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It sounds like not divorcing him is ideal in proving redpill wrong on that atleast. It sucks he got into this while with you. I can imagine that's a strange ego blow. I'm not sure there's anything anyone can do to reason with people who get into these cult like things tbh. You're clearly not what redpill say woman are. You're honest, loving without financial incentive and wanting to save the marriage. If he manages to see reality, I think that's your strength here in this stale mate lol if you e…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 11:23 PM
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Haha I'm sorry to laugh but it is funny in a total arsehole way. I'd dig your heels in and persist ypu won't divorce him and you'll continue to see him as an equal
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 11:11 PM
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Did you get to decide everything when you earned more? Sounds like he's been a woman for the best part of 8 years in his own opinion.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 11:09 PM
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Learn some interesting science, research some wierd, mad interesting history. There's a crazy and awesome world right here. You'll never be able to learn a few percent of it in your life time. So pick awesome topics. This stuff is a bitter and sad creating waste of time. Why learn opinions and self soothing conspiracies when you can learn crazy and epic facts. I'm a girl and have some made stress the last few years. The only thing that helps is emersing myself in some new bleeding edge research …
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 08:13 PM
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A long-term term boyfriend I had was 6'4 body building type and honestly, mentally he was weak. It was like he wanted to become me mentally (I'm fairly strong mentality wise) it got wierd. I felt like i protected him in life events. I dated him for 3 years and I just don't respect him as a person atall and genuinly regret him based on his weak personality. Get to know someone. Personality is what will make the difference. But if their personality is great and you feel intimidated, that's great. …
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 08:08 PM
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Lovely post. You seem a throuraghly good person going against the trends atm and I love you for it. You're going to meet someone as special as you are one day and I hope you're both in a place to know exactly what you have. Thanks for the post. From a girl, it's a sight for sore eyes with redpill trends. X P.s I think we all have capacity to have love for everyone but true romantic love I can't thouraghly say. Imo it's someone who feels safe and exciting to be with and makes you feel you're the …
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 04:20 AM
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It's normal to have some preconceptions etc just walk through the world with open eyes. Let yourself see the things that don't align with these things. From a woman btw. I don't take this offensively. I'm sure you'll go onto to have a lovely life without judging.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 10:05 PM
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Yeah I got it. It's just hillarious to me what rp feel victimised over.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 11:30 PM
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Thanks for the lovely comment. You're wonderful.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 09:03 PM
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I've fully let myself go and people sexualise me in gross ways now. You can't escape it. I've resolved I have to be seen as hot again to just get basic human respect and have to put up with the objectification
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 06:46 PM
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It's so refreshing to hear this from a man. Instantly a hotty in my mind. I don't get how this is such an alien concept. The world's scary rn.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 06:45 PM
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Hahaha I know right, harsh when there's literally no physical attributes women get judged for.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 06:33 PM
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Yeah it's a shame tbf. I hope you find some guys here to relate to. Their deffo are some really decent guys here but yeah nice way to look at it. Go trail blaze
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 05:46 PM
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It takes a lot of strength to be honest. Everyone has hurdles. If you don't you're not living a brave life.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 05:45 PM
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Honestly, as a woman I'll tell you this sub is overpopulated with woman who see redpill guys as weaklings and normal people with honesty and hurdles as strong. I hope you get some answers from the other side. But as far as I've seen as a 30yo woman now. Next to no woman like redpill like guys. The only ones who do are equally toxic and manipulative as redpill teaches. Toxic attracts toxic. Not nice normal people.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 10:48 AM
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Honestly it's not logical. It never has been, any "I'm better because of my gender" arguments are just. Ahg. Or "I'm better than the rest of my gender because I see my genders poor traits better" it's just ego massaging. It doesn't matter what the gender is in that argument. It's not logical, it's emotionally pleasing.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 09:36 AM
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Assumptions and emotions get you no-where in a dabate
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 07:19 AM
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Sending good vibes
/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 06:04 AM
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Honestly don't let it get to you. I could tell them about female bias tool use in out closest relatives. Point out stickly patriarchal apes are the least advanced out of all of our close relatives. But what's the piont? The results of this survey speak for themselves.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/23 04:24 PM
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That's it. Societies a collaboration. A leader is nothing without a government etc. And glamorous, praised roles can't be done without mundane jobs being taken care of. Glad to hear your thoughts.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/23 04:43 AM
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Ah you're so right. I find it so creepy how many people get sucked into these things in the modern world, with access to nearly any knowledge they like online. But i supose its literally choose bias. Like yhe guy whose gambled 10 grand and think hes can gamble out of his loss. I should probably stop learning about the redpill phenomenon. It really isn't good for people who already struggle to keep faith in humans collective intelligence. It does me a lot of good to talk to guys like you who are …
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 05:00 PM
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I honestly doubt the guys who are fully sucked in and have dedicated a lot to these people already. Will ever be able to admit this to themselves.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 04:30 PM
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Dude. Are you going to make up some more facts on anthropology to an anthropologist?
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 02:06 PM
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.. I don't have to prove that. It's universally accepted. . So you are redpill then? Not ex redpill like the sub suggests . . . . So you're not going to actually prove your controversial, not at all accepted by your peers point on Feminism atall then. OK if you're really going to be this akward. The redpill movement is based on believing reality is a construct to oppress men. Men should be the top of the hierarchical structure amoung woman. Men should control woman. Woman should be pias while th…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:50 PM
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That's not what is said is it. Now you're reduced to twisting my words to offend yourself. Finding out the percentage of men who believe this is productive. Any decent and reasonable person seeing this will realise he needs to combat some mysoginsts ideas. But men here like yourself often combat woman illuminating the issue. Not men who are creating the actual issue. You're being very stereotypical of a rp male. Weak, to be Frank.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:37 PM
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How? You guys seem to get so upset at girls for asking a question. Why arn't you upset at the 1 through of guys here? A poll is purpose. Stop being odd.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:33 PM
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It's not a he, it's an it. A pawn for rp narraters I'm afraid. He's smearing you because mo woman want that. But this is Nothing to you now, it's nothing but a bad memory to be drowned out with better ones. You're above all this. Don't give it thought as much as poss and think about things that make you happy. The rest will follow. The truth puts in the end.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:14 PM
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Well there's not really much point. Most people are aware of redpill theories and how utterly offensive and sad they are. Why would I list what most people in this sub know? What do you think is mysandristic about Feminism? And I'm not going to accept any obscure nut job like those super fat chick's who are saying crazy stuff about making men find them attractive. That's f****ing crazy. But they're not actually feminists. Feminism by definition seeks equality. Not supremacy. How can you possibly…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:09 PM
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The purpose is a poll, 50 yes 100 no. The conversations wielding my mind here are a pure entertainment bonus for me.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 11:52 AM
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In recorded history men totally look way better. And in fairness did a lot more. But history's a lot longer. our species has been around for 300ky our genus Homo roughly 3 million years or more. Africa and Europe are seperated by 200- 50ky beforr reconnecting (that we know of currently) it's pure vanity on the part of the winning during the late 2kya period, to think each era of history is the same as what we've seen now. Carthage is an ancient African empire that was finally taken down in a sea…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 11:49 AM
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This sint a trick. It's an actual poll. Believe it or not that many men here believe this. I was fascinated at what portion. Even wording it the rediculous way I did about a 3rd voted yes. And this is a sub where men feel they're not mysoginstic
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 11:38 AM
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Well you see, this is why people would like to interview you.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 11:36 AM
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Ok?
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 05:14 AM
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You keep getting emotionally responsive and saying the conversations done. So I'm not sure why you keep replying in a demeaning manner about missing points whilst clearly avoiding the points I raised. It's fine I aggree you can't continue too Edit: stop editing your comments after people reply.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 05:14 AM
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Yeah bye you seem too agitated and emotionally responsive to the logical discussion for it to continue tbh. So please do stop. No problem
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 05:12 AM
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I'm not really pointing that out. I'm simply showing your research data pool is unreliable. And no the point is innovation higher rates in men, should be present in other primate species if you're correct, but it isn't. Only aggressive behaviour is. OK wow. Seem to have touched a nerve. Bye
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 05:04 AM
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Hunter/ gatherer is a fallacy. It might be what we see in africa post sapian globalisation but woman and men are actually completely interchangeable. Men burn brightly but burn out quickly, Woman burn at a consistent temp for a much longer term. Both has their plus and con in each task. How do you explain the warrior woman in Turkey buried with swords, bows and arrows and bowed legs from riding a horse for most of their life Vs the woman of Turkey today? Although you're not entirely wrong on a h…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 05:02 AM
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OK you've just added a lot since I said I agreed. the invention of the pill. The owness of reproductive responsibility and the medical side effects of preventing pregnancy being on woman with invention. It doesn't seem ironic it was invented by a man. You should see the whiney responce men are having at the invention of the male pill. On innovation. Your only reference is recorded history where woman had to pretend to be men academically. And men tended to punish woman who competed (burn them at…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 04:48 AM
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I don't disagree with you at all tbh. I suppose I mentally think of things going back to the dawn of hominins, where it seems like the only answer to our survival was innovation from all individuals, But talking about recent history I believe you're completely right.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 04:36 AM
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Hahaha fair. I respect that 😂
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 04:14 AM
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I'm dyslexic, my spelling is consistently poor. I've got an iq of >140 I just have a lot of points come to mind. Your caps make it seem like you're emotional. But I'm not emotionally driven enough to project my own emotions onto that. . .as you have to me. Personally I feel emotionally vacant. But I feel you just disliked the points which is why you tried to throw in the "emotional female card"
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 04:12 AM
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Why do you think i'm distressed? You just don't seem to comprehend the reality of our long history. Female chimps are pioneering tool use rn. Infairness you seemed distressed at first, if this is your definition of distressed.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 04:06 AM
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Marie curie had to use her husbands name to get her work published. You're not taking into account that woman weren't aloud to contribute in recorded history. Those that managed to did it under great oppression. Do you think women have just magically gained skills enough to out perform men in schools. Coincedentally the same time they were aloud to go to school?
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 04:04 AM
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In recorded history in the fields that woman were barred from ofcoarse men created most things.. But in terms of the history of our entire species. Ofcourse not. Why do you think girls are outperforming boys now we're aloud to go to school? Who invented baskets or baby slings 300kya? How do you think women are magically gaining ground in all sectors now we can enter those fields. Do you think we just magically gained an ability in them recently? Just Coincidently gained these abilities around th…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 03:50 AM
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Honestly. A frightening amouny of men here seem to believe this, that I've spoken to. So far it's about a 3rd that clicked yes. Believe it or not. Also men haven't created most accomplishments either . . .you guys. You have impressive egos. But noo. Lmao
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 03:28 AM
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I think because the mygonistic views are quite extreme, its quite terrifying such a hateful movement can develop online so quickly and in the mainstream no less. It's quite the new cultural oddity
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 03:24 AM
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We are apart of nature. We've never left nature, we just groom it to suit us as a 0.8 level society. The definition of what you're saying is men should be in charge. It's not natural if they're not. If I've misunderstood you I'll apologise, if you say that's not what you ment. I can understand this misunderstanding that males have been in charge for all of hominin history, but that's very unlikely to actually be true.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 02:24 AM
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You might be my 4th cousin because that sounds, hot. Awesome!!
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 02:14 AM
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Yeah, anything about human civilizations rising and falling or comparing our anatomy to fossils and apes is anthropology. It's soo interesting. Like we might be gorilla hybrids. Recent genetic evidence shows. Allsorts of wierd awesome stuff 😂 https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLqeYp3nxIYpF7dW7qK8OvLsVomHrnYNjD This guys a great watch. Goes into human sexual behaviour in the most hillarious clinical ways, how were most attracted to our 4th cousins 😅 and how all animals work together based on "tit…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 02:09 AM
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I can't answer it. I find bonobos very fascinating though. If you look into their societal structure and how woman keep peace and control. It's very fascinating to contrast that to human everyday language that controls woman (slag, slut, whore, hysterical etc etc) if I were to theorise. I'd say patriarchal control is tied strongly to those words.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:56 AM
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It's the guy that's just downright making up mygonistic facts, to me, with words I think he learnt from what I wrote, which has really pissed me off 😂 Well recorded history is throughout the male dominated periods if you think about it. Woman often published works under male names, such as marie curie using her husband to be taken seriously, so who knows whose wife really created something etc. I think your opinions understandable given that. But for instance, when Queen Elisabeth was on the thr…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:52 AM
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We're up to 5 yes 12 no btw
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:34 AM
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It's a genuine question from many interactions I've had here. Look at my comments history if you're wondering what promted it.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:32 AM
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I'm not making facts up that create mysoginstic views and then going on to make up more facts up about other areas instead of being accountable for your first load of bs. You're intolerable. This is why you're in the position your in in life. It's all you. I don't have patients anymore you're trying to spread damaging propaganda and then just lie about more stuff once you're caught out. Stop. It's embarrassing. It's unbelievable someone can bare faced act like this tbh. Get some sense of decency…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:31 AM
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You're an idiot. Stop making up facts to suit your crazy sexist views. Stop squirming around when you're point blank caught out. Go home. Learn something useful. Why did you make up bonobo sexual dimorphism, what was the point? Before you decided to go on to explain bs about my own field to me. You don't even understand the education system. I'm here to understand why there's odd men trying to regress society. You are a study. You understand this?
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:21 AM
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Gone quite now you chancing dumbass.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:08 AM
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Hahaha no. No, they don't. I'm literally a biological anthropologist. You sir are the biggest dumbass, with the most confident made up facts I've encountered here. 🤦‍♀️ Where do you get this crap from. Everyone just Google bonobo sexual dimorphism. THEY'RE MORE SEXUALLY DIMORPHIC THAN HUMANS!!!
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:00 AM
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Only one has so far tbf. 9 sensible. 1 wishful thinker
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 12:58 AM
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The answer for chimps atleast is woman innovate tool use more so than males. I was just fascinated at how many men would fall for this tbh. Obviously men are half of the equation, but you've got to love their egos!
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 12:58 AM
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You really are doing a lot of mental acrobats to enjoy mysoginstic outlooks. Bonobos are matriarchal. Our joint closest relative. Unless you think you know better than all the experts in the field who've studied them their entire careers? (Wouldn't suprise me if you do) also the majority of primates are pair bonded, live isolated lives varely contacting the oposite sex or live in hierarchical structures that involve both genders. You need to go to school. Yeah men call woman slags don't they. Mi…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 12:48 AM
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It's actually fascinating you've pin pointed a time in history when men began to kill eachother off. Have you ever studies this sort of area before? It's fascinating if not, because your instincts arn't far off some very interesting events in that area during this time, including brain size decreases.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 12:00 AM
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You're just a misogynist. Should I tell you to ask the fish that uses its male counterpart as nothing more than an attachable sperm bag, why she does it? Or a bonobo matriarch why she leads a peaceful society, and what went wrong with her close realtives? No because that would be an incredibly self elivating, and dumbass, bias comment. You sir are a lot dumber than me. I'm a girl.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 11:56 PM
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One could argue its natural. Is a very disturbing mindset exposing it's self. I wouldn't worry about it. Maybe let him have his imagination, whilst the rest of us components of nature, keep striving and evolving vs living in melancholy of an imaginary past.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 11:53 PM
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I've given my pure opinion of recent, recent times above somewhere but. The facts are we're the only Homo species alive. We have no evidence of how others or our predecessors lived socially in terms hierarchy. Past recorded history there's no obvious male or female dominance. Like no artwork etc that spells it out. The way academia looks at it is through sexual dimorphism. The differences between the sexes (height etc) and conparing that to our closest relatives, still around and their social st…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 08:26 PM
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No that's the definition of hominem, your definition of ad hominem is correct, it's different if you use hominem alone. It just seemed an apt definition to add lols Look I'm not sure what you're trying to achieve. I think you should introspect a little here. I'm not sure why you're so dramatic and insulting. I'm not even going to guess why your assumptions are so dark and bizzare. I wish you the best in learning the differences between an anatomy based doctorate and philosophy though. . .
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 06:46 PM
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Hominem definition: appealing to feelings or prejudices rather than intellect (cough, cough) I'm not going to read anymore of your comment to save your own self respect. Please stop knowledge signalling. Intelligent people don't need to do that. They understand to use words that people understand. Not what they think makes them look smart . ..
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 06:27 PM
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No. . You're a man saying male leadership is natural. . .are you really that sensative you think it's a personal attack? Vs someone just thinking your under educated and bias to yourself.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:56 PM
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You're a man, arn't you. Lol. Look at bonobos.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:32 PM
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You're very right. It's quite bizzare how under educated and sure of a specific answer the average person is. Dunning-kruger effect is cruel. We can approximate an answer from sexual dimorphism, conparing that to living relatives still here. But frankly all closer related humanoid species have died off, bar us, somehow. Now we're a lonely species without much ref for others like us . . We're even struggling to get on with the oposite sex!! Which is hillarious, but truly disturbing in how difficu…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:12 PM
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It's actually an incredibly interesting question. Genetic research is the best indicator of this imo. Roughly 12000 years there was one of a few genetic bottle necks. Another was roughly 3000 years ago. Where men seemed to begin to kill eachother. Men died off rapidly and there was around 6 women per one man (It's been a while since I was learning this stuff so take it as approximation). It looks as though overly agressive males only became dominant then. Before then looking to our closest relat…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 04:56 PM
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Look p.s my gripes about how attractive girls are seen. Are because of my own inclinations in life. I've got no interest in being shallow and an arm piece. If I did life would of been a lot easier. My life has been hard because I won't be that. I've got a high IQ, I enjoy fixing my own car, property development and learning about everything tbh. I'm naturally fairly good in sciences etc. I don't seek the life that it's benificial to be pretty in. Each demographic has benefits and cons in differe…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 02:13 PM
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You are playing a victim. Why did you put "luckier demographics" in quotations?. I didn't say that? You've not corrected a thing. You've actually just given one sided views of things to make yourself feel hurt like "men have more violent crimes against them" and then refusing to comment on the fact that that's becuase men are the ones being violent with you. . And woman. This is why woman don't like you. Learn from this or become more bitter against "pretty woman" your choice.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 01:58 PM
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Look you need to stop bringing up flawed and narrow minded pionts that make you feel falsely a victim then. Infact I'm not reading anymore of your comments. You're just not with it. You want to be a victim and it's not reality (no more a victim than anyone else) I'm going to leave you to think about things. I hope you learn to learn from this.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 01:50 PM
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You've created a strawman to attack instead replying to what I actually said. I'd argue the reason men in my age range, like ypu struggle romantically is because they're more mysoginstic than the generation before. Again why did you bring up gay men? Homophobes have nothing to do with conversation topic. You're again just failing to think of anything to say to the actual comment i said, and creating strawmen. The topics only acceptable to you if it makes ypu feel a victim. When it's pointed put …
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 01:49 PM
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The reason gay men are more free is because society doesn't punish their sexual freedom. The redpill movements itself insists woman are valueless and deserve no respect if they're not a virgin. I don't know how you guys can dare. I honestly don't. What is wrong with your logic to not understand woman don't come onto you or give you attention because of your own opression of them doing that? No I've not complained about male friends. You've just made that up. You sir are not well. Ypu need to log…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 12:41 PM
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By men. Most violent crimes are commited by men, against men. Pfft it doesn't matter if a girls ugly or hot. Who are woman dramatically most likely to be killed by? Who commits nearly all violent crimes against woman too? Woman can't have sex if theyd just like to. Your opinions are very juvenile. For one sleeping with random men is probably physically dangouras to drive your own piont home back to you. But also we're a civilised society that runs on reputation. Somehow as a girl you can reject …
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 12:35 PM
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Honestly guys look in the redpill woman sub. Even they don't want or respect redpill guys at all lols. Literally nearly no one wants that.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:14 AM
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Their not genetic lottery winners. They follow the lifestyle. How many fat girls with a pretty face do you see? And can you imagine how life is for one of those yacht girls working in an office? Or like helping you at asda? They'd get followed home by "nice guys" Yeah I see your point in if you want to be famous you have to be good looking. But people whose living hell is being famous, don't get the benefits of their looks, bar in dating but even then. I've spoken to people over accounts with no…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/23 06:37 PM
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Yeah it's nice to agree with you btw! My male counterpart
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 07:09 PM
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It's just the impression those guys have from life. Like the redpill guys who insist and argue with woman, that all woman don't enjoy sex, . .they know for a fact woman definitely dont enjoy sex (😂🤣🤣)" "they do it for currency" That's that dudes experience of woman. Which let's face it. Is very funny when I take a step back from the mysoginy. Its also kinda sad that's there experience of life. But you can't help some. It's just their personality and I'm assuming prostitute types they've experien…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 05:51 PM
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Ah i thought you were replying to the post with your story. I'm a girl and it sounds like redpill are describing men to me. It's just bias to our own gender. People are cunts from all gender in very similar ways. The main differences between woman and men isn't anything redpill talk about. They just assign bad weak person traits in general to woman.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 05:25 PM
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Is that your story?
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 04:10 PM
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Thanks for the insight. I'm curious though when you say you started to pay attention to what you were reading? How did you sort of take onboard the stuff without paying attention to start with? I think I sortof get it, but this is probs how a lot of people get groomed into movements and stuff
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 04:10 PM
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Who's this book written by? You sound like one of the deluded men I've come across who look jealous of me and hateful, without knowing anything about me. Read my above comment. And stop being such a fucking freak.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 02:49 AM
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I think he's thinking of a barbie doll when he says woman tbh.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 01:33 AM
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I completely agree. I grew up a bit tubby and had no idea what was happening when I naturally lost the extra weight at 18. No one prepared me for it. Constant attention, people always watching and manipulating to gain somthing from you, people trying to drag you down for no reason you can think of. People pretending to be your friend and trying to spike you . . Ect. People pretending to agree with you or to like the same things as you, when they really hate everything about your personality. You…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 12:51 AM
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Ironically all those things make you less attractive to 18yo girls. If they wanted those things, they'd date older men. (Why would you want a girl who wants you for money ect?) The majority of 18yo just want a boyfriend on their level who'll give them a shoulder ride at a concert. Give yourself a break. Keep up with self care and whatever you enjoy. But you're a kid. Go be a dickhead kid with a dickhead kid girl x From a 30yo woman. Don't listen to men around my age trying to influence you and s…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 04:12 PM
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Some can, some can't. Some are romantics who won't settle. They deserve respect. Some are obsurd, mentally unstable mysoginists. People are all unique, even within the same label
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 04:08 PM
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Haha I'm glad you're satisfied and I'm not gonna lie. I'd consider sleeping with you based on those attributes but for my taste I'd assume you weren't good in bed (for my taste) it would just be more of somthing to show off to my friends. "I did this hotty with a big D" I like mental connection. That's what's too hot to ever leave. A man who'll talk about any deep topic and have heated debates with me when we disagree is what I want. An average dick size etc is the long term goal. Big dicks are …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 04:06 PM
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Imagine being come onto by 100 people and rejecting 99 but still being labeled a dirty slag because that one man said so. Imagine being seen as a second class human who's not capable. Imagine all your achievements being written off as not your hard work, because you're a girl. And so on. Imagine mainstream movements declaring your only fit to cook at home while men live the full life you're currently living, instead. Imagine being literally raped by the stronger sex and it ruining your reputatio…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 04:01 PM
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You don't know what you're talking about. I'm not being rude. You just don't. My life has been that horrific it's an actual psychological horror story. I'm not going to give you the details. Because honestly im not sure guys like you understand saying "stoic" doesn't make you so. Woman are stoic historically a lot more so than men, Im embarrased to actually have to point out to you. You don't know what it's like to be a woman. You never will. The best you can do is to put aside your own issues a…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 03:59 PM
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That's very true. Andrew tate built an empire of men paying him based on his self reported "attractiveness to woman" only for it turn out he's a repeated rapist. It boggles me how these guys can't put 2 and 2 together of men only rape when the woman doesn't want them.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 03:51 PM
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You don't need to accept that fact. Redpill's messed you up. Can I tell you the secret to this? It's being happy and comfertable with yourself and the world. The more people you just enjoy talking to, the more relationships develop. Redpill pushes a world view that makes people scared, bitter, woman hating and self conscious. Then sells manipulation tactics that work on a small group of women, who you don't really want long term, or at all being frank. While nice, happy woman will avoid you beca…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 03:45 PM
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I'm not actually a RPW so I'm not sure this aligns, I think it does. For me if he asks you to make more of an effort I'd say, "Can you ask her to make more of an effort please, I'm not as social/ she's been apart of this dynamic longer, so it's hard for me as a new comer" Put the responsibility on her in his eyes. Show you're hurt you feel she doesn't like you. Never defend. Always move attention to you kindly and sensitively pointing out where you'd like her to try (as if you like her)
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 09:38 PM
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I'm a woman. I've started a couple of businesses. The truth is. Yeah you can make more money for less work time. But if you don't enjoy or have talent in what you do. Your earnings will probably be a lot less than a well established career person doing what they trained for. You'll also live a very lonely and un-fulfilling life, unless you have something you truly are passionate about doing on your own. The hard fact to swallow here for rp men is that Andrew tate and the likes haven't made their…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 02:16 AM
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If you want financial advice aswell Warren Buffet is a much more logical and generally nicer choice. Lovely man, you actually made money himself, not off the back of manipulating people into making it for him/ giving it to him
/r/ExRedPill17/05/23 09:53 AM
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From a woman. I see the term "game" as guys who are inept socially, or see girls as an object to aquire. Vs Your definition which I see as a normal desirable man. Omg talk to me about whatever comes naturally like an equal human being. Hot. If I feel like they think they've got game I honestly purposefully be a complete dick about it. Make it as awkward as possible.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:21 PM
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Tbf. From a woman, I somtimes wonder if woman who insist on big dicks just have big V's most guys likely "fit perfectly" with a woman out there
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 01:24 PM
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I think she's saying what I agree with, which is that average is a lot better for sex overall. You can be more free with sex positions vs larger men who it can be painfull with in even the handful of positions you can do with them
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 01:23 PM
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Look. I'm a woman. I'm going to say this and it's down to you to take it as you will. Large penises arnt what I or many woman want. We're often keen to try one. I have. I felt like it was invasive and rude lol. It's awkward. Too easy to be painful and frankly too big for my area. An average penis size is what we want long term. Men with big penises are the equivalent to a man wanting to sleep with a porn star or woman with giant tits or something. It's something people kinda want to say they've …
/r/ExRedPill05/05/23 01:19 PM
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Honestly I think it's young guys who are a bit narcissistic and have a highly emptional victim complex. Tb Completely honest
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 08:14 PM
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Well I wouldn't be willing to do that. It's evens as far as I'm concerned. I'm not being unpaid labour and giving them more authority on financial decisions if they earn more. One or the other I guess. But I'd ideally like someone in the same financial league as me anyway. I just wouldn't rule out them having more or less.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 01:28 PM
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That's not the issue. Its having to let them explain what to do etc. Like I've had to pretend to be tired of driving before purely because I could tell the bf was feeling imasculated I was enjoying the long drive. Like it's a strange dance for me. I see men as masculine and capable. It doesn't matter how capable I am. I see the person I choose to be with an expert in whatever they are and I love it. The thing is though in me experience traditional type men don't cope with woman that don't need t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 09:55 AM
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Hypergamy is a made up thing. The logic comes from the fact woman weren't aloud to work or inherit money for most of recent history. So there was a physical impossibility of them marrying into less money than them lols they weren't legally aloud to own things at one point! Now we can earn etc. It's not something the majority care about. If I was dating someone who earned more I'd probably let them be in more control of decisions when they're paying. And dating some who earn less I'd expect to be…
/r/ExRedPill25/04/23 05:54 PM
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All while looking lovely doing it is the feminine ideal to me :) ah thanks for that, it's great to hear the healthy ways you guys think about this stuff. Tbh I've spent far too long learning about redpill ideas from online extremists I imagine. It's deffo given me a very narrow view of it. Have you guys ever thought about rebranding to "Trad" or something because this group just doesn't seem to be inline with male redpill groups, which is a great compliment.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 05:27 PM
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I supose I'd see it as a bonus and would see at as a part of our special bond. "He did that for me. Because he loves me". No I wouldn't immediately reciprocat but I'd like to offer the same value to him through the relationship. Whether that's years down the line or not, who knows 😜 Yeah the competitiveness in certian areas is why I doubt a traditional man would cope with me and I him. I don't want a man who feels there's even any need to compete with me. I supose my idea of an "alpha" is someon…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 10:37 AM
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I used to work in a pub at night in late teens. So there but I thought it was mostly an old man, wishful thinking thing untill I came across the online redpill movement. But tbf I can barely understand all the groups and nuances on this topic
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 10:24 PM
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I think I understand your point. And I think that's the one I'm making for my circumstances, you can't allow a men to lead you on a topic you're an expert in and he isn't. And it's unfortunate if you have natural inclination to areas men take pride in. I'll try to learn more as I go but I suppose its an absolute thing that's the issue for me. I watch Stacy dooley sleeps over with a "trad" family. I'm not sure if you'd of seen it, bur I supose that's my concept of it ish.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 08:35 PM
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This feels like a troll. I feel like you're really a redpill man lols Men exist like that too. Relationships have many varied and sometimes unusual reasons
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 08:15 PM
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I don't really have anything I need a man to do for me. And i honestly think some guys struggle with that tbf. I'm just after them as a person to be with like that. Any epic skills they'd probs have (we all probs have skills) I'd totally want the benifit of, but I'd feel the need to give them the same value back. I spose it's not different to traditional relationships bar there being no set skill set to have for each party in my mind. I have to admit if they were a better cook than me it would b…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:42 PM
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Women aren't hypergamous anymore. They never were naturally. It was the law system leaving family wealth to the oldest male and females not being tolerated in work in the upper classes. How could a woman possibly marry on her own level in those scenarios? In the modern world I've heard redpill men point to successful woman being less attractive. And tbf successful woman do seem to have to marry down. Maybe there's personality things we're not aware of influencing them. But generally successful p…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:33 PM
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Maybe to a section of people but to another section of people forcing personality traits based on gender is toxic. I'd say I have a very natural feminine side along side interests in engineering or w/e I love fixing problems logically etc. I actually see the silver lining in my car having an issue in that I get to learn to fix it. I enjoy cooking, beauty routines, dping my own Nano haor extentions and developing my own house and doing most of the work, whick I am now pretty skilled in. Femininit…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:23 PM
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I suppose I class traditional as the man having final say on life choices. The woman follows him in life type of thing. If a woman has a well paid career in that also it almost feels like the man's found a cheat code in life
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:14 PM
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You see I see some men submitting to woman. They're not for me really either. What I've been under the impression the mainstream is after and my aim is, is just to find another human like me (but of the male variety) who just wants an equal human to go through life with. Rhe equivalent sortof inteligence, confidence, attractiveness etc Partners in some things, but achieving our own things independently. Whoevers the expert in one area, leads the other on it. And vise versa in other areas. I'm fa…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 03:38 PM
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Hahaha yeah alpha type men just be tbf. Following what other men tell you to do to be attractive. Is omg the oposite of dominant! Wow its crazy how much I actually agree with you all. You just assume from the redpill name, the subs pro redpill men but I guess it's completely different interpretations of what redpill is
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 03:30 PM
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I'm not at all in this way of life. Far too focused on my own things I want to achieve. But I'm really happy for you. Honestly it's mind boggling to me some redpill men can't see they're creating their own reality to get even more bitter over. But hearing your story it sounds like a vicious cycle. Hopefully you can help more rp men see the light and go on to happy lives like you :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 03:27 PM
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Wow totally not what I'd of expected, from someone just learning about this stuff. I concur on your taste 😂 I spose you guys prefer traditional guys then? Not the conspiracy types 😂
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 03:09 PM
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The thing is, "redpill tactics" has a similar effect on men. It's the age-old treat them mean keep them keen effect. Showcasing faults in human behaviour but only in one specific grouping, ignoring the same examples in your own group, or moralising it in your group but not another is the backbone of all primitive tribal thinking. It could be race, sex, scientific theory, religion etc. It's in essence cognitive backflips to feel you have a right to oppress a group it's convenient to.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 01:37 PM
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This is how cult type groups get you. Did you notice how you compared what some men you don't know are telling you about their strife, to the strife you saw your mum go though in your actual experience. This isn't a competition. No group is ever fully right or wrong. Fairness is a myth, we have to strive for the closest you can get to that overall. But in general this woman hate cult stuff in the mainstream saying stuff about woman should stay at home, men should have multiple wives and all powe…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 06:52 PM
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The female commentary (from a girls pov) is like some sort of cringe based comedy "They talk to other men, they'll cheat" "Woman have no sex drive, the swap sex for material stuff" "They disagree about anying, they're demeaning you" I can't remember some of the real cringe irony points. But think about it. What's a man's life experience been for him to genuinly believe all woman only have sex for money? What's his sense of ego when he feels his gf talking to a man is a risk she'll like the other…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 11:55 AM
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Nobody thinks it's a fairly tale. Why are you guys so preocupied with men's struggles, you don't see woman struggling? Any bloke in this type of movement is honestly a self obsessed pos. I mean take your head out of your arse. Empathise.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 09:56 AM
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I like you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 03:18 PM
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You don't see that type of person as a "High value" male, I supose I find quite amusing.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 02:50 PM
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Honestly chick, it sounds like there's nicer lives out there. This guys old. He'll have a life with lots of woman around he's known longer than you, it'll be patronising and you'll miss out on your own youth. Go for someone closer to your age. God knows there's a lot of guys in that bracket who'd love a gf
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 11:37 AM
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What do you think of Andrew tate?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 11:35 AM
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I'm talking about in general culture. I agree with you though. You're an e.g of someone who's taste is against pop culture. I don't know what comments you can see but he's basically saying woman have it easy. Are attractive with no effort etc
/r/ExRedPill13/04/23 10:47 PM
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Who's telling you what all woman want? This Redpill and old fashioned sort of thinking shows a complete lack of understanding of up to date science in this area. Brain architecture dictates an initial emotional reaction which is then cognated into logic. All mammals atleast have the same build just lesser cognition (cortex), emotions instruct thought. This is why from my female perspective. Logically assessing the narratives some mens activist types are saying seems cringey tbh and very ironic g…
/r/ExRedPill13/04/23 08:01 AM
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That's makes pretty much no sense. Someone bevvied? 😆
/r/ExRedPill09/04/23 09:05 PM
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There is a cult like mentality developing from all this. I agree with you on content creators hustling the watchers. But what you see as "truths" likely isn't what I do. And the reality is. Truths aren't subjective. Opinions are. Think about this logically as I, a woman does.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 01:30 PM
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I have to admit I don't agree with extreme woke stuff. Rp seems like a reaction to percieved oppression by the woke from what you've said, to me. I feel like extremes on each side feed eachother by giving eachother "victim" status in their own minds.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 03:05 AM
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I'd be fascinated by what you see as real truths. I'm fairly educated on Evolutionary biology and to me. Most repill theories are based on chimps (fairly inaccurately compared to indepth social structure research). Our equally related Bonobo cousins are ignored along with many other primate and mammal dynamics that should be cited for a rounded view. So just out of fascination. If you see some truths from redpill creators I'd be very willing to hear you out and see if it changes my scientific st…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 03:02 AM
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A hot woman, isnt a hot guy. I don't think you understand my "male equivalent" comment. You added Ugly and repulsive. A cheap prostitute is a low status woman. Look dude, please seek therapy. This road will only make your problems 10x worse. Please look after yourself.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 12:18 AM
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Skinny and cute isn't at all a hottie. I'm sorry imo it's just not at all. In another girls opinion it might be. But in current fashion for a guy it's unattractive in the mainstream. To be blunt with you. You honestly find introversion and low social status hot in woman? So a reclusive cheap prostitute. I'd say that's low social status for a woman. Dude how would any man even know the value of a woman vs man in the dating scene? You'd literally have to date both from both sides to have a fair op…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 12:01 AM
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I'm pretty sure you're redpilled. I hope you feel better soon and see this "logic" is almost comically untrue. Do you also subscribe the redpill idea, woman don't date for looks they date for money? Which is the way they explain the common sight of a woman dating uglier than her. Dude. Date the female equivalent to yourself. Stop trying to land a hotty who isn't attracted to you and will use you. Thats what happens to woman dating up and That's how dudes end up buying into redpill logic. (Often,…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:48 PM
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Do you think maybe your actually going for woman out of your league looks wise or something? Because it sounds that way
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:40 PM
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Really wierd this gender based hate boomed after all the racial political correction press.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 04:08 PM
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Tbf the only people in rl I've heard with kinda repill vibe ideas tend to be really old, ugly and pervy old men. I used to think it was a generation thing (old school wishful thinking for why woman who had no societal power in their gen, actually put up with their lot)
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 03:40 PM
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No. That sounds horrible. I want the male equivalent to myself. That's my ideal. Same/ similar finances, similar success, similar attractive level, sociability, inteligence, drives etc etc. Dude stop listening to bitter men about woman. If you logically think about their reasonings, Their advice has no likelihood of being anywhere near correct.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:55 AM
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I think you're relying on statistics that have been biasly deployed. How do you marry women being emotionally driven (vs men logically) to women losing respect for someone because they're crying? This is my gripe with redpill, you can't marry one side of the logic to another. Yes they use statistics. But there's 1001 ways to skew data to suit your message. Let alone not mentioning the studies controls/sample size/ methods/ studies with oposing data. There's likely a study to back up any bias. Bu…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/23 01:28 AM
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Hahaha from a female perspective I find this really refreshing to hear. I've just become resigned to being told victimhood stories about how hard it is for men to sleep with woman. Whilst this victim literally, simultaneously slut shames any woman who sleeps with any guy. The upset over not being "able" to share emotions while spoilt woman can. . . But they're the ones who keep spreading that woman are inherently more emotional and men are weak for crying. Thank you btw. It's easy to see men kin…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 09:46 AM
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There isn't really. Liberals etc just tend to be less judgmental and fearful of hookups though. I suppose you can say exredpillers are far more likely to be Liberal than redpillers. Leaving redpill doesn't make someone Liberal though
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 01:27 AM
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Depends on the demographic tbf. But you're right movements like redpill and religous nuts are taking the world backwards.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/23 05:23 PM
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Liberals probs hook up a lot more than redpillers. They're atleast a hell of a lot more positive about it
/r/ExRedPill30/03/23 10:36 AM
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What rules? Lols
/r/ExRedPill30/03/23 10:36 AM
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Great summary of it all. As a girl recently discovered this world and really appreciate the point "seems like it's bigger than it is" Horrible to learn about this cult like stuff that feels aggressive to woman. But heart warming to hear people like you break it down and do some good Thank you. X
/r/ExRedPill29/03/23 04:15 PM
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People are people. Take some pressure off yourself Nd go join some groups and just get in the habit of interacting with people with no goal. The more you get used to being around people. The more comfertable you'll be in general
/r/ExRedPill29/03/23 02:56 PM
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Look at Megan markle. You're fine.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 10:22 AM
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Never been in a rp relationship. That's sad. I've worked in sales and get the rejection making people want more thing. Sounds like you've been being tricked for a long time.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 10:20 PM
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I don't think it's necessarily idiotic individuals. But more the lower inteligence people have in groups. Bizzare irony but group mentality seems to be responsible for most dumb-assery and frank evil. The onus of behaviour is lesser in the individual when they feel apart af a "group" partaking in that behaviour. (Well so and so did it)
/r/ExRedPill27/03/23 10:14 PM
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Yeah woman aren't a collective. We're all individual human beings. I'm starting to find this emotion from some guys really disturbing. Hurting innocent humans to get back at a completely different human who rejected them.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 04:34 AM
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Waait, is this an American phyco reference?
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 02:40 AM
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Are you sure she's after your attention, vs just likes dressing nicely?
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 02:40 AM
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Wow yeah that's pretty cruel. Like why do you need to be so cruel about it? You're doing to another human what you claim hurts you so much. I'm curious has a girl you like ever been THAT cruel to you?
/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 02:38 AM
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What percentages would you guess?
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 03:21 AM
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Well done. I'm proud of you coming out the other end, it's hard for young guys with this content popping off. Glad you've found it in you to be better
/r/ExRedPill23/03/23 07:47 AM
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Are you suggesting his sister is abusing him?
/r/ExRedPill22/03/23 09:22 PM
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The above advice is pretty good. Honestly people believe what they want to believe. The only thing you can do is encourage him to think about the woman in his life with faces. His mum, you, any woman he grew up with he liked. "Do you think auntie Jill is a problem in society?" Any redpill logic he says. Calmly apply it to a woman with a face in his life (you know how likes). Never get emotional about it. Talk matter of factly. Point out illogical points. Point out the irony of his points coming …
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 08:26 PM
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Haha its so weird. Put of all the issues in the world this is there focus. Honestly I didn't start mine until really late but the earlier the better really. Help normalise it.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 07:00 PM
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I dunno tbf I think we're splitting hair here. I didn't really believe it until your article made it make sense, but. What on earth is in the public interest of banning period instructions? Honestly guys don't wanna see the blood Bath of not looking after yourself period wise. It would be a massacre. Plus all your dogs would like us too much.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 05:27 PM
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He's rising in popularity because woman have more freedom to not date certain guys than back in the day and the guys who can't get a woman on their own merit vs a woman being seen as a spinster etc not allowed her own career for income. get very bitter. Get a woman on merit. I mean judging by your insults to me pointing out you come off as unattractive by your incel self description. Really shows everyone else but you why you've been ignored by woman and rightly so. You need to look inward
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 10:06 PM
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OK lol well I'm not the one who no one wants? By self description. I'm also not the one in a bitter cult about the oposite sex. Theres not much piont defending against your baseless comments in a lot of ways becuase most people can see they come from your own sense of well, being shit.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 10:00 PM
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You say this as if its someone's fault. Who are you blaming for this, all women? Who told you to self improve? It wasn't women was it. Girls come in allsorts of variety. So do men. Ugly men, unfit men, poor men all manage to meet woman fine. The issue you have is perspective. You sound like you feel entitled to general sex with general woman and are literraly bitter about not attainting this fairly offensive goal. this is what makes you incredibly unattractive. It's how you see things that's the…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 09:55 PM
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Dudes this just reads like you're ugly with bad personalities. Hence not being attractive to woman
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 09:37 PM
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Do you think you may be going off personal experience? Honestly woman generally get on with gay men. It doesn't sound like you'd fit into the gay scene
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 09:29 PM
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You're redpill not ex redpill and i think you see them as people who need to be dragged down. . . . .
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 06:47 PM
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Aah why thank you kind sir. Your perspective on things gives me hot vibes too :)
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 06:15 AM
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Ironic really isn't it given redpills idea of female value 😂 meanwhile they're offending loads of hotties with normal perspectives
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 06:10 AM
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Look if my comments not self explanatory to you. I don't think you're gonna get it. I'm not conversing with you. You leave a bad taste in my mouth . . And others . Hense the downvotes you mentioned
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 06:19 PM
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Really? This seems bizzare
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 06:18 PM
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Its nuanced. The fact that a redpill movements exist and have managed to be in the mainstream shows there's some harshness to woman on a societal level, There's not specific laws oppressing woman overall. Although some are abit iffy. There's some iffy laws for men aswell. Its a tough target for fairness. But the backlash for woman having equal rights ish. Look at redpill itself. Ironically redpill proves the oposite of its points by simply existing. There isn't a female equivalent trying to drag…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 06:12 PM
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"Woman arn't oppressed, move to where you arnt oppressed, can't please everyone, but you're aloud to move so you're not opressed" . . Do you not see why people down vote you?
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 05:59 PM
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My short female attention span clouded by emotion ment I just skim read your thesis 😜 But over all (the synopsis at the end) I don't disagree. Any ideology rooted in victimhood I find non productive and generally bias. Most people who champion them I've learnt are acting from anecdotal person experiences and search for "scientific stats" to back up their pre existing ideas. Which is never a respectable approach. I think redpill and extreme left Feminism aren't all that different. Biologically th…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 05:44 AM
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My brothers 6'2 and I love him so much because he can't stand short woman. He thinks they look childlike and it's not ergonomic for him.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 11:52 PM
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The short genes prevailed. Ah this was a wholesome read short king. Tall queen I'm sure is very happy :)
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 11:37 PM
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It's a mindset thing, my mum was slightly taller than my dad, but they both didn't seem to notice. My Dad was macho af and was the silver back of the family. You only feel insecure about what you focus on. And the info you choose to take on
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 10:23 PM
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Yeah woman have the same preferences as you in general, slightly taller than them. Ignore the "6ft minimum" types who are 4ft themselves. They're the female equivalent of incredibly ugly men who date only attractive woman and think all woman are gold diggers because of how their gf's treat them.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 10:20 PM
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I've not even said what you're now attacking me over. Look dude you need some help. Obv everyone knows approaching people and risking rejection is scary and unpleasant when it goes wrong. Why are you attacking what I've not said and don't believe? I literally told you why it's far less common for woman to approach. Although it's becoming more common as society progresses its views on men and woman. Please seek some form of therapy. This path isn't going to help you. It's actually going to make y…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 08:53 PM
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I didn't answer your questions because your logic is too far from reality for me to tackle. For e.g "by my logic I was never suposed to approach woman" how is that my logic? explaining the reason woman don't historically approach is because of being condemned for that sort of behaviour. the expectation is on men because they're not insulted for showing sexual interest as woman are. I didn't really understand your last point it just comes off like you dislike woman and have a higher opinion of me…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 08:35 PM
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Look you're not going to take on board info from me. You've just told me how you think woman should feel about being called slags. As if it's fact. I'm ending this interaction with you. But I do wish you the best. It sounds a very bitter perspective you have. I hope you open your mind and that changes
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 08:27 PM
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Ever considered not calling woman slags/sluts or whatever would allow them to approach guys? Look half your post is just blaming women for your problems after saying you want men educated on woman. Yeah to straight woman, this will blow your mind. Men are sexual objects to us. I think you should calm down and start thinking about things more logically. You apear to be completely emotionally off the rails on this.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 08:00 PM
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You want a class for just boys where they talk about how to date woman?
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 06:04 AM
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Erm lived experience for me is men often like to feel useful in a tangible sense. And if you're too competent it makes them feel, not great in themselves. Maybe I've had a weighted experience in that area. Really when you think about a woman making more money should be a great thing vs non issue. More sexy tech and cars you can buy together. But it's a nice post still.
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 05:35 AM
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I'm 29, that's what I've noticed too! I know I've got plenty of time really, but because I'm not actually dating. I think it's going to take time to meet someone who I thinks too amazing, just going about my business and I want to wholeheartedly love first, for the sake of loving them before mutally making a choice for kids (mutual assured reproduction) vs feeling cornered into it after I've known someone a year or two. You sound like you've got a lot going for you and I'm not just saying this b…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 06:14 PM
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I don't get what your issue is tbh. Can you have conversations with men. If so you have the skills. Just join some groups for an easy intro. Talk about group stuff. I think you're overcomplicating this. Probs through redpill thinking tbh with you.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 11:25 AM
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You'll be fine :) I'm a girl. You've spoken to me and it's been good hasn't it 😜 get out there and go enjoy your life. X
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 11:07 AM
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You've broken the simulation
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 09:21 AM
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If you make it awkward it is. If you just see it as conversing with another human it's not
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 07:45 AM
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How do you get anyone to like you/want to do stuff with you? Also being friends with girls helps you learn how to communicate with them to start with. Before you can run
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 07:20 AM
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I honestly don't expect heroism. I know sounds awful but it does feel like some men can't stand you achieving so easliy and want to make it harder. I've had to become strong myself. Luckily we live in a world where ingenuity most times out plays sheer strength. And I wouldn't expect a man to risk himself for me, anymore than I would him when the situation required. It would be nice to be protected. But it's not what I expect or feel I can request while being independant in achievement. It depend…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 04:31 AM
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I've just tapered my reply because I remember I said no judgment on the post. I'm standing by that. Even though I find your opinion offensive to my sense of self, personally. If you find a woman who naturally wants to compliment your being as her life's goal. I wish you every happiness. But personally I think that's a big ask of another human being and if you attain that. You should be grateful The sacing grace to your comment was the empathy on womans opinion being shut down but I still have my…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 03:44 AM
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It sounds rough having 2 really bad experiences back to back, I get how it's coloured your view. It might make you feel better I'm not dating atm either. Erm I'm not sure how to describe it tbh The first boyfriend (ignoring my school boyfriend) was a bit dim, I thought, but he was a "nice guy" and turns out after sometime he was lieing to me about pretty much everything, stuff that didn't make much sense to lie about. Talented lier though. The next and last bf was really smart. But really parano…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 02:37 AM
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I obv don't know the details, but it sounds like you've had some bad experiences that are valid, ypur opinion makes sense. I hope it doesn't deter you from looking for the good experiences still though. In my opinion there's as greater variation in woman as there is in men. I think, as far as I know those girls thought they were dating him and that's why I bought it up. I'm not saying it's usual at all. Just trying to prove deception and sneakyness is more of a human trait unfortunately. There a…
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 01:15 AM
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I'm not going to lie. I'm well deceptive and sneaky on fallout 😂 thank you though you're a worthy gamer :)
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 01:01 AM
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Love this for you two. I hope you make her coffee while she puts the shelves up. Heartwarming reply, honestly.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 12:59 AM
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P.s gimme those cap. I appreciate the reference you feral goul 😜
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 12:51 AM
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I think you've had bad experiences through going for a particular type of woman tbh. I appreciate your honest reply. It's exactly what I asked for. So I cant criticise you on it. Although I don't agree with you over all (but I do see where some of your points come from) I will ask you though do you think Andrew tate etc getting woman to webcam for him, for no money but to please him, isnt deceptive or sneaky?
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 12:51 AM
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I'm a bit misanthropic tbh. (An equally low opinion of woman and men) atleast I can't be acused of sexism. But being honest with myself I'm probably being harsh. Society is just a complex mesh off stuff and it's not perfect but neither am I. Nothing likely ever will be. But along as people are trying to be good and fair. It's worthwhile. I hope romance comes back when we can trust eachother abit more. Rn were all worried about being made fun of online. Becuase the person sees more value in that …
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 12:45 AM
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Thanks for the really honest answer, I appreciate the insight, a lot. especially the easy mode thing 🤣🤣 lmao! I used to think that about men being totally truthful with you. But yeah it's nice we can share these things and laugh about them together. Quite sweet really. Aah you sound a catch. I'm sure whoever you mesh with will be really happy
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 12:41 AM
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Very fair assement, can be used on woman and some of the issues female bias thinkers complain of which is why I particularly like this.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 12:16 AM
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The same as men then really? Or different in some way?
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 12:11 AM
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Also men die younger than woman. Where is this stock of old men coming from? Sorry to spam its just bizzare thinking to me
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 09:13 PM
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No offense to anyone. Aging isn't attractive to me
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 09:10 PM
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It's not true. There's many "undateble woman" I just don't think your factoring in for woman you find unattractive
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 09:09 PM
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Who do you think 2/3 of woman are dating? Do you not see the flaw in your logic
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 09:07 PM
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Look being blunt with you. There's a lot of redpil undertones to your post. Why wait untill your 30's? There'll be less woman who want to date you. Mostly single mothers and younger gold diggers (an example of the self fulfilling prophecy of redpill) the dating pool of single woman declines with age. Look I want to help you. And the answer is honestly to drop this victim mindset. The bias scientific studies and just go enjoy life. People like people who are just content and going with the flow. …
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 08:28 PM
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Have you read a study on the single rates in woman? Becuase logically who are they dating? I think this is an e.g. of bias tbh
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 08:24 PM
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Thanks man. I didn't actually read the entire post tbh, I felt there might be something offensive to me as a woman coming. So I just replied with general advice in good faith to help on the intitial question. But thanks. These commentors have probs proved the oposite of the points they were trying to. Which is a facepalm. But kindof shows the issues
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 08:17 PM
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Your first comment you assumed I assumed a negative about men struggling to date. It got us off on the wrong foot. Because how can you assume my perception and neg me for assuming? It's an illogical stance that didn't seem genuine. I don't really understand the rest of your responce. I can't see how it responds to what I said
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 07:49 PM
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"Why is it always, if a man struggles dating its asummed he sees woman as not equal" I've already answered, I didn't assume that. The advice I gave is generic on how to converse with anyone, any group. Also the word "always" you used shows you're not really enquiring. More so pushing this is the common perception of men that struggle dating. It's not. People come to that perception based on mens wording on their questions on women. As if woman are alien to them and purely a sexual goal. So it's …
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 07:40 PM
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Ah come on. Re-Read your comment. I'm not playing games with you. You're aware you didn't actually ask a question (rhetorical/ proving an odd piont). Stop being manipulative
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 07:28 PM
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I'm speaking of girls as if there a large powerful Stone? Girls and men are the same. They're both people, this doesn't need to be pointed out, depending on the audience. men in this area of politics seem to have issues talking to woman because they don't see them as people. They see them as a goal. Either on a pedestal or beneath them. Advising to be friends with girls and get over that. I really have no idea what the issue is
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 07:25 PM
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Advising to see a girl as an equal isn't insinuating you don't see woman as equals in general 🤦‍♀️. OK to really spell this out for you guys. If you feel like she is out of your league. . .it's not going to help you. If you feel she's lesser than you overall, it's not going to help you.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 07:20 PM
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Why have you assumed, I assumed that from my comment? I gave him advice on what girls respond to? I think you should calm down and not project things onto other people's words
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 07:14 PM
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Britian. Hahahaaa love it Gørl. 😂 feels like important activism work. I think things have gone back a step or two here from like the 90's but tbf your area of the world has always been better in gender stuff than most places. Atleast as far as I can tell. Hilarious though woman around the world appreciate your good work 🤣🤣
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 06:04 PM
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A lot of guys dramatically lie about hook ups. Being blunt with you. I've had a ridiculous experience of men completely lieing about "chilling" with me. Honestly the best way to hook up with girls is to just see us as equals. Be our friend. The more female friends you have. The better you get at communicating with us and the better you get at effectively communicating you'd like to hook up. Woman generally need to feel safe with you (you're not going to call them a slut behind their back etc/ te…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 03:14 PM
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20's still a hell of a lot. Jesus people acted like I was a slut before I'd slept with anyone. I'm jealous. Why is my culture so harsh on me. Lol Why do you and your friends have so many sexual partners? There's nothing wrong with it. (Protection permitting) but I don't understand the need for it tbh. Like. Isn't it unfilfilling after a certain point? Wouldn't you prefer to sleep with one of them a lot more times vs more people?
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 02:59 PM
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Wow I had no idea this could exist the other way around. Thanks for the info. I know Sweden are generally the top ranking country for equality between sexes. I didn't expect this though!! I've never hear the term female players btw. I'm sorry this is something you deal with btw! Though I can't help but find it funny this dynamic actually exists! You are free to do whatever you like though. Never let ANY one dictate your life to you. Sending good vibes 🤣 bless you x
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 02:55 PM
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The question doesn't really make sense. Men are more accepted as players in general? It's why there's only slurs for woman dating around and good words like "players" for men? Do who you like. Nobody cares. Kindof a strange post though
/r/ExRedPill13/03/23 06:56 AM
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Yeah. It's a bizzare economy based on keeping men away from woman really (ironically to what they say). Glad you've got good company now :)
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 11:25 PM
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Personally I'd see you as more successful dating a Japanese woman. Or a Chinese woman. They're often really beautiful and the culture is impressive af
/r/ExRedPill11/03/23 04:47 PM
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Ah this is sad to hear. I get it and tbh its nice to hear someone be blunt about it. I think it's to do the history we learn. But you know what history is a lot longer than the last few thousand years or so. 5k years ago white people where the cave men while black people where building the spinx You see I look at black woman and their beauty makes me wanna cry. My good traits of wide cheek bones etc I'm pretty sure are more common in black woman. What even is a beauty standard. Why is there one …
/r/ExRedPill11/03/23 04:39 PM
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It's a horrible world view. Course it take a toll. The further you get to normal life again the better you'll feel :)
/r/ExRedPill11/03/23 03:24 AM
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I'm single. I used to get really annoyed when blokes would ask "WHY??" When they asked if you had a boyfriend and you say no. Now I'm old enough and wise enough to realise they just fancied me 😆 "but omg. I'd do you, how come?" I don't really get your point. It's like proving a point the you can breathe air. Seriously do whatever you fancy. Who ever you fancy if you like. That's the point in life. The only reason it annoys redpill types is becuase they're not doing those things. They deserve you…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/23 02:30 AM
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Has this become a fairly female heavy group or am I imagining it? I thought I was special 😂 But nah I learn about redpill here. Truly it pissed me off. Went through a vengeful, belittling stage. Now I just realise I'm better than lowering myself. Frankly I'm better than even listening redpill ideas. They've got a nagetive value but the below average inteligmece people who think thay can benifit from them. I wish luck on their seperate lives from me 😂 I think their anger at people just walking aw…
/r/ExRedPill11/03/23 12:52 AM
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Very fair. From a girls perspective. Learning about all this from this community tbh. It's the impression I've got. Very strong of you to admit that though. You're deffo out the other end now. And ironically far less vulnerable now. Thanks for sharing and wish you luck in the future :)
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 05:33 AM
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Honestly dude. I'm a girl. I'm not redpill at all. And it sounds to me like you need to draw a line. Tell her it drives you mad seeing her with other guys. Will she go out on a date with you? If not. She's not your dream girl. Start looking at other woman. There's loads of us around. Your dream girl is out there.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 05:30 AM
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I fully understand. I really do. The thing that's worth veering in mind (which helps me) its not mens fault. It is some of there's obviously. But it's some woman's too. It's how we're all raised. It's complex issue. Society disturbs me. I've honestly. Truly struggled so hard through this stuff. But theres so much to learn. So many epic things humans will never know about. Focus on learning or trying to find out more. Leave this seedy, sad little social climbing world. You're better than it. What…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 12:43 PM
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Look every woman likes different things. Standard good people traits in general makes you an option to most but what your (genuine) interests are will be super hot to some woman and off-putting to others. You want the woman you find your genuine self hot. It's much better sex wise I promise you
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 11:20 PM
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P.s everyone I've known from 35 yo plus pregnancies are good looking and had no health issues. My brother and I are almost medical marvels for the abuse our bodies can take. Although I do wonder if I may be slightly on the autistic spectrum. Which apparently is more common in older pregnancies. But I have a very high IQ and woman don't tend to present autism symptoms like in men. Elon musks a mild autistic, so are a lot of smart people who seem fine. Just to give you my perspective based on expe…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 03:58 PM
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Sorry, was curious it seemed an odd down vote, I was pointing out we've all got different fertility spans, I'd be lieing if I said I didn't fear the unkown of how long I'll be fertile. But all we can all do is work with probabilities. How old was their mum? Tbh to me it sounds like there's a lot more at play than an older pregnancy. Genetic issues by the sounds of it. Which is lovely of you to take on. Very sweet. Have you heard of epigenetic research into longevity and the meds you can take to …
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 03:45 PM
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Did you down vote me? You can't fear monger me, my mum was 38 when she had me. My dad 40 and my mum didn't stop her period until around 60. I didn't start mine until 17, I'm a late developer most likely. I wasn't talking about my personal plan. Just the way society is going. I'm not too sure why you've got so many statistics on this etc but times change rapidly. If those stats are still even true. Growths exponential in terms of tech. It's even currently possible to regress a skin cell into a sp…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 03:16 PM
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Yeah you're right traditionally. But you can have eggs frozen if you'd like and woman are often fertile long past young adulthood. 50's seems a fair random guess average. It seems wrong to have kids that late and is harder to conceive. But assuming being biologically younger than your age. Alls fair. I think that's why I assumed I'd settle down in early 30's I want to accumulate my own wealth. This is probably a personal issue but I saw too many woman growing up, bassicaly work twice as hard as …
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 02:02 PM
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You can't let the sortof sad guys who try to date younger woman for dominance (nearly exclusively) effect your life chloces. What are you suposed to do refuse to date someone you like because they happen to be a young adult, purely to prove a piont you're not one of those guys 😆 I think your point earlier about people getting into long-term relationships in their 20's is probably why you noticed a lot of crazy type woman on the dating scene in their 30's. I've noticed the same in slightly older …
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 01:48 AM
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Terrifying, I always figured I'd enjoy life under my own steam and settle down in early 30's with someone who's sewed his wild oats. But I think you're onto something on monogamous types settling down in 20's. I've started to attract younger guys tbh. Turned down a few really early 20's guys cuz it felt wrong. But tbf they're often less jaded and more optimistic, if it feels an equal partnership, an age gap isn't relivant I'm learning. I wouldn't be surprised if I follow in your footsteps on the…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 01:00 AM
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Nice message, personally I see 30 as the starting point. We're finally fully fledged adults, finances are better. Look after ourselves physically. Get all the things our body needs to keep it healthy and the peaks yet to come imo. Happy perspectives make us like longer and age slower so your piont is deffo a good one. Optimists are the winners in life
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 11:21 PM
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Being blunt with you. I'm a similar age woman and I feel more attractive at time goes on. I'm a woman not a girl. Girls are cute and woman are beautiful. Many cute girls mature in utterly beautiful woman. Kim K is more attractive and famous now she's in her 40's than her teens or 20's (classed as the most beautiful woman in the world, only literslly since she hit middle age) What you're noticing is a confidence issue from actually listening to insecure men. If you're underconfident it highlights…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 11:10 PM
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What we're the paid groups or course things like? If you don't me asking
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 04:02 PM
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Erm it's really tough to judge because you say you excepted some mysoginistic behaviour in the beggining. But he's friends with girl is the issue. It's hard to judge. Does he see the girl as a pal. If so kindof odd in redpill. Does he see her just as sexual object he likes having around? Sexual jokes have a wide range. I wasn't sure if the "she's big enough to share" was a fat joke tbh with you. Which depending on the girl could be in platonic fun. Could be insulting to her. Could be that she is…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 03:49 PM
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I honestly think depression or lack of fulfillment in our own lives plays a large role in all online hateful stuff tbh.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 03:43 PM
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From a woman. My perspectives basically the same as yours. I think this is quite a human experience in this Internet age of consumerism dating etc. There's no easy answer on trust I'm afraid. Atleast one I can find. Keep me posted I've not found a hard and fast rule but I have start3d to think trustworthy people are often not proactive in dating in this enviroment a lot. Which is frustrating. But it gives me hope I'll meet someone organically irl one day. Sending loads of love BTW. Was a great p…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 03:38 PM
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Allsorts of people exist. There's equal amounts of good and bad people in each gender. Race. Whatever. Its not helpful to blanket an entire gender with specific traits, positive or negative. There's probably a similar amount of woman like this as there are (truly, not just misguided) mysoginistic men. There's no easy answer on how to avoid them. Just look for signs someone is interested in you as person. Not for what you have that's a social flex.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 03:32 PM
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Honestly you and I have argued. I passionately disagree with what you've said here. But that's the whole point of debate. This subs very tolerant of all sorts of comments. Which is super helpful on these topics. But the two mods of incel exit commenting here. It's really bought home to me how cult like some subs versions of anti mysogony is. You're better off here than there anyway. P.s your opinions on woman are truly wrong to me! Lols but I don't think you're a mysoginist. I think you mean wel…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 02:53 PM
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. . .right so you're not going to post them here. Just your own opinion of them. . I hope people cba to go to your sub to read them then. Even though they've disappeared from my notifications and were deleted by you guys?? Your logic is flawed. But you're possibly aware of this.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 02:13 PM
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The emotions I'm displaying vs the vitriol you are. It's making me glad we disagree. I'd never enjoy someone being banned from a group because clearly its literally going to make their thoughts further from that group 😆 also I was banned after saying the group wasn't for me to the mod. Which I find quite amusing. You've not replied to my other comments. I assume because you're just expressing vitriol vs having usefully info to add. So I'll leave you with this.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 02:11 PM
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I'm a woman who quite frankly is deffo not a mygonist, if anything. Introspecting I may be too far the other way. look you're just pushing me into believing my stance here a lot more. What are you achieving here?
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 02:03 PM
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I couldn't see the replies feel free to post if you can!! I would be really grateful
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 02:02 PM
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I'm just sick of all this hatefulness. A hateful man group is dismantled by people being hateful too them. There's got to be more to being human than this. It's his world view based on his experience. Just think about that for second. Like think about how here got there. Empathising with him is probably more effective. I honestly went super hard on him on it originally. But you know what being honest with myself who benifited from that? It wasn't him.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 01:56 PM
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I spose it's the Internet age. Too much room to put ones own interpretation on someone else's words. I am getting quite sick of hatefulness though. I've deffo been guilty of being too mean to mysoginists online. But seems likes that's what most do to one group or another online. Like it's normal, the behaviour I feel bad about it. people think you're an absolute dick for various reasons just pointing out empathy is more effective to change someones minds.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 01:50 PM
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I think I remever arguing with him on this. But in reality its not offensive as much it is his view of the world. Which is how he's logicized the world from his pov. Its really not offensive when you break it down. It's actually kindof empathy inducing
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 01:40 PM
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I'm fascinated at opinions on the various subs tbh. Yeah I agree with here tbh but I've started to notice a sortof team mentality people have in life. (Left, right, feminist, mysoginst) it's kinda like tribalism with ideology and kinda fascinating how people with clearly the same intentions of a tribe can be demonised. It's super non productive. But also there's to possibility I'm a massive dick and just don't know 😜😜
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 01:38 PM
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It might not be someones job. Or responcability, But it's human kindness. I am a woman. I'm talking about my own approach. Not forcing it on others. What a sad self involved view you have. An act of kindness and explaining it to others is seen as dictating to others. It's not mens job to report sex crimes they see. It's not adults jobs to be nice to other people's children. But you know what it makes for a lot better world. Your reply has honestly made my blood feel cold.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 01:33 PM
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If you see the comment thread with the mod here. He's made nearly completely false claims on my comments. Refusing to just post my actual comments and somehow the post got deleted at the same time as him saying I could print screen and post them. I genuinly think the mods of that sub have some power issues
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 02:59 AM
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Are you the mod I asked for feedback from on the comments. Who then banned me 20 seconds after I respectfully didn't see the correlation to the rules used, and said the subs not for me but wished you well? Lol * I'll ban you first 😆
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 12:18 AM
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No ones seen either side? bar me questioning for opinions on ex mysoginst subculture, promted by me not getting on with your sub ehich i vaugly touched on (also trying to attibute no sure fault on either side as much as poss from my own bias), and now your extreme (false) claims on me you won't substantiate . . And the original post got deleted during this convo, somehow. so i cant even show proof of the reality of comments now. Really, really odd. Edit: although I do have some you deleted I pri…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 12:16 AM
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Why won't you just show my actual comments? We voth know I didn't call anyone any of those things did I. Saying someone's logic is bizzare imo isn't a personal attack. Put into its true context. for e.g on your ludicrous claim I called someone morally inferior. This is the actual comment he's refering to: ***turns out someone's deleted the entire post . . . . I can't remember exact wording. I said something along the lines of: "Combating people doesn't work. For e.g I could say your offence at m…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 12:01 AM
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Please feel free to quote all of my comments here. I'd be very pleased to see how they're percieved. I can print screen and add to the post maybe? Although I was trying to survey opinions vs be slanderous, which is why ive not actually had a go. With your claims i feel you should back then up with proof though. I know what you're saying is false. Prove me wrong? i am fascinated by what of my comments your attributed to the things you've said? I personally feel your sub modding is a bit off. But …
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 11:42 PM
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Well it's a debate on differing approaches isn't it. I deffo don't think I'm super right on everything or my words have that much power to change the opossing person's behaviour, id feel wierd if they did. It's two sides of a conversation, more so for readers than to convince the person I'm talking to (begging to differ i spose is my thoughts on it). But I did find they took that assumption and seemed to want me to conform to their approach instead tbf. I doubt I'm a normal human here tbf. My wh…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 11:08 PM
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Who lectured other women? This guys post was about how feminists are combatative with him and his loss at what role to take in society (different wording) he seemed to be genuinly trying a lot (particularly from where he came) but the comment I responded to were woman combating other things he'd said in the post about listening to music that scares woman etc. Sortof ignoring his issue with combating him. Which I found a bit sad. But my opinions and contribution are my own. I don't really underst…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 10:57 PM
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You didn't like the answer did you. People are people. Date in your own league for them to take you seriously.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 06:35 AM
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You're telling me what I want sex with? Interesting, are you saying woman would use male escorts, (the sentence isn't clear) why?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 06:29 AM
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The logical argument is that since contraceptives exist. Who people want to sleep with is no reflection of who they actually want long term. Your info isn't relivent in any argument bar all people have lower personality worries in someone they only want casual sex with.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 06:28 AM
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As a woman. I can tell you it's no different to how men behave with woman. We'll sleep with a Chad, toy with them a little but we won't have kids with one (the age of contraceptives ruins this argument). Although I am massively generalising, exceptions and outliers always exist. People are the same. You'd sleep with a female . . Chad-erina? But you wouldn't respect them or even really want them. You'd want the normal person who you thinks a great person. Ideal if chaderina has an ideal personali…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 06:21 AM
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So you've read it and have no assumptions about you to quote at all. So instead you're attacking a straw man and ignoring your completely misdirected emotions previously. Dude go out in the real world, stop attempting to defend rapists, there's too many allegations and smoke to deny this. His entire social media career he himself has blamed rape victims and sold coercion tactics to lonely men. I don't know what you're thinking here or what your trying to achieve so I'm not having a pointless, di…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 06:13 PM
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You couldn't even read what I said. Why do you feel so capable and superior lmao? Re read my comment and quote one assumption about you.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 05:36 PM
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You've also completely missed the words "if you follow him" in your emotionally lead and bizzare angry message, just FYI
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 04:59 PM
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You're aware of the connotations of your words? It doesn't sound like it because you've just outed yourself. Poorly done man
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 04:57 PM
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He's a rapists and abuser of woman. He's even admitted it. 2 woman accused him of rape in the UK years ago. The case was dropped because the police feared for the woman's safety prosecuting without much evidence. (Rape is exceptionally hard to prove legally in the UK) You're not a good or attractive dude if you blindly follow this sex offender. He's also set up courses to teach coercion of woman . . Which is one of the things he's accused of. He's going to rot. You're a great e.g of believing wh…
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 03:30 PM
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It sounds like there's no option but to leave being honest with you. People believe what they want to, not what's logically most likely (incredibly ironic in redpillers case) The only thing I can think to try is to point out tate going to prison for abusing woman. Explaining redpill is a group of abusive and emotionally unstable men. But tbh him getting into these narratives after marrying you is troubling. Why does he know you so little to the point strangers in the Internet are more important …
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 12:46 PM
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There's still young dudes who respect him. Besides he is incredibly mock-able. If anything him turning into societies whipping Boy is just desert. He'll likely rot in prison too long to make anything from us mocking him. But it comes so naturally I'd be happy for him to continue his online career that way, hypothetically.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 10:44 PM
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He's in touch with his pr team etc lols it's prison not taken off the face of the earth
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 01:59 PM
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It's just normal prison rights to send letters (which are scanned and sent as an email usually) and for phone calls. There really is no point slipping a note to a reporter. He can have any convo's over the phone or visits (I asume he'll be telling reporters non encriminating stuff, these days). If he sliped a secret note to press. That's some odd ball dumbass who thinks he's a spy, doing that completely needlessly or attempting to incriminate himself to the press but not the authorities?
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 10:47 AM
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Imo he just shows how groups in society are looking for any reason to be victims rn (of "the matrix" in this case) he's just a standard narcissist. He quit professional fighting after a first round knock out. Brave or courage is the last thing you can acuse this guy of. He got lucky with political discourse and sadly sexisism still being real which I'm shook to learn becuase I became an adult before I realised undertones towards me from some older generation men. I'm shocked at how some guy gett…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 06:01 AM
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Sorry dude. He sounds like the biggest coward telling himself normal prison conditions are a part of conspiracy to break him. Fragile dude
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 05:02 AM
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Evolutionarily there's no evidence to show we even came from a tournament species. (Alpha's win the tournament) like baboons etc. There's masses of variety in primate species social/sexual dynamics (Matriarchal polyamory, pair bonding) If anything humans have a mix of most types of reproductive relationships seen in the animal world. But with most seeking a life long mate. Really well said again. A leader of people is twice the leader.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 07:53 PM
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. . From what he's sending to them from prison? . . Or saying on the phone. .. . Like what? Lmao
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 07:42 PM
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Great Post. From a true impressive man. From a woman, tha ks so much for tackling these guys message. As a woman they just think they're smarter than you no matter what the convo. You sound like a true leader fyi. Not a redpill sheep
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 07:34 PM
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There's a few redpillers in here. Which is good really. Sending love to them
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 07:10 PM
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Interesting insight on the pretty privilege. Ive been seen as hot sometimes and not hot at others. Depending on alsorts of things and I've always noticed a massive difference in how people treat me when the see me as hot vs not. It is deffo a real and fairly extreme thing. I feel the cakesmith e.g. so hard. That's my main gripe but you've summed it up really well. I've worked in male dominated business to business sales roles. Selling tech products mostly, I'm really good at the job. I understan…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 11:00 AM
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It's fascinating hearing a guy own up to it tbh. Really refreshing. A lot of guys on these sort of subs are convinced they have it much worse. I respect that there are some things like divorce settlements etc where guys do need some help, but most other areas in life, it does seem like blokes are on easy street. But it's hard to tell if I'm bias (grass is always greener) sort of thing.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 04:12 PM
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Honestly my white "privilege" as woman. I wish I could give away. It's not been pleasant at all. Come onto constantly by people who see us a western sluts. Men "complimenting" me with their own racism. I'm at my (non related) mixed raced, elderly aunties house helping her get in track atm, I've had very beautiful black friends throughout life. And I don't want to hear racism towards them, it's upsetting. And with no basis. How do men say they don't find their own race attractive. It makes no sen…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 03:15 PM
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Nothing. Woman are woman. I think it's media or something but I've not ended up dating anyone whose not white. Because every date I've been on with a non white guy, they've always told me they go specifically for white woman. And it just iritates me so I've never continued dating them. Maybe it's my experience, but it has been quite exteme in my experience.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 01:10 PM
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Honestly if a girl found out you'd paid for an attraction course. Your attraction level to her would plummet. By yourself. Live how you want. That's the most attractive thing. You'll meet a girl who wants to live like you too
/r/ExRedPill19/02/23 08:14 AM
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OK. Women. They're all the same? Because this is what the two points you've made rest on. Are the woman you've met all the same? If the answer's no. Which obviously it is. These points are debunked. How's the average woman gonna get a partner? The same way a guy does . . By meeting someone with similar interests, likes. Dislikes. I guarantee you (as a UNIQUE woman) next to no woman have a shared interest in redpill. It's ironic but being redpilled dramatically reduces your natural dating pool to…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 09:19 PM
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Can we please stop fetishizing white woman. Why white woman in particular? I'm a white woman and I'm honestly completely sick of this. Just woman, date woman. Woman are hot from different colours as often as white woman are. This isn't a go at you, it feels like a common thing. Just be yourself don't be jealous. You don't know that person's life and go have a nice time. Dating or not, the rest will follow
/r/ExRedPill18/02/23 09:08 PM
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It's children I thought, which adds a whole new relationship to his creepiness. Hahaha I've really enjoyed this chat thank you 💚
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 09:05 AM
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I bet fritzal could give great cellar building tips 😆
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 08:52 AM
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He's a motivated guy who's got a lot of the same ethic on that joe rogan does. But there's a lot of guys like that out there. Imagine the rock sharing his self help tips. Yeah I'm not a greta fan tbh but it just made me laugh. This jumped up sexist on steroids guy who prides himself on bassicly pimping out mentally damaged woman.. and keeping them in a compound. (Plus all the manipulation, dominance pride etc) Tried to offend a 19yo (he's 35) and society laughed at him. Tate tbh has been very di…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 08:50 AM
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I just saw your comment. You trolled the trolls away and I likely was rightfully banned. Its not what the mod said. Guys. Why do you insist on a special mens space. This sub is fairly toxic when ex redpillers/ redpillers bounce off eachother. You understand my current contribution is very effective at embarrassing redpillers. I don't see any reason an actual ex redpiller would be upset. Or not understand the factual accuracy and effectiveness of it? I truly don't see anyone getting offended who …
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 08:41 AM
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I think your comments are self fapping material tbh. Tate would like you
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 08:31 AM
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Why do all you guys think laughing at tate is triggered? What's in the post is actually just reality. It is really funny with his massive following of men. People are going to be feeling contright (I can't spell this word) soon.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 08:28 AM
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He does act like he's insecure and taking out anger on woman etc. (Small dick energy is about a male personality type) Though tate probs is just a socio. It's a lot better comment than his car brag to her.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 08:24 AM
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Misogyny is hypocritical. After spending some time on this sub talking to some nice but many "ex-reppilers" I really appreciate your post. Gives back some faith, some guys see how it is and are actually good fair people. Sending love
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 08:19 AM
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. . . . Dude you're messages are very wierd. Yes I'm dumb if you like. Whatever you want.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 07:56 PM
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Why do you think im telling you what you are? You are. A reddit stranger. I don't know you. I know your comments which are not pleasant unbias or well founded, . (What I'm responding to? (Wtf dude)) Stop being wierd now, I've heard your well formed opinion on me as a whole person. So go on your totally not bitter and aggressive way.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 03:06 AM
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Dude, from a bizzare comment thread I just keep seeming to reply to, having a go at me for being mean to guys messaging to scam. I concur. Some good ones tbf though
/r/ExRedPill15/02/23 03:03 AM
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Small energy doesn't mean a small dick (you didn't even read the post) you need to read the bottom paragraph
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 05:39 PM
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P.s I can't be arsed to reply to your 3 other offended replies where you look into deep psychological faulty reasons of everything 😆 give yourself a break. You're emotionally invested in someone shit posting crap they find funny. Relax, go sort out whatever problem put you in this mood
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:53 PM
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Lols you probs shouldn't stay on the internet with how offended you get and how much you read into posts. Dude you really need to calm down. Chill its Andrew tate. I'm not sure what your problem is today
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:49 PM
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. . . I find it all really funny are you OK?
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 12:47 PM
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I don't think you'd find it funny in slightest in my or other woman's position. Incredibly bias and unempethatic from someone in your position only seeing your own gender possible negative effects/ issues they personally have. Fairly upsetting from someone in your job.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 09:38 AM
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Get therapy you honestly arnt going to get anywhere like this. I'm being kind to you. You're just too sexist to see it.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 08:24 AM
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What are you even talking about. You need help dude. You're taking words out of clear understandable context to most other people. And offending yourself about woman. Get some help man. I'm honestly routing for you. I understands where this stems from acting out like this is only going to make your problems worse. Please get some therapy. This whole interaction has been odd and clearly a vent on your problems with woman. This isn't going to go well for you. I promise you that. You're the only ex…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 08:18 AM
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I think some are trying to find ways to profit of it now 😆 they want to be modern mini tates. I personally don't get why, if redpill dudes "get all the woman" why they can't make more of their own only fans/ insta
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 08:11 AM
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You're literally being shitty and even worse than double standards to a woman rn. You just have too much cognitive dissonance to see it. Honestly we're off on the wrong foot. But I'm here for you. And I hope the de learning redpill stuff goes well. I respect its a hard thing to do. So well done for starting
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 07:57 AM
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Look you're a sexist. I'm not wasting my time here. I'll make fun of idiot sexists all I want. They shouldn't harrass and try to scam me if they don't like it. P.s assess my post and you'll realise it'll stop the messages to me . . . Fair more effectively than crying to mods and is banning them less harsh? I mean ffs dude. Get out your own arse, any excuse to moan.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 07:48 AM
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Ex redpillers feel the same often and I think enjoy laughing a lot. This is your personal take. I'm sorry if its effected you but, We've all held idiot opinions at some point and the manospere picks on kids. It's no different from what these guys to do young woman. But they are degusting people. The long term redpillers, the adult men doing these things and spreading such hate. Really think about what you're asking from me as a girl? The target of they're hate. You seem to expect me to be comple…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 07:45 AM
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Why would I block, and report, if they get banned its probs harsher on them and i find it good research material on this topic+ they'll think it's some conspiracy or a weak woman thing to do. It's helpful to them to make fun of them in my opinion. And as if you're annoyed of me making light of being harrased? Seriously think about your standards here.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 07:32 AM
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I'm obv talking about the ones who arn't lurking here for good reasons. Yeah that's why I post the way I do. No one like the harsh truths of girls laughing at you. All the other people here I hold a lot of respect for tbh. Takes a lot to look inwards and reflect. I'll never say a bad word about ex red pillers who realise their past dissonance. Are you an ex redpiller?
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 07:31 AM
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Haha nah he's a hilarious. The subs welcome. I love the dude. It's been ery for a while with his following as a girl. But I like him. He's a mess and we all love to watch that on TV. This is the third comment in a row on my stuff btw, coincidence? Or are you not OK with me Edit: it was the second one. He had a big problem with me
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 07:29 AM
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Ah f off. You're having a go at me making fun of people actively trying to harrass and scam me. You need to logically assess your offence on this.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 07:27 AM
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I like to play along in the dumbest way possible to see if any bite 😆
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 06:53 AM
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Sounds like you just can't disprove any of it, but are trying to simp for tate still (a bad look in reteospect I promise you) Hence the broad statement no one can tackle the content of (because there is non)
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 06:32 AM
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I agree, I like the fact they're here. Clearly it's for nepharious reasons (the less curious ones I've mentioned) but the content here must still filter through to them on some level I would like to point out though if any of them experienced what I mentioned above that I just see as everyday life. They'd not take it as stoicly (I say these things for the lurkers you see, so they realise how they can be seen)
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 06:09 AM
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Feels like it would be the dawn of a new species
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 06:07 AM
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No I think very few young people have got their shit together, it's not binary, its just the ones who cope with it better tend to take responsibility and not be cruel to others while improving themself. Yeah I agree the content creators are making weak behaviour seem powerful to them. They are being mislead to get there, I conceed to you there
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:29 AM
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I might publish the wierd and incredibly poor scam messages I've gotten from them here 😆 they can't cope with being called out (by a girl) the funniest thing is how idiotic the scam messages are. I'm not sure if they think girls in general are that stupid, or it's just the best their own minds can produce
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:15 AM
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Hahahah I like how you're pretending to be dumb (I hope) you're aware what a patrichial dynamic is. What redpill wants, call it what you like, as i will (latent homosexuality and fear of woman) I just got off a ban from redpillers here crying to the moderators. Which Is delicious, I hope they cry to mods more. It's exactly the behaviour I expect from pathetic redpillers
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:12 AM
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There's no such thing as beta's in the human world. We're human beings, we value individual inteligence. Each unique type of person, doing their unique thing is literally the base of our entire society. Redpill "alpha's" are no more an alpha male than I am (a girl) . . Becuase there's no such thing in human society . . . They're disturbed and deeply illogical people. Take it as a point of pride if they don't like you. You sound a lot more attractive to me.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:07 AM
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Meanwhile the rest of us take life's cr** I'm our stride and continue to be our own boss's. While not constantly talking about how dominant and strong we are . . Couldn't make this up, . .because it makes 0 sense 😆
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 03:00 AM
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You don't actually know much about anything is all this is saying.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/23 02:36 AM
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Not actually true, Alpha's children are children alpha's generally. A few take overs happen (In very rare parts of the animal world where this dynamic actually exists) clearly in this odd human copy of (some) old world monkey dynamics or w/e. There's not really opportunity to de seat the alpha and replace him. Being in redpill will ensure you're always a beta by your own definitions, It's not possible to be an alpha. Doing what another man tells you to do is what redpill literally is. You'll als…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 11:52 PM
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BTW, I've seen a few of your comments and I have to say I really respect you as man. You're your own "Alpha" as I'm my own "Alpha". It's strong men who don't try to minimise woman to feel better in comparison. Frankly impressive men don't need to do that.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 11:21 PM
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I think you might be onto somethings atleast for a certain demographic of redpillers. Which is sad. It's refreshing to hear someone else has noticed all the very ironic simping. I truly don't think they're aware of the logical classification of their own behaviour. I'm hoping more people can start to let them know how ironic and frankly embarrassing the logic is they've taken from their "Alpha's" You're totally right thier content creators imo probably get off on taking advantage of these guys f…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 11:01 PM
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Sounds a nice plan :) I can't see any misogyny from you at all tbh. Even if they're are a few ideas you have, I would percieve that way. I still give you a lot of credit for talking about them with them a girl. Because it shows you're clearly open minded to discuss, with a girl no less! 😜 Content on the Internet is easy to get sucked into. I don't think any of us can say we've not been sucked into harmful ideas at some point. Recognising what's happened and making positive changes is a strong th…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 10:44 PM
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It's up to you. Whatever you fancy doing, do it :) I get it'll take a while to get rid of some of the toxic thoughts etc. You've already done exactly the right thing here though. You've been completely upfront on your thoughts and I completely respect you. Feel free to message me if you want to re acclimatise to talking to woman with no worries. But anything else you feel may help, therapy, talking to anyone, you're your own man :) whatever you feel is best, is deffo the thing to do. I see you a…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 10:29 PM
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Honestly you seem completely on the ball with this. As a woman I can't stand redpillers. The vanity, the odd mindset on woman. It's all very off-putting. I see men who treat woman as equal as Alpha's. Redpillers are beta's logically because they live their entire life the way a man they adore told them to. It's all very unattractive and even bizzare when you factor in their own perception of things. Men who just treat all people equally. I see as secure in themselves, well rounded and just gener…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 10:01 PM
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Honestly I know what you're saying. I think I accept to a certain degree life is harsher for woman. Like the extremists in Feminism are very few compared to men's rights groups but the female extremists will come under fire a lot more. I totally see your point. But that's society on a whole for woman. I'm very used to that unfairness. Effectively because men are less capable of emotionally dealing with unfairness as woman are (from life experience) I will defend them. In the much lesser unfairne…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:47 PM
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My stance on this I find quite helpful. Is man and woman are a lot more similar than we're lead to believe. Woman do have more of an uphill climb in society, which is why I really appreciate your comments, but we are on whole the same as men. There are woman who are dicks to be blunt. It's no different from men. Some very clever and reasonable, some selfishly trying to personally gain I think it's a lot smaller amount of woman who do this in general. Probably because we do have valid points and …
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:27 PM
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Yeah you are spot on with your perception of actual feminism. It's juat the online content from the equivalent to redpill types. An absolute minority but the internet platforms extremists more than the reasonable. Briggie Tobar (or a similar name) is a woman who wants to force men to watch fat people porn to change men's dating preference. That's not Feminism but unfortunately it taints the name to people who consume online content on this stuff, vs real world experience
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:16 PM
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It's more the extremist pockets of Feminism that make people wary to identify with broader Feminism. A commenter here mentioned the fat acceptance movement. Some nutters posting videos saying men need to be forced to watch fat porn to change their sexual preference. Which is frankly an abusive idea on every sense of the word. (Briggy/ birdy Tobar, or some name similar is the woman making those videos I know of) I can't think off the top of my head but it's like any movement, there's the odd grif…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:04 PM
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Yeah totally get you! We're fairly similar there by the sounds of it.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:53 PM
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I think you've been around what I'd call "woke nutters" wokism is just odd a lot of the time. Feminism is really just seeking equal treatment. Stop woman being slut shamed, passed over for jobs because of pregnancy possibilities etc etc. But obv there's nutters in each gender. Redpill the issue is the entire ideology is based on misogynistic fantasies. It's not a few things they say ots their view of the entire world. I'm a second class citizen with poor logical ability and overly emotional etc.…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:52 PM
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You've confused extremists with Feminism. They act under the Feminism banner. But true Feminism just wants woman to be seen as human beings. Not slut shamed and forced into lives they don't want etc. It's like seeing redpill as a representation of all men. It's not.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:47 PM
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In fairness. I appreciate your responce to this fyi. But there are a few different groups in Feminism. Some aren't good. Woman can behave like redpillers too. It's a very small percentage, but unfortunately it has tainted the Feminism name to those who see the extremism as Feminism on a whole. Misandrists are real, it's a small percentage, likely a lot less than the amount of extreme misogynists out there due to cultural acceptance. But theyre essentially the equal and oposite demographic to red…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:41 PM
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You're normal. I'm the same. I'm a fairly outspoken woman, overall. People would think I'm a feminist. But I'm not. I'm in neither group too. Edit: Feminism on a whole is just wanting equality for both genders btw. it's the odd extremist group that's identifies with Feminism that puts people off. Like a redpiller in a normal man's group kindof thing. But it's enough to give it a bad name.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:36 PM
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Still nothing scientific . . .to be seen. I don't think you know what I'm even on about half the time. You just do all this crap to deflect. This is why I have no time for you lols
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 06:53 PM
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You're a bitch boy for men who preach hate on woman. Deserved. Physical violence isn't a human impressive thing it's a chimp superiority thing (even a chimps better than you in your own logic) here violence will lead you to be a bitch boy in prison. No offence I didn't read your reply because I just don't respect you enough
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:58 AM
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Do what your alpha's tell you. Very impressive.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:44 AM
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Also if you think threatening violence is attractive I suggest you realise you're a human being. All be it a beta little man simp human being.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:43 AM
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I'm a girl :) I go to the gym and my pussys a lot more impressive than you are bitch boy
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:41 AM
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Harsh truth for you: you're the beta in redpill. You're not in real world.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:31 AM
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But you are a mega beta. What alpha does what other men tell him to do. Get some self respect.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:30 AM
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How to say "I want a man to tell me who i am, how to act and what to think, cuz I'm a little bitch boy" without saying it :)
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:29 AM
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Right so why don't you use this logic on redpill info? Does it pass these parameters more than the conclusions from all of acedemic work so far does?
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:04 AM
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Just to translate for everyone " I'm a simp for men who are my alpha's"
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:55 AM
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Hi. I've spoken to a few. The simple reason is they don't want to stop believing in men being better, essentially than woman. I think it's tied to the negative dating experiences they've had and they find it palatable to blame that on the woman who've rejected them or w/e. They prefer that than to look internally at what they've been doing that's well probably offensive to woman or attracting bad people. It's an emotional not logical issue. Boosting their sense of self worth independantly from d…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 08:02 AM
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I'm open to listen. Where I can't understand your piont is how this stands for woman but not men? (I assume you ment as you only mentioned woman on that) Tournament species is redpill ideology. There's no point explaining it as I'm sure you know the explaination on it. Males competing for a top stop to reproduce, males who fail at competing don't reproduce (overall) Even just looking at people walking around in couples it's fairly clear this isn't the case. Even without comparison to pair bondin…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 04:45 AM
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I'll give the definition on the other thread when you reply. This is too chaotic to keep the chat valuable otherwise!!
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 04:39 AM
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(Please reply to my other comment here) The woman who's husband is a doctor recognises a builder as the alpha when they need an extention. You're looking at things from a simplistic view. Possibly relivent in a species not living in a society but society is too complex for this.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 04:38 AM
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There's too many comment threads on this I'm going to try to condense this to one. If you can please reply to my comment in your next reply on another comment thread. We're not a tournament species. You can tell this by the level of sexual dimorphism in the genders. Gorilla's and chimps are. Were closer to a pair bonding species parameter their. Although I think the matriarchal bonobos (who are in a category of their own) reflect our own sexual dimorphism. I've given the alpha specific. This is …
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 04:35 AM
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Again, you need to give an example, broad statements can't be logically examined. Also where is this study info on female instinctive male choices? More so than males I assume your inferring? Imo opinion evidence is the opposite of that. In woman being the weaker sex. Etc
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 04:27 AM
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It leaves a bad taste you inferring you're ideas are too complex and intrinsic to explain to me and then dictating what I can enquire on. But in the interest of opening this up for debate I'll go with it. Alpha's, male dominance etc how do you explain chimps finding these things more attractive than humans do? Based on the clear evidence of us evolving in a differant direction from them there.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 04:26 AM
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What are the comfertable lies is what im trying to understand? I realise it's hard to sum up large ideas but I'd need something to be able understand your world view. Redpill is an ideology that fits a very stereotypical chimp social structure to an extent but still isn't fully correct there. The reality is we're not a tournament species. Males arnt competing for "alpha" status, our societies too complex for a be all, end all alpha. There's computer nerd alpha's who fix your computers, carpet fi…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 04:22 AM
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Or do you mean the romance is fictional and creates disapiontment in rl? Because the realisation of that is something that effects woman. I've missed that this could be your point?
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 04:10 AM
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I'm not understanding how Disney films are opposing to redpill ideology. Are you talking about the newer films? Because the classic Disney films uphold redpill-esk gender stereotypes from my perspective. Unless I've missed something. Is there a clear example in a particular Disney film that's anti men or w/e you can give? so I can grasp your point
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 04:08 AM
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You believe society is brain washed in the opposite direction of redpill, do you have an example of this? I'm open to your ideas and fascinated to logically discuss fyi. If you feel they're logically sound?
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 03:54 AM
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If I as a woman believed woman were inherently nicer than men for e.g there's statistics I could use to back up my bias fairly convincingly. But it would be a narrow view of the world, ignoring evidence to the contrary (male assistance, self sacrifice, playing into cultural norms, the Evolutionary and current social advantages of behaviour in each sex etc etc). I'd of gone out with a predetermined idea based on my own need to find something I'm superior on, to arrive there. Or I supose be undere…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 03:21 AM
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How is logic pretentious? I'm sorry this is a fundimental of life and why humans split into their own species. We value logic etc etc etc I'm not sure why you've gone onto abusive relationships? I don't see the correlation to human attraction to human specific traits at all
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 02:59 AM
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Dunning-kruger effect is strong with you
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:58 AM
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Explaining the background knowledge before seeing redpill idiocy isn't a flex lol. You've just proved why I'm right to not give personal info. You're looking for any opportunity to attack vs conversing. Which is also proving your own bias on this topic. Tbh I'm glad to have this interaction. You've proved everything I said in the post. Whilst lacking complete awareness you are. Though the evolution denying. Lack of knowledge on it and condescending a poor explaination of scientific proccess/ att…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:52 AM
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You're not replying to my initially post comment, more so denying evolution and explaining science to me, . . you've not replied to any actual scientific ref's I've given, I've answered your emotional question = cognitive bias/ emotional bias. (To seek information that makes one feel good/superior) I imagine you didnt understand the terminology first time around? I'm not answering your personal questions. You've been fairly rude and non coherent in this convo, I'm not sure why you think you have…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:40 AM
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If you have a scientific background how are you unaware of the many indisputable facts of evolution? (From real time biology to fossil records) observable adaption is also proof of evolution, it's just trying to learn the mechanisms of it, that's up for debate. I'm fairly lost on your lack of knowledge here as your presenting yourself as scientific Edit: I'm fairly certain this is a good example of redpillesk person, mansplaining to a woman far more educated on the topic.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:26 AM
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Missing link is an idea from the 1800's? That's not what modern scientists think. The fossil record is mostly a clear story, over all, very few full blank spots on stages of our evolution. but also interbreeding etc we know to have happened between species going back a long way makes things predictably a lot more complex that the ideas in the 1800's There are a lot of extinct humanoid species that would class as that though. Would you like me to give ref's for you to look at, or would you prefer…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:18 AM
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P.s religion doesn't have to be mutually exclusive from evolution. But evolution is fact. Learn about it. Its ok. And cognitive bias is what leads people to follow comforting "science". It is emotional in redpill. More so than the average person.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:15 AM
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If you think evolution is theory. I'm sorry there's no point in us talking. I suggest you learn about the fossil record though :)
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:14 AM
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I notice it's generally unattractive woman who advocate for men bias stuff. I think they think it adds attraction value to them.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 01:10 AM
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There's universal attention in all species. That's what creates different species. It's just that repill ideas are based on chimps universal attraction. Not humans, not even bonobos
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 12:25 AM
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It was how you percieved my comment. It was the same perception someone from redpill would have. It seemed a very bias perception I can't see the logic in. There's universal attraction for human beings in general. You can cross reference our traits with other apes and find the traits humans prefer.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 12:24 AM
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You're still not replying to any scientific questions and topics at all. I'm not talking to you until you train yourself to have a coherent conversation. The only reason I can think you refuse to reply on scientific debate is that you're highly uneducated and don't understand what half the words mean (can't even Google it all, because you opinions are chosen by your own ego, learning the actual science will hurt your ego)
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 10:57 PM
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So you can't reply to any science still. Your common knowledge tells you you're smarter than woman. I'm a woman in my 20's I'm embarrassed for you on how incapable your intellect seems. You're common knowledge has been proven again and again to be a misogynistic fantasy in this sub. You just refuse to take the feedback. Because you want to believe what you say, emotionally. You're driven by selfish emotional need. Not logic or intelect, as I am. It's all quite sad. You want to believe what you s…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 10:53 PM
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Lmao its literally the opposite in most ways. Go enjoy being unattractive purely for simping redpill. Redpills are Simps. You guys just simp for men and hate the woman you want to f. I wish you could all see the reality of what your doing. At least simps for woman are directing their energy in a more reasonable direction (for a straight man) redpill is just cognitive dissonance central. Most redpillers will continue to watch redpill content long term. And that's all the content creators want.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 10:44 PM
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The celebrity is attractive. In theyre own right, thats why theyre a celebrity. You've ignored all.my previous messages comments on that (you're not even replying to any science, this is the previous topic, (that you're even ignoring the info on, above the science topic) Im not repeating, look in above messages (re-read then) Look omg. all you have to do is measure our actual species and track height diff. Over the course of our specialisation. It's unarguably. You really will argue your point r…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 10:42 PM
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You're not gonna reply to this are you? I've not managed to get a single reply from you on any scientific comment. I'm just saying this is why I have little time for you.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 03:54 PM
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That's psychology today. where's the actual paper? What journal was it published in? Who were the referee's and author, what's their background? What demographic were the subjects? Were they studied in life over multiple generations or just asked questions? What were the controls in the study? There's a "study" to back up many opinions but the facts of the matter are there's very little sexual dimorphism (differance between genders) in humans. Less so than other apes which leads logical people t…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 03:42 PM
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The thing is girls are generally fully aware of what universally is attractive to woman. We all like for instance: Men who aren't simping over dating guru's. This is the ironicly the most unattractive thing. We like men who are honest, straight forward and blunt. We like them to be confident in their own particular lifestyle, whether that be a passion for computers or running or w/e. 90% of the time we don't care about "social ranking" because frankly it changes constantly depending on which gro…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 03:24 PM
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The beauty standard for female models is traditionally over 5'9. I'm talking about the celebrities dating other celebrities. Tome cruise and Nicole kidman for e.g you could equally say female celebrities have the same pull. Kim K with her last young bf. I'm not really sure if you're trying to argue redpill ideas, but their are many uglier woman than their boyfriends, there's also many young men who go for older woman. Humans are all different. Men and woman have equally varied personalities, as …
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 03:09 PM
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No one can dictate to other who they should date though. V.tall and v. Short woman aren't the preference of all men. It's just the way the world is.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 06:33 AM
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My Dad was shorter than my Mum, my brothers 6'2 and I'm 5'9. You're right it is a common logic but I still deduced the self conscious eliment, because they don't want their kids to have their own hieght lols
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 06:32 AM
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I had a friend like that (that exact height and dating preference 😆), she was super insecure about her own height, like ridiculously so, used to get overly competative and jealous of wierd stuff, always equating a lack of authority or w/e to her hieght vs her actual behaviour. I think it was her projecting her own insecurities out there, judging men on their height. It's a form of self hate in her I came to conclude. I'm also 5'9 btw, I used to go taller than me, but these days if the personalit…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 05:15 AM
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A good way to debunk this is to look at celebrities. What height are most men in Holywood? What height are their wives? It's not a gendered thing really, short woman dislike their height commonly. It is a trend atm on dating apps to specify a tall height from woman tbf, It's a real thing. But people on benefits with 6 kids also specify they want someone with no kids who owns a house. Dating apps and social media are just bs most the time. They don't reflect someone's true dating standards in the…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 05:10 AM
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No of woman, possibly a bias perception, but it seems like not super attractive guys. Are more likely to be misogynists/ see negatives in general woman more. I'm not saying you're like this at all. It's just what I've noticed. I put it down to irritation at percieved struggling dating. But in honesty I think a lot of it is down to them not talking to us as normal people. If you don't think you're ugly other people won't in general. I find people value a good mental connection over looks generall…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 01:07 PM
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Sorry to spam you but this is an interesting thing I think! Ugly mens perception is negative vs handsome mens positive perception. And this is a large part of the issue imo
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 07:05 AM
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That's what I figured tbh. It boggles me though because attraction is higher for a good interaction, than it is for looks. I find. And I think a lot of others do
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 07:00 AM
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Trying to learn about men's issues. I've tried to strike up convo with a few redpiller and incels etc. It's incredibly difficult. Handsome men I think are just more equipped to deal with it and see woman talking to them as normal. They tend to be less wierd toward woman in general being totally honest. seem to see us equally on a whole
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 06:37 AM
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There probs are but it's not worth the risk of being slut shamed being Frank. Actually in the pulling game ugly men were hardest to come onto, ironic to what you'd think
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 06:34 AM
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You're wrong because woman are reduced to the pool of dating that come on to her. Very forward men are not necessarily valuable prospects Ironically to what you're saying it's the opposite. Woman are slut shamed into not being active in seeking partners. Men are the ones who are actually encouraged to chose woman to make moves on. I wasih it was different but men choose, woman can only pick from those who've chosen them (very generally and traditionally) I'm hoping this changes. Redpill are Iron…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 06:30 AM
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First ones free . .
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 06:26 AM
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Omg thank you! I've been trying to get this across soo many times but I must suck at explaining it. I really, really appreciate you explaining this. It just boggles me how in certian groups woman are blamed for not actively trying to date and also slut shamed for dating. You sound a great coach.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 06:26 AM
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I totally agree tbh, though some just are trying to fit into society (as am I tbf) thanks for saying that, is lovely to hear. I'm probs bias to my experiences as a teenager (ten years ago) fingers crossed things are changing! :)
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 04:38 AM
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There's allot of gym/ guy motivational stuff that doesn't include odd theories on woman, maybe have a look around at other creators who are generally "good" vs "not that bad" It'll effect you long term having these things in your content
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 02:18 AM
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You're aware he went to prison after working a normal job, after not being too successful fighting. And he won't disclose where his money came from to start with? Trafficked woman tend not to tackle the guy who trafficked them, it's uncommon for fear. Also Romania is one of the top places to traffic woman from. Obv no one knows but imo he's fairly obviously guilty.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 02:16 AM
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I've re-read and I'm struggling to understand why you took it so aggressively? If you could let me know what you saw as aggressive, I'd deffo keep it in mind
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 01:43 AM
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A minority obviously do (people are all different) Genuine harassment is a different topic entirely, and quite clear cut. Enjoy your ultimate knowledge of women then, dunno what to say to that.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 01:40 AM
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? No aggression at all. Literally just explaining my perception, for right or wrong. Sorry if it came off that way. Not at all a reflection of the emotion. Puzzled abit now tbh. I make a move on a guy who's already asked me out, it is hard, because obv real sexual/ emotional/ full relationship rejection isn't pleasant. But I do if I'm already dating someone and it's not progressed as I'd like. But it's seen as a good thing for a guy to ask people out? "Men will sleep with anything" etc what nega…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 01:26 AM
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Hahaha fairs. I still think it's becoming less common with social media viral vids, but maybe im just ageing 😆I've never had that number thing. Im not sure how I'd take that, Did you message? Tbf's I might be unfairly judging guys as creeps
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 12:58 AM
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I actually completely agree. You've obviously more experienced with the woman that are monetising the situation!!! But yeah totally agreed. You sound hot
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 12:56 AM
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Look watch this. Do you want to private message me? Being 100% serious.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 12:06 AM
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Honestly I've no fear of rejection. If anything I've got enough ego to judge their poor choice of rejecting me lol! When I was a teenager my friends and I used to play the friend game (asking strangers to be your friend, if they say yes, it's 1 point) that evolved into the pulling game, one point per yes, but give a fake number. I learnt from that. Men don't respect you (edit relationship wise for coming onto them), they're grateful and happy for the opportunity, but they see you as low value fo…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 11:55 PM
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I really appreciate hearing your post and perspective. You sound such a well adjusted young guy who's had loaads of complex stuff to navigate. Truly, thank you for being logical about all this. I'm so impressed you've got here from the odd social pressures of today and a traditional family narrative. You're a wonderful person and a great example to men.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 11:01 PM
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I see your logic, in my experience its becoming more rare for (serious, non hook up type) men to feel comfortable approaching in real life. Which I actually understand with the attention seeking woman claiming harassment at any opportunity. To be completely fair. It's generally places where people drink where its more socially acceptable. I've been able to tell guys want to ask me out before at like work, but really sadly the good guys who are conscious of not being creeps tend to not ask people…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 10:28 PM
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Yeah as a woman who's used apps but won't now, its what the above comment says. People seem to lose a sense of decency behind a screen. If they're not looking in your eyes it seems to free people up to say horrendous stuff they never would in person. When frankly if it was in person it would literally be a crime. It's 90% of messages, the good guys aren't as aggressive at messaging everyone so it can give the impression most men are like that. But in reality its a loud group pestering without sh…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 09:36 PM
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Happy birthday btw
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 01:41 AM
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Dude you do come off like a redpiller. Your post about dating young girls because they'll date old men with money. And all the people you were ignoring desgusted in you. And all the bizzare non science you believe that's offensive. Your post in you account history talking about how woman could stop themselves being raped. Dude I have no time for you. Go away.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 01:41 AM
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Can I just ask, did you take nothing onbaord about the way woman act in woman exclusive comunitues, the comparison to Bonobo's?
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 12:38 AM
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Why are you obsessed with my own personal aspect of the post?
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 12:34 AM
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FYI, I'm likely not gay. I'm just exploring the option.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 12:31 AM
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I'm not saying you're not (for the second clear time). Some people can choose to default though. But again this isn't the point of the post in the slightest. . Lmao. ..
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 12:15 AM
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I too used to be 100% straight. Not being rude or asumming anything about you. But that's how I used to feel. Again you've not understood the post, to drop truth.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 12:09 AM
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I'm not saying it's not. But you sound fairly offended at the idea also. Which is phsycologically fascinating. You've not understood the post. It's insight from my perspective not an assumption anyone else feels that way? I'm unsure what you took from it
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 12:06 AM
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Sexuality is rarely ever 100% straight. It is nuanced in more people than is generally admitted. I'd never considered I could be attracted to woman but being slightly desgusted with society, I've stopped caring about fitting into society narratives, and exploring sexuality has given me the epiphany above. If you read the post you'll see it's not truely about me. It's how woman behave when men arnt in the picture at all.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 12:02 AM
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Dude I'm not reading all that. My impression of your comment is what I told you. I think you should think about what's upsetting you here. The comment was illogical.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 11:50 PM
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I genuinly never did, I just saw people as people, with inny's and outies lol.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 11:48 PM
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Lmao dude I have no time for you and you can paint that in whatever light makes you feel better. Alright I'd believe you more if it hadn't hurt your feelings so much.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 11:47 PM
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Thanks I appreciate your sentiments, I don't atall hate all men. It's I think just tiring sifting through the bad ones. Also I get annoyed at good ones, not tackling the redpill groups. But this absolutely isn't a blame all guys post at all. It's more internalised disgusts at some of the bad narratives in men circles. It's not a logical conclusion to give up on men. It's just the effects of leaving actors to do as they please.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 11:45 PM
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Tbh woman are good at dating woman, it's very easy. Hard to explain
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 09:53 PM
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Honestly the main issue is eliminated. I'm still finding it very easy to meet people. (The benifit of womanhood men talk about) but I don't need to worry about the partner being really wierd about me actually dating, even themsleves (have to play hard to get to be rrspected). I won't be seen as a slag, it's highly unlikely anyone will try a lot of the things men are doing more commonly. Image based sexual abuse. Trying to ruin your reputation for having an equal or less than equal interest in se…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 09:51 PM
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I agree. It's just nice to not be in a mine field. You've no idea what it's like dating as a woman. I feel my perception is atleast an advert for redpill being ineffective in its goals.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 08:50 PM
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I've been effected by redpill like abuse (from men trying to date me or worse) I think most woman have who didn't settle down with a high school boyfriend. Any woman dating in their late teens and 20's has dome experience of the effect of redpill like behaviour (sad). I didn't understand the logic behind it. But tbh you don't sound like you value female opinion? How do you expect redpillers to calm down and realise the logic is off, without talking to woman? No offense but your logic is still of…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 08:35 PM
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When you use terms like "do not" instead of don't, it's a deception indicator. As you're over emphasising. We've had conversations here before. You seem to have a very poor grasp of science (was unable to respond to any I put forward) your life view seems in line with a view that would make a man feel better about struggling to date woman. Why should I bother? You won't learn.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 08:01 PM
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Well go Google some nice things. Conversions with you are very unpleasant for woman.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 07:38 PM
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Dude I just cba with you. Its so obvious why woman bar you from sex. Its the behaviour you're doing now. But you'll not learn. So enjoy, you live your life I'll live mine.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 07:35 PM
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The fact you had those links so readily available. Says a lot more than you think it does. I'm sure there's lots of negative info on men. I don't choose to focus on it and publicise it, though. I don't really understand why you do what you do tbh
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 07:26 PM
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Yeah yeah whatever. Go back to theorising on woman negatively. I'll be with the woman who are just being happy. P.s if you hate domestic, or general violence so much. . Stop negatively focusing on woman and be less bias.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/23 07:21 PM
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Who wants a tall curly haired teen? 😂 where are these stereotypes from 🤣 dude that's ideal. I think you need to realise what you have going for you. You're being too hard on yourself. With some of the odd balls in relationships out there someone would feel very lucky to have you. But you need to realise you're worthy of it to open up that world. Sending lots of love, because you deserve it xxx
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 01:22 PM
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Well guys lust after girls with ribs missing and huge plastic boobs, but it's not the reality of 98% of woman in happy sexual relationships. Yeah honestly my taste in men is chubby. I like thicc guys in general so I say keep building strength (it's good for health and ego in general tbf) but my ideal body type is strong with some cushion. To quote myself: "Why would I want to see the inner workings of your body through your skin?" Myself
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 01:05 PM
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Why? Woman like guys who look like they can survive a winter. (Woman here 👋) your issue is your victim mindset. Take responsibility, accountability for your life. It's yours, no one else's. We all have hidden problems, the sexiest girl in the world can be suicidal behind a laugh and joke (trust me I know 😆. . . Joke) I'm not minimising your experience. I'm being blunt. Short sharp shock. I've got issues. You've got issues. Everyone's got issues. It's how we get back up, not what put us down.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 11:13 AM
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Hey dude can we not pick on white woman please. I empathise with your experience and understand its easy to group people together but you can't judge people on their social class and skin colour. It's not nice for someone like me to read. You're height really isn't an issue. My (white rich) Mum was taller than my (kinda brown) Dad. Your issue is the personality type you were going for. Quite clearly (personality isn't race related)
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 11:07 AM
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I thought you were a guy in a redpill group tbh?
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 11:03 AM
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Think about why humans split with Chimps and bonobos. To put it into actual scientific terms, redpill is supposing humans are a tournament species. Males (and females) competing with their gendered peers to reach alpha status, alpha's then passing on more genes. The issue is in the scenario (chimps, chimps are a tournament species) females sleep with multiple males to ensure if the alpha is knocked of his top spot, she's got a chance of the new alpha thinking her baby is his also. So this is sci…
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 10:54 AM
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Ah OK what was it that made you turn it around? Any particular catalyst or did it just wear on you taking the stance all the time (sounds exhausting).
/r/ExRedPill04/02/23 05:35 AM
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We're you redpill BTW?
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 11:21 PM
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Maybe it's a personal thing, if you've seen my comments here before, you'll know I generally go hard to scientifically and logically embarrass redpillers. I shower in the tears they pretend not to shed. But I like him tbh. We've all probably had some offensive ideas at some point. Ideas change. He I class as a normal person who's literally been misguided. And tbf in the complex world today with a million nutty groups, it's easy to do. I could become bitter towards men reading redpill crap. It wo…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 11:03 PM
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I've not heard of that tbh? Omg please tell me where to find it. Haha yeah it's honestly disturbing. These are hopefully a loud minority. I'm genuinly excited to see the female version though 🤣🤣 lmao!! Goes to show there's equal nutters in each gender
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 10:53 PM
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He's young though. And has probably had bad experiences with girls. Which is how redpill gets you! We were all a bit emotionally weird as teenager (probably). I imagine redpill has given him a confidence boost, telling him he's worthy (which emotionally wierd teenage girls haven't) but he is worthy to girls really. He's just a normal guy who because of sexism in society (We're all misogynists, terms like objectification used with woman but not men) and that results in him having to make the firs…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 10:48 PM
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Yeah I agree, past a physical styling, I'm not sure the terms have much relevance mentally. But it makes people feel happy. I sortof hope there's a pink pill one day with misandrasts feeling super fem and confident but just mentally abusing and belttling men because they think it's feminine hot 😆 the world will have found equalibrium and redpill the perfect gfs 😂
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 02:19 PM
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Tbh the language of getting woman, learning how to escalate. Makes you sound unattractive. Guys need to stop fetishizing all woman and bigging eachother up for getting loads of random woman. We're people. Learn that and you'll never have an issue dating and finding the right person for you.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 12:59 PM
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The definition of masculinity here is a fair point tbf. I just imagine because he's too young to of consumed that much redpill stuff, he might not of seen the worst of it and probs thinks people here are demonising (making stuff up about) him/masculinity. It''s because he was treating woman differently to men. We want to be seen as equal humans, complimenting girls and being soo positive and helpful or w/e before the guy even knows us, shows us they're only interested in looks. And not us as hum…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 12:40 PM
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P.s I totally put so much effort into my reply cuz you asked for my help lmao 😆
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 12:00 PM
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Dude, I don't think he's seen the negative stuff about woman, or clearly isn't acting on it too much, He's replying to me (a girl) fine, seems well adjusted compared to any other redpiller I've spoken to. Maybe he's not been conditioned to the full extent of redpill woman stuff yet, that may happen going forward. But he's a decent guy atm, treat him that way. It's not helpful to neg him out as if he is already balls deep in the bad stuff. I've seen nothing toxic he's actually said. You're asumin…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 11:17 AM
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Talk to us like you would a man. If you're in the supermarket/ gym for e.g, strike up a situational convo. Anything that comes to mind. A pro tip though, generally asking for advice or help is a good opener. And just keep the convo going. Like you would anyone else. When the convos drying up is when I'd say the best time to make a move would be. "It's been really nice to meet you, kinda forward but would you like to (whatever) with me sometime?" It's when you're past that stage I'd say mention t…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 11:04 AM
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P.s teenagers are emotionally undeveloped. I get it. I really do. I'm 29 it takes us a few years of adulthood to not be a a dick tbh girls and boys. Your experience dating will be totally different in the adult world. And it sounds like you're in a epic position for a great future :)
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 10:01 AM
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It's interesting to hear your perspective, I've not read all the replies. I agree with your improvement points you've made, self love and the rest follows. Redpill content I've seen (statistics, scientific theories and psychology of men v woman) has honestly been incredibly disturbing. Particularly from my background of Biological evolution and anthropology. It appears to me the redpill version of this is a hateful male fantasy. Maybe there's lots of different sources and you're only getting the…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 09:55 AM
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There's nothing wrong with self improvement. Physical/ financial health etc are universally seen as a good thing. The problem is in the "masculinity" point, what does that mean? What are you saying is masculine and feminine? If you want to be a muscley confident guy. I'd agree with that being masculine improvement. But beyond that woman are scientists, logical thinkers, they want the same things out of a relationship as men do in essence, they're often stoic. Personalities vary from person to pe…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 07:45 AM
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Looks are one part of the equation. You sound humble and thoughtful. Look there's a lot of woman out there, some less attractive physically but also like you have many othe r wondrous traits. There's lots of options. I advise against swapping your good person triats for a bad person with good looks xx I'm a girl happy to give any perspective that could help I'm sure many other woman on this thread would love to help aswell
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 04:24 AM
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Yeah it's normal to approach, it's a compliment done right (I'm a girl) You have to bare in mind woman get approached a lot and some are rude about it. If you respect them as people and are just talking about something situational or sharing that you like them/ think they're pretty. What a lovely experience. Regardless if they reciprocate or not, they should feel flattered It's how all relationships started at one point in time. :) don't be deterred if one girl is rude. All girls are different a…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 02:05 AM
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P.s your points on offspring are wrong, particulary it goes against all research when taken incontext with your tournament species belief. But should I take the effort to explain the actual research that's been ongoing for over a century, Will you listen if It goes against what "benefits" you?
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 02:30 AM
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Dude. Homo sapian, sapians have been around for 300ky. Homo's roughly 3my (based on found evidence so far) your few decades of life which are bias completely (looks, personality, are you a good person?) These facts effect your experience in the world. Your personal experience has no scientific merit. Game theory is what redpillers are well, creating all this bizzare logic from. Humans (animals in general) don't like to be insulted, we don't like to be taken advantage of. We percieve this as some…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 02:11 AM
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Because they don't like or respect you. That's why.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 01:28 AM
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It's amazing you believe you know the average of female behaviour. Do you know what the term sexual dimorphism means? Do you understand tournament species vs pair bonding species. Are you aware where humans sit in those? Do you understand game theory. It doesn't apear like you do, do you read nbci or pud med papers? It comes across like you have little experience with woman and take non peer reviewed, random info on scientific topics from bro's online, who also struggle to connect to woman. This…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 01:25 AM
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This is why people fear AI. You're not better than me lol
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 01:07 AM
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We (girls) don't know who's actually into us, because the types who ask everyone out regardless to increase their numbers (mostly to brag to other men, which is psychological layer in itself) So it sucks but we can't let our guard down and trust someone actually likes us when they ask or flirt. Effects us all (men and woman) badly. Because our fear of men lieing to us, to sleep with us and then ruin our reputation to improve their own somehow. It makes it tough as hell and unfair for the normal …
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 01:05 AM
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From my experience in young "valuable (lol)" female circles, the rare ones who dated older either were putting in a couple of months, gaining financially and leaving them in a better financial situation for someone in their own age/attractiveness . . And new financial range . . Not really woman most would want mentality wise atleast imo. The others i saw weren't attractive, and I sortof thought those were fairly sweet relationships sometimes. But obv still power dynamic sus. But seems more even.…
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 12:51 AM
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I essentially agree with you mostly but this is Evolutionary biology and severe confusions and cherry picking facts. We're not a patriarchal tournament species, we're closer to a pair bonding species based on the lack of sexual dimorphism seen in gorrilas. Our two closest relative species are a matriarchal and patriarchal species. We sit between the two. Men unsuccessful in dating truly boggle me with the stuff they like to believe
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 12:43 AM
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This is the 4th time I've seen him call someone a woman an exception to the rule on this one post. . .
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 12:34 AM
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Even on reddit mentioning you're a woman tends to get messages. Really low quality spamming messages. Which is odd because they know your gender and that's it. Tbh the more attractive you present in real life the less come ons you get (ironically) I think men get nervous. But online they're brave. An average woman in everyday life has to learn gentle kind rejection though.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 11:58 PM
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I've just been reading through the comments after having this exact conversation from my late 20's female perspective. Reading through the comments he's called all of us woman the exception (Bassicaly) It's been nice to see a guy say it how it is for most, I'd of assumed he'd take it onboard from you more. But tbf it looks like some people will always prefer to stick to their world view, no matter how much oposing feedback they get. I think it's likely down to his personal situation of hoping to…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 11:03 PM
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They're generally gold digging to set themself up financially and then move on to an attractive age appropriate partner from what I've noticed.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 10:42 PM
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😆😆 he said I was the exception too!!!!!! 🤣
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 10:40 PM
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😂😂 losers this epic will never be able to admit it to themselves. You sound hot though, if you're a guy I'd use you up. 🤣
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 10:39 PM
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Evolutionary biology is the topic that redpill is basically making up science on. There's an entire module of lectures on it from Proff sapolsky at stanford uni on YouTube. Anyone who thinks there's some science in redpill, if your confident in it. Watch this actual peer reviewed academic material and see if you still feel the same. Sending love though guys it does sound horrible to believe any of the redpill reality.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 10:37 PM
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In the chimp world, humans are more advanced I'm afraid to tell you
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 10:32 PM
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Guy, Kim K, queen Elizabeth ll, millions of old rich woman, i don't see how you've missed sexy young, poor men gold digging? I've just had a little look at the other conversations here after you seemed to refuse to take anything I said (saying i would be an exception to the rule). And you're doing the same thing to this unanimous response from woman? Lmao wtf 😆
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 10:13 PM
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Lmao I've been having a similar chat with this guy on another thread and just decided to read the rest of what turned out to be a pretty unanimous response from woman 🤣
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 10:10 PM
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That's your only reply to what I've said? Honestly dude sounds like you just want to believe this over actually taking onboard info on it. In my experience people want someone on a similar level to themself, your world view is based on remnants of the old world when woman weren't aloud to earn themselves. If you want a gold digger, they are out there. I personally avoid them though, I want someone to love me, personally. Edit: ignoring what I'm saying and presuming your stereotype instead also i…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 09:11 PM
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I agree with you, which is why I also say the same thing about men. You don't want one who's bitter and divorced. You want one who's exitment and positivety for life isn't destroyed. . By life's toughness and frankly these sorts of thoughts. From the Internet nowadays. You realise we're all people with fairly similar wants? I'd not date too young and imature. Because it is wrong. It's predatory. Apart from for a few not the usual situations. But yeah I attract younger men tbh, I think it's my ca…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 04:07 PM
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? It's 2023. I'm in my late 20's I own my own house and car etc (cash no mortgage) You think I'd find a man attractive because of money? No more so than men seem to find it attractive in me. It's a different era. Not the 50's where woman's source of income was men. Because they weren't aloud jobs or equal pay to men. Kim kardashian is over 40 and seen as one of the most attractive woman in the world. Age of physical attractiveness is extending for woman although I'm sure her billions or w/e help…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 03:58 PM
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There aren't really redpill woman. (Maybe super rare ones) There's woman who have very low self esteem and feel they deserve maltreatment. There's those who think they're adding sexual value to themselves having male bias views. And frankly enjoy attacking "other" woman (they themselves are unique and not like others) There's loads of reasons, but the majority are underpinned by poor mental health. There's a small fraction of woman who knowingly date redpillers though, Most dating them, it's not…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 09:31 AM
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As a woman who's been quite horrified and not gonna lie, creeped out af learning about redpill stuff from this sub. This is such a relaxing post to read. Thanks for this. You guys are what I see as real men (respectable and admirable people) fyi.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 06:10 AM
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It's meeting a girl who's into your interests, she'll find you incredibly interesting. If your interests arn't common, woman intetested in them won't be common. But you've got plenty of good match partners out their :) Your confidence in your knowledge of the shared interest. Will be all you need
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 01:45 AM
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Oo sorry to answer your question! More people want to sleep with you when your younger. And generally when your a more grown up person, more people want you long term, So technically more options when younger bit much lower quality options. I'm 50/50 on saying you have more opportunity for long term partners past your 20's but it's hard to quantify. Certainly better quality options are the same at minimum.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 08:11 PM
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I've been loving aging tbh (female) it stops the creepy guys coming onto you (so much) I'm looking forward to not being seen as "sexually valuable" look at redpill ffs. How weird are men towards poor sweet young girls 😆 I'm sexually attracted to those who are strong enough mentally. If I dated 19yo guys honestly I'd feel really guilty I had so much of an advantage over him. Life experience, more time to of built finances, mentality etc. The men who seem to specifically like having those advantag…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 07:37 PM
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facts over feelings 🤣
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:57 PM
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I see your point but unfortunately the majority of men ignore this issue. They find it embarrassing I think (being associated) and try to ignore. I appreciate you're truly being good here. It's nice. Frankly it takes a lot of digging deep to be kind to people who say these things about you. And because redpill attracts some with personality disorders (low empathy, emotional issues) a lot of the time the mental energy a woman can spend empathising and being kind. Falls on ears so bias to their vi…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:51 PM
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Ah thanks for your nice words :) Needed to hear something nice!! Totally, utterly agreed. The revenge of the man who's socially and sexually off putting. (Excluding those guys who've been mislead or are confused on redpill info) ah thanks again :) xxx
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:43 PM
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Naysayers? Are you a redpiller or effected personally? Dude/Girl you want to stop them.It's pretty easy. You stop feeding them. All press is good press to them. You are sopurting them. You are helping. I will have a think about spreading my own message with my fairly decent following. But I'm done no more talking to the little hitlers
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 09:29 AM
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Nah they're obsessed with us in a horrifically negative way. It's getting pretty creepy now. You're feeding it with attention. The stuff they say leaves a bad taste in your mouth for a reason. It's your instincts telling you to avoid them. If they play like that, they can play with the woman who play like that. It's what they deserve. Not genuine conversation. They can't even percieve it from us. You're worth more. Stop letting them chip away at your confidence even reading this crap. They thems…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 09:18 AM
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You're worth a lot more than entertaining this crap. I think I'm done. Let's all us decent woman just ignore them till they go away. They can have maybe the 3% or less of woman their disgusting ideas actually describe.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 06:12 AM
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Too many questions: what country? County? Demographic? It's certainly not world wide. It's certainly not my country (UK) I don't even think 80% of woman could possibly have degrees, let alone all useless. Did it mean 80% of woman with degrees. It wasn't written that way and going off modern professional demographics, would also be untrue. Does 80% of the world wide population even have a degree of any sort? No As a woman. It makes me too scared to date or even talk to men, because this is horrib…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 05:38 AM
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Hey just sent you a dm if you fancy a little chat. Pay no attention BTW. The sad truth is most followers of redpill are just looking to "de-value" woman so they become so insecure they actually settle for one of those dumbasses. I'd rather fuck woman. Literally I'm contemplating if I'm gay I find these men so off putting they may well put me off all men by simple association I'm here for a chat anyways. You're barely an adult. Give yourself a break. Stop reading nasty people's comments online. T…
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 10:47 PM
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Ah from a girl it's so heart warming to see your post. You've done so well turning around and just based on your personality I've seen. The girl you end up with will be very lucky. Give things time. You've had a drastic and awful influence on your dating life/ female relationships. Sending love and thanks for such a sweet post.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 07:41 PM
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I dunno how tall that is but I'm a 5'9 ish female. My rough height and above is my taste. I think that's the same for the majority of women (and yhe inverse for men) the average hieght of a woman in the UK is 5'6. Some people don't care about height either way. But looking at this roughly from a statistical stand point. Assuming you're over 5'6 (in the UK) the majority of woman will see you as in their height range. Just make sure to be a good human and drop these self centred victimhood ideas a…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 06:16 PM
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Just chat to some woman and have a laugh. Realise the guys I'm these groups must be so incredibly unattractive, personality at least to never attract even a female friend (which had they ever had one, the redpill theories wouldn't get traction with them).
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 02:48 PM
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There's never been an ideal social network. If their had been, we wouldn't be here!
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 05:46 PM
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Who's discounting masculine self improvement? You've deffo been to a gym and seen the demographic, do you think everyone there with a nice car is redpill influenced?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 10:36 AM
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Why do you have to be inspired to self improve by men hateful towards woman? Arn't there a million and 1 content creators, and isn't near enough everyone this generations gyming it, going keto and getting a side hustle? Hitler was a vegetarian, do you really need Hitler to inspire vegetarianism to avoid cruelty to animals?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 10:35 AM
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Do you think maybe she's nervous this is redpill influence? Going off the sub you posted in. Probably best to make a point of showing her how you don't believe redpill woman views etc
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 04:43 AM
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https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLqeYp3nxIYpF7dW7qK8OvLsVomHrnYNjD Here you go it's honestly mad fascinating. The redpillers "science" is them outing themselves as people who have never looked through medical journals or read actual academic papers. There's papers that contradict eachother all the time (people are bias) you can usually de bunk a bad paper by looking at the controls and method etc. And then defer to an oposing conclusion from a paper of higher quality. But unfortunately I as a …
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 07:40 PM
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Blue pilled cuck 😆 I feel bad for but also find it really funny, they go through life thinking in normal everyday couples, the blokes having to allow his gf to cheat 😆 I mean what?! It's meanly funny for us, but also it is really sad because it just shows you they can only be indoctrinated into redpill by never of having had an average relationship/mutual crush w/e
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 07:09 PM
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It's an interpretation of the social structures of life. That's completely perverted. As with any cult or religion type thing it takes a situation that might happen or be rare and puts "science" behind it thats incredibly illogical but it serves a purpose to get followers who want your advice, kindof thing. Biological evolution is the academic topic it's grossly misunderstanding. I can send you a like to a great lecture series from stanford uni if you like? Learning the actual science here will …
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 06:32 PM
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You sound quite young, if I was 19 or so I'd of got sucked in for a few months because of a destroyed sense of self worth. But the second I discovered what a normal man was like its game over. Normal man are perfect in everyway. Loving, sopurtive, masculine and mutually grateful for shared life. Ah. Glad you've got through this stage I can't wait for you to experience the pure love of a real bloke. Honestly you'll never look back to this experience, except to educate people on dumbasses
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 03:59 AM
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Too be cruel to them to assert dominance and keep her behaving. Literally a sure fire way to make sure a woman who could have been loyal forever, leaves you the second a man comes along who is real with her.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 03:41 AM
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Chat with woman commenters on here is a good start. We're just people, plenty of fat female gamers who are negative about men. Noticing the different female personalities on reddit I hope helps get you off the ground
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 10:33 PM
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Attractiveness is a perception. Do you ever get that out of body thought of realising how odd it is what we deem is sexually attractive and what isn't as a species. But confidence and just general good measures of a human are always attractive. In both genders. What's in fashion today looks wise will likely change as it has already, lots of times. And if you're unlucky in your era hell yeah do what ever you want with your life. But it's a quick fix . Even gyming and all that doesn't require a re…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 07:29 PM
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We fundimentally agree on outcome. Though the condom argument is used against woman getting abortions and so is the "it's only a small amount. . Sucks" Also the small portion of feminists saying x is also the same in wider men's rights groups. You are right though in the actual abuse and issues woman are suffering are far more pressing. They're stomach churning and an embarrassment to the species, being Frank. My brians sending signals for my eyes to tear rn. In a fair world we'd sort that stuff…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 06:11 PM
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Perhaps looking for common ground? If he doesn't believe woman are bad (redpills biggest thing) he's already compromised the actual bad part. What's your problem? He's biologically overall correct. He could possibly be bias to a wrong ratio or whatever (we dont know) but no harm no problem. Does being a dick to people help you help people much? (Very repill of you) Edit: If any blokes cool with me swinging my female voice and intelect around. I'm cool with them.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 05:20 PM
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You've not fully taken in my comment. My issue isn't with what ground Feminism wants to take (in general, id like it to take it in different areas too) it's with the ground it either ignores or wont give. That is fuelling redpill type behaviour. It may not be as clearly and agressively wrong, but its the fuel for that problem. If I get pregnant (within my control) it's my right to end that pregnancy. I agree. A man can't have any say in that. It's biologically pre determined, anything else is ab…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 04:49 PM
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Ah yes, somone being condescending on reddit, because they have a different opinion. Far more reasonable
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 04:16 PM
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Ofcoarse I am. I'm not a huge fan of any gendered group. It lacks input from the other side in general. I'm grateful for what Feminism achieved but I do think there's an issue with giving ground. I'm all for taking ground where we've been restricted. But divorce laws. Child responsibility, both very complex and theres room to make it better for both sexes. But some feminists comments I've seen don't seem to want to admit any areas that can be worked on for men. (Also don't go hard enough in the …
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 04:07 PM
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In essence you're right. Sexual dimorphism is quite minimal in us though. Gorilla's high, marmoset monkey's have very little gender difference. Humans sit between the two. (Tournament and pair bonding species) I believe we're closer to a pair bonding than Tournament species. According to the usual behaviour correlations to sexual dimorphism. Our genders average pretty similar on life skills in reality, lots of crossover between the average range in a trait for a woman and man. If you feel on a w…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 01:55 PM
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Ah OK glad you see it! Yeah that all seems fair. I don't like Feminism particularly for similar reasons to redpill FYI. I feel the two feed eachother. I'm very hurt by the gendered issues in society. But Feminism doesn't seem to focus on the true issues of today. Deep fake tech being used 99% of the time to create fake porn of woman, which ruins their reputation etc. But no one speaks out about these issues. Which stem from some men finding new ways to hurt woman that arnt yet very illegal, in a…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 01:37 PM
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In fairness there are some 6ft 4 men and some 4'11 woman. On a whole men and woman are so comparable it's silly to assert one's better. But there are two sides of extremes. Look if this dude feels like his happiest life is breadwinning, being in control all the time and doing all the heavy lifting. And he meets a woman who's happiest being sopurtive and cooking for people. Who are you to tell them their lifestyles bad? Their are woman who would want this. I'm not one of them, but I've got no iss…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 12:04 PM
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If that's how you feel, it's possible you're naturally/genetically more traditional and you'll meet a naturally more traditional woman one day and both be very happy. I'm female and I think if you can take something good from those spaces, while knowing the bad is bad. That's a good thing, you can be a good influence in those spaces long term. I feel obliged to point out how damaging the negativity and misogyny is, to men and woman but you seem like a reasonable guy already tbf. Nice to hear, go…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 11:55 AM
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This is like how chimps split off from humans. (Repillers are humans like us, I'm just thinking in a few thousand generations)
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 08:00 PM
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One ideology for one group/situation. "Kids are cruel" but also there are a portion of people who don't change much from school. And those people are who redpill dating advice works on. If you imagine redpilling in the adult working world. More people than not, change dramatically. Our brains aren't mature until we're 25. Can you say you've gone for girls who were in your position before lockdown? How would you view a girl who was being used by guys for whatever and made fun of? I don't know the…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 03:12 PM
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Dude, stop being a pronge. We love you, you're working yourself into a mess. Less thinking, more living. Advice I sorely need to take myself. We'll do a deal, less negative thoughts and more enjoyable things to do or learn from now on. I'm a girl btw, I'm not sub human, honest. Redpill confuses societies gender equality issues (on one side) with absolute hate. You're worth more than spending your time on that. I have love for you and I hope you enjoy one of those epic hobbies you've not done yet…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 03:00 AM
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It's nice you feel apart of a group, you can accomplish all you mentioned without redpill. The issue is the toxic views of men and woman. It may seem a good explaination for the complex world rn. I get it with insta, but the real world isn't that. And the negative bias from redpill will harm your relationships. Men and woman love eachother, it's not a game of hurting eachother, all shady. How would that even make Evolutionary sense? Glad you're happy though! Hope the leveling up keeps coming - I…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 01:55 AM
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Woman pick men purely for looks for one night stands and good quality men (in their opinion) for relationships. The only ideology you need is people are people. I wish you well meeting as many new people as you get chance to :) P.s Some people are shallower than others
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 12:38 AM
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Total cod respect. Thanks, awesome quote
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 04:56 PM
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If it's naturally how you are, it's more attractive than someone acting that way to somehow please. But not to my taste. I'd imagine woman in that personality spere would like that man though
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 12:30 PM
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Be themselves and live the life they naturally enjoy? This is what I mean, how did you get there?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 12:25 PM
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Good chat BTW, I feel like contrasting ideas make for a useful convo!
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 10:47 AM
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I'm always going to be straight here, do you think red pill ideas help make girl friends? If I was a radical feminists who believed men are evil, would you want to be my friend?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 10:26 AM
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I'm not talking about insults. It's the societal experience. The people I've mentioned aren't insulting me, they're just behaving like, well what they think normal is. Some people suck, whoever says those things probably are unhappy themselves, although I am interested in the abstract of your thesis. To what lead there. You see even saying "I'd love to have intelectual conversations with a girl" it insinuates you don't think that's common. And is exactly what I'm talking about. I appreciate the …
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 10:24 AM
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You've got to be a realist in life. Crack a laugh at yourself or w/e the worlds full of triggers. How you see them is the important thing
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 10:08 AM
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Ah I'd didn't mean any of that dark stuff tbh, You can say the same about men being scared of bad mothers etc gf's can be aggressive too. I more ment that men don't respect me, intellectually. I make videos on scientific topics and I get too mamy comments from men on the "voice over girl" the idea I've composed the whole thing is ridiculous to some. I get men aggressively trying to prove they're smarter etc and if they feel I've belittled them for some reason, out performing them in work, or eve…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 10:03 AM
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I'm happy to listen for abit if you want to vent something. We all have struggles and it's good. If you struggle you're living and growing. You should be proud whatever you're still standing from. But I'm gonna be straight with you and say you haven't empathised or put one thing forward you see is unfair for woman. I'm truly sorry for your issues and I wish we could all get together and sort it all out. It needs mutual empathy though (which the woman you mentioned didnt show, but you could be be…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 09:34 AM
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Wholeheartedly agree, what even is an alpha I'm human terms? It obv isn't being a mucley, aggressive dick because if it were, we'd all still be chimps. There can be alpha computer needs, alpha gardeners, alpha climbers. The alpha climber is suposed to listen to the alpha nerd when his computer brakes. This is literally how human society works. Ignoring the fact that becoming the type of person someone tells you to, immediately makes you a beta to them. What circle's is that guy even an alpha in?…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 09:27 AM
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Thanks for the explaination. I'm a full fledged adult female, 29. At this point I feel like I bare allot of scars from society's unfairnesses to me. But saying that I see your point. I think the issue here is that genders have different issues and benefits and atm there's groups on each side pushing for the benefits with no issues. When you take a step back from your own situation can you see what you wouldn't like about being a girl in today's world? If you'll play this game with me. I understa…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 09:19 AM
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Edit: feminine and masculine is mostly a figment of our own creation. There's very little sexual dimorphism between human sexes. We've created arbitrary divides to keep society ticking over smooth. There is some difference on Ave. But people really need to smell the roses who worry they're too butch or feminine for they're gender (according to the divisions we ourselves devised). Pretty sure this is what non-binary people have noticed in themselves. They're an individual human lols On the virgin…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 05:17 AM
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You're aware what feminine and masculine mean in society? I've not assumed negative and positive meaning to the words. That is how they're viewed by men, in context to themselves. (Societies fault on a whole) I'm glad you point it out but I'm purely someone who recognises the issue. Not the issue
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 05:05 AM
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You're saying woman's only sexual desire is to please men. We're not really a patriarchal society though. We have been in recent history but looking at us compared to other similar species, we're somewhere between a tournament species (patriarch) and a pair bonding species (1 male, 1 female family units) Human sexual behaviour is complex. Little known fact for you, other primates don't really rape eachother. That's mostly a modern human thing. As bizzare as that sounds. The old cave man days jok…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 05:00 AM
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Imo they're entering a matrix though and I spose that's the issue. Perception is king (Queen) is a matrix even a matrix if you accept it as reality? Is reality infact a matrix where the playing fields weighted in woman's favour, as some sort of grand conspiracy 100 years ago pr so, because I dunno, soulless people like to cheat. In this epic battle to the death of the sexes.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 04:52 AM
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Don't triffle with me good fellow
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 04:48 AM
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It's a joke about redpillers. But if you look at societies norms you'll see this is fairly normal. Meak, weak, shy, bimbo what sex are these traditionally good traits or not? This isn't fair for men also BTW. They have the right to be shy as much as a woman does to be self assured
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 04:47 AM
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Disagree. Everyone's personal health is there own business. But I find obsessing over ones own looks. Incredibly unattractive and traditionaly a female preoccupation (granted due to worth being granted because of looks). Woman are like men in that we like pretty people, who don't put the effort in, and don't know they're pretty. The fantasy of both genders I'm afraid
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 04:41 AM
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I read in this group that men leave woman who are terminally ill, allot more often than woman do men. It was a pubmd study. Upsetting. But i appreciate your transcendental comment allot now! + I'm sure your gf would still have a banging pair of tits, goul or not. I agree with your point overall
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 10:18 PM
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Incredibly usefull insight. Thanks
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 10:08 PM
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These people are why poison is a more common murder method among woman
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 09:07 PM
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The logical answer to the problems they talk about would be going gay. There's no denying that. I wouldn't look for logic. This is more of a "driven by emotions"/ I'll believe what makes me feel better, kindof zone. Personally I find it so cringe, the theories on woman these guys make up. I assume based on their own experience? Woman aren't sexually attracted to anyone, they can't love anyone etc etc. It's like dude, you realise you're just telling everyone, non of the opposite sex have ever bee…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 08:58 PM
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I think the "lead a woman" terminology has confused your nice message! Yeah I assume people who write this stuff are incredibly unattractive in general. But Tbh, the redpill type male is my worst nightmare. I like equal or equivalent relationships. No 2 people are equally good at the same thing, so in a good team people take on roles that play to their strengths. I happen to have strengths in that some people think im pretty, I'm a know it all when it comes to engineering or allor of scientific …
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 08:07 PM
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I agree the more redpill content I see the more feminine feel I get from the whole thing
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 07:49 PM
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Horrifying statistic to know, but thank you lol can I ask where that stats from?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 07:41 PM
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Sadly, those posts are from men who are already involved in the self perpetuating cycle that is red pill. Do you think I could love someone who believes I'm a horrible person because of my gender? Do you think any redpill ideology actually makes man more attractive to woman ? It actually does the opposite, unless the aim is to put off average woman and attract shallow woman with selfish agendas (you attract how you act) exclusively
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 07:35 PM
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In fairness, I feel as though you (putswomanonaped) and I never resolved a debate over whether woman are physically attracted to men, you wouldn't have it! If I remember rightly. To me that falls under this category of bizarre self harming, misogynistic nonsense. But it just goes to show, how something so obviously BS to some can slip through the net for others.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 07:30 PM
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Hey dude, don't entertain redpill content, from a woman. I believe woman don't like many redpillers. Even just their hurtful opinions of woman is enough to make most woman not even like them. The only way a man can believe all woman can't love, is if he himself is acting unlovable. Go enjoy some fun hobby don't let this trash poison you. Think of your mum or someone elses mum or whatever and go live a happy life. Be a lovable person. Be nice and you'll atttact nice people and Ultimately see repi…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 07:22 PM
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Very well summed up. Being female I hear these things and I can't understand why anyone would want to believe them. Anyone with even a sub par mum knows this is clearly bizzare, deep down atleast. People are choosing to believe this vs facts aligning imo. And i dont get it. They're just creating a horrible "reality" for themselve, let alone demeaning woman to inhuman levels.Who wants the only relationship option to be bad? Who wants to be so much better than their only relationship options? You'…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 06:58 PM
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This isn't really worth my time, it's that ridiculous. Can I ask though, Why do some men want to believe these things? can anyone answer why a man would even want this to be true? People most often believe what suits them. I imagine a woman herself or man in a healthy relationship with a woman (girlfriend/mum/sister/friend) wouldn't waste there time even entertaining this. Why would someone with unhealthy relationships want it to be true theres no no chance of a healthy relationship with any wom…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 06:41 PM
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It is unfortunate, but many people are struggling to grasp this completely true concept atm. Whether it's race, religion, political stance or gender. I think it's a mix of pre existing bias to see a certian trait in a group of people, and then the echo chambers that are algorithms on the Internet. Forever suggesting more of the same sort of content you've watched or read. Makes it seem like this trait you're bias to see. Is rampant. When really most people get completely different content in the…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 04:53 PM
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I'm female. I still have love for my ex partner even though he hates me after I dumped him (had to be done, toxic for eachother) I unconditionally love my brother, I know that can be put down to genetic reasons. But I've continually put him above myself my entire life while telling people I'll not do it again. Trust me I've been friends with the type of people redpill talk about. But they're a tiny minority of woman, highly unusual with their psychopath-esque behaviour. Most woman I've known are…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 11:58 AM
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I'd say they're religious types or ironically woman that would be drawn to extreme Feminism in another life. Also I feel like there are some woman who would happily live underneath a man and avoid the stress of independent life. I know the last piont isn't usual to admit. But it's a mindset that you see in men aswell. The hopeless lay about type man who's happy to live of his gf. That's who I'd equate to redpill type woman.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 02:37 PM
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Dark attitude. Is there anything you don't have to choose from what's available? People aren't things though, you may not find a perfect one, but after time and beginning to love them. They become perfect to you. Literally you love their faults. I hope you cheer up dude. People who look like they have perfect scenarios, tend to be the unhappiest, because it's for show. They've gone for how their partner looks to world vs someone they could love.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 10:00 AM
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I'm amazed at your self reflection and mental flexibility.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 06:02 PM
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"Taking out your logic on a misogynistic maggot" It was allot to get through so I worked backwards in the hopes of a summery. And got a littla past you congratulated your self on your how you felt an ego tickle over your own reddit essay to me . You're proving my point, you act allot like someone in redpill, narcasistic, belittling, emotionally unhealthy, agressive. But you're a female version of it,. I've not even found the motivation to read your overly enpassioned, work of self image in the w…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 04:42 PM
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Female culture: do men get whistled at, do woman have an expectation to pay on the first date, do we have mixed gender sleep overs growing up? If you think men and woman don't have different social experiences in most regains of the world, I'm not sure where you live. The redpill community Is exactly negatively obsessed with woman and thier differant position in the world to them. You seem rattled, I'm happy to debate your ideas, but maybe when you're in a better mood? Some "Feminism" can be as …
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 06:10 AM
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I'd love to know what's alien?
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 10:41 PM
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Yeah you're right. But I think we understand female culture allot better, plus when you think about it redpill is basically all about woman, but in a sort of object-y way. It sounds creepy untill you remember some woman act excactly the same way about men. (Talk about them not to them) May be poor idea but I find it crazy how similar each is, looking across the broad spectrum of behaviour in each sex. We seem to communicate poorly though
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 04:16 PM
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P.s being honest and upfront about uncomfortable things or admitting fault, is the strongest way of being. Ironically to what the "alpha's" say, true strength is just living authentically as yourself, emotions and faults. Theres nothing more attractive than that in the long term
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 02:31 AM
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You sound like you're in a great place, I'm impressed you've managed to take positives out of something bad and exited for a new bright future for you! Love the authenticity BTW, suits you
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 02:08 AM
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Omg I figured it out. Female version of redpilling someone.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 09:59 PM
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That's weird. I'm a girl I don't really understand why anyone would do that bar thinking your sperm is too high value to waste . . Lmao
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 09:58 PM
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Tbh. It sounds like she's a toxic mf. But she sounds like she fancies you. She could think it's playful "banter" and obv she's in essence pushing you to sleep with woman. Why would she care? She clearly thinks you're attractive enough to sleep with lots of girls it's she finds it amusing you aren't. I say rip her for not sleeping around (if applicable) or fir fancying you/ encouraging you to sleep with woman. Does she think you being single is a loss to the straight female community?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 09:57 PM
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Thanks for this. We need to indetifiy as people. I think this is the cure. Sending love!
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 09:52 PM
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Yeah I agree with all the ask her out advice. You'll just build up an image in your mind of how great she is while you're not dating yet. I've had some friends do this over the years. I may or may not of dated them if they asked me out. But I was always shocked at how much of a pedestal they put me on while pretending to be my friend. When they pretend to be your friend. You value the friendship after a while and don't want to risk ruining it by dating them and the dating going wrong. So from a …
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 02:27 PM
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We tend to be more willing to date someone with less physically attractive traits than men. I think down to extra empathy over all or being realists. But we have to have some traits in a partner that turn us one. Nice face, good body, tall w/e I really like a nice jaw shape, neck combo
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 12:55 PM
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Yes I'm quite adamantly disagreeing. It's not true. Mental stimulations turns men and woman on. But physical traits turn us on initially. If you would like anecdotal evidence from my friends I'll keep anonymous, let me know. Tell we what physical traits turn you on from a girls and ill tell you how to me men are the sexual objects and woman are gross
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 12:53 PM
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I don't really know, it could be positive (your socially inept and haven't picked up on signals from girls or have high standards in a partner etc) On the possible negative, I'd be a little wary of how you felt about it, were you talking about being a victim etc. Also do you have something incompatible with most people (unlikely) is what I'd want to rule out. It's all very dependant on the person's traits tbh. Asuming the socially struggling to get on in the dating world. I find it hot. It's suc…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 12:23 PM
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"Woman don't feel desire" you think men don't feel desire? Similar mean of desires from each sexes is essentially the point I've been arguing.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 12:13 PM
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I think I agree in general. Both sides have legitimate grievance. Those on each side seem to not want to give any ground on there "benefits" but are crying about their negatives in my opinion. Things are sad overall. I don't see the war thing though because most people arnt so extreme and unwilling to see the other side. It's a loud minority. It's no ones personal fault how society is. We just need to be fair to eachother now. We all have unfairness. Some are worse that others. Some are more rec…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 01:00 AM
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It's a paper on female sexual dysfunction you've post as backing up your suspicion of woman?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 12:55 AM
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I don't mean to be rude I'm sorry. But you must understand insisting to a woman she or her peers don't like sex with men they find attractive and purely swaps sex like an unhappy hooker. Is offensive. It comes off as well, not at all respectful. Also I could go blue I'm the face explaining this isn't true bare minimum for the majority
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 10:11 PM
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Asexuals are people too? Leave your strawman arguments out and please understand you're debating someine on what their own sexuality and life long peers sexuality is. It doesn't feel like the most respectful thing does it.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 10:07 PM
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Look dude. I'm not comparing woman to gay men on social stigma of sex. The majority of people instantly know the bias and flaws in your argument. I've told you my thoughts. As an actual female. In the nicest way possible I lack intelectual respect for you based on your previous comments and haven't read your reply overall. You'll gain nothing from me and I you. I trully wish you the best. And hope you meet someone special you see as an equal soon x
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 09:43 PM
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This is a bizzare convo. Woman and men and all human beings are all people. . People like sex overall (excluding anomalies in each sex) .. . Woman would get called slags? While men get cred for that stuff? Your point is Woman can sleep with strangers but don't ( you and everyone reading this are well aware Woman would be looked down on for that. Called slurs) So a pointless thing to say. I think you're aware of the fatal issues with your logic tbh. Because Woman resultingly only have sex with me…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 09:25 PM
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Fair. Yeah this sort of stuff makes you wonder what you're own blind spots may be tbf. I don't fully understand the unconscious goal here tbh. But I'm almost happy for op he's got so much stuff there to explore Do you see sleeping with aquantance men as not an option because these sort of ideas aswell BTW? You have to make sure a guy doesn't think you're biologically determined to be an unhappy sex worker 😆
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 07:42 PM
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Omg thank you, I didn't bother reading the actual paper ( as a fully fledged female) Look woman are on a spectrum, the same as men, both sexes overall, like reproducing, or practising reproducing, a similar amount. On these redpill type ideas. Is the idea that woman have birthed every generation to keep men happy? Is this the whole point? Because it isn't helping anyone bar, men feel like the driving force of human reproduction. But also surely theyd feel like woman don't want them or fancy them…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 07:28 PM
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This tread is so bizzare, shall we just accept all we both want in a relationship is a friendly cuddle but we'll fuck for thier approval 😆😆 I don't understand why straight men would even want this to be true?
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 07:17 PM
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How are so many people telling me, a woman who's been in female friend groups my whole life, which mostly discuss men like men do us FYI. What female sexuality is? Woman wanting reproductive activities with a male we find physically attractive, isnt atall a minority. Being Frank this opinion sounds like it's based on the opinion holders experience. Vs the entire history of female sexual freedom being fought for. We're still fighting for it. I find this convo so confusing. I'm a person, like you.…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 07:11 PM
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1 Lesbians. For one, is clear answer to this opinion. 2. You think if only passive men and woman survived a disaster, the entire human race would die out? I'm not going to list what I find physically attractive for Internet strangers, it feels, not a good plan. I don't understand the redpill perspective here. Woman go for Chad's, and mucley alpha w/e redpill thing, but we don't find physical traits attractive? "Laughing at eachothers bad ideas" isn't ridiculing anyone? It's 2 ways. That's a beni…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 07:04 PM
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I'd imagine she may be asexual, is judging others by her own experience? I find the idea getting traction fairly mad tbh. I can confirm I've never had a female friend with no sexual desire. I wouldn't initiate sex with someone I've not already got a sexual relationship with. But that's nearly entirely because it's not the role I've been taught to take in life. In a monogamous relationship with someone who loves me, I feel safe to brake taboos.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:18 AM
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Can you explain why a bloke would think this? I'm a woman and I honestly find this opinion quite cringe. The only way I can imagine someone would think this is by not of having had a relationship with a woman who liked them, that way?
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:07 AM
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I'm a woman. I understand after spending time talking about woman with people of a certian bias could lead to this idea. Also some woman perpetuate this misunderstanding to try to conform to what they think society wants them to be etc. But it's not in the slightest true. I even feel nervous writing this anonymously online because it feels like admitting it will cause people to judge me and think of me as low value. Of course I feel sexual desire. Likely inline with the medium men feel. If you t…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 05:03 AM
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Depends if the woman's the same as them. Obv I judge it the same as I would a man doing that to a woman. Its much worse or better dependant on the offending person's personality and reasoning.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 10:53 PM
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You've not understood what I've said. "Saying yes to less that 1%. . " again you've really not taken the time to empathise with what I'm saying. I'm not going to argue with it. social norms dictate men's behaviour and woman's. You're blaming me
/r/ExRedPill26/12/22 10:49 PM
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I would say you have a good point but the way you've made it, calling it an excuse, makes me a bit iffy tbh. I've never come on to anyone in my life, I've rejected 99% or whatever. I guess some guys think this is a brag but it's horrible. Saying yes to less then 1% could also ruin my reputation. Etc etc on the negatives from that I won't bore you with This isn't to negate your point, both are valid. What do you think the cause of both is?
/r/ExRedPill26/12/22 03:40 PM
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Not true, I grew up pretty fat. I sortof accidentally lost allot of woeght when I got to 18. And people treated me like a hotly. I probably missed allot of cues from nice men, not realising they were asking me out. But overall good looks as a woman atleast. Leads to horrific objectification, scary situations and men never actually being your friend, while pretending to be your friend. I think being aware you're good looking might make it allot easier. But not knowing you're good looking (what me…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 10:08 AM
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Woman can't come on to men, because we fear being labeled a slag. If there wasn't punishment in society for woman showing interest in men and rewards for men being a "player" things would be allot more even. I'd love to feel free to ask a guy I find attractive on a date. But the risk is too much for me I feel as a woman. Rejection isn't what we fear. It's having our reputation and value ruined. We're all forced into the roles you see today
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 09:47 AM
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I've found this group helpful because I struggle being happy in society. (I'm female) and seeing people finding happier lives after being, well tbh, people who would hurt me based on my gender. (In my mind) Incredibly nourishing for me. I see the parts of society redpill focuses on. It's there, but its a very small amount of people. The majority of society is just people, were all different. I hope you interact more with woman just in general, about shared interest or w/e and I hope you feel the…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 09:36 AM
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I've never been able to reject people, efficiently. It's more of a horrible feeling, you have to hurt somone you love/like because you're not compatible. I have to say it's alot easier to reject anyone if they act the way described. It's a guilt free rejection vs someone you know cares about you etc. I'm not saying to go down that manipulative route! But I'm just saying this redpill type behaviour is based on a fundimental misunderstanding of people. The above tactics work for a short period for…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 09:25 AM
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I'm glad you're out of red pull now, after a little while of forgetting those sorts of ways of thinking will help no end. Keep being you :) enjoy getting to know people and of course the more social you are, the quicker you'll meet a woman with a mutual interest in you. I'm female BTW and I do see the expectation of men making the move must be pretty unhelpful here. My advice is to talk to girls you like, like you would any other man. But talk to lots of girls. We love to be seen as a normal per…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/22 08:57 AM
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I can understand why red pill is becoming a thing. Society has some strange quirks and the echo Chambers we live in on the internet, only show us similar things to what we've been searching. "The world is what you make is" has never been so true as in this internet era. If you look for people who act a certain way, that's what you'll see. Whether that's woman being gross, men, a species or cute cats and people being kind. I'm a female. And my perception is that men and woman often want much more…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 01:37 PM
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Life's what you make it sometimes. You project your world view onto your experiences. I think to some pill types their reality is real to them, but people happy go lucky loving their girlfriend/boyfriend are probably more in reality. Other comments are right, misery loves company. Don't let miserable people effect how you see the world, because how you view the world effects your life choices. Sending love
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 01:30 AM
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I'm kinda damaged, i think most interesting people are. People gravitate towards those who are similar + I think I over empathise tbh, fml. Yeah I don't want to get doxed basically. But I'm getting the vibe he's been trying to create a false narrative in convos if that makes sense. And chatting on snapchat, hes got far to goodwr memory of 8 second face pics sent, won't share pocs of his own face anymore. I've clearly come to the wrong place, I mean no offense. I've just never explored the dark s…
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 07:17 PM
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I'm saying that's what I thought he was. That's an endearing thing. But it's starting to become clear he's been lieing about most things. Why would you assume someone's done something horrible? I'm just hoping this kind of thing I'm worried about is in my head. I'm guessing from your reply it is something that happens?
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 07:03 PM
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I dunno what to call it, but like recording and posting private chat somewhere
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 06:58 PM
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I'm more nervous if the guys been setting incels on me tbh
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 06:54 PM
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