MechanicReady3523 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Question about dealing with distance in a relationship	Fundamentals	MechanicReady3523	/r/seduction	04/02/25 07:21 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	She Said She’d Let Me Know, But Never Did—Should I Just Move On? Don’t mention it to her. It’s only ever going to come off as needy, at best she would apologize/reschedule but if she’s willing to do that then just make another plan with her for a different day. No need to bring up Friday.	/r/seduction	15/03/25 05:26 PM
1	I know this has been asked countless times but I still haven’t got a good answer I can’t give him a script to read. Just trying to give genuine advice	/r/seduction	17/02/25 05:50 PM
1	Mentally Exhausted. How to Find the Spark? I’ve experienced this, and I think your problem is simple. When you approach a woman, you treat it as a game that you have already solved. This is okay for someone who is only interested in the basic process of hooking up, but no further. In my experience, the girls I have true interest in result from real, organic, and genuine experiences. Times when I wasn’t necessarily trying to seduce her, but she was interested in me anyways. Maybe I didn’t approach her with any intention of interest, but o…	/r/seduction	17/02/25 07:56 AM
1	Have any of you gone from being nervous and not able to talk to girls to being comfortable and relaxed around them? Is there hope for me? You cannot be comfortable without being uncomfortable first. There really is no magic trick you just have to give yourself experience. How do you talk to your best friend? Are you nervous? Of course not. She is just another person with her own life and problems. Your only goal should be to make her enjoy your company and associate you with positive feelings. I think the main problem people have is that they look at talking to women like some great task/challenge. A lot of the time it’s portrayed…	/r/seduction	17/02/25 07:43 AM
12	I know this has been asked countless times but I still haven’t got a good answer To be honest I just talk to her as I would a close friend. Ask her what she’s doing out, tell her a funny story that’s happened to you, make a joke about what she’s wearing/drinking etc. What helped me the most was having girls I was close with in a non sexual way to talk to and remove the barrier of thinking that it’s any different from another person.	/r/seduction	17/02/25 04:18 AM
30	I know this has been asked countless times but I still haven’t got a good answer Pulled a girl a few weeks ago just by asking her name and going from there. What you say literally doesn’t matter it’s all about how you say it. One thing I like to make sure I do before I approach is make sure she sees me. If you’re tapping her on the shoulder/surprising her your odds go down imo. Just approach her with a smile and be in a general good mood and see if she matches your energy.	/r/seduction	17/02/25 03:59 AM
1	I built a game that help you pass her sh*t tests AI wants me to be a gigachad who still talks to a girl who calls me boring/short/uninteresting. Some of these are good but a couple of them leave me too baffled to respond. Good game but ideal responses just sound a little too corny or forced.	/r/seduction	11/02/25 11:19 PM
1	Question about dealing with distance in a relationship I think this is a great comment and thank you for it. Looking back I definitely tried too hard to stay in contact when that was impossible given the circumstances. In the future I think I’ll get ahead of this and avoid the situation altogether or preface to someone that I don’t do ldr.	/r/seduction	04/02/25 01:28 PM
2	How to get her to like you back The next time she wants to hang out tell her something came up with one of your other girls, a date or something	/r/seduction	17/05/24 04:44 PM
12	Would you consider this red flag, high maintenance? Yeah it seems like it. All you can really do is go on the date and be yourself, and see how she responds. Many women will say all kinds of things about the type of guy they want and how they want him to act, then they get with someone who is the opposite of all those things.	/r/seduction	17/04/24 08:54 PM
3	Seeking advice on current situation Yes you most definitely should ask her to hang out. Drinks are perfect. If she says yes then that’s about as obvious as it can get that she’s into you.	/r/seduction	05/04/24 03:03 PM
2	What to do when she goes cold Sounds like this is a good post for your situation. As long as you’re still arranging in person meet ups you shouldn’t have anything to worry about so don’t trip over the texting.	/r/seduction	05/04/24 06:52 AM
1	What to do when she goes cold These are the situations that you learn from the most.	/r/seduction	05/04/24 06:50 AM
4	What to do when she goes cold Question, when you are the one organizing the hang outs/ dates and she’s acting this way, how do you proceed? Basically how do you reach out to her without being needy while she’s pulling away?	/r/seduction	04/04/24 05:18 PM
5	Me (31M) and my friend (27F) behave as if we were a couple, yet she is adamant about us having a romentic relationship and I don't know what to expect She isn’t interested in you as anything more than a friend. If you see her as more than that then you should stop speaking with her every day and focus on other people. There’s no need for you to waste your time or develop unnecessary feelings for someone who won’t share them back.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 01:45 AM
2	Need some quick advice please before first date. If your plans aren’t concrete then you should text her before Thursday in order to make sure that the plans are still on. If she confirms they are then there’s no need for any more small talk over text, save it for in person.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 01:42 AM
29	Lied to a girl about my age You already see how this is gonna create a problem. In the future, don’t lie. Women appreciate a man who is confident and not insecure, and a confident man wouldn’t feel the need to lie about himself.	/r/seduction	02/04/24 06:15 PM
1	Should I text her before the date? No you don’t need to. At least not until the day of the plans like a few hours before.	/r/seduction	02/04/24 04:43 PM
2	Trouble in Paradise? If you don’t care then just act like the dude doesn’t exist and hit her up as normal.	/r/seduction	27/03/24 12:34 PM
1	How to relax on first date? You don’t need substances. You need to feel confident that no matter how the date goes it will be a positive and fun experience.	/r/seduction	24/03/24 01:38 AM
3	Need help getting women (24m) They do, but not how you’re giving it. Women want to EARN your attention, not have it freely given to them. Instead of texting her good morning after you go on a date wait two to three days to reply again for another date and i literally garuntee you will have better results	/r/seduction	20/03/24 08:57 PM
3	Where the hell do I go to meet people or go on dates now? This is the best advice, also I would say to pick up hobbies that aren’t completely male dominated. That means something other than sports/gym/gaming.	/r/seduction	18/03/24 05:51 PM
2	How to be more dominant in your interactions No, but our brain’s evolved during the time that we did live in the wild.	/r/seduction	19/02/24 01:57 PM