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ManWazo/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 11:02 AM
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It's not about being attractive, it's about being original and different from other profiles. If your profile has no personnality and it's just exactly like all other profiles, of course you won't get matches.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 12:04 PM
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I've been using it for free for many years. Tinder plus is optional.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 12:14 AM
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Why don't you use Tinder or Feeld instead, it's free! Other than that, the local swinging, polyamory and/or bdsm communities are good place for friends with benefits. Fun fact: the hardest part is actually being "friends" because most people suck, while having sex is the easy part.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 07:23 PM
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Nobody tells you that you can't have preferences. For example, you can have a preference for dating only people with white skins. People will call you racist because this is a racist preference. But nobody is telling yo you're not allowed to be a racist. The same way, you can have misogynistic preferences, like body count, and people will tell you you are misogynistic. You're allowed to have misogynistic preferences and it would indeed be pointless to try to convince you otherwise, as you rightl…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 09:39 PM
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Every exredpiller was misogynistic at some point. People improve and so can you
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 10:49 PM
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It's like people afraid of planes but not cars. Statistically, you're more likely to die in a car crash than from a plane crash. Yet, some people use their car everyday but are afraid of planes. People will argue how it "makes sense" to be afraid of planes but not cars and will tell that "rational and emotional thinking coincide", yet it does not really coincide. Rationally, people should be more afraid to drive their cars than to use a plan, but they don't. Like you, they are trying to rational…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 04:12 PM
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observation of common outcomes. How many did you observe? One? Two? And you probably observed at least 10 people with a lot of sexual partners but dismissed the observations because they didnt fit your misogynistic view? Do you realise this is an irrelevant sample size? It's fine that you're scared of people with a sexual past. You're allowed to have emotions. But you're consufing your emotions with facts about people. It's pretty common for men tho to think emotively instead of rationaly, unlik…
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 12:15 PM
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Most people are honest about their present and past sexual partners. It's pretty rare that people hide big parts of their life to significant others. The redpill paranois a lot about rare events.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 12:11 PM
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But if she has an insanely high amount of previous sexual partners that is something to he concerned about. It likely means she has poor critical thinking skills, no self control, probably some sort of mental baggage that I respectfully don't want to deal with. I know a lot of people who had a lot of sexual partners. They just fit in society like everyone else: they do their 9to5, have a fulfilling romantic life and are well adjusted. There's no reason to believe they are unbalanced. There's no …
/r/ExRedPill22/02/24 03:05 AM
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Queer perspective
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 01:24 PM
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I know. Thanks for the mansplaining.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 09:42 PM
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You might not have the knowledge that the manosphere goes deeper than one particular redpill subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 09:39 PM
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Redpill is not unified. Some believe genetics and non-changeable characteristics 100% determine attraction, which seems to be op's case.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 09:08 PM
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The fact that you're complaining on Reddit about not having success tells me that it's not maximised. Unless you're able to show me proof, like your instagram that displays your maximized gigachad looks, then I'm pretty sure that it's far from maximized.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 08:52 PM
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The redpill tells you that attractiveness is all about face dimensions, heighr and/or skin color. In reality, attraction is much more complex and you have control over a lot of elements that are part of attractiveness: self confidence, style, posture, body composition, hygiene, ... Focusing on tiny components of attractiveness that you can't change is useless when attraction is way more than thay.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 08:24 PM
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Why don't you become attractive instead?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 07:22 PM
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Whats your sample size? You know three sexist guys that do well out of like 4 billons? Do you realize this sample size is totally irrelevant in the grand scheme of things?
/r/ExRedPill18/02/24 11:00 PM
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Anyone can lie about anything. If you believe someone is lying to you, I recommend you to get them out of your life and move on.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 06:22 PM
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Just ask them their body count and if the answer is high then it is.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 05:45 PM
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Was this survey made by an undergrad? So many assumptions biaising the data and there were error copy-pasting the agree/disagrees.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/24 03:37 AM
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If you're terrified of divorce, just don't marry. Pretty simple solution
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 01:46 PM
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How do normal people feel attraction? Are most people not physically attracted to their partners? I don't know if I'm a normal person but I think "attraction" is divisible in many subcategories with relative weighting depending on the person and for me "physical attraction" constitute around 20% of general attraction. But I find that 95% of people look almost exactly the same, so it doesn't matter that much to me.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 09:15 PM
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Misogyny is not exclusive to redpill
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:30 PM
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I don’t know any woman who wouldn’t find it a huge turnoff Wow you don't know a lot of women
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 12:50 PM
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Most men look fine, don't smell, wipe their asses, etc. Yeah that stuff is the bare minimum but that doesnt mean your options suck Go install grindr and then tell us how most men look fine.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 09:28 PM
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My jokes and humor is also lame to most people lol. My mind needs longer to think of what to say/do. Who cares about "most people"? As long as you fit with the right person
/r/ExRedPill19/12/23 08:53 PM
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how is that even possible if redpill is correct? Because it isn't
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 12:26 PM
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Just be yourself. If you're an introvert trying to flirt like an extrovert, it will appear fake. For example, what works for me as an introvert is Instagram and Tinder. I dont go out because I'm scared of noises and people, but I found a way to flirt and make friends that works with me. Everyone is different, so anything that provide one way for everyone is a scam.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/23 01:17 PM
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Fictionnal characters are irrelevant
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 05:45 PM
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Surveys also takes place in different space and time. Of course a 2019 and a 2006-2010 dont have the same results. Same with an USA and a New zealand survey. It's like comparing different fruits and being surprised that they don't taste the same.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 12:40 PM
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I'm poly and have sex everyday but it's with 2-3 partners instead of only 1.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 02:01 PM
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Totally. And it doesn't make them worse. Therefore, body counts doesn't matter
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 10:58 AM
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But what's the link between the general and true statements "more social opportunities help for making friends and dating" and the red pill fallacy in your post "short men must geomaxx cuz women love tall men"?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 10:59 PM
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What makes you think geomaxxing works?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 09:44 PM
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If nobody wants to date you seriously in your own country, what makes you think you'd be dateable in another country? You should focus on becoming a better person because if nobody wants to date you in your whole country then you are the problem, it's not your height, weight, skin or whatever.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 09:29 PM
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Changing country because you can't date here is huge loser mentality. Dating as a short person is easy if you don't have a shit personnality and changing country won't change your personnality.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 04:46 PM
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Coffee and sex
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 03:53 PM
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Agreed. I'd be so less happy if I was married!
/r/ExRedPill31/07/23 11:08 PM
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If you feel targeted when women criticize toxic behaviors of men, maybe you ahould ask yourself questions. If someone says "All men are r#pists, I hate men", i definitely won't feed attacked, so you need to ask yourself why would you feel targeted by those kind of comments.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 12:20 PM
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I dont get the fear. A virgin could also chest on you: since she never had a hoe phase she would want to do it bexause FOMO. I dont see why "Jock" is opposed to "nerd". You can be a sexually active nerd or a sexless jock. Anyway it seems you have big trust issues and should work on that before going into a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/23 06:47 PM
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Autistic people are more likely to reject anything society takes for granted, including dating but also sexualities and gender. Which is why, paradoxically, autistic forks are more likely to be redpill but also more likely to be trans.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 08:32 PM
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Just take a walk this afternoon in your city. You'll see plenty of average dude with their girlfriend.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 12:01 PM
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Dating is a skill that has to be learned by trial and error. Go get rejected and eventually you'll understand what are the do and dont of dating
/r/ExRedPill22/06/23 07:49 PM
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Do whatever makes you happy. You're an adult. But as a 5'3 who has a lot of sex but bad genetics I'm pretty sure you could also have sex without having to pay for it.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 09:30 PM
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In my groups, femboys and nongenderconforming folks are seen as way hotter than some regular cishet men with beard. You'd have much more success dating in my group as a femboy than a typical "chad". "Todays society chad worship" as you say it is only true for a small portion of people, 5, 10% at most and not for society as a whole.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 04:27 PM
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Not everyone is 20 yo. If you're 50 and had sex with 300 women, it's just 10 per active year, less than one per month. It's pretty reasonable.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 04:17 PM
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Being tall is also essential to seeing at concert, reaching higher shelves and buying clothes that fits. Money is also a factor in dating (there's literally a post from today that says "I won't date someone because they're unemployed"). Being tall and being rich is not as different as you paint them. I don't know why you feel the need to reduce cultural standards to "subjective preferences". Whats next? There's no systemic racism doesn't exist in dating because people saying "I only date whites"…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 06:56 PM
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It's not subjective, it's cultural. You can't reduce culture to just the sum of subjective preferences. For example, you can't say "wanting to have money is just a subjective preference because people are insecure about poverty" when the "subjective preference" is defined by a wider entity that is the way society is construed.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 06:42 PM
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I'm 5"3 and knew being short was a bad thing way before discovering the red pill. People, friends, strangers and family kept telling me "it's not that bad" (implying it's a bad thing) and "you have other qualities" (implying it's a bad trait). The red pill just said directly things that society is too afraid to say explicitly. If society was more honest, the redpill wouldn't exist to pray on insecure or inadequate men.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 06:33 PM
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It's cool for 2-3 months and after that the other person takes you for granted and does no effort so it sucks
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 12:16 PM
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Being authentic and living my best life dating all kind of pretty boys, girls and queers. Not particularily a fan of traditionnal monogamous heterosexual dating game and I'm not so good at it anyway.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 12:50 AM
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No because I have enough sex already so why would I give this up for no benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:46 AM
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TRP strategies are made by virgins and don't work. "Lie and say you want a relationship if you want casual sex" is like "Lie on your resume and say you have a degree totally irrelevant to the job you're applying for": it won't work and is just plain stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:43 AM
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Become the better man.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 11:55 AM
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I'm short and autistic
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 03:03 AM
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I became redpill after a bunch of feminists death threatened me and I stopped being repilled when someone made me realise that I can't control what others think or do about me, that all I could control is myself and that I don't need other people to be fulfilled
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 03:22 PM
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According to surveys, it's 55% white people and 44% with autistic symptoms, so they're more autistic and nonwhite than the general population. https://www.adl.org/resources/blog/online-poll-results-provide-new-insights-incel-community https://www.hstoday.us/subject-matter-areas/counterterrorism/perspective-incels-autism-violent-extremism-and-the-case-of-alek-minassian/#_edn5
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 08:37 PM
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It's just too vague. I could shit the ICS theory which states that the most important thing is shared Interests, shared culture and sexual comptatibilty (hetero men date hetero women) and that would be an equally vague theory that explains most relationships. Shitting abstract theories out of the void is funny when drinking around a fire, but it has few epiestemic values.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 06:41 PM
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It's a sub for redpill content. There's no debate because redpill is like a religion and if you state any fact that contradicts the Migthy Truth you're either lying or stupid.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 07:49 PM
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Because straight women are the one dating cishet men.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 09:03 PM
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I'd rarher have consensual and mutual fun with people than playing with toys, thanks for the idea.
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 10:32 AM
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Where are you from and how old are you? Weird that you never learnt about condoms!
/r/AllPillDebate29/03/23 10:42 PM
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Nice try, but I never had any STDs
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 02:30 PM
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They tell you you're special, still bang you, and then ghost you. Still a win in my opinion.
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 06:29 PM
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Why would you pretend to want relationship if you dont want to wait 5 dates? It's women looking for relationships that will make you wait, not women looking for sex..
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 11:51 AM
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Just follow rule 1 and 2
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 11:39 AM
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LARP's Lol cope
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 02:22 AM
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No. A girl that wants a relationship will wait at least 5 dates for sex, while one who wants casual sex will do it on first date. If you say you're looking for relationship, you'll match with people that will make you wait, while being straightforward about wanting sex will help you match with same minded people. The majority of people having cadual sex are totally honest about it.
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 12:17 AM
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No but everyone (M/F) should have access to pills and permanent sterilization
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:40 PM
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These effects should be considered by women when deciding to take pills or not but shouldn't be considered when splitting a bill 50-50.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:38 PM
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Depends on other expenses. Did the man buy the condoms? Do the woman buy her own pills? Contraception should cost 50-50 all cost considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:04 PM
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Average men can't run marathons too, but anyone who trains enough can do it. I personnally would train for a marathon instead of embracing couch potato culture, the same way I choose to participate in hookup culture, but if average men prefer settling instead of training thats their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:44 PM
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If they want a sexless marriage with a 4/10 instead of lookmaxxing for promiscuity it's their choice: we're in a free country after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:24 PM
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You really think average men don't want promiscuity? I dont think so, I think settling for purity is "settling for less" when promiscuity is what they want deep inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:19 PM
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Never heard anyone say that here. Any proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:51 PM
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You can date the 30% of women that don't care about height and the 40% that will make an exception about their height rule if you're hot enough, so that's a lot of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:20 AM
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No guy is looking for a gym woman when he himself doesn't workout. Many 3/10 fat guys are looking for 8/10 gym women and say they wont settle for less. We hear that everyday on this sub. these women are still balling in the dating market Most 5/10 men will also be active on the dating market if they're willing to date or hookup with 5/10 women. If they don't, that's either because they are 2/10 that see themselves as 5/10 or because they are only looking for 8/10 women. Which brings the main poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:31 AM
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I didn't mean it as a joke. I sincerily think people promoting anti lgbtq+ propagands don't deserve to be happy. Good thing he was banned!
/r/AllPillDebate13/03/23 11:22 AM
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Because chad dont act as "nice guys". They dont go on reddit complain about their lack of sex while objectifying women. The hypocrisy of "nice guys" is what people mock, not their look.
/r/AllPillDebate13/03/23 01:34 AM
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Where's bodycount? It's the most important metric for men and it's missing!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:31 PM
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Do you have the link? I'm curious to know what's the percent of virgin 9+/10 18-21yo with a bmi under 20, which seems what most men are looking for here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:29 PM
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Wow you're so nice to other people! The prime example of a nice guy! I wonder why nobody wants to date your loser ass. Maybe suicide is your only avenue to happiness?
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 05:22 PM
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Bold of you to assume I'm a cis man
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 01:29 PM
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Is there a similar form for male delusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:00 PM
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Cis men are so entitled and this is just another proof
/r/AllPillDebate11/03/23 04:06 AM
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As long as the question is clear, the answer will be objective. Just have a common definition of what counts as sex and it's objectively mesurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:45 AM
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I'd rather suffer from chronic pain than from chronic child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:25 PM
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Yes, but I need my hand and I don't need fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:30 PM
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Still worth it. A kid has even more permanent side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:52 PM
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What are the side effects?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:26 PM
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I'd take it if vasectomies didn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:03 PM
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No. Being a porn actor is like being an OF creator: you're an entrepreneur working on your brand and doing scenes is a small part of it only. I would not do it again unless I find a better prod company.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:58 PM
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Can't answer. I know what worked for me, but if fashion and gym don't help you then I dont know what works for you.
/r/AllPillDebate08/03/23 12:58 PM
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It,'s just a misogynist thing men say to feel superior to women. This dichotomy has been used at least since human created writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:26 AM
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I have an average face. Being hot is a choice made possible by efforts.
/r/AllPillDebate08/03/23 01:14 AM
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I'm hot
/r/AllPillDebate08/03/23 12:03 AM
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Who would want to date a NT anyway? Just pump and dump NTs and date NDs, that's the play
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 12:02 PM
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Did you read my comment? I literally wrote "I dont think it's rare".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:24 PM
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I think around 25-35% of women prefer nerdy introverts. I dont think it's rare, but I used this example because we frequently read here that stem guys and programmers have no chance in dating even when they are hot and rich because women dislike nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:53 AM
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Money is useless if you dont use it to invest in yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:26 AM
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Ur saying sex 3 times a week is top 5%???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:14 AM
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Pretty unrealistic. The top 5% still only have 24h/day. They can't get much more than sex 7 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:51 AM
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People think statistical outliers dont exist. It's common sense that some people are genuinly ugly, that some chads are short, that some people have 4 digits bodycounts, or that some women prefer nerdy introvert, but its rare. Anything rare dont exist according to the average redditor: the most plausible hypothesis is that people are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 10:10 PM
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Because short men are hot and finally more people open their eyes about reality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:07 PM
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I know some sex workers in the 4 digits. While rare, they still exist and I dont think deleting their entries is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:21 PM
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Ironically it gets worse as you start to self-improve You can have study dates with other students, make friends during social activities (like sport club) and with the docial activites at your job. I think self improving is positively correlated with doing activities where you have a chance to expand your social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:41 PM
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Exactly. There is no point in lying, therefore the most plausible interpretation of the data is that nobody lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:57 PM
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For a LTR I want someone with similar experience and interest, so I wouldn't date someone who has under 10. 100+ I consider high
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:34 PM
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For anyone who thinks this video has some truth in it, would you say that the 68% of 20-30 men that are single is a good news, since they dont have to deal with the burden of having a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:59 PM
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Either you pay and date a model or settle for lower for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:42 AM
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Nice troll account.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 11:40 PM
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How would you answer to this argument: "The reason people don't have social skill is because they look bad so they didn't have to opportunity to develop them. Therefore, ultimatly, dating is all about looks"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:11 AM
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As an average single person with an average job I can tell that you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:02 PM
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I'm 28. Women aged 18-23 are immature, they are still teen with low ncounts who dont know or dont like sex. It's easier after 25 - I was like only 30 ncount at 25.
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 03:11 AM
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5"3, by looksmaxxing and hanging around in the bdsm and swingers communities
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 03:04 AM
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No idea how to look for a sex worker as a client.
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 12:23 AM
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I have two fwbs that are escorts, one of them which I work with (for men that wants mmf threesome as an extra).
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 12:09 AM
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In Canada, it's around 200$/h, more if you want extras (blowjob, anal, bareback, etc.). Extras price depend on the escort.
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 11:29 PM
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Men here dont want a relationship where they like each other. They want a women 21yo maximum ,9/10 looks minimum, virgin and traditionnal. "Linking each other" is some beta stuff (anyway, this is such a superficial thing to say, women are so superficial).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:26 PM
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Dating men is always a bad choice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:18 PM
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Just do some kinky stuff until they leave and find another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:50 AM
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Once you stop dating, you not only save alot of money How can you save money when casual sex is free but notn escorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:47 AM
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Agreed. More women choose to date women and even more men are single.
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 11:43 AM
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Hot 20s that have daddy issues are always looking for older men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:40 AM
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turn lesbian So homosexuality is a choice? This mean nobody is incel because they choose to be straight! Society is repaired!
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 12:37 AM
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Why? You dont want to debate all pill in all pills debate? You would rather have an incel echo chamber?
/r/AllPillDebate27/02/23 12:19 PM
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It sounds like you're trying to convince yourself and everyone else here that marriage is fun when really it sucks the life and soul out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:57 AM
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Its more like a discussion about god being real. Believers will tell you its so obvious that you cant miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:01 AM
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I guess chatgpt is the new wikipedia ahah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:00 AM
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The bell curve distribution for sexual partners is pretty even for women. Most women have had some number of sexual partners, with only a few at the extremities having had many sexual partners, or very few. For men, the distribution is a great deal more skewed. Many men have had very few or no sexual partners at all, while a small percentage of men have had very many sexual partners. Source? Your whole point is based on a statistics that you have no proof of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:35 AM
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Either develop your style and climb to the top 20% to have a chance or give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:32 AM
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Men that get married do it because they can't access sex otherwise, so it's not "facts" you're spitting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:09 AM
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If you're confident and have style it can happens. Fwbs are harder to find than casual sex because not everyone that sleep with you will want to be your friend. Unless you live in a small town at your parents home then yeah you won't have any chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:39 PM
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married with children Whats the fun in that? No sex, no autonomy, ne free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:10 PM
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That and men live with their parents and wonder why they can't bring women home.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:07 PM
1

I'm autist so most of my dates are onetime hooksups because one party or they other dont want to pursue
/r/AllPillDebate26/02/23 03:45 AM
0

Op was about dating app, but corworkers or people in social circles care even less about height.
/r/AllPillDebate26/02/23 01:45 AM
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You asked the question "what are the short kings doing?" and I gave an answer.
/r/AllPillDebate25/02/23 07:50 PM
-5

Short kings are proud and confident and women find this hot. Sure there are women that say "no you're too short", but when you're a hot king, women become more flexible about their height requirements. The short men who don't succeed are short, but also not hot, not confident and have a shitty attitude when told "no". Personally, there's like 10% of my matches that tell mr I'm too short, but there's also around 5 of my past dates that told me they reconsidered their height requirements because o…
/r/AllPillDebate25/02/23 07:21 PM
1

It was a question when I was about 18-22, but at my age nobody care now - if you're 26 years old, most people won't care about your body count. If they do, it means they're conservative men and if that's not your type then it just signals you an incompatibility. 14 is just slightly over average anyway (which is what, 6, 7?), it's not high. It starts getting high at 100+ in my opinion and I consider anything between 1 and 50 normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:12 PM
4

Is calling reality a "fantasy roleplay" your way to cope with the fact that you're unsuccessful because you're in the lower 10% value man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:44 AM
5

You going for personnal attacks instead of answering the points just show that you lost the debate. And since you can't get laid either it makes you a loser twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:14 AM
4

I'm short I can't be a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:01 AM
4

Isnt god intuitive? Dont act like your personal intuitions are facts when experience show the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:00 AM
6

Not my experience either. It's low value men with low ncounts (<10) that usually think and act like this. Women love sex as much as men, they just dont base their whole personality about their sex or lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:58 AM
2

Like every game, dating is hard at first and eventually you get good and climb elo. 6-7 months is a short time to learn and master such a complex game!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:30 PM
1

You can expect it, but it might not happen. If you can't handle a no, don't go on dates.
/r/AllPillDebate24/02/23 11:12 PM
0

I read only truth in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:38 PM
4

Invisible hand will do its job and people will keep working until they die and can't afford healthcare. It's only a bad thing if you're a communist and don't believe in free market.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:07 AM
0

Most children are under average height. Most men are under average looks. Why? Because children are smaller than the average human and men are uglier than the average human. It's not a misuse of "average", it's just that you dont use the same reference than other. I too consider most men below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:06 AM
6

So what if the population decline? For every specie, poluation increase and decrease following cycles. Humans aren't different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:41 AM
1

Lol if you're paying on dates that's your choice to waste money. Don't blame others for the fact that you insist on paying when on date. Personnally, I'm getting paid more often than I pay for others and I plan and keeping it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:00 PM
2

Wrong. Men put no efforts on their look and society force women to put efforts. This is why the dating world is fucked because when you compare with wild animals, like birds, it is men who do all the job. Men putting no efforts doesn't men they are prettier, it means to are lonelier and uglier.
/r/AllPillDebate23/02/23 12:34 PM
0

Fun. Being single and having casual sex is fun!
/r/AllPillDebate23/02/23 02:47 AM
1

Cheating is cheating, gender makes no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:20 PM
2

Live and let live. I wouldn't do it but if other do it and like it then it's cool for them!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:19 PM
0

All your explanations are plausible except : Polyamory is very common among chads. AKA the 80/20 thing again. Top X% of men are sharing a bunch of women. Most men in polyamory circles are average or under average. There are a few chads but they don't have more partners on average than the other people (when would they find time anyway?).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:23 PM
1

How do you feel about yourself? Amazing Like are you truly your own best friend or enemy? Can you rephrase in less abstract term? I dont understand the question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:13 PM
1

Around 14 when I realised I would be short all my life I though I was ugly. My friends had much more success than me and I just was the short nerd that nobody cared about. Around 22, I wanted to date successfully so I worked to become hot and getting casual sex is easy since then (even tho finding realtionships is still harder).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:21 PM
-1

Non-bdsm orgies is called swinging. And yeah if you're single and below average you should probably looksmax before going.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 05:16 PM
0

I know there are bdsm communities with cities with as few as 70k people so unless you're in a small town there is probably a community where you live. Like sports, bdsm is first about skills, not looks.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 05:13 PM
-4

Bdsm, orgies, esports and sports (watching and/or playing), ... Among many.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 04:13 PM
2

As I am short and autist, it gave an explanation of my unsuccessful dating experiences.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 11:47 AM
16

As a teenager, I was actually semi attractive, but so awkward that I had almost no success with the girls back then. Almost as if what's holding you back is your personnality and it won't be changed by a surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:34 AM
6

A woman having sex with me isn't disgusting to me (but it is to other men) This is why everyone else go "ewww" when you complain about not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:43 AM
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So basically all sex except lesbians is disgusting and my point stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:38 AM
1

Congratulations. You discovered that monogamy sucks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:10 AM
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According to many men, sex is disgusting: this is why they want a low ncount women. Following that logic, complaining about not having sex is rightfully disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:09 AM
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It's true that late 20s is when men peak, but there are more dating options than what you pictures (unless you're strictly looking for longterm sexless monogamy, then yeah you won't have much options).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:36 PM
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Lol. It's like saying that starting a gofundme based on lies is the same thing as literally taking money out of someone purse. If you trust strangers lies, you're gullible but it's different if they literally steal from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:05 PM
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No. It's the equivalent of lying about a vasectomy. Lying about birth control don't put someone at risk of getting hiv without their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:59 PM
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If she pokes holes in a condom or use a discarded one to get pregnant, it is stealthing. But in this case he decided to not wear condom. Why would he be surprised to face the consequences of his own actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:37 PM
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they’d be getting into relationships and cohabitating to save tons of money More and more people prefer living alone and/or having nonmonogamous relationships. Happiness is not synonymous with monogamous marriage. everyone’s complaining about how dating sucks Redditors and low value men and women complain. Thats not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:24 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:22 PM
2

No. But op did and I was answering to op.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:39 PM
1

In the wild, females get impregnated by many males and the strongest sperm make a baby. Looking for a tall man is cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:09 PM
4

21% are illiterate in the usa and I would not claim that "noone can read!" and if you claim so I'll answer "most people can read".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:57 PM
3

30% not having sex is not "everyone". Its less than half, which prove my point that most (ie.70%) people are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:44 PM
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Menatal health crisis is because capitalism is misadapted to how people function biologicaly. It id not directly related to genders role: if someone have "depression" because they cant afford to eat and oversleep to compensate, what's the link with genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:42 PM
5

About the gender dynamics, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:31 PM
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No one’s happy with the current social dynamics between men and women. Most people are happily single or partenered, and this include low value men. The angry entitled men is a small fraction that cries on reddit is a really small fraction of the low values men. There won't be a breaking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:02 PM
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Adult men will hear "cum in me I am taking the pill" and will do it and then complain when this results in a baby, so I'm indeed unsure if adult men understand how pregnancy work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:58 PM
0

Women are also biologicaly coded to want multiple partners, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:53 PM
1

Women put more time on average per week. Denying that women are more attractive by using genetics is the same as denying that people who go to the gym regurlarly are stronger: sure there are genetics playing a role but behaviour is the first determinent of strenght/attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:14 AM
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The problem is most incels are low value and still complain about being single. Just read ppd post history and you'll see that they're not fine being single even if they are too lazy to increase their value so that it matches their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:00 PM
1

man pokes holes in a condom Both are responsible for the child because both had sex without protection. The men should face criminal charges the same way a surgeon with hiv poking holes in his glove should face criminal charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:45 PM
1

What if she lied about the pill? If a man doesnt want kid its his responsability to get his own contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:14 PM
1

Lmao when it comes to casual hookups, literally none of that matters because it's all about looks then. How does it not matter? If I meet a hot women in a bar, I flirt and invite her at my place. It doesn't work everytime because I'm only a 6/10, but it does work sometimes. I think I have more chance of casual sex than a 9/10 inviting women at his parents house for casual sex. Women will choose a 6/10 short adult man over a 9/10 kid for casual sex.
/r/AllPillDebate16/02/23 11:17 AM
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No surgery will help someone working for their parent and living with them have more success. Women want to date men, not kids. Unless surgery make you a 9.8+/10, which I highly doubt.
/r/AllPillDebate16/02/23 02:54 AM
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Why is that? I dont know why men choose to be unattractive. You should ask men why, thats them who decide to be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:45 PM
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I know you don't want to hesr this, but the reason why women (and bisexual men) find most men unattractive is because most men are unattractive. The solution is pretty simple tho: dont be unattractive!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:32 PM
6

Everything "eviolutionary" isn't scientific. Evolutionary claims cannot be falsified empirically and for every plausible evolutionary claim there is an equally plausible evolutionary claim that contradicts it.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:03 PM
0

Women see men at school, job, grocery stores, reddit, family gathering... And makes their view about men from all the data they gather from everywhere, not just from the dating apps. From all these data, and not only dating app, they conclude rightfully that most men are trash.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 04:07 AM
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People who don't have sex before mariage are generally less interested into sex. So if you value a lasting mariage, I guess you don't care about having a lasting sexless mariage, is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:34 AM
1

Well, if you explicitly exclude the obvious answer, then there is absolutly nothing the average man can do. If he keeps a 5/10 personnality and looks, he will always get rejected by women who go for men with better personnality and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:12 AM
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Probably because 18-29 prefer casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:16 PM
1

Mostly social circles: job, school, sports clubs, political salons, tattoo shops, bdsm events, orgies, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:01 PM
1

Mostly irl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:44 AM
1

I'm not a chad and I don't need to be to have a lot of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:43 AM
4

Had a vasectomy so I never have to worry
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:57 PM
1

I know this is basic knowledge from everyone outside the redpill
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 08:00 PM
1

You are totally right
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 06:48 PM
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Because they think men are rational and women are emotionnal
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 01:01 PM
1

Those are my two main takes against evolution: A. Evolution generate contradictory hypothesis. For example, anxiety can be explained by failing of the selected mechanism to function properly or by correct functionning of the delected mechanism. Those are two contradictory hypothesis coherent with the evolution theory. B. Evolutionnary hypothesis can't be tested. We'd need living humans from all the way up to when we became a specie to test that. Since we don't have living humans from all time fr…
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 10:23 PM
1

Yes. You post stories and pictures of yourself, activities and/or memes to know who's interested in your content and use that as a lever to start chatting. I'd say around 30% of my dates started that way!
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 07:25 PM
1

I think that scientific sources from the 19e century aren't reliable today and that biopsychosocial models from the 21e century describe more accuratly and precisely human and animal behaviours.
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 07:22 PM
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You know nothing about me and you assume I dont date women? Just keep being bad at dating becwude youre short. You dont deserve help if you dont help yourself first.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 05:32 PM
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I'm 5'3 and I get dates easily in the poly, queer, neurodiverse and bdsm community. I get my dates via tinder, instagram or irl events.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 05:21 PM
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needs to come back to reality Reality is my genetics is bad and I still fuck beautiful women every week. That's my reality and I accept it easily with a very calm and serene feeling.
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 05:16 PM
1

So chads exist and this article is unrelated to chads because it doesn't study genetics but only ncounts. Got it!
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 05:07 PM
1

But your genetics is so good! Dont tell me dsting has nothing to do with genetics?
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 05:01 PM
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Height is genetic, ncount isn't. If you define "chads" as "top 5% highest ncount" then being a chad isn't genetic.
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 03:55 PM
5

Best advice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:46 PM
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Even if we count only vaginal I'm still over 50 (but not over 100, you got me there good job!) Now do you want to debate pills or cry about your pathetic existence, send personnal attack and show your inability to cope?
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 12:41 PM
1

Idc if I'm not a chad, it's just semantics. But I am still in the 5% if thee's a 5-50 rule and I'd find it really ironic if you aren't ;)!
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 12:33 PM
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The 5% just put more efforts in their looks, personality and game. We dont get to be chads because of genetics.
/r/AllPillDebate08/02/23 12:12 PM
1

valid argument Dont worry you'll learn about validity in logic 102 but you're not there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:59 AM
1

Thats calling growing up. Boys want to be firefighters and then change their mind when adult and become accountants, are they contradictory? Here a logic 101 course. Sitation X: Person A holding proposition p at time t1 and holdimg proposition -p at time t2. Situation Y: Person A holds p at t1 and Person b holds -p at t1. Both situations X and Y aren't cases of contradictions. Your emotions has been beaten by facts and (especially) logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:33 PM
-3

Some men voted for Biden, some men voted for Trump. This is a proof that men are contradictory because they are completly non-unique with brain functioning exactly the same as other men. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:45 PM
-2

None. Different women have different views.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:09 PM
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Men on ppd meet a woman once on their life: OMG ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME. Idk dude either you pay your friend for sex or find someone else who does it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:26 PM
1

Everyone is replaceable. Whrn you die, your wife will find another husband, your employer will hire and your friends will keep on with their life. Treating people like replaceable stuff is the only sensible way of viewing people in every social context.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:10 PM
1

Post public stuff like instagram stories or a meme and if she likes it send an opener related to the post.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 12:50 AM
2

Agreed. Having a bunch of fwbs is the best. I never understand why people chase longterm monogamy, since most of them complains about financial imbalances, cheating and sexlessness which are inherent to this kind of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:12 PM
2

I come to the redpill because I was bullied and sexless all my life because of my height. It became worst they day I made a sexist joke on Facebook and as a result hundreds of feminists in my dms telling me I should suicide. I hated my life, I hated women and I hated feminism. I though that all my.problems were caused by my height, but I was only partly.right. When I discovered neurodiversity groups and queer communities, everything went better: I gained confidence had (and still have) and reali…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 04:18 AM
1

This goes both way. 18-25 women prefer 18-25 men, 4045- women prefer 40-45 men. Your post assume that smv is defined by the possibility to attract young women, which induce a biais where young men have by defininition higher smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:34 PM
1

No. I love sex too much!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:26 PM
1

Always follow moral rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:04 PM
0

Do you have style? Personnality? If you have neither then yeah your looksmatch is 300lbs...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:36 PM
7

In open relationship with high value, it's the other way around: men fuck around while gfs don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:09 PM
-1

If you can't make your gf cum she'll cheat on you with a chad and it'll be your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:03 PM
-6

Straight cis men suck but all other groups are fine
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:10 PM
2

Dead bedrooms are their own separate issue Lol, you can't separate dead bedrooms from women not interested in sex. Unless you think men are the reason dead bedrooms happen?
/r/AllPillDebate31/01/23 12:03 PM
1

U said that nudes are objectively disgusting because most men think so. Its not a strawman its literally what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:42 PM
0

So, according to you, objectivity is what most men agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:55 PM
0

Flaunting your naked body for the entire world to see is objectively disgusting, Thats just you opinion, not "objective facts and logic"(tm).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:43 PM
2

Thats not a feeling, but nice try! Unless proved otherwise, op's feeling is insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:36 PM
2

he has the right to feel uncomfortable I agree and thats not the point. The point is that he his downplaying her feelings by making it a "your pictures vs my feelings". Both of them have feelings and if their relationship is not compatible then it's pointless to continue. If i were your partner id ditch your ass, you'd probably share nudes I dont date straights anyway so dont worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:34 PM
2

What are jour feelings? Why would you want her nude off the Internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:26 PM
0

if she decides that her feelings are more important than taking my feelings into consideration Fixed. It's not pictures vs feelings, it's feelings vs feelings, her body autonomy vs your insecurity. If I was her, I'd totally keep the picture because I'd rather be alone than with a controling partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:20 PM
1

I'll take 2 and have her clean and cook for me while I continue dating my actual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:15 PM
5

Sure you can ask, but she has the rights to say no. If she does, what do you intend to do? Leave her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:14 PM
1

Take this post for instance. I spent 3 hours writing this college-essay quality post and citing sources There are no sources in this post. So you backup your claim by data and expect people to challenge it with data, dont you see how the burden of proofnis unfair? So you claim: "my post is backup up with sources" The facts: There are zero sources in your post. You are the one with bad faith writing high school level "essays".
/r/AllPillDebate29/01/23 01:00 PM
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I was 2 before and now I'm 1. 2 makes you feel repulsive while 1 makes you feel lonely. I don't think there's a better one, it all depends on your personnal preference between casual sex or relationships. I think becoming going from 2 to 1 is easier because you can looksmax to become a chad but you can't develop relationship qualities if you don't have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:47 PM
1

It's nothing surprising, conservstives think moral is driven by universal laws (p is always wrong) while liberals think morality is contextual (p is wrong most of the time). You could have a similiar question about stealing and results would be roughly the same. Kantians vs utiliritarians, as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:43 PM
1

6ft+, sharp jaw lined, high cheekboned, smoldering eyed, full heads of hair, wealthy, high status, fit/in shape white men, don't exist? 😂😂😂 Men as you described do exist and often post on this sub how hard it is for them to have matches on Tinder. Chads aren't supposed to struggle with dating.
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 10:47 PM
0

It's not like the mythical chads really exist in real life anyway. If you believe that chads as dedcribed by the redpill really exist, you probably also believe in fairies and such
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 10:39 PM
1

Not all chads are nt
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 05:30 PM
2

I'm an autistic chad and most of my harem are autistic too. Your hypothesis is just wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate27/01/23 01:18 PM
2

under-average looking nerds traditionnalists looking for 10/10 virgin 19 yo wife Is not the same thing as neurotypical, not obese, job haver, friend haver, shower taker, dress well, etc. but seem to struggle to get a date? Even people in the second group will struggle to get dates if their personnality is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:02 PM
6

Second one and then we can slut around together! Easy choice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:28 PM
2

Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:16 PM
-2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:01 PM
4

Yes but they are too lazy to work toward that goal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:01 PM
-6

Its 30-35 yo men incels looking for 19 yo virgins women...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:54 PM
0

I dont know any men like this. The men I know are either fulltime sluts or under-average looking nerds traditionnalists looking for 10/10 virgin 19 yo wife having no success for obvious reason (shit personality).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:30 PM
1

Unsurprising 😎😎😎
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:20 PM
-1

So there couldn’t possibly be low n count men who are respectful and nice. There are. If that's what they decide. There also aren’t any disrespectful men who have a high ncount? There aren't, unless they have money and/or rape allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:49 PM
-4

I'll agree eith you the day I am presented data that show a correlation between creeps and high ncounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:12 PM
-4

Yes you're wrong. Creeps and aholes keep doing it because they dont know what works. This is why its low ncounts and virgins that use creepy strategies. On the other hands, men with 100+ ncounts went with honesty, respect and niceness. Not all respectful men are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:08 PM
1

Why not say "I am interested in you romantically, like as a partner"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:37 PM
1

I’m actually interested Intereseted in what? You didnt even answer the question...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:33 PM
1

So, how can someone show that they are interested if sex can’t be an option yet? They are interested in what? Sexless monogamy? No thx but I'll takr the free lunches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:22 PM
0

I had a really hard time dating in college, but after that it became way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:03 AM
1

I’m not that man..but I literally know a guy You feel, that lying is better even tho you are inexperienced. Who you believe a medical advice from an inexperienced cashier in a pharmacy? I woulnd't, then why would I believe advices from inexperienced daters? I still feel like your either straight up lying Typical. "I dont believe the facts that the earth is round therefore the evidence you are showing are lies". a certain type of person who is just the exception I guess "sexually active male" is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:02 PM
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How is your life experience data? My life experience literally contradicts your..so…see how that sounds it’s just our perspective 100% of men I know with over 100 ncounts are honest with women. If you are a man with over 100 ncounts that got it with lying, then I'll add this piece of data to my worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:45 PM
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do you understand why men lie in the first place Because they have no dating experience and think this is what they have to do to date successfully, but they are wrong. I don’t believe you at all Some strangers not believing data that don't fit their worldview, how original.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:26 PM
1

Does it apply to other physical requirements, like weights or genitals, are they shallow too, or is it just height?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:02 AM
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never It happens all the time to me idk. I've had at least 10 women referred to me by fwbs because I banged good. Maybe ur just not as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:21 AM
0

Poly pill: dating should be about vibes, consent, honesty and fun, not strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:35 PM
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how would not acting like a fuckboy get a man laid more? Be honest with woman A and have casual sex with her. Woman B will see that you're honest and not a fuckboy and have casual sex with you, and so do women c, d,e, etc. And they will also get back in touch with you when they're bored or after a breakup because you shared a grest moment together. Lie to woman A, she teels all her friend and you'll never be able to get any more sex. So you can start again with woman F and lie to her but will ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:49 PM
1

Height shaming and weight shaming makes you "literally hitler"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:42 PM
6

There are no mistakes, just happy accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:17 PM
-7

Ugly dude dont looksmax and blame it on height
/r/AllPillDebate21/01/23 01:00 PM
3

I'm not RP so I (29) usually date between 18 and 99
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:27 PM
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80% of men, because they can still be ugly and have a shit personnality
/r/AllPillDebate19/01/23 05:21 PM
3

Agreed. It happens to me all the time because I'm hot but weird and boring, so I'm a great ONS but not a great fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:14 PM
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It's fine if a man is afraid of toys, but that makes him insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:48 AM
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the same things as everyone else So if everyone else gets dating, why don't you? It just means you're in the bottom 1%. Just get good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:43 AM
1

Exactly. Beliefs system like christianity, atheism, redpill, bluepill, feminism and antifeminism can't be proven by facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:50 PM
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People seem to believe in a set of certain fate-based ideas, such as religions, feminism, human rights, and so on. Those are things that can't be proven by facts and logic. There are no "facts" that prove that we should see women and immigrants as human beings, it's ethics. There are no expiremental test that will ever prove that. As long as we're discussing normative issues rather than factual issues, "truth" won't matter and shouldn't matter. The question is not "do we have scientific proof th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:28 PM
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Its kinda ironic that op whats "facts and logic" but use as a source whatever fits his worldview instead of facts and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:21 PM
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Loners are misfits, nerds, autists, or any kind of socialy unfit people which are totally good match for me, unlike neurotypical people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:30 AM
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Pornography is small scale sex, your brain is being tricked but you're only receiving a visual stimulation ,and yet is harmful. Sex is the whole package. According to your logic, being addicted to Stardew Valley hurts your brain and therefore being a farmer is dangerous. Nietzche didn't encourage to follow our primal instincts, he talked about finding will and power but not in your primal instincts, also he was against hedonism. He was writting just after Darwin and encouraged us to follow our e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:03 AM
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proven how pornography I'm talking about sex, not pornography. there's thousands of years of philosophy And for most of them the reason why we must not follow our instinct is because some gods tell us not too: see Plato, Dedcartes or Kant for example. Other philosophers, like Nietzsche, tell us to kill god and follow our natural instincts. I'd rather be a fun nietzschian that obeys my nature than a boring kantian doing whatever is "good in itself and not as a mean".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:41 PM
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that's not part of nature According to you maybe, but you dont have scientific proof that show that having a lot of sex is "not part of nature".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:02 PM
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Sex is more like eating food or drinking water. Yes it can kill you but it's part of humans biologically. We can survive as a specie without alcool and cigarettes but not without water or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:52 PM
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✓ This only benefits men that want to be in promiscuous relationships for a long time. • This only disadvantages people that want to be sexually hedonistic. Your point is only valid for people that want long-term monogamy. For people that love sex and/or don't want long-term monogamy, promiscuity is actually a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:24 PM
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I didnt say there is an issue, I just said it is shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:26 PM
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Sugar mommies and horny milf? Fuck yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:24 AM
4

It seems like almost everyone has a high enough iq to fill in the missing "not" in the sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:14 AM
5

So when women lie they are angry feminists but when men lie it's fine? Such double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:05 PM
5

They say they want girlfriend but just want sex. How is that honest?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:59 PM
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Prostitutes are virgin and they want virgins/low ncounts. That just shows how shallow men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:56 PM
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Most men care about relationships too and openly admit it when they cannot get a girlfriend. Idk how men saying "oh no im sexless give me a young skinny virgin" makes you think they "care about relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:53 PM
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Women care only for money and looks, men care only for looks and youth. Everyones shallow thats just how society is, it's not specific to one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:49 PM
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Short and average height men: Majority of men are in this category. Most of these men satisfy all the personality standarts of women Lol no. Most of them are similar to category 2, but short.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:38 PM
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Hi. Self-made chad, not natural chad, so idk if that counts
/r/AllPillDebate15/01/23 12:24 AM
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sigh in flair
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:11 PM
8

Why not get a two sided open relationship? That's just a better alternative for everyone than one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:55 PM
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ib4 "its ur personality" They love me as a close friend tho. Then you have friends qualities but not relationships qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:12 PM
2

Cocosigned by autistic chad with 2 autistic partners
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:59 PM
4

So you are against free speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:57 PM
2

So you can have consistent sex as an overweight man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:25 PM
2

The average non-obese male (in America) will only have 1-2 realtionships by age 3 80% of americans are obese/overweight so if you dont have weight issue you're already in the top 20 and the 80/20 applies. So if you're not overweight you should not have issues getting consistent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:22 PM
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What do I need to say or do, to make you feel heard", Dont say nothing, you have to listen it's the logical step to take but even if logically listening is the thing to do your emotions tell you to "say or do" something. You're not as rational as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:19 AM
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No becaude I dont want to marry, but I'd date someone that makes more and did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:31 PM
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Around 80% of the american population is overweight/fat and so are 80% of the people I slept with. I care more about kink-compatibility than weight.
/r/AllPillDebate11/01/23 12:21 PM
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The best years for sex didn't start yet. I was thinking the same when I was 25 and felt like I had missed my best years since I was still in single digit but that's where the fun started. I had more sex in 2022 than I had from 15 to 25 yesrs old.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:59 AM
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Personality (90%), looks (10%) and the rest is irrelevant (as long as she's over 18 and not a virgin).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:34 PM
2

Would you also conclude that poor people have the healthiest diet since they are less likely to buy vitamin supplement? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6116059/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:29 PM
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I don't think we'd be friends if we didn't have sex. It is the activity which we were both interested in and become exploring together. For exes, it really depends in poly circle. This friend, I have a really good relationship with their boyfriend even if they are mono, but I also had FWBs that were poly and could not see me anymore after a new open relationship. It really depends on people and their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:09 PM
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The closest experience to friendzone I have is a FWB that become in a monogamous relationship so we don't have sex anymore. We're still really good friends and our past sexual history makes this bond stronger!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:01 PM
2

Why didn't you tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:49 PM
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It's easier to find people that accept you with your personnality than to change personnality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:46 PM
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Sex with many women is better than a sexless relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:57 AM
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didnt dare actually ask my GF about it Lol you can't even have an honest conversation with your girlfriend? Why would you rather live your life whole "concerned" instead of asking a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:39 PM
1

Still less weird than the average ppd virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:06 PM
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guys here claiming to be banging like 100 women while being 5'6" and making $50k a year. I'm 5'3 and my life is definitly more like top pic. Yeah yeah yeah, you'll call me a lier, so original.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:04 PM
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But for the most part, crickets. Why is that? You incels just call women liers, irrationnals and stupid when they disagree with your emotional nonsense. There's no arguments made in the memes anyway, just a display of your distorted reality. Edit: funny because I read the comments after writting mine and guess what are in the comments? "Women are lier", "Women are too emotionnal". So what's the point for them to talk, you'll just say they lie anyway? You guys don't respect women at all and it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:50 PM
1

I'll send you my NYE receipt. Thanks for taking care of it! Unless you're greedy too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:43 AM
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Then go live in China if you hate that women have financial autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:38 AM
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If the family is too poor to go out then they should'nt go out and expect someone else to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:17 AM
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Using peer pressure to get money out of someone he "loves" is pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:15 AM
1

A group of 5-10 friends who regularly hangout and/or have sex and/or orgies would be the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:11 AM
3

THE TRUTH HAS BEEN SPOKEN
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:50 AM
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Holes are easy just install grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:49 AM
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Giving men an easy access to women to cum into doesn't seem to me like efficient way to reduce birth rate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:09 AM
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What's cool with femboys is that you can anal creampie them on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:55 PM
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This is genious!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:54 PM
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Maybe calling all women whores and liers, saying that giving them basics human rights was a mistake and slut shaming all the time don't help getting empathy. Like, years ago I was a sexless anti-feminist suicide-attempter but I grew out of it to become a chad and now I realise that you can't expect help if you don't help yourself first: women on ppd are not your mom and won't clean your life/room for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:34 PM
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Redpillers: the glass is not 6' so it's being oppressed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:36 PM
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Honesty is a better route because if you're honest and just looking for sex, then they will give you good reference so you'll fuck their friend too and the endless cycle of friend fucking will never stop. But you need to be good at sex for it to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:33 PM
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They doubt all the time, that's litteraly why they don't want high ncount women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:44 AM
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The only way to retaliate as a man is starting to date your male friends too. You say women use alcoohol and then make out with other women, why don't you shitface yourself and fuck your friend too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:36 AM
2

You develop a style (hair, clothes, colors) that fits your face. For fat, just go to gym!
/r/AllPillDebate31/12/22 11:51 PM
2

You can't change autist, but ugly you can: this is why I became an autistic short chad.
/r/AllPillDebate31/12/22 11:48 PM
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I was a losers years ago and I'm here to remind people that being a chad is a choice you can make!
/r/AllPillDebate31/12/22 11:42 PM
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Except 3 which I dont care because I'm poly, they all look made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:39 PM
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I succeed at both
/r/AllPillDebate31/12/22 11:38 PM
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That's mostly your choice except if you have a rare disability or deformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:15 PM
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Balding: Wear a hat, take pictures from a distance with an angle from underneath, have pictures charged with a lot of informations, etc. Height: As long as you don't have a pictures with your taller friends it's really hard to tell. But yeah for the extremes (6'4+ or 5-) it's harder to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:13 PM
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Height, balding and autism doesn't have to appear in your tinder profile. If your tinder is "you won't date me because i'm short" then of course nobody will want to talk to you. Just become a chad, it's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:50 PM
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You must do something really creepy if women identify you as a creep before you even talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:48 PM
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Then just become attractive, it's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:47 PM
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If you can afford therapy you're too rich to know what real problems feel like
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:37 PM
0

No. What happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:33 PM
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For everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:40 PM
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Ncount is like job experience: the higher the better. Easy choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:27 PM
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plummeting fertility rate Alpha reproduces, beta dies, so we keep the best genes. This is totally fine. increasing animosity between young men and women If it needs to become a civil wars where the tate fanatics need to be dealt with using violence then so be it. When a country is full of trash you need to clean it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:43 PM
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Ces rouges-pilluleux cherchent juste des vierges tradfemmes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:38 PM
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I don't have any of these but I still succeed in life. How is it possible?
/r/AllPillDebate31/12/22 03:12 AM
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Okay than why dont men go to the gym more? Why do they choose to be fat and sexless?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:21 AM
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Sex with condoms doesn't count for N-count lol. Otherwise, I'd be at way more than 100 ahah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:19 AM
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Funny troll, with "science" flair, but I do agree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:26 AM
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Got it. It's only superficial when the person can't control the fact. So not wanting someone because of kids, ncounts, weight is not superficial but refusing to date because if height, skin color or sex is superficial. Which means all heterosexuals are superficial by default since, like height, people can't control what's in their pants! Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:22 AM
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So you're telling me men not wanting fat women is not superficial but women not wanting short men is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:14 PM
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Didnt know 1m population is a small town.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:12 PM
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Maybe you should think of women as human beings instead of softwares if you want to get laid... No women will fuck a guy that sees them as nonliving beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:21 PM
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Yes, it's because women talk to each other. If you date A by lying to her she will tell all her friend and you lose dozens of potential mates. But if you date A and you make her cum she'll tell all her friends how awesome it was with you and they'll try their luck too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:20 PM
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As I always say, for dating, it's quantity over quality. Be straightforward and if it doesn't work with one person then go next.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:17 PM
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You guys have phone numbers? Such a waste of money, are you still stuck in 2010? Why don't you trade snaps, insta, discord, etc. Instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:13 PM
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Are you trolling? Nobody talking about causation except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:43 PM
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To be precise , we cannot delegate a set of behavioral issues to one gender while maintaining the belief that both men and women are capable of the same things and thoughts. We can because those are two different modalities. There's a difference between actual behaviour which we can measure and potential behaviour which exist in theory but is not quantified. For example, everyone has the possibility of commiting suicide but in the actual world men commit it more frequently. So your argument agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:30 AM
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Idk when I want to kiss a girl I ask her "can I kiss you" and 100% I get a positive answer: either she says no and I don't waste anymore time and go next, or she says yes and we escalate to bedroom. You dont have to act "chady", it's just weird! You just have to risk it and learn to take a no, not try to flirt like it's a mathematical game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:21 AM
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Not in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:02 PM
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Indeed, but my standards are "I want to date someone who doesn't lie", not "I want to date someone that earns 50k+ a year".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:00 PM
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I think that all those categories are superficial. Dating should be about personnality, communication and vibes, not about some "stats". I'm 28 if that changes anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:41 PM
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Since when are you insecure? Did you have an healthy relationship with two parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:00 AM
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By swiping left, the woman would indicate to me that she doesn’t find me physically attractive and I’m not about to sign up to a life of being a sexual consolation prize. No it means that your profile sucks, maybe you had bad pictures or uncreative bio? Either way, that's an ideal opportunity to learn. I'd date someone who swiped me left, it doesn't hurt my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:54 AM
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Yeah leave the daddy issues girl for me 🍆💦
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:41 AM
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An heterosexual match is always a man and a woman. Multiply it by any number the 1:1 proportion will never change hence they have the same amount of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:17 PM
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Come on man I have already explained this. Firstly you don't choose your sexuality second women are just as shitty as men Man there's so many wrong take in your comment. You're blinded by your emotions: if women are shitty, just stay celibate, there's no point in trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:10 PM
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The main point is an hypothesis not backed up by data.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:08 PM
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Look, women have more options in the dating market then men Only if you exclude options you personally dislike like paid options so that data fits your personnal preferences. Men and women are shitty at equal rates Men are shittier. Why do you think there are more and more single cat ladies and lesbians? They actively choose to not be with a men because there are no good man option.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:47 PM
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Men and women want a relationship with someone who wants them. They are allowed to have preferences and exclude options, but excluded options are still options the same way there's still 20 options in a restaurant menu even if there's 15 of them that you dont want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:20 PM
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An option is still an option even if you would personally not have it. Would you agree with a vegan saying that a steakhouse has 0 options on their menu? If you want to exclude bad options, then we exclude bad options for both genders and they both have only a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:06 PM
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BP is wrong. Go full flirt mode and if it fails go next. Quantity is the most important factor to consider because success rate (number of successful tries / number of tries total) will always be low.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:59 PM
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"the ugly man will find less women who will like him than an ugly woman" but the ugly man have access to paid options so it evens out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:55 PM
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If you are ugly (loser in your words) then other ugly people are your options Cool since you agree that ugly men have options too, then there's no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:35 PM
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No. I'm saying that losers (i.e. people that are not date material whatever the reason [being a shitty person is one reason among many]) only jave access yo bad dating options (e.g. violent and/or ugly people, paid options, ...).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:16 PM
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There's no such thing as an option for everyone. Life isn't fair and losers from both gender only have access to bad options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:06 PM
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We're comparing all options in 1 and this includes bad options for both gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:57 PM
2

We're comparing all options in 1 and this includes bad options for both gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:56 PM
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You can pay for a relationship, not just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:38 PM
2

This is why escorts are an option so it evens out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:28 PM
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But why would we be all equal? Why would people with different hormonal influences, thought patterns, and evolutionary instincts be the same in the first place? You say that we should not all be equal. Some men are inferior and incapable of getting laid and are inequal to the other men. The logical conclusion of your take is that it's totally fine if those men stay celibate and suffer. This is a pure logical conclusion coming from your own take, so you can only disagree using your emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:53 PM
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I agree that most cishet women suck too, but if men have no options as op claim it doesn't change anything for men if women suck are not because men can't date them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:44 PM
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Either we take into account 1. all options or 2. only good options for both gender. If 1., then men have a lot of options with content creators, escorts and ugly women. If we take all options into account, men have the same amount of options. If 2., then men have the same amount of options because both gender have a few amount a good options. The only way out for you is to assume something along the line of "x apply to a gender but not the other". But then your implicitly skewing the comparison …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:42 PM
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Imagine having all that dating, sexual and social privilege as women Imagine non-ironically thinking that women are socially privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:32 PM
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Is there any reason why someone would suggest something they see as a negative as a positive, under the guise of wanting to help men? Since there's the 80/20, the beta men need a a solution. They have three choice: 1. Become pretty enough to be in the 20, 2. Stay celibate and sexless or 3. Date an ugly woman. We suggest 3 because men keep saying that 1 is impossible and 2 is depressing, so maybe 3 is a good alternative but if 2 makes you happier then go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:30 PM
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Actually, yes, eating throw away food from trash is better if you are starving for weeks. I said eating trash, not food, can't you read? Eating plastic and soiled napkins is not better for your health than not eating at all. common knowledge Most cis straight men suck, there are as few good options for heterosexual women that there are for men, even if you pretend that the opposite is "common knowledge".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:25 PM
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In the parliament like on Reddit, there's a tendancy of men that don't believe women. There's also a correlation between those men and low ncounts, so you choose your camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:22 PM
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Agreed. I think your post is clear and well-written, but most post here aren't so it's hard to find the arguments. I think another problem is empty answers. Anything someone argues that "x is not true because y" then someone come with the "genious" "you are lying!1!" argument. This is not debate, this is elementary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:18 PM
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Op just hatched 8 "facts" that aren't true. Of course people will tell him that he's wrong because even tho he is right in his imaginary world, he has no clue what is the reality women face when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:14 PM
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"No options is worse than bad options" like saying that eating litteral trash is better than not eating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:11 PM
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Good thing another redditor got a liste of actual quotes that show how misogynistic he is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:50 PM
17

Idk maybe the first sentence: "Andrew Tate says women belong in the home, can’t drive, and are a man’s property." https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2022/aug/06/andrew-tate-violent-misogynistic-world-of-tiktok-new-star
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:37 PM
-1

You had the hypothesis H1.1 that "Women care about look". You found multiple evidence of the contrary. Instead of accepting H1.0 ("Women dont care about look"), you suggest a new hypothesis (2.1) to explain why the evidence dont make sense with your world view: The answer is simple: it's to ultimately satisfy her selfish desires. And what is one of the most sought after desires by women? Feeling secure that a man won't cheat on her. Now the next null hypothesis (2.0) is that "The most sought aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:11 PM
2

Only because women are too lazy to hit the gym. I say that all the time about men. All men could be chads if they put the efforts, like all women could be models.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:03 AM
9

Wow pornstars are great, are they virgin too? I know you guys only want virgin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:01 AM
3

And I could not convince a flatearther that the earth is round. And I dont care good look with your incel life ahah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:19 PM
3

Say that to the 100+ women that touched me. I think they didn't have the message that some random dude on reddit don't want them to touch me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:37 PM
0

You have never put a foot outside and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:26 PM
4

It’s crazy how many claims you’re making without any research to back it up. Only 1-2% of patients develop pain after the vasectomy. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5503923/ While 77% of patients feel pain for a iud. https://www.healthline.com/health/birth-control/is-iud-painful Are you saying the FDA doesn’t approve anything that has painful side effects for men? No. Thats not what I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:25 PM
1

If you cant believe reality thats not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:20 PM
1

If you cant believe reality thats not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:19 PM
4

I've had one and it's less painful than getting a piercing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:18 PM
4

No young woman in today's age is picking the jacked 5'5 bodybuilder vs the scrawny or "big boy szn" 6'1 guy. Many does. I (5'3) often hookup with young women that probably has an abudance of 6'1 in their dms. Sure, the thin rich white girl won't question societies norm and will go for height but the tattooed emo girl with daddy issues wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:25 PM
-1

Vasectomies cause discomfort, not pain. Try to argument again when you have facts to backup yout feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:15 PM
4

More pills and more single motherhood. How do you know it's not just correlation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:27 PM
8

Because suffering painful side effects is "normal" for women according to the FDA, but not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:24 PM
6

today, with birth control, female sexuality shouldn't be a concern Have you talked with a woman once in your life about birth control? IUD is for most the most painful experience ever, hormonal leads to various physiological imbalance and diminished sexual libido, doctors refuse to do tube tying, condoms are refused by a lot of men, etc. The risk of pregnancy remains a concern because all the birth control methods are deeply flawed. Sadly, most male birth control aren't approved (hormonal, therm…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:03 PM
2

Then get a circle of hot fwb. Ez pz.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 12:46 PM
2

Sunk-cost fallacy drives relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:52 PM
6

So there's 90% you have to sacrifice having child and 10% you have child but she hates you because she didn't want them. You do whatever, but if breaking up isn't an option then odds are you'll never have childs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:14 PM
3

What do you think are the reasons for people not staying together in the most financially prosperous and free countries? Cuz marriage sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:24 AM
0

Who said it was failure? If a person had 20 jobs over their career, you automatically assume they were fired 20 times and that a person with only 1 job in their career is a better employee? It's impossible to have mutiple jobs due to being competent, having promotions and success? Because that's what people with high ncounts are: people who are successful in dating. What men would rationally prefer one wife over a harem? Also, nobody with high ncounts care about being rejected by people with low…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:00 AM
-1

Hot and short have it easier than tall and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:14 PM
1

Then how am I getting laid more than you? Because you're living in an imaginary "all things are equal" world whereas I live in reality. Guess I'd be in the 4 digits if I was as tall and huge dicked as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:28 PM
1

Man ur brain not working it's obvious why you can't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:15 PM
3

We're not in an imaginary world where all things are equals. In the real world, tiny details don't matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:33 PM
6

Delusional Such an strong argument
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:26 PM
2

The studies clearly show that women derive more sexual pleasure from bigger dicks That's not what the studies you referred to show. Any other interpretation is really just copium or grasping at straws. So if the researchers that made the studies you referred to are wrong about their own conclusions and your interpretation is the only one correct, then shouldn't we doubt entirely those studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:22 PM
2

Those study just say that women need either huge dick or small dick + hand work to cum. It only really matters if you have a small dick and no hands fucking a woman with no hands also.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:59 PM
2

If anal hurts, that's because you're doing it wrong 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:56 PM
11

Anyone that dated both men and women know it's true that men care 10x more about dick size than women. And I say that as someone having a small dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:54 PM
5

Anyone disagreeing could just install Grindr see that op is right. The only people (excluding clients) that ever asked for my dick size before meeting were men. Most women don't care about dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:52 PM
1

The benefits to men are sexual discipline and a good conscience "Sexual discipline" is useless and you can "faaak bishes" with good conscience. So really, there is mo benefits at least to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:55 AM
1

Few people are unlucky but yeah it does happen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:39 AM
1

Being ugly is a result of not putting the efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:31 AM
1

No. If x is a misogynist, x have a low ncounts doesn't entails the opposite that if x isn't a misogynist, x will get laid. The same way, "if it rains then the road is wet" doesn't entails that if it doesn't rain, then the road isn't wet (it can be wet due to other reason, like metling snow). This is basic logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:46 PM
1

I'm a 5'3 greek god yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:40 PM
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Go to gym every day, drink protein, dont take drugs and alcool, get a sleeve tattoo, have an haircut and learn how to take instagramable pictures. Do this for one year and then you'll be an instant 8+/10. Educate yourself about consent, feminism, antiracism, queer movements and whatever you are deeply passionnate about. During dates, be honest and respect consent. Dont be misogynistic or creep. Congratulations on triple digits ncount. Idk if this is in the redpill theory but those are specific a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:53 PM
1

I don't know and I don't care. This is such an irrelevant question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:43 PM
2

I dont think this is a determining factor in how they decide who deserve respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 07:12 PM
34

Agreed. Doing kinks without consent is abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:06 PM
5

Tje real reasons why men want low ncount is either insecurity (being scared of being the worst sex partner), homophobia (indirectly touching another dick via the woman), or misogynia (seeing women as inferior when "used"). This also explains wjy guys wanting low ncounts also have low ncounts: who would sleep with a misogynist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:48 PM
1

they want the ability to have casual sex with cute girls. They can if they put the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:23 AM
2

If 5'3 is easy mode, whats hard mode? Under 4'?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:03 PM
-1

bar set is very high The day you don't think respecting women makes the bar really is the day you'll start becoming successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:36 AM
1

Idk 160lb maybe? It ranges from 120 to 220 approximatly.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 09:31 PM
-2

I'm a regular 28yo autist 5'3 male that has 100+ ncount. Could be because I'm hot or because of my personality, ai don't care as long as it works.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 07:59 PM
1

It seems that most redditors don't understand math but op does. Average man is a 3/10 Average woman is a 7/10 Average person is a 5/10 So it is true that the average man is under average because 3/10 < 5/10. Why do you think all queer/bi/pan people want to date anyone but a cis man? Because cis men are under average.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:14 PM
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Bi male 28 with around 100ncounts. I think 0-5 is very low, 5-20 is low, 20-50 is average, 50-100 is high and 100+ is very high. I dont care about how high are how low are people ncounts tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:00 PM
1

Who else fucks with their client?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:57 PM
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Is 20 high tho? Most people around me have around 100 for fun and have mutiple 100s of clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:35 PM
5

Everyone have a mental illness: it helps pharmas gain more money by selling drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:34 PM
2

Car analogy is really bad. Successful people in dating don't have to choose, they'll just take what they want - the same way rich people can afford 100 cars. There's no real pitfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:30 PM
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Just because you don't like something doesn't mean it's a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:44 AM
1

There are value that I deeply believe in - equality, honesty, liberty, ... - and I would not be able to date someone who's not feminist, antiracist, anticlassist and polyamorous. I don't think it's possible to change their mind so it really would be a pointless date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:32 PM
1

Lol no way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:52 PM
1

I'm surprised the percentage is that high because I'm bi and it turns on women, but facts are facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:05 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:46 PM
1

Yes. I'll believe it if someone have stats that shows otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:46 PM
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Theres no difference between your preference and mens preference toward low ncount
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:16 PM
0

they will say the exact same stuff about bi men. There's like what, 10% of women who thinks that? You can't "women" in general when referring to a specific minority. Do you even know one woman who wouldn't date bi men but defends high ncount?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:22 AM
1

Work, school, sports, political events, concerts, theater, library, ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:58 PM
1

women, for some reason, lacked the self-reflexive awareness This is peak Nice Guy (tm). Nice Guy (tm) do like to insult all women, while the Chads are respectful, honest, hot and confident. You aren't being nice to women and this is the reason you can't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:40 PM
1

People who go to restaurant complains about having to give tip. People who invest complain when they lose money. People just love complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:37 PM
1

I'm depraved. Sure most people around me have high ncount but its not the norm. At least I dont cry incel tears.
/r/AllPillDebate16/12/22 11:44 PM
1

The average ncount is like 7 so three digits ncount is syill pretty rare: maybe 0,1% of women have that much? Being scared of something so rare is weird. And it still shows that your degree of insecurity is pathological.
/r/AllPillDebate16/12/22 11:34 PM
1

20? Thats low. Most people around are in the three digits.
/r/AllPillDebate16/12/22 11:25 PM
1

If a state capital counts as the middle of nowhere then yeah you're right!
/r/AllPillDebate16/12/22 11:02 PM
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Cis men have an immense ego and think they are the center of the world, this is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:13 PM
1

I dont agree. All women are replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:55 PM
1

A man may not see that deal as shitty if he believes he has the best woman he will ever get. One women can never be an upgrade over many.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:18 PM
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Men expect their women friend to do girlfriend stuff, like emotionnal support and sex, so I guess it's fair. I dont see why they cant be friends tho, I'm friend with people from all genders and it's going well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:45 PM
1

Many girls, and even some guys, will write this scenario off as being insecure, as being unrealistic It is and you need psychiatric help
/r/AllPillDebate16/12/22 12:01 PM
0

Benefits. I can have regular sex while also having the flexibility of working on my carreer without having a primary partner that needs my care/attention/time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:59 AM
1

When you sleep with half your towns they're not strangers anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:24 PM
1

I guess there aren't many people successful at both
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:45 PM
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I'm now openly queer, polyam, neurodivergent and kinky. Authentivity help me feel less anxious and I guess it's sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:36 PM
1

What also kills me is that I'm 24 so I'm missing out on my prime years of getting with young women because of this I was thinking the same at that age. At 25, i was in the single digit ncount and 3 years later I'm in the triple digits. I would say my prime years started at 25 and that the idea that prime years are 18-24 is completly false.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:47 AM
-1

what are your thoughts? I'd rather rawfuck a real women than a virtual one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:48 AM
1

"You're cute but I'd like to know if you're cuter on your knew". "I wonder how it feels to be sucked by someone with a split tongue". "i'm in town for one day only so it's your last chance to have the best orgasm of your life" and the likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:34 AM
1

Depends. Some game are 1min and others last for a lifetime. You never know with dating!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:20 AM
1

I'd use a funny catchphrase with sexual innuendo. Depending on her anwser, I'd then go straight sexual or go next.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:49 PM
0

Autist here too. Ever played a videogame like League of Legends? There are things that work and things that doesn't. Some things, like buy ie on an adc, are standard, but it's not always clear cut. You have to guess on feeling that locket will be better than mikaels on a specific situation. Sometimes you find a combo that works most of the time, but it never works all the time and you never get a lot over 50% win rate. Dating is the same: some rules are explicit (don't smell bad) and some aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:36 PM
2

If you dont have much time for a relationship and are good looking, you could just get hookups until you are more available.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:09 PM
0

Maybe drunk enough she can be a 5/10, but 3/10 with 5/30 is still fair
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 10:28 PM
1

Chads have a ncounts of 1000 at 1 years old, millionnaires buy the dips at 18 months and doctors graduate at on average at 6 months. It totally makes sense /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:47 PM
1

Confidence do not simply appears out thin air and this mentality is hurtful to any men struggling. No one said it appears out of thin air. You have to work hard to become a chad and that's just how every aspect of society works (school, job, money, relationships, sports, etc.): work hard and get results or be lazy and struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:21 PM
0

Attractivity is asssociated with efforts. Don't look in the mirror to know your value, look at what you do with your life. Most men are ugly and boring, so the question is: what makes you think you're not ugly and boring? It's not about the confidence of not being ugly, it's about having enough confidence to change your life so you're not unattractive anymore. It's not just about the confident thinking, it is mainly about the actions that change your life when you change your thoughs. For exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:58 PM
-3

Both are around 3/10 so it's fair
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 12:21 PM
8

Men on here seem to find "improving" too much effort and would rather be celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:36 AM
0

It's spelled "t r u t h"
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 11:31 AM
0

Straight men think they deserve the world even if they are putting zero efforts, which is why everyone puts more efforts in their look than straight men.
/r/AllPillDebate12/12/22 05:35 PM
0

I end up as the male character barebacking the local content creators for their onlyfans. Marrying is only good for lower tier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:13 PM
2

dating men is better than dating women since men aren't as superficial, flakey, or standoffish. False. All they care about is: cut or uncut? 8"+?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:34 PM
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the ones that were at least nice enough I disagree, not telling the truth is not "nice". If height is the problem, I'd rather know. Honesty is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:31 PM
9

70 is a low number when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:18 PM
25

I'm 5'3 and I've been told that I'm too short at least 50 times. Even at least 20 people that I dated made comments about how they like me even tho I'm short and that I would be a 10/10 if I wasn't short. Funny how you are proving op's point: Bloopies (at least on this sub) fail to present a compelling argument because it doesn't address the frequency that these events occur, and usually just straight up denies that they happen at all. This is why Redpill wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:00 PM
15

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:37 PM
5

I agree on the principle that we need authenticity but I think your explanation only applies to ltr, even authenticity is also a must for ons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:37 PM
3

You know how many people have gained obsessive stalkers from hook ups? What do you suggest to prevent that? Ask "are you an obsessive stalker" on the first date? Or have even gotten pregnant from a hook up and ended up with a deadbeat? If you count "do you test regularly" or "are you on birth controls" as akward question then yes the need to ask uncomfortable does apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:30 PM
3

Only true when looking for ltr. Who cares about authenticity on a hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:24 PM
1

Most men are too lazy to do everything needed to become top tier. So while it is true that it is beneficial for men, the prize isn't worth the effort for most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:15 PM
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Bloopies (at least on this sub) fail to present a compelling argument because it doesn't address the frequency that these events occur, and usually just straight up denies that they happen at all. This is why Redpill wins. It looks at the world, observes what occurs, and then attempts to explain it - often wrongly in my opinion, but any explanation is better than gaslighting men and pretending their experiences aren't real. Agreed. Even tho i'm not redpilled anymore, this is the reason I was for…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:38 PM
2

Just date both
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:38 AM
0

From my experience, women dont want a guy over 6ft. I've slept with 100+ of them one none wanted a guy over 6ft! I'm 5ft3 but no the data I gathered isn't biased. This proves that the pressuposition "women want 6ft+ men" is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:45 AM
2

I mean, it doesnt count, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:15 PM
4

Cis men is the only gender I dont fuck with because they have nothing to give in return
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:04 AM
11

How can't men realise that low tier men do exactly the same shitty behaviour, but are also ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:51 PM
1

People are too poor to afford kids, that's the reason why birth rate is dropping so low. From a biological standpoint, we're programmed to slow down on reproduction when the amount of ressources is too low. Society is just doing what it needs to do: let the weaker dies from lack of ressources and allow only the top genetics to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:36 AM
1

People will always =/= most people will. This is basic logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:35 PM
1

And you dont need to be a tall muscular manly rich white chad to get laid either, whats the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:47 PM
2

Remind me in 10 years that I'm supposed to want to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:45 AM
1

I'd rather be an insecure chad that wears makeup and get laid than hating on makeup. We all have our priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:40 AM
6

The same situation is if you go to the interview and you lied in your resume and dont have the qualifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:33 AM
10

Honesty is always a good dating strategy. Sure you would get a tiny number of match, but compatibility is more important than quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:08 AM
3

As a ND short king poly chad, I can assure you you can have dates if you search at the right place. Like sure you won't be able to date the 9/10 ableist white girl born from rich parents if you're ND, but I'd rather date the 6/10 ND queer introvert girl than the ableist one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:24 PM
7

Is this a subconscious turnoff? No it is a conscious turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:52 PM
5

A lot of people in the Manosphere and Red Pill say that the preferences I'm describing are primal and innate in everyone And they are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:15 PM
2

I don't believe that "women find bi men gross" is true. Any source? Because in my experience there are a lot of women that fantasizes about bi men and it is way easier to find women when bi than when straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:35 PM
14

And please don’t give me the “I’m an introvert” speech. Introverts one generation ago didn’t have dating apps. They were forced to interact with the opposite sex to find a partner. Introverts from generations ago still live with their parents. I’m a 24-year-old relatively attractive woman who exercises regularly (grew up an athlete) and still have not been approached or asked out on a date by a man in 8 months. Why do men need to do all the work? Men used to walk up to a cute girl and ask her ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:55 PM
5

It's just because straight people are illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:09 PM
1

Finally, someone understand sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:37 PM
2

1 and 3 are only true if you are bad at dating. 4 is easily preventable and 2 isn't really a downside. But yeah, I agree that dating, like any activity where you constantly lose, is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:52 PM
-1

Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:47 AM
0

Thats not it works. If you need a 60% grade to pass a class, it wont suddendly become 80% to pasd when the dumbs and the lazys start working their ass off. Same thing with dating: men just need minimum requirements to be in the potential dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:59 AM
6

When they work their ass off and get out of the lower tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:49 AM
7

Never. Wanting marriage is a red flag like the only reason to do it is either you care about god or want half of my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:34 AM
2

Warm approaching and dating in the social circle/friends is a no too cuz you can get a bad reputation Depends how you do it. Of course if you dont respect boundaries of people in your social circle you'll get ostracised, but you deserve it. Otherwise you just get the "willing to date" reputation, which means people will try to hip up on you. But the best overall is like with stocks: dont put all your eggs in the same basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 08:33 PM
7

A minority of men are sexually unattracted to women who have slept around Fixed. Its true that you dont have to justify your preference, but dont pretend to speak for "the majority of men".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:45 PM
2

everyone is different This is exactly the reason why you should not assume anything about poly people.... are you fucking anyone raw Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:42 PM
2

You could just have said "I dont know how poly works"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:39 PM
1

Cheated mostly because I'm too lazy to breakup, so that gave me an opportunity to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 05:13 PM
1

Not a deal breaker. Can always have another play partner whos into anal play.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:54 PM
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When I got divorced, years ago, the first thing I did was get a vasectomy. It is the second best thing I have ever done (the first was having kids). I dont have kids so it was the best thing for me 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:48 AM
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For me dying alone is not something I'm afraid of. It's just something that I know will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:00 AM
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Promiscuity is a form of sexual selection: the strongest sperm get selected. This ensures survival of the fittest member of the specie. Most men hate promiscuity because they know they have weak sperm, while top tier men dont care because they know they will get selected. This is an evolutionary proof that men with good genes dont care about promiscuity while lower tier men do care a lot since they know their value is so low that their genes wont get selected. So basically, it's the 80/20 - 20% …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:57 AM
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Totally! There's a lot of stuff to argue with the specific example you used in the first part!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:33 PM
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Mental illness being used as an excuse is not new, nor specific to women. Antipsychiarry has been criticizing this trend for more than 50 years but I guess we prefer as a society thinking that hitting a baby is okay. It's the same thing when men get mad and kill their wife and their kids: suddenly, they arent legally responsible and it's a mental illness. The problems of psychiatry aren't related to your 4 points of rambling. We get it you personnally dont like fat or promiscuous women but your …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:25 PM
0

Do you say that to everyone you disagree with? anyone in their right mind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:14 PM
3

Is bait an alternative name for "unpopular opinion"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:40 PM
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Sexual orientation is a choice. Since incels could choose to fuck each other, they are in reality voluntarily celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:04 PM
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Average is probably around 5; 10 max
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:51 PM
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Same. I was also younger and unable to voice my discomfort, hence why I didnt leave before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:01 PM
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Display his personnality on social medias and dating apps. He has to offer something unique, maybe it is style, niche interests, passions, etc. If hes just one other average man like you describe him right now, he doesnt have a chance. After showing the world that he can offer something that others cant, only then will he have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:15 PM
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Try it yourself. Open your tinder to men and you'll see by yourself that most men are either cringe, ugly or boring. There are only maybe 5-10% that seem interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:53 PM
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For the argument that females bring skills other than physical fitness, if any such skill is important, it should be measured in a gender neutral way. So we just need to add a mental stability test and make both tests gender neutral. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:34 PM
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100% true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:48 AM
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Do you think the redpill brings benefits to these young men? If not, why do you think they stick with it? Yes Do you think these mens lives are generally better or worse after discovering it? They feel better but are objectively worse. Its like when you first join a cult: you feel butter but are objectively worse. Do you think the redpill help those men achieve what they wanted? No. Lets say someone average has a dating pool of 5% of female population, redpill will make you focus on the 95% you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:20 PM
1

Cool but what did the study said about happiness and sexual activity? Because I'd rather divorce than be in a married sexless relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:04 AM
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There are a lot of married poly people. If serious means "heterosexual monogamous married with kids and shared bank accounts" thats your personnal view, but serious relationships exist outside of your strict definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:58 AM
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u dont want a serious relationship Who are you to tell me what I want or dont want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:48 AM
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The thing is I dont consider divorce a bad thing so even if it was a 100% correlation I still woulndt care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:03 AM
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My personnel preference is high ncount. I dont go under 2 digits. The benefits outweight the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:59 AM
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Where do you draw the line between a weak correlation that might be ignored and a correlation that must be taken into account? Personnal preferences: there are no objectively right answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:55 AM
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Divorce rate is all around what, 50%? You tell me you'll flip your whole life around for a 3%?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:51 AM
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why not just fuck the virgin a bunch and make her experienced? If she's virgin you're the best partner she ever had, but you're also the worse. You really think it's better to earn a gold medal when you're alone in a competition than by beating 100 other people? hardly a single guy here can honestly say he likes the thought of his wife fucking someone else Yeah if she has fun why not as long as there are no lies. Virgins are objectively better for long-term commitment. they are less likely to di…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:44 AM
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As a short (5'3) person, I would not have more opportunity elsewhere. The reason is I don't have time to date more people as I already. So even if the pool would be bigger, my calender wont, so a bigger pool is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:50 PM
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For the same reason having a skin color preference is racist. Both are factually misogynistic/racist even if it hurts your feelings to be called that way. Like, in your example, you literally compare women to objects. If you think women are objects, no wonder why you get called misogynistic. If you dont think women are objects, then why not compare them to humans with an example like "high ncount is like having a friend that had many friends in the past, I dont feel special".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:54 AM
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Define "high body count". I might be an exception to two of your claims: at a certain number of partners or encounters with an individual there is no way a someone didn’t feel pressured or get pressured I don’t think it’s possible to have high body counts, especially for men, without some experience with using prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:04 AM
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For personnality: As long as they pass the test I'm fine. Basically, on date one, I'll say a lots of comment like "that's something a white person would say" or "you dont seem to know what poverty is like". Depending how they react, I'll see if there's a date 2. Physically: Almost everyone is hot when in the dating market, butbthere's hottest hot: alternative queer face tattooed folks. I'm late 20s and lets say in the last 6months people I dated or hookedup with fitting this description have bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:05 AM
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For personnality: As long as they pass the test I'm fine. Basically, on date one, I'll say a lots of comment like "that's something a white person would say" or "you dont seem to know what poverty is like". Depending how they react, I'll see if there's a date 2. Physically: Almost everyone is hot when in the dating market, butbthere's hottest hot: alternative queer face tattooed folks. I'm 27yo and lets say in the last 6months people fitting this description have been from 18yo to 39yo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:05 AM
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In this case, op is wrong in pursuing "healthy violence" because, as you say, it cannot exist literally. This is a conclusion I can approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:33 PM
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There's no "healthy violence" And it's true. The "violence of immune system" is a metaphor, there is no literal violence the same way there are no litteral sickness when we talk about a "sick economy". Metaphors arent reality and arent a proof of healthy violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:25 PM
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If you use your fist to destroy something, isn't that violence? Your fist has no intention, but you do. Your immune system is your tool The person is violent, not the fists or the immune system. This is why people get sent to jails, not body parts or weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:15 PM
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Intended refers to intentionnality which is a moral concept that only applies to human. There are no intentions in nature and organisms. But nice try!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 03:02 PM
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Cool metaphor, but there's no litteral link between immunity and violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:59 AM
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There's nob"healthy violence", the same way there are no "healthy ketamine addiction".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:52 AM
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Op has nothing to backup their claim, why would I need to do it? I'm answering unproved hypothesis with unproved hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:59 AM
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I don’t see any reason a man would say he prefers a high body count woman Men complain all the time about sexless mariages. Dating someone with high ncount is a way to prevent that. High ncount are better at communication and more open talking about sex and sexual preference. More kinks, more groupsex. Thats at least 3 reasons to prefer high ncouncts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:16 AM
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I (27) prefer living on my own and financial indepedance, but I can easily see how most men would be intimidated for not being the alpha provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:18 AM
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Women dont hate men in their hoe phase, they hate liers,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 02:28 AM
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Neither are right, but let's be consistent. Agreed, but changing subject isnt a counter argument to my take
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:07 PM
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Well yeah, if they lie and tell they want commitment while its untrue, then sure women will hate them. But thats not because of the hoe phase, thats because they are liers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:16 PM
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When men have their hoe phase, people tell them things along the lines of "you've gained confidence" or "you seem happier". It's pretty rare that this hoe phase is disvalued or seen as revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:11 PM
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Please teach me what is a "chad fraud" it's a new concept to me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:24 PM
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I guess reading isnt one of your biggest talent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:43 AM
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Funny how you are answering to a made up quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:13 AM
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I'm a penis haver if thats your question, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:55 PM
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Yeah. People see me as a disposable fun adventure and get bored of me. I'd like ltr but it just doesn't work: maybe I'm too picky, or maybe I'm just boring idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:07 PM
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Thats something men who have no clue about women and dating in general would think, but its not reality. Absurd theories made in parents basement by 31 yo adults arent reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:57 AM
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Op had a point when he said "bad guys" will genuinely tell what they want. It's called honesty and communication, not drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 01:52 AM
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10% of people check their smartphones during sex Or 10% have done it at least once? I doubt 10% checks their cellphone everytime. I might have done it, probably less than 10 times, am I in the 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:02 PM
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I wouldn't believe he loved me If you cant trust your partner then it is indeed a good reason to end the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:52 PM
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Late 20s. Probably around 10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:47 PM
1

I wont put myself in pain and I dont want kid, so no problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:19 PM
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Yes and many did when homosexuality was a mental illness
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 10:30 AM
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Toys are fun and I want my partners to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:13 AM
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I think sexual orientation is chosen and that more men choosing to have sex with men would solve all dating issue.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:26 AM
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So if "getting over it" is the only alternative, then whats the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:11 PM
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I'm aware of the sunk cost fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:48 PM
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If you're not satisfied then breakup. There's no need to overthink everything and/or try to find rules that apply to all relationships. Just do what's best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:13 PM
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If you want nonsexual intimacy then the lack of sex is a nonissue
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:46 PM
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If your partner doesnt want to do sex with you then they should allow you to get a second partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:16 PM
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With experience you can even see the algorithm at work. For example, Tinder will send you profile of people that dont have your demographics in their criteria to adjust your elo. Like I (27M) will be sent profile of people interested in 30+ and can swipe of them. Knowing that, it's easy to manipulate your elo and appears easily in the top 10% by identifying and swiping ledt those profiles. You can even know who liked you before swiping on them so you can prepare your pickup line before a match!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 11:42 AM
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Those are good advices
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:51 AM
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Statinf facts is not "name calling" even if it hurts your feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:08 AM
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And yet even with your misogynistic discourse you're still single!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:02 AM
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Studies are made by scientist to understand scientific stuff, not interpersonnal stuff. If you want to understand dating, its better to listen to people that have an actual experience in dating, not scientists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:56 AM
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Yes, the logical conclusion that stems from your flase premises is that incels should be even more hostile toward women. It's the most rational thing to do to achive success in dating! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:51 AM
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Its not an exception when the premise fails according to everyone experienced in dating but somehow people who lacks experience think it doesnt. Do you do the same thing with mathematics? Only listen to guys who failed their high school maths and then with a graduated mathematicians says something different you're like "its an exception my bro who failed high school math says otherwise"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:49 AM
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There's a huge logical flaw in your analysis. You say that: For men to be high value men, they are required to be contrasted by men that are of lower value. Which is true, but you forget that most men wont put the necessary efforts. As an analogy, think about its easy to be in the top 10% most athletic people in a society where people only do an average of 30min of physical activites per week. Just do 30min 3-4x per week and you're probably in the top 10% already! So your conclusion is false: it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:48 AM
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I dont bring anything at all, but I wanted to say it in a euphemist way I guess ahah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:43 PM
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I dont bring anything special.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:41 PM
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Idk, most people (of all genders) I know who are sexually active started in their late 20s or early 30s. When I was early 20, everying had a single digit ncount and now most people I knoe are two or three digits ncount. From my experience, it seems the "maturing" occurs more in the late 20s than in college years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:34 PM
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Should? No, you cant get dates without social medias. It's a tool among many which can help getting more dates, but not a requirement. Dating is all about time invested vs return on investment, so if you feel investing many hours a week is worth for 1-2 hookups a month, then do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:14 AM
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For men, the ultimate sexual/romantic accomplishment is to have sex with a beautiful woman. I think most men would agree with this. Disagree. I dont know how many will agree, but that's an easy to do goal. It's kinda like saying "running 5km id the ultimate goal of all runners", theres so much variation in goals that it doesnt mean anything. For me, my ex kept telling me that I'd want to fuck 1000 different persons and it is my goal since then. (Since its discussion flair and not q4w, i disagree…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:02 PM
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YOOOO BIG SAME I reached the same point at 25yo, but most men on here shame it because they are too lazy to work toward this goal and/or their endgame dating goal is a comitted relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:35 PM
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A good analogy of that is work and education. You'll have more money if you pay for education and get a good job you'll get more money in the long run. Same thing with dating: if you work on yourself and become a chad, it will eventually take less efforts to have a high amount of dates but trying hard as an average entitled man will never work as easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:01 AM
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Thats an humble and inspiring path you decided to walk
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:58 AM
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Exaclt my though! I dont see any real 1-3 or real 8-10 they are all pretty average
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:21 AM
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99% of questions asked here expects answers and discussions from the heterosexuals only. Its no surprise there's less engagement from the gays. bi men come here to discuss things. They say that dating men is really really easy Disagree. Even it the gay dating market men are entitled ahole, its not specific to heterosexual men, which makes it really hard to date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:43 AM
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Thats a job among many. Yes, already did. Yes, still doing. Support. Probably for the best. It will democratize sex and allows every men to access it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:26 AM
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I agree. When I was younger, I had a 6,3 friend (I'm 5,3). We'd go to the bar together and I was the one getting all the ons. It was all confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:53 AM
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Hoards of men are abandoning the dating scene altogether or making significantly less effort than they once did This is the reason they fail. 100% their fault. Like it or not, we NEED sex love and intimacy to survive Sad for you, if you choose to stop making efforts you're 100% to blame. Same thing as someone who left their job and now complains about having no money. A large population of lonely, bitter single people will not bode well for our future, There's an easy solution: either they fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:49 AM
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To add to the list: Confidence, empathy, good communication skills, honesty, authenticity, etc. Basically you nailed down the physical part but omitted the personnality part (except fpr carefree) which is equally important
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:45 AM
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I used a tool that was neglected by op: logic!
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 08:37 PM
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sex won't cure your depression. It cured mine. sex won't make you a better person It did for me,I learned a lot of useful social skills by dating and sex. Those skills are useful everywhere. I'm now a better person because of those skills. sex won't teach you useful life skills. See above. any man with a an extra 100$ is only sexless by choice Fixed. sex is just a form of masturbation with the bonus side effect of potentially turning you into a wage slave to a woman for 18+ years I think your om…
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 03:56 PM
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The idea that childs are a property that belongs to the parent is intertwined with monogamy. Theres no false paternity if childs are members to a community or a polycule.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:46 PM
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Maybe the first therapist you tried didn't work out but you should keep trying Sounds like "maybe the horoscope written by person A didnt work out but you should keep trying and read horoscope written by person B". But hey, at least horoscope is free unlike therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:41 PM
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Theres no point in agreeing or disagreeing with numbers. No. Necessary byproducts of monogamy (cheating, divorce, paternity fraud, etc.) Should not be illegal. They are really different from violent crimes like rapes and murders. Comparing the two is ridiculous. 15% is a plausible number and I think society is unlikely to change because of it since it's a necessary byproduct of monogamy. There's not much "ethical questions" included for a core component of the social organization.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:10 PM
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From my point of view it's not bad at all! Dating multiple people is fun!
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 11:18 AM
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If theres one incel and 100 monogamous married women the incel can date 0 person. If theres 1 incel and 100 polyamorous women, the incel can date 100 person. So you think having more dating opportunity creates more incel?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 11:17 AM
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He didnt get ripped off by a therapist, so thats a major advantagr of any reddit community over any therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:14 AM
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Good example of someone dangerous displaying a binary worldview and that is unrelated to kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:11 AM
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A black and white worldview like op has is far more dangerous than any kink: this is what leads to school shootings, mass murders and terrorism. Be safe yall: be kinky, not judgemental!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:51 AM
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Too much efforts for few results
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 01:14 AM
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Sadly for you, we're in a society with systemic racism and there's probably no change to that before your death. Dating isn't easy in these conditions; good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:01 PM
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0-9: low 10-99: medium 100-999: high 1000+: legend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:46 AM
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They can install grindr and get free sex tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:51 PM
2

You treating people with respect while you're about it? Yes. Respect is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:29 PM
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most of them have to pursue relationships to get sex What do you mean? Why not just search for sex instead of relationship if thats what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:40 PM
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I guess numbers are debateable, but i'd say someone who can get at least 2-3 fuck a week and 20 new ncount a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:57 PM
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I wouldnt date someone under 10, it's just to low and I dont want to deal with the inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:38 PM
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I think most men would answer some shrodingerish like Marriage is a concistent source of sex. Also the problem with marriage is that it's not a consistent source of sex. I dont just want sex. I also dont want anything that isnt sex because it feels like chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:34 PM
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Does working on yourself (developping style, personnality, etc.) considered an indirect way of paying for sex? You kinda work and get consistent sex, but you dont directly pay for it. But you say: Dating/relationships (especially in the West) is pointless unless the end goal is marriage and family So I guess dating for sex is pointless, which I dont understand why you would say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:30 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:00 AM
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I'd feel the same: cheating is cheating and I couldnt stay with a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:37 AM
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If someone stole me a kidney, I'd stop loving them even if it was a parent, chilsren or spouse. Unconditionnal love only exist for people that dont care about their kidneys I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:06 AM
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Go live in communism if you dont like freedom
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 10:43 PM
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Same. It was also a step forward, not a sacrifice. Worked on myself, on my passions and interest, found purpose, became healthy, etc. All those things arent "costs"!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:05 PM
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There's loads of articles talking about it, lots of online discussions on it as well Theres all that about God too, but there are still atheists who simply want to refuse it exist.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 12:14 PM
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Its entertaining, most people here have no idea how dating and gender works, yet when they seek advice everyone else is wrong. I was a redpill incel for a long time until I developped the "fake it til you make" mentality and became a chad, so the pill subject is always deep in my identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:03 PM
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Hookup culture exist Proof? Oh wait you cant.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 11:55 AM
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Thats where I meet people too. I use pictures and words to display personnality and style.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:52 AM
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I dont and cant, because like God and other fictionnal stuff I cant prove that they dont exist.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 11:50 AM
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Hookup culture doesnt exist. Its just a term the boomers have invented to slutshame free women.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 04:24 AM
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Sounds like a good post to introduce polyamory 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:17 AM
1

I'm 5'3 and 6/10 so idk if it's "average".
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 12:25 AM
2

Its not 2-3 new per week, some are regulars
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 11:12 PM
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I went from 1-2 sex per year to 2-3 per week and being fit is one of the multiple change I made in my life. But I didnt do it for women so I dont know if that counts.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 10:12 PM
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Yes! The comment I was looking for!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:50 PM
1

I do because they are human beings and idc about ncounts.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:23 PM
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For you almost any straight man could have a tinder account with many matches and a very active sex life with different women? Yes. As long as you put efforts in it and expectations of a "very active sex life" realistic. I think nobody except maybe pornstars or orgies enthusiasts have +7 ncounts per week. Having 2-3 regular sex partners and 2-3 new hookup per month is realistic for me. or tall or rich men (I'm neither) it could be higher and for non white lower, but its always possible to have s…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:22 PM
1

Thats their decision.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:04 PM
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How would you feel if you were in a romantic relationship with someone who has had intense sex with another person(s), without any commitment, but asks you for a lot of requirements and effort just to be able to hold her hand? I dont care, I'd leave and have sex with the next tinder match. Easy.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 06:54 PM
0

Exactly this. I dont know why some men are upset that women live free and have fun.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 05:24 PM
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I know you all will say if that's what people want then let them do it Yes because most of us wants freedom, not fascism or communism!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:28 PM
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Style and personnality. Read my first comment...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:52 PM
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Thats not my experience but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:35 PM
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Easy. Have style: makeup, tattoos, fitness, pretty clothes, etc. Kinda like in birds where the male does all the efforts to become pretty. Have personnality: empathy, intelligence, honesty, etc. Also important to treat women as human beings and not just sex toys. If you dont want to do efforts, you will never stand out of the crowd. (I say that as a 5'3 with 6/10 look)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:02 AM
1

It's true. Sadly, a lot of men dont want to try it because of their ego: they think it's false and they would rather be lonely and right than dating and wrong. Basically, they choose to ignore good advices like those because they cant fit it in their skewed world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:57 AM
7

Lesser option =/= no option. I'm short (5'3) and had no option at first (and was really angry about it). By building the aboves and many other qualities, I now have a lot of options (even if I'd have more if I was 6').
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:54 AM
-1

Morality is subjective but some things like racial preferences objectively makes you a racist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:13 AM
0

saying i do not care about you i just wanna sleep with someone pr saying something like i didn't get the girl i dreamed so i will settle with you If this is honestly how you feel about women, this is a good reason why people would not want to date you. For the rest, those are hypothesis that arent based with facts and people with more experience think they are false. You do whatever you want with that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:18 PM
1

According to people with low ncounts that have no clue how dating works you are totally right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:24 PM
3

Classic monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:31 PM
-1

The only reason why he was able to obtain her was because he invested significant time, effort, and attention, all so that she gives him the same sexual access it took another guy 2 hours to obtain. It takes a lot of time and efforts to become a chad. Even if it only took like 5 mins (or 2 hours) for the dating process, it takes a lot of time to build confidence, empathy, intelligence, honesty, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:12 PM
2

Want water? Get it by yourself or buy it. You have the same two options with affection and sex.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 03:22 AM
1

Its easy from an online profile dating to tell appart nice guys(tm) and genuinely fun guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:11 PM
2

A whore is just a derogatory way of saying a prostitute. Its an objective fact and not a matter of mens feelings about ncount.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:06 PM
1

Interesting. I'm guessing women being more conservative about sex is the reason peoplr develop crazy ideas about how women gatekeep sex and stuff like that. I'm surprised the medians are that low too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:12 PM
4

Looks account at most for 5% of someone value. Being in the top 20% depends more on confidence, game, personnality, honesty, intelligence, values, than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:48 PM
1

Wack
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:43 PM
0

At first I wanted romance because of everything on society revolving around it. Were in a monogamous cilture. But I realised that romance is an unacheivable ideal. Hookups are a better source of sex and attention. Romantic relationships get boring for all parties and they only stay together because of the sunk cost fallacy. Now I deeply love my friends, family and partners buts its not usual romantic relationships. Im a "loyal for life" type and I stay that way because its just who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:39 PM
0

Take OLD for example. Women go on there post half naked pics and that draws the attention of a lot of guys. It doesn’t matter the quality of these guys because it’s a constant almost unending flow of attention and control. You can speak to a guy as long as you want and keep him in the hook for months by saying “I want to get to know you before we meet”. Even if he unmatched you’ve got 100 more. 80% of men are average or under average. Thats whats women do with those guys, but they treat the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:36 PM
1

maybe girls who are below my looks level on the dating apps think I'm just a fuckboy You could be clear on your profile and say you're looking for something serious. Being honest is always a good strategy
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 10:31 AM
1

do you have any recommendations for protecting oneself against it? The first date I have with someone is always drinking pabst in a park and I never been foodie called.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:57 AM
1

This is a rare post on ppd where I can agree. This post isn't about wo-men should do x, but more wo-men should do x only if they want y. Modality is important because there are so many indivual differences that universal recommandations doesnt work most of the time. Good job op!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:52 AM
1

Monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:24 AM
1

I did for 10 years and my experience plus the observation of incel tears is how I came with the bird analogy
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 10:21 PM
2

No.That is for women If you want to keep thinking that way and stay in the bottom 80% then its your choice.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 12:26 PM
2

If you dont want to be on top then its your choice
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 12:25 PM
9

Never heard a guy in all my life bragging about "pump and dump". Maybe it's a mono thing?,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:42 AM
4

Why pump and dump, lie to a potential date and pretend you want more than sex? Why not just being honest and ethical instead and being clear that you just want sex? You'd save harm for everyone instead of being a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:30 AM
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I think the type of men that complains about these kind of thing are the one to feign interest but just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 10:23 AM
1

I have no pill since there's not a "poly pill" or "feminist pill" or "antiheterocispill". It did affect my standards since now I'm more selective, but it also affected my success rate. When I was redpilled, I had no game and was pathetic and desperate. Now I'm not and dating is so much easier!
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/22 10:19 AM
2

There's no should we're in a free society and people can marry at the age they want.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/22 10:11 AM
2

Sex on the first date is the condition of existence of a second date
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:03 PM
3

Her receiving a diagnosis is a consequence of her behaviour, not a cause
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:09 AM
0

Give me one meta analysis that prooves that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:18 PM
-1

And he went at her pace because he liked her. Theres no issue. But if hes unhappy yeah he should leave
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:18 PM
1

Off topic but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:17 PM
1

So according to you a society that systematically forces the abortion of all foetus of black is not committing a genocide?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:29 PM
1

According to you, bteaking up when unhappy is psychopathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:13 PM
19

Redpillers always contradict themselves, it's not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:44 PM
1

Why need two parents when you can get parental affection from only one of them? Why have many friends when only one can give you everything? Why not love only one of your child and hate all others since the love from one child is enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:39 PM
8

Then he should break up. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:12 AM
4

Op, why dont you have a vasectomy if youre childree?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:56 AM
-6

And he didnt have a threesome and has a good girl, whats the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:44 AM
-3

Easy: because most cishet men are abusive, so the probability of being in an abusive relationship remains high if you're dating cishet men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:29 AM
12

Why did he agreed to wait 3months for sex if he wanted to have sex/threesome on first date? There's plenty of fish in the sea, and if you dont like the taste of one then just fish another. His situation sucks but nobody is forcing him into this relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:00 AM
1

Sure if you create a false dichotomy between monogamy and terrible things, monogamy seems the best option. But I too can use this fallacy: ITS EITHER NONMONGAMY OR MASS SUICIDE, PLANET EXPLOSION AND HUMAN BECOMING SLAVES.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:46 AM
1

A relationship is complicity, mutual support, emotional support, affection, care, etc. It's so much more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 09:42 AM
1

No. A relationship is much more than just sex and while unmet sexual need is a cause for divorces it's not the only problem of monogamous marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:04 AM
0

I'm not concerned about the rate of failed marriages: human were never made for monogamy, it's not in their nature, so it is unsurprising that many marriages fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:59 AM
1

Yes, selective breeding aimed at killing memebrs of a specific group or nations (for example the jews) is a form of genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:32 PM
1

"killing members of a specific nation or group" or any standard definition
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:29 PM
2

There's a lot of places I can't access because i'm short (literally) so I guess I can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:07 PM
2

I dont care if they partner or not, as long as they dont start blaming others for their choice of staying celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:27 PM
3

Yeah if ugly people want to be voluntarily celibate, thats their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:21 PM
1

Have you heard of down syndrome and the genocide of people that have it? Have you heard of the crispr technology and how scientists are trying to use it to genocide other type of population (autists, for example)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:59 PM
2

Going for a man or women that you don't find attractive leads to an inevitable dead beadroom and following that resentment Even attractive married people gets a des bedroom, it it a consequence of monogamy not of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:55 PM
3

Then why doesnt he gives a chance to the ugly woman that isn't born that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:33 PM
14

Yeah if the ugly guy who has no results doesnt want to lower his standards, thats his choice. But its not "chads" or "women" who cause his unsuccesse, its his own choices. He starts being a loser when he blames others for his own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:12 PM
0

I'd marry A and have fuckbuddies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:48 PM
1

I'm sexist and you're homophobic, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:18 PM
1

I dont know your gender so I cant be sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:40 AM
0

I.e. you spend less and he spends more
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:43 PM
2

Because marriage cost a lot and being single offer more job opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:58 PM
4

Pros: none Cons: independance, sexuality, money, flexibility
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:59 PM
1

This is the reason you have to work hard enough to be their number one option so that way it's the others that get cancelled, not you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:16 PM
2

You're just mad against us because our existence proves that the problem is you and not the society you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:31 AM
1

I'd say me and my dates are hotter than average but thats according to my standards. Other than that nothing special, just standard hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:28 AM
1

If a fat short autist geek (me) can do it why cant you? Probably a lack of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:09 AM
5

95% of the men are misogynists, but only 20-30% are vocal about it. This is why most heterosexual women end in abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:31 AM
0

Almost everyone have stories like that with cis men and the only solution is to stop dating cis men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:29 AM
1

I'm a small fat 6/10 at most and I dont struggle to find partners. If someone struggles, he probably isnt a 9/10 or his shit personnality drags him down. Theres no problem in dating today, just some entitled men thinking they should get 9/10 women while they are 3/10 at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:21 PM
-1

Because it's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:45 AM
-8

if you say something misogynist. I think this is the word you were searching for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:15 PM
1

do not like interacting with cishet men and prefer the company of people who are not cishet men Same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:52 AM
1

Having an of is like having a band: some will get richer but most wont.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:27 AM
14

Would not go sex work because it's a lot of work. It's not "just take picture and sell it" you need to invest in good gear, know how to film and take pics, know how to edit, know a lot about social medias, etc. It's a lot of skills that I dont have so I'd rather keep my job than invest time/money in thid kind of business for potentiel gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:45 PM
4

I trust people, especially my friends, to tell the truth. If they lie, thats their problem, and if you assume that prople are lying by default it's kinda sad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:24 PM
7

The thing is, nobody knows a womans body count but her unless its all like recorded or something. I dont get what you say there: if a women friend tell me her ncount, then I know it. Why does it need to be recorded?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:21 PM
2

Totally. Sometimes one relationship doesn't cover all needs hence multiple relationships is a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:04 PM
6

Yeah top 2% might have something around 5% fuck rate while an average person might have 2%, but both still have to swipe or talk to hundreds of person to improve their ncounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:21 PM
1

100k Tattoos 2.9m a bunch of condos in different cities 1m never work again, eat well and get better equipment for sports 5m stonks 1m emergency fund
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:02 PM
1

People like to blame gender roles for everything Nobody does that. But glad for you you can win an argument against a strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:57 PM
1

Pros: Smol Stronk Smart Good communicator Nerd Ass-eater Cons: Stonks buyer Already have 2 partners Rude to everyone except like 2-3 persons Socially akward Philosophy graduate Depends: Poly Bi Really invested in cool projects and passionnatly talks about it Really hate series, Netflix and movies Totally woke (intersectionnality and standpoint epistemology) Work in IT
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:20 PM
2

The common intesrest I have with most people I date is sex. I'd rather have that common intesrest than someone 20yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:21 AM
2

Swiping everyone right destroys your Tinder elo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:13 AM
1

Apps are seas of saussages so yeah he has probably more chance of being in the top 20% if there's less people to compete against.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:11 AM
0

Nothing changed It's a totally different context. It's like comparing killing mobs in a cemetary in a video game and going to your parent funeral and thinking that "nothing changed". It's totally absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:10 AM
-1

This is true, but it's because 80% of men have no style and shit persinnality, so even in polyam circles the 8020 continuesm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:50 AM
0

If we can all agree that your physical beauty is by far the most deciding factor It's false and even if it were true most physical traits can be changed without surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:47 AM
10

Death during pregnancy =/= death caused by pregnancy. I know you like math, but logic is a useful tool sometimes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:27 PM
1

You need to put way more emphasis on personnality , it is much more than that: empathy, humility, kindness, openness, communication, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:54 AM
2

often times you’ll hear women say if a man even says that word it’s a red flag It's a free tip to climb in value: stop using that word. And in my head I’m just like why tho?? that’s kinda dumb Or whatever tell women they are dumb while us the top 20% gets laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:51 AM
3

So basically 42% are so low value that the 5000000 prefers to stay single? The rise of incel groups just shows that men are lazy and entitled and would rather whine on internet than make the effort to climb in value
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:47 AM
1

They aren't permanently single and idk if they want to fuck and are too lazy to climb in valuenthey should get grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:43 AM
2

lots of permanently single men The bottom 1-2% of men is not a lot. Many will find a partner eventually or work hard enough to get out of the bottom 2%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:42 AM
1

Both problems There's no problem. Like in every game, there is a loser and a winner, but you are right that losers whine because of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:37 PM
-6

So if you have a 5% date rate? You just need to talk to 100 women and your ncount gets plus five: easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:28 AM
0

Unions help the weak. In a free market society, those who work harders should receive more benefits. If you dont like being a beta, then get off the couch and work to become an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:29 AM
23

Most behaviours don't stem from logic, that's not how humans work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:19 AM
1

So it I was dumb id have 300 ncount instead of 100? No thx I'd rather be smart and have good money woking in IT
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:10 PM
1

Most men, especially incels and rp, treat women as sex dispenser. If you don't, then you're already more attracte than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:15 PM
1

Treating women as human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:55 PM
5

I don't consider myself having "a hard time" and I'm not RP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:46 AM
4

5'3 and because gender is a social construct that needs to be undone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:06 AM
1

Third date is too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:59 AM
25

Lets suppose I have 10 Tinder match. 3, will politely tell me that it wont work because I'm too small. 2 will unmatch me after I tell my height. And 2 will say something like "you dont look small on your pictures" and then ghost me or will make an akward first date. So i'm losing 70% dating pool because of my height. Most women are traditionnal and absolutely want a man taller than them. Tall people and women saying "it's not hard when you're small" is like white men saying "there is no racism/s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:59 AM
1

Fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:53 AM
2

Dont have children. Problem solved you have all three.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:17 PM
7

Yes. More orgasms for everyone with no downsides!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:14 PM
1

I was rated 6 which is pretty accurate and all other guesses were accurate too. And I get new hookups maybe 2-3 times a month which is averagr too so it all makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:59 AM
3

N count doesn't matter to me and most people around me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:53 AM
2

"You are either born fat or you don't"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:32 PM
1

Nobody's getting played, this is why they dont care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:28 PM
2

You have to improve your game and trick them into sleeping with you: you cant change women, but you can change yourself. Like, if you've ever been on grindr, you know that it's impossible to answer to everyone when you're desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:47 PM
7

For men: become a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:37 PM
2

I was an incel and I decided to be a chad and it's fun seing people argue from my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:13 PM
1

Right now I have 2-3 partners plus 3-4 one nights per month
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:11 PM
3

You can't share an inaccurate worldview, expects that it's "common knowledge" and share irrelevant studies about marital dissatisfaction as a proof of something unrelated. This is not debate. You should join the debate school of your high school club before posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:02 AM
2

You start the post with the hypothesis x "filial love is not the same as romantic love". Then you proceeds to enumerate things that are true if the hypothesis x is true. But, you dont provide argument to defend the hypothesis. This is like saying "gravity doesn't exist" and then enumerating things that would happen if it were true. I'll give you a chance to prove me wrong: name one argument that renders your hypothesis true. Just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:53 PM
3

When you bring arguments i'll bring counterargumenfs but for now you're just begging the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:33 PM
9

Accoeding to your own worldview, you are right. Sadly (for you), real world =/= your idea of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:18 PM
1

I do this all the time because it's fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:47 PM
9

Just because you read an article in a psycho-pop magazine about the pseudoscientific triangular theory of love doesn't mean you are right. You're still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 10:43 PM
4

If you're insecure, you wont have the courage to talk about your true feelings, so yeah it is a good test to check if a man is insecure!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:43 PM
9

Men force this on each other most of the time. Women encourage talking about emotions and that kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 02:33 PM
-4

You are in a subreddit dominated by autists, Any proof or are you just ableist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:27 PM
0

They go as far as saying every man who struggles with dating it’s because of their personality It's true but truth hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:37 AM
2

God is everywhere around us: we can see his presence in the beauty of nature, in the perfection of mathematical laws and in Reason which is his gifts to human. My point is that when you are inside the theory (TRP, religion), you see proofs all around, but when you are outside there aren't any proof and you sound conspirationnal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:27 AM
1

There's a group of poly people who each date 2-3 person and a small minority of monogamous people in LTR relationships. Nobody is single, but it might be because new people enter our circle by dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:00 PM
5

Being for/against a metaphysical theory like TRP is a question of faith. Kinda like being religious or atheist: there and reaons for and against and most debate are unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:48 PM
2

Why do you believe sexual pleasure is important to your life? What do you think about long-term couples who grow tired/bored from their sexual pairing? It is important but I don't know why and have no interest in knowing why (this is a useless metaphysical question). And I think evolutionnary theory is a bad explanation for things anyway because it's non-falsifiable. I think long term couple are bored because monogamy is boring. It's like eating the absolute same food everyday: some people like …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:18 PM
5

There's no "one size fits all" answer. There's a variety of reasons to watch porn and a variety of reasons to be insecure about it. That's something to discuss with your parner(s) when starting new relationship. Personally, I don't control/care abouy my partners porn consumption nor do they control/care about mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:40 PM
0

I disagree but I don't think we can change each others mind anyway so have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:45 PM
0

Me: personnality matters You: personnality doesn't matter if you're not attractive Me: it's false You: ??? What is your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:35 PM
1

if you aren't physically attractive, you will be in everyone's friend zone. That's false. Ugly confident guys score better than attractive antisocial ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:26 PM
1

Because you need to have an individuality outside of relationships. If your whole personality is "I'm sad alone, I need someone", that's not attractive, while a "I have hobbys and I'm happy with myself" personality is way more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:54 PM
3

Being confident, funny and passionnate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:32 PM
2

"If you're good at something, don't do it for free" and in this case they're good at pleasing men and have no reason to do it for free when they could get paid for it. Welcome to capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:29 PM
2

any ugly guy can easily build muscle unsightly people with high IQ's. And then the ugly guy will be considered attractive and when "people with high IQ" develop aesthetics taste (which should be easy to learn if they really have a high IQ) then they will be considered attractive. There is an obvious link.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:45 PM
2

in what way does all people being good looking Who is considered "good looking" in our society? Strong, intelligent and courageous people or weak and dumb ones? You can't separate being "good looking" and being strong and smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:33 PM
2

Those are normative, not factual, claims (i.e. beneficial, bad, benefits, maladaptative, right are normative terms). We can either agree or disagree with opinions and in this case I disagree with telling people what they should (not) do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:09 PM
1

You'll get circular explanations. "Money is more efficient to appeal category A demographics, which is defined by people attracted by wealth; look is more efficient to appeal category B demographics, which is defined by people attracted by look."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:05 PM
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Go outside and do any kind of activity: volunteering, work, sports, partys, etc. Just dont do it solely to meet women because that's cringe and we don't date the cringes. Go to the bar because you like going out with your friend, and maybe you will meet someone, but not if you sit in a corner and talk to random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:16 PM
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Those who prefer look will go for look, those who prefer money will go for money. There's no clear winner/better and a "everything else being equal" situation doesn't exist in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:11 PM
2

Useless idea, let people date who they want. There's no problem with that and your idea would create more. Right now, there's a variety of characteristics and every men have a chance, but changing it to 3 characteristics will doom the bottom 20% for those traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:54 PM
1

perpetual ostracization You mean bottom 20% men are ostracized?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:50 PM
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So your point is basically "everyone is free to date whoever they want, all preferences are valid". This means that only the top 80% men will be in relationship, unless they have money. Most men will be involuntarily celibate because they won't be chosen. And I guess this situation is totally fine with you and those men should have no reason to be mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:25 PM
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They are wrong and everything that they say is invalid because they say: narrow the gender earnings gap And we all know the wage gap is a lie. /s because I do believe in wage gap but I know most folks here dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:45 AM
1

If someone told me something in the line of "Wow you're old and ugly I would've prefer to fuck you when you were young and fresh I got a bad deal and It makes me insecure" then I'd dump them. Idc if it makes me a bad partner because I have self respect :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:31 PM
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Funny how when women have insecurities or issues we’re all supposed to take notice but the second a man has an issues he’s “whining”. I dont care if its a man or a woman, if someone is whining, then they are. He said he accepted the situation for what it is but that doesnt change the fact he’s right. She would never have given him a chance before. Okay, but where do knowing about the dual mating strategy come help? If it helps him stop whining then yeah all man that are jealous because they cant…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 04:01 PM
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Yeah but the past is irrelevant for their present relationship. If he's feeling angry at her for her past, that's the result of his insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:38 PM
1

Man, if you see women as object, why are you mad they see you as retirement plan?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:37 PM
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How are his feelings accurate? He's just whining because he's stuck with an "old woman" and that he'd rather fuck a 20yo. Fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:25 PM
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he is jealous that those got to fuck her in her during her hot years and [...] that she isn't as good looking now as she was earlier. Here he says that she was hotter when she was a teen and not having the chance to fuck here when she was young and fresh is the reason of his jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:15 PM
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How are his feelings accurate? He's just whining because he's stuck with an "old woman" and that he'd rather fuck a teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:21 PM
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If someone have insecurities issues as bad as the man in the situation, they should stay single until they can control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:33 PM
1

Most men have some options, the same way most women have some options (hidden in trash). Only bottom 5-10% men have zero options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:28 PM
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average straight man Tried it a long time ago when I was straight, didn't like the experience: queer tinder is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:22 PM
0

Finding something good in a sea of trash is a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:35 PM
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assume all men who pursue women are trash *most men* are. And it stems from experience, not assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:18 PM
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Create a profile as a straight woman for one day, this might help you see what I mean by a "lake full of trash". Having no personality is the result of both pictures, profile and openers, not only of pictures: because men don't care about anything else than look doesn't mean that women do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:57 PM
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I’m sorry but you cannot compare over abundance of options and propositions to very few options in terms of disadvantage Exactly. An empty lake is not the same thing as a lake full of trash. The same way an empty tinder is not the same thing as a tinder full of trash. Both are different, but both suck. Therefore, it is true that: "both sexes have their share of struggles.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:26 PM
1

This is what happens when you love someone "unconditionally". You downplay the fundamentals inconpatibility and it ends in cheating. So yeah, it is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:45 AM
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It's all about the mindset. If tattoos help a short dude feel confident, then people will feel it and be attracted by him. They can even transform him from an incel to a chad. It's confidence that's attractive, not tattoos in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:09 PM
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Yet women do lie about their sexual history A small minority of them do, mainly in more conservative crowd, but most of them don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:55 PM
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The person with less appetite won't struggle to avoid eating whereas the giant appetite person may use more self control- but still be overweight. But the person with the higher appetite/libido might not want to have less food/sex. It is only a lack of self-control if the person doesn't want food/sex. Like, someone loving sex and having a lot of it doesn't want to stop, it's a lack of self-control only if they want to and can't succeed. So you need way more information than just libido and avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:32 PM
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science showing high n-count is related to poor impulse control Which science? Any reliable source or is the science only in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:52 PM
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Women on the other hand are SERIALLY monogamous. This means that they don't really care for sexual variety I'm sure if we survey women more than 80% will say they desire variety. Women like sex the same way men do, and have high n count because they want to, and that is a fact, even if that fact hurts your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:51 PM
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You disagreeing with truth doesn't make it "bad science".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:49 PM
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You cant determine impulse control by comparing how far from average someone is from an average of libido. You can say someone has higher libido than average, but that doesn't mean they have more/less impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:48 PM
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Exactly. But it it easier for them to invent new nonsensical hypothesis than it is to improve themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:16 PM
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there is a social repulsion to high n-counts, and a social correlation fixed it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:07 PM
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Who cares why it is. Redpillers care apparently, they claim all around it is a "natural" thing. In fact, their entire worldview is based on the idea that their emotions are "facts of nature".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:05 PM
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some other jerk’s kid You mean, your kids? Dont have them if you dont to deal with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:59 PM
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Then your opinion is not better than mine, just different. Thank you for admitting it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:33 PM
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You have no source, why should I believe you? Since you bring no facts, this is just opinion and not a "2+2=4" type of disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:26 PM
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If you consider women as goods no wonder why you have a hard time dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:22 PM
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You might disagree, have a different opinion, but it doesnt mean that I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:20 PM
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Thats the product of your education.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 01:13 PM
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Probably, and I dont date conservative women. I guess we found where is the crowd of average women that lie about ncount.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:51 PM
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Anyone can have casual sex, from uglys to chad. It's 70% about confidence and mindset, 10% about looks and 20% about systemic discrimination (bipoc). I've seen people in the top 1% unable to get laid because of lack of confidence and people in the bottom 20% having sex whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:50 PM
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Everyone likes sex and has sex. Worrying about ncount is just the result of insecurities and bitterness from people, mostly men, that dont have sex. High-value men are rare because men prefer to complain than to add value in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:32 PM
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average woman will never admit their n-count to their partner Where did you get that? Most people I've asked tell me their ncount. It's impossible that I never met an "average woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:29 PM
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Nobody should be judged on their hiatory, even if some people do judge. I wouldn't date someone that judges on past history.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:30 AM
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Stability and I hate meeting new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:42 PM
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There's no "all other parameters being equals" situations in real life. Even if age is important, there are still 19 other parameters that can go in someones favor. Losing one point out of 20 doesn't mean a 40yo will always be second to a 25yo, it just means that he is 1/20 less likely to be chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:40 PM
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It's funny because you're right and op is just here arguing "you're wrong because your facts hurt me feelings" and "my feelings cant accept your facts therefore your arguments are bad". This is a classic TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:36 PM
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It doesn't garantee any of that. Maybe safer, but only by a small margin, still violence inside a relationship is really harsh so I'm not even sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:53 PM
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It's fun. A whole lot of human actions have no other purpose than just fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:49 PM
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If you dont ask the question, they dont have to lie. It seems to me that if you dont care, then there's no need to ask and want to be lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:43 PM
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The conclusion that men are insecure is the right answer. Men that don't have those insecurities aren't as much focussed on count.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:42 PM
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Why not both? I have 2 ltr relationships and still am going through hoe phase!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:54 PM
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I don't have a source or a study intuition Given that I assume The reality is Not a real statistic Since they naturally want Your emotions makes you see the world as fucked up, but the real world isn't like that. Most of what you are saying is factually wrong and facts don't care about your feelings. I highlited with the quotes how you just assume the world as you depict it, even if it's factually false. Your emotions are valid, but reality is not like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:30 PM
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Indeed. If they dont actively search and wait for the 1-15% interested women to come to them they dont have to face rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:47 PM
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The good thing is: nobody is forcing you to date. You can stay single as long as you want! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:06 PM
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Sure you can change a 99% fail rate to a 95% by working on yourself, but you'll still need to grind and face a lot of rejection. things you can't change it might be best to work hard and acquire currency to pay for prostitutes. I dont think there's people "so unattractive" they need to pay for prostitutes. There are 99% fail rate but no 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:05 PM
1

Op is right. The theory doesnt stand the test of facts. Facts dont care about redpillers feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:29 AM
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While dating, every men will be rejected between 85% and 99% of time. To have success you must try a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:17 AM
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I guess it's confusing because there's "man" in my name.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:08 AM
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If a new partner ask me to cut my exes or friends of my life it's a sign they'll be abusive later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:25 PM
1

So most people need sexual attraction. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:07 PM
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Yeah, that's called time. There's only 24h a day and I have to work and sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:56 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:55 PM
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we I am, so it's more a "you" problem than a "we" problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:51 PM
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Thats called consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:50 PM
1

Two people getting along because they really like the same hobby is no reason to have sex. Yes it is! Person A: my hobby is sex Person B: me too! Lets play together! Its not about sex attraction, its about fun. Are there any other which you do for hobby attraction? Tennis attraction? Restaurant attraction? Cinema attraction? This is weird isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:48 PM
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Got mine at 26, found one doctor who would not perform one before 30 and the one who not perform before 25. If you dont want children as a man, it's the best way to go without relying on anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:16 PM
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Rather, it is that women have greater demand for workplace flexibility and lower demand for overtime work hours than men. These gender differences are consistent with women taking on more of the household and childcare duties than men, limiting their work availability in the process Did you read the quote?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:47 PM
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Bark
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 09:10 PM
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Your counterexample was offtopic and I told you why. It's not a "hole in my point" it's a hole in your understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:08 PM
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So biology is on topic but biological subjects are off topic? Your worldview is fuckedup I really understand what you are trying to argue. Maybe you stop fentanyl?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:59 PM
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We're always talking of behaviour and relationships in biological terms in this sub. Of course it has to do with biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:54 PM
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You're right, our survival and reproduction depend on food, water, sleep, sex and fentanyl. I always forget fentanyl! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 07:17 PM
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No point in defeating the urges. Hungry? Eat. Tired? Sleep. Horny? Fuck. Simple, no need to make everything complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:44 PM
1

The number of women I dated who told me they liked short men is in the two digits. But I'm not from US and heightism seems worse in US than elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:36 PM
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They literally make that claim in the beginning of the abstract They cite another paper as evidence, they dont provide the evidence themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:44 PM
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First one is Youtube video, not scientific source. Second one argue have less attention given to their health but not that ''they have worse health outcomes'' like you claim. Third one argue that men rapes statistics are often ignored, but not that they are ''as likely to be raped as women''. Fourth one is a book review and irrelevant. So nothing I said invalidate the evidences you brought, nor does your evidences invalidate my points.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:32 PM
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Source? Also, this is prettt bad methodology. It's like saying "when you exclude biological factors, all men are between 5'7 and 5'9 therefore there is no height difference between 5'3 and 6'3". Like okay its true that when you exclude all relevant factors there are no differences anymore, but its pretty dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:10 PM
1

Women find short kings hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:06 PM
1

Id you have trusted sources with rigourous methodology I'll take those
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 11:58 AM
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I'd rather trust a scientific organization than some Youtube videos, but it must be because of my scientific background. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:53 AM
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Single women live longer, but married ones die younger on average than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:48 AM
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Source? In Canada women earn 30% less, but the gender gap might be ''largely fixed'' elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:45 AM
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Young women have higher salary than young men Source? According to Stats Can, women earn 30% less than men, but statistics might be different in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:44 AM
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Young women have higher salary than young men Source? According to Stats Can, women earn 30% less than men, but statistics might be different in other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:44 AM
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Higher salary, better health, less likely to be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:44 PM
1

Antinatalism is not a feminist ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:13 PM
4

What a bad advice. If he doesn't like the situation, just leave. Oceans full of fishes, no need to be desesperate for this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:57 PM
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You're right. Nobody shames women for wanting kids. But for some reason, redpillers think feminists do that even if it's factually false.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:50 PM
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Arguing is fun, and seeing how other people see relationships is kinda interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:29 PM
1

The wife/house/dog/kids setting is overrated. A group of friends/partners living in a gigantic house together is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:27 PM
1

They cause chronic damage when you dont get tested regurarly. I never said they couldnt, but unless you're totally dumb they wont. Kinda like forks can cause blindness if you stuck it in your eyes, but you dont go around saying "i'd rather date a no-fork person because i'm afraid of forks". But hey, you can stay virgin if stds are so terrible!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:12 PM
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There's the same phenomenon in sports where the best coach are not the best players, it's those who had to work hard to get on a high levels. Maybe the incels should look at what they can do better or what other non-chad do well. Maybe there's a lot to learn from the non-white or short chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:29 AM
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Look is mostly irrelevant to orgasms in a dating strategy setting, even if its tied to privilege in others spheres like jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:20 AM
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I must be the only one not on prep based on your expert analysis. And yet again, you accuse me of something I never said. Good luck with your career and I hope your job dont expect you to have capacity to read simple texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:26 PM
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Also, what about HIV, expert? Do you know about Prep or do you need education? Do you know similar meds exist for herpes? Do you know that ''Also, bacterial STDs can harm you before you even see symptoms.'' is factually correct, but irrelevant if you have routine std check? Did your google search tell you that femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:16 PM
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''real documentation'' ahah thank you google expert. Health is more complex than the first google result with outdated documentation you find.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:14 PM
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You wont change my mind, I know all this, I literally work in this field so you dont have to mansplain me. I still find that dating virgins only because you're afraid of stds is like not going outside because a car might hurt you. Like, sure there's always a risk (even with marrying a virgin that might end up cheating) but stds arent the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:38 PM
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You cant get herpes when theres no eruption and hpv has a vaccine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:57 PM
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Bacterials ones (gonnorhea, chlamydia) are curable within a week while viral ones (aids, herpes, vph) arent. Stds that most people get are the bacterial ones. This is basic knowledge for anyone thats sexually active. You're stubborn, not confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:14 PM
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That most stds can be cured within a week is a fact, not an opinion, but yeah may disagree on the other part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:58 PM
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Lol stds arent a big deal. With pills its gone within a week
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:54 PM
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Well, if you have a selfish "i deserve everything" attitude, then its probably personality thats the problem and not the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:35 PM
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Around 19. Then around 22 most of it was untrue even is it seems simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:55 PM
2

Thats up to you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:15 PM
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Yeah, you're right, I know it's true I just forgot about it (I don't believe in marriage which is why I always forget).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:44 PM
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What qualities are associated with a low number? I can guess qualities associated to high number, like openness to new experience or kinky, but I cant think of any reason to prefer a low number,
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:35 PM
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Its common because of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:10 PM
0

People of all genders who had a lot of sexual partners dont care about low numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:09 PM
1

You're right, I guess not trying at all is an easier way to fail
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:13 AM
1

Sure, stay beta if you like it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:04 PM
1

Short chads exist and weight is something that can change with efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:39 PM
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Most normal men wish they were a Chad lol And most will become chads if they put some efforts in trying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:53 PM
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And I guess you're at 0 too since thats what you expect? Religious motives behind this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:09 AM
1

Nice meme
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:03 AM
2

Is it really this low? Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:59 AM
3

When is ncount considered high? 10? 50? 100?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:57 AM
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Your male friend can help you raise the kid you got from the surrogate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:26 PM
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This ia not instinctive or evolutionnary. Those are just social facts. Men hate high ncount because they are jealous and it hurts their ego to have a lower ncount. Its not about evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:21 PM
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