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Hey Sasha, I just want to say this video of you lecturing your beliefs and views on seduction (I know you hate the term 'PUA'( is really what made me realize that you are on a whole 'nother level as compared to the teachings other seduction artists are at. With that said, I'm currently at a stage in my life where I'm advancing in my career while reaping the benefits of being happy at the same time. Also it's going to be two months this Friday that I took up hitting the gym and deciding to stop r…
/r/seduction28/01/14 10:40 PM
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Yo. I reside in Fort Lauderdale. If by chance you're near there hit me up. Always looking to be surrounded by driven people.
/r/seduction17/11/13 05:46 AM
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Printing this out, thanks for posting.
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:47 PM
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I just hit 30 last week, but already I'm taking this new decade as something good based on the decisions I have already made. Hopefully this helps out... 1.) It I never too late to seduce women. Regardless wither you we're thinking this or not it I never too late. I feared this at one point as I got out of a 3 year LTR around a year ago and a good friend of mine told me that women in their 20's are very much open to men on their 30's because (ideally) we have our ahi together more so when we wer…
/r/seduction08/10/12 01:32 AM
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Try new cooking recipes, ride my motorcycle, take my dog out to the dog park, go running by the beach, etc. Most importantly, is that I do things which I can either see myself progressing in them and/or give me instant gratification where I can enjoy living in the moment. All of those things help give me character and more importantly something to talk about when meeting people, be it a woman or whoever.
/r/seduction05/10/12 03:11 PM
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Chiming in here, as I'm fond of being direct with knowing their relationship status. Yes, it's far easier to say "no" if she's either in a relationship or just not interested in revealing that she is single but either way it's going to benefit you in the end. Why? Check out the scenarios below. 1.) If she says "no" and nothing more then consider her doing you a favor by saving X amount of minutes or hours that you would have invested in her in which you can now put towards another girl. 2.) If s…
/r/seduction04/10/12 01:19 PM
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Must be my part of town in South Florida then. I'm practically you in the weight/height dept and upon stepping out and crossing the street to the local gas station I had a guy stop me to ask if I like to "party" after eyeing me up and down. Good times but I have no complaints about my physical appearance. Own what you're given.
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:50 PM
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Bingo. This is pretty much my go-to opener regardless wither I'm at Target or a swank Martini Club. Why? It's easy, quick, and shows you have no fuck to give. Only obstacle in doing so is your follow up. Nothing can kill a convo more then focusing solely on your opener. So once you've gotten that out of the way have two or three transitions you can go to that will more then likely lead to a conversation. It can be based on the location you two are at, a cold read, or whatever you want.
/r/seduction21/09/12 03:45 PM
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I'm going to presume you mean harder then opening up a girl at night in a club or bar, right? If so then good news... it's not! No, it's not harder just different. The keyword being different. Each method, be it day game or night game, has it's own set of rules and methods to go by but the difficulty you're talking about it merely a belief. I state a belief because maybe it's something in which you don't have much experience in doing or haven't catered your material to translate well when out du…
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:59 PM
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Cool... so it's more so about not spending money. I still think the night club scene is doable granted you don't mind enjoying glasses of water while still tipping the bartender a few dollars here and there. But day time game costs nothing if you're out and about your standard grocery store, shopping mall, or department store.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:37 PM
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Outside. Go to the supermarket, gas station, bookstore. Better yet, a public transport system to take you to other populated areas such as shopping malls, downtown, bar venues, etc. Or friends who have a means of driving and seeing wither they would want to check out place XYZ.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:25 PM
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Get out of my head! You posted exactly what I thought... or was I following your thought template? Hmmm.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:24 PM
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Late to the party but read a book about something you're interested in and sure enough you'll find ways to work it into a story worth sharing, or something that is easily relatable, etc. For example? I used to simply tell people I moved from California to where I am at now because I wanted change to happen. Looking back I realized how vanilla that was, but when I did some reading and came across GDP (Gross Domestic Products) and how it effected people on a macro-level it opened up the flood gate…
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:22 PM
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Son?
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:10 PM
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"Stop! (hand out) Hate to put you on the spot but you are mad gorgeous!"
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:08 PM
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Why? Sure, I see the reason in not doing that because it's easier to go from a HB4 to an HB5 and so on and so forth but this is just in theory. I think it's worth making the first set/girl you open a HB8 when going out at night (or day, whichever) as it instantly removes any hang-ups you may have when out and about meeting new women.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:06 PM
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Looks like your goal was to approach a girl, and not worry about her laughing, giving you her number, or fucking her in the school's broom closet. This is actually a healthy way of looking at doing an approach (something I remind myself from time to time) because you're judging your outcome based on what you are capable of controlling. You're focusing on what you're humanly able to do and not set the difference of success or failure on someone else who you have no control over. It's like going o…
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:05 PM
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I'm actually glad to hear that, normal to me is too vanilla and boring in my life. We're all meant to die and be food to worms and maggots, with that said I don't want to go out and about being and living in a normal fashion. Let everyone else do that, let the sheep have their way. If you know your worth and know what you want out of life (eg: talking to that cute girl in aisle 6 at target) then shut the fuck up, don't give a single fuck on the outcome, and do what you feel will yield you best p…
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:00 PM
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Que?
/r/seduction31/08/12 03:37 PM
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Enjoy the journey, not just the destination. Meaning you had a overall good time on a date with her, no harm in that. Clearly you picked up on some things that caused you to raise an eyebrow (not literally) such as her throwing the word "friends" out and about a couple of times. Ask yourself how you can overcome that hurdle be it with her or another girl you decide to go out with. I can't tell you what that is because it has to be congruent with you are.
/r/seduction31/08/12 03:36 PM
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Or knows the difference between a neg and a insult.
/r/seduction29/08/12 03:33 PM
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I struggle with. Not just with strangers but with my friends too. I don't have the lifestyle I want to, I'm not exactly so happy with myself, I don't have many experiences and I don't understand the same humor that everyone else does For starters, quit the mental masturbation of you, you, you. Want to know something mind blowing? Wither you think you can or can't do something, you're going to convince yourself that you're right. Sure, we've all done that to ourselves but what seperates you from …
/r/seduction28/08/12 09:41 PM
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Start by just making eye contact and saying "hello" to people. Your gotta crawl before you can walk and then pace yourself to run.
/r/seduction22/08/12 08:13 PM
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False! I'm 6'0" and 140lbs and I think i'm a physical beast! No my pecs don't show through my shirt but my ribs do, and you know what... I like myself that way. That is the thing, reading your post I already get the sense of pessimism and low self esteem. If a girl is shooting you down because of your size, then it just shows how you wouldn't of even enjoyed her company if that she can't even get past that aspect of all that you have to offer. I've had girls attempt to physically pick me up due …
/r/seduction22/08/12 04:07 PM
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Sounds like he is congruent with who he naturally is as opposed to being something he isn't. I feel people can sense that from a mile away and it's a make it or break factor... in this case interacting and closing with a woman.
/r/seduction22/08/12 03:57 PM
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"No man can walk out on his own story." I caught Rango on Netflix (amazing movie, watch it on instant que) and towards the end of the film a pivotal character says this to the main character. I have it saved on my phone whenever I feel demotivated in pick-up, life, or whatever.
/r/seduction21/08/12 09:16 PM
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"Opener probably wasn't the best, but I think it had such a confident tone that it worked fine." Bingo! Your confidence and tone says more then any opener will. From what you posted, you did really well. Hope things go forward with the girl you closed.
/r/seduction21/08/12 09:13 PM
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I'd hate to be your friend if you're posting fb chats on the internet.
/r/seduction21/08/12 07:46 PM
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Your optimism is contagious. I've used to heavily favor night game but now am the opposite. Sure, you bring up some great points in regards to day game but lets not be so quick to only plug one positive aspect of it. For starters, women during the day are more so themselves then at the club or bar at night. Their defense mechanism is set on "idle" rather then "auto" and they're more or less appearing the way they would on a average day then dolled up the 9's with a drink in hand. Also, they're n…
/r/seduction21/08/12 07:40 PM
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I consider them warm-up sets and treat them like any other person. Mere questioning of asking where the nearest Starbucks is or time due to my cell phone dying out on me. No false flattery or seductive intentions.
/r/seduction21/08/12 07:10 PM
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This is why we can't have nice things, but kudos for going in and not giving a fuck.
/r/seduction21/08/12 06:27 PM
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Sounds like an invite to another opportunity to talk to her again.
/r/seduction21/08/12 06:24 PM
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I live in south Florida as well, this man speaks the truth. You need a pair on your head, in your car, and at your work desk.
/r/seduction21/08/12 03:00 AM
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loved reading every bit of it, nicely done my friend.
/r/seduction20/08/12 01:54 PM
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This is quite a unique and interesting approach for a person first getting into game. Nicely done!
/r/seduction16/08/12 03:25 PM
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First and foremost, cut the "I want" mentality for what you look for in a partner. This will only leave feeling suffering and disappointment. I tell this to my friends and chime in how because of that I'll gladly fuck anyone from 18 to their gave. We only limit ourselves by keeping laundry list of things we want from a partner. Next, don't kid yourself if you need to get in better shape, continue on your track to doing so. Reading your post you skirt around the issue but the truth is, is that pe…
/r/seduction16/08/12 02:34 AM
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Bingo. Nothing better then opening the amazingly beautiful girl in the produce section. She is more then likely to be alone with no defensive shield up and about. A convo is refreshing to her and surely defines you as the alpha character if pulled off right. I. Love. Grocery shopping.
/r/seduction15/08/12 11:12 PM
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Hey, understand that it is ok to feel bad... for her I mean. Think about it, that girl just blew her chances on getting her mind blown and screaming "aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!! Thank you baplx!" by not taking the hook on your approach. But seriously, everyone faces rejection... if you don't then we never know how/what to improve. However, rejection is just an action, the emotion we associate with it is entirely up to us. You can either view it as a good thing (eg: that girl just saved you time to…
/r/seduction13/08/12 08:32 PM
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cool story bro, now go do it 99 more times and reflect back on each interaction or so.
/r/seduction13/08/12 08:16 PM
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Pull your head out of your ass and act like a human around her and not a PUA-bot.
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:54 PM
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tl;dr a number is only worth the paper it's written on.
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:53 PM
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There is no failure, just lessons learnt.
/r/seduction13/08/12 03:37 PM
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For starters, stop complimenting on specific items that women are wearing. This is something that their girlfriends normally do. Have you ever listened to water cooler talk at work where Jenny will stop Maranda and exclaim "OMG! Maranda, where did you ever get that necklace? It's awesome and really matches your bracelet!" This is more or less what women naturally do, which is nothing wrong but it's not common for the every day guy to do the same. What I suggest is making a more general comment r…
/r/seduction13/08/12 03:35 PM
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Congrats on popping your pick-up cherry. Remember, you did something that many others could do in their lives... so continue to fight the good fight.
/r/seduction13/08/12 02:46 PM
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Stop giving too much credit for what you think they are thinking about who you are, what you look like, or what you're doing. Because truth is, is that they aren't doing so as much as you may believe.
/r/seduction13/08/12 01:54 PM
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I always like to replace "nice" with "weak" and "asshole" with "strong" when it comes to this debate. Because truth is, you can be both a nice and strong man if you choose to while picking up women.
/r/seduction10/08/12 03:38 PM
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I commend you on concepting and posting your new opener. Shows you put a great deal of effort into it and seems catered specifically to you. Regardless of what I tell you, I always feel new material should always be field tested regardless. So try it out but below you'll find my 2 cents. Your opener is waaaay to complex. A opener is just to get your foot in the door to the actual conversation. Ideally it should be short, sweet, and off the cuff. Asking for too much compliance too soon. This woma…
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:12 AM
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So you smile at an HB heading in the opposite direction on the street, but what is the purpose of this? Take this is a sure invitation to start a conversation with her. iAlso, if I do not receive any hints back (she's looking in the other direction or I do not fit her description), is there still opportunity to make game? Opportunities are all around us. Often times people may not make direct eye contact with us for one reason or another. Don't take that as a easy-out for why you aren't talking …
/r/seduction09/08/12 06:59 PM
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Damn fine example, even I walked away feeling better about myself after reading that. Thanks!
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:52 PM
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Don't fret, you already did more then majority of men would have done in that situation where they'd sit to themselves going "if only I had XYZ I'd talk to that girl". Baby steps, man. Not everything needs to be leaps and bounds to show progress.
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:48 PM
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Cheers mate, all the best. Sometimes our errors are what give us the greatest lessons. Hence I never believe in failure, just lessons learnt.
/r/seduction08/08/12 03:55 AM
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Ask wither she prefers milk or water.
/r/seduction08/08/12 02:03 AM
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I think this will end in disappointment.
/r/seduction07/08/12 09:46 PM
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Yes, they are all madly jealous, brimmed to the top with envy and losing countless hours of sleep as they let youth and beauty fade away from the time spent on how they can strike back with revenge. But seriously, who cares as to why... no one knows for sure wither it's either a defense mechanism, envy (as you worded it already), or what not. If told you talk to too many women explain how we as people don't have much time on this planet and instead of going to a female, one by one, you're more t…
/r/seduction07/08/12 09:46 PM
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By going out and not trying to find women. Enjoy whatever it is that you're doing first, the rest will fall into place accordingly. Seriously, if you put all of your attention, focus, and energy on merely seeking lovely women you're going to be disappointed with yourself no matter what. Be it there only being one HB9 and several 5's or kicking yourself for not talking to your "dream girl". Have fun simply being in the moment and acknowledge that any interaction you do, big or small, is a victory…
/r/seduction07/08/12 09:43 PM
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I'm curious to know wither you've field-tested this routine yourself several times or more.
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:32 PM
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Go to bed.
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:28 PM
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Agreed, don't make it sound like a job interview.
/r/seduction07/08/12 03:55 PM
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Probably the only one who is fond of this guy but if you YouTube "VK PUA" you will see a guy with balls of steel in regards to his inner and outer game. He did a video while in South Beach, and being someone from the area, he killed it. That is the land of HB10's and he had no fucks to give.
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:29 PM
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It has already been said but ask yourself this... "Will I have a better chance meeting, interacting, and/or connecting with women (hell, people in general) by going out or by staying in? I think you know the answer to that. I solo sarge and on top of that remain sober when I go out on Friday/Saturday nights. For some people this is a worse case scenario but for me it's me being outgoing and casual. No one has ever given me crap for it (mostly because I'll be quick to befriend a group if people q…
/r/seduction05/08/12 01:54 PM
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While in convo with a really attractive girl at a local bar I go to and a guy taps me on the shoulder to ask me if he can ask her out on a date. Having invested my time and getting some positive reception from her. I tell him I'd check, turn back to her, and tell her to kiss me. We go for a full blown make out, thus blowing that guy out. The que to tell her to just stop and make out with me was unexpected, and sure enough I had no idea how it would be taken, but sure enough it worked in my favor…
/r/seduction03/08/12 09:52 PM
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Sidenote: I used to teach music and many mature students would ask for lessons but only to learn one piece perfectly, as they thought this was an easy way to show off. Not only is this shallow, tacky, fraudulent, self-serving, and lazy; it's also not possible. Proper technique comes from years of practising a multitude of pieces. It's the same mentality as people who come here looking for the Golden Pickup Routine. Damn fine writing and breakthrough right here.
/r/seduction03/08/12 09:47 PM
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Every sentence practically starts with the word "I". Add a bit of variety and more flow because otherwise it's just a series of bullet points compiled into a paragraph.
/r/seduction02/08/12 08:51 PM
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I find it interesting that some of the posts point to the direction that it is weak or wrong to go in directly with a compliment during the day time. Granted, simply throwing the word "beautiful" around (The wording above didn't provide me much of a difference, sorry OP) may be too vanilla for some women, I like to think the intent behind it can still win you points. I mean think about it, you're in the day time, at a public place (assumingly), and not under the influence of alcohol to stop some…
/r/seduction02/08/12 07:22 PM
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Sounds about the same as saying you don't need an engine in a car, just 4 really nice tires. Doesn't work that way, pal.
/r/seduction02/08/12 07:14 PM
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I'm surprised you're not more appalled by a man seeking to get a lay while wearing dirty underwear.
/r/seduction02/08/12 06:23 PM
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Sorry to hear that, man. I'm in a similar boat as you where I've opted to go out solo due to friends wanting to invest their time in other things (no harm in that, but not the deciding factor as to wither or not I go out) or they're locked in committed relationships/marriage and feel their time is best spent at home. You have the right mind set for why you wanna go out though, for the sake of getting outside and clearing your head while in the hopes to be around a cool crowd you can vibe with. I…
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:14 PM
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Remember, there are no failures in this lifestyle, just lessons learnt. What you did by actually getting off your ass and unto a bar, solo might I add, beats out a good number of guys in your area who opted to stay home, reheat their manwich, and eat in front of their tv/computer. What you did was fine for the time being, but the goal is to look back a week from this day, a month from this day, or even a year from this day and go "wow, I really came a long way from where I was then."
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:01 AM
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Winking is gold! If I am at a crowded bar/club and I'm walking by someone who I deem I treating I'll await eye contact and throw a wink in followed by a smile. You'll be surprised to see that some will light up and others will open you (granted there will be a number that don't express anything) but it makes for a easy indicator for you to get in set and open her for a convo.
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:44 AM
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There is some serious truth to this. I am fond of the local punk scene and the most badass chick I know also has the world's biggest heart. Really, can't let the scene filter how you view the girls there because in reality they mostly want someone who can admire their lifestyle but also dig deeper to know what is behind the surface.
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:39 AM
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Can probably start by canning the "AFC" label on guys who are already down and hard enough on themselves. It's like playing a game of street ball and telling the guy walking beside you, alone, and minding his own business "Hey you, you're a loser at this game and you need my help to get anywhere." Those who want help will either read or be pointed to the side bar and contribute to seddit. Besides that, let them be.
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:29 AM
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Man, I can't thank you enough for taking the time to write such a in-depth reply on your solo approach. Read through the entire thing and overall agree with what you wrote. Kudos, man.
/r/seduction31/07/12 08:50 PM
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If those are just a few things off the top of your head I would greatly enjoy hearing more since I'm coming to the realization I'm more likely to go out and enjoy myself solo rather then with friends (due to conflict of scheduling, place of interest, etc.).
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:07 PM
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Short and sweet, control what you can control and let everything else take a flying fuck.
/r/seduction31/07/12 02:31 PM
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For every guy or girl who is judging you, there's someone out there who is admiring you, or envying that girl! Beautifully said.
/r/seduction31/07/12 02:31 PM
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I don't find it too much different then when with a wing. For example, you're not going to open every set with your wing right beside you, right? Well guess what, that's practically solo game. Also, for those saying "But wait a minute bcktth, what about when I'm not opening sets, wouldn't it benefit having a wing to talk to so I am not standing there by myself?" Sure, but what difference does that make when you can anchor in a solid set of people (forget wither they are HB's, I'm talking good, w…
/r/seduction31/07/12 02:04 PM
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This is the best post I've come across in a while, bookmarked. Congrats on all up success.
/r/seduction28/07/12 03:59 PM
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I do in fact like this post a lot, feel like it can and should be applies to every facet in life. From big to small. Thank you for sharing this.
/r/seduction24/07/12 04:18 PM
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Ask yourself this... Are your a 8 year old girl? If so, carry on. If not, don't text like one.
/r/seduction24/07/12 02:36 AM
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Learn to cook and have knowledge of food and interesting tid bits behind em. 2.Picked up running for good health. Motorcycling and meeting other bikers. Most substantial hobby I have as of now.
/r/seduction21/07/12 05:40 PM
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Inner beauty exudes outer beauty. Meaning, the less you beat yourself up and begin to believe in yourself (e.g. "I am a rock god and women are dying to get to know a guy like me!") it will show on the outside and people will pick up on it.
/r/seduction19/07/12 01:08 PM
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"Girls are like buses, you miss one, you just catch the next one." This alone is worth an entire pack of cigarettes.
/r/seduction19/07/12 01:07 PM
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I wouldn't. I've read somewhere that the material should be 20% read and 80% experienced. Kinda like how you can read about the rules and regulations to tennis but until you actually get on the court you're just a novice.
/r/seduction18/07/12 06:13 PM
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I feel women are attracted to men who are happy and comfortable with themselves. Wouldn't being driven and responsible be notable factors helping you achieve that?
/r/seduction18/07/12 05:26 PM
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Love how you posted your FR with snippets of the convo, great read!
/r/seduction17/07/12 09:53 PM
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Saved.
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:41 PM
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Get a broccoli band, they will hold any cards and cash without creating any bulk. And the bet part, they come with a nutritious vegetable to dine on. Win, win.
/r/seduction16/07/12 03:25 AM
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Are you kidding? That is the best part! 9 times out of 10 she'll ask where you're from and that right there is your transition from opener to convo.
/r/seduction13/07/12 03:18 AM
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Guess what? If you think you're not ready than you're right. If you think you are ready, than you're also right. It's all about what you believe that will spring you into action and yield the results you feel you're entitled to.
/r/seduction01/06/12 04:19 PM
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Have a clean home regardless of who is there... cluttered house equals a cluttered mind.
/r/seduction23/04/12 03:30 PM
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Alpha as fuck post.
/r/seduction23/04/12 03:02 PM
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"Amazing. Spectacular. Lovely. And you?" "On a scale from 1 through 10, I'd say a 9." "I'm having the best X-day ever because of what happened on Y-day."
/r/seduction23/04/12 01:38 PM
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Right over your head, huh? This is why you (I presume) as the guy then open that girl up and indicate she is worth your time to talk to and know about. This always works, I'll go as far as reach over to hug, high five, even give a kiss on the cheek as I come to greet them. Granted these are bartenders I actually know from prev encounters but it sub-consciously tells people "Oh, who is he to that cute bartender?" and therefore that will verify you as a someone of value. Just careful when you actu…
/r/seduction05/04/12 11:34 PM
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body language, it's all about the body language to engage a woman into conversation. By simply waving your hand as she stares at you for more then 2 seconds you've already opened the opportunity to converse with her.
/r/seduction14/03/12 06:05 PM
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No, going further with a girl who is clearly unable to make decisions for herself is what they call rape I believe. You sir, we're being humane and a gentleman... no shame for that.
/r/seduction08/03/12 04:05 PM
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The women whom you don't hit it off with will have long forgotten about your encounter than compared to the time you spent worrying about the aftermath. Remind yourself that and go out to have fun, I can't stress that enough.
/r/seduction08/03/12 04:45 AM
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Imagine your confidence like the stock market, you're going to reach lows and highs of all sorts but no matter what you continue going.
/r/seduction07/03/12 09:59 PM
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Something that I find a complete turn off, when a girl approaches me. Is that front they put up. Obviously hiding their insecurities, being a bit demanding. Sounds like a double standard, whole point of PUA is for men to put up a front that they are this holy, unobtainable alpha male being. That they are the holy prize that cannot be redeemed as easily as all the other men in the venue (e.g. betas, AFC's, etc.). So therefore, don't ask or suggest women drop their front as you raise yours up. Com…
/r/seduction07/03/12 07:45 PM
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mind = blown!
/r/seduction22/02/12 02:29 AM
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9.) Rinse 10.) Lather 11.) Repeat
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:41 PM
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Appear the way you want to be appeared as. This applies to both the inside and out. If I want to be viewed as someone who takes care of himself, has a lot to offer, and is a creative individual than wearing cargo shorts and a ratty tee while not going out for a 5 mile run isn't going to cut it. You'll be amazed by this change alone in the way you feel and what good fortune will follow through.
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:40 PM
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Hi Neil, first of all I want to say that I am a huge fan of your writing and work. Clearly "The Game" being the one that introduced me to your other pieces. I have a question though regarding PUA and I am hoping you can help me out. It's not about a opener, or what to do on a shit-test, but more so on "inner-game" and self-worth. See, I constantly find myself in and out PUA because while I feel I am successful at it (according to my friends, I always feel there is room for improvement) I go thro…
/r/seduction14/02/12 05:24 PM
1

buy it if you sincerely mean it and have a good rapport with the person, don't buy it if you feel you're entitled to something in return or feel you'll win your target over.
/r/seduction03/02/12 02:45 PM
15

Nice rape report
/r/seduction02/02/12 06:52 PM
4

Go out because you want to enjoy the music, unwind, drink your favorite beverage, play a song from the TouchTunes jukebox, etc. Make that primary and meeting people secondary, you'll never leave disappointed.
/r/seduction02/02/12 02:51 PM
2

Good response but no need to claim someone's question is stupid.
/r/seduction02/02/12 02:50 PM
1

To be blunt with you, the number is 0. That' right, 0 numbers. I used to have s quota or a number I had to hit to qualify as the day/night to be successful. You know what happened? I was turning it into work and sucked out all the fun out of wanting to meet new people. When I put that number to 0 I come to realize I was not being more selective and filtering out who I did want to continue talking to and who I didn't. It no longer came down to taking as many numbers as possible for the sake of ha…
/r/seduction02/02/12 02:50 PM
1

Initially, I took in as much as I felt I was entitled to. However with flakes likely to happen and putting too much emphasis on the close rather than a day 2 I am more selective now. Quality over quantity.
/r/seduction02/02/12 03:51 AM
4

Clearly should of ate those pretzels in the store and have her scan the bag upon check out. Joke sure would of been on her.
/r/seduction02/02/12 03:49 AM
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ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction02/02/12 01:43 AM
1

This is by far sone of the best advice posted on seddit. All to often I feel we focus too much on the tree and not the forest around us. I wish I could upvote this more.
/r/seduction01/02/12 02:10 AM
1

bookmarking this, and thanks! PS, congrats on the lay.
/r/seduction20/01/12 06:57 PM
8

Oh, these are fun. I begin by taking my phone out and pressing a button to make it light up, I walk by and out loud say... "Ok, pool party at your place, 8pm, and you want me to bring my leopard speedo while you provide the alcohol. I'm down" By the time i'm midway through my statement, she will look up and take notice, I'll make eye contact and finish with a evil smirk. If she laughs I know I am in and if not I simply laugh and carry on. Have had opened up women during both the day and night us…
/r/seduction20/01/12 05:16 PM
3

you certainly proved that statement, thanks for stopping by.
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:56 PM
1

On paper, i can see that being the case. In person it is a different story, it is all about how well you carry yourself. I'm thin and tall (152lbs, 6'0") so naturally wearing loose jeans and shirts wouldn't work well for me. I love glam rock and rock music in general so I play off of that. I see what artists like Tommy Lee, Nikki Sixx, Rob Zombie, to even Russell Brand (a celebrity/comedian, i know) wear and work off of that. You'll be amazed by how much crazy shit they wear and how well it can …
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:55 PM
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Black feathered boa Over sized American Apparel "eyeglasses" Long pink scarf draped around my neck Gaudy rings Outlandish jackets (e.g. fur collar) Super slim jeans Mind you this not all a once; otherwise, that is just a cluster fuck of things thrown on.
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:27 PM
1

Hey, not all victories need to be these overly done celebrations topped with macy's day parades. Sure they are nice and clearly welcomed, but even saying "hello" means you win. Understand?
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:23 PM
2

Man, watch how you describe women on here dude. I'm not saying she was a saint or a role model to young girls, but it's shit like this that gives us a bad rep. Probably going to brush this off, but if you're associating yourself with her then you're no better so choose your words carefully.
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:18 PM
1

Kind of standard in some parts of the world to kiss on the cheek. Not ruling out what you're saying, just another perspective to look at it.
/r/seduction19/01/12 04:06 PM
2

The funny thing is, is that the same games which entertained us as kids still entertain us now. Give it a shot.
/r/seduction19/01/12 04:02 PM
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Sure, it's ok to throw in vulnerability. Let her know she is talking to a person, not a super hero who is flawless in every sense. People like to know that others are going through their own personal challenges because it not only makes them more relatable but also bc it shows your willing to expose certain parts of your life to someone. Just don't turn it into a therapy session.
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:42 PM
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This message is exactly what everyone should keep in mind prior, during, and after meeting someone they deem interesting when picking up girls. I have to remind myself of this to from time to time because you're going to get both the good and bad regardless of where you are and what you're doing. I recall one night i went out and opened up a HB9 who was not having it and after a bit of convo she revealed that she got out of the house because she found out her boyfriend of 3 years has been cheati…
/r/seduction19/01/12 03:39 PM
6

Appreciate the in-depth response warlizard. To answer your questions, I suppose my goal is similar to yours where I simply want to have fun and be with beautiful women. My initial interaction with them I feel is that, with touching, holding, and even kissing involve, but days after it just fizzles. I find this to be my sticking point and something I am trying to figure out by trial-and-error while going out, which is fun for me regardless but naturally can always be better. I will admit to never…
/r/seduction18/01/12 05:02 AM
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How have you worked around flakes and getting women to meet up with you after your initial interaction? I personally have no gripe with opening/closing but afterwards I can't help but feel things slip through my hands and I would love some general advice on trying to figure out why. Thanks in advance and also for doing this AMA. Glad to hear about your success, both financially and personally.
/r/seduction18/01/12 03:56 AM
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How would you prefer a guy to set up plans with you after numbers have been exchanged? There is the on going debate wither the guy should set things up by calling or texting. Also, the more a guy texts the less likely to go out? Thanks in advance!
/r/seduction18/01/12 01:39 AM
1

Thanks for this in-depth post. This was something I've been meaning to tweak myself and you've given me a lot of en sight on how to do so.
/r/seduction17/01/12 09:03 PM
1

Learn how to tell stories regarding your profession, interests, and other such things. Also, I would personally reframe from diving into their profession, and where they are from... these are interview questions that everyone and their grandma has probably asked this girl about. Get her opinion on something or find a way to ask a question that doesn't involve a yes or no question. Break the norm!
/r/seduction16/01/12 05:20 PM
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he didn’t even understand what jelly meant! I was mad! That fucking asshole!
/r/seduction13/01/12 06:06 PM
1

Better to be a dick than a pussy or an asshole.
/r/seduction13/01/12 06:01 PM
1

Does the back seat of the car mean nothing to people these days? That is what it's for!
/r/seduction13/01/12 02:42 PM
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1 I'm going to assume you believed your opener was a neg, when it was in fact a wave of insults towards her and her friends. Negging is supposed to result in laughter and used following an opener, not as the opener. As far as what to do about the guy, well you said it yourself that he was out with you... what would you need to have prepared to talk to your own friend? Unless I am reading it wrong. Me personally, I'd say humor him and ask wither or not he is a detective because he just did some a…
/r/seduction13/01/12 02:36 PM
1

Amen brother!
/r/seduction13/01/12 02:14 PM
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Well, for starters... I respect you for posting this topic and going into detail about your recent kiss-close. I don't believe in kicking a man when he's down but I will say this. Know that you are the prize and you're the hottest thing since Lady GaGa to step foot on this earth. Know that women need to work extra hard to get a hold of you because the qualities and traits you carry are in high demand. Know that with success there will also be failure but for each encounter you have with failure,…
/r/seduction10/01/12 04:07 AM
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Word, I totally hear ya... but as tempting and deserving as it may be to some girls. I always feel the common thing to do is what every other guy has already done, and I'm better then that. If that does happen, I aim for a high five and wither they comply or not I end it by tapping them on the head as I walk by.
/r/seduction09/01/12 09:55 PM
10

mmm... pancakes.
/r/seduction09/01/12 08:42 PM
3

Short, sweet, and to the point. The ideal day game opener.
/r/seduction09/01/12 08:39 PM
1

Try everything at least 10 times in field to get the answer you're looking for. There is no way for any of us to say "Yes, solid!" or "No, terrible!". If anything I would trim it down and avoid using the "I need a female's perspective on a debate..." because by this point in the seduction world it's over-used and stale. Instead I suggest saying "You seem friendly enough, settle a argument for me..." or something like that.
/r/seduction09/01/12 04:39 PM
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There is truth to this, I've personally had some of the best openers occur when I'm mere seconds away from talking to a group of girls. It's nice to have a arsenal of prepared openers, but it feels even better when you trust that no matter what you say you'll succeed in opening up the girl(s).
/r/seduction09/01/12 06:34 AM
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I brushed it off saying she's trashed anyway. Moving on.. Please don't insult girls when out, it's something that any guy at the bar can do and hence why girls have "bitch shields". Fact is, not everyone will be open to talk and this could be due to a number of things, worst case smile, say thanks, and eject.
/r/seduction09/01/12 06:32 AM
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short, sweet, and solid advice. It is all mental.
/r/seduction07/01/12 08:35 PM
1

Been there man, things can still work once they smooth over.
/r/seduction06/01/12 05:57 PM
2

Instead of feeling like you're missing out, feel like you're being selfish by not introducing yourself to someone new and letting them get to know you.
/r/seduction06/01/12 05:56 PM
1

kudos
/r/seduction06/01/12 05:55 PM
3

It's like riding a bike. When you get back on it may be a bit awkward but after a short period of time you're at it like normal. Just know that you're already awesome and have the ability to meet amazing women. Pick-up is 75% mentality, 25% action.
/r/seduction06/01/12 05:36 AM
0

you, you get my upvote.
/r/seduction05/01/12 11:04 PM
0

cue the slow applause, one of the best field reports i've read on here.
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:58 PM
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Excellent FR my friend, I love reading about other people venturing into day game. I've personally spent more time doing night game, but after a few months of doing day game I'm actually preferring to pick up girls when out and at my regular supermarket, mall, or gas station. There is practically no competition, the girl has no shield up, and it takes a lot of confidence to open her, which she will respect you for. Some quick pointers... 1.) The Cute Girl Shopping for pants. This one is easy, I …
/r/seduction05/01/12 02:32 AM
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Simple, by presence. The way you enter, walk, scan, and carry yourself will largely play a role as to how you are perceived... which ideally is someone of substance and attraction. As far as conversation goes, I understand where you are coming from as it was a sticking point of mine. With night game, the areas of conversation is far more diverse and open to practically anything. With day game, it's more so about what you don't say than what you do. So for example, if I notice a female with a uni…
/r/seduction04/01/12 07:06 PM
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Yo, I get the same thing as well at times because living in South Florida it's not common to see someone wearing glam-rock style clothing. So naturally in mid-convo I get asked the question "Wait, are you gay?" Now, after trial and error I found out this is prob one of the biggest shit tests a girl can throw at you. From my perspective it says that she is interested in you but either you dress too good or you're overall self is too good to be true. And what I respond with to their assumption not…
/r/seduction04/01/12 04:29 PM
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I rarely use it... only when to display an obvious sarcastic comment that I feel without it may not translate well.
/r/seduction04/01/12 04:15 PM
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Why not find out for yourself by putting in the abundant amount of hours you've invested in MM, The Game, and other such things and report to us with your Field Reports?
/r/seduction03/01/12 08:41 PM
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Guys do not like bitches, they like a challenge. For example, say you give me a job and tell me that no matter what I did during my 90 day probation I was not only guaranteed the position but the window view as well, I probably wouldn't bother to put in much effort or work hard since I knew no matter what I did I was guaranteed success. Probably fun the first couple of weeks, but I would bound to be bored and look for somewhere else to apply to. Now, If you put me in another job where under my 9…
/r/seduction03/01/12 07:20 PM
2

Gotta lay the foundation before you can build a house.
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:33 PM
12

A uncluttered room leads to a uncluttered mind.
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:22 PM
2

Seriously... wtf!
/r/seduction30/12/11 07:43 PM
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For someone living in Miami... it's not as difficult as you think.
/r/seduction29/12/11 03:32 PM
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Don't forget to ask them how much of the sale they get to pocket, with a sly grin on your face. As the topic creator mentioned, it helps break the mundane cycle of asking wither or not you found everything you were looking for or if you are a card member at XYZ. I saw this with experience working in retail as well, so believe him/her when he/she says that it's welcome to throw in a combo or to at the check out.
/r/seduction29/12/11 05:05 AM
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PART 4 (bonus) BAR #2 1.) Italian Girl HB7 This is short and sweet... walk into the bar and before I can get settled this girl opens me up, cool. Oh, she thinks i am gay due to dressing too well? Not cool. Honestly, i think there is a law somewhere that says if you live in South Florida you must wear Affliction, Tap Out, or Ed Hardy. No disrespect to anyone here who does but no thanks. Give me skinny jeans, ratty shirts, leather jackets, eyeliner, gaudy rings, and I'll be fine. I use the same li…
/r/seduction28/12/11 08:17 PM
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PART 3 2.) ALDO SHOES SALES GIRL HB7 Walk into a shoe store and see two cute females working. One addressed me as she does with every other person, but luckily I had said something that threw her off and she cut through her customers as if she had parted the sea and took interest into not only talking to me, but admiring my outfit and accessories (e.g. rings). See a trend here? Upon asking me how my day was, I proudly let her know on a 1 through 10 scale my day was a 11. She seemed thrown off, a…
/r/seduction28/12/11 08:16 PM
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PART 2 2.) NFL STORE BOOTH WORKER HB6.5 Another booth worker, and I recall her from last time I been to the mall. She looked cute but not her best... luckily I was and knew I can go in easily and ignite a conversation. Opened her by stating how from one cool person (me) to another cool person (her) we had to salute (she hands as I extended mine) because she as well had a nice sense of style. She complied and said thanks but that she wasn't actually dressed to her best capability (I kew, but she …
/r/seduction28/12/11 08:14 PM
1

When they ask, don't be guy #50 who flat out states what he does in order to impress a girl. Chances are it won't.
/r/seduction28/12/11 05:54 PM
1

and inner demons
/r/seduction27/12/11 11:57 PM
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But minus camera crew, boom stick operators, and lighting technician following them around a night club... I am sure the responses they get would change somewhat than what we see (edited) on television.
/r/seduction26/12/11 08:16 PM
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This show makes me feel AFC just watching. :/
/r/seduction26/12/11 08:08 PM
5

Awesome post, great read overall!
/r/seduction26/12/11 05:04 PM
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Hey bud, how is it going? I have a short and long answer for you. So here goes... Short Answer: Not as frequent as you would think. Long Answer: Not as frequent as you would think because honestly... getting laid is just the icing on the cake. Look, I won't say I haven't talked to a girl upon going to the downtown bar area with friends and getting frisky with her right there or chatting up with a girl via an online dating site and throwing her on my bed within the first date. But sometimes you w…
/r/seduction26/12/11 07:22 AM
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You're welcome my friend... believe me. I have been there, we all have at some point. Also, be sure to rip those youtube videos here and export them as mp3 files for your iPod. I use this as a motivation when out and running and it does wonders.
/r/seduction26/12/11 12:13 AM
3

Well written, reminds me of the 80/20 rule.
/r/seduction26/12/11 12:02 AM
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There are plenty of good things out there, I have each of these items bookmarked on my laptop (minus the books, which I already own). These 10 links have impacted me the most to go out there and get what I deserve. Because the truth is, stepping into this game you are going to be tested and have your fair share of failure/success. It's not so much what you do, wear, or act that will determine your success, it's how solid you are on the inside so you can take what comes your way and not even flin…
/r/seduction25/12/11 11:55 PM
1

Girls that drunk don't make the best type to number close.
/r/seduction25/12/11 09:00 PM
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Honestly, you should be talking to everyone and anyone when looking to build your confidence and/or social skills. Forget about HB9's and 10's. More than likely you'll either fuck it up or not know how to transition past your opener. Why would i say such a thing? Because you already did. So work on your inner game and learn that confidence is not something you wear on your chest only when you see an attractive girl. Confidence is something you wear 24/7 wither it's a HB1 or HB11.
/r/seduction25/12/11 08:34 PM
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Karma, karma, karma. edit: Real life karma, not reddit karma.
/r/seduction25/12/11 07:32 PM
3

The clothes make the man.
/r/seduction22/12/11 11:48 PM
1

Walked into a night club I frequent with several of my friends. Caught up the door girl (they charge for out-of-towners) and a random girl grabs my hand and tells me she wants me to talk to her friend. For the record, I'm sober and comply. Her friend is a hardcore HB9 yet strangely shy and almost in disbelief I was there infront of her. We make small talk, I can see her eyes wide-open and go for my fail-proof kiss close. Within 4 minutes we were kissing and I than stepped out to catch up with my…
/r/seduction22/12/11 04:07 PM
1

tl;dr Don't be like "everyone" else
/r/seduction22/12/11 03:51 PM
1

From what I recall, this goes back to Mystery(?) but I know Cajun tweaked it up and I think his rendition is perfect. It goes something like this... M: "Hey, let me ask you a quick question. Honestly... (pause) do I look like a drug dealer?" F: "No." (They can say yes, it's irrelevant) M: "Ok, because I just had the weirdest thing upon coming here. Before I even got to the entrance I had two girls call me over and they said "Hey, do you like to party?" Now I mean, sure... why else am I at [X] bu…
/r/seduction22/12/11 02:32 PM
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I'm 6'0" and weight in at 150lbs myself, but you know what? When I enter a bar or club I know all eyes are on me. I'm not exaggerating, I've had friends who work out more and out-weight me point it out as I walk up through and find a spot to talk with my friends or open up a set. You know why? Because in my head I am convinced I am a fucking rockstar who is the desire of many women. I say this to myself day in and day out and as a result of this it shows in my body language, facial expressions, …
/r/seduction21/12/11 05:29 PM
1

Ah, thank you for the clarification.
/r/seduction20/12/11 05:16 PM
1

This. Unless it is wrapped around their neck... than I view it as a accessory.
/r/seduction20/12/11 03:03 PM
5

Why limit yourself? Direct approach can be applied to anywhere. I've done direct game at bars, supermarkets, out walking, anywhere! Clearly you're not going to close with each one, but it cuts through a lot of the time and if they are the slightest bit interested they will bite. Hey, I could be wrong though. I just gotten a date when grocery shopping for bananas and honey roasted peanuts though.
/r/seduction20/12/11 03:01 PM
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1.) Work out, be it 15 minutes or 1 hour a day, 5 days a week... do it! 2.) Daily reconfirmations of how awesome you are infront of the mirror 3.) Keep a log of all the great things that happen in your life. 4.) Say hi to one new person a day 5.) Know that one day you will die, and that nothing will matter once this happens. 6.) Balance your spending, make a spreadsheet and ask if it is going to the best places. 7.) Push yourself to do something that makes you scared, game-related. 8.) Accept fa…
/r/seduction20/12/11 02:58 PM
1

Women like men who dress in clothes that they feel comfortable in and can rock out like no one else can.
/r/seduction19/12/11 06:49 PM
3

Those aren't the women you're going to want go after anyways.
/r/seduction19/12/11 06:48 PM
1

Tell your friend not to rely on other people's sobriety to talk to them.
/r/seduction19/12/11 05:31 PM
1

Use that emphasis of inner game to develop and fine tune material that is tailored to you and you'll do far better than any canned line you're given here. Trust me.
/r/seduction19/12/11 05:13 PM
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I understand nerves can get a hold of us but let me blunt with you... STOP LOOKING FOR APPROVAL TO DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO!
/r/seduction16/12/11 06:11 PM
5

You mean not do the same technique every other guy and every other club at every other given time does? Damn!
/r/seduction16/12/11 05:12 PM
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Hey bud, couple of things that may help... 1.) Try to reframe by asking her availability when striking up the idea of going out. Subconsciously this makes it appear her schedule determines if and when the date occurs. 2.) Initiate the date by having a day, time, and location in mind. Is it caveman-like? Sure, but it will cut through the 20 questions crap of when and where the date happens. Huge time saver! 3.) To prevent the risk of asking which day she is available I always go in by stating 2 d…
/r/seduction16/12/11 02:05 AM
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Who is telling you women hate sex? Women are just as sexual as men are, in fact perhaps more since they are capable to orgasm far more during intercourse than a man can. Edit: sarcasm detector needed to have the batteries replaced.
/r/seduction15/12/11 10:27 PM
2

I respect your thoughts on this, but have to disagree at the same time. I prefer to lean back, but upon the few times I do lean in, I make sure to use it as a means of building kino by placing my arm around her or hand on the back of her neck.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:34 PM
3

Thank you and well said. This is why I keep my body language on "attraction" mode and make it so other people reflect mine or at the very least take notice to what I am doing.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:33 PM
1

Only if you believe it will.
/r/seduction14/12/11 09:34 PM
2

good grief!
/r/seduction14/12/11 09:34 PM
1

kudos, I think this further enforces how critical the "3 second rule" can be when out and in field.
/r/seduction14/12/11 07:45 PM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction14/12/11 04:59 AM
18

I'd suggest a movie for you to watch, but I'd be breaking the first two rules.
/r/seduction13/12/11 09:47 PM
3

For the record, girls don't swarm douchebags, not all the times anyways, they swarm the guy that doesn't care what others think or restrict themselves to their own limitations. Be that guy.
/r/seduction13/12/11 02:37 PM
1

If it's a beer bottle, place it by your side (as if it were a handgun) and hold it by the neck of the bottle. Glass of wine? Easy, place your fingers underneath where the stem of the glass ends, same goes for a martini.
/r/seduction13/12/11 02:33 PM
2

It's considered a sign of discomfort and being uneasy. Sort of like a safety blanket when at a nightclub or the guy who has his hands sunk into his front jean pockets. Also, it's a physical barrier when talking to a girl. You're easily able to get closer without having anything get in the way with your drink to your side rather then having it up and near your chest.
/r/seduction12/12/11 10:03 PM
3

This is why I have a Nintendo Wii in the bedroom.
/r/seduction12/12/11 07:45 PM
1

You're doing perfectly fine and any sticking points (e.g. Kino) you already touched upon are things you already addressed.
/r/seduction11/12/11 05:44 PM
1

Short answer, callback humor. Long answer, you need to make sure in these case scenarios you can bring something up that you guys did, discussed, or saw where it's something that she can associate with you and you alone. For example, I often times joke to a girl I open that her job, before she can tell me, is being a ninja. So without going the typical of route, after number closing, that I am "X", from location "Y", on the day of "Z" and I wanna know blah blah blah I can instead go "Hey ninja w…
/r/seduction11/09/11 10:00 PM
2

Awesome, thanks for the laugh.
/r/seduction11/09/11 09:49 PM
3

With emotions, problems, good days, and bad. Don't dismiss others based on their profession, we are all equal to a certain extent.
/r/seduction11/09/11 09:48 PM
3

good man
/r/seduction09/09/11 10:53 PM
0

I dunno why the most logical response got the most downvotes. Look you're dealing with people, they don't come with manuals so don't treat them like machinery.
/r/seduction09/09/11 10:42 PM
1

No apologies needed, I post this for feedback and criticism. Thanks for taking the time to do so, I will make note and improve upon the points mentioned.
/r/seduction09/09/11 07:59 PM
1

You noticed that as well?
/r/seduction09/09/11 08:23 AM
3

This, it's easy to get a phone number... girls will throw them at you. However, it's another thing to have that girl want to continue talking to you and meet up afterwards.
/r/seduction09/09/11 02:05 AM
2

you know me man, always looking to brighten someone's day and bring something new into their life.
/r/seduction08/09/11 10:58 PM
2

My job, I have to take mental notes. I work in a creative field and if you give me a pen and paper I'll end up filling up the entire sheet with nothing but drawings and not know what was spoken about. It's that or I fall asleep and drool on myself, I let the presenter pick which they prefer. Oh and I posted the FR after I placed things in my fridge as it was still fresh.
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:23 PM
1

Hey man, thanks for posting your thoughts. If this wasn't my FR I'd be saying more so the same thing you've already said. Attraction was lower then I would have liked but sometimes as is the case with some of the sets you're going to open. As stated before, thinking back to that FR I noticed attraction-levels were low. But based on how lively and flowing the convo went I know I touched upon opening her, transitioning into a variety of topics, building comfort, and closing her in the end. I'll cr…
/r/seduction08/09/11 09:19 PM
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100% Agree. I try to make an effort to do this each and every day, a little "hello" with a smile can go a long way!
/r/seduction08/09/11 08:55 PM
5

Take it from me, there are no bad ideas... just good one's and one's that come with a lesson. I never personally had asked a female to be my shopping companion because that never crossed my mind. Now that you've mentioned it, it's something I would like to personally try and see what would happen. I don't believe such things are off limits, in fact nothing should be. I often tell my friends how I ask women wither or not they know how to cook. You'll often see them gasp or bawk at the thought of …
/r/seduction08/09/11 08:53 PM
3

"Playful attitude, but not arrogant." Def! I realized getting into the game way far back that this frame/avatar worked out better for me then others. Again, this is what worked for me.. . everyone is different. But it works as it leads to easy-going convo's that can range from anything, be it what their dream job is or wither they can cook or not. "Didn't have to SAY you were confident or that she was lucky to be talking with you. Your actions and presence spoke for themselves." This reminds me …
/r/seduction08/09/11 08:43 PM
1

Wolf, I am glad you brought that up because that was one thing I noticed once I returned home and put my groceries away. It was more asexual then prior conversations I've had with women, but I see it as something to learn from to when I open up the next girl. However, the excessive role playing evened things out since it leads to an easy way to start a conversation with her. Thanks for posting though, always good to hear from you and read your 2 cents on seddit.
/r/seduction08/09/11 08:33 PM
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In South Florida, yes. I've discussed things ranging from ninja turtles to selling our chubby children off to the circus. It suits my frame and leads to some friendly, rememberable banter.
/r/seduction08/09/11 06:28 PM
1

I appreciate the feedback, I think the layout comes due to my type of work (advertising designer), so layout is always on my mind. I'm with you on shopping though, def helps out but as stated already... makes for such an easy way to talk to cute customers or even workers at wherever you are. I've actually had it happen where I would bump into someone whom I had opened before just minutes later at the frozen meals aisle or what not and I just play it off. I'll say something along the lines of, "T…
/r/seduction08/09/11 04:08 PM
1

Hmmm... That soda bit makes for a good opener or transition to me..
/r/seduction08/09/11 06:51 AM
1

Thanks, I try to pull the best from all sorts of sources that I feel may apply best to me. So, some items are scripted and others textbook but the real fun is when you go completely improv and see the conversation still flowing. As far as the day 2 or anything afterwards I make an effort not to become outcome-dependent. That is not to say I don't appreciate the kind words, I just know when I close one girl I'm already questioning when I'll be opening the other. After all, a number is only worth …
/r/seduction08/09/11 05:14 AM
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Oh man, the supermarket is a gold mine! Think about it, these women are there and are far from expecting to be approached. This may intimidate the common man but for people such as you or myself, it makes for an even stronger impression. Just make sure not to go in without a basket or cart, otherwise you really have no business being there but gawk at the cute girls that go there. But make sure to go on the weekdays, evening times. Families and parents invade them on the weekends otherwise.
/r/seduction08/09/11 05:12 AM
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Thanks, I am always looking for people's thoughts and feedback on my game and I'll make notes on the things you've addressed. I totally agree with you about body language, I stress it out in a lot of my posts, and even taken improv classes to enhance em. I've been doing it on and off for a 3 years off and on, but some things worth mentioning... Been heavily into night game until not too long ago (drunk girls = meh) Got out of a long-term relationship that was near 2.5 years long about 2 months a…
/r/seduction08/09/11 05:10 AM
3

congrats on your accomplishments thus far and keep at it! you're doing great and making great progress.
/r/seduction08/09/11 04:27 AM
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TL;DR to the TL;DR: Self confidence = game
/r/seduction07/09/11 08:35 PM
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and in result, i upvoted you.
/r/seduction07/09/11 08:34 PM
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People, upvote this to the top!
/r/seduction07/09/11 08:15 PM
1

Not responding to a text message is totally different and in no way should be treated as mentioned in my prev post. But as you said, it's all a matter of opinion. While I appreciate the kind gesture, I'd be liar if I were to say I did that to everyone whoever called me at a bad time.
/r/seduction07/09/11 07:54 PM
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FYI, no club in their right mind will allow you to walk in a camera guy beside you without the proper papers and permission from management. Also, find something better to do with your time then going to clubs and watching those who already have it tough enough "failing". People go there to relax, get a drink, and eye-fuck girls whom they may or may not approach. They don't need a stranger with a halloween costume to watch them and admire their "failing".
/r/seduction07/09/11 07:50 PM
1

I never put much taught into it until a friend went out of her way to do so whenever I called her and it was a bad time. She explained to me how she rather pick up a phone and take 5 seconds to let the person know that while she is aware that they called, she is unable to talk to them but will make an attempt go call back. This small notion is just being courteous of others taking the time to get in touch with you and letting them know their call did not fall on deaf ears, thats all.
/r/seduction07/09/11 07:44 PM
1

common courtesy, thats all.
/r/seduction07/09/11 07:29 PM
2

Why are you bothering with someone who isn't even giving you clear signs when they are in a sober state of mind? Looks like you've been after this girl for a while. Learn from the experience and pursuit someone more worth your time.
/r/seduction07/09/11 05:33 PM
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Dunno why this is down voted, as it's pretty sincere advice. One thing I would change however is instead of asking to call later simply state it. For example... "Hey, I'm about to head out. Call you tonight at 9."
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:57 PM
3

love this reply!
/r/seduction07/09/11 01:25 PM
0

At this point, it will probably be more awkward then flirtatious. Not trying to burst your bubble, but you had your 1-on-1 with her and it felt as if you were two buddies just hanging out. That was the window of opportunity, learn and re-apply to the next girl.
/r/seduction07/09/11 02:16 AM
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So is working out, your socializing skills are like a muscle. You gotta put in use, give it some rest, and then go back it.
/r/seduction07/09/11 01:49 AM
7

I am iffy about sunglasses to be honest. Yes they help establish a "bad ass" frame, but lets not forget how crucial eye contact is. If someone wearing sunglasses is staring in my direction, I wouldn't know wither or not they are looking at me, at something behind me, or something infront. Eyes are the window to the soul, so perhaps in mid-convo removing them to build a better connection? Oh and as far as creating distance, I totally agree. Isn't there a saying where it's said distance brings peo…
/r/seduction07/09/11 01:47 AM
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I agree with clutchPUA. I'm not surprised this girl had second thoughts, but what I am surprised is how you felt this date was tame. I say that because when I go out with a girl I don't want to be guy #87 who wants to see her naked and/or sleep with her. Instead I want to stand out as an individual who will leave her wanting more by giving her less. Believe, you can drive a woman far more wild by simply leaving your hand on her (outer) thigh then running your hand up her shirt while in the middl…
/r/seduction07/09/11 01:43 AM
1

Respond with "what is it about cute guys you find attractive?" and boom, still creating a sexual attraction. No need to look for specific words to guess wither or not it's sexually attractive or not.
/r/seduction06/09/11 10:43 PM
1

Want confidence? Watch the video I linked below. Yes, probably beyond nerdy but the words said couldn't apply more to the insecurities and doubts we (all people) have in life. you're welcome
/r/seduction06/09/11 08:53 PM
1

Now que "The more you know!" shooting star.
/r/seduction06/09/11 08:40 PM
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To answer your questions, you can reply to her but freeze her out for a good while because ideally you're someone who is so busy (and this actually should be a goal of yours) that you need to find time to fit girls in your life. In the case where I'm looking to re-ignite with a girl who i number closed, a week sounds about right but I don't go straight for the kill by asking her out. I try to let it simmer and just let her know what is going on in my life. Perhaps the day after I'll mention a re…
/r/seduction06/09/11 01:52 AM
1

If this happens more then it should, chances are she is becoming creeped out. Stop eye fucking her and start taking action.
/r/seduction05/09/11 06:23 PM
6

As someone who takes pleasure and actively pursuits direct approach, this will repel women in seconds. I don't know wither or not you are new to seduction or have opened anyone prior to making this post but I hope you are open to constructive criticism. For starters, I'll applaud you for wanting to go direct. Nothing builds courage and moxy like a guy who can walk up to a stranger and tell her immediately that she is attractive and someone who you want to know. Only time this normally happens to…
/r/seduction05/09/11 04:39 PM
1

Props for listening to your senses and know opportunities like these will appear again. learn, live, and go at it again when the time strikes.
/r/seduction05/09/11 12:55 AM
4

Never ever just slip your number and suggest you hang out. if it were that easy then everyone in the world would be fucking the people they gave a piece of paper to.
/r/seduction02/09/11 09:20 PM
5

This, it's her first day... she has enough on her mind to excel in her job and fit in with her peers. Be there for her, but be subtle and know she's there primarily for work. More then likely, your job or people whom she will work with will want to take her out to lunch or do something after work. This is ideally the best time to build up your rapport with her.
/r/seduction02/09/11 02:02 PM
5

The classic hand on the shoulder move, it never fails. I had worked as a waiter once and it was a given that by touching a customer's shoulder and leaning in closer, they would feel closer to you thus resulting in a bigger tip. Being a male this didn't help much but for the female waiters it was gold. Though while I am not discrediting her flirtatious ways, it's def. something to keep an eye out when dining out and getting a cute waitress. Some pointers that may help your game, only because I've…
/r/seduction02/09/11 06:51 AM
1

Kudos on taking constructive criticism, applying it in your game, and reporting back. keep at it Wolf, you're doing great!
/r/seduction02/09/11 03:45 AM
1

"hey, bunny..." "hey, button..." "hey, jelly bean..."
/r/seduction01/09/11 05:15 PM
1

alcoholic anonymous, here take a pamphlet.
/r/seduction31/08/11 02:11 PM
3

1.) They genuinely love them and don't want to see it as a waste of time. 2.) They become insecure and believe they won't do better 3.) They believe they can change their partner 4.) They hold no self-respect. 5.) Every other reason not listed in 1-4.
/r/seduction30/08/11 08:28 PM
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I'm not overweight myself, but this reminds me of a guy I saw once when i went to a local club. He was a heavier guy but his body language and inner confidence made it appear as if he was better looking then the guys who were skinnier or in better shape. I actually stopped to stare at this guy and admire the fact that despite not being in the greatest of shape he took great care of how he was dressed and came off where women were fully engaged to what he was saying.
/r/seduction30/08/11 08:25 PM
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Call them out on their shit. Yes, I'm serious. This was the case for me when I attended a (former) co-worker's farewell party. One of her friends who is not affiliated with the company we work for attended and was a solid HB8. However, she was on the prowl to destroy any man that came her way and whip them in shape to do favors for her. Eventually I got tired of seeing her push my friends around so I flat out told her she can get a lot further in life if she stopped acting like a kid and dropped…
/r/seduction30/08/11 08:15 PM
1

Depends what you're looking for. If it's having a substantial conversation and putting a smile on someone's face, then I prefer day game as it allows me to go direct and cut to the chase. If it's having a fun unexpected time and k-closing then night game. Sure, the girls there are out knowing they are going to get/give attention but it's all in fun and practically anything goes. If I had to pick one though, day game.
/r/seduction30/08/11 08:04 PM
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relevant
/r/seduction29/08/11 06:55 PM
3

Honestly, the longer you take the slimmer your chances.
/r/seduction29/08/11 06:16 PM
1

Agreed, like I always told my friends "a number is only worth as much as the paper it's written on." Meaning, it's worthelss and not even worth clinging on to. When you get her on the phone, make plans, and meet up again... then you have something.
/r/seduction29/08/11 03:33 PM
1

honestly, if smiling with your face has you questioning yourself then I suggest learning to smile with your eyes.
/r/seduction29/08/11 01:24 PM
5

I just tell myself... 1.) They weren't ready 2.) There are billions of other females out there 3.) No hard feelings
/r/seduction29/08/11 01:19 PM
1

Hey, if I understand are you going up to ppl and opening direct while stacking with a instant-date? If so, talk about going for the kill.
/r/seduction28/08/11 11:41 PM
1

That is a insult, not a neg.
/r/seduction28/08/11 08:02 PM
1

Stop creating excuses, that bullet-list was painful to read through. I think first and foremost you need to know who you are, what you want, and how to get it. After that do something that is completely akward for you, does not even have to be seduction-related. Then, gradually come to interacting with people, anyone and everyone, and learn to just enjoy the interactions and not worry about the outcome.
/r/seduction28/08/11 07:59 PM
3

Opened up a handful of ppl at the local supermarket while grocery shopping
/r/seduction27/08/11 08:32 PM
2

wait till the iAMA pops up because of this
/r/seduction26/08/11 01:44 PM
2

Yup, make it a priority to greet people each day, wise words here.
/r/seduction26/08/11 11:55 AM
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This is 100% true and something I always remind myself to do (along with smiling and posture) when I go out. Women will show interest based on how they return the eye contact and for how long. So say I get a good vibe, I'll either stick my tongue out at her and play that as my pre-opener. Or better yet, approach her and say "You can't just stare at me like that and not say something." Boom! Now I'm in and the conversation flows.
/r/seduction26/08/11 02:42 AM
1

Yup
/r/seduction25/08/11 09:12 PM
2

I'll just like to add, it's ok to lean in IF you take it as a opportunity to build kino. I know I may get stoned for suggesting this but tell me another opportunity you'll have to easily place your hand on the back of her neck and lightly grip on to it. Trust me when I say, not just anyone does that to her.... those are the actions that will trigger the thought "oh, i like that and it's not something i would expect someone to do to me".
/r/seduction25/08/11 07:13 PM
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Don't pull a "beer gaurd" and clutch your drink over your chest. Have it where you hold on to the base, lower your arm so your hand is beside your thigh, and maintain it there. It's tough at first because by default we put the beer over our chest, but sub-consciously it says "keep back from me!" and creates a barrier between getting closer to the girl you're talking to. Make sure you project your voice. More then likely you're going to be in a crowded area where there will be all sorts of things…
/r/seduction25/08/11 06:15 PM
1

Thank you
/r/seduction25/08/11 05:52 PM
6

Perhaps you confused me with the person who created the diagram. This is, in my opinion, an overkill on how to talk to a person.
/r/seduction25/08/11 04:25 PM
6

Agreed, who thinks this far in-depth when approaching a girl? She's a person to talk to, not a bomb to diffuse.
/r/seduction25/08/11 04:17 PM
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It's stuff like this that scares me. It's ok to get off "auto-pilot mode" and just... dare I say, be yourself. The over-analyzing, scripted responses, and memorized lines don't give people any idea as to who you are. It's corny, but if you have enough things happening in your life and are always doing things outside of seduction, you'll automatically be interesting to others. Like WolfInTheField suggested, this may work for newbies, but for others it may be an overkill. Just enjoy the interactio…
/r/seduction25/08/11 04:12 PM
1

True story
/r/seduction25/08/11 05:19 AM
1

Thanks Petie, nice jib on leaving the voice mail! You summed it up perfectly when you said you at least took the opportunity. Sone guys never do out of fear or pride, but I can tell you this... you did more then the 100 or so guys she encountered that stopped from texting, calling, or leaving a voice mail out of uncertainty. You rock, keep at it!
/r/seduction25/08/11 03:32 AM
1

Agree, improv is the best thing I had ever done, helps you in so many ways. It should be a must for anyone looking to do seduction.
/r/seduction25/08/11 03:27 AM
2

Sometimes it is far better to end things naturally then to prolong by stretching it out. You can remain friends but learn to let go and go with the low.
/r/seduction25/08/11 03:20 AM
4

I concur, excellent post
/r/seduction24/08/11 06:17 PM
4

listen to me...never, ever, ever pass up on leaving a voice mail. This is worst thing you can possibly do because it gives little to no reason why she should return your call. Sure, people nowadays are less likely to check their voice mail, but it doesn't mean they don't get the notification that they got one. If they are interested they will listen, and this is why it is important to always leave one! I make sure to always do this, and more specifically leave one that rekindles our date or inte…
/r/seduction24/08/11 04:29 AM
1

Agreed. 110%
/r/seduction24/08/11 03:53 AM
2

Good thing you have patience, perhaps these small exercises can help out because I made the jump recently from night game to day game. It takes four weeks in total but I am sure it will help do wonders because the confidence is there, it just needs to be developed like a muscle. Week 1: Go out and say hello to every single person possible, no matter where you are. More importantly do this while maintaining eye contact. What this does it show that people are more then likely willing to respond an…
/r/seduction24/08/11 03:33 AM
1

Just... stop! You've dug yourself in a hole and best thing is to just step aside and let it be for a couple of days and just continue as normal and learn from it.
/r/seduction23/08/11 10:58 PM
1

First of all, great post. I think the true signs of someone wanting to benefit their social/personal life is when they can openly admit the areas they need to improve on. With that said... Transitioning from my opener when I do direct approach in the day Throw in false time constraints (FTC) in mid-convo Remembering their names (prefer nicknames) Wake up with enough time to put together an amazing outfit Lowering my own guard and revealing my interest in a girl.
/r/seduction23/08/11 07:40 PM
3

Believe me buddy, you will meet better and more attractive women. I can relate in ways and it does get better over time. Hang in there!
/r/seduction23/08/11 07:32 PM
2

A girl who can maintain eye contact, it's very appealing.
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:33 PM
1

"Where can I find a veggie burger at this time?" Resulted in a k-close. Regardless, shelved that opener.
/r/seduction23/08/11 12:43 AM
2

Ha, funny. I actually stack into a routine I run that boosts my value, her interest, and a wide range of sub-topics we can converse about.
/r/seduction23/08/11 12:41 AM
0

Yes, nothing taught through sedduction is gender-biased. It is human psychology really, thus applying to both men and women.
/r/seduction23/08/11 12:39 AM
2

"You don't look like you're from here, where do you hail from?"
/r/seduction22/08/11 09:15 PM
2

Thanks pal! Now fixed.
/r/seduction22/08/11 08:55 PM
1

With the windows down and speakers up, I love to blast "Good Morning Beatiful" by the Deftones. Link: http://youtu.be/fKRN4R64rVs
/r/seduction22/08/11 07:46 PM
2

Ha, good times nonetheless. Ya, it's a rich area to go out as you've come to find out. Nice FR and close there.
/r/seduction22/08/11 07:43 PM
2

By any chance was this at Riverfront? This comes from someone else who lives in fort lauderdale? If so, kudos. That place is a overflowing amount of girls to open up. I know because I was there as well, began at Tarpon Bend and ended at America's Backyard.
/r/seduction22/08/11 07:38 PM
3

First of all, kudos for putting yourself out there more and doing something that most guys couldn't do. Despite the outcome know that your odds are always better then the guy who never took any. The anxiety will never go away completely, even the best feel it. What you do instead is embrace it and repeat to yourself some saying or belief that will let you leap over that hurdle. For example, I always tell myself "look, you're going to die one day and be 6ft under, make the best of every situation…
/r/seduction22/08/11 03:13 PM
3

What's most important is that what you do makes you feel comfortable and confident in yourself. I'm someone whom is very comfortable saying exactly what is on my mind, so that approach fits my frame. An example of this was just last Friday when I was at a co-workers farewell party at a local bar. One of her friends was a good looking yet really loud female who took pleasure in telling people to do stuff for her (e.g. move this table here, get me another drink, stop talking, etc.) and most were p…
/r/seduction22/08/11 01:41 PM
4

Subliminal messaging at its finest.
/r/seduction22/08/11 12:29 PM
1

Perhaps, but that is only one way to look at it. If you're blunt about it with no tonality it can come off as creepy. If it is said in a humor-like way it will more then likely get a laugh. Act suave if it works, but for others cocky/funny works may work as well. It is all about delivery.
/r/seduction22/08/11 12:28 PM
0

I like your methods of getting to know a person.
/r/seduction22/08/11 05:18 AM
2

This is a sticking point of mine when going direct in the day. Great find!
/r/seduction22/08/11 05:15 AM
9

You know what though, sometimes girls like these who believe they can talk to people any way they want need a wake-up call and get shit thrown back at them. I am not saying insult them or embarrass them, but throw them off what they expect to hear back (e.g. "oh, ok I guess you're right... sorry") and they'll change their attitude or at least respect the fact you can shoot shit back. I've experienced this first hand and you'll be surprised how much they change once they get told "no, you're not …
/r/seduction22/08/11 03:40 AM
59

"I'm taller laying down"
/r/seduction22/08/11 12:30 AM
2

pps...stop making majority of the replies come from me. edit button!
/r/seduction21/08/11 10:18 PM
2

:) yup, no doubt about it.
/r/seduction21/08/11 10:16 PM
1

With the dogs, I found if I left it naturally came up it helped a good deal. We discussed our backgrounds and how she came here but does not reside with any family. I mentioned I know the feeling to an extent, and then stacked how I have these two party roommates though that make up for it. Also, what helped is the context in how it's said. Naturally I appeared flustered describing them, even to where I would pause, look away, and continue to gather the right words to describe them. So hopefully…
/r/seduction21/08/11 10:16 PM
5

Ok, for the record. I totally got burnt/owned/caught by my ex whom I still live with. Why? Well for where it benefits both of us. She gets to save up $$$ to relocate else where and do what she loves and I get $$$ to cover some of the bills. Yes, probably really awkward for most people, but we work opposite schedules on most days hence it's not really a problem. As far as her replying to this thread, which I find absolutely hilarious, I'd like to clear up a few things... My ex and I will at no ti…
/r/seduction21/08/11 09:34 PM
4

ps...he used those sams things on me but in different context...
/r/seduction21/08/11 07:51 PM
3

and like an asshole he left this on the laptop....smart man!
/r/seduction21/08/11 07:49 PM
4

yeah well what he didnt post is that he still lives with his ex of 2 + years and that skank bitch used my skateboard and touched MY dogs....and that we still sleep in the same bed...so yeah that's so awesome that he has to be sneaky and brring her over when i'm not home....
/r/seduction21/08/11 07:48 PM
1

I agree. You're already doing her a favor that not even her friends would do. There is being nice, and then there is being overly nice with you wanting something in return. This shows the latter. How? Adding your phone number at the end showcases that and as a general rule, grab on to your nuts and be the man who gets her number first. I also suggest the stick figure route if you plan to go forward with this, as it is light hearted, humorous, and doesn't put pressure on you to worry wither or no…
/r/seduction21/08/11 03:38 PM
1

I agree with your agreement
/r/seduction21/08/11 02:21 PM
2

I 2nd reading Bang! Such a good book, especially the first half, covers so much about confidence and shattering your fears.
/r/seduction21/08/11 01:23 AM
2

I totally hear you as my type of work involves talking with people in person, text, and video chat. What that does though is puts you in a prime situation to subtly work your communication skills that you would put into use when going out. I don't mean negs or qualifiers butninstead tonality, clarity, and delivery. So keep that in mind. It really seems as if you are giving it your all and that is great! There are always going to be missed opportunities though and that is ok, what you should do i…
/r/seduction21/08/11 01:15 AM
1

I remind myself that who I am is what girls want and what I carry tastes like ice cream to them.
/r/seduction21/08/11 01:06 AM
3

Stop reading and watching videos, like now. You're not instantly going to gain confidence over night so I suggest doing it in steps, with each one lasting a week. Ready? Step 1. Start waving and saying hello to everyone you encounter. From the mail man to the person making your subway sandwich. Is it Alsace? Maybe, depending on where you're at but it will show you complete strangers are easy to greet and get a smile out of. Step 2. Approach random people and ask every day questions. Such as "Wha…
/r/seduction21/08/11 01:00 AM
2

Smart man
/r/seduction21/08/11 12:07 AM
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Stop thinking so hard, in this case act more and think less. I get the sense that you ponder while out or before approaching a girl/set. By doing so, correct me If I was wrong, you're going to convince yourself out of even opening them up. People can sense when someone wants to talk to them and when they don't and it becomes a pleasant surprise when they are now in a conversation with you. I want you to walk around as if you had a rod coming out of your back and coming out your ass. You would pr…
/r/seduction20/08/11 08:18 PM
1

Or get to the clubs earlier. Smaller selection in exchange for a more sober crowd.
/r/seduction20/08/11 02:47 PM
1

There is no magic line or routine. You're asking for a lot to be done with little to work with, I am afraid.
/r/seduction20/08/11 05:01 AM
2

Maybe not go out with people for the sake of seeing it as a medal of honor. Dealing with other people's feelings and emotions. Come on, man.
/r/seduction19/08/11 09:34 PM
5

how many times have you used this?
/r/seduction19/08/11 06:05 PM
1

Probably late to the party here but def give her a hug. if she gives a "meh" hug, place your hands on her shoulders and confirm her that you're anti-kitty kat hugs and prefer a bear hug...go in for the re-hug. Forward? Yes, but sets for a fun tone.
/r/seduction19/08/11 04:05 PM
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That is awesome that you went direct on a group of 3 females, and you definitely appeared to maintain your frame while gaining the approval of the other two females. My only qualm is that if a female has to ask you a question before giving you her number, it's because she is showing resistance. If she asks for your age ask that she guess first and say something along the lines of... "OMG! You are totally.....wrong! I am actually..." This way, you're turning her shit test into a game for her to t…
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:55 PM
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I'd like to add that any material you feel is worth sharing to make sure you've actually used it at LEAST 10 times before posting it to the community. This way you know it's legit, have tweaked it accordingly, and know what response will be followed by it.
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:48 PM
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For starters, nicely done on "seeing the matrix" and breaking new ground. The feeling is riveting and leads you to believe nothing can stop you. Find a way to harness and maintain this way of thinking and you'll never look at rejection as something to be upset about, but more so happy because it gives you instant feedback on what to tweak. For things I would advise, and this is based on my style/method, I would suggest the following... 1.) Sounds like you went in with both a direct and indrect o…
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:06 PM
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I'll be honest with you, I have a speech impediment as well where on a certain word I may lock up and have to struggle to get it out. It's not a studder, but more so like I'm looking for the right word to get out. But it never gets in my way, know why? 1.) 90% of communication is done by body language, 10% by the words you say. If you want proof, dig up some silent films and see how an entire story is told merely by the actions of the characters on screen. You can literally let a girl know you w…
/r/seduction19/08/11 02:32 PM
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"you're cool, i think I'm going to fold you in half and keep you in my back pocket. Best part is that it comes with a sweet ass view, no literally".
/r/seduction19/08/11 02:15 PM
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steps man, it's all steps.
/r/seduction19/08/11 02:10 PM
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Brilliantly said!
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:18 PM
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1.) Make up your own routine 2.) If not #1, admit to using a routine and claim it's your best.
/r/seduction18/08/11 05:54 PM
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All sound advice, but lets not forget to talk to ANYONE! Men, women, old, young, fat, skinny, etc. You'll be surprised by how much you learn and improve upon by just having a every day conversation with the people whom you would otherwise ignore. So when you go out to lunch, perhaps Subway, strike a conversation with the guy standing behind you. Chances are, he's bored out of his mind and in need of some change.
/r/seduction18/08/11 05:53 PM
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believing that you already are good looking.
/r/seduction17/08/11 07:57 PM
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Really, well put.
/r/seduction17/08/11 07:18 PM
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looks hold value for reason, sight is the most dominant sense out of the 5. I don't believe women are as frugal as men when it comes to looks, but I think they still uphold general appearance and hygiene to be a quality they can sense and appreciate.
/r/seduction17/08/11 06:15 PM
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“You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.” - Wayne Gretzky Far better to take open up a set and take a shot then never attempting at all. Honestly, there is no failure in this. Worst case you walk away learning something new be it what you said, how you said it, body language, etc.
/r/seduction17/08/11 04:32 PM
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shaving hairy dolphins
/r/seduction16/08/11 09:20 PM
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