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MasterUm/r/altTRP28/01/16 11:42 AM
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The Rational Male is a must read, as is indicated by it being stickied at the top of TRP subreddit. I also HIGHLY suggest you watch everything under "The Truth About" series of videos by Stefan Molyneux (available on Youtube and as mp3 download on his site). Life-changing stuff, sort of "beyond the Red Pill".
/r/askTRP05/12/16 06:52 PM
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Half a month? Likely not even enough time to read Rational Male Year One (an absolute must imo). You'll still see a lot of changes in you and notice how the world works. Lift, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 08:08 AM
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The way to proceed in this conversation is to ask (in a very non-confrontational manner!) "Would you say you are happy in your marriage?". You'll probably get some mixed response, after which you carefully ask about what is good and what is not good. Go into each point, let them talk about it.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 08:05 AM
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Absolutely a sign of romantic tension. Slow down, relax your face, look her in the eyes seriously and quietly and say "I hate you too, honey".
/r/askTRP03/12/16 09:10 AM
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Don't worry about the condition itself, likely controllable with tic-tacs, Lysterine or whatever. The question is how to bring it up. "Listen, I don't know how to say this, but there's something I feel I really need to ask. I swear I'm not saying this to upset you. Do you promise not to beat me?" Gauge the reaction, look her in the eye. Make her promise not to beat you. "I couldn't help but notice that your breath smells a bit odd... is there a chance you might have a medical condition?"
/r/askTRP03/12/16 09:06 AM
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IDGAF: "Yes, your number. What is it?" "OMG" followed by silence, let her continue (simple and risky) "Whoa, you talk like that because you didn't see my pokemon card collection." (pick something utterly unattractive and humorous)
/r/askTRP03/12/16 08:59 AM
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FIRST OF ALL IF YOU MARRY BY ALL MEANS GET A PRENUP. The question is: are you planning on children within next 1-2 years? If so, and if she looks like a good mother, by all means go on. If no, absolutely do not marry her. I don't think her looks matter that much, as long as you like her and as long as your body thinks it wants to make some babies with that.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 05:53 AM
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You demonstrate great level of suckiness in that post of yours: I can't help but [...] Whut. Responsibility, man, and it starts with the way you talk and think. Alternative wording: I sometimes make sarcastic comments... This is on facebook usually. You are demonstrating "involuntary" reaction on Facebook, in a situation where immediate reply is not necessary, and keeping silent is socially acceptable. Just imagine what kind of problems you'd have in a face-to-face conversation. "Oh wow! That's …
/r/askTRP23/07/16 05:45 AM
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Mmm OK, I can see how "two problems that keep arising in the Manosphere that I believe stem from a misunderstanding of Sexual strategy being amoral" can be taken this way. So the question needs to be asked: why do you consider sexual strategy amoral? Amoral being outside of what pertains to morals, or as in "immoral" i.e. evil?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 07:44 PM
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In my opinion, one is happier when sleeping around Assuming something about other people's desires instead of asking them about it is a great way to a) be evil b) fail. I assure you of that. Perhaps the next step for you if you want to be spreading TRP is to train to ask questions and to dig deep into what people really want and think. It is fun and a source of great power. you wouldn't know it from talking to him Lets put it into correct terms: you see no way to get it out. You'd be surprised w…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:41 PM
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First, echoing on what others said: your parents are adults, their money is not yours, their time is not yours, so be prepared to fail/retreat. Second, outward nuclear manipulation: sit down with your parents, in a nice family evening after a meal, and drop a bomb "You guys have brought up a suckiest woman alive. Just look at that mess!" and start listing everything you don't like about her. If they try to interrupt, say "I didn't finish!" and keep on going. Worst case they'll just ask "So what?…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 09:04 AM
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Gambling problem and smoking are an indicators of some underlying issue. I don't think you should be aiming to solve it, but you might be able to understand where its coming from. After you follow VasiliyZaitzev advice, start digging with your questions in the following directions: His relationship with his parents. How many brothers did he have, their ages, characters, what was the relationship, who was the favorite one? Was he ever beaten by his parents? Were there fights in the house, did fam…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:55 AM
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You are asking a question that you should be asking a therapist. What are you looking for? Are you scanning for threats? Do you sometimes see whatever is it you are looking for? Are you afraid to find whatever it is, or are you eager to find it?
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:49 AM
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How would you feel? What would you be thinking? What are you actually trying to ask? Why the hell are you interested in feelings of random assholes on the internet? That smells fake from a mile away. Is that how you talk to the girl in question? So, what is your actual question?
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:46 AM
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You didn't specify whether he has actually slept with the girl: If he did, "different" means different from all the other guys who didn't commit to her (obviously, duh). If he didn't, "different" from all the other guys who do all of that crappy approach of trying to break orbit only to walk away disappointed, whereas she wanted him to stay firmly in orbit. She would only mention such man if he was of substantial value and she wanted him to try harder. Normal orbiter would not even be mentioned …
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:41 AM
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Don't obsess about girls right now. Honestly at 15, no natural social life and 5'5'' you'll have to put way too much effort for barely any result. It will naturally get way easier later if you live the RP life. 5'5'' is a real issue. Not a deal breaker (I'm a shortie myself and doing quite good) but honestly best thing you can do is to research about how you can become taller - AFAIK at 15 you still have fairly decent chances. I'd say this one thing will matter more then almost anything else. No…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:36 AM
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Are you trying to help someone, are you trying to solve a problem or are you just trying to spread knowledge around? A very fact of sleeping with many women is not necessarily everyone's goal, one can be an excellent man in every way by only having one woman (and having children with her). Identify what you think he himself is not happy about, and talk to him about it. Just saying "you should flirt more" is utterly useless - and btw now he might be suspicious of anything you will say.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:31 AM
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Depending on a context that we cannot assess from your post alone this is either a shit or comfort test - but this is surely a game interaction, so game on! Don't worry I'll wrap you in a saran wrap. Just come. Can't cancel now, I've already paid for a tub of vaseline I'm going to spread all over your red-hot curves. Sorry, wrong number! (that's a gem imo) followed by "What time are you coming?" after 5-10 minutes. You don't technically need to sleep as long as you come and let me peel some of t…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:21 AM
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So you claim that sexual strategy is amoral because of a) guys supposedly hate "sluts" b) guys think that they are the only ones being played. What's amoral about that? How do these two relate to sexual strategy? TRP rejects violence (as an ultimate breach of frame), has very little to do with property rights (certainly does not advocate breaking property rights of women) and none of the mainstream advice is concentrated on lying. So what the hell is amoral?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 06:13 AM
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"Now" politicized? What if I tell you that the current situation is mostly or entirely caused by politics and the welfare state in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:46 AM
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Man, you just watch "Hotel Transylvania 2". It's for kids, and GOD DAMN IS IT A FREAKING BLUE PILL NIGHTMARE.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 11:45 PM
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Wow. Wow. Man, this is some ingenious shit. Wow. I event went through your comment history to see if you have anything else of this caliber to share.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 08:45 AM
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Briffaults law in its most general formulation is an utter bullshit. It was somewhat popular in TRP as a first step to unplug the very, very plugged, the utterly clueless newcomers. You can reverse the genders, you can make both be male or female, it stays abstract bullshit. People, if brought up without childhood trauma, are freaking amazing. People who have lived a good live among good people are even better. We are cooperative, need each other for psychological support and are happy when othe…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 07:25 AM
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Exceptional post. You even manage to deliver underlying kindness and acceptance for women, which has been severely lacking recently on TRP. I consider this a sidebar-worthy material.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 10:14 AM
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1) Go. For. Other. Women. 2) Work on increasing your SMV (lift/dress/play sports/music) instead of "hanging out with a girl in order to maybe fuck her one day". 3) This is the last for a reason. Game. But experience shows that one normally just can't turn around existing orbiting and suddenly go in for a fuck. It is possible, but don't bother with it. See previous two. Mindset "what do I do in order to get her" will get you precisely nothing and will be your ruin.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 10:10 AM
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Damn I hope she didn't learn our secret handshake!
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 08:55 AM
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Why the downvotes? Because of this: should I get girls' phone numbers with the intent of sexual pursuit, I would be obligated to tell her; even if I didn't, she would find out because she runs through my phone occasionally. That attitude of "fair" and "equal" approach to relationships is a foundation of BP thinking and is seriously unpleasant to many RP people, since many come from BP endocrination and suffered aplenty from it. Solution: Plates, right? Ugh, not necessarily. It is totally ok to n…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 08:50 AM
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True that. Now when I think of it, what I really wanted to convey in that paragraph is: take the good ones, leave the bad ones be. If someone would be brave/foolish enough to try and influence a standpoint of radical feminist, that feminist better not be trans woman, since there might be a couple of whole new levels of hardcore crazy. Infinite self-victimization and solipsism, years full of rejection and hatred, new identity forged in the flames of pain - that is some hardcore stuff. This is und…
/r/altTRP29/02/16 09:26 AM
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Your message is simple and I agree with it. The way I see world, that is quite trivial. Now watch me do something I never do: tone policing. Please don't get offended and consider what I'll say from a place of learning: "White Knight Beta Faggot" Beta is a sexual strategy. It is strange that you would get angry at someone's sexual strategy, unless it is harming you directly. Faggot is a synonym for homosexual. It is weird to use it to curse someone who is by definition not homosexual. Moron, may…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 10:12 AM
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A woman with trust issues is a major red flag. Gah! She is not a woman with a trust issues god damn it! He has failed a shit test, that is all there is. Her actual attitude or trust issues have NOTHING to do with anything. She is accusing him of something, he gets on defensive, she keeps doing that. That is a shit test. You pass it by "Yes, had sex twice yesterday, one more coming up for today. I'd invite you but they said they are not into blondes." Deal with incoming rage with laughter / dgaf …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 10:06 AM
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If you're pissed off, say so. If you want something, don't drop hints. Come out and say it. It seems to me that you are defying some basic character traits of many a woman. They communicate covertly (articles have been written on that, hope you'll not ask for proof here). Learn to read this, learn to enjoy this, learn to respond properly. I cherish honesty and straight talk, but RP made me understand and learn how to deal with covert communication. I don't mind it anymore. PS. Nice flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 10:00 AM
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I'll be a bit out of line of the other comments here (and gosh, some RP guys are delightfully dense). TRP has opened my eyes to the whole feminism/state power thing. This goes far, far beyond getting laid or married. This has fundamentally changed my worldview, the very ways I think, speak and act in daily life. And this is wonderful. Motivation that is personal relationships is so strong, and can be hijacked so masterfully as to totally manipulate the individual (myself, obviously, in this case…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 09:48 AM
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hm what does this mean? This indicates that in your eyes, she is good enough, and you are interested in a second date. Can you end a date without having to give a reason Yes. I didn't mean "paralyzed grandma" as a fake reason, but as an outright joke to take her mind off a fact that you are ending it. Can do without a joke. "OK, I'd like to go home now. How are you getting home?". Can use a joke as a social lubricant. Do not be hesitant to be brave and break social norms.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:32 AM
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It's best if you have a plan beforehand. Meet at a public place, go for a walk, go eat somewhere, then if she is still entertaining take her to some special place like minigolf/small concert/bar/bowling. When that is over, the date is over. Given that there's no constrain to actually make you say "well i gotta go do a thing". No need to provide a reason. It is a good thing, and a necessary thing to be breaking "niceness" social norms. "OK now, I've had enough of this conversation and want to go …
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:37 AM
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My first thought as well - gently inquire him about his childhood, specifically look for single-parentedness, abuse - especially physical, unstable parents, step-dad and so on.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:31 AM
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You don't have to go ask anything on RPW, but with all honesty, give their sidebar a try. It didn't click with me on the first go, but OMG, their attitude is phenomenal, and seems to me as a sure-fire way to success with men and in life in general. Some of the advice given by their EC's is nothing short of mindblowing (mostly by being different from a usual female-targeted crap). Even if it will not benefit your current relationship directly, you might be able to help your friends who are in nee…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:27 AM
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I view this development as overall positive. The case is outright ridiculous - she didn't even file a criminal charge, like cmon at least pretend to try - and might make the brainless masses more skeptical of "women who cry rape are innocent and right by default". Or it might be vice versa. Who knows.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 10:19 AM
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You said "LTR", which does not imply marriage. You are good bro. Useful post. I don't know what are all the negative comments about. It's OK to live with a woman if you know what you are doing, and privacy from the get-go is important. Let's not forget about phones/tablets either.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:54 AM
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Amazing read. OP, you have a writing talent. Please post more.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 09:47 PM
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Seriously, watch the fucking video in the original post. Just go and watch it. Do yourself a favor. Mister lawyer in the video brings up cases where people were convicted on statements like that THAT WERE TRUE. Please watch the video.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:56 AM
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This is disturbingly excellent. Comments only make it better. We have some brilliant and some really dense people here.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:40 AM
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Before you progress any further, please see "Divorce Corp" immediately. Seriously, please watch it the first opportunity you have. In short: due to the way the family court system is set up, you will both loose your child AND go bankrupt, or loose all your money+real estate. When the system is SO stacked up against you, giving up is a wise thing to do. You will not have your child. Get as much assets as you can and run. DO NOT SEEK JUSTICE IN FAMILY COURT. EDIT: I've watched Divorce Corp two day…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:58 PM
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You no doubt are an authority, but how exactly does TRP teach to "lie and cheat"? Manipulation I have no issue with, I'm manipulating a bag of clay to make it into a pot, I'm manipulating a woman to suck my dick, no one gets hurt. But lying and cheating? Please explain.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:17 AM
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Nicely worded, matches my experience. Let me add a positive aspect: if you do need to ask, ask does it make her feel. That's when the gates might burst open. That's when she is capable of some degree of introspection.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:24 AM
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Oh yes. Check my submissions history for a post on that.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 01:02 AM
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What happens after the glorious act? Does Stan give her the money or not? If he does, that's prostitution. Prostitution has ZERO to do with your social status, attractiveness, SMV, skills, game, or anything else that matters or is discussed in TRP. That is direct resources for sex. I'm not saying it is bad (it is definitely ok with me), but that doesn't strike me as a sexual strategy I'd like to pursue. I'd rather, you know, seduce someone. If he doesn't give her the money, that is a direct crim…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 11:55 AM
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TRP demonizes some of the uses money These uses include buying HER expensive gifts, taking her out to expensive dates, shared bank account (shrug), in general baiting her with money directly. I can't recall any other use of money that is demonized by TRP. Again, I feel that you maybe red some specific post that I missed, since TRP is definitely pro-money, and I have no idea how you could have had an impression that "a lot of people in this sub hate money".
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 11:19 AM
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that a lot of people in this sub hate money What? I don't think I've seen a single post that would be anti-money. Some people reasonably state that deliberately impressing woman with money is counter-productive nowadays. But being against money? On TRP? OP you might be confusing something.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 07:35 AM
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OP, thank you for this post. While it is hand-waving and generalization, it did give me something to think about. Beautiful, thank you. Let me explain: like most of you have probably heard, it is quintessential for a woman to assign you into a role, a type. It might be interesting and useful to play right into the patriarchal type. Machiavellian, but are we afraid of that? No we are not :)
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 07:35 PM
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You don't get rid of ants by causing infighting between ants. In case of feminism and SJW, these are only dangerous when influencing state policy, since it can easily be influenced to the detriment of society. If you have sugar spilled everywhere, you'll have ants, and if you get rid of ants, you'll get some other trouble - historically it would be an invented external enemy to justify state growth and military expansion. If you think you can "make them look bad" or make them less efficient by p…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 07:32 PM
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And why would anyone of us deal with these people or want to have anything to do with their affairs?
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 07:15 PM
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I absolutely love Stefen, and I consider him a must-listen for all men, but this video is shit, one of the only two I could not finish. His constant appeal to "these men are behaving like this due to years of oppression and injustice in the past" is an absolute garbage. I don't know why he would use that, as normally he's logical.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 08:32 PM
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Thank you! From my substantial (but not nearly as extensive as with MTFs) experience with FTMs, I could see no observable difference between them and genetic guys. I'd say after a year or so of T most become passable at a level where you would never even suspect that there's something unusual between his legs. I also have this impression that most are gay or otherwise alternatively sexual, but this might be due to the kind of people I met. This is yet another WTF factor when reading SJW articles…
/r/altTRP29/01/16 08:28 AM
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Rollo, your work was quintessential in my recent unplugging, and I've promoted it to others who bought your book. My humble critique of a podcast: a) (Niko's?) More quiet voice is a bit too quiet. Also, he uses a lot of filler words and useless phrases. I can quote some if you'd like to call me out on my words. Do as you see fit, but I can see how that would turn some listeners away. b) I suggest you dive right into the action, and not spend first 4 minutes talking about meta stuff. I can read a…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 12:45 AM
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Heh, never seen that guy before. His "String along method" is a sight to behold. Thank you for sharing that. Edit: aha, distinctive RP terminology in some vids. I guess one of locals.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 09:50 AM
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Heh, whaddaya know, you made me look into it and yes, top 1% would be around 130-135. Thanks for correction. There were some remarkable people though, I've never seen anyone like that before.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 09:30 AM
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From my stunt in banking, I didn't see a single fool in there. Mostly people with IQs above 160. Social conditioning trumps intelligence. Long live Red Pill, which these guys didn't have.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 06:41 AM
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Aggressively verbally hitting on their mothers always works for me, without failure. The older / uglier the mom is, the better. Inappropriate compliments, hints, everything goes. Perfectly safe, pleasurable for mom, tingles for the woman, laughs and good mood for everyone present.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 06:34 AM
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a) Yes she would. Not sure about his specific case, but women in general - absolutely. It will be filled with ugly hamstering and making herself look better in the end, but public proclamation of feelings is totally withing the realm of possibility. Also, if you are in LTR, she is bragging about you to her friends. b) It is not tit-for-tat. Our sexual strategies and behaviors are asymmetrical. "Would she do that for you" is not a useful rationale.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 06:26 AM
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I don't see anything materially wrong here. The thing about farts is absolutely great. The guy doesn't color himself as wrong, doesn't humiliate himself. Nothing wrong with proclaiming public love - your girl gets serious validation points. I myself would never write anything like that, but I do not see any great mistake in that.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 02:09 AM
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Just FYI trans girls are as AWALT as they come. Speaking from experience. Edit: Check this out! I've made AltTRP post on trans girls! Check my submission history if interested.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 05:48 PM
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Every other topic in here now has comments (rightfully) connecting feminism and state power. This makes me seriously happy and gives me hope. In just half a year TRP has made a quintessential leap forward. Currently there's nothing on a sidebar about that. I wonder if mods will relax their (very useful and sensible) policy of "this is strictly about gender".
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 09:30 PM
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I had the exact same situation, when "77%" was dropped twice in the conversation. I went and double-checked online (it wasn't about a country I currently live in), then spoke with a guy in private - not to prove him wrong, but just to inform him that I did some research and could not confirm the number. Shortly after, I've raised the topic in a group - again, not to argue it, but to say I've done the research and could not confirm the numbers. Bravely stating "NO! You are wrong! There is no 70% …
/r/askTRP18/01/16 04:24 AM
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"You are such a dick" is a last thing you hear before you get laid. It is, in my experience, a great response to get from a woman. I'd treat anything you said prior to this moment as a good interaction. I disagree with the rest of the commenters on this being a comfort test. I don't see a comfort test there at all. Comfort test mostly looks like a woman doubting herself. None of that here. Are you sure you didn't text anything between "you are such a dick" and "world worst boyfriend"? You didn't…
/r/askTRP18/01/16 03:52 AM
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Especially "haha", "lol" and smilies are a real plague for beginning guys. That is a huge attraction killer. Just listen how many women talk - they use any opportunity to laugh or chuckle at the end of their own phrases, as if to shake away responsibility. Man doesn't do that. I'm responsible for every word I type, and I mean it. Eradicate that shit from your written speech immediately and completely. Also, OmLaLa, that is one great post.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 11:59 PM
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Relationships -> DeadBedrooms -> Sidebar of success stories -> amazing post mentioning dread game -> google -> RationalMale -> TRP Hooray!
/r/askTRP14/01/16 05:06 AM
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condescending vibe when they talk to me My guess would be that you are provoking it by complaining. No one is evil by default (well, almost no one). I usually talk about a shitty day in a joking/sarcastic manner and my close friend would be like "Oh, its okay. Don't worry about it man. You'll get better". I see a problem with what you are doing (complaining), and do no see a problem with your friend's response. You are either asking for help, in which case your friend is expected to be attentive…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 11:43 PM
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this skill was born and still at its core is a beta adaptation I have no idea why did you make this claim. How is this beta? A skill is a skill. Fight, make money, influence people, ace social interactions, grow good crop, manage a company, build, write and sing - nothing is beta. Negotiating desire is beta. Just so you know, "angling her body and pausing as if to suggest that I should reach out and grab one for her", "trace the spines with my finger" is already at a level unreachable for 90% of…
/r/askTRP13/01/16 12:19 AM
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You are very aware of minute detail, like posture and nuances of conversation. From my experience, men with this awareness slay pussy left and right, so good for you. It is a gift, keep sharpening it, and keep questioning yourself. | Girl: "Are you trying to get my number?" This is very interesting. You not knowing immediately how to react to this immediately indicates to me (but not to her) that you are new to game and a bit inexperienced. Nothing wrong about that. With a bit of experience, you…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 11:02 PM
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Examples, examples man. Please give at least two examples of conversations where this happened, quoting them as precisely as you can and not cutting corners. Otherwise, what kind of advice you are expecting? "Soft next them"?
/r/askTRP12/01/16 10:42 PM
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Umm this is not what the OP is asking for, but this is approaching main sub quality. Consider posting.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 10:39 PM
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I'd tell her the following: "First of all, last year and a half people have been increasingly judged and sent to jail over Facebook and Twitter posts. Do you get that?" she mutters... "Do you understand? You can go to jail over online posts?" she says yes. "When this guy shows himself in any way that is not Facebook, you let me know immediately. Be it phone calls, your friends alerting you to something, I have to know about it right away. Are we clear?" Feels in check, you are good.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 10:32 PM
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You are trapping yourself in your own sophism. If the guy is cool, and approaches, she is attracted, they bang. If she "has to tell him how to be a man", he's not attractive, no banging. Woman might be aware of PUA stuff, but this will not reduce the attractiveness of a guy, same way that you know she's wearing makeup, but this only makes her hotter.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 10:23 PM
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First of all, what an excellent post! Great breakdown of the situation. to be seen as seedy/dishonest Here's the real issue. What specific character flaws have you demonstrated? I don't think there were any. So your real question is: how to deal with player hatred / politics / group gossip. Just like false rape accusations often destroy people who are virgins or had nothing to do with the accuser, politics will harm you either way, without regard for your character or real actions. Certain peopl…
/r/askTRP12/01/16 10:15 PM
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I agreed and amplified and said 'Ok' A&A would be "Should I buy some heroin also? Maybe coke?". Instead, you gave a promise you did not intend to keep. What a fucking shame. Me: Forgot And you lied. What kind of asshat uses lies to avoid confrontation he himself created by intentionally giving a false promise. What a weak character. Seriously, man, never lie. You can't expect respect if you resort to false promises, lies and violence for such a petty everyday situation. I took the fish fillet we…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 10:43 AM
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Look at OmLaLa's post history, look at his selfie, and you'll not have to ask that question again. Edit: You think I'm being rude or mocking you? OmLaLa's post history is literally guides on online dating plus guides on plate spinning. And his picture is a motivation on where one wants to be, physically.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:13 PM
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meetup.com - can be very useful. Dancing: Salsa (Century Ballroom), Tango/WCS, Contact Improv (Om Center). Martial Arts - some have social circles forming (Guardian Krav) around them, some do not. Sport in general. Generic neighborhood gym with overworked amazombies doesn't count, you want some team sport. Date women and enter their social circles (this is my personal favorite, especially in male-starved Seattle). Political activism and volunteering - this can be great venue to make friends quic…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 08:13 PM
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Since you came all the way here, I assume you have tried yourbrainonporn and nofap. If not, then start there first. Get your 90 days hard mode, then come ask again - if the question still persists.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 10:21 PM
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Precisely. I'm not sure why you think she's low quality, but it does not matter. This advice is the best. Op, follow it.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 10:16 PM
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My family has conditioned me to be an asexual omega... my family has undermined my sexual exploits... My dad is the ultimate beta male and I am ashamed to have his inferior genes. This was the last fucking time you use victim narrative, either in your mind or in your speech. "My dad used to beat me on my balls any time I smiled" is a testimony, and is valid. Generalized statements like the quote above are victim narrative. Cut it out. Serious people instantly stop taking you seriously once they …
/r/askTRP08/01/16 10:09 PM
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You are right, I got baited by some stuff you said and jumped on opportunity. Still, while politics on the level of "who is a better candidate" might be irrelevant, it is crucial to understand why all of a sudden lifting is so important (welfare state, "marriage to a state", "we are the beautiful ones" low competition and abundance), feminism is so prevalent, etc. Unplugging comes in stages, and seeing the bigger picture is really useful.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 08:07 PM
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Excellent! You are speaking in relevant, realistic terms. Now, for yourself, please identify which specific companies or "hands" as you call them actually have this capital. Did their gains come from serving public (Amazon, Google, Paypal, other tech) or did it come directly and exclusively from government abuse (larger firms in financial sector, agricultural sector, military, healthcare, law, etc). I'll give you a hint: the idea that rich are hurting you is a simple propaganda level that is use…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:19 PM
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Not trying to offend you here, but I sincerely wonder how is your success with women. My old semi-BP self was reasonably successful with women by consciously demonstrating both provider and reproductive qualities. For me, I found the combination to do wonders. Note: I'm not a good-looking guy.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 03:40 AM
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Actually, he cherry-picks facts and is way, way overdoing it on emotion. He is not that great, but he is still awesome and a must-see RP guy.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 11:02 PM
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1) Avoid gender-related conversations at a workplace. Especially with an outspoken feminist pedaling her agenda. 2) You failed a shit-test (which you should have walked away from), and being butt-hurt you came and wrote a novel on TRP. 3) Feminine imperative seeks to control and restrict male sexuality to advance its own cause. Simple as that. Specific details are simply irrelevant, and are made up on a spot, or like in your case, not made up at all. And you try to argue with it on "objective" t…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:58 PM
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If your mom can survive without you, please put her out of this equation. Don't use her as an excuse for your own indecisiveness. Why go so far, why go to New Zealand? Consider Spain/Portugal, Italy, Hungary, other European countries. They are different enough from Germany. Also, you'll get some actual travel experience before you go for the big leap. I strongly encourage you to look into WWOOF - that is an amazing way to travel for free/cheap, while meeting new people and having unique experien…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 09:01 PM
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I'll chime in and elaborate on what u/Rasalom72 said: most importantly, do not think that her saying "I love you" will yield you any benefit, or somehow exclude you from the rules of the sexual marketplace. At the moment she felt a deep connection. It's same old AWALT next day. Don't relax. When to tell a woman you love her? I'm not sure, but I'm not aware of any benefits of doing so.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:46 PM
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I'm not sure where you stand in your level of political and economic awareness, so I'd recommend you to watch some Stefan Molyneux https://www.youtube.com/user/stefbot It is easy to give more power to authorities by doing political activism, or expect positive action from government by rallying. Please watch some of his stuff and be aware. Sadly I do not have specific recommendations on activism. Maybe go ask MRA?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 07:52 PM
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Depends on: Where you are. Big cities make it easier. Your social/racial group. Being in stereotyped against immigrant group will make it harder. Local mentality: Carribean, for example, will make getting frequent sex far easier then Qatar. Age. The older you are, the easier it gets, in general. Your own standards and preferences - how mainstream is your taste, how broad of a type you can tolerate etc. If you only seek what is locally considered HB9+, you'll have to work for that no matter where…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:36 PM
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While your first comment seems correct to me (I basically said the same thing above), these examples you give seem worse than op's original style. In the long-term, confidence is always better, and in his original conversation op never crosses into arrogance or aggressiveness. Hey I'm doing X on X, are you free? Weak. You have to bravely indicate interest right away, get them feels going, don't make her think about logistics right out of the box. This is good for 3rd date, maybe. Are you free an…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 06:56 PM
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Me: Yo you me Starbucks tomorrow. Not bad, not bad at all. However, this is best if you know her schedule (surprise! you didn't!) and know it is her style. "Met in class recently", but here you are really treating her with familiarity. Nothing in her replies indicates that she appreciated that style. Her: What? That's a game answer. Excellent, your time to show yourself. Me: u read it. This is a very polarizing answer, "take it or leave it". Polarizing is good, but you must be sure you are attra…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:07 AM
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Learning how to deal with your mother is a prerequisite to learning how to deal with all other women. Identify the power sources here: She annoys you by crying late at night. Likely easily countered by showing her this has no effect on you. Worst case, just suck it up. She uses your guilt to manipulate you ("you are hurting me with your undesirable behavior!"). You are a man. From now, you decide what is right, and what is an acceptable level of pain you can inflict to others. This is a very eas…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 01:36 AM
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Her: I'm not even in _____. Why me? You: Haven't you heard? There's a bet between guys, whoever kisses you first wins the bank. I thought I'd try. Everything after "Idk" is lame game from you. You did not get any IOI from her, yet kept on pressing in a blunt, non-entertaining manner. That "Figure it out" is a lame move - unless your SMV is way up and she knows it, that is a lame attempt.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 01:21 AM
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You say "RP goes full pants-on-head retarded" and proceed to give a solid RP advice :) To OP: wtf man, no absolutely means no. Why would you want to take advantage of someone who doesn't want that? If you are concerned about it being a power play, just reduce your availability to her, run dread, etc.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 01:16 AM
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What makes it more complicated for girls in these situations, is that while guy orbiting a girl will happily accept any and all signs of attention (i.e. kind words, socialization, kiss, drunk sex, formal declaration of feelings, anything), a woman will often expect the man in question to behave in a very particular way. I.e. she can orbit a guy for a year, but when he drunkedly tries to kiss her she will cry and run away. Or if he outright asks her out, but not in a specific fashion she likes, s…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 12:03 AM
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If you want to learn about woman types, I can't recommend "The Pandora Box" by Vin DiCarlo enough. Seriously, if you are into categorizing, give it a read, it is just 80 pages or so. PS. I don't like your post. These are too generalized and not useful.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 11:01 PM
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I usually get not a glass of water into my face, but "OMG you are such a jerk!" followed by a pouting face, a punch in my arm, and later that night some passionate advances from her.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:38 PM
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Man, that's weird, once you got your physique and your grooming in place, facial features barely matter, unless you are really a bottom 5% outlier. Big nose specifically should not be a problem. Do you think you really are an outlier? Go talk to a doctor. Maybe you'll hear that after 4-6 month's worth of savings you can improve your looks by an order of magnitude, so why not? Otherwise, remember about the competition. How tall are you, relative to the rest of males in your area? How is your groo…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:52 PM
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That's a shitty advice, why the hell is it so upvoted. Do not step into her frame. Do not justify your actions. Why did you like her picture? - Well if I jerk off to something, I might as well reward the poster. (A&A) Hey why do you keep staring at these two slutty waitresses? - I wonder which one is better in bed... (then lick your lips in the most disgusting manner) (A&A) OMG can't you take your eyes off that bartender? - OMG RIGHT WHY DOES SHE KEEP STARING AT ME ALL THIS TIME I FEEL VIOLATED.…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:35 PM
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It's not important where you start, his stuff is not specifically ordered. I'd avoid interviews and call-ins, ans start with r/K selection theory and "the truth about" series.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:22 PM
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If you feel like shit, own it. No need to "Separate your perception of your self-worth from your relationship status". You got your PhD - awesome, man. If you failed at that, you'd be feeling like crap, and I'd point my finger at you and say "look what a looser, he can't even get a PhD, mwahaha, now come here bro lets have a beer". But you got it, didn't ya. Good job there. Next step - personal life. That previous woman is hopefully out of your life for good. Are you feeling not confident, not g…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 10:17 PM
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I am an ex-beta who has recently become alpha You have to attach a scan of your alpha certificate for this claim to be valid. How to suppress my feeling... Why? Romance is what makes many of us (myself included) tick. Your real question is... I often find these feelings leading me to beta-like behavior ... bla bla bla... once I reveal my feelings to a chick, her attraction to me seems to fade Aha! It is not about your feelings, it is about your behavior. You have to a) lift b) read sidebar c) ad…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 06:08 AM
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Listen to Stefen Molyneux while cooking or commuting: https://www.youtube.com/user/stefbot Not all of his lectures are the same quality, and I dislike the interviews, but mostly really educational. Start with r/K selection theory.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:17 AM
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The solution is to be Tom Bradies, whoever it is. Stop calling your illusory beliefs "true love".
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 04:33 AM
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"I'll keep that in mind" suggested by u/trpdgc is stoic/defensive approach, and should be your automatic first response if you don't have anything better. What I suggest (and "Thanks for looking out for me" is inline with my suggestion) is a full-on manipulative counter-attack. Also, I do suggest you say all these phrases I mention (including "Thanks for looking out for me") one after another, to secure the psychological frame. No need to let her speak out of her past mindset.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 04:30 AM
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You learned about "true love" not from your own experience, and likely not by observing people you personally know, but from a society that was bent on misinforming you for many reasons (most of them having to do with reducing regret in life-long relationships and improving social stability). There's no Genie that can grant wishes, there's no mermaids on the bottom of the ocean, and that is not how human attraction and pair-bonding works. Here you go, gorge yourself on some fundamental RedPill t…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 04:13 AM
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Ask him about the events of their youth, ask her separately, analyze the stories carefully. Armed with TRP lens you might be able to understand some very significant details of what has happened (parental influence, her getting knocked up by Chad, drunk lay, revenge wedding, stuff like that). Questions to ask: How did you and mom meet? How long have you been dating before you proposed? What your family thought of the whole relationship? Why do you think she chose you? Ask mom and dad separately,…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:41 AM
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This is not a shit test, but a political action. First option that comes to mind: No matter how angry and confrontational she came, immediately reframe it as her trying to help you. Make sure you keep her mind off the actual matter at hand, and stick to relationship topics: "Thank you so much for helping me! This is so nice of you! It is so annoying that once a person makes mistakes, no one cares enough to go and politely point it out, just like you did!". If delivered correctly, this is a very …
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:30 AM
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Ah, the 90's... OP, you are either extremely young, or somehow missed the whole PUA train. That is the basic neg straight out of the first PUA posts. And here you go bring it up like the new shiny thing. There's also comparing her style to other people in the venue and complimenting it on being popular... ah, the 90's...
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 02:58 AM
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I went on 2 cycles of accutane, and holy fuck was that hell. That's one drug experience you can't reasonably describe without curse words. Mouth permanently full of blood and your own skin that is peeling from the roof of the mouth. Dick head looking like pinecone from all the dry peeling skin flakes. Fuck, fuck, fuck. Couple of months in I decided that I'd rather be pimply, stopped accutane, asked a mother of ex-pimply friend how did they beat it, started rubbing face with 70% alcohol before go…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 11:17 PM
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I'd say I'm at bottom 20-30% physical attractiveness-wise (might even be 10%, who knows, but no serious diseases or handicaps). Short, wildly asymmetrical face, some strangely shaped bones. Guess what, with some learning and experience I managed to have significant number of partners, couple of LTRs, couple of times went home/had some action with the hottest girl in the club. Yes, really. It is all learnable. I'll likely never be able to pick up Playmates, but at this point I'm very comfortable …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 05:01 AM
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For my style of game, that is perfect. This gives you an opportunity to go out with her, while outright completely overtly disqualifying her as a woman. The way it goes, by the end of the first date the girl would be physically escalating on you non-stop (happened to me multiple times). She would not know it is a date, of course. Some caveats: You must invite her to an activity that you yourself enjoy, and that is not necessarily a "date". Partnering up for a salsa, then drinking beers in some p…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 01:45 AM
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A date is a great opportunity for you to: 1) Check out a place you haven't been before, like a park / restaurant / vista point / hobby / etc. 2) Go again to a place /activity you really like (rock climbing). a) I got a shitty car (it's technically fine, but could lower smv, not sexy) That is not a right line of thinking. You have that car for a good reason - it offered some price/value advantage, or you got it for free, or you particularly like the build, etc. If you are conscious about the car,…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 01:33 AM
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After writing my initial response I thought "but wait, I also love me some herbs like oregano, dill, and bay leaf". What you bring as example, however: ginger, cinnamon, chile, vinegar - I rarely, if ever, see these used for anything good. They have overpowering tastes that I almost never enjoy. And I do dine out a lot. I do realize that this is strictly my anecdotal experience and not trying to make an argument. I also come from a culinary culture where very little spice is used.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 02:45 AM
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For a football player and a bartender, you have some impressive writing skills, I'll give you that. In any case, nice story, thank you for sharing. Made me think "I hope haters of this sub get to see this post" several times while reading.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 10:53 PM
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Wow, this is real: http://services.parliament.uk/bills/2014-15/seriouscrime.html "Following agreement by both Houses on the text of the Bill it received Royal Assent on 3 March. The Bill is now an Act of Parliament (law)." "to create an offence in relation to controlling or coercive behaviour in intimate or family relationships" Notice the word "intimate". You don't even have to marry them anymore. Good job UK, good job. EDIT: Hooo-leeee shit, there's a lot of fun in this bill: https://www.gov.u…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 10:37 PM
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if your food needs more than salt, pepper and oil to taste good then it shouldn’t be in your diet Oh my God, so much this. How many times do I have to tell people. If you need a cup of oyster sauce or ketchup poured over that, this means that you are eating crap and have to trick your body into accepting it. Especially true for Indian and some other Eastern foods. One thing I'd add to this list of "ok spices" is nutritional yeast. I love it, and it is also healthy. Try it if you haven't.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:07 PM
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the image you project via pursuing Would typically be a negative one, unless you are proficient at that and the culture is accepting. It gets complicated since your age, social context and status all come into play. I'll say that again: PUA (and related parts of TRP) are all about reinstating your image while still pursuing. If you are not actively pursuing, you would have less opportunities to be with a woman unless you are top 5-10%, at what point just making yourself visible would bring you s…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:50 PM
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True, except that the rules have changed. At any further point in time, assuming the man was the higher earner (BB, duh), it will always be profitable for her to divorce him, not only getting big chunk of his assets, but potentially incurring huge losses (10-50K$) due to how US family court is organized. She can also keep riding the CC freely, while looking for the next branch. I.e. marriage in modern US is really bad for BB.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 06:03 AM
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the bible That's not a good source of relationship advise. I have been in a relationship with an older woman before and I know its hard. Things are very different in older woman/younger male and older male/younger woman couples. Do not let one experience guide you with regards to the other. 45 year old single mum Why would that even be an option for LTR. Is she rich and willing to support you? Bottom line: if you are willing to marry (despite overwhelming TRP consensus on not getting married), t…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:49 AM
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Obsidian from www.justfourguys.com is 5'6, and he had a great article about what to do about it (and he is also black). Sadly, the site seems down. Let me remember what he said... Ah yes! Lift, learn game, dress well, be successful in your career. Same shit you'd do regardless of your height.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:43 AM
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closer to where my potential LTR lives Uh-oh. This statement makes me doubt effectiveness of your RP advice to your brother. Not trying to offend or disqualify you, this just stands out. it's slighly more expensive, but he said he'd cover the difference Before any further negotiations take place, you have to explicitly agree on the price. Price you have to pay monthly, in exact numbers, has to be agreed upon both sides in explicit terms. Don't forget to discuss the bills (prefer an arrangement w…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:33 AM
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my children Well, you have reproduced. Good job there. Make sure your kids are raised well. Check out Red Pill Parenting, listen to Stefen Moulinex. Looks like from this point on, women are just an entertainment. Averaging about 1 new partner per month since it ended... started going on dates There you go. That's your advise, and check this out, you are ALREADY following it. Good job, again. I went smurf fucking blue Hehe, good one, right there. So you had a quality woman, and you went your sepa…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:22 AM
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Do not trust anything she says. Do not take any stories for the face value. You have no idea what has happened between them in the past. Option 1: she knew exactly how interested he was, what other options he has, and she was betting that he would try again, thus raising her future value in the relationships. This assumes she was indeed interested before/during the first time he approached (and got rejected). Option 2: she was never interested, but during the eventual date the guy was able to im…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:11 AM
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the mom wasn't interested at first, the father was persistant and got her, lived happily ever after Whoa whoa. That is the Blue Pill narrative right there, and is most likely FALSE. It might be true if these evens unfolded in 40s-60s (assuming USA), but probably not later. DO NOT BUY into this narrative, as it does not work anymore. The whole idea that "pursuing shows lack of abundance, but lack of pursuing means close to zero opportunities" is likely the main reason why PUA were developed. This…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:51 AM
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... an underhanded way of telling me ... No. Guys don't do hints, and definitely not in a form of books. If you dad thinks you are too masculine, he will probably tell you "I think you are too masculine". What most likely has happened is that he got an advice from someone: some internet site, some "top 10 bestsellers for women" list, someone he knows, or a seller in a book store.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 09:04 PM
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And another one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T7HyuLPWF9I (Stefan Molyneux - The Truth About Nelson Mandela) Just please don't call it a "skeptic" take only because it goes against the mass-media brainwash. More like realist or historical.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 10:49 PM
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This. Eventually, it will basically be u/OmLaLa seducing all english-speaking girls in the world, and wondering why so many are flaking.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 03:27 AM
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And lets not forget that there might be more going on then OP sees. For example he is kept as BB and for status, while there's CC riding going on as well.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 04:36 AM
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The concept of AWALT, which is, to put it gently, very popular in TRP, is explicit warning to everyone against this attitude. There is no unicorn. There is no special one. Drop your unrealistic expectations and embrace the reality. You have to game them and be on your toes as long as you want to associate with women. Hypergamy doesn't sleep and doesn't care about the past.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 04:33 AM
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The post lacks summary. The post is very long. The post contains horrendous number of spelling mistakes. The post starts with "20 year old, virgin, never had a girlfriend" which makes any potential reader looking for useful information much less interested. For the above reasons I believe it will be downvoted, and subsequently removed by our ever-vigilant and low-BMI moderators.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 12:09 AM
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Let me try and put into words this vortex that I have observed all-too-often: man's self-confidence drops for some reason, a man has a suspicion that the woman is not loyal, man (overtly!) comes forward with accusations, woman talks her way out of it, man again/still has a suspicion, man tries (overtly!) to introduce new rules to reinstate his position, woman obviously ignores/circumvents the new rules since he has already lost respect, he looses some more confidence, repeat. I didn't want to lo…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 09:30 PM
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I find your story to be a bit banal (single mom full of red flags, who even cares, you got your sex, you didn't get married, you discovered the pill, congratulations, next), but I like your simple yet passionate writing style. One thing I noticed is the mate guarding that you write at length on. Repeat after me: "It is not my bicycle, it is just my turn." If you feel yourself sucked into the negative emotion-powered vortex of mate guarding, consider running intentional and rational dread game in…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:21 PM
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In no way did I mean to offend you or diminish your knowledge. Reading my post again, I fail to see why did you take it personally. This community exists to share particular knowledge, so I jumped on the opportunity. I wanted to state precisely what Jozan999 has stated as a reply to your comment. Clearly his wording is better than mine. Still, if you insist, I'd gladly take my redpill vanguard badge, sure, why not, this way please.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 02:28 AM
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"Such a peculiar nature" signals a lack of understanding. For anyone who might have missed that lesson let me offer a short and simple possible explanation for this: AF/BB means Alpha provides the genes, Beta provides the resources for the child. Genes, you see, are something you "just have", you can't work on yourself to improve them. Thus man actively trying to improve his Alpha-tells is interfering with hypergamy by endangering female's ability to get the best genes. Judge for yourself whethe…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 08:51 PM
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Our enemies are powerful and ruthless and they have an agenda. I have no enemies that I know of. Speak for yourself. Say "my enemies". If your post gets taken down, that phrase likely would have been the reason. AWALT, yes, but not enemies. Edit: OP does not mention feminists, and in any case, "feminist" is too broad of a definition nowadays. What I get from OP's claim is "all women are enemies and have an agenda against you". I can't agree to that.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 07:13 PM
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Let me state what none of the other commenters here seemed to notice: as of time of this writing, out of 20 top comments on Youtube (both by males and females) only ONE is approving of the video. The rest are starkly negative and criticizing its content. Online community might be becoming aware, at least to over-the-top crap like this video. This gives me hope.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:03 PM
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I've been looking for ANY game advice for women for several years. What I find is garbage. I was prepared to love RPW, and gave it serious read couple of times (not the sidebar though), and I did not see much value in it - the terminology is useful, the "no bullshit" attitude is refreshing and great, but the content is questionable (mostly in the vein of "he loves me, now what"). It is true that women, at least ones I met in my life (and that is quite a few), have horrendous game. I did see some…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:20 AM
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Details, man, details. What exactly does she ask you to do? How often? Why does it make you mad? How many hours a week are you ready to spend helping your mom? Did you try setting up clear, simple boundaries as to how much help you are willing to offer? How did she react?
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:13 AM
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You have a chance to leave some feedback for the young man, potentially making him reflect on his behavior and maybe enacting some change. Instead, the way I (and likely every reader) perceive it, you express generalized negativity about his entire post. Will it make him recognize the error of his ways? Mmmmmm probably no. Instead he will dismiss your opinion altogether. Also, ironically, you conform to the stereotype he's describing, thus likely reinforcing it in his eyes. What exactly did you …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 10:29 PM
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I might make a separate post on this, but meanwhile I suggest everyone go watch this right now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D0Yp1jUtcX8 (Stefan Molyneux - the truth about Bernie Sanders) Bernie Sanders = socialism, Beta baiting.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 09:59 PM
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You get comfort test when she perceives your SMV to be way higher than hers, and it normally is a direct statement about her worry or insecurity. This is the time to encourage her and reaffirm your presence in her life (often a silent long hug is all you have to do). You don't get these often, so it is better to err on a side of caution.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 04:41 AM
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I can't say this is a useful post, and it will likely be moderated, but it sure looks like you've grabbed some of the essence of TRP. Some comments though: I tell her what she wants to hear "I'll be more nice don't worry" Nope. Better go with "That's what they say" with a huge grin. In general treat everything starting with "you" as a shit test (only things starting with "me" might be comfort test). It's unreal every women in my life has been testing me since I've swallowed the pill They were te…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 02:56 AM
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THIS IS NOT HOW IT WORKS. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bulbourethral_gland Your pre-ejaculatory fluid carries viable semen with it. You can both catch/transmit STDs and get her pregnant this way. EDIT: For people unwilling to click on the wiki link above for some supposedly credible biology: A study published in Human Fertility in March 2011 suggests that some human males often or always excrete sperm carried out of the body by Cowper's gland secretions prior to ejaculation, at concentrations s…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 08:21 PM
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For anyone interested in what happened in Africa around the fall of apartheid, I strongly recommend documentary "Africa Addio": http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0060073/ Kind of a movie that sticks in your head. Time NOT wasted.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 11:07 PM
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The more drama and push, pull I throw, the harder she wants to please me. If i wasn't game aware I'd let this go to my head but we here know the truth: Any dickhead could have her. I'm not so fucking great. In this subreddit full of sexual strategy discussions, this is easily one of my favorite quotes. Mindful execution, game awareness, humility, "it's not my bicycle", everything right there. Bravo and thank you.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 10:57 PM
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Because you are already isolated, there are no friends and family carrying negative perception of your old blue self. Additionally, there are no habits you need to break free from etc. We are talking semantics here, call it as you wish, but from what you describe there is no need for disruptive changes in your life.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 07:05 PM
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The mentality behind Monk Mode is to change your environment's perception of yourself, by disappearing for a few months and re-emerging more fit, more confident, more socially adept. In your case it doesn't make sense. Definitely travel - prefer outside of US. Why not? If fishing at clubs doesn't work for now, go online.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 09:46 PM
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WHUT. Op you miss the point. You totally miss the freaking point. It is not a lie. She's not being lied to. It's been going on forever, "mother knows best" is as old as agriculture. Females that are giving her the advise ARE LIKELY POST-WALL and for them provider/Beta traits are much, much more meaningful and attractive. They give their honest, best advice. Long-tern, rationally best. Any woman typing in front of her monitor, not seeing the Chad/Bob in question, will use her rational brain to di…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 01:13 AM
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I found TRP recently, when I'm already mature and quite experienced with women and relationships. I've always cringed at how some posters and commenters use "Alpha" and "Beta". On AskTRP it gets especially cringeworthy. When referring to personality traits, Alpha and Beta are very useful. When analyzing actual behaviors, Alpha and Beta are quite useful, basically indicating "tells" to personality traits. (I.e "this is so Beta!" can be useful when criticizing a particular move). However, when tal…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 12:06 AM
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was begging me to pull off the condom I wonder how old she is? Some serious stuff right there. I honestly hope you know better than to trust "I'm on a pill" speech. And yeah, good FR, in an amusing way. Made me chuckle. You got it figured out it seems.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 03:13 AM
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Unrealistic garbage of a parable. I'll never risk my social standing by taking money from a person I beat up (I have years of martial arts and weapons training btw), so in my case this thought would be utterly useless and counterproductive. People with any amount of cash that would interest me (lets say above 10K$ in cash on hand) are incredibly unlikely to attack me in a dark parking lot. EDIT: now that I think of it, the useful predatory attitude in my case would be try and make useful connect…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 11:20 PM
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High five!
/r/askTRP01/12/15 11:11 PM
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First of all, I'm sorry for you man. Be strong. Totally game them. Totally. Game, go on dates, flake like crazy when time comes to sex. Dates can be lots of fun - of course, you have to plan them the way you'd have fun (not just a boring cafe/bar/restaurant meetup). Even if you don't get LTR out of it, lots of skill can be gained. I hope doctor/time will help. I also wonder what kind of injury was it. PS. Sadly, I'm speaking from past experience.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 06:08 AM
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How is this handled in RP? By observing actions, not words. And the actions will be them girls popping babies in no time. I suspect there's some cultural thing you are missing where this approach is promoted, like a show, popular song, some famous woman's testimonial or other crap like this. It will pass. For fun and education, try asking to elaborate why do they think thats a good idea (while agreeing and supporting).
/r/askTRP30/11/15 11:25 PM
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That is a great post. Thank you! Basic dance skills do wonders. Solo hip-hop style to draw attention for laughs and show total IDGAF attitude, clown-style. Salsa / Zouk / WCS to kino and make her look good, as op absolutely correctly explained.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 09:47 PM
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the subject of getting another girl in bed always comes up and I think I can get her to do a threesome That is a trap. That is not how women work. You can pull threesomes if your SMV is up in the sky relative to the woman, but this is not the case. Give yourself a nice hard slap on the face, wake up, and never fall for that again. I have never cheated on anyone in my life And lets keep it that way. Spinning plates is not cheating though, since you did not commit to anyone. I have developed oneit…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 08:42 PM
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the patience to flirt "covertly" for like 2 days OMG 2 whole days. Who has a time for that! Pussy! Now!!! (Just messing with ya. It is funny though how you consider two days to be too much investment for a lay, considering we are talking about online messaging). Think about it other way: learn to pass this kind of shit tests, and the range if your opportunities will increase. Unwillingness to learn womanese (covert communication, powertalk) will definitely hinder you in life and in game.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 07:31 AM
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Original text was a shit test you've passed with flying colors, that's why the great deal of attempts to reconnect (induced by hamster first, gina tingles second). "why do you always assume Im breaking up with you" Minor shit test. Any answer will do, I'd go for "I hear a package ticking, I run for cover. Weird why people keep sending me all these clocks" (if she is intelligent enough to understand this). I don't understand why say you cant have this relationship then try to turn it on me Welcom…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 07:19 AM
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This is not a common issue AFAIK, so must be something you personally are missing. I have a strong suspicion that you are failing a particular kind of shit tests, where they bait you with sexuality. If a woman overtly talks about sex, "OMG I'm still a virgin stop trying to corrupt me." If a woman is saying something that you consider to be covertly sexual, answer covertly, with plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 07:03 AM
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In case you are wondering why you are not getting any (many) replies - that's too long. People would like to help, but please make it easy on us.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 06:55 AM
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I was almost laughing out loud Great feeling, isn't it? That's how you know the pill worked. The manipulation that would have crushed you previously now looks like a child trying to punch you. I explained that she could throw whatever she liked at me but I just didn't care Yet you still definitely lack the experience. Explaining is meaningless and doesn't work. Good for you to have a closure, but save it for your bros next time. "I love you. I tried so hard but nothing could make you happy." Shi…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 06:40 AM
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You are not passing them (confirmed after reading your elaboration below). Hurt her. Upset her. I mean emotionally, of course. Passing most shit tests requires the ability to readily cause her emotional pain. That is what she needs. You didn't internalize it yet. How do I know? The pain is big enough for her to not go asking for it again. Also, trp basics: dread. Subtle, covert dread game.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 06:10 AM
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Wrong subreddit. Try r/personalfinance and r/realstate. The above being said, and knowing nothing about real estate careers, I like how you plan ahead and think about things seemingly realistically.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 05:57 AM
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You have nothing to loose. That is a perfect opportunity to learn, improvise and have fun. This is life, learn to recognize these opportunities. "Hey, I'm going to <that thing that a tourist girl might like> tomorrow at 6. I was asked to bring a boring friend. Wanna come?" had nowhere to have sex What is going on here. Do you enjoy playing a game on hard mode?
/r/askTRP30/11/15 05:53 AM
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I like your write up, I like your analysis, I like your actions (the way you describe them). I don't see any fundamental issues. Girl still has some control over her sexual impulse. Good for her. She is young, you are likely young, nothing to worry aboit. And remember: if she ran away and you held frame and didn't chase, she'll come back when them red days are about to come. With time you'll learn to recognize when it happens, and chuckle to yourself "well, see you in two weeks". As for replying…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 05:47 AM
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This. I don't know the details, and the guy might be genuine, but if it is all calculated it is a freaking masterpiece.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 04:11 AM
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I'm short and not good looking. Successful with women (or at least definitely can't complain). What is described here sounds absolutely true. For me, if I have to approach, I might just stare at them with outright disgust, sort of 'I was doing something meaningful, and why is this thing here distracting me". Also I avoid any pleasantries or following social conversational norms. We short guys don't have time for a shitty game. Also, this would depend on relative SMV. With women who approach firs…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 02:37 AM
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Reminder and sanity check - what you consider to be an agenda or belief system of a certain party or a prominent candidate is a product crafted by hundreds of very well paid professionals, based on extensive research. Research that spans decades and invariably includes frequent surveys (seeking to find out what are the needs of certain groups). Each candidate (and party) is targeting certain groups. No wonder you can distinguish between the groups, and not surprisingly you can assign some (arbit…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 09:21 AM
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want to let her know that I want to make amends You want her to think that you are a high-ranking male with options, and therefore a useful person to associate with. Bringing up unpleasant shit from the past shows that you are clueless about women, and would do just the opposite. So DONT DO THAT. What you say makes me think you are far from swallowing the pill, or have very little experience. Lift, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 05:59 AM
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What kind of arrangement would be perfect FOR YOU? I doubt that just telling her you "love her" will make any difference. Do you want to marry her? Have kids from her? Spend x more years together and then break up?
/r/askTRP28/11/15 05:53 AM
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What's the red pill way to respond to this? "Correction: we shouldn't see each other anymore without you wearing a diaper". Followed by two more very kind-hearted teasing texts, to make her completely comfortable. "don't worry about it, these things happen"? It's a terrible advice. Assuming they had sex before, why defuse the tension?
/r/askTRP28/11/15 03:05 AM
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Obviously she's still mad at me. No, no. Reality check, wake up. Don't assume anything about other people's feelings or motivation, unless you really have to. Maybe the events you invited her to weren't interesting to her. Maybe your SMV is just too low to associate with you outside of work. Maybe wording of your invitations wasn't good. Basically you are trying to make a Beta move here. RP move would be to go in full-on manipulation mode and try to understand what is going on. One of the first …
/r/askTRP28/11/15 03:00 AM
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I do not have some large need to be there, but I think it interferes with her immersion level Confused rambling detected. What exactly is the problem? I do really love her So, um, what's the problem? Are you Hawking and your speech generator broke? it must be painfully obvious to her Reading others minds, are we? my LTR deserves "Deserves" is not a real word. Don't use it. If you find yourself using it, or someone else using it with you, do a reality check - you might be being manipulated. Thoug…
/r/askTRP28/11/15 02:54 AM
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Nice write up! Some comments: a woman who would love me as I loved her. I can truly open up to and be myself with without having to maintain frame. Its all just a dream lol. True. Welcome to TRP. Someone who will be there for me as I her for the ups and downs of life. Someone who will be supportive Well this is totally doable. You do your part, she does hers. These are different jobs, true, but that's better than chasing unrealistic fantasy. Totally doable.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 06:58 AM
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"Ideal love" - ideals are different for everyone, and we can't know what do you mean by that. Your ideal will change after exposure to reality and more experience in relationships, don't sweat it. What can I do if I want a nice LTR? ... What do I do, what can I read????!! Check out r/marriedredpill, their sidebar and beginners guide for excellent insights into LTR. And remember to keep learning and improving. Also, you can't "revert" - we are wired to do what is most efficient. Red pill has kind…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 01:04 AM
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Just a hunch, nothing scientific. I know some gay people and this reminded me of them. Also makes me think of submissive behavior. Again, not trying to offend, that's just my impression here.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 11:08 PM
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In the case you described "Finally, you noticed!" in a really happy, honest and excited tone, would have been a total mind-blower (especially if you don't know the girl or barely know her). I'd follow up by either opening her right there - number close or inviting her out right away, or giggling and running away, just to fuck with her mind even more. That aside, my usual reaction is either "Thank you" with a smile and a little humble bow of my head (message "I'm getting that a lot"), or "Tell me…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 09:18 PM
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"...No coffee or lunch or kinky sex.." - you can only pull this kind of speech if you are highly certain that she is very sexually attracted - i.e. you've slept with her a couple of times or your SMV is up in the sky. I don't think that's the case. Instead you a) offer Beta stuff (which is not bad by itself, but way too risky for Tinder) b) talk about sex in overt way. Covert talk is always preferable, always. "Woah, haha, keep it light... <wall of text>" - you lost it right there. Frame, man, i…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 08:59 PM
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it will fuck my attraction or frame Please speak English. "It will lower my value in her eyes" or "It will make her less attracted to me". Frame has nothing to do with it. concert with her this weekend Take a picture with her at the concert, post it on social media. lift, read and upgrade my wardrobe This.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 04:43 AM
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appear very interesting and charismatic Wait. Are we still talking about sexual strategy? Because if we are, you want to appear physically attractive, muscular, socially skilled, and having prestige. This is what makes you "interesting" and "charismatic", not some language skills. Language skills are secondary, and should only concern you once everything else is taken care of.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 04:14 AM
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I wouldn't put any more oil on this drama. This being said, are you thinking about using her birthday as a congruent way to contact her? Well who gives a shit, you don't need no reason to contact her. You also don't need a special reminder to go lift, mindfully extend your social circle and approach other girls, do you?
/r/askTRP24/11/15 04:06 AM
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Software engineering? Dude, you got a golden (ok, maybe silver) ticket in your hand. That's a great degree! My advice: TRAVEL. Long trip to another country, preferably unplanned, hitchhiking, stuff like that. This is practically a must. "I don't have money for that" doesn't count, you don't need much. Couple thousands bucks can last you for a year of travel, if you are smart. While I do not completely agree with Mark Manson (known to TRP crowd as author of "Models"), he might serve as an inspira…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:36 AM
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I don't see what this has to do with frame. Can you express your anger? Yes. Would it help you even in the slightest? No. Can you do anything illegal like physically punishing her? Absolutely freaking not. Would any interaction with her help you cure the bug? No. And let this be the lesson to you, and all others. Wrap it. Did you use condom in the first place? If not, why the hell not?
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:33 AM
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I do not see why you are still eager to contact that woman. Are you ready to game her and game her hard? Are you still attracted? If no - nothing to do, move on. You have better things to do. If you want to defuse the tension, just text "Happy Birthday!", and that is it, nothing over, and do not send any more texts. Calling and flowers... Why on Earth would you do that.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:29 AM
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Do not give them closure. Closure eliminates your plausible deniability. If you are even thinking about closure, you did not yet fully understand female worldview or swallowed the pill. It might be acceptable to give them SOME BITS of closure if you are very certain that you not doing so is causing fellow human being unnecessary suffering, or hindering their progress in life. Even then, you should only give out minimal calculated bits that will shut their hamster and allow them to move on. This …
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:26 AM
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WTF is that. WTF is going on in the comments. Is this r/relationships? Sorry, I can't hear you over ALL THAT UTTER STEREOTYPE BLUE PILL BULLSHIT you are saying. Did you even read the sidebar? Why is this on askTRP? Open relationships? What?.. Lift. Read the sidebar. Slap yourself over the face and wake up. Then come asking questions. P.S. that she loves me deeply and wants to be together Oops I think I have just vomited a little into my mouth.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:33 AM
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it was like being in a porn movie, I still struggle to believe it. Congrats mate! high-five! I know that feel, feels like you are on top of the world. Do whatever worked for you the first time - you got at least something right, didn't ya. If you try something and it doesn't work - whatever, you loose nothing. Just do your best, have fun and learn. (I know that's not specific, but really your question is not specific, you humble brag you. Ignore for 2-3 days, then either start game-y witty point…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:19 AM
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Trying to approach someone I consider above my league, and doing my best while having fun - this is what really gives me the long-lasting confidence boost. Rejection barely matters, unless it is nuclear (I guess, since I didn't face nuclear rejection in many many years). Fucking someone below your level might help you verify your logistics after a long break, but otherwise you learn nothing. Don't reach for safety, reach for fun.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 01:12 AM
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eagerly showing a woman interest That's what you have asked for, that's the examples I've brought. making a joke rather than actually gaining a woman's attraction Actively hitting on any female, gaming any female, even if she clearly can not compete with your target SMV-wise, is generating attraction if done correctly. You show that you are the master of your own feelings, as well as feelings of others. These joking come-ons will still touch the receptive parts of woman's nature, while leaving y…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 12:55 AM
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Are you by any chance homosexual? Not trying to offend, asking seriously. One easy way to tell is to honestly look at what kind of porn you are consuming (I have a hunch that you do that), and whom do you associate with (in the porn narrative). If you are homosexual, you have to pursue this ASAP.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:47 PM
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Sounds like addiction issues. Do you use porn in any quantity at all? Do you spend more then 10 minutes total during a day masturbating? Videogames? Internet/facebook? I don't give a shit about you getting laid. I barely care about you not socializing. But grades - grades are your future. Own that shit. Yes, your father will see you and get disgusted. Or not. You never know. Who the fuck cares. Dress well, smile, do well in studies, don't talk too much, that's all you can do about your dad. On T…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:39 PM
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Absolutely! And I love that kind of thing. Here are several examples, all from personal life: a) Showing exaggerated interest in obviously non-qualifying females (much older, happily paired with high-ranking men present) accompanied with full-on romantic advances. FUN. FUN FUN FUN. Some example would be constant blatant hitting on a mother of a woman you are seeing. Has to be public, ofc, so it is only for show. b) Exaggerated comical hitting on a target herself. This is hard to explain, but if …
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:28 PM
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My mates say I am weird around girls or act awkward Be careful, this might be the BP crab bucket starting to have its effects on you. Seriously, question your "mates" - they might be talking with their best intentions, while actually creating crab bucket effect. If such phrase were to come from a woman, it would a shit test. I would counter that "Yes it is crazy how awkward I am. My entire life it blew my mind off how I could still attract so many sane women. Must be luck. OK, now that we are pa…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:03 PM
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How would you like this to develop? Let me give you a guideline: your first priority should be limiting any external damage, if any is possible, ie she might try to harm your reputation, for example. She is clearly still interested in you, but with you still being inexperienced, the amount of negative force in her will be enough to pull you into her game. I can also guess that she is very inexperienced and haven't been in relationship with higher quality guys.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 05:03 AM
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You are overwhelmed with recent unplugging, comparable to Neo waking up outside of Matrix. Neo is surely unable and not interested to go destroying robots, he's all about "FUCK THAT SHIT WHY AM I SO COLD". Another, more useful comparison will be using the captain metaphor widely employed my MRP (r/marriedredpill) - drunk captain sobered up and is in shock after realizing the horrible state that the ship is in. Thus your reaction "don't be with me", this is the only thing you can say in your curr…
/r/askTRP21/11/15 03:07 AM
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In this reply I'm not trying to prove you wrong, I don't need that, but rather pointing you in what I consider a useful direction. You post on askTRP, it makes sense to be open-minded about the advice you are getting. some wingnut has a phobia of something does everyone around them have to change the world to accommodate them? No. The person with the phobia gets therapy and gets the fuck over it. In your example the feelings of that person cause them to behave in a way that is uncomfortable for …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 02:58 AM
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a) TRP is not about "how do I get this specific girl". One might say TRP is exactly the other way to look at things - how do you NOT get hung up on any specific woman, instead becoming more attractive and having more options. But hey, TRP is full of people who came from PUA background, so here goes: b) Past mistakes barely matter, unless they were made public. Only present and near future count for attraction. So don't sweat it. Couple of extra shit tests and you are good. c) You have to be very…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 12:24 AM
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I like this exchange, very appropriate for a person just discovering TRP. Every time she tries to break up with you and writes again, you win, her attraction grows. You see her bluff and can laugh at it. Good job, I don't know what JeffsRP is so concerned about.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 12:13 AM
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If you would like to be taken at any level of seriousness, use god damn paragraphs. Enter key, it's right there, press it once every couple of sentences. The term "Omega" is already appropriated by TRP. Omega is someone utterly invisible for women, "avoid at all costs" type of person. Don't treat Alpha and Beta as an absolute labels, as in "I can lift 200lbs, thus now I'm Alpha", or "I paid on a date, I'm now a Beta". These terms are used in reference to female dualistic reproductive strategy, a…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 09:21 PM
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You never text me good morning, you never ask how my exams went, you don't seem to care that much about me "It's because I hate you" "Good morning. How did your exams go?" "OMG I must have been sending all these cute messages to a wrong number all this time! My bad. How did your exams go?" "Hi! I don't have your number. Who are you? And how did your exams go?" This is a shit test. Recognize it as a shit test, and handle it as such. It has very little to do with what kind of relationship you are …
/r/askTRP19/11/15 09:07 PM
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make her prove BUZZ!!! Doesn't work in real life. her feelings are wrong BUZZ!!! Feelings can't be wrong. You can claim that she is lying about her feelings, but why would you do that? Explaining doesn't work, above the bare minimum of communicating your boundaries. Punish instead. It'll put her on the defensive BUZZ!!! You aim to put her in the mood where she's a crazy cock-sucking vacuum in pursuit of your cock. Not on the defensive, no, no. TL/DR: Have some life experience (with multiple wome…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 07:48 PM
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This is not a kind of question you can ask online and expect useful answer. Look inside - what makes you tick? Given the option to eat hot dinner and watch your favorite TV/read Reddit, what would make you leave the house on a rainy night?
/r/askTRP19/11/15 07:35 PM
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Rugby is cool, but then any time you mention it you should primarily mention some social aspect of it, ie going out or being really close friends with many of the guys (if it ain't true, just hint, I never suggest you lie). By itself this kind of popular regulated sport lacks mystery and social glamour.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 07:20 PM
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Another note: this kind of stuff bothers me a lot in TRP. It's like "my brain and instincts is telling me that something is off, b-but Redpill tells me that its correct!". I'm not a speaker on behalf of all TRP, but the common advice is: "Don't sexually engage with women from your place of work, since that might result in emotional backlash that will impair your career." Personal life in this case does not equal romantic relationships. As to socializing and gaming coworkers - you should absolute…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 07:16 PM
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a) Have something going on for you outside of work, something socially desirable. Be in a band, trade real estate, compete in martial arts. No need to talk about it at work, the less details the better, but it has to be there. b) Since you currently lack skill (and reason, but that is not important) to plow your way to the center, you go one by one. Find an opportunity to know one of the guys/gals better, slowly, in no way showing that you want to be popular oe even want to be 'in' the group. Yo…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 08:22 AM
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A bit of common knowledge: google "boyfriend destroyer". It is a famous article describing how to attack existing LTR. I almost feel guilty telling you about it (no not really). Yes, you fucked up, totally. Every time you think about it and cringe, you are encouraging your future self to be on guard. Cringe, cringe away. And final aspect: from TRP point of view, women don't have much memory about your past value, only your present and near future potential. No contact for a week, regroup, be rea…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 07:49 AM
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Wow, powerful. Powerful, powerful.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 04:10 AM
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"Confidence" is one of the words I recommend not to use. It does little to help understand desirable behavior. If people are using this word in conversation with you, beware - some manipulation is likely going on. Now, as to the books, you've come to the right place. Meet his majesty Sidebar: the material referenced on r/TheRedPill 's sidebar. Literally go and read all of it. If you want more serious books for long-term game, go read sidebar of r/MarriedRedPill.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 02:58 AM
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Answering direct shit test with a compliment? I don't think its a good idea. "Only smart ones. See? You figured me out." - then go silent, wait for her to pick it up.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 02:51 AM
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on the side once in a while That's a peculiar choice of words. So are you already treating her as your LTR? In your head, in your words to us, in your actions towards her? I'm not giving her too much of my time and attention. If you are as attractive as you make it sound, what is "not too much" for you, might be absolutely enough for her. From her perspective there might be a relationship going on. I am fond of her though so I kind of feel like a dick WHOA. Why do you feel like a dick? Did you b…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 02:44 AM
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Doesn't mean shit. Stringing you along just as she did all this time. Pulling you into her frame "she wants you to come to her house" plus an ambiguous promise as a shit test. I wonder how did you react to that on the spot? Whatever happens, do not initiate the conversation about coming to her. Either she reaches out to you to see why her bait didn't work, or you just leave. PS. I might be off here with my advice IF you had sex with her multiple times in the past. From "I was pursuing but quit b…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 02:31 AM
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Exemplary TRP report right there. Good job man! As to your question about how to keep her orbiting, if she is currently far away, the less communication happens between you two the better (assuming you do not directly benefit from that communication). When she later pops into your life / your pop into hers, there will be more tension, and more urgency for her to "appropriate" you. So no remote contact, neither in friendly or romantic way. That's just my style though, so seek other advice as well…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 11:09 PM
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I prefer being alone Don't get that "preference", which was put in place by your previous blue pill self, hinder your progress in life. Pay attention to social situations, seek them out. I am conventionally unattractive Bullshit. Height is the only thing that can be discussed in objective terms and can be considered unattractive. Rest can be changed. Don't trust me? You'll see. Also apply to university close to home so I could help the church out ...daaaamn. I'd be raging too. Glad you woke up.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 09:46 PM
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That's some serious over-thinking there. What did you answer? Tell us how it goes.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 02:51 AM
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Meet local girls, boys, mothers, fathers, and grandparents if you like. What is best avoided is starting a journey with a close friend from where you live - you end up bringing a piece of your country with you. I find it impossible to explain, but once you experience that you'll understand.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 08:30 PM
7

My advice, that would likely be downvoted by people who never done that: travel alone. Not with a friend, not with a girl - alone. Magic things happen at three times the rate when you travel by yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 10:24 PM
1

I see two things that other commenters didn't bother talking about: WHY THE HELL DID YOU INVITE HER TO YOUR PLACE. You have 1% chance of her ruining or seriously harming your life. Most women tend to turn into vicious violent creatures after breakup - even in they broke up with you. Keep harm at bay. From how the conversation went, she clearly told you about that other guy on purpose. It doesn't matter if she really slept with him or not, and when it happened. She was just trying to hurt you emo…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 07:56 PM
1

OK then some more notes from me: I'm not saying you absolutely should have sex. If that is your thing, your goal, then go on. Fun conversation, exciting date, expanding your social circle, getting female friends and orbiters are all valid and awesome things too. Let me remind you some sidebar material: your attention is what she needs from you. Your attention is your coin. Sex is her coin. If she's getting your coin (and is assured the future supply of it), why would she give hers? After reading…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 07:28 PM
2

You know what you are talking about. +1 to all.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 12:32 AM
6

Couple of notes from my experience: Don't obsess with kisses. I've fucked way more girls then I kissed. Kiss is intimate, kiss is "lets be lovey-dovey". You got a girl into your bed, and you didn't get what you want? Lack in basic game. She got into that bed to have sex - but she had more fun getting your attention by not giving it to you. You got a woman into your appartment, you drunk and kissed - and you didn't have sex? Basic game issues, like some really basic stuff that you are missing. It…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 12:03 AM
4

Finally! Had to scroll all the way down for this.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 08:42 PM
1

Absolutely. It is not comic artist's job to teach us how to be men. I'm just wondering what made op so excited about this particular reply - looks negative, useless and vaguely BP to me.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:42 AM
1

He doesn't give his dad any positive advice as how to guide his son's development. He is just saying to wait it out and see how it goes. While he mentions that childhood naivete and kindness are no good, let me quote that again: "Traits that your grandmother found adorable are neither going to ward off bullies nor attract a girlfriend or boyfriend: probably, in fact, the exact reverse", he offers zero in a way of positive masculinity. Then he goes on and "humorously" pounds more on masculinity /…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 11:08 PM
4

Man, what an awesome read. Honest and visceral, thanks for sharing. You are all in pain now, all up in fee-fees, but since you are back to game, these will get better real soon. And you know what you'll be left with? You'll be left with these two awesome fulfilling months with this interesting girl, you'll be left with staring down on the city from 18-th floor after 5 orgasms, you'll be left with practical evidence of harms of switching to BB mode. You'll be left with learning that NEXT! is hell…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 10:06 PM
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What you have quoted here is absolutely Blue Pill: "Your son's attempt at showing aggressive facade and a 'dark' persona is just a phase, no one wants to go out with such people, he'll soon give up, just wait it out". At the same time, he acknowledges that "Traits that your grandmother found adorable are neither going to ward off bullies nor attract a girlfriend or boyfriend: probably, in fact, the exact reverse". Ugh.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 08:40 PM
1

Well then, your monk mode did work wonders if HB8 (assuming your judgement is representative) was DTF on a first date. Good job! It is really puzzling though why did a girl leave her unlocked phone on a table in front of a stranger. We'll never know I guess.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 09:34 PM
1

Awww, did someone get their feels hurt? (I'm talking about op here). So are you looking for that special snowflake still? I think "swallowing TRP about a year ago" is a bit overstatement. Internalize the AWALT and learn how to enjoy it. You can get great social benefits by gaming attractive, outgoing HB8. This aside, you can get benefits by not doing unnecessary nuclear rejection. I had a girl unexpectedly hook me up with her (much more attractive) friend after nexting her in an honest and respe…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 09:10 PM
1

I have to mention Robin Hobb (who's actually a woman named Margaret Astrid Lindholm Ogden). Her books feature multiple detailed universes, some of which are unique and of significant quality. If that matters, she focuses mainly on female characters. Also, her "Liveship" trilogy is a horrible man-hating overdrawn crap, ugh. Still, universe-wise she's good imo.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 08:09 PM
1

As far as "noob gainz" for freshly-unplugged go, as far as personal value and discipline are considered, abstaining from masturbation can be crucial and life-changing. I second that NoFap/YBOP have low signal-to-noise ratio with pseudoscience and excited kids, but still, it can't harm and can be very useful.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 11:46 PM
1

tl/dr: Go and actively, purposefully engage in gay bdsm scene to get as much experience as possible, as quickly as possible. Fantasizing and dreaming harms your chances and builds resentment. Experience is key. I'm coming from a place of knowledge, having known many people in BDSM community, and specifically numerous gay doms and subs of varying experience levels. Openly submissive gay guys are awesome, or, rather, have the potential to be awesome. However, most often I see them spending their t…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 09:31 PM
2

A for the effort, but that is fundamentally not TRP.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 07:30 PM
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