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MeiFriend/r/MensRights04/05/16 03:25 PM
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MeiFriend/r/askTRP25/06/16 08:21 PM
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MeiFriend/r/MensRights15/06/16 10:38 PM
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Oh right, I guess I projected a bit. Fucking women isn't my hobby, I'm only interested in sex like 2-3 times a week. But if you want to meet a woman and fuck her that same night, being nice makes it harder.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:24 PM
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My doubts weren't about the efficiency of not putting too much effort into getting laid. I just wonder why would someone be a kind person just to get laid? You are kind because you see value in being like that, not because it gets you laid (it doesn't).
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 04:37 PM
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It's intelligent to consider both things. We live in an age of infinite options, but choosing one often leaves us out of the others. In other times your pretty and young wife would take care of the children and the house, but also you wouldn't get to travel around the world or enjoy much leisure, also, you weren't supposed to get laid too much before marriage. So we now want a nice home, a nice slim wife, leissure time, traveling, time with friends, a car, and also happy and healthy children, al…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 04:05 PM
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Trying to demonstrate kindness? What? And if anything that isn't quick to get you laid is a waste of time, what else is there that actually matters?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:56 PM
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Well, if you can't handle someone that is a bit behind your level of maturity, how will you handle children? Besides, if she is young you can wait, let her have a job first, live by herself or whatever. You don't have to get her pregnant right away. Most decent women are pretty intelligent anyways. Here's the thing, a woman can't replace male friends, you can't expect your female partner to be able to entertain you and be your whole world, it sounds nice but that puts a lot of pressure on a rela…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:48 PM
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All your definitions of weakness and value are still dependent on women's approval. And your arguments are the same as saying men only want sex and status. I agree women are being told riding the caroussel is a milestone of life, but so what? If you are getting laid, what does it matter if you rescue kittens, help old people and play with children? If you can't get a woman's attention without being a jerk, maybe it's because you are actually a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 10:05 PM
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It depends, if you plan to have children asap, then the older girl could be better, but take in consideration how pregancy could affect her career and how would you handle raising children if both of you work. The young and pretty one may not make much money, but she can still work and you can have fun until it's time for children. However, young women take more energy. In neither case can you afford having a weak frame. Edit: phrasing
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 07:51 PM
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My advice to all men is to not marry and only have LTR/children with young unexperienced women. Wrap it up, try to not need too much action (for STD reasons) and live with the least acceptable for you.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 04:27 PM
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I'm also into what you said. I think TRP and many other lines of thought have the ultimate purpose of improving our lives. But what makes them improved is for each to decide. If to be "the man" is the all means worth goal, then we would've never drifted away from it. Instead, we've had several men figure that there are other things worth pursuing, even if not in line with the ultimate expression of alpha manliness. TRP is what it is, a revelation of hidden social dynamics. A tool, that like any …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 06:25 PM
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More like, the more promiscuous the woman you bang is, the more likely you are to get infected with a disease. And no PC culture should discourage you from disciminating promiscous women. If you think you can live with the risk, then that's your choice.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:29 PM
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Maybe all of those who are in the clean 50% think it's BS.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:03 PM
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Exactly, now it can be mutual support. Rent and services are easier to pay with two salaries.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 04:40 PM
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I guess that goes into the trade-offs to consider.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 10:30 PM
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Now that women work and that making a lot of people is not really a priority anymore, I think relationships should be about economical support and intimacy. And just like a marriage before was bad if there were no children, a relationship today is bad if there's no economical support and/or intimicay.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:53 PM
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You can always marry a woman from a culture that has no outs for marriage, that is, as you said, a virgin. You'll also have to work your ass to be the man of the house, to own your SMV and never lose sight of who is in charge. That implies many trade offs, but it's do-able.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 03:12 PM
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Thankfully, in my country the law states that if either spouse doesn't want children and did not warn the other of this before getting married, the deal is nullified since by defintion (in my country) marriage is for having children.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 02:44 PM
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I see. I read something like that somewhere, but maybe it's the baby size at birth only, and not how much it'll grow.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 07:26 PM
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Hell, she could not have hated him for it, but still think bringing short boys to the world is cruel and not want any of it.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 05:14 PM
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Aren't women the major contributors on the offspring's height?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 05:09 PM
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I understand your point. Maybe it's not the same to be confident on your skills than to be confident on yourself? A year ago I was not confident of my Java skills, but as I studied I felt confident it was possible to learn it. I feel glad now, even if a million others are better than me at this, I'm happy with myself so far, is that being insecure?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 10:10 PM
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I don't think confidence is to always know what to do, neither to always be right, only narcissists want to be this way. I think confidence is to know that failure is part of life and that going through it is not the end of the world, and if it is "well shit, I did what I could."
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 09:37 PM
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It can be a by-product of insecurity, but many times, narcissism is born first. Picture being known as the good looking guy, all the girls falling for you in high school, you have no insecurity at all. Then in college you start getting rejected. What changed? Did you not dress well enough? Is it your hair? Is that other guy more attractive? Why? You're supposed to be the attractive one, if you are not that, then you are not good enough anymore... and suddenly your life is miserable and you feel …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 09:18 PM
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You get the best women with game, and you can surely throw your influences and money into your game to get better odds. But those aren't the only tools.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 10:56 PM
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A man can be sensitive whenever being sensitive is valid.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 07:11 PM
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I get your point. I'm not that genereous so the line between these ideas can get blurry for me, but I get it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 09:29 PM
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But this is not about blaming society, or about blaming women. This is about changing for the outcomes you want, not to get back at anyone. Anger can be a motivator, but so too is despair. Edit: better word.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 07:42 PM
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That also is true, though there's a point when being too good with the ungrateful makes you a push over, isn't it?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 07:32 PM
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Can't be angry about something I do myself. I too looked at, turned over, analysed the weakness and strengths and made the decision towards my ex, no matter how hard she tried, she wasn't the one for me. She didn't need to be ashamed, or pissed, but she still was and for a while acted real petty and awful towards me. That ultimately undermined her relationships with most of the friends we had in common. She changed, but not into a better person, it was a huge disappointment, even if she started …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 06:45 PM
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Maybe the nice one holds the door for the handicapped, the kind makes sure automatic doors are installed. Or something like that.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 06:22 PM
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Never thought of the pace, lately I have avoided going around people too often. I'd rather have groups of people split around me, or let the other person decide to move aside. But never thought the walking speed might do a difference.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 03:13 PM
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Yes, you see the cool GP moto racers and we tend to worry first about getting the gear, the sportsbike and the sponsor before learning how to drive one.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 07:47 PM
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Really. I stopped paying an expensive gym far from home, stopped carrying headphones to the gym, haven't even thought of buying protein powder or new workout clothing. Not that these are bad things, the protein is specially helpful, but none of these luxuries give me more muscle than getting off my ass.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 06:15 PM
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My point is that, if your LTR works under the 50-50 split assumption, then both must adjust to the lowest income as a standard of living. In any case, instead complaining she should just say "this is what I can pay, we find a place that conforms to this, you pay a higher portion of the rent or we stop living together". Which I think is what most here imply.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 07:47 PM
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If I understand what you're saying, I agree. Maybe he can afford a more expensive place and still be under his 30% of income, while forcing her to be above her 50%. This will financially pressure her and reduce her quality of life.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:44 PM
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I see bad things in both subs, but I agree with the general idea of both too.
/r/MGTOW05/07/16 02:31 PM
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We often fall in the assumption we can and should fix everything, which is an error. I can't control what my girlfriend does, I can only see for myself, if what she does hurts me in any way, I may end up losing any affection I have for her, that's it, I can't "correct" her behavior, we may talk things up if she is interested in doing better, but if she is purposedly disrespecting me then there's no reason to stand for myself, just leave.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 11:04 PM
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I thought this sub was about men deciding what is best for each of them, not for others to tell them what is best for them.
/r/MGTOW04/07/16 10:33 PM
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If you have these problems your life will suck and getting laid won't make a difference. Being on a dry spell makes everything worse x10, I get it, but it really is more important to address these things.
/r/MGTOW01/07/16 03:58 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't "abundance mentality" referred to "plenty of fish in the sea"? Not to obsess over a single woman because there are always more to come? I thought it was a principle of the Red Pill to get rid of the "oneitis" syndrome.
/r/MGTOW30/06/16 11:03 PM
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If there's really an abundance mentality, why date women that are taken for? To each their own, but I believe it doesn't match what a virtuous man does.
/r/MGTOW30/06/16 06:59 PM
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Let's see: -Betray other men to have a chance at pussy (white knights). -Relate success and happiness to a woman counter (blue pill). -Thinking that having high SMV somewhat makes them superior and entitled to what others have (AWALT). -Unable to go against the status quo (blue pill). -Sense of unaccountability for acting upon what they "feel like" (AWALT). I had not really thought about it before your question.
/r/MGTOW30/06/16 05:02 PM
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At least in Mexico, infertility automatically voids the marriage since in our law's definition: marriage is for having children. Only exception is if you knew before-hand of the infertility, in which case it can't be used for divorce.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 09:20 PM
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I don't know if I suck at it. I always make friends where I go, there just always happen to be only guys, but my guess is I subsconciously may be choosing places or circles women don't frequent.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:48 PM
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My department only has old ladies. There are some hotties in other departments, but they're like honey in Starved Bear Land and I suck at talking to people without a reason.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 08:39 PM
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Very often when someone does something you think it's stupid or not fun, but people doing it seem to have a lot of fun. It's very likely your ego telling you that you are too cool for that. Or if you think "looks fun, but that kind of shit is not who I am", again, ego talking. For me, dropping the ego has been all about realizing when it's ego talking, because then I know that I only have to go against it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 10:57 PM
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Sadly, many of us are raised for another era, one in which women did not have the option to divorce, one in which we could comfortably be ourselves and depend on women (because they didn't have an option). Don't take me wrong, I don't mourn the loss of that era, but the fact we are still raised as if it still existed. Us men "should do everything for love", and not dare enjoy our independence too much, because as you said "our life should be meaningless without a woman" while at the same time, w…
/r/MGTOW21/06/16 03:33 PM
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My intention was not to say what is important or worth pursuing, just to guess where the "obsession with sex" comes from.
/r/MGTOW20/06/16 04:50 PM
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Well, on one hand, people will always criticize those who are different. It doesn't make being you something bad, but the rest of the world isn't like you and they have a hard time putting themselves on your shoes. I don't say this to justify them, but by this moment, I imagine you already growed a thick skin and that alone makes you stronger, really, being immune to criticism is among the best qualities any person can have. On the other hand, being smart and pursuing your goals is great. But fr…
/r/MGTOW16/06/16 06:57 PM
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If there's divorce, there's no way she'll consent, specially in the kind of divorce were she takes your money and makes you pay a check afterwards. It's very one sided, tbh. Unless she works and both split the checks, you get no advantage by getting married, you don't even need it to for that scenario. Giving your money to someone also should require consent, forcing a man to pay is forcing to give his body, not sexually but in effort, time, youth and health. If women don't exist to satisfy us, …
/r/MensRights16/06/16 02:15 PM
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Then there's no reason to get married as a man. You may as well rent a womb and only support the child. But then, childless marriages also make you pay alimony after divorce. Why? I can agree to some compensation because while you worked she helped you take some weight off your shoulders, and so she deserves part of that money you made. But after that it's plain abuse.
/r/MensRights16/06/16 02:07 PM
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I agree with that entirely.
/r/MensRights14/06/16 08:08 PM
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It's her body? And exactly whose body is going to get up to work from 9 to 5, or even double shift to pay for the following 18 years? Whose body is going to be sent to prison against his will for a decision he didn't make? It's plain stupid to think that the only body affected is the woman's. It was also her decision to have unprotected sex, so why she gets more rights? If she gets the call to abort, the man gets the call to pay. What is wrong with that? What scenario is exactly we are afraid of…
/r/MensRights14/06/16 06:39 PM
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What good comes from a husband telling his wife he cheated? What benefit comes from knowing? At the end of the day, he is going to decide to stay regardless of what she'd do, she'll only get hurt. And it's comparable because he can too decide she isn't what he expected and leave, after learning of the abortion. Not because I think abortions should be legal, does it mean I'd like my girlfriend to abort.
/r/MensRights14/06/16 06:27 PM
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Because you can choose to back out of pregnacy, causing all sort of emotional problems to the would be father. But he cannot backout from financing it, even if you are using the child only to screw him (while giving the child a horrible life in the process). Giving men the right to backout removes the capacity of using the child as a tool, and ensures the woman actually wants it. If she doesn't want to be the only provider, then she can abort.
/r/MensRights14/06/16 05:31 PM
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He wants to become a buddhist monk though...
/r/MGTOW10/06/16 10:30 PM
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Haha, she seems to still believe money isn't fun without love. But money is a hell lot of fun and tranquility, and just as he said, men with money have it really easy finding someone.
/r/MGTOW10/06/16 09:55 PM
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I guess it depends, are these things you carry necessary? Then use it. I think this goes more along the line of what you wear to go out and socialize. If your job requires you to carry a lot of stuff, fashion is way below in priorities.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:18 PM
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They do know it's cheaper to hire a cleaning lady than to support a nagging wife, right?
/r/MGTOW09/06/16 02:45 PM
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Been thinking for a while that success in every form is like hanging at the top of a pole. If you stop pulling you'll hang in there very briefly before the sweat on your hands makes you slide. No matter what, you have to keep pulling yourself up to stay on top, there's no sleeping on it unless you want to hit the floor.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 06:54 PM
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I'm a sinner in a LTR but my first line was "you ever make me choose you over my friends, you're out." It's not even because my friends are that valuable, but choosing yourself who you hang with is a must for every man.
/r/MGTOW07/06/16 06:19 PM
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This is more like it.
/r/MGTOW07/06/16 06:14 PM
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I would've given my suggestions, and if she got mad I would've said "well, you should've asked one of your friends then, don't ask me if you don't like how I do things." In my experience, worst mistake I ever made is being afraid of her temper.
/r/MGTOW06/06/16 10:55 PM
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at least in mexico it's cheaper to hire someone to do everything than to maintain anyone else. If having someone help you do the cleaning is the problem, that's what you should do.
/r/MGTOW06/06/16 09:56 PM
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There's a book by Haruki Murakami in which the cheating wife sends a letter to her husband, explaining she can't go back because of the things she has done. She went into a bit of detail on her affair, explaining she liked doing it because the guy did not give a damn about her (unlike her too nice husband), and how it all dried out as soon as the guy confessed his love for her. It's not very useful being fiction, but it resonated a lot to me while I read this.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 09:45 PM
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There's an official term for that in Mexico, it's called "mandilón" (direct translation would be "huge apron").
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 06:27 PM
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I almost want to believe it, but nah, it's the money she is after.
/r/MGTOW02/06/16 08:49 PM
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Many women I know complain of these assholes harassing them on the bus and I always ask them "So what did you do?" And they always ask "What do you mean?" They just take it, cry on facebook, accuse men and demand the world to change.
/r/MensRights18/05/16 02:26 PM
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The one guy who commented he'd teach his daughters to defend themselves and not become victims is shunned down, for supporting the "sexist" belief that every human being should be made responsible of its own safety.
/r/MensRights17/05/16 04:23 PM
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This is why better yourself, get your status up and find a reasonably younger woman (a virgin if possible). One of my ex best friends (female) criticized me for dating younger women and not the "mature" and "wanting to settle" ones. She who fucked around and went lesbian and cheated on her fiance and then left him within the first week of marriage, she had something to say about my choices. For some time I wondered why I wasn't attracted to women my age, it was real, and I figured it wasn't thei…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 02:23 PM
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This. Weakness and complaining is not a manly thing to do, and to he honest that girl had very little values or interest in LTR anyways. Lets not forget that AWLT but also there are some better quality ones than others. But I'd take this advice with a grain of salt, having a weakness isn't all bad if it's temporary or something you can work on.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 02:32 PM
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And I think it has to do with it being a situation in which you're expected to talk about yourself. Socially people doesn't like others talking about themselves, except maybe for those who they admire.
/r/MGTOW06/05/16 06:06 PM
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I was in a sort of opposite situation. I hanged out a lot with a friend that was very worried about his reputation, we had a band, my other friends were all getting drunk every weekend and seemed pretty popular. However I always felt out of place. I then started looking outside of my circles, looking for my own genuine interests and finally made a nerdy band filled with gamers. These friends were popular among all musicians but one of them was also very ambitious towards his career. Also, one of…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 11:18 PM
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I don't think we have the luxury of letting our systems collapse. There are lives depending on it, and not only that, do not underestimate what could happen to the world if the strongest liberal economies fall, there could be other parties waiting and actively pushing for this to happen. I'd rather not let disaster get to us. Maybe men revolting would be best in that case. And I do think men still hold a lot of political power, we just need to put a stop, it only takes wanting to, in my opinion.…
/r/MensRights04/05/16 04:20 PM
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I think it has to do with education. Educating people is good, but we blindly trust in everything we are taught, even when we are told to challenge the status quo we fall into letting others tell us what the status quo is and who is behind it, that is as naive as trusting everything the authority figures say. And it is this way because we all repeat the same ideas "educations is necessary" but we don't stop and discern which education is actually good. So when each country starts reaching certai…
/r/MensRights04/05/16 04:12 PM
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You make a valid point, but I cannot agree with antagonizing resolutions, because not all women are feminists. And secondly, an economy cannot sustain itself if men bail out and women keep getting sustained by the government. I read somewhere that patience is the ability to trust in the final outcome, so my interest is in doing what is within our hands now to ensure society stays on its feet while changing it towards a more fair balance. We can't do the same as feminists and blame everything on …
/r/MensRights04/05/16 04:05 PM
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At least I believe feminism is fundamentally against equality, because it states men are still above while we aren't and it raises a lot of backlash to any male willing to defend his rights.
/r/MensRights29/04/16 04:10 PM
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I guess this why so many people use the "/s" tag. By the way, you talked about not getting butthurt over words on the screen and that's exactly what you did with the sjw bit.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 02:37 PM
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Wait, TRP is anti video game? I'm outta here...
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 03:11 PM
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Is this going to get to a point where men won't have sex until marriage because of the dangers? ...Except, we aren't going to get married either.
/r/MensRights06/04/16 03:14 PM
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I'm 5'7, just yesterday I went to the gym, it was early in the afternoon, when it's most empty and almost half women. There was a tall blonde, kinda pretty, nice figure but not my type and I'm not really interested in other women at the moment. I noticed her and she noticed me with even more indifference than mine. Later I was doing my bench press at my limit, I saw some taller guy doing his thing and I call him, ask for his name and to help me do my lifts. The guy being a great helped me with t…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 06:21 PM
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Likely but not yet proved either. I don't mean women or children can't be resilient, it's just that until now it hasn't been proved that men aren't more stoic in general. No one focuses on men's problems because until lately we had just done the best we could to deal with them instead of complaining.
/r/MensRights24/03/16 09:09 PM
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That's what I would like. I'm all for being open minded and respecting equality. I've been for years all about rejecting the traditional view of men, and it turns out society doesn't respect that either. If these men wanted to leave, they should've been allowed to, but if people are going to go back to traditional roles and say "man up" only when it's convenient to a few, then traditional roles should return, because it isn't fair. That's why, for the time being, even if they were held against t…
/r/MensRights23/03/16 09:44 PM
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That's somehow what I was trying to say. If these men were so clearly not treated equally, then the difference between the sexes need to be acknowledged and accepted already.
/r/MensRights23/03/16 09:39 PM
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Fair enough. I'll correct my words: Traditional roles assume we do it better.
/r/MensRights23/03/16 09:38 PM
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You know what? I can't talk for those that actually went through it, but maybe society should admit it. We men are protectors, we can handle traumatic experiences better than women and children, it's not that our lives matter less, but we are the ones capable of putting others first. Stop acting like there's something wrong with protective men. I don't know if those men were willing to wait, but they deserve respect for doing it anyways.
/r/MensRights23/03/16 12:17 AM
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People blame the woman (who should be punished, no discussion there) but I'd totally blame people in charge of that case, how can a dream be a viable reason to convict anyone?
/r/MensRights05/01/16 04:28 PM
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Meanwhile if my girlfriend mentions it's lonely at home I'm supposed to break in and hug her or it means I don't care about her (ok, not that badly, but I'm supposed to read the signs).
/r/MensRights04/01/16 10:15 PM
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Law works by generalization, I understand that. But real justice is always case by case.
/r/MensRights17/12/15 03:59 PM
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Consent ages are completely arbitrary. I understand we're trying to prevent cases where the adult convinces a minor of doing it, but in some cases, the minor completely understands what he or she is doing and still wants to go for it, we don't own minors, we can't tell them what they want or don't want, we can only do our best to protect them from abuse.
/r/MensRights16/12/15 07:57 PM
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You are committing the very same crime so many men are victims of: Shaming. It is completely normal to be socially anxious, it's not a norm but millions of people go through that, you're not helping by blaming. For many, this is a real challenge and you can't do anything about it by acting this way. Edit: Better phrasing.
/r/MensRights16/11/15 08:13 PM
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