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7

I’ve never waited more than 48 hours and never been told no, that’s because when I’ve asked I’ve been very sure that she wanted to see me again She’s either interested to see you again or she’s not, so this “time game” isn’t something I’ve ever bothered with
/r/seduction21/04/24 05:59 PM
1

No idea man, as always with these questions, the “signs” are too ambiguous and guessing here won’t help. Besides, you said you can’t express your feelings to her as you can’t risk the friendship. That’s fair enough but then you’re just wasting time guessing and analysing ambiguous signs that may or may not mean something and you only will factually find out, if you directly address it. Which you said you won’t do, sooooo…
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:38 AM
6

Yeah, especially in this day and age (in my city there have been some high profile murders of women at night) it’s a tough ask to game in isolated areas at night when someone is just trying to get home/to their destination. For any safety conscious individual (and this is what I say to my sisters) being approached in such circumstances, by default will more than likely induce discomfort/anxiety and it won’t be anything to do with you even if you’re a guy with harmless intent. I’d stick to more s…
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:21 AM
7

The stop start technique is probably best, not sure with an escort (especially if you paid for just head) but with a girl i was seeing I’d stop at the point of no return, and play with her a little bit, plus you may have different positions where cumming takes a lot longer, like her on top I never cum from. Plus if it was your first time, it’s not crazy for your cork to blow soon, and as you do more things more and more, chances are you won’t blow so soon
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:27 AM
6

Exactly that, she’s a touchy feely person and it doesn’t necessarily have a meaning attached to it because she’s just like that generally
/r/seduction05/06/22 08:05 PM
3

I’d just unmatch, as cute as you may be, you’re not going to be a dick and I’m not that invested in some stranger or that eager that I’m going to argue or let bitchy comments slide.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:02 PM
1

I wouldn’t do anything personally, you’ve put it out there and if someone is interested enough she has to extend the basic effort and courtesy of a simple response. She hasn’t, and it this stage where nothing has happened, easy for me to cut my losses and forget about her. My thing is, she has my number, she wants to respond? Cool, she doesn’t? Cool
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:01 PM
1

I assume they won’t text if they take my number because generally, women hate initiating. Have no expectations and don’t think about average timelines or what usually happens. She may text you today, she may text tomorrow, she may text next week, she likely will never text. Once I give them my number I forget about them, some will reach out, many won’t
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:28 PM
6

You can say “ok cool, take care”
/r/seduction08/04/22 12:22 PM
3

Probably met someone else, or just decided this wasn’t it…for any number of reasons and you’ll never know Shrug and onto the next
/r/seduction08/04/22 12:09 PM
1

Depends, only she can answer that because it’s all about her agenda here. Maybe she had no agenda. Either way, who gives a shit, just focus on you
/r/seduction24/03/22 07:56 PM
3

Not a huge problem, I’m 5’8 and do ok, my cousin is a couple inches shorter and has always got girls, he confident and carries himself well. Are there girls who only want tall guys? Yup, but very few dudes can get any girl they want, so there’s always an obstacle, whether it’s facial hair, ethnicity, build, height, tattoos, hair, but there’s still enough girls out there who are interested
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:56 AM
20

Just be honest, they’re either attracted to you enough to not care, don’t care anyway or will actually think you’re too old and not be interested in you. Ppl won’t be interested in you for multiple reasons when gaming, onto the next one
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:59 AM
2

It’s not a good or bad sign. Many women I’ve dated feel no way about getting a round in. It’s called not wanting to take advantage and contributing Simple
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:33 AM
2

Lol months? She’ll be long gone, most people aren’t here to develop some internet relationship. I mean, you can’t try check in in a few months if that’s what you’re asking, but I’m sure you’re not expecting to put her ‘on the shelf’ while you’re sort yourself out…not gonna happen. Best you can do is hope she’s still single/interested when you’re ready then give it a go if she is
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:47 PM
1

Still overthinking, text her Monday, she’ll respond right away, an hour later or when she’s ready
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:02 PM
1

Don’t overthink. It doesn’t matter
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:56 PM
1

If she hasn’t reached out it’s because she’s having fun and not wanting to back and forth, she’s back in just 3 days so I’ll wait til then and ask how her trip was
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:51 PM
1

Not really, I’ve been on both ends of this. Had all the sex and attention in the world and I still didn’t want more. I’ve had fwb where we’d go out on dates, have sex any and everywhere, be really good friends talking about all sorts and she didn’t want more. There’s no “tool” to use here, someone is either in the mindspace for a relationship or not, they’re either in the mindspace for a relationship with you or not. If it were that easy, people would get their fwb to be their bf/gf but despite …
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:43 PM
1

It’ll only evolve if she wants it to, and there’s no sign of that happening. Either take it for what it is, state your feelings (which won’t go down well) or just stop everything if you can’t deal with what’s on offer
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:28 PM
3

Within a couple days, max. Tinder isn’t the place to be scared my dude. You’re in competition with plenty of guys and if you hang around with small talk for too long, she’ll just stop replying and entertain the multitude of guys that actually are making plans to date
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:19 AM
9

Onto the next one
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:47 AM
8

Keep swiping bro. “I’ll let your know” means “maybe never” you don’t know or have never met this person who’s probably talking to 20 dudes at once. Don’t waste effort here, if it’s not a yes it’s a no. If she wants to “let you know” then she will Onto the next one
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:34 AM
3

Women finding you attractive helps. If they don’t, then the pics are irrelevant. My buddies have a stack of topless photos but they’re jacked and look good to be honest. Different women are drawn to different things, and nothing is universally guaranteed. Beach shots, working out at the gym and night out shots, fitted tee/shirt. I’m not on the apps anymore but I always used to throw in at least 3 that showed I was in decent shape. Having said that, one of my buddies never worked out a day in his…
/r/seduction18/11/21 11:04 PM
16

So she answered 20 hours later once. Then you did copycat now you’re both playing this weird game of waiting 20 hours to respond. I’d personally break the cycle and message sooner, if she’s playing games, she can do that alone as I don’t have time for petty shit. See how the date goes and take it from there
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:35 PM
10

She’s not interested so I’d move on.
/r/seduction03/10/21 12:46 PM
8

I wouldn’t respond
/r/seduction03/10/21 10:09 AM
1

No, in direct words, some will care, some won’t. Like everything else in life
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:07 AM
3

Depends on each woman, her requirements and how rigid she is with them. Some will care and some won’t but there’s enough women out there to mean he’d get success. Irrespective of height, it’s always a numbers game
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:42 AM
3

Just ask her to let you know when she’s free/better as you’d still love to meet up. Not sure how you know her and if you’ve met, but I wouldn’t try invite myself to her house.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:37 PM
2

Maybe he’s not sure yet. You haven’t met again and he’s till getting to know you so there’s no urgent need for him to have a definitive idea yet of what he wants and how he sees it going. It seems to be good chat and respectful so just chill and once you meet and talk more maybe you’ll have more of an idea what it is. Guessing his thoughts when he possibly doesn’t know them now is pointless
/r/seduction27/07/21 08:41 AM
1

It’s highly unlikely your exes sister is going to do anything sexual with you. If she hasn’t opened your last message it’s because she doesn’t want to. Leave her to open and reply when she’s ready
/r/seduction18/07/21 06:46 PM
12

FWB is mutually beneficial, so people only enter it if that’s what they both want. So state what you want, something light and casual and if she’s not interested then she’ll decline.
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:06 PM
1

Ah well, you’ll have to wait or have sex in some shitty public place, which probably won’t be great
/r/seduction16/07/21 10:31 AM
1

The car is safe, but not very practical for first timers. That’s a shitty option tbh. Not sure if there’s a window of time where one set of parents will be away for at least a couple hours, then that? If not, try and get a little bit of money together to get a room. There’s a ton of public places to have sex, but honestly that’s once you’re more experienced and the thrill of public sex is a thing. For now, find a bed/sofa in private where you won’t be disturbed for a good couple hours
/r/seduction16/07/21 10:28 AM
14

It means live your life and don’t do anything unless she calls you. If she doesn’t…cool, keep it moving
/r/seduction27/06/21 09:32 PM
1

😂😂these girls man
/r/seduction12/06/21 06:52 PM
2

Personally I can’t think of anything worse than third wheeling with a girl and her bestie. I’d tell her to hit me up when she’s free. Not that I’d show it, but I’d be annoyed and I wouldn’t really put much effort in from there. If she wants to suggest a time/date then cool. But apart from that, I’m losing interest
/r/seduction12/06/21 06:28 PM
8

Depends at what stage you’re in. Typically flakiness implies lack of sufficient interest and you never chase girls who are flaky. Just match their energy, and don’t give them the upper hand. I’ve dated enough girls who match my energy to not waste time on girls who don’t. Any sign of flakiness then I just won’t respond:follow up/double text. Why should I?. Again don’t appear desperate chasing these girls, it doesn’t work. I fall back, and sometimes they come back with the “hey you’ve been quiet”…
/r/seduction07/06/21 04:30 PM
2

Can do, but quite a few of my friends are in good long term relationships from apps. My oldest friend from school is getting married next year and has been with his fiancée 5 years. My other friend moved in with his gf last summer. You probably have to date a bit before this “illusion of choice” thing loses novelty and actually want to have a relationship meaning you want to focus on one, then it’s about luck
/r/seduction01/06/21 08:35 AM
3

We wouldn’t know. I don’t chase women. If she is ignoring you then she doesn’t wanna talk Neeeeext
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:16 PM
3

Isn’t interested or lost interest. This is someone you only know from a dating app, who stays on the other side of the country that you haven’t met? Don’t be so invested. Move on, plenty more out there. Move on
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:46 AM
1

At most...I’d ask if it’s a yes or no. But if probably not bother as I can’t be bothered with those type of responses, luckily I never get them. Having said that, it’s only 3 messages, so I get why she’s hesitant, but she could be more expansive in her response and say, “let’s talk more then we’ll see”
/r/seduction04/03/21 12:50 AM
3

I mean, on the face of it, it sounds like a regular conversation
/r/seduction10/09/20 03:40 PM
1

I refer back to my initial comment
/r/seduction12/03/20 09:26 AM
1

Don’t do anything. If she wants to get back to you, she will. It’s that simple
/r/seduction12/03/20 09:22 AM
10

She said yes to your suggestion. Jesus. Did you want her to do cartwheels? Set it up
/r/seduction07/03/20 06:55 PM
1

Use it as motivation and inspiration. Closed mouths don’t get fed. Always congratulations to a bro when his efforts reap rewards
/r/seduction04/02/20 11:56 AM
7

Girls generally prefer older guys. Perception is more more, interesting, more established etc. And no, you can’t do anything to change preference if they’re determined to not give you a shot based on their preferences
/r/seduction11/01/20 10:31 AM
5

You can. Beware you’ll be one of hundreds of tinder guys up in her dm so it’s a very long shot, especially if you haven’t matched. Doesn’t hurt to try though
/r/seduction18/12/19 07:41 AM
1

You could get plenty of dicks too
/r/seduction10/12/19 09:12 PM
1

You’re not worth following in her mind
/r/seduction04/11/19 12:58 AM
5

If it’s that important to you, ask. Plenty women have asked me before
/r/seduction26/10/19 08:51 PM
3

Don’t over analyse. Matches mean nothing. Just keep swiping and actually get some dates
/r/seduction20/10/19 08:22 PM
2

It’s not many, but it depends. Come back when you’ve got dates. Matches really are meaningless
/r/seduction20/10/19 08:16 PM
21

Why don’t you just get one who’s already that way? I don’t think there’s a way to convince a girl who doesn’t want to, to gain weight just for you. That’s actually ridiculous
/r/seduction14/10/19 04:59 PM
1

I’m not expecting anything. I’m hoping to get her contact details or I wouldn’t ask. Failing that, I just hope she’s polite as I’m always respectful. I don’t feel proud at all, I’ve been approaching women for years and I don’t feel it’s a big deal. Sometimes it goes in your favour, sometimes it doesn’t
/r/seduction09/10/19 05:26 PM
2

I always get invited back to theirs. Never asked “let’s go to yours/mine” but at that point we’ve usually kissed a bit and the alcohol is in the system. Personally I think most girls going out for a drink on tinder from out of town are at least open to the idea of hooking up, and it depends on the guy if they’re willing to actually do it or not.
/r/seduction06/10/19 08:04 PM
3

It’s not about how awful of a person you are. It’s just petty. Do you want to get back with her or not? It sounds like she actually has seen someone while all you have are girls in a tinder inbox which means nothing. Bigger picture, if you want her back, don’t try and go out of your way to be petty, it’s not attractive and shows that you’re hurt.
/r/seduction18/09/19 06:33 AM
2

Actually say something interesting, this was awkward to read, honestly. The fact you’ve re-typed this conversation and STILL can’t see how awful it is says a lot
/r/seduction10/09/19 12:56 AM
7

Lmao what you expect her to say? That “conversation “ was weak. Neeeeext
/r/seduction09/09/19 09:17 PM
3

I just told you. Either doesn’t matter, so just pick one and do it
/r/seduction10/08/19 10:10 AM
5

Doesn’t matter. The key is is she actually interested in going out with you or not. If she isn’t, neither approach will work. If she is, then both will work just fine. You’re just overthinking something incredibly simple
/r/seduction10/08/19 10:00 AM
0

I mean, yeah I wouldn’t do it. You either are open to it or not.
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:23 PM
2

Concerned about what? Make and female couples do it all the time. But you should google it first if you guys have never done it before. It’s not just about shoving it up the ass
/r/seduction14/07/19 10:15 PM
3

Jesus dude, you’re overthinking like crazy. You need to relax
/r/seduction03/07/19 03:58 AM
3

Lol, dear god
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:01 PM
2

Nobody can say. What a question. If you’re talking health, google height ideal weight. Anything else is subjective and also depends on your structure
/r/seduction24/05/19 01:45 AM
0

You’re still here huh? I can find facts on that too? Thought you’d opted out lmao? Go find facts otherwise your “opinions”are worthless. Haha, you opting out or can’t you resist coming back?
/r/seduction05/05/19 09:04 AM
1

That’s not triggered, that’s a comment based on fact. You’re sensitive eh? Go find statistics on who is more likely to cheat, which is why I’m baffled by your “informed” proclamations. Good night bud, your “factual” findings were interesting to say the least.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:59 AM
-1

Great response. edit: you must not be able to keep a woman
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:51 AM
-1

Women have abundance but you’re assuming that abundance is quality. Why are there so many good women single? Women get approached regularly since they’re about 14, so that’s nothing new to them. The notion that women are more likely to cheat is clearly wrong. Generally it’s the man who messes up a relationship/marriage by having casual sex with someone he doesn’t care about, so god knows how you think women are more likely to cheat, when what has been going on for generations clearly suggests ot…
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:47 AM
0

Anyone potentially has the capacity to cheat given the “right circumstances”. It’s like saying given that mean are more visually sexually driven creatures, they’ll constantly go chasing anything as there are so many women they’d want to sleep with if given the opportunity.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:33 AM
2

Online dating is best for niche interests like this. You’re looking for a needle in a haystack if you’re just trying to randomly approach women in their 30s who are single, not looking for something substantial, and will off the bat wanna sleep with an 18 year old kid.
/r/seduction29/04/19 05:16 PM
2

Better to have an open adult conversation as degrading covers a wide spectrum from name calling, spitting on her, cum on her face, all the way upto...actually I won’t go into it. Talk to her
/r/seduction27/04/19 11:45 PM
1

Dear god. Who knows? Only she does
/r/seduction27/04/19 10:13 PM
1

That’s my opinion. If it gets to that, she can suggest it. There’s nothing here to suggest that’s going to happen but again, I wouldn’t try invite myself. He can take or leave my opinion, that’s the beauty of opinion
/r/seduction27/04/19 09:36 PM
4

Sounds like you’re thinking waaaaaay ahead here buddy. And no, don’t ask to go to hers, that’s if it even gets that far
/r/seduction27/04/19 09:31 PM
5

Lmao no.
/r/seduction25/04/19 06:57 PM
5

Anything that happens before the 1st date is meaningless. It’s normal to decide against it after 1st date. That’s the true test of if there’s a spark. I don’t see at least half my dates more than once. Nothing they’ve necessarily done wrong. If the spark isn’t there, it isn’t there
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:46 PM
2

It’s tough. A lot depends on the girl. If your pics intrigue her enough, she’ll respond to anything (within reason). “Hi” is a general no no, as is proclamations about how pretty/cute/sexy she is. I generally tend to go off info in her bio. If it’s blank, I’d ask her about if I were to take her out, what are her restaurants/foods of choice. I’ve never met a girl who doesn’t love food. Also don’t overthink an opener. A lot of girls won’t reply whatever you put
/r/seduction21/04/19 10:48 AM
1

Dude. God knows. They could have been being playful, picking up on the fact you were shy, they coulda just been having harmless fun, one might have felt you were cute. I wasn’t there so obviously wouldn’t have a clue
/r/seduction19/04/19 01:06 PM
1

How would we know. You shoulda answered then you would have found out
/r/seduction19/04/19 01:02 PM
1

Lol, dear god!!!
/r/seduction19/04/19 12:41 PM
-1

Not a fan of it generally, though circumstances vary wildly, so it depends.
/r/seduction14/04/19 07:51 PM
2

Not a setting suited to meeting women tbh. I wouldn’t even bother
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:52 PM
3

Well That’s wrong. confident is just the opposite of scared/shy, im not scared of rejection, that’s just confidence, I’m aware of the fact you may not like me, in that case it’s always “sorry to bother and have a great day”. Arrogance is not being able to process the fact you don’t like me, because in my mind, I’m so great
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:21 PM
3

Confidence is believing in yourself, arrogance goes a step beyond that into assuming. I have the confidence to try and talk to a girl in most situations, but I’m fully aware the odds aren’t in my favour. Arrogance will be thinking irrespective of the odds, you will give me your number because I’m just that amazing and girls fall at my feet.
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:14 PM
5

Lol obviously some ppl won’t mind, obviously some ppl won’t look at you because of that height
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:09 PM
2

Don’t ask for the friend’s number. Add on social media and take it from there
/r/seduction09/04/19 07:31 PM
3

Lol dude, once you’re massaging her, you’ll know what to do... I promise.
/r/seduction07/04/19 06:26 PM
5

And?
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:27 PM
13

Ugly with a good body is better than ugly with a shit body
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:20 PM
11

Ummm no, can’t see the point in this tactic personally
/r/seduction06/04/19 03:44 PM
9

You’ve done nothing wrong, what’s the matter with you. She was busy, offered an alternative time to see you, now you’re all emotional over nothing
/r/seduction06/04/19 03:28 PM
2

Look the same. Quit overthinking
/r/seduction06/04/19 12:22 PM
1

Definitely, I’d take it but I wouldn’t be as enthused. On tinder god knows how many girls advertise their snap/insta. You’d never see them advertise their number. My issue isn’t really with the app itself, but I know many girls give out their insta just for the hell of it and it’s pretty much a slow death to nothing. Now, if she was actually genuinely interested, then it’s all good
/r/seduction05/04/19 10:48 AM
4

Well, on snap for example you can voicenote and text message, send all kinda pictures. You can also call her. What girls in particular love about snap is they can send you pictures of themselves privately that you can’t keep as you can only view them once or twice before they automatically become inaccessible. Snap is definitely a good tool to build seduction as it has multiple capabilities. The main issue I have with it, is that girls give their snap to anyone so it’s not a great place to start…
/r/seduction05/04/19 06:22 AM
41

I’d prefer a number. I’m not interested in her instagram or her snap. Girls typically would give their instagram to just anybody, and if I asked for her number and she gave me that instead, I’d consider it a half brush off. Nothing has ever come from getting a girl’s instagram except just being another dude in her dm
/r/seduction05/04/19 01:01 AM
2

If you have a chance, it’s a tiny one
/r/seduction30/03/19 10:14 PM
3

Tbh I’m a million dates in and this can still happen... a lot. Some girls are weird. Will swap details and flirt with no real desire to do anything more, so it’s just for the attention. On the face of it, you didn’t do a whole lot wrong. Obviously you maybe just weren’t interesting her enough, and without knowing if that was the case, and or what she didn’t like, it’s hard to comment. But trust me, you can get situations with flaky girls regardless of your dating experience. The key is to recogn…
/r/seduction29/03/19 07:41 PM
-2

In the streets? I generally wouldn’t. Too much scope to go wrong. Not to say it’d never work, but a lot has to go in your favour. Is she single? Is she chasing someone ? She getting over an ex? She in a rush? She in a bad mood? She socially awkward? Does she find being approached in the street weird? Are you her type, etc
/r/seduction29/03/19 07:15 PM
1

Exactly. Chances of success? Slim. Chances of coming across as that creep who won’t let you get to your destination in peace? High!!
/r/seduction28/03/19 07:20 AM
1

Personally I wouldn’t disturb her, your odds are low enough as it is
/r/seduction28/03/19 07:15 AM
2

A follow up can’t hurt. At worst, it’s confirmation of what already seems obvious. At best, she apologises and you’re back on track
/r/seduction27/03/19 07:03 PM
2

Quit questioning everything and text her
/r/seduction26/03/19 12:47 PM
1

Most of my friends are women also. I could also question the kind of women you’re going for but let’s not go there. We’ll agree to disagree on the matter so I’ll respectfully end it there. Thanks
/r/seduction23/03/19 08:15 PM
1

No, many girls just don’t like being complimented by strangers about being gorgeous, they feel it’s starting off on the wrong foot. It’s not about “making it creepy”... they just don’t like their looks being commented on out the gate. and prefer a more engaging opening. I’ve had any conversations with female friends about this and seen this method fail a million times
/r/seduction23/03/19 08:04 PM
2

Yeah, nah. If she’s weirded out by the compliment as I know many girls are, you’re dead before you start. I know many girls that if you open up with how gorgeous they are, it’s game over. It’s “ummm thanks” and that’s it. Your 2nd part is how you start. If she already thinks you’re a creep, then what you follow with is inconsequential
/r/seduction23/03/19 07:56 PM
4

Anything that isn’t enclosed. The most you’re gonna get is a “thank you”. You got nowhere to go from there. Plus a lotta females are weirded out by a physical compliment straight out the gate
/r/seduction23/03/19 01:39 PM
9

Not a great opener, but good job for going in
/r/seduction23/03/19 07:57 AM
1

Lol you want us to guess? Could mean something, could mean absolutely nothing. There really isn’t anything here that conclusive
/r/seduction09/03/19 08:03 AM
1

Harsh............... but fair
/r/seduction04/03/19 11:11 AM
2

How would we know? Maybe he was just being condescending
/r/seduction03/03/19 08:33 PM
4

Ummm... ok
/r/seduction03/03/19 08:27 PM
2

What are you scared of?
/r/seduction02/03/19 04:39 PM
1

I don’t get what you’re asking. Go and enjoy the show and get a quick bite afterwards like most ppl do with any other show.
/r/seduction01/03/19 08:21 AM
1

Good game comes either naturally or with time. It’s confidence, the ability to amuse a girl and think on your feet. Different things work for different girls, so it’s about recognising when to be direct, when to be subtle, when to be a goof and when to be serious. Ultimately it’s about making her relaxed in a short time span and saying the right things specific to her to get the desired end result
/r/seduction28/02/19 09:35 PM
3

Lol I think sex dolls are stupid, and even if I got one, I couldn’t imagine it affecting my desire To get actual girls
/r/seduction17/02/19 11:40 AM
5

Just leave it. All kinda red flags here.
/r/seduction14/02/19 09:33 PM
1

Say fair enough and just keep the conversation going
/r/seduction12/02/19 08:20 PM
1

That text thread was kinda irrelevant as it revealed absolutely nothing. You can’t create interest. Just ask the usual questions and build up a conversation. If there’s good energy, ask her out, if not,leave it
/r/seduction07/02/19 03:48 AM
2

This!! You gotta take em how you meet em. Not trying to upset OP and I know you can’t help who you fall for, but if she’s dedicated to the party & drugs life, you gotta wish her the best & leave her to it before it even gets to a 1st date. Getting with her & then Trying to police their actives never ends well, yet at the same time, you can’t help but be anxious about what she’s getting up to
/r/seduction02/02/19 03:09 AM
23

“Let”? Haha she’s not my child. If she wants to go,she can go.
/r/seduction01/02/19 10:28 PM
3

Lol no, if it were that simple, the world would be a happier place. If she’s not interested, she’s not interested. She coulda had a dude, you could not have been her type, she could be obsessing over someone, not interested in dating for whatever reason.
/r/seduction01/02/19 03:18 AM
3

If she was interested, she wouldn’t have been in a rush. Just take it as she needed directions and just wanted to be where she had to be
/r/seduction01/02/19 03:05 AM
2

It’s a popular opinion. People are only still using it because the popular opinion is the old way doesn’t work any more, not because it’s so amazing.
/r/seduction29/01/19 10:00 PM
5

What do you want to do? Do that
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:03 PM
2

Just ask if she wants to go out sometime. It doesn’t require this much thought
/r/seduction27/01/19 08:00 PM
2

Guy 1 doesn’t have any friends and doesn’t socialize but does it by choice. Wtf does that even mean?
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:13 PM
2

I’d do the same thing. What’s this “real man” shit?
/r/seduction21/01/19 10:07 PM
1

Depends how much effort you’ve put into your appearance so far.
/r/seduction21/01/19 08:58 PM
1

Depends on the girl
/r/seduction19/01/19 01:09 PM
0

You’re welcome
/r/seduction06/01/19 10:33 PM
-1

The whole last sentence was totally irrelevant 😂😂 looking like a dating profile.
/r/seduction06/01/19 10:26 PM
4

So long story short. Sometimes it matters, sometimes it doesn’t. Thanks
/r/seduction31/12/18 06:13 PM
2

Hold up, what?
/r/seduction28/12/18 11:59 PM
4

If you wanna, why not? It’s all in the presentation. Make it really casual. Like ask what she’s doing NYE. If she’s got plans then cool, leave it. If she says she’s got options/still thinking, just say real casual “you’re more than welcome to roll with me to this party”.
/r/seduction28/12/18 03:50 AM
1

Not give up on dating, but work on yourself more. Virginity isn’t really the issue here. Honestly, the other qualities make you undesirable so work on those. Suppressing your sexuality? Are you gay?
/r/seduction26/12/18 07:49 AM
8

Why you ask if she had an std then dickhead if your shit was red & hurting 😂😂
/r/seduction25/12/18 11:53 AM
25

Wtf. You went raw on a 1st date with a chick that probably has an STD, but in the same post you’re whining about the fact she runs further than you. Haha, comedy!!
/r/seduction25/12/18 11:40 AM
3

Ummm
/r/seduction25/12/18 09:10 AM
1

In my opinion, it’s just been too long. By all means, try if you must. But I think too much time has past, a level of comfort has been reached, you haven’t even met? Mentally she’s probably written you off in that aspect and is still on apps talking to dudes who she will actually meet and connect with
/r/seduction22/12/18 07:15 PM
3

Yeah I hear you, you asked our thoughts, I think it’s silly regardless, but hey
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:39 AM
1

Ummm, what? Not necessarily. Friends don’t grow on trees. I don’t even fully understand this question. If you see a girl you like, go for it.
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:36 AM
1

I mean, those are just unfounded assumption you’re making based on a nominal figure. Many ppl men/women lie about their count for fair of being judged, and comments like yours are reasons why ppl would lie. So theoretically you can end up with someone who been with 30 ppl, but tells you 15. Having no way to substantiate it it, you’d have to take their word for it. Another reason I don’t bother asking. I just think it’s dumb, but if it appeases you, go for it.
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:32 AM
0

Very silly in my opinion. I actually don’t even ask and find no reason to ask “how many people have you been with”. I actually find it childish. I don’t think I’ve been asked that by someone I was seeing since college. I prefer to take them as I find them, and judge what’s in front of me, and how they act.
/r/seduction16/12/18 08:20 AM
1

Lol ...what??!!!!
/r/seduction15/12/18 03:26 PM
3

Lol it’s not needy at all. You make plans days earlier, you confirm them closer to the time, that’s just standard behaviour. Whether it’s my mother, my sister, a date or my friend...”hey, we still up for tomorrow” does the job
/r/seduction15/12/18 03:21 PM
3

Give up. She isn’t interested. She may like a lil light conversation from time to time. She probably has an inbox of a hundred dm’s. If someone is even remotely interested like that, they’d be more responsive & engaging
/r/seduction15/12/18 09:47 AM
2

Typically, you leave a msg or ring again later. Maybe I’m missing something here
/r/seduction14/12/18 10:03 PM
2

On the face of it, I don’t think he’s THAT interested. I think you should respect his professional stance and leave it.
/r/seduction13/12/18 06:52 PM
1

I would. Walking away completely means you have no chance. Hitting her up every now n then means you might have a slight chance. Just don’t invest too much into it
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:21 PM
2

Cut down, she’s obviously not feeling it. Don’t give up completely, but for now, accept it for what it is.
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:52 PM
2

I mean, she’s letting you know she’s not feeling you, you’re just not paying attention. But yeah, ask again if you really need that direct “no”.
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:34 PM
5

I just give up. Its too much hard work.
/r/seduction09/12/18 08:03 PM
1

None of those things define you as a person. A good woman ultimately wants to be treated well, be made time for by someone who wants to be with them and let’s her know how much he cares. If they wanted that other shit, they wouldn’t be with you. Believe in yourself bro, never feel inferior to any man on this planet. Don’t worry about what you can’t control. Just be the best version of you as thats what you can control.
/r/seduction09/12/18 07:21 PM
3

She’s definitely flirting, but be careful bro. I wouldn’t advise dinner while she has a bf, that’s inappropriate on her part. Tread carefully, as long as she’s with him she’ll be blowing hot n cold & you won’t know where you stand
/r/seduction09/12/18 07:14 PM
3

Her fault for what? She’s not obligated to reply in a certain timeframe you idiot.
/r/seduction08/12/18 04:25 PM
2

Still crying huh 😂😂 she’ll text back soon? Actually she won’t. Then you can come back & cry lil bitch. Keep checking to see if she’s online 😂😂😂😫😫😫
/r/seduction08/12/18 04:18 PM
5

Another lil whiney bitch who gets no pussy & cries when ppl are out living life. You needy little punk! She still not replied cos you’re a loser.
/r/seduction08/12/18 04:01 PM
4

Holy shit you’re weird. She’s out living life. She’ll reply when she wants, weirdo
/r/seduction08/12/18 03:56 PM
1

If you want
/r/seduction06/12/18 11:26 PM
2

You’re being selfish. 8 days, really dude. Some days ppl aren’t even in the mood. It’s not necessarily a reflection of feelings towards your partner, sometimes you’re just tired/not in the mood. So you expect sex even if she isn’t feeling it? Nice!
/r/seduction06/12/18 09:24 PM
12

The joke was awful, soooo...there’s that. Especially if your spelling was as poor then.
/r/seduction04/12/18 10:02 PM
6

Again, none of that matters a damn if you haven’t met yet. Before you meet, to a degree, you’re an illusion. personality, chemistry all that only fully manifests in person.I been on both sides of that. It happens. You just gotta forget it.
/r/seduction03/12/18 10:55 PM
11

Might not be the height. Ppl don’t like each other on dates for various reasons. Sometimes I’m just not feeling it, because...I’m just not feeling it. That’s life. Delete block, next
/r/seduction03/12/18 10:38 PM
5

There’s no right Answer, do what you want
/r/seduction02/12/18 08:55 PM
1

I’d say you got rejected, she wasn’t interested, let it go & don’t make it weird.
/r/seduction02/12/18 10:10 AM
2

She’s not indebted to anything. A man pays because he feels it’s a gentlemanly gesture in appreciation for her time. Heck, I still pay when I know this is the 1st and last date. Many girls will offer to pay for snacks and so on.
/r/seduction01/12/18 09:11 PM
7

Why would it? If he’s st a loose end for the night & feels it’s better than sitting alone at home, then I don’t see any “value” issues here.
/r/seduction01/12/18 11:46 AM
1

Depends on your reasoning. You trying to be petty? Get even? Just don’t like her?
/r/seduction30/11/18 08:27 PM
2

I wouldn’t.its not a friend. You gave it a shot, she gave you a fake number. Why say “hi”? I don’t understand. You did the right thing. A hello would have been awkward, she may not have even remembered you.
/r/seduction30/11/18 01:55 PM
4

You’ll never know what you did t do. Some ppl are just weird. Let it go
/r/seduction29/11/18 08:19 PM
6

Haha, this is an awful message. God knows what you were thinking. Way to look like your typical, desperate, awkward creep.
/r/seduction29/11/18 07:29 PM
1

You need to get it into your head that girls are no big deal. You’re placing far too much importance on it, like some ppl do when they meet a celebrity, and they turn into idiots. They are just ppl, who shit, and have fears n feelings like everyone else. Once you don’t attach this level of importance to interacting with these normal ppl, you’ll be ok.
/r/seduction29/11/18 08:39 AM
3

Why you keep posting this crap?
/r/seduction29/11/18 08:34 AM
1

Lol how do we know if she means it. Just take it at face value. “Ok, hope all is OK, I’m here when you want to talk”. She can’t be mad at that, you’ve respected that she doesn’t wanna talk, shown compassion, and let her know you’re there. If she gets mad because she’s testing you, tell her you’re not 14 and not interested in games.
/r/seduction27/11/18 07:12 PM
19

Never do the “I saw you on bumble” thing. That can get very awkward very quickly. Swipe right (which I assume you did) and wait and see. Gym is tough as most girls hate being approached in that setting. I see cheesy guys get shut down all the time when trying to “game” in the gym. You know she’s single, so try catch her “accidentally” when leaving the gym and start a conversation then.
/r/seduction26/11/18 11:06 PM
13

My man!!! When you approach a stranger, automatically know the odds aren’t in your favour. She may have a man, be hung up on a man, in an anti men phase. You might not be her type. So as long as she isn’t a b1tch, rejection should be taken with a...meh. I used to be terrified of getting rejected, but once it happened, I was like “oh...I didn’t die”. Good work dude. Keep at it. You’ll get better with each interaction. Even ones that I didn’t get the number, often I’d still have a cool interaction…
/r/seduction26/11/18 09:28 PM
16

Don’t take it personally, you’ll never know why, I’ve been there. It sucks, but maybe she’s got other things going on in her life. No point in guessing, as that’s all it would be. Only she knows. Onto the next one.
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:59 PM
1

That’s the spirit. If she agreeing to another date, you should be good to go.
/r/seduction26/11/18 07:01 PM
3

It’s been 6 months and nothing incredibly interesting has happened. Is she interested? God knows, no point in us guessing. It’s you that interacts with her. Do you wanna do something? If so, ask her out. If not, then there’s nothing to see here, as it’s not like she’s constantly banging on your door or anything.
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:29 PM
1

Kiss her, she’s awkward but comfortable with you. This scenario sounds awkward as hell. Just go for it my man and don’t ask another question. You’re overthinking and it’s unnecessary.
/r/seduction26/11/18 04:59 PM
2

Jesus Christ dude, you’re making this more complicated than it actually is.
/r/seduction26/11/18 04:37 PM
2

Some girls are like this. Don’t wanna get too familiar, or they want you to work for it, or have some notion that it comes off as trashy or whatever. Could mean she wasn’t feeling you that much, but time will tell. I know quite a few girls, friends and girls I dated who flat out refuse to kiss on the 1st date, which is fair enough. Just respect it and try again next time.
/r/seduction26/11/18 04:05 PM
4

Yikes, in your 30s and asking such questions. Dude, leave all that “game” shit to the little girls. If it crosses your mind to hit her up, hit her up. You both obviously had fun and got along, so all this crap of “should I wait a few days” really is silly and serves no purpose.
/r/seduction25/11/18 06:04 PM
3

You don’t have to pay to receive or send messages on any of the sights you mentioned. A friend of mine paid for POF a couple years back, I remember him saying he got lots of messages. One of the features is it puts you at the top of women’s visibility queue when they’re searching, so he was being seen more, and was getting sent more messages. Not sure that’s worth it, as I’d message everyone I like anyway, so I’d guess most of the women messaging me, I probably wouldn’t like. Tinder boost is coo…
/r/seduction25/11/18 09:29 AM
3

Only she knows. Some girls just give their number without the intention of ever talking to you later. It’s weekend, she still may reply, it’s not even been 24 hrs.
/r/seduction24/11/18 06:49 PM
5

Come on dude, she either saw your text and didn’t wanna reply, or she’ll hit you up if n when she feels like it. Texting again really serves no purpose.
/r/seduction24/11/18 06:27 PM
5

Worked in the biggest Topshop in the country that was located in centre of the city. Met more girls in one shift than most meet in a year. Was a freaking dream. Shame I had to grow up.
/r/seduction24/11/18 01:43 PM
2

So what have you both done to solve this? Seems to be a straight forward situation. Work together to discuss other forms of contraception. There’s nothing else you can do.
/r/seduction24/11/18 11:29 AM
1

I’m assuming you’ve asked her why, and she gave you a reason?
/r/seduction24/11/18 11:20 AM
2

Never open with an observation on her physical appearance. Most women hate it, and apart from “thanks”, what are you looking to get out of this exchange? You have to be engaging, respectful and memorable. The fact is, different things work for different women. If she doesn’t find you attractive, nothing will work. Introduce yourself, ask her if you can have a moment of her time. If she says yes, ask her her name, and make an impression. Small talk is dead, be cheeky, tell her you were scared to …
/r/seduction24/11/18 10:54 AM
2

Haha, the greeting thing is always weird. 1 girl went for the handshake as I was going for the hug, awkward. Kinda banged heads with one as I was going for the cheek kiss, FML. I just start talking about something completely unrelated to the fact this is an online 1st date and then the awkwardness is out of the way.
/r/seduction24/11/18 10:25 AM
2

From what you say, in her current mindset. She likes you, but not like that. What’s the point in over emphasising it? You think having rejected you, your 2nd plea is gonna make her say “wow, he really likes me, let’s give it a go”. It sucks, but for whatever reason, you need to respect that, and you trying again would possibly make her wanna stop talking to you, as it’d get too awkward and she’d probably feel its for your own good. You may need to accept it’s not gonna happen, that’s the 1st ste…
/r/seduction24/11/18 09:53 AM
1

Everything is based on the dude finding you attractive. We’re visual creatures. Yeah you can post a lot of “cool” stuff, but ultimately you gotta have pictures, and dudes gotta find them attractive. Not to say you gotta be super sexy. Very few girls are universally hot, but you gotta have something about you, which you can’t really manufacture. To that end, your question is fairly pointless. Dudes have different requirements. 1 dude will jump in your inbox if you posted nothing but hot swimsuit …
/r/seduction23/11/18 11:37 PM
2

This won’t help, but I never have a set formula. Best to go off the top of my head to personalise it. Last time I met a girl was at the bar last Sunday and we just started joking about how long it was taking us to get served. Then we started doing dares to see who could do the most crazy thing to get the barmaids attention. She won and I said for all your hard work, you deserve a date with me...she laughed and put her number in my phone. Honestly it takes 2. I’ve “died” plenty of times in a conv…
/r/seduction22/11/18 10:19 PM
1

Compliment her when you see her. Tell her she looks cute. Lil peck on the cheek, nothing too forward but just enough to make an impression. You gotta use common sense bro, energy n body language from a girl tells you a lot. Keep it chill during the date, but ask her questions about dating and being single, or if she’s feeling anyone. Again, what she says and how she says it should tell you something. At some point, even if it’s at the end, tell her you asked her out because you like her, tell he…
/r/seduction22/11/18 09:24 PM
3

Personally I give up or just cut the texting and meet up.
/r/seduction22/11/18 08:41 PM
1

“Big hints” “assume” come on bro, That’s not gonna get it done. You don’t wanna assume anything in this game. What you waiting for by hinting? Hinting gets you upto a certain point, but if that’s all you’re doing, it’ll ultimately get you nowhere. If it’s known, or you “assume” it’s known, confirm it by letting her know you like her and want something to happen.
/r/seduction22/11/18 07:11 PM
38

When I realised that he who hesitates.,,.masturbates. Closed mouths don’t get fed out here bro!
/r/seduction22/11/18 06:39 PM
0

You’re going to have to man up n go after what you want my man. Don’t be nervous, just chill. You’re kinda en route to the friend zone, but haven’t arrived yet. Once you’re in, it’s damn hard to get outta that zone. You’ve established a friendship and she’s comfortable with you, but you’re gonna have to tell her you like her. Girls are used to direct guys, so if you’re just taking her to the zoo n not stating your intentions, even if she likes you, chances are she won’t force it if you don’t sho…
/r/seduction22/11/18 06:37 PM
15

Dude, wtf. She was a tourist.she asked for directions, you showed her around. What were you supposed to do?? Show her around n not be a creep. She wasn’t interested
/r/seduction22/11/18 02:11 PM
6

How can you “act like you’re physically attractive”? Confidence and acting attractive are completely different things. Confidence is key in all aspects of life. To win at anything, you gotta believe in yourself.
/r/seduction22/11/18 11:24 AM
3

Same way I’d approach any woman, that’s IF I were interested.
/r/seduction22/11/18 08:11 AM
1

P0rnhub for you then dude. Enjoy!!
/r/seduction22/11/18 12:46 AM
1

Well you can’t eff this up. I feel If she wanted to date you, she wouldn’t have mentioned this other dude as it seems casual. If she liked you, there’d be no need to mention sorts seeing someone as it’s not serious. Just my opinion. So just ask. Irrespective how you ask, my guess is she’ll so no, so just ask.
/r/seduction21/11/18 11:21 PM
6

Well, be yourself and don’t worry about the next dude. A lot of these “fake” guys only want sex, and like it or not, many get what they want. I’m not concerned about a next guy and his tactics, rather worry about myself.
/r/seduction21/11/18 09:51 PM
0

Just go with the flow. I never bring it up unless asked or it comes up in conversation.
/r/seduction21/11/18 09:18 PM
2

Like I said, that’s just my impression. Obviously I don’t know how you two interact. So I’m probably wrong. You guys obviously get along, be confident and good luck bro.
/r/seduction21/11/18 06:24 PM
2

Hmmm I’m getting friend zone vibes from her comments. They don’t tell me she’s into you, but obviously I’m only guessing. Just ask her out. If she likes you you’ll say yes, if she doesn’t, she’ll say no. There’s no secret tricks that’ll guarantee success so just man up
/r/seduction21/11/18 06:18 PM
1

Ummm she said she has a boyfriend. Whether that’s true or not (probably isnt) doesn’t matter. What are you even asking? Move on bro!!
/r/seduction21/11/18 05:50 PM
3

He said he’s Asian
/r/seduction21/11/18 05:39 PM
3

Eff it, if that’s the real you and she’s not feeling it? Neeeeext
/r/seduction21/11/18 05:33 PM
3

There’s not necessarily a definitive right answer. It depends on the girl, and we don’t know her. You say she’s very responsive to texts, so like a lot of girls, she likes texting. Keep it light and flirty. Every day is a bit much but you gotta let her know you’re still interested. I’d say maybe 3 evenings up until date. Like tomorrow, Sunday and Tuesday. Obviously if she texts in the meantime then run with it.
/r/seduction21/11/18 05:31 PM
1

Accidentally swiped right, ego boost, changed their mind once matched. What more do you want? Some ppl... like a dude said earlier in this thread swipe right on impulse, some swipe right on everyone and then take it from there. You really are looking too deeply into this. Maybe you should delete tinder if it’s gonna affect you like this, because this will happen a lot.
/r/seduction21/11/18 04:49 PM
1

Well you seem upset. If it makes any difference, girls have the same gripe. I know it’s harsh, but whining about it solves nothing, nor does searching for a reason. It comes with the territory of swipe apps, its bad, but that’s the reality.
/r/seduction21/11/18 04:41 PM
10

Lol calm down. You seem upset. You must be new to tinder. That’s just how it is.
/r/seduction21/11/18 04:34 PM
-5

Lol come on dude, if you have to ask, then you’ll struggle continually. How do you build up other relationships? Sweet Jesus. Talk about classes/the stress of studying, social activities, the latest school gossip, weekend plans, what do you talk about with everyone else? Use that as a basis to get to an actual starting point with her, then take it from there.
/r/seduction21/11/18 04:32 PM
1

Holy smokes, these questions get more crazier. Let your hands wonder while you’re really getting into it. She will let you know if she wants it to go further or not. If she pushes hand away, the only “sex tip” you need is patience.
/r/seduction21/11/18 09:29 AM
1

I’m confused. This is all over the place. You asked your friends gf if she knows any single girls? She mentioned this one girl, who you don’t know, and she doesn’t know you? And you can’t stop thinking about it? Can’t stop thinking about what? You 2 seemingly have never met, don’t know each other, you don’t even know if your friends gf has told her about you? So absolutely nothing is going on.
/r/seduction21/11/18 08:34 AM
1

Get out of coffee dates, the coffee shop is also known as the friend zone
/r/seduction21/11/18 08:02 AM
3

Whatever feels right between the 2 of you. It’s irrelevant what works for me, because I’m not you or her. You’ve already met so obviously have some sort of pattern going no? So keep at that.
/r/seduction20/11/18 09:16 PM
0

Best way like you said is to comment on something related to what she posts. Tells her you’re not a creep and makes her feel at ease. Often guys go in the DM with some corny line or make reference to the fact she’s hot or they wanna take her out, or some uninspiring “how are you”. Comment on next story, ask something that invites a response, then just take it slow. Exchange a few messages if she replies, and use the nature of her responses and common sense to assess if and when you raise the sta…
/r/seduction20/11/18 07:00 PM
7

Any conversation worth having had to be interesting...I ignore most phone calls for this reason, because they’re generally chit chat convos. Now if a friend has something interesting to tell me or needs advice, this is when I’m most engaged. So tap into things that are interesting and fun, keep subjects short. My favourite conversations are the ones where one says “how did we even get onto this topic” this is because the convo has naturally and quickly drifted from topic to topic. But it takes 2…
/r/seduction20/11/18 06:15 PM
2

Only she knows. Your guess is as good as ours. And yes, she sounds childish.
/r/seduction20/11/18 04:03 PM
1

Lol if you want, wtf. If you felt offended and that butthurt that it changed your view of her, then don’t go. Sidenote, that does sound boring...sorry
/r/seduction20/11/18 01:39 PM
4

Tbh if you got 20 responses on this, you should know you’ll get the mix of responses you already alluded to. So the key thing is, what do you want to do? “If she wanted to contact you she would have” “she’ll probably hit you up when she’s ready” “no harm in sending a quick text just to say ‘hey, do I get to see you again’ type thing”. These will be your typical responses here, none are wrong, so again, what do you want to do. The fact you’re even writing this suggests you wanna contact her, so j…
/r/seduction20/11/18 10:33 AM
3

Jesus, don’t overthink these things beforehand. These things are meant to be natural, based on body language, energy, chemistry etc. You’ll know when to do it, it’s really not this deep dude.
/r/seduction19/11/18 11:06 PM
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Mmmm I wouldn’t message you, just seems like hard work and I picture awkward conversations. Been there, done that. It’s possibly not going to be like that, but we don’t know you, so only go on limited info that you put in. That’s just me though, so I’m sure many wouldn’t be deterred.
/r/seduction19/11/18 10:24 PM
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I screamed, haha
/r/seduction19/11/18 10:11 PM
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Lol and wtf.
/r/seduction19/11/18 10:08 PM
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Lol if she unmatched you, take the hint, Don’t make it awkward. Looks like you’re taking too long to close and/or have lost their interest. Think of the phrase, strike while the iron is hot.
/r/seduction19/11/18 05:13 PM
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I wish I could. I see so many conversations on bumble that die after a few messages and I think “sweet Jesus that was a car crash”. It takes two to make a good conversation and a bad one. I guess it’s a mix of humour, flirting, tangents, open questions that lead to wider subjects, and being naturally talkative helps.
/r/seduction19/11/18 02:10 PM
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In addition to this (cool list by the way) this only works if you turn topics into conversation, don’t commit the rookie error of asking, getting a response then frantically thinking of the next question. Then you’re basically back to square one. Conversation is an art, not a difficult one...but for those who need things like this, conversation is an art you have to master, or you’ll always be struggling. Go forth and conquer
/r/seduction19/11/18 01:24 PM
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Lol come on man!! “You wanna come back to mine” is always ok. If she wants to come, she’s already decided she’s open to it before you’ve asked. And if she’s dead against it, no fancy way of dressing it up will convince her.
/r/seduction19/11/18 08:59 AM
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It depends on her. When they suggest coffee, I say I’m not really a coffee drinker plus I like more interesting dates. Ask her what she likes to do for fun. Cocktail making is good fun, she can make a non alcoholic one if she doesn’t drink, karaoke is always a good laugh even if none of you sing, salsa or some other form of dancing, you’ll either be great which she finds sexy, or crap like me, which they usually find hilarious, plus these things are always more relaxed and less formal. Music, al…
/r/seduction18/11/18 10:49 PM
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It’s better to let things flow. Overthinking is a sure fire way to mess things up. YouTube first dates, it’s quite a popular show...just to see good flows of conversation and bad flows. You could easily google a list of first date questions, but that’d lead to a robotic style interview type date. It takes 2 to make a good date, be relaxed, be charming, if she looks good, tell her. It’s cliche, but be yourself, there may not be a spark irrespective of what you do, so just enjoy the experience. Sh…
/r/seduction18/11/18 10:22 PM
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Coffee is tough due to its nature, a lot of the time you’ll come across as boring, or nice (or both) just due to the surroundings, time (will prob be afternoon or early evening) and the fact that most girls that suggest coffee, probably aren’t going to be up for a fling that day. I usually steer clear of coffee for these very reasons, but you have to flirt, but not be creepy, try and get her into a mindset of fun and suggest a drink right now to change the ambiance. But generally she’s either go…
/r/seduction18/11/18 09:36 PM
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