Ok .. internet girl, talked a bit through text, met up on a sunday for a few drinks. Things went real well, good solid making out at the end of the date, both of us seemed very interested. Sent text 30 min after date saying I had a great time, she responded saying the same and that she cant' wait to see me again.
Monday I ask when she's free, she says she's busy monday and tuesday, but maybe wednesday .. I said I'd get a hold of her.
Wednesday I call, no answer, she texts back saying she's at work, what's up? I ask if she's still up for getting coffee today. several hours later she says it's been a crazy and we should try again this weekend and she's sorry. I say no problem I'll talk to her this weekend
Saturday I text her around 10am, hear nothing back
Monday I text her around 3pm asking how her weekend went, nothing.
I'm thinking about calling friday and see what happens, if I get nothing I'm seeing it as dead and moving on. Other important things to note, she's in law school, being busy is likely a legit excuse. She seemed really excited to see me again and we had a lot in common, so I don't think that was a misread (and if it was she probably wouldn't have responded later that night). Saturday was a 10am because I bartend at 4:30 so I wanted time to actually do something and she said she typically wakes up at 8am daily, even on the weekends, so I wasn't expecting to wake her or catch her off guard at 10am.
Thoughts? How to proceed, what to say, things I could have done better, move on ...
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