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| 893 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married man | Married Red Pill | MasculineHapa | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 11:14 PM |
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| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manPerhaps. But it stands to reason that, with all the things I have shared and the way in which I described my wife's body, I am less then enthusiastic about having sex with her. And of course that also effects my performance at times. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manJust curious, how bad is her cooch after 2 kids? Stretched out and very loose? I don't have a frame of reference so I'd love to know. Her pussy is still pretty fine to me, it's her breasts that took the hardest hit. The pussy just got plumper and somewhat looser, but not crazy much. It's still doable. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThank you for your fresh input. I do believe spreading one's seed is very important and valuable. And morals are in many ways just holding us back. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 09:25 AM |
| -2 | Breakdown: A Married Man breakdown of a breakdown of being a married manThe pregnancy did affect her in a drastic way. I still have photos of her breasts from before we even married and it's a world of difference. She could never exercise her flaws away, no matter how hard she might try doing so. I mean is there a skin smoothing exercise, a nipple shrinking exercise? I don't think so. There's a lot of it that's on me, and on mother nature. Doesn't mean I am absolving her of any blame. Or myself. I simply got disgusted by what her body became. I cannot really enjoy i… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 02:41 AM |
| 8 | Breakdown: A Married Man breakdown of a breakdown of being a married manThank you for your insights and the links you provided. I appreciate it. I have a lot of things to read and a lot of things to realise. I understand how my post came across, for a large portion, as self-pitying. I was venting, yes, and I didn't come out of the whole thing looking very good. I think part of my reason for writing my post in the first place, perhaps the biggest reason, was to serve as a bit of a cautionary tale for men younger then me, regarding the state of marriage and what it ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 02:36 AM |
| 4 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI have, on multiple occasions. She would start working out but quickly drop it again after a short time. She has no long term discipline and seems unmotivated. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 09:24 AM |
| 0 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThe bottom line of this post is whatever you take away from it. But the main point is to raise awareness. And to realise that 99% of women are fucked over horribly by a combination of both age and childbearing, which usually hits at around the same time. And too many people keep close to their inner white knight and refuse to believe this uncomfortable fact, chasing unicorns who are "still hot at 30 plus and look like an eighteen year old"... | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 07:08 AM |
| -1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manShe won't get physically desirable again without going under the knife, and even if she does it's doubtful to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 07:06 AM |
| -2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manIt's ridiculous but it seems a lot of men here still have that inner white knight close at heart. Also, the love for step-fathers out there and desperately portraying them as somehow more 'alpha' than the dude who knocked up the girl with his biological offspring in the first place, is ridiculous and laughable. Makes me think there's some projection going on her amongst some members whose only shot at dating and love was over-the-hill single moms... who they desperately want to believe are "stil… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 07:05 AM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI would still go back and do it, for the kids, because I couldn't really imagine not having them either. But if I had all the wisdom of today, ten years ago, damn... I don't know. I would have been way more careful. I could have given my kids a much better life if I had them ten years later. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 07:03 AM |
| 46 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI realise that it is a bad situation for everyone involved. And I also realise there are certain aspects of the whole situation that she simply has zero control over. And that me, making a big deal or even some sort of breaking point out of those, makes me a bit of an asshole. That said? It's important that I was able to freely write down my feelings here for younger men to read, so that they can think of these things that few people think of when they get married with the intention of sticking … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 04:35 PM |
| 0 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThat could be a factor, definitely. And sometimes I even wonder to myself, if she really is a harpy, if she really is that ugly... did I make things worse in my head as years go by? But then we are in bed together and the clothes come off and it's confirmed again for me. My recurring doubts are erased frequently by reality. I know it's not a nice thing to say, that a lot of the things I say probably come across horrible. It's just something I felt like sharing, for the sake of awareness and also… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 04:30 PM |
| 5 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manAnd why would you even want that, after reading my description? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 03:42 PM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI don't think they would. And how about her gigantic wrinkly nipples? I'm not too certain about it. I have never seen working out give a woman an all-natural boob lift and solve all of the troubles of aging and childbirth just like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 03:42 PM |
| 4 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manShe would freak the fuck out. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 03:39 PM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manJudging by your username you found a pretty good replacement in tits & whiskey. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 03:36 PM |
| -22 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manYou seem to have a lot of sympathy for Mr. Cuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manSorry bro. But I guess she's your ex-wife for a reason. Or, rather, for a multitude of reasons haha. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 03:22 PM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI have offered it. I have offered a lot of ways, to get her motivated. But she just gives up every single time, and does so very easily. It's as if none of my concerns matter to her. When I addressed the issue of her... less-than-stellar looks, she just got dramatic. Cried. Called me juvenile. Whatever... at least, I was honest enough to share my concerns with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 03:04 PM |
| 5 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manYour loss bro. There's sexy breasts and there's not-so-sexy breasts. I'm not here to share a chapter of my new novel, so I don't really need any literary criticism when it comes to sharing my personal story and writing it down however the hell I write it down. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 03:02 PM |
| 0 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI feel you. I think that's the only range I am genuinely attracted to, anyway. After all these wasted years, sexually speaking, I am not going to settle for anything less frankly. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:43 PM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married man>Source: dude with a lot of kids and a wife with a soft 6 pack How many kids are we talking about, and how old is your wife exactly? Has she breastfed the kids and how have you managed to keep her breasts perky, or has that been the one thing exercise couldn't fix? Genuinely curious. It's helpful to know these things for other young men so they can avoid being in my boat and the boat of many other men (and women) with similar issues to deal with. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI have told her many times how hurt I am that she does not take my advices and urgings seriously. But really, I stopped it. Because it has to come from her, too. She has to WANT to change. And it seems like she just doesn't. Disappointing and maddening, but I am sure as hell not going to beg for it. That would fuck me over even worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:33 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThat sounds doable. I think I could probably pull it off. And the place I'm in is large enough for me not to run any familiar faces. Unlikely I know a lot of girls in that age range, anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:32 PM |
| -22 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI honestly feel less and less guilt when it comes to my thoughts of simply replacing her. If I could do it without much costs, I think I would, sooner or later. Women replace their men all the fucking time. Why can't I, as a man who knows his value, replace my woman at some point? When your car doesn't drive as smoothly as it used to, don't you get a new model too? Tired of feeling bad over the very thing women seem to do continuously. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:11 PM |
| -2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manCould it make the breasts and nipples return to their former glory, tho? I have my doubts. But I'll research. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:09 PM |
| -1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI've never made use of an escort in my life, it's something I am still a bit uncomfortable with. But yeah, it seems like the least complicating way of getting some action on the side. However, purely from an ego-boost perspective I would like to get some side action for free. Just to see if I still got it, at this point. I think I could pull it off, my guilt is at an all-time low right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:08 PM |
| 0 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manGood on you bro. I'm a year older than you but I never had much of a chance to play the market. I was barely out of my teens when I got serious with my girlfriend and just two years later, she was pregnant and my wife. Shotgun wedding, pretty much. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:06 PM |
| -3 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI'm not really into fake tits or fake asses. Like, not at all. It's probably one of my biggest turn-offs. No offense to guys who are into those things, but I just don't like it at all. Something about it rubs me the wrong way. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manWell, no. I want my kids to have the good fortune of looking good enough to have an easier life. And in this world, the better you look the easier you seem to have it. Still it's kind of a scary thought in some ways. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:04 PM |
| 4 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThank you for that. This is the sort of comment I need to hear much more of to be confident in taking the next steps. I think it would be better for my kids to have a strong, happy father than a miserable depressed one feeling perpetually stuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manIn that case, it's pretty useless for me to classify any woman as good looking or bad looking at, say, past forty. Cute face, well-preserved skin. Shitshow of an old body underneath. No healthy man fantasizes about grandma's. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI married a woman of a similar ethnic background - we are both mixed race and from similar backgrounds. Mother-in-law looks remarkably good for her age, but as I said before, that tells you absolutely NOTHING because a lot of women look good on the surface, and look horrible once naked. My wife still looks good when you run into her on the street. But her breasts are something out of a weird online fetish video. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:57 PM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manA little too late now at this point. I already fucked up. Got three, her body's ruined, and even if we'd have a fourth it wouldn't get any better or worse I reckon. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:56 PM |
| -1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThat's a difficult question. It depends on a lot of variables. But I think my personal suggestion for a young man would be: don't get married too early. Fuck as much young prime pussy as you can during your teens and twenties first. Build your assets. Get those wild years out of your system first. And if one day you grow tired of it, you want 'more'... you know, a wife, a stable home, a legacy... go and get married to some hot girl ten years your junior and knock her up a few times. By this time… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:55 PM |
| -2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI do enjoy interacting with her, to some degree. She is an awesome woman in other departments. She has her moments of being wonderful. She's a good chef. She is a good mother, too. But it just sucks that when she undresses for me I am simply not in to it anymore. Feels like living together with a female friend. Who alternates between friend and enemy. Very little in terms of genuine chemistry. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:53 PM |
| 5 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manHonesty is important, yes. That's why I kind of resent a lot of the middle aged members of this sub who keep insisting they had this FWB or this fuckbuddy or whatever who was 42 years old and totally NOT like those other girls and looked like she was 18... like, yeah, right... drop the act and stop putting unrealistic expectations in young men's heads. Especially to those who read this sub who are barely teenagers. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:51 PM |
| 0 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI couldn't make her do it and stick to it. She picked up exercise a few times but never really keeps up with it for longer times. She has a wash list of complaints, always. In terms of health, she eats well enough. Avoids soda and processed foods. She cooks and cleans and all that. But her body's still fucked up due to pregnancy tho. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:49 PM |
| 3 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manFair suggestion, but the problem is, she never actually got all that fat. She's still pretty slender right now. Still looks decent, too, when you'd meet her on the streets you'd call her cute probably. Didn't stop hormones and pregnancy from ravaging and ruining her body beyond recognition, however. There's no contracts that could save you from that. Not fully, anyway. People are not aware of how badly a woman gets beaten up when giving birth. And how horrible age affects her. It's a damn traged… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:47 PM |
| 3 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manYou dodged a bullet there. It's tragic, really, but this is the sad reality for women after about age thirty. Or women have have a child or multiple children, regardless of how young they may be. Their tits gets stretched out, they increase in size dramatically, suddenly go back to their original size when milk production halts... Nipples go from large to regular size to humongous size, and shrink a little again when milk stops, making them stretched out and wrinkly. It's altogether not a pretty… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:44 PM |
| -2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThat might be useful, in terms of her mood swings and her overall shitty attitude. Could be a side effect of hormonal imbalance. But I doubt it would fix her body at this point... I feel like her breasts are ruined beyond repair. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 01:42 PM |
| -2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manShe cannot control it but it doesn't mean I can force myself to be aroused by her either or to feign enthusiasm where there is none. Her having a shitty attitude towards me half the time doesn't exactly help a lot, either... | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:21 AM |
| 0 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI would far prefer that. But even if I did convert to Islam, I would still not have enough wealth to entice a woman to join me as my second or third wife. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:16 AM |
| 0 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI suppose. If I let myself go, she'd let herself go further. Ruined tits and all, she may have gotten fat too. At least for now she's slender. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:12 AM |
| 5 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manSurprisingly enough... no. I do not regret the children. I love the children. They're cute, clever and brighten my day. I just regret the harpy their mother turned into. And the way nature ruined her once pretty, perky body leaving me with something that turns me off constantly and forces me to lie about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:11 AM |
| 3 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI am hesitant to open the relationship up, I'm not comfortable with the idea of her boning other men, as much as I would like to fuck better, prime pussy... and I know she would get it, she's cute at first glance and guys are thirsty as fuck nowadays. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:09 AM |
| 24 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThat's not an unfair question to ask. I do suppose I am not as sharp as I used to be, I am not on top of my game if that's what you are wondering. But I am hard working anda very capable provider. I am a good and committed father. And I still blow her back out when I get the chance. I just don't feel good about being with her anymore, the way I used to. And the relationship in general has deteroriated to the point of me being quite depressed over it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:04 AM |
| -7 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manYes, saggy tits can easily emerge even after first child, it's disgusting. But I wonder about pussy stretching not by a birth but by simple fucking. I have heard a lot opinions on both sides and can't figure out what is real deal. Pussy stretching is something that happened around baby number one. She was initially too tight for me, so childbirth actually made it easier for me to enter and she still felt tight enough for me as her muscles are strong enough to shoot a pebble out her box at 19 lol… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 08:01 AM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manNo problem. I'm not sure what I think of Sandman or MGTOW. I'm not against marriage in all forms, nor am I against having kids necessarily (my kids are the best and probably only good thing I got out of this whole mess). But I can definitely advice you to be careful. Watch out. Sleep with one eye open. And never, EVER rush into things. EVER. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:59 AM |
| 204 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manFair question... I think it is. I think I still value her company, as she has a quick mind and is pretty witty. She's also a funny person. Just very mean-spirited at times. The main issue is, I am no longer sexually attracted to her at all. And I don't see this changing any time soon. Possibly never. Sex is a big part of why I liked her at first. She was hot as hell and so horny. Now she disgusts me. And I disgust myself for sticking around, but would probably be even more disgusted with myself … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:57 AM |
| 4 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manAt least you banged her through her prime years. Many men wife up post wall slut which gives her first birth during her 30. Which has even more disastrous effect on women looks. Yes, that's my only consolation at this point. That at least I got her when she was still somewhat fresh. I got to enjoy her that way for about three years and after that, it went downhill. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:55 AM |
| 10 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI doubt she looks like she is in her mid-twenties, but I am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt. The more important question is: have you ever seen this friend naked? Because my wife also looks cute still... at first glance. That fifty year old, once naked, likely would not arouse you. Certainly wouldn't arouse me as I don't have a thing for grannies. No offense bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:52 AM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manAnd be broke and constantly close to bankruptcy due to having those kids young, and having taken this uncertain gamble of one then achieving success and bailing you out, which is far from certain. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:49 AM |
| 5 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manBecause we have three children and I hesitate to put them through the divorce mill. I have see how pretty daughters from broken marriages end up. It ain't so pretty. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:48 AM |
| 9 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manShe's a triathlete with fake boobs. Some men are into that, me, it's a major turn-off. I love the naturally perky tits of a young girl or woman. Past a certain age it's all down hill, kids or no kids. Plastic does little for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:46 AM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI would not advice anyone ever to completely disregard marriage or family altogether. It's a personal choice. There are just effects, side effects, that are always there. And always will be. I cannot deny it and it's just the way it is bro. If you have children it will come at a price. But even if you never have them, age itself will also ravage your girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:44 AM |
| 3 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manGood on you bro. Stay strong and keep your head clear. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:39 AM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manHaha... yes, pray for a boy indeed. The horror of having two daughters you know will be one day attractive is not to envied either. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:39 AM |
| 0 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI have thought of it, and increasingly more and more so. I am in what should be my prime, and I am reminded daily of what I am missing ou on. I just have the kids on my mind. I want to not make any rushed decisions based on my own feelings alone just yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:39 AM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI'm... sorta at that point right now. I feel less guilty about considering it with each passing day, as I sit here working my ass off for someone ungrateful an pissing away what should be my golden years. Why not have my cake and eat it too? Kinda scared too, tho. Won't deny. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:26 AM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manShe isn't that fat, though. She just lost her muscle tone, she lost her perky tits, and her skin was ruined with a complete wasteland of stretch marks. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manDoes her unattractiveness ever effect you sexually ? Can’t get a hard on or go soft in her ? It happens more and more frequently. I think for about a year or two now, my erections haven't been as powerful as they used to be. It's almost as if my penis shrank a bit. It looks as deflated as I feel. It's only a few times now that I get legit rock hard. Often when I wake up in the morning with morning wood, it happens that I am at that diamond grade hardness and that's when I prefer to bang her if p… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:19 AM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manNOW I get why they go to such length, even to get SURGERY, just 'to look better' after 25+. They know the truth. They do. They're aware. And those few that aren't aware, when they lash out in anger once the realization hits them, damn. Those are the worst. Surgery to me is disgusting fake tits turn me off to no end. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:16 AM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThe second one was us both believing that it's not good growing up as an only child. And, frankly, we both wanted a large-ish family. She was unplanned, definitely, but not unwelcome. The timing was just off. And I discovered some very uncomfortable realities of life shortly after. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:15 AM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manSome people have all the luck in the world, it seems. But I do think the sort of woman you were lucky enough to marry, is a rare find. There are a lot of woman that look slender and cute well into their thirties and forties, but the vast majority of them will not look anywhere near as cute when undressed. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:06 AM |
| 0 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI think the question here is how well you’re doing in your job/career? Because if you suck out there, then from her perspective she gave up her beauty and sexiness and therefore power and potential for a loser or semi loser who has now proven to only be able to provide a mediocre life. There's definitely an element of truth in this. I do not earn crazy much. Enough to live well, provide us all with good food, the occasional trip and a roof over our heads. But not a lot. We are by no means rich. … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:05 AM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI think I might've just dodged a f'n bullet. Feel free to inquire. Okay, I'm inquiring. What bullet did you dodge, and how? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:01 AM |
| 4 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI can still get hard for her. Sort of. And I still get horny and find the need to have a sexual release. She's my wife after all... there are just certain things that come with marriage. But I hate this feeling that she is getting the better end of the stick her, as even when I am at times less than enthousiastic to enter her, the total package of me is still more desirable to her, than she is to me. Unless part of her senses already that fucking her is little more than a duty to me. Or mutual m… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 07:01 AM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manOr when I'm 35 and life is meaningless, then I'll do the family thing. The later, the better IMO. If I could have waited at least ten years to do all this, I think I would have been way, waaaay less unhappy. I feel like my golden years were stolen from me, and in a lot of ways I let it happen through my own actions. So there are some aspects of this story for which I only have myself to blame. When you marry in your early twenties before you had a chance to fuck hundreds of girls as some men her… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 06:59 AM |
| 0 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI have told her, to some degree. I have told her to work out more, to not let herself go as much as she does. To watch her diet. She started exercizing, briefly, and it improved her attitude somewhat. Energized her. But she quickly drops it again each and every time. She tells me she does not have time, but she has plenty; she's a stay-at-home mother. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 06:56 AM |
| -1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manAt some point we just stop being exciting, and start being... convenient. Staying together for the sake of the children now involved becomes more important than being satisfied fully in other aspects of life. And in more ways than one, legally, socially and otherwise... she now has me by the balls. And it's one helluva death grip. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 06:50 AM |
| 11 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manTrue. But it's tragic how misguided many young (and not-so-young) men are regarding these facts. Women past the age of 25 really shouldn't be put on any pedestals anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 06:48 AM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manPerhaps it's a factor, yes. But at the same time, she could still easily get a beta provider I'm sure. Even with three kids. One that out-earns me, too, I bet. Her face is still cute, and she didn't get fat. She just looks completely ravaged once naked. But a well-off blue-pilled man of the milquetoast variety might still eat up her stories of her "abusive ex husband" and pity-marry her, providing for my kids. Essentially locking me out. She has that power. They always do. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 06:47 AM |
| 12 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manAlso 30 and have never looked better, I honestly can’t remember the last time I met a woman my age who was attractive. A lot of them DO look attractive, though. Their bra keeps their breasts looking good when you first meet them. Their make up covers the lines on their face. Their tummies look good, covered up or shown only partially, strategically... But get that 34-year old mother of 2 or even that 29 year old-divorced mother of none naked, and I bet she's nowhere near as hot as she was at 20.… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 06:44 AM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manI'm not advocating anyone never to have one. Or to have one, for that matter. But I am just trying to make a point that women, even objectively hot ones, are still often disgusting underneath their clothes. Whether it's due to aging or childbirth or both. Usually a combination. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 06:42 AM |
| -1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manGood on you for giving this more thought than I had. The first child left her reasonable hot and toned. The second destroyed her. The third really fucked her over. Scary thing is how good she still looks in clothes. People are really not aware of the effects of multiple pregnancies, compared with aging. But everyone's different and one child could also do the trick, sadly. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 06:40 AM |
| 63 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manYou really should. Because for women aging well is a dangerous illusion. They don't. In Hollywood they praise these women who maintain their looks until middle age and beyond, but they never mention the amount of make up artiststry, photoshopping skills and plastic surgery that goes along with this defiance of age. The vast majority of women will age badly. Even that hot, amazing, wonderful soulmate you may one day encounter... hers, too, will fade. People underestimate how much impact this has … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 11:37 PM |
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