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our philosophy of you might as well always try? Assume attraction? That doesn't give you the right to bother people. There are still wrong times, it's subjective because some girls at the gym are there to get attention and would be up for being picked up, they're just in the minority. If you saw a hot female firefighter in the middle of putting out a fire, would you walk up to her as she's opening a hydrant and hit on her? I'd hope not, it's the wrong time to do so. This is the same concept. It'…
/r/seduction17/01/13 02:08 PM
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It creates a negative atmosphere because the girl feels bothered, discourages future attempts when approaches fail dramatically faster than usual, it's inconsiderate to the girls, it teaches bad habits because even the right approach won't work if the girl just wants to run 3 miles without being bothered, etc.
/r/seduction16/01/13 06:40 PM
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Based on your replies, you need to work on being a better person before you come back. Pick up and seduction is about confidence, communication and mutual enjoyment. A primary tenant is to leave the girl better than when you found her. You're not capable of that right now and it would serve you better in pick up and in life to discover why that is, and fix it first.
/r/seduction10/01/13 11:25 PM
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If you don't care about any woman, why the hell do you have anxiety about approaching them?
/r/seduction10/01/13 04:18 PM
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Let me start by saying, this girl is fucking crazy. She's materialistic She knows she has issues She's somehwat "proud" of them This girl isn't in fact "proud" of her upbringing I want a 2nd date. WTF? This... this is why crazy girls continue to be crazy, because people allow them to get away with it. Hell, the fact you said 'want' instead of 'would be willing to have' gives me the impression you're almost rewarding her for acting like she does. Pussy on a pedestal, man.
/r/seduction10/01/13 04:16 PM
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Kissing a girl and kiss-closing a girl are not remotely the same. I think it would be more beneficial to the community to explain this difference. Making out with a drunk girl by the bar is different than closing out a date with a good night kiss. I do feel kino is useful because it is supposed to combine rapport and attraction into one thing. Touching doesn't begin to capture what kino is. Dead on. Kino and 'touching' aren't even remotely the same. It's like asking a surfer why they don't move …
/r/seduction21/12/12 01:51 PM
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You know what? A complete organized free step-by-step course covering everything that needs to be known might just be what is needed for is precisely what many people want to learn from this community. Thank you. FTFY, and 100% agree. In the same regard, and mildly reiterating from the post, inner game is very important, but we could definitely benefit from a mild shift in this community's content ratio.
/r/seduction18/09/12 06:10 PM
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OP, there's a lot of great advice here, but I'll add two little things that may guide your approach rather than just give advice. 1) As I stated, there's a lot of really good advice written directly to you in this thread. There's some less helpful stuff too, but most of that is buried at the bottom. The thing about it is that your responses are almost entirely to people who you're disagreeing with and almost trying to put up a fight. You're coming across as saying 'I've never tried any of this, …
/r/seduction05/09/12 05:06 PM
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That it'll change me.
/r/seduction17/08/12 05:23 PM
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Exactly. And if you had anxiety about brushing your teeth for 24 years, you'd probably appreciate some daily encouragement and practice until you were comfortable.
/r/seduction06/06/12 05:41 PM
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I agree with everything you have here ... but I think it's important to remember that reminders are nice. You took the approach as don't do things, just tell yourself these things. I don't think that was it. Just like the right music can put you in the right mind set for a night out, things like this can help put you in the right mind set to take on the world. If you're already awesome, it's still nice to hear it. And if you're not, we all know that faking it is the first step to being it. It's …
/r/seduction06/06/12 04:23 PM
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ya gotta creep ... creep.
/r/seduction03/02/12 08:45 PM
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I've done this, a few times. I'm a really bad dancer and it still works. Eye contact is key, approach from the front. Basically give her the impression that saying no to a dancing is not an option. Funny enough, doesn't work well in dance clubs. In bars and pubs though, every time..
/r/seduction03/02/12 08:44 PM
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If you 'tsst' a girl at a bar for misbehaving ... I'll buy you a mighty fine drink.
/r/seduction19/01/12 07:07 PM
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One of my buddies carries around those candy cigarettes to offer to girls when there's a break in conversation. Similar prop usage, good stuff.
/r/seduction19/01/12 04:44 PM
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If it makes you feel good, does it matter if it's bullshit?
/r/seduction19/01/12 04:39 PM
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Fake it till you make it. Best advice I found in here. However, I think a key is how to fake it. Here are three things that have worked me, and still do. 1) Stories. Do things, take adventures and use the motto, when in doubt, do it for the story. When you do something fun, remember it. Think about it later, even retell yourself the story while you're in the shower, or in the morning while you're waking up. Be careful though, if this is all you do, then it'll seem like all you do is talk about y…
/r/seduction17/01/12 06:17 PM
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Good read. That damn pedestal keeps getting higher.
/r/seduction30/11/11 05:31 PM
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Right on. Like I said everything is situational. There are a lot of pieces of typical advice here that I simply can't pull off. My appearance, size and general disposition won't work with it. Like the one guy asked about being a large black guy and if you're automatically creepy. That obviously stems from trying something he thinks should work and instantly turning off a girl simply because of who he is. But great response. People really are clueless sometimes. I love at the beginning of the gam…
/r/seduction16/11/11 09:00 PM
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The thing I keep in my mind with questions like this it's the phrasing of the question. In this case, they're directly asking how to not seem creepy. The first thing a girl is going to do is think of a situation where a guy was creepy, describe it, and say don't do that. In the case with the arm over the shoulder on the bus, she admitted they had talked before, a few times, just not at great length. So, an aggressive kino like that was simply escalating too fast. But she's not going to say don't…
/r/seduction16/11/11 08:04 PM
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Yeah, I'm hoping the spartan thing goes well. Since I'm going to be half naked all night running around at friend's parties and the halloween ball, the only way to do it is to own it. I'm excited for it. I'm definitely going to check out Branson's stuff, thanks for the resource. And I think you're right, if I want the high standards, I have to prove I deserve it. I already know that I do, but I need to start acting like it.
/r/seduction28/10/11 11:36 AM
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Um, wow ... you totally just described me, as of late. I never really thought of it in quite that way, but this ... I then turned around and tried to step up my game, approach more women, that was when I realized just how weak my game is. ... really hit home. I've definitely let my recent failures slow me down. Now that I look at it, I'm making AFC excuses for why I'm not getting what I want. Just sitting and waiting, like it's going to happen on it's own or something. Thank you for this .. I fe…
/r/seduction28/10/11 11:33 AM
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Also realize that you're not that important and people are not actively paying attention to your behavior Took me way too long to get this, definitely an 'ah-ha' moment.
/r/seduction27/10/11 07:29 PM
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Hey, first, as a moderately active user and heavy lurker I just want to say thank you. You're active, knowledgeable, willing to help and (obviously) a moderator. From myself as well as the thousands of people your advice has helped make a better life for, you're awesome. If I ever meet you, your beers are on me. Alright, enough kissing up, my question. How do I figure out what I'm missing? I know, vague. Here's what I'm running into. I practice, have a light heart about failures, but also don't …
/r/seduction27/10/11 07:27 PM
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Nothing wrong with riding the red wings ... just don't dive in for dinner.
/r/seduction08/04/11 02:56 PM
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I agree, your results are positive in that regard ... but it's only been a week and this isn't a vacuum experiment, other things will be affected by not this decision as well. The human body is a very complex mix of chemicals and electrical impulses after all. I agree with Mattius, find a healthy middle ground.
/r/seduction22/03/11 05:18 PM
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If you've ever been smashing and the girl had to stop for a few seconds every now and then because it was just too much - this is because her brain won't let her feel that much pleasure because she will want you too badly next time. Really? I'm not sure I buy into this, but I hope you're right.
/r/seduction22/03/11 05:14 PM
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I posted a reply above to a question about how many squats one should do. I figured I'd reply to let you know is there since it may be useful to you if you just started and since it's your posting. Solid OP by the way, hope this week goes as planned.
/r/seduction22/03/11 05:13 PM
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Squats should be a part of any workout routine, unless you can't do them for other reasons. I, for example, didn't perform squats for about 5 years due to a back injury. In this case you can substitute with Leg Press, but the restrictive movements of the machine mean you don't work any (or at least as many) of your stabilizer and auxiliary muscles. In terms of how many you should do, it depends on your current fitness level and goals. If you want to become a strong sprinter, focus on 3x5 sets or…
/r/seduction22/03/11 05:07 PM
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Ugh .. is starting strength really starting to invade seddit?
/r/seduction22/03/11 03:14 PM
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Well, I think this is yes and no. Yes that most girls don't play these kinds of 'free drink' or 'see what I can get the guy to do for me' games after they have a job and can take care of themselves. On the other hand, if the girl is trying to give a shit test, asking for something in return is exactly the response you should do If a girl asks for something, it's probably a shit test. If you're just doing something nice and then you try to get something out of it, then it's pretty obvious what yo…
/r/seduction22/03/11 03:10 PM
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Wow. This was articulated so well. It boils down to approval seeking and supplication, 'internal game' as it's been put.
/r/seduction23/02/11 04:27 PM
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Your first response is very solid. That's going in the mental bank.
/r/seduction23/02/11 12:15 AM
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I was on the other side of a table at the time, so contact wasn't an option ... but yeah, apologizing for her essentially insulting me was pretty bad. I'm better about it now, but still working on getting away from approval seeking.
/r/seduction22/02/11 02:00 PM
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I think an important aspect to realize from this post is the distinction between asshole and confident as well as nice guy and push over. Getting pushed around by being nice isn't good, switching to being an ass doesn't mean that nice doesn't work, it's just that allowing girls to use you as a doormat doesn't work. In the same regard, what a lot of people think of when they hear the term 'asshole' isn't necessarily a real asshole, it's just a guy who doesn't allow some attractive woman to contro…
/r/seduction21/02/11 07:44 PM
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I have a friend somewhat like this. We're both pretty good looking, but while I have darker features, he's a dirty blond with blue eyes. He also has a killer smile, is extremely witty, has pretty solid fashion sense and way more social than myself. I wouldn't call him a natural, but he's pretty close to it. I have some traits that put me above him in social regards, better paying job, nicer house, stuff like that ... but lets face it, girls aren't going to go home with me just because of a socia…
/r/seduction09/02/11 07:55 PM
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my favorite response to this: "I train navy seals" ... reasonably long pause for reaction ... "like real seals." make clapping motion and go "arr arr".
/r/seduction01/02/11 08:47 PM
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I commented on the first one so I'll toss in a few of my own thoughts. Although I have to admit the advice already in here is pretty solid. First, and this is without a doubt the most recurring thing on seddit, have more confidence in yourself. (although something important to point out is that it's the most recurring for a reason, it's the most important) You did laundry, shows hygiene. You cleaned up, shows self-respect and responsibility. You ran a 20k .. for fuck's sake man, you ran a 20k! N…
/r/seduction01/02/11 08:43 PM
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Oh man ... I've been there, too many damn times.
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:38 PM
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This is a pretty awesome new feature of Seddit. I certainly hope that it's momentum continues and we have lots of IAMAs in this series.
/r/seduction01/02/11 05:21 PM
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I agree with this. To combine two things from both of the above posts, calling back immediately makes it seem urgent ... so if you're calling about something not urgent it's irritating and can be interpreted as having low self esteem. ie: 'man, she didn't answer .. well, maybe I'll just try again thinking she wanted to answer and didn't find her phone in time .. yeah, that's it, she'll answer this time' To give an example, one time years ago before texting was common place, my girlfriend at the …
/r/seduction01/02/11 04:15 PM
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I'd say probably ... things are probably starting to seem odd on her end. If she approaches you then obviously be friendly and all that, but I wouldn't initiate anything. If she does talk to you, I'd actually try to push her away a little bit, kind of an acknowledgement that things seem off. And I don't mean push her away like one word answers or intentionally walking away, just chat, make conversation ... if she's walking in your direction walk with her, joke, treat her like a female friend you…
/r/seduction28/01/11 07:09 PM
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Hey man ... how'd things go?
/r/seduction28/01/11 07:03 PM
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Great addition.
/r/seduction27/01/11 07:35 PM
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Facebook for your age is fine ... but it's a once, maybe twice a week thing. Use it for party invites, comments to re-initiate contact after a lapse and that's about it. Also, posting interesting things can give girls a look into your personality. Passion for music, post videos ... passion for animals, link to nearby shelters ... what about local events ... photography, use facebook to make albums of the interesting things you've photographed. It'll also give some encouragement because you'll th…
/r/seduction27/01/11 06:55 PM
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I don't think you screwed up at all. What I got from this interaction was a sense of you being genuine. I would imagine she thought you were a nice guy who genuinely thought she was cute/nice/friendly etc. and didn't really know what to do about it, so you tried and feel kind of short, which was probably kind of cute to her. Talk to her again, make a joke or in some way get her to smile ... maybe give her a look like 'wow, you're really cute' and then smile. Then right before you get off the bus…
/r/seduction27/01/11 04:59 PM
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I was about to write this almost exactly. small thing to add ... in the words of my friend, there are very few things hotter than a cute girl hitting on you.
/r/seduction27/01/11 04:37 PM
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"How about you move your fat ass out of the way so I can stand up?" This seems an overly aggressive reaction to me. I think if I was in the class and only heard the first exchange and this as a reaction to it my first thought would be "Wow, I don't know what happened, but that was a little over the top." Maybe it's just follow through and personality. I don't think I have the appearance to make these kinds of statements.
/r/seduction27/01/11 04:28 PM
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She can say no ... and .. umm .. light you on fire?
/r/seduction21/10/10 04:40 PM
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I love how often these stories come up. beginning: I was lame/boring/shy/afraid/unsure/etc. middle: I finally decided to man up/grow a pair/stop making excuses/etc. end: I got the girl, this is awesome .. I love the new me Lesson ... get out there and go for it, being confident and not giving a fuck actually does work. Speaking to which ... Congrats man, brush that dirt off.
/r/seduction21/10/10 12:28 PM
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I've been in situations similar to this several times and usually lose ... please post a FR and conclusion.
/r/seduction18/10/10 06:53 PM
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Had this exact situation happen to me. Sent her a med. length message asking how she was, that I hadn't talked to her in a while. I think the key was that I said I noticed you're single now, which made me realize how long it's been since I actually said hi .. so, what happened? open ended, didn't ask for a date, just a message that started the conversation. From there you can move as quick or slow as appropriate from her response. As a piece of encouragement, I went out with the girl I did that …
/r/seduction18/10/10 06:48 PM
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I'm assuming this is in jest .. given the posters name.
/r/seduction18/10/10 06:43 PM
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I'm interrupting to say I fully support philosarapter's comments ... from this thread as well as many others, I've noticed he knows what he's talking about. My 2 cents .. women are naturally a little less defensive with other women because they don't feel as though they're being 'picked up', they react similarly with gay men. This is an advantage as much as a disadvantage. You can get closer quicker, but if she's not gay she may overreact in the opposite manner when she finds out you have other …
/r/seduction18/10/10 06:40 PM
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three things: 1) learn to dance. If you're going to be going to these places then you have to. I, as an example, can't dance at all. It's kind of a mix between a cardboard cut out and a 50+ year old James Brown. Once you do however, you probably won't look good next to some of the guys who are actually talented and do this every weekend. So learn to be sufficient, then stand near the dance floor. After you've started talking to a girl and she says lets go dance, say you don't, you're not a good …
/r/seduction18/10/10 06:29 PM
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In the words of the ragin cajun in 'Old School': "Oh... It... We... have no response. That was perfect."
/r/seduction18/10/10 06:07 PM
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I did not .. wasn't really the point.
/r/seduction18/10/10 05:58 PM
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follow up posted.
/r/seduction18/10/10 05:58 PM
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Thought I'd comment on this again ... I used this line when I met up with her next time .. she gave a smile, blushed and started kissing me. This line rocks when dealing with these kinds of girls.
/r/seduction18/10/10 05:57 PM
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I more so agree with apexaviour, but I see the point philosarapter made as well. It depends on the delivery and overall feel of the conversation. Not introducing yourself is a great way to create mystery and suspense. If you did a good job and arousing her interest then she'll wonder who you are, when or if she'll see you again, if you're interested in her or just saying hi because you're a social person .. etc. All good things which will lead to an easy conversation later on. If (again if) she'…
/r/seduction18/10/10 04:56 PM
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Honestly the neg wasn't very good. I said something along the lines of 'a kiss on the cheek? Don't you like me all the sudden?' Best I could come up with on the spot, wasn't anticipating it.
/r/seduction15/10/10 06:04 PM
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I like this line. Gotta remember to use it.
/r/seduction15/10/10 06:02 PM
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would have been much less rewarding, but much more comical story.
/r/seduction14/10/10 05:08 PM
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I actually don't care at all what the outcome is. Best way to approach it, just let things go naturally. If you try to force it it'll just make things uncomfortable.
/r/seduction14/10/10 03:42 PM
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I gotta agree with commonsense on this one. However, given this information the chance may be higher than 0%. I'd say to keep both possibilities in mind, 1) that she's up for it, 2) that she's trying to guide you to another girl because 2a) she's seeing someone and she knows your intentions and isn't looking to repeat or 2b) she thinks you and this other girl would be good together. Either way, within an hour you'll probably know what her intent was. Of course, birthday girl + alcohol + opportun…
/r/seduction14/10/10 03:24 PM
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Love the attitude, I think you've got it perfect. Best of luck, but I don't think you'll need it.
/r/seduction01/10/10 06:02 AM
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I personally would find it extremely useful to have a central location where all the most commonly referenced material could be found. A reminder every few months would help those who are new or visit less frequent. Basically .. this is awesome and you're awesome.
/r/seduction30/09/10 04:20 PM
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Very well stated and good advice. there's a huge difference in perception between trying to be the center of attention and being the center of attention because that's just how it works.. This should be one of the definitions of a try-hard.
/r/seduction29/09/10 04:02 PM
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when women are interested in you they find time. They don't give excuses. They invite you out. This is a good point. On this note, I still don't think all is lost in the current situation. It does seem I've made a few mistakes along the way. In your opinion, how should I proceed?
/r/seduction29/07/10 05:43 PM
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mis-stated the law school thing .. edited it to fix. And I like the intro, very office space-esque.
/r/seduction29/07/10 04:33 PM
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Keep me updated if you figure anything out. I've had it happen to me before and the only thing I've been able to gather is that they get legitimately busy doing other things, then they feel bad about it taking so long that they feel awkward about reconnecting and decide just to disappear. Some will bring the fate thing into it and talk themselves into believing that if we run into each other again then it was meant to be, but the fact they were busy is a sign it wasn't .. or some shit. Either wa…
/r/seduction29/07/10 04:30 PM
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Just remember that no matter how hot a girl is, there's a guy out there who is sick and tired of her shit. Treat her like a normal person, she's only elevated right now because you're seeing only perfections and fantasies .. reality hits hard after you get what you want.
/r/seduction29/07/10 02:00 PM
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"yeah? what do you want? sorry im a little cranky from waiting in this line. come with me to the pizza shop next door. fuck subway!" This is very solid .. except subway rocks.
/r/seduction16/07/10 12:21 PM
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I assumed you were actually looking for a room or roommate or something of that nature and not using this solely for meeting girls ... I was just trying to give the inclination that this may not be the best place to practice pick up or flirting skills. If, and using this purely as an example, you're main goal was to use this resource as a girl pool it would be misleading. Not only would that be shady, it wouldn't give you very good practice because the reactions would be completely different the…
/r/seduction15/07/10 03:34 PM
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I'd keep the idea of trying to score out of it, the girls you meet with aren't looking for anything like that and if you begin to come off that way they're going to want nothing to do with you. Sit for lunch or coffee or whatever, handle it as if it was some guy. If something does happen with any of them it would be down the road after you've finalized your housing business. Situations like this may be a good time to work on general social skills and making/talking about observations but they're…
/r/seduction14/07/10 04:05 PM
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It's always interesting when you get put into these situations because, ironically enough, getting hit on throws you off your game. It's because it's not what we've all read and tried to learn. Girls read stuff about how to get rid of guys they don't like and keep the interest of guys they do like after they've approached her. This is because that's what they typically need to know. Most girl magazines detail how to get guys to approach them and how to keep the interest of their boyfriends. Guys…
/r/seduction12/07/10 07:21 PM
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Not sure if you mis-quoted the album or if it's just a random coincidence ... but, it is a great album (imho) Midtown - Living Well Is The Best Revenge
/r/seduction12/07/10 04:42 PM
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Great advice .. made me think of this quote, which I have to paraphrase: If you keep doing the same thing you've always done, you'll keep getting the same thing you've always gotten.
/r/seduction01/07/10 08:16 PM
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Aliens are coming to abduct sexy people tonight -- don't worry though, you'll be OK -- I'm just texting to say goodbye This is pretty funny .. great line to use when you've been texting for a bit and run into a slow part of the conversation and need to pick things back up. That is, if you're typically random with your conversations.
/r/seduction28/06/10 04:26 PM
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potentially ... introverted girls will do that and it is an IOI, extroverted girls not so much. Either could have been staring into space and you happen to be occupying said space. Regardless, it's not a bad invitation to begin a conversation later. Begin something, read intent from there.
/r/seduction30/04/10 04:25 PM
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The pick up from Office Space "if you want to join me coffee I'll be across the street, if not, that's cool too." is of course a classic. Cruel Intentions has some nice examples of picking up 9's & 10's. And as cheesy as the movie is, Tweeter from Varsity Blues has great confidence and very good posturing. There's one called the Tao of Steve, maybe .. it's something like that, I've never actually seen it, but it's also a well known circulated example.
/r/seduction21/04/10 04:02 PM
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