| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Double TextingAhhh gotcha. You've got this my dude 🙏 I have faith in you! | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Double TextingOh sure, totally. I know it's easy to get discouraged in the dating scene. The thought process of testing her to see if she cares though is a flawed logic. If she doesn't know you yet, why would she be invested? Have you given her a reason to care? When you're still a stranger, there's not yet a reason to care, you have to give her a reason, yaknow? | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Double TextingAs a woman, I totally agree with this 🙏🙏🙏 Being able to take the pressure off of the situation will also allow you to show who you really are and find a woman who likes you for you 🥰🙏 And if someone rejects you after you show them pieces of your truest self, clearly it wasn't a good match to begin with ✌️ | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Double Texting"Females"... Cringes | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Double TextingThis is just untrue 😅 Many women know exactly what they want and verbalize it, but many men ignore it and listen to other men, then they wonder why they're not having success with women 😩 Please don't perpetuate this sexist myth 😩 | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Double TextingHonestly, these flat ass answers would have me rolling my eyes. 😅 To be totally blundt, I would be thinking "Jesus, does this guy have a personality?" And be frustrated that you're literally forcing me to carry the conversation. 😩 | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?LMAO THE ULTIMATE GIFT AHAHAHAHAHA | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?"Roping them into a relationship"? 😩 This makes no sense. They were dating. He had a specific intention from the start that he didn't communicate, whereas she wanted to see where things go. You can't unconsensually begin a relationship with someone. It takes two consenting parties. Therefore, the phrase "roping him into a relationship" makes zero sense. 😩 He could leave at any time. But you CAN coerce someone into sex. And if the law has taught me anything, sexual coercion (AKA manipulation) is … | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 04:12 AM |
| 0 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?What is a wolf eating? Wouldn't that be prey? 🤔 Interesting that you get so defensive when it's pointed out. Also interesting that you're getting too emotional to respond with a logical explanation in your response, and resort to name-calling. Have I struck a nerve? 🤔 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?He finally did, and she told him that she didn't 'put out' because she was scared that's all he wanted. Well, it was all he wanted, so he gave her the boot. This all could have been avoided if he just asked sooner, or was more upfront with his intentions, but instead he tried to manipulate her into having sex with him. 😬 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Baby, no. How dare he not be honest about his intentions and attempt to manipulate this woman into using her for her body. 🙃 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?You've missed the point entirely. Whether she fucked his friend or not is not even his business as they're not exclusive. It sounds like you're getting emotional and inserting some personal context. Maybe take some deep breaths and try thinking more logically before inserting your own personal narrative 💖 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?It's so nice to see some reasonable people here 🙏 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?She didn't do anything wrong here, dude. You're making this sound like she needed to ask his consent to NOT put his dick inside her 🙃 She never owed him her body. 😩 It's okay to go on dates to figure out how you feel about someone. What's not okay is to date women with the specific intention of just wanting sex, and trying to manipulate them into giving it to you (which is what happened here). Are you so defensive because you relate? Do you regularly try to manipulate the women around you for se… | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Yes it goes both ways. So when he asked for advice, the answer is to communicate. Period. But also, when you're dating someone, you might not be 100% sure what you're looking for. He knew he 100% was looking for something casual, and didn't communicate that. By the sound of his comment, he said she just didn't want to get used for sex, which was exactly what he was trying to do. How is this making an excuse for a woman??? How dare she not let him fuck her the instant they met!! Unexcusable!!! ^ … | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 06:20 PM |
| -1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?This thread has deadass made me even more afraid of men than I was before 😩 So many of y'all thinking like predators and it shows 😬🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Everyone who down voted this comment clearly doesn't understand women, communication, or basic human decency 😬 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?This comment is disgusting and literally shows that you view women as prey, and not people 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?You can want different things from different people. And yes, I think both men and women are capable of wanting just sex with one person, and a relationship from another | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Also, he outright said that he found out that she was refraining from sex because she didn't want to be used for "just sex". 🙃 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 05:56 PM |
| -1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Jesus. Maybe the issue is that y'all don't listen to women, so you keep thinking we're this unattainable foreign species. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you tell a girl you tryna hook up? With out obviously being disrespectful ?Communication always goes both ways, of course! | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:46 PM |
| -1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?This sounds incredibly manipulative 🙃 He could have just ASKED HER what she wanted out of their interactions, but he didn't. He also didn't communicate his intentions either (which were to hit and quit). 26yo woman here, and your alpha male advice sounds like it is manipulative and maybe even predatory 😩😩😩 Learning how to effectively communicate would be far more helpful. ✌️ | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Nah, he was just looking to hit it and quit it literally the whole time. She was holding out because she was afraid of this exact thing, and it took them both too long to properly communicate their intentions. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:40 PM |
| 221 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Great comment. Literally just ask 😩 The insensitivity in this comment section makes me think none of these men speak to women 🤦♀️ | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:39 PM |
| 0 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Omg bless this comment 🥲💕💖 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:37 PM |
| 6 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Bro, you really just needed to communicate your intentions. You wanted casual sex, she didn't. It's not a good match. Pretending that you might have a relationship with this girl, while knowing you're going to hit and quit is scummy and deceptive. 😩 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:36 PM |
| -2 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?She probably didn't want a relationship from his buddy. Reading these comments is exhausting. 🙃 I'm a 26yo woman who would "hit and quit" men who I didn't see as relationship material. Sometimes all you are is a good time for one night. She clearly liked this man and wanted something more than just sex. While they both should have communicated better, holding out on sex allows her to see what his true intentions are: and they were to use her for just sex the whole time. 🙃 Y'all have me facepalmi… | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:33 PM |
| 95 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Literally this lmao | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:23 PM |
| 9 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?There is also a MASSIVE stigma about women who have sex early "belonging to the streets". Also, did you read what he said? OP was just looking for sex after all 🙃 Honestly both parties should have just communicated better rather than trying to decipher each other's thoughts based on ambiguous subtext 😩 sigh | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:22 PM |
| 15 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?This. He didn't communicate with this girl properly, and is like "wHy wOnT sHe fUcK mE"... And, it's because she wants a relationship 🙃 Good on him for moving on, and good on her for not putting out ✌️ This behavior is predatory and sleezy 🙃 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?Wait wait, did I see somewhere that you're still in Highschool?????? If so, you're so young. Sex at that age has far more stigma and fear attached. Also, she might be a virgin in which case, this is TOTALLY normal. 🙃 I'd love more context to this post. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I agree 🥰 There seem to be some very bitter men in the comments 😩 | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell a girl you tryna hook up? With out obviously being disrespectful ?I wholeheartedly disagree with this. Flirting and teasing are great, but at some point in the beginning, it's important to honestly say "I'm not looking for anything serious", or something to that capacity. Otherwise you're being deceptive, and I guarantee you'll hurt and anger a lot of women 🙃 | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 07:33 PM |
| 3 | How do you tell a girl you tryna hook up? With out obviously being disrespectful ?Omg THIS!!! 26yo woman here - Trying to trick a woman in any capacity is pretty vile. Be charming, yes. But downright trying to deceive a woman into having sex with you, and possibly leading her on to think y'all might get serious is DISGUSTING. Just be honest. This man is doing it right 🙏 (BTW, I've had my share of casual, consensual flings where the man was upfront about his intentions, and I enthusiastically consented. It's not impossible, just be honest) | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 07:31 PM |
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