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I've found that while I'm actually very fond of women and seem to get along with them well, I have a lot more respect for prostitutes than I do women who don;t get payed for sex... everyone's trying to get something out of this, at least prostitutes are aware of what they are doing and why. It seems girls are looking for love when they have sex with a man, and most of the guys that they let do that aren't after anything similar, thy just want sex. This actually makes me laugh at them and kind of…
/r/seduction25/03/20 07:28 AM
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after a year of this I tend to get a bit pissed off, I've tried this for years and then nothing ever happens, literally a girl can show interest for a year and I will be explaining that I have no real idea what to do but it just becomes so stressful that I fall apart, it has had disastrous consequences in my life and is a repeating pattern...
/r/seduction18/03/20 12:52 PM
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yeah that would be the first step too bad they don;t teach guys how to do that
/r/seduction18/03/20 08:38 AM
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I have found that even when sexual attraction is mutual, mutual fear is absolutely crippling, never found a way through it tbh accept with prostitutes...
/r/seduction18/03/20 06:27 AM
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I've never sent a dick pic, I don't know why I would...
/r/seduction17/03/20 04:17 PM
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what do you think would help?
/r/seduction15/02/20 07:48 AM
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I have a serious alcohol problem it acts upon my nihilism and defeatism to just keep drinking and never try to get with girls...
/r/seduction15/12/19 10:16 PM
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What I hate though is getting used to not succeeding, despite trying I expect to never succeed even though I know I can... just need some progress to be made, it's defeatism but still involves talking to girls.
/r/seduction26/11/19 01:17 PM
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There are no places where guys can get their start out, especially for guys older than 25... How do you expect guys to learn anything if you make it too difficult to actually develop any confidence? Especially when girls have this expectation that guys will just magically know what to do when girls send them signals, and magically have the confidence to go for it despite never having any prior experience...
/r/seduction23/11/19 06:13 AM
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what a cunt.
/r/seduction19/11/19 11:13 AM
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I honestly have no idea what I am doing wrong, I can get girls to agree to a date but close to the actual day when I check with them they say they can't do it... I have no idea what I am doing wrong.
/r/seduction13/11/19 08:42 AM
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I seem to pass the tests, but fall apart completely and don't know what to do when they show that they want me to make the first move and become physically intimate... I'm not gay, just scared in that moment.
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:45 PM
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how am I meant to know what I want if I have never had a girlfriend and haven't even kissed a girl in ten years?
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:42 PM
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all sorts, I went to a specific sex therapist who told me I need 'graded exposure therapy' but after six sessions she just wouldn't begin the therapy... it was weird.
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:18 AM
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it is though, in that moment all the world feels like it's pressuring you and you just want to break down a cry, it's like I'm dying... how do other guys get through that intense crippling fear?
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:18 AM
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Apparently Adelaide is the easiest city in Australia to 'pick up' in... I justy don't know what to do.
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:17 AM
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I don't know where I'd even find 20 women a day.
/r/seduction10/11/19 11:03 AM
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sort of doing that, I just feel really afraid of the expectation when the first kiss moment happens...
/r/seduction10/11/19 10:06 AM
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I developed a pretty severe alcohol problem because of the anxiety surrounding doing exactly that. I'm only just recovering from that, and I didn't get any sex or even kiss one girl the entirety of my 20s, what makes you think going out in my 30s will be different?
/r/seduction10/11/19 09:07 AM
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I have met girls who have been interested,. just can't quite figure out what to do from there... have seen counselors, psychologists, and a specific sex-therapist, it seems there's something I missed... how the hell do people get beyond initial attraction without any experience prior? It's like girls expect guys to get a lot of experience before they meet them, when in actual fact it's girls who have more experience than me and I don;t know what I am doing.
/r/seduction08/11/19 08:15 AM
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done all of that tbh
/r/seduction04/11/19 04:21 AM
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ni I will be able to talk to them, just won't quite know what I am doing... it's not like there's courses on how to date.
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:06 AM
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what should be my primary?
/r/seduction03/11/19 10:59 AM
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I'd say that bars aren't worth my time, there's nothing to do there... everyone is already having fun and in their little social circles. Even if I did start talking to a girl I wouldn't know what to do from there...
/r/seduction03/11/19 10:58 AM
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11 girls would be more than enough for me, that's huge numbers dude, I can't seem to get one girl to do anything, even the fat ugly ones and I don't know why...
/r/seduction03/11/19 10:57 AM
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it seems no matter how hard I try I can never even get a date, I don;t know my SMV because I can't figure out what girls will fuck me or which ones are just responding out of habit
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:03 PM
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examples?
/r/seduction28/10/19 11:19 AM
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OK but how do I actually get a girl on a date rather than flake at the last minute?
/r/seduction28/10/19 06:25 AM
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sheer confusion, as they are usually obviously expecting me to know what to do about their interest in me, I will try asking people what to do but I will inevitably be given the same vague bullshit, eg. 'you'll figure it out', 'just let it happen naturally' (or why don't you let it happen naturally? which is the most bizarre question ever)
/r/seduction27/10/19 07:49 AM
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how do you mean?
/r/seduction26/10/19 10:49 PM
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that's exactly what I do and it still amounts to nothing
/r/seduction26/10/19 10:49 PM
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possibly, just not confident enough to actually act out my desires... I seem them as unattainable, and women seem to react accordingly whether consciously or unconsciously.
/r/seduction25/10/19 09:30 AM
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that kind of thing doesn;t happen too often
/r/seduction25/10/19 02:55 AM
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I am very uncoordinated and sports and dancing makes me very depressed and is a big source of why my confidence is so low, I can't seem to participate at all.
/r/seduction25/10/19 02:55 AM
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never gets to the touching stage because I am fearful of the signs girls send, and girls usually sense that...
/r/seduction25/10/19 02:54 AM
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weed made me paranoid
/r/seduction25/10/19 02:53 AM
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online dating seems to be almost effective, but I can never get a girl to actually GO on the dates that they agree to...
/r/seduction25/10/19 02:52 AM
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I literally just say hi
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:48 AM
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already tried girls like me but they expect me to know what to do about it.
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:41 AM
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no I was very badly mentally affected by violence from my mother and no one would help when I asked for help, I ahve been looking for a job on and off but with no success, I guess I just have to kill myself eventually because I can't even find a girl to talk to about this stuff let alone have sex with.
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:40 AM
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I guess I will have to kill myself, I can't handle another birthday and new years alone...
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:39 AM
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yes it is the escalation, when girls expect me to perform and make the intimate first move, I panic and don't know what to do.
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:38 AM
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how am I meant to do that? there really is nowhere a 30 year old inexperienced male can start...
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:37 AM
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yes bit seems that my lack of experience is what is making me fearful because girls will show that they are somewhat attracted but never make the first move and expect me to magically know how to do that, with no practice, no training, and no ideas.
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:37 AM
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how am I meant to do that?
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:36 AM
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how am I meant to learn this?
/r/seduction23/10/19 01:35 AM
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yeah I do this but it seems that as soon as the vital part of beginning the actual therapy started my psychologist, consciously or unconsciously, just would not begin the therapy... I have had very similar experiences with girls who said they wanted to help, they just wouldn't, no matter how many times I asked, and they said they did want to help. I am seeing a pattern and it is really weird actually.
/r/seduction16/10/19 03:05 AM
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