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Hm, first I do have to admit that one aspect is validation. Since no girl was ever interested in me romantically, I just don't believe it's even possible for women to feel attraction or love towards me. I just think that if I really was "good enough" there would be at least some women that would be interested in me. Also, I just really miss physical touch and intimate conversations. I just want the feeling of sharing my life with someone. Since I don't really have family anymore, I want somethin…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 11:25 PM
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I’m completely invisible to women so there is no way for me to date. I have already improved my looks, I have an athletic body with visible abs, decent hairstyle, clothing… If I want to get more physically attractive, that’s only possible with surgery imo. My social skills are fine, I improved a lot here in the last years. But yeah, it’s very naive to think that I will get suddenly more attractive when turning 30. I think it’s better to accept that I just won’t have the dating life I want. It on…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/25 01:05 AM
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I don't wait at the moment. I live my life and try to reach my potential. But I just don't have the chance to have a dating life cause women don't find me attractive at all. Im just curious if this will change when I'm older or if I just should accept that dating is not for me.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 03:34 PM
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Have you had a dating life in your 20s? And it got worse?
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 03:24 PM
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Everywhere. In med school, in dance classes, on events or I just meet them via friends. I usually don't ask them out that early. I try to create some form of connection first and then ask them for a walk or so after a few weeks of talking to each other. But you're probably right, hitting 30 won't change that much probably.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 03:22 PM
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Thank you for your comment! I wont't stop working on myself of cause. But it is so frustrating that I worked on myself for the past 3 years and I'm still 100% invisible to women. I still have hope that it changes in a few years when I'm done with med school and I'm even more confident and attractive. But something inside of me thinks that I will stay invisible because I can still improve definitely but there is not too much of potential left. I will not get more physically attractive than I'm cu…
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 03:18 PM
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Im not really interested in casual dating. And I’m already friends with an objectively attractive women and I don’t idolize her 🙃
/r/ExRedPill15/11/25 01:56 PM
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They see themselves as top 10% alpha males. So I guess they want women to wait with loosing their virginity just for them. That would be possible theoretically. Also, it would be possible that some people out of the Red Pill community say the one thing and others say the others. I wouldn’t say that Red Pill doesn’t make sense. It really does if you have the adequate confirmation bias. That’s why it’s so dangerous to men. Cause they think this ideology is true. Many very intelligent men believe i…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/25 10:39 AM
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I don’t feel guilty
/r/ExRedPill08/02/25 12:22 PM
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True, you’re right. They do that because of better chances probably.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/25 01:14 PM
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How are men able to jump into the next relationship that quick when women are less needy?
/r/ExRedPill02/02/25 08:21 AM
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I guess it’s hard to describe my personality in words. My social circle is large and contains women but they aren’t that interested in dating I think which is fine. Maybe it’s better do finish college first before entering a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/25 07:44 AM
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Why don’t men do that?
/r/ExRedPill02/02/25 07:32 AM
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But men also make bad experiences. Why men aren’t thinking this way?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 10:48 PM
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I'm not talking about all women. I'm talking about general tendencies and averages. There are many men and women out there who are homosexual, asexual,... Of cause my post doesn't refer to all women and all men. I'm working on my life everyday. I make sport, engage in social activity and study for university. I also meet plenty of women but they aren't interested in me. My friends are also struggling and also get rejected by every women they meet. I don't want to blame them or so. Sure, it's my …
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 06:18 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 04:58 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experiences! I was also never really interested in hook ups. I feel like it's like that: If you meet 100 women as a men, 99 will just reject you and aren't interested in dating you at all. If you meet 100 men as a women, about 30 would reject you and 69 (lol) would like to sleep with you. Totally random numbers btw. I think most men care about a deeper connection but not with every woman. But men usually have very low standards when it comes to short term dating.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 04:18 PM
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Of cause they don't, men also don't owe anyone anything. That's not what I mean. I'm talking about what men and women want on average. I'm not complaining or offering anything in this thread.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 03:59 PM
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Of cause they are not. I'm justing talking about tendencies and averages. That's not really what I mean. Of cause most women don't want to ignore red flags and prefer having anything. I'm just talking about the "raw desire" for a relationship. Do men feel a stronger need, independent from anything, to have a romantic partner?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 02:36 PM
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Yes, or at least they have a similar need as women for a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 02:29 PM
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I agree. I feel like I have to be 100% happy as a single to be "good enough" for dating a women because she is also very happy as a single. I feels like a milestone I have to achieve. Like, it's something I have to achieve first before even considering dating. I wouldn't say that being single makes me happy. But I can feel positive emotions and have a good time as a single. When I'm with friends, I'm not thinking about having a girlfriend. I'm enjoying the moment. Overall I'm not 100% happy with…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 02:28 PM
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I would agree. Do you think that men that also have close friendships have a similar amount of "neediness" as women do?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 02:06 PM
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I'm thinking that because I do have female friends who are saying that they want to travel and focus on their career first before considering dating. I feel like many women want to stay single in their 20s and don't really want to date anyone.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 02:04 PM
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Thanks for your comment, it really helps! You mentioned what I was wondering about. If women don't really want relationships, why should they stay in bad relationships? That never made any sense for me. But in most surveys I've seen, women said that they are totally happy with being single and a many wouldn't even want "Mr. Right". Men were less happy with being single and almost every man wanted a relationship or at least some form of romantic connection. I would say that I’m okay with being si…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 01:56 PM
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I would say that I’m okay with being single. I do have friends, hobby’s and I’m a medical student so I am very busy but I still want a relationship. Sometimes it makes me sad that I don’t have one and maybe never find someone. I think most women in my situation don’t feel that desire as I do. Do you think I’m doing something wrong or are young women just less interested in dating?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 01:46 PM
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Looks - I did as much as I can. I don’t know but I don’t think I‘m in the top 5%. Money - I’m a student so currently not. But I could be in the top 5% of money after university, yes. Status - I don’t know. I will be a medical doctor after I finished college. I don’t think this will put me in the top 5%. Also, it’s not really my goal to get as much status and money. The medical field is just not meant for that. I wanna help patients I guess 😅
/r/ExRedPill24/11/24 11:06 AM
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I already do.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/24 10:58 AM
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I‘m not ugly. I look normal I would say
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 11:04 AM
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I would say mostly same level or down when it comes to looks. I try to not focus on objective attractiveness too much but most girls look average like me.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/24 02:58 PM
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Finding guy friends is another mission. That’s what I already do, no matter of girls 😅
/r/ExRedPill11/11/24 07:14 AM
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Nah, if they seem not interested, I'm not even trying. I did ask some girls out over the past years and I always got rejected.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 04:06 PM
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Thank you very much! That's the goal. I hope I will do a great job and I can help my future patients in the best way possible.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 02:42 PM
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Yes, I spoke with her. She said that I'm a little bit stiff and reserved. Nevertheless, she told me that I made a good first impression on her. She also said that she knows a lot of average guys who have girlfriends and she said that my self image is quite bad. But this is more than a year ago and I improved my social skills. I'm currently getting to know a girl at university and this could grow into a friendship I guess. I will probably speak with her about my situation in a few months when we …
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 02:36 PM
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Looks - I improved my looks in the past months and I think there is not much to do. I am quite lean and have an athletic body. My clothing is fine and I got a suiting hairstyle. My skin is not perfect but medication has huge side effects for me, so I'm gonna stick with my skin care routine. I don't have acne or so, so I'm fine. Body language - improvable, but not terrible. I am working on that atm. (Probably the biggest potential to improve) Vocal tonality - big improvements in the last years. T…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/24 02:01 PM
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When I was 16 years old, I had my first crush. She was a 30 year old women. And I wasn’t even looking for older women.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/24 07:44 AM
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In my opinion, the value of a person is simply undefined. Nobody has the right to determine someone's worth. People are more than how many matches they get on Tinder or how well they do at work.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:55 AM
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Looks are objective and subjective at the same time. Women do have preferences and you can see that objectively better looking guys get a lot more matches on dating apps for example. BUT! Looks are just one aspect of attractiveness. Most women don't focus on getting a boyfriend who is as good looking as possible. Your personality is much more important. Many women have boyfriends who are objectively below average looking. Some of them say that they don't found their boyfriends attractive before …
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:45 AM
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I do have quite high standards but not really for looks. There are only very few people I really like a lot and it's hard to find a girl who I like so much and I find attractive. She doesn't have to be extremely good looking but I have to find her pretty.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:35 AM
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I think that the gym is one of the best places to socialise. I met so many people there.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:32 AM
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I do meditate daily. Thanks for your motivation!
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:32 AM
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Thanks for the motivation, I do work on my social skills as much as I can but I only really socialise with guys. Do you know how I can meet girls in my age?
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:31 AM
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Do you think there is a good way to learn approaching women in my age? Im a bit shy when Im around women.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:30 AM
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That's not my mentality. If I needed someone I would have tried talking to more girls. I don't want a girl who I don't even like. My standards are quite high I guess.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:29 AM
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Something in me thinks that they don't love each other. There no real evidence for that and it's probably nonsense but I can't throw those thoughts away.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:26 AM
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Thanks, Im gonna try. One good opportunity could be participating in dancing workshops. I did that once and it was fun.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:24 AM
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The younger generation is taller. I think that about 30% to 40% are taller than me. But it doesn't really matter, Im not extremely short or so. Im fine with my height. But yea, the reason why I didn't find a girlfriend yet is probably that I don't really have contact to girls in my age. I will try to put myself out there and try my luck.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/24 07:23 AM
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That’s probably true. Women want older men and I don’t want younger women. I guess I have to wait for now and focus on other things.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 06:16 PM
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Of cause, I work on my social skills everyday. I meet as many people as I can and do see my friends at the gym everyday. I don’t think that my social skills are that bad.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 05:52 PM
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Actually, my dad did not have the best time social skills.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 05:46 PM
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Yes, but I don’t find my friends attractive, I just like them. That’s fine but it I don’t really think you can apply this concept to romantic relationships.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 05:26 PM
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That’s true, yeah. I always feel like those girl don’t really love their boyfriends. Probably pretty irrational but I don’t know. TRP has fucked my mind.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/24 05:19 PM
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My dad approached my mum at a club. My dad was actually very attractive and could be considered a chad. Im not as handsome as my dad.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/24 05:28 AM
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