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ScienceMerryVegetableGarden/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 11:30 PM
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CMVMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:47 PM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 02:25 AM
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MerryVegetableGarden/r/askTRP19/07/20 05:31 PM
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PurgeMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:21 PM
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CMVMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 03:01 PM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 01:27 AM
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Question For WomenMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 06:54 PM
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MerryVegetableGarden/r/MGTOW20/08/20 01:11 AM
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ScienceMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:58 AM
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Question For WomenMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:06 AM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:06 AM
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ScienceMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 08:16 PM
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YMerryVegetableGarden/r/MGTOW21/07/20 02:17 AM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:59 AM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:08 PM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 11:20 PM
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CMVMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:23 PM
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Question For MenMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:04 AM
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MerryVegetableGarden/r/askTRP10/08/20 03:55 AM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:13 AM
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DebateMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:34 PM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:18 PM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:28 AM
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Question For WomenMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 08:09 PM
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Question For MenMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 04:17 AM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:04 PM
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Question For WomenMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 08:05 PM
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MerryVegetableGarden/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:15 PM
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DiscussionMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:29 AM
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THEORYMerryVegetableGarden/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 01:17 AM
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Single Mom TearsMerryVegetableGarden/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 07:21 PM
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CMVMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:56 AM
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ScienceMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:19 AM
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THEORYMerryVegetableGarden/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 01:55 AM
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Give it to me anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 05:57 PM
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Woman deliberately infecting unwitting men with disease of the genitalia.
/r/MGTOW220/08/20 06:33 AM
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It used to be that being a slut was shameful. Now it’s celebrated. The culture has changed.
/r/MGTOW220/08/20 06:19 AM
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They’re so prevalent that one cannot help but give them it.
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 06:18 AM
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Under no circumstances did he consider her anything other than a slut to fuck. Any guy aware of that would reasonably assume other men are in the picture. You run that risk when playing with loose/easy girls. Enter at your own peril.
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 06:18 AM
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It is. All nymphos are sluts but not all sluts are nymphos (though most are). Edit: https://i.redd.it/c1req9za92i51.png
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 03:28 AM
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No one should be coerced into doing anything that they don't want to do. I'd prefer guys to make informed decisions. If guys are committing to these types of women with the expectation of sexual exclusivity, relational stability, and fidelity, it should be with this caveat. If someone is going to shoot up heroin, they're going to shoot up heroin. As a public service announcement to my brothers and sisters, I'd simply prefer that they beware the risks involved with heroin usage, particularly the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 03:16 AM
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Not where women are concerned...
/r/MGTOW220/08/20 02:43 AM
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I've answered it before. Several times actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:43 AM
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This question is asked so many times by women as a "gotcha."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:36 AM
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No one should be coerced into doing anything that they don't want to do. I'd prefer guys to make informed decisions. If guys are committing to these types of women with the expectation of sexual exclusivity, relational stability, and fidelity, it should be with this caveat. If someone is going to shoot up heroin, they're going to shoot up heroin. As a public service announcement to my brothers and sisters, I'd simply prefer that they beware the risks involved with heroin usage, particularly the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:51 AM
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It will unfaze them. I know they cannot accept it. At this point, you can only save as many brothers as you can. Do with it what you will. I am merely a purveyor of information.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 01:41 AM
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I find the discussions here about how many people, people have slept with to be silly. She thinks it's irrelevant. Clearly, it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:34 AM
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They won't care. This is for your brothers who are considering hoes for housewives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 01:27 AM
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to prove women are sluts. Some are. Some are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 01:14 AM
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That's precisely it. It has to do with sociosexual orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 10:17 PM
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tends to be the case
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 08:58 PM
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[T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Female_promiscuity&oldid=963578370 Teachman, J. (2003), Premarital Sex, Premarita…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 08:07 PM
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Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Human Development
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:50 PM
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Obligatory [T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Female_promiscuity&oldid=963578370 Teachman, J. (2003), Premarital Sex…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 06:39 PM
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Recognizing they're at much higher risk of infidelity and instability and consequently avoiding them for LTRs is the smart move your own history not withstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 06:28 PM
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It's the same. Women aren't shamed for avoiding womanizers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:20 PM
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Research and personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 05:14 PM
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A low n girl is virtually a guarantee to long-term fidelity and happiness. Why would any guy not want this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:28 PM
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There is a hypocritical element to it, though any responsible guy would pursue the low-n girl if he was interested in fidelity and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:27 PM
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[T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Female_promiscuity&oldid=963578370 Teachman, J. (2003), Premarital Sex, Premarita…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:22 PM
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If I were a high n girl, I'd likely prefer a low n dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:20 PM
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Should he deny himself a happy long-term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:15 PM
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Very rarely do promiscuous men regret their pasts. Likely to himself and to most other guys, this is the most desirable scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:13 PM
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This behavior is quite idiotic and irresponsible tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:10 PM
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It's a false dilemma often posed by the sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:05 PM
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Evidently others agree with me that it isn’t exactly clear what qualifies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 04:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:53 AM
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Very apt, all things considered.
/r/MGTOW17/08/20 06:41 AM
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Why communicate your immaturity in your bio? Just write a serious, adult-oriented bio.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 05:31 AM
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Right, but you still have varying personal definitions of what’s allowed. If you specify what isn’t allowed, it leaves less to interpretation. We know what not to discuss and you have a list to see if a post or comment is kosher. Like I said, it isn’t readily apparent that discussions of the Pareto Principle aren’t allowed with the vague proscriptions against “insel content.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:09 AM
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I suggest a comprehensive list on restricted topics and points. As it is, it appears what is allowed is entirely up to any individual mod’s discretion. A discussion that I didn’t necessarily consider as verboten was that regarding the Pareto principle, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 09:46 PM
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https://youtu.be/4zdeTTMN-lA?t=223
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/20 01:17 PM
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I couldn’t get passed it. Just could not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 03:18 AM
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Nah. They’re fucking crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/20 03:45 PM
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The universe does not award virtue-signaling. When China defeats us because we decided to engage in these shenanigans while they did not, it will be wholly deserved.
/r/MGTOW14/08/20 07:18 PM
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I don’t claim that because it suggests that a woman’s only value is in her looks. That said, looks-wise, women peak in that 4-5 years in terms of physical attractiveness and usually it declines after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 05:00 AM
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I never denied that. But most good-looking older women looked even better while younger, which is what I mean by “peaked.” Tomi isn’t ugly, but she was hotter in the last election cycle than she is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:58 AM
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Doesn't this imply that successful men do not want their equal? Doesn't this show that men value submission and subordination more than competency? No. Just no. Women peak in attractiveness in their early-to-mid twenties. Sexy Leo doesn’t exclusively date this demographic because they’re amenable because they’re not. They have men flocking to them and can afford to be selective while maintaining high standards. It’s because women 21-25 look good. Their faces still have youthful elasticity, with …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:09 AM
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Most guys and girls peak in looks sometime during their early-to-mid twenties: in terms of facial elasticity and shape, full head of hair, healthy skin, how their bodies store fat, etc. Your face starts getting lines, nasolabial folds, wrinkles, and losing collagen and elasticity starting from your mid-twenties. Your hair isn’t as full or lustrous. You can instantly tell the difference between a 21yo and 26-27yo for instance. Older guys can compensate for this physical decline with a career and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:26 AM
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Most guys and girls peak in looks sometime during their early-to-mid twenties: in terms of facial elasticity and shape, full head of hair, healthy skin, how their bodies store fat, etc. Your face starts getting lines, nasolabial folds, wrinkles, and losing collagen and elasticity starting from your mid-twenties. Your hair isn’t as full or lustrous. You can instantly tell the difference between a 21yo and 26-27yo for instance. Older guys can compensate for this physical decline with a career and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:22 AM
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The slut threshold is passed after Double Digit Dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 11:05 PM
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What if that actually worked? Let’s compare 5 and 25. approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles.* Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Jou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 11:01 PM
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I’m not interested in volunteering information that I’m not willing to verify. Especially not to someone oozing with hostility and condescension. It’s just funny that someone that couldn’t get his own spouse to fuck him is accusing others online of not being able to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 10:23 PM
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A lot these women know they’re bad deals but they’re gracious enough to volunteer the information up front. I can appreciate that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 09:26 PM
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It’s a big deal because it’s a strong predictor of divorce and infidelity. [T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Female…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:53 PM
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Or, or, or, avoid high risk women irrespective of personal circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:42 PM
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People don’t understand that the reason we rely on these methods, controlling for bias, is precisely because we are so terrible are gauging frequency, prevalence, and coincidence. It takes a special kind of arrogance to completely dismiss these things in favor of things that you desperately want to be true. It’s an idealist way of looking at things as opposed to a realist view.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:32 PM
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I’m not saying they never get cheated on. I’m saying that guys who commit to low-n women are less likely to be cheated on, whether they “worship” the stats or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 08:07 PM
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And pretty much all scientists are virgins, so that pretty much rules out every study. Very interesting assertion. False, but interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:58 PM
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It seems very, very obvious that the yucky reaction "I don't want to put my pee pee where other man has already put theirs" comes waaaaaaay before any studies, and those studies are then retroactively used to rationalize the fear/disgust. Very reductive interpretation. The disgust is innate and likely evolutionarily adaptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:54 PM
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Because it benefits men at the expense of some women. Can’t have that in Western societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:52 PM
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But all I care about is if this single high n-count woman who I have presumably vetted through a prolonged period of dating will cheat on me Good luck vetting for whether they’re more likely to cheat. Most guys don’t expect their partners capable of such betrayal until it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:50 PM
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Or you can dig further to see why infidelity and divorce rates are so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:48 PM
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Or he’ll find someone who is comparably inexperienced as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:16 PM
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Lmao literally no one over the age of 25 cares about this shit. That has absolutely no bearing on whether they should. Shaming a woman you love who is loyal to you, is kind, can take care of herself and whatever because they had more sex than you It’s not frequency of sex. If A sleeps with one person a thousand times and B sleeps with a thousand individuals once each, the frequency of sex is the same. A would still likely be the more faithful partner because they have a restricted sociosexual or…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:12 PM
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That’s a funny assumption from someone who couldn’t get his own wife to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:06 PM
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Mark Regnerus goes into it in his book Cheap Sex. I may or may not look to reference it depending on my mood, but it’s nap time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:51 AM
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As long as prudes prefer prudes, sluts who don’t want to scare prudes will lie. Sluts are slippery devils.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:39 AM
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Except boomers and gen X are irrelevant. They’re old af fogie assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:35 AM
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I think that there are more mega sluts than you can possibly imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:16 AM
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I did tolerate it . . . and she cheated on me. Lol. That tends to happen. So I don't intend to tolerate it again in the future, and I don't envy the guy in either situation you mentioned. Yeah, but especially the dental student (assuming that story is true). That guy might be truly fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:06 AM
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People stubbornly persisting in dumb arguments and especially dirty play can make me irate, I confess. Character flaw. My tolerance threshold for such things remains low.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 07:02 AM
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You keep on claiming that I’m inexperienced, and usually I ignore such accusations because I think that’s a dirty, underhanded tactic used by dumbasses who can’t discuss the sources I cite. I’m compelled to respond because you won’t let it go. Yes, I’ve been in relationships before. No, to the best of my knowledge I haven’t been cheated on. I’ve discussed my relationships in comments on this sub, and if you dig deep, you can probably find them. No, I haven’t been burned or traumatized by any of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:37 AM
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Do I need to get third-degree burns to learn not to play? Or can I learn by witnessing the consequences incurred by some other dumbass that did so? You don’t have to commit the mistake to learn from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:19 AM
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Plenty of lessons to learn when you’re constantly making mistakes. And yet you think you’re in a position to advise others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:11 AM
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What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:07 AM
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Honest to God, if it means steering clear from irritating people like yourself who just shrug your shoulders when the numbers don’t go your way, then it’s reason enough. Keep wasting your cash on the slots because you hit the jackpot that one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 06:05 AM
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What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:51 AM
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Millennial women do cheat more. I don’t care about rates for the older demographics. This is our time. Why should I concern myself with whether Uncle Murray is cheating on Aunt Margaret?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:50 AM
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*manewhore. Fanboying all over all them horses and lions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:49 AM
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Yeah, that was odd. Maybe “guy” is gender neutral. Your writing is unmistakably woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:46 AM
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If you feel as though you can control the outcome of your life when it revolves around the independent thoughts and actions of someone else - you should seek help and try to understand why you feel you that you can do that. I can’t. But you use past behavior to assess future behavior. Women want men who’ll be hard-working and dependable in the future, so they pick a guy that’s been hardworking and dependable in the past. Is that a guarantee on how they’ll act in the future? Hell no. You use the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:41 AM
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You feel you have control over the outcome is the most troubling as you will NEVER have that control over someone's actions. That is something that you need to let go. Lol, so throw caution to the wind? Should I not wear a condom because they’re not perfect measures against venereal disease? I can’t control behavior, but I can avoid people that are at risk. Obviously the women with a higher n count are more liberal. More liberal may also entail that they won't put up with certain bull shit from …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 05:18 AM
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Scenario 2 is told from the perspective of a guy with a slutty girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:39 AM
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You’re the one who suggested that current generations of women cheat on their men to hold older generations of men to account for their infidelities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:38 AM
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I guess millennial women are avenging the Gen X women who were cheated on by the Gen X men and the boomer women cheated on by boomer men, by cheating on millennial men. Therefore, justice is served, and those older generations of women avenged, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 04:15 AM
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I guess I just don’t have your powers of observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:45 AM
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Sluts come in many temperaments. Some desperately want to be loved and some are capable of fidelity. It’s just really hard to discern which is which, and only after the test of time and investment can you really know. It’s a matter of whether you’re willing to take that bet which is inherently more risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:41 AM
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It sounds like you two have a good thing going on. I’d change my bet in favor of your relationship lasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:22 AM
5

When you’re kissing this girl, you’re basically in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:17 AM
3

A minority of men regularly pump-and-dump, the majority of men have only a handful of casual partners if that, and another minority of men don’t engage in it at all. Here’s a good visual. A small fraction of men are engaging a larger fraction of women, but not all of those women can secure exclusive relationships with these men, so they settle for men who are less attractive than what they’re accustomed to. This breeds resentment and infidelity. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 03:14 AM
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I do agree that getting sluts to be truthful is as unrealistic as a world made of chocolate, but a girl can dream, can’t she?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:49 AM
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The number is a single component of a broader tapestry comprising of several internal and external factors, like, say, the availability of suitable alternatives, whether one’s partner is meeting their needs, or the proper circumstances. Also, attachment style, Big 5, history of child sex abuse, relationship with the father, drug use, etc. If the world ended and a dude was dating the sluttiest, most feckless woman left alive, she literally could not cheat on him because she lacks options. Likewis…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:43 AM
2

Apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 02:23 AM
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Yes, I don’t respect him. And I don’t understand him. I don’t understand how any man could tolerate a situation where his wife’s been with more guys than can fit in a large van, especially when he himself has only been with the number of people that could comfortably sit in a coupe with ample room to spare. The idea appears so intolerable to me that I can only conclude that we have different values regarding sexual exclusivity, the value of sex, loyalty and fidelity. His use of abstract “intangi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 01:59 AM
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Will the field of statistics ever recover? I’d better tell the people who devote their lives to collecting and analyzing data in an effort to elucidate broader trends that /u/iseeyouxo_’s personal experiences, subject to her own personal biases no less, invalidate tools that have been developed for over a century. I think they might just kill themselves in shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 01:32 AM
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[T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Female_promiscuity&oldid=963578370 Teachman, J. (2003), Premarital Sex, Premarita…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:58 AM
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Data
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:46 AM
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Women don’t care that I don’t respect /u/i_have_a_semicolon’s husband? I wasn’t aware that women were aware of my lack of respect, considering that it only became a thing for three hours at the time of this writing (8:42 ET). Women must have telepathy and a keen interest about what I think about an Internet stranger’s husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:44 AM
1

That’s why Slutology, or the scientific study of sluts, is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:22 AM
3

Are Amish people permitted on reddit? Are you on Rumspringa?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:21 AM
2

I’m discussing the court of public opinion. People apply population statistics in their appraisals of individuals selectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:08 AM
2

They lie about their histories.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:06 AM
2

In the state of Utah?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:05 AM
1

Ewww.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:59 PM
2

Are you sure? There are several women in this thread with counts that dwarf their men’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:58 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Female_promiscuity&oldid=963578370&mobileaction=toggle_view_desktop#Psychology Last line in the psychology section. Still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:57 PM
6

Evidence of lower marital satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:52 PM
3

If they were just honest, none of these things would be problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:48 PM
4

Sure, but they don’t tend to advertise it as a positive or desirable trait. I’ve seen women encourage their friends to be promiscuous AND unfaithful. In fact, promiscuous women cover for their friends when they’re being unfaithful. You call her friend and she’ll confirm your girlfriend was at her place after a night out when you couldn’t reach her. Women who’ve only ever been with their one boyfriend are often shamed by their peers. We like to pretend that society slut shames women when the lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:47 PM
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I'm thinking it's about 50%. Even less. Among ever-married adults ages 18 to 29, women are more likely than men to be guilty of infidelity Wang, W. (2018, January 10). Who Cheats More? The Demographics of Infidelity in America. Retrieved July 20, 2020, from https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america Additional links: Washington Times Bustle X One of the more interesting facts in Esther Perel’s new book, State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, comes near t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:41 PM
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It’s a perspective that is not wholly original. I’ve sperged about this shit for years and have encountered every lazy counter-argument under the sun. Did you know that people use the low percentage of proven false rape allegations as justification to treat every rape allegation as legitimate by default? It appears that people are selective about when population statistics should to apply to individual cases. When they suddenly become inconvenient, you have to judge the individual(!!!).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:32 PM
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While my friend is crude, he is not wholly incorrect. Either you don’t live in an urban/suburban area, your girlfriends are lying to you, or you’re being willfully ignorant. Or you can be a Mormon. Is that the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:14 PM
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Ignore a metric that is a reliable predictor of infidelity, divorce, and marital dissatisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:09 PM
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Those women without extensive histories don’t mind entertaining that conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:55 PM
1

exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:54 PM
3

169? I think you’re lowballing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:52 PM
12

I know that’s just Friday for you, but what about regular women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:48 PM
0

And what if the relationship doesn’t work out? Am I obligated to remain celibate once I hit nine? You’ll have to double dip with one of your nine or go lesbian as that doesn’t add to your count. This is very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:45 PM
5

20% buck the odds. You may be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:43 PM
3

Your humor is not appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:40 PM
6

But 37 dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:39 PM
0

My first example is literally that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:37 PM
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I don’t think there is a human alive who doesn’t know that promiscuity is not a positive thing That’s not true at all. Plenty of men and women strive for it in their selves and/or desire it in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:37 PM
5

Nothing you can do. Sometimes you need to touch the stove to learn not to touch the stove.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:29 PM
1

The latter tends to sample other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:28 PM
7

Personal experience and a fuckton of research.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:26 PM
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He stated he had a zero tolerance for cheating. He's very trusting of me and doesnt mate guard and he is not insecure about his attractiveness. I very much doubt that, and doubtless that will be something tested fairly soon. Finally, his view on the statistics is very much that he doesn't give a fuck because they're descriptive of other people, not predictive of us. Hubris. Ignore at your own peril. You and many other people on this sub feel very strongly that your personal tastes are universall…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:25 PM
2

They cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:14 PM
2

What’s your n?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:13 PM
3

Even if you’re slaying, if you LTR a slut, you’re an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:05 PM
1

Some things are easier to check than others. Not everything leaves a paper trail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:01 PM
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He’s 5'5. I guess at that height you can’t really afford to be selective. Very interesting you’ve made it this far. Your 5-year divorce rate projection was 1-in-3, so kudos for dodging that. And the average length of a first marriage that ends in divorce is ~8 years, so if you’re at the 8-year mark with no problems, good for you. It’s the Teachman statistic that worries me: [T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Ja…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:58 PM
9

I can’t imagine respecting your husband in this scenario. Does he know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:38 PM
2

Are you the 15 or him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:35 PM
6

I would honestly much rather be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:26 PM
1

There are some risks associated with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:23 PM
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I love them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:20 PM
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That’s always been my position. Own that shit. The problem with sluts isn’t promiscuity; it’s that they’re duplicitous tarts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:18 PM
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Promiscuous women who decide to settle down or get into LTR, usually go with guys without options This is wholly contingent on how hot they are. Knew a bunch of party girls in college who are now dating studs as graduates. Guys either overlook a history of dick-hopping or they’re unaware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:14 PM
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Earth. Try visiting sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:08 PM
6

I shot him my trademarked copypasta just as a heads up and he responded that it made him very upset. Let him know that the odds of this turning out well for him are not good, but that the possibility is there (because statistically, it is). You’re rolling the dice or, more aptly, playing a high stakes game of Russian roulette where the the sluttier the girl is, the more bullets loaded in the cylinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:06 PM
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I considered this because it’s so egregious, but slutty girls that lie about their pasts tend to present as very sloppy and pathetic, and this was written in a way that fit the profile. Therefore, I’m inclined to believe in its authenticity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 09:01 PM
5

Dual mating strategy. deze bitches be cold as ice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:57 PM
5

Most women are sluts, and your not being one as well makes you the oddity, which, in this case, is a good thing. You will have a much easier time finding a low-n, faithful guy than any of us who are inclined to find low-n, faithful women will be able to. The world is your oyster. Rejoice!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:53 PM
2

How old are you? If you don’t mind my asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:47 PM
1

While I wish to date them Because they’re chill? What’s the appeal? They cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:42 PM
1

im the supreme gentleman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:38 PM
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I’ll make one slight alteration to your analogy. I think it's somewhat like a situation in which your spouse grew up poor when you took winter vacations at your family's summer cabin in Aspen and summer vacations to your family's beach house at The Cape. and fucked 25 guys in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:37 PM
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The first one was on an RedPillWomen thread. Very interesting responses: Why do you feel a need to disclose this information to him? Is he asking you specifics, is he grilling you for details about your sexual experiences with other men? For me, it's a yellow flag when a man starts asking about details and demanding a literal play by play of my whole sexual history from every man I've ever kissed to what things I've done with what ex-boyfriends. It makes me question why they want to know or wond…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:33 PM
1

In terms of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:27 PM
6

I just wanted to see what the boys and girls of ppd predict will happen in these situations. Maybe take bets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:22 PM
2

What are your thoughts on thots?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 08:12 PM
17

We must pray for any man dumb enough to commit to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 06:28 PM
10

Ewwww. Imagine trying to get intimate with someone this gross.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 06:27 PM
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It hurts the heart realizing how shallow and materialistic so many of them are.
/r/MGTOW12/08/20 07:36 AM
2

And the less hot she is, which makes the whole arrangement even less tolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:46 AM
2

Around 26 is when they start to rot. People actually try to shame Sexy Leo for refusing to date anyone over the age of 25; they can’t acknowledge that women stop being worth it around that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 12:02 AM
1

Blame the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:14 PM
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...Mimoxs, we’ve been over this and over this promiscuous women cheat and divorce [T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:30 PM
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I meant that women that are single at that age lack an essential something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:53 PM
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I wouldn’t be overtly rude. I’d like to think I’d be attentive and at least decent to them. But, knowing myself, I probably wouldn’t engage with them so much if they were showing overt signs of interest. If she backs off, I’d treat her like one of the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 09:49 PM
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Blame Reddit. They’re the ones who lap it up and reinforce this behavior. They’re giving her the edge.
/r/MGTOW11/08/20 09:40 PM
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Or they’ve been liberated from one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 08:49 PM
3

Queen Marlena cucked King Randor for Skeletor.
/r/MGTOW11/08/20 07:57 PM
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What is your solution? We can’t let the kids starve for the unbelievably bad luck of being born to a dumb, irresponsible bitch. Especially when they already have to contend with a piss poor genetic inheritance and probable bad upbringing. Women like this should receive monetary incentives to get their tubes tied, which will save us money in the long run. A lump sum or recurring payment on the condition that they opt for voluntary self-sterilization.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/20 07:34 PM
1

sluts cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:50 PM
1

It’s really not. It’s literally the difference between tipping the scales.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:35 PM
1

I wouldn’t date a 76yo that’s had DDD^^<sup>TM</sup> inside of her. Especially not if it’s while I’m dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:32 PM
1

Whether it’s the majority or a minority of a group isn’t arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:20 PM
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It doesn't matter what the numbers are, the fact is, you're still using the same tactics. If more than half of any group was engaging in bad behavior, you draw attention to it. More than half of promiscuous women cheat. Significantly less than half of black individuals commit crime. The tactics are in no way comparable. nor jump to conclusions about future behavior. No one is claiming that this information turns us into psychics. No one can forecast the future. We can only make predictions based…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 06:12 PM
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Ouch. Now that can’t go unaddressed. The overwhelming majority of African-Americans DO NOT commit violent crimes. More than half of promiscuous women cheat in any given relationship guiltlessly and remorselessly. It’s done whimsically, without a shred of care for their partners. Most (>50%) blacks do not commit violent crimes while most (>50%) promiscuous women do cheat, and your insistence that men disregard this information is to be expected because promiscuous women tend to prioritize their o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:48 PM
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The women who aren’t spoken for by that age tend to be single for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:31 PM
2

It’s always irritating when you have a well-reasoned response and the person you’re having a discussion with decides to fixate on a fragment in order to lazily dismiss everything else that’s said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:09 PM
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I read it and was in fact aware of the study before you dredged it up. People with unrestricted sociosexual orientations that are capable of disengaging faster from other attractive individuals are less likely to be unfaithful. My river analogy still holds true. If other options exist, “sluts cheat” is a more useful rule than the more accurate “sluts are likelier to cheat.” I didn’t handwave anything. These things: Individuals exhibiting sexually permissive attitudes and those who have had a hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:57 PM
2

Red pill rhetoric is just revenge-fantasy bullshit. “Sluts cheat” isn’t empty rhetoric. It’s a scientific fact backed by more evidence than evolution and gravity combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:38 PM
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It is gospel and verse. they cheat I feel like I have to hiss this at you until it sinks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:34 PM
1

They do! I never disputed that. When I said cheat and divorce, I figured the implication in my saying they perform the latter activity was that they do in fact get married (and subsequently have high divorce rates). A lot of people who shouldn’t get married get married. The expectation of sexual exclusivity or fidelity from these types of people is foolish, and the men in these relationships are often (but not always) getting cheated on and/or reporting less marital satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:23 PM
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Imagine your retort being that they’re not necessarily cheaters—emphasis on “necessarily.” They’re not all cheaters. It’s not guaranteed that they’ll cheat. Fine, I can concede that. In fact, the statistics I’ve posted obviously bears that out. The point is that they are significantly more likely to cheat and that the likelihood of infidelity is a coin toss with them (1/2) vs. a roll of a die or less (<1/6) with their non-promiscuous counterparts. The phrase “sluts cheat” is a protective rule of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:12 PM
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[T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Female_promiscuity&oldid=963578370 Teachman, J. (2003), Premarital Sex, Premarita…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:29 PM
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Promiscuous women cheat and divorce [T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Female_promiscuity&oldid=963578370 Teachman, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:26 PM
1

I’m still not understanding your question. I think I’ve thoroughly and adequately answered your questions until now. Any further questions that haven’t been answered in my comprehensive explanations are simply too esoteric to be considered relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:18 PM
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I’m not following...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:12 PM
1

Men don’t care if a woman’s had lesbian experiences and they might even prefer it because that can be hot. If a girl’s been with 5 guys and 10 girls, her n=5. This isn’t difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:10 PM
3

If a man has had Double Digit Dicks inside of him, that would disqualify him as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:23 PM
2

Age-independent. DDDTM at 45 is as damning as DDDTM at 16. The line in the sand is DDDTM.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:12 PM
2

Double Digit Dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:06 PM
2

Most women aren’t marriage material. Promiscuous women aren’t marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 02:05 PM
1

Ultimatums don’t work with women. Do you just start looking for someone else while keeping her in tow?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 01:13 PM
1

Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 12:08 PM
1

I don’t complain. I discuss.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 05:07 AM
1

Thanks. The goal was to make the information into a reproducible copypasta for anyone to use if they encountered the ignorant argument that the “past is the past.”
/r/MGTOW11/08/20 01:55 AM
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Thanks. The goal was to make the information into a reproducible copypasta for anyone to use if they encountered the ignorant argument that the “past is the past.”
/r/MGTOW11/08/20 01:55 AM
7

That’s a bit too dystopian for my taste tbh. Dum-dums should be discouraged from procreating, not coerced.
/r/MGTOW11/08/20 01:25 AM
5

How many men are extraverted, disinhibited, low anxiety, and attractive? Considering the disparity in what women actually consider attractive and what they consider below average, only a sliver of dudes will be attractive AND disinhibited. You’re already taking a minority of guys (those who are attractive), and then taking a minority (restricted SO) of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 09:03 PM
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But tbh, what matters is breaking those odds and showing that we're more than just repeating patterns. Sure, but guys have a right to know that they’re actively trying to reverse a history of bad behavior. If your partner has indicated that a certain quality is a dealbreaker (past promiscuity, venereal disease) or if something can potentially affect your partner down the line (debts, former addict at higher risk of relapse, criminal record), then you are obligated to disclose imo or leave. A per…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 08:56 PM
1

There’s an excellent book on this subject by two doctors btw: Hooked: The Brain Science on How Casual Sex Affects Human Development
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 08:49 PM
1

If you spent any time off the Internet, you might have a more holistic concept of what life is actually like. Uncalled for even though I agree with what you’re saying for the most part.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 08:45 PM
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I’m not in favor of that. Kids shouldn’t have to suffer for having the unfathomably poor luck of being born to dumbass parents. They already have to contend with a shit genetic inheritance and a subpar upbringing. To compound that with starvation seems needlessly cruel, and something that I wouldn’t want on any American babies. Abortion needs to be more widely available, and we should honestly pay people like her (29F) with below-average intelligence a large sum to undergo voluntary self-sterili…
/r/MGTOW10/08/20 08:32 PM
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Obligatory [T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Female_promiscuity&oldid=963578370 Teachman, J. (2003), Premarital Sex…
/r/MGTOW10/08/20 08:21 PM
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Absolutely. Some lessons have to have hard consequences. In the domain of women, we do too many irrational things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/20 08:21 PM
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Obligatory [T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Female_promiscuity&oldid=963578370 Teachman, J. (2003), Premarital Sex…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/20 08:18 PM
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In short you just weren't built for the man whore/ casual sex life Yes and no. Almost two-thirds of guys have an unrestricted SOI. Overall, our results suggest that the proportional split in males slightly favours an unrestricted (short- term) mating strategy, with a 57 : 43 split on average for the three datasets, whereas females have a reversed split (47 : 53). However, the mixing proportions in the 2D : 4D digit ratio dataset suggest that a slightly higher proportion of the unrestricted pheno…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 07:59 PM
2

This is a wonderful idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 07:36 PM
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If I were a woman, I wouldn’t go for a high n dude either for literally the same reasons. That said, the primary riders of “the past is the past” train are women. When guys lie about their past sexual experiences, they lie upwards. They pad their stats. This is honestly a Godsend to women who want to avoid players because either he’s a manwho*e and you should avoid him or he’s a liar and you should avoid him. Women lie down. Type n-count on this sub and the first post you’ll see is a girl who’s …
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 07:19 PM
1

There are subscribers that advocate steering clear of the topic entirely or shaming guys who find this info pertinent though. Why do you feel a need to disclose this information to him? Is he asking you specifics, is he grilling you for details about your sexual experiences with other men? For me, it's a yellow flag when a man starts asking about details and demanding a literal play by play of my whole sexual history from every man I've ever kissed to what things I've done with what ex-boyfriend…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 07:04 PM
1

They may not be, but they’re upfront about it. Honest packaging, which is more than you can expect from her peers.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 05:08 AM
1

Try smiling more and dressing feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 04:36 AM
5

Who’s prosecuting? I love the ones that own it and don’t care. I’m irritated by the ones that deny it or excuse it. Own what you are!
/r/askTRP10/08/20 04:23 AM
3

This is the mentality that we all need to strive for.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 03:06 AM
1

Reddit search is abysmal unfortunately. You appear to be an intelligent person. What do you think of the conclusions drawn by these studies?
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 02:41 AM
0

don be slut
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 02:39 AM
5

I compiled these excerpts myself, actually, after having read through the cited papers. It’s been an on-off project for the last three years: distilling, removing bits, seeing how it’s received. Imo, it conclusively establishes a link between promiscuity and infidelity as well as how well the former can predict the latter. Now I’d like to see what others think of it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 02:37 AM
2

But on what they have to say specifically.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 02:05 AM
4

Move to a different big city. How tf do you get a reputation like that in a big city?
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:08 PM
3

You shouldn’t take their lying for granted. Some willingly divulge this info.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 05:46 PM
1

I don’t. Especially if they’re the type that considers the information irrelevant. Odds are it will bite them later.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 05:41 PM
63

Men who are upset they can’t fuck the blowholes of whales Men who have memories of being weaned because it occurred later in life than usual Men who produce more E and less T than what is normal Men who consider diapers to be an essential part of foreplay
/r/MGTOW09/08/20 04:40 PM
1

It has declined. They’re at a record low [archive].
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 01:34 AM
8

It’s honestly self-preservation. If we thought these types could be loyal, then most of us would get over it. Unfortunately, they can’t. It’s too much of a risk.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 01:32 AM
20

Indeed. cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journal of personality and social ps…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 01:16 AM
3

The Whorror story. Always warms my heart to see one of these. Notice how she springs this on him after shackling his balls with matrimony. God is no longer with us, friends.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 12:29 AM
1

She’s got the looks and exposure to get the near-perfect guy. She just wants the perfect guy. She’s the type who’d throw away an immaculately cut diamond after discovering a single blemish with an electron microscope. A guy who is completely flawless. She wants an Olympian in spite of being mortal herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 11:51 PM
1

This comment is so gay, I’m going out wearing jorts, a crop top, and skivvies. .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 11:44 PM
1

Unrealistic. Most are just happy to be in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:46 PM
1

Ah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 07:32 AM
1

WGTOWs and female separatists prefer them to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 07:16 AM
1

And so the robot does. Maybe not as much but it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 07:12 AM
1

Your vibrator doesn’t give you pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 07:11 AM
1

Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 06:41 AM
1

But a slut is?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:19 AM
1

There is no self-evident difference. A girl that’ll only fuck you after a four-course meal is almost indistinguishable from one who takes money up front. Sugaring is lucrative. There is no meaningful difference between a girl that’s fucked fifty guys casually and one that’s fucked forty guys casually and ten guys professionally, making a grand or more each on those of the latter group. Except the second type of girl is likely less strapped for cash, so if she’s pursuing you, it’s likely not for …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:12 AM
1

Welcome to the world of double standards, jiggly. Male rape isn’t taken seriously. Women won’t date bisexual guys, virgins, or guys who’ve visited prostitutes. Men are expected to pay for dates. Women get reduced prison sentences for the same crimes. Guys get paid more, take on the more dangerous jobs, including the most labor intensive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 02:04 AM
1

Are other women judgmental of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:50 AM
1

The transaction degrades all involved. How so? You’re saying it does, but I’m not understanding how. Guys aren’t paying these girls to allow them to shit on their chests or pee in their mouths. Girl at GWU Law gets ten Gs on a single night out sugaring with a wealthy older gentleman. They go to a function and then back to his place where they fuck. Very wealthy and good-looking older guys do this with college girls putting themselves through school. You still haven’t made any meaningful distinct…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:47 AM
1

You still haven’t made any meaningful distinction between a slut and a slut that occasionally takes cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:34 AM
1

A hoe cheats. A hoe will prematurely age you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:15 AM
2

Once a woman fucks for money there's an irrebuttable presumption that she'll always fuck for money. Why is that an irrefutable assumption? I know a chick who became a sugar baby to get through school. Happily married now and I’m 85% sure the husband either doesn’t know or that he doesn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:15 AM
1

Why would they feel the need?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 12:54 AM
1

I would not purchase a sex doll but are they really so different?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 12:50 AM
1

I agree with full disclosure. I’d still judge a guy like that. Especially if he gets burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 12:48 AM
2

Not a virgin. Just not a promiscuous person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 12:47 AM
3

We’re assuming you’re a boyfriend, not a client. Hence the “former” sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 12:46 AM
1

It was still low. Anyways, I wasn’t asking for proof that polyandry happens in Tibet. I wanted to see if you could provide evidence that he modeled his Lunar colony on those societies m.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 11:21 PM
1

“In New England, unlike other parts of British America, men and women were punished in an exceptionally even-handed way for sexual transgressions. Where differences appeared in penalties for fornication, males suffered more severely than females in New England. The custom of the Chesapeake colonies was the reverse.7 These rules were obeyed. In Massachusetts during the seventeenth century, rates of prenuptial pregnancy were among the lowest in the Western world. In the towns of Hingham, Sudbury a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 11:07 PM
1

Somewhere between ten and thirty percent of Puritan women were pregnant at their weddings. I’ll need a source on that. he based the polyandrous setup off of real communities that actually exist And that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 10:57 PM
4

Aside from his blue-pill obsession with a penniless slut, he could have had any woman he wanted.
/r/MGTOW07/08/20 10:06 PM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:51 PM
1

ought to appreciate righteous men of telepathic mindpower who compel incorrigible women to repent and to seek complete reformation Not possible. You can take the slut out of the jungle but you can’t take the jungle out of the slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:13 PM
2

Rosephase was talking about her escort friends who enjoy their work. You’re operating off the false assumption that it’s all coerced and involuntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:10 PM
1

Why you so insistent with on this false narrative when most of my posts are descriptive and not prescriptive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 09:06 PM
1

Women who fuck for cash and prizes need to be avoided at all costs. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 08:37 PM
1

The point of the analogy is that in spite of each sect of Islam viewing the other as heretical and illegitimate, to an outside observer it’s still Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 08:34 PM
1

If it becomes commonplace for men to partake then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 08:32 PM
1

I use them as descriptive terms and not with negative feeling. One is merely a promiscuous woman while the other is someone who has sex for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:59 PM
2

They don’t have many other choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:42 PM
0

Foul odors tend to have a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:41 PM
1

Sunnis believe that Shi-ites are heretical. They’re all still Moslems to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:40 PM
1

I agree. Either we’re going to have some sort of turnaround or we’ll have to change the family structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:38 PM
1

Do I have to be a part of movement to be interested in it? To be knowledgeable of it? Am I only allowed to know things about whatever I’m directly affiliated with and nothing else?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:32 PM
19

She broke off her engagement with a 6ft+, good-lucking young politician that got her a $50k ring. Not too much sympathy tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:29 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:26 PM
1

It’s easier to get things trapped inside a gash than a pinprick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:25 PM
3

I agree. I think more guys now than ever are ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:23 PM
6

Using sex for profit and manipulation is a negative trait. You’re acting as though the majority of women don’t do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:22 PM
1

I was lambasted for pointing this out to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:21 PM
1

They seek to advance the position of women in the world and identify as feminists. Feminism, as it was originally conceived, never sought to include biological men who considered themselves women as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:15 PM
1

No true Scotsman...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:35 PM
1

You know TERFs are just second-wave feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:18 PM
6

There’s actually a bitter resentment that sluts have for sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:10 PM
1

Not true. Marriageable women existed, and I have reason to believe they still exist, though they are far and few between.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:08 PM
6

Marriage rates are at an all-time low.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:07 PM
2

The most vehemently opposed are radfems who also dislike guys with gender dysphoria.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:07 PM
1

Check my most downvoted comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:05 PM
1

The ones I know that are still working? Yeah they tend to like the work. So many of them are clearly not trafficked. I honestly believe that feminists oppose sex work because they think men will be even less inclined towards commitment if sex can be attained elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:03 PM
2

I’m not sure what you’re asking me. Your second question isn’t coherent when read out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:58 PM
2

That’s kind of the point. There’s not much difference between a plain slut and a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:55 PM
2

And they’re completely aware of their partners’ histories?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:54 PM
3

But you can group them, study them, and create models that predict attitudes and behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:51 PM
3

Men who don't need to settle would just quit offering commitment altogether. Marriage is declining, so, in a way, you’re right. Some of the guys who otherwise would not be having sex will pair with these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:50 PM
7

Even the women claim to be “sex positive” or feminists would look at her crazy, like “eww”. I wasn’t aware of this. I’d like to know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:47 PM
3

Very interesting. It goes to show how fundamentally different people with unrestricted sociosexual orientations are from those with restricted sociosexual orientations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:44 PM
2

Commit monogamously to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:41 PM
2

All of them have long term committed relationships. Are they monogamous relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:39 PM
0

Yessir.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:36 PM
0

In my country there is problem...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 05:07 PM
2

Create abundance. You only reminisce when you’re low on options. She’s not even thinking about you because she has abundance.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 04:49 AM
17

I can relate to guys in rp better than women. Sometimes I wish some of you guys were women.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 04:23 AM
84

It’s bizarre. 50k engagement ring, 6ft+, politician, checks all the boxes, and she dumps him. She’s rolling again!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/20 03:33 AM
7

She still has the exposure and looks to bag a high-quality guy. The fact that she hasn’t rests squarely on her own soldiers. Edit: she broke off her engagement with a high quality politician. Guess she wants to play the field a little longer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 06:22 PM
3

If you're a nerdy quiet girl that wants a nerdy quiet guy, you're fine too. The nerdy quiet ones are the secret sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 06:01 PM
131

Under the right circumstances, most women can be poached. Infidelity takes place because of internal dispositions and external circumstances. That disposition to take on alternative mates to their primary partners has been bred into women over generations; the ones who remained strictly loyal to one mate in all circumstances were selected against. All it takes is the right guy at the right time, whittling down her defenses. Again, the onus is on her to remain loyal, but a person that is aware th…
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 04:33 PM
184

This is a very interesting take on a guy poaching your spouse.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 04:11 PM
1

You don’t like your men dicked by a bunch of guys and yet chastise guys who don’t want their girls dicked by a bunch of guys. We’re pretty forgiving with that lesbian shit you pull for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:54 AM
1

That may have been the case in the olden days, and many a frumpy churchgoer was your latter-day slut, but most nowadays don’t abide by the proscriptions of the Church. They have tattoos, are overweight, and are staunchly feminist: geared to raise their male children into becoming maladjusted psychopaths. Ah, to be young again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:49 AM
3

No, in this regard you are not atypical. You belong to the majority of women with your aversion to men who’ve been dicked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 12:45 AM
5

She might literally stab you. You should keep space with the ex if you tread down this path.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:42 PM
4

I was, but that isn’t why I think it’s not healthy. N-count is a proxy predictor of infidelity. But more than that, I just don’t like the idea of being with a girl that’s been dicked by a lot of dicks. In the same way that women don’t want guys who’ve had a lot of dicks in them (or any for that matter), I don’t want to be with a girl that’s had a lot of dicks in them. A few is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 10:46 PM
1

I’m a white gentile westerner that isn’t so critical of their values. Sure, some are back-ass-wards, but I think traditional sexual mores are in a lot of ways healthier than what’s promoted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 10:38 PM
2

Using textspeak in your bio, especially beyond your mid-thirties, is an excellent way to filter yourself out of the dating pools of most serious guys. Holy hell. You’re an actual adult trying to convince other adults that you’re intelligent with a bio that reads as though it was written by a teenager who is purposefully trying to sound stupid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/20 10:01 PM
1

would their view on casual sex and n count make you feel better or worse about it A huge reason why that information is relevant is to predict the likelihood of infidelity. Considering how often past cheaters reoffend, knowing that they have in the past cuts out the middleman, tipping you off that it’s not someone you want to be serious with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:47 PM
1

Addended.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:20 PM
1

What data was collected that led to these assertions? cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:03 PM
1

Boomers likely didn’t vote those politicians in, considering the oldest of them would only be 20 in ‘65.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 09:00 PM
3

Why do you dislike foreigners so much lol? Xenophobia is a weird hill for you in particular to die on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 08:57 PM
1

*they’re And no. That’s not what guys are opposed to. We’re opposed to people misrepresenting themselves and to people who humiliate those who don’t want to date promiscuous individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 08:54 PM
1

Bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 08:50 PM
5

Age, weight, tattoos, single mother. Quadruple threat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/20 08:50 PM
1

I don’t let the mob beat me down. Being in the majority doesn’t make you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 07:15 PM
1

Have a nice day walking around with a fish tucked between your legs 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 05:15 PM
1

Lol. Lose one point and immediately take up another? Shameless you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 05:09 PM
1

The reason why so many are commenting is because the comment was linked in /r/badwomensanatomy. A lot of women commenting here first commented there. Looks like I struck a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 05:03 PM
1

Enjoy subjecting *women to stinky puss, ya sadistic torturer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:57 PM
1

Maintain good hygiene, I beg you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:55 PM
1

Most of those commenting here aren’t regular posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:51 PM
1

You’re the sixth person to have repeated that joke. Is it fun being unoriginal, cut-and-pasting other people’s jokes?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:49 PM
1

Why do you directly address me up until your last sentence where you refer to me in the third person as though you have an audience?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:33 PM
0

Perhaps you are mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 02:59 AM
0

Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 02:59 AM
1

No, you’re right. I’m thinking about dicks whenever I spend time with a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 02:18 AM
-2

It’s interesting that you can call out male misbehavior with the understanding that it’s not all men but it is a general problem. You do the same with women and people like you go nuts. Why is one right and the other wrong? #Metoo was a good thing, a wake up call to guys, clueing us into proper conduct and policing our peers better. I can say confidently, with your enthusiastic approval, that a lot of guys engage in creepy and inappropriate behavior. But the moment I suggest that genital hygiene…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:23 AM
1

https://www2.psych.ubc.ca/~dpaulhus/research/DARK_TRIAD/PRESENTATIONS/Williamsetal-APS2004.pdf https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11757-020-00607-y
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 01:09 AM
1

I kinda take issue with the premise of this that men are simply work horses who are designed to maximize output/money. We’re drivers of progress. We’re the makers of things. Technological, scientific, and medical advances come predominantly from us, and the question is whether the pursuit of sex distracts or drives us.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 12:21 AM
-2

Was I linked to /r/badfemaleanatomy? Is that why I’m receiving so much attention for an otherwise mundane comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 11:35 PM
-1

I’m pretty sure there are special soaps involved, pH levels need to be carefully monitored, and it must be done carefully to prevent against irritation, tearing, and infection, so most women don’t bother. I’m gagging again. Edit: Linked to /r/badwomensanatomy. Please, for the sake of your partners, maintain good hygiene down there!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 05:20 PM
3

I’d check the available scientific literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:55 PM
-1

*weird Why couldn’t it be? Maintaining proper hygiene for latter type of genitalia is harder and subsequently more women neglect to do so. Men develop a conditioned taste aversion as a result. They both are unpleasant to lick when unclean, but one is unclean more often than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:53 PM
1

There's much more men that refuse to eat pussy than there are women who refuse to suck dick. You said this as though it were a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 04:41 PM
1

Because you’re advocating that men stick their tongues in unholy places.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 02:58 PM
5

Left-winger isn’t actually a good one. Physically fit and/or very attractive face are better indicators. Plenty of left-wing guys not getting laid. Political orientation isn’t the best indicator. Anyways, guys aren’t as likely to lie downwards, so just flat out asking should suffice. Most high n guys try to just avoid the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:17 AM
8

As long as you aren’t a slut it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:13 AM
4

Atlas, you’re atypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:12 AM
2

Very very unlikely that a daughter is sluttier than her mom. At the very least, they are as slutty. If mom comes from the old country, she’s probably more conservative than her daughter raised here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:09 AM
3

More succinctly, mental issues => high # of lifetime sexual partners in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 03:06 AM
1

I’m not orally stimulating stinky puss. I’m literally gagging rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 01:50 AM
2

I’d seriously advise talking to someone that’s been in your situation and that has found success. Or find a good therapist, which is easier said than done. I’d hesitate to take life advice from an online forum. Good luck, man.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:45 AM
1

Ok, this is pretty sad. Don’t scrounge for affection from someone who isn’t giving it to you. This world is full of guys that would get on their knees to simp for feminine attention. Quit pining after neglectful Korean hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 01:40 AM
1

Find a guy who won’t pump and dump you if you’re afraid of that. Let him know your situation, that you only have sex in relationships, and that you expect commitment and investment before you’re capable of being physically intimate. That that’s how you’ve always been and you refuse to compromise. Guys will only hold out for so long if they’re just interested in a pump’n’dump. Easier girls exist and they’ll simply move on. If you’re looking for something longterm, time and attrition are your frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 01:14 AM
1

Sexuality is fluid. It was very common for male Roman Republicans to have had at least one same-sex experience. Women immediately exclude guys that tried it, but luckily for you, guys are more forgiving. Or find a guy that isn’t ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:57 AM
1

Women aren’t. Go lesbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:45 AM
1

Go get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 12:40 AM
1

This place keeps getting weirder and weirder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 10:41 PM
1

Slutty history.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 10:35 PM
2

Are you afraid that you might miss out on a relationship with a high-functioning high-IQ individual? Most successful professionals are high-IQ and type-A.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:32 PM
2

What made you stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 05:18 PM
1

I wonder why British dudes are uglier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 05:17 PM
2

I suggest either talking to people with shared experiences or seeing a counselor. I’m not sure you’ll get the best tips here.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:47 PM
1

Really depends on the mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:24 PM
3

Our differential drives essentially mean sex on demand for her and blue balls for you.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:22 PM
3

And prostitutes.
/r/MGTOW02/08/20 02:41 PM
7

I want the deets.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 01:58 PM
0

Yes
/r/askTRP02/08/20 01:58 PM
26

These are some very bitter-sounding terms to describe these women. Obviously they’re not LTR material, but that’s nine-out-of-ten women. In fact, their identifying as “polyamorous” serves as an advance warning that these aren’t people you should ever be serious with, if you’re looking for that sort of thing.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/20 05:16 AM
1

i love the idea of being in love with a woman and having real intimacy with a woman The point of rp is to learn this isn’t possible. I doubt any of your plates are exclusively seeing you, so none of them are LTR material. Maybe one in ten women actually qualify as LTR material, but three in ten present as LTR material without that actually being the case. The point of rp is the realization that “happily ever after” will never come.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 05:02 AM
6

This, but only temporarily. That 5 that didn’t rouse your attention in spite of her obvious IOIs will not remember you a week from now because some other guy(s) will be more receptive to her between now and then.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:45 AM
8

The forbidden thing is several dudes at once.
/r/MGTOW02/08/20 01:27 AM
16

Also, paternity testing wasn’t really an option at that time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/20 12:29 AM
26

Tom Hanks went full retard but not for reasons you might expect.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/20 12:27 AM
2

She wants to fuck another dude while keeping you on retainer. She may already be fucking him. It’s time to resume the hunt.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:25 AM
1

That really depends on how she acts. My Nan says wildly offensive things about black people sometimes in loud “hushed” tones. I’m not looking to catch an ass-whooping on account of her lack of filter.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:08 AM
3

Also, in order to maintain good relations with blue-pilled siblings, you keep your tongue between your teeth when they go into their nonsense.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 12:04 AM
3

It’s mostly face (not including what can be groomed) and height. Everything else can be mediated.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/20 09:53 PM
4

As long as she’s 18+, you’re fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:34 PM
3

Sending sentimental messages to women who barely remember you. That's the ultimate indication of lack of options. This (which I shamefully confess that I too am guilty of) is us engaging in feminine behavior. That is, we’re assuming that they’d react as we would if an attractive someone from the past hit us up. If you didn’t take your shot then, you probably missed it even if she was clearly into you then. We don’t mean the same to women that they mean to us. They don’t get haunted by strangers …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:32 PM
1

Eh. Go for it. Some frats have older members. Or don’t.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:10 PM
1

God cucked Joseph as well by impregnating his “Virgin” wife. None of this bodes well for us, boys.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:08 PM
1

Goebbels fucked some pretty hot women during his marriage (or at least what passed for hot in those days). The Fuhrer once had to cuss him out because he was fucking some Czech slut.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:06 PM
2

Take it for granted. Never assume a girl’s the exception because she is so much more likely of not being one. Women that only appear to be exceptional outnumber exceptional women by a factor of 100:1. Sometimes a painful reminder is necessary to shock guys out of their reverie.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:00 PM
8

The lesson is: your job, position, reputation, and even power don't mean jack shit to women if you behave like a beta bitch. You can be alpha af and still get cucked, though not being a bitch can mitigate the risk. With women you’re always gambling though. There are no certainties in this game. You should be able to walk out of any relationship within a day, and never fool yourself into thinking she’s somehow an exception.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:56 PM
4

Several Roman emperors were cucked. Even Napoleon Bonaparte was cucked. Whether a man is cuckolded has no bearing on his greatness. It’s how he responds that matters.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 07:52 PM
1

There aren’t ever any guarantees and you put yourself at special risk in LDRs. You can do things to mitigate risk (vet sexual history, look for signs, etc.), but, again, no guarantees. Women are cheating now more than ever. It’s easier now more than ever. The consequences of infidelity have never been less.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:19 PM
4

Eh. Some women live life on their own terms and that’s not necessarily as a tradwife (increasingly very rare).
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:46 PM
3

That’s because women in those cultures aren’t as keen on genital hygiene as men are. Innith are the unwashed fluids of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 04:03 PM
7

That’s more because a lot of women aren’t as keen on genital hygiene as men are. Sure, it’s easier for us, but that’s no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 03:57 PM
2

Feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 03:56 PM
5

I don’t doubt what you’re saying but I’d like a source regardless. What’s the definition of “dating” here?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/20 03:47 PM
36

Life is full of mysteries and possibilities.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/20 03:26 PM
2

These mind games are confusing af. We need to turn back the clock to much simpler times.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:17 PM
1

Secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 08:33 PM
1

That would be inhumane.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 08:09 PM
1

Random selection to ensure fairness, but yes. I would be exempted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 07:44 PM
3

If you stick with her you in spite of these Godsent signs, you deserve all the misery and suffering that’s coming your way.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:57 PM
0

Normally they just mean in relation to what is the norm. That’s essentially what I’m getting at. Logical argument be damned. It’s about what is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 05:00 PM
1

That’s sort of the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:58 PM
0

Now you’re shamed for not wanting to date sluts, and by other guys no less. Tomorrow it will be sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:56 PM
1

How should I reformulate this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:54 PM
2

I don’t think it’s a useful generation *generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 03:49 PM
0

That’s really up to whomever I might be persuing. I have my standards and they have theirs. As long as one doesn’t misrepresent themself, they’re fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:14 AM
5

I don’t know where you live that 150k/yr isn’t good money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 02:25 AM
1

I actually considered this. There’s no reason why we can’t pump some women full of roids and have them take on those roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 10:48 PM
0

Enforce a totalitarian state, remove 80% of the male population so the remaining 20% can have a rotating harem of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:42 PM
1

“And not necessarily” doesn’t generally denote agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:15 PM
1

Sometimes I get a little carried away...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:47 PM
1

You would have me commit to a slut. Is it your desire that I get cheated on, divorced, losing half of my assets in the process? Do you get off on the posts to /r/survivinginfidelity? Is that what you want? You must be some kind of sadist imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:36 PM
2

My god.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:21 PM
2

Are you touring Israel for a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:20 PM
2

Then no women are mother/wifey material.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:18 PM
1

I see nothing wrong with first girl, although it is a bit hypocritical to have casual sex and kind of dismiss women for having it. Why? Is a tall guy not allowed to exclusively date short girls? It’s perfectly reasonable to separate women who are just fucking material vs. those that are dating (and fucking) material.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:17 PM
1

I don’t understand how being a Mormon somehow makes your positions dismissible upon arrival. They’re still using data and everyone else treats them as a reliable source.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:12 PM
2

Which is why they report the highest marital satisfaction and stability?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:33 PM
1

*than. And not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:13 PM
4

Men get uglier as they age. Their brains get slower. The scars don’t heal as fast. Learning new things isn’t as easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:12 PM
3

It's been brought up here numerous times Then it shouldn’t be hard for you to back up your numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:10 AM
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Insecure doesn’t really capture how I’d feel. Disgust is more apt, and that disgust probably was (and likely still is) adaptive. Women have an adaptive disgust for male virgins because a guy’s virginity indicates that women don’t want to fuck him. He’s not physically fit, likely has undesirable genes, and if you want a kid that’ll have reproductive success, you pick the guy that plenty of other women picked. Pregnancies are costly, time-consuming, and can only occur during a brief window of your…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:06 AM
3

Hopefully the sorts of data you can cite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:16 AM
3

Why do we take your advice when your judge of character is as poor as your taste in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:15 AM
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All other things being equal, you don’t see any difference between a girl that’s been with three guys and one that’s been with thirty?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:11 AM
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Life takes it toll on men in its own way. We all have mileage in some form or other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 07:07 AM
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cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journal of personality and social psychology…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:47 AM
2

Perhaps ignorance is bliss. I’m personally of the opinion that it gets to a point where a single cock “till death do us apart” doesn’t quite cut it. The desire for strange becomes incapacitating and they either cheat, divorce, or both. That is more sound than anything you’ve proposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:05 AM
2

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:01 AM
7

I suppose not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:01 AM
1

Your speculations would be of greater service if bolstered by sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:52 AM
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Possibly. What you’re essentially arguing is that the low count women reporting high marital satisfaction because they don’t have enough experience to be unhappy. That’s a reaching explanation devised by someone unwilling to grasp the much simpler and evident one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:50 AM
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That is a possible explanation that I have considered—people possibly being counted twice or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:36 AM
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No one really knows or gives a shit about n count if a woman is attractive enough. Really depends. Some guys won’t date sex workers and even porn stars have trouble dating people who aren’t in the industry. A woman can be an 11/10, a literal angel on earth, but if she told me she’d been with a triple digit number of guys, I couldn’t see myself getting serious with her. De Niro’s character Sam’s insistence in Casino on marrying Sharon Stone’s character (who he knew was a call girl!) always puzzle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:24 AM
2

We want to fuck a lot of women and date women that haven’t fucked a lot of men. That’s what most of us want. We mentally assign women one of three categories: dating and fucking material, fucking-but-not-dating material, and not-fucking-and-thus-not-dating material. The Madonna-Whore complex is very real and it’s adaptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:57 AM
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Unrestricted sociosexual orientation. Wow. Just wow. I make an effort to understand the topic, have posted on sociosexual orientation before, and you don’t even know what I’m talking about. This is literally a situation where one person is doing research on a topic, is presenting that topic with links for people to educate themselves on the subject, and one person (you) not only angrily misconstrues what the person is saying but also is too lazy to do any of her reading on the subject. If you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:49 AM
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You’re like those MRAs who protest “what about the mennnnn” whenever someone brings up an issue impacting women. No one is stopping you from finding info on the topic regarding men. Bring it up on your own or stop talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:41 AM
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I don’t have a problem with unrestricted SO women. They aren’t doing anything wrong. Establishing an understanding of sexual exclusivity and then violating that agreement is wrong, and they are at much greater risk of doing so, but an unrestricted SO isn’t an ipso facto predictor of future infidelity or lack of marital bliss. I have never indicated otherwise. Blu, please source my comments from here on out. You’re hallucinating sentiments that aren’t actually there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:38 AM
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I’m incredulous of this number actually. Seems way too high. I wanted to see if others could actually find where in the study this is indicated. I thought I made that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:14 AM
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I’m not arguing in favor of virginity before marriage, so I’m not going to defend it. People who marry their one-and-onlies have the highest rates of marital satisfaction and the lowest rates of divorce. Acknowledging this doesn’t signal opposition to premarital sex. I’ve never stated that a higher-than-average n is a guarantor of infidelity, marital dissatisfaction, or divorce. This hasn’t been the case in my personal experience. There is just higher risk involved in committing to someone like …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:05 AM
3

Lifetime number of sexual partners is negatively correlated with marital satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 12:41 AM
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find some obscure study you think supports your belief that sex is evil and therefore women who do sex are evil . OP and the rest of the incelsphere will say it’s because sex damages women You should continue to avoid my posts because clearly you’re not capable of understanding what I’m actually arguing, so your responses are to your personal misconceptions instead of my positions. cut and paste The most galling thing about deniers is that they intentionally mis-frame the argument by conflating …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 10:26 PM
6

Would determining the direction of causation change how you’d react if you were in deep water when the music starts playing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 09:35 PM
1

Agreed, but it matters to varying degrees to men and women. It matters more to more men than it matters to women. Women still want attractive partners, but other things can compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 09:30 PM
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Most men get ugly with age Fortunately, looks aren’t the only thing by which we are judged by when it comes to attracting mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 09:21 PM
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If there’s a 25-foot shark that appears whenever you hear Jaws music, it doesn’t matter if the shark’s causing the music, if the music is causing the shark, or if some third entity is sending the shark and cuing the orchestra.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 09:20 PM
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You should get in the habit of providing sources for your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 08:55 PM
2

Keep trying even if it means going to the grave trying and not succeeding. Maybe a 1-month plan is too ambitious. Try a 2-week plan and try to stay the course.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:21 PM
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Promiscuous women cheat unfortunately. cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 08:09 PM
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If there’s a 25-foot shark that appears when you hear Jaws music, it doesn’t matter if the shark’s causing the music, if the music is causing the shark, or if some third entity is sending the shark and cuing the orchestra.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 08:04 PM
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I think that’s foolish as well. My advice would be to hold out for a low count woman if you’re interested in something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 07:46 PM
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I’ve heard of too many Whorror stories to know that I should be vigilant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 07:02 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/hz6xo3/if_women_cared_about_male_ncounts_then_how_come/fzhh99y/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:47 PM
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That people put on facades and misrepresent themselves in relationships? Or that some people can maintain those facades for extended periods of time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:33 PM
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I’d be surprised if the risk levels were equal. It would be more accurate to say they’re both at risk to varying degrees. But I’m posting this because I’m skeptical of the info and looking to source it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:29 PM
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And there are ones who can successfully mask the extent of the damage to achieve relational goals, like marriage, growing lax only after having attained their goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:26 PM
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to have sex The most galling thing about deniers is that they intentionally mis-frame the argument by conflating sex with multiple different partners with “having sex” or “enjoying sex,” intentionally excluding the possibility that a woman can do either of these things without having sex with multiple different partners. Someone who has sex exclusively with long-term partners can enjoy sex just as much someone who enjoys it with multiple partners. Guys aren’t eschewing women on the basis of freq…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:24 PM
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I personally don’t care. I’m more concerned over whether this is actually the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:15 PM
2

To achieve significant change you’ll have to work against years of ingrained habit, which is inherently difficult and a path wrought with failure. I think it’s important to recognize this when attempting to make lasting changes to your life. If you want to make drastic changes in a short period of time, you’ll need to subject yourself to stresses that are high but that you can burden. Devise a 1-month plan , trial a day of that plan, see if you can tolerate it, and, if not, adjust accordingly. Y…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:05 PM
2

Is it responsible to go to concerts rn? I don’t think we are post-COVID-19.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/20 04:48 PM
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Do they ever? Compared to the base male population, likely less so, but it is conceivable that some can and do. It may be comforting thinking that they wear misogyny on their sleeves and are thus immediately identifiable, but I don’t think that’s always the case. With gender ratios being what they are, success in certain fields can only be attainable through the establishment of amicable relations with women, and some of them are shrewd enough to recognize that.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/20 04:41 PM
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It’s sociosexual orientation. You can find which attachment patterns and Big 5 traits are correlated to infidelity, but the man behind the curtains is SO, which is strongly correlated ones number of lifetime sexual partners.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/20 09:24 AM
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All data must be critically examined in terms of source, methodology and interpretation. Agreed. These excerpts don't really mean anything without those considerations. Due diligence requires interested entities to follow up on these sources before accepting or denying these snippets, or they can be accepted or denied at face value. I’ve presented evidence that there’s a worm under the rock. You can 1) view my premises and consequent conclusions and provide your own critiques to my argument, 2) …
/r/ExRedPill28/07/20 08:05 AM
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These stats aren’t meant to explanatory and they don’t delve into reasons why. They simply establish a relationship: certain patterns of behavior are in some way related to instances of extradyadic sexual involvement (ESI). An understanding of sociosexual orientations is necessary in understanding the why there’s a relationship between one’s lifetime number of sexual partners and instances of ESI. Short answer: those with unrestricted sociosexual orientations are generally less committed to thei…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/20 06:55 AM
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They're not a minority anymore. Probably the case. That said, people are notoriously bad at estimating the prevalence of pretty much everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:44 AM
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Men tend to notice slutty women and assume they represent most if not all women. I call the phenomenon slut salience and reckon it was two-fold adaptive; men who recognized sluts as ideal short-term partners (easy lay = low investment opportunity to propagate genes) and abysmal long-term partners (numerous male partners —> increased parental uncertainty and odds of investment in offspring of other males) were likely more successful in ensuring their genes made it into the following generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:28 AM
0

You don’t have to do anything. If you want sexual exclusivity in a long-term relationship, you’re more likely to attain this with a low-n woman than a high-n one. Which isn’t to say that any low-n woman is guaranteed to provide you with a happy long-term relationship or that any high-n woman is incapable of doing so. If you plan on having an open relationship, her past doesn’t really matter outside of her use of proper protection and remaining disease free.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/20 05:15 AM
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Because feminism Feminism essentially reverted Western women to the state they were in in pre-Christian Europe. From the Germanics to the Romans along the Mediterranean, you had paganist sluts. Sluts permeated Roman culture in spite of cherished principles of pudicitia (chastity); Augustus had to exile his own daughter for her numerous infidelities during her marriage. Marcus Aurelius’ wife cheated on him. Catullus simped for Clodia who cucked her husband, a praetor. Cleopatra, the Macedonian pr…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:07 AM
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Any man who is well aware of the risk of infidelity or divorce would steer clear: [T]here was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce. Wikipedia contributors. (2020, June 20). Female promiscuity. In Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. Retrieved 12:06, July 27, 2020, from https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 12:07 AM
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If he had no options then he lacks the inclination or funds to hire a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 11:21 PM
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It appears that the statistic is not on your side, friend, but are on his. cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 09:58 PM
1

To subject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:25 PM
1

That’s actually more extreme than I’d ever feel comfortable getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:15 PM
1

I’m gagging.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:09 PM
1

Women with restricted sociosexual orientations are fundamentally different creatures from women with unrestricted orientations (top quintile v. bottom quintile). When you get to the extremes, the difference is night and day. Like the difference in infidelity rates alone is in the orders of magnitude (at or above 10x).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 06:08 PM
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Promiscuous women cheat, Nodoxxintoxin. They cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:52 PM
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What are your thoughts on these facts? cut and paste Among ever-married adults ages 18 to 29, women are more likely than men to be guilty of infidelity Wang, W. (2018, January 10). Who Cheats More? The Demographics of Infidelity in America. Retrieved July 20, 2020, from https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america X One of the more interesting facts in Esther Perel’s new book, State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, comes near the beginning. Since 1990, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:47 PM
2

That’s so clever of you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:05 PM
1

You don’t.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:08 PM
13

Can a Mustang fuck you? Can it divorce you and take half of your assets?
/r/MGTOW27/07/20 02:21 PM
1

Promiscuous women cheat and divorce. It’s not a good deal :/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:43 PM
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If the number of premarital partners had no effect on the likelihood of infidelity, relationship satisfaction, or divorce, guys really wouldn’t have a leg to stand on when looking for rational reasons not to want to be commit to and invest in promiscuous women. Unfortunately, they are several times likelier to be unfaithful and divorce: A 2010 study published in Journal of Marriage and Family found that there was a correlation between female pre-marital promiscuity and higher rates of divorce. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:01 PM
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Infidelity comes naturally to them it would seem. cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin regi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 08:46 PM
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This is unfortunately true: cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journal of perso…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 08:44 PM
2

When you buy into an ideology that seeks to exploit members of the opposite sex to get the most out of them, there's not a lot of room for empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 08:39 PM
2

You’re honestly doing him a favor because she could be having sex with someone who has STDs which would put him at risk. By ensuring that her time is being taken up by someone who’s clean, you’re exposing him to less of a risk.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 09:48 AM
2

but don’t do it before you’ve fucked I did not know this. I’ve been doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:40 AM
4

Snake Plissken is the definition of frame.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:57 PM
1

Promiscuity with infidelity...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 03:37 AM
1

One of over ten different sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:51 PM
1

Does it have to be so excessive? With so many people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:19 PM
4

FDS more so. They have tight restrictions on discussion, are deliberately inflammatory, less-disciplined, more entitled and hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:13 PM
11

The prize is disqualification.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/20 05:15 PM
0

Learn espanol, mi amigo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 05:07 PM
9

RPW and FDS have different views towards men but advocate for some of the same things (holding off on sex, demanding commitment, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:57 PM
1

And then you became a cybernetic asthmatic general?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:54 PM
1

she is getting nailed by the bigger better cock Only Jesus Christ can claim so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:49 PM
1

Aye, but it must be acknowledged that this man lives in a world of degeneracy where infidelities are committed and countenanced with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:24 PM
31

This is why fds preaches women lie about their histories and wait three months before sex. Eventually she’ll start holding out on sex, forcing guys to invest more for less. And poor, dumb bastards will oblige her.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:00 PM
2

Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:28 PM
1

We must reverse this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:28 PM
1

Ah, so you’re cheating on your latest. It was only a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:26 PM
1

No. It’s just what you said about how little value they bring to our lives. That’s an interesting sentiment. Depressing, but interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 12:03 PM
1

Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:49 AM
1

Have women dramatically increased in value lately? Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:40 AM
1

Yeah, but you can date a 23-24yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:25 AM
1

Does that bother you? Realistically you can go five years younger without it being weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 11:08 AM
0

I wouldn’t be opposed to it. I don’t understand phobic attitudes towards virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 10:56 AM
1

Promiscuous people tend to cheat. Best to stay safe and avoid them altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 10:20 AM
2

They chose to lie and double dip. Yeah. You let them know that if they cheat, they don’t have to tell you; they can just break up with no explanation. Instead they just cheat because they want to break your confidence in women. They want to inflict pain and it doesn’t bother them. Like zero guilt or recognition that what they’re doing is wrong. It’s really bizarre. I think it’s because they think it’s justified because they see themselves as victims and us as oppressors, so any damage they infli…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 09:13 AM
5

I have brought you into the light.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:40 AM
3

Honestly, you see things like this and you’re turned off by the concept. I haven’t been cheated on to the best of my knowledge, but I swear this shit triggers tf out of me. It disturbs me. That r_adultery is filled with women that literally feel nothing about cheating on their spouses. You figure you might actually be more comfortable with something if you get on the inside of it and actually figure it out. Adultery did the opposite for me; when women cheat, they feel nothing about betraying the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:36 AM
3

I have converted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:25 AM
15

I will never get married.
/r/MGTOW22/07/20 08:22 AM
5

sluts cheat, Mimox. say it. sluts cheeeeeat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:18 AM
4

You guys have an open marriage dynamic. It’s different for guys who don’t want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:17 AM
0

Realistically speaking, doesn’t that mean most guys and girls don’t want partners who’ve had less than two prior relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 08:12 AM
1

And you’d be deluded to think women have contributed nothing. Those great men needed mothers to carry them for 9 months, so you have a point. Women should be recognized for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:48 AM
2

oh You’d think he’d guide us away from that happening to us instead of steering us into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:44 AM
1

Very often it’s concentrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:39 AM
2

You tempt the Gods with your hubris, brother. Cease or thou shall be smitten: Kayla Knopp and colleagues found that partners in romantic relationships were three times more likely to cheat on their next partner if they did so in their first relationship. The study was published in Archives of Sexual Behavior. https://www.psypost.org/2018/07/cheaters-three-times-more-likely-to-report-cheating-in-their-next-relationship-study-finds-51849 before it was infected by TradCons and incels is that it gav…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:38 AM
2

This is honestly one of the dumbest, most blue-pilled of arguments. Do you think card counters or that really any successful gamblers are playing a pure odds game? Fuck no. They’re tracking ratios or keeping track of percentages. Otherwise, they’d be at the mercy of the house or other players that do pay attention to these things. You’re always gambling, but you can look at empirical data to put yourself in an advantageous position. If I tie my finances to a routine churchgoer that also fucks, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 06:56 AM
3

The bar is set so low that it’s not hard being valuable.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:43 AM
5

The percent likelihood of infidelity levels out after a certain number, making a 20-count person as high risk as a 50 or a 100. You may not be monogamously-minded, but you’ve got to maturely understand that other people have other priorities, say like a lasting relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 06:36 AM
2

Liquor up the most principled man and send in a seductress at the level of Jessica Alba and see what their resolve amounts to. Most men would be careful to avoid such temptations and temptresses precisely because they’re aware of their weakness. The successful person who doesn’t cheat isn’t the one that’s able to mount a resistance in moments of special susceptibility but rather those who anticipate and avoid such moments altogether. With the correct combination of woman and chemical and you mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:54 AM
2

Very soon, there will be calculators where you input numerous relevant variables to compute the likelihood of infidelity. 2 previous sexual partners, both within the confines of long-term relationships, 25 years of age, indicates complete lack of interest in casual sex, no history of sexual trauma, relationship with father: excellent, no known adultery committed by parents, modest wardrobe, tattoos on body: bare, other relevant values, etc., etc., Computing... beep boop bop bip Robotic female vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:37 AM
2

I resent that. Smart men can succumb to their wiles as well. When you’re horny, a stupidity takes hold that only goes away when the spell has past. Unfortunately, there are only a few options available to drive it away in an expedient manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:23 AM
1

one particular point you’re fixating on: quantity of sexual partners, is not as reliable of an indicator for the majority of the population. . A truism in psychology is that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. This is no less true in the realm of sexual behavior. Indeed, one of the strongest predictors of marital infidelity is one’s number of prior sex partners (Buss, 2000). Deception about past sexual promiscuity would have inflicted greater costs, on average, on men than on…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:16 AM
3

Which makes it all the more baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:09 AM
2

The bimbos are tempting...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:06 AM
2

No, it’s not. It’s a reliable predictor of future infidelity but is by no means a pointer to an inevitability. But why incur the risk? So many people are blindsided by their partners’ infidelities, but here we have what’s essentially a silver bullet. approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 05:04 AM
1

Nah. No victims and acts between consenting adults? Clearly no moral argument can be made against it. My two arguments are these: Past promiscuity is a strong predictor of future infidelity Different attitudes towards sex (sociosexual orientation)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 04:53 AM
2

There isn’t anything inherently immoral in consenting to a gangbang, having a train run on you, being spit-roasted, etc. Promiscuity isn’t immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 04:46 AM
2

Morality doesn’t have much to do with it. More so the fallout wrought from a generation raised by damaged people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 04:36 AM
3

Once you look into the older demo, men far exceed in cheating than women do. So now younger generations of women are avenging those older generations of women who were cheated on by men of older generations by out-cheating the men of their own generation? Flawless feminine logic right there. Bravo. Now I understand why all famous past philosophers were women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 04:01 AM
1

Maybe you’re confused. 1) Not an incel 2) Not interested in a virgin. One or two LTRs before me would be ideal, just not gangbangs, threesomes, trains, drunken, half-remembered ONSs with strangers, etc. I know that’s a lot to ask for, but I’m an idealist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:56 AM
5

This is pretty tame, OP. If you don’t incorporate all of these things into your sex routine, you’re a little bitch.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 03:52 AM
3

Maybe in terms of the older generations. Millennial women are cheating 10% more than their hapless male counterparts it would seem. There’s no reason not to suspect that this gap will increase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:48 AM
1

There’s a distinction here that you’re not seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:46 AM
3

Plenty of women appear to have not gotten that message.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:45 AM
11

It’s not much sex. It’s how many different partners, but you probably already knew that and deliberately acting as if you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:41 AM
3

All of you tradgirls get up in arms whenever this comes up, assuming that our disapproval of so many women fucking around MUST translate into our approval of guys engaging in this behavior. Why is this so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:37 AM
1

They were very receptive to what you had to say on my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:33 AM
2

And yet, now we know that finding a low N girl is just as much of a sure thing as getting divorced... That’s not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:31 AM
-1

What is a false dilemma?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:28 AM
2

Certainly hard to gauge how reflective the user base is of the country’s population, specifically Gens Y and Z. May be that it’s not very representative at all, and you’re right; you lose perspective by ascribing what you see here on the general population. But there’s also that some persistent nagging doubt. This might be where people go to be honest about their own sick predilections. With a belief in total anonymity, one might be more forthcoming of that unassuming girl that shyly smiles at y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 03:27 AM
1

What a lamentable state we must be in that we have to resort going out into the country to find a girl that hasn’t been railed by ten dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:51 AM
1

What is this ghetto-speak? Do you think deliberately making yourself sound retarded somehow scores you points? If your girlfriend is seeking some sort of justification to dump your ass, you speaking as though you’re retarded is so much more better a reason than your getting sauced and fucking your friendgirl at a lil house party. Cheat on her to your heart’s content; she deserves it for dating a retard.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:48 AM
6

I’m a little tired pulling sources out of hat, and it’s time someone else does. Has anyone done a rigorous study on this widespread Tinder coercion problem? Can you back that up with some figures? I’m sure it’s happened, but to an extent where it’s pervasive? I’ll need a source for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:23 AM
4

I’m bothered by the fact that the share of women that don’t do this is shrinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:40 AM
-2

I’m the last guy to generalize women. I understand there’s as much variability there as there are as there is for men... the lying, cheating sluts...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:22 AM
-1

So that’s where you set the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:17 AM
1

She contested the fact that men have been shepherding civilization for millennia. Apparently she wasn’t aware and neither are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:14 AM
3

She ought to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:12 AM
-3

Simmer down
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:11 AM
3

A paternity test can only be taken after the fact. And most cheaters don’t actually commit paternity fraud, so that’s where the probably stems from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 01:11 AM
1

How many of them cop to it? And what do you think the percent error is? It’s so close to fifty that it might as well be half or even more. Cheaters cheat.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:08 AM
1

The same.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 11:54 PM
1

Am I denying any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:46 PM
-4

Depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:40 PM
2

I wasn’t the one who contrived someone’s entire life story just because they posted upsetting numbers and trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:36 PM
3

They’re not ditching you for being a virgin, they’re ditching you for not putting out. It doesn’t stem from a prejudice against virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:34 PM
2

I’ve discussed asymmetrical preferences before. If her standards exclude me, then that’s simply the case. My preferences don’t really matter at that point because nothing would materialize anyways. But if I fit her parameters (even if I wouldn’t fit my own parameters if I were in her position) and she fits mine, we’re fine. Relative to other guys and freaky girls on this sub, my personal intimate relationships doesn’t amount to much. I wouldn’t date me if I were a woman, but she doesn’t have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:31 PM
1

Swing and a miss on almost all of your assumptions. You don’t “win” a discussion by completely circumventing your opponent’s points and simply accusing them of being some kind of bigot. Probably works in your circles, but trying to socially shame someone instead of addressing what they’re saying indicates that you’re simply unable to. Not currently in a relationship, but if the alternative was being with someone like you, I’d rather remain single for the remainder of my natural life. I’m sure pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:10 PM
0

Yet I do admit it and very apparently and playfully brush it under the rug. I’ve said though that I wouldn’t date a promiscuous dude if I was not a dude. The studies speak for themselves, and unrestricted guys are also at high risk of infidelity. It’s just that that info is irrelevant to me and the guys I’m discussing this with. But it’s a reasonable hangup for a guy or girl, and I won’t outright deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 11:01 PM
-1

Are you referring to these “claims” predominantly from studies published in peer-reviewed journals or from PhDs that have more expertise on these topics than you do? Can you explain how they were “cherry-picked?” All info that makes you upset is cherry-picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 10:43 PM
2

The reason why you are fed and have the AC running is because of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 10:34 PM
3

But they tend to cheat unfortunately. Those with unrestricted sociosexual orientations tend to be less committed to their partners and desire numerous and various partners. Also it’s kinda gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:41 PM
-1

Guess that means I have to settle for the girl that was spit-roasted at Coachella.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:37 PM
1

Complaint? This post is a simple acknowledgement of fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:33 PM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:27 PM
-1

I wasn’t aware that I indicated anyone was due anything. Maybe you read a different post and accidentally pitched a fit on this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:26 PM
3

Maybe you should read all of it. Takes about 2mins.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:16 PM
2

I don’t think you know what arbitrary means.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:14 PM
4

No guy wants to learn that the person they built a life with was cheating on them. Fucks’em up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:11 PM
-4

Promiscuous women are different from non-promiscuous ones. More jaded, likely to cheat, shamelessly doing so, incapable of guilt or remorse. Tend to be more selfish. A lotta dicks’ll do that to you. R_adultery is full of those types on a male-dominated site!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:07 PM
1

You sure? Who drafts the laws? Who enforces them? Who dictates trade policy? Who defends polities from being razed? Who coordinates those who defend polities? I can probably give you 100 male philosophers for every feminine one you could name. Ditto mathematicians, physicists, chemists, biologists, etc. You severely overstate women’s historic contributions to any of these things. The primary movers in history have always been men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:57 PM
3

I’m fixated on a lot of things, though I resent the word and what it connotes. Very interested in. Like languages, cultures, history, psychoactive drugs, the times, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:45 PM
1

I’m very impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:37 PM
6

It varies considerably by state. This country is very heterogeneous in how it treats sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:31 PM
0

“Worshipped” is a strong word. After an appraisal of the numbers, any guy interested in having and raising kids or just having a long-term faithful partner in general would only consider low-n girls for those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:30 PM
4

Trads are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:34 PM
5

It seems you’re changing the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:30 PM
2

It really is dumpster diving for diamonds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:29 PM
2

They just change the goal post so they can put angel wings on them again. Preferable to completely giving up on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:27 PM
-1

For whatever reason that’s not the case where I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:24 PM
11

Promiscuous women don’t necessarily cheat. True. This fear is very irrational Very false.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:22 PM
3

Libertarian until the repercussions of not caring comes knocking on your door.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:18 PM
5

I want intelligent counterpoints. So far you seem incapable of providing those. In fact, your only rebuttals are groundless assumptions of my life. Evident that there’s not much there beyond that that you can deliver.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:16 PM
1

It doesn’t mean accepting vacuous viewpoints passively. You challenge my views and I ask questions about what you put forth. If it were substantive, you likely wouldn’t be so defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:11 PM
3

Rape and murder occurs to what? One in one-hundred-thousand women? That’s the rational fear? Something that you’re incredibly unlikely to experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:08 PM
5

Since the person above deleted his comment, I’ll reply to you. because xyz fake rules you've deemed are "best for society" or whatever other unsubstantiated horseshit What did I not substantiate? Increasing promiscuity/infidelity rates among women, especially with younger generations? [1] [2] [3] Decreasing marriage rates? [1] [2] Decreasing fertility rates? [1] [2] Increasing out-of-wedlock birth rates and non-traditional upbringings? [1] [2] Decreasing religiosity? [1] Decreased civic engageme…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:05 PM
5

Atlas, what are your thoughts on the trends I’ve listed. Do any of them concern you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:38 PM
4

Ouch. This is bigger than just us as individuals. This is the course of society and civilization. If you’re concerned with the bigger picture of the aforementioned trends (higher women’s promiscuity/infidelity, low marriage rates, higher out-of-wedlock birth rates, but decreasing fertility rates overall necessitating more third world immigration. Increasing male suicide, decreased investment in society and civic participation. It’s difficult for women to see beyond themselves, but that’s normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:37 PM
2

We have an accurate reading of the situation but differ on where we stand as a proportion of the population. Guys are adjusting. They’re more tolerant of promiscuous pasts and current infidelities. They’re accommodating by necessity, but they are accommodating. We holdouts are the ones that are failing to adjust.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:29 PM
5

I agree, but what that actually means differs. A lot of guys are putting their energies into indulgent lifestyles, be they gamers, MGTOWs, or redpillers spinning plates. We’re less concerned about each other, society, and future generations. That or you commit to a modern woman and raise one or two kids that are probably yours. Low-T guys will accept this. They’ll marry and have children, get cheated on and try to make it work out, etc. The kids will be fucked up as a consequence. You either tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:21 PM
109

Her appearance is the only thing going for her. No serious guy would expect fidelity from someone like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/20 04:22 PM
4

You won’t be able to convince a person who thinks dating that a girl who was having sex with four different guys simultaneously qualifies as girlfriend material otherwise. He lives on a plane where cheating occurs casually, thoughtlessly, and where it’s ultimately inconsequential and forgivable. Lots of drama, fake tears, and general depravity. That this is the new normal is a testament to how far gone we all are. she might be cheating on my friend and has manipulated all of us, but guess what m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:21 PM
2

Dude, you have such different views about sex, monogamy, and infidelity from the rest of us more conservative-minded guys that you might as well be an alien. It’s almost impossible to discuss these things with you because we see things so differently. Like, the concept of passing a girl around between a friend and two other guys—something perfectly normal to you—is disgusting to us. And the prospect of committing to a girl like that? It would be like discussing foods with an alien where all thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:14 PM
3

You won’t be able to convince a person who thinks dating that a girl who was having sex with four different guys simultaneously qualifies as girlfriend material otherwise. He lives on a plane where cheating occurs casually, thoughtlessly, and where it’s ultimately inconsequential and forgivable. Lots of drama, fake tears, and general depravity. That this is the new normal is a testament to how far gone we all are. she might be cheating on my friend and has manipulated all of us, but guess what m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:59 PM
1

one of my friends was FWB with this girl and she was also FWB with me basically we where sharing her I also knew this guy that was having sex with her Then she caught feelings for my friend They’re still together D:
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:47 PM
4

That said, it’s better he got his kid away from that malignant bitch. Someone who could potentially be as intelligent, driven, and genetically gifted as Bruce Wayne should NOT be raised by the League of Shadows.
/r/MGTOW21/07/20 02:32 PM
3

It’s honestly a rite of passage in this day and age. If it happens, dump her and move on. Never share finances and never cohabitate.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 02:16 PM
10

So did cheating in one relationship predict cheating in the next relationship? It sure did. In fact, cheaters were 3.4 times more likely to do so the next time around. https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/paa7d8/if-your-partner-cheated-on-someone-else-theyll-probably-cheat-on-you You should take it for granted that she’ll cheat as a precautionary measure, but if you have no immediate prospects and pussy’s worth it, stay. Just don’t ever move in together or tie your finances to her.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:59 PM
2

Most women just have to be not fat, and some can’t even do that. We have to be tall, in shape, and making good cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 12:02 PM
2

I’ll come with you. We’ll ride bears and kick ass.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 08:40 AM
26

Stop fucking dirty grimy bitches I wasn’t aware other options existed.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 07:49 AM
1

I’m not sure how your response pertains to my comment.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 07:00 AM
1

cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journal of personality and social psychology…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:03 AM
2

Correct. The limit for any man who wants a faithful partner is DDD or Double Digit Dicks. If her n is in the double digits, an expectation of fidelity is foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:27 AM
1

Other than a history of infidelity, a high number of lifetime sexual partners is the best proxy predictor of eventual infidelity. Promiscuous individuals, referred by academics as having an "unrestricted sociosexual orientation," are generally less committed to their steady partners, require little-to-no intimacy or commitment prior to intercourse, and desire numerous and various sexual partners--all conducive to both promiscuous and extradyadic (unfaithful) sexual behavior. Sociosexual orientat…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 01:20 AM
1

It’s not good or bad per se. If you’re looking for long-term sexual fidelity, steer clear.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 11:42 PM
1

That really depends on whether you believe sluts are made or born.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 11:35 PM
1

She gon cheat.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 09:15 AM
4

She gon cheat.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 09:11 AM
6

I’d prefer a non-promiscuous guy in your position, but I don’t see promiscuity as morally anything in itself. It’s usually accompanied by a host of immoral behaviors, but, by itself, it’s harmless. As to different standards. Picture a fit, good-looking, tall guy. He meets someone who eats like shit, doesn’t take care of herself, and who’ll settle for nothing less than a chiseled 6ft+ hunk. He’s instantly smitten. So while he’s benching with three plates on each end, she’s straddling him while ea…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 09:01 AM
4

A man with a high n-count who prefers a woman with a low-n also shows a few things about themselves, such as prudence We’re allowed to have asymmetrical preferences unless you’re advocating we seek carbon copies of ourselves that differ only in genitalia. That article about “plus-sized women not being interested in obese men,” didn’t bother me at all. Why would any guy want to be with a girl that’s at a much higher risk of cheating on them? If you were a promiscuous woman who preyed on virginal …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 08:24 AM
7

Maintaining a facade was adaptive because it helped them procure higher quality partners to produce higher quality offspring with. Falseness was imprinted into their genes over the span of ten thousand generations.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 08:17 AM
25

Our due diligence is the best we can do and it is by no means foolproof.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 08:11 AM
3

This copypasta has been hacked, tweaked, developed, and modified for just over the last two years. There used to be considerably longer iterations of it delving into sociosexual orientation, marital satisfaction, divorce rates, etc. If one were determined enough, they could find out however many times I’ve posted this on forums across the web, and where others copied-and-pasted it. In fact, I posted it here on a separate account two years ago when it was more ungainly and less easy on the eyes. …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 07:56 AM
2

These are self-reported and are thus likely low estimates. It is known that some women dress down or outright about their sexual histories on even anonymous surveys because there are usually follow-up questions asking about their levels of honesty when answering the questions. Why would that not include people who’ve cheated? If they’re not completely forthcoming about their pasts, why would you expect they’d be about their indiscretions? And check your math: 100-46.8 does not equal 57.2. Given …
/r/askTRP20/07/20 07:29 AM
-5

If you have some means of distinguishing between a slut with STDs and a slut that’s clean (relatively speaking), I’m all ears.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 07:20 AM
2

If it’s suspect then investigate and perhaps make a case. This is an open discussion and not a ban-happy gynocentric/progressive/leftist sub. I welcome it.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 07:12 AM
25

A fuck’s a fuck’s a fuck. You put yourself at risk with any girl who puts out easily. Occupational hazard of womanizing.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 07:10 AM
1

Why even concern yourself with them? To derive any pleasure from their misery is petty and self-indulgent.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 07:03 AM
3

Yeah. We complete for sluts for a single night, but they’re still available the next day for any takers. We compete for quality girls for the lifetime, and once a quality girl is off the market she stays off the market. And there’s a sweet spot in age where you can get a girl like this, and beyond that it becomes incredibly more difficult. We’re not all going to make it. It is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 07:00 AM
8

Observant to the tells (tats, piercings, hair dye, wardrobe, social media and phone usage, types of friends, number of male friends, contact with exes, attitudes towards appropriate conduct with other men and whether she’s prone to putting herself in compromising positions, history of drug or alcohol use, history of partying, relationship with father, the relationship between her parents, whether she lost her virginity in her early-to-mid teens and how long she’s been sexually active, history of…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 06:38 AM
6

Women fall into three categories: Those that lie upwards (minority of women, typically virgins) Those that tell the truth (non-promiscuous women are more likely to fall into this category than promiscuous women, though some promiscuous women are unashamed and honest) Those who lie (predominantly promiscuous women) Not all women are promiscuous and not all promiscuous women are liars. RP plays it safe by making it the default assumption that they all lie so men don’t risk committing to someone wh…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 06:09 AM
2

Ironically, I don’t have statistical or scientific evidence to back that up. It’s just something that I’ve personally observed.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:00 AM
4

There are, contrary to what’s popularly believed on Manosphere forums. In hidden places.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 05:58 AM
6

I wouldn’t bother advising against it to any guy (or girl) that I didn’t care for. And if I were to anticipate the strong likelihood of losing their friendship AND their not heeding the advice, I wouldn’t advise anything at all. We’re at sub-replacement level fertility rates. If all men collectively eschewed sluts, it would cut the population of eligible women in half, diminishing marriage rates even more while increasing out-of-wedlock birth rates—both of which would have tangible negative outc…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 05:55 AM
3

Suicide rate several times higher than that of fairer sex not given due consideration, harsher penalties for the same crimes, assumed offender in domestic disputes, presumption of guilt in the court of public opinion in regards to sexual misconduct allegations, etc.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:17 AM
4

Also, if men collectively refused to commit to promiscuous women it would effectively reduce the population of eligible women by half and further reduce the birth-rates while increasing out-of-wedlock birth rates, which both lead to poor outcomes for society. Some guys will have to bite the bullet and inevitably get cheated on. If they’re low quality then it doesn’t really matter.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:12 AM
12

I’d seen too many chem sluts to believe that. Women in engineering are even worse.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 05:05 AM
-2

I’m speaking to a heterosexual male audience. That promiscuous men are higher risk bears no relevancy.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:58 AM
1

The United States is the home country of American Jews.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:56 AM
23

Tl;Dr chicks who fuck more guys fuck cheat more. A girl who fucks one guy a thousand times is a considerably better long term prospect than a girl who fucks a thousand guys once each. Number of fucks isn’t as important as number of guys she fucks.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:54 AM
2

This isn’t a “bitch session against women.” Men promote the myth that sluts are just as capable of fidelity as non-sluts too. The question is why they so eagerly promote falsehoods.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:50 AM
0

A girl who doesn’t fuck a lot of guys doesn’t enjoy it I interpreted what you said as doesn’t enjoy sex, not doesn’t enjoy fucking a lot of guys. To be fair, it could be interpreted in either direction.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:32 AM
3

Indeed. The default assumption should always be slut.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:25 AM
2

Unless you personally inspected her hymen, you can only guess. A few LTRs (with no ONSs or FWBs) beforehand is the best one can hope for if you’re looking for someone for the long haul. Even that’s not foolproof because it’s not inconceivable that she preserved it by only having sex with men with micropenises.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:24 AM
1

All that you say is true but we don’t talk about that. Best to keep it on the hush hush.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:20 AM
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Why does her count matter if you’re only going to fuck her? At that point, it’s only a matter of whether she’s hot, not retarded, and not too crazy.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:18 AM
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She answered honestly, 40 (I wager this is a reduced number) If it was reduced then she didn’t answer honestly, but 40 is no different than 80 at that point, so I guess it was honest enough. If she’s beyond the acceptable threshold then it doesn’t matter to what extent, and she was a factor of several times beyond it. Presume that only girls in the single digits are capable of long-term fidelity, but don’t assume by default that that a girl in the single digits will remain so. When you invest in…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:11 AM
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If she’s had DDD (double digit dicks) in her, she’s not ltr material unless you’ve got a cuck fet.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 04:02 AM
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A girl who doesn’t fuck a lot of guys doesn’t enjoy it, so she more likely will stay with a partner. Very common misconception that only promiscuous women enjoy sex. Plenty of low-n women who like the gentle caresses, the kisses and tenderness of love-making sessions. In fact, it’s sweeter with them. They aren’t jaded and they trust you. Guys in their early twenties can still find girls like that. Harder, sure, and they’d prefer loving to plain fucking, but they’re there.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 01:09 AM
1

No progeny to raise and teach who may bring grandchildren. No being surrounded by your family on your deathbed, proud, loving and being loved.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 01:02 AM
0

High n is a risk magnifier of infidelity. Half of yellow apples are poisoned. 10% of green apples are. You get to pick an individual apple. Don't judge them as a group; judge them as individuals. Yellow or green apple?
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:58 AM
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Just did.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:43 AM
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Think again, friend. cut and paste Among ever-married adults ages 18 to 29, women are more likely than men to be guilty of infidelity Wang, W. (2018, January 10). Who Cheats More? The Demographics of Infidelity in America. Retrieved July 20, 2020, from https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america X One of the more interesting facts in Esther Perel’s new book, State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, comes near the beginning. Since 1990, notes the psychoanaly…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 12:24 AM
2

When women get into much better shape, they start looking for new guys who wouldn't have settle for less in the first place. Be that guy.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:44 PM
0

It's their decision whether to take the blindfolds off. If not, don't lament their walking off cliffs.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:42 PM
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Fuck'em. These studies wouldn't exist in the first place if betas didn't act as guinea pigs for the rest of us.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:41 PM
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Europeans engaged in degeneracy long before Jews took over the papers. You're just just going to have to stomach the fact that some white women are naturally sluts. Jews didn't make Julia the Elder, the wives of Henry VIII, Catherine the Great, etc., into cheating sluts. They've always existed. Maybe not at such high quantities, but that is the result of their going into the workforce and having professions because of a war the Germans started. And even if some Jewesses got the ball rolling on f…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:51 PM
1

All men instinctively hate sluts. Demonstrably false.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:10 AM
2

Those cheating statistics require dudes to have been cheated on. I'd wager a good portion of those dudes were aware of their partners' histories and didn't care. Evidently a lot of men are that stupid. Not all dudes can be saved, and, quite frankly, it's hilarious when guys choose to overlook that and get fucked as a result. They provide as cautionary tales for the more observant among us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:40 PM
1

Women aren't the only ones perpetuating these falsehoods. Plenty of men in denial spreading the bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:18 PM
1

Men might have lower standards in regards to who they'll fuck but they still have standards. If someone is so butt fugly that you can't get it up for them, then no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:02 PM
5

Basically came here to say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:48 PM
2

We invaded a country under bullshit pretenses, starting a decades-long conflict that has cost hundreds of thousands of civilian lives and trillions of dollars, destabilizing a region that sits on over half of the world's oil reserves, all the while breeding a new generation of terrorists. It wasn't for WMDs or humanitarian reasons. There are people there with missing limbs or with maimed or dead family members that are perfectly justified in hating us. Now that same Zionist/neocon/neolib coaliti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:46 PM
2

Because promiscuous guys tend to be high-status and charismatic leaders that exude a natural magnetism. Their being sexually successful is a consequence and not the cause of those qualities, and it's those qualities that effect the admiration of other men. Men with those qualities but who are determinately chaste also receive the adoration of their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:27 PM
3

Disillusionment in the literal sense is what I'm trying to accomplish here—myth-busting. This information can be incredibly useful to guys looking to form happy, healthy, long-term relationships by steering them away from the types who'd likely give them the opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:18 PM
3

The only reason I have to go all Beautiful Mind about his is because of two enduring, pernicious myths: Myth #1: that it has no effect on future actions Myth #2: low-n women are more likely to cheat due to wanderlust There are so many lies floating out there which mask uncomfortable yet important truths. The first one is a product of a world that doesn't give a shit about guys getting cheated on. A world where the male suicide rate is several times that of women's and yet receives little conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:55 PM
5

Why does this bother you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:23 PM
1

https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/htfg3o/updated_excerpts_relating_promiscuity/fyhg1xm/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:21 PM
5

Do the research. I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:18 PM
9

You literally have a person that's ridden so many poles that not one but three have to be at hand to slake her lusts arguing that the cc has no effect on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:16 PM
1

Anyone dedicated and desperate enough could forge one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:08 PM
2

clear OCD and untreated insanity I dare not deny that I'm such afflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:56 PM
2

Also a false one. We notice sluts and project their having a larger share of the female population than is the case due to a phenomenon that I term slut salience, a specific form of the availability heuristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:48 PM
4

You spring the question when she least expects it and accuse her of being a dirty, lying whore regardless of the answer she provides.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:42 PM
1

power of the puss
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:40 PM
2

Raymond Hinnebusch (2007) The US Invasion of Iraq: Explanations and Implications, Critique: Critical Middle Eastern Studies, 16:3, 209-228, DOI: 10.1080/10669920701616443 Link
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:39 PM
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If I had a vag, I wouldn't expect fidelity from a promiscuous dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:27 PM
6

Do you see us sucking their dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:24 PM
4

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Risk_management Nothing's foolproof, but when you're gambling you do what you can to stack the odds in your favor. As to your fallacious argument: Nirvana Fallacy (also known as: perfect solution fallacy, perfectionist fallacy) Comparing a realistic solution with an idealized one, and discounting or even dismissing the realistic solution as a result of comparing to a “perfect world” or impossible standard. Ignoring the fact that improvements are often good enough re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:22 PM
4

Operating off the baseless presumption that guys seeking non-promiscuous partners are destined to fail and not reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:07 PM
1

Venture forth equipped with what bests help you navigate the treacherous terrain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:03 PM
2

She left you for Satan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 04:14 PM
11

It's odd that having this non-preference infuriates people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 04:13 PM
1

And she was played by Kaya Scodelerio in that movie who's hot af
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 04:11 PM
8

Be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:54 PM
3

I remember reading that there was an evolutionary arms race between men's ability to detect infidelity and women's ability to conceal it. Men who were better able to detect it or even preempt it were more likely to pass on their genes. Women who were better able to conceal it by mating with genetically superior men and duping other men into raising the offspring under the false pretense that they were theirs were more likely to pass on their genes because the seed of those genetically superior m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:51 PM
4

Indeed. The fact that she may lie shouldn't deter you from asking the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:34 PM
5

For short-term relationships, they're fine. For long-term monogamous relationships where the expectation is sexual exclusivity, they are not so fine. It really depends on what you're looking for at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:31 PM
10

A hacker can't unearth the fact that she had a quickie with a hot stranger at a club that one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:24 PM
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I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever been in and will ever be in. In my past life, I was cheated on by all of my partners. When I die and am reincarnated, in that next life I will be cheated on by all of my romantic partners. Every alternate version of myself in parallel dimensions has been cheated on. I've been cheated on by people who technically should not have been capable of cheating on me because I wasn't even in relationships with them: my mailman, my barber, my cat, etc. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:20 PM
2

The Prez just straight up lies. If he doesn't realize he's a compulsive liar, he's delusional. This coming from someone who's still voting for him come November.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:12 PM
1

but corona implying the virus is the reason one isn't getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:10 PM
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I think this mentality, while comforting, isn't actually the case. Overall, our results suggest that the proportional split in males slightly favours an unrestricted (short- term) mating strategy, with a 57 : 43 split on average for the three datasets, whereas females have a reversed split (47 : 53). However, the mixing proportions in the 2D : 4D digit ratio dataset suggest that a slightly higher proportion of the unrestricted phenotype is present in both sexes (males approx. 62%, females approx…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:03 PM
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It applies to men too. Thing is, guys are less likely than women to lie downwards about their sexual escapades. And women aren't shamed for not preferring bi guys, virgins, men who've visited prostitutes, or guys with triple digit body counts. Men are shamed for their preferences and are fed the lie that a woman's sexual history has no bearing on how she'll act going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:47 PM
1

The calling card of someone who thinks their feelings are facts. Later You are right, I do not like the things these studies are saying. I don’t like the idea that more sexual partners means more likely to cheat. And that could be my own bias. I’m a woman who has a lot of sexual partners who does not cheat. So it’s out of my personal experience. None of these studies state conclusively that promiscuous individuals are bound to cheat or that non-promiscuous people are bound to remain faithful. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:34 PM
3

I just had one. I came out clean. Two sentences that are very easy to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:17 PM
8

You would absolutely repulse quality women if you go into your depraved past sexual exploits, fictional or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:16 PM
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Not every man has your discerning eye. And some women are consummate chameleons, leaving their partners none the wiser. Constant vigilance. Never let your guard down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:13 PM
3

This information can be useful to any person, success with the opposite sex non-withstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:07 PM
9

It certainly doesn't. Being promiscuous is what makes people qualify. Not all people who have sex are promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:50 PM
5

You never know if someone has an STD. Does that mean you shouldn't ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:47 PM
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A common misconception is that if you're not a virgin, you're a slut. There is plenty of gray in between. A good portion of women are low-n.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:45 PM
14

Then they're not telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:33 PM
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Women fall into three categories: Those that lie upwards (minority of women, typically virgins) Those that tell the truth (non-promiscuous women are more likely to fall into this category than promiscuous women, though some promiscuous women are unashamed and honest) Those who lie (predominantly promiscuous women) Not all women are promiscuous and not all promiscuous women are liars, so it is prudent to ask if you're interested in a sexually-exclusive long-term monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:25 PM
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However which way you want to. People interested in non-monogamy might prefer more promiscuous partners. If one is pursuing monogamous and sexually exclusive long-term relationships, this information can be useful in determining who's at higher risk of infidelity. At the very least, it can factor into their decision in whether or not to commit to an individual. The data can be applied in various and opposing ways by people with contrasting goals. Promiscuous individuals can make for great short-…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:19 PM
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Other than a history of infidelity, a high number of lifetime sexual partners is the best proxy predictor of eventual infidelity. Promiscuous individuals, referred by academics as having an "unrestricted sociosexual orientation," are generally less committed to their steady partners, require little-to-no intimacy or commitment prior to intercourse, and desire numerous and various sexual partners--all conducive to both promiscuous and extradyadic (unfaithful) sexual behavior. Sociosexual orientat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:10 PM
1

Having said that I don't think you're correct. There are guys who don't give a fuck about their partners' n-counts or who prefer not to discuss it at all or who are totally okay with numbers that might look high for other people. I've seen enough of these in the wild to know they exist--God help them. Idk what proportion of men fall into this category.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:40 AM
4

Your inability to grasp straightforward arguments is yours. Ta-ta
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:15 PM
3

And so far you've failed to do so. If mitigating risk by discounting promiscuous people as potential partners makes me appear "scared" to you, then I'll enthusiastically accept the label if it means I don't have to commit to a promiscuous person. I don't like the risk, and frankly, they gross me out. Guess that makes me a huge fraidy cat. I could give less of a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:56 PM
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I am saying you are fooling yourself thinking you can play a statistics game and not be cheated on. Of course not. There's no guarantee and you take on risk by entering into a relationship. You can, however, use correlates and probabilities derived from empirical evidence to mitigate risk. Just because it's not foolproof doesn't mean it's not useful. It's gambling, but you're stacking the odds in your favor by choosing a partner with certain characteristics while lacking others. Your argument th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:45 PM
5

I can find someone else. Why date someone that's much higher risk for committing harmful behavior? Do I not have other options? I'll find someone else that I'm attracted to with shared goals and values. And if they're promiscuous, they don't share my values.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:31 PM
5

50% of members belonging in group A engage in a certain undesirable activity while only 10% of group B partakes. It's not immediately apparent if any given individual will engage in said negative activity, but being partnered with someone that engages in negative activity would be emotionally and psychologically devastating. You get to pick an individual for a partner. Don't judge them as a group; judge them as individuals. Someone from A or B?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 06:05 PM
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approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journal of personality and social psychology, 78(3), 537–5…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:45 PM
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It's really not that simple. It's not readily apparent that someone is capable of infidelity, and often you have individuals completely blindsided by their partners' indiscretions. There's no behavioral or physical signifier that typifies adulterers. That's why n is such a useful proxy: A truism in psychology is that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. This is no less true in the realm of sexual behavior. Indeed, one of the strongest predictors of marital infidelity is one’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 05:33 PM
1

Women are mercurial, whimsical, and often self-sabotaging. You mistakenly believe that there's some sort of calculating or strategy guiding their behaviors when that simply isn't the case. Inherent to their being is a tempest that behaves in somewhat predictable ways, but weather satellites can only forecast so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:47 AM
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It's to their detriment. When they get cheated on, they'll be scratching their heads and wondering about the signs: cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environment…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 06:38 AM
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cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journal of personality and social psychology…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:01 AM
1

Desperate times, bro.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:16 PM
0

Arab? South Asian?
/r/askTRP16/07/20 02:15 PM
15

White women will be at the helm, and they don't empathize. They just know how to look like it. So best of luck with that. This is actually more frightening than an Islamic theocracy tbh.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 02:07 PM
5

That's pretty fucked, ngl. Regarding the girls I mean.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:42 PM
1

Sorry. Immature response, but not with malicious intent. Hard to communicate that you're joking over text.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 11:28 AM
5

?
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 08:44 AM
4

Why do you think reddit or ppd men act this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:50 AM
6

I think you have an image of guys reacting like this in your mind's eye, but most men are used to rejection and can take it a lot more gracefully than women. Your caricature is popular but not common. We pursue and become accustomed to rejection. Women on the other hand prefer to remain passive, are absolutely afraid of rejection, and for the ones who pursue and are spurned, the saying, "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned," didn't just emerge from the ether.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:03 AM
9

Woman: I’m just interested in you, sorry. Nope. That would suffice. Not everyone's for everyone. I might be a little disheartened, but I'll get over it. Actually, a definitive answer of disinterest is useful because it means I don't have to keep guessing. Woman: I like tall males, no males under 5’10 please Absolutely fair. I personally don't want to date obese or promiscuous women. Isn't it nice to be able to express our preferences without facing a harsh backlash? Males don’t want the truth or…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:55 AM
0

it's in male nature to expect monogamy from the woman while he gets to sleep around This would be ideal but ultimately infeasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:12 AM
3

Agreed. Treat people based on their personal histories and known probabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:13 AM
1

Not all women cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:43 AM
1

commonly agreed upon that all women cheat, it’s in their nature False.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:37 AM
4

Bigot. Beeeegawt. Pretend it's a French word that sounds like "Biggo." Henry David Bigot. Ross Bigot. Brigitte Bigot. That's how hollow that word is. Used by self-righteous lazyfolk who think that hurling this accusation somehow ends a discussion. Your arrangement is still not the norm and neither is your definition of fidelity. Recognizing that doesn't make me a /bɪɡoʊ/, but not doing so makes you deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:25 AM
5

Singularly faithful to one partner. Faithful in the traditional sense and not in your mutated newspeak sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:59 AM
1

I never said you were broken. Being less suitable or capable of forming exclusive monogamous relationships doesn't render one broken in any objective sense. Whether or not one qualifies as broken is entirely subjective. History is replete of examples of fiercely loyal spouses to their one-and-onlies and of those who couldn't confine their loving to one man. You're in the company of Clodia as described by Catullus and Julia the Elder. You're no Santa Maria or Scheherazade. Promiscuous women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:46 AM
3

Says a person who rode the carousel and needs not one but three different cocks to slake her lusts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:10 AM
3

leaving inflammatory comments basically amounting to "all wahmen sluts all sluts bad" Compiling these excerpts from reputable resources was by no means "low effort." The research, editing, cutting, and presentation took more effort than anything you've ever exerted for any single task.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:05 AM
2

It's more accurate to say it only ruins the ones who ride it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:00 AM
2

Here it is for all the eager brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:59 AM
10

Promiscuous women cheat unfortunately. cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. Journ…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:57 PM
1

LOL. I wish men had their version of a purse. I wish I could go back in time to divert the course of history and make the purse a male accessory. You don't realize how good you have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:43 PM
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More casual partners than long-term ones. The term while crude is apt to describe a period of fleeting relationships, a rotation of booty calls on speed dial, and more than a handful of half-remembered drunken one night stands with men met only hours beforehand. If that's dating to these women, I don't want to date these women and pray to God the feeling's mutual. Unfortunately too many of these types lie about their pasts because they're afraid they'll scare away your average fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 11:38 PM
1

Poland lost its entire government about a decade ago.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 11:19 PM
1

The only way men can truly be liberated from the power of the puss is to forsake marriage, legislate prostitution, or go full homo like the Greeks and Romans and only use women as baby incubators. With today's tech, it may not even be necessary to retain the former for the latter--the womb without the woman. Without the distraction of women, we'll colonize space and conquer the stars, all the while butt-fucking each other for simple release. The final red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 08:22 PM
2

With today's marriage laws, these wives have their successful husbands by the balls. Why have an unfaithful spouse when I can carve out a huge slice of him and return to the CC with reckless abandon? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:42 PM
3

sluts cheat. Say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 07:11 PM
2

I'm not RP, though you would know that if you cared to have read my flair. It's not a "woman-only" thing. It's just that your given promiscuous woman is more likely to cheat than any given guy or non-promiscuous girl. Promiscuous women cheat as certain as the bloom of tulips come Spring. That, my disciples are keenly aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:31 PM
1

Also, the rule applies: the more dick, the more fick... approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. J. M. Bailey, K. M. Kirk, G. Zhu, M. P. Dunne, N. G. Martin J Pers Soc Psycho…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 05:06 PM
1

She doesn't even have enough dread/respect for her man to lie to him. Conversely, she signals that she's not ltr material with this info. A better world for men is where women are honest about these things.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 05:03 PM
3

I'd much prefer their being honest.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 04:59 PM
10

Alpha bucks have to remain faithful to their wives. Smith fucked around, and there was no conceivable way he could justify doing that without allowing his wife to also do so in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:45 PM
17

Alpha Bucks do exist. They just don't exist for women who aren't high-tier, which is the overwhelming majority of them, just as the overwhelming majority of men don't qualify as alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:40 PM
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And regardless, the more dick the more fick: cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Bailey, J. M., Kirk, K. M., Zhu, G., Dunne, M. P., & Martin, N. G. (2000). Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:32 PM
2

In case you figured it doesn't matter: approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. J. M. Bailey, K. M. Kirk, G. Zhu, M. P. Dunne, N. G. Martin J Pers Soc Psychol. 2000 Mar; 78(3…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 02:13 PM
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approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. J. M. Bailey, K. M. Kirk, G. Zhu, M. P. Dunne, N. G. Martin J Pers Soc Psychol. 2000 Mar; 78(3): 537–545. From https://www.ncbi.nlm.n…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 06:46 AM
2

Thanks. I've done some tweaking since then with excerpts just relating promiscuity and infidelity in particular in case you were interested: cut and paste approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Aust…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:37 AM
2

I'm not here to dictate anyone's lives. I'm more interested in dispelling the false but popular notion that there's absolutely no risk in investing your commitment and resources into a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:13 AM
1

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/r/askTRP15/07/20 05:41 AM
22

How often do you cold approach?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:28 PM
2

I honestly think the world would be insane regardless of who’s running the show.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 04:22 PM
1

An intelligent man person would infer that a stance towards less restricted access to abortions in addition to monetary incentives for sterilization would indicate the desire for less single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 01:33 AM
45

How do you kick someone to the curb when they can financially split your asshole in half?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 04:08 PM
10

He’s got some good films out. Also, early Fresh Prince episodes were fairly comical.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 04:06 PM
1

What is your definition of upper middle class?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:13 PM
0

I suppose high-IQ individuals like yourself will have to average 2.1+ children.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 11:47 AM
1

The bitter angle again. Enjoy cheating on your spouse. Here’s to him finding a loyal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 06:11 AM
1

I’d rather be if you’re the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 06:05 AM
1

When people criticize others for passing judgment, it’s usually over past misdeeds that the performer regrets. You’re currently lying to and fucking around behind your partner’s back, and you’re crying about people judging you for currently and guiltlessly mistreating your partner. You don’t get to make the excuse that we’re all flawed while continuing to be unfaithful to your partner. I’m not on some high horse. You’re a bad partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:51 AM
1

Already explained why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:38 AM
2

It’s interesting that you’re over twice my age and yet still have to resort to such hackneyed jibes, thinking they’re in anyway effective. One doesn’t have to be bitter or miserable to recognize that you make for a poor lifelong partner. Leave the guy. You don’t even have to tell him why. Give him a chance to find someone capable of loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:32 AM
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I’d leave in either scenario, but I’d prefer physical blows providing as a sign for an immediate exit than being made a fool out of for months or years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:23 AM
2

Insight. Your mindsets are very interesting. How you’re able to have relationships built on a fundamental agreement and understanding of sexual/intimate exclusivity and then use lame excuses to break your half of that agreement while your partner upholds theirs, shamelessly lying to you partner without a shred of remorse knowing that they wouldn’t want to be with you if they knew the truth. Morals aside, you’re a terrible SO. If you left him without a word you would be doing him a massive favor …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 05:14 AM
2

I’m being lectured about sexism by someone who doesn’t respect her SO enough to remain faithful to him. I’d gladly have what you deem to be a “misogynistic” outlook than have an unfaithful SO such as yourself. Would if your partner did too. He’d dump your cheating ass and find someone so much better for him that’s capable of basic fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:48 AM
2

I’m getting lectured about infidelity by someone who’s regularly unfaithful. What a world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:38 AM
2

Easy girls cheat, bro.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 12:07 AM
1

They may be good people but they retard entire civilizations. They only teach the Koran at madrassas, bro, not science and mathematics. The Saudis need expats to design all their cool shit because their school curriculum’s trash. The Islamics are technologically regressive.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 12:06 AM
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A girl like that isn’t high value or ltr material tho.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:15 PM
6

It’s actually called the “Manosphere,” bro, and most of them are least peripherally aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:14 PM
3

The male dwarf’s probably making bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 11:12 PM
-1

But we’re genetic dead ends then, bro. Each generation will be lower-T beta-ier because those are the only guys willing to get married. Mankind will be completely pussified in a few short generations. We’ll be steamrolled by high-T Islamic rapists.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:11 PM
0

Like ever. Be more Identifiably woman in your writing. I double dog dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:38 PM
5

The Brosphere has a sizable amount of Chads and they are treated with respect and admiration.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:35 PM
3

Yo, but I don’t want to date a slut.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:50 PM
0

We don’t discuss those. For all intents and purposes, their existences should go unacknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 08:49 PM
13

Are you going in wrapperless?
/r/askTRP11/07/20 08:45 PM
1

Don’t diss algorithms, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 08:42 PM
-1

Probably not as high earning as their spouses. That or their spouses let themselves go and they were on more equal footing earlier in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:38 PM
4

Imagine dating a girl that only saw you as relationship material and other guys as hookup material. Talk about mindfuck. Catch-22, really. If she puts out quick for you, she’s not relationship material because it means she can and will do it with other guys. If she doesn’t, it means she’s done it with other guys but not you.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 06:11 PM
7

Start planning an exit strategy, lad. Duffel bag full of fake passports, money in various foreign denominations, latex facial prosthesis, the works.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 06:06 PM
1

In those cases, the man is pulling in more than the woman. I’ve already explained this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:47 PM
214

I resent what you’re implying about OP. Some women hate unavailable or unattainable (for them) high-value men.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 05:44 PM
3

I was speaking from the perspective of a man. And I’m not giving advice or describing how things should be. I’m explaining a dynamic. There’s nothing prescriptive about this. I’m explaining what is rather than what should be because I know the former but I don’t know the latter. You’re not so quick on the uptake, but most of my posts concern observation and risk, not a call for action towards social change. I personally don’t give two shits about effecting change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:32 PM
13

Bad food better than no food.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 03:31 PM
7

But she won’t date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 03:29 PM
10

This is the case and my point. They may not like what’s being offered, but they are offered something. Not all men can say the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 03:28 PM
5

A low quality man doesn’t have even shitty options. Men at the bottom rungs have no options. Some men are literally desperate enough to fuck the fat, retarded chick. The fat autistic man will have zero takers. Female dwarves will not fuck male dwarves. They exclusively screw normal-heighted individuals. Even women near the bottom have standards and options. The same cannot be said of men at the bottom or even at slightly better positions than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 03:22 PM
1

More women are cheating hoes, bro. Can’t stop the cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 07:27 AM
3

White knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 01:08 PM
2

https://youtu.be/ReOw_2f4lpY
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 12:54 PM
3

Women cover for each other. They’re shameless in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 12:23 PM
2

.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 12:12 PM
3

And yet the Western man is supposed to be so sophisticated and enlightened. If cuckoldry is the price of enlightenment, I’m converting to Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 11:57 AM
5

Post-nut clarity. If evolution didn’t strap men with perpetual horniness, we’d have developed FTL capabilities by now long before our sun goes nova and obliterates everything in a one billion kilometer radius.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 11:55 AM
2

Nah. A lot of married couples are discreet in their degeneracy and properly so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 11:25 AM
3

That’s an open marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 11:17 AM
2

Sad and tangentially-related story: 18yo raises 6k for breast augmentation surgery, anesthetist fucks up and leaves her retarded. All for a pair of fake tits. I hope she got a refund.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 11:10 AM
1

I don’t plan on having kids if that’s what you’re asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:14 AM
1

Eugenics doesn’t necessitate murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 09:01 AM
1

By Else Byskov?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:16 AM
4

If that were the case, the majority of comments on posts wouldn’t be from other cheating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:06 AM
19

Most women who have affairs find their partners in their periphery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 04:19 AM
14

Some of them don’t even think about their husbands. Whether they feel guilty or not is predicated on their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 02:51 AM
1

Raising happy, healthy kids that give you grandchildren becomes the thing that gives purpose later in life. It’s just a lot harder to achieve.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 04:51 AM
1

men will probably be more apprehensive about committing to sluts, That’s not even my goal. There are two schools of thought: past irrelevantists and past relevantists. You and I belong in the latter group. The thing is, past irrelevantists not only falsely categorically deny a relationship between promiscuity and infidelity, but they also bully men who are uneasy of their partner’s sexual histories. So this information needs to be out there for any guy interested in learning if those feelings ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 01:29 AM
1

Improvements such as? Promiscuity at higher and higher rates in women saps men of their vitality and undermines monogamy.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:25 PM
2

Because it flies in the face of the bullshit they peddle that it’s insignificant. They’re not interested in the truth being known because the truth, if widely known, would inconvenience them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 10:37 PM
6

I recommend a hard cut instead of a gradual weaning off. Lock it away. Understand that these vices will likely follow you for the rest of your life. A lot of alcoholics and addicts still consider themselves as such years after being clean. They understand that one slip-up can lead to a full-blown relapse. The specter remains in the backseat. Philip Seymour Hoffman was clean for decades and gave in in a moment of weakness. You may backslide too but that doesn’t mean you have to. The monkey will a…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 10:05 PM
1

Less than. Not every man will be saved or deserves to be saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 09:18 PM
1

Why would I ever need to bring them up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 09:12 PM
0

Aren’t you afraid she’s going to get corrupted by a degenerate society. I couldn’t cope with the stress.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:57 AM
1

Yeah but somewhere in this process I have to genuflect, show her a ring that cost a couple Gs, and pop the question. Getting married isn’t a passive process. Yeah, some guys sign away half their assets without a second thought, but I’m asking the guys who should know better but are considering it anyways.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:55 AM
2

Are you concerned about raising a kid, specifically a daughter, in this world that is increasingly becoming more degenerate?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:10 AM
1

Why is he unable to connect with them? And obviously the women who are more attractive than yourself don’t find it intolerably creepy or anything near the sort or they wouldn’t be in relationships with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 06:36 AM
1

You’re free to call him creepy. I’m free to say that’s stupid. Women tend to peak in their attractiveness in their early-to-mid twenties. During that age they’re not as jaded or as bitter as older women. They’re still springy, carefree, and vivacious. Great complexions, no stretch marks, cellulite, wrinkles, etc. Your face starts losing its natural elasticity after 25. Women don’t generally evolve much maturity-wise between 25 and 45—at least not for the better. You call him creepy because he st…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 06:07 AM
3

Do you see me holding a gun to anyone’s head? Why is my asking this question getting your panties in a twist? I often seek out opposing viewpoints to have discussions and maybe have my own point of view shifted. Why does that make you so pissy?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:55 AM
1

Whether a man is aware or not, he is picking a partner from one of the two columns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 05:42 AM
2

Maybe someone could provide a convincing argument as to why it’s actually worth it? Maybe I like having my own notions challenged? Why do you ask questions? Why do you even talk?
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:41 AM
0

Nope. I’m against people shaming guys like DiCaprio for sticking to 20-25yo models.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 05:32 AM
3

Me: Why would you engage in X activity in an atmosphere that’s unsuitable for performing said activity? You: Because they want to? Very useless response.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:30 AM
1

We’re discussing legal consenting adults, not minors. I never indicated otherwise. Discussions of 16 year old children derive from your own lapse in comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 05:24 AM
1

Very common retort. Not useful or especially insightful. You have to select a partner and there are two groups to select from (A and B). If you knew that a higher percentage of members of group A (say 45%) had a highly infectious and communicable disease that is asymptotic to them and deadly to while only 9% of group B were thus afflicted, would you select a partner from A or B?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 05:21 AM
1

18+. Never indicated otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 04:54 AM
1

Adoption, finding a surrogate, raising a kid with a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:03 AM
1

And yet you can’t produce a single example of that being upvoted/popular in any of the Redpill subs. How odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:37 AM
1

Is it? I don’t know one way or the other. I do know that you can find a new article every week of a teacher caught having sex with one of her students. Can you offer evidence that it occurs predominantly in the one direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:36 AM
1

Gaslighting, huh. Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or a group covertly sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or group, making them question their own memory, perception, or judgment, often evoking in them cognitive dissonance and other changes including low self-esteem. Using denial, misdirection, contradiction, and misinformation, gaslighting involves attempts to destabilize the victim and delegitimize the victim's beliefs. https://en.wikipedia.org/wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:33 AM
2

It is the best route for having and raising a child (vs unmarried or split parent household). Wholeheartedly agree: dad bringing home the bacon while mom takes care of the kids at home. In an age where most women can’t be trusted, and where some women easily chameleon as trustworthy ones, there are lower risk alternatives that may not be ideal but are better situations than those failed attempts to achieve what’s ideal. Gambling for what’s ideal may just leave you worse off.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:24 AM
1

Coercion isn’t really contingent on age. It can happen in either direction in terms of both age and gender. It can occur between same-aged individuals. Instead of shaming age-gap relationships between consenting adults, why not highlight and discourage coercive behaviors? Or is your assumption that every age gap relationship is inherently coercive? And does that apply to to older women that pursue guys who’ve recently passed the age of consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:12 AM
1

It’s a pernicious myth propagated by detractors of rp that they’re interested in minors. If you were to poll them, I doubt any of the older guys (25+) would be interested in girls who’re in their late teens even if they are past the age of consent. Most of those girls can’t hold an interesting conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:06 AM
2

For OP’s sake we should assume he lives in a place where you can only get your truck driver’s license at 18. Anyways, for fucking legal is legal. For dating, it’s literally someone out of high school, and they likely haven’t put high school behind them. Early-to-mid twenties like how DiCaprio does it is the way to go if you can. Most men cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:01 AM
1

Self-delusion to maintain a favorable image of oneself is quite common.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:56 AM
0

It’s not the same. I cut out a lot and added information from new studies I’ve read through. But more than that, when someone says that past promiscuity has no bearing on how a relationship might turn out, one must, for their sake and the sakes of observers, correct them. It’s an incredibly dangerous belief that is prominent in spite of being false.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:44 AM
3

A better dating world (for guys) would be if half of guys suddenly turned gay, becoming allergic to pussy, or if they just died—whatever takes them off the market. Obviously I don’t want other guys to die, but if half the male population were to catch the gays, the remainder would find a marked improvement in their dating lives. It’s all about gender ratios and social sanctioning. And being a Chad is relative. In order for there to be Chads, there needs to be non-Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:13 AM
1

That guilt. She feeds off it. This bitch is waging psychological warfare on you. Stay the course and ignore her. Forbid your mother from allowing her on the premises. Make up some lie like she was a junkie that constantly stepped out on you if you have to. Stay the course.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 01:03 AM
1

James Franco’s a pretty good-looking guy. Didn’t help him any.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 12:54 AM
9

We live in a society where the default assumption regarding unfounded rape allegations is that those are situations where the rapist got away. People rely on statistics to justify their presumptions of guilt before evidence is even presented. One accusation from one woman has been enough to undo a lifetime’s worth of hardship and sacrifice. Guys are ousted from businesses that they built from the ground up on the basis of unsubstantiated claims. Of course she didn’t receive any penalties. She pr…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 12:52 AM
2

Is it immediately apparent that a chick is BPD if you know the signs or do they have to tell you? I’d wager that at least half of women have one sort of mental illness or the other.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 12:43 AM
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Rp detractors pretend we all want fuck teenage minors when the literal opposite is true. Observe and respect the F out of age-of-consent laws.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 12:40 AM
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I’d have stopped anyways. You don’t play around with this shit considering the penalties.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 12:37 AM
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It’s sort of like a duel then. Whoever draws first wins.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 12:36 AM
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Promiscuity and infidelity are highly interrelated. approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. J. M. Bailey, K. M. Kirk, G. Zhu, M. P. Dunne, N. G. Martin J Pers Soc Psychol. 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:49 PM
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Promiscuous women cheat. approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. J. M. Bailey, K. M. Kirk, G. Zhu, M. P. Dunne, N. G. Martin J Pers Soc Psychol. 2000 Mar; 78(3): 537–545. Fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:18 PM
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Your assertion remains false.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:10 PM
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Sociosexual orientation is divided into three facets measured by the inventory: behavior (in terms of number of casual and changing sex partners), attitude (towards uncommitted sex) and desire (for people not in a romantic relationship). It places individuals in one of two phenotypes: unrestricted and restricted sociosexual orientations. You scored far above average (over 1 SD over the mean) in the behavior facet, above average in the attitude facet, and below average in desire facet. It assesse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:01 PM
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Some people are higher risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:43 PM
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SOI-R Behavior: (2+3+5)/3 = 3.33 (M = 2.19, SD = .95) SOI-R Attitude: (5+1+5)/3 = 3.66 (M = 3.01, SD = 1.20) SOI-R Desire: (4+2+1)/3 = 2.33 (M = 2.61, SD = .96) SOI-R: (3.33+3.66+2.33)/3 = 3.11 (M = 2.60, SD = .80) You’re unrestricted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:41 PM
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Foolish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:06 PM
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3 divided by zero is undefined.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:06 PM
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the sluts lie If people didn’t misrepresent themselves, we wouldn’t be having this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:05 PM
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Gangbangs happen outside of pornos.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:00 PM
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I just don’t want a girlfriend that’s been gangbanged by a bunch of randos. Does that make me Hitler?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:00 PM
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A truism in psychology is that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. This is no less true in the realm of sexual behavior. Indeed, one of the strongest predictors of marital infidelity is one’s number of prior sex partners (Buss, 2000). Deception about past sexual promiscuity would have inflicted greater costs, on average, on men than on women Haselton MG, Buss DM, Oubaid V, Angleitner A. Sex, lies, and strategic interference: the psychology of deception between the sexes. Pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:57 PM
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Promiscuous women cheat. approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. J. M. Bailey, K. M. Kirk, G. Zhu, M. P. Dunne, N. G. Martin J Pers Soc Psychol. 2000 Mar; 78(3): 537–545. Fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:54 PM
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Some women discount certain experiences. You need to clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:54 PM
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The point was to illustrate that promiscuous women misrepresenting themselves of not being so is extremely detrimental.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:50 PM
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Promiscuous men are more likely to accept the rape myth and have adversarial views towards the opposite sex. Men with restricted sociosexual orientations are more more likely to be sexually egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:45 PM
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Promiscuous women cheat. Guys just don’t want to be cheated on. approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. J. M. Bailey, K. M. Kirk, G. Zhu, M. P. Dunne, N. G. Martin J Pers So…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:37 PM
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Oh, it’s still immoral. Just not as objectively detrimental.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:36 PM
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Everyone lies. False
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:29 PM
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Promiscuous women cheat. approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. J. M. Bailey, K. M. Kirk, G. Zhu, M. P. Dunne, N. G. Martin J Pers Soc Psychol. 2000 Mar; 78(3): 537–545. Fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:58 PM
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How can you be serious with a girl that’s had a “whore” stage?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 01:13 PM
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Pretty fucked that he’d say that then unless he was joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:01 PM
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4 is quite low but context matters. 4 from a gangbang? No can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:59 PM
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No one night stands, fwbs, group sex, etc.? I’m not interested in a partner that’s done any of those things and you never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:57 PM
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Justified insecurity. She gon cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:52 PM
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COVID can take like 20% of your lung capacity. Not a cool thing to wish on some random (unless you fucked his mom or blinded him with a errant hard-on).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:26 PM
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Instead of allowing him that, you cheated on him. You really shouldn’t have given me that tidbit about yourself. It almost immediately discredits everything you say about n being immaterial. Sexual history doesn’t/shouldn’t matter promiscuous adulteress I’m glad you were up front about your prior infidelities, which is more than can be said about the other promiscuous women who post here, but it also makes me take you less seriously. It‘s like a kleptomaniac trying to assure me that I can trust …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:52 AM
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just because someone has had a few sexual partners does not mean they will automatically cheat on you. That’s exactly the opposite of what these studies say. It’s like you didn’t read a single letter of what I posted. People with only a few sexual partners are less likely to cheat. so if your gd and chaste I don't see why your so worried I’m not looking for a chaste virgin. I just don’t want a girl that’s been spit-roasted in club stall by two randos. Is there anything in between? Is that an opt…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:29 AM
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A truism in psychology is that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. This is no less true in the realm of sexual behavior. Indeed, one of the strongest predictors of marital infidelity is one’s number of prior sex partners (Buss, 2000). Deception about past sexual promiscuity would have inflicted greater costs, on average, on men than on women Haselton MG, Buss DM, Oubaid V, Angleitner A. Sex, lies, and strategic interference: the psychology of deception between the sexes. Pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:17 AM
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But I'd rather not live constantly vigilant and fearful of bring hurt. I’d rather not date a person that gives good cause for me to live that way: approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:09 AM
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Allahu Akbar, brother. A truism in psychology is that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. This is no less true in the realm of sexual behavior. Indeed, one of the strongest predictors of marital infidelity is one’s number of prior sex partners (Buss, 2000). Deception about past sexual promiscuity would have inflicted greater costs, on average, on men than on women Haselton MG, Buss DM, Oubaid V, Angleitner A. Sex, lies, and strategic interference: the psychology of deception …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:02 AM
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The fact that you can look at the numbers and still consider the info trivial says more about yourself than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:51 AM
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The husband you cheated on should have been a tad more concerned methinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:44 AM
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I posed it as a question. And do I need to distinguish between my conjecture—women who claim all women lie do so to rationalize their own lying, an example of projection—and factual evidence that promiscuous women cheat? This is a discussion. I shouldn’t have to put a disclaimer before what I think is the case vs. what is supported by research. Not all of my suppositions are supported by research or surveys. But here is a list of the things that are: Promiscuous women are considerably more likel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:35 AM
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Those aren’t trp truths, bro. Rp truths apply to normal women. The joke is “bitches be crazy,” and generally that’s true but to different degrees. Your halfbreed ex is literally in 99.5th percentile of psycho. Most sluts don’t blow old dudes to get back at daddy. If you needed “trp truths” to discover she was bad news, I honestly question your judgement. Trp helps you notice the subtleties of feminine manipulation. You shouldn’t need a magnifying glass to tell that the nuclear warhead you’re loo…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 09:20 AM
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I’m making educated assumptions predicated on real facts. The percentages tell you how many admit to lying, and it doesn’t account for women’s tendency to enumerate and thus undercount: This study demonstrates that people use a variety of strategies when reporting their number of lifetime sexual part- ners, that some strategies (e.g., rough approximations) are associated with relatively large reports, others (e.g., enumeration) are associated with relatively small reports, and that men are more …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:54 AM
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I personally doubt she has a restricted sociosexual orientation, but the only way to actually figure that out with certainty would be if she were to complete the 9 items on a revised sociosexual orientation inventory (SOI-R), (More in-depth in scoring methods version) in the allotted two minutes. From Penke’s site: A note on scoring the SOI-R: Sociosexuality is a dimensional construct and thus measured continuously with the SOI-R. There is no natural cut-off for a categorization of individuals a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:17 AM
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Depends on their sociosexual orientation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:35 AM
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The latter is a nightmare, not a fantasy, that occurs far too often.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:34 AM
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With numerous partners. It’s not the same, but the modes of behavior are related in that unrestricted sociosexually-oriented people desire variety in their partners and require little to no intimacy before engaging in sex, which is why they so often accompany each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:32 AM
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Presumptuous that you think a high number of partners is some sort of guarantor of good sex. A promiscuous woman having bad sex isn’t as bad as a promiscuous woman duping a guy into thinking she’s something she’s not, with her later cheating on and divorcing him. Neither are good things, but the latter is clearly worse. Women don’t kill themselves after bad sex. Men kill themselves after getting cheated on and divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:16 AM
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I would never marry someone with a high count of sexual partners, unless they had made some genuine commitment to solve whatever issues caused them to engage in that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:13 AM
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and assuming your partner is going to is rude If you discover your partner has a history of infidelity, is it rude to assume she might do the same to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:12 AM
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1/5 is a conservative estimate. How many liars admit to being so? And it certainly doesn’t account for women who delude themselves in an effort to preserve their self-images. It’s safe to assume that a quarter of women are false in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:10 AM
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The lifestyle gets old. And if you’re looking for someone to settle down with to raise a family, then being able to draw the distinction becomes an indispensable trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:07 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/hlwi6n/when_promiscuous_women_claim_that_all_women_lie/fx1zx64/ Men are significantly more likely to lie upwards, which is harmless. Not good, but significantly less harmful than women lying down. High-n men are likely to lie downwards, but in spite of being more promiscuous (according to lifetime sexual partner distributions), men are still less likely to lie downwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:24 AM
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Judgy = not wanting an unfaithful partner that will remorselessly rip your balls off. I guess I’m “judgy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:19 AM
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Most slutty women don’t orgasm from casual sex. Getting duped into investing resources into a woman that is highly likely to cheat on and divorce you is considerably worse. The fact that you think bad sex is in any way comparable to a dude getting cheated on and losing half his assets in a divorce attests to your incredible lack of empathy for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:16 AM
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Hence the “Whorror” stories of dudes finding out out that their wives used to get tag-teamed in the men’s stalls of clubs. I shudder just thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:13 AM
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I’m not repressing anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:08 AM
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Casual sex is way too easy to have (Tinder and etc) For women, homosexuals, and a minority of straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:07 AM
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That’s what they say. People make generalizations to protect themselves. When I say “promiscuous women cheat,” that’s not a wholly factual statement. A more accurate statement is that “promiscuous women are significantly more likely to cheat compared to non-promiscuous women, but that doesn’t preclude the possibility of faithful promiscuous women or unfaithful non-promiscuous women.” The second is a more nuanced and accurate statement, but you mitigate risk of infidelity by eschewing promiscuous…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:03 AM
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Follow up questions aren’t “interrogation.” We need our assurances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:50 AM
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It’s a myth that women who only have sex in committed relationships don’t enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:49 AM
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Not at all. Promiscuous women tend to lie. Not all women are promiscuous. Not ALL promiscuous women lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:48 AM
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FDS is right to shun porn-addled men. Unfortunately, they severely limit their options by doing so. Porn does have harmful effects on men, like an addictive substance, but when the majority of men are afflicted, you either hold out for a man who isn’t or you take what you can get. If I were a woman, I’d hold out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:45 AM
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You won’t be called a liar. If you consider follow-up questions to clarify that you’re not coming up with some mental trickery to massage down your numbers (as promiscuous women are wont to do) “interrogation,” then you’re not interested in a partner that is doing his own due diligence to protect himself. You want that partner btw. Because if he employs checks to protect himself while vetting you, he’s also like to employ checks when you two are a team vetting, say, a realtor or contractor. His …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:40 AM
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Most guys don’t want to get cheated on before being torn in half by the following divorce proceedings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:32 AM
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That the 77¢/$ thing is true when you don’t control for a number of factors not regarding sex differences (education, years of experience and hours worked, JOB). The gap is almost insignificant when you do control for all those extraneous variables. That said, we’ve digressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:30 AM
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Good or bad it would have been +1. Whether or not someone is LTR material is subjective. Some men like being cuckolded and humiliated. Or they don’t intend to be monogamous themselves and desire an open marriage. Promiscuity in a partner is only bad if you intend to have a long-term monogamous relationship. A woman willing to have casual sex with a Casanova-type already isn’t long-term monogamous material because she has an unrestricted sociosexual orientation. I suggest you read up on sociosexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:15 AM
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A non-response will almost always be interpreted as “high enough that I won’t say.” Men don’t ask out of cruelty; they ask to determine if they can trust a potential partner to be faithful. If your number is truly low, why deny your man the security and comfort of knowing his woman won’t hop on next smooth-talking handsome stranger? They call men who care “insecure,” but how can it not be so, considering the risk? It is your knowledge to give or withhold, but to deny a man the truth when it woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:08 AM
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*studies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:15 AM
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I never claimed that they all lie. If you read what I wrote, you’d realize that I was saying that lying promiscuous women tend to project their dishonesty on all other women as a means to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:08 AM
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Bad sex isn’t a comparable negative consequence. A bout of bad sex isn’t as bad as getting conned into investing a girl that lies about her promiscuity. One is a single bad experience while the other is a life-altering decision predicated on a lie. Promiscuous women are more likely to cheat and divorce. Some guys are shrewd enough to avoid those types, but some of those guys are misled by promiscuous women pretending they’re not. Often, they lose time and resources because promiscuous women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 03:06 AM
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A Freudian slip, no doubt. Indicative of the object where your mind tends to stray to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 02:09 AM
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It’s a fair filter to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 02:07 AM
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The women lying upwards are typically virgins that are ashamed of the fact. Lying down is a lot more detrimental than lying up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:39 AM
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I don’t think people should lie. Anyways, less than 1-in-5 guys lie downward: women said they’ve divulged a decreased number of partners compared with only 13.7 percent of men who have done so. https://onlinedoctor.superdrug.com/whats-your-number/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:37 AM
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If the risks of committing to promiscuous women become common knowledge as well as the percentage of women who lie downwards (roughly a quarter of women), guys aren’t going to care so much about shaming. They’ll still shy away from marriage. Women interested in making themselves out to be viable partners will be more inclined to lie or they’ll refrain from promiscuous behavior—I really don’t care which if any. My goal is for men to be aware that their feelings of unease towards their partners’ p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:30 AM
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And who says that women who lie about their sexual past are lying downward? . Women lie down: [T]he majority of both genders (67.4 percent of women and 58.6 percent of men) reported that they always tell the truth. 17.5 percent of male respondents reported claiming more partners than they’ve had, while only 8.2 percent of women did the same. On the other hand, 18.6 percent of women said they’ve divulged a decreased number of partners compared with only 13.7 percent of men who have done so. https…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 01:18 AM
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When the sluts are indistinguishable from the non-sluts, why play the game?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:57 AM
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I’m pretty sure this is just one of u_gaylordfag’s alts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:53 AM
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I prefer “Garden.” There’s a puzzle that needs to be pieced together. Don’t you understand? This is important for MANkind. I only have this partially figured out, but I swear to Christ I’ve got this cork-board, thumbtacks, yarn, doing my damnedest to make sense out of the non-sensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:51 AM
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You already copped to being a liar, which is where I take most issue with. I don’t believe you’d remain faithful in a LTR, given the lying and promiscuity. Having a one night stand while in a relationship still counts as cheating even if it may not to you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 11:27 PM
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She posts on PlusSize. A lot of guys can overlook sluttiness with hot girls. When you’re fat AND slutty, that’s practically a dealbreaker for 90% of guys, so of course she lies about the slutty part. I just feel for the poor bastard she cons into a relationship and inevitably cheats on and makes miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:44 PM
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we all lie about it :). Lol Promiscuous girls lie about it. And they cheat and lie about that too. approximately half of women in the top quintiles of sociosexuality had been sexually unfaithful to a steady partner; this was more than a tenfold increase over the corresponding rate for people in the bottom quintiles. Do individual differences in sociosexuality represent genetic or environmentally contingent strategies? Evidence from the Australian twin registry. J. M. Bailey, K. M. Kirk, G. Zhu, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:38 PM
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Very common phenomenon. A lot of women slut around after breakups or divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:31 PM
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Indeed. Still, given what I know about the numbers, it’s hard to maintain an even str relationship with them. You want to like the people you choose to engage with, even if it’s in the short-term. The fact that I can’t trust them to be faithful or loyal to anyone tarnishes my perception of them. At that point it’s a pathological distrust of them. And you feel for the poor idiot bastard that commits to them without knowing who they are. You see a stat like this: approximately half of women in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:09 PM
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Eve’s teacher was the Serpent.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 08:50 PM
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I don't know. It's her religiosity, expressed disgust towards the lifestyle and disdain for guys who engage in it that points me to that conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 11:49 PM
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Some have confessed that it's due to their current SO's sexual, dating history or lack of marriageable qualities. Interesting low-risk alternative, not getting married. I wonder how women feel about their long-term partners not willing to risk marriage because of their personal histories.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 11:46 PM
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woman being with men before you = getting cuckolded No. Just those women that have been with a lot. Some men are indifferent to it while others might actually prefer it. Those belonging in the latter group are probably more inclined to swinging, outside sex, and cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 10:40 PM
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She might. I don’t think she’d care if a dude dumped her instead of waiting it out and tying the knot. It’s her way of testing a guy.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 07:25 PM
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Learned my lesson Your ex learned a greater one; never trust or expect a promiscuous woman to remain faithful. Your current has yet to learn this. And I mean that in the nicest way possible because you’re a genuinely insightful and interesting person to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 11:49 AM
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You can easily see who's a quality woman and who isn't. You can easily see if some women are not quality because they make it very obvious and aren’t smart enough (or haven’t learned) to conceal it (yet). Determining if a woman is quality takes some time, and you can never be certain. If you want a family and a traditional household, you have to chance it and wife up a woman who checks all the boxes of quality (low-to-no n, strong father, never a partier or alcohol abuser, no tats/piercings, etc…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 11:23 AM
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dm that thread or an archive of it if you’d be so kind.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 11:14 AM
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Dangle the carrot, but don't do it. When dangling the carrot stops working, find another girl. You’re essentially wasting her clock if she’s a good woman and gullible/naive/innocent enough to trust you (they exist). My sister was homeschooled, lives a very sheltered life, went to a women’s school, and is 110% still a virgin—evident in her naivety, dogmatism, and expressed determination not to give it up the man she won’t marry. You turn out more damaged ones if you misrepresent your attentions; …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 11:11 AM
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You have cheated before though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:36 AM
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I’ll use of those electronic collars.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 05:00 AM
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I’m going to leash my spouse regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:52 AM
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Snoop that shit, son. Unshackle your balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:50 AM
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Alternative viewpoints to popularly-held, thoughtlessly-accepted sentiments. Freedom from the lies that mask uncomfortable truths. Access to the wisdom of our grandfathers, but that our own fathers neglected to impart unto us. Basically I’m trying to grow a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:49 AM
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I’m tending to it as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 04:01 AM
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https://youtu.be/sj8uRg-Y3Xk?t=89
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:39 AM
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I feel sorry that you’re so desperate for this relationship that you fear going through her phone because it might confirm your suspicions of her infidelity. Is it even worth it at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:30 AM
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If you're promiscuous, you have lots of sex with different guys, if you're not promiscuous, you're not having a lot of sex with different guys. ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:26 AM
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And they genuinely get off to black dudes fucking their women. It’s almost creepy how white swinger couples fetishize black guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:21 AM
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People here don’t understand percentages and risk management.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:19 AM
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I think the majority would prefer the latter but a significant minority would choose the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:17 AM
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Some do and some don’t. It’s difficult to gauge ratios, but there are plenty of high-n dudes that simply try to avoid the subject and don’t care to delve into their girls’ histories either. I’m genuinely curious if promiscuous men are more or less lax concerning their partners’ histories.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:15 AM
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Brand recognition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:09 AM
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Yo bro. Only girls that have had sex with 20+ guys are capable of good sex. If she’s had sex in just 2-3 LTRs, hundreds of times with each partner, she must be awful at sex. She just needs more dicks in her, bro. She’ll be a regular Sasha Gray in no time!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:07 AM
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If you’re getting approached at random then all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 02:02 AM
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Yo bro. Promiscuous and virgin are the only two options. Ain’t nothing in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:59 AM
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Couple of gangbangs, a few involving trains, record time between meeting and fucking: 7 mins, watersports, eating out some hot rando’s ass in a club stall, spitroasted by two random hotties in the SAME STALL, but on a different night—normal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 11:48 PM
1

Well you got sources, surprise!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 11:23 PM
0

Not morally bad. Just not the type of girl a clean-cut-looking guy would go for. Odder matches have been made.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 11:22 PM
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The part where she’s a stripper? Anyway, you two look happy so kudos. I only advocate that everyone knows what they’re signing for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 11:06 PM
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That’s a little irresponsible of them imo: In illustration of this, the odds ratio of 1.13 for lifetime sexual partners obtained with the face-to-face mode of interview indicates that the probability of infidelity increased by 13% for every additional lifetime sexual partner, screenshot Regarding the correlates of infidelity, results indicated that on the basis of both methods of assessment, the probability of sexual infidelity (a) was greater for Blacks (relative to the remainder of the sample)…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:58 PM
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I too hope I never have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:56 PM
1

He looks too wholesome to date a stripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:56 PM
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You’re selling yourself short.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:26 PM
2

doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:25 PM
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Interesting. Normalcy means not thinking about it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:24 PM
2

Does your bf know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:22 PM
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You’re practically a virgin!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:17 PM
2

You’re between the median and the mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:15 PM
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I love lesbians. If I had a daughter I’d rather she be one than the Cinderella of dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:13 PM
1

You know it, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:11 PM
2

Don’t fucking be insensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:10 PM
1

Even if you had all the money in the world...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:10 PM
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If you’re n7 I guarantee you can find at least one fatty that’s down to clown aroun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:09 PM
1

This is a real phenomenon and it is not the first time I’m encountering this. In fact, it happens a lot in prisons where meek heterosexual men surrender their anal virginities, not only a protector, but also a partner that can provide gentle and tender caresses in an otherwise hellish atmosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:07 PM
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Tbh, that’s pretty fucked, bro. I’ve heard of it before, and it’s alway discomfiting when heterosexual men are so desperate for sex, love, and attention that they become butt bandidos, but at the end of that road lies perdition. Clench your cheeks and close this chapter of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:00 PM
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I hope you’re wearing protection, for your sake, your partners’ sakes, your partners’ partners’ sakes ad infinitum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:46 PM
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It’s crazy that so many guys do it. Because there’s the rational aversion to committing to someone like that as well as the subconscious disgust. You can reason why it’s a bad idea, but your gut usually arrives to the conclusion before your mind should. I think it’s the massive misinformation and shaming campaigns that do it. That so many men can be cowed into acting against their own interests testifies a lot to the state of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:40 PM
2

Quote from perhaps the single greatest poet of our times. https://youtu.be/gGdGFtwCNBE https://youtu.be/vc6vs-l5dkc https://youtu.be/8AZxUtZ2ZgI What’s the common thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:33 PM
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One cock for the rest of your life would never suffice is all I’m saying. Once that cow’s been milked, there’s no returning it to the udder is all I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:25 PM
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Indeed. One isn’t enough to sate you after a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 09:07 PM
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And yet they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:32 PM
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I love this myth that non-promiscuous women are somehow likelier to cheat. Positively pernicious in how it makes out the group least statistically likely to cheat to be at the highest risk in terms of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:31 PM
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You’ve taken so many kinds that you’re not content with a single source. Kinda proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:14 PM
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When this pandemic’s over and I can get back to my improv classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:07 PM
6

three current long term relationships Premiere authority on monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:06 PM
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It’s hard to feel sympathy for guys like that. At that point, it’s just a joke that the wife’s having an affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 08:03 PM
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With that being said her N count, or the N count of any woman if she likes you enough is going to either change to suite her wish to have your respect or divulge. . Men do this all the time - LOL. These generalizations of women are dishonest in this regard (most of them aren’t) and men dishonest in others is your way of justifying your own lying in that regard. I tell the truth selectively, I never lie. Deceit then. You’re painting a false image of yourself because you don’t think he’ll like wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 05:50 PM
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Some men lie. You’re projecting your own dishonesty on all men as a means of justifying it. Doesn’t make you any less of a liar in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:43 PM
1

So 3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:12 PM
1

Are you in like a semi open marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:11 PM
0

Countries with legal prostitution are only able to sustain a steady stream of prostitutes when they have a lot of human trafficking I’d like to see sources on this with Western European countries with prostitution. You’re suggesting the majority of prostitutes there are trafficked?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:01 PM
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Men are paying regardless. They just cut out the middleman that is a date and the mere possibility of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:59 PM
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Still true, phrasing notwithstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:54 PM
2

But necessary if you’re not interested in dating a promiscuous person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 03:50 PM
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Like I said, most of us don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:11 AM
1

If trpers decided to instead try to fix things instead, they would ~~ make zero impact and things would continue as is.~~ insist that men stop playing the field and go for more traditional partnerships with good women. In a healthy society, neither men nor women would be promiscuous, they’d marry earlier, and they’d remain truer to their vows. Fucking around tends not to be good for either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 02:10 AM
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The bigger question is whether or not s/he would date you. Afaik, s/he prefers barely legal virgin chads. Given the fact the most of us who are virgins aren’t Chads and that most of us who are Chads aren’t virgins, coupled with the fact that most of us are out of our late teens (Gaylordfag’s target demo) means that realistically none of us qualify, which is a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 10:52 PM
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Almost 2 million subscribers. They wouldn’t dare.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 07:01 PM
1

A lower percentage of virgins cheat than high-n girls. It’s a percentage game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 06:46 PM
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Except it means she’s likelier to cheat the more dicks have been in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 06:42 PM
1

Why are girls with big boobs always sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:30 PM
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people with a sexual history of more partners are more likely to cheat, men and women I suppose I can settle for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:23 PM
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My cutoff is DDD or Double Digit Dicks, because it’s arbitrary, alliterative, and sounds hilarious. Listen, I didn’t put this much effort into this utterly pointless internet argument just so you’d walk away still nurturing doubts. sluts cheat I just need those two words. Say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:51 AM
1

sluts cheat just fucking say it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 05:35 AM
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Most often cheating occurs because the relationship is unhappy and there is poor communication. Non-promiscuous women just leave those relationships while promiscuous women cheat to get their needs met. Cheating is due more to dispositional (internal) factors than situational (external) factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 04:46 AM
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Since 1990, the rate of married women who report they’ve been unfaithful has increased by 40 percent, while the rate among men has remained the same. More women than ever are cheating https://www.thecut.com/2017/09/why-women-cheat-esther-perel-state-of-affairs.html ————————————- Newer generations of women have overtaken men and outpaced men in infidelity rates. ————————————- Among ever-married adults ages 18 to 29, women are more likely than men to be guilty of infidelity https://ifstudies.org/b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 04:41 AM
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But women don’t give a shit if a guy who’s only fucked 5 people claims he fucked 25. They aren’t turned on by the higher number and may even be turned off that a guy would brag. The only way a guy benefits by lying up is if he’s a virgin. In other words, it’s harmless and probably even detrimental when a guy inflates his numbers. Promiscuous women who lie and pose as a chaste women are comparatively concealed land mines with numerous enticing shiny objects placed atop of them. They are several t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 04:15 AM
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Yo, but check this out: In illustration of this, the odds ratio of 1.13 for lifetime sexual partners obtained with the face-to-face mode of interview indicates that the probability of infidelity increased by 13% for every additional lifetime sexual partner, screenshot Regarding the correlates of infidelity, results indicated that on the basis of both methods of assessment, the probability of sexual infidelity (a) was greater for Blacks (relative to the remainder of the sample), (b) decreased wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:51 AM
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I don’t either. And yet so many lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:34 AM
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You’re looking for the politest way to ask her if she is or has ever been a slut. In an ideal society where they’d be far and few between, the question need not be asked. Unfortunately, during these times where every other woman qualifies, you have to ask in the most anodyne and reassuring way possible, knowing full well that if she is, she’s liable to lie about it and end up fucking you over figuratively and the guy one over literally. This shouldn’t be news but promiscuous women tend to lie an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:30 AM
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Just a conveyor belt of dicks and she had to do QA on each and every one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:07 AM
1

I would never have suspected that Christians would be opposed to premarital sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 03:00 AM
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“You were never promiscuous, right? I was never like that myself and would like a partner with a similar history and values...” trail off and stare intently into her eyes in such a way that would cause most normal people to feel unease in an effort to peer through the depths of her pupils You try catch them off guard with this Q, post-coitally or after making them a nice breakfast. When they draw breath to respond, you gesture for silence and say casually, with the just the tiniest hint of menac…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 02:50 AM
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They are multiple times more likely to cheat. That’s not really contestable at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 02:31 AM
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We get psychologically and emotionally castrated when we express ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 01:46 AM
1

TRP doesn’t ban opposite sex posters like those she-devil mods at fds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 01:39 AM
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Because women are allowed preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 01:37 AM
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FDS users are aware of the large number of male lurkers and tailor their posts to get under their skin. Don’t tell me no different. Every tenth post is a direct address to those lurkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:50 AM
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It’s scary because I consider myself a relatively smart young conservative white guy, and the levels of tacit acceptance among my peers for white nationalists scares the absolute shit out of me. It’s like people expect me to be one because I’m right-wing and traditionally-minded, opposed to affirmative action, etc., but those are serious bad hombres. I’m not just going to drop my non-white friends because they aren’t white. They speak my language, share my beliefs and interests, generally want w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:24 AM
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Oh I know, bro. We’re in this boat together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:17 AM
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Guys might argue that it’s no big deal but they can’t force relationships. Undesired persistence is infrequent, is harassment, and leads to social ostracism. Guys are actually better equipped at handling rejection than women considering we’re the initiators rather than the passive recipients. Women outright lie about their pasts to secure relationships with guys who may not necessarily want relationships with the promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:16 AM
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Marriage rates are at an all-time low. We’re at sub-replacement level fertility rates. Women’s infidelity is at an all time high. Out-of-wedlock births are at an all time high. None of these trends appear to be plateauing. The world doesn’t have to explode for something to be wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:11 AM
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We can promote a culture that doesn’t promote lying to secure relationships and where we’re clear about our intentions. Both sexes. We can shame those who misrepresent themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:08 AM
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Then we are in accord.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:06 AM
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Sloppily-executed informal fallacy to divert from his question: is lying about ones sexual history in order to not risk losing a relationship right or wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 12:03 AM
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Are you suggesting that doesn’t happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 11:54 PM
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I honestly thought white nationalism and the notion that only whites could be Americans was an antiquated relic of the past. I was surprised to learn that so many still believe those things in this election cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 11:50 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sociosexual_orientation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 11:32 PM
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