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| 1929 | Be easy on yourself. | Inner Game | MaxNachamkin | /r/seduction | 03/11/20 11:34 PM |
| 1409 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hard | MaxNachamkin | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:13 AM | |
| 301 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot. | MaxNachamkin | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 10:17 PM |
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| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNope. Debt wasn’t related to the dating stuff. And I agree with you that you have to get your head in the right space and enjoy the experience. That’s essentially what I’m outlining here is moving through the things that are keeping people in their head (unprocessed emotions and thought loops). And eh, I know people who smoke weed all the time and are some of the most present people I know. Doesn’t have much it do with it, bud can bring up/ease past emotions though so it can be a good tool. | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I realised today that I suckI’m typically labeled as an introvert. Also my experience has shown me that while my social life plays a big factor I’ve also used my perspective that I’ve outlined in the post on my own, quite a bit, in bars, coffee shops, libraries, etc. | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 09:53 PM |
| 0 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"Spot on!! I wrote about this in detail here... https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5pm73y/after_studying_attraction_for_7_years_and/ | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 01:09 AM |
| -1 | I realised today that I suckhttps://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5pm73y/after_studying_attraction_for_7_years_and/ | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 01:06 AM |
| 5 | How to create interest with a girl that you’re already friends with?Just put yourself more into the friend zone. Friends cuddle on the couch with no expectations, right? :) In all seriousness most of the relationships I’ve had were formed when we were friends first. It’s natural to develop emotions with the women you’re closest too. I wouldn’t try to escalate or date her or anything. The interest is formed when you allow yourself to feel the interest without needing to do anything about it. The boss thing to do would be to let the desire build up and keep doing … | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 01:01 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThat's what's up Troy!! | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYup exactly! Happy to hear that you resonated with the post. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.I see how it could be confusing and incomplete. The challenge I face with writing these types of posts is wanting to allude to how it works, because as soon as I say "this is the step-by-step thing" with very specific instructions, men latch on to that shit like it's the golden ticket and end up further and further away from what I'm intending to teach. I'm open to explaining more if you have specific questions but "this is useless" advice is a useless comment that isn't helping. | /r/seduction | 01/05/17 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.Or maybe...they're throwing signs left and right and all it would take is a little bit of attention? :) | /r/seduction | 01/05/17 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.I understand his POV, but how can anyone expect to see different results when they're not able to broaden their point of view? Doing the same thing and expecting different results - definition of insanity. | /r/seduction | 01/05/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.I don't really "approach" as it feels completely unnatural to me. Maybe in the East it would be different as the cultural norms are different than in the West. Read this guide I wrote, I think that'll answer your question: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5pm73y/after_studying_attraction_for_7_years_and/ | /r/seduction | 01/05/17 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.The good thing about realistic expectations is that they're meant to be broken :) Yes, opening to the possibility doesn't make it happen but it does pave the way for it to become a reality. By all means you can stick to the mindset of "this is realistic and this is how it will be", simply offering a different way of thinking that could help expand the potential reality that you're currently experiencing. | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.Literally. You're locking your reality into place by staying in the "this is my reality forever" mindset and basing your future experience only off of your past experiences. Are you open to the possibility that a reality where women are attracted to you exists? | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.I've never really had the opportunity to 'get' those signals in the first place. How's that? | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.I think he has a valid concern, one that must be navigated with the utmost level of presence and attention. From a human DNA standpoint, we're conditioned on a tribal level that if we do something against the "rules" that we'd be ostracized from the tribe and rejected. I think that's why it's important to build connects with women first and letting the trust build before anything romantic is involved or initiated. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.I see truth in this. The workplace is especially challenging because there's sexual harassment policies that (mainly) women can pull if they get triggered (even if you didn't do anything weird). To navigate your emotions in these scenarios is like jedi-training. If you're going around trying to hit on women all the time then it's going to pop up some red flags in places in which the way people see you can affect you're ability to connect with others. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.Can you imagine a reality that it may not be the case now, but that it's possible? | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.👊🤘💪🤙 | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.OK I'll revise: Yes it's possible that you'll never attract a woman. It's also possible that you'll be insanely attractive to every woman you meet. Those are two sides of the coin, and the truth lies somewhere within the middle. Holding to either side without examining the possibilities of the other is myopic. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.Happy to hear it resonated. Cheers. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.Nice, thanks for coming by and sharing your thoughts :) | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 01:00 AM |
| 4 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.Yes exactly!! It's about becoming an anti-fragile human. Good observation. | /r/seduction | 26/04/17 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.My pleasure arvind, happy to hear it. | /r/seduction | 26/04/17 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.Nice :) | /r/seduction | 26/04/17 06:41 AM |
| 5 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.It will help a man become more present and loving in reality. So yes. | /r/seduction | 26/04/17 05:30 AM |
| 11 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.Happy to hear that. My pleasure man. | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 11:54 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNice, glad you loved the post david. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 03:54 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI remember reading parts of Models years ago but I don't know it well enough to speak to it. I'd have to revisit it. I'm not claiming to reinvent the wheel, a lot of these concepts are thousands of years old. Take the Tao Te Ching for instance. Vulnerability isn't a new concept either, only in the way it's being described in Western culture. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 05:39 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardPassive, no. You gotta do something. In my observations many guys do not know the balance. They're trying and trying and trying and so they lose themselves in it. | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 06:09 AM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWhat if fatties flock to you? What if? But it won't happen. Not unless you're a very good looking man. I've seen it work with men who aren't 'very good looking' according to societal standards. Girls are shy. Not all girls are shy. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNice, thanks for sharing your experience. I wouldn't be surprised if you continued to hold yourself that way if something awesome randomly happened :) | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 04:20 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardMy pleasure nrque. Let us know what you think. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNice dude! | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 05:28 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI see value in challenging someone's words and beliefs, but to make someone wrong for their behavior shows a lack of emotional intelligence that ultimately causes them to lose respect and trust for you. I can see in this forum how it could be used to filter out fakers and liars though. Especially in this industry. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 05:24 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThanks again for an energy filled reply. This past week I've tried to put some of this into practice. Results are mixed, and it's hard to reconcile some of these tenets. You mention that there's little change because there isn't a lot you're doing externally at first. Past that stage, what are you doing externally that's different/effective? Making eye contact. Making comments on my reality. Talking to the people around me. Standing still and doing nothing. Meeting people. Having fun. Taking sho… | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 05:17 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardOr maybe I think that it's good to try and insult and/or challenge anyone who writes those types of posts to see how exactly they respond. It gives a better measure on how legitimately that person's content should be taken. I think it's necessary for this type of advice. I agree. To me, challenging someone's beliefs and insulting someone's character are completely different. I responded the way I did because I felt a judgement of character, which is something I do not tolerate on-going in my rea… | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardDifference is that my goal was not to insult you. Can you see how calling someone retarded would be received as an insult, though? Obviously you are not retarded, but I just really dislike the content and it pissed me off. I can see how you were just expressing your feelings about it. It's the fact that something very simple is covered with so much irrelevant text and it gets up-voted is what flipped me off. A lot of teachings are simple, but because of how people's minds work it doesn't fully m… | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 07:37 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardGlad you like the post, albesayz. I was wondering if you heard of nofap and how they talk about magnetic personalities. I'm familiar and I've done nofap before. It can help with increasing your energy. I think it's all good because guys can trick their body into receiving sexual connection by jerking off, so it's just an illusion as their external reality doesn't actually shift. Also what you say lines up with the law of attraction when you focus on when or how something happens, you focus on th… | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hard"I just find the esoteric bullshit around it extremely disgusting." Shocker. "I'm also not calling you a retard, I'm thinking that you are retarded, there's a difference." What's the difference? Enlighten me. "Why on earth would you go around sun, planets and energy thing when the real social dynamics are actually logical and sensible." Why on Earth would you read a Reddit post, then put your time and attention into hurling insults towards someone under the protection of an anonymous alias? | /r/seduction | 03/02/17 02:51 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThose all factor into your energy, not necessarily one or the other. | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYes a lot of the things are similar. Aka don't be attached to the outcome. However most guys still try not to be attached to the outcome and then judge themselves for when they're not. What those dudes don't understand is how to consciously remain in a state of openness and detachment from the outcome without trying/putting on a mask. That's funny that you mention I need to feel superior than others when you're the one calling me a retard. | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 10:19 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYes thank you for your perspective. I won't ever be able to fully convey the Truth because you can't put words to it fully. | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 10:02 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIn my reality women hit on me more the more I am with myself. | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 09:59 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardFirst of all, thak you for writing this. You have infinitely more patience than i do and it was presented in a pleasing, if not a bit formulaic sort of way. Funnily enough, I enjoy that. My pleasure. I'm glad you enjoyed it. My biggest gripe is the ego. The approach of "rework and solve your incorrect internal modes, then women will orbit and approach" philosophy, while being mostly correct, is entirely TOO PASSIVE. It's passive in the sense that you're not doing a lot externally (at first), but… | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNice, dude! | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardif you're just chilling and you see a girl that you think is interesting, shouldn't you talk to her to find out if she actually is? You can if you want to. What I've noticed the challenge with approaching is that you don't actually know if she's staying in conversation with you because of your ability to be charming/conversational or it's because of who you are. By remaining still and letting a woman 'lean in' to your orbit without any interference from your part then you always know that she's … | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 08:54 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI don't try to pressure women into anything (which something that I've seen other guys do, and it looks/feels pushy and creepy so I've never been that guy). If things happen, great. If not, that's okay, too. Gotcha. It's challenging for men right now who aren't pressuring women and applying this stuff because at first they practically become invisible. I stopped getting attention from women that I normally got, and would go out and people wouldn't even see me. Someone attractive, smart, and fun.… | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 04:17 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI'm not the center of the universe but I'm the center of MY universe. If I weren't, who would be? | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 04:03 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIf she reacts and you are successful anyway, she too had an underlying motivation for her behaviour and so there actually is a sort of 'disconnect' or dishonesty between the two of you right out of the gates. Exactly. If she's waiting for a guy to pick her up, and a guy does, then he's then buying into her expectations of what she wants from a man. Over time this will cripple the man's creative expression. Nothing wrong with approaching but the energetics are tricky. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 04:03 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYup, the Anti-Method is a distillation of spiritual principles applied to the dating world. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 03:57 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardTotally, it's important for men to stick together when they have the same goals and support each other. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardGotcha. Thanks for the feedback. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYou are assuming the people who say you have to approach are coming from a mindset of assumption that they have to talk to this woman and try to sleep with her and are therefore dishonest. I'm not. You don't have to approach from a place of assumption or expectation, although most guys do. I've known plenty of women who literally will not talk to a guy no matter how attractive they find him unless he initiates Me too. And that's the problem women are facing now in dating. It's backwards. You're … | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWhen you are a predator, the prey runs away from you. Yeah. Or they buy into their predatory nature and end up losing trust for you over time. Glad you understand where my intention was with this. Cheers, Max | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 03:40 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardStandards will come naturally from your energy field over time. The aim isn't to avoid standards/expectations, but to let go of making them in your mind so that you can see which ones are actually real. Check out the Tao Te Ching. Lot of wisdom in that. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 03:38 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardSometimes. I'm not super religious about it. NoFap definitely improves your energy though, as long as you can channel it correctly and are able to remain relaxed without ejaculating. I think it builds up a lot of stress for men who don't have outlets for the amount of energy it builds. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThis entire manipulation myth stems from the fact women do not like men learning game, therefore it is in their best interests for you to become someone without expectation The game is manipulative when a man doesn't trust himself or trust women. There's nothing wrong with that, but without trust no real relationships can form. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 03:34 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardSomeone posted a picture of me somewhere in the thread. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 11:01 PM |
| 10 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardExactly. That's the make-or-break moment. Stay in it. You've got this. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 11:00 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardHaha dude's a genius! | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 10:54 PM |
| 5 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardRight? That's what's up, glad you've seen it work for you! | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 09:59 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThanks for sharing with me what's been going on. I feel you man. It took me a while to get to a place where I felt comfortable with who I was and learn to be myself around women. Hang in there. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 09:26 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardGot it. For this to shift you're going to have to stop judging yourself man. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 09:23 PM |
| 0 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardgive them unrealistic expectations of how women act, you're doing actual harm. If you read the post with clear eyes you'd realize that I'm telling them to release their expectations on what women are capable of, not put more on them. I don't think or suspect you're lying, I know you're lying. Really? And to the men on here looking for help: there are no easy answers. I'm glad we're on the same page! Don't give lying assholes like OP your attention, or worse, your money, just because they pretend… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 09:21 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardSure. Take a guy in a bar for example. He can either 1) go and approach women to try and build his confidence this way. or 2) he can use the environment of being at the bar to show him all the places in which he's afraid about. Not feeling like he's going to get a girlfriend, get laid...afraid of being a loser that no one talks to, being an awkward guy in the middle of the room, whatever. He can use that environment to help him see what insecurities he has and let go of them. Or he can avoid it … | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:10 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardso what would a typical expression look like for EU women? I've been traveling through asia and agree, it's different, still lots of clear signals. I don't know. I'd need some context and some experiences of how things are going to give you a clear answer. Can you share with me some experiences that you've been through and your internal frame of mind while things are going on? In Western EU (germany, france, netherlands, belgium etc.) you are nothing but air to women no matter how outstandingly … | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:06 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI wouldn't ignore your friends, but I wouldn't try to talk with them either. I'd first look at the expectations of how you feel you have to act when you're with your friends. Feel free to chat it up, but you just don't want to get lost in the conversation and forget about the energetics. Stay in your body and in the emotions, if people chat with you, chat. If you get your friends on the same page and you all go do it together your field will be very strong and you'll start to notice how the ener… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:03 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIn life, you don't attract what you want. You attract what you are. In this case, OP became the sun by understanding who he really is on a deeper level & what he stands for. Thus, raising his vibrations and attracting more. Exactly. You gave it blood raw on a deeper level but i guess this post is not for everyone. It is definitely not for people who want to continue to stay in their own suffering. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:00 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI build attraction but I'm not making her attracted. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYou literally just contradicted yourself, all these things play a roll in your attractiveness. Yes, I am a living contradiction. Those things play a role, but at the same time they don't. The challenge is that men are holding on to "This is how you become attractive" and so that restricts the energy from free-flowing throughout their body. It eliminates their polarity by propping up against the specific result of attracting a woman on one or two behaviors. I'm telling guys that they don't need a… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:57 PM |
| 5 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardCute. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:50 PM |
| 4 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardMy advice: Never take advice from someone with blind faith. Go out and test it, try it on fully, and see what happens. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:50 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThanks hurley. A couple notes. being at "peace" with yourself and not letting your environment shape you Your environment will shape you. It's not about resisting letting your environment shaping you, it's about using your environment to shape you in the direction you want to go. I tend to think that too much analysis goes into the process of seduction though. Indeed. Self-confidence that comes from being of sound mind, body and spirit, as well as the confidence that says "I don't need you" is w… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:49 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWell spoken, thanks for sharing Anon2971. what I'm saying is this feeling you give off acts as the foundations for everything you do from that point to build attraction. If that foundation is weak, then you'll be climbing an uphill battle. Yes!!! | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardTelling a guy to work hard on themselves gives them an incomplete picture. It can often be damaging for someone to take that advice because they could use that to justify their current frame of mind which is keeping them suffering. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:45 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardMaybe its not scientific written enough to be accepted or trusted by most of you guys. It's up to them if they want to try it or take it in. A lot of guys here are super heady and want something backed by science. Challenge with that is that scientific data is unreliable and only points at the truth - it isn't the truth itself. This is why it's challenging to explain this to people, because you won't be able to mentally grasp it. You can't grasp onto the truth. If you always carry a mask and be … | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThat's the problem - a lot of guys are being taught to fake it and it doesn't work. Try the method and see what happens. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIf you think women won't approach you because you're ugly that's a sure-fire way to make sure it doesn't happen. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardCute, beleca. http://imgur.com/a/lSZSi Just because women don't trust you enough to talk like that to you doesn't mean that women don't talk that way to other men. Your judgments about me indicate a strong misunderstanding about women and show me how little experience you actually have. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:38 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIt's preselection on your part, you filter the women that are really into you without too much talking. You don't waste your time with persuasion. Yes. I filter women based on who I am. If they don't like me when I'm doing absolutely nothing then I know they aren't really attracted to me. Easiest way to screen for chicks that don't actually like you. As with all seduction techniques, this is skipping over a lot of core life skills. That's probably what some of that 20k got you that you aren't ar… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:31 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYup! | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:28 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWhen you are truly present you will feel the energy between you, and you can try to close the gap (with a kiss, holding hands, whatever). Exactly. I think the "agenda" thing is misplaced. Girls know why you're there. You know why you're there. Just own it and have fun (and this includes being sexual or talking about any topic to do with sex). The challenge with having an agenda, even if the woman is aware of it, and she won't trust you deep down unless you can learn to relate to her without it. … | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:27 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWhat you've described is a form of mindfulness meditation. Yes, but applied to real life circumstances. It's much harder to remain in a meditative state around people and in relationships. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:20 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWhat do you mean? | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardTry your advice in western/central Europe where feminism is strongly integrated in cultures. I've seen it work in Europe. The same concepts would apply in Asia however the external expression would look different based on their conditioning. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:17 PM |
| 7 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIts actually laughable OP thought this is why women are coming up to him. What's laughable is the amount of dysfunction and misunderstandings the people continue to cling too, especially since they still don't get results. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:15 PM |
| 10 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardbut they will make you relax and make you appear more relaxed and confident. Not only does it make you appear more relaxed and confident, it actually makes you more relaxed and confident :) I'm not saying that giving up on those expectations will suddenly have women flocking to you, but it is very possible that the intent of having a beer with friends makes you look less approachable to others. Group dynamics are tricky, and a group that looks close knit can be very intimidating to an "outsider"… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:14 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYeah, it's much harder in practice. Meditation by yourself won't do it - the practice is how to remain in a relaxed and calm state around women and in reality. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:44 PM |
| 5 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYup. :) | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:43 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNice! My pleasure. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:43 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNice!! It's amazing what happens when we fully understand why things happened the way that they did - makes sense of the past and helps frame the future. My pleasure. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:43 PM |
| 0 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardBeing the core issue? Yes, the core issue that the man is insecure in his own worth. Wait a second let me just meditate here for 5 minutes, I need to let my anxiety pop and I'll come back to you. Your misapplying it. I'm not saying to meditate every time you feel pressure or anxiety. You might be contradicting yourself here bro. This method is a contradiction. Life is a contradiction. It's why it works. If you shit in a canvas and someone pays you $1M for it, oh that's a beautiful surprise and y… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:42 PM |
| 7 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYes. It's not within the scope of the post on how to clear repressed emotions in entirety because it's a complicated subject that is highly circumstantial. But by remaining still then men can start to see that they do indeed have repressed emotions and insecurities that they need to address. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:34 PM |
| 8 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardtotally. I don't have goals when it comes to potential matches. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardHuh? | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:28 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWould you be able to help me so I can figure this whole dating thing out? Happy to. It's like I can talk to a woman and be expectant, in which case I'll fail to get anywhere, or I'll notice myself being expectant and I'll try to let the expectations go, but instead I just end up being avoidant instead. How do I learn to release my expectations without giving up all together? It's hard to say without some more details. What thoughts are coming to mind? What are you expecting her to do/what are yo… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:04 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNice. My pleasure man. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThey can resist it all they want :) | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:37 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardMy pleasure. Cheers, Max | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:34 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hard:) | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardJust looks won't do it. It's about your energy. Give the exercise a shot and let me know what you discover. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNo sir, it's not about not doing anything. There's lots of work to do. Read the comments. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardHah, right? | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNice, glad it helped deepen your understanding. My pleasure. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:31 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardSo when you're standing there dealing with your insecurities in the public setting (pre-pop), do you just let them wash over you or do you actively meditate on them? I.E.) the thought of not being able to talk to a girl comes up in the back of your head. Do you just sit there and dwell in that or do you acknowledged the thought, think about it, and try to dismiss these illogical ideas? In that case make it true in your mind that you will never be able to talk to a girl ever. Let that story help … | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:31 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWhat I learned, in short, is that when I went to the events with expectations, I'd usually not meet them and feel bad about it afterwards. I'd be filled with thoughts of "I'm not good enough" and the likes. When I wanted to have fun and didn't expect anything, I would end up with some girls; I'd even have options sometimes. Exactly. I'd like to point out that a lot of guys can take the 'have fun and meet new people' thing as an expectation as well. I don't go and try to have fun or meet new peop… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:27 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardCheers asthertat123. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:22 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThere's some good lessons in there. The deconditioning process is the hardest of getting to that place of faith and belief. Once people can understand how their conditioning works, how their ego works, and how to clear through their expectations they can become more and more of themselves each and every day. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:22 PM |
| 0 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardhave you been doing meditation, especially mindfulness based meditation? I've done meditation and meditate occasionally however I do not rely on it to stay in any particular emotional state, as it can become a crutch very easily. Or have you taken psychedelic substances in the past? Yes. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:20 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardSo in a crowded bar or club it might not work (too loud) It works in a crowded bar. Loud clubs can be different simply because there's so many judgments flying around there...but it's still possible. , people warm up to you being there as well as yourself, they see this guy as not a threat. From there you just mellow out and go with the flow I guess. Yeah it's hard just to put yourself in that spot but once you do 90% of the battle is won. Then you just laugh and say hey. Exactly. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardSexual energy is different to spiritual, being energy. I disagree. To me sexual energy is spiritual energy. Sexual energy is not passive and it most certainly will attach, obsess, and objectify. Only if you're rooted in ego. It is a game of manipulation and power. Yes, however the reason why people are still disconnect is because they don't trust each other to manipulate them. Manipulation and power dynamics are fine, but without trust built then ultimately more harm is done than good. Think Rob… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:17 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI'm not familiar with Blueprint Decoded, and it's important to know that no amount of information would help a man get this stuff. It requires embodied experience for a man to truly start to get it. Especially with the emotional stuff that can be insanely confusing at times. But i see how that thing can indeed work. Authenticity, no ego and freedom of any outcome make a man indeed attractive. Thanks for sharing Indeed. My pleasure Seyden. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:13 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardCheck out the Tao Te Ching. Highly recommended. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThere's definitely an overlap. It's about applying a lot of the spiritual teachings into physical reality, in relationship with other people. A lot of the zen and meditation teachings can often lead people away from their heart though which brings them further away from what they truly want. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:11 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIf a man doesn't feel secure in himself to feel confident while looking or acting in any particular way, then he's still got lots of work to do within himself. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardSo you position yourself in the center of a room with the solemn believe that you are the very center of the universe, do nothing for a couple of hours, and attract people? No, you're not the center of the universe. However you are the center of your universe, and to ignore that would be to ignore the role you play in crafting your own experience. Well, yes, technically, people lingering around a certain spot are sure to attract the eyes of others, especially in a party context. Yup. But this...… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:08 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWhich doesn't work unless you are like top 2% in looks. Another justification for lack of results. Victim mindset for the lose. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:06 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThanks for stopping by Lorosaurus. Yes, this helps with social anxiety and overall having a deeply connected live to the people around you. Happy to share...and let me know how it goes! | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:05 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardSince you're talking about energy, it sounds like you're saying to tone down the male energy (outcome driven, active, externally focused, doing) and increase the female energy (being, internal focus, passive, feeling, going with the flow). No. That's a misconception about masculine/feminine energy. Masculine energy is stable, trustworthy. It's the energy of the heart that's putting out a particular vibration. Feminine energy is the form it takes. This helps upgrades a person's masculine energy. … | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:04 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardEh, I don't meditate often. If I had to rely on meditation to stay in a particular state then I'd consider that a loss. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:00 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardEssential the TLDR is: Look your best (not said) Maximise interactions Be relaxed Be aware It doesn't matter what you wear as long as you can hold your confidence while you're wearing it. Again I'm not trying to attract a woman. The challenge with a lot of the mindset that people have is that they'll take this advice and still try to use it to attract women. It's a paradox - it doesn't work that way. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:00 PM |
| 5 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardInstead of explaining the dating and pickup scene using this analogy we will rephrase it, pass it to another analagous situation and then say it over and over. A lot of the pickup stuff is good, however it's all stemming from insecurities and fears that never get truly addressed...so the teachings aren't embodied and end up coming out sideways which eventually hurt women and keep the men starved for connection. It's kind of too vague and passive. It is FAR from passive. You have to do the work i… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:56 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThanks for sharing. That's a great demonstration of how things work. Glad it's helped crystallize the whole thing. My pleasure, happy to help. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:50 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYeah...except Eckhart Tolle isn't in his body and would get fucking rocked by women in a relationship. He's got some work to do. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:47 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNice dude, feels so good when everything kicks into place naturally. Glad you've got to experience that. Good luck on your finals! | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:24 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNo doubt. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:24 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThis was really interesting to read and I will definitely try this out! I have one question and that is if I go to a bar or a club, am I just supposed to just stand there and do absolutely nothing? Like no dancing or smiling at the other people around me? Awesome syesha. Yup! Feel free to let your attention go where it likes but the first step is to just observe what your body does. Are you smiling because you're nervous? Afraid of looking weird or creepy? That's the place to start looking at. A… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:23 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNot selling anything here and nothing to prove. You just have a copywriting aversion and it's preventing you from understanding what I'm attempting to teach. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:21 PM |
| 0 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNot having expectations is the stupidest most feminist thing I ever heard. If you continue to hold yourself that way you're bound to get your shit rocked by a feminist. I do well with dating because I'm stright forward and bold with what I want. Good luck maintaining a relationship with expectations. Women want a man with a plan someone who has some ideal on what they are after. Women want a man who knows what they want, not a man who who they know they can bend with a bat of an eye lash. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:18 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardMy pleasure runningwaterss. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:15 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardMy pleasure silver_light. I'd need to understand more about how you're thinking about it, how it comes up, etc...but sometimes you just need to stop paying attention to those types of thoughts. Just let yourself think about it, don't judge yourself for thinking that way, and choose to put your attention somewhere else. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:15 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI can't picture a guy just walking into a bar and standing in the middle doing nothing suddenly getting approach by women. He'd probably be called a weirdo and maybe even laughed at by some bitches / fake alphas. You can't picture it because you've never seen it or experienced it. That doesn't mean it doesn't happen. work hard to become someone you know people will want to date. I see the truth in the words however it's more often than not a guy takes this as building his life so that he can mee… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:13 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYeah. There's no judgment on that, and there's no trying to get people to orbit any particular way. I can see how it would be taken that way however you are the center of your solar system, the king of your own kingdom, etc. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:58 PM |
| 6 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIt helps that he was in Boulder, a college town full of thousands of single rich hot young women. Only a few stories are from here in Boulder. It's worked in Philly, NYC, small suburbian towns, airports, malls, bars, etc. Not limited by any location whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYeah, the expectations can come in quickly with women that you like. It taints the connection and can send something from working to not very quickly if the expectations are still being held. By letting go you allow the relationship to take form in a way without your interference, which makes it real and undeniable. My pleasure man. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardMy pleasure. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:52 PM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThe most mindful, present, high-value fat middle aged balding man will not get women chasing after him and asking him out, or "accidentally" bumping into him. So this is directly useful for a certain subset of men, but others are going to need something different. Not true. If a man can hold himself energetically like a King he will get King results. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:52 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYes. Exactly. That doesn't mean "do nothing". It means waiting for her to make it clear to you that she's interested - could be energetic, could be obvious, could be subtle. But if you're also interested in her and you feel the connection between you two, follow the connection. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:51 PM |
| 0 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWhy is everyone so adamant about the physical attractiveness piece? That's just a rationalization for guys who aren't attracting women as something to pin their lack of results on. Victim mindset. Clean your body. Learn how to dress well. Get your acne in check and get some good styling glasses or contacts. Learn to feel good in your body without giving a shit what other people think. Your energy will speak for itself. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:50 PM |
| 29 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardHah :) | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:47 PM |
| 5 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYou don't have to a look a certain way but you do have to be put together and feel good in your own skin. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:46 PM |
| 0 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardwithout actually giving advice Then you didn't actually read the post, bruh. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:45 PM |
| -2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardRight? I just wanted to connect with others and get it figured out. Worth every penny to get to where I am now. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:44 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardNope. No job needed. I had this work when I was $30k in debt with no job and sleeping on my friend's couch because I couldn't afford to pay rent. Like I said, the "Anti-Method". | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:43 PM |
| 27 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIt's kinda funny how OP isn't responding to posts like this. It's called sleep. He tried it with himself and a couple of hot buddies and think it's some new age seduction tactic. It's also worked with other people who are not attractive by conventional means. It doesn't matter if you're a model or have a 6-pack. It doesn't matter if you have money. It matters if you're confident in yourself, know who you are, and are well-put together/not a slob. Simple. Not easy, but simple. "Masterbate before … | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:42 PM |
| 5 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardUm often? You have to chat her up, make her attracted to you and then get her number. That's the whole point of cold approach. If you have to make her attracted to you you've already lost. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:40 PM |
| 9 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI feel as though most guys on here are just looking for a way to close with women and release their built up sexual tension. Yup. And looking for ways to game them because they ultimately don't trust that women like them for who they are. OPs post seems to be more about making connections, not just about finding something to put your dick in, and this is where all the disagreement is coming from. I don't care if guys want to fuck a woman. Who doesn't? But it's the fact that I'm not willing to ma… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:39 PM |
| 12 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYes, exactly. The challenge with most guys is that they simply don't know how to be around women without trying to attract her. This is way for men to address their insecurities and learn how to actually connect with them, not just game them. As a result women will start to trust them and relationships can form. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:36 PM |
| 20 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardWhat about that stunning girl walking down the street, you need to approach her What about her? No you don't. You only need to approach her if her trying to get something from her or prove something to yourself. Your analogy works if your looks are really above average. If your looks are only average or below, maybe once a year an attractive woman will aproach you like that. No, you just need to take care of yourself. I've had more success with this as a skinny dude who doesn't exercise than I d… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:33 PM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI totally get that it goes deeper, what OP is describing is not a technique that you will apply tonight and women will start flocking to you. Right. This is about permanent change over time, not a short-end solution. If you let go of expectations, if you stop reaching too hard for a result and genuinely take interest in the other person, you are more attractive. Yes. But even if are laid back and attractive, you still have to put a lot of work in. Yes. Internally. You have to approach. Women wil… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:30 PM |
| 7 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardHey ReeZoX, yes this is part of it. It's not about doing more externally, it's about uncovering the subconscious aura that will be more attractive to women...because it's more true to who you are rather than it being infused with ego. It's exactly why when someone walks in a room you can feel their vibe. Women's bodies are very sensitive to that. Your auric field has a direct impact on whether or not a woman can trust you or not. As more insecurities are addressed and repressed emotions are rele… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:28 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIf you let go of expectations, meeting new people becomes fun and enjoyable. When you are having a good time, you become more attractive and this can lead to some dates. Yes. But don't expect women to do the work for you. No, they cannot do the inner work for you. No one can. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:24 PM |
| 0 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI don't think you need to be in a crowded place to do what he's talking about You don't need to be, but it helps. They'll always be there, even subconciously. There are always more layers of expectations. It's unrealistic to assume none will be there. It's about letting go of them as they arise. This will happen even after you do the inner examination, you just have another excuse. After the emotion pops in how I explain it things become a choice, not a reaction. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:23 PM |
| 35 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardthe ultimate outcome of letting go of expectations and accepting yourself/not forcing certain behaviour is increased confidence, which is undoubtedly attractive. Yes. Insanely. But going to a bar, standing in a busy spot and doing inner soul searching? Wouldn't that make you look extremely detached/weird/out of place? That's the thing - you're still referencing yourself in terms of others and what they think of you. Until your body feels comfortable being under pressure and not feeling weird/det… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 03:19 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYou are not choosing the women that you like! That's still coming from a mode of control and expectation - "I like THAT woman so let me go after her". Most dudes have a complete disconnect between who they think they like and who they're naturally drawn to if they stopped judging themselves. It's often completely different. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:43 AM |
| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardAnd yes, I do run a business doing this kind of thing. This is the first time I've shared this methodology with the public. There's so much non-sense out there leading men astray - I believe this information should be available to whoever wants it. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:26 AM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYeah...once a woman comes into your field it can be easy to get roped into the expectations, get needy/clingy, and lose yourself in it. It takes a lot of presence to lean back and eliminate those expectations under pressure like that. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:24 AM |
| 5 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYes you can be sitting down. Perfect - now go look as weird and as creepy as possible until you feel in your body that it doesn't matter if you are. It's not the act of doing that that's attractive. It's the internal process that upgrades your confidence and self-image over time that's attractive. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:15 AM |
| 15 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardHey zailtz, my pleasure man. I don't mind the backlash since most people are just trying to test their beliefs up against it. I have nothing to prove internally, and I know this works, so people can take it or leave it. I'm familiar with the energetics of Autism and am aware that people with Autism are highly sensitive and feel everything. That is why it can be so disorienting sometimes because there's so much sensation available to us at all times. I wasn't diagnosed with Autism but I can relat… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:13 AM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI very rarely get women coming up to me. I'm pretty sure I could go to coffeeshops and bars for 8 hours a day for an entire month and not have a single woman walk up and talk to me in that time. Are you intentionally going to these places and clearing out your expectations? A lot of the expectations are very subtle and it does require intentionality behind clearing them. It's not a passive process. I'd also like to mention that I don't have women approaching me every day or every time I go out. … | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 08:06 AM |
| 9 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIt's a paradox because if you're doing it right, you're not expecting anything from a woman however you still might have a desire for something to occur. You just wouldn't be attached into who/how/when/where. It would be dangerous if you were to use this methodology from a place of control. If you were to "be like the sun" so that you could ultimately attract a woman, it wouldn't work and you'd be shooting yourself in the foot energetically as you'd feel completely disconnected from everyone aro… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:48 AM |
| 8 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardGlad you are amused :) I'm happy to see that too. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:44 AM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardAh, the "How To Upgrade Your Energy" is just a sub-title of a section in the post above. I'd recommend the "Tao Te Ching" for now. The translation by Stephen Mitchell with the pictures is quite nice. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:43 AM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI've read a little bit. You'll notice a lot of resemblances to spiritual texts/ancient teachings because what I outlined here is from the truth. My favorite is the Tao Te Ching. Lots of wisdom there. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:41 AM |
| 2 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI'd find a place to sit - a bench or something - that's in the middle where all the traffic is. If it's a bar I'd recommend the center but it doesn't have to be. Let your eyes look wherever they want. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 07:10 AM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardGlad you like the teachings, Hollage. If things have been at a stand-still for 3 years then there's something that's being misunderstood. Shoot me a message with some more details as to what's been going on and I'd be happy to offer some insight. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:53 AM |
| 15 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIt seems you are talking about "social energy" or whatever, or "socializing with a smile" or however you talk about it with your New Age nonsense. Nope, I'm not saying to socialize with a smile at all or the social energy in the context in which you're using it. In a sense, this means in the scenarios you describe, I cannot "be a positive social force" without thinking about the desired outcome. Your method seems to me, as a general built-in feature of the normal Extroverted guy... he's having a… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:49 AM |
| 19 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hard"Do nothing and get approached." It's not about doing nothing, per se. It's about doing nothing externally until you can't not do it. It's about learning to be present and stable without doing anything or needing anything from women. It's about actually being confident, not pretending to be. You don't need notoriety. I've seen it work with people who have had no experience whatsoever. It does take work, and it's not the easiest thing, but it does not evolve massive effort, force, or trying hard.… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 06:31 AM |
| 24 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardYeah, the concept can get a little "meta" and is hard to understand at first, but if you take that analogy with you and try it it'll start to make more sense over time. I'm glad you're feeling better from reading it. I know it's not what the post was about...but quick tip on break-ups: you can use the same methodology to aid in the recovery process, although it's a little different. Grab a bunch of all the things from your relationship that are hard to look at. Pictures, things she gave you, thi… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:20 AM |
| 8 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIt's similar, but drastically different at the same time. All the advice that I've seen out there will have you focusing on the external in order to achieve the internal...for instance, approach (external) to get the confidence (internal). Or do this habit like meditation (external) to get this inner feeling (internal). This method is a way of dealing with the internal so that the change becomes permanent and doesn't have to make someone rely on anything external to live in a confident, attracti… | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 05:11 AM |
| 24 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardI added another TLDR. For guys who want to end dating problems (flakes, rejection, trying hard) I recommend reading the whole thing for context. It could save them years of confusion. Feel free to disregard the post if you feel like you've got it all figured out or if a 5-10 minute read is too much for you to handle. | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 04:54 AM |
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