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5

Yeah this thread overstates the importance of taking a bra off by a shitload. If she lets you take her bra off, you're getting laid. You can do it one handed, cool but it won't bring you further, you've already reached the goal. It's not like she was gonna blabber to all her friends about your oh so awesome bra removing skills.
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:25 AM
6

It's really not that hard. You guys make this a way bigger deal than it should. If you have got to the point of taking her bra off, she won't turn you off for fumbling a few seconds or using both hands. I'd file this one in the pathetic bullshit category.
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:20 AM
20

Look her in the eyes, hold, don't say anything, gently touch her jaw/chin and lean in for the kiss. 90% of the time it works everytime.
/r/seduction13/04/13 09:14 PM
-4

Well duh
/r/seduction30/03/13 08:33 PM
1

The bar, because we can drink alcohol at 18 here. America, land of the free they said...
/r/seduction26/03/13 12:39 PM
1

You don't even know, maybe you'll pick it up fast. Some get it more naturally than others. I've kissed experienced girls that weren't good at it.
/r/seduction13/02/13 12:33 AM
2

All the sections didn't seem to fit at all.
/r/seduction13/02/13 12:32 AM
2

Doesn't mean the night has to end there. 10 seconds seems about right for the first kiss, take a little break, then go at it again.
/r/seduction13/02/13 12:31 AM
1

The odds of it being well written aren't in your favor.
/r/seduction17/01/13 02:11 PM
2

There was a thread yesterday about reddit's perception of this sub, well this is the kind of thing other redditors will latch on. Guy strongly hits on a taken girl, gets praised for it.
/r/seduction13/12/12 02:34 PM
1

Dude, I'm 5'10 and what the fuck are you talking about? If you don't make an issue out of it, why should it matter?
/r/seduction11/12/12 05:33 PM
-1

Meh, some people will always just focus on the occasionnal cocky technique or field report. I like most of the stuff in here and it has helped me with confidance and approach anxiety, but some of the macho bullshit still makes me cringe and that's what some people will always think of this sub.
/r/seduction11/12/12 05:30 PM
9

Depends how smooth you are. If this guy is in the states it's even easier. They card absolutely everyone from my experience, you just have to snatch up the ID and pretend you wanna see how bad her picture turned out.
/r/seduction05/11/12 05:07 PM
1

You might not want to get blackout drunk and then wake up sleeping with a dude. The next one might not be such a wimp... That dude has got ex issues, what do you want us to say? This has nothing to do with seduction really.
/r/seduction05/11/12 02:39 PM
34

On the other hand, don't do an activity you're not interested in just because there's lots of girls there. You'll just look like that guy
/r/seduction22/10/12 02:43 PM
1

This post is mostly empty, there's nothing here. Get close and start talking. Yeah great
/r/seduction01/10/12 11:35 AM
3

So you're going for a warm and fuzzy analogy of don't be superficial, what matters is on the inside, by objectifying women as handbags... Really dude? That was a bull load of crap.
/r/seduction30/09/12 02:12 PM
3

Wait, Americans don't take their shoes off to watch a movie in the living room?
/r/seduction30/09/12 04:15 AM
4

Bla bla bla get your phone out and tell her to give you her number instead of asking Gotcha captain.
/r/seduction23/09/12 02:50 PM
6

Canada
/r/seduction04/08/12 03:05 AM
1

Oh you can bang whoever you want, you're still an ass for being condescendant to toro_de_rojo for pursuing a HB8.
/r/seduction20/07/12 09:44 PM
6

Oh please tell us more about all those 10/10 you bang on the daily.
/r/seduction20/07/12 05:01 PM
112

Over-analysis right there.
/r/seduction12/07/12 12:39 PM
1

I'm getting the vibe that she isn't into you anymore Of course she's not, nobody expect her to still have a crush for the elementary boy after 10 years. The real kicker is to know if she's open for a date or not. Everything else is irrelevant, it's a new start with a new target.
/r/seduction09/07/12 02:26 PM
5

While it must be harder when sharing a place with that many people, my mate and I have this unwritten rule that whoever brings a date home gets the living room and the other bolts to his room. If that's not possible at your place, grab a laptop and a movie and watch it on your bed or something. I don't see the problem.
/r/seduction30/06/12 12:21 PM
1

Are you giving value if no one reads it?
/r/seduction03/06/12 01:54 PM
0

Do you've got a blog, how interesting. You can toss it in this pile right there among the million other blogs nobody will ever really read.
/r/seduction01/06/12 02:35 AM
3

It's not a fail in my standards either if she's had a great time and wants to see you again. Yeah you should've kissed her that'll surely come in that almost guaranteed second date. Personally I'd wait a til thursday and ask her on a date for the week-end. But before that, you have to break-up with the other girl. You've been with her for a few months, she deserves a real breakup and she does not deserve to be played behind her back.
/r/seduction30/05/12 06:15 PM
0

So what kind of bar was it? That's quite vague, there's plenty of kind of bars which have specific demographics. I can go to a microbrewery and of course the level of education will be higher than in a nightclub. When people complain about the typical "bar girl" they mostly talk about nightclubs.
/r/seduction27/05/12 10:48 PM
8

That part seems really fishy. "Oh a guy is interupting us and hitting on you? I'll just disappear and let him guide you in a dark corner"
/r/seduction26/05/12 05:17 PM
3

Dude, it was plastered all over the damn walls
/r/seduction19/05/12 04:00 PM
3

Girls don't really care that you're still at your parents house while at school. If you were on the job market, that would be another problem. People can understand that living at your parents house is a wise monetary decision. Go on dates, disclose your situation and see where things go. If it's easier to go to her place for sexytime, why would she mind?
/r/seduction18/05/12 03:58 PM
1

It doesn't end if you want it to continue, but the occasions won't come at you as easily as in college.
/r/seduction18/05/12 03:51 PM
13

Even that part?: "(better yet, order for her if you know what she likes)" Seems like the kind of thing that could piss some girls off.
/r/seduction14/05/12 01:21 PM
1

I'm an average dancer and like punk-rock. I've given up up on nightclubs a while ago. Rock music bars are usually too crass and packed with sausages.
/r/seduction12/05/12 02:36 PM
3

Only on /r/seduction would doing someone a favor turn into such deep self-reflection.
/r/seduction23/04/12 04:07 PM
1

a girl at 3am pretty hammered You don't have much credit for this one.
/r/seduction10/04/12 01:30 PM
3

No matter how stupidly sensationalist this article makes it, it's just a shotgun approach. It will not work on the first try everytime, far from it. Do it often enough and your bound to hit one who'll go for it. This article was also an awful read.
/r/seduction08/04/12 02:06 PM
1

Everyone knows the badass way to sit is on a reverse chair, casually resting your arms on the back of the chair.
/r/seduction05/04/12 11:22 AM
2

Keeping someone on hold is not the friendzone. Friendzone is definitive.
/r/seduction16/03/12 07:17 PM
2

I never said guys couldn't friendzone a girl. In this case it's just not what he's doing.
/r/seduction16/03/12 11:25 AM
10

Friendzone. You keeping saying that word. I don't think it means what you think it means. You're looking for a fuck buddy or a girl to booty call, not a friend. Putting someone in the friendzone means you don't want to have sex with that person.
/r/seduction15/03/12 06:42 PM
1

I had a discussion about this comic on the okcupid subreddit. All the girls were saying the negging is lame, stupid and they can see through that bullshit. Yeah, that's why it works so well I guess. They only notice the bad, condescendent negging. A good playfull negging gets you a long way.
/r/seduction10/03/12 03:32 PM
19

This was an awfully stupid read. I'm not saying it's false but just really badly written and punctuated with too many unnecessary images. Lots of overexageration too.
/r/seduction05/02/12 06:16 PM
2

Your answer is totally fine. Sure you can go the funny route but you'll just seem to be avoiding the question.
/r/seduction24/01/12 08:42 PM
10

[5] Not sure on the exact numbers but around 30-50% of the time they will suck my dick at the dinner table right there in the restaurant on the first date. Bullshit meter went through the roof
/r/seduction24/01/12 08:33 PM
2

Yes do it. It's totally not creepy.
/r/seduction16/01/12 06:11 PM
6

Is there a control group? If women who do not have sex at least 4 times a week are also rated as looking younger, it just means people underestimate women age in general. "This online survey is not based on a probability sample and therefore no estimate of theoretical sampling error can be calculated." Why did you post it if you know it's bullshit?
/r/seduction16/01/12 06:10 PM
2

But it’s not all as glamorous as you might think. Days start early and include two hours of hair and makeup time; models share lockers and perfume in dingy bathrooms during their lunch break; killer heels and small dresses in air-conditioned conference halls make it difficult to look at ease posing by the latest sports coupe. Poor soul, this life is awful... You're making decent money cause you look good in high heels...
/r/seduction11/01/12 08:17 PM
1

Well, at least ask for more information to your buddy first! Then ask to see her facebook profile!
/r/seduction11/01/12 08:13 PM
1

So you still have sex with them if you fail at seducing a hotter chick? That's not friend zoning, that's closer to a booty call. I kinda hate how this subreddit seems to put sex on a pedestal as something we should all strive for. Sex with someone you have feelings for is great. Sex with an attractive woman is also great. Sex with a booty call you're not at all attracted to... feels cheap, not rewarding and not enjoyable much.
/r/seduction09/01/12 04:12 PM
23

I'm not trying to approve this behavior but they're probably like 14 years old. Kids of this age have a very different relation with social medias, they seem to use it without any boundaries or hindrance. As for the edit, I just hope he's gay.
/r/seduction09/01/12 12:09 AM
1

Mostly just use them when I fear a sarcasm might be too subtle. A ;) or :P is best in those occasions to avoid abiguity. I think lol, lmao or rofl are worse than using smileys!
/r/seduction04/01/12 06:58 PM
2

Don't just favor quantity over quality. I'll take one good intercourse with a girl I've built up sexual tension with over 10 booty calls/ONS with girls I'm not much interested in or attracted to.
/r/seduction04/01/12 06:30 PM
1

I don't know at what time your bars close but here at 10:30 they're just opening and there's no one. It peaks maybe at 1:00 and the best moment to approach seems to be between 12:30 and 2:00
/r/seduction19/12/11 04:49 PM
3

It's probably a confidence thing. Most guys who don't really know how to dance will look a little awkward when doing any move above shoulder level.
/r/seduction16/12/11 05:13 PM
5

Unless you're a good dancer and know what you're doing, keep your hands below shoulder level.
/r/seduction16/12/11 01:03 PM
1

Don't ask for a kiss, go get it.
/r/seduction14/12/11 08:19 PM
1

then I don't see what's the problem with asking her out?
/r/seduction14/12/11 07:39 PM
1

elpistolero10 seems to think it's impossible to kino with winter clothes one. False. Plenty of ways to kino while ice skating.
/r/seduction14/12/11 07:34 PM
1

This. It also applies to any name. Challenge girls in the bar to remember your name (you have to remember hers too). If you stumble upon her and she doesn't remember your name, she has to get you a drink (same for you).
/r/seduction14/12/11 07:24 PM
1

I don't read them but if I did and read some of the bullshit listed here, I don't think i'd continue...
/r/seduction14/12/11 07:18 PM
1

Don't wait 3 weeks to meet-up Mid-week nights are the best for first dates One on one is better than group dates
/r/seduction14/12/11 07:11 PM
2

I think we have a misunderstanding. Use the fact that you're watching the movie on your bed to have a good position that enables physical contact unlike sitting side by side like on a couch.
/r/seduction06/12/11 10:49 PM
2

I don't think you're in a position to play it cocky.
/r/seduction06/12/11 10:25 PM
2

What position do you take to watch said movie? Don't sit side to side. Throw a bunch of pillows at the wall and sit first, then invite her to sit between your laps. Best position for lots of interactions. You can hug her, touch hands, massage her shoulders, play with her hair... It's guaranteed she'll eventually turn around for a kiss or you easily can reach for it.
/r/seduction06/12/11 08:44 PM
1

I've seen some action after watching Millenium (movie with a very graphic rape scene...). The movie choice seems irrelevant! Light comedies seem to be the sure bet though.
/r/seduction24/11/11 09:12 PM
5

I have high standards, don't fuck often, and couldn't care less.
/r/seduction16/11/11 06:03 PM
6

This 'bestblog' is total crap.
/r/seduction09/11/11 02:16 AM
1

It's also fucking cliché. Yeah I'm a 23 YO guy into punk rock music, let me put this Barry White playlist while we talk on the couch, I'm a big fan of Barry White...
/r/seduction04/11/11 07:28 PM
1

Here in Montreal it's not even a question. Maybe we've got a more european mentality but I don't imagine greeting a date any other way than with 2 kiss on the cheeks. Lean in for the kiss with confidence, always left cheek first (turn your head to the right). A hand on her back, the other on her shoulder, too much or too little body contact is awkward.
/r/seduction04/11/11 07:03 PM
35

You missed your cue, the halloween partys were friday and saturday.
/r/seduction31/10/11 08:18 PM
1

Second time a reas an article from that blog here... please stop. It's just awful and generic. The only thing you get out this is the comfort of knowong your less of a dumbass than Fred.
/r/seduction28/10/11 04:15 AM
7

This is exactly what the article on spam approachers described. You don't really have game, you're just scouting for the easiest girl in the club.
/r/seduction20/10/11 11:42 AM
0

I wouldn't let a buddy fuck in the back of my car...
/r/seduction19/10/11 06:36 PM
0

Looks like more trouble to keep that organized but messy haircut than what I usually do, which is a not too douchy fauxhawk.
/r/seduction18/10/11 08:29 PM
1

Well if they are seeking you and telling where to meet them, nothing is lost. Go for it.
/r/seduction18/10/11 08:29 PM
2

Looks like more trouble to keep that organized but messy haircut than what I usually do, which is a not too douchy fauxhawk.
/r/seduction18/10/11 08:26 PM
1

I've been playing less lately but I couldn't say if it has to do with trying to have a more social life. It's the big season of new releases and I haven't bought a single game, maybe I'll get Dark Souls, otherwise I'm waiting for Mass Effect 3.
/r/seduction18/10/11 08:20 PM
1

Maybe I'm wrong but from my small experience with seduction, hitting on girls at shows seems really hard. Their defense is way up and most of the time the show is running so they don't wanna be bothered. Good job for trying all these approaches. You probably would have had more success in a bar or on the street.
/r/seduction17/10/11 01:41 AM
1

Nope, Montreal.
/r/seduction16/10/11 02:01 PM
1

From a blog that is named bestblog, that was quite stupid and generic.
/r/seduction16/10/11 04:56 AM
2

Thanks, I'll definitely try it again in a different club. Wish I could have a wingman but the few friends I've got in this city are in a relationship and/or don't wanna go into clubs.
/r/seduction16/10/11 02:50 AM
1

Win or lose, all that matters is that you both have fun. If you're obviously way better and completely destroy her, she won't have fun. Bring down your game so she can get better and have some good exchanges going.
/r/seduction14/10/11 05:37 PM
1

Not really a good idea for a first or early date. Amusement parks are fucking expensive and there's a lot of waiting time for like a 8 hours activity. So there's not much opportunity to cut the date short.you're also constantly closely surroundered by strangers so you can't be totally be at ease and talk about anything. Go to the amusement park if you like to and already have some kind of relationship, but not if you're hoping to score.
/r/seduction10/10/11 02:04 PM
1

Anything that involves giving your number instead of getting hers is doomed to have very little success.
/r/seduction10/10/11 01:55 PM
2

It's that easy, just act like it's any other person and next you'll be less nervous.
/r/seduction09/10/11 03:51 PM
5

Better to take a chance with the one you're really interested in instead of settling for the less good looking crazy one. No point in pursuing anything with a girl you already have doubts about, especially if your goal is to establish a relationship.
/r/seduction07/10/11 04:47 PM
1

Yeah, hate those too. I very rarely use them.
/r/seduction07/10/11 03:46 PM
2

You did too much, especially with facebook. Why did you have her as a facebook friend? Because you asked for her number and she gave you her facebook instead? That would be a first strike, indicating that she's not attracted enough to you to give her number. Talking to her the same night wasn't that great either, you gotta learn to space out your interactions. Then you directly post on her public wall, big no no! She probably didn't want to be publicly hit on by that needy guy she just met. At t…
/r/seduction07/10/11 03:45 PM
2

I know I gotta act within seconds of seeing someone otherwise my brains starts grinding on what to say and that's how I chicken out.
/r/seduction06/10/11 02:36 AM
3

Female advices sometimes just suck because girls don't really know what they want, they know what they think they want
/r/seduction04/10/11 12:07 PM
1

At this point I'd just ditch the group hangout/parties and ask her on a proper date. Call her and ask her to do something one on one.
/r/seduction03/10/11 02:13 PM
1

And that's why I don't hit on girls I've known for some time or my friend's exes. They become unattractive as you get to know them and see them act in a relationship. I prefer risking it with strangers, get to know the good side first, get hooked and then you'll be able to deal with the bad side! It's like lottery, with a little luck you can find one that's not too crazy.
/r/seduction03/10/11 02:08 PM
1

It's a good tool to have your your toolbox. Girls on dating sites aren't different than the one on the street. The approach is just a lot different.
/r/seduction03/10/11 04:21 AM
1

I think cooking well is a nice plus but not really a fall in love kind of criteria. I have to say that a girl that knows good fish or seafood recipes gets my attention. Cheesecake for desert is also a good plus.
/r/seduction03/10/11 04:19 AM
1

Do you have a beta or alpha attitude when you do it? The activity doesn't matter, it's how you do it. If you're confident about it, having fun and get people to follow you, why would it be beta?
/r/seduction03/10/11 03:11 AM
1

I always pay on the first date since it's always not very expensive (a drink, coffee, desert...). I don't mind paying less than 10$. As for further dates, I try to establish an alternation in paying for dates and even out prices.
/r/seduction03/10/11 01:30 AM
3

If she makes out with a guy in a bar when I'm also there, the fuck am I doing with her anyway? Given I don't hangout much in danceclubs, I've never had a girlfriend that didn't reject right off guys approaching her. It's also fun to witness in a bar with a bunch of girl friends. The best example is a good friend of mine who I went to dance with often (I don't have any intention with her) and she's the kind of girl who simply don't wanna be hit on in clubs so every time she'll just turn to me and…
/r/seduction02/10/11 08:32 PM
7

Let her reject him. I think it's funny to watch guys run in all confident and turn around with their tail between their legs. Being turned off by a guy doesn't have the same comedic effect.
/r/seduction02/10/11 04:18 PM
1

Oneitis is a guy meeting one girl and focusing all his attention on her to see if something can work out. The community here is more about meeting lots of women to find a good one for long term relationship.
/r/seduction29/09/11 10:18 PM
1

You could use an app like color notes to list your contacts, you can do checklists for every girl and the files always list themselves in order of last time you modified them. Not perfect but better than nothing.
/r/seduction28/09/11 05:12 PM
1

I've had a similar situation not long ago. I couldn't even text her since I was going to be in the US (I'm Canadian) the whole weekend and roaming fees are just way too high. I simply asked her if she was open sunday night and that I would call her when I'm back in town. Through the week-end, the anticipation escalated for both of us and the sunday night date was quite hot. I'd suggest texting her once, like on saturday night just to let her know you thought about her and looking forward to seei…
/r/seduction28/09/11 04:25 PM
1

Lots of bullshit in this article. So we shouldn't pay because it's the normal thing to do and doing it doesn't set us apart. That's really simple and poor logic. From my experience, sharing often throws the girl the impression that you're just not interessed enough to pay for her and it sends you into friend territory. Just don't go on dinner dates until at least the third date. At that point you should have a good idea of your intentions toward each other and might already had sex. First dates …
/r/seduction28/09/11 05:14 AM
1

You don't ask her to call, you call. You blew it, it's probably too late now to succeed at anything with this babe.
/r/seduction28/09/11 04:56 AM
3

Just wear a tie at a club and you're already setting yourself appart from the endless tapout shirts and v-necks.
/r/seduction27/09/11 12:32 PM
1

But I'm allergic!
/r/seduction27/09/11 12:29 PM
2

Don't ask for a date on the first text. Do some chitchat and teasing, if she seems receptive, then ask her out.
/r/seduction27/09/11 12:28 PM
3

If you feel like seeing her again, you can always work it out so you pay the full bill but she's paying for the next activity. I personally pay the full bill but I never go on dinner dates on first dates. I just end up paying for one or two drinks and often she'll offer to pay the next round.
/r/seduction27/09/11 12:21 PM
1

Legal age is 18 here, I tend to forget this can be an issue! I haven't had trouble finding alcohol since I'm 16. I understood that she probably was really sick, just wanted to keep on with the playing around. Anyway, I like to come up strong with date proposals to get a good pulse of what she's thinking. I don't like wasting my time wondering. If she accepts or can't but propose another moment, she's interested. Otherwise I propose a second moment, if she still can't accept, I move on.
/r/seduction26/09/11 06:01 PM
2

I'd ask her out straight. "Do you think you'll be in enough good shape tomorrow night to have a drink with me at (insert cool calm place to have a drink and talk)? We'll go easy on the drinking part since you don't seem like you can take it much :P"
/r/seduction26/09/11 04:27 PM
2

What's up with people inviting girls in group events? Am I missing something? Wanna get to know the girl, go one one one.
/r/seduction26/09/11 05:27 AM
6

Have some respect and don't mess with someone else marriage because she seeks your cock and you're too weak to refuse. Tell her you will notlet her cheat her husband with you.
/r/seduction23/09/11 01:12 PM
2

Why not show us your profile? Ho and asking girls might not be best. There's what women think they want and what they actually seek...
/r/seduction23/09/11 01:05 PM
9

Who the fuck cares? If a girl is interested in you, she won't care that you pick her up in a shitty car or invites her to your ugly appartment. I drive a fucking buick regal and turn that to my advantage by making jokes about it.
/r/seduction23/09/11 01:03 PM
2

I wouldn't recommend trying any neg game for now. There's a slight margin between light negative comment and insultive comment. Telling her she looked alright wasn't a good one. If she came up to you, broke the touch barrier and told you you're hot, no need for neg.
/r/seduction22/09/11 06:14 PM
13

At this point you can't really go wrong. From what you've wrote, it looks like she could be waiting for it to happen. Since you'll be at a party, have a few drinks, chat, have fun with her than find some place more calm and intimist and go for it.
/r/seduction22/09/11 06:02 PM
2

It's a bad thing if you feel like having more than that with her. Go to her birthday if you feel like you're going to have fun and know some people there.
/r/seduction22/09/11 12:03 PM
22

Those 2 stats can't be linked in the way you're thinking.
/r/seduction21/09/11 05:14 PM
1

Well I'm mostly turned off by the fact that it can make a little mess. I don't mind the last few days when the period is almost over but I'll prefer to wait some days if she's starting her period. The girls I've been with weren't into it either but would compensate with BJs so I'm good with that.
/r/seduction20/09/11 04:13 PM
3

TIL some people still have sex during the woman menstruation period. Anyway, well played, though she apparently already was expecting some sexual intercourse so you pretty much could have done anything.
/r/seduction20/09/11 02:51 PM
4

You start with "it's not that I don't execute my game well" but then everything you say tells me that you don't execute it well. Since I don't know what you do between your dates with these girls and what happens during those. I can't say what's wrong. Maybe you don't escalate the attraction quickly enough. Maybe you bore them with bland texting all day long. Maybe you just schedule your real life interactions too far apart...
/r/seduction20/09/11 04:12 AM
1

Talk to anyone, including guys. That way you look like a social and fun person that's not just trying to hit on girls. Let's say you introduce yourself to a guy before class. The girls nearby will notice it and listen to you two converse. Then just look at them and ask their names, etc... "Nice to meet you Gertrude, here's Randomguy, a really good buddy of mine, hahaha" Just make jokes and small talk. Nobody knows nobody. Next thing you know you're having lunch with Gertrude, another girl and ra…
/r/seduction20/09/11 04:03 AM
0

Well it's not like men are the only one to use it. I personally don't like refering to numbers. I don't like dumbing down my tastes in women. Anyway all we see here is HB from 7 to 9 with the occasionnal 10. All that means is that guys here hit on girls they find attractive. Why seriously hit on a girl you personally would only rate 6?
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:51 AM
1

Do you seriously think any seduction has to follow everything taught here? All those game things are there to improve your success rate, that doesn't mean nothing can work without playing. You've got a number, use it, ask her on a date and be less casual. What do you lose by trying?
/r/seduction19/09/11 09:04 PM
1

From my experience going out with girl friends and looking at guys hitting on them. The ones that just come behind and start dancing get rejected all the time. At least introduce yourself and showoff that you're a fun and not creepy guy. Change your mindset of going to dance parties/clubs to meet good girls. Just meet girls, get numbers and figure out afterward if they're girlfriend potential.
/r/seduction19/09/11 12:28 PM
4

I've been with a Lebanese girl and wasn't different than with any other girl. Sex came up quickly too. I think it's just a matter of how religious the person is, no matter which religion. I've been with way more sex-shy christian girls.
/r/seduction19/09/11 12:14 PM
1

In that case it's totally okay to tell her what kind of place you'd like to take her to and if she knows somewhere nice like this. Another good place to find answers is on that particular city subreddit. Even though it's been almost a year I've been here, I've recently asked r/montreal for good places to bring a first date (since I was always going to the same places) and I've got lots of good suggestions.
/r/seduction18/09/11 01:53 PM
2

Boyfriend or not, I think you did great. Hitting on bartenders is hard since they are constantly sought and will often reject flirts instantly.
/r/seduction16/09/11 06:52 PM
1

She's throwing you the ball, don't screw it up by inviting her to join you and your friends or by letting her organize something. You need to ask her out, for a one on one date to have a drink and hang out.
/r/seduction16/09/11 04:14 AM
2

Maybe because your affirmation doesn't apply to most encounters? To me it doesn't even make sense.
/r/seduction15/09/11 10:14 PM
1

and tells me that M loves me. I read that and thought about how highschoolers are cute! When older and experienced, the word love is some serious shit! Anyway, no need to overthink anything, she's interested in you, just ask her out and see what happens.
/r/seduction15/09/11 03:07 PM
1

I don't see this as trolling. I like this forum, I like to answer if I feel like I can add something even though I'm far from an expert in seduction. However, I think this app is ridiculously matcho. I just like to imagine a girl looking up your phone asking what's this app and you answering: "Well that's where I rated you and multiple girls on a scale of ten and wrote long reports on you and our dates"
/r/seduction15/09/11 01:55 PM
-4

Looks like the ultimate douchebag app.
/r/seduction14/09/11 05:47 PM
2

The only times I tried something similar was with girls I don't know who sent me friend request and it didn't work. "heum hi, I don't think we know each other but you sent me a friend request, I usually don't accept but I thought you were cute so why not! So, who are you Gertrude?" Nope, never worked. They probably thought I was someone else.
/r/seduction13/09/11 10:47 PM
2

She's interested into you, don't invite her to a group thing, she wants to hang with you, not the others. Invite her on a date and be clear about it. "Hey it was nice to meet you after such a while, we should grab a drink tomorrow night"
/r/seduction13/09/11 06:44 PM
1

I consider myself skinny and have never felt like it was an issue, but compared to you I guess I'm not that skinny. I'm 23 years old, 5'10 and 145lbs. Girls like guys that make them feel safe, maybe a remnant from the old ages where guys had to hunt for food and protect their home. If your body doesn't show much strong features, make it up with a confident attitude.
/r/seduction13/09/11 01:30 AM
-5

Hope this works for you but as far as I know, once in the friendzone, you can't come back.
/r/seduction13/09/11 01:21 AM
1

French canadian dating website kinda like OKC I guess. Never tried OKC, I don't think there's many people using it here in Quebec.
/r/seduction12/09/11 08:46 PM
1

Nope, not motivated to go out, but I feel like playing some hockey now.
/r/seduction12/09/11 08:36 PM
1

I like to joke about this with her, I don't see where the problem is. I was talking online with a HB8 and asked for her facebook name or number. She gave me her number so I texted her: "I was kinda hoping for your full name so I could stalk your facebook profile", she laughed, gave me her name and accepted my friend request. Of course she also went through my whole profile so guys, make sure to make your facebook profiles not too embarassing.
/r/seduction12/09/11 08:02 PM
1

I never go to a restaurant on the first date. I like to pay on the first date so grabing a coffee or a drink is cool but a whole meal can be expensive and leave a bitter taste if she wasn't interesting. You're also stuck there if she does not interest you and the atmosphere can get weird if there's no connection while it's lighter in bars and coffee shops. Like reluctantmessiah said, having a drink is shorter and let's you hop from place to place. I like to grab a drink than go take a walk some …
/r/seduction12/09/11 07:57 PM
2

Not much to say, seems like you handled this like a champ. You weren't interested in dancing with both HB8 and HA8? Could have been a fun threesome on the dancefloor.
/r/seduction12/09/11 07:39 PM
0

Depends on your age and the severity of it. Severe acne will have more impact on a 21 years old than a 15 years old.
/r/seduction12/09/11 07:32 PM
2

I usually ask for a real life meetup quickly and it works most of the time. The biggest problem I've faced is incompatible schedules. After a few failed tries at finding a spot in her agenda, I just get bored with her and move on. As for those who are resistant, they seem to concist of girls I'm not that interested in anyway. I'm searching for a not complicated and fun girl to hook up with. If she's playing hard to get she's neither of this and I won't try much to convince her. What works for me…
/r/seduction12/09/11 12:08 PM
3

Then fuck off she's taken. I don't care if the guy's an asshole. Trying to steal a girlfriend is being a bigger asshole.
/r/seduction12/09/11 02:47 AM
1

Is there any way to ice this dude and get the girl? Which girl? HB9 or 7?
/r/seduction11/09/11 10:24 PM
2

Bros before hoes only work when both guys follow this code. Otherwise you're just being fucked by an egotistical friend, ditch him, he's not your friend.
/r/seduction11/09/11 04:53 PM
2

Well put sir, well put.
/r/seduction10/09/11 05:03 PM
2

I don't really care too much about what I'm wearing. As long as it's clean and fit together. I usually avoid t-shirts though.
/r/seduction10/09/11 04:04 PM
19

So I was out in a high end club in the city for Fashion Week last night. You've got your problem here, people in the fashion domain can be really bitchy and snob.
/r/seduction10/09/11 04:02 PM
1

I like the advices we can get here, but these complete tactics look ridiculous to me. Good thing if it works for some, I don't feel like checking a list of steps when hitting on girls. Maybe my success rate would be higher with this but I really don't care.
/r/seduction09/09/11 10:51 PM
2

I don't care if you live at your parents' house, you need to bring in girls for f-closing!
/r/seduction09/09/11 07:11 PM
3

Don't over-analyse your game. She sends really mixed signals, once you've touched each other like that, I don't think there has to be a magic way to lean for a kiss. It should have worked... Seems like that girl has issues. At that point I'd confront her by asking about those mixed signals she sends you and what you should expect from her. If she can't give you a clear answer, move on to other things.
/r/seduction09/09/11 05:26 PM
2

This seems like the worst idea ever. Either lie about the game and rearrange a date at another time, or fuck that stupid football game to focus your full attention on HB9. Dividing your attention between both will only result in missing out on the enjoyment of the game and losing any chance with the girl. Even if she's into football, you just send the vibe that you don't care about her. That's not DHV, that's looking like a tool.
/r/seduction09/09/11 04:55 PM
-8

TIL some guys are routed like machines when approaching girls. Relax and fucking have fun.
/r/seduction09/09/11 04:48 PM
1

This conversation is so weird right from the start I think you stopped caring before it even started. edit:typo
/r/seduction09/09/11 11:40 AM
1

I didn't know that show so I checked a little what it is. It's a show featuring really good looking, really superficial and cocky guys. Not sure you want those guys as the perfect example. You can be an alpha male without resorting to all this douchebaggery. I've only watched the first show and the guys weren't even that good at it. They're just confident and don't care if they get rejected, which is primordial cause you don't wanna let this affect you. Every guys get turned down. As for getting…
/r/seduction09/09/11 02:17 AM
3

I'm no expert in cold approaches but wouldn't it be better to try to #-close faster? Your approach was already good and you made them laugh, no need to continue with the sometimes cheezy jokes. If your goal was to get rid of your shyness, good. If your goal was to get dates, you're on the right path.
/r/seduction08/09/11 05:58 PM
10

Ho man I'd like it so much to make friends from Pluto.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:46 PM
2

Girls wanna be loved... but if you go too fast, younre just scaring them. Putting on a façade at first is not about showing a different you but the best you in terms of seduction potential.
/r/seduction08/09/11 10:59 AM
3

I was about to say that I'm only putting on a façade on the first date to make a good impression and then show the true me after they've been "hooked". But, yeah, it's kinda sad to say but if you're an intense and quick lover. Keeping that down is better for you. However, this is just one feature of your whole personality. Just be yourself and try to slow down that one aspect about you.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:29 AM
6

It's gonna sound superficial but then, hitting on people in bars is pretty superficial so I'll ask: Are you good looking? A good looking girl without game wouldn't have any problem alone in a bar. A good looking guy without game would still look awkward alone in a bar.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:23 AM
1

So I need to look them in the eyes... Wow thanks champs for that revelation.
/r/seduction07/09/11 10:09 PM
3

Wait what?
/r/seduction07/09/11 10:01 PM
2

Okay, I've checked everywhere and didn't find what AFC stands for! (New to Seduction). So what does AFC means? Other used acronyms I should know here?
/r/seduction07/09/11 05:32 PM
1

I sure won't. She invited me at her place friday night and it's pretty clear that it's going to get more physical.
/r/seduction07/09/11 05:27 PM
-2

She just look like a bitch who like to toy with guys­. She likes the attention but don't want to commit to anything. Don't put up with this, she's trouble. Ho and dating in a nightclub is a bad idea, especially on a first date. The only times I went to a club on a date was with girls I knew were into me so I knew it was going to be hot on the dancefloor.
/r/seduction07/09/11 03:51 PM
1

Even down to earth and calm girls need to feel desired in order to open up to you. You can't really make friends with girls and than expect for more. That's not how it works, once you're in the friend zone, you don't go further. If you want girl friends, meet girls and be the nice guy. If you want a relationship, be more agressive and make her feel desirable. Don't mix the two.
/r/seduction07/09/11 03:18 PM
1

Even if she looked receptive to your kisses, maybe it went too fast for her and scared her off. Maybe that second makeout session was too much. My guess is buyer's remorse.
/r/seduction07/09/11 03:11 PM
3

One day everything changes. She becomes vague, starts bailing on me, and tells me she wants to "slow things down." As soon as I read that I knew there was another guy around. We all have a subconscious ordered list of relationship/dating potential. Number one usually gets all the attention and you got bumped to second place. As long as he's around, there's not much you can do. Propose her an ultimatum, if she prefers to stay with the ex, move on to other girls.
/r/seduction07/09/11 03:04 PM
1

You should have asked for a date sooner and not on a saturday. You need to book a date quick.
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:58 PM
1

Most probable scenario. You are already friend zoned, she'll never see you as a potential love interest, just the sweet guy she'll confess to about her douchy boyfriend.
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:54 PM
2

Women want what other women want. I'm pretty sure that if you appear to be a coveted guy, it'll make you more attractive, even if the girls who flirt with you aren't that attractive. There's girls around you and you choose to give that girl all your attention, she'll notice it and probably will be flattered.
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:51 PM
1

Girls made the first moves, you should be glad of that cause don't normally do! But you blew it off by not taking control once they approached you. You were too casual with HB7, you should have asked her number, proposed a real date alone with her somewhere instead of just hanging out with a bunch of people. You should have talked more with HB8 and asked for a number. She was in the mood to party, why didn't you party with her?
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:41 PM
1

What would you lose if you tried and it failed? Nothing. I think that answers your question.
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:34 PM
1

Why is this such a big deal. It's just facebook. Some people put way too much importance into this shit. I maintain my number of friends around 200 and think it's still too much. When I decide to cut off a few people I don't or won't interact with, girls I've dated are often the first one to go.
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:32 PM
3

This shouldn't even be a question. Every possible way to ask a number is good, I have yet to ask for a number and get any hesitation. If you've been talking a little and she looks interested, just ask, there's no reason for her to refuse. And if she does refuse or hesitate, is it worth trying to charm her anyway? People make up their mind about someone in the first minute after they met.
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:25 PM
2

I'm not much of a texter so I don't think any girl would think I text too much. The girl I'm currently seeing likes to text throughout the day and I think it's find but most of the time she initiates the conversations. It's hard to put a number on how many is too much. There's so much variables. It depends on the situation. When she came to my place the other day, she went the wrong direction when leaving the subway station, so we texted so I could give her directions... It's so counter-producti…
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:19 PM
4

My guess is that this wouldn't have happened if you had stayed out of her bed. I personally don't have any intercourse on first dates cause it seems to only complicate things and if it has to happen, it can wait to a further date when you have established that you're really interested into each other (considering you're looking for a relationship). Now she thinks that if she doesn't throw herself at you sexually, you will not want her and that kinda scares her. If you're really into her, I'd try…
/r/seduction07/09/11 01:44 AM
1

Hard to tell since I don't know at which point you are with her. (After 3 weeks I hope you have seen some action otherwise you might have been friend zoned) I'd say, buy her a small and funny gift that relates to a discussion you've had with her. Let's say she mentionned she'd like to have a Schnauzer for a futur pet. You could find her a stuffed schnauzer.
/r/seduction06/09/11 10:10 PM
1

What you describe look like you actually care cause guys wear exactly that in clubs nowadays. I usually go with a buttoned shirt and tie. It makes me standout and look more classy than all these douchebags with tapout v-necks. The tie is also a good opener with the ladies.
/r/seduction06/09/11 10:06 PM
1

You can't do much but to listen to your guts and chose the one that make your heart pump faster. Which one do you think you'll be able to keep the passion for the longest?
/r/seduction06/09/11 09:02 PM
3

I've dated a lot online and lose lots of interest in girls who are too conservative in that sense. The ones who are too cautious and wanna take their time to meetup are a massive pain in the ass. Some of the most interesting dates I've had we're after 2 or 3 messages when I said something like: "Hey let's be spontaneous and grab a drink tonight".
/r/seduction06/09/11 08:56 PM
4

I have to tell how I leaned for a first kiss with a girl just last night. It was our second date and we watched a movie, I've had my arm around her the whole movie so I was pretty sure I had the green light. After the movie, we were just talking while she was playing with my 3 months old kitty. I said something along the lines of: "now I'm kinda jealous cause Peter gets way more attention than me", looked her in the eyes and leaned for a kiss. I can't believe how fucking cheezy that was. TL:DR H…
/r/seduction06/09/11 08:36 PM
1

At this moment you have a really open field and not much stuff you can trip on. Don't overthink and run man! The simple fact that she wrote back is promising. Girls usually give their number to guys, not the other way, if she wrote you, there's no doubt she's at least interested in knowing you. Exchange a few casual messages with her, make sure to subtly let her know you're not a player who gives his number left and right, and ask her out, no need the send texts for days, arrange a date for no m…
/r/seduction06/09/11 08:29 PM
2

From what I'm reading. This story seems to feature two really shy and clueless about dating persons. One of the two need to man-up and fucking call the other, no texts, fucking call him and ask him out. If he is interested, you'll have a date (yay!), if he's not interested, he'll find an excuse to not accept and you'll be set on that matter and will be able to move on.
/r/seduction06/09/11 08:18 PM
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