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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 47 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrong | Field Report | Mean-Illustrator-283 | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 07:05 AM |
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| – | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongI see, do u have a couple of these things memorised as ammo or do u come up with these on the spot? I have always struggled with spontaneously coming up with entertaining stuff to say even among friends. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:30 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongI think it’s also maybe cus the approaches r too spread out. I did the last 25 approaches over the last month, but the 25 before that was over 6 months. I could do 20 approaches in one day I will probably learn a lot more. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:11 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongThanks, here goes another 50 | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:08 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongMy biggest issue I think is I’m 100lbs, trying to bulk asap. Also I think I initially come off as timid, maybe learning mma can help with that? | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:54 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongThanks, and yeah I would be down for bars, just all my friends found someone so don’t want to come now. U think it’s a good idea solo? I hate drinking by myself | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:53 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongFuck that mindset | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:48 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongNot ugly but I’m 5’2 100lbs | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:46 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongForgot to mention I’m 5’2 100lbs. Tryna bulk tho | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:44 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongThanks, sometimes I forget to smile I will work on that | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:43 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrong🙏 | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:41 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongI meant I should’ve called my # when I had her phone in my hand. Also my phone was dead and she said yes to coffee. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:14 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongIf I see a beautiful girl I don’t want to stop myself, whatever situation it is. There must be a way for every situation | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 08:20 AM |
| 0 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongThanks man, I’m definitely gonna try that opening it sounds a lot more solid than what I’ve been doing. The rest of what u said matches with the few positive experiences I’ve had, like the age guessing and straight up saying “let’s get some coffee, (ok), I’ll give u my #” which is how I got my only successful close. Won’t forget to call next time so I get her number. I think u helped me realize my biggest problem is the initial opening and approach, I may be coming off a bit timid. Really apprec… | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 08:10 AM |
| 0 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongI’m guessing something like “you have nice hair, where are u from?” | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 07:58 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongI just wrote down my approach process as a reply to another comment. I don’t want to post pics for privacy but to describe briefly, average face but 5’2 100lbs with an extreme case of baby face where I’ve been ID’d for trying to buy Redbull (u need to be 15 to buy, I’m 22). I have a goatee but doesn’t help much. I’m a gymgoer can bench almost 2x bodyweight, but low appetite and hardgainer, so my main goal is just trying to bulk | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 07:55 AM |
| 12 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongThanks bro, I try to be grateful I can always try again | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 07:39 AM |
| 5 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongI look for girls who don’t seem too much in a hurry or relaxed body language, then usually start with “excuse me, I can talk to you real quick?” with a slight smile to catch their attention, many interactions usually cut off at this point as they either don’t acknowledge me, shake their head / i need to catch the train, etc.. If they stop, either I throw a compliment or straight up ask their name or where they’re from, many times they just say thanks and then immediately start walking away, Or i… | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach 3xGood for you, so far I have 50 rejections in a row and maybe 3 were willing to even have a quick conversation, 1 number | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 06:33 AM |
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