| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 29 | What single line is the most meaningful/significant to you? | Mat_Cauthon | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 12:40 AM | |
| 4 | I think Mystery took the idea of peacocking a little too far this time. | Mat_Cauthon | /r/seduction | 04/12/10 02:30 AM | |
| 3 | Staying out of the boyfriend zone | Mat_Cauthon | /r/seduction | 23/12/10 11:33 PM | |
| 3 | [FR] A little better planning next time | Mat_Cauthon | /r/seduction | 24/11/10 08:51 AM | |
| 1 | Looking for Compliance Test material | Mat_Cauthon | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 04:44 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | [Female FR] Awesome is what awesome does!If he was a HG10 I imagine negs would work just like they do on HB9 and 10s but not necessarily lower numbers. | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 10:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First frat party ever and a #-closeI am rushing for a frat next semester as well. Awesome, where are you rushing? We should get some college game tips up here. | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 09:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First frat party ever and a #-closeThe question of approaching the group down 1 person shouldn't even come up. Apply the 3-second rule. Just go. I agree. This is super important. That's I think what was happening with HB8, not enough push pull. Not giving her a reason to stay. Good point here. Push pull is important. Frat parties have lots of competition and a woman isn't going to be flattered into your bed. For hb5/7, you should've been passing them back and force, giving them each a turn of a couple minutes and making it explic… | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 09:55 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First frat party ever and a #-closeGood FR. I live in a frat and have some experience, so I think my advice will be of some value. First thing I would want to say is that most fraternities are filled with younger guys, so the atmosphere will be different. You can get away with being much more brazen at a frat party than you could with, say, a bar. My friend grabs some beer, but I don't drink and I am very adamant about it. Now that I think of it, it makes a nice push-pull when a girl tries to convince you to drink (I had the excu… | /r/seduction | 09/01/11 09:49 AM |
| 1 | why people hate sedditNeed? I don't need it. I just use it as a tool to forge my identity. | /r/seduction | 01/01/11 08:35 AM |
| 1 | why people hate sedditSee he also spouted the same line more or less about 'Be yourself, but be the best possible self you can' but what that basically means is "Yourself is not good enough" or "You are not good enough". "Be yourself" is totally meaningless. The essentialist notion that we "find ourself" is terrible, because that is confining. Who am I, really? I find that identity is much more fluid than you give credit for. We (re)construct our identity constantly. Don't find yourself, make yourself. Just as a man … | /r/seduction | 01/01/11 08:24 AM |
| 2 | why people hate seddithttp://i.imgur.com/nhucC.gif | /r/seduction | 01/01/11 07:49 AM |
| 1 | This is my new 'get-in-state' record of choice: GIRL TALK - ALL DAYdairy, I love dairy. | /r/seduction | 01/01/11 07:30 AM |
| 1 | DHV activities/interests, what's out there?I think you would have to emphasize the competitive aspect, and make it about personal triumph. Women don't seem to like the violent part of martial arts and fighting as much. | /r/seduction | 01/01/11 12:47 AM |
| 1 | DHV activities/interests, what's out there?Weight lifting can be a DHV, but keep it subtle. Dress in a way that flatters your body. If you mention hitting the gym I have noticed women will give you shit for not being bigger (unless you are huge). | /r/seduction | 01/01/11 12:46 AM |
| 2 | If you want to kill your inner AFC, ask women out earlyHonestly, if you don't like what were preaching, get the fuck out. We're not here to debate with people about their opinions on pickup. We're here to discuss pickup. | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Hey Seddit! The most game friendly nights of the year is approaching. Describe your plan for the night!and hope my horrible cold goes away someday. Shit man, you too? It really sucks. I feel like I am reverting to an AFC stuck up in my house with a cold and cabin fever. | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 06:17 AM |
| 1 | If you want to kill your inner AFC, ask women out earlyInteresting, I must have missed that discussion, but it definitely clears things up for me and explains some of my problems getting a day 2. | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 06:15 AM |
| 5 | If you want to kill your inner AFC, ask women out earlyNah, no rules. Nothing works all the time with every girl. While it's true that nothing works all the time with every girl, there are techniques which have proven to be effective more often with most girls, and this is what we are talking about here in this subreddit. Otherwise we can disband seddit and all go back to being AFCs. More advanced PUA may gauge a woman and realize they should call later, but for the most part I think the next day rule is a good one. | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 06:11 AM |
| 1 | A more natural approach to MM for the bar/club scene?I like Magic Bullets. It really gets at the essence of the MM. Most of the book is telling you what/why/how you are trying to achieve, not simply telling you how. | /r/seduction | 28/12/10 08:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Life of party, 2#closes, 1 incidental f-close.I tell her that my head and my body are going in two completely opposite directions. She turns over and asks which direction she should be helping out. I give her control by saying Whatever you want. IMO he gave her a lot of power in that situation. I don't think she was pressured into anything. | /r/seduction | 28/12/10 08:10 AM |
| 3 | [FR] from a recovering AFCtexts back "It was fun! See you soon." I take this as a sign of "Let's just be friends". There is no indication that is the case. You need confidence in yourself. That definitely wasn't LJBF. LJBF speeches usually involve a "you're cool/I had fun/I like you but..." squats/presses. I approve. | /r/seduction | 28/12/10 07:59 AM |
| 6 | Am I too old to start?I think TrowawyPUA mentioned somewhere he is in his 50s and he's gaming. So no, you are never too old. Are there any shortcuts? Hit the gym and dress well is the closest to a "shortcut" you can get. They are instant value you can bring to a set without opening your mouth. | /r/seduction | 28/12/10 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Seddit 13kWhat's my name? 13K, that's my name! | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 07:57 AM |
| 1 | She's giving me something for ChristmasI was wondering the same thing. I have a sneaking suspicion that a girl I have been flirting with is going to get me something. I might just have to say "You will have to wait for your gift. ;)" It will put her in suspense and give me time to think! | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 07:21 AM |
| 0 | She's giving me something for ChristmasOh god. What if he actually does it? | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 07:18 AM |
| 3 | [US FR #4] Airport lounge game. Parents as obstacles.Admittedly this didn't require a ton of "pick up theory" to do, but the moral of the story (and my general theme lately) is be positive, smile, and be unafraid to talk to people. I think you have just grokked the concepts enough to do it without thinking! Nice FR. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Xpost from r/psychology: Uncertainty Increases Attraction.Already posted here. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 01:39 AM |
| 4 | "hey so uh....you wanna go back to my place and cuddle?"But all this spooning, forking, and knifing leaves no room for scissoring! | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 01:37 AM |
| 1 | [FR] getting better with the 9sSeems like the lesson is that raising your value is better than lowering hers. Maybe its because when you lower her, she is "settling" for you, and nobody likes to settle, whereas when you raise your value she is "winning" you, and everyone loves to have things that are above their station. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 01:35 AM |
| 1 | [US FR #3] F-closing a waitress at a barYeah, I want him to visit us in Seattle! | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 01:21 AM |
| 1 | [US FR #3] F-closing a waitress at a barI've always wondered: does anyone know if you are more likely to F-close at her place or your place? | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Straight women reading seddit...why?Wouldn't you rather a girl tell you that than lead you on to think that she wants to be in a LTR? I never want to lead a girl on in that way, but sometimes verbalizing things can sterilize the attraction, even if she is interested in a FWB situation. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 01:08 AM |
| 2 | What's a good holiday text to send to the ladies?I have never tried it, but it sounds good in theory. As long as it isn't phrased in a way that expects a response it can be good. It pings the women and puts you back on their radar, but if they don't respond you don't lose power. Please get back to us with sold results if you decide to do it! | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Straight women reading seddit...why?Would you ignore it? Only if it was my target. :P | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Straight women reading seddit...why?Awesome. I'm glad the material worked out for you. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Straight women reading seddit...why?What I've learned most from this subreddit and really all of reddit is that guys just want girls to be straightforward, and that's the way to tell them that you're interested. While this works, don't you feel like you are giving up a lot of power? That isn't necessarily a bad thing if you are looking for a LTR with a single guy, but if you want to keep multiple guys on the line that seems like it would be risky. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Straight women reading seddit...why?Hope you don't mind me asking I'm deeply offended. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Straight women reading seddit...why?Having women around to validate or counter our pet techniques is always helpful. I found this statement ironic. It has been often layed out as an essential tenet to the seduction community that we do not require the validation of women. That would run counter to what we stand for. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Staying out of the boyfriend zoneHaha thanks. This thread is actually in the top 10 results for "mLTR strategies"! | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Uncertainty Can Increase Romantic Attraction (Scientific Paper)I came here to post this. It is very fascinating! I think it raffirms many pickup principles. Cat string theory; ambiguity is key! | /r/seduction | 25/12/10 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Staying out of the boyfriend zoneGood idea. I am just a little frustrated, because one girl I am interested in right now talked about her casual relationship with some guy on another floor in her dorm. I thought this meant I was golden for casual sex with her. In hindsight I think she may have been trying to make me jealous. | /r/seduction | 25/12/10 01:56 AM |
| 1 | How to meet and approach women ((video))Yeah, they should just buy those reddit ads if they wanna pitch their system. | /r/seduction | 23/12/10 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Coming out on top when running into ex-gf's and their new SO'sAlpha male would not give a fuck. | /r/seduction | 23/12/10 11:29 PM |
| 12 | Body Language EssentialsIt just makes me lose all sense of control. Lose all control as in "wake up in a pool of someone else's blood." or lose control like "wake up in someone else's bed"? | /r/seduction | 23/12/10 10:33 PM |
| 3 | [US FR #2] Good things happen to awesome peopleGreat FR! You just forgot one important detail... How was the Mexican food?! But seriously, I wish you luck in the future. Hopefully there will be no more logistical cock blocking so we can get some real juicy FRs from you. | /r/seduction | 23/12/10 10:31 PM |
| 1 | 22 yr. old male virgin in need of adviceThank you ;) | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 08:36 AM |
| 8 | 22 yr. old male virgin in need of adviceNEW TO THIS SUBREDDIT? You might want to check out this post by quazzy compiling all the most useful posts in this subreddit. If you are a total newbie, read through this material before asking any questions in the form of a post! -The Sidebar | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 04:39 AM |
| 7 | My secret weaponThis guy likes soccer MILFS^ | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 04:37 AM |
| 1 | [Kinda-FR] The frown look opener.it's usually a lot of effort and I don't think it's the answer would actually be interesting to them. That's why you lie and make it playful! "I'm working on an invention which, if it works, will change the way the entire free world eats toast and hot dogs." | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 04:36 AM |
| 1 | [Kinda-FR] The frown look opener.This seems very high risk. Has anyone else had success with it? | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Would this guy make a good seducer/pickup artist?Yes. They know how to manipulate social settings in their favor all while keeping it feeling "natural". | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 04:24 AM |
| 6 | My secret weaponThis is brilliant. It reminds me of one of the guys that used to be in my fraternity. He was a 4.0 physics student and was going places. We would have huge parties, and he would show up, but wasn't a huge party animal. So during one party, on the dance floor, he brings out a chess table and starts playing chess and drinking a beer while there are hot women all around him grinding on each other trying to entice him to dance. He just keeps his eye on the game and wins like a boss. It was quite an … | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 03:53 AM |
| 1 | The new seddit locator. Find sedditors in your area and get sarging!Ohhhhhhhhh shit, I see. | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Is PUA only for guys who are already confident?Honest question: are you a racist? GOD DAMN IT FEELS GOOD TO BE AN AMERICAN. YOUNG, WHITE (if you're lucky) pound on that bag like it s a mother fucking nigger redneck. | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 09:19 PM |
| 1 | The new seddit locator. Find sedditors in your area and get sarging!Logged in and all. Is there a limit to the number of markers a map can have or something? | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 08:29 PM |
| 2 | AFCs: Think about an aspect of your game that needs work. If you haven't gotten blown out by using TOO MUCH of it, you're being a pussy.Hah, major troll. The irony is he does get seduction. I have seen some of his posts, and only someone with a decent knowledge of seduction could intentionally contradict that much seduction literature. | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 07:40 PM |
| 2 | How would you hit on a girl that everyone else is hitting on?Check out his username. | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 07:34 PM |
| 1 | The new seddit locator. Find sedditors in your area and get sarging!I feel like an idiot, I'm still not seeing it. | /r/seduction | 20/12/10 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Just want to introduce myself...Especially if the guy is someone who has some nerdy hobbies, not someone in a frat. Woa now, I have nerdy hobbies and I'm in a frat. Don't hate on the greeks. You should hang out in TwoX and tell them we aren't all out to manipulate them. They could use some of your clear headedness on this account. | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Just want to introduce myself...So true. A woman who knows how to game back is great fun. | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Most Effective and Painless Opener of the SeasonThe opener is just supposed to open IMO. You don't actually have to talk about it if you don't want. | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Just want to introduce myself...Ever tried being a pivot? | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Attention Seddit! It's time for a new moderator. Nominate/volunteer/vote here!but precisely because she's seeking to be a mod. I don't trust anyone who seeks to become a mod. Some people seem to have fetishized the "reluctant hero" trope, as you seem to. I have to say though, it is a very destructive ideal. I have been in organizations where the constituent individuals are committed to putting such reluctant heroes in power. The problem is, at the end of the day what such "reluctant heros" really are is lazy and unmotivated. I want someone who wants to be a moderator to b… | /r/seduction | 18/12/10 06:54 AM |
| 1 | what makes you interesting?Congratulations guys, you all just qualified yourself. Honestly though, I see some pretty cool stuff in here. I might just get a few ideas. | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Neil Strauss's personal appeal to the seduction communityEDIT: The guys at PUA Hate are having a field day with this: here From the thread you linked... 2 faced jew little bitch. These guys have real class /s | /r/seduction | 12/12/10 06:56 PM |
| 1 | REMINDER: Add five more minutes of comfort after #-closingI have found that waiting 5 minutes does help in "club" scenarios, but in day game it isn't as big of a deal. I would want to field test it a little more though to be sure. | /r/seduction | 07/12/10 06:25 AM |
| 1 | [F]R I was forgotten as the conversation flowedI've had this line used on me! I didn't realize its potency until I was on the receiving end. | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Advice for the partially deaf?Maybe you could run more normal game on women who are also hard of hearing. Are there any clubs for hard of hearing people you could join? Also finding more people like you might give you a chance to befriend naturals in the same situation as you. Their style would be more specific to your situation. After all, a lot of game is adapted from observation of naturals. | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on how to be a good wingwomanI can't remember where I read it, but IIRC ambiguity is key. His target can't think him and his wingwoman are a couple because it may cause her to back off, but sexual tension doesn't hurt. | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on how to be a good wingwomanCouldn't that make him seem like an AFC stuck in the friendzone if he she overdoes it though? | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 06:14 AM |
| 6 | I think Mystery took the idea of peacocking a little too far this time.This is from season 1 episode 7 of "The Pickup Artist". It is an outfit Mystery wore as a disguise while the guys were out on a field test. | /r/seduction | 04/12/10 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How to approach when girls are 'working out' at the gym?Many of them have makeup on Bingo. I would go with Trowaway here. If they are all dolled up, I think it's safe to say they wouldn't mind being picked up. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 06:24 AM |
| 8 | how to be a nice guy without being a "nice guy"Reminds me of one time with a girl I thought I had gone overboard with the "cocky" part and maybe lost her. One day I was walking around my university campus with a friend, going for lunch. I saw a blind man get stuck in an intersection because a bus stopped right in his path, so I went over to help him cross safely. I remember my friend saying, as I rejoined him, "That girl over across the street looks like she wants to fuck you so badly right now." I glance around but don't spot the girl he is… | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 06:10 AM |
| 3 | 12,000+ sedditors. Where are all the quality FRs?I really appreciate your FR tofu. I think a lot of us redditors are day gamers, meaning every day we are trying little things here and there. I highly doubt you want a field report of our every day stuff! Also, I am a college student with lots of obligations. That means I party once, maybe twice, a week. Honestly though, if I stayed more sober during the parties I do go to, I think I would have more FRs worth reading. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 05:08 AM |
| 3 | [FR] How to handle a flakeThen I hit the gym for some hardcore cardio, pound my speedbag, pound some milk. Cool story brah. Show us your biceps. | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever joined a lair? Was it worth it?How did you find your lair? | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 01:29 AM |
| 1 | time constraints?There are many uses of time constraints, here is one example... Lets say you see a few cute girls at a cafe and approach them. Regardless of how good you look, the first thing through their mind will likely be "Oh gosh, how long will this guy stick around?" hoping you don't stay to long and bug her. By saying "Hey, I gotta go meet up with a friend in a few minutes, but could you give me your opinion on..." You put her worries at ease. She believes that you will go soon and so she is more willing… | /r/seduction | 30/11/10 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Asked a 23 year old out (I'm 19)... where do I take her out?This post has a lot of good ideas. | /r/seduction | 30/11/10 02:09 AM |
| 4 | I'm generally mean to people unless I have a drink in me. Any advice?Fake it 'till you make it. It may feel forced now, but just keep at it and it will feel more natural and normal the more you do it. | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How I go from number to first dateIf you ever field test to find which works, please get back to us. | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 06:24 PM |
| 3 | is this position recoverable at all?Sounds like she is more trouble than she is worth at this point. I would next her. | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 04:18 AM |
| 36 | Something to keep in mind for those of you who need some motivationSo at least one girl has fingered herself thinking about the girl I'm dating? Where can I find this woman!? Threesome here I come! | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 04:16 AM |
| 2 | What you see off the bat isn't what you get.Being white, I haven't really experience much of what you described, but this guy from this post might have better insight. | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, I am going to a club in New York tonight and struggle with some confidence issues. If there is one piece of advice you could give me what would it be?Read the sidebar ;). | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 04:07 AM |
| 1 | bartender at my work wants me.....I think?Sounds like she wants you. You should go for it if you are alright with risking possible workplace drama. | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 04:07 AM |
| 1 | [FR, I guess]tWhen you say that, do you mean openers that someone else made are bad, but that that you should make your own openers? Do you use opinion openers, situational, direct? How do you open? | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What's holding you back?Seattleite here. We should wing for each other some time. | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 12:20 AM |
| 2 | What's holding you back?If you don't blow your load in 3 seconds you will never get a second date. | /r/seduction | 28/11/10 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Self Deprecating Humorself-pedestalling perhaps? :) Like constantly referring to myself as a super-genius, hotter than George Clooney, saying things like "well as a former NFL all-star", etc. It gets good laughs and is a DHV even though it's ridiculous. I still get a little nervous when I do this kind of humor, but it is amazing how responsive women are to it. Although men are more likely to poke fun at you for it it seems. | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Self Deprecating HumorDon’t take yourself too seriously. A self-deprecating wit, used in moderation, can actually convey high status and high value. If someone makes a friendly joke at your expense that others are also laughing at, laugh with them -Magic Bullets I think in moderation at the right time self deprecating humor is alright. Who doesn't make fun of themselves every now and then? Even super alpha celebrities and big shots do. It's almost unnatural not to. With that said, people just starting pickup might fo… | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 07:14 PM |
| 1 | A few little tricks:Yeah, didn't phrase it right, but it is the important point is to not be the one deciding their emotional response to some movie by gauging others responses. | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 08:44 AM |
| 1 | So, seddit, I'm thinking of going round of the bookshops in my town this weekend (not specifically focused on opening women; I love reading for its own sake). Any tips on opening in this venue?Wait. That, like, works? | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 02:20 AM |
| 1 | How to Pick Up Girls at the GymFor sure. I think it is important to vibe with the men in the gym, but not in an intimidating "meat head, no girls allowed." way. | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 01:50 AM |
| 1 | So, who's got some tips and tricks for movie dates?As others have said, movies aren't the best. With that said, I have had success in the few times I did do movie dates by inviting her to my place and having her sit on the couch next to me. Then I get her to put her legs on my lap(read about that trick here). This allows me to escalate kino up her legs. Hopefully you won't be focused on the movie for long ;) Personally I am trying to figure out a smooth way to get her legs in her lap that don't cause a state break. It has been awkward in the pas… | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 01:09 AM |
| 5 | FR: opening the friendThis is one of the most basic strategies in pickup. Have you ever studied any of the standard pickup systems? It appears you have not. Dude, what's your deal? This is the second time I have seen you talk down to people for having not read "through piles of pickup material". Chill out. You don't need to put everyone here down for not being super knowledgeable. We're all here to learn. I understand if you are frustrated with the fact this subreddit has been overrun with AFCs who downvote good mate… | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 01:04 AM |
| 8 | A few little tricks:people around you will look at you after the punch line to see if you thought it was funny and to see if you're laughing. It's as if they're asking for permission to laugh. I definitely used to do this myself. I learned that doing it put me in a beta role, but I never really though about turning that paradigm around and checking if people were watching me. Great idea! | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 12:46 AM |
| 10 | Motivation for pickup?Said to myself, "I wonder if she can keep up with me." and just went for it. and? He's doing 20 to life for raping a fat chick. | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 12:22 AM |
| 3 | What are some of you favourite /r/seduction posts?That's a whole new level of AFC I have never seen. | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle a rejection?Handle rejection? I'm not sure if my answer is what you are looking for, but if you have confidence in yourself you will realize that rejection is not a deeply personal slight against you. Perhaps she just wasn't in the right mood. One time I was on a dance floor and went up to dance with a girl in a group I had opened when the night was young. As I touched the gal's shoulder, she walked off in the opposite direction of me so fast it was like she was running a race. Her friends noticed this hars… | /r/seduction | 26/11/10 09:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] A little better planning next timeAs far as escalation goes, make an excuse to sit next to her to show her something, and move across to her side of the table. For sure. I was kinda regretting the place didn't have booths so I could squeeze her in next to me. The story doesn't have to be yours; it can be something about a friend of yours. Ideally, you'll want a story that helps demonstrate value. Another approach is to simply connect to her story, get her to spin out another one (people love talking about themselves) or use it a… | /r/seduction | 24/11/10 07:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A little better planning next timeAlways accept an offer from a girl to buy you something. Give her a little reward for it, like a gentle rub on the shoulder as you say "thanks". Agreed. I think it is a good idea to reward her. If the girl is really into it, I make ridiculous statements like "yeah? well I think all people should be sterilized unless they pass an IQ test!" and then change the subject. A sort of agree and amplify thing? I'm gonna try that next time, because she will almost certainly try to bring up such topics aga… | /r/seduction | 24/11/10 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Give me your best (worst?) blow out ideasSorry, missed the part where you wanted it to be funny. My way might not be funny, but it is pretty consistent in its fail. | /r/seduction | 24/11/10 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Give me your best (worst?) blow out ideasI don't know if it is spectacular, but the most likely thing to blow out a set for me is farting loudly. This is an especially good recipe for fail if you are drunk. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 09:31 PM |
| 2 | [FR] kind of, 'thanks' mostly.N64 made me nostalgia so hard. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 06:31 PM |
| 3 | How do people flirt so easily?I agree, but I think it should only be used short term when people start. Alcohol should be ditched after a little flame of confidence has been kindled. | /r/seduction | 23/11/10 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Sadly, it happened again last nightThe point of that strategy is to make yourself realize that women have sexual fantasies too, probably more intense than yours even. This sets a "sexual frame" but this is not likely to be useful until you can reliably open and lock into a set. Thank you for saying this. I don't think it is effective as a cure for AA. | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Sadly, it happened again last nightdon't drink. drinking fucks up your moves. I realize elsewhere I contradicted this. I feel like I should explain. Drinking will certainly fuck up your moves. You won't do anything right the night(s) you are drunk. But what I learned is not doing everything "right" is okay. The world will not collapse if you blow out every set that night, and you might even have some success. (Plus being drunk is fun for some of us, and the idea is to have fun!) Once I found out that I can still do fine if I don'… | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Sadly, it happened again last nightIt is as familiar to you as your living room. You wouldn't be afraid, approaching a girl in your living room. Haha this is so true. I live in a fraternity and at night our dining room becomes a dance floor. I really do feel at home. Just another night chillin' in the dining room! | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 01:26 AM |
| 2 | What nonalcoholic drinks can I order?Ahhhh I see. Maybe the club scene just isn't your thing? | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Rejected or postponed?I thought you were the mPUA that knew all this stuff, judging by your continual comments. </sarcasm> I don't know where this jab came from. I am new to this subreddit and haven't said much. you should go back to the ultimate basics: the Mystery Method M3 Model. I come from a David Wygant background. That's probably why I have never heard of creating comfort. Also, the basics are different depending on who you ask, so the Mystery Method isn't the "ultimate" anything. It works for some; for others… | /r/seduction | 22/11/10 01:19 AM |
| 1 | PUA EthicsAaaahhhh utilitarian ethics. | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Sadly, it happened again last nightHow did you overcome your lack of confidence? Alcohol. It is an effective crutch to start with IMO, as unpopular as that might be to say. Once I had some experience under my wings drunk, I realized anything I can do drunk I can certainly do sober. | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Rejected or postponed?How does one create comfort? | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 06:46 PM |
| 7 | What nonalcoholic drinks can I order?I don't want them to know I'm sober unless I tell them. That seems... duplicitous. | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 06:42 PM |
| 1 | "I don't give my number to strangers"Also, you're a stupid judge of character if you've been roofied. Aaaaaannnnddd there goes any credibility you had. | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone legitimately use nicknames?My friends all call me Phillip when I am doing my thing. My name is not Phillip. | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider her texting/Im-ing me as IOI?While we don't here at seddit don't always know why, my personal experience has proved it to be true. | /r/seduction | 20/11/10 04:08 AM |
| 0 | My two new openers.BTW why does it always come out whole in your poop? I hear it has something to do with computers. I'm not really sure why fiber optics would make a difference though. | /r/seduction | 19/11/10 04:36 AM |
| 3 | One of the top PUAs, David Deangelo, is getting married....Nah, he'll just move on to marriage advice. | /r/seduction | 19/11/10 03:36 AM |
| 0 | One of the top PUAs, David Deangelo, is getting married....I would bet you a million bucks she is awesome in the sack. | /r/seduction | 19/11/10 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Serious question, why don't white girls like my online profile?Seattle represent! | /r/seduction | 19/11/10 03:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] FWB situation: updateHey, that's not necessary!... Don't act like I don't know what a scantron is. :D | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 07:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] FWB situation: updateHow did you quiz her? I would like to know how to do stuff like that without making it sound like I am stuck on the subject. | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 02:16 AM |
| 3 | It was going good then I lost her...a lot of guys when learning PUA/seduction swing all the way to the other extreme and become assholes, which isn't ideal either, but even that's better than being supplicating. This is me right now. How do I fix it? Whenever I try to fix it I swing right back to beta. | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 04:35 AM |
| 3 | [FR] AFC ends up being a chauffeur for the nightwith an HB8 that I immediately target. I run the infamous "best friend test", neg the target, kino, and finally isolate her to leave the cruise and head Downtown to meet her friends at a club. With all those buzz words I'm surprised you failed. | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 01:24 AM |
| 2 | It was going good then I lost her...I did actually want a piece of gum. Somehow this comment just makes this post. The asking for gum thing seemed to be your best game, and you weren't even doing it on purpose! :D | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 01:17 AM |
| 10 | It was going good then I lost her...I gotta congratulate you for your courage, keep at it. complimented my targets friend with " I love your eyes" then I thought what the hell, i should've told my target that. That would have been a bad idea unless you followed it with some sort of push. IE: "I like your eyes, but I still think blue/green/brown are the best". (chose a color that aren't hers) So I think you did good complimenting the friend, I think it will make the target wonder why you aren't complimenting her. (I did buy her a d… | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 12:54 AM |
| 2 | It was going good then I lost her...SS. | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 12:39 AM |
| 5 | just finished The Game: some thoughts: (for real this time)Shes kind of an Ayn Rand fan, too. Ahhhhhhhh an Objectivist (Randroid?). I remember being one of those. shes free to have any opinion she wants True, she has the right to have fantasies about committing genocide. And I am of the opinion that your sister has a disgusting outlook on humans. Freedom of opinion is a beautiful thing. Whenever I meet a Rand fan I think of... To the Realists: You sober people who feel well armed against passion and fantasies and would like to turn your emptiness into a… | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 12:11 AM |
| 4 | tl;dr: 75% of males will say yes if a hot stranger chick asked for sex. 0% of girls said yes if a hot stranger dude asked for sex.They forgot to bring a condom with them that day. | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 11:53 PM |
| 8 | just finished The Game: some thoughts: (for real this time)Yeah, that comment really bugged me. People who say that sort of thing usually plop themselves in the "enlightened" group, unsurprisingly. It is like when people complain about how stupid people are. Like you have never done a stupid thing in your life? Yeah fucking right. You're just as bad as all of us. We're not nearly as different as you seem to think. | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 11:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting ApocalypsedIt's hard to make a perfect recreation of a night where I was so drunk. I can't give a lot of details because I don't remember them, which sucks because they are important. Plus I used present tense which was admittedly weird, but I just started writing like that and rolled with it. | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I have been reading you for couple of weeks now. But I have a question!Everything I have read here works in college, and is fact easier because people are much more open to new folks because they are in their "college experimental years". The cloths practically come off at a glance if you smile right. So go for it! | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 08:43 AM |
| 1 | How to get out of the friend zone?Seduction isn't about winning over a specific girl, but the girls that are right for you. Clearly this gal isn't right for you. | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 08:39 AM |
| 3 | [FR] My summer of pickupI always love your stuff cheddarchexmix. Keep it coming! EDIT: Just one question, what is SNF? | /r/seduction | 14/11/10 08:26 AM |
| 1 | FR: Well, it was supposed to be a great night. (warning: very long and possibly boring)I gotta ask, are there a lot of fag hags at gay bars? Would I have success hitting on them if I were to join a Lesbian (hah, dude fag hag) at a gay bar? Seems kinda risky. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 09:33 PM |
| 1 | FR: Well, it was supposed to be a great night. (warning: very long and possibly boring)You ignored the "3-second" rule with the 7 and still pulled it off, most likely because you were cool and confident and not "pressed" to approach. Noted. I wonder. 3-second rule might not apply to lesbians. I think it applies to men because of the cultural perceptions around men and their propensity for creepy stalkerness. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 09:31 PM |
| 3 | When Do I Text Her?! Are You Missing Out by Being Too Available?Nonetheless some of us need a lesson in "common sense". Not all of us are naturals. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 09:15 PM |
| 3 | (Positive PUA News Article) "Pucker up, baby - and consider yourself charmed"Dude, I just realized you had your own WP page. That's legit. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 08:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting ApocalypsedNote: not alpha, just cocky as shit I know, I was being sarcastic. Hard to tell over the internet. I'd also recommend going out and trying to game a little more sober. Any drunken fool can have semi-decent inner game thanks to liquid courage. Go out and stand on your own two feet without the liquor crutch. This is totally true. Most of my success happens when I am drunk. My friends say I don't care about social conventions when I am drunk and I just say whatever the hell I want, and they find it… | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 08:01 PM |
| 29 | I just deleted 200GB of pornSorry, not ready to give up my tentacle porn yet. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 08:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Getting ApocalypsedNot everyone can be born a sex god, like me. Oh god, you're so alpha I could melt. You need a girl that you can experiment with and learn about. You have a point here. Honestly though, I would be sad to see seduction go. Gaming was just getting fun, which is why FWB seems appealing to me. And, yeah I know, you are supposed to continue to game your GF, but I just don't think it would be the same as strangers or acquaintances. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 08:00 AM |
| 3 | How to be more witty in general conversation?I have the same trouble, but practice practice practice seems key. Nobody can give you very specific advice because it will be specific to their sense and type of humor. If you use their humor it can be incongruous with your character. You just have to hone your own sense of humor. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Girl here, w/some questions to you guysEh? I've never heard of what you are describing. How would I know how many guys a gal has slept with? Here we have the HB scale, which is controversial and not always agreed upon. I interpret it as not necessarily how hot a girl is, but more a rating of her social prestige, how hard it will be to run game on her. The example I've heard is that the queen of England would be a HB10 in most contexts because it would be almost impossible to get her into bed. With that said, hot girls are usually at … | /r/seduction | 11/11/10 08:37 PM |
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