Relationships are about two things, chemistry and timing ... and timing is a bitch.

We all have them, ups and downs, feast and famine, some days you're on top of the world and every person you talk to is like putty in your hand, and two days later you can't even get the checkout lady to smile.

This is just a reminder that nothing here is magic and relationships, like tango, take two participants. Frustration can kill your mood, don't let it! Maybe they had a really bad day at work, maybe they found out two days ago that their childhood dog died ... maybe they just feel ugly or fat because they couldn't get their make up to look good or shirt to fit right. Maybe the last 40 people you've talked to are all having bad hair days. Crazier things have happened and we've all been there.

There's literally hundreds of things that can make people feel off, or put them in the mood where they don't want to talk or meet new people. It's rarely personal, and when it is, there's nothing wrong with that. Everyone is not made to get along with everyone else. The underlying reason we're all here to be happy with our lives and find great people to share that with. If you're in a rough patch now, or you find yourself in one a few months from now, just remember that nothing you do can change the timing.