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| 0 | What does seduction and science have in common? | Fundamentals | ManWithAThousand | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 02:49 AM |
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| 56 | Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else?Pretty much. But I still encourage others to go through the process to find out who they are. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:34 AM |
| 19 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?Your scarcity mind set works against you. You have a failure first attitude. It's not healthy. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?and acted as if I was the one who did some wrong. Because you did. You assumed you were entitled to anything. Now you're trying to blame others for issues that you have to deal with which are all yours and yours alone. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I’m a waste of a decently good looking person. All this “look” I have just to struggleFor what it's worth, I feel you. One thing that might help is that there is a difference between romance and seduction. Romance is where you're trying to find a long term partner. Being romantic means being yourself and being agreeable. Seduction is trying to find a short term partner. It means being mysterious and challenging. Figure out which one your going for. If it's the latter, there are a lot of cookie cutter catch all techniques worth practicing and honing. Regardless of if it's the form… | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Approaching cashier girlsI guess that depends if you can tell the difference between a friendly smile and an uncomfortable smile. Which not every guy can do. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Approaching cashier girlsI've had a few friends who have been the "cashier girl." Here's what I've learned... All the same rules apply. Don't be a creep, be clean, etc. But also vibe your audience. My one friend was the promiscuous type. She likes guys that are a party, she had lots of success. The other was the more romantic type. Romantic guys don't usually hit on the cashier girl, she had very little success. It's really important to develop that part of your brain that clues you into what others are looking for. And… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Why Do You Think You Don’t Deserve Someone?I try to. Sometimes when you find people who can understand one thing, it doesn't mean there isn't conflict or incompatibility with other things. And that's ok, too. Everybody is different. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Think You Don’t Deserve Someone?Because it relies on social interaction, which is the nature of the disability. I'm able to "act normal" but it gets exhausting. Specific things like eye contact, reading body language, facial expressions. Or, in my case, recognizing faces. People don't like it when you don't recognize someone because they got a haircut or dramatically changed their clothing. (I also have a narrow range of interests, but luckily women actually enjoy talking about occult stuff like tarot cards and astrology, so t… | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Physical ComplimentsI wanna add to this. I have experience with cross dressing, which means I have experience with the "five hours of prep time." What helps isn't complimenting someone's looks, half as much as complimenting the effort that goes into their looks. And one of the best ways to understand that effort is to try and do it oneself. It's fine to say "you look good." Women are far more receptive when I say, "you look good and here's why:" | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 03:32 PM |
| 2 | How to stand out in a crowd?Narcissism, the medical condition, comes from a source of loneliness, pain, and misery. It's a disease that disconnects people from others. It's a miserable thing to experience. I don't think "narcissist" is the word you're looking for to describe what you're trying to say. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Think You Don’t Deserve Someone?This can be a worthy exercise. I've done it. I'm on the autism spectrum. Dating and relationships are absolutely biased against autistic people. It's incredibly discouraging to the point where I've felt like I don't "deserve" anyone. What helps is admitting two realities. One is that people with autism still have relationships, the reality of the world is incongruent with my delusion. I must change my delusion to conform with reality. The second thing is to admit that nobody "deserves" anyone. B… | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | How to flirt/hookup with very sexy girls?The reality is is that the most difficult concept to wrap your head around is... the lack of competition. Think of it this way. You scared to go after a hot woman? So is everyone else. It's lonely when you're good looking. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Would it be a inappropriate or awkward to ask a female friend to practice flirting on?I've done it, it's worked for me. My female friend also knew I was on the autistic spectrum, so she believed I was sincere. Obviously if it's just a trick to seduce her, that's a no-go. But that doesn't sound like what you're doing. So go for it. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 11:46 PM |
| 2 | One big secret to appear more confident while talking to herFor the most part, yeah. It's one of the few advantages I have with being slow. Is I get to come off as deliberate and confident. Even if I'm not. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:40 PM |
| 8 | Social proof without much effort just clever prepI ironically like this trick because the "trick" is to just be a good person. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | I feel like there is no way for me to meet womenIn my experience, yes, sexual relations are often discriminatory against those of us on ASD. What I used to do was just really just masking. I'd put on a "character" and run with that. Granted, that character was based off of lots of research (much of which was bunk), so it would work eventually. But it's also exhausting. Here's the one thing that can help with interacting with women while not having to put on a mask: Take a genuine interest in them. And you can practice this skill with anyone. … | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I say I'm older than I am for getting hook ups?If you feel like you have to lie then you likely feel like you can't be honest with yourself. If you can't be honest with yourself, maybe you're not ready yet. And that's ok. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Any good advice for flirting/banter?If you think of it like writing a comedy routine, you eventually realize the importance of knowing your audience. Different types of people respond to different types of flirting. Being overtly sexual is great in a situation like the club where you're looking for an overtly sexual situation. If it's with someone more friendly, then you want more friendly casual jokes. If the person is clever, your lines need to be clever. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Three Quotes about Shit Test from Girlschucks insults thinks chucking insults should be shamed. That's you. That's what you sound like. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Three Quotes about Shit Test from GirlsThat's a lot of words just to express you mad. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Three Quotes about Shit Test from GirlsYou're the one immersed in the situation, I'm the outside observer. For reference. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Three Quotes about Shit Test from GirlsNot the person you're responding to but... if you don't give a shit, you don't have to reply. Just stop. It's that easy. Leave them alone. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Men’s advice. Don’t get hung up on not being hung. A big d*ck isn’t required to be good in bedIt hurts when you can't get it up. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 01:53 PM |
| 2 | How to talk about nothing?because my natural personality is a bit too dark and cynical and I find it insanely exhausting to try to be Prince Charming You have self-awareness to recognize this, that's good. A lot of dudes lack that. But it also means you have a focus to improve on. There's a saying, "Be yourself, but also be someone worth being." You don't have to change your personality, but you do need to shift your personality into something more palatable. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Need help with a replyShowing a sincere interest in yoga would be a pro-gamer move. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | If you’re an older guy dating a younger girl like 18-23, will the girl always have daddy issues?You're correct in that teenagers are still children and the dude got problems. Unfortunately, different states have dramatically different ages of consent in America. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 03:07 AM |
| 5 | If you’re an older guy dating a younger girl like 18-23, will the girl always have daddy issues?Honestly... you sound pretty immature. So yeah, the young children you date will have issues because you attract young children with issues. The healthy ones are smart enough to avoid you. Get therapy. You got issues. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 03:05 AM |
| 6 | Why do so many girls not find black men attractive?Some people are of the mind that bringing up race is in of itself racist. Sorta like how calling the fire department is the same as being an arsonist. It's illogical and incorrect. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 02:22 PM |
| 24 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the timeI have a room mate who could be described as a "neckbeard" by some standards. He does stuff like what OP describes all the time. Most times it doesn't work. But sometimes it does. It's not terrible advice, it still attempts to be respectful which is good. If you say nothing, you get nothing. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 3 | You should lie more.Ever read The Art of War by Sun Tzu? It's mostly just consists of lying to the enemy. Lying is a powerful tool. But it's a tool of war. You're not at war with women. I've worked hard to build up a reputation as a man of truth. I'm not going to lose it over a date that isn't even going to be around next year. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What is your thoughts about compliments ?Yeah, that's one of those weird things a lot of men can't put two and two together. Men are intimidated by good looking women. Good looking women tend to get less attention because of it. That's why you see "ugly" dudes with good looking women, because they didn't let themselves be intimidated. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 02:35 PM |
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