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Been there done that. Truly even now where I don’t ‘feel’ as desirable as I used to, the experience of being single in college already gave me my fill so to speak. Looking to date more long term now since I’m done with school and trying to build a career. Maybe could entertain the idea of a thruple (3 people dating, don’t know the proper way to spell that), but even then I’m not seeking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:14 AM
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Survivorship bias
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:11 AM
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Ok? That’s not her problem though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:18 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:51 PM
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Shows a lack of focus; you came to the gym to meet women, or build your body? Yes you CAN pull a number or run game, but you can at a bar, club, or anywhere else
/r/seduction04/03/24 05:18 PM
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Understand that people have different love languages when giving versus receiving. You may enjoy giving a gift, but getting one doesn’t do much for you, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:45 PM
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You might as well complain that the Sun is too hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:31 PM
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The difference is you have to pass the looks test before you talk. Otherwise there’s little difference than meeting someone in person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:40 AM
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No big issue. If you want to get more attention from the opposite sex you have to be someone they want to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:39 AM
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Best comment in the entire thread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:37 AM
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You say if you ever met a woman like they’re some animal in the wild. That narrative is not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:37 AM
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You don’t. Friendzone implies a very real lack of attraction, more so than simply unsure. At this point you’ll either be peacocking for her attention (never a good look) or continually asking for that type of relationship when she’s already given you a no (recipe for disaster). You need to go where your romantic feelings are celebrated, not tolerated.
/r/seduction20/02/24 04:44 AM
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There’s truth in it, but it’s dependent on situation. The point of the advice is that you have a better chance of connecting with women when you aren’t dead eye focused on it. That is to say, you should be doing more with your time than just chasing women. You will meet countless people you’re compatible with, but if you only focus on being around them, and none on yourself, you’ll hamstring yourself as you won’t really have any value to bring to the table. After all, you’d be seeking value, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:16 AM
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What was the 2nd pill for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:12 AM
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Yes, But in certain ways. It won’t make the girl who thinks you’re ugly suddenly find you to be the hottest guy in your city, but it can put you in new rooms (exclusivity), it can alleviate plenty of issues (spending on a date can happen without issue), and you can change your appearance with it (clothing, or plastic surgery). Different women will attract to different things; some will like the lifestyle of being rich, some will like the status, some will detest this altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:42 AM
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They do, and I think that’s an issue men’s rights groups don’t bring up enough; many men tie emotional intimacy to sexual intimacy, and that fucks men up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:50 AM
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So play with the man’s feelings knowing you don’t feel the same? That’s asking for a violent response at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:42 AM
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For this to make sense, we’d have to assume that being in an undesirable relationship is better than simply being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:41 AM
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Men want to feel wanted more often
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:07 AM
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Don’t poison the well with your hot takes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:00 AM
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2nd. I have a past so theirs matters little. Plus I don’t want a boring partner I have to constantly teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:04 PM
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An indicator of what? Depression has multiple sources, and relationships aren’t always the root cause. There’s a correlation, but a weak one at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:49 PM
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Correlation ≠ Causation. You’re assuming the overlap speaks for everyone when by itself a statistic on anti depressants and one for relationship are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:00 PM
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…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:50 PM
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Meeting men and dating men are not the dame
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:40 PM
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To an extent men already do have an in group bias, otherwise the idea of a wingman wouldn’t exist. But just like with women, it’s dependent on your standing with other men as to how you’ll be able to leverage it. Men will appreciate other men who do well with women as they can add to an overall social vibe. They help to add to the energy of an interaction. We don’t want somebody who is off putting, but good energy will amplify us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:59 PM
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The hell they are. I’m gonna speak to my age segment (20s) but for us we’re just entering the world of dating. Not to mention we have a world of resources compared to older generations (Reddit anyone?) We’re often coming in more prepared than any generation before us. But for all the issues and complexities of modern dating, men are in no way, as a collective group, trying to stop looking for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:50 PM
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My advice: people often use lifting for this purpose, but I’d most recommend finding an interest that grounds you. That may give you routine, and something to enjoy/network with as you build your career and goals.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 04:27 AM
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That’s a generalization. Nowhere near most people dating with the intent of marriage. Many do, but I’d hardly say mos
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:50 AM
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Oooh I hard disagree on this one. Lemme go point by point: I cannot speak to your experience dating, but I don’t walk away from a hookup feeling miserable. Quite the opposite actually. I don’t understand feeling shame from hooking up; that weirdly toxic. If you could get more in depth I’m here to listen Social skills: casual dating I think is very helpful in learning empathy, specifically the ability to pick up on social tells of a new person. I agree with you that there are other ways, but the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:20 PM
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No. Short ones too. They lack a defeatist attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 02:55 PM
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I think people being able to see what others have gets them out of the bubble of only seeing what’s in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:02 PM
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I disagree. Social media certainly is a double edged sword, but a change in standards isn’t a bad thing, especially if it means people know their worth more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:34 PM
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Been around the sub for a few years now, and I’ve had time to soak up some insights from trp. First, admitting to trp is not worth it. You’ll have to explain, and by extension justify, some of the weirder ideas, lingo, and community segments, and While familiar I’m uninterested in defending that. Telling people just makes that stand in for what should be your own unique identity. There are gems of knowledge you can get from the sub (trp vanguard being often the most helpful) but none of it is go…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:32 PM
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Date for compatibility and not a goal. I think some people date because they want to ‘break the cycle’ or because that’s what they planned for themselves, but dating should be about figuring out what works for you, and learning how to love someone outside of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:20 PM
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Attraction is subjective. You must remember not everyone’s tastes will match yours
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:17 PM
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Fat men DO regularly pull up to the club (and do get interest from women too). To act like it’s solely virtue signally would be assuming the intent of women everywhere, and at that point it’s just generalizing the thoughts of others, and holds no merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:16 PM
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Compatibility is more important than any of the above points. Attraction is subjective and out of your control (aside from taking care of your health), and the 80/20 rule doesn’t hold much in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:14 PM
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By that definition, what do women need from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:35 AM
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This won’t go well depending on age. You may be able to get away with that at 19 or 20, but if you’re any older and don’t have your own place, you have misplaced priorities and they’ll pick up on it. I mean, if you have the money to take her out, but not enough to pay rent, there’s bigger concerns to think about.
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:38 PM
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I’ve been on this sub for years. There are good points to be made by others here, and points that could have been left in the drafts.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/22 06:07 PM
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Both no fault divorce and child support are for the welfare benefit. Specifically on divorce, you’re often asking a woman (considering people want to marry and have children) to give up professional career development to do so. Alimony comes into play to offset this, since after years of living with someone you can’t really start over. As for child support, that is to benefit the child. I will concede that many people do use child support for other than the children involved (not a lot of accoun…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 12:14 AM
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Can you specify why you think so?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 12:09 AM
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This post is stupid. You aren’t paying for the choices of women, the nature of dating changed, and now everyone must adapt. Nobody set out to fleece men from their assets on an institutional level either. Women became self sufficient in a way that didn’t happen historically, and like anyone out for self interest, they took advantage of the new societal leverage.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 02:41 PM
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In ideal circumstances yes. But if that isn’t the case, then step parents will be the following measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:26 AM
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Child support exist solely for the well being of the child involved. The alternative is neglected children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:19 PM
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Confidence is born from achievement. Whether this be a quarterback on the field, an academically achieving student, a skilled carpenter, or whatever you find yourself to have an aptitude for, it is important to strive for excellence in whatever avenue you find yourself in. Oftentimes I see young men struggle with approaching because they lack achievements that they can take pride in and share with others. They feel like that have nothing interesting to share about themselves (ex. They’re good at…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/22 05:34 AM
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Can you give some insight on what you started to view differently after taking film and media courses?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:24 AM
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If somebody hates you, and I don’t mean annoyed, but outright HATES you. You’re in a bad place with them. You can’t try to Jedi mind trick your way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:00 AM
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I wouldn’t. But I wouldn’t expect a masculinism movement to advocate for Women’s issues, that would miss the point altogether. To address your point of feminism only helping women, what do you think the point is then? Women historically never had the advantages/social prestige men did, and even today, women are at a disadvantage in careers, hence a lot of the affirmative action programs/policies to mitigate this issue. Finally onto your point of egalitarianism: I see your point as a semantic dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:44 PM
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Early 20s man here. From my perspective, there’s overlap in men who hold that sentiment (that you need to be the top whatever percent of men to find a partner) and a poorly developed sense of social skills. There will be exceptions to the rule, but often I see them go hand in hand. Part of this is probably (speculating here) due to screen taking over the dating scene in ways that older generations didn’t have access to. Tinder, Bumble, etc. makes it easy to see the dating pool out there, but whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:27 PM
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Depends on the situation. Others have mentioned that hate and love aren’t all that different, but both can be motivating. Sometimes it’s better somebody is indifferent to your existence, versus they hate you and instead are plotting on your downfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:21 PM
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Sounds like a good thing. Marriage being less of an obligation for society means people are more likely to marry for the right reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:01 AM
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No. Societal expectations changed as the culture did, and where previous generations had religious indoctrination, nowadays people have liberty to do what they want
/r/TheRedPill17/06/22 08:50 PM
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TRP has its moments, but what I often see (especially in the field reports) isn’t anything new or groundbreaking but simply that men who gravitate to the sub like the affect of what is being said. I speculate that many men just respond better to TRP’s way of breaking down dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:31 PM
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So do most drugs. Just saying side effects isn’t enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:15 PM
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Not likely, but then again that type of man isn’t common either. Most men aren’t sanitation workers, and most women aren’t actively paying attention to who is collecting their garbage either. But that isn’t the point of the example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:59 PM
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That’s a valid observation, but while we can debate whether that’s a good thing in principle, in practice a man has to stand out in someone’s eyes in some way, and someone’s occupation is a way that can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:57 PM
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That’s because the idea of leagues requires taking in a person current state and past actions. It doesn’t really work for predicting the future. Which is why I think it isn’t really a useful framework altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:54 PM
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Their intentions. People can easily create a false impression of themselves as a great partner, only for it to fall apart in person when their date realizes they just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:49 PM
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I think it depends on whose standards. With the inability on many women to live on their own, their were individual concession made by women in the past to find some stability. But with the ability to divorce and support themselves financially in the modern day to a much greater degree than in the past, women don’t have to make that sacrifice anymore. This isn’t a bad thing. Nobody should have that kind of leverage over someone’s life. But this change has made it more difficult for men to date a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:46 PM
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I’m old to know Reagan wasn’t progressive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:56 AM
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Who is advocating for hormones given to 5 yr olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:55 AM
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Whether pro or anti gun control, everyone except maybe libertarians are advocating for more Gov’t power
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:23 PM
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Stop bringing up this hormone nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:20 PM
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No we haven’t been progressive since the 70s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:19 PM
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Irrelevant fetuses aren’t people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:14 PM
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You’ve provided correlation with no causation. Stop using weak arguments as evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:07 PM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:04 PM
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It is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:03 PM
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Because you probably do the same lame shit each time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:02 PM
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Yeah the fuck they do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:01 PM
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Key word: small. Don’t use a minority group as the reason to base your judgements
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:00 PM
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Shit take
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 08:57 PM
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Can you expand on this? Why do you believe solar cycles have a greater effect on rising temperature vs carbon dioxide emissions (or cow methane for that matter).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:45 PM
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You’re treating a text as if you are the only person a woman’s life revolves around. Family, work, children, will all need their time too. To think somebody not texting back as always a sign of disinterest would be to ignore plenty of other plausible situations
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:35 PM
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This could have some merit. When women have to factor in their safety in saying no, expect a less direct rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:28 PM
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Alright if you have friends why are you asking us and not them. If they’re really your friends they can help you much more than this sub will likely be able to. I don’t say this to be condescending but often TRP will make accurate observations but is often wrong in analyzing the why. It’s better to seek advice from friends who will actually see your behavior in person and can tell you what is and isn’t working.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:23 PM
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For me personally, have your own friends regardless of gender; it’s important to have friendships outside of romantic relationships (after all if you want to vent about your wife/husband’s behavior you don’t want to complain to their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:18 PM
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Why are you expecting other people to change their wants for someone they’ve never met
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:03 PM
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That’s the thing, the red pill can be whatever someone wants it to be, whatever ‘truth they don’t want the public to know’ they insert as the truth they want revealed. But that doesn’t make any of it definitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:02 PM
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Who are you to tell them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:56 PM
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So what? Gov’t shouldn’t force themselves into forcing births
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:55 PM
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This is what I interpreted as the lesson here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:47 PM
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People are not trying to fuck someone that’s clueless. You’re misreading that for someone that doesn’t show a big reaction right off the bat. And we’ll connected dudes are getting laid plenty they just know not to tell everyone about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:42 PM
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She can do her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:39 PM
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That fickleness you’re talking about was just as present as it was in the past. It didn’t stop people from procreating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:37 PM
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Those three traits could just as easily apply to a jock as well as they could a student council rep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:39 PM
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John adams?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:36 PM
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Ok, but if they’re in a fulfilling relationship I highly doubt their partner will say that about them. Because if they find them boring why are they dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:34 PM
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Ok hard disagree on this one. People didn’t become any more or less fickle compared to days of old; women can be pickier now because the penalties for not doing so have changed. Historically, women were barred from public life (legally or through social norms) which meant less ability to support themselves if they didn’t have family to help or weren’t married. Today, with women able to work, seek higher education, etc. Relationships have lost some of their appeal, as they don’t need a man to sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:31 PM
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You’re speaking in absolutes when that can never be the case all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:20 PM
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I get the point you’re getting at, but consider that these women possibly don’t have the words to describe what isn’t attractive to them. Just like many men on TRP some simply don’t understand the dating game for what it is; women can be led astray from what they’re looking for dating wise due to family expectations, societal norms, advice from friends (even if well meaning), etc. Be nice isn’t the bare minimum. Being attractive (whether through looks, attitude, etc.) is, as you stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:18 PM
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It can be if that’s part of your normal routine. Changes without any warning are usually the first sign something is up. But it isn’t gospel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:24 PM
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I disagree. Confidence in an of itself is an attractive trait that can boost someone’s perception of you as a result, potentially boosting a man’s attractiveness. It’s all subjective at the end of the day. Plenty of women won’t change their opinion regarding dating someone based on confidence alone, but some may. People are unpredictable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:30 AM
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To discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:23 PM
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If they weren’t struggling in some way why would they be at TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:01 PM
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Dumb take. Stop generalizing people you don’t know
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 02:09 AM
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They didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:18 AM
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Social media displays it for an audience but in years pasts plenty of men were broken hearted but felt more alone in that feeling and didn’t express it as openly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:59 PM
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True. But that TRP is still but a subset of men. And plenty of men who never read TRP still may not go for it. TRP in and of itself doesn’t have that much sway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:58 PM
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The alt right as a whole has millions of followers in the United States and is a fringe movement
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:56 PM
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Nobody denies that. If anything feminists criticize the motivations because what does a 35 yo have in common with a teenager/early 20s girl. Oftentimes it’s little more than a dude wants to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:54 PM
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TRP is not a cause but a symptom of the changing dating culture in the west. Nowadays financial security and good sex cannot be the only thing you provide to a partner to be high status. People who understand this and that social skills are just as valuable as a career or nice house will thrive. Those who cannot adapt will see the family line stop
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:52 PM
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Maybe not the majority but it’s hardly only the top tier of men. Many on TRP struggle with socializing with women (it’s why they’re there at all) and that shows in who posts. But men who don’t have this problem (and it’s not only the best men around) are far less likely to post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:50 PM
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This right here. Approach is important but not the end all be all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:44 PM
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I don’t want to watch the podcasts. There are points well made from TRP but it’s largely the vanguard and some senior contributors but not really the new blood. That’s more just repeating to ‘confirm’ what they see
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:42 PM
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They won’t. The fact that you can hear Hollywood gossip on the east coast means they get no privacy. Small towns are full of bad relationships but they’re not famous so word doesn’t travel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:58 PM
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This idea is too simplistic to work universally or even as a rule of thumb. Personality could definitely be the deciding factor IN SOME SITUATIONS. But not all. Draw on past experiences but always be ready for unexpected or unexplained behavior and motivations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:56 PM
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I would keep the child in normal courses for now. Since he’s so young he would benefit from building the social skills alongside other kids not being cordoned off to the ‘smart’ group.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:45 PM
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This is what made me rethink a lot of the conjecture on TRP. It always seemed that there was never any women who would co-sign or at least act as a point of comparison to all the proposed ‘whys’ for various behaviors. It’s the equivalent of asking white people why black people think a certain way about various topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:23 AM
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Imma play devil’s advocate on this one. There are a lot of dudes (note not everyone, but certainly at the very least, a very vocal minority) who are truly interested in themselves only when it comes to sex. Yes, know your worth and don’t let the other person walk over you; end things if you aren’t getting what you want. Often however, you see dudes who, upon seeing that the potential for a relationship or sex goes out the window (friendzone), they stop being so friendly compared to before. Even …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:47 PM
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any number of things. Sometimes the sex is bad, sometimes they regret (people cheating would be a prime example), some craved sex to fill a void and it didn’t do that. People are not a monolith. There’s a million reasons to regret sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:15 AM
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Red: exists to help men with finding success geared to sexual strategy. Blue: as a sub started in opposition to TRP, in mindset they think TRP strategy is counterproductive Purple: the moderates. Won’t treat TRP as gospel, but sees at least some utility in the advice, strategies, etc. Black: the incels; has the issues of Red pillars but have fully abandoned trying to improve the situation and instead wallow in their misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:09 AM
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Hope things work out. On the bright side at 18 you’ll be free to make your own decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:04 AM
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They are different but the idea of hierarchy can exist for both. Some men get more attention in the dating scene than others, and identifying what makes them attractive is useful to helping yourself be more attractive to those you’re seeking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:02 AM
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While I wouldn’t go to the extremes of nobody finding obese people attractive (may be a minority but they do exist; wouldn’t be surprised if a blind person did for instance) the idea of understanding the overarching standards for what people like in a society is useful, especially to somebody with a poor understanding of what makes certain men excel in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:59 PM
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What I gather from my time on TRP over the years is as follows. Not everybody benefits from the most general advice society gives (think “just be yourself”). Some need a more literal guide, some need to be validated for what they’re thinking, however right or wrong, some need more than what is the scope of TRP altogether. But what I see for most men who first find their way to the sub is that they’re dissatisfied but don’t know what to do to make the change. Their irl, or other digital searches …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:53 PM
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Remember to be considerate of others. This means understanding what others are looking for and how that aligns with your desires. Many men who find themselves in TRP don’t know how so look to others to learn, but after hanging around for a few years, I can say that yes, I’ve learned from TRP but I do not hold it as gospel. Plenty of echo chamber nonsense, which is why most of vanguard will tell you themselves to trust no one. Be honest with yourself and be considerate of those you interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:46 PM
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True maybe in concept, but with many agreeing already it quickly can become an echo chamber (it was like then back in ‘17 when I first ran across). TRP is frequently more about the affect for many users than it is about the contents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:41 PM
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Men here should remember that their safety is usually of no concern in a day to day setting. Women don’t always live this same reality, and when the worst case scenario to saying no is the potential of violence, something I’d never really worry about from a date, I understand it’s prevalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:38 PM
1

I mean sure…. But as somebody with real life experience, while I do believe height is something used to discriminate against men who are short, it’s not the end all be all. If anything, going out of your way to get height extenders would only highlight the potential insecurity and nobody wants the insecure man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:35 PM
2

The traits women are looking for tend to revolve around effort (hygiene, social skills, appearance), while the traits men are looking for often more inherent (attractiveness, to a lesser extent demeanor as that can be more easily changed). So men aren’t considering the women outside what they’re looking for, and the ones left have plenty to choose from; high bar. Women are usually not pursuing the same way men are so are getting qualities, and plenty try to shoot out of their league because the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:32 PM
0

I see many people with so many examples of bad relationships, whether within their family/friends or online and are learning from it. Keep in mind people grow with time, and since relationships are no longer the end all be all that they used to be it makes sense that they are becoming less common/shorter, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:11 AM
1

No. The opinions of others can only mean but so much. But being real, it is more individual men than men wholesale
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:05 AM
2

Ok good. You’ve done it so you know what it’s like to fail. Next time, shower so you smell nice and just relax. You got it
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 01:02 AM
2

I will say this for those who want to take the advice: be ok with failure. Don’t get upset if she says no, don’t try to justify things in front of her. Take your L and keep going if she doesn’t reciprocate interest. Too many guys I’ve seen at clubs/bars/on the street that will lose it if someone won’t won’t give them the time of day. Don’t be that guy.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 12:59 AM
6

Chief if you gave it to her, it's not yours to get back. As far as you're concerned they don't exist.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 03:53 AM
10

Why would I, as a 19 year old man, want somebody who doesn't have control of their fucking emotions in anyway yet? Keep in mind most people don't develop that shit until their mid twenties from what I've seen, why would I go backwards?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 02:28 PM
4

You started decently, but this fell apart at the end. Stop trying to write circlejerk material and keep it relevant to those reading.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 12:22 AM
1

girlschase . Com has a lot of the concepts the pill exudes in a cleaner manner. (Note I spaced it out)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:29 AM
2

This is simply the most common reasoning I've heard from the women in my life and my observations by and large line up with it. None of it is a hard guideline.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 05:37 AM
10

Simple things like saying 'I have a boyfriend' will scare most men off. They oftentimes won't confront an unknown man who may also react negatively, so it tips the scales from "no hurt in trying" to "not worth the effort".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 01:11 AM
2

While there are exceptions to the rule, oftentimes many women dont have the skill of leading in a relationship becuase they don't need to. And while I disagree that they're 'incapable', leading in social settings is definitely a skill that you have to learn and maintain.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 02:11 AM
6

I'll be the one to disagree. Enjoy it for what it is. Just like plates, relationships aren't forever. Especially not at your age. It it bothers you, address it and drop her if she doesn't comply. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:43 AM
1

This claim is moot without evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 11:16 PM
2

No correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:36 AM
1

Opportunity brought by college. I'm going to take the career side since I've never married and it's not my expertise. Suffice to say, college is definitely a chosen path. Some go by family expectation, but if it's something you absolutely abhor it's not mandatory by law like high school is. So by default you're around a lot of people with a level of drive, and as many would agree, you are who you are around the most. This means that you are around many more opportunistic people who can also exte…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:08 PM
7

Ok noted, but at the end of the day what's thr point of the post? The cocktail v beer arguement is honestly inconsequential if she liked him. But it's sounds like either: She didn't like his vibe and the beer thing was just justification. Fine by her but whatever. She overly judged based on the beer and let the vibe go south in a self fulfilling prophecy. This is your friend so you'll know better than I, but either way nothing groundbreaking has come from this post. Both individuals could've bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 05:59 PM
2

Working at it. Confidence stems from competency. You must strive to be great at what you do in order to be recognized. Once you do that you can climb the social ladder as others will look to you to improve as well. You don't necessarily need a title for it; there's a reason shadow kings exist. Make a point to become more competent than your peers, and people will either recognize your skill or your work ethic. Find mentors, buddies to keep you accountable, etc. Once you are skillful, you will be…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:14 AM
3

To expand on the jeans section, Hollister has frequent sales. For thinner guys like my self, the skinny (not super skinny, that's too far for me) jeans will fit you like normal pants tend to fit larger men. They last too; I've bought pairs some 3 years ago and they still hold up without the colors fading. They usually run $25 dollars a pair on the better 50% off sales.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 06:40 PM
1

Youve got to fail some more. With major struggle, other things feel small by comparison.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 06:45 PM
1

Wars will generally give a boost to military research, which many times turns into consumer products. But GLO has a point. With herd mentality comes lack of rigor towards discovery.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 05:26 PM
10

This is the best note. No point in making assumptions off this.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 04:49 AM
8

100 pushups Run 1 mile 2 sets of 25 mountain climbers 2 sets of 25 bicycle kicks Start with that. You sound like you want a workout plan, so here you go.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:52 AM
1

Thanks for chiming in on it
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:13 AM
2

Who the fuck cares? Unless she disappears at weird hours, leave it the fuck alone.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:51 PM
1

Dude you just got into high school. As a recent grad I'm gonna give you my perspective, and from you post history it seems you very asocial. Not necessarily good nor bad but there is a point to having at least a few people around you. Not everyone will be your friend or treat you well. Fine, identify and deal with them. But it definitely helps towards social proof, building status, etc. Don't sacrifice your code for it, but do learn how to cultivate a network of people that got your back.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:46 PM
8

Sure. I care more about your outlook on life than if we slept together the first night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 01:23 PM
14

That's something he said he will NOT do
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 09:12 PM
1

I can. Two sister of mine have noticed this in certain jobs. Though now since they are both Army it's lessened oddly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:57 PM
1

Good note I missed that part. Anything else you got from this?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 06:23 PM
1

A generation of splintered values will do that. People were more united, whether by religion, neighborhood, etc. This meant trust was much more easy to cultivate as compared to today. The foundation was there. Now, with helicopter parents, new wave of parenting styles, values changing, etc. people are much more wary of those they don't know, and the 24 hr news cycle does us no favors either. Not really good or bad, just the way of the world now...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 11:42 PM
1

Thats the risk you take when you do so. No matter how good your intentions there may be some outside that wants to cast you in a bad light. Just maintain your integrity during any interaction and mentally prep for the worst as you hope for the best. In this situation specifically, leave the child be. Moms get very territorial with their children and it's far too easy for them to accuse of kidnapping regardless of intentions. Leave it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 10:59 PM
1

True. I honestly have my doubts about the sexual attraction aspect, but I'm not there so I can't say for myself. This is the conclusion I can draw up with the evidence given. Like I said though, nothing is absolute. If it worked, then dammit it worked. Seduction is at best an art, and at worst a gamble. There is no science to all this. The Vanguard on here will tell you as much. At the end of the day, you work with what you got, and apparently it worked for him. Maybe more info could give a bett…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/18 06:31 PM
40

It wasn't the vulnerability that made him attractive; it's just didn't derail him. The idea that he didn't put her on a pedestal made him interesting. The situation may have acted as a catalyst to help them bond, but outside that it follows TRP fairly well. TRP is a not absolute, more a set of guidelines. There will always be exceptions to the rule. Cherry picking a situation only serves to dissuade you.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/18 04:06 PM
3

6'1 black 140 lbs thin. Slightly above average looks, but I just game very well. Her seeing me out with other women ups status.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:51 PM
66

It has benefits. I have a friend in a another dorm. Called me out the blue to hook me up with her roommate. Never met the girl but I was told she wanted to fuck. Nut ensued.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:46 AM
17

Ive heard respect others, but not specifically men. Respect is earned, and if they don't, ostracize.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 12:39 PM
7

It's an exercise in Kayfabe
/r/TheRedPill10/11/18 01:29 AM
1

Honestly, Take a day for yourself. It's cool so long as you stay about your business.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:01 PM
1

Leave your name in a text so she has your number. Then hit her up tomorrow and see if she can hit up a bar with you. Wish you the best.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 02:57 AM
2

Next time have a convo in person. Body language makes people feel much more connected to you.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 06:20 PM
1

This is why Prince could slay by contrast. He normally could contend with the men around him while Jackson had daddy issues to contend with.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/18 05:44 PM
1

I'll apologize if I'm legitimately in the wrong, but nothing past that. I'm not going to grovel to make a woman feel any better.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 06:36 AM
4

Whats done is done. Get his ass next time and end it there instead of wasting excess energy on it later. He got you this time so make sure it doesnt happen the next.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:17 PM
2

He was unacceptable to me as a candidate. Rwgardless of views, if he can't even control himself in what came down to a job interview in the senate, why in the fuck would I want him on highest court of the land. This is bullshit and so are those who can't control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 06:06 AM
1

So? You know what you want. Simple as that, so keep your room clean and stay on the horse.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:56 PM
1

Lol
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:56 PM
2

If its wrong, go out and test it. These are men COMPARING NOTES. Don't get me wrong there is plenty of faulty info out there, with the sidebar being the only absolutes. But thats why we label theories as such; you're theorizing about what MAY be true. Please downvote the bullshit and post your observations. It will be welcomed if it's useful.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:53 PM
1

Just two over the year? That's not even that bad, even for a small school. Just own it in stride, you thought they were cute, and they weren't ready for that. So what? You still have your goals, your friends, and your accomplishments. Keep on the path and if someone ask about, you showed clear confidence in your self.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:46 PM
2

So that take away is now tradeoffs and knowing all the angles.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 06:30 PM
1

The breakup is irrelevant. That's the past. Look forward to improve yourself. That's all that matters now
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 06:15 PM
2

I don't particularly care. Just like she has a past, so do I. A story can be fun, but I hardly care about a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 05:56 PM
1

Get it together. You only are feeling like this because you are likely sitting by yourself with your thoughts. I didn't hear a single hobby of yours, outside of workouts. So go and fraternize, network, and talk to those around you, not just men. You are the prize, the main character of your story. Carry yourself as such.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:22 PM
1

I keep options open until we're exclusive. No reason to count someone out off the cuff until you know they're worth more of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 07:44 PM
1

18/M/Purple Fun but average. Like others have stated, boring gets old very quickly. Pretty and boring is fine for a lay, but once you have goals in your life, somebody without them just drags you down. I don't want anyone like that in my life long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 07:40 PM
1

Its due to parents also jumping to conclusions for their little angels, not always believing they could do wrong. That means anyone who doesn't immediately jump on it, "doesn't care about rape" and they'll have a pr shitstorm to wade through.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 01:13 AM
-2

Only problem is that will likely reduce the number od people who would come forward and tell the truth afterward.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 01:09 AM
8

Thats my only caveat. Id shake his hand and then step. If he wants to follow then tell him to step off.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 12:22 AM
21

Begs one question.... If you try to lead someone you just met and she refuses, how do you save face, other than just taking it as a loss?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 12:19 AM
9

No you set a rule. No bs. Either that or you're out. Righteousness has nothing to do with it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 02:27 AM
47

Telling him to fuck off works just fine. Just like women, not every man is worth your time. Walking away works, or putting up hands, though I still recommend walking.... Usually I'll just ignore them if they don't stop. Eventually they'll throw out enough rope to hang themselves with, and I can flip it around for a laugh at their expense.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 08:25 PM
2

I mean, I like tattoos. I don't really care much as long as they look good and aren't on their chest up (excluding arms). At this point culture finds them less of a taboo in the mainstream, so that's contributing. Don't overthink it. Plenty of people agree with you and just like dreads, yoga pants, etc. It's become acceptable to the masses.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:43 AM
0

I disagree, but I understand your point. Take your well earned upvote.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 05:39 AM
2

Thats it that insecurity stems from a lack of confidence. Work on building achievements in your life
/r/askTRP28/07/18 02:02 AM
4

That's up to you. Do what you want to do. Learn? Sure Indulge? Go for it Help others? Why not The list goes on. The key is that you aren't bound to another's expectations, but are seeking your own dream. If you don't build your dream, someone will hire you to build theirs.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 06:23 AM
2

Didn't I hear this on another sub a bit back?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 11:15 PM
1

Not for a long time. I think those with the will to grow may pick up on it, but until the whole "love your feelings" fad passes, we will still have a bunch of men who don't want to solve problems themselves, but instead eat them, etc.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 02:12 AM
2

Not everyone is built to be independent. Sad, but true.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:57 PM
10

Unfortunate, but that suicide is on nobody but him. Like it or not, neither him or that designer that died in the same week had a gun to the head with this. Their priorities in their life apparently weren't properly addressed. Use this as a lesson men. You determine your happiness. If you tie it to someone else, this could be the end result.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 06:44 PM
4

That's sarcastic, but really I don't think anybody saw that coming. In trying to be better parents, many gen Xs set their kids up to fail. At least now we have a template for what happens going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 09:24 PM
12

Jamm you're speaking in absolutes, so it's really hard to agree with you. But it begs the question, if it's such an issue, why be with the person at all? No point in withholding sex, just pull off the bandaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:44 AM
1

Not necessarily. It falls to the ability to say no. If you don't need someone else, then why worry about giving them special privileges, or leverage in your life? These men understand rheir value, and know that if someone won't do what they want, another will. This behavior shows value, and consequently, builds attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:53 PM
1

I mean, that's fine. Not like there aren't men doing the same thing. But like it or not, that is external validation, and that's not great for self esteem and confidence if you're basing it on someone else approval. 80s movies may be corny as hell, but they may have a point of loving yourself. Look to improving the self. You should be the prize, not someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:49 PM
2

Lately, I wanted to see a level of competency in parents. Too often you see kids ignore them as if they don't know better 90% of the time. Too many running around talking out of their ass lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:36 PM
6

It gives a good level of scrutiny on both sides, and keeps me from simply fallimg into one camp or another. I recently found myself leaning to TRP as of a few months prior. It's definitely helped. No more pedastels, no more anxiety to approach. I've developed and matured as I learned more from the Vanguard, specifically Whisper. But at the same time, my life, and some of the women both proved RP sentiments, as well as how women can be exceptions to the rule. I've seen how many concepts can apply…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:33 PM
4

Number 1 sounds solid, but the issue with this is that neither are totally realistic. Sure if I find 1, I'd be inclined to lock it down, but there's a reason that would be called a good woman. They don't come around often. Between her, you must slog through goldiggers, cheats, liars, possible kids that may or may not support your relationship, insecurities on your or her part, etc. The list goes on.... So really there's is no to pick. Either is a fantasy. Nobpoint in getting wrapped up in one. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:24 PM
1

Sorry to hear that. Guess you're gonna have to game somewhere more to your liking. Wish you well.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:03 AM
1

Cool. Put on a field report when that's done.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:31 AM
7

Actions, not words. Sounds like she wants to, or is sleeping around. Do with that as you will.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:21 AM
1

Play it how you see fit. Don't pay her bills, like you said she got a nigga. She don't need another wallet and a doubt you want a stack of bills. Either she is down to fuck or she isn't. Don't waste time on those who can't decide.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:20 AM
3

I don't know man, what the fuck do you want from her? If sex, gets some sex. If a relationship, remember that it can come back to bite you. But that is her frame. Replacing guys is HER frame. Buying into that can just as easily be you going into it
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:18 AM
1

I don't like to take someone's word for it if I don't have to. When someone says, "it's the bluest lake you'll ever see..." I want to see what that fucker looks like. Besides, always a story to be made during the journey.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:15 AM
1

I preface with don't forget to have a good time, but to address your points.... Drink maybe a beer or two an hour, I don't even like the idea of you driving, but do what you have to do. If cops come, dash out away from the police. You can take a quick scope out when you first show up, maybe look for a backdoor to the house, and a quick way back to you car. Get that down the street a bit so cops don't immediately see it or you in it. Leave when the party starts to die down, or if the people you c…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:13 AM
1

Think of the fruits of your labor, if that interests you, then you'll have a goal in mind to hit. Personally, I don't enjoy working very much. I work to live, not live to work. Dint pigeonhole yourself into thinking you have to like work because men are supposed to.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:07 AM
2

Hmmm.... no guarantee, but an invite out may be a good play. I don't know how much you talk to this girl when you see her, but it could be a way to maintain attraction by her having invested time into you, then hold onto that later for sex when you're ready.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:04 AM
1

Nightgame isn't. Going out should be fun. Go with some friends, and focus on having a good time first and buildint confidence, and less on what others are thinking. That lack of self confidence and esteem sounds like the source of your approach anxiety.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:02 AM
2

Honestly, most of the info still applies. The sub does have a focused slant on straight sexuality, but just like some concepts can carry over to work, with coworkers and bosses, so can it to homosexual relationships and flings. Though I can't personally confirm out in the field, from what I've heard from gay and lesbian friends, things like stoicism, taking the lead, etc. are still fairly universal.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:59 AM
3

Who cares if she responds late. She's has a life outside of you, just like you have one outside of her.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:55 AM
1

Why is approaching hard for you? It's not like these girls pay your bills. At the club, you go to have a good time, with the potential for sex. Just like everyone else. No point in bullshitting to women if you want to fuck. So find someone who looks decently fun/attractive and speak, knowing just like you, she wants to have a good time.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:39 AM
1

That sucks, but you have shit to handle. If you eat pussy, that may be your only play, but I'd recommend just telling her you can't do anything right now. Sucks you can't fuck her, but your health matters more than a lay.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:34 AM
2

Depends on how mich you care what they think. If they pay your bills, then keep ypur head down and do what you want out of sight, and judgement of them. If not, then it falls to how important your relationship with them is. If it means nothing, ignore and move on. Irrelevant info to you. If they do matter, address it and tell them to stop, though they may also ignore your request, so be prepared to deal, or cut them off from your life. As for that whole Alpha bit.... shut the hell up. The less y…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:33 AM
6

Great advice RPM, but to add on to this, another option may be to try clingyness, distance isn't working, so the inverse may be a possible way out if you play your cards. Will be a lot of work, but it in theory is a clean exit plan.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:13 PM
3

Dude hit up girl B and use it as leverage of A's character. Don't bullshit either with dating, but instead as someone to fuck instead. If she's interested, cool. If not, cool too. If A gives you shit, just take in stride. If B likes you, she'll see through A's disdain of you. If you're straight up, you may just luck out and A will help you. From there, aproach, isolate, close. Remember KISS
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:52 AM
2

My observation skews young, but a lack of self confidence, and by extension insecurity about the relationship. Many women I see about college age don't particularly like aspects of themselves. That's fine and understandable. But instead of people encouraging improvement in these areas, you see a lot of the love your parables thrown around. "You just need to love yourself." That's a common one. They still have that lingering feeling present though, resulting in low self esteem, and either whoring…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 03:55 AM
12

Might start using that myself.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 10:28 PM
1

I'm mainly into rap or hip hop. But nowadays I've expanded through many genres. Easy to enjoy some country when you don't care what others think.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 03:00 PM
2

Can be if you don't pay attention. But it's just the concept of rewarding good behavior. You may be able to upgrade those worthy, but be prepared should things go south.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 02:57 PM
4

I had the same problem growing up. I'd reccomend playing off your environment for conversation. Say you are at a bar, take a look at the people around, and find something noteworthy or amusing. You can sometimes point that out for a laugh, and create a kind of us vs them with the girl. Not a guarantee to work, but it can show a level of perceptiveness with you having to say it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 02:56 PM
1

Huh. Haven't heard of someone mentioning the overton window in about a year. Could very well describe a lot from the last year or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 06:50 AM
2

I think its falling to the gender imbalance in countries like India and China. I mean, if you've got your pick of the litter, why not up the standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 06:26 AM
3

Oh there are plenty. We shit on them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 07:31 PM
2

You don't. You improve yourself. TRP advice incoming... Think of the small things first. How you dress, physical fitness, etc. These things can be pinned down and improved upon. If you have excuses for why not, cast them aside and work at it anyway. Most guys don't need a 10 out of 10 to like you. You just need to be good enough. So improve yourself, so you're more than just a piece of ass for some guy to tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 07:12 PM
2

Somewhat of a functional alcoholic. Will go all weekend burning through some Crown Royal or New Amsterdam. But I make it alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 07:03 PM
1

True. You don't need to. But I've had exes come looking for me, so it's to save them time, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 05:06 PM
1

No universal code, but among friends, there are unspoken, or spoken, rules when among themselves, around women, around superiors, etc. Just like any group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:15 AM
0

Not morally wrong, but it is rude. People tend to care about those that they go out with. If you don't like them, just keep it simple. You owe no explanation, but at least let them know before they worry about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:11 AM
2

Not really. Its like red flags for any girl. If she's like this with others, what about with you. I don't agree with the advice, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:57 PM
7

A little more common to see talk back, but only against men who don't act on level. As long as you are actually worth their time, you'll be alright. Kick her to the curb if she's a problem. Source: Black man
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:25 PM
1

The more you know
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:22 PM
1

You've got value. Find women who respond well to value you create for yourself. Aspring writer women will take interest in your writing, women interested in your money may take interest in hearing you make bank. Find women in those circles and work from there. But since you have value, you can afford to have a bit of standard too. So keep that in mind. To round out, lift, eat well, work hard, and maintain the frame you've built. Wish you well brother.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 07:41 PM
8

A decent response, but it could be better. In all fairness, this really isn't that big a deal. So what if you're a lil bitch to her. She's not fucking you anyways or otherwise contributing to your life, so what does her opinion matter. Also note this logic doesn't just apply to women. If someone is not helping you, their opinion means nothing.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 07:37 PM
5

Parsing through 48 Laws again a bit. I tend to enjoy the historical exerpts. Various Political Discussion threads on Reddit. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 07:31 PM
1

I like independence. I like to have my own life outside an SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 05:42 PM
3

Agreed. With things like: Facism Marrying women you raped That children should be King Racism Etc. Feminism feels harmless by comparison.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 02:08 PM
2

My independence. This makes it super great for me to think and act on my own, but so much so that I tend to disregard what others want to do. I'll drive people out of my life and feel nothing in the way of guilt. Honestly I not even bothered that much by it, but I definitely don't see myself in an LTR any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:17 PM
1

I'm at a weird crossroads. I'm 18 for the record. High School Senior. Women in my home life, specifically my mother, want me to open up more. And when I've asked for help, they are plenty helpful. But at the same token. I rarely feel a need to consult anyone about my problems. I just go fix them. So this brings a "you don't ever talk to me" vibe from them. At school however, this is never a thing. Most women, well people really, are rather shallow in their compassion. Not really a problem in its…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 02:25 PM
2

Time to decide. Either take it, or break her off.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 12:33 PM
4

Yep. Be consistent with how you treat them and your expectations. They'll want to know that you'll be there for them, Most kid problems will be small fare, but try to act like it matters. It will to them, once they mature out of it. They'll be stronger for, realizing how little those things matter.
/r/RedPillParenting13/04/18 05:13 PM
2

Next those girls. That's the past. Since you're lacking confidence, it's time to fix that. Zero in on your insecurities. Body, game, style, etc. and work to improve. Set your goals. When you do that, you have something to be proud of, and the confidence will stick.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:25 PM
2

It's a risk, but you have to consider if she can be trusted before you leave with her. Anything can go tits up, so no red flags should be ignored.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:22 PM
-1

KISS. Keep it simple stupid. Accept and give one in return.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:18 PM
1

Maybe, but it's not so bad to take life day by day, improving where you see fit. Plenty enjoyable to simply try new things as life goes along to see where it leads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 02:13 PM
2

My grand vision is to breathe life back into my hometown by bringing skilled work and my own industry into the area. To do that I'll need money, financial and industrial knowledge, and time. This will likely take decades, but in time it can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 02:09 PM
1

Your personal opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:13 AM
1

Your definition
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:56 AM
1

Like what traits or virtues, Red Pill or Blue Pill, are most desirable? I'll clarify that in an edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:46 AM
3

Definitely more at night. I'm a student, so during the day I'm focused on studying. I occasionally approach, but most times the pretext for sex simply isn't there. At night it's easy; go to a party, and plenty of people want to knock boots. Likely why they came in the first place. But during the day? No girl wants to be slut shamed, so a pretext must be there you to approach. Well not must, but it certainly makes life easier. So study session, lunch, etc. but no high guaruntee of sex in the next…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:39 AM
5

I respect your candor for admitting it to yourself. Hope you find your guiding light.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 01:14 AM
3

Dude what the fuck. Shit my username will get me marked a terrorist by that logic.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 12:27 AM
9

Draw the line. Either she's a plate like you want, or she's nothing to you. Outcome Independence.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 07:17 PM
3

Most BP men are typical. 'Alpha' traits are rarely innate, they are nearly always learned behaviors. Take children for instance. Common for them to do things that their parents want them to do, bot because it's the right thing, but to avoid punishment. That's very blue pill. Compare to adults (hopefully) that do based on moral code. But with time, children learn social cues along with general knowledge (really it is general knowlege, but whatever). However, especially due to media consumption, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 12:19 PM
3

I agree with TheProphet: Display intent. You don't need to fake like some Casanova, but within a few minutes of meeting a girl, showing sexual interest in her, and being up front about it can do you wonders. Just remember context. Great idea at a bar, not so much at a funeral.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:46 AM
3

Some say act more standoffish, and to me that skirts around your overall goal. You want to take more time for yourself and improve yourself. Any skills you ever wanted to try to learn? Make that your new hobby for a while; or even some show you want to catch up on? Use that to set the pace for a night one the couch with your LTR; established dominance since your picking what's going on, yet is also fulfilling as it's something your really want to do. Up to you for what you want to do.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:43 AM
3

Well what do you want out of this? If she's a plate to you, tell her as such. If you want to push her up to FWB, then go for it. All depends on what you prefer.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:38 AM
2

Set goals for yourself. What do you want out of your life? There is no set answer for any man, your life, background, and past can determine your opportunities, but you play the hand you're dealt. Once you have goals (hopefully, personal health, career goals, etc.) are in place, read the sidebar to get a better footing on how to better achieve your goals. Be aware, that truths there can cross over to much more than the dating game.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:34 AM
7

Not really. Your morals are for you. Be sure you know why you have such morals, and drop them if unreasonable, personally I follow the golden rule. Don't want anyone fucking my wife.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:31 AM
10

Are blowjobs that big a deal to you? If yes, don't settle for less. If no, then whatever no biggie.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 04:29 AM
2

This may be one of the few Sidebar worthy posts so far this year. Any thoughts Mods?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 10:04 PM
3

Go talk to people in class. Not being an ass with that answer, but: "Hey I don't know you guys, but you mind if I hang out with you?" Can work wonders. It could fail too, but hey, abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 10:01 PM
0

Mila Kunis without Makeup is about right. Others to list are: 20s Simone biles 30s Amanda Seyfried 40s Sara Gilbert 50s Jamie Lee Curtis
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 01:46 PM
1

This is largely from a High School to YA level, but many RP theories apply just as easily to men and women. Any thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:13 PM
1

That just seems to let it flourish. Will mean possibly less strain on others. But largely much of what we have now.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:11 PM
1

I leave it the person to find their why.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:09 PM
2

Hmm. Sometimes true, but I've that's also an easy way to write off men too, so long as they rely on emotion instead of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 12:29 PM
3

Some won't. Can't save everyone.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:18 AM
2

The point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 05:16 PM
2

Many of us knew this was coming. So just a thought bubble: What changes would everyone here want from Status Quo?
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 05:18 AM
22

I recommend carmex. Lasts a while and works well in the winter.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 04:08 AM
1

Before I dive in, what behaviors would you classify as toxic versus acceptable masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:44 AM
1

It can be useful to a certain extent. Note that my point will be gender neutral. Nurturing people like to help others achieve their potential. Public school teachers are a perfect example of this. Many want to, not out personal gain, help others become better than they once were. This desire to help others self actualize can be used, either deceptively or maliciously or even without realizing. People like may see flaws in someones character, but it is just within their ability to change, so nurt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:34 AM
1

Focus on them building value in themselves, not a facade. That'll go a lot further.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 10:52 PM
1

I see rp ideals as guidelines. Some things may be spot on and others completely out of touch. It falls to you to see for yourself, and find what works for you. Get it how you live. You don't live for others on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 06:59 PM
2

Fair enough. But here, you didn't even address the question. I agree mysogyny is somewhat common here, but still you need quality info too, an anecdote of your own, not just how you disagree.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 08:36 PM
0

Good post, but dude, cut that homophobic shit at the end. Gay dudes see through the bs just like we do.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:13 PM
1

Unless it is better you secretly see her, ask in person.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:45 AM
1

Hmm. Just spitballing, so take with a grain of salt... You could try playing this to your advantage. If she wants to talk so bad, try ask to meet up. Maybe get something to eat, both of you paying your way, and use this to talk to her. Granted, this sounds like white knighting, but so long as you aren't just shitting on the other guy, you can simply use this as a fun way night. Either you have a good time, potentially to later knock boots, or you easily find out she's not worth it. Just remember…
/r/askTRP24/12/17 04:32 AM
2

Somewhat, but most people can pick out who says what. Awareness isn't your issue. However cognitive dissonance can be problematic, so the less ammunition you give, the easier it is to reach more people. Nobody wants to feel shit on, even if they realize they are wrong. Besides, objectivity can give credibility. Plenty of lurkers value a voice that doesn't point fingers, and they always will outnumber the vocal minority of people who would never agree anyway.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 12:00 PM
2

Wording is key. I agree, but if not on TRP, tone down any talk of leftists and agenda. Objectivity can keep you from being muted, and that's enough to pull people to your side.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 08:43 AM
1

The how to get rich article by sivers was barebones, but the shutup and be patient post was great. Keep up the good written work.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 09:47 PM
2

So how do you guys feel about gay men? Or is it just a 'get it how you live' sentiment?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 11:43 PM
1

Not even. Taking her back is a mistake in itself.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:53 AM
10

Looking forward to it. I'll be sure to dive through thus stuff.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 05:00 PM
1

Can someone point me in the direction of the plating post?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:10 PM
1

I second this. That fleeting sincerity can be a pull, and many will find interest in making that side show, increasing their investment in your.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:08 PM
21

I politefully disagree. As long as one has their life in order, one can do as they wish.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 07:13 PM
6

Get in the know. Use that drama to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 03:35 PM
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