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| 1 | Is it socially acceptable to pick up women, alone by yourself? at the bars and lounges? | Master-Sayien | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 05:02 PM | |
| 1 | I can't get past the second-third date..any advices? | Master-Sayien | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 06:56 AM |
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| 1 | Is it socially acceptable to pick up women, alone by yourself? at the bars and lounges?Thanks, it actually never came across my mind to see things like that | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it socially acceptable to pick up women, alone by yourself? at the bars and lounges?At first it was massacres one after another, I even laugh at myselft sometimes when I remember. I use to stutter when I was speaking like a dumb fuck, I was losing my breath because I was forgetting to breathe and swallow my saliva during a conversation and on the top of that haha I was shaking because of the stress. But i was approaching over and over and over again, and every time it was getting better than the last time. | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it socially acceptable to pick up women, alone by yourself? at the bars and lounges?Yeah, it's never easy, maybe after a hundred of times, like the RSD guy does, you might feel will be completely immunized, but it is also tough in my case too, i haven't counted but at least few dozens approaches, haha we're all in process of learning. For me it is more a challenge, a 100% out my comfort zone, and I'm not doing this on the sole purpose to get laid, i mean if it works then cool, but to feel that I am in control of that "i would call it power" it's something that's priceless, in f… | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it socially acceptable to pick up women, alone by yourself? at the bars and lounges?True that, same as you, I had a better rate closing numbers or facebook profile when alone, compared to when in group of 2-3 guys. But, it depends on places and events, if there is a line up or not, and if there are any cute girls in that line up. But happy to see i am not alone ahha. | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it socially acceptable to pick up women, alone by yourself? at the bars and lounges?Is not exactly insecurity I would say. However from time to time it hits you. So I wanted to know if other people are also going alone for the hunt. Because even in all these, "so called" pick up artist on Youtube, you see them doing stuff alone, but they are still filmed by their buddy. | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 10:22 PM |
| 1 | I can't get past the second-third date..any advices?thanks, I'll give it a look | /r/seduction | 20/10/14 02:13 AM |
| 1 | I can't get past the second-third date..any advices?yeah, i know, i need to see or to read about how to do it, that's not something intuitive for me, and like a said i don't know how to build escalation on the first date a the restaurant without appearing awkward, or not confident, that's why i am pushing for a second date for an activity where I'll be able to make more contact. | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 10:34 PM |
| 1 | I can't get past the second-third date..any advices?Actually you both guys said the same thing, and it's true that I have some hard time building that attraction, I just don't know how to build and increase that escalation, like I said to the other user, also apply to your answer. "that's why i try an "activity" date as the 2nd date, i find it hard to touch her in a restaurant, because we are facing each other and they don't keep their arm on the table. I might say something like oh i like how you did your manicure, can I see it, and touch her ha… | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 04:02 PM |
| 1 | I can't get past the second-third date..any advices?acutally i noticed it too, but that's why i try an "activity" date as the 2nd date, i find it hard to touch her in a restaurant, because we are facing each other and they don't keep their arm on the table. I can rub her leg with my leg uder the table, never did this, as i find this to "obvious" to me and for her, and it seems not natural but on purpose. So what do you do usually? to build attraction, or would do | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Ready to get back to dating after a 4 year relationship...I had the same problem, i was dating a girl for 3 years, took me more than an year to recover. You have to start at the beginning like everyone else,unfortunately there is no shortcuts, sooner or later you'll have to start talking to girls and get out from your comfort zone, and yes the first times you'll be shy/ sound stupid/fkin stressed, so be prepared to fail your first (like 15-20 approaches) and you'll improve something after each attempt, no matter how much articles you'll read, you'll ha… | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 07:37 PM |
| 10 | Really nice rejection.“If you want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate.” Tom Watson this one is also a great quote | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 07:40 PM |
| 11 | Really nice rejection.Ever tried. Ever failed?. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better. -Samuel Beckett So don't worry about rejection, they don't know you personnaly, so there is nothing to take personnally, it was only a beginning in your game, and after every rejection you adjust yourself, it is like play Angry Birds, you calculate, you shoot, you miss your shot, then try again until you get it. Nothing personnaly | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Will Online Dating Destroy Game for Average Guys?i am sure they eat for free this way, (1 or 2 dates) per day, | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Will Online Dating Destroy Game for Average Guys?i don't know for you guys, but i am getting some serious problems with these types of sites. I am 23 an average guy 5'11" in shape, i am doing my bachelor's degree in Finance, i know alot of stuff, but i don't tend to show that off even on the first day nor after. I've tried Badoo, and other local website in Canada, and not getting a single response. However one thing gets me furious, is the fact that i am only getting messages from really fat ugly girls. And those girls who respond, don't answe… | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 08:19 AM |
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