| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Why are posts and comments about match rates on OLD are not allowed on other dating subreddits? | MembershipPlus2082 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 07:43 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?First option. Men are supposed to pay for everything anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:26 AM |
| 10 | How to pick up girls as a black guy ?He would go wash out the pepper spray out of his eyes. High risk, high reward | /r/seduction | 13/08/23 04:10 PM |
| 7 | How to pick up girls as a black guy ?I had a black friend that I went to bars with, and he approached women and asked "Do you know what's true about black guys?". If the woman said something sexual, he would tease her that she has a dirty mind. Keep in mind he only did it later at nights, when everyone was drunk | /r/seduction | 13/08/23 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old?Is there an option for a half dead 70s woman? I have different fetishes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Question for the men who have trouble meeting women: have you tried signing up for a Ballroom dance class?Yeah, not sure how common it is. That 40s man owns a restaurant, has a really nice house and a hummer SUV. I remember when I went to one of the salsa classes he normally go to, and a girl was waiting for him to pick her up, she said to me “this guy is never going to settle down, right?”. So at least those girls know what they get into | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Question for the men who have trouble meeting women: have you tried signing up for a Ballroom dance class?I did some salsa dancing classes few years ago. I agree, most of the class was women. However, dancing is not really my thing and only took 2 lessons. My hobbies are guns, investments and tech. One of my friends is in his 40s and manages to go out with 20s single women from his salsa dancing classes. And keep in mind he’s bald and overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:05 PM |
| -3 | Transgender man - do I fit in here?Depends. Liberals (drug-based) would say Yes, conservatives (reality-based) would say No. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/23 03:31 AM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?Try smaller cities in the Midwest. Major cities in the US are not a good spot to find long term relationships. Casual fun yeah, but no commitments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 10:56 PM |
| 66 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldI have a 3’8” guy friend that basically doesn’t leave his bed. He has a line of women outside his room. Height doesn’t matter. Trust me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 05:07 PM |
| 12 | Kidnapping and forcing men to marry in India. A growing phenomenon.Marriage is probably the most dangerous event a man can have in 2023. The wrong woman can destroy any man. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/23 03:15 AM |
| 12 | There is no hook up cultureHookup culture exists, but only 10-20% of the top men benefit and participate in it. IRL, I have 2 "chad" friends which casually date multiple women, many from OLD. While many other of my men friends can't get a single match on OLD. So clearly, hookup culture is here, but most women go for a specific type of guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 09:32 AM |
| 4 | Advice for a 37 year old virginMy advice? don't look for advice on reddit. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 08:14 PM |
| 2 | What is it like to date or have a gf?How tall are you? | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Women here, what advice would you give to your sons going into dating?focus on being 6ft+ tall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 12:10 AM |
| 135 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...I don't believe this post is 100% real, as OP has a link to a seduction blog on his profile and probably profiting out of poor men looking for advice. Regardless, I agree you need to be "fucking hot" as he mentioned to sleep with multiple women | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:37 PM |
| -6 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?"the number doesnt matter. im here with you now" | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Does it seem like nightlife venues such bars and clubs have lately become more and more like sausage fests? Are women not going out as often any more?I live in Austin, TX and it's the complete opposite. When I walk downtown and look at bars and nightclubs, I think 75% of the crowd is women, mostly in groups. I suppose it depends where you live | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:42 AM |
| 5 | What do you think of this post made on r/socialskills about approaching?Remember that users on reddit are a specific subset from the total population, and "most users" does not equal "most people" in real life. Dont take advice based on what "most users" say | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are posts and comments about match rates on OLD are not allowed on other dating subreddits?haha, okay. are you a single woman mod by any chance? Why is it off-topic? I think some people consider match rates a red pill content and that's why mods remove those posts on those subreddits, as they don't allow "red pill" content | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Why are posts and comments about match rates on OLD are not allowed on other dating subreddits?Yeah, I probably spent more than $300 on OLD apps in the past 3 years. If I knew the actual stats before, I would have probably acted differently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are posts and comments about match rates on OLD are not allowed on other dating subreddits?I would have better expectations from using OLD apps as an average man if I knew the reality. Yeah, I agree, it's sometimes cause negative discussions, but I rather know the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are posts and comments about match rates on OLD are not allowed on other dating subreddits?Usually, there's not alot of negatively in the posts about match rates. They are simply stating facts. Why wouldn't I want to know the truth? It could have saved me time, afford and money knowing those facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are posts and comments about match rates on OLD are not allowed on other dating subreddits?Lady, are you trying to get me banned again? I think there was a big push from governments and organizations to get as many as people vaccinated. Any question about side effects or effectiveness of the vaccine in preventing infections could have caused lower vaccination rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Did I miss out on hookupsYou didn’t make the cut because the issues with ED or you were unsuccessful in OLD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Did I miss out on hookupsI’m a 34M and never took part in the hookup culture as well. I don’t feel like I’ve missed out on anything, mostly because even if I wanted, I dont have the physical traits to do so. However, I’m definitely jealous at the people who had those hookup experiences. I believe that if you can, go out there and have some casual fun. If you have the physical attributes (lean fit, 6ft and with a good income), you’re still young to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:03 PM |
| 2 | mixed feelings dating single mom'shaha, yeah, cant be too careful here, but it's 2022 and I think most people don't care about interracial couples. it's quite popular. However, if you to marry her or LTR with her, that's something that will definitely raise eyebrows. A couple with a kid from a different race. People automatically start speculating things | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 03:07 AM |
| 3 | mixed feelings dating single mom'sEven if you end up dating a single mom with short term in mind, try not to meet the kids. I heard stories that guys met the kids, and "connected" with the kids emotionally and got hooked into long term relationship because of that. What do you mean the child doesn't look like her? she adopted one? | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Sugar/Transactional Dating is eventually going to become normalizedYou don’t have to look far. look at the results: 50% of women in their 30s are childless, marriage rates are in the lowest rates they have ever been and single moms percent is climbing. Go have a look at /r/datingoverforty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Sugar/Transactional Dating is eventually going to become normalizedI think it’s going to be a good thing for everyone. It’ll take out casual sex of the dating world. Men will be able to find casual sex in VR. Women won’t get abused for hookups by the top 10% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Study about female pair bonding?I think the main cause is not the amount of sexual partners, but rather the how a woman selects her partners. A woman with low amount of sexual partners was probably willing to settle with a “lesser man” and didn’t try to date up. When a woman had high amount of sexual relationships that never lasted, it’s a sign she’s only dating the top men who’ll most likely never settle down, unless she’s a solid 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Sugar/Transactional Dating is eventually going to become normalizedI think in 20-30 years, VR will be so technologically advanced, you’ll be able to have sex there without even knowing you’re inside a virtual world Men will prefer sex transactions in VR and women will have erotica story lines where they get seduced by handsome rich men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | If women generally want the best guys, they should be more willing to accept them having multiple wivesYeah, I assumed that many women are fine with knowingly go into relationships with guys that date multiple women, but seeing it out in public like that shocked me. The women's behavior was also strange. It felt like they are somewhat slaves in those situations. For example, when they leave a restaurant, the women followed the man like he has a king that needed to be worshiped. They were hugging and were physically active, so I'm 100% those are not platonic relationships. I'm not talking about a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | If women generally want the best guys, they should be more willing to accept them having multiple wivesI live an a very liberal city in the states and I can swear I'm seeing a shift towards harems in the past 2-3 years. I keep seeing groups of 2-3 women, usually not that attractive, hang out with a single HVM male. I'm just shocked they are behaving like that out in the public. It's clearly that they are not only friends or co workers and there's sexual tension around them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Why is every one thinking height is being so important??Can you please take off the mask from your profile avatar? I understand you're probably a die hard liberal, but it's 2022. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Why is every one thinking height is being so important??So why do you think tall men are considered high status? because they look good in tiktok videos? There's a historic reason behind it. Yeah, being tall is not just about having advantage in hunting. Taller people also have other good traits, such as being stronger, ability to protect their family, shows he had plenty of food and so on Personally, I prefer a taller woman, but she can't be more than one or two inches taller than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Why is every one thinking height is being so important??The source of it? Try go outside, and find a taller dude. He has more visibility of the terrain around him. This gives him advantage in finding animals to hunt (if he lived 500 years ago). In the past 100 years and up until OLD, it was harder for women to find and date only taller guys. Since OLD came to our lives, women can easily filter out anyone below 6' and only go for taller men. Based on these trends in online dating, anyone shorter than of 5'8, like me, has and will not have any success … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Why is every one thinking height is being so important??Being taller had genetic benefits in human's society in the past centuries for stuff like hunting and seeking pray. While it's not the case anymore, i think our brains are still hardwired to think tall people are more successful, which actually cause them to be successful in business and politics. for example, the prime minister of the country I'm originally from is shorter (5'7) and he looks like he doesn't belong being there, as most politicians around him are 6ft or taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Why is every one thinking height is being so important??True, I'm a shorter guy and every time if I see a taller guy, I become less confident. I think that being tall is not just about genetic health, it's also about the additional benefits that attached of being tall. Tall guys are usually more confident and even more successful in business. A survey of Fortune 500 CEO height revealed that they CEO's on average are 6 ft 0 in tall, which is approximately 2.5 inches taller than the average american man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:07 PM |
| 7 | What is it about erotica that makes you gravitate towards it vs other kinds of porn?I'm a man (34M), and I stopped watching porn and only rely on erotic stories to be "happy". I love the story lines of erotica, the fact you can sense emotions of the characters and it's simply more entertaining than most porn videos. There's more variety of stories in erotica and for me it's more powerful than watching another couple doing it. Also, my favorite categories is non consent / reluctance and exhibitionist stories, which are not realistic categories to find porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?I see the same happening on twitch. alot of normal egirls are trying to get into streaming, but it's tough market due to the amount of competition. 10 years ago? any woman could have probably made a huge amount of cash on twitch. Today? Not so much. There are thousands of women into streaming and probably 90% of them make less than few hundred dollars a year streaming there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:41 PM |
| 53 | Q4Men: Do you genuinely think OF is easy/worth it?I think many OF creators already have a big user base of simps from twitch, Instagram or tiktok. These creators use the OF platform to monetize their popularity they built somewhere else. You can't expect just to open an account there and start making money. Do I think it's easy for an average woman to wake up one day and decide to make money on OF? no, it's probably hard. However, looking at those stats, they are very similar to the breakdown of likes from women to men in OLD. the top 10% of me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 06:21 AM |
| 12 | How to ask a girls age in any type of approach ?If I learned anything from bang bus videos, is to ask a girl if she's still in high school or not. that should cover everything | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Womens body countFor me, I'll try to see how sexually a girl behave around other guys. If she's touchy and flirting with other guys, I assume she was more promiscuous in her past. But probably hints from her social media or friends are the best option to get a better number. How old are you? around 30? I assume your body count is 26, not 8. asking about high body count on reddit kinda lead me to believe you're worried about high body count. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Womens body countI will never trust the body count told by a girl. I'll try to figure it out based on her behaviour and hints from her friends. By default, I assume a girl has atleast 2-3 guys added to her body count per year, since she was 17. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | The RP/Manosphere is making the Beta Bucks an endangered species and many women are going to be screwed.Yeah, I see your point, and I've read too many posts from /r/datingoverforty to understand the frustration of women trying to date over 40, or even over 30. 90% of the posts over there are from single women who try but can't find a long term partner. But at some level, these women at least had an opportunity to date multiple people when they were young. They might have been shy or got abused, like you wrote, but they had a chance. If you look at an average man in their 20's or 30's in today's da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 02:47 AM |
| 2 | The RP/Manosphere is making the Beta Bucks an endangered species and many women are going to be screwed.Most average women can choose to "have fun" or not in their 20's, but most average men, like me, didn't have that luxury. I can't just create a profile on tinder and find "hookups" like most women. Yes, I'm saying that most men find younger women more attractive. It's a fact and in some way, I don't think men can even control that. It's an evolutionary feature designed to help men find healthy women that can "make babies". On the opposite side, women are designed to look for the highest valued m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 11:15 PM |
| -1 | The RP/Manosphere is making the Beta Bucks an endangered species and many women are going to be screwed.Personally, I don't find most 35+ women attractive. I think most men value youth and it's hardwired into men's brains to look for a younger fertile mate. I don't blame anyone else besides me. I should have spend less time working and making money, and more time into relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world?I suppose it's depend on how far you're in the spectrum. Have you tried reading some dating or pickup books? the Amazon kindle store has plenty of selection. Those books really helped me understand the mindset you need to have to date women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:02 PM |
| 11 | Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world?True, I know an autistic girl who "dated". She only went for normal guys, and she ended a single mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:59 PM |
| 12 | The RP/Manosphere is making the Beta Bucks an endangered species and many women are going to be screwed.It's already happened in the past few years. 50% of women above 30 are now childless, single mom rates are climbing. Also, the marriage rate, which measures the number of marriages per 1,000 people is at 5.1 marriages per 1,000, the lowest is has ever been since 1963. I'm myself one of those BB I suppose. I'll most like keep being single rather than settle for a 35+ single woman who had her fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:I invite you to open a man bumble account in the midwest and start swiping. You’re not going to see any grains of sand, but alot of mountains of gravy and cheese | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 12:35 AM |
| -1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:True, but I believe the reasons for sexless women are different. Most women are can find casual sex easily, unless they are obese. Most guys will not date, even casually, an obese woman. If you're an obese woman, you're automatically become a 3 or below. This pushes you outside the casual dating world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:1:1 correlation with obesity rates of adult females https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity_in_the_United_States#/media/File:Adult_female_obesity_in_the_United_States.svg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:30 PM |
| 6 | Best places to meet girls while still living at home?I have one next to my place. They are all ages until 8pm, and from 8pm they are 21+. I've never seem them kick someone out at 8pm. they just check for your hand wrist band color when you try to buy alcohol | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 04:33 AM |
| 52 | Women have very high standards for romantic interaction but very low standards on treatment while in the relationshipI think when a woman says “the bar is like literally on the floor” it's some sort of a defense mechanism. She needs to justify the fact she prefers to only date the top 10% of men which never want long term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:16 AM |
| 11 | Best places to meet girls while still living at home?18+ arcade bars? Challenge girls to a ddr match. Just make sure you have some dancing skills. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Where do we as a species go from here?I think the biggest worry that can come out of this situation is population collapse, as less people in western countries are having less kids. the US is below replacement levels of existing population. Where does this take us? Governments are opening their gates for more immigration and increasing taxes to fund single moms. I don't think single men are going to revolt. I think single men are still participating in society, they just don't date and have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Face and Status is way more important then Height.Honestly? I wish you were right and I was wrong. But I live in the reality of online dating as a man. I'm also a shorter dude (5"7). I've tried OLD for several months. Bottom line, why would a woman swipe right on me when she can skip me and swipe right on dozen other taller guys? I'm not complaining, but this is what's actually happening in the dating apps. Regardless of your opinion, height is considered one of the main attraction points for women, and women control everything and decide who t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Face and Status is way more important then Height.I assume you're a woman, because no man who ever used OLD will write what you wrote. LOL. anyway, I personally never done that, but I would still suggest for someone who doesn't get any matches to "adjust" his height and see if the likes amount improve. What does he has to lose? He's getting zero results anyway. I literally just read a post today from a woman said she matched with someone who was 5"5 and made out with him on the first date while his profile he was listed as 5"10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrongAh, okay. Makes sense if you’re a male model. Only 2 groups can write a post like you did: women and the top 10% of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:28 AM |
| 30 | The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrongYeah, sure, and I’m an alien from mars who came to visit craft breweries in Cincinnati | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:17 AM |
| 35 | The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrongI have a gut instinct this post was written by a woman and not an average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:11 AM |
| 18 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”she used "cum" and "hard" in her texts? Ask if you need to bring some lub for the yoga mattress or it's already wet | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:41 PM |
| 4 | Face and Status is way more important then Height.I saw multiple posts from women who matched with guys saying they are 5"10, and they were actually < 5"5. The women still went out with those guys, so it's better to list you're 5"10 and atleast get some matches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:05 PM |
| 19 | Face and Status is way more important then Height.I think women expect face, status AND height in OLD apps. If you don't have all 3, don't bother with online dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?I think women think that sex can lead to relationships. However, the gigachads are happy to rotate their selections and not get into relationships and keep it as casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:32 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter