go EVEN MORE dehumanizing than the fish analogy. For instance, I ask other engineers for advice how to improve my results with LLM. Not ask an LLM itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:53 PM |
| – | I have a better metaphor to replace the "fish/fisherman" rhetoric.When asking for advice you should ask people who have done the thing you are trying to do (seduce a woman) and not the person who has the thing done to them (get seduced by a man). Why? You are trying to replicate the actions of the actor not the acted-upon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Your body is there when you’re alone too, so there’s no specialness to be found there either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:47 PM |
| 1 | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardsI think i just have a difference of opinion from you, my ex wife pursued me because she was attracted to me. Guess what? Attraction controlled by confluence of fluctuating amoral factors like hormones, the soup d’jure values she happened to have that year or in that five year span which i happened to align with at the time, the emotional highs of being young and free and unburdened by kids and doing things together (which can be done with virtually anyone of the opposite sex) etc What happens wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?My personality isn’t a show for other people. I disagree. In absence of people it ceases to exist. People moralize and identity with the social dance they do for others and integrate with their psyche and identify with it, but still just a mask. Still unspools in isolation. It takes a mental leap out of the malaise of social assumptions that we all rot in like frogs in a drying puddle but if you can make the leap you start to understand that its possible to be just as superficial judging someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:37 PM |
| – | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.https://arxiv.org/abs/1203.6231 - humans have twice as many TMRCA markers from female ancestors as compared to male and this cant be accounted for without consistently higher intra male sexual competition as opposed to female. This is our entire genetic history not just bottlenecks and mathematically implies 1.4x more women than men managed to breed over the entire course of our species https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3886894 - y chromosome has less genetic variance than x, again this c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about surnames in a marriage?Its not my strong suit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:15 PM |
| – | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Personality is just another body, a way of projecting an image to other human beings to move among them efficiently. Just like the body is an image On a desert island would you bother to have a personality? Of course not. Insisting that someone have an attractive personality is just as terroristic and venal as insisting they have an attractive body. I wish i could find a woman that grasps this but… c’est la vie. Everyone moralizes their own sexual preferences while shitting on others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:12 PM |
| – | What do you think about surnames in a marriage?You’re still watching this far down the comments chain?? I need to get more subtle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:11 PM |
| – | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Imagine my chagrin when i learned women dont give a shit about my kindness, creativity or intellect and just want Me TO bE IntEreStinG anD pAssIoNate and HavE lOts of HobBieS so my “vibes” can be attractive to her Being objectified for your personality is awful too. Women will not rest until i stop playing videogames and become Dancing monkey-ified | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:09 PM |
| – | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Its only if you give a shit about being popular with men and having a good time dating. Even as a fat old ugly chick you can probably find a fat old ugly dude, but you’ll have to rummage around. As an old cyber-stacy the men will come to you. Its all tradeoffs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 09:01 PM |
| – | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Then what names do the kids get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:47 PM |
| – | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?Ozempic and face lift, tummy tuck, boob job, problem solved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:46 PM |
| – | What do you think about surnames in a marriage?Femicunts just shouldnt marry. Isnt marriage like a patriarchal vestige or whatever? But of course that would mean no chance at alimony and they cant be having any of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:41 PM |
| 1 | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardsYes actually, i agree with that. Life is un motivating for both men and women but for different reasons. I feel sympathy for womens plight too. But i dont want to sugar coat. Most relationships fail. Most marriages fail.. about half divorce. Of the remaining half, many are unhappy, quiet desperation or cheating involved. Relationships, marriage.. an invention to allow private property, inheritance, agriculture, capitalism. Not the natural state of humanity which is serial monogamy at best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:32 PM |
| – | What do you think about surnames in a marriage?Correlation not causality. Probably a lot of very assertive women and not-so-assertive men in those cases and that’s a bad mix. Doesn’t mean the name itself is the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:22 PM |
| – | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardsI’d say men with few options will, and this is actually a large proportion of men, probably higher than 50%. For those with options there’s two tracks, succeed minded men (who will go with the extraverted slutty bad bitch) and peace minded men (who will go with the opposite) The more chadly a man is the more he wants a bad bitch because she will still be slutty and interacting with lots of men after marriage, which leads to some social alliances and benefits that might not happen otherwise. I th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:12 PM |
| – | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardsIf im being honest i think the majority of men are so desperate to fuck that whats “attractive” to them is just “woman that exists, and is willing to interact with me” And outgoing women tend to constantly be broadcasting “I exist, and am willing to interact with you!!” If a non bad bitch wore a shirt that said “male interactions welcome” she would be just as attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:06 PM |
| – | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardsA dominating bad bitch will often talk to you first so the social interaction just a natural outcome of that. Doesnt mean i want her for anything. I know from experience that outgoing women are not best for me in relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveLets just fucking go get drunk together like our ancestors did 🤷🏻♂️ No other solution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:48 PM |
| 2 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexI think women want you to aUthenTicalLy be a MorE inTereStiNg and FuN and SociAlLy comPeTenT peRson 🤡🤡🤡🤡 rather than just optimize for appearing like one long enough to fuck her I mean, to me the root cause of the evil is very obvious - women place too many requirements and standards on men which creates an incentive to “game the metric” rather than authentically be all the things she wants. If any man tries to actually be fulfill the laundry list of things women want he insta gibs himself and e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:37 PM |
| – | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardsI dont know if social attentions maps neatly onto desiring those women for relationships though. Everyone wants to talk to chatty cathy because she’s easy to talk to and wants to talk so its not a big social risk. Sidling into a stereotypically introverted reddit PPD woman’s inbox is a huge risk. You never know what an introvert is thinking or how she is going to take things. Still, i would rather have a peaceful calm woman than an extro slut on my arm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:29 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveMaybe death is calm and peaceful. Its not so bad, yknow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:25 PM |
| – | Do people actually dislike marriage traditions, or just specific ones?If she wanted me to take her last name then she’d better let me be a stay at home trophy dad and cater to me the way i’d cater to a woman i love, and let me pursue my dreams of making hentai games instead of slaving away at this FAANG company to provide for myself and my 837 dependents. Honestly, i dont plan to get married again. Its like telling a dog to promise not to chase squirrels. Wtf is the point. Its setting myself up for disappointment and placing unfair standards upon her. Just because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:21 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about surnames in a marriage?I used to think it mattered but having my last name didnt stop my ex wife from cheating. She’s not changing her last name back either even though we’ve been divorced for 2 years. Convenience I guess. I place way less value in this symbolic gestures than I used to. A ho will still find a way to be a ho even after a 100k wedding ceremony in front of every single one of her friends and relations. Ho-ness knows no bounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:11 PM |
| – | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardscheck any thread Thread.. like reddit conversation? Cmon bro. Go outside and ask men in the community like everyday people. Not highly online, snarky, soy laden, vidya and porn addicted lowlifes like myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:09 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveLets just let the robots take over bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 07:07 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveOhhh wait you were being sarcastic. For a second i thought i’d found an oasis of empathy but its another mirage like usual. Its ok, im used to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:40 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveSure. Hiking, porn, bjj and shooting guns are pleasant distractions too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:39 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveIf you decenter women then the market becomes ever so slightly more appealing for some other dejected male and he re enters. Equilibrium. Self repairing system. No escape from gynocentric hell. The future is a woman’s stiletto stamping on a beta male face for all eternity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:37 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveOnly works if you’re willing to be an abusive felon. A horrible stain on society but at least you’re interesting to women and women will stampede over wholesome-but-dull betas for an interesting felon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:36 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveAgreed. If no chance at pussy then men would make this the last generation and just burn the living shit out of fossil fuels, make killer AIs, pump microplastics and estrogen into the water, fuck up the economy to the point where starting a family is impossible and…. Lmao wait we’re already doing all that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:34 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveUnironically yes, thank you bro. I feel as though a weight has been lifted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:32 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveNature has always been red in tooth and claw and that included sexual selection. The world is an endless pit of suffering. Alexander the great called it thousands of years ago- the world is damned and lost for everywhere the large fish devour the small fry This is why every single one of your ancestors got high, smoked, drank like a fish and a large proportion of them were known to throw a woman a slap every now and then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:30 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveAt least in software engineering you get same ROI for effort even if youre short. Unlike women, where the odds are stacked against you Short ugly men need to come help me build the AI waifus of the future. Its just a better investment of their time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:29 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveI think yours is the more sensible take, there are plenty of shorter dudes in healthy relationships. There’s no question a short guy has to work a bit harder to get the same dating opportunities though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:27 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveLmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:26 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveI think thats a good point. Letting men know early that the nature of relationships is somewhat disappointing and transactional (whether he likes that or not) lets him brace himself psychologically for the pain that is coming. A much healthier approach than the overly romanticized view society currently pushes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:25 PM |
| – | Men should be taught that they are most likely going to be aloone if they don't improveYeah bro, and then when the bar is collectively raised among men that just means same guys get all the women but their attractiveness level is higher. No actual benefit for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think women should change anything when they are not the ones complaining about dating?take the logic to its natural conclusion, why is it YOUR business what advice men are giving? Why is anyone allowed to talk to anyone else? Literally if it involves other human being it’s not your business. You can delete your post now since it involves non-your-business and is therefore off limits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 11:46 PM |
| 2 | If the redpill is actually amoral, they wouldn’t be insulting women.I think its important to understand the concept that sexuality is amoral. You could take a woman with an amazing, kind, loving, fun personality and put her in the body of an ugly gremlin and few men will ever be capable of feeling romantic love towards her again. Likewise, could take a confident funny wholesome Chad and put him in a short indian troglodyte body and women will have a hard time loving him romantically. So already right there we know morality and sexual desire are loosely correlate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 11:28 PM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesNeither do men, so maybe women can stop their stochastic terrorism trying to make getting married and getting her pregnant a precondition of continued access to her pussy. Turnabout is fair play | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Yes, not all men, but also it happens frequently and randomly enough to keep your guard upIts fine as long as you’re ok with me taking certain precautions about women possibly being gold diggers, baby trappers, cheaters, liars, etc. Not all women, maybe not even the majority but one slip up and my life gets rapidly fucked up, so maybe you can understand my position and need to vet thoroughly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 10:08 PM |
| 2 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.10000% OP. My mom had a habit of being with abusive men. First time it happened 6 year old me was terrified and sobbing with me. 10th felon she ended up with that she tried to get me to call “dad” I was already way checked out and contemptuous of her I blame myself too for being with my narcissistic ex wife. She sucks, sure. But why’d I allow myself to be with a person that sucks for that long? Why’d I blind myself? These things run in families. I have to work every single day on valuing and lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are non chalant bc of womenSuccessful long term relationships, then why did they end? I dont buy into the mythos that a successful LTR can just end because random reasons. If thats the case you may as well not invest at all because success is qualitatively undifferentiated from non success, both end the same way, in a separation for no real reason other than petty shit like convenience or IncOmpAtIbIlity. Wtf is the point of success then. May as well just bang BPD chicks and be zen and detached while she tries to savage y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Men are non chalant bc of womenRace to the bottom basically. The slightly-more-selfish, less needy party in a relationship (and broadly speaking, the relationship between genders) gains an advantage. Very easy to talk online and tell others to put their partner first. You don’t know how many times that person may have been burned for following that exact advice in the past. In this life you can’t be too much of a giver or you get trampled by narcissistic users | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 09:37 PM |
| – | People who can't trust others at some point become a liability.Depends on the degree. If you completely blindly trust all humans no matter what that’s bad. If you completely blindly mistrust all humans that’s also bad. Some degree of healthy cynicism is warranted in this world of sin and iniquity. That’s not to say hope and trust are impossible, just that they should be handed out judiciously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 09:35 PM |
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