| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | How to handle ex boyfriends? | MarkTheWanderer | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 03:39 AM | |
| 2 | Using what I learned | MarkTheWanderer | /r/seduction | 02/04/14 09:28 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Adapting seddit/PUA advice to nerdier girls?Pretty girls can be nerdy too, looks don't define everything about a girl. | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Got Stood Up Today For The First Time...Up to you friend, sounds like she's at your mercy now. Don't keep you're hopes up but I wouldn't turn down free lunch from an ex crush! | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Rejecting girls and how it's been treating me.Yeah, in my short career I quickly learned to never bring this up. | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Rejecting girls and how it's been treating me.Good to hear some positive feedback too, but a major issue with me is my sexual identity. I think I'm Asexual, meaning I'm not interested in sex. But it seems its a major part of a relationship so I think its time to start getting down too it... | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Rejecting girls and how it's been treating me.I guess it is just an ego boost for me, I think I keep telling myself I already got as far as I want because I'm afraid of failing by pushing further. Looks like I got more work to do, thanks for the feedback. | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 05:17 PM |
| 11 | When you don't receive a responseYou joke about it but some of these guys will actually do this... | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 03:24 PM |
| 1 | So, about the phrase "don't shit where you eat..."Like the top comment, if you do start talking to a girl in your class make sure you both keep it on the DL. The last thing you want to do is come off as the player type, I've made this mistake. I also feel it depends how you handle rejection, high school is a very different environment then public places. You'll be their ever day and people will recognize you. Don't be "That guy". | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 03:26 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm unhealthily obsessed with pickup and taking action.Like AA? That's something you need to break past on your own, just warm up instead of reading more into it. Talk to some friends or say hi to someone you sit next too on the bus. Personally if I don't see a vibe within the first few seconds of the approach I simply cut it short. Look for IOI's and work from their. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 03:14 AM |
| 3 | I think I'm unhealthily obsessed with pickup and taking action.Take a break for a few days and reflect why. Don't start your day off with plans to approach just simply do it when you feel the vibe is right. Soon it just comes natural and you won't need to read all the self help crap. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 02:43 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Tried picking up girls in a gay club last night, failed bar approach of HB9.Sounds like she just wasn't interested, sounds like you did fine too me. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, What's your biggest obstacle. +mini[FR]Grats man, AA is holding too many people back. As for my obstacle it's my teeth, the top half are scraggly and I don't fully smile because of them. Going to be getting the bastards fixed soon though. I've yet to get called out on them by a girl but they really do hold me back on when I'm talking. | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Tips/tricks/routines v. genuine confidence (and my story)You know what, this post needs to be on the side bar. When I first came to this reddit I had the oneits for a girl who friend zoned me. I didn't starting reading this sub to get girls, I read it to make a better me. It helped, but I realized half way through my practice that I wasn't really all that fucked in the first place. I never knew that the reason I was getting girls was because of all the PUA bullshit, it's because I cared about myself more. I did what I wanted, I acted how I wanted to b… | /r/seduction | 24/04/14 12:21 AM |
| 1 | I have an issue: losing interestI have a similar issue, actually. I'm honestly not sure and I feel really shitty about it... I honestly look forward to rejections now, I think we just need to find one we can break the general rules of seduction with and go from their. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Starting out with internet dating - a bit of profile help neededPictures with groups and funny pictures in general helps a lot, stay away from selfies. As for bands I only list my favorite genres and a song. I'd save most of the extra info for conversation later. Just keep your profile straight forward and interesting. Better profile leads to more girls making first contact, that's about it really. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 03:04 AM |
| 3 | I think I messed upBeen in the same boat... My best advice to you, delete her number and start talking to other girls. If she comes back then cudos to you, if not screw it, she missed out on you. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 02:55 AM |
| 0 | How to ask out or create attraction with an acquaintance/friend?If you're in the friend zone it's probably best for both of you to stay their, and this is coming from my experiences... If it's the case where you just met and are buddies you can probably just look for some IOI's and just make your move like you would any other girl. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 02:47 AM |
| 1 | After the age-old debate, and first-hand experience, "calling vs. texting" - this is what I've found.Hmm, well I can't argue this but I personally enjoy texting. It doesn't have to just be girls, sending a message now and again and typing out conversations can be fun for both parties. I think older women might prefer calling over texting though, it really does depend on age and location. | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Quick things I can implement? going out in a few hours in goal of meeting girls...Work yourself until you no longer need the advice or feel insecure. Someone on this reddit gave me the best advice I ever got. "Fake it till you make it" It works, and once you're at the authentic confident stage you're set. | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Pushing too hard vs. Not far enoughNo is a no to me, I just go back to how we were before. Most girls will give you the go when they're dtf. | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Please help me settle a dispute.. it's an audio recording of a field report where I went to talk to my friend about leaving and tried hard to stay neutral but the girl he was talking to jumped my bones. she grabbed shirt and pulled me in so I kissed her... then she wouldn't let upIf she's not interested in your friend it's not your fault. He's going to get over it by getting under another girl. | /r/seduction | 19/04/14 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Kino on the First Date: Need adviceThat... Is a good idea. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Seducing or acting on IOIs from a woman with a boyfriend - This sub needs helpSure man, sleeping with taken girls is totally fine. If you're an asshole, it's a matter of morality. I don't date girls who cheat and I don't even consider having sex with them. I don't think that makes me a better person but it's just what I feel is right. I respect that people have separate opinions on the subject but your post mostly stated what everyone here has heard before. I have no problem if you want to sleep with these girls but don't think that you can justify it by claiming it's not… | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 02:33 AM |
| 2 | [Question] When, if ever, do you give a follow up message when you were not previously met with a response (two situations, A: when you know they saw the first message and B: when you don't know if they saw the message)I wouldn't ask for her number over the net. But in that case I'd just leave it, move on to another one. | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 03:31 PM |
| 2 | [Question] When, if ever, do you give a follow up message when you were not previously met with a response (two situations, A: when you know they saw the first message and B: when you don't know if they saw the message)It depends, most of the time if they don't respond after a few hours ( they had to of seen it ) I start looking for another girl to talk to. If they didn't see it then just wait, no big deal. On occasions I'll send another message if I know it will get a response. A girl flaked me today so at first I said "ah well, catch you later" feeling defeated. Then after talking to another girl I got a bit of a confidence boost and told the girl that flaked me she was missing out. Set up plans for tmrw for… | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 02:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR]: Feedback pleaseGetting flaked happens, when it does start talking to another girl. Sounds like you like this one so I'd set up another date ASAP and try to feel her out. As for what the other guy said about stopping when she says no I agree. BUT you should try again after another meet or two, I'd really only give up if she deflects the question in a certain way. Some girls are just a little more closed off. | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Girl that gave me huge iois, found out she has a bf. Should I still approach?I don't do it, I'll be her friend by all means but I let her know through signs that that's all we'll be so long as she has a bf. I don't push for them to break up, I hate treading in that territory. Also in my eyes if she cheats on him, she'd cheat on me. Unless he's beating her I don't bother and move on. Call me what you will but I don't put up with boyfriend drama, it's all bullshit. | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Broke up with LTR, still work together in same building. How to escalate with work mates without it being strange for them?This so much, OP this is a bad idea. Pick up girls somewhere else. Besides giving you a bad rep at work it will make things awkward for both parties. | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 09:51 PM |
| 1 | I am [F] 20's new to PUA and have a question for men: Why no men approaches me and my gfs? My pic is included.Why don't you just approach them? I had a few girls come up to me that I wasn't interested in before and suddenly got a thing going for them. Just give them some bait, the girl I'm currently talking to stared me down across the room and just eye fucked me, I took the signal and grabbed her number. | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 09:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR]Hit a low point today. Cried a little, rant.If there was any advice that was ever useful to me it's to stop looking for a SO and you'll get one. Fake it till you make it bro, don't put all your money on these girls, simply keep getting numbers and pushing as far as you can. Yeah I'll admit, I'm pretty sad and lonely myself, but I'll be damned if anyone other then me is allowed to see it. Acting the part of not caring will lead you to genuinely not caring. | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Seducing a girl that already likes you a lotUpdate in 3 days what you did and how it went if you don't mind, I have a similar situation coming up. I almost always play the funny cute guy because that's me. But when I go to pick up girls in cold approaches I play the cocky confident guy. | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 09:37 AM |
| 1 | How to handle ex boyfriends?Hope it doesn't come to that, but I'll keep it in mind. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 04:47 AM |
| 1 | How to handle ex boyfriends?Maybe you're right, I'll take the advice and I'm going to steal that saying. Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 04:22 AM |
| 1 | How to handle ex boyfriends?I'd like to think it's worth it, so I'm going to give it a shot. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Is the three day rule bullshit?Depends on her age and what she does, but just about every girl I've given my number I tell them first message that the best time to contact me is from certain times at night ( usually from like 5 pm and later ) to make it seem I'm busy ( I'm honestly just bsing around town at that time ). Sounds like you don't know her too well so nothing wrong with taking a shot at it and shooting her a text. See if she likes to text and if she doesn't now you know to keep the messages short. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Is the three day rule bullshit?Yeah if they give me there # I text them first but sort of late so I can close the conversation any time with me being tired. But if I gave them my number I let them start the conversations until I feel comfortable that they want to hear from me. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 03:43 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First date.I know most of these guys are going to tell you texting is bad for talking to them "only set up dates". But I think it all depends on her age and her social circle, if she likes to text once in a while let her text you, and conversate. But otherwise if this girl is no longer interested move on as fast as you can bro, no use sitting on what ifs and feeling bad. There are plenty of fish in the barrel! | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 12:05 AM |
| 1 | I think I am insane or something, need some help (inner game)That's so lame... But genius. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Tips for an indestructible Online gameQuestion about the online game, how many girls do you usually message? When I was trying it out I was only sending out maybe 2-4 messages a week to deferent people. I don't use the online stuff anymore but what's the number you should be shooting for? | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 07:55 PM |
| 11 | I care too much.Can't argue the math | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How to sext?I see where your coming from but I think it's good to try to push boundaries sometimes and experience new things. I wouldn't go as far as sending nudes but I'd definitely be playful and responsive if the conversation lead to the bedroom. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Friend zone but a chanceAlright will do, thanks | /r/seduction | 15/02/14 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Friend zone but a chanceI was just beating around the bush and trying to not drop the L word for the sake of my manhood. But I am sexually attracted to her and I would be a liar if I said I wasn't going to try something next weekend, I'll take the advice and give it a shot. Thanks bro | /r/seduction | 15/02/14 08:40 PM |
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