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FDS HUMORMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:19 AM
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STAY WOKEMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:02 AM
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FDS MEMESMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:39 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:23 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:00 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:35 PM
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FDS HUMORMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 10:16 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:23 AM
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STAY WOKEMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:31 PM
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FDS HUMORMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:14 PM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶Merryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:49 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:01 PM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶Merryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:45 AM
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STAY WOKEMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:44 AM
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SCROTES MADMerryprankstress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:41 AM
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Mr "a plant based diet is the most environmentally friendly way to eat but I can't do it myself" turns out to be a joke? Color me shocked :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:39 AM
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I would never shoot anyone unless it comes down to dying or defending myself. I would inform him to back off or I'm armed and dangerous and he has two options to pick and I would immediately call law enforcement while he decides for insurance. To be honest as soon as some sketchy mf starts talking to me I would go back inside the store and act like I forgot something to avoid this situation because not only did she have a small dog but letting someone know what vehicle you drive means they have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 11:21 PM
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I used to be absolutely terrified of them. What really helped me get over that was taking classes first to see if it was something I'd be able to be comfortable with (and taking classes with people I felt comfortable with). I honestly think most women should be armed nowadays, especially with how many people insist on acting like animals. I've seen and experienced too much now to mess around with my safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:38 PM
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And this is why I'm strapped. Motherfuckers can try me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 03:23 PM
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Honestly I love having abstract tattoos and nostril/septum rings because they're great repellent for most dudes who think that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/21 03:19 AM
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Best I can do is a twig with a leaf and a water dish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:43 PM
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Yessss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:42 AM
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You're definitely right, there are differences for sure. It just seems very similar in a general sense and I think it's funny they don't get the irony of being pissed off at women who are drawn to taller men while having this preference for "feminine" statures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:23 PM
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I think it's kind of funny how men don't realize this is the exact same as women wanting to date/being turned on by tall men. Maybe we should start calling tall men "man sized" and see how that makes them feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:43 PM
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I've definitely noticed this and I think it's a multifaceted issue. On one hand I think single women are more threatening to partnered women not only in a mate-guarding way, but in "might be jealous of your freedom" way. I think for someone in a relationship there's always going to be some level of general existential anxiety over it and to see and experience other women living their lives happily without men can make some women contemplate their own choices and other women avoid contemplating t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 06:15 PM
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God, forget the clit and orgasms...most men don't even understand the concept of intimacy and sensuality and how the brain is the biggest erogenous zone in the body. They have this need to gamify and speed run everything. I can't remember the last time a man actually made me feel anything except penetrated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:57 PM
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"I know a lot about it" Furiously pounding (X) to doubt bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:35 AM
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I’m so grateful!!! I have a peaceful immaculate home now with no couch creatures fucking up the vibes. Sis did me a serious solid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:25 PM
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Oh trust me they were dusted as soon as she acted like I was some big bad boogeyman out to bully her. I was grateful she was taking his ass off my hands and only warned her out of a need to protect a fellow sister. She was warned about exactly who and what he was and still let him come mooch off her. Clownworld.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:31 PM
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This exact thing happened to me too. The woman legit told me I was harassing her. But sweet karma was gotten because now she's dealing with my overweight gorilla-hairy horseshoe-balding cheating porn sick ex manchild. Hope she enjoys her prize!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:18 PM
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Rorschach test 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:10 PM
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Oh no, I have the same lamp as this dude :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:13 PM
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Can’t believe I haven’t seen it mentioned but Herland by Charlotte Perkins Gilman is one of my favorite books! Three male explorers happen upon a society made up entirely of women. It’s a nice fantasy of what an all woman world would look like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:35 PM
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Dudes ass probably looks like a Rorschach test
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:29 PM
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I agree, I've encountered that a few times. He would try to overcompensate by being "protective" of me and performing being this tough guy outside but at home he was just...nothing. We were dead bedroom for most of the relationship because of how broken his masculinity was. Dude was addicted to porn I think mostly because being with an actual woman was terrifying to him. It's mind boggling how little these guys can function.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:10 PM
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I can back this up 100 percent. My last most terrible ex was raised by a single mom who coddled him his entire life. He turned out to be a massive secret misogynist who would never lift a finger around the house at all. He absolutely believed that anything done around the house was a woman’s work. He had zero life skills to speak of and huge issues with his masculinity. Steer clear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 02:27 PM
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Girl, I have a song for you: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zi8ShAosqzI
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:38 PM
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Jfc this is the biggest cope in the entire world and I should know because I also was with a man who "provided" for me and was "safe" at home playing games from the moment he was off work until bedtime (While I cooked every meal we ate and cleaned our place solo with zero attention or affection). But whenever I was at work he was talking to girls on his secret Fetlife account that I eventually found. These video game addicted/porn sick men are lost causes who have blown out their dopamine recept…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:10 AM
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Totally I get it! I just had a moment of panic :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:17 AM
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Omg you scared me I thought I lost one of my days off. It's Sunday today <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:28 AM
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THANK YOU!! Seriously, not everyone finds it easy or enjoyable to just sit and watch TV. I say from experience living with a couch potato- when that’s all they consider to be a bonding activity with you, it’s so boring and hell yeah my phone would be out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:23 PM
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Oh no, I meant they want “kids” as in, a lot of them are attracted to young kids. Barely out of high school etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:11 PM
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Oh they want kids alright, but not for their “legacy” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:18 PM
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I was so creeped out reading the post because it’s exactly what happened to me with my stepfather, right before he raped me at 15. I pray this girl tells her mother, this is seriously a sick and twisted man and he should have zero women in his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:26 PM
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Lol he claimed it was because of back pain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:55 AM
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Omfg the pillow part has me dying... the sheer accuracy haha. Also nevermind bed frames, I straight up met a dude who didn't have a mattress.. Just slept on a bunch of blankets on plywood boards....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:00 AM
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You're not alone at all. It was almost distressing reading this because I've never been treated this well by anyone in my entire life. I'm not sure I ever will be, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:39 PM
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JFC “tHaTs wHy uR sInGlE”.... have these little troglodytes ever considered that maybe being single isn’t the heart breaking insult they think it is? Like “yes kid you’re right, I’m not shackled to someone else dealing with all their bullshit. How terrible it is that I have complete and total freedom and you only have crusty sheets and a resentful girlfriend.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:00 PM
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It's literally the plot of a Bob's Burgers episode
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:08 AM
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Oof. That last one hit really hard. That’s what happened with my last relationship and I don’t know if I’ll ever get over that experience. It’s hard enough to get over regular breakups but it’s so much harder to get over someone who doesn’t even exist and therefore closure will never be a thing they can give you. They just cease existing once the mask slips and you’re left with a ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 07:00 PM
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Same, fuck this woman she's no queen. I was the victim of child sex abuse and I never spoke to my mother again after I was finally able to emancipate because she chose to stay married to the man who did it to me. This woman needs to stay in therapy and she needs a social services worker keeping track of what her childs home life is like. She sounds like a danger to children via not being able to stay away from shitty broken dangerous men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:50 AM
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No sorry needed! Just trying to help spread the word about that site because it’s super useful. I only mentioned it because of how recently it was posted. Hope you’re feeling better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:45 PM
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Hey, just to let you know, this was posted just a day ago https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/m3lv6d/ive_had_my_guy_friends_tell_me_that_i_need_to_be/ You can check to see if any videos/tiktoks have been posted already by pasting the link into Karmadecay.com and it will let you know where it's been posted already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:14 AM
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I'm vegan and you would be shocked to find out just how many "plant based" people think eggs/honey are still ok to eat. Plant based doesn't equal vegan sadly too often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:46 AM
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You mods are badass and already do so much, I can imagine it gets overwhelming. I just happened to notice that if a certain tiktok is popular on the subreddit it sometimes shows up for a few days after and maybe not everyone knows you can use that link to check if something has been posted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:05 AM
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While we're on the topic, can people please please check to see if a tiktok has already been posted before posting it again? You can use Karmadecay.com to check if it's already been posted here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:18 PM
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LOL Piers Morgan is afraid of vegan sausage rolls, not exactly looking too good himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:32 AM
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Oooh boy he's cutting himself on all that edge, scrote better be careful and remember it's down the street not across the road.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:16 AM
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I warned the woman who was "adopting" my ex manbaby about who he really was and all the ways he was harmful and toxic and sis straight up told me I was harassing her and I "couldn't do that to her". I told her enjoy her prize, she'll see who he really is soon enough. They know on some level, they just don't care because mediocre selfish dick is more important to them than sisterhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:03 AM
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Ugh there was a great book written about a girl who was murdered who worked in one of those bars. It went into the culture of it and how awful the justice system is for women in Japan. Just terrible. The book is called "The People Who Eat Darkness"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:54 PM
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LOL this is basically how I feel about men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:44 PM
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LOL like this guy knows what high value is. He's Australian (Likely to be misogynistic), has a deadpool bust, a lion poster, his beard is a different color than his other hair, and he has the distant and vacant look of someone with zero personality or charisma but all the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:53 AM
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He Hit Me and it Felt Like A Kiss- The Crystals The absolute worst song ever made for the purpose of being a romantic ballad. It's such a stark view at how fucking terrible life was for women at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:09 AM
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Sis was ready to go 'La Chancla' on his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:35 PM
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Isn't that phrase from that Tiktok of the woman yelling it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:26 PM
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Here's your weekly reminder that that subreddit is run by men who are active in mens rights circles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:12 PM
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I love this book so much lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:13 AM
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Taps temple Hey, you can't get an STD if you never get tested amirite ladies ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:14 AM
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Dudes eyes are in two different time zones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:07 AM
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Oh my god I’m dead hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:30 AM
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This is prime “wheresmyWAIFU” material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:15 AM
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"Hay boiii, experienced pink hot dog bun here, you wanna link up or wut?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:14 PM
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I think they're all walking red flags because I'm totally disillusioned with OLD, but the biggest by far is -Children in the pictures anywhere -fishing pics -hunting pics I'm vegan so it's just....ew. They think it makes them look like manly providers when to me they just look like wildlife terrorists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:38 AM
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I mean they all think with their dicks so it works really well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:14 PM
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For me I 100 percent know all my man-centric ways in the past were born out of an unhealed inner child. I came from a horrible abusive family life and I have no family at all, It's just me. Not having a support system is so hard that it's a fight not to give in to the scared little girl inside me who just wants to be loved so badly. I've taken care of myself for so long I'm still strong and independent, but I'm definitely considering therapy soon because I've been putting it off way too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:11 PM
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Omg yes please. I'm getting a little tired of the flood of tik toks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:26 AM
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I was a huge Sza fan and listened to her before she hit it big, but I got so turned off after she started singing all about being the "other woman" and all that. It made me so sad because I had respected her so highly and to hear her glorify hurting other women via their skanky stray dog men... that's a nah sis for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:37 AM
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That post got so many fucking upvotes it genuinely made me depressed for a few minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:13 PM
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Cigarettes are the biggest sign of low value people. They are one of the biggest sources of pollution in the world aside from plastic and oil, and they're filled with disgusting chemicals that literally rot you from the inside out (also, they use beaver anal glands in menthols). They are so filled with toxic garbage, that's why heavy smokers who smoke in the home cause damage for years to come. If someone supports that industry, it's a hell no. Every heavy smoker I've ever known was so gross tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:05 PM
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Damn that's one good looking man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:05 AM
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Ugh what the actual Kentucky fried fuck.....It's like tiktok is an actual social disease.... This needs that video of the lady smacking the camera with a book like a bug edited in at the end because this is just the grossest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:57 PM
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I'll take five, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:42 AM
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Rates have risen here too in a lot of places, but people are still being selfish and going out just because they can never stopping to think if they should. America is a wasteland of selfish individualism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:14 PM
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Spirited away is one of my most favorite movies of all time! Love studio Ghibli!!!! I don’t have any kids in my life but if I did I would definitely watch those with them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:01 AM
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I have the perfect theme song just for this scrote. Someone send him this rocking jam that so perfectly encapsulates all his frustrations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:45 PM
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Even as a little girl, I hated Disney and it all felt like one big propaganda piece. I found it weird no one had moms or their moms were always killed and it was noticeable because I was a latch key kid whose mom was never around. Then I found out a little later they just ripped off fairy tales and made them advertiser and family friendly. Now I just think it's the worst thing you could ever let little girls watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:37 PM
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As someone who actually struggles with real anxiety, fuck that scrote. He's a pathetic POS and I hope she kicks him out on his ass and changes the locks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:34 PM
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Pfft wow big man doesn't wanna be a slave himself, so he wants to enslave animals to exploit. Typical layabout fuckboy who's seen into the wild one too many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:21 AM
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What I meant about the nutrition thing is she talked a lot about protein and used that as excuses for why someone wouldn’t go vegan when I was subscribed to her. I do get that she appeals to a lot of people because of her “chill” vibe, I guess I just grew out of that once I was more deeply into veganism and became more radical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:00 PM
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She makes a lot of apologist arguments all the time for why “not everyone can be vegan” and she parrots a lot of harmful stereotypes against veganism which aren’t really true. Shes kind of like the pickme of veganism trying super hard to be “not like the other vegans” and also I almost NEVER hear her talk about animal welfare or rights. She talks a lot about nutrition (while not being registered or educated at all about it) but the animals? Lots of crickets there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:58 AM
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I used to watch her too but she's controversial for a reason. She really isn't an ally for the animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:11 PM
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Men everywhere talk so much shit about not being "cucked" and never being able to love a kid that isn't theirs, so why the hell is this woman the bad guy to her entire social circle?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:32 AM
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There was also the episode where Samantha starts dating a Brazilian female artist, Maria.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:47 PM
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I don't know about any study but I find this to be a very powerful visual representation Be warned it's fucking heartbreaking. I always reference it because none of the clothes shown are in any way provocative or meant to invite assault. They were the clothes of people going about their day without intent to be assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:05 PM
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Girl, I found my exes fetlife account just because I had a creeping hunch and went snooping.. He had been a member almost the whole time we were together (years), but couldn't find a woman that would sleep with him. Guess who's now sad about losing the one woman he bagged that was waaaay out of his league to begin with? That asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:47 PM
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Exactly. One of my first boyfriends used to “joke” about inviting one of my coworkers who I already felt insecure around to a threesome with us. He just wanted to fuck her but was using me to try to do it. My poor 22 year old self needed FDS so bad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:35 PM
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You know his ass was only crying about the ps5. They're never sorry for what they actually did, only that they got caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:48 AM
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Seriously, I’m about to just unsubscribe here and lurk because the amount of cringe tik tok videos increases with each day. Please sisters I’m begging you leave the tiktoks where they lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:00 AM
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I'm ok now <3 thank you for the love. It took a lot of work but I got away from my toxic family and it's done a whole hell of a lot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:23 AM
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My mother stayed married to the man who sexually abused and tortured me for a whole year at 15 years old (after a long revolving door of abusive boyfriends she was never around to protect us from). They stayed married another whole seven years and she finally divorced him after he punched my younger sister and sent her down a flight of stairs. I am far from alone in that kind of experience, it's sad but true. It's difficult to talk about but there is an insidious form of toxic femininity that ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:17 AM
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There's also https://www.doesthedogdie.com/ it has warnings for lots of triggers on many shows and movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:58 PM
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Ugh I was a HUGE fan of hers since before she hit it big and that whole shit grossed me out so much. She used to just be a quirky weird girl making amazing beats in her room and now she’s so trashy....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:20 PM
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Mine was a Justin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:08 AM
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This without a doubt works for Portland Maine too. Source: I grew up there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:20 AM
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LOL omg the first thing That popped in my head upon seeing this man was “Colty”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:19 AM
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Missing the endless barrage of fishing/hunting pics. As if showing off that you’re a terrorist and murderer of wildlife is at all attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 09:21 PM
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Castration is the only answer to problems like this. This man is a fucking waste of space and doesn’t deserve the air he breathes. How about instead of pouring ungodly amounts of money into ways for humans to live in space, maybe we can start taking care of actual real world problems on the ground here, like tackling overpopulation by eliminating problematic members of society (like sex offenders and animal rapists)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:14 AM
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Hey OP, I’d like to know how you got ahold of a picture of my ex’s boxers :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:20 AM
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I just feel for Asian women in general. Though things are finally starting to shift, they are likely to get trapped into sexist outdated social pressures to sacrifice their ambition to be mothers and home keepers alone. The sex tourism industry tends to be heavily active in Asia, and Also the laws and justice system are a complete joke. I wish I could unlearn some of the cases I’ve heard about where women just get no fucking justice for being horrifically abused or murdered. The book “The People…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:45 AM
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Holy shit, that's way too old to be acting like that, and this is coming from someone who had a bit of arrested development myself...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:51 AM
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I agree that women are heavily scrutinized and held to a higher standard than men, and I don't agree with it normally, but when someone is on social media assuming the role of an influencer and acting as an authority on any subject, then we should hold them to higher standards, regardless of gender. The role of an influencer is to influence others, so it only makes sense personally to be critical of that influence. I don't expect every single woman to be unproblematic at all. I expect social med…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:50 AM
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Why are we cherry-picking women’s qualities when we only expect the best from men? I genuinely feel it does discredit someone’s message when most of the time they say things that contradict whatever good message they may have. This is a genuine question not meant to start shit. Shallon Lester gets posted a lot too and even though a broken clock is right twice a day, it’s still a broken ass clock that should have been thrown out long ago and replaced with one that’s correct with us all the time. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:02 PM
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Omg I love her so much!! “Ass like this” is such a soulful sexy jam and her new song “touch me” was just everything my bisexual soul wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:02 AM
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Why do so many of y'all keep posting this trash? She's awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:58 PM
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Forget X men, I would be X woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:00 PM
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If I had a year of life added to my natural lifespan for every single time I communicated what would please me and make me feel good, both sexually and non sexually to men only for them to completely ignore what I’ve cOmMuNiCaTeD ....I would be fucking immortal. Tardigrades and jellyfish would have nothing on me, and I’d have to go into hiding because the science world would be hunting me down to extract miracle cures to aging from me....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:26 PM
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Omg this is my new favorite thing. I will watch this before bed every night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:25 AM
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I’m obsessed with Adrian Brody!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:14 AM
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I'm vegan so I don't date non vegans and I despise hunters, I think it's as LV as it comes, especially since most people in developed nations live near a grocery store or food source. Also, the "hunting for conservation" thing is a complete myth. They also contribute the least amount of funding through their hunting permits (around 5-6%) so it is completely unnecessary all around. If they really wanted to contribute to conservation they should support the reintroduction of natural predators.
/r/askFDS16/10/20 02:22 AM
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She's trash.
/r/askFDS14/10/20 08:08 PM
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It’s the cringey tiktok and Instagram videos that really get to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:55 AM
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That was such an amazing album!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:25 PM
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Yessss I'm a Tori stan for life! I literally cannot pick a favorite song or album, but Spark was the song that started my love for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:15 PM
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<3 I love dogs so much, I can't stand seeing them just stuck in a crate as some power play. It's one thing to have a crate be a safe space for them but it shouldn't be a punishment thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 03:54 PM
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Of course it is, you don't often see women talk about other women this way. It's so demeaning it had to be a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 03:53 PM
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Men who keep their dogs in cages are fucking trash, and I’d like to lock them up in a cage and treat them the same way, except with a taser. This loser has so little power and control over his own life that he has to use helpless animals to larp as some alpha when really he’s just a dickless nobody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:50 AM
65

I really need to get to reading her work. I’ve been slogging through other feminist books and they are not doing it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:29 AM
82

This crap right here is why I don’t have Twitter. Literally every single basic pedestrian, zero critical thought, smooth brain who has a fleeting thought while taking a shit or waiting for the bus is able to get their stupidity and faux-philosopher BS validated by other idiots and the echo chamber of dying brain cells just gets louder and louder as their swan songs combine into a sonic weapon of stupidity that has the power to melt brain cells from across the galaxy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:24 AM
44

Also there are VR jerkoff machine setups. Why do they need women who don’t want them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:21 AM
38

Agreed. I’m so grateful every single day that when I was a hormonal out of control teen I just wrote really intense poetry while listening to Tori Amos and Luscious Jackson and pretended to flirt with strangers in AOL chatrooms. Who the hell knows what I would have been like if all these terrible social media apps were around. I shudder at the thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:18 AM
17

Exactly. With onlyfans being mainstream and big name celebrities making accounts, of course these impressionable young girls are going to think it’s aspirational.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:16 AM
3

I was cooking dinner for my sister, getting her to bed, and doing household chores at 9 years old and these men can't lift a finger to take care of their own man-child ass.... Dudes getting out-adulted by a fucking 9 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:04 AM
23

He doesn't spit in her mouth when he's choking her out during sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:53 AM
15

Shit, my awful relationship pre-FDS wouldn't have ended as fast if his love language actually was touch, instead of "ignore literally everything in life except gaming" because it would have convinced me he still "loves me in a way". Love languages aren't an excuse for not being a fully functional partner and showing up for someone you claim to love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:52 AM
63

Ugh I fucking hate ddlg. Whenever someone brings it up I always bring up that from the POV of someone who was actually assaulted by a step parent, all they're doing is larping someone elses trauma and dehumanization. Some people actually try to justify it with saying "it's therapeutic" and I cannot with these fucking idiots. You know what's therapeutic? GOING TO THERAPY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:50 AM
11

Queen is aging like fine wine! She looks stunning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:16 AM
12

Honestly I think more women should own guns anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:33 PM
10

I saw your post and I am SO happy you're getting the hell out of there. I'm so sorry about what happened to you, that was so humiliating and awful, and I hope you start living for you from now on! Your dad had me tearing up, that's so sweet <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:47 PM
30

He disgusts me so much, and he's not even as funny or intelligent as he likes to larp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:45 PM
13

Ah nothing is more kinky than willingly doing something that for others is a humiliating and dehumanizing experience. Like ddlg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:43 PM
7

Lol I saw someone get downvoted a bunch yesterday for suggesting a girl come to FDS, and then a bunch of comments like “ugh they’re the worst” “what a bunch of female incels” “so toxic”.....but I would put money on a few ladies subscribing anyways ;p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:40 PM
8

Lol I’m vegan so I definitely get the same treatment, but I revel in shrinking alpha weiners by just existing, it’s part of the fun. When big “alpha men” are scared of a block of tofu it gives me life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:37 PM
53

The men that post these are terrified of vegetables. They're just trying to hide it behind a "muh alpha predator with canines" front.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:35 PM
15

"iT's A hAtE sUbReDdIt!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:24 PM
30

I’ve gotten downvoted a bunch for correcting someone who was trying to say DDLG was “therapeutic”. I told them “yeah no, engaging in pseudo incestual pedophilic role play is not “therapeutic”. There’s some seriously dangerous misinformation being perpetuated that willingly engaging in pretend abuse is a way to work through actual abuse and it’s so infuriating as someone who actually was sexually abused. I hate that a bunch of sick freaks have normalized incest and made being a pedo a kink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:50 AM
48

Men of Reddit are quaking and running to their keyboards right now to bitch about it in their little hate groups as we speak :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:43 AM
8

I have three dogs, and I have all the night snuggles I could ever want!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:13 AM
3

Guarantee her inbox is being flooded with dudes offering to fight her boyfriend for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:10 AM
3

Paraphilias are seriously disturbing sometimes, especially in the case of Hybristophilia, literally an attraction to violent criminals. From the Wiki: Hybristophilia is a paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are responsive to and contingent upon being with a partner known to have committed an outrage, cheating, lying, known infidelities, or crime—such as rape or murder. The term is derived from the Greek word hubrizein (ὑβρίζειν), meaning "to commit an outra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:45 AM
10

There is a documented paraphilia called hybristophilia Hybristophilia is a paraphilia in which sexual arousal, facilitation, and attainment of orgasm are responsive to and contingent upon being with a partner known to have committed an outrage, cheating, lying, known infidelities, or crime—such as rape or murder. The term is derived from the Greek word hubrizein (ὑβρίζειν), meaning "to commit an outrage against someone" (ultimately derived from hubris ὕβρις, "hubris"), and philo, meaning "having…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:41 AM
10

Omg I love L7! Shove is still one of my top favorite songs of all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:34 AM
2

Lol I don’t remember if he named it, I just can’t forget that scene of him laying under the car and kissing its bumper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:03 PM
11

That’s really sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:02 PM
14

🎵”now you’re just a body I need to dispose”🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:45 AM
5

There was a documentary of a dude in love with his car on YouTube lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:43 AM
5

Juggalos Chew each other’s toenails Yup....sounds exactly right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:43 AM
11

Holy shit that’s downright evil. I’m so sorry that happened to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:41 AM
37

I’ve never had children and if anything it feels like I’m getting tighter. But that might also have something to do with the fact I’m in self induced dick rehab for the foreseeable future as well ;p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:36 AM
67

After knowing a girl who was murdered in one of the most horrific ways by a guy who she was seeing in my small town, I’m always uneasy about house dates at first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:27 AM
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I’m ok now! Thank you, I cut her off from my life, and I’m much happier for it. I’ve worked on myself a lot and I recognize now that she was a product of not only her own upbringing and the fact she was a teenage mom, but the time she was living in too. She passed a few years ago, and my family cut me out for not being there when she was sick, but it was what’s right for my life and she was never really a mom anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:23 AM
2

Shit, I'm kicking my New Years resolutions ass already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:30 AM
7

I hate tiktok. It's like "the stand" but the disease is a social media app that infects someones brains and makes their inner clown hulk out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:29 AM
10

I sit in my backyard at night sipping tea under the stars chuckling to my jolly single self that I don't put up with that fuckery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:17 AM
7

Shallon is about as far from FDS as you can get and she's a seriously terrible person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:09 AM
15

My mother stayed married to a man who raped and abused me for a whole year after I told her and she said she didn't believe me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:05 AM
6

I did report it, hopefully it gets taken down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:25 PM
3

I did report it, but who knows what’ll happen :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:24 PM
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It makes me wonder if the parents knew the kind of attention their baby would get by posting this, especially on freaking tiktok ... they had to know, and it makes me so sad for that baby. Their parents care more about getting attention than their dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:16 AM
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Sorry it got that many points in thanks I hate it. I fucked up the editing because I was so disturbed when I saw it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:15 AM
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I just genuinely cannot understand... These men are monsters through and through. To see an innocent helpless child and objectify it without a second thought.... The more time I spend on this site the more I realize the true nature of people, and it sickens me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:11 AM
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The validation you get online is NOT worth your child being jerk off fodder for these sick fucks. I see these weird "POV from the boob" posts all the time and consistently they're flooded with men making comments that are just soul killing, but they end up on subreddits like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:25 AM
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It just doesn’t make sense to me to display your entire life online, and frankly I find most of social media to be incredibly damaging and toxic. People act like living your entire life online and monetizing your very identity isn’t a big deal but it’s fairly disturbing on many levels. We don’t even know how many consequences it will have on our own lives or the lives of future generations. I genuinely worry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:08 AM
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Yuuuup...My mom had me when she was in no way fit to be a mother and it resulted in me having no childhood and years of being abused by her rotation of horrible scrotes. I will have cptsd for life. Women need to start being in control of their reproduction and being heavily selective with who they breed with. Having a kid should be treated as the life altering serious issue that it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:45 AM
12

WTF? Why the hell is she cooking for him? Sis, cook your own meals and let his ass starve. If he has time to be sexually harassing you in the kitchen his ass has time to cook his own food. This shit should have been shut down the first time anything like this happened. NEVER cook for men, unless you are damn sure they appreciate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:29 AM
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I think Tiktok encourages that kind of behavior. It brings out the absolute worse in people and makes shitty behavior "viral". The entire app is about getting as much attention as you can, so it's no surprise these edgy teenage takes are everywhere. Also it's full of creepy pedos trying to creep on young girls. It's sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:18 AM
4

Yeah that one stuck out to me. I still can’t fucking believe it. It goes to show how conditioned women are to be loyal and try to “make it work” with men who literally scream at us with their actions that they have zero respect for us or they hate us. That she’s been pouring herself into supporting the both of them and when her husband pulls this her first reaction is “how do I fix this”.... it’s so sad and it shows how she’s living her life for someone else. I hope she finally gets to live for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:46 PM
20

I think you're right about the addictive aspect of it, and the frustration. Much like how studies have shown that people who drive often and have longer commutes operate at a base level of some amount of stress and anxiety, I think gaming has some elements of that. Books definitely develop someones empathy, much more than gaming. I find people who read are so much more engaging to talk to, they have broader interests, better communication skills... having lived with someone who did nothing but g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:53 AM
4

Damn.....that’s some hard aging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:38 AM
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Ugh I hate reading that subreddit. I’m always just shocked at what women put up with. I’ve been in some rough relationships, but that subreddit makes me feel like I got off easy sometimes. “I’m working 70 hour weeks and walked in on my husband and bestie spooning and now they want to be a throuple, what do I do? Is this fixable?” “My (20F) boyfriend (37M, divorced father with kids) is living in my apartment but won’t work or help with cleaning and makes me watch bestiality porn with him, how do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:23 AM
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I’ll never date a gamer again. All I see when I look at them is wasted time and a wasted life. I’d rather a man be addicted to reading then gaming, because reading has so many more benefits long term and I also love reading. You don’t see men raging out and throwing a book across the room or calling someone the N word because they’re frustrated at a book ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:15 AM
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That’s why my favorite book is “Herland” which is about a female only society. It’s nice to dream of a world where women live in peace without men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:01 PM
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Gamers are parasites for women. Never waste your time on someone who is wasting their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:05 PM
5

And as soon as she slips or doesn’t feed them it’ll be crickets from his boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:49 AM
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Like I said, I comment for everyone. Man, woman, child, animal... I have never shamed a woman for her hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:35 AM
6

I talk about food waste with anyone because I'm a tree hugging environmentalist. It's a little different with food waste, it's a really huge problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:27 PM
19

Don't forget about surviving infidelitys sister sub, r/theotherwoman That right there is enough to keep you cynical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:17 PM
10

Jokes on him, a man is letting me see his full unaltered reddit history before I consider wasting my time on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:16 PM
3

Ashnikko- “stupid” “special” and “working”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:54 AM
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AITA is full of woman haters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:30 AM
4

Thank god she got picked! Congrats on your third child, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:21 AM
13

"In Thailand this would get you a full vegetarian feast"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:18 PM
4

No she's not, she's white gutter trash through and through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:48 PM
7

The only thing keeping me back from starting an all woman commune in the woods is poverty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:23 PM
2

It can definitely be too accepting in some circles, it’s an easy open for manipulators and liars or anyone with a lack of accountability because as long as you can larp as a deep sensitive person the scummy actions are easy to explain away with bullshit excuses. There needs to be a healthy level of scrutiny and critical thought and people need to stay grounded or they can end up “in too deep” and drinking their own pee or fermented salty cabbage water or being antivax or a flat earther. Sorry to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:38 AM
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lol don’t get me wrong, I definitely think there are good decent “spiritual” men out there. But there is definitely a pandemic of fuckboys in the yoga/Buddhist/hippiedippie movements. I’m a crunchy treehugger myself so this was shared with a healthy dose of self awareness ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:12 AM
2

Right, I’m so oppressed now that I have to show more self respect and be more selective about who I let near and inside my body. I’m now just a poor oppressed first world white woman, imprisoned by her freedoms and rights, being kept down by the matriarchy /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:54 AM
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I got banned for merely backing a book suggestion up. They banned me just because I’m active here. Those assholes are not feminists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:51 AM
9

Hahaha truth, you just know the boner works good ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:52 AM
11

bUt tHeY aReN’t nAtUrAl..... Ugh my condolences to all Indian women who have to deal with Kama Sutra comments. These men have zero originality and all the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:45 AM
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Yeah I dated one guy who went to yoga classes and little did he know I worked with a girl who went to the same class. She told me he stared at all the girls asses the whole class and made sure to get a spot at the back every time. Dumped his ass so fast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:37 AM
9

Woah!!! That’s awesome for her. Honestly a woman will treat her better anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:43 AM
13

Yeah no thanks, I’m a redditor so I see enough depressing shit. Wtf is that?! Is that some tradwife porn or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:03 AM
6

This guy is why r/amithedevil exists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:00 AM
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Oh god, ESPECIALLY photographers. If you need any proof of this go to Craigslist, then go to the gigs section and look at how many men are looking for "models". Loooots of men use photography as an excuse to get women naked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:01 AM
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Ooh that's a great quote, and so true. They only say it's a joke to shift the blame from themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:00 AM
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"I just really want to connect with you on a deep spiritual level and let our chakras collide"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:53 AM
40

Oh god I can smell his musty ass from here. I prefer to smell cumin and onion in my tacos, not coming from a human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:53 AM
34

Oh nooooo ugh I bet you have to deal with that shit so much :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:52 AM
1

I'm a total fangirl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:52 AM
13

Even if they say they're "cool with it" the bitching starts as soon as it becomes even a bit inconvenient for them. I'm an activist so they wouldn't be able to handle it for long anyways, might as well nip it in the bud right off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:51 AM
7

After what she had to go through I pray she finds a hot prince who gives her everything she's ever wanted and spoils her son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:31 AM
10

He does have a lot of different people on, but he likes to claim he's "just an idiot who likes to hear every side of the argument" but the fact that he doesn't ever nail down one concrete opinion on anything is telling. It's very subtle but it allows people to claim he's not that bad when the reality is that he's a really horrible influence on men and too often pushes dangerous misinformation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:10 AM
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It made me SO uncomfortable and repulsed. Just a horrific circus sideshow. He fucking poverty shamed her so much while begging her to touch his nasty genital skintag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:43 PM
2

It would be nice if I met someone who I aligned with some day but I am so much happier alone. I'm definitely never actively pursuing something again. It's a waste of time I'd rather put into developing myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:41 PM
2

Omg I am saving this and spamming these dudes everytime I see a reference to their penis. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:29 PM
3

I just made a post yesterday of a screenshot where a guy made a "put your dick in that" joke about a baby cow trying to nurse a fake udder. They're slaves to their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:25 PM
5

I had a rough childhood, and was on my own at 16. I went to a party and blacked out and the "friends" I went with didn't keep an eye on me like they said they would, and a bunch of guys dragged me into a room and barricaded it and tried to assault me, but someone did notice and broke the door down and dragged me out and watched me until I was able to get someone to drive me to my grandmothers house where I lived at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:22 PM
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He's racist, sexist, he gives a platform to and legitimizes right wing nutjobs, he's a conspiracy theorist and he spreads harmful messaging....Do you need more reasons? He's a toxic broprah and he has a massive following. That alone is seriously worrying. He's the gateway into extreme rightwing ideology/redpill ideology
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:15 PM
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Lol she'll never "obey" a man....but she'll try to poach a man from an impoverished nation that is famously patriarchal and where women are expected to obey. I hate that show so much, it's almost like sex tourism/prostitution with extra steps. I could go off about the big ed/rose thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:00 PM
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No gamers/sports fans No religious men No porn viewers Doesn't idolize/look up to shitty toxic men IE: Joe Rogan, Jordan Peterson, "hustle and grind" bros, or others Has to know not only how to cook, but to plan meals, track groceries, keep a pantry full, and not need anyone to guide them in any of this Has to be as tidy if not more than me No couch creatures- no TV junkies Works out and is active, prefer a cyclist and someone who loves the outdoors compassionate, emotionally intelligent, loves …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:50 PM
6

They just try to think of something edgy and dumb enough for 4chan and say "good enough". Their brains are so rotten that they can't fathom wit or actual humor. I mean someone posted a picture of their very new baby on one of the big subreddits and it was a view showing the baby latched onto a breast pump machine, and it was labeled "what the nipple sees". These complete genetic mistakes made so many comments about "don't put your dick in that" and was even crossposted to that subreddit. A babys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:28 PM
2

Omg I didn't even know that! I thought it was just a lady she did the show with. Omg I could never talk like that in front of my mom LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:24 PM
6

Jesus...the absolute depravity... so many people shouldn't have animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:24 PM
8

I mean you definitely aren't wrong on that. I grew up in a horrible neglectful family with a mom who was a dangerous pickme, so much that she let her kids be abused by men she dated and never intervened because she loved the validation of having a man more than having kids. I was pretty much raised by TV and movies/media and was a latchkey kid at a time when there still were damaging tropes and bad lessons everywhere. The messaging and influence I had was really damaging. I'm in my 30s and Still…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:21 PM
1

Lol if anyone is gonna be so over men’s complete and utter lack of knowledge on the female body, it’s gotta be a gyno.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:18 AM
2

Hahahaha omg noooooo he didn’t. These men don’t have any business being near a woman if they don’t even know how they work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:10 AM
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Because you can get away with all of your depraved sick evil thought patterns as long as you say “it’s just a joke bro” at the end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:41 AM
2

Every man needs to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:40 AM
2

;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:01 AM
26

We need a real life John Wick out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:29 AM
4

LOL yeah she always gets me cracking up. This is her funniest video I think https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Q7RStifurs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:25 AM
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Yeah she doesn't always get it right but there's some nuggets in her rants that are relatable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:32 AM
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a h a h t w h c k T u h e F Where the hell is this girls mother.. She needs a positive female role model and to be educated on just what the hell she's enabling. JFC these fetuses out here really just have no clue....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:13 AM
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That feels pretty unhealthy and codependent to me. Being happier alone is what has empowered me to stay independent and avoid prioritizing another person over myself. Don't get me wrong it's very important you enjoy your time with your partner but its healthy to remain your own person and be ok with being alone sometimes too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:54 PM
10

Lol have these guys not seen Portlandia?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:44 PM
4

She says a lot... I don't think I can summarize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:39 PM
5

I found her through this clip, which is hilarious https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3L4YVThdjw but honestly even though she's pretty funny and has a way with words she's been preaching some FDS principles since day one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:36 PM
14

Yeah...I'm in dick rehab and I don't plan on being discharged for a loooooong time. Possibly forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:16 PM
3

It's a modern day Disney fairytale! Now instead of kissing Snow White, the prince just chokes her and spits in her mouth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:12 PM
13

Or because these men are paying their bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:08 PM
13

A "yaw" is the twisting of a ship or aircraft around a vertical axis sweaty, not a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:56 PM
63

101,000 now!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:48 PM
48

Ugh that is seriously disturbing and concerning. No, they can never stop thinking about their dicks. They're slaves to their own base urges and impulses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:45 PM
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I wish we weren't taught to be attached to and seek out men at such an early age. I feel like I was brainwashed. Now I wish more girls were taught to GTOW and be comfortable being independent and working on themselves before they consider a relationship with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:44 PM
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Can confirm, I experienced sexual trauma as a teenager, and then was groomed. The only times I ever fantasized about or engaged in “rape play” was in response to it being normalized in my teen years. I would never ever fantasize about it or engage in it now because I worked really hard and healed myself a lot. I recognize it now for what it really was- masochism and sustained trauma. It’s not at all a normal thing to fantasize about and it really begs the question of what happened to someone to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:49 AM
42

He said feminine twice so make sure it’s double the feminine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:32 AM
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I can’t imagine how the future is going to look now that onlyfans is basically mainstream and everyone treats it like it’s as casual as getting a piercing. So many people I used to subscribe to and follow are beginning to start onlyfans and I run in like....activist circles. The last kind of people you’d think would be whoring themselves out are now falling into the trap. It’s super worrying and weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:16 AM
12

Lol hell yeah. I love doing the gross out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:11 AM
5

Oh damn those sound amazing! Thank you for the link I'll try something soon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:42 PM
18

Ugh he's such a creep, why did they have to use his picture for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:36 PM
20

Yesss to the tea/coffee. It's a ritual of mine to sit in my backyard with a warm drink looking at the stars at night. I happen to be lucky enough to live near an amazing tea factory too! Check out https://www.mayatea.com/ They have amazing prices, great customer service and their teas are so good. They have a black passionfruit tea to die for. I drink gallons of it iced in the summer chefkiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:16 PM
16

I feel like I need a translator for this whole convo, I’m so confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:33 AM
5

LOL I love it when they mention not being vegan or not being willing to date vegans. That’s just saving me time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:23 AM
28

Oh thank goodness, I was raising my eyebrows for a moment lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:47 PM
37

Ok dumb question but wtf is "a chinese"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:10 PM
8

Yeah I really didn’t want to believe it was an actual thing, but just as Reddit used to have a subreddit all about shoplifting it doesn’t surprise me that they have a safe haven for adulterous cheating garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:08 AM
7

Seriously, so much cringe. Tiktok is horrible for so many reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:06 AM
35

Ugh their deflated asses and knobby hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:00 AM
3

Wow TIL! Opals are one of my favorite stones and I had no idea about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:01 AM
9

Pfft she can have all the gamers she wants, I won't touch a gamer or waste my time on them anymore. Enjoy your lazy dirty slob men who see you as yet another dopamine hit and bang maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:03 AM
5

Let him get a machine for that shit. Disgusting. They're so cheap they won't even pay for their own masturbation devices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:01 AM
3

Same. Bar date for an hour would not be happening, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:57 AM
8

If you need help hating the other woman just go to r/theotherwoman That'll do the trick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:51 AM
3

Woah really? Why is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:50 AM
14

Jesus christ, what a wolf in sheeps clothing for women. Sis, if you don't know what feels good to you, what you need, what you want, what your preferences are, and what makes you comfortable...you shouldn't be having sex with anyone. Period. If your response to physical stimuli is to just freeze like a tardigrade in torpor....Just don't. Get a dildo/vibrator and figure it out yourself before involving men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:45 AM
15

LOL INTJ women are less common but not only that, this dude would annoy the shit out of one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:36 AM
21

An INTJ wouldn't brag. They're lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:35 AM
10

I usually don't like it either but it has a place in describing a "person who pretends they fight for an ethic/justice based issue but contradicts that with their actions and words"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:16 PM
26

Honestly it’s hard to know what the hell she thought. I bet she genuinely was like “this’ll show em, I’ll be the only women in Playboy who keeps her clothes on! Checkmate patriarchy!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:07 PM
99

Tbh I never liked her at all. She’s a virtue signaling egotistical narcissist. Wonder what her “radical fat positive” fan base think about her posing for such a clear tool of fat oppression?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:48 AM
24

Oh god I read your other post and I’m so sorry you went through that but I’m so glad you’re here and you aren’t giving in and staying with him or forgiving him. He stole so much of your life, I hope you and your daughter find peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:44 AM
24

I have some trauma around expressing myself and journaling thanks to some fucked up parents but I really want to try to get into it. I’ll look into this OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:38 AM
196

I’d walk around all night, wherever I want. Go sit on a bench somewhere, sprawl out in a parking lot looking at stars, walk around places that would otherwise be “dangerous” and just fully enjoy a night with no worry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:36 AM
21

Yeah, I don't like the feeling I get that this girl is just being manipulated by both people she really cares about. This just sounds like two predators using her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:42 AM
2

I've never heard of those but I'll do that! Forensics is fascinating. If I ever end up going back to school I would probably go into forensics or undertaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:08 AM
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I do get slightly uneasy feelings about all the people in this poor girls life right now. I hope Delilah actually does care about her and isn’t just using her. I want to hope she’s just performing a rescue mission!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:47 AM
1

I guess the one good takeaway is that I am far smarter and I learned never to depend on someone that much again unless I am absolutely sure what their motives are. I don’t think he’s smart enough to have studied me, just manipulative enough to see that I’m extremely empathic and that our history together as friends already opened a door for him. I’ve definitely moved on and I’m living for me now! Hopefully you’re doing better too, it sucks to be treated like maids already but being ignored by so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:44 AM
9

Honestly all men in that industry are walking red flags. This is so sad but what's more sad is that this does not shock me at all. This man will never appreciate the fact that he destroyed three women by his actions. What a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:24 PM
4

Of course, I agree there's a difference between "hey I don't believe in this like you do" and derision for something just because a woman is into it. I would never make fun of anyone for being into it just as I wouldn't make fun of any other religion/spirituality. TBH I assume most men lack empathy and introspection off the bat ;p BTW I also have a morbid curiosity and interest in death related things! Do you watch ask a mortician on youtube?! Have you read "Stiff" by Mary Roach?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:13 PM
21

These guys are so cringe... It's like if The Crow/ Queen of the Damned had a baby and it ended up wearing pleather and larping on the weekends while posting shit like this online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:05 PM
30

I just don’t feel it’s fair to say “all women love this and believe in it”. It’s really cool if others connect with it but I don’t think it should be the locus by which anyone measures how introspective someone is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 12:16 PM
52

There are plenty of women who aren’t into astrology or tarot too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:05 AM
157

Did you miss the part where if the hive doesn’t approve they just murder her? I’m ok not being treated like a bee :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:54 AM
23

LOL I was nosing around the mensrights subreddit the other day and they made a whole post about her calling her "the only good feminist". That tells you everything you need to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:47 PM
5

Fuck tradfems. They're the final boss pickmes and the most insidious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:38 PM
46

Mine kept it up more than 6 months. Now I'm highly cautious about anything under a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:33 PM
3

Seriously. His ex did me a favor taking him off my hands. Can't imagine being married to him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:20 PM
16

LOL my no value scruffy ass ex who said he finally wanted to marry me after years of telling him I wanted it only to dump me in a text and run back to another ex of his and marry her instead, and now he’s a bowling alley DJ and identifies as poly which he told me when he came skulking around trying to “be my friend” because he “misses me”. I would have asked him to let me call his wife to verify it’s cool with her if we’re buddies but I told him he could keep missing me because that poor woman h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:38 AM
3

You must have really hit a nerve OP ;p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:04 AM
69

Same. I’m cringing because the shit I did was straight up masochistic. She’s not gonna have fun living with that hindsight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:56 AM
3

I actually really appreciate minimalism and not owning a lot....but this isn’t minimalism. This is a visual representation of poverty of character. A completely empty room would look better than this. Those views deserve better than a Walmart folding chair, a shitty flatscreen TV and a gaming system
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:54 AM
8

Ugh sorry but did we date the same guy? I knew this guy since highschool and we connected later in life on OLD and lovebombed me hard. I was super outdoorsy, a cyclist/paddleboarder/hiker etc and he acted like he loved all of the same things and that he was outdoorsy and could cook. He had me feeling bad for him about all the "shallow women" who wouldn't give him a chance because he wasn't fit and went bald early. I straight up moved across the country with him and the mask dropped as soon as we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:07 AM
7

I love to see women waking up and realizing their full worth and exposing societal/cultural programming for the bullshit it is! These scrotes have been out here acting up and abusing women for far too long and the world is brainwashing women (I was one of them!) to serve men... Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:45 AM
21

Same. I'm just waiting to find my unicorn! Until then I'm gonna just be living it up while leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:41 AM
17

It's the truth. Instead of showing up for their own life and actually cultivating a rich full personality and hobbies, they just mindlessly consume and think that makes them "cultured". Careless consumerism isn't a good look, and I'd rather shit in my hands and clap than date another virtually zombified man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:40 AM
3

My parents were larpers and forced me to participate as a pre teen girl... a lot of larpers are fucking creeps and pedophiles. One guy even told me after cornering me in a dark area during a larp that he was a member of NAMBLA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:50 AM
29

I will never date a gamer again. I've already spent far too much time being ignored by these men with zero life to admit. It's a sickness. If their only hobby is being obsessed with media franchises and games it's a hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:42 AM
12

The future is making us regress in ways no one gives a shit about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:34 AM
2

It's strange because not only do we not have the same last name anymore since she's married, we haven't spoken in years and years. We aren't on good terms at all and I have nothing to do with her life or where she lives so it was pretty strange to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:33 AM
4

I looked my info on spokeo once and my email brought up my sisters information for some reason. Like her full address and everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:27 AM
73

I'm bisexual and I wanna thank all the men out there quickly turning me gay. You da real mvps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:13 AM
49

"My boyfriend makes deep fakes of all my friends and uses a VR headset and an automatic pocket pussy to masturbate to porn of them, but otherwise he's the love of my life and I'm falling for him more each day when he's not spending hours fucking my friends virtually!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:06 AM
31

Ugh this is my dream, to live in an all woman commune.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:01 AM
38

My dildo never lets me down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:57 PM
14

It’s absolutely rich seeing that on the feminism subreddit, considering they ban any whiff of radical feminism and especially anyone from this subreddit. They’re a tool of that very system. And of course so many comments were justifying this because “hey, teenagers buying feminist merch from forever21 means they’re thinking about it at least”. Please, spare me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:23 AM
6

From what I've seen and heard, Joji actually isn't that bad, he's just surrounded by celebrity fuckboys and hypebeasts. I have a bit of a girlboner for him and like some of his music though so I'm a bit biased perhaps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:34 PM
9

Same, I used to love them back in the days when they were making funny videos together but his podcast showed him to be such an ignorant gross uncultured and uneducated neckbeard. I cannot believe he has such a huge following still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:31 PM
4

Ugh fuuuuck this shit. This is just triggering for me. Every time I have lived with a man in the past pre- FDS, I was totally forced to be the only one thinking about, planning, and cooking everything. I've literally waited guys out and their only solution was to buy pre packaged unhealthy garbage from the store that they can just heat and eat. I was just a dinner machine to these asses and they wouldn't lift a finger except to run to the store for a frozen pizza. I don't care if a man was payin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:09 PM
8

https://www.reddit.com/r/vegansnacks/comments/ipp1i7/chocolate_caramel_pretzel_barkthe_snack_to_end/ The dates aren't 100 percent necessary, I'd just use an additional 1/2 to 3/4 cup sugar in place and simmer longer. It's a really forgiving caramel sauce. If you wanna get fancy you could add pumpkin in place of the date paste and make a pumpkin caramel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:00 PM
15

It's so easy! 1. melt chocolate and spread in a rectangle on parchment press pretzels into chocolate (I break them up a bit for extra coverage) drizzle caramel over pretzels, then another layer melted chocolate. chill and then enjoy! I posted a recipe including my go to coconut milk caramel if anyone wants the link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:38 PM
37

Seriously. This is so cringe I can't even. Get a damn hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:35 PM
41

Omg! We made it!!!! Looks like I gotta make chocolate caramel pretzel bars today, poor me ;p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:29 PM
3

The bar has broken through the crust of this earth and burrowed deep into the molten core.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:34 PM
5

Honestly that part really sketched me out. Why did she have to describe every single program he uses? I was like “girl stop giving these porn sick scrotes ideas”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:32 PM
21

He messaged me too! He tried comparing us to the redpill LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:46 PM
10

She's totally throwing her friends under the bus. I would be warning every single woman in this mans life to let them know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:28 PM
10

She's shockingly cavalier about this whole thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:27 PM
4

Right? Sis...what future? The future he's sticking his dick into multiple times a day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:26 PM
3

Gossip and gab
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:42 PM
34

I was pleasantly surprised! People were actually telling her to leave him, that she was gonna look back and say “what the fuck was I thinking”, calling him a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:13 AM
7

💯 percent same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:14 AM
45

Honestly I wouldn’t even put up with that shit in my pick me days. How she kept seeing him and “falling in love with him” knowing he’s this sick and depraved? She conveniently leaves out any traits that would make him at all redeemable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:12 AM
75

Seriously!!!! This is like some borderline rapey shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:38 AM
26

She needs FDS and to leave this gross perv 🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:24 AM
2

Yeah I got one too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:14 AM
8

Hahaha yessss. I fucking love her so much. Girl crush forever for Sleater Kinney and one of my favorite shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:11 AM
18

Lol I’m just picturing Cath from Portlandia with her polar fleece. AYO RIVER!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:46 AM
8

I got to know this kid pretty well, he was a really sweet sensitive dude who loved reading and working out and was smart and progressive. Then he turned into a meathead douche who only talked about working out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:56 PM
7

Sometimes I think men hate themselves so much that they want to punish you for loving them. Also I'm out of the loop, what is ovarit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:23 PM
15

For me it just means "please be willing to listen to hours of nonstop bullshit about all the media franchises I'm obsessed with and waste all my life on."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:18 PM
6

Yup I immediately assumed there has to be at least 10 years difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:14 PM
14

Yeah, that was the only stuff they started taking. It was the guy who owned the place and my line partner and they both started taking it at the same time because they both lifted. The mood swings they started having were so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:52 PM
46

Never ever date a man who takes workout supplements, especially roids or creatine especially! I've seen creatine take really awesome good guys I've worked with in kitchens turn them into rage filled horrible assholes. Like straight up cruel. I worked in a wrap shop for a while and was really good friends with my line partner, and he started taking creatine and treating me like shit and throwing stuff across the kitchen when we were in the weeds. That shit is so nasty. EDIT: https://imgur.com/a/n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:47 PM
13

Omg I'm gonna eat caramel chocolate pretzel bars and diiiiish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:43 PM
2

Oh shiiit I haven’t had parsnips in so long! They make really good fried cakes. Shred em up and sub them in for potatoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:04 AM
7

That’s fair, I’m pretty weird about my love of veggies so I don’t expect everyone to be like me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:57 AM
20

Broccoli is so good though. Ever roasted it? Game changer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:12 AM
2

Hell yeah! No problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:20 AM
2

The Victorian one! The one that came out with the preorder of “Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs”. She had a promotion where if you preordered through a local bookshop, you got the pin with the book. https://mobile.twitter.com/TheGoodDeath/status/1150093531785994241/photo/2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:06 AM
51

Honestly no man has ever compared to the relationship I have with my chihuahua. She's my whole world and when she looks at me with her big dark eyes I fall in love all over again. We've done everything and gone everywhere together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:05 AM
57

Holy shit...how much do you have to hate someone to not only kill them, but seven other people? Like...this isn't even a human anymore, that's a monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:57 AM
3

Omg I love her!!!! I special ordered her book just to get the special pin with her on it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:47 PM
10

Ew...I just looked him up because I'd never heard of him and one of the first articles that pops up is with a quote of his that says "It's tough to be a man too. Now we have women with balls." What a friggin scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:24 PM
3

The mods are super badass. I can't imagine having to weed through all the hate comments and bullshit <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:54 PM
11

Jesus she’s like a Judas goat of only fans. These girls are insidious AF. Sis take your ratchety bag and just go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:20 AM
5

I didn’t even have to look through his phone to find his secret fetlife profile, and then later got his secret Instagram account following local DTF thots straight up suggested to me by the algorithm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:18 AM
8

Oh man she's really gonna love having to wear adult diapers way too early in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:11 PM
6

Ooof that is so cringe. Why the hell was that even necessary to post? Hope you get picked, girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:03 PM
5

I don't even swallow milk from a cows udder, I definitely ain't swallowing man milk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:00 PM
27

Yeah honestly I used to really love SZA back when she was still pretty underground, but when she hit it big I was so grossed out by her whole “side chick” persona. She’s so beautiful and talented and she used all that talent to push damaging bullshit messages about fucking another woman’s man. Lowest value attitude ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:09 AM
2

Personally, I think cosmo is trash. They're not at all a good resource for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:22 AM
15

The only thing he deserves is a vasectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:04 AM
3

I wish it was legal in a clinical/therapeutic setting because I think it could do wonders for a lot of people, but I recognize it can be a risk "going it alone" and not everyone has such positive experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:36 PM
3

The two I've done personally were mushrooms and lsd. I did lsd far more because mushrooms tend to have an adverse effect on my stomach. I would advise anyone looking into doing these things only do so if you trust the person making/selling. Far too many people get sold dirty doses that can end up in really bad experiences or even HPPD. I was really lucky at the time that there was someone reliable and safe in my social circle who sourced it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:32 PM
2

Cool to hear someone else had a similar experience. It can definitely be a little scary at times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:07 AM
15

I was really lucky and probably an outlier in my experience. I did a loooooot of lsd solo but I also had access to a trustworthy supplier at the time. I’d never actively suggest it to anyone casually. I was suffering from cptsd and after my first experience it alleviated so much anxiety and other symptoms, but it definitely wasn’t a conventional or guaranteed way to work through those issues. Now that I’m older I recognize that I could have benefitted from also seeking traditional therapy. The s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:42 AM
3

Lmao I’m a professional level cook, and all my exes were men who never lifted a finger in the kitchen. Boy, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:15 AM
4

Wow such an amazing article!! Thanks for sharing OP!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:05 AM
42

No one even mentioned or thought about the fact that just prior to jerking off in front of his baby he was absolutely alone with her because her mother was trying to sleep with the other child. Like absolutely no one thought about the multitude of implications of him needing to furiously masturbate after being alone with a baby. It’s chilling and disturbing on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:46 AM
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This sounds more like a “not knowing how drugs work” issue. When I did psychedelics they immediately changed my life for the better too. I literally became a different person overnight, that’s just what happens sometimes. They have a way of cutting off your ego, and giving you front row seating to your entire existence in a way that can be really powerful and life changing. This girl is dumb for thinking of this as a bad thing at all but I have a feeling it also comes from a place of insecurity.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:34 AM
7

Instant pass if they have a baby, another woman, American flag anything, or anything fishing related in their pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:34 AM
3

They're just showing you your future with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:33 AM
6

I mean if men didn't love seeing us in pain BDSM/rape/murder wouldn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:03 AM
11

"But Post Malone is so wholesome, this guy must be the same!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:54 AM
13

I'm more afraid of what I would do to a man if I ever caught him masturbating in front of a baby girl than I am of men in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:40 AM
9

Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:17 AM
39

I can speak to this a little. In my pre- FDS days when I was caught up in the "kink" lifestyle, for me it was better if they were unattractive because the extremity of juxtaposition added to the extremity of the act. I am fit, athletic, and small, and the added element of being "chased" or "worshipped" by men far below my level of attraction was what I thought made it kinky in a way. So it wasn't that these women actually do find these men attractive, it's that their lack of attraction is just a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:42 PM
18

In a perfect world, this would be satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:08 AM
3

I didn’t either until I was looking the main book titled “Herland” up. I haven’t read the others yet but I’ve been meaning to read the entire series together even though I’ve read Herland a few years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:55 AM
11

Read the Herland trilogy by Charlotte Perkins Gilman !!! It’s exactly about this! It’s about some male sociology students on an expedition who happen upon a woman only society where they have been able to breed without men. It’s amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:18 AM
4

Yesss such a good jam. She played it on the Colors YouTube channel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:10 AM
6

Definitely also true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:54 PM
7

That's how gentlemen do it right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:26 PM
27

Gotta love the Streisand effect! Please, keep complaining lvm everywhere! I wouldn't have found FDS without you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:10 PM
17

Omg nothing makes my vagina zip itself shut faster than "good girl". Little boy, I'm a fucking woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:07 PM
12

I think you're being extremely generous with that "half" statistic. The educational system is in the toilet, it's far more than half that is below average intelligence and now it's by design
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:05 PM
17

It's also bleeding into the mainstream and becoming a meme. Thanks to some youtuber making a satire video about the stepsister porn trope, now it's a reference brought up literally anytime anyone mentions their sister. "Is she hot?" "But stepbrotherrrrr" etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:03 PM
21

She probably still thinks being jackhammered like they do in porn is "good sex"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:45 PM
2

Oh shit, I dmed you the link, maybe you can see the comments still?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:43 PM
2

I just went to your original post and saw it was literally crossposted to the polyamory subreddit. I can grab the link one sec
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:41 PM
4

Lol the comments about your post are absolutely delicious. They're frothing at the mouth to call us stuck up sexless incels. Pickmeishas out in force trying to brag about how they're the ones who wanted to be poly, crapping on fds for being anti bdsm.... Really hit a nerve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:21 PM
85

I won't hold it against him because I know he can change and be better. Drops piano on (X) to doubt Sis he ain't gonna change and he ain't gonna be better. Get the fuck away from this future rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:59 AM
12

Same, I would absolutely never date a gamer at all. My last nvm completely ignored me for years and made me do all the cooking/cleaning/emotional labor while he sat on his ass playing the same handful of games on repeat. NEVER. AGAIN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:51 AM
20

Porn sickness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 01:06 AM
63

Don't worry, us white "girls" don't want you neither, bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:44 AM
17

I'm sorry OP, but I hate these. These performative tiktoks just make me deeply cringe. What HVM is gonna want to keep spoiling a woman just for her to be whipping her phone out all the time. Also who is filming them watching those waterjets? Like...live your life sis, enjoy the spoils, don't rub it in our faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:40 AM
4

I wish google had a manslator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:11 AM
7

The man I dated who was way below my level in fitness and looks and who I compromised on what I was attracted to for love bombed me at first, then ignored me for years while letting me be his maid and mommy. Then I started catching him watching porn when I came home from work, then I found his secret fetlife profile with dick pics taken on the bedding I picked out. Keep a very close eye on him. If he’s productive and functional and doesn’t seem to have issues with self esteem or mental illness I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:51 AM
17

Yessss. I always listen to “stupid” whenever I find myself thinking about an ex lvm. Helps me stay focused and kick the nostalgia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:31 AM
66

Yeah the excessively personal stories aren't really what I expected here. Like we all have horror stories in our pasts, why are there so many crappy relationship posts? Even I'm relatively new and I've noticed the weird shift. The post of the girl who's married to the abusive rapist 30 years older than her, the "my boyfriend is being abusive should I leave him" posts etc etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:46 AM
44

Seriously, just followed OP for the supreme content
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:32 AM
10

Yeah personally I don't fuck with this message. We already get enough hate here, this kind of thing is just adding fuel to the fire. Plus if I don't want to be used myself why am I gonna use someone else? This is a real ugly look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:36 PM
5

What is this from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:27 PM
5

Certain spiders can do this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:38 AM
8

"It's already home" "It's going to wash"....straight up admitting that they see women as objects. Also wtf time period does he live in? Does he live in an anime set in Edo period Japan?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:37 AM
21

"But m'lady, I hath laid you a path of the finest chicken tendy boxes, and illuminated your path with the verdant splendor of Mountain Dew cans! Wanna fuck now?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:24 AM
5

There's even a theme song just for these guys: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zi8ShAosqzI
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:29 PM
11

I got banned from Feminism just for being subscribed here. I hadn't even commented anything except to back up someones book suggestion. They flaired my comment with the T word they use for us all the time after banning me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:12 PM
5

Oh shit that guy's collabed with Mexie, instant subscribe! Love Mexie so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:06 AM
53

I've worked a lot of food service/counter kind of jobs and consistently my favorite customers were always construction workers. They were always respectful, hung around and made polite small talk, intimidated shitty male customers... 100% respect for those men. Salt of the earth through and through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:04 AM
4

I always loved Nick Caves poetry so I'm glad to see him respond this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:43 PM
9

I've never had any true female friends and I'd still never say this kind of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:12 PM
85

Don't forget about all the rape and murder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:10 PM
22

Sis, your racism is showing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:00 PM
12

I was bi, but after multiple NVM exes and finding FDS I'm really veering more and more towards full on gayness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 12:05 PM
57

She's the ultimate pickme, I still don't agree with her until she denounces some of the seriously damaging shit she's said and perpetuated. This is just a r/leopardsatemyface situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:08 PM
16

That was my thought too. No way my man is having friendships with women. They're rarely just friends to these guys even the self described "feminist allys". Even the male "best friend" I had in my younger days that I'd known for over 10 years made a move eventually. They always get bored and wonder "what if..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:55 PM
16

I totally agree. You’d think there would be room at the table for this kind of messaging but unsurprisingly they’re mostly concerned with being a hugbox and killing any critical discourse. They flaired a comment I’d made with the T word they love slinging around at us which just goes to show how threatened by any hint of radicalism they are while completely ignoring any nuance at all. Like why someone would be drawn to this subreddit. No I’m just a toxic woman who totally doesn’t have a history …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:14 AM
50

I got banned from Feminism last night for being subscribed here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:06 AM
4

LOL omg new slogan: "Beware the penis people"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:35 AM
15

Oh man...he strung me along years...kept dating me on and off but wouldn't put a ring on it.. the last time we were "on" he was finally like "I'm totally ready, we're gonna do this" and then a few weeks later dumped me via text. I dodged a fucking missile, and now I'm finally over that clown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:17 PM
10

Same. Spent years being the only one who ever even considered what we would eat. He didn't even put one single iota of thought or effort...it was just assumed I was the one who would make food and his ass would wait me out. Next man better be prepared to go hungry before I lift a damn finger to feed him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:24 AM
10

My dream is to live in a commune of women in the woods like a bunch of forest crones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:26 PM
8

It's a common phenomenon that the youngest child is babied more than the first or others, sounds like this is one of those instances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:22 PM
1

The Heroine's Journey: Woman's Quest for Wholeness by Maureen murdock Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men by Caroline Criado Perez (more informative than fds related but I recommend it to all women!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:17 PM
26

I mean yeah a little softness can be nice. I'm talking about these real big men who think they're like that when they're not even close who also refuse to look at a woman they think is fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:00 PM
72

Ugh this is why I'll never date a chubby/fat dude as an athletic woman ever again. You think they'll worship the ground you walk on but they're chubby or fat for a reason... because they're probably lazy and the sex will peter out as soon as you're hooked only for them to ignore you for porn and video games. I've seen it happen and experienced it. And it's always the womans fault for his inability to keep it up... always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:56 PM
63

It's the "dad bod" phenomenon. Now they think they're sexy desirable studs when they just look sloppy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:52 PM
3

Read. The. Handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:49 PM
13

Medium is the new livejournal. Everytime I read something that makes me cringe inside out, it's on Medium. It's such an insidious site because it looks like an actual source for journalism, but literally anyone off the street can write for Medium.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:55 PM
26

Jesus, like she's a Judas goat or something...wow that's sinister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:49 PM
39

Reminds me of my long term LVM ex who had a secret fetlife account I found where he'd shower strange women with compliments while completely ignoring me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:38 AM
2

Oooh this is good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:21 PM
3

Yeah this member has only been active for one day, this is a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:09 PM
21

Send this to his mother on Facebook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:46 PM
6

This is totally accurate. All the feels <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:41 PM
1

Lol I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:37 PM
24

I hope you don't let this keep you from cycling! That's horrible. As women cycling is one of the things that throughout history gave us more independence and safety while traveling without a car. If you consider it some day I would get and carry a weapon or some sort of spray or even ride with a friend or do group rides. <3 I'm so sorry that happened to you, it’s just awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:23 AM
45

Yeah I think it's just me having a general distaste for "flex" culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:59 AM
5

Guess whose sorry ass hosed him off while he sat there crying and apologizing? He actually didn't drink often at all, but he went to a work party and he's dumb and can't control himself when it comes to drinking in social settings because "anxiety". That said I have had a lot of experience with another ex being a raging alcoholic but the kind of insidious one who's drunk all the time but doesn't even seem drunk. It's so normal that being drunk is almost sobriety for them. They used to hide beer …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:58 AM
71

Same. I had a man block my bike and get out of his car to attack me once because I was "in his way" while he was trying to speed down a residential road. I biked the other way and he didn't follow me, but it's scary how much aggression is expressed towards cyclists this definitely hit home for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:54 AM
4

That's understandable. The only reason I considered is because there are strict rules about nothing sexual no groping or frottage of any kind, and there is a focus on establishing boundaries, practicing consent, and working on healthy rejection coping. There was an actual like, organization behind it but I've also heard that it isn't immune from being connected with people who are into polyamory so you'd definitely want to do research and vet people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:27 AM
11

Omg how dare he!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:12 AM
12

I'm not sure that was genuine, because why would you ignore a person you thought you lost? FWIW, I had a very hard time dealing with my grandmother dying because she was the only person who actually cared for me as a kid. Towards the end I found it very hard to go see her and face that she was going to go. I'm not excusing any LVM but I can kind of relate to that feeling of wanting to avoid it and deny it and look away...anything just to make it not be reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:40 AM
30

Or requested I perform sexual acts in exchange for rent or a raise or something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:32 AM
14

LOL oh god the poop thing. My ex one time literally came home so drunk he went into the bathroom, got completely naked, crawled into the tub and started the shower and just started shitting while sitting in it on the bathtub floor while moaning like a dying animal about how he got too drunk and he's so sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:30 AM
6

I know this is kind of weird....but maybe you could go to a cuddle party? I've thought about doing it before but there aren't any in my area. It's literally just a bunch of people hanging out platonically cuddling. It's a little woo woo but its focus is as you said filling the need of human touch without sex or the need to be a relationship. http://www.cuddleparty.com/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:57 PM
55

Manslation: I went on one sex tourism trip to India and all the women cried when they saw me because they're not accustomed to seeing a walking micropenis. Also those buttons on that trenchcoat deserve an award for holding back the horror of what lays beneath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:52 PM
46

Of course they drew the friend fat. Women who have standards and value themselves are all fat landwhales according the whereareallthegoodmen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:46 PM
118

Oh god this is like scary accurate for my ex. Just replace cigarettes with weed smoked out of a never cleaned bowl, completely bald, a fetlife icon, and a picture of someone fused into a chair like Pearl from Blade it would be perfect. Genius OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:34 PM
202

All these super performative tiktok videos make me cringe. It seems so disingenuous when the person is holding a camera. Maybe I'm just an old fart though :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:31 PM
26

Reminds me of this illustration https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/470136745850187778/6vLW88om.jpeg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:19 PM
10

Yeah he literally pulls her close to him to slow dance. He physically touches her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:09 PM
17

Aw man I used to love this song and Sheezus, but damn....that's not a good look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:21 PM
2

D:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:20 AM
4

Woah, what? I thought it was the guy who thought of it. I just....have no words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:13 AM
61

"That poor man was trapped with an uptight no fun horrible woman. I mean she wanted him to do something other than watch old campy movies and hang out alone with a pregnant teenager. Poor guy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:33 AM
5

There definitely should be a specific name for them, like wokebros or Timothy Eeries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:46 AM
50

I did reply and say "wow looks like I hit a nerve eh?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:28 AM
3

As a woman who has done acid a looooot of times in her younger years...this is accurate. Lots of outrageously overblown egos for a drug that's supposed to kill the ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:25 AM
9

Please tell me you write for Reductress
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:14 AM
71

There's a whole ass fetish for pregnant women lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:12 AM
36

It was a little too familiar for this scrote. That was a whole lotta words for someone just to say "I'm a scumbag"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:09 AM
10

It feels like it's becoming mainstream now, like it's almost becoming the new NSFW tiktok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:06 AM
132

Pretty interesting how when mentioning the reasons for why Jason Batemans character wasn't attracted to Juno it's her pregnancy and not her age. EDIT: Think maybe this guy may have been inspired by this article here https://www.comingsoon.net/movies/news/523314-this_is_why_juno_bothers_me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:02 AM
5

I want to hope that was the case...I just don't know how any mother could do that and think "there's nothing wrong with this at all"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:59 AM
21

Correct me if I'm wrong but I thought that Kyle was supposed to be the male version of Karen. It was a meme and became kind of a descriptor for emotionally stunted angry dudes who punch walls and drinks monster energy drinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:49 AM
60

I don't have kids so I try not to parent shame, but holy shit, so much shame on that woman. The kind of fucked up you have to be to not only agree to this yourself, but to include your two young growing daughters who are still learning about life in this sick twisted "joke"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:45 AM
7

Completely worth it, thank you for that laugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:43 AM
8

Omg I just spit out my coffee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:40 AM
14

The term incel was originally created by a woman, but it was co-opted by men for their terrible little hate cult. There's a great Reply all podcast episode about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:38 AM
4

I always like to point out that men still hold a majority of the worlds wealth and power on top of committing the most violence. Always gets them mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:48 PM
3

LOL they forget about the thousands of women left with "blue clit" after being subjected to mediocre sex with men who can't find a clit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:41 PM
3

Thank you to all the mods, you ladies are badass queens and I am so grateful for all you do <3 This subreddit is legitimately changing my life every day for the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:34 PM
4

LOOOOL there's an entire subreddit dedicated to hating us r/fdsisagainstequality lol how sad is that? They think they'll be able to brigade us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:08 PM
3

What the fuck even is this?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:39 PM
40

"It's a hAtE sUbReDdIt!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:28 PM
3

Ashnikko- Stupid Sleater Kinney- Entertain Kari Faux- Leave Me Alone Shygirl- Uckers Leikeli47- Miss Me Chynna- ASMR On mothafuckin repeat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:22 PM
18

It's dIsCrImInAtIoN/mIsAnDrY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:08 PM
23

Women sometimes like sweatpants or basketball shorts because they can check the goods out easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:47 PM
18

"Oh shit! somethink pink! Gotta parkour away now"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:34 PM
19

Everything is an obstacle coarse in avoiding the gay thoughts for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:29 PM
49

Japanese men are downright beautiful compared to Western men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:21 PM
13

a h a h t w h c k T u h e F
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:23 PM
1

Shit, I'll delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:05 PM
4

Well if it's being left alone you're after I'd say a book cover that says something like "How to naturally cure genital herpes: DIY remedies for outbreaks" would definitely work. Or "At home circumcision and castration techniques"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:57 PM
1

Thank you! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:18 PM
2

Hey ladies! I know this post is a few days old but I'd like to be approved for the subreddit. I have some of my own messages to post now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:08 PM
3

She is totally my spirit animal. Everyday my goal is to get to Linda levels of idgaf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:27 PM
5

The peeing a little bit when you cough or bend down reminds me of the song Linda sings in Bob's Burgers https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YcGqziBgX_k
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:11 PM
45

It’s extremely telling that there are just so many posts on AITA of men who become instantly disgusted with their partners body the minute she becomes pregnant or gives birth. Like the outright derision and disgust and hate. It’s really kind of disturbing how the minute a woman can’t act as a bangmaid they become furious with her and she can do no right. They don’t actually think about anyone but themselves and their need to be nutting in everything they can. There’s no forethought for them, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:45 PM
25

Exactly. It's eco friendly ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:59 AM
74

Ah yes, that highly sought after rare gem that is "mans love" should be enough for every woman! Also LOL @ the irony of "He should just have assumed the role of your servant catering to each and every one of your whims and fancies"... Sis....you mean like what women have been doing since the dawn of time for men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:25 AM
99

It makes a lot of sense. Men in western society act like they're above tribal societies when they practice their own form of staunch tribalism all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:55 AM
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You ladies still think we'd have as many dead beat dads and walking sperm banks out there if this was a cultural norm? ;p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:20 AM
14

I wish I could upvote this so many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:20 AM
23

Jesus..."for both of us" yeah I press X to doubt on that one bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:19 AM
51

TFW you realize you've been living life as a fleshlight: :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:39 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:46 AM
1

This is me right before finding my loser NVM ex's secret fetlife account full of dick pics he took on our very recognizable bedding and a profile history full of comments to people noticeably less attractive than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:13 AM
14

I grew up with a toxic abusive family. Some families are just horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:44 AM
10

I blame it on all those stock photos of women laughing at their salads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:30 AM
17

Also having a dick that doesn't work anymore because you've abused it so much jerking off to incest porn is like the least gay thing out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:27 AM
4

Is it on the website or in the subreddit wiki? Sorry having a hard time finding it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:24 AM
16

Animal planet really be coming through with the wisdom for us ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:38 PM
3

Dude literally looks like a blobfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:43 PM
3

I actually appreciate knowing that as a vegan. Eliminates dealing with a lot of bullshit. Of course him spelling out all the myriad of other ways he's a piece of garbage also helps avoid bullshit too ;p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:41 PM
5

I've always been bi but after being on reddit for a few years and now finding this subreddit, I'm very slowly losing all attraction to masculinity. I definitely feel this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:24 PM
3

It's actually like shocking how much of my struggles in relationships are clicking and how much I've played into pickme culture, porno stereotypes, and man appeasing and it makes me kind of sick to my stomach. I have done a lot of things that are detrimental to my fellow woman and it makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:13 PM
9

I am new to this subreddit but let me tell you it immediately changed my life and my perspective on so many of the relationships I've had and it's made me realize I have a lot of mommy issues I need to work through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:00 PM
7

Hi, hey, are you me? Because this is me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:49 PM
3

Same for me. I'm not really into super ripped muscles, I like them just a little thick while still being fit and active.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:34 PM
5

Garbage. Lots of high fat meats, dairy, nitrate rich processed foods and very little fiber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:30 PM
9

I am a brand newbie to this space, but let me tell you it has been like the slap upside my head I've needed my whole life. I grew up in a horrible abusive home with the biggest of all pickmeisha mothers so I've struggled with internalized misogyny and mommy issues my whole life. It caused me to get into relationships that were so toxic and horrible for me and my mental health because I've never really had positive examples of healthy relationships. I haven't been able to stop reading here since …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:04 PM
4

They think they don't deserve her or that something must be wrong with her for choosing him, so they sabotage the relationship. Okay but....why you gotta call out my whole dating history like that :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:01 PM
13

I'm sure that plays into it. Most of the time fishing is all just one big dick measuring contest for them just with living sentient wild animals instead of their dicks because you know checking out your bros junk is too homoerotic /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:57 PM
13

I wanna see a man scrubbing the piss splashback from the underside of his toilet seat. That's some porn I'd flick the bean to ;p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:34 PM
21

Fishing pics are an instant disqualifier for me. Like "Oh you like to torture marine life while pretending you're "connecting with nature"? They're just outing themselves as disrespectful trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:33 PM
8

Thanks, just what I notice more and more online lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:40 AM
28

LOL @ men thinking women having a safe space that not only excludes them, but actively works to expose their bullshit is violence. Little boy, please. How many incel subreddits are there currently? I mean whereareallthegoodmen does nothing but take screenshots of womens dating profiles to tear them down for anything short of being a fetus with fake tits. Have standards that don't apply to any man? "Omg fat unfuckable whale, you're over the wall" This subreddit is amazing and I'm so glad I found …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:31 AM
3

I look back and cringe thinking about all the times I would feel so grateful for a man doing the most basic adult tasks... I can't believe sometimes it took me this long to wake up to that lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:38 AM
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