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| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?You have to understand that women are also competing with each other on the dating market. Older women are painfully aware that they are less valuable than younger women and this makes them bitter. I don’t feel bad for them though because these same women drank the feminist kool aid, had a hoe phase in their youth, and now they’re wondering why no man wants them. Now they are encouraging younger women to repeat the same patters as they did so they too can grow up to be old and bitter like them. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 11:08 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Oh here’s my personal favorite. Women: Why would we waste our 20s on a man who isn’t even financially stable, can’t provide, and doesn’t have his stuff figured out? Also women: Older men who have their stuff together and date women in their 20s are toxic abusers who just want to control and use these women. It’s damned if you do and damned if you don’t. It’s ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't give one man her 20sYeah, they get married to men they don’t even like then divorce him and take his money and children. Also, it’s hard for them to even fully commit cause their ability to pair bond has been ruined by getting ran through so they end up cheating on you. Like I said, a woman who in her 20s who really wants to be a wife, have children, and never had a hoe phase is rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't give one man her 20sThis is why men should never marry and look for a wife overseas. Clearly western women know nothing about gender dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 09:45 AM |
| 11 | Women shouldn't give one man her 20sYour husband is very lucky to have a woman like you. Women of your caliber are hard to come by these days and that’s why most young men (me included) have dropped out of the dating since most women prefer to be hoes than wives like the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't give one man her 20sBased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Advice on age gapThe age gap isn’t the problem, the problem is the different stages in life. An 18 year old woman is fresh out of high school and probably doesn’t know how to maintain a long term relationship or is looking for any kind of commitment. Of course, you can convince her to wait until she is 25 so you can considered getting married or building a family (if that is what you are planning). Honestly OP, forget what people think. People put such an emphasis on age gap couples but if you ask me, if the par… | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe in love?In my opinion, love is one of the biggest lies ever told to humanity. Answer me this: Do you really think that a violent and selfish species such as humans are truly capable of this thing you call love? Humans commit atrocities. We commit genocide, war, we kill and discriminate based on race, economic statues, sex, and culture. We steal, lie, and backstab each other if it’s for our own benefit. So after knowing all this, do you really think we are capable of this so called “love”? Sounds quite a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Do men and women (straight) actually want LTRs nowadays?I think some men and women do want long term relationships but the problem is no one knows to keep or work on one. I’m not trying to put the whole blame on women here but from my experience, when it came to LTRs it was mostly the men who saw it as “no matter what happens, we’re in this together” while for women it was more like “I’m only here as long as I know I can benefit from it. Otherwise, I’ll just find someone else when the times get tough.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.I mean, I’m 24 years old so I’ll be okay with a woman who’s body count is at the range of 5-7. I think it mostly depends on age though. I might even increase those numbers by the time I reach 30 so I don’t think my standards are that unreasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Thank you so much! I think this thread will come in handy. Honestly, the more you think about it, the more it seems obvious to spot a woman who has a high n count. A good sign will be she treats relationships like they are a joke and she doesn’t have a strong relationship with her family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:10 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Yeah, some people just want their cake and eat it too. Now that wouldn’t be a problem if they haven’t just left crumbs for us to pick up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Yup definitely. I think it’s on my fair we date those who share the same values as us anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:03 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Oh I’m so sorry to hear that. I don’t really consider rape cases a factor when it comes to this sort of thing. I mean just women who usually have sex causally at their own consent. Congratulations on your new baby and I hope that things go well with you and your fiancé. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.You’re probably right about seeking a woman with similar Ideals to mine. For example, I see sex as something intimate so it only makes sense for me to end up with a woman who has the same views as it as I do despite n count. However, I am aware that women like sex and have tons of options so a woman with a high n count only tells me she won’t treat sex as serious as I do. Which is also why I said I’m with a woman who’s n count is at the range of 5-7 especially at 24. That only tells me she has b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 11:33 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.I don’t mean to come off as a “douche” but when you think about it, there’s no reason why you should trust a promiscuous woman to commit to you. For starters, women like sex and women have options as well. To her, you’ll just be another lay which means she won’t take you as seriously as you want her too. Maybe it’s not the really the n count that bothers but more like how women see sex in general. I see sex as an intimate experience so it would make sense for me to find a woman who has the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.I get that women like sex too and for me being 24 years old, it is unreasonable to try find a woman who is still a virgin at this age anyways. I don’t see women who has sex before hand as “used goods”. In fact, it doesn’t even matter to me if she is a virgin or not but rather how she sees and treats sex. I see sex as something intimate. Not from a religious, spiritual, or moral standpoint but rather something that two partners can share and take pleasure from. Which is why I can’t date girls who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 11:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Well, I don’t know you so how do you know I wouldn’t be for you or you for me? Lol. It’s fine. I never went out my way to ask people for their sex lives since I see that as something that is suppose to be private. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 11:11 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Well, if a man has lost his virginity then that only means he knows how to flirt and talk game with women. As a virgin, even I must admit that guys who are virgins tend to be awkward around women. I still am from time to time but that’s only because I don’t know how to prolong a conversation. I still have a long way to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 11:07 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.That is assuming she knows I’m a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 11:04 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.That’s true. I would say it will be better if those only stick with those with similar sexual experiences. Of course as a virgin, I would have to accept that most women have most likely popped their cherry by now. My job is to make sure that I give the impression that I know my way around the ropes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 11:02 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Who says that I’m not learning enough game and experience? Plus, I wish high school me would’ve known about the dating game but the red pill community wasn’t as strong as it is now. So just imagine me trying to get a girlfriend when my only “advice” at the time was “just be nice” or “women like soft and sensitive guys”. Yeah, not fun lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Thanks for the supporting comment. I’m not much who wants to control other’s sex lives anyways. Only I can understand why I hold the beliefs I do now. Funny thing is, I’m not even religious and yet I still treat sex as it is something that is intimate instead of casual. I don’t know, just the thought of a man and a woman getting naked with each other and pleasing each other with their bodies is not really something I would consider as “casual”. Maybe I’m just weird lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Oh of course. I am aware that women like sex. In fact, I wouldn’t enjoy sex as much if I know my partner isn’t taking pleasure from it as well. A high n count of 5 might be arbitrary but like I said, as a 24 year old guy, seeking a woman with an n count that is at the range of 5-7 seems pretty reasonable to me especially knowing that women have tons of options at this age. But I also see sex as an intimate experience. It would be disappointing if I find out my partner only saw it as it was the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Thanks for the comment. I find it distasteful to shame anyone for their sex lives (unless it’s infidelity). As a 24 year old, I understand that most women will most likely have some sort of sexual experience by now. So even as a virgin, I have to find a way to deal with that and possibly find a way to be on par with her sexual experience when the time comes. Of course, knowledge is only half the battle. Action, on the other hand, is a whole different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.The truth is, if promiscuous women are rejecting you there’s a good chance you’ll be rejected by virgin women too. Plus, there might be some insecurity when it comes to dating a promiscuous woman but that fear only comes when you realize how many options she has. Most likely, she will fall for the guy who is hotter than you when he finally shows up and the only reason why a promiscuous woman hasn’t cheated on you is because she hasn’t met that hot guy yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:43 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.I’m sorry to hear that man but that’s just one woman who rejected you. Just because one woman rejected you doesn’t mean all of them will. At the end of the day, women are individuals. Some of them are into the stuff you do while others are just the complete opposite. Trick is knowing which type of women fits your standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.I see where you’re coming from but it still makes no sense why you want a woman with a low n count lol. I mean, you already got the proof that you can pick up any woman you want. Getting a woman with a high n count as you is pretty fair game in my book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.That’s good to hear bro. If you want to wait until the right one comes(no pun intended lol) there’s nothing wrong with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Wow, well said 👏🏼. Also, it’s true that everyone desires sex but about those who treat it as an intimate experience? I like the idea of having sex but even if a hot girl walked up to me wanting to do it right then and there, I wouldn’t have the drive to do so since I need that connection first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 10:19 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.20 is just too much if we’re talking about reasonable numbers here. That only tells me she jumps from relationship to relationship which at that point, I’ll start questioning whether she is taking the relationship with me seriously or if I’m just another lay for her. It also tells she probably has no boundaries and doesn’t know to keep a stable relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 09:19 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Yeah, it happens and I just can’t understand why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 09:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.In a way, yes that also would be hypocritical but women naturally look for men in a higher position than them so even a minimum wage woman going for a high earning man is just her following her instincts of finding security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 09:13 AM |
| 28 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.I’m not saying I want a woman who is prudish or clueless when it comes to sex. I’m just saying I would prefer a woman who has the same views towards sex as I do which is seeing sex as an intimate experience. Which is why I don’t care if a woman had sex beforehand as long as it was intimate experience for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:02 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.I’m not saying she has to wait for a year to have sex but even then, if a woman is jumping from relationship to relationship, even that is a bad sign because it also proves she doesn’t take commitment seriously. I’m not slut shaming. Like I said, I’m fine if a woman has a body count of 5 cause that only tells me she’s been in relationships that just didn’t work out for whatever reason. I don’t go out of my way to Shane women who have a very sexual promiscuous past. I just wouldn’t commit to them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 01:50 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.What makes you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 01:45 AM |
| 46 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.That is true, men with high N counts who prefer women with low N counts are just hypocrites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 01:44 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.Good to hear there are some men here who have the same views as me but it’s still annoying how there some people out there who just doesn’t understand why a man wouldn’t want a woman with a promiscuous past and just assume we’re misogynistic or insecure just make themselves feel better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 01:42 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.How about this, you can have your number of sexual partners and no one should shame you for it. However, men shouldn’t be shamed for having a body count limit for their partners. Sounds like a fair deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who don’t want promiscuous women shouldn’t be seen as “misogynistic” or “slut shaming”.I see your point. Maybe my number might be too “strict” for some but I think it still holds especially for someone at my age. That’s why I don’t have a problem with women my age who have a body count that ranges from 5-7. There could be times where a woman has sex exclusively in relationships then has a casual “trial period” just to see what it was like. But a woman who has a higher body count just means that she’s doesn’t value commitment and is only interested in her own physical pleasures. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | This thread from /r/AmItheButtface is an example of just how much the "Women are Wonderful Effect" dominates the mainstream view of dating.Because from a moral standpoint, it’s still a messed up thing to do no matter what gender is doing it. Of course, no one is obligated to stay in a relationship for whatever reason. But that doesn’t mean that people still won’t have their opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | If a woman spends her prime years with Chad but decides to have a child with someone after 30, isn't that still the ultimate win for the father?Not really, cause she will always be sexually attracted to Chad. She will just divorce you and take the child away from you so she can live with Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.I’m a prize. I like stability and peacefulness but apparently all women want is unnecessary drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 06:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.I do have empathy but only towards those who are truly miserable. Women deliberately makes themselves miserable even they have solutions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 06:06 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Maybe not all but most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Well, I hope that is the case but still. I’m not taking any chances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Oh that is definitely true and is also sad in a way. Society has become so broken now that we might as well give up on any chance of redemption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 10:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Well hopefully for the guy’s sake, she doesn’t pull a “I wonder if the grass is greener on the other side” card. Women think just because a guy has nerdy hobbies, that means he can’t attract any other woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 10:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Yup, I heard about that too. Poor them though, cause I heard that even when they do start to change, they just end up going back to the bad boy because she craves the emotional high he gives her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 10:09 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Lol That just shows that women will keep sleeping with toxic men because they are being controlled by lust. That’s why I feel no empathy for women who’ve been abused or mistreated because I know at the end of the day, that’s the lifestyle they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 10:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Eastern European women sound pretty wise and mature then. I don’t know what’s going on with western girls. Full of toxicity and self destructive behavior. To make it worse, they will run into a good man who will open his heart to them only to just drown him with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 10:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Well you’re probably right. Not everyone is black and white. But how does a woman know if a guy is “genuinely nice” anyways? Most of them will just assume the man who naturally wants to be good is just putting on a facade to be socially accepted while they will be interested in the guy who is obviously a jerk just because in their heads, he is seen as “genuine”. I even noticed that girls talk to me differently compared to the guys they talk to. With them, they always talk about their adventures … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.That’s not the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Alright fair enough but why do women divorce and cheat on good men of that isn’t the case? Some women even admit they love the “thrill” of cheating. I just see it as a joke how society came up with these family structures only to find out that nature’s way of continuing the human race was men spreading their seed everywhere and women taking care of the children. Have you noticed thar fathers in some animal species don’t raise their own offsprings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Sure you can say that, but we still are biologically wired to be attracted to certain things no? It’s pretty universal for men to be attracted to women with nice bodies. Same thing for women. But the point is, women tend to think emotionally so they need to stimulated once you start talking to them cause of you’re too stable, they get bored easily. Men just don’t operate the same way. We can be in a silent place with our thoughts and we will still feel like we’re in peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 09:42 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Some men have no idea how they just sell themselves short by marrying a woman who’s been around the block 😂. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 09:40 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Well that’s just sad but even then there are cases where good men do approach and get rejected. I guess it’s just something that bad boys have that the nice guys don’t and that is having the art of seduction. Which proves that kindness alone won’t be enough to get a woman to be interested in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 09:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.For real. Women especially need to learn not carry baggage from their previous relationships. It’s like they treat every new boyfriend as their ex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.That could be possible. I heard that girls even date bad boys as a way to “escape” their miserable lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/21 07:41 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.If that’s the case then there’s a lot of damaged women out there. More than what is necessary I would say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:15 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Because even men in their 30s don’t even have good options to choose from. You have single mothers, crazy feminist cat ladies, and women who’ve been run through by different guys. It’s rough for the man who just wants to keep his piece of mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:13 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.Bingo. Also, there are tons of men who want LTRs during their 20s but women overlook them because they are more focused on the hot bad boys. I always get rejected for the hot guy who just wants to use her for casual sex even though I wanted a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:09 PM |
| 27 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?Women are willing to sleep with the men they like in a short life span. Don’t believe them when they say they are waiting to feel an “emotional connection”. They are just leading you on as a free meal ticket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?Women are willing to sleep with men on the first night that they considered to be attractive and able to seduce her with conversation. So the answer is no, women don’t wait months to build an “emotional connection”. She either likes you and wants to have sex or she doesn’t. If she’s taking more than a month..no scratch that..more than a WEEK to sleep with you, it’s best to assume you’re nothing more but a free meal ticket for her. That is why it is important that we advise men to cut her loose i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.That’s true. I think there is a misconception when it comes to bad boys. When I think of a bad boy, I think of someone who is manipulative, selfish, unempathetic, and dishonest. Loud and social never did fit in that category for me of course I can see why being extroverted is seen as a trait for bad boys considering that master manipulators tend to be social themselves. But not everything is always black and white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:38 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.That’s fine. It’s just human nature. I just find it funny how society teaches men that we don’t have to fulfill traditional gender roles only to realize that is probably the only way to gain female attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.You got a point. Not everything is black and white. After all, women fell for these bad boys for a reason right? Whether it’ll be looks, humor, or charm. I guess the problem is we never heard of a guy who is genuinely good. It’s either the manipulative bad boy who is a womanizer and breaks every heart of every woman who comes hi way or the nice guy that puts his heart on the table thinking it’s romantic when it reality, it just makes him look needy and insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:26 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.You’re probably right. Women who are capable of maintaining a long term relationship are already cuffed up and off the dating market. Bad news is, there is less supply of good stable women for good and stable men to choose from. Most women want drama and chaos in their lives because makes them feel “fulfilled” whatever that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:00 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.I noticed your have “autistic egalitarian” in your label. I don’t mean to sound rude but maybe the reason why you weren’t attracted to the bad boys is because you didn’t blend in well with them. I’m referring to normal women who deliberately chase bad boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:57 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.How do you know if a “nice guy” is just putting on a facade though? Most guys who are genuinely nice are labeled as soft, sweet, and cute. Not exactly flattering compliments since it implies weakness and naivety. Plus, I had some women admit they are attracted to bad boys because of the excitement. Which isn’t really wrong since it’s just human nature but that also means that healthy relationships, or at least from my understanding, are just as fictional as relationships you see in Disney movies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:55 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.I’m not sure if this is sarcasm lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Will porn make men sexually incompatible with women?That depends. Constant stroking will eventually lead to erectile dysfunction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is your opinion on monogamy?Sometimes I feel like an alien because monogamy just comes natural to me lol. If I’m dating a woman or had a girlfriend, I can’t imagine myself having sex with anyone else but her. Sure, I can notice a good looking woman when I see one and have perverted thoughts but at the end of the day, my girlfriend is the one who I will desire, want to see nude, and have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 01:54 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Long Term Relationships are hard to find because society has become too selfish and shallow.I just find that to be funny because you would think that people would want clean dishes regardless on who does them. I think the problem with my generation is that most of us are just spoiled and lazy. I don’t mind washing the dishes or doing house cleaning( because who doesn’t want a clean house) but I would start to get resentful if I feel like my girlfriend isn’t doing her part and is just letting me carry all the weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Biology versus Cultural Conditioning. Female perception of Men showing Emotion and opening up and masculine Men.This is a good explanation. I would also say that when it comes to women, it’s not what you express but HOW you express it that matters most. It’s okay to tell your girl your having a rough time but you always gotta reassure her that the motions you’re having is temporary. Women want to feel like they can rely on their men. A man who gives the impression he has given up, is a man they cannot trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Biology versus Cultural Conditioning. Female perception of Men showing Emotion and opening up and masculine Men.Depends on how you express in my opinion. The thing is with women, you always gotta show them that even though you’re at your lowest, you still want to get back up. Expecting them to be like your mother to cuddle you like a toddler is just going to make them see you as that: a toddler and not a man. Women want soldiers who can take in all the hits and keep marching forward. They don’t want a soldier who just falls down and lay there all because the marching trail is too long or because the groun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 12:10 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Long Term Relationships are hard to find because society has become too selfish and shallow.That’s true, people just agree to watch ever deal if offered to them at the expense of themselves and then it’s no wonder why they become resentful. They are just pretending they are okay with it because they want to be seen as the complainer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Is college worse for dating than high school?It becomes more difficult for men that’s for sure. It’s easy to get women in high school because that’s when they are clueless and know nothing about relationships. But in college it gets difficult, because women now have learned from being burned by their high school boyfriends on what to look out for and not to mention that since they are focused on their careers and future, they are looking for a man who is already financially stable. Most men in their early 20s aren’t financially stable thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Is college worse for dating than high school?Not everyone but most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Long Term Relationships are hard to find because society has become too selfish and shallow.Exactly. Everyone is just focus on doing their own thing. No room for romance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:51 PM |
| 21 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?Exactly. That is often the case. Still, you have to pity those who thought the feelings were mutual without realizing that they were just a ball and chain the whole time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:46 PM |
| 24 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?“People are only as loyal as their options”. There’s a reason why this quote exist. Based on what I observed from other’s experiences, women will hate sleeping with they partners if 1) the pleasure on her end is lacking or 2) she doesn’t find him attractive. Also keep in mind, that women will marry men who they see as unattractive but that’s only because they have “settled” and gave up on convincing the men who they ARE attracted to commit to them. But this strategy doesn’t work in the long run … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that bisexual people make better romantic and sexual partners?Not by a long shot. If heterosexuals can’t even be monogamous, being bisexual just makes it near impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 04:37 AM |
| 6 | Most can be feminine, not many can be masculineCan the media just PLEASE create a male protagonist that shows he is compassionate, kind, and loving but also strong, courageous, and bold? Cause you always have idiots here like OP who always thinks that it has to be one or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Telling unattractive men that increasing their "status" will boost their SMV is a red herringLol DJ won’t be a bad option. Seriously, I knew some fine looking women who had BFs that were DJs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Telling unattractive men that increasing their "status" will boost their SMV is a red herringI spend 24 years without getting laid, intimacy, or relationships. At some point, you just have to adapt to the cards that were given to you even though someone else had better ones. I know it sucks to know that there are some guys out there who can get women at ease but that’s only because they were genetically gifted to do so. Just get over it and deal with it. Live and let live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 09:11 PM |
| 26 | Telling unattractive men that increasing their "status" will boost their SMV is a red herringIf you don’t win the casual sex game, you won’t win in the long term relationship game either. Attraction is crucial and even women themselves admitted this. If your girl doesn’t find you attractive, you’re not going to get the affection or desire you want from an LTR and the relationship will just feel stale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Telling unattractive men that increasing their "status" will boost their SMV is a red herringThat depends. In my area, some couples do look like their looks match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Telling unattractive men that increasing their "status" will boost their SMV is a red herringAnd here I am hoping to be a writer and a game designer. I guess it’s virginity for life for me then and don’t even get me started on looks. I’m fairly average looking and that’s just me being Generous. Gym time won’t be an option too cause all my time will be focused on that one passion I want to pursuer and I know damn well that with the road I’m taking, I got nothing against these gym rats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 09:05 PM |
| 3 | What would be the female equivalent of a man being traumatized by his wife/GF's sexual past?As a guy, I’ll just tell you this that some dudes have trust issues from previous relationships. We are not really as affectionate or generous as we were in our previous relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 07:50 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The advice “you need to love yourself first before someone else can love you” doesn’t work for men the same way it does for women.That makes sense. You can’t make someone else happy if you’re not happy yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 07:26 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The advice “you need to love yourself first before someone else can love you” doesn’t work for men the same way it does for women.Oh, well that’s great for you. I guess love is needed for other reasons than feeling attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 07:25 AM |
| 6 | CMV: The advice “you need to love yourself first before someone else can love you” doesn’t work for men the same way it does for women.That’s true as well. Leaving you desperate will only make you vulnerable to manipulators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 04:28 AM |
| 4 | CMV: The advice “you need to love yourself first before someone else can love you” doesn’t work for men the same way it does for women.Well, it’ll be no wonder why we cling to people who shows interest in us. If you’re hungry and never had food, of course you’ll take the piece of bread that is handed to you no matter how small it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:59 AM |
| 4 | CMV: The advice “you need to love yourself first before someone else can love you” doesn’t work for men the same way it does for women.Well you might be right. For some people, valuing themselves is all they really got but what’s the point of that just means living a life of loneliness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The advice “you need to love yourself first before someone else can love you” doesn’t work for men the same way it does for women.Except you missed the part where I said that it’s easier for women because they already have that external validation. If it wasn’t for that, women will still doubt their sexual market value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:55 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The advice “you need to love yourself first before someone else can love you” doesn’t work for men the same way it does for women.I guess that’s true, but what about those moments where you sometimes do long to be in a relationship but realize it’ll probably never happened not to mention that you don’t have the option to be in one even if you wanted to. You can “love yourself” but it’s not going to get rid of that feeling like you’re missing out on something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?I also use to believe that everyone was capable of love until I realized that what most people call “love” is just lust mixed with infatuation and most people don’t really care about you aside from what you can do for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?I think this just proves that women care about sexual satisfaction more than personality. Plus, women judge your sexual performance based on whatever character traits you show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?My most blue pill belief is believing that for women, personality matters more than looks until I realized that women will still like you even though you’re an asshole just because you’re good looking and women will hate you just because you’re ugly even though you’re a kind person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?You don’t understand what he’s trying to say. The ideal should be to have a partner who is also the best sex you had, so that way, it decreases the odds of you cheating. Her having an ex that she considers as “better” is no good because if the ex comes back, she will dump her current partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:05 AM |
| 0 | Do you think equality has actually made women unhappy today?Dumb question, but 3 euros is basically just $3 in US currency right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 10:50 AM |
| -1 | Do you think equality has actually made women unhappy today?I mean provide basic necessities not luxuries lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 09:49 AM |
| -1 | Do you think equality has actually made women unhappy today?But you could just easily find a man that will provide for you and you wouldn’t have to worry about paying rent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 08:34 PM |
| -2 | Do you think equality has actually made women unhappy today?I’m just saying that maybe women are realizing they don’t have what it takes to take part in a “man’s world”. Being a housewife is easier than working in a 9 to 5 job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 08:27 PM |
| – | Study shows men rate feeling desired by their partners higher than what is appreciatedWell, as long as you two are communicating and you’re making an effort. There should be no problem. The problem with me and my ex is that she would always leave me in the dark and make me figure out things on my own. That’s where I brought myself to the conclusion that breaking up was the best option. I get that people need their space from time time but the problem with me is that if me and my gf don’t see each other as often as I want, I would feel like she is meeting with other guys and doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 12:32 AM |
| – | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?If I had to make a list of my top worst fears, this would definitely be on that list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 12:23 AM |
| – | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?Bro, I understand what you mean. If one day my gf told me her ex was better in bed, all my sex drive will just be flushed out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 12:20 AM |
| – | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?I don’t think it’s necessarily “ok” to think your ex is better. Or more like, no man wants to hear that his gf’s ex was better in bed than him. That’s a good way to kill a man’s spirit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Based on the RedPill philosophy, shouldn’t men who desire monogamous long term relationships be considered as “beta males”?How does it not make sense? Alpha lions don’t make themselves exclusive to one mate. Plus, the red pill definition of an alpha male just gives the impression that an alpha male is the one who doesn’t give a f*** about anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Study shows men rate feeling desired by their partners higher than what is appreciatedAs a man, sometimes I just wish women will realize how important affection is to men as much as it is to them but men are basically taught to suffer in silence. My ex girlfriend showed very little affection to me than I’ve wanted and I was just getting the impression that she she didn’t desire me anymore. I would have asked her about it but I didn’t want to appear as clingy plus I’ve heard that if your partner is not giving you affection, it means she just doesn’t like you anymore. I broke up wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There isn’t someone for everyone.That can be true also but I’m talking on the case where it is only the woman that felt like she settled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There isn’t someone for everyone.But you also have to take into account whether a woman is with you because she truly likes you or only because you are the best she can get which in that case, she is settling and I hear cases of some women settling for their partners only to cheat on them when the man who they truly desire shows up. Perception can reflect experience but experience can also reflect perception as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:30 PM |
| 2 | TRP post: Ever suddenly become repulsed by a partner despite nothing obviously wrong happening?Really depends. If you don’t trust that your partner will be loyal to you then maybe monogamy is not in your best interest. There is a reason why men and women cheat though. Let’s not pretend that infidelity is exclusive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Why the sexual market place will ALWAYS be skewed towards women in a free society.The way I see it, the men women will choose to hook up with will be the same men they want to be in a LTR with. The only reason why they don’t choose LTR with that certain because although they may find him physically attractive, they just don’t like his character enough to be in a LTR. Men have this dilemma as well. Of course women might be “choosy” but that’s only because her instincts are telling her to choose the best mate. Remember, women can only deliver a baby every 9 months while men can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 11:23 PM |
| 2 | TRP post: Ever suddenly become repulsed by a partner despite nothing obviously wrong happening?I always find that scary to be honest and after reading stories like these, now I can’t tell if a woman’s interest is legitimate. The fact that women settle only because you were the “best” at that time just defeats the idea of LTRs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 09:51 AM |
| 3 | TRP post: Ever suddenly become repulsed by a partner despite nothing obviously wrong happening?Based on the two articles you linked at the bottom, I would say that women typically cheat when they feel like the “passion” of a marriage is fading. For Priya’s case, she never had the chance to truly discover herself. She pulled an act throughout her entire life in order to seek validation and it was only when she met the tattood trucker where she finally had the courage to disregard everything she was taught to believe and value. I feel bad for the husband in this case because that only meant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 09:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women care about lifestyle over money/wealthThat’s harsh. Maybe some people just never took the time to consider eating somewhere different? Are you female? I would recommend not over analyzing everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you think relationships based on traditional gender roles tend to do better than relationships based on equality?Your reply sounds logical. Maybe some people can make compromises but that really depends on the individual. I think equal relationships can work if there is a fair amount of sexual desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 03:57 AM |
| 0 | Do you think relationships based on traditional gender roles tend to do better than relationships based on equality?But what about for today’s standards? Some people desire traditionalism even to this day. Even some women admit they desire a wealthy provider man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Are most gold diggers are actually status diggers?It really depends. A rich ugly business man can land a woman but even a hot looking trade guy can land a woman as well especially considering he has a job that is considered to be masculine. It all depends on beauty, income, and statues which sometimes can be interlinked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 08:37 AM |
| 1 | What should be a man's purpose in a world of equality?Society didn’t strip them of anything. Men are committing suiciding because we don’t take men’s mental health seriously. We need to encourage young men that there is nothing wrong with seeking therapy or guidance. Plus, for some reason, many men expect for there to be some kind of grand goal waiting for them. The truth is, there is none. Stop idealizing life and judging it based on what it could be or should be. Existence is just is. So appreciate it for what it has given you and use this time t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | What should be a man's purpose in a world of equality?What ever you want your purpose to be the choice is yours. You want to be a singer? then be a singer. You want to be a farmer? then be a farmer. You want to be the “traditional” man that provides for his family with a housewife? You are free to pursue that as well. There is no objective purpose in life. We have yet to discover what is our goal in this universe or why we are placed here. All we do know is that we exist and the only thing that awaits us is death. So use this time that you have to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | What should be a man's purpose in a world of equality?It doesn’t take a genius to find out that men and women are built differently from one another. The point is that we shouldn’t be limited just because of what it is between our legs. Everyone can make a choice for themselves. Men can now have hobbies that aren’t traditionally seen as masculine such as the arts while women can choose a different lifestyle aside from motherhood. I don’t see what the problem is. I thought that history has taught us that we should always pursue freedom and individua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Women want to join a saved gameLet’s break down what women like in men: Muscles, style, sharp jawline, tall, a head full of hair, and financial stability. Now imagine a 50 year old that looks like George Clooney, and another 50 year old that looks like Harvey Weinstein. Add to that, a 20 year old guy who looks like a nerd and another 20 year old guy who looks like your typical frat. All these men are competing for a beautiful 20 year old woman and she can only pick one. Who do you think she’s going to pick? Obviously, the 50 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:27 AM |
| 6 | Having a "Madonna Whore dichotomy" is normal and naturalTo summarize: Men would prefer a “damaged” woman for only hook ups and ONS but would choose the “boring” virgin woman for LTRs. It’s a similar case for women. They would choose the toxic f***boy for hook ups but would choose the sweet and boring nice guy for LTRs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Why say he’s good in bed when he’s not?That makes no sense. If he’s bad in bed with you then he’s bad in bed with most women. It’s better to be upfront so he won’t end up getting cheated on just because his girlfriend find someone who was better at getting her off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The 80/20 rule only exists because men weren’t as pressured as women to uphold their own beauty standards.I don’t mean men holding standards. I meant men fulfilling their beauty expectations. Men have to outcompete women when it comes to beauty if they wish to get rid of the 80/20 rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 07:59 AM |
| -4 | CMV: The 80/20 rule only exists because men weren’t as pressured as women to uphold their own beauty standards.Well, studies shown that women also like the “dad bod” so the standards for men aren’t as strict as we think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 07:57 AM |
| -2 | CMV: The 80/20 rule only exists because men weren’t as pressured as women to uphold their own beauty standards.Oh I didn’t mean men need to have standards. I meant men must fulfill the beauty standards that were set for them. By doing so, there’s a god chance we can swing the 80/20 rule to our favor. Expecting women to lower their standards is pointless. It’s either men play catch up with women on the beauty olympics or risk spending the rest of your life single and a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?Pretty much. I still don’t see the problem with it though. The only group I feel bad for are the men who dreamt of being fathers but appears that dream will always be a fantasy and since women are willing to divorce just for change of finances or power dynamics and being a stay at home dad is totally out of the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?It’s not like men want to be fathers in their 20s. And then there’s me, the odd one out who wanted to be a father in his 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 06:06 AM |
| 0 | According to RedPill/MGTOW, are healthy long term relationships just not possible?In our relationships the men and woman is not a “partner” because that doesn’t work... The man is the pilot the women is the flight attendant. This is not emotional it’s not to treat her bad or be mean. It’s because it is the proper male female dynamic. Bro, that’s what a partnership is lol. A woman supports her man and vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 05:36 AM |
| 1 | There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society."Thanks for the shout out lol. But I think what a woman considers “creepy” heavily depends on how the guy looks. Ugly or weird looking= creepy Hot or attractive= Flattering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 08:26 AM |
| 0 | If relationships are more valuable than wealth, then women have the most privilegeYou’re right, there is more to this equation. Compatibility does play a role here as well. Damn, the more I think about it, the more I realize women do want the perfect 10/10 man looks wise and personality wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | If relationships are more valuable than wealth, then women have the most privilegeYou’re surrounded by thousands of men everyday who are waiting to be snatched up. There’s no reason why a woman, especially an attractive woman would be single other than the fact she either chose to or she just has high standards. More men are becoming single and virgins at an alarming rate. What does that tell you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/21 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that young men under 30 will begin seeing sex workers more often due to "The Stats"?Nah, the male pride won’t allow them and I say this as a man. You feel more accomplished and flattered having a woman willing to fuck your instead of paying her to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?You can just say that beauty standards are “cultural” or are “socially constructed” but you have to ask yourself WHY do we have these beauty standards? Feminists always like to complain about beauty standards towards women without understanding that men have beauty standards to fulfill too. It’s pretty well evident by now that there are traits for both men and women that are considered universally attractive. The only thing that really changes is fashion and in case of you haven’t noticed, most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?That’s the scary part when dealing with women in their 30s and beyond. Once they get the baby rabies, any man will do but once that stage is complete; they will actually start noticing who the man really is and resent him because of it. That’s why it’s better to date women in their 20s. They have options so if they pick you, that’s how you know they really like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?My mother abused my father horribly because she settled for him and hated him for not being her dream man. Is that supposed too be normal? I noticed this is a common thing among some marriages and it always makes me confused because how is someone willing to marry a person they don’t even like and make them miserable because of it? Your mother sounds like a cunt and I also feel sorry that you and your father had to suffer because of her entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?I always hear guys complain about how high women’s standards are though without realizing she is just following her biological desire. If you want honesty from women, then you have to encourage them to be honest by not blowing up on their faces every time they try to tell you the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 10:36 AM |
| 7 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?When it comes to looks, you are limited by genetics. Plus, not every man can be millionaires. The American dream is dead and you would have to be asleep to believe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | My dad always says if a guy is single at 35+, there usually a reason, and it’s usually baggage. How true is this statement?I think your father’s statement is too general. Some men actually do have baggage while others just never had the privilege to have a woman reciprocate any interest. A man who is single in his 30s makes more sense than a woman who is single in her 30s. Women have tons of options while men are limited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Everybody deserves a little fun in their younger yearsSome men such as myself find themselves getting attached to a woman early just because she has a pretty face and a nice body. I’ll still trying to work on it. I always let women know what I’m expecting up front. I’m 23 years old and I’m trying to enjoy my time while at the same time still looking for the woman who will be right for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 06:57 AM |
| 5 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?It’s crazy that’s how it is. I know some average dudes who dreamt of having families but I guess you can’t argue with female nature. The game was rigged from the beginning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 05:03 AM |
| 4 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?If they want to find the HVM who will be a provider, good husband, and father I say good luck to them. Finding the ideal partner is like rolling two dice and expecting to get a double six for each roll. Rarely will you luck out and get that perfect roll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?You can’t really compare women’s dating preferences to slavery though. Slavery actually harmed people and sometimes actually got them killed. Women’s preferences never harmed anyone except of course incels, who think they can just force female attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?What planet are you from? You ever heard of evolution? You can literally turn a single celled organism into any one of the plants, fungi, or animals on the planet. Except, humans aren’t plants or fungi. Humans haven’t charged one bit over the years. The only thing that really chants is technology. You could make your same argument about rape, and claim that nothing can be done to stop men’s natural inclination to rape. But that’s nonsense, rape is down like 40% from how it was just 50 years ago.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 04:09 AM |
| 2 | How did your views about women with a history of casual sex change?I rarely ask a woman about her sexual history but sometimes you just know when a woman isn’t looking for anything serious. At that point, I just walk away. It’s hard to trust women for LTRs these days since they are impatient, stubborn, and more likely to cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?No one said about you “justifying” yourself. Get over yourself. I’m just saying men shouldn’t waste their time with women who can give two shits about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Do most men really prefer younger women to women in their age range?I should have been more specific. When I say high statues, I’m not only referring to financially. Physical looks play a huge factor and where you’ll stand. For example, a rich woman will tolerate a poor man as long as he is good looking but she’ll never tolerate an average looking poor man. In the case of your female friends, they make more than their boyfriends but since they find their boyfriends to be attractive looking, they won’t put too much attention to the fact he makes less than them. H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Do most men really prefer younger women to women in their age range?Younger women are easy to impress once you’re a man who has grown financially and statues wise. It’s impossible for a man to find a woman around his “level” because women only date up never across or below. That’s why men tend to date younger women. They are easier to attract and plus bring the most healthy relationships because they see you as the alpha instead of constantly trying to question or challenge you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Do you regret not living the life script?What the hell is a “life script”? No one should tell you what you should or shouldn’t do with your life. You’re allowed to live it however way you want. If you’re so afraid of “missing out” just go out and do whatever it is you want to do. Who is stopping you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?Except it isn’t about “forcing”. It’s about how you hold off for the guy who wanted a relationship but gave it to the guy who can give two shits about you with no problem. It’s a shitty deal and it’s a huge slap to the face of the guy who genuinely wants to get to know you better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Casual sex happens most in casual, playful, and fun environs.It’s pointless to talk about the bridge between casual sex and long term relationships. You need to be considered attractive by the opposite sex in order to gain both. Only difference is that your character and lifestyle will also play a factor if you are worthy for LTRs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 09:27 PM |
| 5 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?No self respecting man is going to risk getting blue balls over three months of waiting. A woman that doesn’t have sex with a man is just telling him she doesn’t find him sexually attractive. Either women initiate or make it obvious that they want to f**k the guy or just stop wasting his time and leasing him on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | If you're not hot or rich, you can't afford to be shallow.I personally think everyone is entitled to their standards whether it is delusional or not. Just don’t complain or blame the other gender when they don’t fit your standards. People tend to forget that other people have their own flaws, dreams, and ambitions and it is very selfish of them to think the world has to pander to their fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?The truth is, men want sex whether intimate or not and even men have limits. If a woman doesn’t have sex with man within a span of 3 months, I think it’s safe to say she just doesn’t like him that much in which case, the man needs to leave and find someone who does like him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:03 AM |
| 40 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?This is the answer. If a woman has sex with someone as a fling, that establishes she has a type she doesn't have to wait for. If she then goes on to another man and says she wants a relationship with him, but wants to wait on having sex, that man is clearly not the type that turns her on the same way her fling did. FACTS. A woman who makes a man “wait” is basically telling him she doesn’t find him sexually attractive therefore, she is wasting his time and leading him on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.I embrace truth. Can’t say the same for you though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:57 AM |
| 16 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?It’s not that men feel “obligated” it’s just that they find themselves trying to avoid a shit deal. Do you not realize how humiliating it is to realize that the girl you’re dating was willing to sleep with a jackass loser within hours of meeting him while she made you wait two months simply because you weren’t also a Jackass? It defeats the whole purpose of a committed relationship and it contradicts what women are sexually attracted to. Women need to realize that men want sex wether it’s intima… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.But women had the options to choose a better man, that’s what I’m saying but they go against it for whatever reason. Ever heard of “alpha fux, beta bux”? Women will breed with men who are unfit to be fathers but trick the man who is into raising someone else’s child. Why not just choose the capable man from the get go? This strategy just doesn’t make sense even from an evolutionary stand point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.But don’t you see how unnatural that is? Why are so many people “broken”? Why is society going to absolute shit? Doesn’t this whole thing make you question how we got to this point in the first place? Something is trying to divide us and we were all brainwashed to not question it or ignore it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.Just look up the “mouse utopia” experiment. I’m starting to see similar patterns within our society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:09 AM |
| 0 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.Hahahahaha denial. I love it. But don’t take it personally. Your case is just a symptom of an even bigger issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.And yet some will argue sex is a “biological need” and that absences, social equality, and maintaining order are impossible because humans are biologically animals. Which one is it? Are we animals incapable of making rational decisions are we conscious beings capable of improving ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.How do you know all animals feel pleasure out of reproduction though? Wolves reproduce and protect their young. So do penguins. It is very telling when humans decide to go against what is beneficial for their survival. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.If women are actively avoiding pregnancy, why do they get impregnated by men who are obviously unfit to be fathers? Seems like they are not so afraid of pregnancy after all. Anything else are just excuses. Post depression is a concerning phenomenon because it is not natural. No animal on Earth goes through this except female humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 11:59 PM |
| -5 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.Medicine seems to be more of a manipulation of biology where you take in certain chemicals, vitamins, or bacteria to fight off diseases. Might not be natural since it’s artificially made. I guess you’re correct that there are other things we do that wouldn’t be considered as natural. But isn’t technological advancements such as medicine a product of evolution which in a way, does make it natural? And if women had a “choice” in the matter that means they are still choosing which mates they prefer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 03:04 AM |
| -2 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.How so? Alpha males provide security. Why the doubts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 02:57 AM |
| -2 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.Fair argument, but technological advancements are just a product of evolution which is also natural. But that still doesn’t explain how other species sacrifice to preserve their existence while humanity are the only ones that go against it. Women’s breeding strategy is also weird since they rather give birth to children of men who are not suitable to be fathers while not giving children to the man who is. The term “alpha fux, beta bux” wouldn’t exist if this weren’t the case either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 02:56 AM |
| -6 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.But that begs the question why some women not “want” to have children. Perhaps lacks of mates they find suitable? That seems to be the most likely case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 02:53 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men.That’s exactly what I’ve been thinking. Women have been relieved from their roles but men have not and even if men wanted to fulfill their roles, they cannot since women hypergamous nature ha e run rampant since they joined the workforce. It’s a sad sight to look at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men.That’s exactly what I’m talking about! I think technology has made things easier to the point that it left with women thinking they can do anything a man can do and men feeling as if they are no longer useful. I think men’s problem nowadays is that they want to feel useful but their don’t know how. It also doesn’t help when they always hear messages like “women don’t need men” or “a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle”. I agree with you that technology did made men and women outprice t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men.That can be a reason but why can’t these men just pick up their weight and work? I think their problem is that they are expecting something extraordinary for themselves when in reality, there’s nothing extraordinary about existence. You just exist, that’s all there is to it. No one can give you a purpose, you have to find it for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:14 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men.I can see that but it’s not like women are the only ones who work for minimum wage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:10 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men.I guess that’s true but what would that mean for the relationship between men and women? It’s not there aren’t women out there who still expect men to be the breadwinner for who complain about his men aren’t “financially attractive”. I can imagine it’s horrible to work in corporate these days since everyone is super competitive and especially with the whole MeToo accusations going around, all it takes is one woman’s word to ruin a man’s career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:08 PM |
| -4 | CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men.Did they really? I can imagine men took the most impact since they lost their jobs especially if they were the bread winner for their families. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 09:55 PM |
| 2 | What’s better, starting off as friends or starting with a casual relationship?I think casual dating works better because of you go by the “be friends first” route, she’ll most likely start seeing you as a “brother” and you don’t want that. That’s why it’s crucial for men to start flirting with women on the first interaction because this sends a clear message that you are interested in her beyond a friendship. If she reciprocates, it’s a good sign she likes you. If she doesn’t, well who cares? More fish in the sea. We really need to get rid of this myth that the friend zon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | The men most women interact with and the men on this subreddit are completely different.Women’s impression for men heavily depends on who she surrounds herself with. If she is surrounded by wealthy men, she would assume all men live that way. If she is surrounded by frat boys, she would assume all men are frat boys. If she keeps running into men who cheat, she’ll assume most men will cheat. Why do you think you always see women bitching on social media about men doing this and that when reality, most men aren’t like that and it’s only the men she chooses to surround herself with. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Female Dating StrategyI don’t listen to anything on FDS because if you had a clear understanding of female nature, you would realize that women will never use the games that FDS promotes on men they find attractive. The FDS only applies to average men with an average income. Women wouldn’t play this much games with the men they actually want. That’s why I say it is a bad sign if a woman is shit testing you or leading you on. Women will never dangle the prize in front of the men they actually want only to pull it away… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | People lower their looks standards to get what they actually want.Women are okay with compromising for more than men think they are. Well, this article proves otherwise: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ “Men and Women tend to be single at different stages in their lives” what does that statement tell you? I even hear women often say they rather be single than to “settle”. What does that tell you? And I’m not buying the bullshit “most men just aren’t stable or mature these days.” You’re surrounded by THOUSANDS … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 12:09 PM |
| 8 | People lower their looks standards to get what they actually want.Lol The truth is men and women out priced themselves out of the dating market. Both men and women have high standards but I still think that men will have no problem compromising with an average looking plain Jane. The problem only rises when Plain Jane feels as if she is “settling” and deserves something better. I still envy women in this regard thought cause you can literally be whatever the fuck you want and you will still find a sucker who is dumb enough to put a ring on it while men have to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 10:24 AM |
| 7 | People lower their looks standards to get what they actually want.Same thing if you aren’t rich and god forbid you have a career that isn’t doctor, CEO, model, lawyer, banker, or anything that is seen as high statues. I wonder how men are going to cope in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 10:18 AM |
| 3 | What are your standards?A girl who looks decent looking but not too unattractive to the point I can’t imagine myself being in a long term relationship with her. A girl who is kind, empathetic, nurturing, but no pushover. A girl who doesn’t smoke or get drunk. Being interested in my nerdy hobbies is a plus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 09:02 AM |
| 3 | How can men form intimate relationships with women while still appearing as the alpha male?I suppose you’re right. Maybe I’m just taking this redpill stuff too seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How can men form intimate relationships with women while still appearing as the alpha male?That’s actually good advice. But what about female nature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 12:01 PM |
| 5 | How can men form intimate relationships with women while still appearing as the alpha male?I’m not an incel. I actually been following redpill for a while now but some things seem to contradict each other but I think that’s only because red pill only works for hook ups while I’m trying to use it for LTRs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | How can men form intimate relationships with women while still appearing as the alpha male?I mean, whatever works am I right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual PreferencesThat sounds kind of fucked up though. The bad boys get the pretty women while the nice guys get the sloppy seconds. Shits sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 10:23 AM |
| 7 | [Q4A] Do you think if a man doesn't put a ring on it after the 4-5 year mark, that he never will?Some men just don’t see marriage as necessary. It’s as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 07:56 AM |
| 0 | Food for Thought Regarding Alpha MalesAlphas? Like who? Teachers, politicians, and frat boys? I wouldn’t consider them to be “alpha”. For me, “alpha” is a man who leads for a greater purpose and leaves something great for his people. Like Roman leader Julius Cesar. Now that guy was what I would call a Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Why are most men never taught how to attract women?Except you’re missing the crucial part where he WASN’T preselected until he was. Girls flocked to him because by attracting one of them, he proved that he had something that they all might’ve wanted. It happened to me at my job. I was the new guy and none of the female co workers ever talked or flirted with me until one of them started to. Next thing you know, more of them started talking to me as well. I guess I must’ve made a good impression on the first girl because if I didn’t, I probably wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 08:10 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.I know MANY men who are functional and intelligent but women don’t want them for whatever reason. They are not even bad looking dudes. I’m HIGHLY convinced it’s about money and luxury at this point since it seems to be the only logical explanation for why even the decent dudes are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 07:43 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.Well I just did lol. But I’m here now so it’s all good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 09:10 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.I guess that’s true. There is a difference between “Not what I expected, but it still turned out better than I hoped” to “ I’m only keeping this because I can’t afford a better one.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 09:08 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.Nobody loves anybody. We get temporarily infatuated with people until we come to our senses. Ain’t that the truth lol. I know some girls who went out with hot guys but end up dumping them once they find out how much of an asshole/loser he was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 09:06 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.Alright, you can get rid of the material aspects but what about the physical aspects? I always hear women say that physical attraction is a big deal to them for long term relationships. Will they trade their “average” looking guy for a hotter one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 09:03 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.May I ask, how long have you guys been together and how does your relationship work out? In some cases, I always hear that relationships where women make the most income don’t last and I wonder why. Do women naturally can’t respect a man who makes less? Some men do want to lead in relationships but I think it will be hard to do that with a woman who makes the most cash. I hear that financial power is pretty much a big deal to women that’s why some of them can’t take a man who makes less than the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 09:01 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.Not everyone spends their time on Reddit 24/7 you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 08:56 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.Well not every but maybe most. I mean, every woman has an ideal partner no? Why settle for less than that if they really had the option? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 08:54 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Women don't really like or love their boyfriends/husbands, they are just settling for the best they can get.That’s true, but what if a better opportunity came? You think they’ll take it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 08:53 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Men settle for women more than vice versa. Most men would leave their partner if they had more options.You can argue that men "settle" with the women they have now but I can make the same argument for women as well. Women don't really like their boyfriends but rather they are with them because they are the best they can get or they don't want to be single. Plus, men don't care if their girlfriends look like a supermodel or not. Men are really simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:39 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Yeah, I personally experienced the same thing you did. I was the guy who told my girlfriend all my fears and I was emotionally open with her. I guess she mistaken that as me getting soft and therefore weak so she left. I won't make that same mistake again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:25 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.It's just a metaphor. Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it doesn't hold any weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:20 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I see what you mean. I guess emotional control are what men need if they wish to have women be sexually attractive to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Isn't that what I was implying though? Keep your emotions to yourself and keep a strong masculine frame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Those are some wise words. I never said that one should be without emotion but that it is probably best if they were kept to yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 06:09 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Which in that case, it’s better to teach emotional control no? I take back about what I said about emotions make you weak but this is female sexual attraction we’re talking about and like I’ve said in my post, I’ve never seen a woman get horny for an emotional man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:40 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I know but still. I see what you mean though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:38 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I guess you’re right. Action speaks louder than words after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.That makes sense. You were a virgin and so was she so that was one thing you guys can relate to from one another. And even despite that, you showed confidence and masculine frame by flirting with her. Well done. I’m gonna be honest with you, I pretty much suck when it comes to flirting because I don’t want to come off as too pushy or creepy and it’s hard to find that balance where I’m not being too aggressive while at the same time, I don’t want her to consider me as one of her gay best friends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:35 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I guess you’re right. I mean, there’s only so much drama a woman can handle. Same thing for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:29 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.That makes sense. I also like that “unwrapped present” analogy. I think women like to have their men open themselves up to them because not only does it make them feel special, it also makes them feel closer and connected to their men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I mean, I’m just starting to figure all this stuff out. Who knows? Maybe it will work out for me in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:25 AM |
| -5 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I guess you’re right but I would argue that men need emotional control. Plus, I say I prefer to be a wolf than a sheep because Wolves are respected while sheeps are used as cattle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:13 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.What better ways is there of communicating it then? I mean, this is female nature we’re talking about. It’s more about that if men want to attract women, they can’t show any emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:59 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Not insecurity just saying what I’ve observed. Plus, it’s not like I’m an emotionless robot but I prefer not to show them to anyone. It’s better to be seen as a Wolf than a sheep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:57 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Except I find out that the women who fall for the “brooding artist” are damaged themselves and aren’t fit for healthy relationships. They tend to suffer from mental illness and also tend to cheat when given the opportunity. I’m pretty sure most men wouldn’t want such a woman outside of a hookup, so if a man wants his ideal feminine woman, he needs to become the ideal masculine man and stick with the traits that come with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I suppose. I think society pacified men in hopes to sustain peace but at the same time, they still demand men who are strong and stoic. I always find this contradiction to be amusing because it’s as if society itself doesn’t realize you can have empathic, strong, and stoic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I mean, therapy can only do so much. If it’s one thing that self improvement coaches taught me is that you can go to therapy to try and solve your problems but in the end, you have to make most of the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:44 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.But I also heard that women like mystery in a man. Wouldn’t that “assurance” ruin that mysterious image? I don’t think women would keep interest in a man that they can easily figure out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:43 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Isn’t that what I just said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:40 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Cause if you can’t be strong for even yourself, how can you be strong for a woman or a family? Seriously, instead of teaching men to shut up and grow some balls, society decides to pamper them and pacify them which only makes them grow to be spoiled. I guarantee you incels wouldn’t exist if somebody just told them to quit being a pussy and deal with their own shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I guess that’s also true. Some women can get pissy when they find out they can’t control Chad but they will still end up having sex with him in the end. Female psychology is weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:36 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Men who punk out on life are never successful. Yup, and that’s the truth. You will never get pleasure without going through some pain first. Like Rocky Balboa said: “It isn’t about how hard you hit, it’s about how many times you can get hit and keep moving forward.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:34 AM |
| -11 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Being emotional is all about being passive and feminine lol. When you show emotions, you’re basically showing people you are not as tough as you portray yourself to be. Based on my experience, men and women alike aren’t flattered by emotional men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.That makes no sense. I’m pretty sure women would prefer a go getter than a crybaby. Just saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:26 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.You are absolutely correct. Men who complain about Chad and not getting women are just weak men. Crying can release stress but cmon, constantly crying over stressful events only proves how weak you are and you if you become vulnerable at some moments, whose to say you also won’t be vulnerable during moments you need to be strong? Like I said, crying never solved anything really. It might help you release stress hormones but that doesn’t mean the problem been fix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:24 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Who cares? Unattractive or not, men need to embrace. Who knows? Maybe she’ll eventually get turned on knowing you didn’t fold for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:17 AM |
| 2 | The rise of neetsWell, capitalism comes with it’s benefits but it’s not a perfect system but I also don’t think systems such as socialism or communism will be any better. I never met a neet but I was actually one myself for two years but that was only because I just graduated from high school and had no clue what to do with my life. Luckily, my parents pushed me to be more productive and I didn’t want to longer feel like a loser so I applied for community college. I also asked my friend if there were any job ope… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 09:49 AM |
| 3 | The reason why men get confused when they see women’s basic requirements list is because we think meeting them means we should never get rejectedLet’s face it, some men are willing to simp for a woman as long as she’s hot. That’s why attractive women always seem to act similar to one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 02:50 AM |
| 3 | The reason why men get confused when they see women’s basic requirements list is because we think meeting them means we should never get rejectedI was surprised to find out how strict their requirements are. You have to admire thought cause most women actually think they can get a guy like that lol. In that case, I say good luck. I honestly wouldn’t have a problem with it if they didn’t start to get all desperate once their ass and titties start to sag. That’s why I’m never going to date women in their 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 02:49 AM |
| 3 | The reason why men get confused when they see women’s basic requirements list is because we think meeting them means we should never get rejectedI’m just surprised how their checklist is set up. You have to have a certain type of body, with a certain type of job that makes a certain type of money. I thought I would be lucky to find a woman that appreciates my wants and interests over superficial stuff like money and looks but I haven’t run into such a woman left and even when it seems they do understand, I noticed I never get a second date. Shit sucks for us guys who wants to go against the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't care about women's careers. But class definitely plays a role when it comes to datingHow many people have no idea what they want to do really? I think most people have an idea but it’s probably just a fantasy which there’s nothing wrong about it. I know women who dated guys who had no idea what they wanted to do career wise but they liked them because they were fun, attractive, and had a “don’t give a fuck” attitude so in a way, money doesn’t really attract women as much as clout, looks, and confidence does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 02:32 AM |
| 19 | The rise of neetsI don’t see how NEETs are leeches in anyway. In fact, I think they are more of just a product of economic decline. There aren’t enough jobs for everyone and most employers and corporations are not going to hire more people since they are too busy trying to save a few bucks. Plus, some NEETs can suffer from metal illnesses such as depression or social anxiety. We need to help and support them if we want them to contribute to society not shame them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 02:17 AM |
| 1 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.Not to mention you will sometimes get no sex out of it either. It’s just not worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 11:17 AM |
| 3 | What's the point in marriage?Sound like a idiot to who? You? I don’t think anyone should care that much about titles. I judge people by their character not titles. I rather have my daughter bring in a loving “boyfriend” than a narcissistic asshole “husband”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:56 AM |
| 2 | What's the point in marriage?I agree with you but I think women think this way is because they are the weaker gender. A man can love a woman securely by himself but a woman will always some type of chain to hold him down. Kind of sad when you think about it. It’s almost as if they don’t trust us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:54 AM |
| 2 | What's the point in marriage?People cheat within marriages. Nothing in life is guaranteed. You just have to shoot your shot. At least, when you aren’t married, everyone else can go home happy without any bullshit lawyers getting involved. God knows how vengeful women get when they find themselves in a losing game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 10:46 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Dating is difficult because men and women expect different things from each other and the things they expect are not what that gender wants for themselves.I always get that impression too lol. What do they mean by “regular” anyways? Your average man is taller and decent looking anyways. Sometimes I wonder if it’s really women who have these impossible expectations for men to fulfill or men are just meeting the wrong women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 08:44 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating is difficult because men and women expect different things from each other and the things they expect are not what that gender wants for themselves.I think you mistaken basic respect as submission. It’s true that women will respect a man who respects himself but it’s not just women who follows that rule. Literally no one will respect a pushover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 08:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Dating is difficult because men and women expect different things from each other and the things they expect are not what that gender wants for themselves.Well, maybe I am over exaggerating but does it seem like most men are having difficulty dating while women get bitter once they reach 30? Or maybe that’s just the view of the Manosphere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.Because feminism was the reason why women joined the workforce no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:56 AM |
| 4 | The ultimate last resort plan for men to defeat the big guy (women) again (similar to holding the line for gamestop).Lol how? It’s true though. If women don’t find you attractive enough, you’re not getting the relationship nor the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously?It’s mostly about HOW you handle your insecurities or express them is what truly matters. In your case, you should’ve just owned up to the fact that you couldn’t perform your best in bed because of your surgery. A woman who truly cares would understand. But unfortunately patience and understanding are virtues most people seem to lack these days so I would advise you not to take it so personally . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Is men's value at an all time low because of the population of the world?When people say they are afraid of dying alone, they really mean afraid of living alone but I see what you mean. Men adopting hobbies might help in easing the pain but let’s face it, every time you see a couple or an attractive woman outside, you’ll always feel that gap as if you’re missing out on something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Is men's value at an all time low because of the population of the world?So love is a lie just made up by those who were part of the romanticism movement. Seriously, it’s times like this why I wish I never learned about the idea of love, companionship, or intimacy. It will definitely make it easier to cope with the way things are now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:37 AM |
| 11 | The ultimate last resort plan for men to defeat the big guy (women) again (similar to holding the line for gamestop).Most men need to understand that attraction is NOT negotiable. You can’t force women to like you or as I like to call it “pity date” you. You either fit women’s ideal man or you ain’t getting any. It’s that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.But I thought the feminist argument was that majority of women were oppressed? I don’t know much about feminist history but it seems like you’re stating that feminism was originall started by the upper class women and if that is the case, why do feminists like to paint it as if majority of women didn’t have the opportunity to work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.Lol Mall Cop and Kim Possible were total blue pill fantasies. No offense to Paul Blart, but you will never see a fat guy with a hot girl and Ron from Kim Possobke would’ve stayed in the friend zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 08:22 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.But why though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:45 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.It is unfair though that men are still expected to play their gender role, but it will change eventually as well. The more there are working women who get similar or more than their partners the more people will be okay with it. For now there are around 30% of breadwinning wives and interestingly enough it correlates with the number of people who don't think that being able to provide for a family is a very important factor for a man. Eh, that highly depends on the woman though if she’s comforta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:44 AM |
| 1 | The Party SceneNever was part of it. I don’t know, I just wasn’t into the whole of getting fucked up and fucking tons of women. Me and my friends usually fall more on the “nerdy” parties and by that mean I mean play video games, board games, poker, watch movies and yes there was some alcohol lol but you know what? I don’t mind cause those are my favorite kind of parties. We would invite women but let’s face it, most women aren’t into that type of stuff so what’s the point? But overall, there’s no regrets here.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:34 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.Based on what I’ve heard, it’s usually women who “fall out of love” and that is usually because the guy softened up making him seem like a beta male or that the woman thought she can do better which proves that women are hypergamous and can’t appreciate what they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.I agree with you for the most part. You know what I just realized about those Disney movies though? That the supposedly “nice guy” of those movies were drawn as they were attractive meaning that the only reason why the woman fell for him, was by his beauty. It’s amazing how guys who try to imitate those characters didn’t add attractiveness as an important trait. A hot nice guy is a gentleman while an ugly nice is a creep or desperate. I also am not counting on women lowering their standards. Soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:23 AM |
| -3 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.So what? Seems like an unfair deal don’t you think? Women can live their lives however they want and life will guarantee they will still find a man. Men don’t have that luxury. Women can move beyond their gender roles and still find a mate. Men are still subjugated to fulfill it even at the cost of his happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:17 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.So you admit it did made it difficult for men? now that the average man no longer cuts it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:15 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.Does your “happiness” include getting old and single and blaming men for no longer having any desire towards you? Cause in my experience, women play the “strong and independent who doesn’t need a man” facade really well until the moment she get old and wrinkly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:11 AM |
| -3 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.And yet, women who become breadwinners file for divorce. Plus, how do you know that the men who women divorced were truly bad? Some women will divorce just because the man lost his job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:07 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Women joining the workforce had unintentionally made dating more difficult for the average man.That’s true. Women back didn’t desire their husbands just like they still aren’t now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Unskilled "giver" men, not selfish lovers, are what make casual sex bad for womenKeep in mind, guys with no experience get their expectations of sex from porn so of course some of them will think that eating a girl out for hours is seen as “professional” performance. That’s why guys need to read up about the female anatomy and where her pleasure nerves are located. Foreplay helps also. I’m always surprised to hear how guys go just straight for the “in and out”. If it were me, I’ll show some appreciation to every inch of the female body before getting to the major event. So i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 01:33 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Women shouldn’t “settle” for men they don’t want because it will just bring misery to both her and her partner.Slut shaming only worked in denying women what they TRULY wanted. Why do you think women started divorcing and cheating left and right the moment they were able to do so? Don’t romanticize the past. Women back then weren’t more “lovable” than they are now. They acted that way cause they had no other choice. Women were ultimately dependent on men, so disobeying them and withholding sex from them might have left them homeless. Women back then faked love so they can survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 01:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women shouldn’t “settle” for men they don’t want because it will just bring misery to both her and her partner.You can feel lonely being by yourself but somehow it feels worse when you’re actually surrounded by people. I use feel this way during my early days in high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women shouldn’t “settle” for men they don’t want because it will just bring misery to both her and her partner.That’s what I’ve been thinking. But W when people say they’ve “settled” I always take it as if they had accepted less than what they were expecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 01:17 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Women shouldn’t “settle” for men they don’t want because it will just bring misery to both her and her partner.I would say women are just following what they are naturally attracted to. If they feel like they’ve “settle”, they’ll never give you a happy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 06:07 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Women shouldn’t “settle” for men they don’t want because it will just bring misery to both her and her partner.You forgot that sexual attraction is a thing for woman. If she settles for a man that she doesn’t get sexually excited about, it’s a dead bedroom right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a woman with a high N count doesn’t make you “insecure”.Misogynistic because I don’t want a woman who will cheat on me? What are you on? Sometimes habits says a lot about a person. A woman with a high N count shows she can’t settle for shit. It just makes her unable to be compatible with anyone except thug men who will just pump and dump her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a woman with a high N count doesn’t make you “insecure”.Thank you for understanding. Like I said, I’m not expecting women to be virgins and I know women can like sex, in fact I prefer a woman who enjoys sex as much as I do, but a high N count woman just tells me she’s not durable for a LTR and if she can drop her previous partners so easily, who’s to say she won’t do the same to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a woman with a high N count doesn’t make you “insecure”.Lol you are delusional if you don’t think there’s a correlation between promiscuity and cheating. A woman with a low n count below the 10s might be acceptable but anything beyond that just shows she’s not fit for LTRs. I thought women were all about compatibility for them but when a man starts to decide what he finds compatible for him, they throw a bitch fit and start shaming him just because he doesn’t value what society tells him to value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a woman with a high N count doesn’t make you “insecure”.Bingo, I find it laughable how much hypocrite women can be. Women think they are entitled to get the tall, hot, rich guy but men can’t even ask for a woman is isn’t fat and is kind? Women are just another breed of humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a woman with a high N count doesn’t make you “insecure”.It ain’t insecurity though. It’s just preferences. Insecurity implies the fear you can’t measure up. That isn’t the case. You just don’t want a woman who will cheat on you which is perfectly reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a woman with a high N count doesn’t make you “insecure”.It’s ridiculous because women think they have the audacity to ask for a rich, hot guy but when men ask for a woman who isn’t fat, is kind, and virtuous; feminists will start to call us misogynistic which I think it says more about them than it does about us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a woman with a high N count doesn’t make you “insecure”.When it comes to women, sex is more than just looks. You also have to know how to get her turned on, get wet, or get her to reach orgasm. There are TONS of articles that shows how to pleasure a woman in bed. Even lesbians can have good sex. Why can’t man and woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a woman with a high N count doesn’t make you “insecure”.Bro, just because she had sex with tons of Chads doesn’t necessarily mean it was good sex. If you want to please your woman, just study the female anatomy and what gets women off. Knowledge is power and by knowing how to pleasure the female body, you will outperform any Chad who thinks sex is just about going in and out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a woman with a high N count doesn’t make you “insecure”.Yeah, but insecurity implies you are coming from a place of inferiority which in this case, it isn’t. Women shame men who don’t want a high n count woman by calling them weak, insecure, and can’t please a woman in bed. Imagine making fun of someone just because they don’t want someone who was promiscuous? I guarantee you if a woman said she doesn’t want a high n count man, no one will give her shit for it. Apparently women are the only ones who are allowed to have preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Not wanting a woman with a high N count doesn’t make you “insecure”.To be fair, just because a woman had tons of sex doesn’t necessarily mean they were good sex, you know what I mean? If you’re that worried, just google how to please a woman in bed and you’ll get your answers. It also helps to understand female anatomy and where the pleasure nerves are located. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:25 AM |
| 2 | I am highly convinced women can tell if you’re a virgin or not by just looking at you.For real?! How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 01:28 PM |
| 0 | I don’t believe you were rapedDude is dead ass the “believe all women” type. He will white Knight until a woman metoos him as well lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Things I love about womenThat one gave birth to me lol but that’s just my mom though. Without her, I wouldn’t get to know and appreciate existence despite it’s shortcomings. But besides that, I find most women to suck and be detrimental to my energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 04:17 AM |
| 0 | I don't understand the incel phenomenonNo one deserves to get bullied but this is why people need to learn to stand up for themselves. Being kind doesn’t mean you also have to tolerate abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 04:09 AM |
| 2 | 26F with 45M, is it weird?Still a lie. Men’s standards are not that high. I bet my life savings he is wealthier than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 12:37 AM |
| 2 | I identify with being incel, but I feel like ever since I have identified with being incel, I have developed anger issues towards women and I don’t know how to stop it.Once you understand female nature, it can be frustrating but that’s only because you were taught your whole life that women are “innocent angels” but now you realized they aren’t. Don’t be bitter, just embrace the truth and act accordingly. Don’t ever give a fuck about what women think and understand that is is men who built and sustain civilizations. Women are only there to be pumped and dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 12:35 AM |
| 3 | It's not women's fault that you chase bimbos. Have higher standards for your girlfriend/wife.Even fat women and average looking girls act like bimbos and sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | 26F with 45M, is it weird?Not surprisingly. Women go for rich men. I think we will start seeing more older man and younger women couples. Guys in their 20s can only compete as long as they are attractive or wealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 12:12 AM |
| 2 | There’s a reason why women are so shallow these days and tell unattractive men to “piss off”.Everything a man does is for the sake of being sexually successful. Men wouldn’t put effort into getting wealthy or looking attractive if women didn’t give a shit about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | There’s a reason why women are so shallow these days and tell unattractive men to “piss off”.I already spend an hour trying to look as good as possible. I take showers, wash my face, do push ups., do my hair, dress fairly and yet no girl wants to fuck me. I think you’re just full of shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 11:44 PM |
| 7 | When will women understand that us men don’t care about how much money you make. We would rather date that hot girl from Starbucks than an average girl that has an online 6 figure business.Women with careers don’t give a fuck about average guys anyways. Remember, women date up not down. Women also go for guys who outranks her. That’s why women who are wealthy are more likely to be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 17 | Are some men not able to tell when women are joking?Cause any man who actually has experience will tell you, without a doubt, they are not joking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | New Years Eve Purge and AutoModerator topic reassessment.Is it safe to start purge posting now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 09:23 AM |
| 1 | If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys?That’s true. But that just proves that “nice guys” aren’t really nice. I guess women like guys who are genuinely nice but have a backbone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:57 AM |
| 0 | What do men define as "Gold Diggers"?Gold digger is basically a woman who only focuses on a man’s income instead of his character. It’s also a woman who has a problem going to a moderate priced restaurant on the first date instead of an expensive one. It’s also women who first question they ask you on a date is “what do you do?”. But honestly, I think it’s safe to assume that most women are gold diggers by now. Unless you are genetically gifted, it’s over for average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 04:14 AM |
| 5 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?Guys like you are the reason why I have to keep track of my drink everytime I’m at a bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?Thanks for the link to my post lol but to answer your question, what men mean “asshole” they mean men who are confident, charismatic, and don’t care what people think of him. But that makes no sense to me because my definition of an asshole is different than the definition the “nice guys” here have set up. Assholes are guys who deliberately want to hurt people, give them a hard time, and have no consideration towards other people. They probably see these guys teasing women and automatically assu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:26 AM |
| 3 | Are men able to describe the behaviors they're exhibiting when they say "being an asshole" worked for them when attracting women?Damn bro, I wish I had the same emotional skills as you do. Can’t fuck a girl without catching feelings. How do I put aside the idea of love or romance so that I can become more alpha? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | If women don’t like nice guys or find them to be “boring”, does that mean it’s over for genuine nice guys?Define “boring” because I can name tons of things women might find “boring” but I consider to be fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Unlike men, women are exceptionally more likely to initiate contact with opposite sex individuals within the top percentile(s) of physical attractiveness in online datingExcept the rules for OLD applies to dating IRL also. If you’re not attractive, you don’t get your foot in the door. An unattractive man who approaches a woman in real life will just be labeled as a creep or a harasser no matter how charismatic he thinks he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bit ironic, that people here are so heated and vitriolic on a sub about relationships and dating, which are supposed to involve love and passion?The only people who are heated are those who can’t get dates and we know who they are. The question is, if they think they have women or human relationships all figured out? Why still complain about it as if that’s going to change? What’s the point of arguing against the inevitable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Almost all women can find a good man as long as they're open-mindedWhen women say they “can’t find a good man” they really mean they can’t find a man they find attractive whether it’ll be looks, money, or statues wise. Most men are good by heart but most men aren’t “good” by physical standards according to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:44 AM |
| 8 | Men are not held to high standards.LMAO women complain about this but still fall for it everytime. Just admit that women will always excuse anything for guys they find attractive and will only whine about it when things don’t go her way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:34 AM |
| -1 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.The whole “be emotionally attracted but not sexually attracted” only applies to women which is why they always keep the nice guy as a friend orbiter while fucking the bad boys. No man with any amount of self respect should degrade himself to such a position. In fact, the friendzone should be considered as a humiliating position for men to be in. It’s basically a woman telling you she thinks you’re nice enough to have around with but not attractive enough to fuck around with. It makes no sense fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/20 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.There’s no point for a man to stay with a woman that he wants but doesn’t want him back. Men should realize what they want from a woman and should have the right to leave if she doesn’t reciprocate those wants. There’s no use still trying to be friends with a woman you are emotionally and sexually attracted to. By the time she gets a boyfriend, it will only hurt you more since you’ll always think “why is it that he can have her, but I can’t?”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 08:25 PM |
| -4 | Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to.We’re talking about Heterosexuals here not bi. Get off your high horse. It’s just not possible for men and women to be friends if they have sexual attraction towards one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 4 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?Masturbation, porn, sex dolls, or hookers. That are your only options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Oxytocin, sex and pair-bonding in womenYou can apply this same logic to men as well. I mean cmon. I thought trp argument was that it was only men who naturally desire casual sex and yet you put sources like this that contradict that statement. I think you just take yourselves too seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 03:52 AM |
| 13 | The reason why men view women who engaged in meaningless sex in a negative light is because the men placed them on an undeserved pedastalOr maybe some men just want intimate sex and they know they won’t find that with a woman who’s been around the block. Why is it hard for people to realize there are men out there who want commitment? But commitment requires trust and you can’t trust a woman who jumped from one relationship to another as it shows she has commitment issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 03:34 AM |
| 10 | I understand caring about n-counts when it comes to marriage, but why do men even care about n-counts when it comes to LTRs?People will cheat on you for anything these days. Asking for N counts is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 10:32 AM |
| 3 | I never understood the double standard about promiscuity.I wouldn’t say it’s an insult but it’s still a bummer for someone like me to hear. Honestly had my hopes high too. I will never forget it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 10:27 AM |
| 33 | I never understood the double standard about promiscuity.If you think women don’t attack men for their virginity for absolutely no reason at all, then you’re just naive and you just proved OP’s point about women never having to worry about this shit. I remember a girl asked me if I was a virgin and for the sake of being honest I said “yes”. Then she replied “so you’re inexperienced then? hahaha sorry but I prefer guys who have experience”. Felt like shit ever since and it cut deep considering I was into her at the time too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Feel like I’ve pissed away my 20s doing long distanceTruth is, your gf is probably hopping from dick to dick. I heard cases that women in long distance relationships are more likely to cheat. I suggest you break up with her and not waste your youth op. Don’t cock block yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you think attractive guys get rejected as well?Sure it’s more reasonable to Stop after 5 no? Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 07:45 AM |
| 0 | Do you think attractive guys get rejected as well?But there are some aspects of universal attraction no? For example: sharp jawline, money, muscles, ect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you think attractive guys get rejected as well?But what if it’s not just one but turns out there were two or three girls you asked out who rejected you? What then? At what number a rejections where a man should consider maybe he’s just not attractive enough to be in any relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 0 | Do you think attractive guys get rejected as well?Can’t they though? Why would a girl pass up oh having sex with a hot guy? Makes no sense 😂. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you think attractive guys get rejected as well?Lol at “color of his shirt”. I guess you’re right but somehow I’m still not convinced. I can’t imagine why a guy would pass up on a hot girl who asks him out so I apply that logic to women as well. Maybe women just work differently that depends on their moods or circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you think attractive guys get rejected as well?Not an incel. It’s just a question I’ve been wondering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/20 01:29 AM |
| 1 | what would you do with your life if you had been born a woman?Show empathy to others, be kind, hit the gym, basically the same thing I’m doing now as a man. Only difference is it’ll be easier for me to show my softer side as a woman since it is expected and people will respect me for it also. I will never understand why women reject femininity these days. It actually makes them more powerful than being masculine. Masculinity doesn’t look good on women anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you think attractive guys get rejected as well?That’s true, female attraction varies but even then; there’s no guarantee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 05:02 AM |
| 15 | Women are so starved of actual masculine men that men can be assholesThe real question is why aren’t there any men that demonstrates healthy masculinity? It just feels that nowadays men either have to be a psychotic brute or a passive, insecure, small dick, soy boy. There is no healthy middle ground for men to lean on. Not only are women starved of masculinity, men are as well. That’s why it is important for every young man to have a masculine role model or a father figure and no, a “masculine” woman just won’t cut it despite feminists’ beliefs. We need to teach … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 04:53 AM |
| 0 | Reverse post: what makes you think that women are into a-holes?It’s not that women like “assholes” it’s just that they like men who can fight for themselves. A man can be empathetic with a heart of Gold but turn into a beast when the moment calls for it. “Nice guys” always complain about how women prefer “assholes” but the thing is, nice guys aren’t really nice themselves. Being kind to others for the sake of being rewarded does not make you “nice”. It just makes you an asshole who THINKS he’s a nice guy. Women love kind men but they also love men who can s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you think Kindness is seen as a weakness in our society?But shouldn’t passiveness be a good thing? It allows more room for negotiation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | If women don’t even consider men who make less than them as LTR material then why do they complain about men not wanting “career driven” women?I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 05:27 AM |
| 2 | How much do (or should) you sacrifice your lifestyle choices just to conform with what the opposite sex finds attractive?I admit, I have “nerdy”hobbies such as I’m into StarWars, Marvel, and DC. I also play boards games, YuGiOh, some Nintendo, and video games. On top of that, I collect action figures and Funko pop figures. No, I don’t think I’m willing to give up these hobbies anytime soon even if it’s for the sake of getting a girl. Plus, I don’t make my entire persona around these hobbies. In fact, when I talk to a girl, I always make sure I don’t mention anything about my nerdy hobbies unless I know she has som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do some men seem to prefer being boyfriend material as opposed to casual sex material?What type of question is this? Do you really believe even high quality men don’t value long term relationships? Despite incel beliefs, even Chad wants something long term. Some dudes are just sentimental that way. Plus, the reason why such men aren’t so sexually aggressive is because they want the girl to get the idea that he isn’t just in it for the sex, he also wants something long term without directly saying it. It always boggles my mind how girls can’t wrap around the idea that a man can wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many men feel resentful to single mothers?There’s nothing wrong with being a single mother per se but frankly, I don’t think there’s anything to be proud about being one either. The way I see it, a child needs a mother and a father despite what the mainstream liberals would like to have us believe. Even children, especially young boys, who grew up under single mother households grow up to be feeling socially isolated, depressed, timid, and confused since they lack a positive masculine figure. But of course, our politically correct socie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/20 09:41 AM |
| 2 | CMV: A man’s passion isn’t always enough to keep a woman interested.This is a good analysis. I think these 3 categories summarize most women in the dating field perfectly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 04:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man’s passion isn’t always enough to keep a woman interested.Doing something fun without worrying about money? In this economy? A man can only dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 04:33 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man’s passion isn’t always enough to keep a woman interested.That’s what I figured. It helps to have a plan B instead of putting everything into one basket. But I always thought you can pursue Plan B while using it to support Plan A. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man’s passion isn’t always enough to keep a woman interested.That’s what I find out too. But still, no one wants an unemployed bum. On the other hand, working day to day without any time to put into your relationship makes it pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man’s passion isn’t always enough to keep a woman interested.I see what you mean but I personally think it’s even better if you do find a way to monetize your passion. Not only are you making more cash, but you are also doing the thing you love most. It’s a win-win. Not many people have that type of luxury. Of course, doing the things you enjoy doing is it’s own reward regardless if you are monetizing it. It’ll definitely be great if some how you turned your passion into your daily job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man’s passion isn’t always enough to keep a woman interested.“Having said all that, if a person genuinely finds what you are actually passionate about boring or can't even bring themselves to even try to engage with it, then you shouldn't be going for that person, you're incompatible and that's no one's fault.” That’s true I guess, and I get women not wanting to stay with a person who is just leeching off them. You need to find someone who has the same interests as you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man’s passion isn’t always enough to keep a woman interested.Can you repost it? I didn’t know about the 3 hour thing. Sorry about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | The biggest reason why average dudes have low n-counts is because they're too picky ...pickier than ur average manwhorePicky? lol. I just want a semi attractive girl who isn’t fat that is also kind and smart. Not really hard to achieve. The problem is even plain Janes think the average dude isn’t enough for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 07:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who complain about getting rejected are pathetic.What fallacy is there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who complain about getting rejected are pathetic.Exactly, having an abundance mindset always helps. Makes you seem less desperate which will give the impression you are high value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Why would you chose to sleep around rather than look for a relationship first?To be fair, you'll face problems when looking for a relationship as well. Plus, it's naive to think hook ups can alter your life. Relationships, marriage, and family can alter your life as well. Some people aren't interested in relationships these days. Plus, its hard, especially for men, to find a woman worth being in a relationship with. Most women either are just not interested into having a monogamous relationship or will end up cheating on you. Life is hard for the hopeless romantic male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 08:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV: In these modern times, we will see fewer women who are opting to settle for a "beta bucks" and instead we will see more women going their own way when they get older.I think you misinterpreted Freud. In this context, by “desire” he meant lust and it’s true. Men can’t love truly if they are blinded by lust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/20 08:15 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Well I’m actually 23 years old so there’s that. I’m happy to hear that you and your friends managed to have a compromise despite your husbands not being the breadwinner. I still don’t see how’s it possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Compete against who? Lol. I thought relationships was suppose to be a team effort. That’s the other set back about being with successful women. They compare you to other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Can you tell if a guy is a virgin?That’s good to know. I always felt like women had this radar to detect if a guy was a virgin or not. Kind of scary to think about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 08:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Fine, I accept your logic. So low income doesn’t matter as much as handling money I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 08:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.I take it you’re an African American woman since you mentioned African American community. Lol “forever bf/gf” I never heard that one before. What’s wrong with a couple never getting married? Marriage doesn’t guarantee commitment anyways. Combined finances? You mean like a joint account right? Cause I can’t imagine a couple where their money becomes their partners’ money. I personally prefer personal financial freedom. Fair enough, you want your kids to be financially stable but keep in mind chi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 08:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.I mean, men fear getting cheated on, divorced, and used. With successful women, the odds of that happening is higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Alright point taken. You don't have to date a McDonald's employee if you don't want to. I Just never understood why women put such an importance on wealth when it comes to dating. A rich man can be an asshole while a poor guy can be actually decent. Plus, it's not like men asked wealthy women to give them a loan. Usually when women talk about financial stability, it always has to do with what's convenient for HER not the man. Also, what's your definition of a loser since you mentioned it couple … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him."I actually wish that I could be lazy and still find a good man but in this day and age this isn't happening." I mean, women wanted equality right? You pretty much pushed men out of the employment market and now you're complaining about men who make less? lol. I will understand this logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:31 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.That's good to hear that you and your boyfriend find a way around but I think men shouldn't put their odds at their woman's mercy. Plus, it can be hard for men to appear as masculine when the women makes more considering women corelate wealth with masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:24 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.That's good to hear you don't ask guys you date about their income. But that doesn't men there aren't women out there who do. I never understood why women make your career choice such an important aspect. I can be a stock broker but cheat on every girlfriend I had. I can be a surgeon and be an abusive piece of shit. It just doesn't make any sense to me. Also, if I never even asked a penny from you, why is it any of your concern where my money comes from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Except for men, we show our love based on what we give while women just receive. Plus, men never give up on women when they are their lowest. You can't say the same for women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:16 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him."why don’t men refuse to date down? if more men only chose to date up like women did, and settle for nothing less than a successful woman, some of these women will have no choice but to date down due to that sheer number. " That is impossible cause you're not understanding how male sexuality works. Plus, men don't out that much importance on career as much as women do. Wealth and Statues does not impact how a man is attracted to a woman but for women, they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.I mean, unsuccessful can act like this but it's not common because the man out earns her. For women in the breadwinner position, it's a whole different case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Alright, I understand bills need to be paid but how does that justify the woman belittling him if he was late? Men don't really appreciate women who lectures them on how to adult especially knowing women can act childish themselves. Plus, most women don't like to be the ones to mostly pay the bills. Remember, we are talking about high earner women here. The unfortunate truth is that women don't appreciate men who come up short financially even in a relationship. Logically speaking, it should be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/20 04:06 AM |
| 5 | CMV: If you're a man you will never fully understand what it's like to be a woman. If you're a woman you will never fully understand what it's like to be a man.I agree with this. Women will never understand the troubles men have to go through. But then again, men won’t understand women’s troubles as well. But the fact of the matter is, dating and relationships is still easier for women. Women don’t have to work as hard as much as men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 08:54 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.I need to look more into this because the articles I read proved otherwise. I always use biology to describe attraction and biologically speaking, it doesn’t make sense for a woman to marry a man who makes less than her since women don’t respect such men and respect is very important for men when it comes to relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 08:01 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.You’ve already said enough and proved your point but the truth is you proved mine as well. You comments is clear evidence that women value money above all else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:51 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.That is exactly the point I was trying to make. Thanks for understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Exactly, finally someone who gets my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.EXACTLY! Even psychologist professor Jordan Peterson even said so himself. Women value a man’s income and his wealth will have her female brain determine whether she should submit to him or not. I HIGHLY doubt women marry for love. If the truly married for love, we wouldn’t have stuff like redpill or PUAs but unfortunately that isn’t our reality. Women only love in the condition the man provides something to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Has it ever crossed your mind that there are women out there that can be naturally submissive? However those submissive and feminine women want a masculine men and for men, masculinity is highly co related with his ability to be the breadwinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:34 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Well, you’re one of those rare cases but unfortunately it isn’t the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:33 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.But whether you are the breadwinner or not does determine whether she’ll respect you or not. A woman might tolerate a hot looking poor guy but she’ll always be harsher on the average looking guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:31 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.But aren’t most women that way though? Plus, you really underestimate how hard it is to leave someone who you thought was kind and bum good nature until the day you find out they weren’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:14 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.“If you need your gf to nag you about bills, you need to grow up and act like an adult.” And that just explains my point. A man makes a simple mistake and women tend to hold it against him meanwhile they don’t also want to be held accountable for their own flaws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 07:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.Except it isn’t. That only assumes that men who make more than their wives are abusers which in this case, they aren’t. Women actually admire and respect the man when he’s the breadwinner as long as he’s not too controlling. You can’t say the same for women though. I even heard some women say they wouldn’t date a guy who makes less they “didn’t want to their momma.” Plus, you can never have your way as a man since she’ll always use the “I make more than you” excuse to disrespect you. Even in arg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 03:06 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.By disrespect, I mean she constantly nags at him for not having the bills paid in time or not having enough money to buy her things or take her to expensive restaurants. Not to mention, everytime they have a argument, she always feels the need to remind him who has more income and that he’s pretty much a loser for not be by up to par with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 03:00 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men aren’t “intimidated” by successful women. They just don’t want a woman who will disrespect him.I wouldn’t say “intimidated” cause that implies a sense of fear. More like, you just realize you are not compatible with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is a desirable/marriageable man, anyway?A desirable man is someone who is good looking and rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 11:28 PM |
| 1 | How does society deal with the impacts of the precipitous decline of sexual activity among young men?Even “average” looking women can be pretty in some ways so yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | How does society deal with the impacts of the precipitous decline of sexual activity among young men?I’m not sure if that’ll help considering I already make it obvious that I’m available but no woman approaches me but I appreciate the advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 09:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.That’s what I mean. Women in high positions only fuck men in high positions as well. Even your average woman doesn’t find feminine men attractive. Women in high positions are no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.I don’t think anger is a bad thing though. Men can use anger as a great motivator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 08:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.How will hiding your feelings make them anxious? In my experience, women get anxious if the man ever gives her the impression that something is wrong. Women don’t want to deal with a man’s emotions. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 07:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.That’s true. If people already perceive you as weak, being emotional will only give you a harsher reputation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 07:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.Khabib is different though cause no one will ever be dumb enough to start shit with him lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 07:54 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.No woman wants a feminine man lol especially not the women in high positions with masculine traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 07:36 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.I always find it funny how women expect men to reciprocate their emotional needs but god forbid, men ask for the same thing. Apparently only women are the ones who need to benefit from the relationship. Do they honestly think that a man who is in tune with his emotions will accept a woman who isn’t the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 07:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men being emotionally expressive only brings them more harm than good.I think there are exceptions for women. For example, if you cry once, it is accepted but if you cry multiple times, you just get the reputation of a crybaby. A man can’t even afford to cry once in front of his peers. People, whether it’ll be his friends or coworkers, will always hold it against him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/20 07:30 AM |
| 1 | What in your opinion makes a man a man?Interesting, and what qualities would you say are masculine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 09:54 AM |
| 0 | What in your opinion makes a man a man?But being born with a penis isn’t enough is it? You wouldn’t call a man who acts feminine a man even though he has a penis right? Being a man is so much more than what’s between your legs. It also has to do with character and attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Women misunderstand male psychology when they shit testThis. OP just needs to realize you can’t try to understand women from the perception of logic. Women are highly emotional based and tend to be run by primal instincts. A woman’s primal instincts tell her to seek the strongest male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Strength is all that matters for women & attractionInteresting take. I know this is a CMV but I agree. Women do respect strength in a man. However, strength is not only depended on body and attitude but also on heart and mind. A man must have emotional and mental strength if he wishes to be respected by women and his peers. A man who can conquer himself first can conquer women and the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Why do you like when women send you nudes?If she was my girlfriend, yeah. If she was someone who I met on Tinder, no. It’s like being sent a dick pic you didn’t ask for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Are you satisfied/content with your nonsexual interactions with women?I’m pretty much satisfied with not having any female friends at all. It’s not like I can afford to anyways. Most of the female “friends” who I find to be attractive, I end up getting Romantically attached and it pains me every time when those feelings aren’t reciprocated. I just gave up on dating and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/20 08:32 AM |
| 3 | Has real or perceived male preference for low n-count ever impacted you or another woman you know?Personally, I would prefer if my girlfriend didn’t mention any of her ex boyfriends or previous relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores?I’m a man, and I know how to cook. Car work? I prefer to get a mechanic instead of just ending up damaging the car more. Unclogging sinks? I got it. Changing tires? Seems simple. Electrical wiring? Eh, that depends what type of wiring we’re handling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 05:53 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average manWomen like men with statues and good looks. Men just like women with good looks. By default, women have higher standards. If women didn’t expect men to be the bread winner why do marriages fall apart the moment a woman starts making more? Apparently feminists don’t want to talk about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 09:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Maybe women have high standards because the average woman is really superior in terms of attractiveness than the average manIt doesn’t matter how well you dress, or how you groom yourself. In the end, you’re as attractive as your genetics and bone structure allows you to be. Plus, men are judged more beyond their looks. Their also judged based on their career and income. Men don’t really care about as much about a woman’s income or career. Women only like to pretend like we do because they are just projecting what THEY find attractive and that is why we constantly have debates like this because feminism doesn’t under… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | He is a very interesting experiment from YouTube.Personally, I find all the girls here attractive except the fat chick for obvious reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/20 08:56 PM |
| -1 | Women who choose to remain single and childless, rather than settle, is a net positive for society.Keep in mind, this is women we’re talking about. They become so hypergamous and shallow to the point the average man doesn’t cut it anymore. Women only want to have families with the top 1% while fucking guys who are attractive, criminals, drug dealers, corrupt politicians, and bad boys. This process will result in a lot of lonely men and you see it happening now. Japan is having the worse case of hikkomori’s while the west is dealing with NEETs. The future isn’t going to look to bright until me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.Well I’m sorry to hear that. Also, I didn’t say anything about a woman mothering her partner. I meant that men who get sick don’t even get support from their partners by her just coming to visit. Some women just break up with you all because you had to check in to a hospital. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Have you tried to read up on gender biased natural selection and evolutionary psychology?I actually read some article and watch some YouTube videos about it. I think natural selection and evolutionary psychology can explain accurately how human attraction works. Why do men find women with wide hips attractive? Because wide hips means most likely birthing a healthy child. Why do women like muscular and rich men? Muscular men means security and rich means resourcefulness. You can’t change these standards and it doesn’t matter how much the incels will cry or rant about. This is what is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Hate isn’t going to solve anything anyways. If a woman divorces you, be glad you don’t have to waste the rest of your life with a woman who doesn’t care about you. If a woman rejects you, just accept it and move on. Men need to improve themselves and not hold a grudge against the opposite because of some past rejections. Women can’t help what they are into. It’s programmed into their instincts and biology. Asking a woman to change her standard is like asking a straight man to be homosexual. It’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:22 AM |
| 3 | CMV: "Monogamy is the way that we can ensure that average Joes get to get married too"I think monogamy is more to ensure that every woman can have access to a man’s security. Of course, now that women provide themselves; this rule doesn’t apply and it is why you see the rise of divorces and cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.And yet I hear stories of where the woman kicks the father out of the household. Sometimes, men aren’t even allowed to see their children if they really wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Only Fans is “easy work” that isn’t actually easyIt is easy work lol. All you have to do is make sure you have the biggest tits and ass and all the money will start flowing to you. No effort whatsoever. Of course, I would say it would be more difficult for women who have slim bodies and aren’t really thick, but even then there’s still a chance they can get by easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.True, I guess it isn’t about sex so why do feminists like to make it so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.Just because they are born with it doesn’t mean they will use it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.I guess you’re right. Gender doesn’t really determine who becomes the better parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.You do realize a woman doesn’t have to be an obvious psychopath or a drug addict to prove she is unfit right? She can also be a manipulative narcissist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.Tons of feminists and the women who hang around here apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:39 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.That’s true but I think my point was why are women always assumed to be better parents? It’s just ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.You have no idea how many stories I’ve heard about women leaving their partners when he was sick or had some type of medical issue to the point of hospitalization. Where was that “nurturing” instinct I heard about during those times? Lol just proves my point exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.I only participate with those who actually try to prove why I’m wrong instead of just making baseless assumptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.And just imagine seeing your father being on the edge of a mental breakdown all because his darling wife had to demand more for no logical reason. Plus, women leave their families as well so it isn’t one sided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.Except in some cases, women don’t gain custody cause she cares. She gains custody as a way to get “revenge” on her male partner. Plus, the courts are always sympathetic to a woman’s gain in custody no matter how much there is proof that she is unfit to take care of her children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.You won’t cause our politically correct climate will never place women in a bad light. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.Look up statistics on how many women there are known for being abusive towards their children. I don’t think women are biologically any more empathetic than men are. Plus, there are some women who don’t care about their child’s security either. It really isn’t all that black and white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Question for all: what is one thing you wish the opposite sex could understand?How can you be discouraged when you said you had male co workers who were great with children lol but I get ya. I’m also discouraged of the idea that women are purely the nurturing gender. It’s a really awkward realization to have when you grew up believing that women are the nurtures while men are the providers but now I find out that isn’t the case. Women aren’t always going to be the nurture type and men are not always going to be the provider type. Sometimes men can play the role of both nur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 11:13 AM |
| 11 | Question for all: what is one thing you wish the opposite sex could understand?I wish women realized how good they have it being labeled as the “nurturing” type. When a woman interacts with a child, it’s seen as sweet and “motherly”. When a man does it, it’s seen as creepy and pedophilic. What’s even more funny is that society likes to treat men like we have no idea how to handle or take care of children. I know single fathers who treat their kids better than single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Question for all: what is one thing you wish the opposite sex could understand?The problem is there are some men who do commit to children. One of the things I always hated to hear as a man was how women were the ones who needed to take care of the children while the father just works. Like really? I can’t imagine wasting money supporting some kid without actually spending some time with him/her . Plus the idea that women are the only ones capable of nurturing is one of the biggest pile of shit I ever hear. But it doesn’t matter what I feel about it anymore. Like TheBookof… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 10:29 AM |
| 2 | RP men, how many of you think women venture into r/tpr to learn what you look for in girls and manipulate you? Same goes for FDS women, how many men read your posts to put on a perfect façade?Lmao, all a woman needs to manipulate a man is a nice pair of breasts, tight clothing, and a big ass. Fooling men is not that complicated. Red pill only exist to snap men out that manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.Autonomy doesn’t work for women because women want to be lead and dominated, they just choose the man they want to dominate them. That’s the same case for polyamorous relationships. There’s always an alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Why are 30% of Gen Z women not attracted to men?This actually terrifying to think about and it just proves that women are so hypergamous and fickle, they’ll even considering fucking other women which just shows that women see men as nothing more than trophy husbands or walking atms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Why are 30% of Gen Z women not attracted to men?How the hell is “women can’t even hurt you” an excuse? Women like muscular men who are more likely to kill them in a few seconds compared to a skinny guy so this statement doesn’t hold any weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 10:57 AM |
| 3 | What makes submissive women attractive?Your first mistake was equating submissiveness with passiveness. I don’t think men want submissiveness as much as we want femininity in a woman. Femininity comes with its owns charms just like masculinity. Plus a feminine woman makes the relationship feel more bearing, free, and encouraging. Masculine women will always tend to try to dominate you and no sane men will have time or patience to deal with that nonsense. Feminine women are just more beneficial than masculine women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 10:44 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of married women do you believe are truly, sexually attracted to their husbands?If I would have to guess, I would say only 10%. Probably lower than that. You won’t believe how many married women I witness online flat out admitted they cheated or “fell out of love” all because they they didn’t find their partner attractive anymore (possibly due to him letting himself go and not taking care of himself). Not to mention, women only marry out of peer pressure or only to gain access to a man’s resources but that doesn’t mean she finds him sexually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 10:17 AM |
| 4 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.Yes, but women only want exclusivity with men who they perceive as alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.But since you mentioned it, I can’t imagine how a woman who is with a man who she perceives as high statues is willing to share with him with other women. Women tend to fight the best mate with resources so sharing those resources with other women seems counter productive to her own survival. I think women only bring up the idea of polyamory with partners who she perceives as beta. She doesn’t have the heart to break up with him so she “opens” the relationship in hopes of increasing her options … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.Maybe it won’t be that civilization will collapse but rather it will look different. People always think that change is good but no one questions where that change will lead us or what do we have to give up in return for it. Everything comes with a price. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.That’s true but those numbers was before abortions and safe sex campaigns. Now that we have those, just watch how the shift changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.It’s going to be a long while until we get life like female robots like we see in most sci fi movies and TV shows. I actually have been up to date with the development of female robots and even though they look close to real women, it’s just the way they behave and the look of the eyes that seem off putting and I can’t imagine myself putting my dick inside one because of it. They definitely need to find to make sure those robots look like that have human emotions and can actually show expression… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.But you forgot to take into account that some men once they reach their 30s (assuming they are successful and still look healthy by then) will end up having more options than they did in their 30s which leads to my next prediction that young women around their 20s might start dating men in their 30s or older. Men in their 20s who wish to be in a relationship needs to put in more effort in looks if they wish to compete but your only set back will be your own genetic make up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.But statistics are just a reflection of the real world no? Sometimes it helps to let you know what you should or shouldn’t avoid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 09:46 AM |
| 3 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.If you’re a red piller, it’s one of the basic rules that women have an easier time in dating than men so your experience isn’t too surprising to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.That’s true. But the question if we want to end up like these men? I personally want to be the alpha that gets sex but that’ll be difficult path for those with average looks. Still worth it than wasting money for being a cuck though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.Pretty much that’s how it goes no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.I don’t think monogamy means you’re “anti sex” but I get your second point. The good thing about DNA tests is that now men can be assured if a child is theirs or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 10:28 PM |
| 0 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.I wouldn’t say collapse, just changes it dramatically. I did mention that women are hypergamous on where they choose the best mates. With sexual liberation active and marriage on the decline, women will still choose the top tier mates. This could mean that only the wealthy class will be the ones to produce families while the poor and lower classes will be out breed from the gene pool. However, if we add in female sexual attraction to the mix, the women from these lower classes might breed with m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Monogamy will cease to exist in the future.That’s an interesting take on it. I just find it surreal how some people can be in relationships with multiple people on the same time when it would probably be simpler to deal with just one. Not saying that it’s wrong, I just find it interesting. But then again, I think people just have a misconception when it comes to monogamy. Most people are at least serial monogamists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad.It’s just common to see and hear stories of women getting into abusive relationships. It also doesn’t help that these women stay in such relationships out of fear or of the believe they can “change” the guy. What most men don’t get is that women don’t enter abusive relationships knowingly. Abuse usually starts to show up once the woman is deep in the relationship. So the irony here is that the woman fell for the guy thinking he was a “nice guy” when in the end, he proved otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | You don’t need a woman to be happy.She can’t give you examples because there is none. Men do put an importance on looks but so do women but women go beyond looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | You don’t need a woman to be happy.I admit, I’m a virgin but there’s so much to sacrifice for in a relationship. You even need to give up a part of yourself. Personally, I wouldn’t want my girl to feel like she has to sacrifice an important part of her to keep me happy. Plus, women have high standards and I don’t think I will ever fit those requirements. My goals lie somewhere else and that’s just how it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/20 09:53 PM |
| 1 | You don’t need a woman to be happy.I do have a sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Men should cut their focus on women in half and instead focus on becoming a winner in their own life.That’s the point, you don’t. Women don’t care about your struggles, they wait at the finish line and pick the winners. Women will fuck a hot poor guy but use an ugly rich guy as beta bucks. Career or passion doesn’t mean shit to women and this dating strategy proves it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Men should cut their focus on women in half and instead focus on becoming a winner in their own life.Well, if you’re a wrestler women will automatically be attracted to you since women are wired to be attracted to strong men. Women like guys who can talk to people with ease anyways. Women value looks, money, and strength. But then again they also like the artsy type of men which you wouldn’t say is the ultimate standard for masculinity but there it is. Come to think of it, women sure are weird when it comes to attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 11:51 AM |
| 6 | Men should cut their focus on women in half and instead focus on becoming a winner in their own life.For women, cool is a tall hot dude with a criminal record who drives a sports car. Women don’t give a shit about passion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 09:56 AM |
| 4 | Men should cut their focus on women in half and instead focus on becoming a winner in their own life.Two things matter to women: looks and money. Passion and career is just bullshit considering not every passion makes good money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Men should cut their focus on women in half and instead focus on becoming a winner in their own life.What a load of shit. The truth is, women only focus on two things: looks and money. I like drawing since I think creativity is my passion. You think women will want to fuck me because of it? Lol they’ll probably start opening those legs if they see me making bank but for now? They can give two shits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Do women really have high standards or is it just that most men don’t put effort into their looks?Yeah, but you can make the same argument that every man wants a Instagram model as well so why throw women under the bus for having high standards? Most people settle for average anyways so where is this impression that women have high standards come from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Do women really have high standards or is it just that most men don’t put effort into their looks?But the question is or they picky in terms of looks or personality? Women might want the perfect guy but let’s face it, most people, even the attractive ones, aren’t perfect character wise and it’s EXTREMELY rare to run into such a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Do women really have high standards or is it just that most men don’t put effort into their looks?Well, in that regard men are boring as well since all they do is play video games and watch movies. What constitutes as “fun” anyways? I thought the main philosophy behind this sub was that women want a male model no matter what so why does it matter of some men want to sleep with her considering she’ll sleep with the best option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Do conventionally attractive women prefer masculine looking men?Women in general like guys who look masculine but that depends what you mean by masculine. A masculine attitude can go a long way but that has to do with confidence and charisma. My advice is try not to be overly nice when talking to a girl and just flirt and tease her from time to time. Don’t put all your attention to her though because you’ll just end up looking like her gay best friend lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Anecdotally: how common is promiscuity in modern men?I guess I’m in the small minority then. Fuck me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Being valued solely on your looks as a woman sucks, even if you are very attractive. Men do not have it harder when it comes to how they are valued in society.The problem with nice guys is that they use their niceness as a selling point to get sex without realizing everyone else is doing the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many dudes see sex as the best thing in the relationship, and other aspects as secondary or boring?I know, I would imagine in a healthy relationship, the guy is just happy to spend time with his girl no matter where they go but if he’s even feeling resentful of that, there might be other issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men just masturbate?And when men chase pussy, the world starts to fall apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Are men in authority positions (doctors, teachers) more likely to enter an inappropriate relationship with a patient than females?Real life is not a porno my dude lol. I mean, it can happen but it’s rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Guys on here are hypocritical, this is why my life is not easy as a young femaleYou’re not ugly, the fuck? Get out of here and build some confidence lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 04:23 PM |
| 0 | Do you all settle for your men?Nah, you still want a Chad with a 10 inch cock and you’ll cheat on your boyfriend once the opportunity comes because you’re a femoid......I’m kidding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Posting on incel forums or femcel forum while wanting a relationship is fucking pointlessDudes want to fuck a girl but then put it in their heads that they are ugly so no girl would want them then they blame women for putting them in a box that they put themselves in. Incels are females are just idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How less attractive is an attractive man who reveals himself to be a virgin? Is it an instant turn-off?Not a woman but you should really not mention about sexual history or virginity when dating. People make a lot of assumptions when they hear that someone is a “virgin”. Best bet to just keep it yourself and not mention it unless they ask. If they do just be honest about and own it. Just say it was a product of unlucky circumstances. I’m a virgin myself but I would NEVER announce it to people I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/20 03:40 PM |
| 7 | FEMINIST AND ALSO UNIVERSITY MASTERS EDUCATED SOCIAL WORKER (Yup, she's a social worker, supposedly looking after vulnerable people and families) - check the likes, but ermm yeah "feminism doesn't hate men (and non feminist women)" "eerm yeah men as a class err patriarchy hurts men"That means there are around 189,000 people who think like her. I fear for the future of our society. If we don’t make a stand against feminism or cultural Marxism, we may as well kiss civilization goodbye. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/05/20 01:46 AM |
| 1 | If the red pill is true is there any point in having a girlfriend?One of the core philosophies of redpill is never revolve your life around a woman and there is a good reason why. Women seem to be repulsed by men who bends themselves backwards for them and follow every demand she gives them. The man might think he gaining her love by doing so but in reality, she loses more respect for him as this goes on. That doesn’t mean you have to ignore women COMPLETELY though. You just have to understand not every woman is perfect so stop treating them as if they are. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Premarital sexual history is a better indicator of risk of divorce than ageMost common reasons for divorce: 1.Miscommunication 2. Finances 3. Infidelity Let’s face it, getting married around your 20s is unwise at this age. Most people in their 20s don’t know what they want, still trying to figure themselves out, or just want to enjoy their youth. What really makes a marriage last is experience and maturity and then come through the amount of relationships you had in the past whether they were intimate or sexual. I wouldn’t say virgins are fit for marriage anyways. Peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 10:53 AM |
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