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Currently working on my bitterness. Please stop replying to this thread.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 09:48 PM
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They fucking are asshole.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 02:08 AM
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Because people are inherently selfish and hypocritical losers.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 02:06 AM
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Lmao okay bud.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 02:02 AM
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They are. And shame on them for it.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:58 AM
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People don't support me regardless.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:58 AM
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Yes, for years. Peer support isn't real btw.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:26 AM
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I love that for them
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:24 AM
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Therapy made me more miserable and gave me a bunch of crap that doesn't work.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:18 AM
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Tough, they shouldn't shove it in my face.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:16 AM
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Like, a youtuber I used to watch recently posted on insta about getting married. And I legit just rolled my eyes. I kinda hope it goes down in flames and they both end up as unhappy shells.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/25 01:13 AM
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Not really. Last I checked, a lot of them are business and tech related, which I don't care for. I'd have to go look.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 08:00 AM
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No, and I'm not going to. A movie from a now middling animation studio isn't going to change my whole perspective of lived experiences.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 07:58 AM
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I guess there are clubs at my university I could maybe join.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 07:54 AM
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Sounds awful. Can't control the economy or work culture. I could be the most qualified candidate, and some jerkoff gets more jobs because his dad is in the industry or whatever. Fuck that. So just walk around at day and jerk off at night. Whatever.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 07:48 AM
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Nothing because everything fun is too expensive
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 07:43 AM
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No money to do that.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 07:38 AM
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Therapy can eat my ass I'm not going back.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 07:24 AM
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:I
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 06:41 AM
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Idk everything looks like it's on fire and that doesn't seem to improving any time soon. Especially not after I graduate. Either I can do more school (and take on more debt). Keep applying for internships for shit pay, and get rejected because h.r didn't like my cover letters "vibe" or fucking whatever. Or take a shitty dead end retail job that barely covers rent.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 06:35 AM
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Friends is a very charitable term.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 06:30 AM
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Idk all of my friends are either taken, gay, dudes, or too distant for me to date. The women at my university are unapproachable. They make me feel like I look gross and pervy. OLD isn't happening. I take shit photos, and I'm not in the mood to awkwardly beg my friends to take shitty awful pictures of my busted ass face.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 06:21 AM
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Except life has been predictable. I know that I'm not enough for people, but I take a chance anyway and just get crapped on.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 06:14 AM
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Well at the rate I'm going I'm lucky to get a date when I'm 41. Well, I want to just accept that I'll always be lonely and undesirable because I can't keep building myself up just to get stomped. I don't like the whole maybe it'll happen mindset because I'll naturally begin to think that it'll happen for me. But it's statistically not going to happen.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 05:50 AM
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Well, it's what I want to do as a job. I took a massive gamble on it as a career. I can't really do it for fun. I hope they're a dumpster fire because it makes me feel better about my singledom. I cannot be happy for couples. In fact, I wish I didn't have to see them when I leave my dorm.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 05:14 AM
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Yeah, they tend to be older. It feels infantilizing. Yeah, but it involves tons of luck and networking. And even then, it's an industry that relies on nepotism. Idk, they tend to gush about how loving they are. I kinda hope it's a cope on their part and that they're actually a fucking dumpster fire. Idk l don't think I can afford something like that.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 04:42 AM
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Well, the job market is currently in the toilet, and I've also had my fair share of "making friends" (aka meeting people, hanging out once, and then getting ghosted).
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 04:28 AM
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I appreciate that, but you don't have to! It's really not that big of a deal for me personally. You are a very kind person.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 04:04 AM
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Forgot a part of the sentence. Check my edit.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 04:01 AM
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Other guys.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 04:00 AM
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If I had a nickel for the number of times I've been told that I'm young and have time, I wouldn't ever have to work for a living. I never like hearing that because it feels like a convenient excuse. And then, one day, I'm going to wake up at 45 and still never having one relationship. What's my excuse then? Also, I don't mean to imply they are superficial. It's just that the dudes they're with are better at all the relationship-y things, including the emotional stuff. Apparently, whenever I do i…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 03:59 AM
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I'm sorry, you're being really nice, and I'm just wanting to argue. I don't want any more periods alone, though. At this point, I'm going on nearly 5 years since turning 18 of having no relationship experience
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 03:34 AM
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No, but it comes easier for them. Whenever I do it I'm basically asking for a favor.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 02:43 AM
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Well the men they go for do what I do, just better. They dress better, they have clearer skin, they're thin enough yet also not sickly, they have better hair, they're better at being sensitive, they better at their hobbies. And this is with me putting in all the effort I can put in with the resources I have. It's not enough, I'm not enough.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 02:35 AM
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Okay?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:48 AM
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My point is that despite me putting in above and beyond effort into my appearance and social skills to the point of micro managing. I'm still at square one.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:26 AM
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So then I should just not give a shit about my appearance and social skills then?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:23 AM
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I can't make people want to be around me.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:19 AM
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Could you not spam my inbox? Thanks.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 01:15 AM
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People want to be around them and they don't want to be around me unless they have to.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 12:51 AM
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Grammatical error on my part. It's fixed now.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 12:43 AM
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No, I've yet to meet a woman who was mediocre.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/25 12:31 AM
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Cool. So I'm going to never ever let my mental health issues be public then. Even when these same women would trauma dump and vent at me and I have to be their therapist and validate them. I'm apparently the sole exception. I'm never talking about my mental health with anyone irl. That's basically your way. If my head isn't in perfect working order then I should just rot.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 10:58 AM
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Well, for one, I'm not dating any of these women, so you're incorrect there. Furthermore, what I'm trying to describe is me not being perfect all the time. Sometimes, the not cute or quirky aspects of your mental health show up. You try your best not to let them show up, but tough shit, it happens. And they can be fully aware beforehand, which they all were, act like they're fine with it, and then end up leaving anyways. But whatever, I've seen your comments before, and you don't seem to be the …
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 10:45 AM
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The only thing I can think of is that they were all alternative or manic pixie dream girls to some degree. And usually, it's when I let my mask slip a little bit. I try to present myself without any of my mental illness showing up. But sometimes it comes out, and they don't like that it's not the "fun" kind of mental illness. So I guess they see me as more trouble than I'm worth.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 05:08 AM
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Nope. I just get whatever my school's health insurance offers, which is very little.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 04:41 AM
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I do try. It's just that the techniques they give are far too generalized for what I'm dealing with. It's like if I owned a hybrid car and they kept giving me advice that really only applies to a normal car. I've done CBT. I guess it works? The only pattern I've seen is that they act normal and kind and then poof it's all different and I'm already too deep and hurt.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 04:40 AM
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For me, it was a mix of feeling like I wasn't good enough, being ignored/abandoned, and being humiliated. I feel like I was something more akin to a single use item. Once they got what they wanted from me, I was discarded. I journal, at least, I use to. Tbh some nights I'm so drained or tired that I can't really get the motivation to write it all down.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 04:32 AM
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It's not that it wasn't connecting. It's that it ended up being the same stuff I internalized. None of them really wanted to get granular with it. I don't really know if a woman is the opposite to the one's I've encountered until it's too late.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 04:20 AM
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Well, I hate it when I'm ignored or ghosted. It's something my mom did all the time. Whenever she was mad at me she never just told me. Instead she'd barely acknowledge me and I would have to figure out what I did wrong. And that's been a common theme I've had to experience with a lot of women.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 04:17 AM
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Well, yeah, men have certainly done me wrong. But I was always able to brush it off or forget about it. I guess because I also had enough positive interactions with men that I never internalized them. But with women, barely any of the ones I've met have done right by me. And whenever I meet more, they don't really disarm my apprehension.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 02:55 AM
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👍
/r/ExRedPill22/09/25 11:18 PM
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Don't care if it's cheap. I'm not wasting my time and money on something that's going to look like shit.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/25 09:41 PM
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U.S. SoCal. I go to school and currently don't have a job despite my best efforts. Didn't go to a barber, went to a salon. Most "unique" stuff looks like shit to me.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/25 09:34 PM
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Your second point is irrelevant. I'm too strapped for cash to afford tattoos or accessories, I just spent 50 bucks on a "decent" haircut. And, I already wear clothes that fit well and are supposed to compliment my body type. Also, lol #4. That's never going to happen.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/25 08:58 PM
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Well, I guess there's no alternative. It's either that, or get plastic surgery, and look weird and plastic. So I might as well just do your thing since it doesn't cost any money and I don't end up looking worse.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/25 01:32 AM
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Well, I'm not sure I can get away with looking at a photograph of myself and think "yeah I look attractive." It just feels like I'm lying to myself.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/25 12:52 AM
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Well idk what those are
/r/ExRedPill14/09/25 09:00 PM
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Either they aren't into guys and/or they already have a partner.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/25 08:51 PM
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Basically, I meet them, get attracted to them, and ask them to hang out. Then I usually find out without making my own feelings known that they're unavailable in some way. So I basically just carry on being friends with them and never ever look at them as a potential partner ever again.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/25 02:41 PM
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Okay so since I both employ the advice that is being given, that being, don't go into every interaction hoping for a relationship, and instead let things happen naturally. And then get frustrated when nothing does happen naturally, that means I'm inherently bad and wrong? Like, what happened to things not being mutually exclusive? According to your dumbass worldview, I should only have two settings. Purely platonic man or little degenerate sex goblin. And then you waste about 2 paragraphs talkin…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/25 01:29 AM
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Wow, what a good faith comment. First off, I never went to the red pill for advice so you're wrong there. Second, I think I'm allowed to frustrated that I haven't met someone I've clicked with? I'm not admitting anything other than me not being happy despite doing what many people say to do. Quite frankly, you're reaching a lot here in order to paint me as something I am very much not. If you would like to contribute constructively, then fine. If you aren't, then I'm not engaging any further.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/25 11:27 PM
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Okay? Explain maybe?
/r/ExRedPill08/08/25 02:17 AM
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I don't cold approach though.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/25 02:17 AM
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Apart from a very small dopamine release, none of those can replace a partner. If they could, this post wouldn't have been made.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/25 02:16 AM
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Yeah I've done that.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/25 02:14 AM
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No I'm not. If you didn't know how to do something, does that mean you're lazy and entitled?
/r/ExRedPill08/08/25 02:14 AM
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Uh, no? I didn't assume any of that. Wtf is wrong with you?
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 06:45 PM
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Okay but I'm not cold approaching people. Idk why you claimed that.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 02:59 AM
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Well then, what am I to do? I can't just ask out every woman I meet just because they're a woman. But I also obviously can't tell if a woman actually likes me. And usually when I think they do, I end up being dead wrong. So what am I supposed to be doing?
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 01:14 PM
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Yes I've been doing that and I still haven't found anyone who'd be remotely interested.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 09:32 AM
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I don't even know what that looks like anymore
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 09:31 AM
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None of the one's I've been interested in have showed signs of interest.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 08:41 AM
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Would women really want me to pursue them though? So far all signs point to no.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 08:40 AM
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