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| 4 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:I read this recently and found none of the manipulative "nice guy" traits applied to me, and I have strong thoughts about the book. It hones in on manipulative traits, things like the unspoken social contract etc, none of which are things I have ever done. It does touch one the one reason I get friendzoned, and that's because I don't make my intentions clear from the outset, because I have respect for people in general and felt that being overtly sexual would get me in trouble, even if it's just… | /r/seduction | 08/09/23 05:21 AM |
| 1 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?The only way to solve that problem is to gain experience, know you'll fail for a while, but you'll get better each time. | /r/seduction | 08/09/23 05:06 AM |
| 1 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?I don't think it's entirely up to the parents, though they are a factor. I think it's also part of your environment and friends. | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 09:22 AM |
| 6 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?Yeah, I definitely used to have the mindset of "respect women above all else", so I was always overly respectful and never showed my intent. I blame this on being raised by a single mother who, I now realise, is a bit of a man hater. If I had seen my dad in action (I have as an adult) as a youth, I'd have probably copied him. As such I have to learn that showing your attraction toward someone is absolutely fine and actually desired. | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 08:04 AM |
| 2 | How do men who aren't on this sub get girls?In my experience it's 90% situation, 10% "game" (or skill, I hate the term "game", it's not a game). I met most of the girls I've been close to (I've only had 1 GF, I'm 38, kill me) through other people, mutual interests or institutions (university, college, etc). Basically you have to be "out there" in the real world and oppurtunities will present themselves. For example, the first girl it was obvious liked me, we met at Uni. Unfortunately I'm a bumbling idiot and didn't make a move so she hook… | /r/seduction | 01/09/23 07:51 AM |
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