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| 101 | My boyfriend has been stingy with cash lately and I just found out why | SEEKING ADVICE | MandJtraveltogether | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 06:00 AM |
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| 3 | 👏🏻STOP👏🏻WASTING👏🏻TIME👏🏻ON👏🏻LOW👏🏻VALUE👏🏻MENNobody here is going to praise you for having low standards. You can take that ish over to /r/short. The reality is short guys just aren't high value. They're plagued with insecurity, they earn less money on average, they aren't as athletic. They look like little boys. When I'm out with my man I want to look like his woman, not his mother. You're correct that not every tall man is high value. But every High Value Male is tall. That's a fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Woman’s UNEMPLOYED husband could handle being a stay at home dad for THREE days so she had to shut down her business and lay-off 13 people.Men are absolute dogs. No, even a dog would take care of their puppies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 11:36 PM |
| 12 | This sub is about a specific way of dating, if you disagree with it make your own dating sub.Since this seems to be a meta sub can I make a suggestion.... Can we please tone down the memes and humor posts a bit? I feel this is turning into a meme sub sometimes. I know I should contribute making well thoughtout posts myself, and I'm working on some, but please don't turn this into a meme subureddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:33 AM |
| -4 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Watch out for these male only groups the are everywhere!Did he publicly name and shame the men who are participating in this group? lf not then he's just stating things we already know: that men are disgusting and fucked up pigs. lf he doesn't bring any real repercussions to these fucks then all he's doing is helping them stay anonymous. l won't applaud a male for doing the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 04:01 PM |
| 12 | Judge Judy putting a male in his placeJudge Judy is such a mood lol. l don't even really like courtroom reality TV but if l'm flipping through channels and see her then l'll watch for a little while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 01:45 PM |
| 54 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointYes!! Same with strip clubs. l would NEVER even entertain the thought of being with a guy who has been to a strip club. What kind of sad, pathetic loser needs prostitutes and strippers for female attention? lt immediately shows the male is Low Value because no self respecting woman would give him the time of day and he's so desperate he has to pay money for human contact. And don't give me no story like "Well all the other guys/coworkers were going, l couldn't be left out!" Scrote yes you can! H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:45 PM |
| 7 | Does being short make me a LVM??? Do you know where you are? Just stop talking. | /r/askFDS | 20/03/20 02:26 PM |
| 8 | Does being short make me a LVM?You should really update your flair to "MALE POSTER." Nobody really cares about your hot takes on what makes a woman low value. | /r/askFDS | 20/03/20 02:03 PM |
| -1 | Does being short make me a LVM?Yes. Being tall just brings so many benefits along with it that it's pretty much impossible to overlook it. Not even just physical/attractiveness benefits. Tall men are more confident. They have more "big dick energy." They statistically will earn more money in their lifetimes. Also i have just had way too many bad experiences with short dudes. They are bitter and upset and have a poor relationship with women. "Little big man syndrome." At this point it's not even worth it for me to give a short… | /r/askFDS | 20/03/20 01:36 PM |
| 0 | If you think men are shallow, try being a female wheelchair user like me. Let me tell you!Preach it sister. Men are TRASH who only care about sex. As soon as they get tired of you, they leave. can't remember the last time I looked at a guy and went, dang! He's handsome lol So true. Men nowadays are fat, short, bald, and ugly. No point in picking through trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:02 PM |
| 11 | Don't date men who are mentally illDon't even date a man who was previously mentally ill. No matter what he says about how he's over it, or his medication is working, or he is a new man. He's not over it, he can stop taking their medication, lol no sis he's not a new man. The consequences of a man relapsing on his mental illness can be literally deadly. I would never put myself in a risky situation like that. Past mental illness in men is the biggest indicator of future mental illness. He'll also pass those genes down to our chil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 02:51 AM |
| 57 | nOThat's some serious psychopath shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 01:30 AM |
| 148 | Since discovering this thread last week, I’ve gone on 2 first dates. Thanks to FDS I determined quickly that each were LVM. I felt confident leaving the date as soon as I realized their value. One date lasted 17 minutes. The other 50 minutes. My time is more precious than their ego. Thank you!!“I don’t think you can claim an animal” Heheheh. he was a novelist. Unpublished. Writing the novel on his phone Hahahah. he would be arrested in my part of town because he was too ‘brown’. He said he was white AHAHAHAAHAHAH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:08 AM |
| 29 | $5,000 can put me in community college for 2 semesters, or rent with utilities for 4 months, or start my 401k and financial advisory plans. Everyone is framing this as cute, but I can’t imagine giving up so much.Lol sis you're doing it backwards... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:00 AM |
| 9 | The absolute nope that is this tweetThis is obviously a joke, come on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Why I don’t really feel sorry for short/unattractive dudesI agree completely. Short dudes are seriously some of the most pathetic males out there. When I date a man I want him to look manly and make me look feminine in comparison. I don't want to walk around with a little boy who looks like my son. They always cry and complain about how it's genetic and they can't change it and blah blah. Well guess what, there are leg lengthening surgeries, go get that. They expect women to get botox and liposuction and fake breasts but refuse to get any work done on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:44 AM |
| 72 | Three U.S women killed every day by men who claimed to love them. Never forget the world we live in.I just did the math. If you inflate Sweden/UK/Australia to be the same population as the US then they all become about 1.5 murders per day. (Sweden 1.54, UK 1.41, Australia 1.90 murders/day) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 01:32 AM |
| 9 | A Simple Rule to Live By...Yep I agree. The “why don’t women understand...” statements are what I always groan at. Don’t blame women because men are shitty. Blame the men for being shitty and tell them to grow up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 03:52 AM |
| 43 | Friendly reminder that men are on such a high horse when it comes to beauty that their opinion shouldn’t matter to youOh my god I had never been there before but I went and took a look at some of the top posts... When I saw the consensus on this woman was "a 6, maybe" and someone was literally banned from the subreddit for rating her an 8... What an absolutely ridiculous place. Undoubtedly it's just full of ugly as fuck dudes who get off on making beautiful women feel like shit. God that makes me mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 03:28 AM |
| 48 | Don’t be a semen receptacle for dudes addicted to vidya.Who tf uses a foldable chair at their desk? That just screams trashy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 11:52 AM |
| 11 | Me and my impossible standards. If only I was hot AF I could get a man.The dating game is different for men and women. There is no such thing as being "hypocritical." As a woman you are the prize. Always remember that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:49 AM |
| 15 | Me and my impossible standards. If only I was hot AF I could get a man.it's absolutely acceptable to rag on men for being obese. They are meant to be providers and protectors. They can't do either if they're obese. You don't need to apologize for what you say or how you think other people will interpret your words. Fuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:30 AM |
| 22 | Me and my impossible standards. If only I was hot AF I could get a man.What is it about these guys that you have kept them around and allowed them access to your body but you won't form a commitment with either of them? i can't see myself ever doing the "friends with benefits" thing because it's just rewarding the guy for doing the bare minimum for you while he's out there courting other women. No sex before commitment. Unless you have both of them committed exclusively to you in which case hell yeah sis you get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:28 AM |
| 17 | Why Breadcrumbing is Pure EVILinteresting i didn't know it was called "breadcrumbing" but i have been the victim of this as well! Luckily i recognized the abusive behavior and cut it immediately. i had been seeing this guy who was generous with his money toward me. Taking me to very nice restaurants on our first two dates and paying for everything. But then it had been 2 weeks since he gave me any nice presents and on the third date he tried taking me to some fucking chain sportsbar and i was absolutely not going to have it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 26 | Every time that women say men have a privilege, it's in relation to them causing violence, abuse, discrimination, ect. Every time men complain women have a privilege, it's in relation to women having it easier in getting laid.Yup. When approaching a woman he doesn't know, the man's worst fear is rejection. When approaching a man she doesn't know, the woman's worst fear is being kidnapped and murdered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:18 PM |
| 22 | What are your dating dealbreakers?sends vids of himself talking Lol I have never experienced this one. Just HOW narcissistic do they have to be to think this is normal and you desire it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:55 PM |
| 14 | What are your dating dealbreakers?6 figures. 6 pack. 6 foot. Those are my broad filters. if they don't meet these three then they're not even worth talking to. While these are all great traits to have in and of themselves they also mean that other dealbreakers are already met (a guy making 6 figs is clearly motivated and has a plan for his future. With a 6 pack he's disciplined and takes care of his health etc). Once i actually start seeing a guy seriously then my more specific dealbreakers become: Consumes video games/porn/drug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 06:22 PM |
| 44 | 'Marrying Down' Costs Educated Women $25K a Year. A less educated husband can spell financial ruin – especially for Black womeni absolutely will never settle for a man who makes less money than me. i've noticed recently a lot of posts here in FDS to the effect of "High income doesn't necessarily mean HVM" and maybe that's true but low income 100% means LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Another example of how a man with money doesn’t equal a High Value Man. Never settle!Nobody said anything about the woman having to pay more if she earns more. it's the male's responsibility to be the provider regardless of who earns more. He always pays. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:58 PM |
| 30 | No words.Sorry i'm fairly new to FDS but i'm wondering why is it acceptable here to call other women thots? isn't this sub about building women up and empowering ourselves? Why are we using a male created slur against other women? "Pickmeisha" i can understand because we are pointing out how she is an unknowing victim of the male-centric dating game. But "thot" was created purely by men to tear down the self worth of women and make us easier to control. Calling other women "thots" i think is only reinfor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 10:28 PM |
| 0 | My boyfriend has been stingy with cash lately and I just found out whyThis is the response I was looking for, thank you. I appreciate everyone else being supportive but I need conflicting viewpoints just so I can bounce ideas around in my head and get both sides of the story. I will say I never have any fear asking him personal questions or trying to get serious about feelings. He is receptive to questions and criticism and he answers honestly (as far as I can tell). I should have asked him when I noticed something was different. But I only just recently learned a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:49 AM |
| 65 | My boyfriend has been stingy with cash lately and I just found out whyHe may not have wanted you to feel like taking you out and spending money was taking money from his grandmother. Wow I think this is actually exactly the type of thing he would say. Okay I am going to talk with him about this and tell him how I feel. I'll tell him that I really like what he did but as a couple if we're going to be serious we need to have open communication. But I won't say it in a confrontational way. More of a respectful way, as equals in the relationship. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 06:41 AM |
| 11 | TW: More porn sick doms, who just want to abuse women as a normal sexual act5'11" so close yet so far lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Before you say yesThen get yourself a higher value man who can afford the things you deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:09 PM |
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