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Melificarum/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:40 PM
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Don’t let them make you feel this way. They are horrible people who don’t just hate women, they hate other men and themselves especially. You are a worthy person that doesn’t deserve to get dragged down in all this.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/26 11:11 PM
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Yeah I’m pretty sure that’s it. Women only exist as possible lays for them, and when we aren’t attractive enough for them then it’s our fault they aren’t having sex.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/24 11:13 PM
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Hugh Jackman, Jason Momoa, Ryan Gosling, and Nick Offerman are married to or dated women much older than them. It can go both ways. There are also plenty of celebrities with small age gaps but they get less media attention because that’s not interesting to the tabloids. Women can be hot at any age, and men will be interested regardless of what lonely assholes on the internet are saying.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 03:07 PM
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This idea is old as cellphones but not necessarily helpful.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/24 08:47 PM
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Yeah he sounds like Dennis Reynolds.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 02:19 PM
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You’re right that those things are important to women, but it’s pretty condescending to think that women don’t understand that those are attractive qualities. Women here are always giving advice like “you need to work in yourself.” That’s not just a red pill idea.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/24 02:18 PM
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“Villain origin story,” I love that. It’s so true.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/24 04:40 PM
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Oh no, I’m never going to be a supermodel and have everyone fawn over me all the time and make tons of money. Guess my life is over because of blackpill??
/r/ExRedPill25/02/24 01:58 AM
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I kind of agree. What about women who want to date men with fewer sexual partners? Is that problematic?
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 09:17 PM
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I think it makes sense to want to be with someone with similar sexual experience. It can be a big deal if you are worried about stds and the like.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 09:13 PM
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Oh haha sorry.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 05:54 PM
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I’m asexual and I’m pretty happy without getting laid.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 04:32 PM
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No, it’s not blaming your problems on other people so you can live without hate in your life. It would make you happier, not just women.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 04:31 PM
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And India.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 04:29 PM
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Nono, according to red pill logic, the alphas have children, but they abandon them, which makes them no less alpha. However, the single mothers who sacrifice their lives to atone for their mistakes are now worthless used up whores who should be shunned by society. Betas wish they could abandon their children, but they are too “nice,” so they settle for a woman and kids they can never love. Dude, how can anyone believe that garbage?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:05 AM
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And this is bad?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 01:00 AM
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Might be my age showing, but these terms could be gaining more traction with young people, which is kind of scary honestly.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 04:55 PM
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Yeah, PUAs tend to go for women who have low self esteem or are emotionally vulnerable in other ways. Read this and see if any of this stuff resonates with you: https://psychcentral.com/blog/recovering-narcissist/2018/12/5-pick-up-artist-techniques-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-players-use-to-unsettle-you
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:45 PM
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Yeah, that’s a red pill term. Most people don’t call it that.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:43 PM
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It sounds like he was manipulating you with pretty basic pick up artist tactics of push and pull. Not letting you meet his family and friends makes me think he might have had other girls on the side. Then he drops you because of your trauma? He’s a monster; forget him and move on.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:21 PM
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You mentioned a Dutch man was arrested there. Sex work is legal in the Netherlands, so he wasn’t there just to pay for sex since he can do that easily at home.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/24 05:12 PM
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I want to add that men and women go to strip clubs for different reasons. I think that a lot men just really enjoy looking at naked women on a regular basis, whereas for whatever reason, women don’t like to look at naked men as much. You might notice that all the women going crazy on these videos are in groups, and are absolutely wasted. It’s something like a power trip. We are so used to being on the other end, that when there is an opportunity for us to objectify them some women just take it t…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 04:53 PM
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This 100%. Strip shows for women are about entertainment, and the “lust” is mostly for show. For some reason - I don’t know why - the idea of strange men getting naked is funny to women. My friends brought me to a male strip club for my bachelorette (it was a gay strip club, because male strip clubs for women are just not popular enough to make money), and they got me a lap dance. I was so mortified, I told him to stop. It was weird and embarrassing. So yeah, I don’t think OP needs to worry abou…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 04:38 PM
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It’s “easy” for women but we get a lot more negative social feedback from it, unlike men who are praised for having lots of sex.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 08:39 PM
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Yeah, it’s one of the reasons I left twox. That sub often reads like MGTOW in reverse.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/23 04:54 PM
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Why?
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 11:23 PM
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Seriously. I have respect for the women who do this kind of work, but a lot of society does not. Imagine all the harassment they have to put up with online, and fallout they might experience from people they know out in the real world. It’s not easy and it’s not for everyone.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 04:37 PM
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I don’t know where you are getting that from. If I would think of a negative stereotype for men, the first that comes to mind is that they are more prone to violence.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 07:24 PM
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I think polyamory would always be exhausting. It takes a special type of person to be able to juggle their romantic affections between multiple partners their whole lives. It’s hard enough keeping a relationship going with one person. And jumping from relationship to relationship comes with a lot of baggage and takes a toll emotionally. Also, I didn’t mean to say there was anything wrong with women who use those apps, I just wanted to point out that there are lots of different types of women out…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 08:21 PM
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Not all of us get tons of attention. Not all attention is good. Dating a lot of dudes is exhausting. Most people eventually just want someone to stay at home and watch TV with. There are lots of reasons. I was never the type to want to date around or sleep with a lot of people when I was young. I was always a romantic and just wanted to find one person to be with. Not every woman is the type that uses dating apps or has an only fans or a popular instagram account.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 08:07 PM
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Redpill isn't "science" though. At best it's pseudoscience. It is dangerous because its proponents cherry pick dated studies, isolated statistics, and hearsay in order to support flawed hypotheses about human interactions. Additionlly, people cannot go out into the world and study their own relationship attempts objectively. An individual will always be biased, especially if they are already jaded by whatever echo chamber or YouTube personality they have been influenced by. Real science involvin…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 08:08 PM
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Uh, usually we just go out to eat, then get drunk. Same shit men do, but probably with better food.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 02:24 AM
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TwoX can be pretty toxic imo. After delving into MGTOW, I found a lot of those same talking points being reflected back on that sub, but against men as a group. Sometimes there are good discussions, but a lot of the time it's stuff like, "My boyfriend got me the wrong shampoo at the grocery store. I think he's psychologically abusing me." Every time I would reply, like maybe you are overreacting, I'd get downvoted. I understand it's a popular sub, but it's still just another reddit echo chamber.…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 01:14 PM
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Okay, "omega male" is a new one for me, and it's definitely not your problem. Your problem also isn't getting women, that would be the bottom of the list of things you need to figure out. I would first try and discover why people don't like you. This is probably why you can't keep a job. You have a Master's degree in a STEM field, and you can't figure out any sort of career you would succeed at? And no, it's not because college is a "scam," that is a lie someone fed to you that is causing you to…
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 05:04 AM
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Being forced to move from my home in order to avoid oppression isn't exactly an argument against oppression.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 12:13 AM
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Here's an example: My state recently passed a very strict abortion law that makes it so if I had complications with my pregnancy, doctors could do nothing to help me unless I was bleeding out and already dying. It's scary enough being pregnant, but now I have to deal with the fact that my state government thinks the life of my unborn baby is more important than mine, a grown woman. Additionally, another bill was just passed refusing federal aid to childcare facilities which makes daycare less af…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 05:18 PM
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Great answer.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 05:08 PM
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Personally, I think it's best to be non-combative, even of the user in question is a troll coming in hot. People are a lot more likely to want to heal and change their perspectives if they are treated kindly, than if they are being yelled at. And trolls are just trying to get us worked up.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 01:21 AM
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It is perfectly fine if you don't want to date someone who has been with more people than you. Everyone has made different lifestyle choices when it comes to that kind of thing and you might want to be with someone more like you. It only becomes problematic when there is a double standard surrounding promiscuity.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:33 AM
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That's what I was thinking. Women wouldn't block you for just not talking to them. Isn't the point of blocking someone so that they won't talk to you? I'm guessing the red pill vibes are spilling into your daily interactions.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 03:30 AM
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One of my single friends took me through her dating apps one time because I was curious and we looked through all the guys and some of her messages and at the time I was like, "Wow, it must be fun to be single these days with all this technology." And she said, "No, see all these guys here? They seem nice but you can tell they aren't looking for a relationship because of how they keep popping back up on the app. This guy I met wanted to have sex on the first night, this guy is flagged as a creep…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:24 PM
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I think this sub is more honest about that than most.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:17 PM
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I have generalized anxiety disorder which manifested for a time as social anxiety and people would always tell me I seemed nervous or awkward. The more I focused on it, the worse it was. Eventually, I got on medication for it and after time, I was able to get out of that mindset. Sometimes it's not your fault and you just need a little help from a professional.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 07:17 PM
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Bluepill: Women won't date you. It's not really anyone's fault, but there are things you can do to improve yourself and become more likeable. Go to therapy, join clubs in your community, and improve your hygiene and social skills. Redpill: Women won't date you. It's because they suck, but there are things you can do to trick them into liking you. Get swole, learn manipulation tactics, or try sex tourism. Blackpill: Women won't date you. It's because they evolved to be hypergamous sluts incapable…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 09:42 PM
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God yeah, in the tech industry these people are a dime a dozen.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 05:37 PM
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There just aren't too many insults that will really get under a guy's skin. Like I could call Andrew Tate a douche or a POS, but it still doesn't hit as hard as if some guy were to call me a c***. If insults are being traded like with Greta, saying a guy has a small dick, especially someone who claims to be an "alpha male," is probably the only thing that's going to bother him. I'm sure Greta doesn't care what size someone's penis is, but I bet Andrew Tate cares about his. It's all about insulti…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 08:04 PM
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I'm not sure what advice you're looking for. Do you want us to say, "Poor baby, those western women are so mean to you. We should oppress them more and take more rights away so that you can have an easier time." This is exredpill. People here are trying to recover from toxic ways of thinking and if you have no interest in that, you should go find someone else to complain to.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 04:38 PM
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Looks all the great advice you were given is just falling on deaf ears. Why are you here? It seems like what you really need is therapy or to take some time away from the internet.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 04:30 PM
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It's the same as if you were a handsome man. It's called "the bubble." Good looking people of all genders get treated much better than average or ugly people.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 04:24 PM
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This is so on point.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/22 09:28 PM
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I have been seeing younger women post about this a lot more lately and it makes me pretty sad. It's completely unfounded. I never see or hear women in their 30's or 40's complain about their age or how they are having trouble getting dates. In fact, if you ask most older women what their favorite age was, it's usually their 30's. In my own friend group, all my friends who are approaching their 40's and are single are men. They complain about how there aren't any good women their own age, but thi…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/22 06:59 PM
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You can lose yourself in other hobbies. Things that are healthy and repetitive like woodworking, painting, writing - things where you are creating something.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 08:18 PM
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You probably would have better luck meeting people in the wild, because at least you will have normal odds.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 05:25 PM
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Yeah I agree with you, there are definitely people who do not desire monogamy and do not want to stay with one person or raise children. I'm not saying that people have to be monogamous, I'm just trying to bring up alternate hypotheses about human relationship behavior. It's a complex subject so I don't think we can say definitely that "men are biologically driven to do x or y" because there are a number of reasons why humans act the way they do.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/22 04:01 PM
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If he's a "sociopath," then that makes him an outlier, a person that does not have the same motivations as other humans. There are plenty of sociopaths that have done horrible things like genocide, does that mean this is something that all humans are naturally inclined to do on a regular basis?
/r/ExRedPill31/10/22 03:38 PM
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It's really a very old generalization about dating that applies to both genders but has been manipulated by the redpill to apply to only women. It's the tendency in young people to form unstable relationships when they are young, and stable relationships when they are older. Redpill has distorted this behavior in a way that paints women as whores who change their minds about relationship goals when they "hit the wall" and will "settle" for men with money after the alphas have abandoned her. In r…
/r/ExRedPill18/10/22 07:41 PM
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I hope one day he realizes what he lost. But please don't take him back again after what he put you through
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 06:45 PM
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I've had female friends who have abandoned our friendship as soon as they got in a relationship, and I'm a straight women. I've had male friends who have done the same. Gender doesn't matter, some people just suck like that.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 05:51 PM
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If your partner does not want this in any way, even if he grudgingly accepts it, it is wrong. Why hurt someone you care about just to have a casual fling? It's selfish and it's not worth it. Also, who has time for multiple relationships? Sounds exhausting.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:52 PM
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Even if you aren't trad, monogamy just feels natural for a lot of people.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:30 PM
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That certainly makes it a lot less likely to be true. It also makes it not a fact, it just makes it the opinion of one single brainwashed man, which is neither scientific nor "common sense." I thought we were talking about science here, not feelings.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 04:20 PM
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I think it's more like, men and women should be treated equally in this respect. It's really up to personal preference if you want a partner who has slept with a lot of people. Often times with redpill, you see men who are promiscuous judging women who are just like them, and making excuses why it's different for men and women.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 07:07 AM
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Thank you for being honest. I think it will be important to teach him to look out for bad women and to not stay in a relationship with people who are deceitful and unfaithful. Also that there are good women out there, as well as bad, just like with men.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 07:01 AM
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OLD is the worst. There are hardly any girls on those apps anymore, especially in Europe. I always tell people this, and that they should avoid them because it will make you see the worst in the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 01:31 AM
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I definitely won't treat my son like that. I will encourage him to have female friends but not act like there is anything weird or sexual about it. I really hate when people do that.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 08:33 PM
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I'm really sorry your mother did this :(
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 08:25 PM
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I think this is a great idea, but I know I need to be careful about it. My mom forced me to go to therapy when I was a teenager because she thought I was depressed and doing drugs (I wasn't) so I really resented her and was totally against therapy for a long time. How can I normalize therapy being something that people can do to improve their lives?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 08:24 PM
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I think I get what you're saying but it seems like a tough line to walk. I don't want to be one of those moms who nag at their child's appearance (my own mother is like this), but I also don't want to give them false confidence, or make them feel disappointed if they realize their mom always told them they were "handsome" when they aren't.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 08:16 PM
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Thanks for this, I'm sorry your mother did this to you. This is really good advice, and I will take it to heart.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 08:12 PM
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Thanks! I will read those.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 01:47 AM
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That's funny because I've often wished I was a man because life would be so much easier in a lot of ways. I can just imagine walking through life, not concerned if I'm wearing too much or too little makeup, not having to shave my entire body, getting to travel the world by myself without fear, never getting harassed by men on the street, not having to spend so much time on my hair, not having periods, not having to worry about getting pregnant (or NOT getting pregnant). I know it's probably the …
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:03 PM
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It definitely feels like an interview for women too, and online dating sucks for everyone. For me, I was always on the lookout for guys who only wanted to have sex, and would often get ghosted or rejected if I didn't put out. It's a horrible feeling. If you look at the statistics for most dating apps, the ratio of women to men has been widening considerably over the past 10 years, with many apps having 80% men and only 20% women (and it's probably even worse with all bots). There is a reason why…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:57 PM
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Geeze 120 at 6'4 doesn't seem very healthy.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:35 PM
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I agree that therapy can greatly help, but not everyone can afford it. Hardly any insurance covers it in the US, and it's better to let it out with people you trust, than just hold it in or get advice from randos on the internet. Also, I don't think people need to go to therapy for every little problem. If I'm having a bad day, I don't need to go to a therapist, I just need to vent to someone.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 10:28 PM
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Yeah, I personally really hate that phrase, "women are not therapists." People on twoxchromosomes are always going on about that like it's such a burden to have empathy for someone, especially since men often can't get that from their friends. Like, the point of a relationship or a friendship is to be there for each other during hard times.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 09:53 PM
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Yeah these women definitely exist and they are looking to trade their good looks for a life of comfort and privilege. You can't really blame them, unless they are duplicitous about it. I would avoid women who: Always insist you pay (not just accepting free meals or drinks, but demanding them) Typically date men much older than they are Try and live a lifestyle above their means, i.e. are in debt for things like overspending on cars or designer clothes. I think it's pretty easy to figure out if a…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 08:00 PM
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Preach.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 08:34 PM
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I used the auraglow tooth whitening kit, which you can get on Amazon and use Crest 3d white toothpaste daily.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 01:17 AM
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Try a teeth whitening kit, or start using extra strength whitening toothpaste. I used to have yellow teeth too and it was a surprisingly easy fix.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 10:46 PM
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Don't go on Tinder. It's entirely superficial, even more than just meeting people at bars, and you're fighting a losing battle since there's like one girl for every four guys that are on there.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 03:07 AM
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I think this is mostly true, but there are a lot of short-sighted women out there, and women who don't want kids. There are also exceptions like my sister who is a doctor and was looking for a house-husband.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 08:38 PM
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Well done...
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 07:52 PM
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I'm so sorry this has been your experience. It must be crushing to hear from people that your pain is invalid or made up. Female loneliness is real and is worth the same sympathy as male loneliness.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 07:49 PM
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Did you even read her post?
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 07:48 PM
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Telling someone they could try therapy means you hate them I guess.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 09:49 PM
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One girl complaining about being alone for a month is no indication what it is like for the rest of us. I didn't have a bf until I was 22, and I wasn't even unattractive, just shy. I have an online friend who is 36 and has never had a boyfriend in her whole life. She works at a grocery store and people there make fun of her all the time for her looks. She spends all her time online playing video games and is very unhappy. I have another rl friend who has been alone for two years and has just giv…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/22 09:55 PM
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Yeah, women don't have as much casual sex as men, because it's usually bad. That's why you find it so hard to get with a woman, and why dating apps are basically sausage fests, and also why men have lower standards. Also, standards don't just apply to looks, it could be someone's personally that turns women off, which happens a lot.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 11:13 PM
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We're talking about different situations here. The scenario OP presented was one where he met a woman after she was done sleeping around, and seemed like she wanted a committed relationship. If a guy is trying to get with a girl who is currently sleeping with a bunch of men, and he doesn't like that, he shouldn't be pursuing her.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 09:47 PM
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This is really interesting, and I haven't really thought of it this way before. Women are taught form an early age what to look out for, the "red flags" like aggression, narcissism, controlling behavior, and slovenliness. Men aren't taught about the things they need to look out for in women. A lot of men will just have standards like, "Good body, kind, pretty." And then they find a woman like that, but since they haven't looked for any other personality traits that might help make the relationsh…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 09:38 PM
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Women don't have it on "easy mode." The only benefit to being a woman, if you can call it that, is that it's easy to have bad, meaningless sex with dudes who don't care about you, and that's only because a lot of men have low standards when it comes to sex. In other parts of life being a woman sucks. We are physically weaker than men, and less aggressive, so we always have that fear in the back of our minds that men will hurt us. A lot of women are afraid to travel alone or walk alone at night. …
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 09:04 PM
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If a woman said, "I didn't even think he was that hot to begin with and it really pissed me off that he wouldn't have sex with me right away. I have had sex with many many, way hotter guys, I guess should have told him that." Everyone would be like... what??? Wtf is wrong with you?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 03:48 AM
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One of the things red pill gets completely wrong is that sex is NOT a reward. It is incredibly solipsistic for men to think that women only exist with male interest or pleasure in mind and aren't having sex for themselves. There are a number of reasons why a woman would want to sleep around and then take it slow later on. For instance: Woman A sleeps with romantic partners on the first or second date. Unfortunately she learns that most people will get what they want from her and dump her. So she…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 08:33 PM
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First of all, humans have cognitively moved past the biological imperative to live only for breeding and caring for young. You have the option to live for yourself and be happy in whatever way you want. It is not immoral or necessary to even have children at all. There are other ways to contribute to society or find meaning. We are all in this together. If you need to look at it from a utilitarian point of view, there are plenty of arguments to be made that infertile women are useful contributor…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 09:13 PM
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I have this same problem and it's kind of a joke how bad my stories are when I'm speaking out loud. I have just learned to be concise and ask other people questions so we can have a conversation. I think a lot of people actually like this. Everyone wants to be asked questions and listened to instead of dealing with people who are just waiting to tell their story.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 07:42 PM
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People try to help each other here all the time. This comment was made just yesterday on a post about a guy who was struggling with the repercussions of his actions with a girl he was seeing: "It’s good you that you can see your behavior was toxic and that you are courageous enough to word it with clarity and also that you have the intent to change. Don’t fall into the trap of self hatred because it’s a pathway to even more toxic behaviors, you have to forgive yourself. I think you should tell h…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 09:15 PM
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She seems like a very lovely girl who didn't deserve to be treated like that. My heart breaks for her.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 04:26 PM
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Yeah I always found evolutionary biology very interesting, but my focus was archaeology.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 11:57 PM
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I have Masters in Anthropology.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 04:13 PM
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It's usually considered a soft science but that doesn't make it an invalid field. There are many types of methodologies used to study human behavior, and as long as we look at these studies critically, we can learn a lot about ourselves. I'm not saying soft sciences are bad or any sub-fields within them can't provide valid evidence, it's just that a lot of time people interpret study results incorrectly, don't look at the methods used, and don't bother to see if a hypothesis has been reproduced …
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 02:45 PM
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I don't think psychology is invalid. I'm just making the point that you can't make black and white claims about some aspects of human behavior since the theories are always changing, as is appropriate for any science. Redpill adherents don't read the literature, or they don't read it critically, and often use some half-baked abstract to prove their point. It annoys me how they always claim "science" is on their side when they know nothing about the field of evolutionary psychology or how the sci…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 02:33 PM
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Dude, where did I deny the probability of evolution? It's the interpretation of how evolution affects human behavior that's up for debate.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 06:56 AM
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It is not a scientific "fact." There are very few scientific facts, and hardly any that have to do with human behavior. These studies are usually conducted within the fields of soft sciences like anthropology, sociology, or psychology and it is difficult to provide indisputable observations for human motives. Our behaviors are complex, just like our interactions with each other and are not driven purely by biological instinct, so theories change and are modified all the time.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 01:31 AM
1

That's the thing. No one cares if some men can't have sex. I care about things like men not being able to talk about their mental health and women not being able to get medical treatment if it harms an unborn fetus. There are tons of issues for people to worry about and a handful of men's sexual woes is waaay at the bottom of the list.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 12:46 AM
1

Unfortunately, the messaging coming out of the redpill isn't, "Men's issues should be addressed," it's stuff like "Women are thots and liars and cannot be trusted," or "It is too hard for men to have sex these days, it's not fair!" That kind of stuff only resonates with self-absorbed people or other incels. There is always going to be pushback towards social reform. Women deserve an equal place in society just as men do, and we aren't going to go back to the kitchen and be forced into marriage a…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 10:32 PM
3

Yeah well your boy has been taken off most popular platforms so it's going to be a lot harder for him to manipulate new victims. Your ideologies are not just up against "this sub," they are up against trends in western society that are moving us towards a more tolerant world. You incels can keep yearning for the return of the 1950's and pretend that your echo chambers are anything more than a fringe group of radicals. The rest of us will ignore you or just think of you regretfully in passing lik…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 08:52 PM
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It could be a lot of things. They are jealous the woman had sex with someone and not them. They think it proves all women are irresponsible and make bad choices. They hate women and don't like to see boys raised by only women with no male influence. They see it as a degradation of society since women aren't forced to stay with men anymore. They may have had bad experience with their mothers, as some have mentioned. It's easier for some to feel hated for people who are struggling rather than pity…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 11:20 PM
13

Not only is it wrong, it's incredibly harmful to think of another group of people as incapable of feeling the depth of human emotion. The manosphere uses this kind of thinking to dehumanize and vilify women.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 06:48 PM
2

This might have to do with your reading comprehension, but no one here said anything bad about your family.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 03:59 PM
6

It just seems like a recipe for an equally abusive relationship where no one can be truly happy or trust the other person.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 08:17 PM
4

You're talking about one woman, not a problem affecting a large segment of the population. Should I assume all white men are sexual predators just because I met one guy who was like that. I CAN'T be a coincidence that the only sexual predator I knew was a white man
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 03:18 AM
16

See everyone? This is what redpill / blackpill does to you. Get out while you can.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 08:59 PM
4

That's how he gets you. The stuff about taking personal responsibility is something most people would agree with, but after that he goes into things about how we need to go back to 1950's, and how men should be in charge because they are more capable. A lot of men like to hear these things so they keep listening.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 10:31 PM
6

Here's a classic about the Toronto killer: “He was angry at God because women were rejecting him. The cure for that is enforced monogamy. That’s actually why monogamy emerges.” He thinks that if women aren't forced to marry, they will only go for "high status" men. Classic redpill mentality.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 10:27 PM
8

Women do not have it better. It is just different. Redpillers see the dating app statistics and use it to "prove" that women aren't lonely and that everything must be easier for us. Having sex with random strangers does not = happiness and it ESPECIALLY does not = relationships. There are just as many sad, lonely, unattractive, and socially awkward women out there as there are men. Sure, I could hop on a dating app and find some creep who just wants to use me for sex, risk my life and safety, an…
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 11:29 PM
1

The best you can do is put yourself out there. Join clubs or find online meetup groups in your town or city. There are groups on Facebook that are specifically for people to make new friends. I don't know much of your situation, but a lot of people make friends at work. You might try doing something extra part time or volunteer. It would at least help you get out of a routine and force yourself to socialize.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 11:32 PM
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Because the point of this sub is to try and help people not think like that anymore and insulting or mocking them is just going to make them go right back.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 11:06 PM
3

I dated a guy who was 5'5 and he actually liked the fact that I was taller than him (I'm 5'9). Another guy who I had a crush on in college was around that height but he rejected me, because I was too tall... Honestly, I probably wouldn't date someone who was 5' because they would be a lot shorter than me, but you never know.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 07:08 PM
7

Yeah I think it's pretty simple. Women just don't want to have as much casual sex as men do. This could be because of biology, social stigmas against promiscuous women, or the greater risk involved for women.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 06:01 AM
2

People in the Midwest are the worst. Get out of there.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 05:15 PM
2

For every woman to have 100s of men lined up for them, there would be a large percentage of single women who have completely taken themselves off the dating market, like 50% of women, which is just not the case.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 02:35 PM
2

The thing about your math that doesn't work out is that there is roughly an equal ratio of men to women in every country. How is it possible for all women to have hundreds of men lined up looking for a meaningful relationship with them? What is really happening is there are a bunch of guys on dating apps, and the vast majority just want to get laid and move on. The women who are on there usually want the same (although some women use stuff like tinder for dating which I think is exhausting), but…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:47 PM
3

It's cool for women who are just looking for a lay. But most women don't just want to have sloppy sex with a stranger, so because of this, we have to be more picky about who we choose to go out with, and it's the same reason why there are less women than men on dating apps.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 10:38 PM
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Not to mention it's really expensive so off the table for most people.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 04:14 PM
6

I was just using that as an example. If I was smelly, or people found me annoying, or if I had some sort of weird tic - all those things would affect whether or not people liked me. Do you really think all men are so one-dimensional that they would accept any woman no matter what, if they just have four basic traits?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 11:45 PM
2

I mean, ideally that would be great, but I don't think everyone wants to hear stuff like that. Maybe you do, but I know if someone told me they dumped me because my voice was annoying or I was too stupid, I would feel pretty bad, and it might put me off of dating altogether. Also, everyone has different preferences. Too far for one person who is incredibly picky might not necessarily mean that I am fat. And it's not on the person you met for two dates to be your therapist. They aren't getting pa…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 10:09 PM
6

So what if I'm a woman and I'm monogamous, kind, attractive and caring, but I also have severe depression and most men can't handle that. Just being those three thing doesn't = compatability. Just like you could be an attractive man who is kind and funny (like many women will tell you they like) and still not find a date because there is a detail you overlooked like not wearing deodorant. Having those traits helps but it does not automatically mean you can easily get a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 09:30 PM
2

No one on the internet is going to be able to give you generic advice if you have personal issues you need to work through. They don't know you. They don't know what you are going through. You need a therapist for that. Generally, Google searching "how to attract women" and reading reddit responses or watching YouTube videos is not going to help you if you are a chronic liar or have some sort of toxic personality flaw that turns people off.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 09:18 PM
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I just read all these men complaining about how much they hate that they can't get sex right away, and how awful that is. Like, what about the emotional investment in a relationship. Isn't that important too? You are going to have sex eventually, what is so hard about waiting a few dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:24 PM
0

Look, most women don't think of it that way and it is not coming from a place of manipulation or maliciousness. Most are not withholding sex from you to punish your or treat you poorly, we are just trying to protect ourselves from pick up artists or men who DO think of hookups as a game. If a woman really likes you she might want to take it slow so she doesn't get emotionally invested and hurt after the man gets what he wants from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:20 PM
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Yeah but we aren't monkeys, and I hope you don't think we should behave that way. Human relationships are complicated, and like I said before, women don't tend to value sex as much as men do. Anyway, if all you care about is getting sex, then why care about having a real relationship in the first place? Just ditch the lady that doesn't put out on the first date and go on with your life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:55 PM
0

It kind of depresses me, reading this thread and those other ones today. Is that really all you guys want? To have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:51 PM
1

Those people are probably manipulative af or have some sort of charisma that pulls people in. Attraction isn't all about looks. There are plenty of good guys who are not that great looking but are funny and charismatic who get lots of attention from women, but we tend not to talk about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:48 PM
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Yes, you seem like a good person, not a so-called "nice guy." I wish there were more good people like that in the world who don"t expect to get a reward just for being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:44 PM
0

So you guys think that not having sex right away is being shit on? It's not that way for women, which I guess is where the confusion comes in. We aren't trying to punish people by not having sex with them, it doesn't feel like a reward for us. Dating isn't a game to women, to see who gets to have the most sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:35 PM
0

I'm all about Tom Hiddleston.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:29 PM
1

Yeah, and that's what I've gotten out of reading posts here, and from MGTOW and FMDS. What I'm still struggling with is why some people move on from their bad experiences, and others choose to blame an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:29 PM
5

Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:24 PM
1

Exactly, it's not about viewing sex as a "reward," it's about fear. A woman doesn't want to get "pumped and dumped," as men here so often like to put it. She wants the guy to get a chance to know her as a person so there is a better chance of him sticking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:20 PM
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This is why I come here too. I want to see the reasoning behind the hateful attitudes I see all around reddit and social media these days. Sometimes it makes me depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:43 PM
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Apparently having sex is "debasing" yourself, but only if you are a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:56 AM
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People should stay off dating apps imo.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 05:57 PM
3

It's just social darwinism. A bunch of dudes are sitting around and coming up with reasons why some people are inferior to others. They throw in enough scientific sounding words to make their ideas seem plausible, but at the end of the day it's just dressed up bigotry with no basis on any credible research.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 09:07 AM
3

Also the collection of dating profile screen snaps that show up in their echo chambers.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 09:02 AM
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It's not, and this moron gets more and more aggressive the longer this thread goes on. He's like a cardboard cutout of a fat reddit incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:48 AM
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How is it "greedy" to not want to have kids until you feel you are financially stable and mature enough to give them a good life? There is always adoption if a woman can't conceive, and it is not her duty to have kids in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:51 PM
9

Yeah I don't think this is encouraged by "society." The money-driven gold digger seductress trope is usually a villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:45 PM
5

Some girls are into different scenes and like men that fit that style. I never really liked the tattooed look, but I think it goes to show that there isn't just one "type" that all women are into, women are into different looks for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:56 PM
1

As if men NEVER judge a woman by her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:43 PM
6

I mean obviously you are going to be more successful if you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:34 PM
1

It depends on how good the guy is at lying and how attractive he is. If a woman is tricked into believing a man is a good person, cares about her, etc. or is psychologically manipulated in other ways, that isn't necessarily her fault. Both men and women are lied to and tricked by con artists every day. PUA techniques work. Now, do you want to be the kind of immoral person that manipulates and lies his way to getting what he wants? That's a bigger question to ask yourself, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:23 PM
1

Are you talking about younger women who are in open relationships or women that are active cheating on their husbands? Either way, why is this behavior acceptable for men and not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:09 PM
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How is it victim blaming to wonder why people break up? Are you a victim if someone ends a relationship with you? There are good reason to do so. There are never good reasons to sexuallt assault someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:52 PM
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Lots of women like sex work, and as long as the industry is regulated and abusers can be punished, I see nothing wrong with sex being a business transaction, just like anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:00 PM
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No, I was only responding to the statement that women are generally untrustworthy. I don't think that of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:05 PM
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I am a woman, and I think it is bad to cheat. Just because SOME women cheat, that makes it moral for ALL men to cheat once they reach a certain age? Your logic makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:02 PM
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All you're saying is that some people do bad things regardless of gender, which I agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:00 PM
4

I wish sex work was more acceptable and legal in most countries so these guys could just go out and get a fix when they needed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:31 PM
3

It is never okay to cheat. It is an act of betrayal and immoral, and the fact that you think it is "okay" for older men is pretty messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:27 PM
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I agree and there is nothing wrong with not getting married or not dating if you don't want to take the risk if getting hurt or losing your money. I just don't like it when redpillers try and use statistics to make women look innately "bad" or untrustworthy, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:03 PM
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I'm aware of the marriage statistics, but you guys never want to think about WHY these women are divorcing so often. Maybe it's because men are 50% more likely to cheat. Maybe it's because women are more likely to get burdended with more housework or childcare while working a full time job. Women are more likely to suffer from physical abuse. Women are clearly unhappy in their marriages. The "why" is a lot more subjective, but we can look at other statistics to try and figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:46 PM
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Extramarital affairs are more often perpetrated by men, not women. 20% of men cheat, vs 10% of women, so I don't know where your facts are coming from... https://ifstudies.org/blog/predicting-infidelity-an-updated-look-at-who-is-most-likely-to-cheat-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:03 PM
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Yeah I agree. On reddit you have such places as theredpill and femaledatingstrategy that cater to people's distrust or outright hatred for the opposite sex. Insecure men and women are watching YouTube personalities that are basically con artists trying to sell worthless books and products. I also think that dating apps are hurting our ability to communicate with each other in any meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:53 AM
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There is a lot of social stigma for having sex with sex workers. In a lot of places they are illegal and unregulated, and many men wouldn't even know how to find one to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:47 AM
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Yeah seriously. The type of guy who is ONLY going to the bar to score seems more like a predator than someone I would like to meet or have fun with. Likewise, guys who are only on Tinder because they want to get their numbers up are not great people to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:54 PM
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No one is complaining about whether or not the entire clitoris is removed or what the term "cutting" means when applied to a complex organ. You are just deflecting from the real problem. The fact of the matter is that when the clitoris is cut the intent is for women to experience less or no sexual pleasure. When a man's penis is circumcised, the intent is NOT to reduce sexual pleasure of the man, it comes from the misplaced notion that somehow male circumcision can reduce infection. Either way, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:16 AM
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I don't care if my friends are promiscuous and sleep around with people they have met on dating apps or whatever. I am not that way myself, but if they are staying safe and are having fun that's great for them. I didn't see it as a problem when I dated... I would just let men know that I don't sleep with guys I don't know very well, and if they weren't fine with it, they weren't someone I wanted to date anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 07:43 AM
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This is only based on online dating where people are only looking for hookups. I would say that most people don't care how smart someone is if they are just interested in a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:18 PM
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Talking to people is how you get to know each other. If the first time I meet a guy, he's just going on about himself and how smart he is, I'm not going to care to continue the conversation. I mean, sometimes I have made the effort to try to correct someone's social issues, but that never goes too well either. Who wants a relative stranger or acquaintance to tell them they are being Iamverysmart?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:15 PM
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Yeah I actually read most of this without reading the first part and thought it was supposed to apply to all people.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 06:05 AM
1

There is a phenomenon in human psychology that causes humans to see patterns after something has been pointed out to us, even if those patterns do not really exist. For instance, if someone told you that the number 23 was meaningful in some way, you might start noticing that number a lot more often. Of course, you are still seeing 23 as often as you were before, but now you are thinking about it. This is how conspiracy theories catch on, and how movements like the redpill gain traction.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/21 07:03 PM
2

Yeah the plucking and shaving thing is the absolute worst. I wish more guys (and women) had your attitude! I guess what I'm saying is that it's hard for everyone in different ways. Men have to have that balance of looks, money, and personality and women have to spend a stupid amount of time and money on their appearance. Personally, I would rather focus on my career and personality and spend less time on beauty care. I do all three for my own benefit - but it would be great if I could also just …
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 07:18 PM
2

It can still be tiresome for women too. All we need is to be pretty and a man will want you? What if you aren't pretty? We put a lot of work into looking good just because people won't take unattractive women seriously. There's the classic joke, "Well, she has a good personality," meaning you aren't pretty enough to date. Average looking men still have a good chance with women if they are funny or charismatic. It isn't as much about looks with women, so I feel like men have a better chance and d…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 05:50 PM
2

I think you are right about confidence being key. A person can have a whole host of negative traits, but if they hide those traits behind charisma, they will be able to attract people. Some people just have charisma and they don't have to work for it, but self- confidence is something everyone can achieve. The best way to become confident is to be comfortable with yourself. This is hard, I know, because I went down that road myself. Try podcasts that focus on non-toxic ways of improving yourself…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 04:01 PM
8

Yes hierarchy does exist but it is much more nuanced than labeling people as "alpha" or "beta" - leaders or followers. Everyone has role to play in society and people are valued for lots of different reasons.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 07:45 PM
1

Haha oh yeah.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 11:06 PM
1

I'm starting to think maybe you are aromatic.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 09:59 PM
11

Yeah actually not being sexually attracted to real life people is a sign of being asexual.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 04:54 PM
1

I know this guy has given up here, but I just want to point out that blackpill is NOT science; dating apps are pretty toxic and shouldn't be the standard; and pseudo-scientific "evolutionary psychology" based off YouTube personalities is just harmful. I was just asking him to go outside and see for himself what people are like out there, that's hardly anecdotal evidence.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/21 12:26 AM
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These ideas have wormed into your brain and have become your reality because all you do it sit on the internet and read blackpill/redpill propaganda. The real world is not like that. Just go out to a restaurant or a park or something and look at all the couples around you. You will see overweight men, short men, awkward men, all kinds of men that are in relationships with women. How do these men get dates or get married if women only go for tall, muscled, alphas? Women are people just like men w…
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 01:39 PM
2

Yeah if we all used bar soap for shampoo, no makeup (some women can pull it off) with hairy legs and cargo shorts, you would not think we were so hot.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:26 AM
2

It has nothing to do with how I feel. It has to do with proof and evolutionary biology. It is clear to me that your logic has nothing to do with fact or research and everything to do with your own desires. You made a ridiculous claim and didn't provide any evidence for it, so the onus is on you to prove your point or else we're not going to get anywhere.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:57 AM
2

Well you obviously know nothing about hunter gatherer societies and "common sense" doesn't prove anything. So just go ahead and live in your selfish little fantasy and I'll just hope that you never get the chance to raise any children.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:52 AM
2

Dude, it did not happen. You are just making up complete nonsense. Please site some sources that say that early hominids fed old women to wolves.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:36 AM
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Yeah and we are still perfectly capable of sustaining our species when two people of relatively the same age have children together. It makes sense in an evolutionary sense for a young man to form a relationship with a young woman because he is strong enough to provide for the children, and also there are less risks of birth complications. This is just common sense, but redpilled dudes love to convolute everything we know about human evolution and distort it to fit their messed up philosophy. Th…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 08:12 PM
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Wow. Damn dude... You think grandma would get fed to the wolves because she has nothing to offer? That's pretty fucked up. Would you feed your grandma to wolves if society collapsed? Survival is about more than breeding. Humans are so successful because we can work together in a tribal unit, and yeah, that means grandma too because she probably has other skills and knowledge other than being a sex puppet. There are plenty of hunter gatherer societies that revere and respect older women. Get off …
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 03:44 PM
12

Older men hit on younger girls all the time. It is usually unwanted. They come off as creepy, scary, or pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 03:34 PM
8

Just pick one thing to work on. Like, if you like smart women, maybe try to read more non-fiction, or study a language.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 04:20 AM
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Would you want an ugly, lazy, boring, unhealthy girl with no money? Ask yourself what traits you want to see in a partner and work on that. There is no template.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 03:27 AM
3

Yeah like I just met my friends in college / work and no one I know is like that. I had a few friends who cheated on each other but they aren't my friends anymore.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 03:57 AM
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If you are talking about cheating, then I get it. Cheating on your partner is bad and it's immoral to put someone you care about through that kind of heartbreak. But are you trying to say that it is somehow different when men cheat or when women cheat? Are you also suggesting that women cheat more than men, because THAT definitely isn't true. I'm not sure what point you are trying to make here.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/21 10:18 PM
11

Sounds like you're just hanging around with people who have no standards.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/21 10:11 PM
5

If no one cared about what you said, then why is everyone here trying to calm you down and allay your concerns that this show is ruining society and women? Clearly it isn't, and a lot of women here are telling you they don't like this show, or watch this show, and don't care about massive shlongs. You said you didn't like this show, well I think most people think it is trash so we are actually mostly in agreement on that point.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 10:51 PM
5

Dude I fuckin hate movies and shows like the one you posted about and I don't know any woman in my friend group who would watch that stuff seriously. Women are not a monolith either. There are billions of women who have not seen that show or care to see it.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 07:06 PM
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You don't necessarily have to wear a button up shirt, I was just using that as an example. I'm always attracted to men who look like they care about themselves and aren't slobs - it's a sign of personal well-being. A lot of guys don't put any effort into their appearance.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 06:23 PM
2

I think as far as personality goes, men are just as inconstant as women. Some men like nerdy women, some men like ditzy girls, some men like athletic women, and some men are into women who are sweet and shy. You look at those horrible dating games and you see a wide variety of personality types to choose from, because everyone has different tastes. However, I think there are a few things men can do that are universally attractive to a woman: - Be well-groomed. Go to a salon and get an attractive…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 04:12 PM
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My husband had slept with a lot of girls before me and I honestly didn't like it. If he later told me that he was just being a dumbass and lied about it, I probably would just laugh, and maybe feel a little relieved. But all in all it's such a minor thing, and it doesn't affect me at all unless he had a bunch of stds he wasn't telling me about. Women really don't obsess about previous sexual encounters as much as men seem to, ESPECIALLY red pill men.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 05:52 PM
4

I don't think it's good that people die of cancer... but oh well, that's just how the world is. There is nothing do be done about it. At least I don't have cancer. /s
/r/ExRedPill10/06/21 06:24 AM
9

Getting stuff from having sex with men is not healthy behavior. Unless you are a sex worker whose livelihood is dependent on sex for money, and who is up front about those transactions, you set yourself up for potentially getting hurt or being stigmatized by other people. Most people don't see a woman who sleeps with men for power or gifts as someone who is admirable. Even if it was, this behavior comes with tons of complications. Once the man finds out he is being used, he might lash out at her…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 08:25 PM
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Also I think a lot of the problem is Redpill men are looking to date younger women, and there will always be a wage disparity since younger people are far more likely to be broke and accept handouts from their partners.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 10:41 PM
36

There are tons of women who are financially independent and want to contribute equally. Just find one of those. On the other hand, if you want her to raise your kids and be a housewife, you have to be prepared to support your family financially.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 10:12 PM
1

God, really? That's so fucked up.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 09:02 PM
3

I suppose that's true, and it is a problem that society tends to take male emotions less seriously. Young women have different problems like pressure put on us to be thin or look a certain way, which can lead to eating disorders, but at least we have better emotional support.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 09:00 PM
15

Let me tell you from personal experience, it sucks just as bad being a girl in high school and college who can't get a boyfriend. We just don't complain about it online all the time. I used to have a live journal to cry into that only like three people read, but that was about it. As a woman, people ignore you and you suffer in silence. Things got a lot better for me later on, but I was very shy and awkward in my early years and it was hard to get guys to like me. I think the red pill stuff appe…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 09:27 AM
3

The last guy looks like Tom Hanks with a goiter.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/21 08:32 PM
1

Yeah, she is taking this aging thing way too hard. Getting older isn't bad.. so you won't look like a young girl anymore, big deal. You will have different qualities that make up an attractive, mature woman. Men will still find you desirable even in your mid 40s. If that's what you like, and it's important to you, just take care of yourself and your health, and the effects of aging aren't going to negatively impact your looks too much. Reading redpill propaganda coupled with this anxiety is not …
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 03:55 PM
4

Truth. At least women are far less likely to go bald, and men will just as easily get fat and give up. It just depends on how well you take care of yourself.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 03:47 PM
1

Uhh why would you attack her? She's just doing her job.
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