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Inner Game MattPruga/r/seduction06/03/22 12:18 PM
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Field ReportMattPruga/r/seduction22/01/22 10:00 AM
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Field ReportMattPruga/r/seduction18/12/21 11:00 AM
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Field ReportMattPruga/r/seduction05/02/22 12:50 PM
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Field ReportMattPruga/r/seduction13/06/20 08:44 PM
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Field ReportMattPruga/r/seduction03/01/22 03:07 PM
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you can't, give up!
/r/seduction11/03/25 07:38 PM
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Maybe they were flooded with such advice because it works? For me it works, I don't care about the rest because it's hard to give someone such advice if they're a low quality person, in that case being yourself wont work because you suck. Fake it till you make it in that case. I've been approached a few times by women, mainly when I was dancing and having laughs with my friends. Maybe I'm just tall so I stand out like that plus the weird look I have going on.
/r/seduction07/03/25 03:36 PM
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I read just about everything I could find on the topic, over 20 books for sure and none of these books helped me. Yes, it helped me get conversations going from time to time but Mystery Method was just not my style, I was not congruent with it. I would end up looking like a dancing monkey, not someone they want to have sex with. I used everything I've read and tried to incorporate it into my personality, the approach, the lines, the gambits, the touch. Probably only around 10% of everything is u…
/r/seduction07/03/25 01:21 PM
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best advice I can give you is don't copy others or steal lines because it will look forced. Make your own lines based on your personality and your good traits. I was reading a ton of books on seduction and trying to copy scenarios from them for so long and it barely ever worked, girls can sense when you practiced lines and delivery. Be yourself, sound cliche but it works for me. Obviously you need to level yourself up in many ways if you don't consider yourself cool enough. Wearing earrings, coo…
/r/seduction07/03/25 06:31 AM
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start being freaky yourself. Don't expect a goth girl when you look like a geek. I bleached my hair, got some piercings, hit the gym and get your dress style in order. Been getting freaky girls pretty consistently now
/r/seduction27/02/25 04:31 PM
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i just approached massively with no purpose, if you have expectations you will be disappointed, especially if you are starting out. Sometimes I get into this zone of "wow this whole situation is so funny, we are all humans that are insecure" and laugh at myself, start talking to randoms around with zero filter and just do whatever makes me laugh
/r/seduction24/02/25 08:54 AM
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no I was just better
/r/seduction13/02/25 06:11 AM
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lol me too, I had one situation where there was another guy who believes in the 0.01 second rule. We ended up approaching the same girl at the same milisecond, it was crazy because we spoke at the same time, we even spoke the same words. Crazy story but I was better at game so I won and the guy went home crying because I AMOGd him if you know what that is, if not its fine
/r/seduction12/02/25 07:06 PM
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message me
/r/seduction06/02/25 06:33 AM
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Would be interesting to hear what your date looks like in a few words. Do you kiss her after the date? I've had this happen when I was younger, but whenever it did happen I was doing a few things wrong: I opened up too much emotionally, that can be too much for women on the first date. I was too nice to her, not standing on my own feet. Right now the way I would approach the date with a mindset of not really caring about her (or acting that way), be more vulgar, constantly joking, don't be serio…
/r/seduction24/01/25 06:25 AM
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works every time
/r/seduction20/01/25 08:20 PM
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Your life is temporary, one day you will be gone. Nobody cares what you do, even if they did they will forget about it by tomorrow. Try remembering when was the last time you saw somebody approach a woman on a tram? Probably never, it either doesn't happen because everyone is a pussy or it happened plenty of times, you just forgot about it. Either way, it proves my point.
/r/seduction15/01/25 09:46 PM
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I've hooked up with chicks even though they knew I has something with their friends in the past. It's almost as if they wanted me more when they heard that other girl wanted me. It's definitely social proof. You skip a lot of the screening- she knows you are worth the while from the start if other women already want you- makes stuff easier for you as you've been preselected.
/r/seduction15/01/25 08:08 AM
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One thing I've learned is as a man you never question the exclusivity dilemma. It is kind of weird she was okay with you texting other women, I would say she has been doing the same, you just reassured her.
/r/seduction13/01/25 09:19 PM
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Getting back in the "game" to me means that you will seduce multiple females and not get attached to one along the way. That's one of the fundamental rules of "game", to stop oneitis. Good luck, there is a lot of stuff you can find in this subreddit alone but most of it is normie incel tips. Maybe look at a few of my posts because I relate to you.
/r/seduction11/02/24 06:40 PM
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My friend has this stupid thing where he tends to go for dinners on first dates. He spends a lot of money on a girl he doesn't even know properly yet. I have went for ~5 dinner dates myself and those tend to be the most expensive. My usual routine is just coffee dates, walks, ice cream, etc... Never had a problem with spending money because I go for 2-3 dates max and they just make the next date a netflix date at my place and at that point you are cruising because you never have to go for dinner…
/r/seduction04/02/24 05:11 PM
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which city were u in, I'm from croatia
/r/seduction29/08/23 06:11 PM
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kinda works tho. Women want to feel like they are in a movie, they want all that's exciting, charming, sexy, unusual.
/r/seduction01/09/22 12:07 AM
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Trying to get to know her and talking about yourself is a waste of time. You are the seductive mysterious man turning her on in wonderland. This should be the way of thought, because then you don't put nearly as much mental energy into women, resulting in less anxiety and afterthought. You are a man and you are horny.
/r/seduction01/09/22 12:04 AM
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seven
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:40 PM
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seven
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:40 PM
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In the middle of the date when you feel enough tension. Don't wait till the end of the date!
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:52 PM
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because boys can''t have female friends
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:44 PM
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wouldn't completely agree, average guys with personality get laid more than emotionless pretty boys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:33 AM
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Do it immediately after you notice the girl - be spontaneous Work on being quick witted - read books, talk a lot Approach with the intent of having fun and not getting anything else out of it. Treat the girl as if she is some sort of toddler - "Oh look at her, acting all tough and badass, shes so cute" kind of mindset. Don't take anything she says seriously, especially at the start of the conversation.
/r/seduction04/08/22 11:18 PM
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this guy fucks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:12 PM
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There is a difference, being a good listener is a great trait. Learn how to shut up, listen, don't say shit. If you are interested in the subject, you summarise everything she said after she's done or give her some other form of reassurance that you listened to her. If it's a topic you don't care about, you don't say shit. She wont talk to you about it if you cut the thread immediately. You also need to be able to speak up, talk about stuff you care about and are interested in, no matter how muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:07 PM
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probably 5'8"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:38 PM
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kind of autistic myself, been rough but I got laid a couple of times this year after being a virgin for 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:33 PM
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Pick up a sport, preferably a team sport. You gain confidence and learn how to socialize with people, creating great bonds and friends that will last a life time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:38 AM
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there was a really good pua group on fb with a load of free stuff like programs, infield, sheets,pdfs, books, etc.
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:42 PM
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Honesty. Go tell her you saw her and thought she looks interesting or you noticed something about her and move from there. These girls spend hours in front of the mirror because they want men to approach them, if she is drunk it should only be easier.
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:25 PM
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She is right, women need more complex emotional stimuli in order to get wet and horny. Unlike men, who get horny through simple visual stimulation. You would know if you've been with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:17 PM
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yeah, leave "thoughts?" out
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:00 PM
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depends What I want to know is how common are wilder kinky stuff like threesomes, gangbangs and such in college? depends on where you live, I imagine in the US it's much more common. Here (Eastern Eu) most people never have a threesome. I'm in college, never had a hookup but did have a couple of FWB. You are not missing out on a lot except probably the potential STDs
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:20 AM
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love isn't real, we make that shit up because we are afraid of dying alone
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:10 PM
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it could work on cocky girls that were always treated nicely by dudes, you kinda stand out and and show confidence
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:08 PM
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men create romance, women wait
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:05 PM
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For me, I was in a relationship with a beautiful girl that kept saying she only has guy friends, she always hung out with these dudes and I didn't really care about it because I trusted her too much. She left me for a dude. She changed the way I think completely, I am afraid of connecting fully with one girl so I date multiple women because of the fear of being dumped again.
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:05 AM
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emojis are ok if u use them 1/10 messages, no big deal lol
/r/seduction13/07/22 11:57 AM
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Having balls and being yourself can get you far no matter how you look. I've had an ex best friend in middle school, guy was fat, ugly looking, smelled like sweat all the time. However, he was confident in himself all the time, he barely knew shit about anything, yet anything he did all, he did it with the uttermost confidence and that was so visibly attractive. He got laid a shit ton while I was out there wondering how he did it, not understanding that he had no fear in life, he could approach …
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:18 AM
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I wouldn't agree, I've seen ugly guys approach and get laid, night game mainly. Every night I go out I can point out a few of these guys.
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:09 AM
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I've seen below average guys with hot chick plenty of times.
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:05 AM
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Mainly no, but sometimes it will work, I've seen it happend. Guys who have balls are often guys who get laid.
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:01 AM
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Ofcourse I hit the gym! You can't expect to be a fat, balding motherfucker and get laid. Put work into yourself, respect your body and people will respect you too. I'm just saying, having some type of game gives you an edge over other guys. Women sense when a guy gets them and they love it.
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:58 AM
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says who? I was terrible with women, barely kissed a few girls before I turned 20. I started working on myself, upped my game by a ton.
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:49 AM
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Ah, a fellow blackpiller
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:42 AM
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Game has been established a few decades ago, miniscule things are changing but the major picture remains the same. The guys who are good at game very rarely post about their success. It's the crabs that get laid once in a lifetime that make posts for attention grabs. Most guys are like you, they contiuously search for results because it's easier to read than to learn on your own.
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:40 PM
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she had her fun and that's it, doesn't mean she wants to see you again
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:39 AM
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I have the same problem. She is all over me when we are alone but wont even kiss when people are around. I brought it up as it is a problem in my eyes, she said she just doesn't feel comfortable and is constantly afraid of being judged and called a slut by others. She is very reserved, nice, barely kissed a few dudes in her life. I respect her answer but still I expect her to get over it if she wants this to last.
/r/seduction02/07/22 08:35 PM
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I started for the same reason a few years ago but you come to a realisation that you should have never started to compromise yourself for a woman. I've gotten more compliments from dudes, zero compliments from women. Work on yourself because of yourself. These guys are 99% on PEDs, 5-10 years of consistent work, diet. Not attainable naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:43 AM
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they are horny all the time
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:43 AM
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It's because they approach a lot, they are rejected a lot. Sometimes it comes through just because they had more balls than any of you did. These guys don't give a fuck about rejection because they tasted it so many times. Pretty girls sometimes want to have fun and 90% of you are afraid to approach them, it's that 10% that do go in and offer them fun that get laid. Also some hot girls were never approached due to guys beig scared of them, they have no idea they are good looking, they don't know…
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:04 AM
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if shes willing to do it with you, she will do it with someone else too. Fuck her and leave, she deserves it
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:03 PM
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only makes you want them even more
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:20 PM
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It highly depends on where you are from and the type of culture. For example, US girls are generally all (hispanics and blacks even more) very responsive to sex, very liberal, much less likely to be slut shamed compared to European countries. I'm from Eastern Europe, our girls are the exact opposite, 95% of them have a reputation to hold, they are afraid of being called sluts, that means they reject everyone, even if you came up to them to talk casually. I met a few Italian girls in my life and …
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:11 PM
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when ur desperate you are willing to enter a long distance relationship with a girl you just met, showing you have no other option. Go out and meet women
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:07 PM
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yeah but women get laid all the time, men don't. Men still need to make the move, touch her, ask her out, go for the kiss, etc... This is a 1/50 situation, women almost never approach abd take initiative
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:49 AM
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it's a win, but the girl should be the one posting this in a seduction sub
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:34 AM
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so you did nothing and she did everything? No game, no initiative, no seduction
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:58 AM
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so you did nothing and she did everything? No game, no initative, no seduction
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:57 AM
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You remind me of a good friend, great guy. He approaches women, but he gives them too much power. He is pushy, trying to flirt too much, trying too hard to get results and by doing that he only ends up looking needy. Go in, meet her, talk a little, throw a bait here and there, tell her if you mean it, be authentic, enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:35 PM
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I don't know. My first approach was two girls, one of which gave me her number even though she wasn't interested. I felt so confident, I wanted to approach another set right away. Never approached women until that point and I was about to do 2 approaches in a row because of that boost
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:23 AM
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again, what does your approach look like? I notice something off, even slightly weird or maybe completely normal and make a big deal out of it. For example, she might drive a Reno Clio and I'd call her the Clio Girl every time I see her. It can be something much more specific though.
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:20 AM
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Give me an example of what your approach looks like. Read a few of my posts. I was a virgin until october and blew up, got a shit ton of makeouts and increased my laycount from 0 to 4 in 6 months, pushing myself to approach, getting blown out a lot more than not. But still, every once in a while it works.
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:44 PM
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doesn't really matter, he got the confidence boost he needed
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:39 PM
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Pretty women sometimes don't get approached because they're out of a guys league, especially if she doesn't go out. It happens very often that a woman prioritises her career over going out and meeting men, before you know it she's old and has no experience with men. She happens to meet this one guy who is boring as hell but she never had a proper guy so she just stays with this one. She's a doctor, most likely didn't spend her 20s having fun, she studied, met this guy who knows where and he star…
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:42 PM
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Girls want to hook up a lot too, it's normal. Usually they do a quick hook up when they want to forget about their ex or make someone him jealous. She liked you, made out with you, had her fun and she left, she got what she needed. Deep down she did that most likely because she misses someone else and you are a temporary replacement for that person. You also seem to have emotionally connected too much. I'm telling you, if you showed very little emotion, stirred her up a bit, fucked her good and …
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:59 AM
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I had the same issue at first, more so I was afriad I wouldn't know how to do it. Being naked with someone is scary. You just gotta do it, becomes a lot easier after the first time
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:43 PM
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it's a reverse counter maintaining neg spiced up with push pull and a little bit of phantom escalation that should only be used after phase C2 has been entered already
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:55 AM
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yes, showing vunerability is important, don't overdo it tho
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:02 PM
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put in the effort to talk to them
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:02 PM
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I feel like that's what a fat man would say. Getting in shape, you help yourself because you will live a longer and healthier life, you will look better, be more confident and attract more women. No down sides
/r/seduction30/05/22 05:40 PM
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You are not going to talk about makeup, pink dresses and guys they've slept with. You talk about what you are interested, be it sports or videogames, if you show passion for whatever you speak she will see it and be impressed. Most of us are afraid to talk about stuff they love if it's even slightly nerdy, that's where you stand out. I would avoid politics, religion talk because it could result in you two arguing over stupid points
/r/seduction30/05/22 05:39 PM
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I guarantee you women would always pick a fit athlete dude over a fat slob
/r/seduction30/05/22 05:35 PM
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what's the purpose of talking naughty to a woman you will never meet? Seems like a waste of time. How about, find a real life girlfriend.
/r/seduction30/05/22 05:23 PM
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there is nothing special to say really, talk to women the same way you talk to your guy friends. Talk about shit you care about, don't try to be fake because it can be noticed.
/r/seduction30/05/22 09:03 AM
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she shot her shot, you didn't state interest and she lost confidence. You need to show her you are interested, even a simple question about who/what/where would make her stay. It's like you approach a girl and she doesn't give you stuff to work with, you leave because you think she isn't interested.
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:36 PM
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I feel like you are afraid, you need to approach women, state interest in them but don't be needy, you can get laid easy if ur in shape
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:31 PM
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So, she doesnt have to judge if you are attractive or not, that gives you the time for showing your personality/lifestyle and she can be attracted to you after. that's theory, it doesn't work like that in reality. You can go in direct, you have no idea what's her type, you have no idea what's she's going through, how she feels at the moment. Women love attention, I've seen beautiful girls make out with ugly, short guys, just because they had the balls to approach. Go in, be normal and you will s…
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:29 PM
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You are going to get blown out a lot in night clubs, girls have their slut defense on 100%. Imagine, most of them would feel like whores if they were to be seen making out or even just giving their number to a guy they just met. I like to rationalize, if I get rejected, they are taken. My problem is the approach, I tried a lot of different stuff and I just can't find the right approach (maybe due to different types of girls). Sometimes I do a normal :"Hey, I saw you, what's your name?" and proce…
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:20 PM
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be slightly arrogant and cocky, dress well, wear good sexy parfume, strong eye contact, make them work for you, tease them a lot, show interest/disinterest, be bold, once they qualify you reward them
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:11 PM
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dumb post
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:56 AM
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how the hell are you supposed to know that? Just go in and talk to her whenever you feel like it.
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:55 AM
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since you make hand holding sound like such a big deal, I'm guessing you are inexperienced. While escalating you shouldn't put attention to it, talk about something unrelated while you do it. She went on a date with you, she was probably interested to a degree but you were not confident to make the move, which kills the attraction she was building up. I slowly increase the escalation along these lines: High five, fist bump, touch her shoulder (all of these things are done while talking to her, l…
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:02 PM
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ugly girls have hot friends too
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:34 PM
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Waiting for sex is dumb. She is holding you around with that excuse because she doesn't trust you would stay after you two have sex. How is that a relationship? And you just said :"Yes, Ma'am, whatever you say." Sex is 100% needed for a relationship to work and she just made sex the "grand prize" you will get if you are nice to her for some time.
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:54 AM
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I feel like I have. I'm dating two girls and had fun with another couple of days ago. My friends notice a change in my behaviour, they told me they're kind of annoyed by me constantly flirting with girls. I don't even try to flirt, it just happens automatically.
/r/seduction10/05/22 10:49 AM
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approach
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:40 AM
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PornHub can be so helpful, there are a shit ton of educational videos on how to please a woman via mouth/finger. Go watch!
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:36 AM
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About the fwb, you need to give them good dick, very little emotion and bonding, a lot of fun and fuck off. They will initiate because they want more of that carefree fun.
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:19 AM
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they want a a quick dick and that's it, they move on. Girls that are looking for relationships don't usually sleep with you on the first date. You are picking the wrong women.
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:18 AM
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sure, you can ask her if she wants to kiss you. The more natural thing is to learn to read body language, take note of how she's looking at you, does she take chances to touch you, does she sit close, does she get nervous/blushes when you keep strong eye contact. Isolate her, tell her :"come closer" with a calm voice, smile, grab her hands, put them on her hips and slowly move in closer. Your chances of success are pretty high here, she will most likely comply. The key thing is, the has time to …
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:38 PM
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she wanted a one night stand and you got attached, she would have been all over you if you didn't attach yourself this much
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:33 PM
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Look at their clothes/shoes for a while and they will feel nervous
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:31 PM
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100%
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:20 PM
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It's more of a confidence boost for me, which makes my approaches better instantly
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:20 PM
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They want a good fuck, you go the safe route, you go slow, play nice, cuddle, make plans. Only for her to dump you the next day. Women are sexual too and sometimes will want a one night stand, they won't openly admit to that (mostly) so you gotta take the risk always
/r/seduction24/04/22 09:17 PM
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exactly, it doesn't matter if you're black, yellow or normal skin colour. We are all the same
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:44 AM
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same, I have this problem where girls don't take me serious sometimes. As if I'm not a plausible mate they would consider. I've been experimenting with how to deal with it. The most effective thing was to just act cool, be unresponsive, don't give them value, don't give them that much attention, give them just enough to be noticed. Ask a few questions, try to make it look like they are qualifying, your behaviour depends on how they respond to you.
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:40 AM
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hm
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:38 AM
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yes, ofcourse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:22 AM
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-Firstly, try imagining that every woman in the club wants you (key) Being spontaneous is best. If I'd have to pick something, make eye contact, smile, go up to her, "Hey, I wanted to meet you", you can throw in a cold read like "You look Italian/Greek/Latino/Whatever..." -Strong eye contact -Check for interest signals, if yes then -Touch, provoke slightly, tease, make statement -Qualify -Make her win you over -Take her number
/r/seduction16/04/22 02:52 PM
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they want the thrill, being with a guy that's nice is boring
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:13 PM
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you just gotta eat more. I thought I had health issues but after I started stuffing myself I gained 30lbs in a year
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:41 PM
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ohh yeah, perhaps lol
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:52 AM
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What after that? "How do you drive a car?" - Start by sitting in the car, tuck you seatbelt, check your mirrors, or don't, just start the car. Point is, it is simple, use logic. You can't expect for me to explain a whole interaction. It's not the same, women are people. We are all different and do things differently. You go up to her, you say hi, introduce, check for interest signals, ask basic stuff (where she's from, what she does, don't overdo this). Tease her, lightly touch her if she gives …
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:51 AM
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don't give women power like that. If you have something that you want her to know, tell her face to face
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:20 AM
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Very reserved and closed girls, unlike in the liberal west. Not sure why I got the down votes
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:32 PM
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I'm based in the Balkans(Europe) and it's pretty hard to get laid here. I did around 20 approaches, only a few try hard approaches and got laid 2 times. Currently dating 2 girls, both virgin but not for too long.
/r/seduction11/04/22 09:19 PM
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2/1000 for f close is pretty small
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:37 PM
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happened to my buddy eric once
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:12 PM
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i send her a "hi😀" and continue from there
/r/seduction11/04/22 06:30 AM
7

how does your approach look like? I noticed it's very easy to fall into the needy fram when approaching. It's crucial you stand your ground, you offer value as a man, stay calm, don't be clingy, and for fucks sake, act normal! Don't be cheesy, don't use pickup lines. "Hi, I don't know you but I think we should get to know eachother" , ask a few basic questions about her, tell her you like something on her (clothing, necklace, ring, NOT her body or other genetic things). "Hey, I have to go but I'…
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:18 PM
1

as I said, videos, forums, books
/r/seduction10/04/22 08:33 AM
2

There is this special aura people radiate with after having sex. Does it really matter? She was all over him.
/r/seduction10/04/22 01:04 AM
3

don't talk about yourself, make the person talk about themselves, we all love talking about our lives.
/r/seduction09/04/22 09:06 AM
31

I was out yesterday and I saw a very sexual and open woman next to me. She got close to us, started dancing very freely, giving this one dude attention and eye contact. She kept doing that until he got closer, then she made the move, they left the club together very quickly, had sex and got back. I never saw such a confident woman, she isn't all that pretty. Just drunk and confident.
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:47 AM
2

women want what they can't have, they wont move on so quickly, expect lots of mental battles on their side
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:27 AM
8

it's reddit, most are not
/r/seduction07/04/22 07:26 PM
4

never send a woman a nude picture online
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:07 PM
1

I'm not saying that hitting Chris was right, adressing the issue would have been the proper way to do it if you truly think your wife got hurt. Stop using the word simp. So whenever someone stands up for their wife, they are simps? You guys are hilarious.
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:06 AM
-5

if you respect your wife and her opinion, you will stand up for her at all times
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:01 PM
2

today I had an old spice deodorant on and three people asked me about it, just when I thought others don't smell it
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:05 PM
1

Believe me, if a girl was interest she would make it clear immediately. You took to long to ask her out, you became her best buddy. State interest faster, show balls and confidence. Do it in person, that way she can't leave you on seen or give you an excuse, just a straight up yes/no. Lost cause here, move on
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:08 PM
9

reddit is the worst, you get into a information gathering loop where you "learn" shit all the time but don't actually do anything to change your situation
/r/seduction25/03/22 07:02 PM
2

my thoughts too
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:06 PM
4

sounds like a normal woman, most of them do this. They give you mixed signals just for you to stay around as motivation and emotional support but don't want to fuck you.
/r/seduction25/03/22 06:04 PM
1

exactly, it doesn't work
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:10 AM
1

as far as I know she has a husband
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:09 AM
1

Disagree. For example, most bodybuilders are technically overweight if you look at a bmi chart. They are not overweight, BMI is just terribly flawed
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:05 PM
2

perhaps for now, your body can handle the weight. As you get older, your body gets weaker, the chances you will suffer from some sort of illness related to weight is high. Plus, being normal weight makes your whole life easier. You have more energy, you are more active, you are sexier, you live longer, you live healthier. No downsides.
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:05 PM
3

ask her, make sure she understands you respect her and wont judge her for anything she says or does.
/r/seduction23/03/22 09:23 PM
1

you can't be overweight and healthy, that's an oxymoron
/r/seduction23/03/22 09:10 PM
3

yeah, I still think it may be worthwhile listening to women at times, they're fish but they still have some knowledge.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:31 PM
19

why? It's called seduction. As far as I know, both genders seduce.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:27 PM
11

because anyone can join this sub?
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:25 PM
1

how much do you weigh
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:48 PM
1

20
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:27 PM
0

I consider myself a beginner that's doing good
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:25 PM
1

yes, it's painful as hell. I couldn't walk normally due to pain
/r/seduction21/03/22 07:20 PM
1

feelsbadman
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:50 PM
0

50 bucks is pretty expensive for drinks, too much for a first date
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:12 PM
6

how much do you weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:24 AM
8

you don't bring up sex, you progressively enter that phase without mention
/r/seduction18/03/22 01:32 PM
11

the shy nice guys almost always lose, women don't want nice guys
/r/seduction14/03/22 03:37 PM
3

give her a mean look, pause and say: "Look, these are my limited edition golden gucci x armani pants and you'll need to get me a new pair of these. They're are only found in Dubai tho, don't worry, I'll show you where the shop is at"
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:30 PM
2

I hug the girl, hold her below her shoulder, move my arms down to her hips and slowly start pulling her closer to me. If she is resisting I push her away, if she doesn't resist she wants you to kiss her. Obviously locking eyes while doing all of this, going slowly and smiling lightly is needed
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:36 PM
4

you didnt make the move, any friend can make her laugh
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:31 PM
9

I'm a dude (20) and have had terribly closed communication with my parents about sex/girls throughout my whole life. I always felt so awkward and wrong if I mentioned I was hanging out with a woman. Sometimes I'd rather lie, say I'm going out with my guy friends than admit I was with a girl. One thing I regret is the communication, wish I had more of it. My parents didn't put too much effort into it, we never had the infamous talk. It's like they felt awkward so just gave up. This is something I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:24 AM
1

the good thing is you got it done, it was awkward? Happens. Point is you learned from this, don't take it as a failure.
/r/seduction12/03/22 09:16 AM
1

no, showing you are vunerable as the first thing you say shows you have no confidence in your abilities so you try to use vunerability as a way to open the girl
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:49 AM
3

No, don't tell her you are nervous. That's low value. Just go up to her and say hi, ask something about homework or school work and introduce yourself. You: Like, i’m nervous cuz i don’t normally do this, but I just could not help but noticed how cute you are, and wanted to meet you and find out if your personality is as cute as your looks… what’s your name? This is terrible
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:21 PM
178

I would have texted "nice try but I'm not sending my ass pic until after the date"
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:13 PM
2

"hi, do I know you? Well, what's your name"
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:33 PM
1

thanks! going out tomorrow too, depending on how it goes I might post another
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:25 PM
18

just talk to her, see how she reacts to you, based on that you invite her for a drink or not
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:14 PM
1

I don't approach any girl, I look for girls that are can be opened. That means I most likely won't approach a girl that's sitting at a table. The girls I approach are usually the ones dancing, walking around or looking around. I don't approach in the gym because I go there frequently, don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction08/03/22 04:25 PM
2

No, I lost my virginity last year in to a different girl. All three of these girls were virgins though.
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:38 PM
2

No, if you read my first post you would see that I started doing this whole thing only to improve my social skills with people in general and not to get girls, it just happened to be a bonus.
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:20 AM
1

I'm trying to avoid drinking and don't like dancing but learned to let go and dance, you'd be surprised how people look at you differently when you dance like you don't give a crap
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:18 AM
1

nice man! one set - one interaction
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:16 AM
4

yes, because women are beautiful. I want to connect with women on all levels, I care for them. I'm not looking to use them, only to improve them and myself
/r/seduction07/03/22 06:11 AM
4

read a few of my other posts on that. Carry yourself nicely, smell nice, look nice, chest out, head up, slight smirk, smile with your eyes
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:42 PM
2

my women would beat up your women big time!
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:40 PM
4

Ma kakvi prekasno, par godina si od mene stariji. Idi van i vjezbaj ovo, isplati se.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:39 PM
3

dvadeset godina mi je
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:53 PM
8

believe me, nobody is looking at you. Everyone is stuck up in their own head thinking about what others might judge them by.
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:12 PM
1

Interesting, my problem is getting the girl on the date. I had no trouble seducing them once I'm there. What's your vibe like, you talk serious or flirty? You try to connect emotionally? Do you care about their stories and life in general? I'm a pretty emotional dude, so I like dwelling into the girl with talk often (listening to talking ratio is around 80/20 for me)
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:08 PM
2

it’s a good litmus test for if they’re interested or not by how they react yeah! how do you find / face the challenge of talking to girls in clubs when they’re dancing in groups / loud music is playing? answered
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:15 PM
2

here we have a table but no seats so everybody is standing
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:28 PM
5

Thanks brother, our countries are neighbours😉.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:21 PM
0

my car is breaking down uber? Besides, they don't have to come over to your place.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:17 PM
9

also something I struggle with. I do vocal exercises before going to the club. Nonverbals become much more important in the club, use your hands, body and eyes - good excuses to get close to her and touch her.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:14 PM
2

answered
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:57 PM
3

What are your looks like?(not just a number, I would like to hear a description) I'm around 6'3", I'd say average looking dude, brown hair, blue eyes. Don't give me the height excuse because I approached before and got rejected constantly, I just never put in this much effort. Also, the average height in my country is 6'0" - equal playing field. A friend of mine is 6'7", Christian Grey Mf and he is a kissless virgin. Any instant DHV / DHV story that you use I like mentioning my cool friends and …
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:57 PM
2

I don't leave when I get the number, I stay in, talk and/or try to close. I message them the next day with "Hi 😏" or try to use some callback humor from our experience.
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:50 PM
3

turning 21 this year
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:48 PM
26

I feel like you severely lower your chances of success if you are constantly waiting for that "perfect" moment. It's like you not wanting to approach because you didn't get a haircut yet or maybe you got your "ugly jeans" on. The perfect moment doesn't exist, I had my ugly black shirt on and ended up closing one of these girl. Confidence > everything
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:48 PM
1

I answered this in another comment here
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:45 PM
43

Conversation topics: who is she, what's her story, where shes from, etc... (basic get to know you stuff) along with teasing her every now and then. One thing I noticed is that you need to figure out what type of girl she is. Some girls are more lighthearted and you can joke around and do riskier stuff with them, unlike other very serious girls. I usually go for 60/40 (60% normal talk/ 40% jokes) Also anything we shouldn’t do? Someone already asked this in a previous post so I will just paste it …
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:43 PM
54

I completely understand them, finding excuses is much easier than actually taking action. I'm still like that sometimes. Thanks!
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:39 PM
2

But that's exactly what me and my friend did. We were by ourselves with a mutual goal of getting girls so we had a drink and started talking to women
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:38 PM
3

I live in a city full of students like myself, I met so many great people on my classes
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:41 PM
10

why after? I'm in college, dating is the best during college
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:57 PM
8

That's common, but that mindset is keeping you from all of the things that I have and much more.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:56 PM
5

clubs mainly, sometimes outside of the club
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:50 AM
11

Go read my posts, I started approaching regularly on december last year. Back then I was seeing 0 women, now I'm dating 3 at the same time.
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:48 AM
1

4-10 is the average for your whole life. 50 is way above decent
/r/seduction27/02/22 12:07 PM
1

so weird, I don't get how she even allowed that cheek kiss
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:57 PM
1

That's a tough one. I had a similar situation two years ago. We were in a club and a drunk dude came up to a girl I was with and started asking questions, I hugged her and told him she is my wife and we are expecting children soon, winking at her. It was pretty funny because he showed me his respect, gave me the 👌 sign saying shes fine and left off. I don't understand, for how long did that dude talk with your girl, you can't talk to a girl for 5mind and go for the kiss like that. Did she know h…
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:39 PM
1

It's great that you managed to show your values and thoughts without fear of rejection, it must be done, it's who you are. Though, religion and politics are one of the things I would avoid by all costs until you are in a relationship with the girl, arguments are very common with these topics. Perhaps you revealed too much too quick. Mystery and curiosity are big things when it comes to attraction.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:40 PM
22

that's how all women feel when men get emotional, we as man are not allowed to show emotion
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:28 PM
4

I refuse to believe that you opened 500 sets and learned nothing
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:56 PM
1

that's why you need to do it as soon as you see the girl, the longer you wait, the more you overthink
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:50 PM
1

everyone gets rejected, what makes you so special
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:11 AM
0

that's only one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:34 AM
1

you don't have to grind, just bump into her with your ass, turn around and say :"sorry, do I know you?"
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:32 AM
1

what is
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:58 PM
1

if I'm not in a relationship with either of them it isn't
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:57 PM
2

Look, bartenders are usually very social people, you seem to not be (yet). If they're hot, they get hit on a lot, they know how to deal with it. Go out and talk to strangers, girls, whatever. Learn to socialize with regular people, try to flirt with regular girls first. Save the bartender for last. Besides, if you mess it up you gotta change the bar if you want to avoid awkwardness.
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:56 PM
1

why
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:51 PM
0

yes
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:05 PM
4

yeah I've been with this 7 year old, it's okay tho, shes more mature than most 20 year old girls
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:46 PM
3

that's a terrible mindset, how do you know your genetics and metabolism are bad? By that logic fat people should all die from obesity, they have a bad genetics and a bad metabolism so they should give up. I'm skinny myself, always have been. I started overeating, eating as much as I could. I gained 30lbs in a year, I'm 180lbs (6'4") now, still skinny but looking much better. It's simple, you can gain weight, you just have a small apetite.
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:40 PM
1

I'm saying that you should fuck her if she wants you to fuck her.
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:37 PM
2

no, I'm just laughing at the pedo
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:36 PM
0

No way, I know only one guy out of a few dozen who has a FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:33 PM
5

I think that going for a week or two is most beneficial for me. I've done 46 days once, too much mental draining and no pussy because i didn't approach back then. Well, I'm glad I got to see your perspective on things. Maybe read a few of my posts, I approach weekly (hoping to get better) Good luck.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:12 PM
2

I'll just say this. I'm seeing three women right now, two of which I've met only because I approached them, they gave me no IOI's beforehand. I got in there and said "Hi". I was never good with women
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:07 PM
4

eat more, count calories
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:05 PM
14

But ugly people get laid, you can't say that every ugly guy is alone. You are generalising stuff. It's not a cycle, some people go monk mode, they stop porn and don't have sex. Besides, not masturbating makes you horny and forces you to approach. Win win.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:03 PM
1

Look, I understand. it's easy to say you failed before you even try, I've been there. Heck, I'm still there, I just grab myself by the nuts and force myself in there and stuff happens, not often but it does.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:00 PM
3

porn addiction and aa often go together, did you see a professional?
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:57 PM
21

ohh wait, it's you again, the extremely negative and depressed dude. Change your mindset and start talking to women. Also, stop with the porn.
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:55 PM
1

you are either blind or don't try, they wont come on their own
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:54 PM
6

have you heard about food?
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:51 PM
17

imagine if you weren't all that, feeling better?
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:51 PM
3

stop watching porn and get laid, it's possible
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:49 PM
1

point is, being black isn't that big of a disadvantage
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:30 PM
1

no, they are the only black people in the club
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:29 PM
0

lmao
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:17 PM
4

No, if she really wanted his friend, she would have went for him. She's a hoe and hoes get fucked around. Don't try to save her.
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:16 PM
1

If she wanted both of you, none of your should have her or both of you should have her. Ignore her messages completely, she'll go crazy.
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:15 PM
9

you need to up the physicality for sure
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:54 PM
2

indicators of interest/ disinterest
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:54 PM
1

I know a few black guys and they all slaying. There are these two guys that r pulling everytime I see them, also getting multible IGs on the same night. They do better than any white guy in the club 100%. Never saw someone pull this much in my life.
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:52 PM
8

Ok, women hate black guys. If you're black you stand no chance, you will die alone. Stop being negative, you are making things up just because you don't believe
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:56 PM
4

women love black guys
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:46 PM
3

The vast majority of people in their 20s have sex at least twice a week actually no, the vast majority of people in their 20s are virgins or incels, and it is only getting worse for us. Young men are having more difficulties nowdays than ever. I'm in college and I have NEVER,ever seen an average/ugly guy with a girlfriend Yes you have, they are all over the place. I've seen plenty. Sometimes I wonder how that ugly, skinny/fat dude got that girl I always wanted. Just put yourself out there Did yo…
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:43 PM
2

It'd be pretty weird if he started doing stuff on the 7th date when he didn't do jack on the first 6 dates. He needs to take it slow now, since he already chose that route.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:38 PM
4

Nothing wrong with paying. I just wouldn't take a girl out for dinner if we never kissed.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:36 PM
15

she reached for my hand and we walked together back to our cars. That’s as far as we’ve been physically. I'm getting a feel she's the one initiating physicality, you come off as afraid. You need to make a move, pull her in, kiss her, hold her, touch her hair, whatever. She wouldn't go on 6 dates with you if she didn't like you. It's not that hard to get. Something is not right when physical touch is considered weird and not normal. It should be something you do naturally, every time you see her.
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:35 PM
1

The good thing is that you know how to have fun on your own, that's a huge plus. Women love that too. Do your thing, dance, when she makes eye contact a few times you can smile or wink. If she is close to you, move towards her slowly when dancing, try to bump into her, make eye contact and say : "sorry" and proceed with something like "You look familiar" or "Hi, what's your name?" Calibrate properly, chat a little, tease and have fun. Pay close attention to her IOIs / IODs and you will do good.
/r/seduction16/02/22 01:40 PM
3

Many of these points are straight up wrong, you are making things up
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:16 AM
1

id try to call her over phone and set a date one more time, if she flakes you leave her
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:54 PM
1

lucky guy, how many people were there?
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:13 PM
5

swingers clubs are populated by women that are 9/10 times ugly. The one good looking chick gets surrounded by all the men. If you look somewhat decent you wont be very satisfied by the club, much more ugly people than you would think.
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:09 PM
58

maybe it is your fault, you could be doing things wrong my post history are just the progress i have made and my opinions. Rapid progress, consider it was only 5-6 days ago you posted that stuff
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:55 PM
2

man went from women lover to women hater in three sentences
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:14 PM
251

TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought before Your post history says otherwise
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:12 PM
1

lool
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:44 AM
0

bored
/r/seduction13/02/22 09:10 AM
4

Back then it was much easier to talk to girls. Nowdays, most guys don't stand a chance against these women. A small portion of guys get most of the women, ugly and hot. Ofcourse, you'd rather have sex with a hot girl than the fat, ugly one. My standards were always unreasonably high, everyone tells me that but I stick to it.
/r/seduction13/02/22 12:14 AM
2

haha perhaps, shame I'm not that quick with wits
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:38 PM
14

It works, it's like chicks can tell you've been fucking and they want you even more.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:35 PM
2

Well, she suggested me and my friend come over to their apartment for an after party, I'm 90% sure sex would have happened. I am not that interested in her, I also know she will be down for sex any time I call her now. As I said before, I don't do this with the primary goal of sex. I just want to have fun, meet cool people, if anything happens, whatever. Call me crazy... I am 20, from Eastern Europe (very conservative people), girls here are nothing like US women, much harder to find a partner. …
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:30 PM
5

haha it's hilarous to think I'd have to make this type of stuff up since nothing special even happened. I would have made up a threesome story, not a makeout with a 6/10. Besides, I have proof of everything that happened.
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:58 PM
22

I had this weird habit of rejecting myself before the girl could reject me, some sort of self defense mechanism. Started increasing my kino escalation gradually. Learned how to calibrate properly after getting bad reactions from girls. For example, I used to use the :"what's your sign?" a lot, then pretend to know stuff about signs and try to cold read her. I found out this shit was wack af and it ended up hurting me more than anything. I kicked it out. Not investing into the girl when meeting h…
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:45 PM
6

?
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:32 PM
4

She tells me shes good at maths, I respond with :" omg, i need you bad! I have a test on Wednesday" and she said :"Well, I don't need you, but ok..." I keep laughing, don't get butthurt, stay in longer and dance with her. Doing that classic gamey "spin the girl" move, she spins me back lol
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:32 PM
5

Beware, many girls have their IG on tinder only to get more followers. My thinking, if she liked you, she would have matched with you. Waste of time.
/r/seduction12/02/22 12:24 PM
3

oddly specific
/r/seduction12/02/22 12:19 PM
17

Same situation, I don't want exclusivity with neither but want to have fun with both.
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:38 PM
8

yeah, much easier to just open irl. You have much more of a chance if you actually talk to the girl opposed to dming her.
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:47 AM
0

yes, you can't exaclty explain the whole seduction process in one reddit comment lol
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:40 AM
1

I've never heard/met a guy who has a success rate over 4/10 closes (thats max!). Usually night game, I get into the vibe, I dance, have fun. I go up to them and say "hi", basic get to know you, tease, basic stuff, tease. Increasing my physicality slowly, upon greeting you shake hands, when talking to her you touch her shoulder or elbow (keeping attention if shes touching me back), I go for a high five, I like to do that cheesy old pickup "spin the girl" sometimes. Get in close, pull back, show h…
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:09 AM
1

same, I don't think it's bad. It's kind of a display of value, you don't put attention to it but you mention it with a story about something
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:00 AM
0

It's all about being comfortable with yourself. Understand that you have value to offer. Self amusement is a big thing for me, I've been approached by women telling me I look like I'm having a lot of fun, my vibe attracts people (only when I'm in the zone), this is my goal every time I go out. When I talk to women I tease them, I don't take them seriously. Something stupid as : I go for a high five, they raise their hand, I pull my hand away and scratch my head. Guys never do this to hot women, …
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:58 AM
1

Oof, don't say this so surely. Marriages fail over 50% of the time, 80% of all divorces are engaged by women. Your chances are slim to be happy with a woman, don't have high expectations
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:50 AM
1

yeah good luck with that, trans people everywhere
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:48 AM
5

yeah, women should not be the goal we strive for. Work on yourselves, love yourself and you will be loved
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:40 AM
19

that doesn't work with girls u don't know, unless you have 10k followers and good pics
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:37 AM
0

90% of the advice here is shit, just like in the whole industry. People try to help but have no knowledge, making things even worse. I personally have a few success stories (my posts), unfortunately I didn't use reddit for a long time and didn't post many of my stories. I think that I've asked for reddit advice only once, and I took advice only from a dude that actually gets laid. Good luck
/r/seduction08/02/22 04:12 PM
1

no, this stops the conversation, you need to keep it going
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:55 AM
0

"Are you talking marrying me 😏? bit too fast"
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:54 AM
1

I'm saying working out is not a skill. Anyone can work out, does that doesn't make it a skill. A skill is something you need to learn.
/r/seduction07/02/22 11:33 PM
1

how is working out a skill?
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:26 PM
5

look at her, touch her, use words and body language to convey interest and most importantly, don't be afraid of your sexuality
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:01 PM
4

Big mistake. I always tell people : close before the third date, you have 2 dates to kiss her and that's more than enough time. You were boring and came out looking like you lack cofidence.
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:00 PM
1

I present to you, r/furrykinks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:44 AM
3

Haha, stupid study. Dating apps are filled with men that are way below average in terms of looks, money, social skills, etc... These men will reach out to almost any woman on the app. It just happens to be that most women don't need dating apps to find guys, fat, ugly chicks can find guys any day of the week almost anywhere they go. Women don't need dating apps, and the hot ones on the app are mostly girls looking for sugar daddies, contracts, followers, attention, but not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:41 AM
9

Why aren't hot women getting with ugly, fat guys then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:37 AM
10

Men have more testosterone, they strive for more sex than any woman. If they raise their standards too high they will never get laid. We're visual creatues, I see an ass, I get horny, I don't need the whole package to be satisfied, unlike women, who look for men that are above average in as many fields as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:36 AM
16

You should text her next day, keep it casual, don't go tryhard, suggest drinks after slight chatting and there's no way you could fail.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:16 PM
3

And if you go out with her too many times and don't make the move she will lose interest because women hate pussies. Don't waste dates.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:08 PM
2

You remind me of a friend and i'll give you the same advice as him. Women expect the man to make the first move and you can't make this move out of nowhere. You need to slowly escalate every time you hang out with her, make sure she knows you like her. It takes guts but guts show confidence and that's attractive as hell. High five, hug her, look/ touch her bracelet, hair, clothes. Find ways to be close to her, make sexual innuendos. Tell her you like her style, humor, etc... Basically, do someth…
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:06 PM
3

Yeah by showing I respect their boundaries and understand them
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:42 AM
5

people will always find excuses, the average height in my country is 6', most guys are around my height here, fair playing field
/r/seduction06/02/22 09:27 AM
2

I've been going out for years and never had success with women. I started hitting the gym, working on myself, bought nice clothes and actually started approaching women.
/r/seduction05/02/22 11:48 PM
2

I am 6'4, average looking.
/r/seduction05/02/22 11:35 PM
1

Don't go for social media, go for the number only
/r/seduction05/02/22 05:22 PM
1

haha just saw your post history
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:20 PM
7

approaching within 3 seconds of seeing the girl
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:29 PM
2

Lose weight, you are unhealthy and don't look as attractive as you could look.
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:05 PM
1

Outdated as shit, humans changed a lot in the past 20 years
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:34 PM
0

no
/r/seduction02/02/22 03:25 PM
1

you vibe and talk to her
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:48 PM
10

none
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:47 PM
3

Kings do your work ☠️
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:46 PM
1

Girls have eyes, they will look around, just like you do. Do you find every woman attractive that you look at.
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:43 PM
5

It's his personality, that was him, not you, nor me. "Why don't more people act like Leonardo Dicaprio or Al Capone???" Stupid question. And if starting a company was so easy, everyone would do it. What's the company going to be about? Sickcunts and bitches? Yeah, that will work. Go for it
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:40 PM
6

A goddess I’ve met,, literally out of my league.. You are desperate, you are calling a plain old woman a god. Don't you see what's wrong? Stop treating them like queens if you don't want them to treat you like a peasant
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:36 PM
3

and thats why you shouldnt text too much, save your mojo for the real deal
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:40 PM
1

Why, some girls like playing hard to get. It's their way of showing affection. I personally like it more when I have to work for it than when shes jumping all over me.
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:35 AM
2

I disagree, one thing that I've learned is to always conpliment your wingmen and friends! You are cool and you hang out with cool people, amazing people that everyone would want to meet. No woman wants to meet an awkward loser that is afraid of women.
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:30 AM
1

Best thing to do is find a commonality, respond to a story. Asking an open ended question, something that will keep the convo going, talking to her in person, creating a vibe, showing her ur fun, interesting, etc... Then you go for the date. You will get rejected if you ask for a date with zero real life rapport.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:54 PM
6

It's relative. Compared to Eastern Eu, US girl are much more liberal, much more open, much more willing for ONS. We also have to take in mind that tourist places like Vegas will attract tourist girls who are looking for fun. Shit like this almost never happens here. I've seen plentiful videos of women willing to twerk, make out, show tits on the streets for fun, I ain't never seen a woman twerk on the streets here. Sad truth, different culture.
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:51 PM
6

USA girls are too easy
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:22 PM
1

dan pays women to hang out with him, definition of a beta ( i hate this term but it's true)
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:02 PM
2

when you actually mean it, don't compliment a lot, it makes it so much more powerful
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:19 PM
1

I learned that I need to stop drinking and have fun with myself, two most important things at parties. People will naturally gravitate towards you
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:24 PM
0

Thanks, I agree, I'm trying to change myself
/r/seduction29/01/22 04:10 PM
1

Maybe your come off creepy, you look scared, you look anxious, maybe you lack eye contact. These are all subtle things that can make an interaction weird.
/r/seduction29/01/22 03:57 PM
1

Have you thought about how do carry yourself and how do you look while approaching? Maybe your approach is off.
/r/seduction29/01/22 03:55 PM
1

nobody can have an answer to that sort of stuff. If anything, you are the one with the answer as you know her the best.
/r/seduction29/01/22 11:27 AM
1

Who knows, not all women behave the same way, it's impossible to tell.
/r/seduction29/01/22 10:54 AM
1

Dude why do you always comment this, it sounds like you are being sarcastic. Half of the time saying this wont even work if you don't really mean it, you can't come up to every woman and tell her she has an artistic vibe.
/r/seduction29/01/22 10:28 AM
1

mostly no
/r/seduction29/01/22 10:26 AM
6

no i usually point a knife to her throat as I say it with a smirk, it worked every time
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:19 PM
5

shes not intersted
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:38 AM
5

I'll tell a story about a girl I've met on a party last summer. A girl that beforehand rejected my friend request on facebook, and a girl that refused to let me follow her on IG as she saw me as a creepy dude. She did not find me attractive. It was one of those rare nights where I was in the "zone". We started chatting, I was very chill and lighthearted, no interest. Eventually she started following me around and we found ourselves laying next to eachother. She started to slowly like me, she did…
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:42 AM
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I don't agree, women think and feel a lot before they fall in love. I know ugly dudes who at firsf glance had no chance with the woman, it was charisma, social status, emotion, vibes that attracted that woman to the dude and that didn't happen instantly upon meeting
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:33 AM
5

me being above average 😎
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:51 PM
17

eye contact, touch, voice, smile, whole body, everything that's not words
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:04 AM
6

Harsh, we all went through this. It's a good learning experience.
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:00 AM
1

Don't give her attention, shes thirsty, she tricked you. Respond with one word answers, stop asking her how shes doing cause you don't care. Show her that you ain't gonna waste time with being friends.
/r/seduction24/01/22 06:37 PM
1

That's great to hear, completely valid. I'm just more of a man of action that words, I show love through the things I do. I guess it all stems from me feeling insecure and being afraid because I've opened up to females many times in my past and got absolutely destroyed and left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:42 PM
1

I can’t imagine purposefully making my partner feel insecure about the relationship Not necessarily insecure... I like to compare words and actions to diamonds. Diamonds are only so valuable because they are so rare, if we all had diamonds growing in our backyards they would not ve valued. I believe that the same goes for love, telling a woman you love her once a day is better than telling her you love her ten times a day. Don't go all out, save your love and it becomes so much more valuable whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:48 AM
13

There are two types of people, those who cum within a minute or those who don't cum at all. Both is normal and makes sense if you think about it.
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:36 AM
0

you will regret it after a few days if you rejected her, take this chance to learn new stuff
/r/seduction23/01/22 12:09 PM
2

Thanks. Almost every girl I talked to wants the man to take action first
/r/seduction23/01/22 11:25 AM
2

I don't use my eyes enough when talking. In a loud environment, nonverbals like eye contact become an even more powerful tool.
/r/seduction23/01/22 11:22 AM
5

No, I didn't mean to be there with her. I'll go out with my buds and just come say hi to her. We're talking over IG, I suggested a coffee, we'll see.
/r/seduction23/01/22 11:18 AM
-2

It's been proven most women like to take their traditionally submissive role and most women want the man to be dominant
/r/seduction22/01/22 11:20 PM
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It's your ego, it wants another person to validate you, for your to feel more worthy. You're a normal human.
/r/seduction22/01/22 10:53 PM
2

I appreciate you shared your views, very interesting and I would agree with you to a certain degree.
/r/seduction22/01/22 10:47 PM
-7

ofcourse, the man/woman dominance ratio should be around 90/10, it seems like its reversed here
/r/seduction22/01/22 10:45 PM
5

Thanks for all the advice. I usually say the first thing that comes to mind, I will try your opener next time. I definitely could do more approaches but the club is pretty small and I'm afraid I'll make a name for myself very quickly since the same people come to the club every week. I find it decently hard to do even one approach, even though it's getting a lot easier now that I've done it a few times, also got a big confidence boost.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:49 PM
2

Hmm, very few men have the balls to do so. If you would take 10 dudes and ask if they're willing to approach a girl they find pretty, I'd say only 1/10 would have the balls to do so. Out of my 7 friends, I'm the only one that approaches, one of my friends approached two women ever. I'm talking from real life experience. I don't see that many men go up to women in the club, it's usually the drunk uncalibrated dudes that get rejected immediately.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:45 PM
3

I wouldn't agree, most men think this because of which rarely anybody approaches them. The vast majority of women do not get approached when they leave the house (the club being an exception, where they get approached but not a lot).
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:26 PM
4

?
/r/seduction22/01/22 08:05 PM
11

The whole asking her to be my gf thing makes me think you are pretty young. I have never asked a woman openly if she wants to be my gf, it's more of a vague thing that we both agree upon after we spend enough time together. If this all happened on the first date, it's good, you're not going to fast. I usually have a rule to kiss the girl on the first two dates.
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:13 PM
1

Girls are only human to, they fear rejection and they take big dumps every day. Internalize we are not perfect, but we are all sexual. You will get rejected but you shouldn't approach to get laid, but to be a better man. Take a read at a few of my posts. I started this journey with the goal of become a more social guy as I was often anxious in social situations.
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:10 PM
15

Coffees are my go to date idea. They're cheap, don't require a lot of investment and can be fun. I don't recommend going to dinner with a girl you've only met, that's a lot to swallow (pun intended). A coffee date can be short/long and sweet, filled with emotion, fun, thrill, stories, get to know you talk, etc...
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:06 PM
17

Great, it seems like shes being the male in the interactions. She dropped you off, she initiated the kiss...
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:03 PM
2

Hey man, you gotta go for it. It's hard but definitely worth while, you need to push your limits if you want go grow. Understand that the vast majorty of females put makeup on for 2 hours and go out to clubs/bars because they want to get men interested in them. They want attention, most of them have never even been approached before and they can be super receptive and nice if you act like a normal being in front of them and display good characteristics.
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:02 PM
1

Holy, that's funny. I was about to mention that heaven joke, my line goes along the lines :"because ur face is fucked up".
/r/seduction22/01/22 03:58 PM
13

what do you mean
/r/seduction22/01/22 11:34 AM
1

I'd rather make her kiss my cheek if I'm not comfortable kissing her in the mouth yet. I point with my finger to my cheek and smile. Worked every time, although you have to make physical contact beforehand, showing your intent.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:20 AM
1

yuckkk, stay away from these women
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:28 AM
2

Yes, shame your lifelong friends just to get a woman. How would you feel if your bud called you awkward and shy?
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:20 AM
1

not really, most men think they have to use pickup lines to seem original. That's ironic because it only makes them look unoriginal. Women will appreciate you when you state interest directly "Hey, I thought we should meet, what's your name?"
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:19 AM
1

Exactly what these guys say. Check my profile, I use basic lines to approach and do a report.
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:16 AM
2

Same thing happened to me, we had sex once, she loved it but she had some sort of internal issues, whatever. Been with two new women since that, she keeps asking for attention now that I moved on but I ain't about that shit.
/r/seduction20/01/22 09:01 AM
6

5'8" is normal height, I have a friend thats your height, hes better looking than me (6'3") and these girls keep approaching him.
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:00 AM
15

Serbian, Croatian and Bosnian girls hit different fr😌
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:24 PM
0

It's stupid to think you got rejected because of your looks. Maybe it was your approach, your vibe, your dress, your smell, your talk, your confidence (which you obviously lack)? It seems to me you approached only 3 women, got rejected 3 times and are now crying about being ugly. I made myself approach every time I went out and hooked up with the fourth girl I approached. Every time I go out I try to fix things I did wrong the last time. (I'm 6'3", been rated average)
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:54 PM
1

I don't agree, women love when you keep it vague, never ask her :"do you wanna...?". Almost no woman will want to leave the club (and her friends) to go fuck a guy she just met, she will feel like a slut. Instead, tell her you have an after party, drinks, a cool view from your apartment, a cute dog. Make it seem like you don't want sex to happen, she might know what's about to happen but atleast her mind will logically accept :" oh, I'm just going for drinks, whatever happens there happens, i ju…
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:20 PM
1

Eh, what documentation. Get some gone barnum statements and try it out.
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:06 PM
1

Yeah, I'm around 6'3", now at 180lbs, looking to get bigger. I gained around 30lbs in a year and what helped me was: -wake up earlier, the earlier you wake up, the more time you have to eat -drink a lot of liquid calories as they are easier to intake -high calorie stuff like peanuts helped me -shakes (2scoops of whey, corn flakes/oats, add nutella or chocolate, bananas, milk) -force feed yourself when you are full, take a few more bites when you are full -consistent training
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:18 PM
5

That's the wrong mentality in my opinion. You don't hit the gym to get looks from women, the gym is therapy. The point is you start loving yourself more after you invest time into yourself => you become more confident and this helps your dating life. You are not working out properly, anyone who works out for 20 years must look much better than 99% of all men. Do you lift heavy weights or do light cardio? Go heavy and get tired.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:00 PM
2

well then you are afraid
/r/seduction18/01/22 03:40 PM
1

Damn, we can all take advice. I don't care who you are, you are not perfect ever and stop acting like it. You here are telling me to stop commenting on reddit posts, chill out dude. I respect your opinion, you respect mine and call it a day.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:42 AM
2

I understand what you are saying, I tried doing a lot of things a "dating coach" said, I kick out all the stuff that doesn't work for me and this is one of the few things that actually gets good responses. It's congruent with my personality and I will keep doing it. Thanks though.
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:33 AM
0

Hey, I got this advice from JMULV, he has over 1000 lays at this point.
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:15 AM
5

It does sound cheesy but that's the point, make it sound cheesy, embrace it and it will work
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:58 PM
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Misinterpet things she says into sounding sexual, "that's what she said" jokes, make comments about her ass being nice (if you reached enough comfort).
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:25 PM
1

This guy explained pretty well, go slow and take your time. Make her wait before you kiss her vagina, she will love that.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:23 PM
2

Good dough as in money? Yeah, that's because they ask for thousands of dollars for essentially nothing. Everything that needs to be said about "game" was already told a long time ago and it can all fit onto two pieces of paper. These PUA guys keep making stuff up ever since Mystery started the "techincal" game era.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:21 PM
21

Women are natually more attracted to masculine, dominant guys. We are all men and can be masculine. Todays society made us into wimps that are afraid to show a woman how they feel. I am only embracing the masculine in us men, no lies or gimmicks, only pure sexual energy.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:17 PM
0

For the past few weeks I've approached around 6-7 women and closed only 1. I have a pretty strong gut feeling that I could have closed atleast 3 if I actually tried harder.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:15 PM
39

I understand your position. I am more of a "nice guy" myself. You need to get in touch with your masculine self, we all have it. Hit the gym, get that free testosterone. Work on your vocal projecion, lower your voice. Work on keeping good eye contact. Take pauses when you speak and don't talk fast. These things alone will make the conversation man to woman. Make sexual innuendos, don't be afraid to say what you mean.
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:11 PM
1

Yeah, these women never needed to develop their personality as they were accepted and loved just for their looks already. Not saying that there aren't any 10/10 that are very smart, passionate and interesting, they are rare. It's usually girls who were shy, didn't go out much, didn't get that much attention, went through a glow up later in life or had strict parents. These are the keepers.
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:48 AM
2

what am i supposed to do with this
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:44 AM
1

Easter Eu, where exactly?
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:39 AM
2

I don't see why a woman would invite a man over unless it's for sex. Unless you acted like her gay best friend, talked to her too much, texted her a lot, etc... Only then she expects a friendly meeting
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:37 AM
1

Get closer slowly, meet her, touch her shoulder to shoulder, hold her shoulder when talking to her, ask about her hair, tattoo or jewelry (excuse to touch her hair, tattoo, jewelry). She will most likely touch you back if she likes you, she will give you signs that she likes what you are doing. That's when you can move on and increase physicality. This whole process is gradual, don't start rubbing her at the start, baby steps.
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:26 AM
5

This requires deep self work. You need to be completely confident in who you are, what you respect and what you deem cool or uncool. One quick tip: I like to have a few catch phrases I use every now and then. These are words that people very rarely use. So when I use them, they come in authentic, the next time they hear these words they will think of me. About the validation part. The first thing that I mentioned. After you completely know yourself anything you say will be powerful, she will kno…
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:22 AM
1

thanks
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:43 PM
2

the ones that want you to approach, look around, women will get closer to men they like
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:30 PM
1

Men hold 10 times more testosterone in their body, women will never be able to experience the horniness men live.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:29 PM
2

No, we went off topic after she asked. Nevertheless, it was a mistake.
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:08 PM
2

For sure, looking to get better at everything from above
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:19 PM
5

think, would she have zero attention span if brad pitt was talking to her? Most likely not, shes not attracted to you.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:57 PM
2

record yourself dancing, and doing pranks on your parents to get the bitches😎😎
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:56 PM
2

Thanks, always looking to improve. I got a little butthurt, as she was a 8+/10 in my eyes, she was interested at start and I think I messed up somewhere. I got over it quickly though.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:49 PM
1

Cool post that's straight to the point, I need to learn to write better. Mind checking my last and giving some tips.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:45 PM
0

sorry, I went on a rant hah. I wanted to say that most people in my country (eastern europe) lose their virgnity around 17 so I was kind of late.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:16 PM
1

I guess that depends on where you live in the world, culture, religion, etc... I had sex the first time when I was 20 and I was kind of a social outcast or atleast I felt like it but I always had friends to hang out with. I was bullied when younger which did make me insecure about myself for sure. Though, I had many chances of losing my virginity, I didn't want to lose it to random females I feel nothing towards. That's a shame, I wish I lost my virginity earlier, it's not worth saving yourself …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:15 PM
-1

go play with ur ps4 kid
/r/seduction14/01/22 12:03 PM
3

I'm not attacking you, I'm saying we're all sick. I don't understand how can someone get hurt when some "nobody" on instagram unfollows you. That means you are always open to get hurt, you can get hurt thousands of times a day by these "nobodies". You have low self worth. You need to understand you are enough! Don't let randoms hurt you.
/r/seduction14/01/22 10:56 AM
-1

what the actual fuck is this, you feel worthless because some dude unfollowed you on this internet thingy? Our generation is sick, we are all sick.
/r/seduction14/01/22 10:43 AM
1

I just think that social media is a huge leverage for women. They can pick from any dude they want from a huge pool of their followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 10:00 AM
1

You need to do this type of stuff the first/second time you meet her or expect to waste a lot of time with women
/r/seduction13/01/22 09:58 AM
4

unfortunately most time it does
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:24 AM
1

just be cool with it, respect their rule and it will happen
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:34 PM
1

tight? 😐 Originally her boyfriend (who I’m super tight with)
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:38 PM
1

Yeah, don't compliment a woman on her looks. She will see you only think shes hot, you want her for her body. Rather compliment a woman on something that's not based on her looks. This way you are showing her you have actual standards and respect her for the person who she is and not just her looks
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:16 AM
2

This seems to surprise you, meaning you don't know on what terms you are set after the first date. Meaning you probably were not sexual or didn't show intent so she friendzoned you. Make sure to talk about "us" on the first date, ask her how she feels about you and what she likes/doesn't like.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:45 PM
1

don't tell a woman you love her
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:37 PM
1

Alright. This comes from lots of trial and error. I think you started off wrong. You shouldn't talk to a girl this much over text before you meet her. Talking too much makes you her friend and not a lover. No matter how much she likes you, she spent so much time talking about platonic, non sexual stuff over text so she doesn't see you as a sexual partner but only a friend. You need to be staight to the point, don't be afaid to be a man and tell her you think shes hot. Women respect that in a man…
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:36 PM
2

We then carried on talking quite a lot over IG and then spoke over the phone for about 3/4 hours. So firstly, you started off wrong. You don't want to text and phone talk this much with a girl you like. Reason is because you could have had all of this happen in real life, where you can use eye contact, body language, voice tonalty, touch, etc... What seems to me is she used u as an orbiter. She came to you when she felt bad and when she needed validation. You helped her solve her ex bf problems,…
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:23 PM
5

Hey, read a few of my last posts. So far I went out four times, opened atleast four girls, went on two dates with the last girl I met and kiss closed. Pretty happy with the results.
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:55 PM
6

I made a rule with my friends that every time we go out each one of us has to approach atleast one set
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:49 PM
1

Maybe you were too nice to her? Treating her like a queen is what most guys would do but it's wrong
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:59 PM
2

Did you hear about female leaders in history that were much worse than almost any male leader?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 05:31 PM
3

It was also proved that women did not want to participate in voting when asked (before they had the rights to). Imagine having to cook and clean. Men always went to wars, worked in coal mines, built skyscrapers, risking their lives every day so women could stay home and clean the house. What kind of argument is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 10:20 AM
6

she explained better than I could^
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:01 PM
3

Dating is hard for the average guy, say whetever you want. It's a proven fact, many studies have been made, especially based on online dating. Women have a pool of men to select and men have a pool of women to chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:55 PM
13

Nice, you are generalising every girl that wears leggings to the gym. Most girls that work out take pictures of themselves in the gym, it's a normal thing to do. We all feel accomplished and confident in ourselves after our workout. If a girl looks good she will get attention from men no matter where she is. How about, leggings are comfortable and show off the gains nicely. It's like saying people who wear tank tops at the gym look for attention. Maybe they just see them as more comfortable and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:48 PM
3

The title doesn't make sense. Dating isn't hard if you're lucky? Luck is by definition is a trait that a small portion of random people possess, therefore making the vast majority of people unlucky. Therefore, dating is hard for the vast majority of those same people, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:26 PM
3

You're much more likely to get laid from night game. It doesn't have to be a same night lay even, invite the girl for a drink some other day and close.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:13 PM
2

exactly, laugh it off and try again later. You could put her on the spot and ask "whats the problem?"
/r/seduction06/01/22 12:06 PM
1

read a few of my posts, I started posting my approaching process not too long ago
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:38 PM
1

Take a look at my post, "Hey, I want to meet you" is my opener pretty much any time I post
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:28 PM
2

I always thought I would get nervous but as you jump in you forget about the anxiety and focus on the interaction.
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:27 PM
4

yeah, I've said it before, negs are only one of the things that brainwashed me after 3 years of constant reading of pua material.
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:13 PM
1

yup, lesson learned
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:44 PM
5

"we are entering the comfort phase of the interaction, I'll throw my comfort lines at her now🤓"
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:19 PM
-1

normal as in act like a normal human and don't be creepy
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:18 PM
11

What is this? Just talk to the girl and be normal, tease a little and have some basic sense. You don't need to follow these things. I believe you should be escalating almost constantly when with the girl, from the moment you meet her.
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:14 PM
11

broad shoulders, smart hair and a mustache? All three of those rely on genetic factors
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:28 AM
1

That is some good make up!
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:26 PM
1

No, I don't understand. Taking testosterone will make you even more of a man than before, right? You are attacted to straight women? Aren't you just a heterosexual male?
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:25 PM
2

men are always horny, I don't care how old they are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:23 PM
3

where did you get this from? It's hilarious.
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:21 PM
1

sorrs, why are you taking hrt if you want to be a female?
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:15 PM
1

cool
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:14 PM
1

you look like a man
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:13 PM
-11

RIP. I just want to mention, he payed females and faked infield videos, he got exposed and I think that might have had a notable effect on him.
/r/seduction01/01/22 05:16 PM
1

Girls on the West, particularly in USA and most latino countries are much more liberal as you say which comes with goods and bads. They are also much more likely to sleep with men on the first night, slut shaming is not nearly as strong in America as it is here in South Easter Europe. They are almost completely free. Girls here are much more reserved, many require atleast a few dates before you get to kiss them even. I just think it's interesting how our different cultures created people with su…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:18 AM
2

Literally ignore women, have goals that are not based on women. Go to the gym, study, jog, do art or whatever hoby, and most importantly stay busy. Women will love you.
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:19 PM
-1

I'm saying that close to zero men approach women ever!
/r/seduction30/12/21 11:48 AM
2

night game will get you more success got sure.
/r/seduction30/12/21 11:42 AM
-2

By that logic 99% of men have anxiety. Not true, we are just pussies.
/r/seduction30/12/21 11:41 AM
1

what does your date look like
/r/seduction29/12/21 08:53 PM
6

I think theres a very fine line between loving her and pushing her away. If you show her you know how to contain your urges, push her away and tell her :"Hey now, that's enough for now" and smile she will see you are not like every other horny dude. Kissing her less is more, atleast from my experience. If you keep kissing her she will understand she has control over you, she can have you and that's not a challenge.
/r/seduction29/12/21 07:19 PM
3

great!
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:57 AM
4

Magic Bullets by Savoy and How to Lay Girls Guide (sounds cringy but has good concepts)
/r/seduction26/12/21 11:40 AM
2

eh, good looking guys are with good looking girls 9/10 times
/r/seduction26/12/21 09:44 AM
2

lose more weight, hit the gym and get a good haircut.
/r/seduction26/12/21 02:06 AM
49

It's pretty easy to get laid for a woman, go out and talk to guys, they will hit on you and done deal.
/r/seduction26/12/21 12:40 AM
2

could be, rough world we live in😓
/r/seduction25/12/21 10:47 PM
6

You are focusing on the wrong things. Work on yourself, set goals you want to accomplish and work towards them. Hit the gym, pick up a sport (martial arts), get a hobby and meet new people. The only way to get better at something is to do it a lot .Maybe read some of my posts, I wouldn't consider myself a pro by no means but perhaps you could find something. I will look to post regularly from now.
/r/seduction25/12/21 08:08 PM
5

A principle that says you have to approach in less than 3 seconds after you notice the woman. You have no planned opener, you go in instantly and say whatever comes to mind first. No time for anxiety or fear.
/r/seduction25/12/21 07:47 PM
3

I agree, I know I need to stay in longer than I want to. Will work on that for sure. Little update, I chatted with this girl throughout the day and she agreed to meet up for coffee. Thanks for all the advice!
/r/seduction25/12/21 06:36 PM
2

no, women like men who take care of themselves, don't act like looks don't matter
/r/seduction25/12/21 06:26 PM
1

It highly depends on your facial structure. A masculine face, good jawline, proportional nose, good brow ridge is a face that might look the best when bald. People with bigger noses, less imperfect rations might not be able to pull off a bald cut. Your confidence, body language plays a role in how people view you as well.
/r/seduction25/12/21 06:26 PM
3

I'm just trying to socialize, feels good to put yourself on the spot. I do have this problem where I reject myself before she rejects me. I say something stupid on purpose, and make it look like it wont work out between us just because I don't want to be rejected later, basically I reject her, even though I opened. It happened the last three times I tried to take it further. I think this all came from me reading a lot of books on pickup, push pull, negs and other stuff that brainwashed me into d…
/r/seduction25/12/21 06:11 PM
3

You are right, that set would have been very good for me even though it's super hard. You are right about that second part too. I noted this, hopefully I go out next week too.
/r/seduction25/12/21 03:45 PM
1

I just read on his profile that he is 15, makes sense
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:37 AM
2

You sound very young. Who likes all the IG pics of a girl? Creepy, but sounds like something I'd do when I was 12.
/r/seduction23/12/21 09:46 PM
83

You should not put the girl on the spot in front of other people, especially not her friends. She will not think rationally, she might reject you just because her friends are there. Move on, your ego is just hurt, it's not love.
/r/seduction23/12/21 10:31 AM
4

Read Magic Bullets by Savoy
/r/seduction23/12/21 10:27 AM
2

there is no infield of neil I believe, not a bad book to start with.
/r/seduction23/12/21 10:26 AM
13

find your good attributes and enhance them, stick to them, they are your assets to socializing. Learn new skills and better yourself, you don't have to be someone else.
/r/seduction22/12/21 01:09 PM
0

he said he was joking
/r/seduction20/12/21 11:56 AM
22

steroids are testerone, he is injecting extra testosteron in his system. The more test you have the stronger your libido. It has its flaws tho.
/r/seduction19/12/21 10:38 PM
5

I know, thats why I followed up with the ,"whats your sign" line. It works if you are congruent with yourself and don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction19/12/21 10:18 AM
1

👍
/r/seduction19/12/21 01:56 AM
1

no, just kino escalation, keeping it sexual
/r/seduction19/12/21 12:14 AM
1

you can but not answering immediately keeps her interested
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:42 PM
1

yeah
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:31 PM
193

No this is wrong, you need to do a back double bicep pose and start screaming :"You mirin brah?!" , she will then give you her number and make passinate love to you
/r/seduction18/12/21 05:34 PM
1

closed club area
/r/seduction18/12/21 03:16 PM
2

You need to hook her with something (make her interested). A simple example is : "Are you from [place] ? No? You act like the girls from [place]." Here she will most likely take the bait and start asking questions. Don't answer immediately, keep her interested, keep it vague and minimal. She will go crazy.
/r/seduction18/12/21 02:58 PM
1

Say ur sorry, move on. You learned your lesson, although some women can take all sorts of jokes, some just can't.
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:33 AM
-1

rude
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:32 AM
1

Most importantly, if you don't like her, move on.
/r/seduction18/12/21 10:49 AM
2

She likes you if she is going on dates with you! You need to make the move or she will move on, nobody wants to waste time. That's why it's so important to be physical from the first moment you meet a girl. If you don't make a move for five dates and try something on the sixth it's going to be weird and unnatural as you haven't done it before. Babystepping, you meet her, touch her hand, high five, hug, kiss. Show her that touch is normal to you and she will never be creeped out.
/r/seduction18/12/21 10:48 AM
2

most definitely, the problem is that most of these newbies you mention can't tell the difference between good and bad advice and theres so much bad advice out there.
/r/seduction17/12/21 07:46 PM
1

slowest? I agree if you are only learning natural game at an older age. Naturals usually learn game and social skills at an early age, allows them to stand out and seduce at much faster rates. It is harder because there is no script for natural game, true.
/r/seduction17/12/21 07:29 PM
1

I'm trying to turn to natural game completely. I've rea pretty much any book you could think of and tried everything I've read, most of it is bad advice or cringy.
/r/seduction17/12/21 07:14 PM
1

message me, perhaps I can explain a little
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:41 AM
1

I'm not saying you shouldn't try. People overdo things more often than not. People with half a brain get laid faster than full brained people. The moment I stopped overthinking and started following my guts I started getting better results.
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:45 PM
1

Well, it is much easier than you think. My problem was overthinking. Nothing is perfect and go with the flow, be bold and horny. Thats all you need to get laid.
/r/seduction16/12/21 08:30 PM
1

you don't want a pickup line, because she will know you practiced that same line 17 times in front of the mirror at 3am. Just tell her you think she is attractive and want to get to know her.
/r/seduction16/12/21 08:29 PM
1

what do you mean by "bragging about sex stories"?
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:39 PM
1

yeah, children learn faster than adults. People who were exposed to constant high social pressures from early age are deemed charismatic nowdays. It is hard but it can be done. I considered myself a complete outsider for socializing for some time, I'm not perfect now but I changed significantly.
/r/seduction16/12/21 07:28 PM
0

I know but you learn by failing
/r/seduction16/12/21 05:31 PM
1

First of all, avoid drinking. Secondly, get used to being yourself, be expressive and bring out the best of your qualities. Third, don't give a fuck, thats the most attractive thing.
/r/seduction16/12/21 04:16 PM
1

its about social skills, this stuff can't ne explained by text
/r/seduction16/12/21 04:10 PM
-2

I thought Id give him a chance but I just read the full thing, this is hilarious😂. I think it's the same post I mention that he deleted, he changed a few things in the conversation tho.
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:22 PM
0

this guy remembered the whole conversation? Cmon, I saw this exact guy post stuff like this before, he memorised the whole cono, saying a woman called him hot immediately after he opened her, he deleted the posts after realising he lied too hard. Anyone who does daygame or approaches knows a woman doesn't talk like this. He is saying what you WANT to hear, not what you NEED to hear. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:17 PM
-13

stop lying
/r/seduction14/12/21 09:20 PM
23

You act as if your main goal is the snap/ig. You main goal should be to get her on a date!
/r/seduction14/12/21 05:24 PM
1

what in the hell
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:21 PM
6

Don't take advice from women in this area. It's okay.
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:19 PM
4

Don't respond immediately, that comes off very needy. It looks like you a) spend a shit ton of time on social media (aka you have nothing better to do), b) she is more important to you than you are to her. When girls take hours or days to respond I punish, I don't talk to them for 2-3 days. I act busy, I don't get butthurt.
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:14 PM
15

she sees you as low value, she would never leave Brad Pitt on seen.
/r/seduction13/12/21 08:56 PM
1

why
/r/seduction13/12/21 03:17 PM
1

If she is in your class, meet her first. I met a lot of people by just talking to them about class work and homework. Don't tell her you like her immediately, you will most likely get friendzoned. Get to know her a bit, don't be needy, don't show too much interest, don't try to prove yourself. Tease her, show confidence, talk about your passions with complete confidence and try to hook her with interest. Pay attention to how you carry yourself, hold good eye contact, have a good range of voice t…
/r/seduction13/12/21 10:32 AM
3

Just go for it, you can't wait for choosing signals because some girls will never see you. Go in, smile and say "I want to meet you".
/r/seduction12/12/21 11:03 PM
1

get this, this most likely wont work unless you look good.
/r/seduction12/12/21 10:00 PM
1

"what the fuck are you looking at?"
/r/seduction18/11/21 09:05 PM
1

For sure. I met a shit ton of people in my 2 years on college.
/r/seduction18/11/21 09:04 PM
1

why? You dont have to go to clubs to do night game, if thats what you are saying.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:53 PM
1

I met a girl in a club that wanted to fuck me that same night, I was taken so I decided to keep her on reserve for later. Anyways, I text her a month or two later with a plan of casually hooking up, everything is going well, I'm 95% sure she will agree to meet. She agrees to meet, and a few messages later she suddenly remembers she has a boyfriend. Women are weird, I did everything right, there was chemistry, callback humor, I was non needy, smooth but I still get rejected.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:52 PM
1

prepare to get rejected a lot during the daytime, girls dont go out to the library to meet men. If you want to get laid do night game, 75% easier to get laid.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:43 PM
1

Just because she is looking at you it doesnt have to mean shes falling in love with you. Maybe she finds you only friendly. But do so approach.
/r/seduction09/11/21 09:49 PM
2

I installed reddit yesterday after some time, I hate this app as it has no real value to give. Almost every dude here is a virgin incel, nobody to teach. Good luck to you as well
/r/seduction09/11/21 08:00 PM
2

No, I have more experience than you when it comes to approaching women. Women sometimes act cold and when they see ur a cool guy they open up. Staying in for a little longer is good for your confidence, it can be funny and can have a good outcome. You are not attacking her, you are just holding a normal conversation. Its called being a normal human, not creepy.
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:54 PM
1

exactly, I had girls get weirded out because it makes no sense. You say this stuff when you have no reason to be saying it, she did nothing that makes her look "naughty" in the first place. Sounds like a random line you read online, practiced in front of the mirror at 3am, now using it on her.
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:49 PM
1

I get what youre saying but its cringy. What would you say when she asks you what do you mean by that?
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:37 PM
1

no, its not over, i was sarcastic
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:53 PM
8

Its so paradoxical that all these seduction and dating skill reddits consist of 95% virgin incels who just dont get it. Makes me want to delete this app.
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:51 PM
2

its over
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:50 PM
1

Na, ive read just about every book/article i could find in the last 4-5 years. Routines, push pull, negs, false disqualification, dhvs never completely worked for me, I even remember digging my own grave with negs plenty of times. I started getting results when I started doing my own stuff.
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:49 PM
1

Mystery lost his V card at 21 years old.
/r/seduction09/11/21 02:53 PM
3

Isn't Todd married to a 4/10? He is super cringy too.
/r/seduction09/11/21 02:52 PM
4

yeah but mike aka pickupalpha is a liar and scammer, he tells people that he guarantees that you will 100% get laid if you enter his bootcamp. Thats a load of crap! Thats impossible unless he pays for escorts at the last night to save him.
/r/seduction09/11/21 02:51 PM
2

damn bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:27 AM
2

Why does he need to suppress horniness? People nowdays have this idea that being horny is a bad thing and we should not do that. No. You are a man, you have 17 times more testosterone in your system and you should be horny. Quit porn and masturbation. You view at women as sexual objects because you come to them only to satisfy your willy.
/r/seduction09/11/21 09:20 AM
1

Im sorry but I don't believe that the firsg thing a girl told you is that you were handsome. That doesn't happen to Brad Pitt in movies😂 I don't think you should leave if the set isnt welcoming, stay in for a bit more, some girls have a bitch shield at the start to defuse the creeps. I don't think you should be the one giving the number /social media, its an easy way for the girl to get rid of you, its likely she might get your number and never text/call you. Natural flirtiness... lol
/r/seduction09/11/21 12:38 AM
5

i also like to send selfies of myself in a pink dress
/r/seduction09/11/21 12:32 AM
1

Dont do mystery' routines, they are cringy and outdated. He is the only one who can pull them off
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:07 PM
1

yeah, best you did not do that. Don't put that much pressure on her around her peers, she might react differently just because they are there. Isolate her and do you stuff.
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:12 PM
2

Push/pull can be fun but I think its mostly bullshit, like almost every other pickup information ive found
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:23 PM
2

Like the guy above me said. 90% of the pickup material you find online is dog crap that will only confuse you and turn you into a fake ass robot. Go out and do things your own way whilst keeping a few fundamental principles in your head.
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:21 PM
1

shave your head
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:18 PM
2

magic bullets is pretty good
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:13 PM
1

Simply ask her what does she want and make sure she gets that you don't want your time to be wasted. Even though you wasted a lot of time with the movies, cuddles and hand holding already. You remind me of a good friend who would try so hard, go so far but never reach the ultimate goal of getting the girl. They just kept him around as a funny, comfort dude.
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:09 PM
3

I feel the same, sometimes its the ego that you need to feed. You aren't in the mood, you have no energy or maybe aren't even horny but you want to get her just to feel better about your past, just to show you can get laid now and are a better person. Mind issues.
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:00 PM
4

Girls will many times give mixed signals because they are afraid of being rejected, just like men are too. You just have to make the move, start getting closer, start touching her more, give strong eye contact and eventually go in for the kiss.
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:57 PM
2

Great! Though, this is why I am against push/pull. It kills your game 90% of the time you use it...
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:54 PM
1

I don't agree, most women wont take initiative, its up to you to make the move and lead her.
/r/seduction22/02/21 02:23 PM
1

I don't agree, most women wont take initiative, its up to you to make the move and lead her.
/r/seduction22/02/21 02:22 PM
1

yeah, read my post. I'm 19 and Ive just talked about this.
/r/seduction21/02/21 01:02 PM
2

The dates last for an hour to two hours max, I dont get hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:43 PM
1

yeah, I'll pay for the drink if I like the girl, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:22 PM
4

I don't see a problem with paying for the drink on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:40 PM
2

I don't agree, most women do know that their "beauty" has an expiration date, because they try to find the best possible male to settle with in their early twenties, most women get married between the ages of 22-27 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:31 PM
1

even if you make eye contact and start walking towards them, they can easily make you look stupid and reject you by just turning her body towards her friends while you are trying to "get into her face".Because then you are standing behind her awkwardly. I like to make eye contact (making sure we are holding it for 5 seconds at least, no less. If its less I don't approach) and walk towards her, touch her and say :" Hey, I just thought we should meet" and maybe add "Who knows, might be destiny" ( …
/r/seduction02/08/20 11:40 AM
8

Beauty is subjective, the problem is that almost all women (ugly and pretty) think they deserve only the best men. While ugly men can and will settle with women as ugly as them. Its a big imbalance in the intergender world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 12:37 PM
16

And if I called 80% of the female population ugly or fat I'd be shat on for the rest of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 11:22 AM
1

sorry woman, I say no to premarital sex
/r/seduction30/07/20 10:39 PM
1

Their value might decrease but their standards wont
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:47 AM
-4

Let me answer for all the females here :" you just gotta be yourself". Basically, be a chad if you are a chad, or don't try acting like a chad if you aren't one so you wouldn't steal their time for who knows how long. They just want to filter the chads out of the crowd and get rid of the nice guys.
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:56 PM
5

If they really wanted to find a mate they would use Tinder, an app made for that exact purpose. While they are actually looking for followers and fans, thats why their instagrams are listed.
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:53 PM
7

"maybe you could make me change sides if you tried extra hard 😛"
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:49 PM
11

"I'll let you know" is a soft rejection, its easier to say that than to say "no", keeping in mind she doesn't want to hurt you.
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:47 PM
5

no
/r/seduction26/07/20 07:48 AM
1

leave her
/r/seduction24/07/20 06:19 PM
4

ask her to jiggle her mellons
/r/seduction24/07/20 06:17 PM
11

Women became more hypergamous than ever, their standards are high, but still rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:43 PM
0

women can say whatever they want and they will get away with it, just agree with her
/r/seduction18/07/20 03:17 PM
1

"that sounds super sexy😛"
/r/seduction18/07/20 08:34 AM
3

Its very hard to explain how to get good to each indivudual person, we are all different and hold different personalities. You just need to go out and approach (a lot) until you find what works for you, because what works for me might not work for you. Just do it for the sake of getting rejected, its really fun.
/r/seduction12/07/20 06:39 PM
2

Yes, just look like Brad Pitt
/r/seduction12/07/20 05:29 PM
1

You coming off too sexual or goofy
/r/seduction11/07/20 11:45 AM
0

Maybe you come off too creepy? You are young, go out and meet women in real life, not over text.
/r/seduction11/07/20 10:47 AM
3

hang out with women more and you will adjust
/r/seduction11/07/20 10:42 AM
3

the main problem are the men who never learn, they get into a paradox of constantly relating with women on such a level that it becomes a part of them and the only way to connect with a woman
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 04:21 PM
21

If Brad Pitt messaged her today she would immediately find time to care about him. She doesn't value you enough, move on
/r/seduction09/07/20 04:10 PM
1

bro thats nasty
/r/seduction09/07/20 04:09 PM
2

go out and approach if you want to learn
/r/seduction07/07/20 07:18 PM
1

She never saw you as a potential bf, only as a good friend that will comfort her and make her feel good when shes sad. Women do this a lot to men. You needed to show sexual intent (ex.: "I think you have some sexy fucking legs"), otherwise you will be looked at as if you are a girl in a mans body. In terms of chemistry, you should just have and do what you love doing, self amusement. But make sure to bring out sexual topics every now and then.
/r/seduction03/07/20 03:44 PM
1

You are nervous because you have no experience. Its like doing stand up comedy for the first time, ofcourse you are nervous.
/r/seduction02/07/20 04:25 PM
1

be sexual, when you get enough IOIs ask her if she wants to kiss you, when you isolate her.
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:04 AM
0

10/100 is too good to be true, nobody is that good
/r/seduction27/06/20 10:03 AM
1

just gotta approach a lot
/r/seduction26/06/20 07:34 PM
1

he's been exposed as a fake egocentric prick
/r/seduction26/06/20 10:29 AM
3

short people get laid, otherwise there wouldn't be short people around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 09:25 AM
2

Capital is a fake pua
/r/seduction25/06/20 03:57 PM
5

slut shaming and LMR are big issues here
/r/seduction25/06/20 01:39 PM
1

women are attracted to other qualities than looks, for example: money, status, education. While men only go for looks when searching for women. I'm saying men have more space to play with unlike women, who just need to be sexy in order for men to be interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 09:51 AM
1

i like to believe "I made it" after 2 years of relearning stuff and working on myself almost every day
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:46 PM
1

girls chasing me
/r/seduction23/06/20 03:20 PM
1

maybe I understood wrong, I've learned that being myself wont give me the results I want with women. I changed my perspective when it comes to that and I'm having more success now
/r/seduction23/06/20 03:11 PM
1

I don't believe your claim. I think we should always look to better ourselves and "fake it till we make it". You can't just stay fat, miserable, unshaved and addicted to alcohol, because " you are being yourself". No woman will like a man who doesn't work on his SMV
/r/seduction23/06/20 03:08 PM
6

men care about looks when picking women, unlike women who look for smv values in men. Men have less pressure to take care of their body, women know they wont get the attention they want if they're fat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 03:04 PM
1

yeah he seems legit, he looks like a male model though
/r/seduction21/06/20 08:11 PM
1

I told her I saw her when I was in the city, chatted a bit. I asked her "when are we going to the pub?", tried my luck. She replied shes free next week.
/r/seduction19/06/20 07:35 PM
3

I've spoken to this girl only once before, I messaged her randomly 1.5 years after. Tried my luck, we went for coffee the next week and she likes me a lot now.
/r/seduction19/06/20 09:21 AM
1

so basically you tryina seduce weak men out here
/r/seduction18/06/20 05:32 PM
1

rather do push pull, "You are so damn cute, shame you are so tall 😋"
/r/seduction17/06/20 07:59 PM
7

It doesn't matter. Not every single interaction is going to be the same. Introduce yourself, hold good posture and strong eye contact at all times. Abundance is key.
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:16 PM
8

They don't give a fuck about the approach. "You're hot" or "nice legs" . The approach doesn't matter, they just self amuse themselves.
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:12 PM
1

read books and work out
/r/seduction15/06/20 06:23 PM
3

The opener isn't really important. Its important is to import confidence into the conversation. "i saw you and thought i should meet you"
/r/seduction14/06/20 05:13 PM
1

no girl is out of your league, thats the mindset that will get you laid
/r/seduction14/06/20 05:08 PM
39

Higher testosterone is associated to higher dosage of adrenaline. That could be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:03 PM
1

I was drunk idk. I really didn't care what I'm getting, as long as I'm getting it lol
/r/seduction13/06/20 09:57 PM
1

They have more than one guy to chat with, they only filter out the best ones that they will invest talking to. She may see you as a friend, she isn't going to put time into hanging out with a friend when she could be with a guy she likes. My advice: don't call her for a few days, if she messages you, she misses you.
/r/seduction11/06/20 09:53 PM
5

Good job!
/r/seduction10/06/20 06:54 PM
1

I tried this, it worked!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:48 PM
1

I love sexting girls as well. I didn't clarify my statement. I've seen a lot of guys having super platonic texting that lasts for days upon days. Leading to nothing in the end but a clear friendzone. Pardon😃
/r/seduction10/06/20 03:22 PM
0

Yeah, no such a thing as "the right thing to say". Its all about mindset. I met this girl outside of a nightclub and I decided to work on my tonality and vibe. I was just saying what I found funny, told her she has sexy legs and kept staring at her because it was fun. I gave no shits about her liking me or not. I knew that I can find another one just like her around the next corner. Having fun is primary when going out. Getting in just to get rejected. Try it!
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:23 PM
13

I have a similar friend. Though, I realised its pointless trying to teach them about their own wrongs. It does nothing. Just keep doing you, don't put your time and effort into teaching others that are ignorant. Keep the power friend!
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 10:13 PM
0

Yeah, you just gotta get out there and kill that sabertooth tiger and you will be living in pussy land😎
/r/seduction09/06/20 04:26 PM
2

from the top op my head: The Engineered Lifestyle, James Tusk, Playing with fire(text game)
/r/seduction09/06/20 04:22 PM
1

Watching a 2:30 -5:57 min video every 2.5 weeks is okay, if the guy in the video has a dick bigger than 18.6 cm then you will get addicted. If the video is longer than 6:35 mins you will get addicted. Also don't touch your dick when you pee, do it without your hands to minimize dick touching. Pro tips here.
/r/seduction09/06/20 04:20 PM
1

You went through 3 weeks without porn. Thats more than 90% of all guys can do. You crave sex, but after certain times you just go to porn because its easier to do than sex. You have normal human needs, that could easily turn into an addiction if you keep masturbating. So don't neglect this.
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:57 AM
3

Women in relationships still seek validation from guys they know will give them validation(betas). They will try to seduce these guys to feel better, more confident, to raise their ego. Don't do shit my man, women love the feeling of power, power that you give them.
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:49 AM
0

Meet a lot of people, you will gain abundance and become ultimately attractive as a man no matter what you do.
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:47 AM
3

Don't talk to her over text unless its about the meeting the two of you will have. Texting kills the vibe.
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:45 AM
2

Thats not how addiction works🙈
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:42 AM
4

Its a fact RSD shows only 5% of their interactions. They do high risk, stupid shit 100% of the time and only show the interactions that go well(abour 5%) . They did manage to motivate a lot of men because of their fake game though. Check out The Engineered Lifestyle on youtube. They have solid game, and good mindsets. They also show nightgame which is super rare.
/r/seduction08/06/20 04:17 PM
2

You are thinking negative. Just give this a thought. Some people will never have sex, never have a girlfriend nor kiss a woman in their entire life. Some people are born without legs, without arms. I've seen guys in wheelchairs pull girls! You are lucky to be who you are and have everything you have. Just think about in how much of a better situation you are compared to other people that have actual problems in their lives. In pickup you will fail more than not, its a fact. Keep at it man!
/r/seduction06/06/20 07:52 PM
1

Men grow as people from puberty to about their mid forties. Unlike women, who start maturing at around 14 to 25. Reaching 25 as their maximum, they are the prettiest then and they still hold their youth. Two most important factors for men to pick. The man works on his SMV status up until reaching 40, thats when he is at the prime of his life, he has the most money, he is still fertile, he has gathered enough experience with women by this time. When women have a big decrease in fertility througho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 02:06 PM
-2

"Just did a threesome with 2 russian top models, you know, the usual stuff😰" in a joking manner
/r/seduction05/06/20 09:01 PM
1

They never had game anyways. It was explained numerous times how they work "game".
/r/seduction05/06/20 06:17 PM
1

Haha funny thing is you shouldn't read anything before you start. Guys tend to start reading and reading, keep "getting" information. But actually, they are just afraid of approaching the more they read.
/r/seduction05/06/20 06:10 PM
1

Never tell others your weaknesses. They will use them against you. Its about learning to not give a shit and feel good while not giving a shit. What do you do? Start working out, reading books, learning a new skill. These things will up your SMV value and you will feel a lot better when talking to other people who you know don't do these things.
/r/seduction05/06/20 02:40 PM
1

Todd is a fake anyways. Treated as a legit "god" in the PUA community, he has a wife, she is an average 6/10 looking woman who he has a child with for years already. Complete bullshit on his channel. Just like RSD
/r/seduction05/06/20 02:37 PM
2

Nice one! Little tip: don't ask for her instagram, she should take yours always
/r/seduction05/06/20 02:36 PM
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