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Thanks for the reply and the guide Uncle Vasya.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 05:10 AM
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Makes a lot of sense now that I think about it
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:49 PM
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Haha, I jokingly brought that up and she said no way, but if I really think about it, I could frame it as “You can join me in a 3way, or I’ll find someone to take your place in the 3way.” But being in a relationship idk how that would work
/r/askTRP17/11/18 08:49 PM
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Thank you for your response. Is there anything you can recommend I do to increase my gratitude? The power trip you explained is exactly what I’m experiencing. All of my girlfriends have said that they like how I’m motivated and driven etc. but they feel like ill eventually grow bored of them and leave. While they’re not wrong, I know I’m too much of a pussy to just leave if I’m bored because I know I’ll be throwing away something good for temporary pleasure.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 07:31 PM
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Gratitude is something I don’t express regularly. I say thank you when I get things as I have manners, but growing up where I had no girls, family was broke, to now where we’re doing better and I’m at a private university where everyone around me is rich motivates me to do more. Get more money, be able to buy more shit, be richer, fitter, etc. because why shouldn’t I be better in all aspects when I have a scholarship to let me go to a school I can’t afford to without it? Main issue is I’m not co…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 07:22 PM
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I appreciate the advice. I've been on tinder while I was abroad and getting sex isn't what I want. I want it but I really want to understand why I'm like this and to better control it
/r/askTRP17/11/18 07:13 PM
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I agree. I ended a 3 year relationship because of that (there were other bad things, but I couldn't stop fucking other girls) and I regret it looking back, but there's no point to linger in the past.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 07:11 PM
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I don't know why. I ended my last relationship the same way. My university is 2/3rds girls and I look like a college athlete so I know I can get girls whenever so ruining something isn't too much of an issue with me. And thanks. I just want my bros to get pussy too. But they prefer to play Red Dead redemption 2 instead of come hangout with us
/r/askTRP17/11/18 07:08 PM
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I appreciate your thorough answer and will reread meditations for a refresher on stoicism. I’ll plain and execute better in the future.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:47 PM
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I understand why it’s here and the purpose, but how can I get over it faster?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:16 AM
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No I haven’t had that happen. If it did, I would hurt, but the anger would push and energize me. I’ll swallow my feelings and rationalize it would have happened to me eventually if I didn’t do what I did
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:15 AM
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Thank you for the introspection and answer. I care because I made the mistake of doing everything with her and when this blew over I didn’t have too many friends besides my fraternity bros because our mutual friends sided with her since I was seen as the bad guy. At the end of the day you’re right. I can’t change the past. I got to take this as a lesson and move on.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:30 AM
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I feel like I did her wrong. I took her virginity and my family liked her. I got tired of tiny things (weak frame) and decided to cheat and didn’t realize how much it would hurt her until afterwards
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:12 AM
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Appreciate the words. I’ll suck it up and take things day by day
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:10 AM
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Bet, that sounds like another plan of action if things continue.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:30 PM
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Her friends told her to stop talking to me but she doesn't want to. She's coming over soon so she can "watch the NBA all stars game with me". I'll add a little more comfort and keep things going. Thanks
/r/askTRP17/02/18 10:43 PM
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It's not work, just university. Should I fuck girls at other universities instead? I'm working on myself but the girl I'm banging is usually around me so people assumed I broke up with my girlfriend to be with her when I'm only doing it for the pussy and freedom.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 10:42 PM
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Yoo that's the story I was hoping to hear. I had one girl turn me down "after hearing what happened to my ex" and I thought all girls felt the same way but that's impossible. I feel better about this already. Appreciate it
/r/askTRP17/02/18 10:25 PM
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Yeah, only had a few beers last night, didn't smoke and took a good ass nap. Dick was back to normal. I should have known this was obvious, but thanks for pointing it out.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 02:18 PM
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Appreciate the insight. Didn't drink last night or smoke and it was easy to get hard and stay hard so I see the correlation now. Well, as I understand it, you should be higher value who provided good dick and companionship (your comment she just wants "look what I got.." points to that) and in return she pays for whatever expenses there our in the process of partying and having a good time. Yeah, that's the relationship in a nutshell. Side note: Since shes a slut, would my status be affected bei…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 02:17 PM
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Yeah that makes sense. I'll work it like that, thanks
/r/askTRP13/01/18 02:11 PM
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Yeah that sounds a lot like her. You're right, at the end of the day I gotta focus on my goals and only hang out when I'm done with my shit. Going from hanging out with engineering kids and staying in to hanging out with the "party girls" is exciting and draining both financially and physically. I don't want it to workout in the long run as in we get together, but I kinda wanna dabble in this realm for a while if possible. It's new seeing nightlife like this to me
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:30 AM
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Nah I can plate her and still go to parties. We're both Greek and I look like an athlete. She wants to show up to parties with me in a "look at what got" kinda way. Now we're fwb but once classes start up, I'm not gonna have as much time as I do now since I'm doing computer science and she is doing economics or something. Not sure about the money thing. My last girl was adamant about paying but her an I would go to places like whataburger or McDonald's once a week or so. We usually don't eat out…
/r/askTRP12/01/18 12:24 AM
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Ah okay I see now. I get it and yeah it frees me up more
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:46 PM
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Thank you for your advice. I'm already working on improving myself in many aspects but I'll be more religious about t
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:42 PM
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Damn. Treating her like a girlfriend a few nights ago to a booty call now must hurt her a lot
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:35 PM
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Would letting her sleep over after we fucked count as romantic relationship shit?
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:14 PM
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Your first point about sex being easier out of a relationship, can you expand on that? I made sure my girlfriend knew that I'm very horny and fuck regularly so if I'm not fucking her it'll be someone else's for the 2.5 years we've been together, besides winter break/summer break or her on her period we have sex 4-6 times a week. That's between 200-300 times a year which in my mind is a lot. I don't see how having plates would net me more sex, but that's probably because I haven't had plates and …
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:14 PM
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Damn, you're right about that. I didn't realize what I'm setting up is the regular occurrence we see on trp. This means I shouldn't let her sleep in my room after I fuck her on the nights I'm not fucking other girls? What are some other things I should do in my youth?
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:03 PM
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I'm sure she'd take me back. She's done it after I fucked another girl, but I don't want to be fucking girls while with her unless she's okay with it. I just want her not to be in pain as her culture is very traditional and her family already know about us (tho they don't approve)
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:01 PM
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/r/askTRP04/01/18 06:34 AM
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Ah shit, I never thought about that. Thanks for that piece of information.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:32 AM
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Can you expand on that? My girl is great and I love her, but I'm not sure if I'm with her because she's the best for me, or out of necessity. We met my freshman year of college so I haven't been in college single for a second and that's been my excuse for not gaming other girls and approaching. While I would love to believe that I could get other girls if I wanted to, I'm not sure if I'm bullshitting myself.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:10 AM
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I told her this a week ago and she first said "I'd rather have some of you than none" then today (I assume after talking to her girl friends) said "If you wanna fuck other girls let me know and I'll gladly walk out your life and let you". I know marriage is horrible and everything, but IF I were to decide I wanted to get married, she'd be the girl I want to marry. But she's not that hot sorority girl giving me the eyes when they see me around and I haven't experienced those girls yet
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:59 AM
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Did you piss in her mouth next?
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:40 PM
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Thank you for your answer and explanation.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:07 PM
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Ask her. I would pull up the messages and show them to her but she's emotional now and rational wouldn't work. HAD she not basically given me the pass to do so I wouldn't. But according to her that was just a fight, not a breakup I think it's more that she's upset I didn't tell her when she asked if I'd been with any other girls.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 08:01 PM
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From looking at my history, when we first started (first year) there would be fights about why girls are texting me late, why I have screenshots of other girls snaps they send me, etc. and that would lead to her saying "you're free to go fuck the other girls you wanted. Leave me alone". Then she'd go to her room cry for an hour (we lived next door in the same dorm so I heard it all the time) then ask for me to please come then we'd make up. The mid break I was talking about, our frat was throwin…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 07:55 PM
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Not fine as in this is over, fine as in not going to kill herself. She asked me if she did what I did would we still be together and I told her (like I did when we first started dating) that I would dump her on the spot. She could cheat behind my back and I wouldn't know, but that's not the purpose I wrote this post for. It's for addressing the possible social mess that could happen (out the country with her so don't know how things are back home) when we get back. No one in my social circle has…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 07:45 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I have just answered to a guy who has much unnecessary drama in his relationship because he was such a weakling like you, unable to establish a frame, where he can fuck other women with her knowing it, choosing to do it behind her back. She asked me if this was what I wanted before we started and coming from a bluepill background and being scared she'd leave I said "of course not". 2 years later with a break up in the middle and pussy falls in my lap and I don't say no. Als…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 07:42 PM
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Sounds like a plan. Thank you
/r/askTRP05/04/17 02:12 AM
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Well damn, no wonder a lot of marriages end up in divorce. What you said about talking to the kid and grandpa differently hits something on the head. When I talk to other girls I talk to them like they're little kids. I say things like "WOW" or "that's SOO cool!" and like I said earlier, act really interested. When I talk to my girlfriend I talk to her like a close friend where my emotions aren't exaggerated. Should I exaggerate them while talking to her too?
/r/askTRP05/04/17 01:02 AM
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Will do. Thanks for the explanation and advice of what to do
/r/askTRP05/04/17 12:20 AM
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We talked about that a while back and she asked me why it seems like my eyes are wandering. ( I Mean I'm a guy and if a girl has a nice ass in going to look for a little bit.) She told me she doesn't go out without me, we have sex multiple times a day, she sucks my dick whenever I want, she makes and brings me food, and goes to the gym with me. What is she doing wrong she asked. I told her she isn't doing anything wrong besides the things she does when she gets jealous. Then she asks why my eyes…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 12:01 AM
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Thanks for the explanation.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:04 PM
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Alright thanks. I'll keep at it
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:01 PM
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Yeah I desire her. Do I have to game her 24/7 since she's always with me? A lot of the time I talk to her like a regular person aka one of my guy friends since throwing enthusiasm into my voice for every conversation gets tiresome quickly. I don't even try to game other girls. I just listen to them as if what they're saying is important and ask questions. Stuff from how to win friends and influence people.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:30 PM
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Yeah a little bit. That was when I was first reading trp and trying to be "Alfa AF". I've talked to her bluntly and she heard me, pouted for a while but now things are normal.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:28 PM
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For a week I've had no issue having sex 4-5 times a day. After the week, it might take me a while to get it up but I can get the job done on demand. This week, 3 times I've been wanting to have sex but couldn't get it hard or stay hard long enough to grab a condom and put it on. I've been off of porn and masterbation for 2 weeks and today I tried watching porn to see if that would help, but after 15 minutes of watching videos, nothing. I've been lifting, eating, drinking water and I just got off…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 11:11 AM
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Sounds like solid advice. I'll contemplate a bit then decide on what to do. Thank you
/r/askTRP19/02/17 02:06 AM
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My gut just wants me to prove that I can pull girls and I'm not with her just out of her being the first girl I talked to and I have no game. Feels really stupid and petty but that's the truth
/r/askTRP18/02/17 10:27 PM
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Do you feel she's a "quality girl" or am I just seeing only the good parts?
/r/askTRP18/02/17 10:22 PM
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I have never treated her like shit, in my opinion. She claims that I do because we're not going out every weekend, or eating out like her friends and their boyfriends do and that I work 20 hours a week and I don't send her long love letters and stuff. So I tried that. I bought a photo album and filled it with photos of us and gave it to her. When we had a fight last week, guess what happen? She went crazy, said things about me, claimed I was selling her this fake dream of happiness, that I don't…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:48 PM
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You can't on the one hand proclaim knowledge of your worth and then on the other act like it's difficult to use that worth for your own benefit. You're right, maybe I'm over complicating it but I don't know how to use it to my benefit. I go to an all white private school and I hang out with the few minority people there. I don't have many interest or hobbies that I feel can help me connect to white people. I'm just a kid from the ghetto who's here on a scholarship. Growing up I went to all schoo…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:31 PM
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I slept on your response and I've realized what I mean. I mean easy in the fact that she'll put up this big front and say all these things in hopes to get me to change my behavior, but at the end of the day she's always coming into my room or asking me to come into hers. If she wasn't my girlfriend I wouldn't even respond to any of the shit she says. I would either "K" her or just not respond, but I often times feed the fire to give her the emotional release she needs then she burns herself out.…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:30 PM
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I told myself I'll do that after the 4th time she said that but today is the day I go through with it.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 04:37 AM
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Best thing to do would be to break up with her since as you said she's not very good to be with.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:27 AM
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Simple enough. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:07 AM
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When you put it that way... Then yes, you're correct. We're both scared to be alone.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:06 AM
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You're correct. I'd still like to get the easy pussy tho.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 02:27 AM
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Don't take them seriously. To your question ... did you see this girl during the summer? Yes. We saw at least twice every week. I work 5 minutes away from her house
/r/askTRP26/09/16 02:15 AM
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EDIT: Lmao, you right. I'll leave what I wrote down here as proof of me basically begging for there to still be a relationship. Holy shit reading that makes me cringe. Would any respectable man have his girlfriend running after another guy? Didn't think so. I'm ending it. Alright. Let's pretend that we didn't share the same room every night for the last 10 months, the other guy wasn't away in another country for the past 6 months, we weren't conjoined at the hip the first 4 months of the relatio…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 09:08 PM
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I'll do that. Most importantly I'll keep this in mind for future encounters
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:32 PM
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Thanks for your response. Believe me, working out is my life. I look 20x better than the guy, and I have a foot over him in height, but as we all know looks aren't everything. Insecurity is something I have a lot of due to how I grew up and past relationships where I was small and a nice guy (still have a lot of those tendencies that I'm working on getting rid of). I'll pursue more of my individual hobbies. I believe a large portion of the problem is me not recognizing my value and acting accord…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:12 PM
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Everything you said is gold. I am grateful that I can come online, ask questions and be given nuggets of wisdom like this.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 01:06 PM
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There is literally no point in pondering about "is she going to cheat on me?" it's falling down the rabbit hole and digging yourself a grave of insecurity. That's exactly what I've been doing. Thanks for the words of wisdom and clarity.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 05:02 PM
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Yeah, I forgot about that. You're completely right. Reading for so long has made me forget that this isn't the only side to the story. The other part is usually unsung because the people are too busy enjoying their lives.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 02:09 PM
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Understood. I've been reading since 2014 so I believe I've read it all a few times over.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 01:57 PM
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Very true. Thanks for the reminder to focus on myself.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 01:55 PM
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Instead of using it as a "how to", use it as a meter/gauge. I will make this switch accordingly. Thank you for pointing that out
/r/askTRP16/07/16 12:24 PM
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I respect and agree with your answer. I will keep frame and not let them beat me down. I already cook daily for myself so cooking isn't something hard for me to do. If you do, tell her. Expand your vocabulary to better share your thoughts and feelings because it makes you a better person. You have so much to learn. This is something I really didn't do. Too much reading TRP about how to treat plates and such made me only say I love you when we were in bed for the first few months but now I say it…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:38 PM
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Understood. Thanks for your input.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 01:59 PM
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She doesn't believe you - she had trust issues long before you met this other girl. There was this other girl, but that was before we were official (had sex)
/r/askTRP15/07/16 12:08 PM
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Possibly or the counsellor is suggesting to this girl to test OPs commitment to her by throwing out an ultimatum. She tried that 3 times and I didn't fall for it. I think you're right and this is another ploy for ot.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:54 AM
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You're right, I'm being a bitch putting up with this shit
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:04 AM
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Thanks for this point of view. Realistically this is what I'd like to do but if the sex will be taken away I'll dip.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 11:03 AM
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See a therapist? I feel fine
/r/askTRP15/07/16 10:59 AM
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By being in my room with the door locked with another woman then hopping into the closet when she knocked on the door.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 10:58 AM
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Jesus this makes so much sense. I wish I would have known about this earlier in my life. Thanks for explaining it to me
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:40 AM
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Thank you for the truth and sorry it took me this long to understand it.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:28 AM
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Okay. Logically, here it goes. The relationship isn't great becsuse of the events that happened She's in love with me and I'm in love with the fact that I can be vulnerable with her (not week though). We were each other's firsts so the chemicals like you're saying are fucking us. I've never had girls jump the gun and ask to come into my room one on one before so when the second girl did I almost lost it. That was the first time I went from having a scarcity mindset to seeing that there are other…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:22 AM
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Why are you so fucking scared to honestly state what you want out of this relationship? I was beta all throughout high school. I found TRP all this made sense and bam, in relationship with sex. It wasn't easy so now that I'm here I'm happy with having sex. Breaking up with her and gaming other girls is harder than saying the right things and her knowing that I still love her and everything being okay. It's like having a bad car. It runs and gets you from a to B but there are issues with it. I sh…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:13 AM
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#Facts
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:06 AM
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She's not a plate, but everything else you said is spot on. I have the power and should tolerate what I deem acceptable.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:04 AM
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Very true. I should think straight
/r/askTRP15/07/16 01:49 AM
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Honestly I'm the bad guy here and the counselor is giving her good advice Why are you the bad guy? You've having a sexual relationship rather than a prostitute-payer relationship. The edit explains that, how I fucked up and got us in this situation
/r/askTRP15/07/16 01:48 AM
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I'm not using her to pass math, I'm okay at it, but I'm in pre cal and shes in cal3 so she know a lot more than me and helps when I'm struggling. I would say that I am using her as an all in one for my needs being met bhby a single person without me having to go to 4 other people for things. I'll see if I can get into the therapy session and spill some emotions about how much I care about her, to have the counselor see me in a different light and tell my LTR different things because from the way…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 01:45 AM
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I realize I was retarded in how I started this because honestly I thought she'd be a plate, but after being with her for a while I liked what she brought me. I'll see what happens and update y'all
/r/askTRP15/07/16 01:43 AM
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Yeah, I have a lot to work on. Thanks for your honesty!
/r/askTRP15/07/16 01:42 AM
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Yeah that is what I meant
/r/askTRP15/07/16 12:59 AM
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TLDR: I thought I was being Alfa AF but was really being retarded. Another girl wants to fuck me, I didn't want to say no so I didn't, but also didn't make any moves. LTR finds us together with door locked and goes ape shit. That's why she doesn't trust me. Long story short, this other girl liked me and came to my room multiple times. My ltr would walk in on it twice, me and her being alone talking. But like across the room from each other. Scared she'll find us eating together, I decide to lock…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 12:58 AM
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Minutes the craziness I would have kids with her. I'm not sure if this is all happening becuase of what I said earlier or because she emotionally unstable.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 12:50 AM
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I'll try this and if not then the other replies about stating to walk and doing so.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:57 PM
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My advice about gaming your LTR holds for any future ones you have though. Why have an LTR if you don't actually like her other than sex? You don't get anything of value but pussy on the regular and you can do that without an LTR. I get companionship, she great with math and helps me there. She loves to cook and clean so there's that. We also like watching shows together, she goes to the gym with me and I teach her workouts then afterwords she teaches me how to swim.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:57 PM
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Explicitly say it or imply it?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:51 PM
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I see. Thanks for letting me know this before I almost emasculated myself
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:32 PM
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The last part of my post explains why she feels like this, but this is something I said back when I was first reading the rp and didn't realize you don't explicitly say it.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:32 PM
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Yeah. Everything now is fine as in ive been doing the right things now But earlier before we started going out I said "no sex, no relationship" then that's how our relationship started and the counselor is bringing up how much of a red flag that is to her and telling her to withhold sex to see if I'm only there for it.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:30 PM
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They are. They're held at our schools counseling center and they're free
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:29 PM
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I would like to thank you all for opening my eyes. I'm a twit for wanting to save the relationship so bad that I almost walked myself into a dead bedroom
/r/askTRP14/07/16 09:54 PM
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She claims that because she "always" makes me food or what I make for her is really for me and I give her some. ??? The logic
/r/askTRP14/07/16 09:37 PM
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The counselor is talking to her looking for her (my ltr) to get the upper hand. I asked my ltr to join them in the conversation next time they meet and she said it was private meaning just them 2. Probably so she can tell her more bs about equality and stuff
/r/askTRP14/07/16 09:27 PM
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It is a losing battle. I didn't want to cut her off because it would be easy to keep her around instead of going out there, but thanks for making me see the truth. I'll stop being lazy.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 09:11 PM
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She's very emotional. She grew up in Asia watching Kdramas and believes that's how all relationships are supposed to work. Like you said, her girlfriends have been talking to her and that's the main reason she went to the counselor to seek her advice and here we are.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 09:05 PM
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College. We've "broken up" a few times when she feels like I don't care about her, I tell her to stop acting silly, she goes to her room (next door) cries then comes to my room at night. But never took a break.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:51 PM
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Got it. If I hit her with the lets take a break and she wants to come back or tries to shame me by saying I did only want sex, how do I reply? I feel like I fucked up by replying to the sex one saying let's try it for a bit (a week or so).
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:45 PM
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So I should make her food tomorrow to "prove I care" and go a year without sex to prove the relationship isnt based on sex? Or is there an obvious better way to go about it
/r/askTRP14/07/16 08:39 PM
2

Damn, that's strong and accurate. Thank you for sharing that.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 10:04 PM
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Thank you. I've unfollowed her everywhere and her pictures are gone, but I haven't blocked her. But I'll be sure to do that. Going paintballing with some bros saturday so I'm looking forward to that.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:58 PM
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Holy shit, very descriptive. Thanks for this!
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:08 PM
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She's crazy. Stop answering her calls, don't text, don't message, don't check to see whether she blocked you or not. Block her on all social media. Realize she's a fucking nut and move on with your life. I've done that too much. Stop expecting anything from her. She fucked up, she does not get to be part of your life anymore, ever. You don't have time for her manipulation disguised as emotional neediness. She will learn that there are consequences to stupid actions, starting now. Never talk to h…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 05:33 PM
1

Thank you for your reply. I'll be sure to ghost and keep improving. I've picked up photography and coding, but doing the latter is hard because my minds drifts to her and her programming classes she's taking this summer. Regardless, I'll be sure to keep doing what I do. Thanks
/r/askTRP16/06/16 05:28 PM
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I'm almost in the same boat, except I only played football in high school. But I relate with pulling girls basically with looks and needing to work on my inner self becsuse I love being sweet and sometimes I over do it.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 10:41 AM
1

This explains a lot and the things you said about the celebs and NBA players not being immune to it makes me realize how foolish my thinking was believing maybe I'd be immune also.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:57 AM
1

Will do, thanks.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:55 AM
1

Alright, that makes a lot of sense. Thanks.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:55 AM
1

Makes sense. Thanks. Can you answer the other question also?
/r/askTRP07/06/16 12:10 AM
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You're right. After reading some of the replies here I took a nap where I had a "nightmare" of all the responses given here and how she was doing x and y and z behind my back, paranoia you can call it. I almost broke up with her simply out of paranoia of what she could be doing when in reality she went to class came home and was doing homework upset that I didn't save the pictures. Thank you for your voice of reason.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 03:06 AM
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The truth is im assuming youre doing a good job being stoic and redpill. When your gf didnt kiss you that was womanese for '' im pissed at you figure it out'' all woman do this when pissed or give the cheek. Remember this is a gf not a plate bud. You probably did something that made her think you didn't give a shit about her and she wants you to know shes pissed.Woman will never say why shes pissed straight up its simply not in their nature. It can also be an accumulation of comfort test you mis…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 02:48 AM
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Yeah you're spot on. I'll proceed the way you advised and I wouldn't dream of stopping self improvement
/r/askTRP23/05/16 08:21 PM
1

Got it
/r/askTRP23/05/16 03:48 PM
1

Thank you for your answer. I will do these things and see how they affect me. I'll also read the alchemist because this is the 3rd time it's been recommended to me. Have a great day.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 02:42 PM
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If you were stranded on a deserted island, what would you do? How would you spend the first hour? The first day? The first year? I guess I'd look for food and then build a shelter then continue from there. Would you be okay spending time alone, with no one else, with no internet, nothing to connect you with anyone for an indefinite period of time? I honestly can't answer that question. That is where my problem starts. I have never had to be alone in my life. I grew up with 5 siblings, in high sc…
/r/askTRP23/05/16 01:57 PM
1

Or stop, next her completely. Okay, am I nexting her because she did something wrong or because I reacted wrong and it's for my own good? Become a new man, lift, Already do, that's not the issue. Physically I have everything I need but mentally I'm BP as fuck. make new friends, blah blah, all the stuff in the sidebar on the main sub. I will make new friends, that's a given. The only thing I haven't started doing is the 12 levels of dread and I think it's time for that. 6ft1’, 190 lbs @ 15% body …
/r/askTRP23/05/16 12:45 PM
1

Yeah. I didn't fuck any other girls while with her. The most I did was invite her friend over so we could draw together (while my room mate was there) and this was before we became official. I never really thought about it like that. It's better I'm pulling the strings keeping both of us happy than me let her have some control and end up fucking both of us over. Thanks.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 08:54 PM
1

That's where I feel conflicted. If I do it then it's good and she stays attracted to me and on her toes. If she does it then we're supposed to next her since she's talking to her ex. If I'm friendly with her friends (read: flirting) then she gets jealous, calls me out on it when we're alone, admits it makes her a bit jealous, but gets even more attracted to me while if she does the same thing to my bros then we're supposed to next/downgrade her from LTR status. I know it's not supposed to be "fa…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 05:32 PM
1

Yeah I can go on her phone no problem. She's even told me the password and my phone doesn't have one.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 05:26 PM
1

I both accepted his argument and led my own with respect for both of us and poise. The argument itself that I had was almost worthless. This goes to say that how you say something is more important than what exactly you say.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 10:10 PM
1

I have, but I'm going to re-read it after finishing gorilla mindset.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 12:20 AM
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Not responding is a signal of strength and it may even put them on the defensive. If it requires your attention, dont rush with your response. Acknowledge the emotion, and wait a few seconds as you weigh your options. That little bit of time should lower the intensity of what your feeling. You can then say what you want to in a calm, non butt hurt tone of voice. In 4 weeks of consciously trying to control my reactions, not only do I see progress, but the change in the responses of my peers confi…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 07:33 PM
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I made a post about this yesterday but Teach me how to not be influenced by external factors out of my control. Whenever something happens or I say something and people respond a certain way, it changes the way I act or go about my day.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:06 PM
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Thanks so much and yeah that was a while ago. Luckily it was all placebo and she was fine. Thanks for offering your support back then and now. It's reassuring seeing someone you don't even know on a personal level willing to give advice and offer their time to help a stranger. People like you make this place an awesome place to come back to.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:10 PM
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She's not the problem. If its not her it's something my parents said, or something minor that upset me. The problem is how I responded to things
/r/askTRP15/03/16 04:11 AM
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Yes, I am content in the relationship and I will check it out.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 04:10 AM
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Thank you for that example. I rewarded her the wrong way which was with verbal reassurance instead of action that will get my point across.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 11:18 PM
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In your example above, when she acts butthurt and refuses a kiss, I would have smirked, smacked her in the ass and walked out. Contact her less than you normally would during the day (or not at all). Spend more time with your friends. When she does eventually confront you about it (and she will) play it off like its nothing. Deflect and turn it around on her. I did this a lot in the first few months we were dating then she started hitting me with the "You're only using me for sex" claim which at…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 09:57 PM
1

Thanks. I'll check out that subreddit
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:21 PM
1

5-6months
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:20 PM
1

Alright. Thank you for the direction to look into.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 03:08 PM
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You need to dig deep and determine 1) if you actually want to be a doctor; and 2) whether you're being truthful to yourself in saying that you will perform when you want it. Because all evidence points otherwise. I'm not exactly sure what I want to be, and for number 2, I haven't been wrong yet besides a weight being too heavy for me that day. Maybe it's selective memory where I remember when I was right and forget when I was wrong. What I've learned from talking to you and everyone else here is…
/r/askTRP12/03/16 06:57 PM
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Thank you and I only waited on my phone for like 5 minutes then got more coffee and did some math homework. I'll tackle the difficult things first thing when I get up, BEFORE I go to the gym so I can reward myself with gym time after completing my reading.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 06:37 PM
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Thank you. Sounds like I'm avoiding the classes I'm failing due to doing bad on one exam and feeling that the next ones will be like it even though I know it'll be different if I choose to study. Thank you for seeing the falacy I had fallen into. I now know how to best it. Learned hopelessness was what I was feeling, I believe.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 06:36 PM
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Go and figure out how to answer like this to all three. No rationalizations, no excuses, no "yes,but" or "yes, if" How do I do that? That could be where I've been stuck at this whole time.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 06:13 PM
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Do you REALLY want to be a doctor ? Yes Do you want to hold another person's life in your hands ? If I'm educated enough to do my best and save them then yes Do you understand the responsibility of this fact ? No, I do not fully understand the difficulty mentally and psychologically of having a person's life depend on your ability. I know what it takes, but stories of doctor's patients dying and the doctors falling into depression is something I don't fully understand because I haven't witnessed…
/r/askTRP12/03/16 05:49 PM
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I'm not a psychologist/medical doctor, but this description struck me as hyper-anxious behavior. Really? How so? I'm only doing this as a form of self discipline similarly to blocking other activities I would like to do until I'm done with what I need to do. I won't let my self play games, browse reddit or get on social media until I'm finished with that one assignment. If I make myself sit in boredom eventually doing my work will seem better than just sitting there staring at it. Additionally, …
/r/askTRP12/03/16 03:42 PM
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Because the perceived rewards are too far in the future. Too uncertain, too unmeasurable. But then why am I able to do it for lifting, if there are in the same boat? These are not your problem.... but I'm not sure what is. What happens when you try to study? What goes wrong exactly? For math I have no problem reading the notes/book, working on problems to see if I understand enough to get the right answer and figuring out where I failed if I don't. For art, I love drawing so that comes natural t…
/r/askTRP12/03/16 03:03 PM
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I'm 19 and I've stopped getting random boners. I don't even get them waking up anymore. But I still get hard if I'm feeling my girlfriend or she's feeling me. I lift and have what I'd consider good test for putting on muscle but it might be low.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 06:34 AM
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What if I can get hard ONLY when I'm feeling on my girlfriend? When she's in class or home for the weekend I try watching porn but can't get hard off of it so I end up beating (or trying to) a limp dick. When I go down on her, cup her breasts, or grab her ass I get rock hard instantly. Is something wrong with me/how can I fix this?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 03:27 AM
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In your scenario, this girl seems to not be seeing much commitment or appreciation on your end for her. She wants to be wanted (Which is a general AWALT tendency). You gotta make her feel like that sometimes. This hits it right on the head. I played back our conversation in my head and reread her message and what she was really saying was "After everything I'm doing for you I still don't feel like you want me" Don't follow TRP word by word in terms of never showing emotions, etc. I find that it …
/r/askTRP31/01/16 11:18 PM
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True. Really what she's giving me is what I need. She's not asking for anything or harming me besides taking a bit of my time (which I feel she does deserve). I didn't know how good things were. Thanks for opening up my eyes.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:39 PM
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Thank you for this. I've been thinking that the grass is greener on the other side but honestly she has all of the qualities that I look for in a partner. My sex drive has gone up and Im looking at all women in a more sexual manner, but I don't really want other women as to me a woman is a woman, but rather what I want is to achieve my goals. Masterbation is a perfectly fine alternative and it gives me more time to do things as I won't be laying in bed cuddling post sex. I'm currently cutting to…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:12 PM
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Yeah this is her and I'm willing to compromise to keep her around, but not if that means cutting out on the things I want to do. I'll ask her to do some of my hobby activities with me as a way for her to feel better about the situation.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:05 PM
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http://imgur.com/DXcg2Er http://imgur.com/Q3Hpj9U Those were messages she sent me a few weeks ago when I stopped spending all day with her and actually started focusing on my hobbies more. And she isn't seeing anyone. She lives next door to me and half of the time she's in my room with me or I'm in hers.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:03 PM
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Thanks for breaking it down. It feels weird having her in this position. I feel that she's looking for a life partner but I know I'm too young to start looking for that. That makes me feel like I'm stringing her along while she hopes I change
/r/askTRP31/01/16 06:42 PM
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This is college
/r/askTRP31/01/16 06:40 PM
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No, it wasn't the same guy
/r/askTRP12/01/16 01:02 PM
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It's because of residue feelings. Yeah, she's not that hot and I won't do it. I shouldn't fuck over somebody because of my feelz. That's some bitch shit.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 04:08 AM
1

Yeah, it's that ex
/r/askTRP12/01/16 04:07 AM
1

Thank you. The friends I asked told me just to do it. I already talked her to coming here. My closest friend told me it's ultimately my choice and he can't make the decision for me.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 07:01 PM
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Thank you for the clarity and insight. I'll go ahead and text her.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 05:04 PM
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I'd rate them both 6's. A little chubby, but nothing major (LTR is working out with me now to start losing weight). If I decide to spin plates I want to do it when I'm single and don't have a SO who thinks I'm being completely fateful to them when I'm out sleeping around.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:50 PM
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You're right. I'm over thinking this. How can I change my mindset so I don't fall into temptation like this or possibly do something like this again?
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:32 PM
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Why if not to sleep with her. Sounds to me like you have oneitis from your blue pill days, my advice just fuck her and get over with it, you seem to be evaluating your current girl too high. You're right. The main reason I want to fuck her is because all of high school I was chasing her and now it's the other way around. My current girl by no means isn't a unicorn, but she came from India 2 years ago and has been doing everything to please me. She cooks, cleans, studies with me and picked up som…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 04:29 PM
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Thank you. I'll go to the school health center and ask about this.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 01:43 AM
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We're talking about getting birth control soon and for the most part her "pregnancy symptoms" have gone down. Like I said, get her to a clinic first to get screened/pap smear, etc. They will also test for pregnancy as part of the blood work (it will show them a # level of the hormone). That will rule out everything and give you both piece of mind PLUS it will find potential invisible issue that could leave her infertile if left untreated. About how much would this cost? I have $120 and no job
/r/askTRP03/12/15 11:40 PM
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All I can say is, if she ends up being pregnant after all that stuff you did, then ask for a DNA test. God forbid she is pregnant, but if she is then I will
/r/askTRP03/12/15 11:37 PM
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We'll see if she misses her period next Saturday. If she does, I'll seek out further action.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 09:15 PM
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She just took the test and she isn't pregnant. We'll wait for her period, then test again a week after if it's late. I make sure I pulled out even with the condom (minus the first time) Thanks for your suggestion. I can finally sleep well.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 07:52 PM
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She just took the test and she isn't pregnant. We'll wait for. Her period, then test again a week after if it's late. I made sure I pulled out even with the condom (minus the first time)
/r/askTRP02/12/15 07:50 PM
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Jesus Christ thank you so much. One site I went to said 4 weeks.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 11:03 AM
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buy a pregnancy test TODAY bro! why wait? This way your 'problem' either immediately goes away Or gets real. If it's the latter I'm not sure what your options are but come back here and ask .... NOW GO BUY A TEST KIT! NOW! I read that we should wait at least 4 weeks for the test to be accurate. If using it today will give an accurate result I'm getting one asap. BTW it sounds like she's got a UTI (uterine tract infection) easily treated and the best way for women to avoid getting them is to show…
/r/askTRP02/12/15 10:12 AM
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Sounds like I'll be taking her to our school health clinic tomorrow then. I thought there wasn't a lot to worry about when using condoms, but you've enlightened me. Thank you so much for taking the time to shed knowledge on me. I'll try to update you to see what's up.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 05:27 AM
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If she's having those symptoms after day 1, she should be getting checked for a yeast infection, UTI, or a bacterial infection (honeymoon disease, etc) since you mentioned you two were going at it quite a bit and that she was a virgin. Hmm, that seems like a possible reason. Thanks for pointing this out. Also, reminder to both of you: shower before and after -- the first thing she should be doing post-sex is going for a pee and then rinsing off. I'm ashamed to say that I haven't been following t…
/r/askTRP02/12/15 05:08 AM
1

It's been about a week and a half. This is strange because before sex I used to be able to fap 4x a day within an hour and still get hard.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 03:56 PM
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Need more info.Are you a big drinker,drugger or masturbator? Are you unfit? Do you exersize?Are you stressed? Do you lift? Do you do an insane amount of cardio? A quick fix to raise testosterone is to lift, doing a full body program 3x a week. Nope. Don't drink. Dont masterbate anymore (doing no fap and no pron). I do exercise, I play basketball, swim some, and lift. I do almost no cardio besides swimming and basketball I do stronglifts 5x5 3x a week, but I haven't done it in a week and a half (…
/r/askTRP28/11/15 03:55 PM
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Glad to hear it like this bro. I'll take it as a blessing rather than a curse.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 10:16 PM
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So do you want us to ask our questions here or on your blog? http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2fp4jv/help_controlling_my_thoughts/ That's the whole thing I'm going through. The gist of it, girl broke up with me now I'm teetering between anger, oneitis and still thinking about her. Pretty much I'm becoming drake minus making the songs. I can remember one month where my grandmother died and I cried for about a day. After that I was emotionless. I felt empty but not like I was missing anythi…
/r/AlreadyRed08/09/14 12:27 AM
1

Thanks for putting it in simple terms. I'll ease up on my self now
/r/askTRP07/09/14 07:26 PM
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i told him that depressed is how you're supposed to feel when you're overworking yourself and you smell like shit all the time and you don't sleep. If you're correct then I feel more at ease, but it's not that I'm depressed, I go from angry to happy (only when playing games), but then back to "saddened" when I realize that I've spent 3 hours on the computer playing games. Almost like spending money and then feeling guilty. You want something and you get it then you're happy, but then you realize…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 05:45 PM
1

Thanks. I needed this. The thing is though I don't want to be like my friends. The guys who get home and play league of legends for 6 hours, do homework then go to school, talk about it, get home and rinse and repeat. There's so much I could be doing now to prepare for my future that it's overwhelming . Too many books I can read, colleges to look at, sat practice tests, scholarships, community service, making my resume look good, MCAT studying, looking for a job in college, planning out my roomi…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 01:50 PM
1

Yeah, it wasn't all done at once, but everything I read on this sub is "if only I had this when I was younger", "I wish I had started sooner", etc. About 4 weeks ago during summer I quit playing video games. Lifting, running and tennis was my life then. Now that school started I have less time to go to the gym and more assignments to do so I started playing games again instead of lifting since when I finish my work it's to late to go to a gym (parents rules) and the voice in my head tells me I'v…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 12:06 PM
1

Honestly I have been doing less physical activity and more mental activities. I'll go outside more and not lock myself in my room studying all day.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 12:00 PM
1

Yeah, I'll flirt and stuff, but getting to know their family, taking them out for lunch weekly, and other "boyfriend dutirs" I'm avoiding
/r/askTRP29/08/14 10:36 PM
1

I "know" her family (brothers) and they told me she's a bitch, but I thought naah, they're just hard on her. Nigga has never been more on point in his description of her. Yeah. There are more girls. Picking them up is easy. The thing is time and effort to maintain the relationship such as seeing them, etc. I'd much rather enjoy my senior year with my Bros than look for a girl to put up with. In college, sure I'm game for putting more focus on girls but for now it's mainly my education and body i…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 10:20 PM
1

Yeah we're in high school. I'll drop her if she goes, or should I already drop her for thinking of going?
/r/askTRP29/08/14 09:09 PM
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The you're mean thing was me telling her that she must be Into masochism for taking ib biology over physics and he'll will freeze over before she turns something in on time. And I'll admit, I have a problem talking too much. I forget that logic doesn't work (expecially when explaining what a date is and how she days it isnt), but live and learn
/r/askTRP29/08/14 08:53 PM
1

Yeah that's when it really hit me. I'm glad I'm getting to put the theories I read here in practice. I'm pretty sure this will be my last attempt at an LTR until I'm a lot older.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:34 PM
1

I thought, "oh if it's one of the guys I used to play with or a guy who's hideous it's fine", but the point I missed during the event was that she's not supposed to be going out with anyone besides me.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:16 PM
1

Yeah. I started losing shit when last week she told me that I act "as if I don't care about her." Because my friends were offering to take her to dinner and I told her it's fine because I won't have to do it then. Since then I was under the impression that she wants me to show that I care and don't want others with her, but that's just going to feed her the satisfaction she wants
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:12 PM
2

You've summed up everything accordingly. Sadly, a majority of women think like this right?
/r/askTRP29/08/14 09:13 AM
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I see. We had the discussion about other guys taking her on dates last Sunday where I told her dates should be between us only. Apparently is not a date if you're buying him pizza because you owe him /s
/r/askTRP29/08/14 08:27 AM
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Don't confront her about anything. IMO you already sent too many messages and engaged in too long a back and forth. Yeah, I messed up there. "Didn't know you thought I'm like that." (WHY SEND THIS, BRO?) It was an inside joke Should have just written "K" or "np" or "no problem" or something. Gotcha. Now having made that misstep, you really should have stopped at "The decision is yours." You're in high school. Even the more well-behaved girls will often use high school or college as their condens…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 08:19 AM
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Yeah, I recognized that is not just the pizza when she said " No I want to hang out with him he's funny and yes not for sure if we are going yet" Should I just confront her straight up, or soft next her? I'd prefer the latter as it might seem like I'm giving an ultimatum if I confront her.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 06:47 AM
1

Sucks when it happens, but put I'm glad it happened. Let me know what I was reading here is real life
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 02:49 PM
2

I wish I could say that I'm a new person. I'm posting this on my at account because my classmate likes skimming through what I've been doing on the red pill every now and then. For shits and giggles I agreed to meet her in person to talk about this. The sum of the talk was: "I said that while I was on my period. The way you responded made me feel like you didn't care. You know, actions speak louder than words." I explain to her that I've fought for us all these years and it's her time to fight a…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 08:10 PM
1

Yeah that sounds like a great friendship. She doesn't care what you want. It only matters what she wants. That sounds like it was the framework for your whole relationship. It is crucial that you deny her your friendship. She is a leech and is using you for everything that you offer and doesn't care how you feel about it. Don't hang out with her or call her when you want to chat with someone. It will only further inflate her fucked up head. If she pushes it make her explain what you get out of b…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 11:41 AM
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The nice guy in me wants to make her happy and smile and live as happily as she can.... so she'll love me and want to fuck me! But as we all know, that's how you become beta bux. Tldr, you're right
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:55 AM
2

A majority of them were back from sophomore year where I wrote her an essay on how I loved her and race shouldn't matter, I would fight for her, etc. She even brought it up saying where is this old person I loved? When in reality she responded to the message from 2 years ago telling me "I won't ever feel the same way for you You do for me. I won't talk to you for the rest of summer" Stupidly I took her back because "true love conquers all" but here I am today realizing what's been happening.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:52 AM
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Quit with the victim bullshit. You're on here proving you are, in fact, the beta she thinks you are. I was having a bitch moment. My bad The old me wants to apologize and say yeah we'll still be friends to make her happy but, I know in reality this way will get me much farther. You don't want to be friends, though. You want to fuck her. So you'd be undermining your own happiness for her. Never ever. Always put your happiness FIRST. And yeah I don't want to be friends. The nice guy in me does, bu…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:46 AM
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League of legends too? My nigga what is good?! Lol I play it too, but school starting so I'm trying to cut back a bit for my senior year and Improve my sat scores for college
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:42 AM
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She knew that breaking up would result in getting a lot of attention from you. When it didn't, she got confused. When you held frame, she started experiencing cognitive dissonance. In asking if you are scared, she's trying to fish from you the response she expects based on your behaviour in previous breakups. I get it now, since it worked the last 4 times. Thanks for the explanation
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:41 AM
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It sucks in the sense you think "it won't happen to me" but reality won't shit you, it will happen. I tried meditating but my mind goes everywhere. Lifting is something I'll start doing more often.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:38 AM
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But then once she comes back I'd be an idiot if i expect the same things not to repeat again, so the only way to win is to not play right?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:34 AM
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Appreciate it. I got tired of her tests to see if i really cared which i used to tell her not to go and she would be happy with that.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:31 AM
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Thanks. I'll let it cool for a while. School starts next week and new freshmen come in. Lemme do me and keep at what I do before deciding what to do with her
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:37 PM
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I understand. It's the old part of me that screams (you're being a jerk) but I know better. Just need to act like it. Old habits die hard
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:39 PM
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Thanks for explaining it to me
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:16 PM
10

My bad bro, I just wanted a place to vent, but I remember that's what friends and family are for, not the red pill thanks for straightening this
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:07 PM
7

It just doesn't operate the way we were brought up to believe. Yeah that's a better way to word it.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:06 PM
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I'll keep that in mind and decide when I get back. Thanks
/r/askTRP20/07/14 07:39 AM
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I misread that earlier. She isn't talking about my sister specifically being 7, but the fact that she's someone's little sister the same way my sister is to me.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 05:28 PM
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Next time I see her will be in a week or two. I'm going out of state for a while
/r/askTRP13/07/14 05:22 PM
1

So this is her saying that she's getting uncomfortable?
/r/askTRP13/07/14 05:15 PM
0

She means (i guess) how would I feel if my sister was that old (17) and a guy was doing those things to her since her brother has no idea what we're doing? In my head I'm like what the fuck? I was laying on my back and she decided to sit on my dick and rock back and forth.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 03:08 PM
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Actually we're both 17 and have been dating for 2 months. We haven't had sex, but we've had dry humping and grinding multiple times.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 03:06 PM
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Alright, what if she actually was being sincere or is there no way?
/r/askTRP13/07/14 12:36 PM
1

Well I went to school with her and her brother and I'm cool with her bro and my oldest sister is 13
/r/askTRP13/07/14 12:34 PM
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