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Question For WomenMcTitty3000/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:22 AM
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DiscussionMcTitty3000/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:45 PM
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What is this Revenge you're speaking of? Are they serving it cold, that's the best way according to the gourmet chefs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:28 PM
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I've known a few women who have this kind of thought process, it's certainly is not a compliment to a guy I'll tell you that, this might be the best option for guys that don't have a lot of options but if your woman thinks of you as the husband material guy, just know what you're getting yourself into lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:54 AM
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I wouldn't use the word taboo but it's definitely controversial, I won't ever argue against it though, all of my most serious relationships began with straight up cold approach, not part of the same social circle nothing, just a stranger that really did something for me and I made my move. It's a strategy that requires a lot of skill for a guy and some experience but it's certainly a valuable skill to have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:50 AM
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Hobbies? I haven't seen that but generally speaking it's just statistically proven men care much less about a woman's career and education level than a woman cares about a man's, we value other things and I think you know better but just wanted to post this anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:38 AM
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I mean I agree, people may not like it but sexual / romantic / physical attraction is what separates a relationship from just hanging out with a friend or a roommate. And sometimes people seem to be primarily sympathetic if someone's emotional or mental needs are not being met, that that's a perfectly valid reason to end a relationship, well it's a valid reason to end a relationship if you're physical needs are not being met as well. Reading through some of these comments I'm so glad we have a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:36 AM
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1984 baby here, I'll be turning 40 at the end of the month so just to give you my experience as it pertains to dating over the decades , it's always been the same level of difficulty for me, I've had what I would call four truly significant relationships with some casual stuff sprinkled in, nearly everything was in person, don't get me wrong when tinder was in its prime days, living in a big city especially it was great, but all my serious relationships were simply just " hey there's an attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:11 AM
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" I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one " - Ice T / Jay-Z But getting to the point, I think the issues you mentioned are more so just general world problems that each society or maybe the whole world has to deal with, this is a dating / gender Dynamics subreddit so of course an issue with the opposite sex is going to come up, I don't think anybody's claiming that not having a woman is their biggest problem, but at the end of the day people can voice concerns for multiple things going on in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:06 PM
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There's obviously a lot of dishonesty within the dating game from everybody, and nonetheless yeah there is just pretty much a code that guys have to know and play along with in order to get what they want, if you approach a woman she already knows that you want to fuck, and even if she's interested the way they work is looking for any small thing that can disqualify you so game has got to be game
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:48 PM
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When you said unlucky with men I figured you had a couple relationships that just didn't end well for whatever reason, my bad, well I wish you the best
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:43 PM
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Well a quick scroll through your post history and there's definitely some stuff on there that could be considered red flags, and maybe that starts to project within the confines of a relationship? But regardless as far as what you told me here, again I only know so much about you but definitely dressing away that accentuates your best features, and I would say stay away from the dating apps for sure, and that's not super outlandish criteria for a man, if men don't typically compliment you or app…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:33 PM
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As far as draft dodgers, I get why some people do it, I do think they should absolutely lose their citizenship rights for that country though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:28 PM
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Obviously I don't know what you look like so that could play A part as well but nonetheless at a certain age even in women virginity could kind of be seen as I don't want to say a red flag but maybe a bit of a yellow flag, are you waiting for marriage? Do you want to have kids? What kind of guy do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:54 PM
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I have two sons and three grandkids ( benefits of having twins at 13 lol) , I'm okay with not having any more kids, my wife was initially fairly opposed to the idea of having kids which was fine I leave that up to her but over the past couple of years she said that she's open to the idea I don't like pulling out so like I said I'm losing that up to her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:58 AM
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Honestly, just the teamwork and chemistry and understanding that we have, I've never felt that I can be as honest and true with myself as I am with her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:56 AM
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If I was single *I have to be physically attracted to them obviously We have to match up sexually at least 95% of the way, we'd have to be at least somewhat fairly aligned politically/socially / religiously with certain aspects of that criteria when you go more in depth could be deal breakers Sense of humor Takes physical fitness fairly seriously, I'm in the gym 5 days a week and I rest on the weekends, the misses is in the gym about three times a week and that's pretty good for me Empathetic Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:25 PM
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Guys if you are attracted to a certain group of people or certain trait and somebody uses "fetishizing" in order to put you in that category, huge red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:14 PM
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Well I was pretty much done after the first little paragraph, I'm just going to say that "asexual" people AKA "low libido but I need to make it my personality" people need to stick to dating their own kind and stop trying to waste other people's time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:29 PM
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Whatever you put on before you leave the house is to provoke some kind of image from society, I don't think anybody men or women ( unless they're going to the club) dresses exclusively to appeal to the other gender, it just happens to be an added benefit, I think when you're talking about the prime years of when everybody's trying to be fashionable which would be your teenage years, your twenties it's disingenuous to say that trying to attract the opposite sex is not A PART of it, but the primar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:27 PM
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I agree with you, living in Tennessee obviously I see it here and there, I'm not voting for either person but you notice these things I remember how high the enthusiasm was in 2020 even with covid going on, I didn't think he was going to win whether or not Biden dropped out but regardless the same passion just ain't there, I think his fans obviously still want him to win and the people that are against him still want him to lose but as funny as I think the guy is it's exhausting at this point lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:04 PM
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Make a smoothie and put some alcohol in it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:00 PM
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Yes physical attraction is the primary reason, there's nothing wrong with that, sex and romance is what separates a relationship from just a friendship or a roommate situation, nothing wrong with that, I'm just saying when I listed out all my options you chose to hone in on just one which is fine but I listed many potential outcomes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:42 PM
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There you go then the time in jail can give you something else to strike up a conversation with her about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:11 PM
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Chose one possibility after the many that I stated but alright lol, but hey resentful or not, guys got to shoot their shots, y'all aren't going to do it often enough 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:11 PM
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I've seen it play out in real life so I won't dismiss the idea entirely I don't know what the percentage is are of it actually happening but yeah both sides of the equation have their own little " Revenge fantasies" that may be rooted with some level of truth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:59 PM
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Different game works for different people, my three most serious relationships including my now wife, all cold approach, I mean complete stranger Dating apps and social media take a lot of the charm and humanity out of the approach in my opinion, you just become a person for somebody to swipe left or right on or may judgments about, seeing somebody in person you get a sense of their real vibes, their body language, their sense of humor, they're charm and so on and so forth. Yeah it could just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:42 PM
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I've never had sex so maybe it messed with my brain idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:33 PM
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If a woman tells me that she's waiting for marriage, I respect it but I'm out If she's a virgin but she wants it to be with somebody that she cares about, if the chemistry is there and she has other great attributes, I can have some patience for sure I will say the reason why some guys would try that even if you've made it clear it's definitely an ego thing they want to be your first and they want to be seen as special like "yeah sure you're holding out for marriage but look at me look how aweso…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:31 PM
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Yes because the men aren’t being shamed for being virgins 🧢 by women hence the “virgin jokes”. And again you just did exactly what the op did which was say it's not real and then confirm it a few lines later, y'all are funny lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:25 PM
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I think it was a great response . Also you didn’t even use an example of virgin shaming I use numerous examples one of each, I just decided to expand on it Men do not get shamed for being virgins more than women get shamed for having sex 🧢 There are no podcasts where women round up a bunch of male virgins and mock them Look harder and no I'm not going to do your homework for you Men feel ashamed for being virgins because it makes them feel undesirable You can only feel shame of something if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:38 PM
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So they can just say the guys being an asshole, a misogynist, a prick, whatever y'all are calling each other these days, the point is (even though it doesn't always take this but I'll play along for right now), the guy says something that gets the woman in her feelings one of the first things they go to is call him and incel even though he may not be celibate saying he has a small dick or implying that he has behavior that would imply that he is a small dick even though he could be packing for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:12 PM
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Thank you for proving my point To be honest I don't think you really had much of a point to begin with if we're being truthful here haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:02 PM
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I know it's flared as a discussion post, I actually read it before I commented , and since you don't seem to have anything of quality or entertainment value to contribute to my part of it, I wish you a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:38 PM
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I have never seen guys for insulted for being virgins unless they say something stupid or misogynistic So this right here just tells me everything lol, you're already admitting it's real so virgin shaming for men is absolutely real, when a guy says something that's even slightly critical about women, one of the first things that they talk about is how he can't get laid, "that's a lot of words for I've never made a woman orgasm before", or maybe he's got a little dick etc., and so on and so forth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:36 PM
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The overwhelming majority of people settle on something to varying degrees as it pertains to relationships, just really depends on what your options are and if you put yourself in the best position
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:32 PM
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I wanted to give you a slight benefit of a doubt but I see what this is now lol, all righty peace out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:08 AM
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Only if you admit that you saw that I commented under the Auto mod because I knew that the question did not pertain to me, which is why I put the disclaimer to start off my statement, and you felt the need to comment just to waste time 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:01 AM
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Certain men don’t want women to have the option to leave. Then that's a whole different discussion about a specific group of men, maybe that can be a whole other post, but it's got nothing to do with this generalization of men being "intimidated" by successful career women as was the OPs point, , that whole narrative is just typical feminist propaganda, and men shouldn't take that seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:50 AM
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So you see the auto moderator post that I commented under? Read the third bullet point, and then reread it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:44 AM
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Missed the point of what? The post? I think I got it pretty well, and even your reply just now just shows that, the fact that you had to finish off with "controlling" and of course "insecure" are the typical buzzwords we here used by feminist women, just a headache that most men worth their salt would like to avoid haha. And the fact that you equated not wanting to date a career woman / boss babe with dependence, I don't think I'm the one missing the point here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:41 AM
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Okay then there shouldn't be this level of discourse about men being intimidated or career women having a hard time finding a mate, already let's pack it up guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:36 AM
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In a relationship so I'm commenting under here, I'd easily take the purely sexual relationship, as far as option A I lived with a roommate once, never again, if I'm in a relationship with you I don't do that dead bedroom stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:46 AM
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I often see women talking about doing this. A lot of them sure do talk a big game yes , but that's not what this question is about lol As far as the societal ramifications most dating apps would be done, the industries that thrive on male thirst would take a big hit, the birth rate would plummet, and you'd have less relationships, and less people fighting for good relationships at the first mishap. If men had female sex drives the human race would have been done a long time ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:43 AM
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I mean if she's filming with other dudes? Yeah But if she's just posting solo content or like feet pics or something like that, no
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:39 AM
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Is it intimidation or annoyance? Male and female attraction does not line up the same, and a lot of times if you're dating a career focused woman or a "boss babe" the fact that she has a degree and financially successful is pretty much neutral to us and it can more than likely come with traits that we just straight up find a turn off, that's not really what I would call intimidation. Not to mention people always talk about women being gold diggers, career women are the biggest one because they o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:34 AM
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Happily married , if I was single and I was basically an incel, no I wouldn't get rid of the desire. I have no interest in living a life of celibacy with the monks and what the priests are supposed to be doing, "asexual" people are annoying as hell and I really want nothing to do with them, so I would go the money route, get as rich as possible , like I have anyways and just bang hookers and give me a nice enough gold digger significant other, life is tough enough as it is, might as well enjoy o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:23 AM
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I didn't see you were , just using it as an example of " it doesn't take much "
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:23 PM
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Famous actor/doctor/plumber/rocket scientist Johnny Sins is the physique that I would want for myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:40 PM
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I don't have my BMI memorized off the top of my head, last time I had my body fat measured it was 15% that was some point last year after the holidays
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:39 PM
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And just a man being slightly critical of a woman is enough to make some women go " inceeeeeel" , we all know some people like that, so let's talk sensible here if you're going to respond lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:37 PM
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The "looks fade" when it comes to picking a relationship crowd yes they're correct but there's a difference between looks fading a little bit with the normal aging process and some wear and tear and just straight up "letting yourself go" and getting too comfortable in a relationship, the same way that you have to put in continuous work in various parts of your relationship, you should continue to put in work on your appearance, it's a disrespectful for your partner to do otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:52 PM
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Lean Beef Patty on Instagram 🥵 Also 2009 Kim Kardashian 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:36 PM
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Yes, biologically it's the main thing we were put on this planet to do, you may not love all the responsibilities of raising them but who likes responsibility anyways lol, I think especially men who have a legacy worth passing down want to, we have paternal and maternal instincts by nature
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:24 AM
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People more and more starting to realize the negatives of dating apps is a good thing, more and more women speaking out against feminism and "boss babe" culture in particular is a good thing, the appreciation of blue collar work is a great sight to see (although I'm not too sure about the positives of more and more women being in it but that's another subject), I like that there have been more continued conversations around mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:09 AM
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Has someone with a bisexual wife, this is a thousand percent spot on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:19 PM
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Parents, good one anyways, generally give some moderate / general or anecdotal dating advice from when they were dating, some of it applies some of it doesn't, at the end of the day dating is a lot of trial and error and knowing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:16 PM
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Feminism is about female superiority, it even says so in the name, and I agree that men have to stop embracing it, we should look at male feminists the same way that people look at "Uncle Tom's" in our community
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:30 AM
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So many women will treat it like the same thing, and so many women will do the whole "be her friend first " thing and regurgitate that point, so they have to accept some responsibility in terms of pushing that narrative. I will say this to all the guys though, whether you think she's hot and you want to take her out right away or if it is a platonic friendship that gradually turns into attraction, if the feeling is not reciprocated cut your losses and move on to somebody who wants you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:26 AM
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They fake mad at Spider man now let that man shoot off his web shooters on his new Mary Jane in peace 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:09 AM
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I agree you should really only date people who's libido's you're in the same ballpark in at least, my wife his younger than me so she's still in that prime kind of run but I do a pretty damn good job keeping up, keeping up with her is a big part of why I take as good a care of myself as I do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:58 AM
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I mean that's all asexual really is is "low libido but we needed some better branding" lol, but yeah unless they're willing to let their partner get some somewhere else that is a recipe for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:35 PM
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Random but I'm just saying people that identify as "asexual" need to only date within their community and stop wasting everybody else's time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:14 PM
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Everybody hits a wall after a certain point, just depends on how well you take care of yourself, that's in terms of appearance, in terms of fertility yeah women it happens at different ages but there is a wall there for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:56 PM
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I would never be with a woman that had an issue with or got angry at me for watching , my wife loves it herself so sometimes we watch it together. As far as how women and I'm primarily talking about feminists here view it I'm not going to get into the whole thing about trafficking and everything but I'm just talking about straight up everything on the camera is consensual type stuff, I think a lot of them don't like that men have this fantasy world that they can indulge you, I don't think that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:55 PM
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My wife and I don't have a monogamous marriage, but if we did and let's say it was a constant thing for me to where I almost had to beg for sex like some of these domesticated pet husbands out here or it was just some issue with her libido decreasing and we were in one of those dead bedroom situations or having sex once or twice a month something like that, I would have a discussion with her about if she would be cool with me seeing another woman/women, if she wasn't then she would either have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:50 PM
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Clubbing on a regular basis for single people usually means yes that they're at the very least trying to be sexually active, if they aren't they're just taking up space in the building lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:05 AM
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Feminism is not nor has ever been about equality, it just has really good media coverage, the more men realize that the better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:45 PM
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That's the risk of being friends with someone you're attracted to for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:35 PM
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Well yes the standards and priorities of different things are at different levels depending on whether you're looking for a hookup or relationship but generally speaking they still matter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:54 PM
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I mean I look at it as the same solution regardless of ideology we can talk about it, figure out if something's wrong and if it's not changing, see if she'll let you see other women and if not might be time to call it quits
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:29 PM
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I mean I would say women play a part in both, but are not necessarily the driving factor in both
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:26 PM
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I've been able to have both and it's really not as different in terms of the discussion as you're making it seem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:06 PM
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Outside of real human trafficking I don't look at prostitution as wrong necessarily, I'm just not going to look at it with any level of real respect , I'll always respect a guy that is able to fuck 10 women through using his charm, looks maxing,status skill, etc more than the guy that pays a hundred women, the same way that I respect the natural bodybuilder over the juiced out bodybuilder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:21 PM
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A quick scroll through her videos whoever she turned down dodged a bullet lol But to answer the question no, I've never had like an ass ugly woman come up to me but there's been a couple women that the attraction just wasn't there, but I wouldn't feel insulted by it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:13 PM
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Made plenty of sense to me and I'm sure most people reading it will get it but nonetheless ,a lot of this subreddit has to do with dating and relationships so I was explaining it from a dating and relationships standpoint, men that generally have the traits that most women desire typically speaking don't want to deal with a masculine woman who blatantly rejects her femininity, that's a headache that a guy who has his shit together doesn't want to or have to deal with, so her personality and reje…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:11 AM
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Feminists can embrace whatever they want, however when they complain about men's dating preferences or vilify men's dating preferences because they themselves mostly do not qualify for the man that they want and desire , they deserve to be laughed at and mocked. No man worth his salt wants to come home and deal with Ms. " I'm conditionally feminine" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:54 AM
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I certainly think there's some lies being told in this post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:47 AM
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Fellas just straight up, if you're with a woman that you know has either been promiscuous or at the very least has had one night stands or friends with benefit situations, and she makes you wait a significant amount of time for sex because you're the "boyfriend / husband material " guy, she don't like you like that, she sees you as the safe/stable puppy option, odds are there's no real lust or attraction there, and she's not going to be giving her best effort to you throughout the relationship i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:06 PM
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I don't think the gas lighting is them saying that he can't find a younger woman to date, the gas lighting is them trying to spin it that he's morally incorrect, the gas lighting is pushing the idea that it's wrong to find a 21-year-old woman attracted because " sHes a ChIiiiiLd", the gas lighting is "you date younger women because you can't get women your own age", now the people doing that are usually feminists and they're only really people technically speaking anyways but nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:03 PM
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Feminists and older women actually have a point about age-gap relationships No they don't lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:16 AM
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The red pill is not for women, not to mention I'd argue a man being a feminist is much much worse than a woman who absorbs red pill content but nonetheless it's not for her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:43 PM
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Well if it becomes unwanted attention then basically this is just what you trade being a man for being a woman, and I wouldn't trade places with anybody honestly, now if I'm still a guy with a guy sex drive and I get a wide wide variety of women approaching me, wanting to take me out, and all the sex I could want and I keep the attraction to the ones I'm attracted to and yet for whatever reason I'm more at risk for those other situations, I take that in a heartbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:16 PM
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100% spot on, it's a net negative for a man's life to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:55 PM
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I agree, it's a net negative for men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:49 PM
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If you're using the terms "male gaze" and "female gaze" un ironically you're not ready
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 01:51 PM
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Attractive women who gives fashion and dating advice, no real thoughts on her
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 01:50 PM
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There's a pretty nuance discussion to be had about the whole thing, which I'm sure has happened in the comments, I'll just say I have no problem for 30 year old guy wants to date an 18 year old and vice versa, I've been on both sides of the age gap aisle myself. I will say that if you choose to do that, it is in part your responsibility to make sure the other person comes out of that relationship better than when they went in if it doesn't last, when I was 19 I started a relationship with a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:49 PM
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r/childfree , you can do some mingling over there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:55 AM
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Both of my most serious relationships including my current marriage came from cold approaching, so I'm certainly not opposed to the idea of cold approaching. I think cold approaching as compared to dating apps, a woman can see your sense of humor better, your personality, your body language man , etc , not to mention it shows balls, feminists may not appreciate masculinity but real women appreciate that in a man, so even in rejection there's at least a respect level there, and I just think a guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:09 PM
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What I love about this question is that somebody is clearly lying, if a man asks this question and women think it's because he's trying to prove that women have more options, the answer becomes "I rarely get approached, I never get approached", if a guy's trying to imply that the woman or particular group of women don't have any options all of the sudden it becomes "oh I have no shortage of options men come up to me all the time" , if a woman is like over 40 and trying to prove a point, "oh all …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:13 PM
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People allowed to have whatever standards they want, I'll just say as far as what I would find reasonable , I would find it in reasonable if you are asking for those standards and you're the kind of person that the person you want would go for. If you're a woman and you want a 6'5, good looking, in shape, six figure earner, with similar values who's also good and bad, awesome look in the mirror at yourself and ask if you're qualified for such a man, and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:03 PM
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Well said, you really only date within your social group of friends adjacent if you're actually looking for a serious relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:44 PM
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Fairly accurate, I met my wife when she was 19 and I was in my early thirties, she was in fact a barista, she at least knew she wanted to go to school for dental hygiene though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:45 PM
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It's the internet, a lot of stuff is just there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:25 PM
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Are men and women meant to be friends for a period of time before becoming more intimate? No, men and women aren't really even meant to be friends like that, but that's for another post lol, raw physical attraction is what nature intended, now if you're talking about building a romantic relationship being friends first can help (it can also be a disservice), but I wouldn't say meant to be . How is a platonic friendship to be achieved, only to have it morph into something more It has to happen or…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:24 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 02:15 PM
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I believe in gender roles, I believe in the man being the head of the household the woman being the heart of the household, and you go from there , now in the grand scheme of things I don't think I'm the best person to ask about fatherhood because I was a teenage father and my kids are grown now so I wasn't perfect in terms of raising them, but one of them has a very traditional marriage, the other one is single right now but yeah, I don't know if I answered the question but there you go lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:38 AM
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Feminists, like the garbage people that they are, helped ruined the word entitlement Entitlement means simply feeling like you have the right to do or have what you want without having to work for it, without earning it or you feel like you deserve it just because of who and what you are Wanting something is just simple desire
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:34 AM
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It certainly matters less, dating in high school you're in high school, unless you have Rich parents that are willing to give you stuff everybody is working a little part-time job or something like that to have a little money to save up for a car or whatever. College it matters a little more I assume (I didn't go to college in my twenties) , but there's still a grace period but I would say money definitely matters by mid-twenties, you're not expected to have it all together obviously but whether…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:30 AM
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For a lot of them they bought into that happy wife happy life nonsense and took it to the extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:27 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:41 AM
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I wouldn't care, if I'm too tired I'm probably going to be asleep by the time she's done, and if I have a headache that is that bad that I don't want to tear her ass up, I probably need to sleep it off
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:39 AM
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Both of my most serious relationships started with cold approach, one lasted almost 10 years, and I'm currently married to the other one, anecdotal I guess for sure but if you refine your technique maybe you find something that works for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:37 AM
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You're allowed to want whatever you want, it only becomes comical or a joke to people if it's something that you're clearly hypocritical about or if you don't have the options to demand those things. If you're a 35 year old woman who spent most of her time focusing on her career and has the traits of a career woman, you can ask for the tall, six-figure earner, who's in shape and good looking and wants to be with you and only you, and I would just simply say good luck. Same thing if you're the 35…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:07 PM
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If you are wanted there is no replacement. Okay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:37 PM
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And cinnamon can be bitter if combined with vinegar
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:48 AM
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My analogy is spot on, my point is , if you have a significant other that brings so much to your life to where you feel like you need them, that is the greatest compliment, it means they're irreplaceable damn near, it means they are special. If you're somebody who makes it a point to say "I don't need a man" for some variation of that, that just tells me that the person in your life is not all that special, people are actually willing to fight and work harder for what they need as opposed to som…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:47 AM
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We all know "strong and independent woman" is really just code for I'm a "rude , abrasive, annoying, maybe even possibly bitter" woman, and sure some of them still do want their partners but in using that phrasing we know that they'll never make any noticeable compromises in the relationship so most men know that that's a red flag of a statement anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:25 PM
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Nothing wrong with wanting a submissive woman if that's your relationship dynamic, I would certainly say that my wife is in our relationship definitely means more towards the submissive side If you're a "strong independent woman who doesn't need a man" that's fine, but why are you even looking for a man in the first place? They think it's a compliment to say "I don't need you but I want you", and while yes it is technically true that be like a guy saying "my girl isn't the prettiest woman in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:19 PM
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Find out what's unattractive / off putting about their personality and either fix it, embrace it or fake it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 10:00 PM
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The overwhelming majority of people date within their age range, there's no boycott going on, plenty of us with common sense just think that if a guy can and wants to be with somebody that's in their late teens or twenties, and those two people are cool with everything, that there shouldn't be some kind of huge moral outrage and fake virtue signaling about it and that it deserves to be laughed at lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:22 PM
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Dating advice in general needs to be a mix of general attractiveness but also kind of geared towards whatever partner you want. But I've always found that if a guy has a lot of the tangible stuff down, at least decent looking in the face, in shape makes pretty good money and he still has issues meeting women then there's something intangibly that's unattractive, probably how he is socially or just his personality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:19 PM
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I more so question the people that are so up in arms about it, if somebody is content and happy in their own romantic life, a 30 year old man and 18 year old woman shouldn't have you so pressed when you weren't invited lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:38 PM
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Shit ain't complicated lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:36 PM
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A. If she's never left her hometown, I can be like her Aladdin and show her the world all while riding her magic carpet ( although I prefer it shaved)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:34 PM
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I mean they weren't really on them like that to begin with, majority of dating apps are sausage fests lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:31 PM
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Anyway I'm going to barf right now. More productive than anything you've posted here, have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:35 PM
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It means that until 25 they should face minimal consequences if any
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:34 PM
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. Do you all not see anything iffy about this? Nope We can't just let killers on the loose. However I think it's stupid and speeding once or drinking in public once at 21 can fuck up your future forever lol. Nope brain wasn't developed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:11 PM
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Rough day at the office lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:29 PM
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Like I said as the recent Drake and Kendrick huge showed us a lot of people don't even know the meaning of the word p3dophile so it's whatever, I would have loved to go on a crazy crime spree in my early twenties and not have to face any consequences because "my brain wasn't fully developed" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:27 PM
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Not according to the " yOuR bRaIn iSnT dEvElOpEd uNtIl 25" smooth brains out there, but even so nonetheless, I stand by what I said if you're content and happy in your own relationships, what another couple is doing shouldn't get you so heated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:18 PM
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That's just the result of an infantilized society, like Millie Bobby Brown got married this past weekend she's 20 and her husband is 21 and I saw some people just flabbergasted at this, like just because you're 30 and you don't have it together doesn't mean everybody else does lol. And I agree that there's at the very least something wrong with people who are actually upset about that, if you're happy and content in your own dating and relationship life, a 30 year old guy dating a college studen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:12 PM
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I feel like I stumbled across the subreddit exactly like this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:06 PM
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I'm not confusing anything but okay, like I said we just talk to different feminists,it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 09:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:52 PM
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Just the typical feminist stuff, "men are inferior, they should de, every man is a potential grapist , male fetuses should be ab*rted," and so on and so forth like I said throw them in the racists on an island and have them hunted for sport and I think they'll be a good use lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:42 PM
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Well that's more feminist than women but yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:38 PM
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I guess we hang around different feminists, it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:12 PM
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Do you think one gender is more accountable than the other? Why? Generally speaking yes, men in large part because we've had to be more accountable, men generally lead society and are the leaders of their household as it should be, and there's generally more grace given to women in terms of their screw-ups and everything, I know times have changed with the economical implications but for the longest time unless you were going to college or something , it was hard to respect the guy who was like …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:12 PM
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A response to feminism, as is the red pill in general, it's primarily feminist who would go on about "women need a man like a fish needs a bicycle", it's primarily feminists who talk about being able to replace their man with a battery powered object, it is what it is, I think men and women are good together, if I could deport feminists onto an island to be hunted for sport however that wouldn't be the worst thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:53 PM
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Yep, I've said before men and women are in two completely different modes when it comes to dating, women operate from a place of abundance generally speaking, and generally speaking men have to operate from a place of either scarcity or skill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:50 PM
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You win, I did jump rope at the gym today, you did some leaping to conclusions lol, you win 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:11 PM
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Yup, doesn't negate what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:07 PM
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If men had the same libido as women, we damn near might be extinct lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:00 PM
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By your definition of options I'll be kind and say 20%, the key word you used being easily, men and women have dating on two very different modes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:58 PM
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Well we do know that they separate them, do they do it at first glance? To an extent yes, even pre red pill how many times have we heard women say in all the social pseudoscientists say that a woman knows who she's going to fuck like 10 seconds into seeing them lol, as a guy if you don't inspire that raw physical attraction, preferably lustful attraction, there's a high chance you'll be the bb guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:52 AM
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Because they don't, yeah there might be like a few outlier women but generally speaking male and female sex drives and desires are different, now when actually having sex yes women can enjoy the physical act of sex as much as a man, who doesn't love a good fucking? But comparing the actual desire for it? That's a joke and shouldn't be taken seriously, if the world was driven by female sex drive we all probably would have gone extinct sometime ago
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:58 AM
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Just your general rank in whatever scenario is important, like for example a woman might date an NBA player, let's say she's dating the 8th guy on the bench on the worst team in the league, he's still making a couple million dollars a year, athletic, hopefully attractive and so on on some level that gives him a good level of status in society, but if she was constantly around NBA players, that guy is nothing in comparison to dating somebody like LeBron or somebody like that. Somebody can have st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:56 AM
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Women, yes , Feminists No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:05 AM
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Anytime this kind of thing comes up online you just see the women say "we don't care about what men think" , " you're why we choose the BEEEEAR," lol The only real dating advice that I care to have for women is simply this: Think about the kind of guy that you want, and be totally honest with yourself, be as specific as you want, his looks, his height, his financial status, his humor, his "emotional intelligence", his habits, so on and so forth. And think about the kind of woman that that kind o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:55 AM
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Being the backup plan as a guy more so entails being the guy that's in the friend zone, she already has a rapport with you, maybe you have a lot of good tangible traits like a steady job and are generally considered a safe option, if she doesn't get commitment from the type of guy that she's really attracted to, she's got you waiting in the wings and some guys will take that deal because it's the best that they can get. You just got to know that if you are the backup plan / friend zone guy, she …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:49 AM
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Yes, it's an environment fueled by horniness and alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:44 AM
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Well cheating is different between men and women, not calling it right either way but it is different. As far as why we don't talk about these kind of stories is because unless there is some way to make it about your gender / race / sexual orientation nobody really wants to jump to the worst possible conclusion when it comes to topics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:40 PM
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I think specifically obsession with something can be socially constructed, but guys having high crazy sex drives at that age is just natural, good ole testosterone fuel, I can't speak for some of these low T yuggins these days but, when you're in that mid-teens throughout your 20s run wanting to bust a lot of nuts it's just a natural part of the game
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:37 PM
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I agree with that, it is a very bitter person thing, if you're actually content with your romantic life you're not that worried about where somebody else is laying pipe / getting pipe laid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:42 AM
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Nah, it's too late
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:57 PM
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It's harder to find, it's an ideology that's infected so many women, even on the right it's seeps in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:57 PM
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This is what you get when you date feminists, fuck them if they're hot if you want, but be happy their showing the red flags up front
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:55 PM
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As a blue collar guy myself I can confirm I'm an outlier lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:22 PM
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My wife and I have a free use dynamic in our household, so we agreed yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:13 PM
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If the goal is just to get off the island as quickly as possible, or survive until rescued, give me the man , just for the teamwork element, combined with also having more physical strength helping me as well If in this hypothetical we're not getting off the island, I'm going woman, might as well get some romance out of this whole thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:12 PM
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I have no problem with Aaron Taylor-Johnson and his wife Samantha's relationship, not one, but if it's true that this guy is in the running to play the new James Bond and his star power is going to continue to rise, the best thing for them would be to turn off all comments on social media, never speak about it again until the press anytime that there's a press run they have to do that the questions are off limits, the social media warriors go insane over that relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:39 PM
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On a scale from 1 to 10 with one being the least and 10 being the most, how sympathetic are you to the other genders dating issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:09 PM
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On a scale from 1 to 10 with one being the least and 10 being the most, how sympathetic are you to the other genders dating issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:08 PM
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It's overwhelmingly satire that a few might be taking seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:40 PM
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I'm going to assume that's not in love anymore couple is married, it could be: Business reasons, public image reasons, protection against having to testify against your spouse in court, some people stay together to co-parent the kids, stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:36 PM
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It can be both, on one hand yes it is a very lazy way to argue because men and women are different and think differently in a variety of ways, but on the other hand it is also a really simple way to check the consistency of somebody else is argument
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:34 PM
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I would have to do some research into it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:50 AM
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When you're single and you want to stay single, that even if your ideal dream man / woman came walking around the corner and wanted to go out with you you would go..."thanks but no thanks" and go on about your day, thats single by choice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:34 AM
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Well I don't know the depths of all the discussions on here just wanted to chip in that feminism is garbage, it was never about equality, it's just about misandry, dick envy and female supremacy, a lot of the reasonable women who actually just want equality are egalitarian not feminist. Feminism is basically just racism or any of the other actual isms it's just that the public got brainwashed buy a good public relations campaign, feminism is cancer, speaking of cancer rip OJ Simpson
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:42 PM
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The whole thing is pretty simple to me, yes men are going to ask out a majority of the time, if that makes the guy uncomfortable then don't ask or be very selective with who you do ask out. And don't offer up places that are going to break the bank for you , if she don't like chicken and waffles maybe she ain't the one for ya haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:53 PM
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I think "Ace" people need to stick with their own kind and not waste everybody else's time lol, unless you'd be willing to let your partner screw other people whenever they wanted or willing to engage in free use play, just go away lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:51 PM
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My preference is centrist who leans maybe a little more right, but as long as we're not talking about anything super extreme it's whatever, I certainly have some left-leaning positions, my wife leans a little more left than me but I guess she's kind of like that 90s left leaner that I somewhat would have considered myself, she cringes at a lot of the woke stuff too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:47 PM
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At a certain point as a guy you're expected to have your life together, I left my parents house at 19, these days the grace period damn near seems to be 30, but yeah if you're asking women out on dates and you know what women look for, it makes sense that y'all could at least have a place to fuck and not have to be quiet because Mommy and Daddy might hear lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:44 PM
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Feminists are people only in technicality , so you shouldn't worry about what they say, feminists don't even like men so don't stoop to their level
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:37 AM
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Not what I was expecting to see on here but you are absolutely correct
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:35 PM
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I just want to say to all the guys on here if a woman doesn't know or needs clarification on what "femininity" means, that's one of the biggest red flags that you can spot right away
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:33 PM
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So I'm going to avoid a lot of the hymen stuff and just simply say in the dating context "high value" for both genders means, " you are what the best of the other gender would ideally like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:53 PM
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I can really only speak for my own anecdotal experience but all my serious relationships have come when I wasn't looking for them at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:48 PM
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Looked down upon? No, looked down upon if done excessively? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:30 PM
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Tech shit, once AI gets to be like excellent people going to be dating their operating systems and customize robots and all that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:26 PM
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I don't love it but if you can financially provide for the child and spend some quality time there it's not as if I'm morally opposed to it or anything, unless your intentionally keeping the other parent out of the kids life for BS reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:25 PM
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If it happens it happens, I enjoy it either way when it comes to the female leaks, as much as I like Drake I have no desire to see him naked though that's where my thoughts on the matter begin and end lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:18 PM
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So I met my wife at community college when I was 33 and she was 19, I can't say there's really a type of woman that does this, the attraction is either there or it's not unless you're talking about the sugar baby lifestyle or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:46 AM
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Wrong? I wouldn't say that, I think most people in relationships settle in one way shape or form, I simply look at it as understanding what you're actually able to attract and getting the best version of that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 05:44 AM
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The best relationships are basically enhanced friends with benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:20 AM
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I remember there was a movie called her with Joaquin Phoenix, probably about 10 years old at this point, anyways the premise was that he was dating his operating system voiced by Scarlett Johansson ( who actually does have a sexy ass voice so I don't blame him) , and nobody outside of his ex-girlfriend really questioned it or looked at it sideways or anything like that, so while I do think people are just naturally going to prefer the human interaction probably always, you're probably going to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:37 PM
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I wouldn't say I find myself against the red pill, just certain aspects of it but to answer your question Find the guy(s) who have the sex life / relationship that you want it can be someone you know personally or a celebrity,study them, look at what you lack in comparison, max out what you can and boom. Also go to your friends who know you best and are not afraid to give hard truths and tough love
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 03:02 PM
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They've definitely infiltrated, it's not the same space as it was in 2019 or whatever from when I can loosely remember, and as much as I can't stand super woke leftists I'm not a big fan of tradcons either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:15 PM
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There's no 1,000% positive way of knowing, sure I've heard instances of people making it blatantly obvious, I remember one time a few years ago, somebody I knew caught her husband cheating because he left his Facebook open on their computer, messages and everything lol, as far as me personally how I look at it we're both grown, I'm not going to keep tabs on you like I'm your father or anything like that, if you want to go outside of those boundaries that we've set, that's on you just hope I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:46 AM
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That was supposed to take women seriously in so many aspects that at 18-22 they can vote, drive, change their gender, smoke, drink alcohol, etc., And yet somehow if it comes to them dating a guy who's in his late 20s or 30s, somehow they just completely lost all agency in terms of allowing somebody's dick inside of them lol and all of a sudden " sHeS a ChiiiiiiiiLd" type shit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:40 AM
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Like a lot of things how you carry yourself can be a turnoff, but even then it's not really a big deal we all know that a guy who has the option to even be promiscuous generally speaking has to be exceptional in some way because most men, the overwhelming majority do not have that option like most women do, so odds are a woman complaining about that either resents her attraction to him, might be hyper religious but still attracted to him or something like that, and odds are if you're a guy who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:34 AM
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The closest comparison I think that probably could be made is one that y'all already pull, in that telling some guy that you have in the friend zone kind of subconsciously that he has all these great qualities and that "you wish you could find a guy like him"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:29 AM
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Just a quick scroll through and it seems like it's own little echo chamber meh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:30 AM
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Oops just corrected it lol, appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:01 AM
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Leonardo DiCaprio Andrew Tate ( pre 2022, once he started going into the Islam/ Religion grift ) Steve Irwin Thomas Sowell Ron Paul Michael Jordan
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:02 AM
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They are very different terms but I do agree that specifically Femcels love to use these terms to crap on male preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:50 PM
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My wife fucks other women, more often than not we do it together, I also have relations with other women so obviously that would be cheating to most, although I reject the use of the word "fetishize" very BuzzFeed / jubilee terminology lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:23 PM
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I explained it in one of the daily thread, there's more of the traits that women found attractive in men: financial security, being in shape, willing to commit to them , if those trades were prominent in manage 18 to 24, a lot of these women that are age 30 plus would be getting with these dudes in a heartbeat, and they already are for hookups, which is why I tell older men do not let feminists gaslight you into thinking that your attraction to younger women is somehow creepy or predatory or wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:09 PM
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Exactly what you said, sexual contact with somebody else, I don't care what kind of agreement somebody has if a woman comes up to me and says that her husband cheated on her because he watched porn I in no way shape or form will take that seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:39 AM
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If that was my best option, yes, you got to be honest about your place in life, if I had little to no success being able to have hookups and casual relationships, if women didn't look at me lustfully, if I was the safe job security, provider guy that women look for after having their fun phases, and for whatever reason I couldn't self improve much beyond that you take your lot in life, I compare it to accepting your role on a sports team, you can want to be the starting quarterback all you want …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:29 PM
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Survival is the #1 human instinct Reproduction is the second, yes a lot of the stuff we do consciously and subconsciously is based of of thirst
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:43 AM
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That's why you don't listen to feminists in terms of approaching real women, all my serious relationships have been "cold approaching"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:41 AM
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Mew, that was a pokemon
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:36 AM
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Not the biggest age Gap I've seen I was 32 when we met, she was 19 ( I had twin boys age 13 so that explains why I was a grandfather so young lol), but nah I was taking a couple classes at the local community college and I approached her
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She looks insufferable, I'm so glad my gym is strict on not allowing any filming, you have these idiot broads that post for hundreds of thousands of people to look at them on the Internet, but when a guy does it in person 😱😱😱😱😱 A quick look at her profile it looks like Joey swoll already got to her, thank goodness, and she has the crappiest apology on her page, these chicks are bozos man so sad to see
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:53 AM
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I'm usually kind of whatever on the alpha widow thing but I agree, Brad at that time was THE guy, you just don't recover from that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:46 AM
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So I've already had kids, when my wife and I got married she made it clear before the relationship that she didn't want to have any children, which I'm fine with I was already a grandfather when we got married lol, but in recent years she's kind of softened her stance to saying that I would be the only man that she considers having kids with and that while she doesn't want them now she'll think about it before she hits 30, we have 5 years before that happens, so if we do go down that route I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:45 AM
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Guy 1, you value what you desire the most, with guy two she doesn't feel lust towards him but realizes maybe he's stable, she's easily the best option he's going to be able to get so that definitely benefits her significantly more so in the relationship and so on, even though deep down she wishes he was more like guy number one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:42 AM
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If you're talking about in person? Yes, and it's not just dating with the way technology has exploded a lot of basic personal in-person relationships have suffered so it seems like there's just a huge divide between two extremes you either have the guys who won't approach at all or the guys who just don't give a damn about personal space and will just straight up approach no fucks given It's something that's been frowned upon in the post "me too" ( a mostly fraudulent) movement, but that's mainl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:38 AM
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It's not about investing in the plight, it's demonizing certain content creators , steering away one side of the equation is only helping the other side, so it's at least bias at best, that 700k had a shit ton better uses is my point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:49 PM
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I'd rather that 700,000 would have gone to something important like cancer research but y'all do you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 07:03 PM
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I always have an issue with people's tax dollars being used for dumb shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:38 AM
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This was the recipe I used last time I made stew
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:34 PM
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Certainly Fair, I'm looking forward to the boys as well, I like Lady Gaga and Joaquin Phoenix but as far as joker being a musical, I guess we'll see if I'm up for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:17 PM
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Like a lot of people I'm kind of over the superhero movie thing but every time I see that trailer for Madam web it just looks worse and worse, I don't even think my lust for Sydney Sweeney will get me into the theater for that. That being said The beekeeper was actually quite a fun Jason Statham action movie, would recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:02 PM
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Think of the first recipe that pops into your mind and get the ingredients for that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:01 PM
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If ya say so lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:49 AM
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How many times do you guys wear your jeans before you watch them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:43 AM
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You actually just covered everything in my family, my father was a plumber who worked as a mechanic part time, and I'm certified HVAC and an electrician lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:15 AM
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I'm sorry but two years is more than enough time to have the "exclusive" talk, not that I expect everybody to follow my schedule but I met my girlfriend, made her my girlfriend and got married to her all within the span of a calendar year lol. People in committed relationships cheat all the time, unless he was working 22 hour days and spending the other two hours with you, I don't see why you wouldn't think he wouldn't at least have the time to entertain somebody else 🤣, and don't bring him into…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:02 PM
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Okay so in your own words you weren't exclusive admittedly but for whatever reason you didn't expect him to possibly be seeing somebody else, maybe because you didn't think he could get anybody else I don't know lol, but nonetheless going to your point, if you were shocked about it but yet still decided to cuddle with him afterwards and go to what he thought was y'all's normal routine and then you did that, yes you were withholding sex as a punishment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:25 PM
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My father was blue collar, I've been in the trades for over 20 years, so a lot of that stuff was just kind of second nature to me, I handle any mechanical issues that we have, I've handled most of the home repairs not that we've had many, I obviously don't have any statistics for this but in my anecdotal experience of situations where this has come up, women love when a man can at least handle the basics like if y'all are driving around and you get a flat or whatever if you can't handle that it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:18 PM
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You even said you were not exclusive and that you weren't necessarily surprised, so the fact that this story ended with you hyperventilating, sounds like you have other stuff in general that you need to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:08 PM
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If she ever withholds intimacy as a form of punishment or uses it as a "reward" in the relationship ( see sometimes like the dynamic of Ray and Debra in everybody loves Raymond) If she's not in LUST with you as well as in love with you, you have to keep yourself as attractive as possible I said it earlier and when the daily chats it kind of ties into the previous one but women don't respect men that don't have options, I'm not saying to cheat, but if a woman knows that she's your only or CLEARLY…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:16 PM
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Well reality between men and women is full of double standards, and she told me if she ever found a guy attractive enough to want to fuck, we would talk about it, and that she was fine with whatever I decided
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:43 PM
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Just girls, bisexual but she don't really like guys like that anyways, I remember she told me she finds most women attractive but like one guy out of "every 500" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:37 PM
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Yes, she fucks other women too, sometimes preferably we do it together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:34 PM
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I mean I'm married and I fuck other chicks so I obviously have no problem with that statement, now if he plans on hiding it that's where it gets messy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:32 PM
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It's definitely a real thing, definitely seen it amongst more religious guys or more tradcon adjacent kind of guys, it's not as hardcore as just looking at a girl and thinking that but definitely through weeding out some characteristics. A lot of women tend to bring this up on here as the " guys do it to " retort to the AFBB dating strategy, the difference is a lot of guys would have no problem being put into the sex only category for a hot woman lol, but going back to the original question yes …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:07 PM
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I guess it would depend on the reason why, I can't ever truly say that it's over over unless there is some serious physical/mental impairment or deformity or something, but yeah after a certain point you're going to miss I guess certain milestones and a window for certain things, I'll say if a guy has been trying and putting in effort and still hasn't had a date or had sex by like 35-40, and I think I'm being generous, you might just want to exit the game or just start paying prostitutes on a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:29 AM
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I'm very much a "whoever asks should pay" guy 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:50 AM
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Every significant relationship I've had has been through "cold approaching", most women that are interested in dating men want the man to pursue but more importantly want the right man to pursue, so if you're able to read the room and read body language and not take up too much of her time unless she continues to want more of your time, it's not a big deal, if a woman gets pissy with you for approaching her just throw her in traffic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:49 AM
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I mean if there's no attraction and you generally have the same interests and like being around each other in specifically with guys if you are into at least some of the stereotypically masculine things that guys like yeah it should be all right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:46 AM
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They're equally valid in that anybody who was to say them is full of it and you should avoid a relationship with those kind of people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:42 PM
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Didn't mind it at all, she kept herself in great shape , she was lovely in all aspects, and I don't mind you asking nobody around me that mattered had any negative response, sure there would be occasional question about what we have in common or whatever but that was really it, the best thing I can say about that relationship is that I came out of it a better person
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:05 PM
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I mean not too much crazy about it, I saw her at Publix, that's what I saw and I went up to her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:10 PM
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I think it's the whole letting your wife screw another guy thing, now I will say like yes if that's your thing and you find somebody that's willing to play along you do you, but in society the more and more that these kinks are out in the open , some of them are just going to be used as insults fairly or unfairly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:43 AM
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Yes, at the very least it allows you to focus on yourself more which I would say is easier, if you don't have a significant other you don't have to consider their feelings or what they might think, no kids to take care of, you can focus on your own financial situation without having to worry about anybody and so on and so forth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:18 AM
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The most consistent things about it seem to be: fitness, getting your money on point, and understanding women / what it takes to attract them Outside of that it seems to be watered down between different ideologies some people in the space like to lean towards the tradcon religious route and want kind of like an updated 1950s, some people seem to go towards the Islam route, some people seem to be areligious and lean more towards the "enjoy the decline" mentality, some people are more left-wing, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:13 AM
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Depends on what you want and when you want it I guess, when I was 19 I dated a 40 year old woman we were together for 6 years and it was great for a lot of reasons some having to do with her age, when I was 32 I started dating a 19 year old, we got married a year later and have been together ever since, and it's been a fantastic relationship for a number of reasons some having to do with her age. Most people do tend to date within their age range, whether they actually want to or not, but like I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:02 AM
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Married 5 years, 38 yo M, my kids were grown when I met her and we're not planning on having any, just for context. I own my home and the land that it sits on, I did before she got into the picture so I take care of all the property tax on that. She covers the internet, it's kind of split whatever on groceries. And we budget and pool our money together for travels, can't wait for our summer trip this year And yeah we buy each other nice gifts every now and then, and we each throw a little someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:54 PM
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Sounds like he got into a relationship with a feminist and he'll more than likely regret it later, the red flag is right there, if my girlfriend said to me "all black people are horrible" 25% of me would be done with her on the spot lol Seriously men, if you value peace in your household don't date a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:33 PM
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Well social media opens up a lot of voices for people, and contrary to popular belief it's not just men who may be vocal or unnecessarily vocal about their preferences, if social media somehow decides that you're dating history is wrong people are going to come at you about it. Femcels crap on Leonardo DiCaprio all the time because he dares to enjoy the company of young supermodels, oh the horror, there was a thread in the pop culture chat subreddit about Chris Evans and his wife and you had peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:17 AM
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The whole menstrual cycle thing just sounds terrible, absolutely correct on pregnancy and childbirth, as well as the biological clock thing unless you willing to drop a bunch of money for freezing eggs or other kinds of procedures. And to a degree I have some sympathy for women constantly getting hit on, now as a man I would love it if women would come at me like that, but at the very least it's got to be pretty annoying when it happens so often, I he used to get annoyed at the old telemarketer …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:12 AM
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That the estrogen side of the equation throws around the word "entitlement" too loosely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:42 AM
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Feminism is not about equality, it's a supremacist/ hate movement that has an excellent public spin. One of the worst things a guy can do is knock up a feminist especially if she has a son, I truly don't believe that actual feminist are capable of loving their sons
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:40 AM
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What you have to understand is that the 2x group is a feminist group, by the nature of the ideology they embrace they do not like men, at the end of the day you can look to them as any kind of real advice, most women want the man to pursue them, that's just how it goes, if you are the right guy and you're looking good, breath is on point you have a good get in get out strategy for the conversation, it don't matter if you approach a girl at work, the grocery store, the club, the gym whatever you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:37 AM
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Didn't feel like a genuine question, the title alone is reminiscent of whenever the feminist/femcels comment online go " do y'all even like women", "y'all just go ahead and be gay already if you don't like women", " just say you hate women and move on" and all the stuff that that tribe says, you even brought up the "mommy" ad hominem, I'm sorry I don't believe you I'm calling bad faith argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:32 AM
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The question itself makes me think that this isn't even a good faith post, so I'll just keep it brief. You see a lot of stuff on social media , it opens people up to a wide variety of perspectives and opinions, I'm not sure who you are but hopefully you're better than this feminist nonsense that you tried here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:23 AM
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Because confidence is usually earned, you don't really have confidence unless you're either really good at something, you've accomplished a lot or at the very least had a lot of interesting experiences, confidence also is indicative of competence which is another turn on to women, if you're confident that means you'll be cool under pressure which women will appreciate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:34 AM
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I mean you're not wrong yes I think most guys that I've ever heard will acknowledge that when it comes to long-term dating I'll take the six with an excellent and pleasant personality over the 10 with a terrible personality, but for men and women looks are how you get in the door in the first place, personalities what keeps you around along with other stuff, it's just that looks are higher on men's priority lists from what I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:32 AM
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I think what it comes down to because I do agree that it's phrased poorly, is that if a woman has a known promiscuous past, and that gives her an issue with dating, and attracting the kind of guys that she wants, she's got to take accountability for her decisions in the past. Now I do notice some guys tend to get upset whenever somebody that they deem a whore whether it's verified or not actually does get married and leads a seemingly good life, with a guy that they can't really talk too much cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:09 AM
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I certainly agree that it has become a scam / grift for sure I don't think it's nearly as helpful as its proponents claim it to be, but either way it can be a good placebo for some people I guess let him do what they do I find the gym to be more helpful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:04 AM
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If I'm single and I have the means to live alone comfortably, I'm choosing that 10 times out of 10, when I left my parents house I had to stay with a friend of mine for a while and I love the guy but that whole thing about familiarity breeds contempt is true so imagine how it is having to have just roommates and everything, now we can work but yeah if I have the choice alone 10 times out of 10, you can have your social time away from the apartment
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:53 AM
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I don't think that video is good proof, but I'm married and my wife knows that I screw other women, she even joins in sometimes, and while I don't have any statistics to support that most men would cheat, I guarantee you if most men could have that understanding with their wives that they would take that deal in a heartbeat, my favorite is when tradcons try to use monogamy and marriages signal but that's another story lol So while I don't believe that most people would actively cheat , I do know…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:39 AM
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Because women are good at acknowledging the differences between men and women when it comes to stuff that isn't in women's favor, but when it comes to this promiscuous sex discussion which most men will not have the option to do it becomes a game of "would you say that if it was a man?!", " would you tell your son the same thing?", etc., at best it's somebody trying to validate their own promiscuous behavior or thoughts and needing other people to validate it and at worst it's feminist/ femcel t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:35 AM
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Guys I just want to say that if a woman says something like this, that is an automatic red flag lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:27 AM
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I wouldn't say it's objectively good, it's just ineffective, as far as " shaming " ( you can't be ashamed if you're not actually ashamed of what you're doing) it hasn't worked in a lot of ways in society, people fat shame all the time and yet we still have a bunch of fat asses walking around, people would shame people that use drugs and call them there was even a War on drugs that was a complete failure. What's actually good for society is people minding their own business and controlling the th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:26 AM
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Sometimes two people are just attracted to each other and want to fuck each other's brains out, not every relationship is meant to be forever, it's really not that deep in terms of an explanation, is a one-night stand inferior to a genuinely loving relationship? Sure I agree there, doesn't mean it can't be fun though and if you're playing safe and being honest with your intentions nothing wrong with a little fun, religious perspective or not if it's not for you it's not for you. And you even ans…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:37 PM
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I mean if that was simply the case of her trying it with a guy and not liking it it probably wouldn't have been as big a deal, but that was not the case and he apparently had video proof of the contrary so I don't know I only dug so deep into the subject matter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:02 PM
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Most people settle on some level, how much depends on what you qualify for, as far as what drives the fear, too much content, too much media, maybe too much experience ( I once worked with a guy who's ex wife refused to do anal with him despite doing it in the past). I do agree with your premise but people do have intimate desires and desire romantic companionship, so it is what it is. As long as you take accountability for your choices so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:08 PM
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Oh no we didn't have any of that in our vows, like I said we discussed that beforehand, and she didn't wear a white wedding dress so there we go crisis averted
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:43 AM
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For the most part I would say yes he will, because men and women do love somewhat differently but I would say yes he does respect her because if he is that caliber of guy, then she must have ticked a few boxes that he doesn't see in most women that would cause him to take her seriously in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:39 AM
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The one thing that I absolutely do agree with the red pill on is that women really only respect a man with options, the smooth brains may take this to mean that I'm condoning cheating but what I'm saying is women only truly truly respect guys that could fairly easily replace them with another great woman. As guys we inherently know that if you're dating an attractive woman, she could get another guy lined up who ticks a lot of her boxes, your woman only really respects you if you can do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:26 AM
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I feel the same way about nap time from the Pre-K days, I used to hate it now I would love mandatory nap time at work 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:22 AM
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Cuz I love her and I wanted to, not to mention one of my friends is a damn good lawyer lol, I don't see how I'm shitting on marriage though, or how religion came into this conversation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:19 AM
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According to you, what makes you laugh or what you consider acceptable humour might not work for others and vice versa, it ain't that deep... which is what she would have said had she been conscious 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:57 PM
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Dark humor is dark humor, it may not always be for you but there's comedy for everybody if you don't like it don't go see comedians that talk about it or engage with anybody who tells those kind of jokes, most men don't defend grapists, and if it wasn't feminist gas lighting then feminists wouldn't define grape and consent in alarming ways themselves, thanks for coming to the talk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:32 PM
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So like I've said I've been on both sides of age gap dating, when I was 19, I dated a 40 ( 6 year relationship for context), generally speaking a lot of what women that age find attractive in men is going to be in a man that's at least around 30 ish. They'll have flings with younger guys , if more younger guys had their shit together financially and were willing to commit to them, you'd see 35+ women dating and marrying 18 yo guys in droved lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:51 AM
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Criminals generally don't care about that stuff, the whole boys don't care about consent " is typical feminist gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:42 AM
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Some feminists on tik tok will tell you not to, fuck em, if a woman calls you a "creep" just for saying hi, push her into traffic 🤷 Real women still appreciate real men that have the balls to approach, feminists are real women in biology only ( most of the time)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:34 AM
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Yeah , while I may not have a daughter I have twin sons and when they were growing up I just told them some simple things: , be very careful about mixing females and alcohol, and communicate, outside of that they know the physical and social consequences of their actions and that's where my involvement ended lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 01:24 AM
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Unless you have a fetish for promiscuous women aka the r/hotpast guys, then no there's not really a huge positive to dating a promiscuous woman ( maybe she has less FOMO) , there's a couple negatives potentially but if you know her past going in and she's actually honest about it and not one of these " body count shouldn't matter, the past shouldn't matter" type of women and you know what you're getting into, and you're comfortable with that then there's not really that much of an issue either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:33 PM
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Yup, if my hypothetical daughter got a train ran on her in college, as long as all parties consent and no harm is being done, that's her business, now if you're just going to reply to that with more extreme hypothetical scenarios don't bother lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:36 PM
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Unless you're dating a literal teenager or there's a weird dynamic going on You just did the thing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:27 PM
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38/ Male / Married If they want to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:25 PM
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Depends on how drastic you're talking about, I do agree with the general premise, if you're a guy who starts seeing a woman and she dresses provocatively all the time and posts a bunch of thirst traps online, and that's something that makes you uncomfortable I think you're a damn fool to try and change that, if you're more of a homebody but your girl enjoys going clubbing multiple times a month, I think you're a damn fool to change that. Sometimes people are just compatible and that's okay, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:20 AM
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Because we're in a culture where everybody thinks they have to diagnose everything, but I hope the fact that a lot of people openly crap on age gap relationships means that we can go back to crapping on previous relationships that we find "gross" or "creepy" and that they can't use "Love is Love" as an excuse anymore haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:19 PM
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Lean Beef Patty on IG has maybe my favorite female physique, just the perfect amount of muscle while still being feminine , I proudly thirst for her 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:31 PM
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Lived in big cities my whole life, I've never seen it from anybody that wasn't either a racist or some feminist trying to demean an American man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:28 PM
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In my own personal life, I've seen it a few times never counted but I know of people that got caught cheating by their significant other or or attempting to cheat with social media and leaving a paper trail and all that, you see how it hurts some people in some ways more than others but somewhere along the line I guess that factored into me telling women and being open that I wanted to be with other women from time to time, I'm happy that I found a partner that understands that and even indulges…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:17 AM
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I have no problem with the idea of alimony, shouldn't be for a lifetime though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:46 PM
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Wife and I have been together 6 years, married 5, she IS bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:44 PM
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So I've been on both sides of the age Gap thing when I was 19 I dated a woman who was 40 and we dated for 6 years, I married my wife 5 years ago and she was 20 and I was 33 at the time. I think feminist discourse is absolute garbage when it comes to age Gap relationships and I think any guy worth his salt should just laugh at these people and enjoy his time, as far as your question I do think a lot of it has to do with preference in what each gender generally finds attractive and to an extent wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:33 PM
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Not necessarily a look but a lot of career women go down that boss babe route thinking that men should find it more attractive than they do , I guess if I had to go for a looks thing I guess it would be the super long nails
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:27 PM
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Yeah I only tip waitresses, delivery drivers and bartenders, like whenever I'm at the smoothie place and it asked if I want to leave a tip on the pad I always hit no, the only way I might is if they're super packed and maybe I'm being difficult I don't know but yeah it's crazy now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:24 PM
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If there's a funny story to it or potentially new techniques, that's happened but it's not like a daily occurrence as far as finding out body count from the social circle I mean if you're operating under a lie sure it's happened to a few people I've never seen it in person though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:18 PM
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Then I figure as far as your tag you're probably more egalitarian than feminist, there's a lot of egalitarian women who wear the feminist label because they've been duped by the good branding that that particular ideology has received lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:18 AM
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Men shouldn't be dating feminists in the first place, but I get having casual fun with them but if you knock one up and it turns out to be a son, you've done a huge disservice to that young man's upbringing 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:09 AM
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As a guy you should never be just friends with a woman you're attracted to, literally one of the dumbest things that I see men continue to do, if you have romantic interest make that clear right away and if it's not reciprocated unless she's a co-worker or making you money or something like that, that should be the end of the relationship right then and there. Now let's say there wasn't much attraction at the start but somehow it just built up, that's almost even worse because now you're attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:32 AM
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I just think it's smart for most guys especially if you're a guy who has their stuff together financially, I always say I probably would not have married my wife had she not ticked all the boxes that she did, and even then , I'll just say my lawyer does good work but honestly unless you're planning on having kids and building a family there is really no reason to get married, and even then as much as you may or may not like it baby daddy / baby mama culture has become so normalized that I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:30 AM
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If you're honest with your partner, y'all do what you do, when my wife and I were starting to get serious I let her know that I was not interested in monogamy, I like having sex with other women, now thankfully so does she so everything works out but honesty honesty honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:26 AM
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Have a cup of coffee and a donut with him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:41 PM
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For your longest ( or I guess let me say most successful) relationship How did you guys meet What was the first date experience When did y'all have sex the first time What was the biggest fight / disagreement / argument that y'all had Why did it end ( if it did)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:37 PM
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Agreed, life just feels so much better when you take responsibility for it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:34 PM
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The misses and I went to the gym this morning, and while I can do chin UPS no problem for some reason I decided to try weighted chin ups for the first time ever today, guys don't ever let a woman tell you that 30 extra pounds is not a big deal 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:28 PM
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I've seen it enough to know that it is in fact a real thing and I would say fairly common but I don't keep statistics on this stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:25 PM
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I mean there are some days that you kind of just want to chill out and rest for a bit, but if you have the right one or whether you like variety enjoy it while you can lol, the last time my wife and I did not have some form of sex was Thanksgiving day, it was just a busy day we spent a lot of it with family and we were just too full by the end of the day, not to be crass but we just absolutely love fucking each other, shits intoxicsting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:15 AM
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I can see it from the standpoint of it being satisfying because you had to do some kind of work to get to that point whether it was a physical transformation, or leveling up in other aspects of your life, but on the flip side if attracting women was never a problem for you, it's probably more satisfying to know that she's with you because she's hot for you as opposed to the fact that you had to make some drastic transformation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:12 AM
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Let's see how many people looking for relationships are actually willing to self improve 👀👀👀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:36 PM
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It's not ideal for most, my wife and I fuck other chicks so we have a decent success rate when we do bar game, she does most of the heavy lifting in terms of the introduction, but for single guys unless the bar club scene is YOUR environment, meeeeeh, almost everything is social media now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:28 PM
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Steven Shapiro is a YouTuber that I've been subscribed to for quite a while, he got married fairly recently and sometimes he does reactions to his pranks with his wife, the comment section of this video shows that sometimes, in your own way as a man you do have to spark that competition anxiety in your woman, I guarantee you he gets much better treatment from her because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:26 AM
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Well there's some context, I'll say this there's double standards when it comes to men and women either way, some benefit the woman some benefit the man, as far as being single, I would say if you're actively looking today, man have it worse, women just straight up have more options than men. Now in certain scenarios let's say 35 since you chose that age, both people career oriented and are looking to be with somebody, the woman is probably going to have a slightly tougher time because odds are …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:02 AM
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Anybody broke one of their resolutions yet? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:58 PM
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It benefited anybody who felt like their sexuality had to be repressed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:48 PM
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That's fine, that's their boundary and their right to refuse to do so, but that tells me that they're not as into me as they might have been with a previous partner so odds are we would just go our separate ways
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:45 PM
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Well like you said towards the end there is a difference between somebody who is a career woman and a woman who has a career, most men have no problem with the latter, it's just that for a woman who has a career she's seeking a specific kind of man that's around her level financially but preferably above, and a lot of times women who are super into their careers have personality traits that are going to be a turnoff to a lot of the very men they're looking for, there's very very few people in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:12 AM
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I think it's fair to say that, I do think marriage is still the best and most secure way for raising children but at the end of the day it's not as if the kids these days haven't seen their parents not together so there's a chance that that will continue. We've seen all kinds of marriages succeed and fail so there is no foolproof method, I probably wouldn't have even married my wife had she not ticked the boxes as well as she did and even then I still had to have my lawyer draw up some stuff for…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:55 PM
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Abandon? No, I think men should be more aware of what they want and be honest with themselves and if they're going to listen to that stuff be aware of which people in the space that you listen to, because like with anything else there's a bunch of people who are just there to grift and make money and will switch up on you like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:11 PM
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From a purely biological standpoint you are correct, hypergamy is a good thing, to what end is debatable but pushing the best of the species forward is what we're designed for at the end of the day, now what separates humans from the animals in this regard is that we have more evolved thinking and can compensate in other ways, but in terms of just raw biology, hypergamy makes total sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:09 PM
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The closest I've came is when one of my female acquaintances was wearing leggings, and her ass looked great and I said "been hitting squats I see" , she thanked me lol, I think butt can kind of be a gray area but tits and dick probably not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:04 AM
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That's usually femcel talk, at the end of the day of two people are attracted to each other and like doing all that relationship stuff together people who don't matter can stay chirping from the sidelines, I've been on both sides of the age Gap relationship thing and received a bit not anything major but a bit of criticism from both, it's usually rooted in some kind of jealousy or self negativity that they're trying to protect
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:13 AM
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Yes, it's more indicative from a relationship standpoint but even if you're physically attractive, not having money or status diminishes your access to certain women, you can't tell me that if Pete Davidson was the manager of a Target that he would be slanging out here like he does lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:50 AM
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Most terms that women try to paint us with in terms of guys that are actually promiscuous fail because we wear them with pride and we know that having a high body count for a man and having a high body count for a woman are not equal, no discussion. That being said this is inaccurate, women do more " slut shaming" than even men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:47 AM
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Well it would be weird if he was actually insulted, although I could see looking at it from his point of view if a woman's offering to split in his mind she might not have been that into the date or if he's involved in these communities he might think it's a shit test lol, I've always said though if I take a chick out and she wants to pay, I'll cover the check she can give a great tip to the waiter / waitress, all good here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:26 AM
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I do appreciate a good banana split I won't lie , I haven't had one in years though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:23 AM
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I agree I'm not disputing that, even if you have the money to burn I think it's foolish to break the bank on a first date, I'm just saying guys in general are going to be the ones that pursue, if the prospect of asking somebody out whether it's just for the chance of sex or whether you're dating to marry, the idea that it would even come up to split the bill over some chicken tenders and some soda is silly to me and I don't blame women for mocking that, guys have our " picks " too, they're allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:21 AM
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GOTG 3 is the only MCU thing I've watched since no way home, it's just hard to care anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:55 AM
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Sounds more like an opinion bomb, either way if you got your head on straight you can do both
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:50 AM
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My ex used to love general hospital, he played Jason right? Well that sucks, 12,500 a month for Child support, damn 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:48 AM
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Only time I ask a woman that is if I'm talking about her legs or asking her to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:45 AM
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Shit worse than what they did to TCU last year lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:32 AM
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Ladies if a guy asks you out, and makes any sort of big deal about splitting the bill on the first date, it is absolutely a red flag and the dryness you may feel when he does it is perfectly valid. Now for you feminists that's the kind of guys that you wanted so no sympathy there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:31 AM
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Shit makes me miss the BCS lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:27 AM
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So my wife and I do a thing every couple of months where we recommend a book to each other, nothing too long and just do a quick little one-page "report" on it, right before Christmas I finished up actually reading The House in the Pines my recommendation to her was my adventures with your money, I'm not too much of a reader but when I am I tend to lean towards crime, mystery or adventure if it's nonfiction I prefer it be a biography
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:26 AM
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Two things can be true, I think Florida State totally got hosed out by the committee, but based on the way this game is going the committee saved us from some bullshit in the final 4, Georgia out here graping these boys this is awful 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:17 AM
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She will have the power of being able to bed a super handsome man instantly. Most average women can do that, us guys are easy AF ( not saying that as a complaint by the way lol) The men she will get attention from will make her feel tempted to cheat If you have what it takes to pull a woman who's a legit 10, odds are you're going to be tempted to cheat in some way shape or form as well, attractive women are always going to get attention from guys, the 10 who is a model can cheat on you, but so c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:15 AM
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Because the friend zone is a waste of time most of the time, if you approach a woman with romantic interest and her only come away is "we can be friends", it should go no further than that point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:12 AM
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I try not to watch too much red pill content I think a lot of it's garbage ( same with feminist content by the way, a lot of it is really just a mirror image of each other) , but I've seen a couple episodes of the whatever podcast and it sucks The shows go on for way too long Too many tradcons guest hosts It's clearly gentrified fresh and fit without the production value Brian does a terrible job at keeping his show in check and even worse at debating his points Repetitive as fuck, nothing new t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:57 PM
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That's the one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:44 PM
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Yes, in large part because they've seen victimhood rewarded and they want to cash in and have their cake and eat it too, that way they can duck responsibility for things like signing college loans or even their sexual choices but yet think we're supposed to take them seriously when it comes to voting or them having an opinion on real stuff. As far as the age Gap thing it's that but primarily it's used as a way to shit on men for their dating preferences As far as sex scenes in movies, sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:30 PM
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I saw a video recently and y'all may have covered it on here but it was of a 38 year old who was rejected by a Matchmaker, typical femcel type , and just based on her personality it was easy to see why she was single and couldn't find the marriage and man that she wanted. I think to an extent most people settle when it comes to relationships and you can definitely find happiness and being content even when you didn't get a thousand percent of everything that you wanted, so if you're an older wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:24 PM
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I mean you could also ask why this person is 35 and single, at the end of the day you may be right, which is why a lot of men encourage women to get the best guy you can when you're younger,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:40 PM
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Because most people tend to date within their social circle even if theyir desires may be elsewhere, my wife is 10 plus years younger than me, in large part because I was kind of willing to step out of my social circle and comfort zone and being a place where I met her in the first place. But just for example if you meet your significant other in college more than likely you're going to be fairly close in age, you might meet them through mutual friends, fairly close in age, you might meet them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:37 PM
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I think that people should have the ability to be happy alone but unless you have some extreme case of something going on with you I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to find love or relationship, I've only had four what I would call significant relationships in my life, including my marriage and all of them have been positive experiences for me and made me better in some way shape or form. But I always knew I wasn't ready to be married unless I was honest with what I wanted and fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:31 PM
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I look at these internet talking points in recent years and if I was an attractive woman I would be wary about being friends with somebody who talks about "pretty privilege" ( or any of the other "privileges" they talk about) with the kind of tone that they do, imagine your friends not really being happy for you because you were born good looking lol. But me personally? No, I'm not ugly by any means but I think some might I guess, if he's actually attractive to the point to where I notice it and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:27 PM
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I think some are, some are not, like married people it just depends. I think if they are that way because they didn't qualify for the man that they wanted it's pretty obvious to see, they start getting into femcel talking points which are things like shaming men for their dating preferences, kind of like the people who talk about what are "age appropriate relationships", embracing feminism to an even higher level, etc., If a woman is actually happy/content with her choices, they're doing their o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:20 PM
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Yeah at the time I was obviously scared to death, my father was PISSED at me for a while as was her father obviously, and it was messy for a bit, and it threw off a lot of my life in my adolescence and even a good part of my twenties, but the life I've lived in recent years I wouldn't change anything, even if it did lead to me being a grandfather at 32 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:26 AM
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I don't mind , I became a father at the ripe old age of 13 , what really doubled down at the time is when we found out that we were having twins 😭😭😭, she was 15 herself , neither one of us had any business having babies at that age, and she had a slightly easier time than me her parents were pretty well off so even after she refused to get an ab*rtion , they took care of a lot, she's recovered better than me in certain aspects haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:01 AM
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It was a typo I meant to say early twenties and late teens, I appreciate you catching that, I fixed it might have been a mental slip since I had my kids in my early teens lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:21 AM
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I agree, I work a job that doesn't have the highest female participation rate and it's great, not that there's been any huge issues the times that I have had to work with women but they aren't one of the guys that's for damn sure, especially from what I hear from my friends with more corporate jobs, screw that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:03 AM
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When I was younger one of my dad's clients was a member of a man's only golf club and just the amount of consistency that women would have in protesting such a thing was ridiculous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:59 AM
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I don't use the term like that in my relationship (outside of the bedroom) I didn't start seeing it pop up again until a lot of this manosphere stuff really started gaining prominence but the best way that I would label it is that I look at myself as the leader of my household and to have a submissive partner means somebody who trusts my lead, doesn't try to challenge my authority, basically she's the vice president to my President, she compliments me, is agreeable, doesn't seek a bunch of confl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:54 AM
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I would say that it is normalized, there's even a term for it here AFBB, at the end of the day everybody's trying to get the best situation that they can for themselves, if a woman is genuinely attracted to the boring guy who's like an engineer or whatever and is home by 5:30 everyday and doesn't like to go out and he's just kind of basic looking, cool it's your choice who you want to marry but ideally speaking everybody wants that mix of lust, love as well as the husband / wife characteristics,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:49 AM
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So I look at it like this for the average person in society, yes men can hold off for a little bit longer , but when you wait past 35 the quality of the sperm does decrease, so from a physical standpoint everybody should be having their kids and their late teens and early 20s just talking about purely biologically, I had my kids way too young so by the time I got to that age I was done loool Now if you've now if youve acquired the things and maintain the things that can attract younger women, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:44 AM
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I mean I agree with your statement women don't fully respect men that don't have other options, not saying you have to cheat on her or flaunt things in her face but on some level she has to look at you like a catch and know that she can be replaced, us men inherently know that from our standpoint
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:39 PM
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Dating markets changed a lot even from when I was a kid, being 37 now even though I do love my girlfriend very much even I have to think about things economically almost just a different ball game out here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:37 PM
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