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Wouldnt be me, too much can go wrong
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 11:44 PM
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It only gets worse, protect yourself now. The longer u draw it out the more she has to gain. Alimony is based on length of marriage. If you delay it you need to be clever and plan ahead.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/26 03:16 AM
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I think generally its a good idea but I chickened out from mine after reading about all the ones that end with chronic pain. I suffer from chronic pain already and dont think I could handle it as another issue. My biggest concern is that all those people with issues get ignored and its hard to get help.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/26 09:52 PM
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50/50 isnt enough time with the kids. Anything less and you are just the fun Uncle at that point. You can't just expect your ex to take care of the kids and she deserves time to pursue her goals as well. Stop working so much and be the parent you wanted to be when you had kids. 50/50 is the minimum and you should be thankful she isnt fighting you for mote time. Personally the way this is written seems to be a bit selfish and petty and yet you try and paint your ex in that light. You need to reev…
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 12:06 PM
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Take it from me, you can give her everything and she will want more...
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 07:09 PM
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Necessary? No, however, there will be absolutely nothing keeping her from changing her mind later and asking for more. You can even hire a lawyer to help you both fill out the paperwork but honestly I think you are being naive.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 07:00 PM
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Its called a music festival aka a rave and usually involves.... Other things
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/24 12:23 PM
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Step 1: stop gambling Step 2: who gives a flying fuck Step 3: stop being insecure and go get some confidence. I recommend you start hitting the gym... For you... Not for anyone else
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 02:32 PM
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If you have filed for divorce this has to go through lawyers and be signed off on by the judge most likely.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 01:09 AM
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Exactly what happened with my ex, she told her parents she was living in fear, she got in my face and tried to provoke me into hitting her. I had to buy a dash cam so I could record our interactions.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/23 05:55 PM
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In most states no, one tactic i heard I could of used is to do a consult with lots of the best lawyers before they could to eliminate them from getting a good local lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 09:40 PM
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Will never go back to a dead bedroom again! and I actually get blowjobs now :-D
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/23 11:53 AM
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I have more sex in a week then I had in the last 5 years of marriage
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/23 01:29 AM
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Nope cuz im never getting married again
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 12:01 AM
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She either wants to make you miserable, keep you as an "option" or more likely she doesn't feel you deserve to move on and be happy and would rather see you pay for whatever she feels you did to her.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 12:54 AM
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I got it in thr agreement that fathers day is with the father and mothers day with the mother
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/23 03:16 PM
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Sex toys
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 11:20 PM
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Sounds like you might be the red flag…. But no, life happens, people have different priorities, get over it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 01:00 PM
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This, same thing, video games were the last stand for me. Id only play during work hours or after everyone went to bed, it was my one thing I had left and I wasn’t going to give it up. She was too co dependent and everything I did that didnt include her was me choosing something over her. Men need adventure, and video games gives that to us, it replaces sports, chasing women, drinking, parties, tuning cars, other hobbies etc etc
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 05:04 AM
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Yes and she got hotter after we split, still a terrible human being, and have had much better sex then with her several times.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 04:48 AM
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Its okay to reminisce and remember the person you once loved, that person is gone though, and never coming back. Come to terms with that and you can move on.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/23 02:48 PM
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Depends on the issue, is it premature ejac or not able to get hard? Its likely a mental issue caused from poor masturbation habits developed due to whatever situation you had. Check out a website called pegym.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/23 11:07 PM
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Kids need a mom and dad in their life. You leave and you are fuckin that kid over. They will pine for you and constantly wonder why daddy left them. Man the fuck up
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 01:12 AM
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Or u could just get pussy without paying or getting married
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 04:18 AM
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All that is cool, its just not for me
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 03:52 AM
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Thats cool if you dont mind transactional sex, but Id say you are in the minority of people. Most people prefer to be desired, and have emotional connection.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 03:47 PM
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Go see a divorce lawyer first, but here is what i would do in the mean time. Keep your finances separate, house, cars, etc. make sure whatever you have now is clearly yours property, belongings, small business, 401k etc. Put “in case of divorce” money into a joint account every paycheck. This is money she gets to walk away with in case of divorce in place of anything else such as alimony. If she doesn’t have an education, require her to get one whole being SAHM in case shit ever goes south and s…
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 12:21 AM
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If ever any a committed relationship, get a divorce attorney and have them guide you. Everyone’s circumstances are different and you should check again with the lawyer before any major changes such as income changes, job loss, major purchases, kids, etc. If you are or become the primary bread winner start setting money aside for “in case of divorce” that she can walk away with in exchange for no spousal support.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 12:15 AM
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Your reply should of been "At least you're happy" or "Well money doesn't buy happiness right?"
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 03:17 PM
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my ex takes every opportunity to tell me about how much she's struggling, how she has to work two jobs, doesn't have time for anything, etc etc etc. It's unnecessary.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 03:16 PM
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Doesnt matter what is fair, u will get raked over the coals like I did.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 12:04 AM
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You should immediately contacted EAP and claimed that you were depressed or lashing out as a result of your divorce. They likely would have shielded you and encouraged you to get help.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 04:39 PM
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From separation it was about 5-6 months, from filing divorce about 3
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 08:27 PM
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Should be percentage based lol
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/22 04:34 PM
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Everyone is correct about this being a really bad idea for you. You are still liable, it prevents you from buying a new house or in some cases other lines of credit. The assumption is an option but you are forfeiting all equity in the home. She must be able to qualify for the loan by herself and there are sometimes other requirements as well. Quit claim deed only benefits her.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 07:46 AM
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You are royally fucked as the bread winner regardless. Every day that goes by before filing date just extends the amount of time you can be on the hook for alimony. Its honestly hard to say much else without knowing more, but im going through divorce but same deal ex is going to school even though she doesnt need it, to change careers. She wants everything, all assets, alimony, child support etc. i thought i knew this person, I did not. You should at least get a few consults with the best lawyer…
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/22 02:28 AM
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Judge made it happen. They cant make you file together but they can dictate who claims the children.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/21 05:01 PM
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My ex filed separately, even though she had zero income. I had to fight to be able to claim one of our children, but ultimately it would have been better to file together. It makes sense to file separately sometimes when one person makes a lot of income or has substantial losses from a business, and some other scenarios.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/21 04:31 PM
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a lot of great information can be found on pegym, either their forums or their guides. I went through something similar but different after separation.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/21 01:59 PM
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It's 50/50, you can get your house appraised and use your portion of that to save a portion of your 401k. You can have the 401k split into two accounts for you and her, and transfer whatever remaining amount of equity is needed to make it even to pay her, her share. Keep in mind that all of your possessions in the house, vehicles, etc are also worth money. The last thing to consider is whether or not you'd be on the hook for alimony. If that's the case, you may want to bend a little to wrap this…
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/21 10:07 PM
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Wish I had your problem, but I would require photos first.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/21 10:04 PM
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My kids don't call me as much as their mom calls them when they are with me, and as the other parent it can be intrusive. I'd like to work towards a schedule/limited time because it often cuts into our activities. Some of the things I read was that the phone calls are for the children and not the parent, but the parents use it as a way to stay overly involved in their life when they are with the other parent. Phone calls should be relatively quick and you should avoid making them sad. ​ My kids …
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/21 06:02 PM
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Oh yes because i became an investor yesterday and need to listen to someone on reddit who goes to my post history to troll me
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/21 04:57 AM
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So providing them with two homes, paying for everything, taking them to parks, splash pads, keeping them fed, helping with homework, clothing them dressing them, doing their hair, fully extending my credit to provide for their house, packing their lunches, school drop offs and pick ups, putting them to bed and then going back to work, playing with them, board games, card games, video games, movies, taking the to see family…. Thats being a shitty dad? Wow how do u suggest i step up my game? Also …
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/21 04:07 AM
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That's a great moment, and also prepare yourself for the tough days. This week my son started throwing fits when he's dropped off, and wanted to stay with his mom. He asks everyday when he's going back to his moms. Kids typically cling to their mom more as they tend to be the nurturers and in my relationship there were multiple times where I was the only one working, just as I am now. It's tough but they are kids.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/21 02:30 PM
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Sounds like you already know what to do, but you should know that a lot of men have this thought, and I've even listened to speeches and life stories and testimonials of people leaving their kids behind and letting "God take control". Your feelings are valid, but your actions would not be.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/21 08:18 PM
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Yea I've seen stuff like that, that's very unfortunate considering that men more often than not pick jobs that kill them emotionally and physically and women more often choose jobs that satisfy them emotionally but make less.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/21 12:28 AM
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She's willing to hurt me, and hurt the kids in the process... it's sad
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/21 05:32 PM
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If you are okay with them moving forward without your input and taking any and all consequences, then go for it. Dont be mad later when you are responsible for all legal, attorney fees and anything else they can drum up and make you responsible for.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/21 02:17 AM
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Yea trust me its been a road, when we separated i had to get a small apartment that needed work. I wanted to get back together so ilet her call the shots. When she filed for divorce i quickly ramped up and made the place livable and got furniture and everything. Ive been struggling to make sure i dont do something that will cause issues but i dont want to just hold the kids over. Like they were doing distance learning and my oldest goes back soon and my middle is already there. I couldnt keep th…
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/21 07:47 PM
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Yea that's the problem she will always take their side over mine. Thanks for sharing your story with me.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/20 09:34 PM
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