TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

MensaNominee Archive

View 3 posts and 152 comments by MensaNominee on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
9

My friend who does this is also named Matt.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 05:38 PM
1

I'm in my late 20s. I applied TRP tenants to my life while working under a seasoned veteran alpha. Prior to finding TRP, I was already 75% alpha (some beta remained because of the general emasculation of manhood in society). because of my alpha grandfather who raised me and the men in my family being general mysoginists that still carried a wealth of pill knowledge. I slowly shifted the respect of my alpha boss to where I became his "equal" and we had a mutual alpha respect. I left that job and …
/r/askTRP08/07/16 04:27 PM
1

Ironically your post isn't very debatable either. Good post nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 10:48 PM
0

When was the last time you saw a single, independent, middle aged woman who was truly happy with her life? There are quite a few of those here in NYC. Usually the performing artsy type women. They have great fun attending art events, yoga and drinking with friends. They also rotate plates on the reg. But I understand what you're saying NYC is one place and I'm sure there aren't many like it in regards to the type of people it can make.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 05:34 PM
0

Wouldn't your average person fall for this..men included (if it were a WIFE shop)? I know I would head straight to the 6th floor (unless the floors also increased by price).
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:54 PM
0

I don't see anything wrong with that honestly. But, that's assuming that the issue isn't related to an actual "flaw" in your character. I mean, if you're interested in being able to sleep with randoms, I'd suggest forcing yourself to bring chicks home and ordering/requesting a Blowjob before sex. If you can't get hard from 5 minutes of a decent blowjob, you may need to provide more information here so we can help you sort things out OR go to a psychologist.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 03:43 PM
0

I suggest you just talk to a shit ton of chicks. Go out to bars (when you finally turn 21) and just hit on chicks. Hit on chicks ALL NIGHT but make sure you turn the heat up towards the end of the night when some chicks are looking for their "After Plans". Talk to the girl at your gym, talk to the girl waiting in line for coffee with you..just keep chatting. I'm not the ugly friend of one of my social circles but I can tell you a story about a skinny little arab man I was good friends with. He w…
/r/askTRP20/01/15 03:38 PM
0

Yea, I'm currently in the fat/muscle stage and I've just been doing the whole 1 gram of protein for every pound of body weight with a caloric deficit and lifting my max no more or less while getting a little bit of cardio.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 03:31 PM
0

Depends what your desired result is. For example, I can see this type of "problem" benefiting a person looking for a serious LTR. You didn't ask how to correct this "problem" but I'm going to throw some stuff out there anyway. What is the reason you can't sleep with randoms? Is it the fact that you have money or nice things and don't trust them? If so, get a hotel. Is it because you live in a small town and don't want "word getting around"? If so, go out of your area and get a hotel. Is it STDs?…
/r/askTRP20/01/15 03:27 PM
1

I click-baited with the title. I'm not going to lie.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:36 PM
1

To add on to your reply...I think what you've stated is intensified by the fact that he's a big guy. I've noticed and actually been told by women that they "play rough" with me because I'm a "big dude" and they figure I can "Take it".
/r/askTRP15/01/15 09:27 PM
1

apply light dread Can you elaborate? I'm not familiar with this term in the context you're using it.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:37 PM
5

Fussy is ok. None of us are perfect, it's the storming off having a temper tantrum thing I'm not too fond of. It's been a process with her because she was raised as a very sheltered only child. Trust me when I say she has come a LONG way. But, what would you suggest I do to eliminate the potential of a repeat?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:40 PM
4

Agreed. However, she barely eats anything at all is her problem. Claims she just can't find the time. Eating that late is a terrible practice and I just didn't want her to get back into old habits like that.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:38 PM
0

I'm not a confrontational person but that type of disrespect doesn't fly with me. I would have asked him in a very serious tone, "Do you realize she's with me? As in, my girl?" I can't say I've EVER had this happen to me, but then again I'm big, brown and from what people tell me I'm also intimidating.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 10:31 PM
6

I kind of see where you're going with this...I would agree with the initial statement made in your title but for different reasons. I disagree with your point regarding sharing (maybe you weren't specific enough), when you share your successes with people (upon solicitation) you increase your value in their eyes and others (as they will more than likely share your success with others). This isn't to say you should go around facebook or social gatherings just spewing minor successes, but if you w…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:17 PM
1

Thanks graciously.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:57 PM
1

Oh, but in the long run this will affect all of us. Including our offspring. I'm not saying we should band together to abolish what happening, I'm just looking for the opinion of like-minded individuals. One side of reddit looks at this like it's a complete joke, but to the point they acknowledge the topic ONLY from a comedic perspective. The other side of reddit looks at this like it's the end all be all of truth and humanity.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:44 PM
1

It's dealing with sex in general. I'm posing the question to a group of people whom I feel would weigh in on the topic from a better perspective then where I've been seeing it. I read the post rules and wasn't exactly sure if this post was sub-appropriate. Do you think I should move it else where? If so, please point me in the right direction. Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:40 PM
1

Take my situation...I'm in my mid-twenties. I met my current fiance in my senior year of college. She was there with me for moral support, sexual release and even for that simple advice that you already know but you just need to hear from someone. I'm now making decent money for my age living in NYC. Can I say I wouldn't be where I am without her? No...but can I say that I would be here without her? No...that being understood, the FACT remains that she WAS there providing all of the aforemention…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:33 PM
0

He's just coming off as a know it all nerd who likes to beat weaker minds up in social settings.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:55 PM
0

I wouldn't call it "Aggressive" Promiscuity so much as I'd call that "Actively Calculated Promiscuity". Aggressive Promis. just sounds like a slut of violent proportions. Either way, the type of woman you are describing is rare and usually only depicted in movies because your average woman lacks the ability to have sex without getting emotionally involved.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 08:42 PM
1

not a good place to stick around in the interest of bouncing ideas off one another Not unless the sub gets cleaned up a bit more...I know the mods must have similar discussions to ours. They have to cringe at allot of this.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:39 PM
1

Yea. I'm happy I found this subreddit because as smart as I am, I'd always looked at social dynamics from the perspective of class structures and only factored in individual leadership qualities at a bare minimum. This sub helped me realize who I actually am and only further confirmed my thoughts about women AND men. I'd always shared these thoughts with people and was met with much contention at first, but with tact and proper presentation I've been able to sway people into at least tasting the…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:23 PM
1

Depends. Situationally, if her entertainment value is overshadowed by her general mannerisms and characteristics (in a negative way) then it might not be a great decision to "tie down" with her. However, that decision rests on how thick your skin is and how many other options you have available for your temp. relationship.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 03:09 PM
0

I've encountered allot of guys who came here and interpreted TRP as "hate women and be a dick" when it's allot more complex than that. It takes a higher degree of assessment and intelligence to "change" yourself from beta to alpha or eliminate undesired alpha traits/behaviors.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:07 PM
-7

This is the first one I've encountered. I've only been aware of TRP for 4 months or so.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:52 PM
2

The mentality is, in the colder months it would be more desirable to "shack up" with a mate to keep warm and fuck most of the days as opposed to trying to go out in the cold. It also ensures you have someone to spend Valentines day with. Once spring comes you're supposed to prepare your leave so you're single again for Summer. Summer is the time where everyone is vacationing, clubs are more packed, etc so it's easier to get out and get some.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 02:49 PM
7

Not to mention, she expressed her disinterest in him running and he did it anyway and lost.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 02:45 PM
2

Ah, I see you're a big guy...no self esteem. It's OK, I was big for like my first two semesters in college...guess what? I was still banging 6s on the reg with an occasional 8 sprinkled in there and I was 5'9" 270...so yea. Here we go Gym...Treadmill, mile a day as fast as you can complete it for about 3 weeks (5 days a week). Don't lift, just go and do this until you've done a full 3 weeks without quitting or missing a day. Once you've done that, start your workout with a mile (should be able t…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 06:59 PM
1

No it's not...he basically said to come off as if he did something wierd or secretive. Tell your friends every fucking detail about how that 5 came harder than a welfare recipients to HR Block during tax season.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 06:44 PM
2

Thank you! I hear some dudes in here saying BS like "I like 5s sometimes, my friends know I can get better so.." like they have to impress someone. Fuck all of that...you've got the right idea...hey OP, listen to me and this guy...FUCK ALL OF THAT. BANG a 3 tonight just for even asking this question.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 06:43 PM
0

Big girls are my preference and fetish. I have NO regrets or qualms with admitting so...I get allot of jokes from my friends sometimes, but they know I make more money than them, look better than them and just overall have a higher SMV then them so the jokes are their only opportunity to actually judge or criticize me...but even they know it doesn't affect me because I've genuinely had a thing for BIG ASSES since high school. BIG ASSES can come on many body types but most on those plus sized wom…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 06:42 PM
1

self depreciating humor is the way to go Fuck that. I'm gonna own up to the shit and just be 100% honest. If he enjoyed it, say that "Hey, those 5s can fuck like porn stars" or something like that. Fuck all that jokey self depreciating shit...that's a BS coping mechanism and is almost borderline sarcasm. Own up to the shit and wear that shit like you just took home a nobel peace prize. And fuck it, fuck another 5 this weekend just for good measure.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 06:39 PM
2

It depends on how close you two are. My best friend and I are so close we'd know how and what to assess before doing something like that. Also, I'd tell him the moment communication started. I'd say by most people's standards you did a shitty thing. However, that doesn't matter unless YOU truly don't feel as though what you did was shitty. However, considering you're asking I'm going to assume you feel some type of remorse or regret for your actions and I suggest you come forward ASAP and tell y…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 06:34 PM
1

The comments in this thread are very helpful but still relatively ambiguous in regards to your specific situation. I can try my best to help you with a game plan if you answer the following questions: How many women have you EVER fucked? How old are you? What type of area do you live in? (Rural, Urban, Small Town)
/r/askTRP31/12/14 06:28 PM
3

It depends what those 5:1 texts are saying. I'm assuming they're not good considering you've assessed her role as being needy. I'd say call her and attempt to do a cursory review of her current mood with the intentions of meeting her face to face to vet out her feelings. Once you've got a clear understanding of her feelings, tell her face to face what you feel about her feelings and clearly state YOUR intentions. If she doesn't comply with what you've laid out for her in an immediate response (n…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 06:23 PM
2

I say take your career to the next level if you feel like there's a real threat. The whole objective is to increase your personal worth to her. Get ripped, get your masters, get a better job, make some smart investments. Once you're looking good, get some swanky clothes and start taking you and her out to places and make sure she sees that other women want you.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 06:19 PM
1

Interesting. I guess whether you call it "voodoo" or "psychology" they wouldn't necessarily be off base with that belief. If you see where I'm going with this...
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:46 PM
1

It's an easy fuck if you ask me...it just seems like OP hasn't had the right opportunity to bang this chick. If the situations had permitted in the past, he would have been taking her down to bang bang town.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:23 PM
2

Factor in the other things OP has said. Mainly, look at how long he went silent. She's probably saying this now because 2 months is a long time for a college aged girl. Especially if they were consistent hook-up buddies and then dropped communication for 2 straight months. She's feeling like the situation may be awkward and she's doing what she thinks is the smartest preemptive move to keep things calm at the party, in case she sees another guy she hooked up with or she may even be bringing anot…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:22 PM
1

When I first read this I assumed she just doesn't want to bring the New Year in on a whorish note, which is respectable to some degree. She could be genuinely letting you know that she just doesn't want to do those types of things. It probably has nothing to do with you. She is probably well aware that she will be getting drunk and things will more than likely be going down so she's trying her best to lay the ground work ahead of time. OR She's just shit testing you. However, I strongly think it…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:17 PM
2

"Suck them dry" are you talking money or other?
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:10 PM
2

Hey, he might get off to giving...I know I do, especially when I'm drunk. I'm not sure I would have done so with a Thai hooker.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:09 PM
4

Well, when you put it like that...I might have to start throwing caution to the wind allot more. You make it seem as if HIV is damn near impossible to contract.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:08 PM
3

First off you escalated your tone in replying to me, so the gloves are off on this end as well. I'll break down my rather simple response for you big dicked neanderthal: If girls don't REALLY want a huge one because it hurts them, explain to me why this one, which was huge, and did hurt, was a positive attribute to mark him on. I literally answered this in my initial response... it only matters in situations where girls want to talk about it to other girls Next... If my motorcycle came with a sa…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 06:21 PM
3

Yeah, she was not happy at all. I didn't back down and she didn't understand (1) why this was a problem and (2) the fact that anyone would think otherwise. I respect her for even admitting this. When I've had similar conversations in the past I've either had women questioning whether logic is truly as efficient as men "try" to make it seem OR they simply state that it's NOT true, then proceed to attempt an emotionally driven diatribe towards me and my perceived "misogyny".
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:35 PM
1

Then you have the extreme antithesis to being a "basic-bitch" which is being a hipster...so, what would be the median?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:32 PM
1

Leave the beer drinking, MMA, and wrench turning to the men. But these aren't the only Hobbies. A girl can paint, cook, be a connoisseur of sorts, read, be a philanthropist, volunteer, politics, etc. but it's rare that women do any of this with any degree of true passion or enthusiasm and more so do it out of being able to say they did and put it on a resume; thus missing an opportunity to educate or better themselves in any way.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:30 PM
1

If you put it like that, EVERYONE is basic. Oh, he plays baseball, oh look at that a scholarship for baseball...oh look at that, graduated with a bach. in (insert field of choice), oh look at that he makes 70k a year at 24 years old, oh look at that he's marrying a trophy wife, oh look at that he does his own renovations and yardwork, oh look he's 35 and paid off a big loan and now he's buying an expensive sports car....
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:26 PM
3

No you are getting it. They ARE prostitutes in the definition of the word in that they have sex for payment. That payment can be time spent, a ride somewhere, a new purse, a new pair of shoes, staying in a nice house, a vacation, actual money. There are plenty of 5/10 girls who can put on make up and a dress and look like a 8/10 to a relatively wealthy older gentleman who may not be in shape and doesn't have the time or patience to pull the REAL 8/10 chicks.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:22 PM
6

he kind of hobbies you have in your head are probably tied into risk taking. Not at all. Is it too much to ask for a girl who is an enthusiast about anything? I mean, lets take OP's description... social media, works in marketing, hobbies include drinking champagne and watching Netflix Ok, so if you're into social media, why not create a blog or website and post content? Even if it's content on celebrity news or recapping reality television shows with her opinion? If you're into champagne, at le…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:19 PM
3

A bitch is too basic when her actions, appearance and interests bring you shame or any other negative emotional response on a consistent basis.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:13 PM
23

hey try to drag younger women into their same path as affirmation of what they've done. Powerful. This is one of those thoughts I've had subconsciously but you just made it 100% real.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:03 PM
1

I can't answer that question without more information. Are you currently getting pussy on the reg? These chicks you have available, are what would their average rating be (eg 6/10 or 5/10)? Have you banged the hottest chic in your town? If not, why?
/r/askTRP30/12/14 03:59 PM
1

I say fuck it. If you call her 2 weeks from now, it shows you have no other options. If you don't hear from her in the next month, I say wait until a few days before valentines day then call her (not text).
/r/askTRP30/12/14 03:42 PM
3

Someone in the comments gives the literal definition. I can give you the queue-card reading feminist/sjw additional definition of Rape Culture. It's the new way of saying men are pigs because we see nice racks and comment on them or we take pictures of nice asses in public and send them to our boys or we make jokes about rape so often they believe we've become desensitized to the literal act of rape.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 03:38 PM
2

I've hung out with the obnoxious (even extremely charismatic) asshole types. In my experience, those guys RARELY get laid. Do they have women interested in them? Sure. But the degree of their obnoxiousness scares the women away. You would have to be obnoxious, keep your eyes open for any women you catch looking at you and then focus on them for the rest of the night while keeping your options open.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:31 PM
3

First I'd say, don't blame this on maintaining frame because your assessments and portrayal of keeping frame may not have been accurate on a situational basis in your relationship. There's nothing wrong with being thoughtful at all. Just ensure that when being thoughtful, your thoughts are of optimizing results to benefit you and whomever else you've deemed in need of said benefit and increasing efficiency in resolving any conflict with minimal damage to yourself, ego and pride while also keepin…
/r/askTRP30/12/14 03:27 PM
2

Any woman who is fully self-aware of her promiscuous actions is close to being a guy. Meaning, most women riding the cock carousel are being used, exploited and treated like a cum rag and are not fully aware of it. Example, this chick rates all of the guys that didn't look her in the face lower then the one's she felt a "connection" with (maintaining eye contact during intercourse). The fact that she even has any type of negative emotional response to drunk cum-dump sex shows that she is unaware…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:18 PM
3

It really doesn't matter...it only matters in situations where girls want to talk about it to other girls or in front of men they know have smaller dicks with intentions of shaming the guy. Most average size vagina'd women know damn well that anything over 7" isn't something they're interested in taking. I've had women who keep it all the way real with me and say that even 7" is a bit too much for them at times. Especially for girls who like sucking dick and get off to being able to make that sh…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:07 PM
1

15lbs overweight isn't bad at all...especially if it's all in her thighs, ass and/or breasts.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:03 PM
2

I had to look her up, some of her pictures she looks decent...3/10 is a bit rediculous. Here's an example of a 3/10
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:01 PM
1

Ok. Well. You and I obviously don't get off to the same things. I'm not here to judge...enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 09:23 PM
1

Why? It's basically the text version of a slightly advanced form of softcore porn.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 09:12 PM
1

TL;DR - Beta virgin trolls TRP with grandiose stories of depraved sex.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 08:57 PM
14

Here are the circumstances where I've encountered resistance from women to this notion: In the presence of betas If the girl is dating a beta If the girl is an SJW or self-proclaimed and ill-informed queue card reading feminist If the girl is in front of her current boyfriend who is an alpha and she's attempting to be spiteful Other than the aforementioned scenarios, most women I talk to will readily admit they need a "manly man".
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:48 PM
3

I like the challenge and opportunity to lead and train. I also may want to raise a family, and it'll be with her when I do it most likely. Boom! That's it right there.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:37 PM
2

I got plenty of ass in high school all the way up into my senior year of college (when I met her). I told her then that I wanted to "explore" some more before becoming tied down, she was willing to wait for me...I tried a few different times with other chics but the connection I felt to my SO was so great I literally would have girls half naked ready to get fucked and I'd just excuse them from my presence or leave out of lack of feelings or from thinking of my SO (who at the time was just a frie…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:35 PM
0

That's exactly my point, many people define success differently. Black people make great sacrifices in the name of family and friends; sacrifices that often lead to missed opportunities at financial gain. This isn't something I'd expect any white person to have prior knowledge of, for obvious reasons. Black people in America are largely Christian by percentage. Some of the tenants they choose to hold as truths deter them from the quest of knowledge and wealth unlike that of the white man. So, yo…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:27 PM
2

its their knowledge and the power that knowledge (via religion) gives them. Nothing to do with what they are like as people; You're almost splitting hairs with this one. If a person has knowledge and that knowledge gives THEM power...are they themselves not powerful? As a person (to put it in your terms)?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:24 PM
3

I try to tell feminists that they should educate themselves on their ideals before attempting to speak as an authority...it's people like this young lady that cheapen the cause and make it more laughable than it was in it's inception. I swear they have like a secret handbook or website that gives you quotes and percentages to throw out in conversation and they're just interchangeable depending on the topic.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:22 PM
2

It's almost as if we're getting a real life, small scale metaphoric example of how the real world works. Woman pops her head in, says something sarcastic and predisposed inciting logical contention then proceeds to blame said contention on her gender and not the fact that she's an ass (regardless of whether or not she has a vagina).
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:20 PM
3

The thing I find interesting is that, a man's support of a woman is often met with contention because when a man attempts to provide what a woman logical needs in regards to support, the woman tends to be offput and defensive because it did not meet what she expected as "support". If a woman comes home complaining about how her boss doesn't respect her, but in the same breath tells you the stories and gossip of every single person in her office; am I supposed to give her what she wants, "Oh, tha…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:18 PM
1

Feminism simply wants everyone to be treated with the same regard. Politically, domestically, in the workplace, etc... That's it. Would you treat a dog the same way you treat a cat? Would you attempt to make lemonade with apples? Even if you attempted to, would you end up with lemonade or apple juice? My point is, why would you treat everyone the same when everyone is not the same. Blanket handling of anything is inefficient and where differences are clearly quantified, proprietary handling shou…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:09 PM
1

For example, I've never met a guy who is any good at choosing decor. Well, that's not supporting anything other than your lack of creative friends. I pride myself on designing the entire interior of my apartment...but I'm also a painter/general creative.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:05 PM
1

"If we are equal, whence cometh inequality?" Every-time I ask this question to a feminist whether online or in person, I NEVER get an answer or I never get a straight answer...they'll either completely go off topic and attack me personally or they'll start using examples of matriarchies but never really touch the specific question at hand.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:59 PM
1

I'm not sure if any of the things you've listed have been proven as biological. MAYBE the part about women being people persons and men being technical, I've read some psychology articles on this topic that support this; however, most of what you've stated is a mix between biology, inherent psychology and learned behavior/culture
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:58 PM
0

Even the most superior people can be "bested". That being said, dominating a culture that does not know or understand the concept of dominance and has built their morals/life views on a different set of objectives proves nothing. It's like bragging about overtaking an infant for their candy. If race had anything to do with success we wouldn't have ANY successful non-white people. The concept of "success" is quantified differently around the world; however, non-white people are increasingly takin…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:54 PM
2

Fair point. I stand corrected.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:35 PM
2

"If you have to refute someone's reasonably justified self proclamation, you are showing that person your own insecurities" - Mensanominee
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:04 PM
1

Interesting. I'd like to share a perspective on this subject. My SO of 5+ years (soon to be fiance) is VERY tiny. Like, 5'2'' or something and we schedule our laundry to be done every 2 weeks (just how we worked it out financially). We both have about the same amount of clothes come laundry day but it comes out to be two 30lb+ bags worth of clothes. The first time she went to do our laundry, she didn't bother to ask me to help...it was I who volunteered because I couldn't bare to see her struggl…
/r/askTRP15/12/14 09:06 PM
1

sexually repressed and mentally fucked This is usually going to be the case. But this also depends on you. A sexually repressed, mentally fucked chick can be the pornstar you never met and she never knew she was. The mentally fucked part can also be changed with patience, frame and time. These type of chicks are much more manageable then your average slut or even average chick who is aware of her beauty and the power it possesses.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 08:42 PM
1

Agreed. I should have been more specific, I believe this guy embodied your first example of passive aggression.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:16 PM
-2

There's definitely a misunderstanding because I'm not saying she should have slept in and you should have done it...quite the opposite, I'm saying she did what should have been done, but not because she has accepted it as a duty, it was done because you stayed in bed forcing her to have to do it...which doesn't make your objective to obtain sexual attention from her any easier to achieve.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:02 PM
-5

Not saying that at all, but passive aggressively staying in bed to spite her actions from the night previous gives her more power than if you woke up on time and instructed her to get the kids ready. Treated the situation of her not giving you any ass as if it didn't phase you and continuing with normal communication the next day shows her that you don't NEED her sex and removes some of that power; had your relationship been in a place where you could get up on time to her getting the kids ready…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:36 PM
-1

Tuesday Woke up late (on purpose) and left most of the heavy lifting related to getting kids to school to her. Didn't even really speak til I got to the door and told her I was going out that night. I loathe passive aggressive behavior like this. This is the trait of a woman.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:22 PM
1

How is "I'm a natural" not something a natural alpha would say when I said it? It's just an accurate observation. It'd be the same as if a master chef said, "I'm a natural cook...". You'd have an argument if you tried to say "There's no such thing as a natural alpha..." and supported that with something along the lines of how humans and dogs/wolves aren't that similar in their social constructs, etc etc...
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:50 PM
1

Since I was very young I've had this conversation about why the promiscuity double standard exists. My answer has always been very simple, men insert their penises into vaginas; vaginas are having penises inserted in them....What's more susceptible to "trouble" or "risk", the penis or the vagina?
/r/askTRP12/12/14 08:06 PM
3

By having the following: High SMV Good Dick Brute Honesty from the first "Hello" A "Take It or Leave It" type of attitude
/r/askTRP12/12/14 08:03 PM
1

You wont find quality women at clubs, bars or on tinder. If I may expound on this topic. One, you are incorrect. Why? Because, how many "good" girls do you think get dragged to the club/bar by her slutty, one night standing friends? I can tell you, it happens every weekend without fail. I've become quite good at picking them out. They're usually over or under dressed, standing in the corner nursing some fruity drink holding their phone or staring at the floor. They get visibly shy when you appro…
/r/askTRP12/12/14 08:01 PM
2

she has never dated anyone outside of her ex husband, and one other ex boyfriend. This was your red flag right here...in this day and age, if a girl hasn't had many sexual partners, there are too many tv shows, movies and societal influences for her to feel like she "missed out". My SO of 5 years has only slept with 2 other people aside from myself. This scared me in the beginning until we talked, I learned about her being 100% faithful to her first and only other boyfriend and the fact that she…
/r/askTRP12/12/14 06:21 PM
0

Can you provide something other than your opinionated statement in regards to this topic? Just saying something doesn't make it true, if it did...I'm the richest man in the world and Bill Gates never existed.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:34 PM
1

Those actions do not reflect the religion and what it's message/purpose is. How many of the American slave owners do you think prided themselves on being good Christians? Yet, they still committed selfish and inhumane atrocities to the people they enslaved. Ironically, the bible says that you can enslave another person who may be in debt to you...but the word "slave" meant something less negatively connotative back then. However, no where does the bible speak of beating, killing and raping your …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 04:49 PM
1

But would you agree that in his shoes, at that time and height of racism...eradicating the white race was the most efficient way to obtain his goal of black supremacy or black equality?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 04:45 PM
5

Men used to be very submissive. Riggggght...no. Considering the amount of male-dominated one-sided domestic abuse between the early and late 1900s I'd say you're completely off-base. This was because society as a whole was more genteel because more people were religious, from small towns where the social network still existed That just sounds like men were more regal and gentlemanly-like none of those characteristics are "weak". You'd get slapped in the mouth by another man for being disrespectf…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 04:43 PM
-2

I'd agree with you if only 1 or 2 religions opposed pork...but, from what I understand, most if not all generally accepted religions speak ill of or completely banish the consumption of pork. As I always say, there's coincidence and then there's logical trends...
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 04:39 PM
1

Yea dude, she's definitely trying to "lock you in". You should just be upfront. Let her know, you're not trying to be tied down, you just want a companion for random outings and intimacies. You could give her the old "organic" convo, that's worked for me. Just explain to her that you don't like labels like GF and BF as they're just that...labels. Explain that what you and her have and are is real and she shouldn't complicate by over-assessing something. Then ask her if there's something (other t…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 10:23 PM
1

Read, submerge yourself in the comedic arts and start analyzing everything around you from different perspectives. Being able to relate to people is a skill attributed to the observant; if you have an ability to observe and assess even the simplest things from various perspectives with a true understanding, you will have an easy task of providing wit to a situation.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 10:19 PM
1

Maybe getting her to take a part-time job or something would be helpful though? Yes it would.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 10:16 PM
2

until I fold Aaaaand, this is your problem right here. You are beyond beta. Sit her down, set some rules. You are both adults and have every right (within reason) to venture out into social settings at your leisure. Does she not have friends? Find some; Does she not have money to go out? Make her get some. If you make enough money to truly sustain both of your lives happily, then fuck it...give her an allowance and tell her to fuck up (I doubt you make enough for what I'm talking about). MAKE HE…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 10:15 PM
2

There's nothing to be confused about dude. Fuck the shit out of this chic, keep fucking the shit out of this chic until something obviously bad or good happens. Your questions are too common sense and if you had to ask these questions, these questions are the least of your worries. Seriously. Not being a dick, just being very honest.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 10:01 PM
-1

Ahhh, see, I was in a similar situation and I disagree. I don't think she finds him annoying, I think she has "Deeper Interests" for him and this is her first attempts at testing the waters to see if he'll pick up on it." It really depends on OP. Does OP only want her for sex? If so, I say fuck it and be honest...if he's hitting it good enough she'll only be offended for about a day or so before he gets that text that she wants to "See" him. If OP wants her for more than sex, he should state tha…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 09:59 PM
2

Can we please get the children off of TRP. I feel like every question has come from my little 17-year old brother. Like, dude, this isn't a place to humbly brag in question form. Good for you, you're getting some nookie and giving it to a chic real good...I'm guessing you're under the age of 21, so I'll venture to say this won't work...shut the hell up. Thanks.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 09:53 PM
1

There's a thin line between respect and being a pushover. My experience as an alpha tells me that maintaining my emotions in strenuous siutations, thinking logically and understanding the difference between reason and rational thought. I'll use an example I saw in someone else's comment, if your SO wants to see a chick flick that you're not interested in and you want to see an action movie that she's not interested in...you can speak your mind, but your decision shouldn't always be a selfish one…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 09:49 PM
0

Alpha here...I'd literally say to her, "Oh, you like that one? Come by after I grab some taco bell tonight and I'll show you what santa's planned for you early this year" or something along those lines...or I'd just say, "You love it though."
/r/askTRP04/12/14 09:38 PM
1

There are many ways to handle a situation like this. If you have direct proof and a spotless record, you could have challenged her on it. Meaning, questioned where and when she specifically saw you "Standing around" and then proceed to trounce her allegations with the aforementioned proof. You could have gave a witty, condescending retort but delivered it in a non-confrontational and non-condescending tone...like, "Well, I guess that means you got paid to stand around and watch me standing aroun…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 09:35 PM
1

From the age of 17, my natural instinct was to answer this question with, "See, that's the problem with so many "relationships" (while doing air quotes). Too often, women are seeking to be labeled as "something" in regards to their SO or even Fuck buddy. Why do we have to define what "we" are. Why can't we just...BE? We eat together, fuck each other, watch movies and cuddle...why bring a label into what we've created organically? If you're looking to "Be" something, I strongly suggest that you c…
/r/askTRP02/12/14 07:30 PM
1

I'm interested.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 04:03 PM
4

We aren't "thuggish niggas" Speak for yourself. Lol, kidding. Seriously...beating anyone who hasn't caused you life threatening harm is a serious mismanagement of emotional control; making you one step away from being over beta hybrid hamster.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:31 PM
-1

That's because the "perfect situation" never presented itself.
/r/askTRP14/11/14 10:26 PM
-1

This is all fine and good, but I'm almost certain that under "perfect conditions" you to would hook up on those club/bar nights. Am I wrong?
/r/askTRP14/11/14 10:21 PM
5

some women are so irritating that the only friends they can have is the ones that want to be in their pants Wow. This has to have validity.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:51 PM
1

Really...you wouldn't even get head from her? On a drunk, dessert cock night? She even alerts you to the fact that her deepthroating skills are so on point, she can make your cock disappear and lick your ass hole at the same time?
/r/askTRP14/11/14 09:50 PM
1

done. thanks. Do I need to delete this post?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:29 PM
1

Honestly, if I was filthy rich. I'd just go out and fuck whoever I wanted whenever I wanted...once I found girls in the states/cities I frequented most that fucked me right or sucked a good dick...I'd just keep them plated until one of us got tired of the situation. I'd be up front with all of them...almost too blunt in saying, "I just need someone I can fuck and take on vacation as arm candy with possibly other girls at the same time".
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:14 PM
1

No you're not being a cry-baby. You're just being an angsty teen with raging hormones. My advice for you and I strongly suggest you consider acting on this advice... Work out Find friends that are like minded but outgoing. Study hard Try your damnedest to get into a good University, if school isn't your thing just make sure you are working hard, saving money and accelerating your career. If you do all of this, when you're close to turning 21 all of your teenage awkwardness will have dissipated l…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:51 PM
4

she literally said everything I've said this entire time and received many downvotes and heated real life disdain from. This is NYC! You have no control over what anyone does do you aside from physical harm.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 02:56 PM
28

I'd like to touch on the subject of mothers instilling their hate for their children's father in the children. I was raised by my mother and she would never have anything positive to say about my father at mention of his name. When my dad tried to come around again (for me) in my teen years, that instilled disdain lead me to be aloof in his presence, he persisted, then eventually fell off the face of the earth again. I'm not a full grown adult, living on my own and I got a call from my dad (my n…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:31 PM
1

I pride myself on foreseeing things like this, but I have to say...this general notion described by this woman and further detailed by the comments ITT blew my f'ing head off. I never even thought of this, but it makes perfect sense. Lol. It's actually quite funny. It's even funnier because I'm willing to bet Gay "Privileged" men look at mysandry and feminism as laughable topics; not that they'd ever say such outright...smh
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:24 PM
2

I must be under a rock (sarcasm, I live in New York City) or something, because although the DL scene is increasing in members, I don't believe it warrants girls to auto-assume a guy us gay because of his interest in fashion..especially when living in a place like, IDK, NYC.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:20 PM
1

Just because the father sees this value as benefiting him in some way is irrelevant to the fact that the value traded between the two people may have no benefit to the father while the father still holds the relationship as having some worth. This sentence contradicts itself and only proves my point. I believe I've won this debate. You may not agree, but you've stated what I said then contradicted it with the logic you've been proposing this an entire time. Regardless, we're both smart and cool …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:42 PM
1

Imagine the outrage there if a gal claimed her boyfriend dated hot models, strippers, etc. for 10 years, then hooked up with her, despite her plainness and lack of sex appeal to him, because she was a loyal hausfrau who would properly raise his offspring. I'm literally in this situation...my soon to be fiance was perfectly accepting of my rational and even prides her self on it.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:40 PM
2

I took getting my dick sucked by an Asian woman as a compliment...lol (black guy)
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:37 PM
1

Dude! I had the absolute toughest time explaining this to one of my long-term SOs. Like, she used to get extremely upset when I would question her motives or actions based on how she'd acted previously in similar situations. She would literally say, "I'm trying to get better, I can't do better if you keep holding what I've done against me." Now, I don't believe in forgetting ANYTHING anyone did, no matter how long ago it was...but I'd put up with her argument if I was citing something from like …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:34 PM
1

I got to like #6 and just stopped & shook my head.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:14 PM
1

I'm following you...now define that "ideal". I'll save you some time, that "ideal" is a purpose (following with the definition of the word) therefor that purpose serves as a benefit or satisfaction of the father's interest. So you still haven't convinced me that liking, loving and/or continuing interaction with someone for who they are vs what they do for you (or your ego) are not the exact same thing. The moment that ideal is lost or dropped on the father's part, it would be just as reasonable …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:08 PM
1

Ok. Now I think we can get a debate going. In your same example using the father and son, one can argue that the son still "does something" for the father. Possibly, validates his existence and accomplishments as a man...represents another part of him. All of those things are stemmed from the father's desires and own feelings. In that same situation, if the father were to not have those feelings or needs for fulfillment; say, he was independently successful and consumed by his own work, did not …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:48 AM
1

Again, whether you care about someone or what they can do for you is the same thing. If someone is providing me with what I desire and it is a benefit to my existence, I will put up with their negative impacts the same. I think you're the one that's applying a negative connotation to what I'm trying to say here. Caring about someone and caring about what someone can do for you are essentially the same exact thing. Without adding any conotations to it, and looking at it simply for what it is...yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:28 PM
1

No offense, and I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed (sarcasm); but how does your reply correlate with my comment exactly?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:17 PM
1

You lost me at "A robot...that can think".
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:16 PM
2

The best sex guide is the woman. Seriously, stick to the basics and let her moans (or direct requests) help you guide her into ex-tuh-cee.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 07:28 PM
3

First, and briefly on topic - catcalling is far more pervasive in minority communities and what's 'beta' varies with culture. Point being, that while blond Suzy Sorority doesn't respond positively to it, doesn't mean it won't resonate with a girl from the block, so to speak. There's basically two mentalities behind catcalling - one for action, one for a reaction. THANK YOU!! I've been trying to convey this message in so many different subs to no avail. I'm black, alpha in any culture. I grew up …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 07:25 PM
-1

Depends...I suggest you try and pick up another job, stack that money so you have decent funds stashed away for post high school fun. OR like many have suggested, learn a hobby.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:43 PM
1

Good point. I get a pass because most people know me for being "artsy", into fashion and having a general knowledge of most topics. However, I do believe a straight man can pull this off without coming across as gay. I mean, as long as you maintain wrist strength and remove any lisp from your pronunciation of words, the girl won't have any real reason to auto-assume the guy is gay.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:36 PM
2

Honestly, what has worked for me and my buds...at a bar, simply comment on something about her that has significance. Example, I don't like "ghetto" black girls, I'm into the college-educated-came-from-a-good-family black girls". Usually, those girls wear their hair "natural". I've been doing some reading for the past few months on the natural process and its harder to maintain than getting a perm or weave put in. So, what usually works is saying, "Wow, your _____ came out great, must of taken h…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:39 PM
8

It's because women don't actually like men, they like the benefits of men Truth be told, this can be said about anyone. I only like my male friends because having their company benefits my positive vibes. I don't see the difference between being "into someone" vs. "being into what someone can do for me" it's literally the same thing. If you enjoy a good laugh, your best friend is probably someone that can make you laugh. Is it because you're into "him" or into his "sense of humor"...well, part o…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:24 PM
1

Honestly, keep them all for potential conversation catalysts. I've never been to a club or bar where girls aren't taking Insta pics or snapchatting...that can always be used as a segway into to convo. I can tell you how I use my social apps...I've been doing film/photography for almost 6 years now. I meet all types of models in the real world, the first thing they say at the end of the shoots when everyone is drinking and mingling is, "Give me your instagram" as soon as they add me and see that …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 02:26 PM
7

I don't respect women's manipulative abilities, the same way I wouldn't respect a 4-year old's attempts at manipulation. Why? Because I can see through it. I've always been the type to trounce a woman's attempts at manipulating straight forward and at the root. Once one of MY girls has this happen, they rarely try again. You have to make it VERY clear that you see what she is trying to do and if you're as good as I am, lay out there entire plan for them (you have to be right of course) and watch…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 02:04 PM
8

Yes. I suggest you put this same post in SRS and see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 02:00 PM
13

ex-beta? Like, a man forcing himself to be alpha? edit: I was down voted for asking a question?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:59 PM
0

The notion that Black people are victims doesn't apply to the demographic of AAs I came from. I'm an exception and so are my other successful counterparts. The people that are victims are the ones whose ancestors and predecessors haven't and won't be afforded the luxuries of knowledge and education. Those AAs are fighting a war of the mind. They have been systematically institutionalized and great efforts have not been set forth to right that wrong. You really have to feel sorry for the black pe…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:54 PM
5

I've been on reddit for a year and haven't figured out how to make my paragraphs? I have like 4 returns between each one and it still jumbles them together. My apologies.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:51 PM
14

Very true...The Deida approach is also flawed in that it's not accounting for the spiteful nature of women and their irrational thought processes. In that, you can carry the brunt of the weight in the relationship and she'll still manage to find something to be upset about therefor removing her "female energy" and thus taking away more of YOUR energy with her negativity. I think the best way to deal with women in this sense is to really get them on the level of men...I've never dealt with a male…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 09:53 PM
4

My approach is a hybrid of both choices you listed with some of my own manliness added in. Basically, I've made my SO of 4+ years understand and fully conscious of the fact that she will not get anything out of me that she doesn't directly ask for it. Now let me give more detail. I'm not saying, I won't randomly bring my woman flowers, or be spontaneous with dates etc...but, I WILL NOT be able to read her mind, obviously. Anything that she is expecting and hasn't directly requested of me, will m…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 09:42 PM
0

Well put sir. I do however believe a good number of those beta whites get what I call "privilege pussy", meaning they're banging 5s and 6s with decent bodies but those girls themselves might not exactly be the creme de la creme as far as personality or social status. As a black man, I have to say, the amount of love I get from hot white chicks (7s and higher) has significantly changed within the last 4 years. I used to go to white parties and the girls would be apprehensive, I'd be forced to min…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:19 PM
1

I'd say once every month would be the MAX. I can tell you from my experience, at one point I had 2 chicks that I was banging on the reg (3 times a week) and three other random stragglers that would hit me up for some dick every few weeks to even a month or so. On top of that, I was keeping in communication with several other girls who I'd have a one night stand with, text for a few weeks then completely forget about them.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:14 PM
2

Bro...you're abso out of your mind. I've been plating 5 girls at once since I was about 17 up to about 21. During those 4 years, I'd made 1-2 substitutions every year to year and a half. Don't project your own sexual shortcomings on someone else. I'll give you the BOD because, this is reddit and we can't prove him...but it's not a completely outrageous notion therefor I'm not going to just wave it off.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:12 PM
3

For the most part, I agree with you...but you kind of OVER analyzed and in the process you're kind of just wrong. Don't get ME wrong, if anyone matched everything you've stated, that person's poon reception would be dion sanders level...but let me make a few adjustments for you. Do you make more than $75k a year? Are you 5'11'' or taller with a decent amount of muscle? Do you have a strong or somewhat decent social network in which you're active in? Do you have recognized talent for something ot…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:03 PM
4

Ummm...most indian dudes I know get plenty of poon. It's really all about what you are/look like and how that correlates with what you're going after. Lets be honest, if you're not into fashion and modern trends then you're not going to be pulling those extremely well dress-party-every-weekend-in-the-nice-bars type of chicks. As an african american man, I learned this very quickly. I'm a VERY good looking mixed gentlemen (black and hispanic) and I've never had problems getting spanish or black w…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:59 PM
10

I can't fathom how women expect to be taken seriously as an entity that can think for itself in a rational manner; when they literally say things like "I promised ____ I wouldn't _____ therefor I wont _____...although I really want to. This obviously isn't something that all women do, but it represents a mention-able amount of women age 17-26.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 06:52 PM
2

I'd definitely say more damage was done. Specifically to his anus.
/r/MensRights03/05/13 02:17 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter