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Aaa that explains! I was confused. I totally agree with you, it's also near to impossible to talk to people in clubs making it very different. Anyways nice FR, thanks for the clarification!
/r/seduction02/01/12 06:57 PM
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You where in a club with bedrooms?
/r/seduction02/01/12 05:19 PM
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I wanted to give you advice here, seeing I am experiencing many of these things myself at times (just in my first job). But I can't seem to formulate something good. Just know that you are not alone out there. Maybe focus personally on one small thing, like going to a sport once a week, or waking up early that day and slowly work your way to achieving a small bit of your life that you want to improve. Ex. for me: making a small schedule of things to do each day and going to the climbing gym twic…
/r/seduction14/11/11 09:38 PM
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I might be interested :)
/r/seduction04/11/11 07:24 AM
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I think it's actually an older repost, but seeing I live in Amsterdam it also grabbed my attention. Love the Shakespeare quote though, a lot of truth there.
/r/seduction28/08/11 09:34 PM
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Nicely done! I've also just moved to Amsterdam and actually used CS to get to know some people here. Didn't get around yet to attend one of the big saturday meetups though. And as for using CS for pickup, I'm just using it to get to know people in this town, the rest is extra.
/r/seduction26/07/11 09:24 PM
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Thanks, this is just what I needed to read right now.
/r/seduction18/05/11 06:37 PM
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Vanaf 1 Juni begin ik met een nieuwe baan in Amsterdam en ben ik ook wel voor een biertje te vangen! Misschien een keertje kroegentocht zodat ik direct het Amsterdamse uitgaansleven wat kan leren kennen? ;-)
/r/seduction15/05/11 03:13 PM
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Good work on overcoming the AA! I'm curious if you managed to do a succesful followup?
/r/seduction15/05/11 03:01 PM
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For some more dancing inspiration: This resembles one of the clips posted by the OP: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JqYhuwu614Y
/r/seduction28/03/11 08:27 PM
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Hookahs? Do you by any chance live in India? :) It is fun to see the other perspective once.
/r/seduction28/03/11 02:19 PM
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Seeing I listened to one of your podcasts here on seddit thrice, you might just be the person to ask a question I've been thinking about for a bit: I just returned from a 5 month trip to India (very nice DHV) and learned something about myself in interaction with the Indian girls: most girls crush on me for a while and I'm considered sweet and cute by most. However, all tend to fall for more "asshole" like guys, telling me in detail about these bad experiences. In my home country I have a very l…
/r/seduction22/02/11 03:41 PM
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The OP described the application of pickup to a more normal "dating" situation. I found it a very nice read, different from the "I went out, dominated as an alpha and are fucking unshakable" post that also are posted here. Darwin might have had a thing to do with starting the situation, but conscious behavior by the OP got him into that sex marathon.
/r/seduction20/02/11 11:52 AM
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Very nice FR and congrats!
/r/seduction05/02/11 01:17 PM
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While he is hitting on the other girl? That would not be very convincing would it?
/r/seduction02/01/11 04:16 AM
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David Wygant offers some excellent advice for this. Just listen to this. Just observe (like you did already), say something and then take it from there. Get her talking about her favourite coffee/coffee place/music. Just listen to David, he explains it much better then me.
/r/seduction17/11/10 06:54 AM
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I had the exact same conversation a day ago with two female acquaintances of mine. They just could not believe that I have not had any serious relationships yet. My problem is confidence and op top of that when a girl is attracted to me in a club I always run some kind of mental bump and fail to push it further. (Ex. when a girl dances into me, I find it very hard to transition into dancing/speaking with her, even when I clearly notice attraction) It is frustrating, but talking about it helps an…
/r/seduction08/11/10 06:05 PM
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I'm too tired to reply to all your questions, so I'll stick to one: Why is "LJBF" so undesirable? I mean, it's great making new friends, isn't it? I have had a lot of "LJBF", some of which are great because they turned into some of my closest friends. BUT: I also end up in LBJF situations with girls that I personally would like to have a different relationship with and I never lay this out on the table, resulting in a LJBF situation that sucks. This means I have some female friends that consider…
/r/seduction06/11/10 01:08 PM
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Mumbai
/r/seduction31/10/10 10:55 AM
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Damm that security for screwing up your game! Nicely done though, social proof can be very strong.
/r/seduction24/10/10 06:51 PM
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I'll join for the beginner challenge, which is a bit upgraded because I'll be doing it in India and I do not yet know the culture very well. And I can be a real screw up on approaching... I'll let you know how things went.
/r/seduction27/09/10 05:22 PM
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Heh? So far for the challenge. The challenge just began! Nine more to go. Just try to slip the second sentence in next time, you'll notice that it will become easier.
/r/seduction27/09/10 05:17 PM
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It would not have worked indeed. And basically if you manage to turn this into a date, you are one lucky fellow. Maybe go for something like: "Did you manage to get into your apartment last night, or should I start a search for you?"
/r/seduction05/08/10 11:18 AM
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Totally awesome that you used an Anakin Skywalker costume to get over your approach anxiety! It's quite understandable that you didn't get past the innocent socializing, I mean you where getting used to the approaching first. Just keep approaching and start number closing slowly and you'll be just fine. And maybe I should visit our local fantasy fair next year, a female friend invited me a couple of times. I never knew that there are apparently a lot of HB's around... dammit :P
/r/seduction03/08/10 07:49 PM
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in vid 2: I actually do not agree that he's sitting confidently on the couch, he couldn't be any further away from her. Like he's scared of her or something...
/r/seduction02/08/10 08:47 PM
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the guy in video one actually says the word "posture" out loud when he notices that he hunches down in the beginning...
/r/seduction02/08/10 08:45 PM
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Agreed. She's using you as a taxidriver. I would advise against the last "weak" move. Maybe just tell her the truth and move on, if that ends it nicer for you.
/r/seduction02/08/10 07:17 PM
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Good night to you too sir!
/r/seduction02/08/10 10:57 AM
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Groningen, Netherlands, 1 k-close, 0 f-close but it's not fair to exclude me from sarging because of that :P
/r/seduction31/07/10 08:35 AM
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She did actually say sorry for replying so late, so your onto something there. She will be around my parents place next week, so I might put in something like "if you really would like to meet, we could hang out there" although that would be pushing it quite hard. Could even invite her for a boat trip, although that could drive us both mad if we don't match while being sober :P
/r/seduction29/07/10 05:19 PM
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Lol epic dance man! There actually somebody who made a flash app so you can learn it
/r/seduction29/07/10 04:18 PM
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I'm curious to the advice given here. I kiss closed a girl two weeks ago who is following this exact pastern, waiting really long with even replying to make a plan for a follow up and then after agreeing we should do something she message's me the first time she's available is in 10 (!) days... So can't offer you any advice, but I feel your pain ;-)
/r/seduction29/07/10 04:10 PM
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For the inventing a story: it isn't lame, we live in a very macho like society on that part and it's hard for most of the guys. In the end your friends will still respect you for being able to open up a lot of sets and getting numbers (a lot of guys have serious troubles with this and envy people who can). Good luck on getting past your barriers, it isn't easy, but sure as hell it is fulfilling. On second thought: you reap numbers at parties, but what do you do with them?
/r/seduction28/07/10 12:28 PM
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I do not agree with you. I did not say to admit it to every guy or girl. Your best friends should be able to keep it to themselves, although an occasional joke will not be spared I guess ;-) Next to that: you seriously think that you can keep bluffing with a girl when you are in a bed with her? And on second thought why do you want to? I can assure you she's isn't gonna leave. If you are afraid of that just be sure to go kinky and tie her up first.
/r/seduction28/07/10 12:27 PM
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You hero, you almost bailed, but in the end didn't. Keep it up! And not thinking is the key, but to think on that, I never stop thinking. FML.
/r/seduction27/07/10 07:22 PM
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tl;dr I was a cool dude, but reading the material made me a brave cool dude. I've had my first kiss two weeks ago, yet have to get laid. I think practising kino and being a bit lucky is key. I can relate to this story a lot. Basically I have been a 'cool' guy for a few years now. My (female) room mates think so, my friends think so and some of my best friends who know that I'm still a virgin regularly say that they do not understand why. I get the struggle of people thinking you are experienced …
/r/seduction27/07/10 07:17 PM
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First: good thing of going out and putting yourself out there. But: So you where on a lust-fueled and alcohol grinding quest? That is not the game... The game is to approach woman and to approach them in a way that they will see you as a cool guy. Which will not happen if you just touch their ass without having talked to them first. Also the fact that you want to loose your virginity within two months turns you into a instant AFC. Approaching sets is done by using (preferably) a smart and nice o…
/r/seduction26/07/10 06:13 PM
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You are one of the most dedicated people to getting down in the game fast. For me it's practice every Saturday, but darn you go out four nights a week? Also good work on finally building some attraction! I'm in the same stage of the game where you are, I can open pretty well and directed at the situations (you do however open much, much more then me). The building attraction part is quite hard and you have to be a bit lucky to run into the right person :) [maybe the pro's can even do it without …
/r/seduction25/07/10 11:45 AM
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I accidentally just ran into these: 101 partytips they might help with getting into the mindset. Few tips I enjoyed: 8: No act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted. And no act of partying, however soft, is ever wasted. 10: A great person is one who makes others feel great. Make someone feel great right tonight! 53: Party puzzle: what if you sold your soul... to get into heaven? 57: Don't take things too seriously. Life is absurd.
/r/seduction24/07/10 05:31 PM
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First congrats on taking a HB8 swimming, I don't think there are much better things to do on this planet. O wait, except maybe having rough sex with a HB8. Ohhhh...
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:23 PM
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Dude awesomeness! Very nice negs, I need to try this once! Overall really good game, don't think you could've done much better (next time make sure to hit on a single girl :P).
/r/seduction22/07/10 05:52 PM
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Your mindset is something else then a unwavering belief in yourself. You have belief: in your fitness, attractiveness and higher value. Setting a mindset to capitalize on this is different though. If you are out stop focussing on talking to one or two sets, or waiting for them to approach you. Open up a whole bunch of them. Just use simple openers, like: nice shirt, nice shoes or if you make some eye contact somewhere "hey my name is ...". This will create a mindset in which you can make contact…
/r/seduction21/07/10 01:26 PM
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She added me, but did not react to my simple opening question: "have you recovered from the night out?" So now after two days I made a move on her wall, based on her pictures and profile (she ice skates and has a racebike). I have a mountainbike, so I posted "how fast can you bike?" depending on the reply I'll invite her to go with me on one of my regular rides (which is like one hour only). I'll try to get her number for the arrangements. Should prove fast enough if there is something to build …
/r/seduction21/07/10 01:16 PM
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I felt the same way the first time I entered the seduction reddit. It makes these kind of stories shorter though. Just check the right side of seddit and you'll find a list with explanations of the most used terms. HB1-10 = Hot Blonde. Where 10 is hottest alive. I even use this frequently amongst friends now, it's easy ;-)
/r/seduction21/07/10 01:12 PM
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this might be interesting for you: http://www.entropypua.com/blog/guide-to-your-pua-development.
/r/seduction19/07/10 11:29 PM
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Thanks for sharing! That's definitely one good blog. The article on online game is excellent.
/r/seduction19/07/10 11:25 PM
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A foursome with a lesbian couple? Damm I have a long way to go before fulfilling my new life biggest dream now.
/r/seduction19/07/10 11:17 PM
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You can only be honest, otherwise all will fail in the end. The question is to be honest upfront (in a call/or text) or to arrange a meet first and then be honest. With a solid, funny text you might still get that meeting and take the age out of the equation. If I think up something good I'll post it here.
/r/seduction18/07/10 04:29 PM
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No problem. You actually helped me by using the word encouragement. Wanted to use that in my other post but couldn't figure out the right word all day. That is what Seddit does for me, encourage me to step up in the game. And good luck tomorrow!
/r/seduction18/07/10 04:25 PM
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Don't be, outclass me next time you go out :P
/r/seduction18/07/10 04:21 PM
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Yeah I considered the same thing. She gave me her last name, so she shouldn't mind. She didn't add me yet (how long can you take? :P), so if nothing changes I'll add her tomorrow. I didn't get her number, yesterday I didn't think it would be necessary. Although a more "reliable" way of contacting her would've been nice right now.
/r/seduction18/07/10 04:21 PM
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I'm afraid she wasn't my wingwoman, she was the wingwoman of the HB7. Going out with one myself would be an experience. Too bad my roommate (HB8) just got a boyfriend seeing I know her and her girlfriends where doing some "boyfriend score competition" and they where also reading the game.
/r/seduction18/07/10 04:19 PM
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I'll be reading this one. It will be interesting to consider the "best" opener next time :) The screening opener is something I never considered, but could be very usefull. Thanks!
/r/seduction18/07/10 04:16 PM
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that was my comment...
/r/seduction18/07/10 12:02 PM
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You tell her you do not accept that kind of money for a fun night at your place. You are however willing to reach for middle ground and to prevent a fight by spending this money on a dinner for two.
/r/seduction18/07/10 12:00 PM
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Good work on the opening! Especially in a restaurants, which is quite a difficult place to do this. The fact that you afterwards already thought up things to do better means you can only improve next time! One thing I suggest: Just go to the fireworks display with this attitude: My goal is to be able to approach any woman for the sole purpose of wanting to know her, without any superficial reason or situational excuse. Right now I can't even picture that happening. If you see an interesting girl…
/r/seduction18/07/10 11:22 AM
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At least you'll get an upvote from me ;-)
/r/seduction17/07/10 03:52 PM
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the okcupid one is a bit dead indeed.
/r/seduction17/07/10 02:22 PM
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yeah I knew I went into the wrong with that remark ;-) I'll read up on the mystery method tomorrow, thanks for the elaborate info!
/r/seduction16/07/10 08:56 PM
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Same for me, so let's keep doing it :)
/r/seduction16/07/10 08:54 PM
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How many people use your apps? This number could impress if it's high. Right now iphone's and ipads are the hottest stuff around (ok maybe not the iphone 4). I can't imagine that telling: "I have my own company that develops stuff for the iphone/ipad and I do it with awesome people" would not be qualifying for girls.
/r/seduction16/07/10 08:45 AM
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This also sounds like a developing depression to me. Go talk to a professional psychiatrist, even if your "mentally healthy" it's nice to be able to talk to somebody about this kind of stuff.
/r/seduction16/07/10 08:37 AM
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Sending a text is also an option. Although calling is braver and directly gives you feedback on what she thinks of you. Go for the call.
/r/seduction16/07/10 08:34 AM
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I liked the one from the series dexter: who always opens with: "Hey you"
/r/seduction16/07/10 07:11 AM
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There already is one: /r/OkCupid/ I sent two message's today, only 20 girls in around my city on the site. Interesting ones is even less. Think I'm shot down on one already by being a bit to eager. Will do it differently next time ;-)
/r/seduction15/07/10 03:39 PM
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Haha same problem here. But I prevailed in the end. Then used this to create a bit of a different look. Went for the lomo one. Hey rmbarnes, I see you in here regularly, what do you think of a special subreddit for discussing the whole dating site seduction thing?
/r/seduction15/07/10 01:26 PM
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"I am a compulsive writer, so the sheer idea of 'summarizing' myself in written form scares me quite a lot. " That did it for me, I'm with jah okcspecialist. Too bad not a lot of girls in the Netherlands are on this service, seeing its much better then the payed ones we have...
/r/seduction15/07/10 12:13 PM
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So you feel good about yourself now? I'm still part AFC and I'm sure as hell not going out of your way now! ;P
/r/seduction15/07/10 12:02 PM
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You are bringing up an interesting topic. I browsed some Dutch dating sites on a friends paid account, in my experience a lot of HB<5 on there, although there are of course the exceptions. Do you really browse the results for the higher HB's? This actually is a really interesting platform to consider, seeing I do not meet a lot of women right now due to "working in IT". You might have got me hooked on a new hobby ;-)
/r/seduction13/07/10 08:36 PM
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Yeah dude, open door: you are new to the city, she is not. So what do you do: you ask her to show you around.
/r/seduction09/07/10 03:48 PM
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Congrats! And this part is excellent, too bad you forgot about it on the spot, but thanks for sharing it now: by not being able to recall either one of Mystery’s “I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now” or “Are you impulsive?” Most of the time I'm too scared to jump right in, but this is an excellent trick to get some more confirmation.
/r/seduction08/07/10 02:13 PM
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What the fuck is up with you? This absurdly cute girl at work goes telling you all kind of personal stuff, then you invite her to a science event (a science event) which she accepts. And then you come in here saying you have no value? Apparently she thinks otherwise (so do I based on this story), next to that you show willingness to change something about yourself and your current situation (something that half of our world is way too scared of to do) so your value can only become bigger. Then a…
/r/seduction08/07/10 02:03 PM
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The additions are definitely nice! These kind of conversations would be good. And playing tic tac toe in the frozen food section of my supermarket just became a life goal :P
/r/seduction06/07/10 09:19 AM
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that tic tac toe on a condensated window is awesome.
/r/seduction05/07/10 07:17 AM
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I'll be a Madrid next year, so I'm looking forward to the public transportation already!
/r/seduction04/07/10 09:12 PM
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you make a solid point, thanks!
/r/seduction04/07/10 09:11 PM
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using that thing in the train would result in an interesting conversation for sure.
/r/seduction04/07/10 09:10 PM
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No help here, although I'm really curious to the answer, because I had the exact same problem tonight: Was sitting in the train/bus with a girl I knew from sight for one hour, lot of conversation, eye contact and vibing. No kino (my weak point) and she didn't pick up on me giving her a subtle hint to come sport climbing with me once. We where talking about her needing to do a shift at a bar tonight and I was slightly hoping she might invite me (bar is really empty on sunday). In the end we just …
/r/seduction04/07/10 07:49 PM
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Yesterday I realised I have the exact same problem. All my female friends like me a lot and I'm always the nice guy, but somehow this never results in a relationship (ex. like driving a girl to an airport 2.5 hours way this afternoon, staying in a hostel and driving back tomorrow). The thing is I do not mind being good friends with women, but I always keep hoping that something might happen and in the end that leaves me disappointed. I figured out that the only solution to this problem is to mak…
/r/seduction28/06/10 08:55 AM
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Maybe he could skip the Rasengan and just skip to the sexy no Jutsu? Punkerdante: this is all a reference from the anime series Naruto and has in no way any reference to your story. Although the head character always get's blown away by Sakura, but that's another story. And the rasengan might actually work as a DHV at an anime convention...
/r/seduction28/06/10 08:44 AM
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I don't see this as a set of magic techniques, but I do see it as a way to improve my "game"" . Thinking about it and learning from others experience here on Seddit really gives me new idea's about approaching girls out in the open. Basically I'm using it to change my natural self who is a bit scared of girls into a natural self who will be able to talk to girls a bit more relaxed. This never came to me itself (or maybe more accurate: I lost it somewhere), but setting some new goals (picked up h…
/r/seduction14/06/10 06:57 PM
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Jazz.
/r/seduction13/06/10 07:49 PM
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that is a really nice book :) the lessons are fun to read. I'll try out the: "look at them as little girls in a sandbox" idea tonight :P
/r/seduction12/06/10 07:19 PM
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Yes, you'll need a partner. Another trick is to just start a beginners course on save belaying and climbing (so you won't fall down, which would be a bummer). Most of the time you should meet some people there.
/r/seduction10/06/10 02:28 PM
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But see, I really dig this girl and I'm afraid that I might come across as if I'm not interested if I didn't make the effort of picking her up Give her the choice. If she says yes, she'll need to thank you for something ;-)
/r/seduction09/06/10 08:33 PM
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with enough baby steps you'll get there too ;-)
/r/seduction07/06/10 06:09 PM
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I think flying solo will always be quite hard and a challenge, so not just poor execution on your part Got no clue, maybe just start going with a wingman and try to hang out with him less and less. But ofc this will also leave your wingman on his own... Is appearing out of place always a bad thing? Sometimes clearly being on your own get you a conversation the fastest. Although you always feel like shit standing there on your own :/
/r/seduction06/06/10 02:53 PM
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Hehe this sounds like me too. Not everybody on Seddit is a brilliant PUA I suppose. Then how to fix this: I'm not so sure. I read some PUA sites and some AMA's here, but the "how to get every beautiful lady into bed" culture just keeps putting me off the whole PUA scene. I mean the glossary of terms says a lot. One thing that I do not understand is why you end up seeming desperate. There is nothing wrong with talking to a girl you like, or having just a friendly chat. That's not being desperate,…
/r/seduction05/06/10 08:00 PM
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how didnt I think of that before?
/r/seduction05/06/10 05:02 PM
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